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HOW TO ALLOCATE FUNDS WHEN PLANNING A WEDDING | 5
It’s important that couples recognize what’s most important to them when planning their wedding and how much it will cost.
DREAMING OF IDEAL WEDDING LOCALES IN SOUTHERN MINNESOTA | 7
Wedding bells are ringing, but not pealing as often from church belfries.
WHAT TO KNOW BEFORE A WEDDING GOWN SHOPPING TRIP | 14
Pointers to help when shopping for your wedding gown.
CONSIDER WEDDING FLOWERS CAREFULLY | 16
Variables to consider when selecting wedding flowers.
TOP TRENDS IN TUXES | 18
A look at what sets tuxedos apart and some noteworthy trends.
THE WEDDING BANDS | 20
Steps in preparing you for wedding band shopping.
SIMPLE TIPS TO PLAN A FUN AND RELAXING COCKTAIL HOUR
Cocktail hours are a great way to keep guests entertained between the ceremony and the reception.
HOW TO FIND THE RIGHT WEDDING RECEPTION ENTERTAINMENT
Tips to keep in mind when looking for the right entertainers to establish the right vibe.
CHOOSING EXPERIENCES OVER GIFTS
Newlyweds are increasingly appreciating quality time and shared adventures rather than physical items.
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Whether it’s a lavish, blacktie affair or a laid back gathering in the backyard, a couple’s wedding day
is a momentous, and often costly, occasion. According to the online wedding planning resource the average cost of a wedding in 2023 was $33,000. That’s a significant sum for couples to spend, and it’s understandable if couples aren’t sure how to allocate funds for their big day. s important that couples recognize what’s most important to them when planning their weddings. Recognition of those priorities can help couples determine how to allocate their funds. Equally helpful can be how past couples have spent on their weddings. Utilizing data
The Knot 2023 Real Weddings Study, the wedding experts at The Knot (theknot.com) have calculated general percentages of a wedding budget couples can devote to various components.
• Venue: 37 percent
• Catering: 28 percent
• Band: 12 percent
• Wedding rings: 9 percent
• Photography: 8 percent
• Flowers: 8 percent
• Alcohol: 8 percent
• Rehearsal dinner: 8 percent
• Videography: 7 percent
• Couples’ attire: 7 percent
• Rentals: 6 percent
• DJ: 5 percent
• Wedding party attire: 4 percent
• Guest entertainment: 3 percent
• Transportation: 3 percent
• Ceremony music: 3 percent
• Cake and desserts: 2 percent
• Stationery: 2 percent
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• Officiant: 1 percent
• Favors and gifts: 1 percent
• Additional jewelry: 1 percent
Couples with a keen eye might notice these percentages add up to significantly more than 100 percent. That’s because the budgetary breakdown reflects personal preferences, individual couples’ budgets and what couples can expect to spend on certain components. For example, The Knot data indicates a couple that prefers a band for their reception instead of a DJ may need to allocate roughly twice as much of their budget to accommodate that preference. In addition, couples who do not intend to pay for wedding party members’ attire can find other ways to allocate those funds, which The Knot data indicates typically accounts for roughly 4 percent of a wedding budget.
dinner. However, couples’ parents may offer to pay for that meal, which can leave more room in the budget for other expenses. In addition, The Knot reported that the percentage of couples asking a friend or family member to serve as their wedding officiant rose from 37 percent in 2015 to 51 percent in 2020. Wedding officiants do not often eat up a significant portion of a couple’s wedding budget (1 percent), but this is another
expense that modern couples may not need to account for.
Another variable to consider is family. According to The Knot data, couples allocated an average of 8 percent of their budgets to their rehearsal
Weddings can cost tens of thousands of dollars. Couples who determine how best to allocate their wedding budgets may find it far simpler to plan their big day. R
By JANE TURPIN MOORE Guest Contributor
Wedding bells are ringing, but they’re not pealing as often from church belfries.
In 2023, an American Enterprise Institute survey reported that only 30% of weddings since 2013 had occurred in churches.
And the average age of marriage has consistently crept higher, with the online wedding website The Knot sharing that, as of 2022, Minnesotans were marrying on average at 30.
Even so, the Pew Research Center confirms that 75% of Americans are married by age 40.
Where, if not in churches, are all these nuptials happening?
In lovely settings, sometimes rural, where all-in-one events—some starting with cocktail
hours, progressing to ceremonies, continuing to dinner and dancing—are increasingly popular.
Reception halls, wineries, tricked-out barns, golf and country clubs and straight-up farms are now more the norm than the exception.
Couples seeking the ideal spot to suit their style, personalities and budget are in luck; southern Minnesota brims with lovely sites catering to weddings.
Two resourceful, hard-working families are among those who have created wedding locales in the area. Red Barn Farm, Northfield, and Oak View Weddings and Events, Owatonna, are family-run operations where enthusiastically hosting the bride and groom’s perfect day is the name of the game.
Oak View Weddings and Events, 7921 S. County Road 45, Owatonna. oakviewweddingsandevents.com, 507-456-4359, dan@oakviewweddingsandevents.com.
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personalized experience for couples,” said Katie Haberman, coowner of Oak View Weddings and Events with her husband Dan.
“They can add their own flair and get as creative as they want to nowadays.”
Katie contrasts that to her own nuptials 29 years ago, which she terms as fairly “cookie-cutter.”
“Each wedding these days is unique and tailored to each couple to suit them and their style, which is really fun.”
The eight-acre Oak View Weddings and Events offers lush green nature settings yet is located six miles south of Owatonna, just east of I-35 and south of Highway 14. That means Oak View is chosen by couples not only from the greater Owatonna area but from throughout the region.
Dan Haberman grew up there, and before Oak View was developed into a wedding venue it was a pumpkin patch and landscaping business.
“People coming to buy trees, plants and pumpkins were always telling us how beautiful it was here,” said Katie, who credits Dan for his professional landscaping skills.
Thus, Oak View became a go-to wedding site by request.
“One year, we had friends ask if they could get married in our yard,” said Katie. “The next year, three more couples wanted to get married here.”
The Habermans are now in their eighth year of offering a thriving wedding venue that’s been shaped specifically to meet the requests and needs associated with weddings.
Accommodating up to 220 guests, Oak View has three fireplaces, multiple fountains and abundant natural surroundings that allow for numerous photo op-
All buildings — a reception space, bar, bridal suite and groom suite — are temperature-controlled for everyone’s maximum comfort.
“We have two ceremony sites—the Grand Willow Tree ceremony area and the Enchanted Woods Ceremony area,” said Katie, mentioning that the latter is new beginning this year.
“It’s a fantastic indoor/outdoor experience, it’s magical here at night and brides and photographers love the photos they get.”
Oak View’s pricing is posted directly on their website so couples can immediately assess how the costs will work with their budgets.
“They get the venue from 10 a.m. to midnight, can take their time decorating and hang onto the suites throughout the day and evening,” said Katie.
“We do everything we can to keep things stress-free for the brides so they can enjoy the entire day.”
Not only is Oak View family operated—besides Katie’s hands-on expertise and Dan’s landscaping and maintenance prowess, their son assists Dan with all behind-the-scenes work and their daugh-
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ter helps with Oak View’s website, photos and social media presence—it’s also a family-friendly place for weddings.
“We have corn hole, giant Jenga and a playground area for younger kids,” said Katie.
Oh, and a couple’s dog (or cat) can be part of the ceremony too, if desired.
And Oak View lets couples choose from a list of preferred caterers, all of whom are from southern Minnesota.
“They know our site and that makes it seamless for everyone,” said Katie. “We offer a variety of choices and the response has been phenomenal. The brides are thrilled the whole time, which is what we want.”
The Habermans are happy to answer questions about specifics, though their website is quite thorough.
“We’re booking into 2026, but we have some spots left for 2025,” assured Katie. “There’s plenty of time to have a wedding.”
And at Oak View, every wedding is a special occasion.
“It’s so fun,” said Katie. “We get to help couples have their best day, and we make it as magical for them as we can.”
Red Barn Farm, 10063 110th St. East, Northfield. redbarnfarmweddingsmn.com, 507-664-0304, contact@redbarnfarmweddingsmn.com.
Tammy and Patrick Winter, along with their children Hannah and Max, have endured the storms of life so you and your wedding party won’t have to.
“Wedding days can be chaotic, but we have the experience and service mentality to make your day extra special,” said Patrick.
“We do the work and make this a one-stop shop so you can have a good time on what will be one of the best days of your life.”
Over the past 15 years, the Winter family has perfected the art of hosting weddings, and they’ve created the perfect rural site (located about four miles east of Northfield) to do so.
“We have 10 beautifully landscaped acres for weddings from May through October,” said Patrick.
“Every photographer is always excited with the structures and agricultural settings because there are photo opps everywhere.”
The Winters say Red Barn Farm offers a “re-
laxed vibe” that sets the tone for every wedding, starting from the moment couples tour the facility.
“It’s their big day, and we want to make it as relaxed and easy-going as possible by taking care of the details so they can enjoy themselves,” Patrick said, noting they are poised to begin their 16th season of
Now, about those storms…
The existing 6,600 square-foot red barn, just over five years old, is a climate-controlled space that comfortably accommodates up to 300 guests. Well-appointed indoor restrooms, an indoor/outdoor bar, custom-made tables so handsome that most couples opt only for table runners, separate getting-ready rooms for the bridal parties and accessible entries are some of the main space’s highlights.
But on Sept. 20, 2018, the Winter family was in the “old” red barn celebrating a family birthday when a tornado blew through the area. They made it safely to the barn’s basement and silage room in the nick of time, sheltering in place until it was over.
“We were all okay, but when we crawled out, we were in shock,” Patrick recalled, explaining that trees, debris and buildings were in disarray— and the old barn was destroyed.
“They say, ‘what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger,’ and good things can come from bad,” said Patrick. “That’s crazy, but it’s true.
“Now we have a state-of-the-art wedding barn and farm that was created just for weddings and events, not for milking cows and drying hay.”
The Winters incorporated into the new structure the wish list they’d jotted down in the preceding years of providing weddings — because constant improvement, even when everything seems to go perfectly, is always their goal.
“We review everything annually and make a list for the next year,” said Patrick.
What differentiates Red Barn Farm from similar rural wedding venues?
“Our proximity to Northfield — only about five minutes away — means there are multiple bus services couples can hire,” said Patrick, also noting that guests are welcome to leave cars parked on site overnight for no additional fee. In fact, there’s no parking fee to begin with, and no security guards are required since the venue is in a safe, quiet setting.
“And we don’t require a day-of wedding planner,” he continued. “The money you’d spend for
one can be redirected for flowers or saved for something else because we and our staff are on site the whole day.
“We greet and orient the vendors, we know how the days flow, we are a full-service operation. If you have a need, we’re here to fill it.”
That said, Red Barn Farm charges a reliable base price that won’t inch upward with unexpected charges.
“There are no ‘extras,’” said Patrick. “We have one flat fee that includes everything, including taxes, insurance, garbage and recycling removal, set-up and tear-down. It’s full-service, one-stop shopping.”
photo opps.
A golf cart is available to help shuttle guests and bridal party members around the property, whether needed for mobility purposes or to keep the bride’s gown intact while moving between
“Brides never want to sweat,” smiled Patrick. He emphasized that their getting-ready suites are available for use from start to finish, and that Red Barn Farm’s liquor permit allows bridal
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parties to bring drinks of their choice—perhaps mimosas for the bridesmaids and beer for the guys—to enjoy during the preparation and photo hours preceding guests’ arrival.
Oh, and don’t forget the dartboard in the men’s suite, corn hole in the yard and horses and chickens to delight everyone.
“Our horses love wedding days,” said Patrick.
“They soak up the attention, and kids love to see the animals.”
Tammy’s penchant for flowers, combined with her green thumb, mean the Red Barn Farm’s grounds are always attractive and colorful.
But it’s the welcoming smiles of the Winter family that likely put wedding parties and guests most at ease.
“We’re the experts,” Patrick said. “You’re hopefully only doing a wedding once, but we do them up to 50 times a year so we definitely have the expertise to help you out.
“You’re treated like guests in our own backyard, and we have the experience and service mentality to make your wedding day extra special.
“We enjoy contributing to a beautiful day for couples who are starting their lives together.” R
Freelance writer/collaborative pianist Jane Turpin Moore grew up in the Mankato area and is now based in Northfield. She blogs at timeformoore566445504.wordpress.com and fields emails at jturpinmoore@gmail.com.
Other wedding venue options in the Southern Minn Scene region include:
Ahavah Cottage, 510 MN-60 W., Elysian. ahavahcottage.com, 507-384-7581, ahavahcottage@ gmail.com.
Cannon River Winery, 421 Mill St. W., Cannon Falls. cannonriverweddings.com, 651-7925044, events@cannonriver winery. com.
Chankaska Creek Ranch
Winery & Distillery, 1179 E. Pearl St., Kasota. chankaskawineryweddings.com, 507-931-0089, ext. 104, cynthias@chankaskawines.com.
The Capitol Room, 419 S. Minnesota Ave., St. Peter. capitolroom.com, 507-380-0220, hello@ capitolroom.com
The Gardens of Castle Rock, 26601 Chippendale Ave., Northfield. thegardensofcastlerock. com, 651-264-9510, info@thegardensofcastlerock.com.
Indian Island Winery, 18018 631st Ave.., Janesville. Indianislandwinery.com/weddings, 507317-7914, indianislandwiner y@ yahoo.com.
JR’s Barn Wedding Venue, 21573 45th St., Waldorf. jrsbarn. com, 507-327-7047, jrsbarn@ gmail.com
The Mill Event Center, 310 2nd Ave. SW, Waseca. themilleventcentermn.com, 507-461-1434, themillwaseca@gmail.com.
Next Chapter Winery, 16945 320th St., New Prague. nextchapterwinery.com/weddings, 612756-3012, nextchapter winery@ gmail.com.
Northfield Golf Club, 707 Prairie St., Northfield. northfieldgolfclub.com/weddings, 507-6454026, ext. 3, beth@northfieldgolfclub.com.
North Star Farm Event Center, 34234 322nd St., Le Sueur. northstarfarmevents.com, 612-275-7195.
Owatonna Country Club, 1991 Lemond Road, Owatonna. owatonnacc.com/weddings-andevents, 507-451-6120.
Shepherd’s Hill Farm, 10970 Cody Lake Trail, Montgomery. shepherdshillfarmmn.com, 612889-9963, events@shepherdshillfarmmn.com.
Starfire Event Center, 206 2nd Ave. SW, Waseca. On Facebook; 507-461-1387, starfireeventcenter@wasecamac. com.
The 3 Ten Event Venue, 310 Central Ave. N., Faribault. 3teneventvenue.com, 651-2536584, sales@3teneventvenue. com.
Thyme on Main, 100 State St. N., Waseca. thymeonmain.com/ weddings, 507-201-3225, sarahkay@thymeonmain.com.
Weddings mark a turning point from one stage in life to another. The significance of that transition is perhaps one reason why couples and their guests dress so nicely for a wedding ceremony and reception. Formal garb is a wedding tradition, and guests anxiously await seeing which type of gown a bride will wear. In western cultures, white wedding gowns have been the standard since the nineteenth century and are believed to symbolize purity and grace. In eastern cultures, wedding gowns often have been elaborate, colorful creations that have their own symbolic meanings unique to various areas of the world.
Shopping for a wedding gown can spark mixed emotions. While it is exciting to try on some remarkable garments, there also is the pressure of knowing all eyes will be on you while wearing this couture creation. Narrowing down wedding gown prospects can take vision, time and patience. The following pointers can help when it comes time to visit bridal shops.
Make an appointment
Many bridal shops operate by appointment only. That’s because the staff wants to devote complete attention to a client, and having people simply walk in from the street can draw their attention away and/or lead to long wait times. Identify the stores you want to visit, and then call to secure your time slot.
Narrow down styles
Think about what your personal style might be and how you want to look on your wedding day If you’re not sure about the vocabulary surrounding dress silhouettes, visit Pinterest or Instagram and save images of dresses that you love. Then you can show the sales staff what you are thinking instead of going in empty-handed.
Keep an open mind
Try on a few different styles even if you have a particular dress in mind. You never know if something might be a better fit for your body type or the scope and style of your wedding unless you give it a go.
Start the process early
Unlike off-the-rack clothing, most wedding
shops will have to order your dress and have it shipped. Then comes a few weeks for alterations. KWH Bridal notes eight to 12 months before a wedding is a good time to choose and order a dress. Brides magazine says most made-to-order wedding gowns take about six to nine months to create. There also are three separate fittings to ensure the gown will fit like a glove.
Invite a handful of confidantes
It’s best not to arrive at the shopping appointment with an entire entourage. Pick, at the most, four people whose opinions you trust; otherwise, it could be a case of too many cooks in the kitchen. As a bride-to-be you’ll already be anxious, and you’ll want soothing, supportive people with you.
Plan your budget
Know well in advance what you can afford to spend. According to data from The Knot, wedding attire accounts for 7 percent of the average couple’s budget. Most wedding gowns are in the range of $2,000. Don’t forget about additional costs, such as veil, shoes, alterations, undergar-
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Brides-to-be make many important decisions when planning their weddings, and one of the more notable ones is the choice of wedding gown. According to The Knot Real Weddings Study, the average wedding dress cost $2,000 in 2023. Despite that hefty price tag, gowns remain a pivotal component of a wedding, as 98 percent of women who responded to The Knot survey indicated they wore a dress for their nuptials. If the sizable price tag is a cause for concern to some aspiring brides, The Knot notes that customization can drive up the final price tag by a significant amount, which undoubtedly affects the median price of gowns. Brides who opt for no or minimal customization can likely find a dress that costs significantly less than the $2,000 average price
Although many decorative elements help to create ambiance for a wedding celebration, perhaps none is more awe-inspiring than beautiful floral arrangements. Flowers offer visual appeal, captivating aromas and texture that can make a space more welcoming.
Engaged couples typically go to great lengths when planning their weddings, but flowers may not be as micromanaged as other elements. Some are content to let florists design their arrangements, but the average cost of wedding flowers in 2023 was $2,800, according to The Knot Real Weddings Study That price tag merits some input on the part of couples. Floral experts say couples should budget for floral arrangements coming in at 10 percent of the overall wedding budget, which is the industry standard. Therefore, for a $60,000 wedding a couple should assume their florals will cost $6,000. It’s important to note that the cost of wedding flowers has been steadily increasing over the last few years due to inflation and climate change, says The Knot. So
couples may need to be even more involved in floral decisions to maximize their dollars spent.
Here are some variables to consider when selecting wedding flowers.
• Greenery: Adding greenery to fill in spaces in floral arrangements can save some money. Centerpieces and bouquets that are floral-heavy will certainly cost more.
• Symbolism: Consider the meaning behind flowers to make choices even more personal. You also may want to select flowers that will complement the theme of the wedding. For example, traditional spring blooms like tulips and daffodils
will coordinate with spring weddings.
• Flower varieties: Hardier varieties of flowers, such as daisies, mums, carnations, and protea, are less likely to wilt quickly in bouquets or centerpieces than some other blooms, even when they are cut. Such blooms can hold up in any weather and last the entire day so that arrangements will be picture-perfect no matter the hour.
• Venue: Couples may find that some venues already have faux flowers or other decor. That may mean couples do not need to have as many flowers or any elaborate arrangements.
• Size: A particularly large floral centerpiece can overwhelm a table, and a bouquet that is overly cumbersome may detract from the bride or her bridesmaids. Choose the correct scale for comfort in bouquets. For table arrangements, select a size that will not discourage conversation or block guests’ view, nor take up too much real estate on the table.
• Allergies: Although they are cut, flowers in arrangements can trigger allergic responses in some people. Others may be bothered by overly aromatic flowers. Work with the florist to find blooms that will be best.
• Color scheme: Although white flowers always
coordinate, many couples like some color in their arrangements. Be sure the flowers pick up the hues used in bridesmaid dresses or even the season of the year.
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Theories on the origins of the tuxedo vary significantly. Some believe that this formal garment was created by wealthy aristocrats attending an autumn ball in Tuxedo Park, New York. However, the Wall Street Journal has reported that the tuxedo might be a British invention, spearheaded by the fashion-conscious King of Wales Edward VII in 1865. No matter where the tuxedo originated, it has become standard attire for formal occasions, including weddings. It may seem as though every tuxedo is the same, but that’s not the case. Tuxes come in different styles, so those tying the knot or attending other formal functions can choose an option that fits their personality and physique. Here’s a look at what sets tuxedos apart and some noteworthy tux trends.
Suits versus tuxedos
Some may wonder what sets a tuxedo apart from a suit. One of the more notable differences is that tuxedo lapels are designed with silk, satin or textured grosgrain to provide that signature V-look, says Brides magazine. Suit lapels are made from the same fabric as the suit jacket. Tuxedos
traditionally are held up with suspenders, while suit pants have belt loops for use with a belt. Suits are styled with a dress shirt while tuxedos are worn with a particular tuxedo shirt that likely has a spread collar, bib, decorative studs, and French cuffs fastened with cufflinks.
Change up lapel styles
Men who want to set themselves apart can opt for what The Knot calls the most popular styles of tuxedo lapels. Notch lapels are the most common and feature two lateral points. Shawl collars feature a smooth, sleek looped lapel without notches or peaks. Peak lapels have the lower point of the lapel peak above the upper. Trying on the different jackets can give individuals an idea of which lapel look is best.
New color spectrum
A traditional tuxedo will be black, although navy tuxedos have gained a following. But individuals can find a tuxedo in any color Those who want to add some extra flair to their weddings may opt for a tuxedo in a color that coordinates to the season or aligns with what the rest of the bridal party is wearing.
Alternative fabrics
The majority of tuxedos are made from wool and will have the silk or satin detailing as described. Newer trends include incorporating fabrics like linen or flannel, although these are rare and may be harder to come by.
Neckties grabbing hold
People can set themselves apart with everything from lapels to tuxedo shirts to different colors, but only bowties or neckties can be worn with tuxedoes. While bowties once were the gold standard, those personalizing their wedding looks
and taking liberties with style are increasingly opting for neckties. Gents can choose a necktie in a complementary texture that will coordinate with the elegance of the tuxedo.
Slim fit
Modern tuxedo choices feature a slim fit in both jacket and pant. It’s a good idea to try on a few different options to see what feels comfortable before choosing a fit.
Tuxedos have been around since the nineteenth century and are the attire of choice for formal functions. R
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Wedding bands have been a symbol of love and commitment for centuries. They’re made to last a lifetime and if chosen carefully can even be handed down to the next generation. Shopping for his and her wedding bands shouldn’t be stressful; it should actually be a fun event for the couple. It’s a time to try different types of rings and find one that reflects your personality and style. To prepare for wedding band shopping there are few steps you should take.
1 Have a budget
Just like planning for the flowers or food, you should have a budget for your wedding bands. There is a large range of prices in wedding bands which means there is something for every budget. The main price driver for rings is the stones that adorn them. The bigger and more quantity, the more you’ll pay, especially when it comes to diamonds.
2 Get Inspired
Look for inspiration online, Pinterest, social media and friends. You can search for engage-
ment ring styles that are similar to yours to see what other people pair with it.
3 Ask Questions
You want to make sure your ring will last a lifetime so rely on the experts to help you make sure that happens. The stones in your ring should be well set to avoid them from falling out in the future and the shank (band) should be sturdy. There are trendy styles out there that are pretty but not made for longevity. The salesperson or jeweler you work with can help answer any questions you may have.
4 Choose a metal
This one is targeted more towards Men’s wedding bands. From gold to stainless steel, titanium to tantalum, there are a lot of different options for men and they all have different qualities. Some cannot be easily sized (or sized at all), some are scratch resistant, and others are shatter-proof, so make sure the metal works with his lifestyle. Although gold (white or yellow) has a higher price tag, it can easily be sized, polished and customized.
5 To Solder or Not to Solder
The majority of people solder their wedding bands to their engagement rings. Why? Soldering your rings together means that they will
always be aligned they way you want them. They won’t spin around your finger independently which also means they won’t rub together resulting in the metals wearing away prematurely.
6 Be Open-Minded
You might think you know exactly what you want in a wedding band, but play around with unlikely styles. There may be unexpected styles that grab your attention and enhance your engagement ring perfectly.
To ensure the stress is left behind, start shopping for rings early; give yourself at least a few months before the wedding. You might not find the perfect band right away and may need to try a variety of styles out or work with a jeweler to create a custom wedding ring.
Once you find the wedding set of your dreams be sure to take the steps to ensure it
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looks as beautiful as the day you got. There are activities that you should avoid wearing your rings for, such as weight lifting, using heavy tools/machinery, or using any chemicals or harsh cleaner. Diamonds are strong and take a lot abuse but sometimes if the prongs and settings break or wear away your stone can fall out. It’s also a recommended that you stop into your jewelry a couple times a year to get it cleaned. While they are cleaning your rings they should also be checking for any loose stones or broken prongs and get it fixed become it becomes a problem. R
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With so much on their dockets in relation to wedding planning, engaged couples can be forgiven if certain components garner less attention than others. The ceremony and reception are bound to stay on couples’ radar, but what about the time in between saying “I do” and cutting a rug on the reception room dance floor?
Cocktail hours are a great way to keep guests entertained between the ceremony and the reception. Many couples use this period to take their bridal party wedding photos, so offering guests a little food and some drinks during a cocktail hour can benefit everyone. Planning a cocktail hour is not a significant undertaking, but couples can keep a few pointers in mind as they plan this interim period between the ceremony and reception.
• Opt for an outdoor cocktail hour when possible. Couples tying the knot in spring, summer or fall at a venue with ample outdoor entertaining space can
choose to host the cocktail hour outside. This reduces the likelihood that guests will feel cramped and it also sets a positive tone for the remainder of the evening. A balcony, patio or rooftop entertaining area can be great spaces for guests to mingle prior to the reception.
• Offer seating. Cocktail hours tend be standup affairs where guests mingle with long-lost friends or relatives while enjoying some light hors d’oeuvres. However, older guests or guests with small children will appreciate some seating. Couples need not ensure there’s a seat for each guest, but some strategically located high-tops and more
traditional tables for guests with mobility issues can ensure anyone who needs to sit down can do so.
• Give guests something to do. If the cocktail hour will be a full hour or more, couples can consider ways to help guests pass the time. Some may be content to relax and chat with friends and family over a drink, but others may grow a little bored as the hour drags on. A photobooth or selfie station so couples can have a ready-made wedding album before the reception begins can be fun for guests. For less formal affairs, consider providing some popular outdoor games, like cornhole and bocce.
• Set a tone with music. Music can help set the tone for a cocktail hour, which is not meant to get the ball rolling on the dancingheavy revelry to come during the reception. Some simple instrumental music, whether it’s provided by a live string quartet or pre-recorded, can establish the cocktail hour as a peaceful period to relax, chat, eat a little, and enjoy a drink before the reception begins. Reserve the dance music for when the reception hits full swing.
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It’s easy to overlook the cocktail hour when planning a wedding. However, some simple tips
According to The Knot Real Weddings Survey, 57 percent of couples invited 101 or more guests to their weddings in 2023, suggesting that large weddings are in style. The Knot survey found that the average wedding size in 2023 was 115 guests, and that only 13 percent of couples invited between one and 50 guests to their big day. Warm weather weddings tend to lead to larger guests lists, as The Knot survey found that weddings were largest in July, with such affairs averaging 121 guests. By comparison, November and December weddings averaged 110 guests. Geography also appears to affect the size of a couple’s guest list. Weddings taking place in the midwestern United States averaged 139 guests in 2023, which was the highest among six regions noted by The Knot survey. Weddings that took place in the south/southeast and the west had the smallest average size among those regions, averaging 102 guests. Destination weddings also tend to be smaller affairs. Domestic destination weddings in the U.S. averaged 77 guests, while overseas affairs averaged 69 guests in 2023.
Wedding planning requires a lot of hard work, as couples try to ensure all of the components and moving parts add up to a memorable day when the time comes to say, “I do.” One notion that can help couples navigate wedding planning is to keep the focus on fun, as the goal of any couple is to make their wedding day a festive affair for them and their loved ones.
A couple’s choice of entertainment can go a long way toward ensuring the wedding reception is fun and festive. Couples can keep these tips in mind as they look for entertainers to establish the right vibe for their wedding reception.
• Identify your options. Couples typically choose a DJ or live band to entertain guests during the reception. Some couples may even choose both. In general, the more densely populated an
area is, the more entertainment options couples will have to choose from. Couples who have no preference regarding DJ or band can explore each option, speaking with representatives for each to get a grasp of their cost and offerings.
• Seek recommendations. Word-of-mouth helps many wedding vendors attract new clients, and entertainers are no different. Couples can seek recommendations from friends who have tied the knot. In addition, speak with people who have coordinated other gatherings in the past, such as family re-
unions, office parties and community events. Entertainment is often part of such events, so those who plan them might be able to offer some valuable insight into the local entertainment scene.
• Attend a performance. In addition to seeking recommendations, couples can see entertainers in action and form their own opinions. Many DJs and bands that perform at weddings also ply their trade elsewhere, including at bars, clubs, community events, etc. If couples are intrigued by a band or DJ as a wedding reception entertainment option, they can arrange to see them perform. Pay attention to their catalog, performance style and how they interact with the crowd during their show.
• Consider the crowd. The guest list and number of invitees also merit consideration when choosing entertainment for the reception. Conventional wisdom suggests bands tend to suit smaller affairs better than DJs, who may be accustomed to playing loud dance music for bigger crowds. In such cases, a booming dance playlist with a sparsely populated dance floor may not establish the vibe couples are going for. Live bands may provide a greater sense of intimacy, which can work better with a smaller crowd. It’s also beneficial to consider musical style before choosing entertainment. A band or DJ that can incorporate a wide range of musical eras and genres is ideal for a wedding reception, where guests will include the very young and the elderly. Finding the right entertainment for a wedding
For some couples, more stuff is exactly what they don’t need when they get married.
According to a Tinggly survey, wedding registries are increasingly being filled with experiences instead of physical items as newlyweds are increasingly appreciating quality time and shared adventures.
Their survey results said that 82% of the 1,000 people responding found experiences to be more memorable than traditional wedding gifts. These might include things like adventure outings, cooking classes or luxurious getaways.
Laurynas Kundrotas, CEO of Tinggly, reported, “From adrenaline-pumping adventures to wellness spa getaways, these once-in-a-lifetime experiences are becoming more popular gift items on
gift registries and at weddings. Even gifts of cash are being used to fund newlywed adventures, with more than 80% of newlyweds applying cash gifts towards their honeymoon experiences.”
The survey revealed that 43% of respondents consider experiential gifts the most notable because they create opportunities for new adventures together. Additionally, 39% emphasized that while physical items like kitchen appliances may come and go, the memories created through shared experiences can last a lifetime.
Respondents reported various types of experiences they would like to receive as wedding gifts:
• 28%: Adventures like hot air balloon rides or skydiving.
• 20%: The freedom to choose their own experience.
• 19%: Relaxation such as couples massages or spa days.
• 19%: Getaways like luxurious hotel stays or weekend staycations.
Other ideas can include things like passes to a local museum, season tickets to a local theater or concert hall, meal delivery kits, dance lessons, name change services, wine clubs, home improvement or even charitable giving.
Despite the rising popularity of experiential gifts, cash remains a favored option, with nearly 35% of respondents preferring it as a wedding gift. However, wedding gift budgets have not kept pace with inflation. About a third of respondents indicated they spend between $50 and $100 on a wedding present, while another 30% keep their spending under $150.
Zola recommends organizing a gift registry by price point to allow options for people with different budgets. They further recommend that you have at least one registry item for every guest you are inviting, keeping in mind that some people may pool their funds to gift a higher-ticket item. “Our expectations of guests are quite high and can be extremely costly, and sometimes people
can’t always afford the same things we can,” said Alyssa Davies, a personal financial writer. “As long as you have a range of prices, there can be a way to make everyone feel as though they’re able to support you on your new adventure as a married couple.” Registries remain relevant, with 46% of respondents stating they always purchase from a couple’s registry if one is available. In addition to Tinggly, other places that offer experiences on their registries include Honeyfund, The Knot Registry Store, Zola and Honeymoon Fund. R
How to Get a Marriage License in Minnesota
You’re getting married! Chances are, thoughts of dresses and flowers, first dances, and menu selections are flurrying in your mind. But there are some other wedding planning tasks you have to take care of before the big day, like getting a marriage license.
Because the process of getting a marriage license can vary so much from state to state, you’ll want to make sure you’re well versed in the process before you head out to get one.
Where to Get a Marriage License in Minnesota
Contrary to other states where you may have to head to court buildings or municipal centers, any county within Minnesota, you can head to any service center or DMV. But, you must do it in person.
To make things a bit easier, Minnesota has an online feature called MOMS (Minnesota Official Marriage System), which was created, designed, and managed by Minnesota counties to help you navigate the process (Note: Scott and Washington County do not participate). Through this site, you can click on your county for more specific information and instructions.
All applicants will have to complete a formal application which you can begin online and are
encouraged to print and complete an application prior.
Minnesota Marriage License Requirements
Within Minnesota, marriage applicants must be at least 18 years of age. Both partners must appear together and present a valid photo ID. The marriage ceremony must take place within the state, and once issued, your license will be valid for six months.
A unique feature of Minnesota’s marriage license process is its Premarital Education program. The program is 12 hours long, with the teacher being a licensed/ordained minister, a person licensed to practice marriage and family therapy, or an authorized officiant who can legally solemnize your marriage in Minnesota.
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If you complete this program, the hefty standard $115 marriage license fee is reduced to $40. It is payable by check cash, or credit/debit card.
There is some key information you’ll need to have, too. Be prepared with:
• Legal names of both applicants
• Current addresses
• Dates of birth
• State/country where each person was born
• County in which each applicant lives
• Social security numbers
• Information on any previous marriages
• Full name the applicants intend to have after the marriage
• Mailing address for the marriage certificate to be sent (post-wedding)
• Get Married!
Time to get married! So, you can tie the knot as soon as you get your license! Or, you can wait a bit. The marriage license is good for six months after you apply.
The marriage license is only a formal approval for permission to marry. It doesn’t mean you’re married. That’s where the marriage certificate comes in. Don’t confuse the two.
On your big day, don’t forget the license. Give it to a trusted person, like your wedding planner, best man/maid of honor, or officiant. Then after the ceremony, your officiant must file the license with the county that issued it.
What do you need to get married at a courthouse MN?
Day of the Marriage Ceremony
When arriving for your marriage ceremony, you must bring with you a marriage license issued by any Minnesota county, a photo ID for each applicant, and two adults with photo ID who can witness the ceremony. A judges’ staff may assist in providing witnesses at an additional charge.
WHERE TO APPLY
Blue Earth County Mankato, MN
507-304-4340
Brown County New Ulm, MN 507-233-6653
Dakota County Hasting, MN 651-437-3191
Dodge County Mantorville, MN 507-635-6250
Goodhue County Red Wing, MN 651-385-3148
Le Sueur County Le Center, MN
507-357-2251
Nicollet County St. Peter, MN 507-934-0325
Rice County Faribault, MN 507-332-6114
Steele County Owatonna, MN 507-444-7450
Waseca County Waseca, MN 507-835-0670
What Is a Marriage License?
A marriage license is a legal document obtained by a couple prior to marriage. Once the license is signed (during or after your ceremony) and returned by an officiant to the county, a marriage certificate is issued.
Brides- and grooms-to-be rely on trusted friends and family to be part of their wedding parties. It is an honor to be asked to participate in the ceremony and share in the magic of the day. Many couples wrestle with the question of how many people to include in the wedding party. The trusted wedding resource The Knot says old school wedding etiquette experts advise there should be one groomsman and one corresponding bridesmaid for every 50 guests, but this isn’t mandatory. Brides magazine reports that American weddings tend to feature five bridesmaids and five groomsmen. According to YoungHipandMarried.com, at weddings in Canada, the wedding party can expect to spend roughly $366 to be in the wedding celebration. A 2018 Bankrate study indicates members of an American bridal party can expect to pay an average of $728 to attend a wedding and other related events. However, in recent years this price may have increased due to inflation and the rising cost of travel.
