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What an incredible year 2022 has been … Especially, here in Australia! We are now OPEN for business and life is somewhat a reset for a new mindset, different goals and aspirations and a whole new outlook on the importance of how we as humanity can add value and impact in our eYscommunity.Magazine has dedicated the cover of this edition to our children and World Humanitarian Day – 19 August 2022. On the front cover is our beautiful boy Brian Tumwine who is 6 years old. He suffers from hydrocephalus and lives in an orphanage in Uganda. Young Brian is very special to us and is our eYs Child Ambassador. Our team editor Christopher Mukasa, from Tokens of Life, Uganda – Live to Give Hope, change the lives of children like Brian every day. I look forward to meeting this little boy when I visit Christopher and volunteer with his community and not for profit Tokens of Life and live the day-to-day challenges that communities like this face daily.
Giving back to the community is something we can all do!
Futility is one of the biggest reasons why many feel unfulfilled. They are tired of the cycle they are in, the routine they are stuck with. Eventually, these people will feel empty and begin to live lives that feel more like a bad dream.
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Volunteering and giving back to your community is an incredibly rewarding, and life-changing experience. Some people believe that you must be rich or have time to give back. However, that couldn’t be truer. You don’t need to be wealthy to help. What you need is motivation. It is good for your health Yes, that’s right! One of the benefits of giving back to your community makes you a much healthier person. Studies have shown that those who spend more time volunteering develop a greater sense of purpose in life, thereby changing their outlook entirely. They are much more motivated to live healthier lifestyles to achieve their goals. You want to sleep better, eat better, and have wellmanaged Volunteeringschedules.isalso linked to better stress management and prevention of chronic health diseases. So, if you need another reason to be in top shape, then here it is. It gives you a sense of purpose
Giving back to the community, however, gives you a greater sense of purpose. You wake up each day knowing you’re about to do something meaningful. You look forward to each time you affect positive change on people who have touched your hearts. It’s an indescribable, mesmerizing feeling that we constantly wish everyone will experience. It widens your network Whether you are a student volunteer or a university graduate, volunteering widens your network. This can eventually be advantageous when you are going to apply for a job or a scholarship. The experiences you would have had as a volunteer will garner you the extra points to take your career Wideningfurther.your network also means creating more opportunities for you in the future. Relating to
At eYs Global, the Consortium for all the subsidiaries of the eYs branding is about giving back to our global community. And we do this through sponsorship, and donations that help impact and change the lives of our vulnerable communities, we understand the importance for health and well-being, education, food, and water, learning a skill, mentoring and community outreach and more on a global scale. Our mission is to help our international community prosper and grow by providing the resources that everyone deserves.
people and organizations of significance puts you in the better position to take your volunteer work as well as profession further. It teaches you a better sense of community
A lot of us have it well. We live in comfortable houses in safe neighbourhoods. We have constant access to food, water, and clothing. Plus, we get to have all these things that make life much easier. However, the reality is a lot of people don’t have that. In fact, billions are leaving on less than a dollar each day. When we make it our mission to give back, we gain a new perspective. We realize that there are so many helpless people who need help. Furthermore, the experience opens our eyes to what the real world is. Suddenly, the worry of what to wear to a party becomes trivial.
From lack of funding to be stuck in between socio-political turmoil in the outskirts of troubled countries, it gets extremely difficult. However, the reward of surpassing these obstacles is unmatched. You can grow not merely as a volunteer but an individual and human being. You open yourself up to a challenging experience and you become willing to learn as well as making sacrifices. When you come back home, you would have been a changed person, only for the better. It gives new knowledge
It helps you grow Volunteering is not easy work. It’s an immersive venture that comes with its own sets of challenges.
A lot of volunteers discover their greatest skills while on the field. Many of them came in at a loss on what they can truly contribute to the cause. It didn’t take long until they unlocked their potential and became the best versions of themselves. Suddenly, they become exceptionally skilled on various tasks.
It shares your expertise Along with unlocking a new skill set, another benefit of giving back to your community is it shares your expertise. Whether you are good in construction, music, or mathematics, sharing your talent to the world can give hope and change lives. In turn, sharing your expertise further sharpens it.
It’s easy to forget the necessity to coexist. When we are so caught up with our personal problems, we overlook other factors such as the community we live with and the area we inhabit. However, the community is much more than just a collective of people living together. Developing a deeper sense of it means the drive to improve the areas you live, work, and play in. Moreover, it means fighting for a safer, more peaceful, and united lives for you and the people around you. It unlocks your potential skills
It’s a gateway to a new perspective
Whether you are giving back to a local or international community, volunteering helps you to discover and hone your skills. From here, you can use these skills to expand your horizon and become a better servant leader.
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Whether it’s to learn more about the current situation in Ukraine, or discover how to build houses, giving back to the community teaches you a thing or two. It can inspire you to take your volunteer work further by conducting research, studies or even funding your very own program. Working with other volunteers and organizations expands your mind.
The more you use it, the more people you can help and all the better you can be.
PASSION having an outlet for passions gives people the opportunity to share a subject they’re passionate about. This helps to spread confidence and encouragement to create new things that they can share with others. Our strengths may be someone else’s weaknesses
Being part of a shared space, whether physical or virtual, gives people the chance to be inspired, solve problems, share humour, vent their frustrations, and share their achievements. People who stay within a community are the ones that agree passionately with its values and with these shared beliefs, trust and togetherness, there’s no limit to what they can do for their community. Bringing together like-minded people who are headed for the same goal undoubtedly, nurtures a rewarding and engaging community.
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INFLUENCE With community participation comes empowerment. When people feel empowered, they feel a sense of control enabling them to influence positive change. It is about making a difference to a group that matters to its members.
SHARING stimulates innovation and growth. Ideas breed new ideas. Apart from having personal benefits of gaining knowledge and insight, sharing also contributes to the community’s greater worth.
CONNECTION An open bond with new connections is what builds valuable relationships and gives us a deeper sense of belonging. It helps us to reach our goals and brings a sense of security.
There are so many positive aspects to being part of a group or community. Providing unique opportunities for people to learn from each other and give support and encouragement are an invaluable part of joining forces with our peers:
One more benefit of giving back to your community is it boosts your self-esteem. There’s nothing more self-affirming than knowing that you are doing something good. Plus, it makes you feel Nowgood.that you are doing something more meaningful in your life, you develop a better sense of self. You begin to discover that life isn’t just about gaining the approval of others or striving not to be judged. It’s about doing something that matters to you and the people who need it most.
The word community is, without question, central to human experience Being part of an engaging community gives us a sense of belonging. It enables us to share personal relatedness and support perpetual growth of each other, ourselves, and our environment. A community can be anything from a physical place where geographically people connect, or via a virtual space such as social media groups or private community platforms. Communities bring like-minded people together with similar characteristics and common interests. Every community operates with specific boundaries to meet the needs of that community. Having a sense of community Embraces spirit, character, image, and pride and is a vital element of a healthy community. It is a feeling that people within the community matter to one another with a shared faith that their needs will be met through commitment and togetherness. Being a part of a community can make us feel as though we are a part of something greater than ourselves.
SUPPORT Being part of a community enables us to give support to other members. Being supportive of others will help them to feel good and better about themselves. With so much stress in the busy world we live in, there’s never been a more important time to help others struggling with their mental and physical wellbeing.
Benefits of being part of an engaging community
REINFORCEMENT can be an effective learning tool to encourage desirable behaviours and provide motivation. A strong community will go beyond the immediate, basic needs and ensure that fulfillment is a positive experience. By doing so, it builds positive rewards and reinforcement for an enjoyable sense of togetherness.
LEARNING/RESOURCES – communities are rich in resources. Knowledge is a unique resource and through its use, it increases in value.
This is yet another benefit you can bring back home with you. Moreover, this is also another benefit you can use to your advantage and share with others. It boosts your self-esteem
We create COMMUNITY through eYs Global through our love and passion for humanity. Our Mission - People, Planet, Partnerships, Prosperity, and Peace are our top priority. It’s about how we can eradicate extreme poverty and ensure sustainability. We hope you enjoy this edition and feel a sense of community through the voice of our Youth for International Youth Day 2022. We asked youth from around the world to tell us what is important to them and why their demands are imperative for a sustainable future for our youth. You will also meet some incredible people and stories of mentorship, and success and be inspired through the messages of hope, love and a global community that creates impact every day.
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60’s Photo Shoot
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Welcome to you all and thank you for your continued support of EYS Magazine and the contributors. It is an absolute honour to be involved in this unique publication and to share our journey with our readers and Ifollowers.hadtheabsolute pleasure of being invited to collaborate with some Toowoomba locals and friends for a 60’s style photo shoot at a very unique location.
The Barn and Scotty’s Garage is nestled on a twisty, country road on the outskirts of my hometown Toowoomba. Scott and Sarah’s little piece of paradise consists of a rustic cafe with homestyle cooking and great coffee while Scotty’s garage is filled with automotive memorabilia and boasts the most incredible diner with a rocking good jukebox, dance floor and decor from the good old days. Perfect backdrop for our collaborative event. We were fortunate to have exclusive use of the property and were even entertained by some regulars stopping by for a rocking good time on the dance floor. There is something special about the 60’s era and music and there wasn’t a single person without a smile on their face. I felt like I was swept back in time to a place where worries didn’t exist and all that mattered was having a good time. Those really were the good old Whatdays.made this photo shoot so personal and special to me, was capturing my school and life long friend Melissa Haddon, wearing
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my handmade jewellery. I have been wanting to photograph Melissa for some time and when I saw the theme of this shoot, I knew it would be perfect for her. Melissa’s parents celebrated the 60’s era and she fondly remembers the weekend parties, music and dancing. She really was in her element and didn’t stop smiling. I will remember this photo shoot and experience forever. The style of jewellery was created specifically for this photo shoot and the brief was 60’s pearls. The various sets I created featured crisp white and creamy champagne tones with some added sparkle. My hand beaded “Black Onyx” set suited Melissa’s red and black dress nicely and I was pleased that I decided at the last minute to include this particular set. Pearls are an absolute classic and are always in style. The drop earrings added some extra elegance and the glossy sheen of the pearls photographs so well. I didn’t realise how popular these styles would be until this photo shoot and most of the pieces have found new homes. Our make-up artist for the day was Monique, founder of MJ Beauty, Toowoomba. Monique really has an eye for detail and Melissa’s makeup was flawless and lasted the distance of the shoot and beyond. Creating unique, handmade jewellery really is a pleasure of mine and seeing the delight on the faces of those who wear my pieces is priceless. Custom designing is a challenge that I accept with open arms and I love spreading my creative wings and trying something new and exciting. My studio is sparkling with rhinestones, crystals, bright coloured beads and my wearable artwork. This is the place where my mind wanders into a creative comfort zone. My jewellery pieces represent my passion and soul.
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Here we are in our regions time of tropical winter where the days and nights are still balmy and definitely tropical here in Nth Queensland, Australia compared to the winter climate of our southern states. It’s certainly cooler than the hard heat of summer that we have just endured, but still is a reminder that we are sure living in the tropics. It seems we only experience winter for a short time each year in the tropics, so it makes an ideal time to travel our region and we share that desire with our other resident states of Australia and places afar as it offers the experience of such beauty and generally amazing weather of sunny clear gorgeous fresh days and milder temperatures overnight. It’s where you come for a laid-back relaxing lifestyle, even if it’s just for a mini getaway to soak up and absorb the beauty of nature. Our choice of destination this mini break has been the locality of Mission Beach which is beautifully set on the Cassowary Coast. I usually share in this eYs Magazine about Upstyling of furniture, however being retired and the Upstyling being a Hobby means there is choice when time for a mini getaway is for the choosing. I guess my husband and I could hop on a plane and visit some distant choices all being wonderful but to hop in our vehicle and travel the much-loved northern Queensland destinations of The Cassowary Coast is so within easy reach by travelling the Bruce Highway. So, I invite you to see and feel this experience through the pictures I paint in your mind’s eye. Firstly, it is fabulous that THE CASSOWARY COAST REGION is literally on our doorstep, and it never fails to disappoint with its natural beauty. This region of the Cassowary Coast begins beyond a two-hour drive from our own beach location north of Townsville and then to our chosen destination to Mission Beach area about another hour. Let’s go on to explore as you join Afterme. a lovely drive north through Ingham seeing lots of lovely healthy cane growing in fields stretching as far as my eye can see we climb (thankfully in the car) up The Hinchinbrook range and call into the lookout to see the grandeur vision of Hinchinbrook Island which is separated from the coast by the Hinchinbrook Channel and beyond is The Coral Sea. The Island is one of Australia’s largest Island national parks. Hinchinbrook Island offers no hotels or accommodation, however with permission camping is allowed. Years that have passed and on other adventures we have fished in these channels and admired what is offered. The abundance of fish and other sea creatures is amazing and of course the estuarine crocodiles
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further north we have blessings to see clear blue sky and lush green vegetation that shows promise of natural beauty for this road trip adventure. We soon reach Cardwell, which is a coastal town offering spectacular views of the northern side of Hinchinbrook Island and so many other Islands nearby with gorgeous viewing from the jetty. We stop only for refreshments and some quick photos as the views are amazing. Cardwell is a popular tourist destination with a range of accommodation, and there are many delicious options of food offered in cafes and restaurants, especially seafood. I love the local mud crab sandwich with freshly caught mud crab meat. It’s my favourite snack when passing through here as these large mud crabs are caught locally in the channel. It’s a delicacy that southern states and overseas countries pay highly to enjoy. Cardwell was almost obliterated when severe Cyclone Yasi struck in February 2011. I can remember a trip beyond that time when access through was allowed and I just cried out loud in despair of the damage and could only imagine the terror of that time. With true spirit of Australians, it has been rebuilt and the foreshore upgraded, business and homes all rebuilt or repaired and it’s once again wonderful and thriving. Heading further along the Cassowary Coast we get to travel past Tully. This region is certainly known as Australia’s banana-growing district and of course also cane growing. The Cane Mill chimneys were billowing smoke high as we drove past. It is also the home of the endangered southern cassowary and Tully is known for their giant golden gumboot because of their extremely high rainfall. Here the lush of the rainforest really alerts you of the Tropics. There is two seasons of the Cassowary Coast. It is either wet or dry. The rainfall of this area is estimated at 123 inches and that usually falls between January and April. It is easy to see how so many are seduced to staying in this area with the outdoor lifestyle, great climate (summer being all year round) being warm or warmer to experience and the spectacular scenery. It was easy to see that we were going to be blessed with perfect dry weather. We are soon headed off the Bruce Highway to the Mission Beach area and even though we’ve visited many times we always see it as if through fresh new viewing as it is so naturally special. Mission Beach is Djiru Country and there is much history and there was once “the mission” settlement on the site in those historical days and eventually over time the beach became known as “Mission Beach”. I’ve visited this region over the many years of my life, having been introduced to it by my husband having knowledge of the area living his childhood more north along the Cassowary Coast. My children spent many years holidaying with us as they were growing up and experienced the beauty of the land and the sea. We had enjoyed days of building sandcastles, wandering the shoreline for what the ocean had washed up and the endless fishing trips where great species allowed were caught and provided seafood feasts. The coral sands on the many Islands will be something I’ll never forget with the gentle sound of the ocean washing upon the shoreline and our picnics on deserted beaches with the sunshine bronzing our bodies. We felt so honoured to have these special times as often as we could knowing that tourists travel the world to visit these pristine beaches and rainforests and to also experience the islands offshore
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make their home in this area. The natural beauty truly Travellingastounds.
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still love all that is offered by this quiet stretch of North Queensland which is the closest point to The Great Barrier Reef from the mainland and is flanked by lush rainforest that in many areas meets the shore. Mission Beach is at its heart. Mission Beach is not only known for its Tourism, but it supports a large agricultural industry with cultivating sugar and bananas. Tropical fruits are also grown abundantly. After a short drive off the highway, we arrive at our chosen accommodation and settle in for a three-night stay in a newly refurbished Villa at Bali Hai Holiday Park situated at Wongaling Beach between Main Mission and South Mission beaches. The view is delightful as we look out to the Coral Sea whilst enjoying refreshment from our Villa veranda and soon after beginning the many beach walks as we view Dunk Island and The Family group of Islands which are just nearby off the coast. If you are boating you can arrange to camp on the uninhabited Wheeler Island, Coome Island, or hike through the rainforest of Dunk Island or choose to stay in the luxurious tropical accommodation on Bedarra Island. The Islands are easily accessible by a water taxi from Mission Beach and by helicopter to Bedarra Island. They are all special and those I have mentioned I have visited for day trips in years past. My memories of crystal-clear ocean, swaying palms for shade to enjoy picnics will always hold clearly in my memory as being special.
you to view them only from a distance, so if you happen to stumble near to one just back away slowly and try to protect yourself. Once many years ago when exploring in the rainforest one tried to attack and I can assure you that I have never ran so fast and hid behind the largest tree I reached. I still clearly remember my heart pounding. You only need to look at them to realise how dangerous they can be as the reason hey would attack is only selfdefence. I am sure that all having such a tropical lifestyle that is desirable for relaxation and Theseexploring.dayswe
During our stay we had the privilege to encounter the rare Southern Cassowary. I believe that the Mission Beach area is home to the highest concentration of the endangered cassowary in Australia. These large flightless birds can be spotted walking through these amazing colourful birds crossing in front of us and whilst we were on the beach. I’ve gathered learning over time that they are among the largest birds on the planet and in Australia weigh up to a massive 76 kg. They are as tall as a person with a huge helmet on its head, they have a vivid blue neck and long drooping red wattles. They are really quite stunning and a thrill to see them whilst you are exploring. . I can assure
The days flew by ever so quickly as they do when you are having fun and way too soon it was time to return to our own home again and in leaving having knowledge that we would have hope to return to this beautiful piece of paradise once again along the Cassowary Coast. The memories will remain and be held in my heart of where the rainforest meets the ocean shore of this beautiful scenic locality.
Whilst our time was mainly spent relaxing enjoying the magnificent views near our accommodation and just feeling the sand between our toes, we did drive to main Mission where there is a cluster of village shops and eateries. Beach front dining is special and a wander in the Village Green exposes quaint shops, eateries, and a beautiful gallery. The views here are also spectacular. I found a large tree growing here with such beautiful flowers and found some I could admire and photograph which had fallen on the sandy grassed shore of the beach.
possibly it had young and perhaps I had ventured near to the nest. I respect they are endangered, and their role is important in rainforest ecology and regeneration. It’s such a privilege to sight these.
Hopefully I’ll be able to share in the future, another travel destination with all or perhaps share about my own beautiful coastal city location here in North Queensland, Australia. Please enjoy the photos taken of my mini getaway time shared at the beginning of The Cassowary Coast of North Queensland, Australia. I am by no means a qualified photographer but know beauty when I see it and do my best to capture it on my phone. The time present is wonderful that travel is now allowed during this ongoing Pandemic time and with social distancing we all can enjoy it. Time is our gift and we must use it to our wisest means when choice is presented. My advice is to take in what you see, hear, and smell and enjoy the time of Nature whenever possible as it is such a health booster. Slowing down and enjoying some you time is important. I’m sending well wishes to all from my beautiful space in Northern Australia and sharing my knowledge of the Cassowary Coast of North Queensland, Australia. Till next time, keep well and keep safe.
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By Maja Damjanovska Momiroska Who do we trust? Do we trust ourselves? What if we don’t keep the promise that we made to Tonight,ourselves?Iwill go to bed earlier. I will talk to my boss tomorrow. Next year I will take better care of my health. This month I will save more. I need to get up earlier, and I use the snooze option countless times... Do you awaken the urge to rebel in yourself when you have not been consistent with your unfulfilled plans? Are you hard on yourself and judge yourself the way you judge others when they don’t deliver on their promises? Why don’t we treat ourselves with the same respect that we treat other people? Are we mindful of the responsibility we have towards ourselves, reflecting it in the outside Trustworld?is not irrational or illusory, explains Michael Kosfeld. It’s a biologically-based part of human nature. Biologically explained, what directs the human brain to trust someone is a hormone called oxytocin. Oxytocin is a hormone produced in the hypothalamus of the brain and stored in the posterior pituitary gland. In addition to its other properties commonly associated with motherhood, oxytocin also reduces social anxiety and helps people to bond better with each other. According to this research, trust is a biologically based part of the human being. The element of trust is crucial to almost all interpersonal social interactions between people. When trust is absent, people are, in a way, dehumanized. Also, trust is a complex neural process that links different representations into a semantic pointer which includes emotions. I was recently at a conference where trust was discussed. This event inspired me to write about trust and trustworthiness. The reason is the need we all feel, every once in a while, to reevaluate our relationship “The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.”
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A tool developed by economists, called “the Trust Game”, sheds light on these issues. One key finding is
Several factors are important for whether people will trust a person, such as how rationally that person behaves, judging, however, according to their criteria of rationality. Next, the behaviour of the person who creates our trust, empathy and clarity in expression is also very important. Other factors, by no means neglected, are the integrity and competence that the person possesses. Benevolence, which can be expressed in various ways (by indicating a pleasant, kind and positive approach) is extremely essential. In order to trust, above all, we need to feel physically and emotionally safe. The speed at which people begin to trust each other is completely individual. This can often be culturally Socialdifferent.psychologists are interested in studying trust because it allows people to communicate more deeply and effectively. They try to understand the process of developing trust and what happens when it is broken.
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and attitude towards trust - towards ourselves, towards others, as well as our spiritual side and our relationship with God. Which side of the axis does the arrow point to when others answer whether they trust us? Do we, from time to time, question how others see us or do we live by inertia and our reflection on the outside is not so important to us? Are you aware of your emotional file and honestly share a part of yourself when you connect? Or are you completely hidden behind your tightly built dam? Do you trust me if I trust you? Do I have to trust you if you trust me? How do you give other people adequate, useful and simple proof that you are a trustworthy person, that they can trust you?
“Without trust, people give up on relationships and leave organizations, cynicism reigns, progress grinds to a halt, and self-interest trumps the common good,” states Ken Blanchard, Chief Spiritual Officer of The Ken Blanchard Companies and coauthor of The One Minute Manager and Trust Works. In an environment where enough trust is built, people feel free to move and grow faster, give their best, and maybe even take more risks. In such a trusting environment, people do not have the natural urge to protect themselves or “watch their backs” as they might in an environment where trust is not present. When there is trust, positivity is awakened and along with it, productivity is high. Creativity flourishes, all barriers and obstacles are more easily overcome, and mutual relations deepen. Trust is a very distinctive and specific category because trust is something that is given to us by other people. So, we often talk about “re/building” trust between different categories of people and situations, but my opinion is that we cannot rebuild or restore something that other people decide to give to us. To gain someone’s trust, first of all, we need to give some kind of proof to create that kind of perception in other people. Whether we strive for it daily or not, it is up to us to decide. It is in these kinds of views and colourful approaches that we weave our Isdiversities.itenough for someone to say “Trust me”? Or do you need much more than these two dryly spoken words?
The way of building trust with others is challenging, dynamic, interesting and exciting. That’s why I love those journeys taken by new acquaintances when their familiarization with one another results in certain new conclusions. When trust is high, people have a greater desire and need to express their thoughts, emotions, reactions, and opinions, to share information and Evenideas.though at the conference, which I previously mentioned, there was a lot of talk about trust as a concept, our conversations and If someone asked me, “Do you trust me?”, or if I trust someone, I would first ask, “About what?”. I trust my children’s teacher to teach them, take care of them and bring them up, yet I certainly wouldn’t trust her if she had to drive the school bus.
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that showing trust creates a sense of obligation in return. The greater the risk, the greater the sense of obligation created. The connection created quickly disintegrates when the players show little trust.
One thing is quite clear - in a work environment where there is more trust, there is more efficiency in the Beingwork. trusted is one of the most valuable compliments I can receive at home or work. Why is the trust category specific?
When we agree to the Licence Agreement for our new mobile device do we read all 229 pages, or do we simply trust the manufacturer? Do we, therefore, choose a manufacturer we trust based on previously proven quality in the market? Can you be trusted at work? If the work is always completed by the specified deadline, then, over time, you quietly and imperceptibly build trust with others. Once you know that others trust you, is that enough for you? Or maybe you feel that you deserve praise, a higher salary or a better position in the company?
According to research published on Our World in Data, when comparing people’s attitudes about trust, globally, the conclusion leads to time-constant heterogeneity across countries. At one extreme are countries such as Norway, Sweden and Finland, where more than 60% of survey respondents believe that people can be trusted. At the other extreme are countries such as Colombia, Brazil, Ecuador and Peru, where less than 10% of respondents answered yes to the question of whether people can be trusted.
openness to share our thoughts, experiences and feelings differed significantly on the first day from the last, fourth day when we shared part of ourselves most openly with others. Part of the reason for our greater openness certainly lies in the trust created.
According to research conducted by the Nuremberg Institute for Market Decisions about the trust in the professions, the research that was done at the global level, the conclusion is almost unanimous that people trust firefighters the most. Trust in firefighters is followed by high-level trust in nurses, teachers and doctors. Bankers and judges, for example, are far down on the trust scale.
The trust also varies significantly by profession.
At the Edelman Global Report Trust barometer, whose surveys have been conducted every year for 22 years, in 2022 a difference can be observed in the respondents’ answers, compared to previous years. First on the list of trust by sector is the business sector, followed by NGOs and then the Government and the Media. I believe that we all hide an even better version of ourselves than the one we manifest. We can earn and build even greater interpersonal trust tomorrow than today. Tomorrow is a new day, a new blessing in which we can do more for the world. Let’s be humane, reliable, empathetic, and positive persons. Let’s build and rebuild (where necessary) trust in every corner of the globe. Let’s be trustworthy people to earn the trust of others. You and I, let’s do it together. Let’s give each other the base so that we can gain mutual trust. I decided to trust. I trust God, and then I trust myself, you, others, and what surrounds me. We are a perfect creation to be managed and built with trustworthy behaviour complemented by integrity, generosity, kindness and empathy. Such as we were created –pure, empathetic and true, the world needs us the most right now.
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Woman, manager, motivator - this is how we can briefly describe the General Manager of Scalefocus in Macedonia, Ms. Sofche Jovanovska. Her professional experience is deepened by countless worldwide relations, participation to numerous events in more than 52 countries, highest level bilateral meetings with powerful business people from around the world, owners of large corporations, international institutions. For our magazine, she talks about her professional achievements and her long-term plans in the company.
Ms. Jovanovska, what was your path to success and what is your life motto?
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interested in new innovative things and in my mind I always repeat “I know what I want to achieve, I know why it is important to me and I am thinking about finding out how to make it happen”. The important thing is that I can take responsibility for my own decisions, I know whether I should do something or not.
There are several principles that I am guided by in my life, and these are: you should always dream of what you want to achieve, believe that it is possible, and invest every day in new knowledge. For every unit of “time” or “assets-funds” invested you will surely get a 10-times higher refund one day. Without having ambition and awareness of self-development there is no realization of your dream. It is important whenever you set goals in life, to distinguish between what is the goal and what are the actions that will lead you to this specific goal. Every goal incorporates specific steps towards its achievement – a goal without steps is just a wish list. I am constantly
As a General Manager of Scalefocus LLC, you positioned the company as the fastest growing one within the group. What was crucial for this accelerated growth in times of crisis? The company success we have achieved in the country is our joint success of all our colleagues in North Macedonia and in Bulgaria, where the main headquarters of the company are located. To establish the company and leverage its image, as a desirable company to work for, it certainly requires a lot of effort, talent, and strong experience. Today, as the General Manager of Scalefocus LLC, looking back in time, I have a 30-year career behind me, which has taken me to many peculiar, exciting, extraordinary, and responsible work positions. I started as an Oracle database administrator and developer, but my desire to constantly learn and improve and give my best in every task took me to the field of telecommunications, macroeconomic policies, and legal regulations. I was part of the
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This year, Scalefocus marked its 10th anniversary, 10 years of accelerated growth and development, recognized even by the renowned Forbes and Financial Times, which have included the company in the fastest growing companies in Europe in the recent years. What are the future plans? This year we mark 10 years since the founding of Scalefocus (www.scalefocus.com). Today, our company is a synonym of success, growth, and excellent market positioning. Scalefocus is one of the most successful IT companies established not only in the region, but also in Europe and America. I am part of a strong and ambitious team of more than 800 professionals, who work tirelessly on multiple continents and contribute to the company’s success. In the long run, our goal is Scalefocus to become an even bigger international company with an even stronger presence in the world, creating solutions for the needs of renowned clients. So far, we have successfully delivered more than 500 projects for hundreds of clients worldwide. As a company, we have experience in several industries, since our clients work in different sectors and activities, and we follow and understand the challenges they are facing. The key to success is when for each new system we develop for our client, we also have to ensure its integration, automation and co-communication with the rest of the systems used by the same client. Scalefocus provides higher value-added technology solutions that save our customers’ resources, time, people and provide a competitive advantage in their industries. In the software industry, especially after the pandemic, the world has recognized quality and agility over quantity when working with customers. In the future, digital transformation will be inevitable for every company, and this implies the need for IT services and IT personnel will parallelly grow. Our mission is to engage the best technical talent in our projects and conquer new markets. What was the reason and the main motive for expanding towards the Macedonian market?
The company’s ambitious plans motivated more than hundred young people to work for the company. The company’s business plan is to motivate and retain young IT experts within the country. The reason for expanding into Macedonia was part of
Chamber of Commerce of Macedonia for 25 years at various managerial positions. The Assembly of the Republic of North Macedonia appointed me as the Chairwoman of the Commission of the Agency for Electronic Communications during the period 2005-2010. A particular challenge for me was my role as a Chief of Cabinet of the Vice-President of the Government of North Macedonia in charge of economic policies, where the focus was on attracting foreign investments to the country and creating an optimal business environment. Nevertheless, the biggest challenge for me is my current position as a General Manager of Scalefocus LLC, which allowed me to return to my area of expertise, after all my prolific experiences, countless relations, events, highest-level bilateral meetings with powerful business people from all over the world, owners of large corporations, international institutions, participation to symposia, business forums, conferences and events in more than 52 countries in the world. My previous experience is what gives me the wind beneath my wings, so we can ambitiously continue with the implementation of the investment plan for the next five years, according to which we need to employ 300 people, but with the current pace of growth, we may reach this number of employees much sooner. Our vision is to gather the best IT talents not only in Skopje and Bitola, but also in the other cities in the country.
*) NLP was developed in the 1970s by Richard Bandler, a mathematician and psychologist, and John Grinder, a university professor of linguistics at the University of Santa Cruz in California (USA)
What is the main motivation for the young IT staff and how do you manage to keep them in the country and work for Scalefocus?
One who believes shall not make haste!
We have started this interview and we are closing it now with your professional challenges. You mentioned that your key success factors are your commitment and your readiness for new endeavours. What would be your advice to future generations?
What we offer as a company is a unique opportunity for career development in a supportive environment, through continuous learning from colleagues, managers, clients in projects and other complementary forms of technological and business improvements. Each of our colleagues has an equal start, no matter in which Scalefocus office they start working, but everything depends on the ambition, individual motivation, skills and results and how one manages to develop them over time. We monitor them and support them, because that is part of the company’s work culture, to share knowledge with our colleagues and thus jointly move to the top. The company’s business plan is to motivate and retain young IT experts here in the country. It is an advantage, but it also requires the skill to find common values, while nurturing mutual respect and commitment, and cultivate your business success on the possibility of being able to extract the best skills from your employees. We try to create a positive environment for each talent, aligned with the corporate values of the company, and as they say “You can do it alone, but to succeed, you need a team”.
What is important to know is that you cannot change your life in a day, but there is something you can do in a day - you can make a decision to start learning and doing everything that is in your power, and it is required to improve all segments of your life. That day could be today - you can make the decision today.
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our development strategy and a preparatory step for further growth in the Western Balkans region. We are proud as a management of the achieved success, but we are also extremely thankful to our employees who recognized the company as a place for their future professional growth and success. Our employees are our greatest asset in the company.
My role as a professional coach is to help others change the way they think and behave, becoming aware of their potential, so they can overcome their problems or reach their desired goals sooner and Theeasier.satisfaction is immense when you manage to touch someone’s life and inspire them to achieve a goal or solve a problem. Their success is also my responsibility, and I simply cannot allow myself not to help them when I know how to do it.
Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP *) encompasses a range of skills, techniques and models by which we can actively use our mind, emotions and body to successfully manage our lives – as well as communicate with the others around us with extreme effectiveness, regardless whether it is in our private life or professionally. Practicing these NLP techniques allows me to communicate more easily with the employees, but also with our clients in the stages of presentation, negotiations, implementation of projects and, of course, at the sales level.
Although Bulgaria and North Macedonia are small countries compared to the big wide world, our best practices and policies, acquired and inspired by the international companies we work for, empower us to differentiate ourselves from our competitors with our quality and passion for excellence, which result from the commitment of our employees and their true talents. That is why we are striving to create ideal conditions for work and make young people stay at home or bring them back to our countries while contributing to the economic prosperity of the region
In addition to successfully managing an IT company, you are also successful and growing in NLP coaching. Can you tell us some details on your growth in this field and how much NLP techniques help you in your daily work?
dances are numerous and diverse. In different regions they have different names, depending on the place and the way of playing. Their names are derived from place names, personal names, trades, animals, instruments, type of dance, posture and customs.
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“A nation without its own folklore and without solid ethno-genesis is a tree without roots.”
Macedonian folk dances are traditional dances that are essential in Macedonian folklore and musical tradition.
The tradition of a nation is the embodiment of all the wealth that can represent a country. In Macedonia, it makes it possible to preserve, nurture and promote the cultural identity of Macedonians and Macedonia, because Macedonian creativity has an inestimable value as a cultural Macedoniafeature. is a country where the past has left precious traces, and the present has further beautified and ennobled it. In Macedonia, the old and rich Macedonian tradition has been mixed with progress and modern life in the best possible way, so united together they represent a successful whole that contains all the elements of a culture based on its centuries-old customs.
On the territory of the Republic of Macedonia, however, depending on the style, choreography and customs associated with them, Macedonian dances are divided into five regional groups: Northern Dances, Eastern Dances, Western Dances, Southern Dances and Southwest MacedonianDances.
Folk songs from Macedonia are known for their beauty, but there is something more in them. The lyrics of most of the songs date back to ancient times, and sometimes they are just playful songs, but sometimes they tell long and sad stories. Singing has always been a part of the activities of the Macedonians, they sing for grief and joy. These songs often tell stories about mythical creatures and legends.
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By Kristina Apostoloska
Macedonian folk songs also tell stories of legendary heroes. These heroes are given superhuman powers and usually portrayed as protectors of the people. One of the most beloved heroes in Macedonia and the Balkans, was the real historical figure
Folk Costumes in Macedonia have a tradition that lasts for centuries. They are part of the material culture of the Macedonian people and an important branch of folk art. Created as a collective benefit of all Macedonian people, they have been passed from generation to generation for many years and during their development, they included many elements of the diverse cultural influences that have crossed this part of the Balkans.
Macedonian folk costumes
Folklore Connects Us
- Krale Marko, who was the ruler of the Prilep kingdom.
Most often Macedonian folklore embroidery was made of woollen or silk thread with red being the predominate colour. The Folk Costumes in Macedonia have a tradition of many centuries. They are an integral part of the Macedonian culture and represent a significant branch of the national artistic creations.
If you consider yourself a nay-sayer of folklore because it no longer seems relevant in today’s world, you may be discounting an important connection to our past. We are unique as individuals, but we are all connected through these moral truths. Folklore, tales, and sayings have been around long before science could articulate it further, so listening to the tales told from family member to family member might prove valuable, even in today’s world, if you take the time to listen.
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The richness and diversity of traditional culture is most strikingly expressed in folk costumes. The red color and the color of the wine are colors of earth and fertility, while gold is the color of the gods (the sky) That is why our national costume is red with gold embroidery.
‘A hero is somebody who is selfless, who is generous inspirit, who just tries to give back as much as possibleand help people. A hero to me is someone who saves people and who really deeply cares.’
From MILITARY to MENTORING
With Kane’s career history embedded in the military service spanning over 20 years, he has a wealth of global knowledge and skills which he accumulated throughout his time in the army. Today he insists on giving back to the community. His time in the army equipped him with not only the technical skills to protect and serve his country, but also the skills to identify and read people and situations well. Kane has also been involved in working around the world in security within the commercial mining industry, as well as working events with a global music icon and a leading IT exponent. Kane thrives when empowering others, guiding them while providing strong, sound leadership, this translates into personal confidence, strong discipline and a sense of self-belief in those he mentors. The military shaped Kane’s life as a young man and he is now determined to give this opportunity to others.
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Story by Clare Erasmus
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Kane Middleton is an inspiring ex-military man, quietly determined to shape the lives of youth who have led troubled pasts and experienced disruptive lives. His strong physical exterior appearance houses a compassionate heart of humanitarian drive and desire. His work and life experiences in the New Zealand Army and private security consultancy has equipped him with a vast array of knowledge and skills that position him to mentor others. These days, Kane has hung up his military uniform and he now has the vision to provide valuable mentorship to others. This humble man truly defines altruism, eager to promote the welfare of others.
“The military provided me with a set of ‘road rules’ that gave me a deeper understanding of self-discipline, self-respect and perseverance. It taught me about the benefits of commitment and hard work. I learned about tenacity, grit, teamwork and how to be driven to achieve. These have been valuable life skills both in the army and life beyond.'
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Kane’s vision is to create a platform where at-risk youth can take advantage of being a part of a team, growing their self-confidence, self-belief, grit and determination.
“I want to reach out to organizations that deal with at-risk youth and offer opportunities to help turn lives around. I’m keen to have a few young people come in, work with me, and learn a few skills along with a few life lessons. I am confident that this will positively affect their life chances. I feel like the army equipped me with the tools for life and the road rules to live a full life. If I mentor others, I feel that this would create a ‘flow-on’ effect too, with them wanting to give back to the community through helping others.”
Kane suggested, “I would like to be able to give someone hope and self-belief. Self-belief is a real game changer. If I can ignite this in at-risk youth then it could radically alter their life chances, which ultimately means that they have opportunities to improve their quality of life. This impacts not only themselves but those around them. It is profoundly important that they are able to recognise their inner strength and sense of determination to take on challenges and push through. Sometimes challenges blur solutions. However, when equipped with the ‘tools’ of hope, self-discipline, and self-respect, other avenues to reaching solutions become more apparent.”
Kane highlighted that the sense of belonging, the idea of working as a team and developing secure sound relationships, is key to the development of social identity. Social identity provides purpose and group and self-value. “Working in a team develops mutual respect. Everyone has a part to play. Team membership creates an understanding of reliability and it can impact others. A strong sense of social and individual identity can change who you think you are and how you perceive and relate to others. It can affect your self-worth and how you define yourself. The army taught me the value of teamwork. Through teamwork, so much can be accomplished. It is a great privilege to be able to educate and instill these values and ideologies into at-risk youth.”
Kane’s current business provides specialist and comprehensive services to the automotive, power sports, marine and aviation sectors. With his astute attention to detail and commitment to service, his team provides exceptional service to his customers, delivering restoration to components with isotropic super finishing, performance ceramic paints, vapor blasting and powder coating and paint.
Kane’s military deployment took him worldwide for two decades. He has since decided to put away his military uniform and rifles, and initiated a start-up business, Automotive Components Refinishing.
Kane’s passion for mentoring and inspiring others is evident. His face lights up when he talks about his aims and goals. It is clear that his life experiences in the New Zealand Army ignited his desire to reach out to the community and make a valuable difference in the lives of others. He is clear in his direction; knowledgeable in how it can eventuate; and skillful in how he can facilitate hope, self-belief, self-respect and discipline.
Kane Middleton is a humble humanitarian, a real change-maker, sporting an attitude of generosity with his time and life skills. He is one of New Zealand’s unsung heroes with his vision to reach across
As war-time leader and military-man, Winston Churchill, observed that, “We make a living bywhat we get,but we make a life by whatwe give.”
communities. He has a heart of passion and consideration, and a desire to truly make a difference in the lives of others.
About the Author: Clare is an author and educator, living locally in Christchurch. She is the Executive Director of eYs SDG’s World Council. She has written books for both educators and children. She has a Bachelor of Arts (Sociology and Legal Studies), Bachelor of Arts Honours (Sociology), Masters of Social Science, Bachelor of Education, Certificates in both TEFL and TESOL and is currently undertaking her PhD in Education). Magazine,
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At eYs Magazine, we salute you, Kane. Thank you for making a difference and empowering others.
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EVERYTHING IS DIFFERENT COVID 2022 By Marsha Casper Cook
NOTHING IS THE SAME.
Nothing is the same and everything is different. Here we are more than two years into the devastating virus, and for many families the tragedy of an early death became reality. The numbers keep changing, and it’s really not about numbers, it’s people’s lives.
coming our way. But for the most part, consistent information would be helpful, but at this point in time, the questions outweigh the Certainly,answers.it would have been wonderful if we could have waved a magic wand and this horrible trauma we were all facing would go away just as quickly as it began. However, that didn’t happen, nor could it, and we are still questioning how this could have happened. Are we going to face the dilemma of unknown illnesses in the future? That seems to be what is on many people’s minds.
As the days pass, more and more people are not only facing physical problems, but the mental well-being of our world is at stake. Globally, we may be different in many ways, but we are now brought together by
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COVID touched everyone in different ways, and depending on what State you were in, our country’s numbers varied and guidelines changed. Some followed guidelines, but others didn’t. Many suffered while others refused to believe this was really happening.
MostCOVID.people recover, however, some people continue to experience a condition called Long-COVID. There are many studies concerning the longterm effects COVID has on organs, but for many it isn’t
What has become a reality is the vaccines are working and the boosters even more so. The questions and the answers may not be what everyone wants to hear, but all the same help is there if only the masses would listen to what others are saying.
Many wonder if in time we will be back to business as usual while others are saying this might be the new normal. There are studies and graphs to help people understand what has happened and what might be just their organs affected but the isolation they feel and the sorrow of losing their loved ones or not being there when they needed them.
COVID has brought tremendous sadness and despair into their lives. These people were healthy, normal adults and children, but when COVID entered their lives, the effects for months after their recovery brought on waves of unhappiness and isolation. Unfortunately, we are not out of the woods yet, but we are moving in the right direction. It may take more time, but my belief is that we will get there.
Upon deciding to do this story, I thought it would be beneficial to share four different stories from individuals from different parts of the United States on how COVID affected their lives from the beginning until now.
Carol’s reaction to COVID: I live in Florida and COVID has affected us greatly here. Many of our businesses shut down briefly, so I felt it was up to me to protect myself and others. I did receive all the vaccines and booster shots. Being a Cancer survivor, I always take precautions as necessary. So far, I have not had COVID, and I am thankful for that.
COVID is here to stay, and all we can do is to be as diligent as possible to move forward.
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characters and weaves the tapestry of their lives with the threads of her dreams. She wanted to help with this story and let people all over the globe understand the pain and the anguish she and her family endured. Marta’s story: Just before COVID hit as a national and world pandemic, we had just finished moving into our new home in a rural area of Massachusetts. We knew no one, didn’t know the area, and had spent nearly two years already in isolation living in motels, renting small apartments, and waiting for our house to get finished. By the time we were finally able to raise our heads and get to know a few people, COVID hit.
Unfortunately, many of my friends and family have not been so lucky. Even though they were vaccinated, they still got COVID. Some were hit pretty hard and still suffer. Some were just mildly affected and recovered quickly. One passed away, and that was unfortunate. COVID has put me in a position to not socialize as much anymore, but I continue to wear a mask and distance myself from Iothers.hope with all the new warnings coming out that everyone takes this seriously.
Marta MassachusettesBsihop Marta is an author, marketing consultant, and a podcast host who shares her love of life with her guests. When she writes, she walks in the shoes of her
Massachusetts was one of the first states to see cases and a mask mandate, along with a state of emergency being declared in Carol Solomon Proesel Carol is a 14-year Breast Cancer Survivor, and has been the guest host for several years on Michigan Avenue Media Podcasts during the month of October in support of Breast Cancer Awareness Month. She has always been an advocate for early detection and the importance of mammograms. Her concern for COVID began at the very onset because she has always been proactive.
The town was pretty much closed except for essential workers, neighbors didn’t socialize with each other, and no one spoke to anyone they didn’t know.
I know COVID made me appreciate many things I have in my life that aren’t material, but it also made me more reclusive, less able to feel comfortable meeting new people, and wary of those I do meet. I still retain an attitude of friendliness toward my fellow man, though it is at arm’s length now.
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March of twenty-twenty. Thus began life under COVID. Isolated from meeting anyone in the area, despite spending the previous two years without friends or family around. Things were rough already, and we both needed to find our way around. There are few neighbors around, all liking their privacy already with their own little groups. It turned out that we had moved into an area that was about half antivaxxers, and anti-maskers, and even though many still wore masks, you didn’t know who was who. I clearly remember going to Lowes to buy some tomato cages and being stalked through the parking lot by an unmasked young woman and her big dog. She screamed at me and ended up calling the police because I raised my handbag in defense, trying to get her to move out of my space. I did not hit her with it. If I had, I’m sure her dog would have attacked me. After the police took both statements, I left as quickly as possible while she was still screaming that I assaulted her (which I didn’t) at the police. That evening, she had her friends hop on a post on Facebook and began stalking me. I ended up calling the police to get her name so that I could block her and her friends. From that time forward, I kept my head down, never met anyone’s eyes, didn’t speak to anyone except to cashiers those few times I went out with pleasantries and please and thank you’s. For the next two years we were nearly isolated, only talking to each other. My husband would visit with his son now and then, but they lived an hour and a half away. I remember driving to six different stores to find toilet paper, paper towels, and other necessities. Our spare time was spent trying to find essentials for daily living. One would have thought we had a lot of spare time, but I thank the fact that we have horses to take care of, a lawn, garden, a bit of a forest behind us to walk in.
I lost respect for some I had known for years because they had an attitude of ‘well he was older, so he’d have died anyway’ and didn’t get vaccinated when it became available. You learn a lot about those you thought you knew when suddenly you find out they care nothing for the well-being of others, not even family members.
Living in a new area, knowing no one, you don’t meet anyone, you don’t socialize, and something changes in you.
Eleanor’s thoughts on how she has managed to survive during COVID, as difficult as it was, and still is. Three years on, two annual vacations to Puerto Rico, two vaccines, and two boosters later, I have managed to duck contracting COVID-19. I am a member of the No COVID Club. This morning, I administered an at-home COVID test after a ten day vacation in my home country of Puerto Rico. I tested negative. I am relieved. Whether or not folks have tested positive for COVID, most people I know, including myself, are still cautious and judicious about where we shop, dine, and how we travel. I still avoid dining indoors and in large gatherings. When I leave the house, I wear to bad behavior than before the Mypandemic.dailydecision making now involves questions such as: ‘should I fly or drive to that wedding?’ ‘Do I need brown sugar bad enough to go to the store today?’ ‘What did she really mean by that?’ ‘Should I travel to Puerto Rico this summer?’ ‘Is it time to begin accepting dinner dates and in-person book events to market my two books?’ Much thought and deliberation about potential risk is always involved. To some, this may sound a bit much, but to me, it feels weirdly “normal” in light of the state of the world and current events.
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A few friends and family members who contracted COVID have shared that they are glad to have had the disease as they have shored up antibodies against hospitalization (and death) with a potential future infection. That could be true. Me? I do not want the disease. I deal with daily autoimmune issues, thank you very Physically,much. I have escaped the virus. Emotionally, I know the stress of quarantining and doing lockdown solo for a year and a half with my dog—has affected me. Before the pandemic, I lived alone by choice. It’s another matter entirely to be forced to live alone. Of course, it affected my emotional health. These days, I am a bit more anxious, less happy-go-lucky, less impulsive, and more reactive
In 2020, I read an article that stopped me in my tracks. It spoke about men, women, and children in quarantine around the world living with their abuser(s). Folks were living with spouses or significant
Eleanor Parker Sapia is a novelist, poet, artist, blogger, and photographer. Eleanor lives in Berkeley County, West Virginia, where she is working on her second historical novel, The Laments, set in 1926 Puerto Rico.
a mask and keep hand sanitizer in my purse.
Will it ever change back for me?
I don’t know. I do know that during the nineteen-nineteen to nineteen-twenty pandemic it took a few years for most to become social again. So perhaps I will follow that pattern, except I will continue to care about people, but keep my socializing to a minimum. I began a new job in the town hall two weeks ago, and am friendly with everyone, but don’t share much about me. I do know COVID put a split in this area between those who care about others and those who care only about their own wants. I hope that will change.
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Currently, the US economy seems unstable. I believe we are in a recession. We are paying soaring gas prices and often dealing with limited food products on grocery shelves.
Committed, selfless social workers, mental health therapists, nurses, medical specialists, laboratory workers, hospital staff, surgeons, and doctors have been incredible during this global pandemic. Absolute heroes. They have experienced high rates of burnout. They are Healthexhausted.systems around the world were pushed beyond safe, sane limits. In Puerto Rico, doctors and nurses and medical specialists fled the island to the United States seeking better paying jobs.
numbers reached an ungodly, unacceptable number. For me, it was frightening to watch what was happening to women, and ultimately, to their children and families.
Europe is experiencing global warming with insanely high temperatures and fires across the continent. What’s next? I asked that question last month.
While millions of us may have escaped COVID infection, hospitalization, and death, none of us have come away unscathed, unaffected. Not one of us. I will never forget the 6.38 millions of souls who lost their lives in this global pandemic. Be kind. Practice patience. Breathe. Wear your mask. Get the two vaccines and available boosters. Laugh often. Make your mental health a priority. Live simply. Plant a garden. Choose peace. Most importantly, consider advocating to make COVID vaccines and boosters available to every single person on our planet. It’s vitally important to take care of everyone.
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Jack Remick is a poet, short story writer, and novelist who resides in Seattle
Jack’sWashington.Story is much more complicated because he was extremely ill. His view comes from his journey. For nineteen days, I was out of commission with COVID-19. COVID isn’t like any disease, flu, cold, or bacterium you have ever had or heard of. others, who in “normal” times, they would have left, separated from, or fled from. They were staying put for various reasons—fear, economic dependence, toxic emotional attachments, perceived safety. Tensions ran high. Best friends stopped speaking. Families took opposite sides politically. Children, who are dependent on stable adults to handle and maneuver unknown or dangerous situations, found themselves living with stressed out parents and caregivers, and dealing with at-home learning with stressed out teachers. All were doing their best. It wasn’t easy. Some folks lost control of themselves. The rates of domestic violence in the United States and Puerto Rico during 2020-2121 rose to frightening proportions. Murders of transsexual people reached dangerous levels in Puerto Rico. Femicides rose dramatically. Tragically, around the world, femicide is not new. However, during 2020-2021, when people were losing their jobs, their homes, their livelihood, their minds, the
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This is like no virus ever encountered. The virus continues to mutate. I was told early on that this will be with us for a long time. To suggest just how complex this virus is, we know now that the vaccines can produce allergic reactions in recipients. We know that once you are vaccinated twice and have had the booster shots, you can still come down with COVID. We also know that those who get the virus the second time will, in all probability, not die, but they will
The fact is that COVID does not let you recover. As it begins, COVID attacks the human body on different levels and systems: lungs, brain, liver, heart, kidneys, blood. And there is nothing you can do. In the early days, unless you were rich, politically connected, or privileged, there was no medication, no treatment. If you were admitted to an urgent/ emergency care unit, the attendants would hydrate you, check your vitals, take blood, select a CT or MRI, but beyond that, there was nothing that any medical professional could do. You waited. You hoped you didn’t die. You waited to see which of your already weakened systems would fail first. At the moment of crisis—if you were attached to a ventilator, you would be asked if your advance directives were in order. This meant that you are choosing to die. And over a million Americans did die from a disease that was said to be nothing but a flu. And that was Therenonsense.isa lot written about the “recovered”, and the “discharged,” but the facts remain that no one knows anything regarding COVID as it works through your body. No one knows where the virus goes when the human immune system does gain an advantage. No one knows when a system will “dive,” which means present as “recovered” before dropping into the morbidity of finality. COVID attacks the entire body. If you have a secondary affliction such as asthma or heart issues, you become more Thatvulnerable.iswhere I lived for nineteen days. My wife had a less severe case of COVID. We do not know how we contracted COVID. We do not know where. We wore masks, gloves, practiced hygiene as prescribed, but both of us contracted the virus.
suffer Long-COVID, possibly for the rest of their lives, and that means enormous pressure on the medical community. What does Long-COVID do to you? We who have “recovered” know that you lose your sense of taste and smell. You lose your ability to sleep. The virus attacks your brain. You might have fog brain for the rest of your life. You might have blood and coronary problems for the rest of your life. Yes. You have “recovered,” but that simply means you did not die from the virus. I did not die. But every day I live in a world of dizziness, shortness of breath, brain fog, and that big one—no sense of taste or smell. The doctors call it “anosmia,” and millions of the “recovered” have it. Just one small and very dangerous legacy COVID gives Whoyou. knows what else waits for COVID is an equal partner in destruction, death, and, the worst—Long-COVID. Called “recovered and or/ discharged.”
Marsha Casper Cook
As you have just read, COVID has interrupted our lives and taken away the innocence of enjoying the daily activities that once were taken for granted. At this point, I know some of what you have just read is difficult, but it’s true.
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us? How do you go about delivering a vaccine to ten-billion people, most of whom do not live in areas with enough drinking water, let alone refrigeration processes required to preserve and administer vaccines? We are not close to a solution. The virus pandemic is not over. We, in the US, have lost 1,048,232 to COVID. At its peak, COVID was killing over two-thousand Americans every day. Now, with the mutations, that number is lower, but people are still dying from the virus. Look at the cost to the medical Onsystem.theday I was admitted to Urgent Care/ Emergency services, the medical community in attendance was this: eight EMTs; four ambulance attendants; one ER nurse; three doctors; two CT technicians, a neurologist who read the scans; a work up nurse who drew blood, two transfer nurses who moved me from ER to Swedish isolation room; nine medical staff in three shifts; a food technician who delivered my meals to my room. And, while these wonderful people were “taking care of me” –one COVID patient--they were wearing smocks, masks, double gloves, and operating in the most hideous restrictions—all to prevent further spread of the virus.
Yes, most Americans think that the pandemic is past. But it is not. What can you do after your vaccinations and boosters? The protocols still obtain: WEAR YOUR MASK. Wear gloves. Wash your hands. Observe social distancing. Do all that and you might “recover” if you get COVID. And remember that “recover” doesn’t mean your life will go back to normal. There is no normal. Pay attention. Observe the protocols. At the moment, that’s the best we can do.
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I’m thankful for Carol, Jack, Eleanor, and Marta’s help in conveying how difficult COVID has been. I would like to mention I’m a resident of Illinois and to this day I’m so appreciative of how Illinois stepped to the plate and lowered our numbers. My deepest condolences for those that have lost their loved ones. May they rest in peace.
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I’m sure you’ve witnessed all kinds of bullying in this world, but have you ever imagined that people get bullied because they listen to IK-pop?amone of them. I’ve been called childish because some people believe that it is exclusively for teenagers, and although that was their explanation, teenagers all around the world, particularly in the Middle East, are bullied for listening to K-pop. It’s almost a taboo for some to admit that they listen to k-Kop because they are too afraid of being mocked.
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I’ll tell you something about K-pop: it’s the most innocent and heartwarming music I’ve ever heard. It’s just my opinion, but k-Kop idols inspired me to write novels. I’ve been on the edge of my life many times but listening to my idols singing or giving speeches inspired me. They make me want to do better, be better and I look up to them, even though some are younger than me. Seeing how hard they work day and night to provide their incredible music, drives me to do the same. They showed me that dreams may come true and that you can achieve anything out of nothing.
misunderstand it; it’s not silly, it’s not just for teenagers and it’s full of beautiful meanings and muses.
As a writer, poet and novelist, I have inspirations, as do many other artists. Every artist in the world has someone who inspires them. For me, it’s Jaebom from Got7, as well as all of the 7 members from Got7. Jackson Wang inspired me to write “My Faraway Star,” my first novel about the K-pop industry. Jaebom inspired me to write the second book in the sequel “Ace” and “To my Fairytale boy,” an entire novel about my love of K-pop and my hope of meeting my idol one day. Both books will be available soon. That is how my idols inspired me and many other K-pop fans. I made this intro to tell you about my favorite music, K-pop, and to tell you that many people
And today, because I have this beautiful Cosy corner in this outstanding magazine to express my feelings and give the world a glimpse into my world, I wanted to give a voice to teenagers and adults that, like me, have been inspired by their idols, saved by their music, and bullied for loving those incredible human beings who adore their fans and never miss an opportunity to tell them that they owe their success and everything to those who supports them.
K-POP MUSIC SAVED ME By Cosette Awad
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inspired and inspirational. And some of them hate K-Pop just because they despise what they don’t Iunderstand.usedtohate K-pop for no other reason than its popularity. I didn’t like K-Pop, therefore no one else should either. When I was younger, I used to mock and bully my best friend for her love of K-Pop and for posting videos and photos of idols on her social media accounts, and l ended up losing her friendship because of that. I regret doing that and I even decided to explore K-Pop. I’m a fan now.
I have learned that life is just like a movie and that we are the spectators. In every chapter you will have a good part and the good part is how Kpop music helped me and let me enter into “My Universe” and the bad part is when “Boys meet the devil”.
People hate K-Pop not because it is bad music; most dislike it because it is actually successful, and some people hate seeing others thrive. Others hate them because of their fanatical fans, which is unfair because the majority of fans are also
Those kind of people, the haters, are a “Lie” and they will even bring the “Best of me” and you instead of returning the hate by hate. We are better than all the monsters that broke us and hate us.
Joy used BTS songs titles to write this letter.
Kim Nam-joon from BTS once said at the United Nations speech, about self love, “No matter who you are, where you’re from, your skin color, your gender identity, just speak yourself. Find your name and find your voice by speaking yourself.”
So “Wake up” to the most beautiful moments in life. We are teenagers and we deserve all the love. So trust me that “You never walk alone” and “Face yourself” to “Be” and say “N.O” to those haters that doesn’t respect the K-Pop lovers, Army, Exo-L, STAY, BLINK, IGOT7, etc… For this, just know that “Love is not over”. Trust me, don’t “Run” from your past and give it a try to have a “Begin” ing, wishing upon a star that one day you will have a “Good day” maybe “Not today” but one day…
So that’s why you have to respect every person. I have been up to many bullying at school because I love Kpop, even if you are a good person people always waits for one mistake, one wrong thing you do to judge you. But BTS said “Love yourself” and inspired us to really love ourselves and put ourselves first. They let their army enter to the “Magic shop” and tell us that “Life goes on”, that’s why sometimes we have to make it “on” and I tell you not to listen to those monsters who don’t understand about how K-Pop made us grow with them and “Make it right” .
Hi, Im Joy , I’m a good person but a bad writer. All I want is to send a message to teenagers like me, to be strong. I want to talk about music, especially K-pop music.
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Everyone mocked me as a kid because I was the quiet and shy one. My classmates hated me and used to call me names. I used to come home every day and sit alone in my room. I had no social life, no friends, and I avoided leaving my house because I was terrified from strangers. I had no one to talk to and my confidence was non-existent. When you don’t have anyone to spend your time with in life, like other kids, you create your own world, your escape, which isn’t really an escape; it’s the only way to cope with reality. And my haven was Superjunior, Block B, as well as all K-Pop music. They were my only friends back then. And, to be honest, that is what has empowered me and helped me get through life until now. They encouraged me not to give up, especially Superjunior, and they helped me greatly in getting through everything; they were literally my childhood friends.
Years later, when I left high school four years ago, I was at my weakest, and I went to the
subjects like: bullying, elitism, mental health and their struggles. The more I got to learn about the song lyrics,the more I realised they were talking about things I was going through. They taught me through their music and their words that its never too late to achieve something. You just have to put your faith and mind into it and that you may go through difficulties but that means you are on the right path, just like Kim Namjoon said: “life is a sculpture that you cast as you make mistakes and learn from them”. I think that it’s unfair they get so much hate and harassment comments for helping people, at the same time they don’t have privacy. People think that they are a distraction, but to me they are my inspiration to keep going and never give up. Not only they are talented in music but also in society and famous people in society take their words seriously especially Rm. His words go straight to the heart. Bts made me believe that light doesn’t come without darkness. They carried the universe on their shoulders and wore it like a pair of wings.
Celine A.M. 16 From Lebanon
Some people think that k-pop is nothing but waste of time. But to me it’s everything, especially BTS. They changed my life completely to the better. Through their music they helped me overcome many difficulties in my life since their music filled the loneliness in my heart. Because it is about
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Later in school, my classmates who knew I liked K-Pop bullied and tormented me even more for loving K-Pop. Some of them used to call me “pig,” while others would make racist remarks like “Are they even boys?” “They all look the same.” “Their music is crap.”
Sabrina Breis / Content Creator from Lebanon My journey with K-Pop began seven years ago when I was sick and unable to accomplish anything with my body, which was why I couldn’t leave the house. That was how I got into K-Pop, and it was what got me through the days, but they were also my inspiration and the reason I smiled. BigBang and Suju were the first bands I listened to; they were different from what we knew, with a different language, culture, and style, but I adored their music and personality and they inspired me. When you love an idol, it is not necessary for them to be from your country, to share your culture and style, or even to speak your language. Music is a global language. I was criticized, especially because our idols looks different, and they used to tell me that only
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When I first expressed my interest in K-Pop, people mocked me, calling it foolish and a waste of time. Even my parents were irritated, and they scolded me for purchasing merchandise for my idols. My siblings and I are huge K-Pop fans, and our parents eventually came to understand and support us at the end. I learned a lot from them over the years. About their hard work and dedication, their boldness, courage, talent, and art.
People previously told me that I am childish for loving K-Pop, that I need to mature and that K-Pop is not suitable for my age. But they have no idea that I get my inspiration from my idols and their music, and that K-Pop is part of my life of Mona’s life. Meanwhile, my profession as a photographer and editor fills me with passion, art and life. All of their music videos and photoshoots are a constant source of inspiration for me; they are not just a part of the music industry; for me they are THE music Myindustry.wish is that one day the world appreciate K-Pop.
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extreme of not wanting to exist, but the universe had other plans for me. Because of Superjunior songs, shows, and everything else they do, I was able to conquer every challenge. They helped me a lot and literally make me smile even when I don’t have the will to. Leeteuk especially, brightens my days with his smile and laughter. I can’t help but smile whenever I see his smile. And that is my story of how I survived.
My journey with K-Pop began seven years ago, when I immersed myself in their art and music, learning a lot about South Korea, Koreans, and their culture.
teenagers listen to K-Pop and that it makes no sense. Their main justification was that they practiced a different faith than us. “When are you going to grow up?” they used to tell me. They have no idea that this is art. And it has no gender and no age. As a content creator, I am always motivated by them, my ideas and my emotions when I listen to their music. Especially in terms of how they create and film their music videos. No one, in my opinion, can compete with them, especially in my country, where they are criticized without reason. In conclusion, K-Pop music is full of emotions and remains a source of inspiration for K-Pop lovers.
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Lilianny OLiveira 39 Agent from FromBrazil complete ignorant to huge fan. It’s actually not hard anymore to understand the popularity of kpop idols and songs. But I honestly see beyond the catchy beats and the cute faces. The hard work they invest and songbehindprofessionalismtheeverysingleandperformance is what first got me. Diving into this new style for me showed also a dark side that comes for fans of kpop. As our idols get more popular, we anonymous fans become less popular among our friends and family. The followers that starts to unfollow, the relatives that throw a “ funny” ( not so funny) joke and that friend that “can’t understand” this love for kpop. So we listen to “you are too old for this” or “you are too young”, “find something useful to do”. And this is how bully develop in silence among the ones that should care about us. Since comes from people near us, that “white kind of bullying”, we just realised that the impact was so devastated when the wound is open. There’s also the bullying coming from complete strangers everytime there’s news about any kpop song or idols on social media. We comment always expecting those haters behind their screens to “draw their swords and apply “justice to humanity”. As if somehow their lives becomes more useful if they spread their anti kpop spray towards fans. My message is for you, who can’t understand why we are kpop fans. Try to get some knowledge about it. Who knows, you might even end up liking. If not, at least get out of this bubble and understand that the world is big with variety of cultures and people, and we all have different tastes in life. Everyone has the right to listen to their own music and they should be allowed to do it without feeling ashamed or having the need to hide it.
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leader,orientedareleader,affectsPurpose-drivendrivescommittedparadigmtheintegrity.mission,leadershipdangerousandthemthetheirhavealsothemvalues,decisionsorientation,orientationbalanceexhibitingentrepreneurialleadershipIt•employees.Purpose-orientedisatypeofentrepreneurialmindsetofleadersaninterestingbetweenhuman-andpurpose-aligningbusinesswithcoreprinciples,andbeliefs,allowingtonotonlybepatientbutcatalyzeaction.Allleaderstomaketrade-offs,butstrongconcentrationonpurpose/intentionallowstomakequickjudgmentsgetridofpotentiallysituations.It’sastylethatprioritizescharacter,andLeadersthatfollowpurpose-drivenleadershipareprofoundlytoacausethattheirdecisions.leadershipmorethanjusttheandtheadvantageswidespread.Apurpose-entrepreneurialaccordingtothe
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employersrelationshipsahuman-orientedEntrepreneurialHuman-orientedleadership’sapproachismissiontobuildpositivewithbothandemployees to generate a more efficient working Wheneverenvironment.leadersadopt this mindset, they get their team’s support and trust. People are more sensitive to their job and career in today’s dynamic corporate environment, according to research. If workers are offered new job chances but do not feel valued, they will begin to move jobs. As a result, one of the most crucial factors that an entrepreneurial leader should be aware of is recognizing and rewarding employee
Leadership comes with many challenges and opportunities as leadership expert Jo Miller says: “Leadership is not about doing more. It’s about switching from doing to Entrepreneursleading.” face multiple challenges to the mindsets required to evolve themselves into market leaders. Leaders lead teams in the enterprises to think and act productively. It does not matter what leaders are doing, it only matters how they present themselves. People are mainly interested to know the success stories. There need to be some entrepreneurial mindsets that can transform one into a successful business leader. An entrepreneur is a person who takes risks and enjoys profits, as well. Entrepreneurs, to carve a niche, require innovative business ideas or models, a well-trained team and a task-oriented approach. To achieve any milestones a business entrepreneur should work hard to bring their dreams to Entrepreneuriallife.
Amit Sarawagi, Founder, AMOOLAYA Transformation Foundation, India.
allowingtheiralsowithdeveloporientedCompaniesaccomplishments.thatuseahuman-leadershipapproachlong-termrelationshipstheiremployeeswhileimprovingthequalityofleadershipandservices,theirstakeholders
to experience new levels of satisfaction. As a result, an entrepreneur’s human-oriented perspective should be more inclusive and encouraging toward their organization and
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Making of a Successful Leader: 5 Entrepreneurial Mindsets
mindsets: Five unique mindsets of Entrepreneurial human-oriented,Leaders-purposeoriented,
atransformamakeuncoverteam-orientedlearning-oriented,andtask-orientedvariousaspectsthatanentrepreneurbecomeleader.Theseattributescananyindividualintoleaderintheirbusinessor entrepreneurial field.
Employers frequently look for these qualities while making recruiting and other key decisions. It’s not only about completing the task at hand. Rather, it is doing the assignment in collaboration with other members of your team in a way that benefits everyone. When a team member works with a team-oriented mindset and has excellent teamwork abilities, the team as a whole advances. Now, if every team member works in this manner, the team as a whole will benefit. This occurs as a result of everyone’s combined efforts. This mindset encourages a spirit of teamwork and promotes healthy competition. Moreover, this also instills a sense of oneness, all of which will directly contribute to the company’s
An•growth.Task-orientedentrepreneurial leader’s task-oriented mindset focuses on attaining goals, delegating assignments, establishing clear processes, and issuing deadlines to ensure that all team members stay engaged and deliver their portion of the project on time. Leaders that employ this approach create a well-organized workplace with clearly defined priorities and schedules.
• Team-orientedTeam-orientedmindset requires putting the team’s well-being first. It is an essential quality for someone who aspires to perform his or her best for the team. Teamwork abilities include being able to coordinate well with teammates, being able to coordinate well with teammates, cooperating with them, and even tolerating them.
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Finally, leaders do agree that effective communication channels should be established to allow a smooth exchange of information. Successful leaders always make themselves available to anyone interested in their ideas or business. Leaders need to pay serious attention to everyone and take cues from their inputs while also acknowledging their contributions.
It is very important to consider task-oriented leadership which focuses on developing simple routines. The task-oriented approach helps in boosting productivity and profits. Further, taskoriented leadership requires an incentives system to motivate all employees to stay on target, as well as the leader’s willingness to assist his team when they confront difficulties. To help your staff understand their duties and responsibilities by guiding them, answering questions, and providing Task-orientedfeedback.
leadership is frequently contrasted with human-oriented leadership. Human-oriented leaders think that team members’ contentment leads to increased productivity and stimulates creativity and innovation.
• Learning-orientedLearning-orientedentrepreneurial leader, on the other hand, is someone who picks up signals from all directions and isn’t hesitant to experiment or take chances. This class of leaders are more likely to listen to a variety of sources, use technology to identify and organize insights, ensure that everyone is heard, and try and learn as much as possible from experiments. Employees are inspired to take comparable risks because of the experimental character of their actions and deliberate risk-taking.
experts, demonstrates a consistent concentration on a mission or intention. Purpose-driven entrepreneurs, in particular, are successful in articulating the overarching objectives and aligning stakeholders with that vision to survive long periods before seeing results.
The Carso Knows Climate Change Well, and You?
The Karst is full of thousands of caves of various sizes, some of these caves are open to the public, and the most famous are the Giant cave, the caves of San Canziano and the Postojna caves. The Karst is crossed by a very rich network of paths, which can be traveled on foot or by mountain bike, which branch off through the various aspects of the landscape: from the reforested hills
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Who is Carso?
The Carso (Karst) is a rugged and fascinating promontory, dotted with small stone villages, with a viewpoint from which the gaze can enter the blue of the sea, also known as the Karst plateau is a historical region, a rocky limestone plateau that stretches between Friuli-Venezia Giulia (Italy), Slovenia and Croatia, historically known for having been the scene of violent battles during the First World War, between Italian and Austro-Hungarian troops.
with black pine, to the meadows, up to the stony karst moor, passing through the characteristic vegetation karst, better maintained in the less urbanized areas. In the fascinating eastern edge of the Italian peninsula, white limestone rocks, red sinkholes and large expanses of green cross between light Mediterranean breezes and the Yes,bora.the Karst lives, it has a soul, just like you who are reading this article of mine, on July 19, suddenly, this living being catches fire and the flames rush south, towards the villages of the DuinoAurisina district, in truth of the Karst very little remained mostly scrub yellowed by drought that is quickly becoming a flame. And so it was. The impact of climate change is manifesting itself more strongly this summer than in previous years, confirming a trend that sees increasing temperatures and environmental disasters; a scenario widely predicted by the studies of the past decades. In several points of the globe, in this regard the earth is giving us important signs of suffering that now, having reached a stone’s throw from our gardens and our homes, we can no longer Inignore.drought conditions, the Karst is a land sensitive to the flare-up of fires, so much so that a recent study on the impact of climate change on the aquifers of these areas has highlighted the characteristics of this particular soil that expose it
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to flames: its great permeability allows the immediate infiltration of water into the subsoil; the rains and melted snows sink into underground waterways that quench the thirst of the surrounding non-karst areas, while very few watercourses remain on the surface. The karst soil absorbs the water, drains it deeply and remains dry until the next rains. The heat of the last few summers is therefore a crucial factor for the spread of fires, since the quality of the soil, dried by drought, does not allow for the retention of the moisture necessary to dampen the flames. “Coniferous forests are like gasoline with this Fordrought”.thehealth of a soil so susceptible to water infiltration, such as the karst one, the presence of woodland vegetation on the surface is fundamental: essential for the infiltration and storage of water in underground systems, the karst flora is protective. , a blanket over the underground waterways that regulates the temperatures and the microclimate of the area, above and below ground. In short, the Karst is well aware of climate change and despite the overwhelming evidence, many deny the risks our planet is Manyrunning.people around the world believe that climate change is an invention, or at least that it is an event that is not imminent and all in all less dangerous than the data indicate. For this reason, social psychologists, cognitive scientists and neuroeconomists have long been questioning what are the reasons for climate denial. I believe that the answer lies in the functioning of the brain., Or rather, to activate our alarm system, it is not enough that a stimulus is
ENVIRONMENT and envelops the whole area in a heavy and pestiferous blanket. An apocalyptic sunset, where ash and smoke are rekindled by the reflections of the sun, transforming the spectacle of the sun setting over the Gulf of Trieste into a macabre warning. A heavy, gloomy atmosphere, far from all hope. This tragedy has violently reminded us how everything we take for granted at any moment can be destroyed, only in these moments of pain and adrenaline do they make us find cohesion and unity, for our land and the desire to collaborate with a goal. common and a purpose: to defend the beauty of our planet and life together, the only fire that we will never put out. In fact, the climate change risk remains high, where greenhouse gas emissions into the atmosphere should be drastically reduced by 2050, a date still perceived as distant from the vast majority of the population, just as geographically distant appears the North Pole, whose ice is melting, and Southeast Asia, devastated
by the floods. It is this space-time gap that determines the detached attitude towards environmental issues, an attitude amplified by the defensive mechanism of repression, which we unconsciously use in many contexts to chase away worries. “It is a process that is completely analogous to the one we carry out with regard to other equally fearful thoughts, such as that of death, for example. For this reason, initiatives such as the community called “Carsoniamoci” are born, an initiative born under the wing of the National (Italy) and European Association, the “Green Hydrogen Project” which deals with Ecological Transition and Hydrogen, Carsoniamoci to raise funds from make available to families and the Public Administration for targeted interventions but above all to disseminate the above, transferring correct information and again to keep alive the memory of this fire that devastated the wonderful Karst.
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Earth Overshoot Day, July 28 is the average overshoot day globally, but each country starts living on ecological debt at different times. To be clearer each country has its own Overshoot Day.
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EARTH OVERSHOOT DAY 2022 - ARE WE LEARNING AT ALL?
Which countries have the biggest ecological footprint?
By Bojana BogojevicOurcontinentis not just experiencing heatwaves on Theland.Mediterranean Sea is experiencing a devastating heatwave this July. Water temperatures are as high as 6.2 degrees of Celsius (11.2 F) above normal!!!! It is important to underline here that it is much harder for water to warm than to air, due to water heat capacity. I do hope after all those data you will change your behavior because we must move the date, we must change, or suffering would be promised.
Remember climate change is not just important, it is vital for the future!
Which countries have the biggest ecological footprint?
Earth Overshoot Day fell on July 28. It marks the imaginary point when humanity’s demand exceeds what Earth can regenerate in that Ityear.isa shame that every year from The Paris Agreement adoption, which was in Paris, on 12 December 2015 and entered into force on 4 November 2016. Overshoot day comes earlier and earlier. Only on August 22, 2020, we move the date but it was due pandemic restriction and lockdowns.
Earth Overshoot Day, July 28 is the average overshoot day globally, but each country starts living on ecological debt at different times. To be clearer each country has its own Overshoot Day.
The international research organization Global Footprint Network, has been calculating this Earth Overshoot date since 1970. What does Earth Overshoot Day 2022 mean for humanity? It means that from this day onwards, we have used every bit of natural resources that Earth can provide within one calendar year and are now living on ecological credit.
If you want to find out how many planets humanity would need if they were to live like you, here you can a tool to calculate your personal overshoot day (a tool to calculate your personal overshoot day). So, are you afraid?
Heatwaves are all around us. We are witnessing devastating wildfires around the Europe.
The Art of Aging WORDS
So much advice from those still so young when I became inquisitive on this topic as my 60th birthday loomed over me. I took one long, hard look in the mirror. Was I supposed to be ashamed of my now totally silver hair, a few small laugh lines around the hazel eyes that had a determined glint to them? Was I supposed to declare my life was over when I felt it had only recently begun? I am unencumbered with children, grandchildren, and a husband who works away from home. We had moved countries, downsized our home to a small Villa, and downsized our bountiful garden, so when I turned into my 70s, I could manage it, our pets given to others who would love them. And yes, I recognised an art to all of this; I could see it as losing what I loved, losing the peer position in the family hierarchy, being depressed that now I was being asked by my children, “To be careful, Mum,” or “Are you eating well? Are you taking your vitamins? Are you socialising, Mum? Or I could be grateful I was no longer playing tag with family, work, and monthly accounts. I was no longer chief cook and bottle washer; my family had grown up and now had their own. And as I looked in that mirror, deciding there were two ways to go, grieve for once what was a tall, slim, attractive, natural brunette with olive skin and hazel eyes, or fall in love with whom I had become. A senior with a few minor health problems, having had polio as a child, I was told by the professionals who had not had polio’ what to expect as I aged. Really? The mirror showed my figure had changed, no longer a slim waistline, even though I swam regularly. The advice I was given you become what you see. I saw wisdom, experience, love, and a different mature face; looking back at me, I saw a life of hope, fun and laughter. There was nothing to be sad about; it still felt like the world was my oyster; why not? That was ten years past. I’m now grateful for a smaller home, and this once house-proud woman finds dusting and cleaning impedes being creative. As for the garden, well, I still grow my herbs and greens, nothing like a fresh garden. However, I can proudly say I encouraged quite a few people to garden, and our young neighbours enjoy picking their daily veggies from our garden. Why not? It’s all about community
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and conversations. Pets and two goldfish are all I need to keep Feng Shui peaceful in my home. Today, I have studied ‘Art Therapy’ and gained my certificates in Art therapy, becoming a number one bestselling author. I have 14 books published, including children’s and adult fantasy. Would you believe they made a movie from one of my books? I still pinch myself. I judge two amazing global entrepreneur awards. I’m a speaker on the art of aging and motivation, and my art is sought after; six exhibitions have been held. We have travelled around Europe and Asia, caravanned around Australia, and met many wonderful people who all say Age is in the mind. I found that interesting, so I joined a psychology course, which delved very deeply into religion, Philosophy, plus DNA about how our thinking is cultivated not by (our mother) but by a lineage of females in the direct bloodline. Why? So I could understand what was happening to my ageing friends, husband and myself. And how my thought process was changing as well. I freely wander the beaches when I feel like it; a thermos of tea and a biscuit or two on a beautiful day. There is nothing like it. I wander the shores when it’s blowing a gale, feeling the wind in my long silver hair and the sea spraying on my face. I’m grateful this country is war free; I cannot imagine what women of my Age in places like Ukraine or any other war-torn country would feel. I allow myself to be humbled by nature by the birth and death of nature as the seasons pass. I allow myself the time to reminisce about life. Do I grieve for what might have been? No, I see it as a lesson. I learned to grow into who I am today. I also disagree with many experts on this matter of aging; when will the experts see aging as part of life? Why should we succumb to the adverts, watching senior women learn the tricks of makeup to look 40 years when their bodies say I’m in my 60s +? What’s so awful about aging? We should celebrate. We got this far; what’s next? I question professionals who cry, try this herb or that and feel the sex drive return. Why? Some days you just want to sit, have that hot coffee and take it all in. My advice does it, and there is no harm in contemplating the view. I would also advise when you are diagnosed with a senior’s disease. Question it. Babies are born with
any senior is to enjoy what we have, go easy on yourself, never stop learning, and please give away a smile every day, whether it’s to yourself or another; you will benefit. There is an art to ageing, and I have no doubt we all do it our way. Enjoy.
May you all have enough.
www.kezwickhamstgeorge.comKez
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‘You become what you see. What you seedetermines what you believe.”
Join social groups and keep a conversation going. A hint of how to do that is to leave your companions with a question or invite them to give you a question when you next meet the conversation continues.
many conditions. It’s not just the seniors. Please keep your thoughts healthy and motivate yourself in your thinking, as it’s not only about the body. We have wisdom if we combine the mind, body, and spirit.
Think about this: if you do your best every day, your best is a gift; why would you think any less of it?
“The most powerful way of inspiringpeople is with images. My goal is tomotivate women to embrace life without fear. To provide examples of womenbetween the age of 40 and, currently,100, so that any woman can open thisbook and see themselves recognized.”
by Kez Wickham St George
I have been advised
I have found this pure suggestion fun. Don’t be afraid if discussing the body as we age, you will be amazed at how some folks handle it well, and some walk away. Our bodies change, and the mind is a different organ. Nothing is healthier than a candid conversation, going to a movie with a friend and deliberating on what you watched, as you will each see it from a different Myperspective.adviceto
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