Shop. Eat. Play.
Preview Of The 44th Annual LibertyFest Celebration
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Vol. 8 2016 Issue 05
Publishers/Editorial/ Photography Sherri Hultner Trevor Hultner
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AROUND EDMOND This year, the national temperature has been defined by an apparent display of the need for full disruption of the current status quo by the masses. The overwhelming support Donald Trump has received from Republican voters proves this need for disruption, as he is the last person I ever thought could be considered for President. Even though he says things other typical candidates would not, does not mean they are a good idea. As well, the support for Bernie Sanders over a well-qualified candidate like Hillary Clinton is also telling of the public’s craving for leadership outside the status quo, or the need for visible full disruption in who our leadership is. These may be bad examples of disruption. Locally, we have seen the amazing work of Jill Castilla, CEO and President of locally owned and operated independent Citizen’s Bank of Edmond be recognized, both locally and nationally, in her complete transformation of a bank on the brink, and her “disruption” of the status quo in banking and how CEO’s should act or the perception of how they should engage with their communities and with customers. This is a good example of disruption. Jill Castilla is tirelessly pushing the boundaries with her efforts to create community building at every turn, with her most visible example being the Heard on Hurd events that happen monthly in Downtown Edmond. Jill’s team has this event running like a well-oiled machine, moving into its 2nd full season, and you can see all of their authenticity and genuineness of their intent of the festival’s show at each event. As well, she has generated $1.5 million dollars in local revenue since the 2016 season opener, and at a time when state and even local revenue is at its lowest point. The creation of this event came at a time just before the Oil industry went bust and gives the community a place to enjoy time together and provides support to local micro and small businesses. Bringing me to my point, whether it was the crazy legislative session that just ended that had everyone scratching their heads and up in arms, or the choices we have for presidential candidates, or the choices locally we have been presented of events to entertain our families, all of these things are in our control to
support or to not support. Our founding fathers made sure of that freedom of choice. They were the OG disruptors and thankfully, because of them, we have the right to make good or poor choices to support who and want we want. One thing we as a city, state or country cannot handle is more apathy combined with shock when our own poor choices/or lack there of, affect a small group or the masses. Apathy can be our nation’s greatest enemy, and if you are not supportive of what is genuine and authentically good for your family and community, my personal opinion is that you cannot be judgmental when you do not like the later ramifications. Especially when you are not voting for those who represent you, who are actually making choices for you that are going to negatively affect yourself or your family. Remember this, this Independence Day. Get involved, no matter how small your contribution is, it will make a difference, in our community, our state and our country. Jill Castilla is one of Edmond’s best and nicest disruptor’s (and CEO’s), and I invite you to pay attention. Jill Castilla is by far one of the most forward thinking business people and parents in Edmond, currently, and the impact she is currently making will affect how we view Downtown Edmond physically, the continued growth of the Edmond Public Schools, the candidates to which represent the best interests of the Edmond Public Schools, arts in our schools, and so much more than just fun events in Downtown Edmond every month. Again, no matter how small your contribution is, it all matters in the end. We hope you enjoy this year’s LibertyFest Preview, it’s always a pleasure to put together! This issue has a fun daytrip of Oklahoma Waterfall locations from SE Oklahoma to SW Oklahoma, a fun Sparkling Sangria recipe and of course, a full and packed events calendar! Have an awesome June, and I’ll see all of you Around Edmond! ~ Sherri
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Local Flavor Sparkling Sangria With the temperature heating up, I found a couple of recipe’s from Tasty that I am combining into one for an amazing light alcoholic or non alcoholic treat for the Fourth of July! With Rose being popular in the warm months, this Sparkling Sangria fits the bill with the combination of white grape juice, strawberries, raspberries and blueberries, combined with an affordable white and a sparkling wine. To create the alcoholic version, add 1 lb. of strawberries, 1 cup of raspberries and 2 cups of blueberries to a serving
container, then add 1 cup of white grape juice. Next, the Tasty recipe said to add 1 bottle of white wine, but I added 2 cups (due to adding white sparkling wine later). Let sit for at least 2 hours. When you are ready to serve, separate the wine mixture from the fruit, stack the fruit in glasses, add green apple stars, then fill each glass half way with the wine, then add half a glass of sparkling wine, and serve. For the non alcoholic version, I combined the fruit with the white grape juice and let it sit for at least 2 hours, then when ready to serve just added the sparkling white cider.
This recipe is terrific and lightweight, and a great way to celebrate family and friends before and on the Fourth of July!
Ingredients 1 lb Strawberries 1 Small container Raspberries 1 Small container Blueberries Green Apples, cut Âź inch thick with small star cutter 1 bottle White Wine (Ours came from Edmond Wine Shop at 15th & Boulevard) 1 bottle White Sparkling Wine 1 bottle White Grape Juice
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SOCIAL EDMOND INSTAGRAM
Trevor Hultner spent his holiday weekend of Memorial Day traveling across the southern portion of Oklahoma from West to East and inspired many to get out and explore!
Katiebug’s announced the opening of Katiebug’s Trailer Park on or around 6/11/16 at Hurd & Broadway. They will have family friendly events and an amazing atmosphere coming soon!
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This month there are several new places opening, and I decided to make a list for all of you! If you have any new places you’d like us to announce, visit me at my discussion group “@AroundEdmond at Facebook! Starbuck’s – Danforth & Kelly (Not independent, but West Edmond has few coffee shops!) Kamp’s 1910 Café Edmond – South of 33rd on Boulevard (Another coffee shop/café) Mainstreet Boutique – Opening soon at 130 N Broadway, this boutique will offer weekly inventory changes, and best of all items in stock for every age group and most sizes.
Be sure to follow #ShopEdmond at Facebook, Instagram and Twitter to find the latest from our retail advertisers this summer!
THANKS FOR FOLLOWING! I just want to thank all of you for your continued support of EdmondActive at Facebook, Instagram and Twitter since 2009! Send suggestions or ideas to me at Sherrih@Edmondactive.com.
School of Rock – Opening soon at 100 N Broadway (the old Paint Your Art Out location), this new business will offer music lessons and instruction
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Field Trip Oklahoma Waterfall Tour Every once in a while, you’ve gotta get away. Whether you’re planning a short vacation for the whole family or you’re looking to see the sights for yourself, sometimes a field trip is just what the doctor ordered. This month, we decided to take the day off and go on a whirlwind tour of Oklahoma’s waterfalls. With this, we’re expanding upon our previous field trip to Turner Falls in Davis, Oklahoma.
Chickasaw National Recreation Area
Our first stop: Chickasaw National Recreation Area (Chickasaw NRA), in Sulphur, Okla. Located at the foot of the Arbuckle Mountains in Southeastern Oklahoma, the Chickasaw NRA is a sprawling wooded park that features a complex network of creeks originating from the massive Lake of the Arbuckles. Founded in 1904 as the Sulphur Springs Reservation, renamed first as Platt National Park in 1906 and then as the Chickasaw NRA in 1976, the park is a full service camping destination. Our impression: The park is gorgeous and serene, even when it’s filled with people. The trails leading to one of the main attractions, Little Niagra, are clean and quiet. The Travertine Nature Center features some fun educational exhibits of local wildlife, including bison and redtailed hawks, as well as a gift shop. Little Niagra itself manages to be impressive despite the literal nature of its name, and is a popular swimming hole for the whole family. As a bonus, Turner Falls is just right down the road. Travel time: It takes about an hour and a half to get from Edmond to Sulphur, or about 100 miles. Admission: For a day-trip, the Chickasaw NRA is completely free to enjoy. For folks who want to make a weekend of it, camping fees range from $14 to $30 and a $9 reservation fee. According to the National Park Service, you must make your reservation for a campsite no later than seven days from the date you’re looking to camp out. For more info: https://www.nps.gov/chic
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Field Trip Medicine Park / Wichita Mountains
After visiting the Chickasaw NRA and Turner Falls, it’s time to head over to the other side of the state. Medicine Park, located right on the cusp of the Wichita Mountains Wildlife Preserve, is probably the most adorable resort town this side of the Rocky Mountains. Founded in 1908 by Elmer Thomas, this “cobblestone community” was intentionally designed as a watering hole and relaxation spot for the surrounding communities. Medicine Creek runs through the town, with a bridge connecting both sides. Our impression: Medicine Park might be the cutest resort town this side of the Rocky Mountains. It was certainly worth the drive time to get there from Sulphur. When we arrived, the Red Dirt Ball, a free country and folk music festival, was well underway. The town, which normally houses roughly 400 people, was packed with tourists and festival-goers from all over the state. Like Chickasaw NRA and Little Niagra, the waterfall on Medicine Creek is open to the public for swimming, and the creek itself is a popular fishing destination. Its proximity to Wichita Mountain Wildlife Preserve makes it an excellent hub for adventurers. Travel time: It takes two hours to get to Medicine Park from Sulphur. It takes another hour and a half to travel from Medicine Park back to Edmond via the H.E. Bailey Turnpike/I-44. There are two toll gates along that route that cost $1.75 and $1.50 respectively, so make sure you get some cash for your return trip. Admission: Medicine Park does not cost anything to visit for the day, although parking was $2 for the music festival and it would have been another $2 to swim along the falls. For those looking to stay the night, the town offers dozens of lodging options. For more info: http://www.medicinepark.com Chickasaw NRA and Medicine Park make great additions to a broader “waterfall tour” of the state, and they’re the perfect destinations for family fun this summer.
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LibertyFest Preview 44th Annual LibertyFest In 1923, Edmond started celebrating the 4th of July at Stephenson Park, and while the current Libertyfest event hosts 10 family friendly events, it didn’t actually start off that way. As the year’s passed, more and more events were added. In 1972, Edmond hosted the first fireworks display at the Edmond Rodeo grounds, and not until 1976 were they hosted at UCO. And not until 1987 did Edmond name the festival “LibertyFest”. Since then, approximately 125,000 people from all over the state come to Edmond to partake in the Taste of Edmond, Libertyfest Rodeo, the Concert in the Park, the Car Show, the Road Rally, KiteFest, Miss Libertyfest Pageant, and ParkFest held at UCO just before the fireworks display on the 4th of July. As well, we can all thank over 500 Edmond volunteers for participating in what we consider the crowned jewel of events happening in Edmond. So much so, that LibertyFest in Edmond, Oklahoma was selected as one of the top 10 places to be in America on July 4th by CNN & USA Today. In previous years, there have been really fun events, such as the Chalk It Up event, the Cardboard Boat Regatta and more. This year, the Concert in the Park will be relocated due to construction at UCO, and there will be a really fun addition of helicopter rides during the Road Rally! For more information on locations of events, how to purchase Taste of Edmond armbands, etc., please visit Libertyfest.org for more information!
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Saturday, June 25 Car Show at Hafer Park
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LibertyFest Preview Saturday, June 25 KiteFest at Mitch Park
Saturday & Sunday June 25-26 Rodeo at Carl Benne Arena 12
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Saturday, June 25 Scholarship Pageant at Santa Fe High School
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LibertyFest Preview Sunday, June 26 A Taste of Edmond at the Festival Marketplace
Sunday, June 26 Road Rally at Earl’s Rib Palace on Broadway
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LibertyFest Preview Monday, July 4 Parade Downtown Edmond
Monday, July 4 ParkFest at UCO
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LibertyFest Preview Monday, July 4 Fireworks at UCO
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Edmond Events May 2016 ELLIE GOULDING – MAY 18 – OKC May 18 @ 6:30 pm The Official Zoo Amphitheatre, Oklahoma City Visceral Trio – Featuring Henry Dickhoff on Organ May 18 @ 7:00 pm The University of Central Oklahoma Jazz Lab, Edmond Art After 5: Moderns Annual Rooftop Party May 19 @ 5:00 pm - 8:00 pm Oklahoma City Museum of Art, Oklahoma City Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Salt Lake Bees May 19 @ 7:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City Grow Great Grub Gardening Class May 20 @ 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm Providence Farms, Edmond ON A NIGHT LIKE THIS | Cain’s Ballroom May 20 @ 7:00 pm Cain’s Ballroom, Tulsa Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Salt Lake Bees May 20 @ 7:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City Groove Merchants May 20 @ 10:00 pm The University of Central Oklahoma Jazz Lab, Edmond Family Art Market May 21 @ 10:00 am - 12:00 pm City of Edmond Parks and Recreation, Government,
Edmond CBE’s Heard on Hurd May 21 @ 6:00 pm - 10:00 pm 32 N Broadway, Edmond Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Salt Lake Bees May 21 @ 7:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City Randy Rogers Band May 21 @ 8:00 pm The Criterion, Oklahoma City Garrett “Big G” Jacobson May 21 @ 8:00 pm The University of Central Oklahoma Jazz Lab, Edmond Taste of Oklahoma Brunch in the Gardens May 22 @ 11:00 am Myriad Botanical Gardens, Oklahoma City Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Salt Lake Bees May 22 @ 1:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City Otep – May 23 – OKC May 23 @ 6:30 pm Diamond Ballroom, Oklahoma City Full Moon Bike Ride and Run returns! May 23 @ 7:00 pm Myriad Botanical Gardens, Oklahoma City LEON BRIDGES with Andra Day | Cain’s Ballroom (Sold Out) May 23 @ 7:00 pm Cain’s Ballroom, Tulsa STRFKR & Com Truise with Fake Drugs | Cain’s Ballroom May 24 @ 7:00 pm Cain’s Ballroom, Tulsa
Flogging Molly – May 24 – Diamond Ballroom OKC May 24 @ 8:30 pm Diamond Ballroom, Oklahoma City Preseason VIP Get Your Veggie on May 25 @ 2:00 pm - May 30 @ 10:00 pm Providence Farms, Edmond Old 97’s and Heartless Bastards with BJ Barham | Cain’s Ballroom May 25 @ 7:00 pm Cain’s Ballroom, Tulsa TECH N9NE – 05/25/16 – OKC May 25 @ 7:30 pm Diamond Ballroom, Oklahoma City A$AP FERG & TORY LANEZ | Cain’s Ballroom May 26 @ 7:00 pm Cain’s Ballroom, Tulsa Deftones May 26 @ 8:00 pm The Criterion, Oklahoma City Memorial Day Weekend Prairie and Pollinator Plant Sale May 27 @ 10:00 am - May 28 @ 4:00 pm Myriad Botanical Gardens, Oklahoma City BATTLE OF THE BANDS 2016 | Cain’s Ballroom May 27 @ 6:00 pm Cain’s Ballroom, Tulsa Paseo Arts Festival May 28 @ 10:00 am - May 30 @ 6:00 pm Paseo Arts District, Oklahoma City The Turkey Mountain Troubadours with The Fabulous Hardcastle Brothers | Cain’s Ballroom
May 28 @ 6:30 pm Cain’s Ballroom, Tulsa Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Iowa Cubs May 31 @ 7:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City Tyler the Creator – 5/31 OKC May 31 @ 8:00 pm Diamond Ballroom, Oklahoma City
June 2016 Summer Field Trips June 1 @ 9:30 am - June 24 @ 1:30 pm Orr Family Farm, Oklahoma City TYLER, THE CREATOR with Taco | Cain’s Ballroom June 1 @ 7:00 pm Cain’s Ballroom, Tulsa Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Iowa Cubs June 1 @ 7:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City An Intimate Evening with Justin Hayward – June 1 – Tulsa, OK June 1 @ 8:00 pm Brady Theater, Tulsa Gogol Bordello / Frank Turner OKC June 1 @ 8:00 pm Diamond Ballroom, Oklahoma City OKC JAZZ FEST June 2 The Criterion, Oklahoma City Dancing In the Gardens Lesson: Swing Dance June 2 @ 6:30 pm - 7:30 pm Myriad Botanical Gardens, Oklahoma City Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Iowa Cubs
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June 2 @ 7:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City An Intimate Evening with Justin Hayward – June 2 – OKC June 2 @ 8:00 pm The Hudson Performance Hall, Oklahoma City
Myriad Botanical Gardens, Oklahoma City 2016 Peace Love & Goodwill Festival June 5 @ 10:00 am - 9:00 pm Myriad Botanical Gardens, Oklahoma City
OKC JAZZ FEST June 2 @ 8:00 pm The Criterion, Oklahoma City
GRACE POTTER | Cain’s Ballroom June 5 @ 7:00 pm Cain’s Ballroom, Tulsa
Her & Me Opening Reception :: Marilyn Artus solo exhibition June 3 @ 6:00 pm - 10:00 pm The Project Box, Oklahoma City
16th Annual deadCENTER Film Festival June 8 @ 8:00 am - June 12 @ 5:00 pm Oklahoma City
Dancing in the Gardens featuring SWING DANCE presented by Gardner Tanenbaum Holdings June 3 @ 7:00 pm - 10:00 pm Myriad Botanical Gardens, Oklahoma City
Kirk Franklin – June 9 – Tulsa June 9 @ 8:00 am Brady Theater, Tulsa
Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Iowa Cubs June 3 @ 7:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City OKC JAZZ FEST June 3 @ 8:00 pm The Criterion, Oklahoma City Edible Portraits June 4 @ 10:00 am - 12:00 pm Myriad Botanical Gardens, Oklahoma City Learn how to build a cardboard boat! June 4 @ 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm City of Edmond Parks and Recreation, Government, Edmond OKC JAZZ FEST June 4 @ 8:00 pm The Criterion, Oklahoma City Once Upon a Princess – Peace Love & Goodwill Festival June 5 @ 10:00 am - 4:00 pm
Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Nashville Sounds June 9 @ 7:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City
Nashville Sounds June 11 @ 7:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City Brit Floyd (World’s Greatest Pink Floyd Tribute Show) – Saturday, June 11 – Tulsa, OK June 11 @ 8:00 pm Brady Theater, Tulsa
An Evening with Buckethead | Cain’s Ballroom June 13 @ 7:30 pm Cain’s Ballroom, Tulsa Summer Camp for K-6th Grades June 14 @ 9:00 am - June 17 @ 2:00 pm Orr Family Farm, Oklahoma City
Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Nashville Sounds June 12 @ 6:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City
Brandi Carlile | Cain’s Ballroom June 14 @ 6:30 pm Cain’s Ballroom, Tulsa
Built To Spill at ACM@UCO Performance Lab June 12 @ 8:00 pm ACM@UCO Performance Lab, Oklahoma City
Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Omaha Storm Chasers June 14 @ 7:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City
Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Omaha Storm Chasers June 13 @ 7:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City
Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Omaha Storm Chasers June 15 @ 11:05 am Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City
Oklahoma City Dodgers vs. Nashville Sounds June 10 @ 7:05 pm Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark, Oklahoma City Movie Night in the Park – Pan June 10 @ 7:30 pm Shannon Miller Park, Edmond Pop Up Shops in the Park June 11 @ 10:00 am - 5:00 pm Choctaw Creek Park, Choctaw Corn Party June 11 @ 10:00 am - 6:00 pm Orr Family Farm, Oklahoma City Painting In The Gardens With Wine & Palette June 11 @ 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm Myriad Botanical Gardens, Oklahoma City Oklahoma City Dodgers vs.
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Shop.Edmond. Why Buy A Card? Say It In The Yard! Vsit our website for ideas on the use of our signs, and to book a greeting for someone special in your life. New inventory is being added regularly and each greeting will include stars, balloons and two special enhancement signs. We are already booking a few months out so do not wait! We look forward to helping you make someone smile! Find us on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Pinterest @ Oklahoma Yard Greetings! Mackenzie Howard www.OklahomaYardGreetings.com (405) 474-0093 We offer affordable & stylish accents, re-styled furniture, fun jewelry, unique holiday and home decor & gifts and we have an Etsy like atmosphere! Stop in now to see all of the latest decor & gifts and accessories for you and your home. Find Serendipity Market at Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Pinterest! Our Location: 917 E Danforth Rd, Edmond (Across from Ted’s Cafe Escondido) and you can call us at 405-340-8869
Emory Anne Interiors is one of the trendiest stores in Edmond, with a fantastic selection of new high end to affordable pieces for your entire home, very unique home accessories, full line of Company C, Lenny & Eva and Waxing Poetic Jewelry, Thibaut fine fabrics, wallpaper and custom furniture. Emory Anne’s also offers fabric by the yard and design services in store. Be sure to stop by to visit this store first when redecorating on any
budget. You can find Emory Anne Interiors at 15020 Bristol Blvd, on 33rd between Kelly and Santa Fe Open M-F 10 am to 6 pm and Sat. 10-5 pm. Be sure to follow at Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and Pinterest for sales & inspiration and online at www.Emoryanneinteriors.com! If you have any questions, you can call the store at 405753-4466.
Millies is the place to go for weekly prepared meals, catering for your wedding or special event and for your Graduate! Millie’s also has new healthy items available for pick up in their Meals to Go freezer! Give Millie’s a call at 330-9156 or visit her website for more information! Located at 1333 W. Danforth Rd in Edmond! For more information, visit her website at www.MilliesTable.com
2 Doors Down Furniture Consignment is now accepting select gently used brand name quality furniture and accessories. If you’re looking to make a change in your home, this store is the place to check first as their stock is unique, trendy, and affordable, but you have to check in often as their inventory changes daily. Be sure to stop in to 2 Doors Down, located at 15020 Bristol Park Blvd Ste 400, off 33rd
Street, between Kelly & Santa Fe, and take a look around, great owners and great pieces! You can also find them at Facebook & Instagram at 2DoorsDownEdmond or by calling them at 405-254-5175 if you see something you’d like to place on hold! If you’d like to consign your gently used pieces, send your email to twodoorsdown.edmond@yahoo.com Store hours are M-F 10-6 and Sat. 10-5
It’s almost Mother’s Day, time for Spring Weddings, and Graduations! Now is a great time to save on something new with Edmond Wine Shop’s Employee Picks! Cases are discounted, too! Be sure to follow Edmond Wine Shop on social networks at Twitter, Instagram & Facebook @EdmondWineShop! Located on 15th & Boulevard and open Mon– Sat. from 10 am until 9 pm! You can also call in any order at 405-341-3122 for a later pick up, visit Edmond Wine Shop online at EdmondWine.com.
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Shop.Edmond. Enjoy the country at any one of the 5 cozy cottages at Aaron’s Gate Country Cottages, in Guthrie, just in time for Romantic Spring Getaways! Located just a few minutes north of Edmond, on a beautiful wooded 10 acre property, you can relax with the outdoor jacuzzi’s or just relax indoors in front of the fireplace and wake up to a beautiful candlelit breakfast. Be sure to check out the 4 and 7 day packages online at www. Aaronsgate.com to discover the cottages & to reserve your getaway, or call 405-282-0613. Roost Interior Design is Designer owned, offering interior design services metro wide. Previously Roost Oklahoma, Andrea and Lauren are focusing their energy and talents on the interior design aspect of Roost for 2016! If you are interested in their services, you can find them online at Facebook and Instagram at @RoostOklahoma.
Sterling’s Home Decor & Gifts is a fun boutique located in Downtown Edmond, carrying Rustic Cuff, Sid Dickens, The GG Collection, Votivo, and more. Whether you are looking for gifts or something for yourself or your home, Sterling’s has made it a point to shop for unique items to bring home to Edmond. You can find Sterling’s at 105 S Broadway in Downtown Edmond and online at Instagram and Facebook at SterlingsEdmond! If you are looking for something specific stop in or call the shop at 405-844-7465 Open Mon. - Fri 10-5:30 & Saturdays 10-4:30 Paper Arts is a scrapbook and art boutique that provides top of the line supplies for scrapbooking, card making and other fun projects, classes and one-on-one instruction, as well as, ready to buy gifts. We love scrapbooking, card making and all things paper crafting. We also love to share our creations and the products that we find with our customers. There is nothing more satisfying to us than to hear the joy in a customer’s voice as they learn a new technique or find the perfect product for their projects. Paper Arts 632 W. Edmond Rd. Edmond, OK 73003 (405) 330-2055
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Life Happens Parenting Shouldn’t Be Forever By Belinda Crosier, LADC, LPC
So we get to the blessed, anticipated stage
of our choices; it seldom derives from having
of having raised & launched our children,
things done for us, especially if we’re prevented
looking forward to doing some things we’ve
from feeling the pain of our poor choices.
always looked forward to – or maybe just doing
We may do well to ask ourselves, before
nothing except whatever the mood inspires –
jumping to the rescue: WHOSE problem is this
and then what to our wondering eyes behold,
and HOW was it created? Taking a moment
but an adult child on the doorstep to move back
to get in touch with our own emotions around
in. Or maybe it’s just the crisis calls – the car
the situation can allow us to determine if we’re
broke down or the rent/mortgage is due & or
wanting to ‘help’ out of fear, or if we can love
they need a babysitter for an extended period
our child enough to stand back and allow them
– or any of the normal problems that besiege
to learn & grow.
all of us at times; only it seems resources are
There may be tremendous guilt in saying ‘no’
seldom available to take care of them, so it then
to adult children asking for help; it’s a powerful
somehow becomes our job to fix the problem.
hook that can keep us from breaking free of the
The ever-eternal hope that this bunch of
enabling cycle. However, I don’t know of any
groceries, this payment of bail, rent, car
tablet of stone or parenting book which states
payment or ________ (fill in the blank) will
we are to provide for our children and protect
boost the adult child over the hump and into
them from themselves forever! By continuing
self-sufficiency, can keep the parent trapped
to take care of them, we in effect tell them that
in an endless cycle of hoping, helping--&
we don’t think they’re capable of taking care
despairing, when nothing improves. Most
of themselves. When we say ‘no,’ lovingly but
parents would love to break out of this cycle,
firmly, choosing not to perpetuate the cycle of
but the fear of what might happen if they don’t
dependency, we are simply setting reasonable,
continue keeps them stuck in it.
healthy boundaries.
We have children with the expectation that
It can take considerable courage to shake the
somewhere between the ages of 18 & 24 or
guilt, step out of the fear of what might happen
so, they will be prepared, ready and EAGER
or what people will think, to give our grown-
to take care of themselves. With infants &
up kids a gift: the opportunity to develop self-
small children, our job is primarily to protect
sufficiency and the sense of accomplishment
them, but as they mature, become adolescents
that comes with it.
and move toward adulthood, our job shifts to preparing them to be independent and assume responsibility for their choices. IF we have by chance failed in that preparation process, then we may have a moral duty to put in a little more time teaching them, but NOT to do it for them (otherwise known as enabling).
Edmond Family Counseling is committed to providing counseling and educational programs to individuals, families, and groups in Edmond and surrounding communities. We serve as a professional referral source for Edmond schools, churches, Edmond Juvenile Court, area health clinics, hospitals, and other… edmondfamily.org
We may still provide guidance, and certainly encouragement, at times, but the message should be clear: You are an adult & I believe you can do what you need to make the kind of life you want. Valuable learning often results from experiencing the natural consequences
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Stop by Emory Anne Interiors to see whats in store for Graduations, Weddings & Outdoor living!
Company C offers colorful pillows, throws & accessories to brighten up your spaces! Emory Anne Interiors has a full Bridal Registry!
HOURS: Mon-Fri 10am-6pm Saturday 10am-5pm 405.753.4466 www.emoryanneinteriors.com
15020 Bristol Park Place, Edmond (on 33rd, between Santa Fe & Kelly)