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L I V E S M AT T E R

2020 DWIGHT ALLEN O’NEAL SERVES “ G AY B O Y N E X T D O O R ” WISDOM CREEP OF THE WEEK

N AT I O N A L S T R A I G H T PRIDE COALITION

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SOME QUEER HALLMARK CHRISTMAS MOVIES ARE COMING. HO HO HO

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DWIGHT ALLEN O’NEAL SERVES “GAY BOY NEXT DOOR” WISDOM

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CREEP OF THE WEEK NATIONAL STRAIGHT PRIDE COALITION

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BLACK PRIDE

BY RICHIE ARPINO

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Dwight Allen O’Neal Serves “Gay Boy Next Door” Wisdom

Star of Christopher Street-The Series Releases Memoir, Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda!

By John Stein

Dwight Allen O’Neal is perhaps best known for his starring role in the first black gay webseries Christopher Street-The Series but he has also gained a huge following from his popular podcast show, “Shoulda Coulda Woulda,” where he recounts some of his life’s biggest missteps, and reflects on how they have affected his personal journey.

Now, he’s turned his podcast show into an inspirational book of the same name. We spoke with Dwight from his home in NYC. Why should everyone add Shoulda!

Coulda! Woulda! to their libraries?

Dwight Allen O’Neal: I think it’s important for us all to have someone to relate to and inspire us. My book does that for my readers. I want them to join me on my journey through my past, and take the chance to reflect on their own personal memories.

Was

it

fun

writing

the

book?

Dwight Allen O’Neal: I enjoyed it very much.

You have to be very disciplined to complete a book, and dedicate some time every day to writing it. For me it was like carving out time to hang out with an old friend and catch up on past shenanigans. Writing this book allowed me to walk down memory lane and reflect on many good and some challenging life moments. Some moments made me laugh, others left me in tears. So much of my heart went into this, my junior memoir as I call it, because there is so much more of my story that I hope to share in the future.

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How long did it take you to complete the book?

Garner died? To this day many people don’t even know who Emmitt Till is. There has been so many people reaching Dwight Allen O’Neal: Technically a little over a decade. out to me to ask how they can help. I do understand that This is literally the product of several attempts to complete they want to help now or be a part of the movement, but the book. Once I decided on how I wanted to release it, we shoulda, coulda, woulda did this sooner. Also, let us the book all came together fairly quickly. It took me about not forget our queer black lives. Iyanna Dior was brutally two months to gather all of the content I wanted. I then attacked in Minnesota. Black trans women are some of partnered with an incredible editor who made it word the most under protected people in our society. Many are perfect. I guess things happen when they are supposed to. homeless and those with homes, fear leaving them safely.

Let’s do our part now so we never have to regret any more shoulda, coulda, wouldas.

Which was the hardest chapter to write?

Visit OnealAppeal.com. Follow Dwight Allen O’Neal on Dwight Allen O’Neal: The hardest chapter to write was Instagram @onealappeal “Coulda Made Baked Spaghetti,” dedicated to my friend Tawana. I wrote it a few days after her funeral, one of the most challenging weeks of my life. Writing it was therapeutic.

It allowed me to start healing and it gave me the opportunity to celebrate her memory.

Was there one period in your life that was particularly challenging to live through?

Dwight Allen O’Neal: Yes, learning that someone that I once loved was being accused of having several intimate relationships with underaged teens. When I learned one young man’s story was eerily identical to my relationship with my ex, I was devastated, heartbroken. And then I saw the young man was being attacked via social media and it didn’t seem fair at all. I believed him. He was me… I was him. When looking back on this memory, even today, there were so many more shoulda, coulda, wouldas I wish I had done.

What are thoughts

your on

Shoulda!

Black

Coulda!

Lives

Woulda!

Matter?

Dwight Allen O’Neal: My heart breaks every time a new incident happens and I am encouraged that George Floyd inspired so many people into action, however, where was this attention when Trayvon Martin, Sandra Bland, or Eric

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Creep of the WEEK

by D’Anne Witkowski

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COVID be damned .

Inspired by last “We have a celeb year’ rat demonstration, wh s straight Pride its aspects: ma ion of life in all of ich according to sculinity; femininit Pink News drew y; the natural family 20 of 200 counter-protes participants and children; children man, woman, and ters, the Nationa born and unborn l Straight Pride Coali ; D’Anne Witkowski is a poet, writer and tion is making this Western civilization; Christianity an annual thing no — ev erything which bu comedian living in Michigan with her wife w, apparently. ilds the culture of life,” NSPC founde and son. She has been writing about LGBT r Don Grundman n told ABC10. politics for over a decade. Follow her on Twitter @MamaDWitkowski

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