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SOUTHWEST RANCHES— A Broward Sheriff ’s Office (BSO) community service aide has filed suit in federal court, claiming violations of his civil rights. Tony Vincent returned to work on October 31 after being suspended with pay since June 21.

The events leading up to the suit began on February 15 when Vincent, who is gay, was stopped on his motor scooter by BSO deputies in Southwest Ranches. Vincent’s suit claims that the deputies wrongfully ticketed him for speeding, and made an illegal secret recording using a cell phone without his consent during the traffic stop, which is a violation of Florida law. The speeding ticket was dismissed in April.

In June, Vincent was suspended with pay for releasing the tape recording before an internal investigation had been completed. Although he was allowed to return to work, he was given a five-day unpaid suspension. The suit, filed last week, names as defendants Broward Sheriff Al Lamberti, BSO Commander Wallace Haywood, and Deputies Roberto Aspuru and Jose Saud.

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was targeted because of his sexual orientation, a claim that Broward Sheriff Lamberti vehemently denies.

“We have a very structured disciplinary procedure,” Lamberti told the Agenda in an exclusive interview. “The decision to discipline in the Vincent case was made by the Professional Standards Committee (PSC), a board comprised of 12 people.

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Eight of them are BSO employees, and the other four are independent citizens who function as an outside review.”

Lamberti says that the PSC recommended the disciplinary actions against Vincent, and that he abided by their call. “Since I became Sheriff, I have yet to overturn a decision by that committee,” added Lamberti, whose career with BSO began as a NEWS BRIEFS

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IMPORTANT PATIENT INFORMATION PREZISTA (pre-ZIS-ta) (darunavir) Oral Suspension PREZISTA (pre-ZIS-ta) (darunavir) Tablets Read this Patient Information before you start taking PREZISTA and each time you get a refill. There may be new information. This information does not take the place of talking to your healthcare provider about your medical condition or your treatment.

Also read the Patient Information leaflet for NORVIR® (ritonavir).

What is the most important information I should know about PREZISTA? • PREZISTA can interact with other medicines and cause serious side effects.

It is important to know the medicines that should not be taken with PREZISTA. See the section “Who should not take PREZISTA?” • PREZISTA may cause liver problems. Some people taking PREZISTA in combination with NORVIR® (ritonavir) have developed liver problems which may be life-threatening. Your healthcare provider should do blood tests before and during your combination treatment with PREZISTA. If you have chronic hepatitis B or C infection, your healthcare provider should check your blood tests more often because you have an increased chance of developing liver problems.

• Tell your healthcare provider if you have any of the below signs and symptoms of liver problems.

• Dark (tea colored) urine • yellowing of your skin or whites of your eyes • pale colored stools (bowel movements) • nausea • vomiting • pain or tenderness on your right side below your ribs • loss of appetite PREZISTA may cause severe or life-threatening skin reactions or rash.

Sometimes these skin reactions and skin rashes can become severe and require treatment in a hospital. You should call your healthcare provider immediately if you develop a rash. However, stop taking PREZISTA and ritonavir combination treatment and call your healthcare provider immediately if you develop any skin changes with symptoms below: • fever • tiredness • muscle or joint pain • blisters or skin lesions • mouth sores or ulcers • red or inflamed eyes, like “pink eye” (conjunctivitis) Rash occurred more often in patients taking PREZISTA and raltegravir together than with either drug separately, but was generally mild.

See “What are the possible side effects of PREZISTA?” for more information about side effects.

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PREZISTA does not cure HIV infection or AIDS and you may continue to experience illnesses associated with HIV-1 infection, including opportunistic infections. You should remain under the care of a doctor when using PREZISTA. Avoid doing things that can spread HIV-1 infection.

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Serious problems can happen if you take any of these medicines with PREZISTA. What should I tell my doctor before I take PREZISTA? PREZISTA may not be right for you. Before taking PREZISTA, tell your healthcare provider if you: • have liver problems, including hepatitis B or hepatitis C • are allergic to sulfa medicines • have high blood sugar (diabetes) • have hemophilia • are pregnant or planning to become pregnant. It is not known if PREZISTA will harm your unborn baby.

Pregnancy Registry: You and your healthcare provider will need to decide if taking PREZISTA is right for you. If you take PREZISTA while you are pregnant, talk to your healthcare provider about how you can be included in the Antiretroviral Pregnancy Registry. The purpose of the registry is follow the health of you and your baby.

• are breastfeeding or plan to breastfeed. Do not breastfeed. We do not know if PREZISTA can be passed to your baby in your breast milk and whether it could harm your baby. Also, mothers with HIV-1 should not breastfeed because HIV-1 can be passed to the baby in the breast milk.

Tell your healthcare provider about all the medicines you take including prescription and nonprescription medicines, vitamins, and herbal supplements.

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Gay TV Characters Have Positive & Negative Impact on Attitudes to LGBT Rights HOLLYWOOD, CA – A new survey from the Hollywood Reporter says that greater visibility of openly-gay characters on primetime television is having an impact on the attitudes of Americans towards LGBT rights, and not all of is it good.

With major storylines involving LGBT characters on hit programs like “Modern Family,” “Glee,” and “The New Normal”, 27 percent of TV viewers responded that gay exposure made them more supportive of marriage equality, while 12 percent admitted to being more negatively disposed to same-sex marriage.

As expected, the survey results broke along party lines, with Obama supporters twice as likely to watch “Modern Family” (ABC) as Romney supporters, twice as likely to watch “Glee” (Fox), and three times more likely to watch “The New Normal” (NBC).

The poll also said that Romney supporters are five times more likely than Obama supporters to stop watching a program if a gay actor is portraying a straight character (25 percent vs. 5 percent), and nearly eight times as likely to stop watching if a straight actor plays a gay character (30 percent vs. four percent).

Last month, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) released its annual report, “Where We Are on TV,” which shows that a record 4.4 percent of regularly-appearing portrayals in the 2012-2013 season will be of LGBT characters, an increase from 2.9 percent in 2011.

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director of Torah Jews for Decency, called the storm “divine justice” against the transgressions of lawmakers, and of residents of New York City, which he said is “one of the national centers for homosexuality.”

Responding to Leiter’s remarks, Pataki said, “It’s simply incomprehensible that anyone could attribute the devastation and loss of life caused by Hurricane Sandy to divine retribution against the New York State legislature,” adding that, “It’s like blaming America’s belief in freedom for the attacks of Sept. 11.”

Pataki, a three-term Republican chief executive who served as governor from 1995 to 2006, opposed same-sex marriage.

Comparing the crippling destruction of Sandy, Leiter said, “The Lord will not bring another flood to destroy the entire world, but he can punish particular areas with that flood, and if we look at the same-gender-marriage recognition movement that’s occurring, that’s certainly a message for us to learn.”

Former Penn State President Charged with Covering up Sex Abuses UNIVERSITY PARK, PA – State prosecutors have charged Graham Spanier, the former President of Pennsylvania State University with perjury and child endangerment, alleging that the former school administrator oversaw a cover-up that permitted former football coach Jerry Sandusky to prey for years on nearly a dozen children.

Former NY Gov. Slams Homophobic Rabbi ALBANY, NY — Former New York Gov. George Pataki this week denounced an ultra-orthodox rabbi for his “offensive and disgraceful” remarks that described Hurricane Sandy as “divine justice” for the state’s legalization of marriage equality.

During a radio interview on October.

30, Rabbi Nathaniel Leiter, the executive

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Pennsylvania Attorney General Linda Kelly called Spanier’s actions a “conspiracy of silence,” and accused the former Penn

State president and two other school officials—Gary Schultz, a former Penn State vice president, and Tim Curley, the former athletic director—of “working to conceal the truth” and acting “with an absolute disregard to the safety of minor children.” Curley and Schultz had previously been charged with perjury and failing to report child abuse.

Kelly said the three men had “turn[ed] a blind eye” to the actions of “a serial predator,” endangering “several young men” who “would not have [otherwise] been attacked.” She said that emails between Spanier, Curly, and Schultz show that they were aware of incidents of abuse on campus, and had failed to report them to law enforcement.

Sandusky, 68, was convicted in July on 45 counts of abuse against 10 different boys. A number of those incidents occurred on the campus of Penn State, including in a school locker room and shower.

Lawmaker Wants AG Opinion on Same-Sex Benefits AUSTIN, TX - One of the state’s most conservative lawmakers has asked for the state attorney general’s opinion on the constitutionality of local governments granting marriage benefits to same-sex partners.

State Sen. Dan Patrick (R-Houston) asked Attorney General Greg Abbott to clarify a matter concerning the 2005 amendment that defines marriage as between one man and one woman and prohibits government entities from recognizing unions that are similar to marriage.

Patrick, a radio talk show host and chairman of the Senate Education Committee, cited the extension of certain benefits to domestic partners by the cities of Austin, El Paso, and Forth Worth, and the recent decision by the Pflugerville Independent School District to become the first Texas school district to extend similar benefits.

Gay Republican Recants ‘Hate Crime’ Assault Claims MADISON, WI – A gay Republican who last month claimed

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that he was assaulted in an attack motivated by his personal politics has recanted his story. As we reported last week (Florida Agenda, October 31, 2012: “Gay Republican Claims Assault Was Motivated by Politics”), Kyle Wood, a volunteer for a GOP congressional campaign, told the Madison Police Department (MPD) that “a guy wrapped a ligature around my neck, slammed my head into the doorway, and smashed my face into a mirror, telling me ‘You should have kept your [f*******] mouth shut.’”

But Wood, 29, has recanted his story, according to an official Incident Report filed by investigators. “In an interview this afternoon with Madison Police detectives, the victim in this case recanted his earlier statements in regards to this crime,” the police report reads. “This crime, alleged to have occurred on High Street in the South Police District, will be cleared as ‘Unfounded’ for case reporting purposes.”

Wood also told authorities that in a separate incident his car had been vandalized, with graffiti that “included the phrases ‘house-trained Republican faggot,’ ‘traitor,’ and ‘ur like a jew 4 hitler [sic].’”

After his alleged assault, Wood posted to Facebook, “I will not be bullied into voting for a gay man simply because I am gay.” And Jimmy LaSalvia, the gay conservative activist and founder of GOProud, called the now-debunked attack an example of “hate and vitriol directed towards a gay conservative from gay liberals.”

As to official recourse in the wake of these new facts, the Madison Police incident report notes that, “Once follow up investigation is completed, MPD’s case file will be reviewed with Dane County District Attorney’s Office.”H

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Stonewall Museum Honors Longtime Volunteers Mulane and Seman FORT LAUDERDALE – The Stonewall National Museum and Archives has announced a bequest in the name of longtime volunteer activist Wallace “Wally” Mulane.

The organization also recognized the contributions of Mulane’s life partner, Cyril “Cy” Seman. In 2001, the couple celebrated their 50th anniversary (they met in 1951).

Stonewall Museum President Brian W. Knicely said Mulane began a long history of volunteering for the non-profit in 1994, assisting with the cataloguing of the Library collection.

Cyril Seman - circa 1944

Wallace Mulane - circa 1945

“We are humbled and grateful for volunteers like Wally, who not only give their time and talents, but also leave a lasting legacy to help us preserve LGBT history,” said Knicely.

New Route and Grand Marshal Announced for SF World AIDS Day Walk WILTON MANORS - Broward House has announced its plans for the fifth annual World AIDS Day Candlelight Walk and Rally, which

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will be held on December 1.

“We are very excited to announce that with the help of the City of Wilton Manors, the police department, and the incredible people over at the parks and recreation department, the World AIDS Day Candlelight Walk and Rally will now encompass all of Wilton Drive” said Terry DeCarlo, Director of Development for Broward House and the event producer. “This will also give many more businesses on Wilton Drive the opportunity to participate.”

The candlelight walk began in 2008, drawing just over 450 participants. In 2011, more than 2,500 people walked alongside grand marshal Margaret Cho. This year, the grand marshal is headliner comedian Wanda Sykes, who will also perform a benefit concert for Broward House—South Florida’s oldest and largest HIV/AIDS community service organization—the following night at the Broward Center for the Performing Arts.

The walk and rally are free events, underwritten by the MAC AIDS Fund, Macy’s, Walgreens, and Broward Health. The candlelight walk begins at 6 p.m. at Hagen Park (2020 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors), with a step off from the curb at exactly 7 p.m. Participants are encouraged to wear a red shirt, and if they are part of an organization, to walk under their banner.

For more information, visit browardhouse.org.

WMBA is ‘Nuts About Yogurt” WILTON MANORS – The October meeting of the Wilton Manors Business Association (WMBA) was held at Nuts About Yogurt on Wilton Drive. At the group’s upcoming November 12 meeting, WMBA will present a Wildlife Habitat.

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Owner Stephanie Lee expressed her satisfaction. “I’m so excited to have Ron with us,” she said. “I strive to have the best Mexican cuisine in South Florida.”

Lee acknowledged that Kerr’s

Chef Ron Kerr

addition was in response to criticisms about Pinche’s menu and service. “When I read reviews the past few months that our food had become inconsistent, I immediately set to work to correct that,” said Lee. “Ron is a perfect fit and has a stellar reputation in Wilton Manors for producing delicious, creative dishes, consistently.”

Wilton Manors Development Alliance CEO Krishan Manners says that Kerr’s influence is already reflected in Pinche’s new menu, with new offerings such as a Bajastyle fish taco and a steak brisket barbacoa.

In partnership with Island City Health and Fitness and Steel Gym, the menu includes “Steel-Style Entrees,” a selection of low-fat, low-carb dishes targeting the Gayborhood’s health and fitness conscious residents.

Florida Democratic Party Sues Over Election Irregularities

MIAMI – On Sunday, the Florida Democratic Party filed suit in federal court asking that early voting hours be extended in the all-important swing state.

The litigation comes after voter Pinche Taqueria complaints of long lines, and lengthy delays of up to seven hours Re-launches to cast their votes. with New Chef The election supervisors of Miami-Dade and Palm Beach WILTON MANORS - Pinche counties announced that voters Taqueria (2045 Wilton Drive) has would be allowed to cast their announced the addition to their absentee ballots on Sunday. staff of Chef Ron Kerr, the former Florida law allows election offices executive chef of Georgie’s Alibi. to receive absentee ballots through

Tuesday as long as they are cast in person.

Reports surfaced on Sunday that Miami-Dade election officials had closed down the absentee ballot line in the Doral office after two hours because too many people showed up.

Gov. Rick Scott (R) told reporters that the voting process was going smoothly. In 2011, Scott and the Republican-controlled Legislature passed a measure that cut early voting from 14 to 8 days, and that phased out voting on the final Sunday before Election Day. Democratic activists claim that more Democrats cast early ballots than Republicans, which made the measure appear as an effort to curtail Democratic turnout.

Did Marco Rubio Make Anti-Gay ‘Robo-Calls’ to Swing State Voters?

WILTON MANORS – U.S. Sen. Marco Rubio (R-FL) lent his voice to a series of robo-calls with messages that condemned marriage equality in swing states where same-sex marriage wasn’t being considered.

In a press release from the National Organization for Marriage (NOM), the junior senator from Florida’s name is included among a list of prominent gay marriage opponents including Focus on the Family founder James Dobson and former Arkansas Gov. Mike Huckabee.

According to NOM, automated calls in English and Spanish targeted voters “across the political spectrum who favor retaining the definition of marriage” as between one man and one woman.H

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CYNTHIA NIXON AND THE POLITICAL CORRECTNESS OF BEING ‘GAY’ November 7, 2012 • ISSUE 155

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arlier this year—crikey, has it already been nine months?—actress Cynthia Nixon took a great deal of heat from LGBT activists after she told the New York Times Magazine that her homosexuality is “a choice.” It may come as a shock to some (and my boyfriend is still reeling from this himself ), but the time span between 1998 and 2004 included not a single instance of me-time that was devoted to watching “Sex and the City.” (In spite of this heresy on my part, please permit me my opinion.)

Nixon (who, for the edification of those who only know her by character name, played gingerhaired Miranda) has been in a samesex relationship since 2004. Before that, she was involved for 15 years in a straight marriage that produced two kids.

I read with a lot of sympathy as Nixon spoke about the criticism she had gotten from gay rights groups for speaking her mind about nature-versus-nurture sexual identity. “I understand that for many people it’s not, but for me it’s a choice, and you don’t get to define my gayness for me,” said Nixon, and I agree with her.

Part of the lonely road of the honest agnostic is our sincere wish that some tangible proof of Divine Existence would drown out the silly apotheosistic part of us-versusthem theology. How can I be so sure that “we” are right when “they” feel exactly the same way about their

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(clearly heretical) beliefs?

Nixon addressed a similar sentiment when she complained that, “A certain section of our community is very concerned that [sexual identity] not be seen as a choice, because if it’s a choice, then we could opt out. I say it doesn’t matter if we flew here or we swam here, it matters that we are here and we are one group and let us stop trying to make a litmus test for who is considered gay and who is not.”

I understand the strength and meaning that are created through sense of identity, and this plays into the difference between those who identify themselves as “gay” (like me, and maybe you, and for certain most of the men and women of the Gayborhood of Wilton Manors and the surrounding ‘gay ghettos’ in Victoria Park, Oakland Park, North Miami, and beyond), and those who are “homosexual.”

Regardless of what you may think (or heaven help us, feel), science has yet to identify the cause or basis— whether biological or sociological— for sexual orientation.

When she later tried to ‘clarify’ her remarks, Nixon invoked the oftendiscomfort-inducing “bisexual,” and in some ways embraced it in the denial. “I don’t pull out the ‘bisexual’ word because nobody likes the bisexuals,” Nixon said tentatively, sensing her own tenuous position on the neither-fish-nor-fowl ledge.

“Everybody likes to dump on the bisexuals. But I do completely feel that when I was in relationships with men, I was in love and in lust with those men.

And then I met [partner Christine Marinoni], and I fell in love and lust with her. I am completely the same person and I was not walking around in some kind of fog. I just responded to the people in front of me the way I truly felt.”

The idea of bisexuals makes both “the straights” and “the gays” uncomfortable indeed. It just doesn’t fit in nicely with the idea of marriage, same- or opposite-sex. (“Who the hell do these ****ing bi’s plan to marry?”)

I sympathize with the traditionalists, who rightly see their way of life under assault. But the Neanderthal eventually got used to a new way of things, so Tony Perkins and James Dobson will find a way to cope. The question is, can gays make the same peace for their wayward bi’s?

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WHAT’S GOD GOT TO DO WITH IT?

By REV. JOEL S. SLOTNICK

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magine this: You’re one of millions of LGBT Americans, and questioning whether or not you are loved by God. (Some would settle for just being liked by God.) Some are so hurt by religion that they want nothing to do with God. Where do you see yourself?

Some 31 years ago, it was time for me to come out. It wasn’t by choice.

Against the odds, I happen to be a gay man with a straight twin brother.

Because people had begun to see me coming out of gay bars, and thought it was my twin, I had the proverbial “come to Jesus meeting” with my family. Fortunately, we grew up in an environment where it was okay to be open about our lives.

So, what does God have to do with this? I always prayed to God that my family would understand who I was created to be, or at the very least to not let me go through what so many

must endure: Being thrown out, alienated—all those terrible things you can’t imagine actually happening to human beings. My prayer was answered.

In 1990, I put my family through another test of my faith and time. (Coming out was a piece of cake compared to what came next.) I had built a relationship with my God, and wanted to carry it further: I wanted to practice a whole different religion.

That year, I converted from Judaism to being baptized a Christian.

Don’t get me wrong, part of me will always be Jewish, it’s my heritage. But I have added to that. Being in church gave me a different kind of inner

peace, and a sense of where I belong.

But that was only the beginning.

Over the next few years, I took on roles in church leadership. One day, my mom asked me, “Just how involved are you?” After a deep breath, I reached into my pocket and handed her a business card which stated my title as “Worship Coordinator.” I can’t even explain the look I got. I told her she needed to get used to it, since one day I would be wearing a clergy collar. Both my Rev. Joel S. Slotnick mom and twin brother now accept it, and they have even attended church services in which I have participated.

In March 2005, I was ordained a Deacon, a ceremony attended by

my twin brother and sister-in-law.

Although my mother lives in another state and therefore wasn’t present, I had her blessings. In June 2011, I was ordained a Reverend. I continue my ministry and passion for pastoral care, including hospital and home visits, memorial services, baptisms, marriages, commitment ceremonies, and unions.

So, what’s God got to do with it?

A lot. Despite what you might have grown up with or hear today, you can be LGBT and have a relationship with God, and can be ordained to do God’s work. You can be loved and blessed by God. Don’t fear God: He created us, loves us, and wants us to be who we are, LGBT and proud.H Rev. Joel S. Slotnick is an ordained minister, LGBT community activist, and former Secretary-Treasurer for Pride of South Florida. He lives in Fort Lauderdale.

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Florida Agenda Non-Profit Services Directory AIDS HEALTHCARE FOUNDATION/OUT OF THE CLOSET HIV testing, client services, STD’s testing & treatment, AHF Pharmacy 2097 Wilton Dr., Wilton Manors (954) 318-6997

dragitout.org facebook.com/dragitoutinc 1310 SW 2nd Ct. #103 Fort Lauderdale (954) 612-4489 (954) 213-7112

Low-income gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender (GLBT) individuals in need of legal services, Gay/ Lesbian/Bisex/Trans; Legal Services 491 N State Rd. 7, Plantation (954) 358-5635

BRIAN NEAL FITNESS & HEALTH FOUNDATION Weekly group workouts, gym membership, nutrition and life mentoring classes by professionals, online programs, exercise, and health monitoring for persons living with HIV/AIDS and other life-challenging conditions.

2435 N. Dixie Hwy., Wilton Manors (954) 336-0436 (561) 255-4913

FAMILY THERAPY CENTER Anger management 2415 University Dr., Coral Springs (954) 345-6222

MEN’S WELLNESS CENTER HIV & STD’s Testing & treatment 6405 N. Federal Hwy., Suite 205, Ft. Lauderdale (877) 259-8727

FUSION Program open to the GLBTQ community. Activities include meditation, social events, groups, movies, games, classes, and condom distribution campaign.

2304 NE 7th Ave., Wilton Manors (954) 630-1655

MINORITY DEVELOPMENT & EMPOWERMENT HIV Testing, case management 5225 NW 33rd Ave., Building 5, Ft. Lauderdale (954) 315-4530

BROWARD HOUSE HIV services, shelter, empowerment, housing, client services 1726 SE 3rd Ave., Ft. Lauderdale (954) 522-4749 CARE RESOURCE BROWARD HIV Testing, case management, 830 E Oakland Park Blvd, Oakland Park (954) 567-7141 CARE RESOURCE DADE HIV Testing, case management 3510 Biscayne Blvd., Miami (305) 576-1234 Ext.287 COVENANT HOUSE Emergency/temporary shelter & crisis intervention 733 Breakers Ave., Ft. Lauderdale (954) 561-5559 DRAG IT OUT, INC. Drag it OUT’s mision is to provide a safe space for the LGBTQ community and their supporters who are interested in exploring gender identity, self-expression and community activism by way of educational workshops, social opportunities and artistic projects.

Learn how to get involved at

GAY & LESBIAN YOUTH SUPPORT GROUP Provides support to gay and lesbian youths 16 to 24 years of age 1480 SW 9 Avenue 2nd Floor Ft Lauderdale Sunshine Cathedral Campus (954) 764-5150 LAMBDA Support groups, substance abuse 1231-A E Las Olas Boulevard Fort Lauderdale, FL 33301 (954) 761-9072 LATINOS SALUD Free HIV rapid testing, Free one-on-one counseling and life coaching for gay Latinos. Free peer networking dinners and leadership training for gay Latinos 25 to 44. Free clubhouse for Latinos 18 to 30, planning alternative social events 2330 Wilton Dr., Wilton Manors (954) 765-6239 and (954) 533-8681 latinossalud.org facebook.com/juntoslatinossalud facebook.com/somoslatinossalud LEGAL AID SERVICE - BROWARD HUMAN RIGHTS INITIATIVE

OUT OF THE CLOSET HIV Testing, referrals 2097 Wilton Dr., Wilton Manors (954) 358-5580 POVERELLO HIV Testing, Free meals 2302 NE 7th Ave, Wilton Manors (954) 561-3663 PRIDE INSTITUTE OF FORT LAUDERDALE Gay/Lesbian/Bisex/Trans; Mental Health Services; Substance Abuse Detox; Substance Abuse Inpatient (954) 463-4321, 954-453-8679 (800) 585-7527 RED HISPANA HIV Testing, Hispanic support groups, emergency relief fund assistance, pre-case management 1350 East Sunrise Blvd., Suite 129, Ft. Lauderdale (954) 462-8889 SOUTH FLORIDA GENDER COALITION Support groups for Cross-dressers, trans-sexuals and significant others; Age 18 and older.

3233 NW 34th Ct., Ft. Lauderdale (954) 578-9454, 954-677-2587

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SPECTRUM PROGRAMS Case Management, Marriage & Family therapy, Outpatient Counseling, Psychiatric Services, Substance Abuse Residential Treatment 450 E Atlantic Blvd., Pompano Beach (954) 580-0770 (954) 781-4405 SUNSERVE Counseling, mental health intake and referral, Noble McArtor Senior Day Care Center, youth and family services 1480 SW 9th Ave., Ft. Lauderdale (954) 764-5150, (954) 764-5055, (954) 764-5055, (954) 549-0263 TEEN SPACE 211 Tough teen issues, bullying, counseling 3217 NW 10th Terr., Suite 308, Ft. Lauderdale THE COMMUNITY Anger management, counseling Self pay/Sliding Scale $25-$85 16 NE 4th St., Suite 130, Ft. Lauderdale (954) 533-9819 THE EAST HEALTH CENTER HIV/STD’s Testing, screening and treatment, Immigration medical examination 2421 SW 6th Ave., Ft. Lauderdale (954) 298-1749 (954) 467-4705 THE PRIDE CENTER AT EQUALITY PARK HIV Testing, support groups, elderly, youth resources, transgender resources, bereavement 2040 N Dixie Hwy, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 463-9005 THE WELLNESS CENTER Support groups, Lipoatrophy (Facial Wasting) 2921 NE 6th Ave., Wilton Manors (954) 568-0152

If your non-profit organization is not listed in the Agenda Non-Profit Services Directory, please send your information to editor@floridaagenda.com.

HONORING THE PROMISE

By GRANT JAMES

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his year’s Red Ribbon Awards honor the most active members within Greater Fort Lauderdale’s vibrant LGBT community, those who truly contribute on every level imaginable.

From activists to lawyers, these honorees have given so much, which provides the occasion’s raison d’être— to thank these outstanding persons, on behalf of Broward House. We spoke with director of development Terry DeCarlo about the honorees and their achievements.

Florida Agenda: Why these honorees in particular?

Terry DeCarlo: “It was time. When you look at the individuals honored with this year’s South Florida Red Ribbon Awards, you can only stand and stare in awe of each of them and the things they are able to accomplish.”

FA: Tell us about each of the honorees.

TD: “[A short list of the accomplishments of George Castrataro includes] a stint with the Miami Behavioral Health Center, and a year as Assistant Director of the Broward County Health Department. George has served as Supervising Attorney for [the Broward Human Rights Initiative], and as a senior manager for both the State of Florida Department of Health, and the National American Red Cross.

George also sits on the Board of Directors of Care Resource, a South Florida HIV/AIDS agency based out of Miami.

“Jasmin Shirley is Vice President of Community Health Services of the North Broward Hospital District and oversees the day-to-day operations of 14 primary care centers, three school-based health centers, a home health and hospice agency, an infusion company, urgent care centers, physician practices, and related operations. She

has more than 25 years of experience in health administration.

“Susan Renneisen is the Director of Special Events at the Seminole Hard Rock Hotel and Casino. She has been honored as the 2008 Women’s Way Volunteer of the Year, and received the 2010 Winterfest Captain’s Award for Outstanding Service. She was also named as one of the 100 Outstanding Women of Broward County 2010 by the Boys and Girls Club of Broward County.

Susan was instrumental in helping Broward House bring “Broward Bares It” to life. “[Among her many accomplishments], Carol Moran was the President of the Gay and Lesbian Community Center of South Florida, now known as the Pride Center. She sponsors 12 LGBT softball teams in South Florida, and every October commemorates Breast Cancer Awareness Month, bringing the ‘Mammovan’ to her business. Carol

[goes] out of her way to make sure organizations in town are taken care of, [and] she is also one hell of an activist.

“Dean Trantalis helped to coordinate the effort to defeat passage of the law banning same-sex marriages here in Florida, and met with the governor and others to fashion a compromise, which was ultimately defeated by the state legislature. He served as Director of Development at CenterOne, raising awareness, money, and hopes on behalf of persons affected by HIV. In January 1999, Dean co-wrote and led the successful passage of the Broward County domestic partnership law, which insures the extension of spousal-like benefits not just for county employees, but also to many Broward citizens.

The Agenda joins Broward House— South Florida’s oldest and largest HIV/ AIDS community service organization— in saluting and thanking the 2012 Red Ribbon Awards honorees.H

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ne of the staples of Greater Fort Lauderdale’s entertainment life is Lips Cabaret on East Oakland Park Boulevard, celebrating its 5th Anniversary this month (with an event sponsored by the Florida Agenda and our sister publication, Guy Magazine).

Find out all the glam details inside OUT in Florida and an all new Guilty Pleasures featuring the Sunday Gospel Brunch host(ess) with the most(ess), Nicolette.

In South Florida, well love us some Tex-Mex, and gourmand Richard David Chamberlain reviews this week a delicious entry in that class, Lime Fresh Mexican Grill on North Federal Highway, in this week’s Dining.

How many of us can speak all-too-well about the pain of “the Heartbreak?”

Justin Jones bares his own personal experiences with recently-lost love, in this week’s all new Love Jones. (Don’t hog the Kleenex.)

Your Kindly Editor is a sucker for a pretty face, but almost equally for a well-sculpted, well-defined upper back. Inside, training expert and Fitness columnist Tom Bonanti brings you “back” to basics about a sexy group of muscles, your “traps.”

Realtor Rick Gibson knows a thing or two about the local real estate market, and he shares his expertise with you in a Real Estate Spotlight about those old economic standbys, supply and demand: It’s in the numbers.

There’s also a tasty new Recipe from Chef Jean Doherty of Le Patio, and lots more.

Do you smell candied yams? CD

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Miami-Dade Gay Teen’s Foster Care Nightmare MIAMI GARDENS – A gay teenager endured years of psychological abuse in a north Miami-Dade County faith-based foster home, treatment that was instigated by his admission to being gay.

The unidentified teen (whose name has been withheld for his protection) entered foster care at age 10, and was later sexually assaulted by another child who was subsequently arrested.

Later, the boy was admitted to His House Children’s Home in Miami Gardens, which describes itself as “a private, non-profit, faith-based organization dedicated to restoring the joy in the lives of children from newborn to 18 years of age, and those who have transitioned out of the foster care system.”

The teen reported that when he turned 16 years old, officials began to suspect his friendship with another male teen was more than platonic, and he described being coerced into admitting his sexual identity. In a claim made to state investigators, the teenager said that administrators

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confronted him with his admission, forbade any further contact with the other boy, and began a concerted effort to “convert” him to heterosexuality.

After the indignity of an attempt at forced “conversion,” the victim reported that he was continuously humiliated by staff, administrators, and other foster children. Investigators say that the foster home ceased any efforts to find a permanent adoption for the teenager, and found him ineligible for a scholarship that would have covered his higher education.

After the teen, who is now 19 contacted his court-appointed guardian, that individual requested an investigation by the state Department of Children and Families (DCF), but officials said that the parties had not broken any laws, and failed to pursue the matter.

Bobby Blair ‘Aces’ Las Vegas Tennis Pro-Am

LAS VEGAS, NV - This weekend, Florida Agenda publisher Bobby Blair competed in a Pro-Am tennis event held at the Las Vegas Hotel (formerly the Las Vegas Hilton). Blair and doubles partner Jorge Pinos—a premier Latin American talent

agent formerly with the William Morris Agency— competed against tennis professionals and amateurs, including well-known faces from business and entertainment, and won their event.

“The University of Arkansas team of 2012 came out to watch me win,” exclaimed a delighted and grateful Blair, who recently celebrated his 48th birthday. Blair says he was especially moved by the respect he was shown “as one of the players who helped build the Razorback program in the mid 80s.”

Blair was ranked in the U.S. Top 5 in Division I college tennis in 1985, and was ranked Top 5 in the U.S. in Junior tennis in 1983. He played professionally during the 1980s, scoring wins over Wimbeldon champion Pat Cash at the Tournament of Champions in Forest Hills, NY.H

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UPCOMING EVENTS ULTIMAT VODKA PARTY FOR WILTON MANORS HISTORICAL SOCIETY

oThursday, November 8, 7-8 p.m., Village Pub, 2283 Wilton Drive. Cocktail party in association with the Wilton Manors Development Alliance.

FORT LAUDERDALE INTERNATIONAL FILM FESTIVAL

oThrough November 11. Various theaters and times. Complete show information is available at fliff.com.

GEAR UP 2 FASHION SHOW

oFriday, November 16. 11 p.m. at Boom, 2234 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors. Benefitting Broward House. For more information: 954630-3556 or boomwiltonmanors.com.

THIRD ANNUAL TEAM 990 CELEBRITY SERVERS DINNER SPECTACULAR

oMonday, November 12, 7-11 p.m., Rosie’s Bar & Grill, 2449 Wilton Drive. Local celebs wait tables with 100% of the tips and 20% of the tab benefiting the Smart Ride

RESET: WHITE PARTY WEEK

oTuesday, November 20, 10 p.m.-4 a.m., Official Madonna Tour AfterParty, Grand Central Miami, 697 N Miami Ave., Miami, $20 general admission, $50 VIP admission. oWednesday, November 21, 9 p.m.-3 a.m., White Martini Party, Mova Lounge, 1625 Michigan Ave., Miami Beach, no cover.

oWednesday, November 21, 10 p.m.-3 a.m., Dolce—A Women’s Event, Queen Lounge, 841 Washington Avenue, Miami Beach, $8 admission.

oThursday, November 22, 10 p.m.-5 a.m., White Journey Kick-off Dance Party, Score Bar, 727 Lincoln Road, Miami Beach, $25 admission.

oFriday, November 23, Noon-7 p.m., White Paradise T Dance, Dream South Beach Hotel, 1111 Collins Ave., Miami Beach, roof-top cocktails and pool-dipping, $40 admission.

oFriday, November 23, 10 p.m.-8 a.m., Urge: White Dreams, Space Nightclub, 34 NE 11th St., Miami, $60 general admission, $100 VIP admission.

oFriday, November 23, 10 p.m.-4 a.m., Bang—A Women’s Event, Score Bar, 727 Lincoln Road, Miami Beach, $14 admission.

oSaturday, November 24, Noon-7 p.m., Heatwave Pool Party, Dream South Beach Hotel, 1111 Collins Ave., Miami Beach, $40 admission.

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THE LADIES OF ‘LIPS’ CELEBRATE 5 YEARS THEY’RE ALL GROWN UP!

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t’s hard to believe that it has been a whole five years since Lips Cabaret opened its doors in Oakland Park (1421 E Oakland Park Blvd). Yvonne Lamé, the creator and founder of Lips, enjoys spilling the “skinny” on how it all began.

“We started in New York City 16 years ago, and our concept was a place for people to come, have a drink or two, enjoy a meal, and have fun with the girls in the show,” says Lamé. “My partner had a club, and once a week we had open mic night. We opened it to the female impersonators, and it was a huge hit. That’s how Lips was born.”

After that, “We moved on to San Diego—that was 13 years ago—and then finally we opened in” Oakland Park, she explains.

“Now we are going to Atlanta, and it will be the grandest Lips of all. We once again have Brenda Star as the decorator, and we have very high ceilings,” says Lamé, painting a mental picture of the décor. “There will be grand chandeliers with lots of fabric everywhere. We are located about five minutes from Buckhead”—Atlanta’s uptown district—“with lots of our own parking. We have already got several of the girls lined up for the shows, to mirror exactly the lineup in Fort Lauderdale,” Lamé reveals, noting that the opening is slated for early 2013.

Lips’ Sunday hostess Nicolette explained how someone new can break into drag entertainment. “I was living about 30 minutes away from Monroe, Louisiana, and I heard there was a drag show. I thought, ‘Wow! I want to go.’ The first time I tried was September 1995. I admit I wasn’t very good, but I kept going back and guess what? I won.”

The experienced performer was ripe for sunny South Florida. “Right after that I decided to move to Fort Lauderdale. I was hired at the original Deck Hotel and Restaurant,” she remembers. “It was great. I was taken under the wing of the late Moldavia Ishtar, and from there I took over the show on Friday and Saturday, and we opened up the stage to those who wanted to come up and work on their craft.

“After that, Madame’s opened in Miami and I was brought on as one of the originals. Electra moved her show to Lips, and I was brought on and have been hosting ‘Sunday Gospel Brunch’ since,” Nicolette notes, adding that, even after five years, “Lips is a wonderful place to work.”

There have been sacrifices. “The one thing I don’t like is pulling myself out of bed on Sunday morning,” she admits, “but having a religious background has been helpful. My ‘sister’ Franny and I work so well together that it’s been a great fit.

Mix in the other girls and we have a great time.” Amen, sister.

On Wednesday, November 14, Lips will host a benefit for the Live Free Be Strong Foundation. The “Salute to the Women of Country”—brought to you in part by the Florida Agenda and our sister publication, Guy Magazine—will be hosted by Nicolette and fellow performer Misty Eyez. Lips will donate a portion of sales from the entire week to the foundation. For more information about Lips Cabaret, visit floridalips.com, and for reservations call (954) 567-0987.H

RESET: WHITE PARTY WEEK (CONT.)

oSaturday, November 24, Noon-9 p.m., White Sunset Tea, Palace Bar, 1200 Ocean Ave., Miami Beach, no cover.

oSaturday, November 24, 10 p.m.-5 a.m., The White Party, SOHO Studios, 2136 NW 1st Avenue, Miami, $30 student admission, $99 general admission, $150 VIP admission.

oSaturday, November 24, 9 p.m.0-4 a.m., Cirque Blanc 11—A Women’s Event, Nikki Beach Club, 1 Ocean Drive, Miami Beach, $25 general admission, $75 VIP admission. oSunday, November 25, 1 p.m.-9 p.m., Muscle Beach Party, 12th Street Beach, Miami Beach, $75 general admission, $125 VIP admission.

oSunday, November 25, 11 a.m.-6 p.m., White Splash Pool Party—A Women’s Event, Maxine’s, 1752 Collins Avenue, Miami Beach, no cover.

oMonday, November 26, 5 a.m.-5 p.m., White Horizons—The Legendary Morning Party, Discotekka, 950 NE 2nd Avenue, Miami, $40 general admission.

oMonday, November 26, 11 p.m.-5 a.m., Swan Song—the Closing Event Party, Twist, 1057 Washington Avenue, Miami Beach, no cover.

ALL EVENTS BENEFIT THE COMMUNITY AIDS CARE RESOURCE (CARE), A 501[C] (3) NON-PROFIT, MULTI-CULTURAL, COMMUNITY BASED AIDS SERVICE ORGANIZATION. THE LEATHER MASKED BALL SEVEN

oFriday, November 23. Dance the night away in your sexiest leather. Masks optional.

DJ David Merrill from Washington, DC. VIP Lounge opens at 8 p.m. Dance floor opens at 11 p.m. Boom, 2232 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors. Leathermaskedball.org.

WANDA SYKES AT THE BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS

oSunday, December 2, at 8 p.m. Wanda Sykes is considered “one of the funniest stand up comics” by her peers and ranks among Entertainment Weekly’s 25 Funniest People in America. Tickets: $45 to $75; Club Level $115. For info and tickets: 954- 462-0222 or browardcenter.org

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By RICHARD DAVID CHAMBERLAIN

here’s a bucket of menus at the front door of Lime Fresh Mexican Grill, the newest entry in Fort Lauderdale’s ever-expanding freshly made South-of-theBorder-themed restaurants. That this chain started in 2004 some 40 miles away in South Beach makes its hometown ties that much stronger.

By 2006, founder John Kunkel had expanded his concept to 42 restaurants, and sold ownership to the Ruby Tuesday chain for a caliente hot $24 mil. Ruby T, in turn closed 27 of them, while announcing plans to expand the franchise in other locations, the latest of which opened last month on North Federal Highway. All of which brings us back to the bucket of menus (shaped like limes, natch).

The plan here is to scope out the selections, and know what you want to order by the time you reach the register, which is about two steps inside the front door. The restaurant itself is industrial strength, housed in a loft-sized space in what was formerly Bellini’s Coal Fired Pizza for about two minutes. Lime Fresh

sprouted in its place like alfalfa one day, with sour cream, salsa, and tortilla strips. For shades of mustard and green predominating. an extra 50 cents, the chef will add grilled An airy outside patio complements the onions and peppers, which complement this bustling interior lined with high-tops and two-handed taste treat. It’s our favorite on the stools. menu, which features seven other burritos, On the day we visited, the orders were including a veggie version at $6.99. flying out of the exposed kitchen with the The tortilla soup goes for $2.99 a cup or Taco Salad ($8.49) a clear winner if volume $3.99 a bowlful, and is a wonderfully spiced is any indication. It’s served in an and simmered extravagance that The Street Burrito enormous orange bowl the only tastes like it should break at Lime Fresh is size of Tijuana, pairing the piggy bank. Ladened a chicken burrito lover’s dream! ground beef on greens with chicken and farmwith housemade fresh vegetables, this soup guacamole, black bean is topped with both the corn salsa, carrots, sour pre-requisite tortilla strips cream, shredded jack and and a scoop of pico de gallo. cheddar cheeses, all topped Few Mexican chains serve with pico de gallo salsa and torilla up fish quesadillas, but at Lime Fresh, strips. We heighten the heat of the dish by it’s a frequently ordered option. Combine adding our own Habanero Salsa, available a lite quesadilla (two whole wheat tortillas by the scoopful from the nearby eight-flavor holding a fistful of melted jack and cheddar salsa bar. cheeses) with grilled fish for a delightful and We can also vouch for the 8th Street succulent change of pace. It’s available in two Burrito ($7.99), a toasted flour tortilla sizes—regular at $7.49, or grande at $9.99. jammed-packed with chucks of white meat Both selections are served with warm tortilla chicken, organic black beans, rice, bacon, chips that are thin and fried to a light golden

brown, and so good that Doritos should steal the recipe.

We’re a sucker for nachos, anyway they’re served. Here, you can choose to have it your way. For $5.99, the kitchen will layer cheddar and Monterey jack cheeses, black beans, jalapeños, lettuce, chopped tomatoes and housemade guacamole. Add chicken, steak, or ground beef for an extra $2; grilled onions and peppers for an additional 50 cents; and top the entire platter off with bacon bits for half a dollar more.

On Wednesday, Thursday and Friday nights, look for $2 tacos and two-for-one beer, sangria and lime margaritas, served from 4-6 p.m. Come early and tell them Florida Agenda sent you.H

LIME FRESH MEXICAN GRILL 1535 N Federal Hwy Fort Lauderdale (754) 200-6631

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his famous dessert was invented at the beginning of the 20th century by the “Demoiselles Tatin” in their restaurant on the Loire River in France. It is caramelized sliced apples oven-baked in a skillet with the pastry on top; when done, it is turned upside-down so the crust is on the bottom and the apple slices—wonderfully brown, buttery, and glazed with caramel—remain in a design on top.

It acquired its outstanding success because it was added to the list of desserts at Maxim’s, one of the most famous Parisian restaurants at that time (it opened in 1893, during La Belle Époque).

tucking in the part of the pastry that exceeds the diameter of the mould. Put the mould into the heated oven for about 35 minutes, then remove it and let it rest for 10 minutes. With a small sharp knife cut around the vertical internal side of the mould. Place your serving dish upside down on the mould and turn it over. Serve warm with vanilla ice cream or whipped cream—you are a chef! H

Ingredients • Shortcrust (quiche, tart, or pie) pastry • 2 lbs of apples • ½ cup of caster sugar • 1 knob of butter (half a stick) Pre-heat the oven to 450 degrees. Peel apples, prying them open into two parts, removing the core and the seeds with a spoon, and cutting each half into three segments. Pour half of the sugar into a Teflon round mould, about eight inches in diameter. Arrange the apple segments on the sugar, and pour the melted butter on top of them, adding the other half of the sugar. Put the mould on the stove top on medium high heat. (Be careful not to burn the apples.)

Cut a raw pastry circle slightly larger than the mould and make holes with a fork in several places of the pastry. Take the mould off the heat.

Place the pastry disc on top of the apple segments using a rolling pin (larger than the mould),

Although born in Dublin, Ireland, Chef Jean Doherty spent most of her life in Lyon, France, the gastronomical capital of the world. Together with Vero, her partner of 25 years, Jean has owned and run multiple restaurants including Fort Lauderdale’s Le Patio.

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HEARTBREAK JUSTIN JONES

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ere you are in the dark, wrapped up in your sheets, waiting for the pain to go away. You close your eyes to escape the world, but you see only his smile. You smell only his cologne. You feel his whispers, his kisses, and yourself in his arms.

Memories of talking with him about the future—about kids, yards, cars, and dogs— flash before you. Former treasures, now curses.

You foresaw this heartbreak, this inevitability, and in the long-term, you know this is best for you both. But it doesn’t feel that way right now, bound up tightly in your bed, where once he lay and stroked your hair, where once he told you that he was the luckiest man in the world for having you.

The stream of tears is unending, and although you know they will dry in time, this—THIS!—feels like eternity: The perfect definition of Hell. You need tissues, but no one buys Kleenex anymore. It’s like a landline telephone. But you need it for the snot and

tears that are soaking your pillow. The whole scene looks like shit and you know it.

Just days ago you argued so passionately, so vulgarly, hoping for a way out of the tumult.

Breaking up at that point would have meant salvation, at least until the intensity of the moment waned.

And how badly you wish it were different now. How badly you wish it were like before, when he was the highlight, not the hurt.

You’ll take no calls now. Your friends, who are desperate to console you (to bring you soup, like that will help), you turn away. The world and everything about it now is dark, and to be avoided. They conjure memories that you won’t allow, so you leave them untouched. For now.

It was mutual. There were too many arguments, too many frustrations, too many cons—too many things working against you to stay together. They put you at an everincreasing distance. So yes, this was the right move, you tell yourself.

But wasn’t there still some glimmer of

hope? No. You tried everything, both of you.

And as resilient as you were, it could neither help prevent nor survive the storm.

So here you are, crying in the dark, wanting nothing more than to fall asleep, to forget the world, to run away to a place where no one goes.

In time, you’ll recall how hurtful the arguments were, how mad they made you, and this will make things easier. But as time presses on, the good memories will win, and they will haunt you, tease you, with things you no longer have.

In time, it will all feel better, your friends tell you. You know it’s true. But time is a goddamn

bastard, too slow when you’re in agony, too fast when you’re in ecstasy.

So for now you will bear your broken heart.

You’ll wrench out the pain. You’ll cry.

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e often hear the question, “Are we in a buyer’s or seller’s market?”

It doesn’t have to be one or the other, and in fact it appears that right now we have both at the same time. Real estate, like any market, is driven by supply and demand, and “supply” in real estate is the number of properties (inventory) available to buy.

When supply is “down” and demand is “high,” prices tend to rise. For now, buyers and sellers both are winning.

There is no question that prices are going up. That is not a reason for buyers to “pause,” but rather to take action.

I disagree that there will be another big “drop” in prices soon. In order for prices to drop, we need to have a surge of inventory to meet or exceed the current demand. This is not happening.

In fact, we are entering season, and there will be even more buyers and increased demand. Although prices are going up, they are a fraction of what they were and will be again. So, it is a

great time to buy.

For many homeowners this is also an ideal time to sell. Why? Although your property value may increase over the next six months or more, waiting means you may not be able to afford the same opportunities. If you were to sell now— at prices lower than they will be in six months—and also buy now, the property you are buying may be worth significantly less than it will be at the end of those six months. That savings may be a lot more than if you wait to sell.

This is a balancing act, so please consult a Realtor® who has a proven

track record, and if you want to buy and sell at the same time, that Realtor can coordinate the transition. Now could be the best time in your life to make that transition.

Where is the bad news? Frankly, I don’t see any. Interest rates are at their lowest in over 40 years. Prices are still incredibly low, and if you sell before you buy, your property— if priced right and marketed properly— should move quickly. The only “mistake” you could make (if you plan to buy soon or have plans to change where you live) would be to do nothing.

You may hear stories about

banks “releasing a lot of foreclosures,” but don’t let that be a reason not to take action. The banks are selling foreclosures in groups or “portfolios” to investors, and so the number of foreclosures is also declining. When foreclosures do appear on the market, they are not priced as low as they were in the past, and they often sell over the asking price in multiple offers.

For buyers, seller, investors, and even spectators, it is almost all good news.

The world seems to stress bad news and good news is often “lost.” That shouldn’t keep us from improving our lives and enjoying one of the rare really positive times in both our national and local economies.H

dumbbells back to starting point. Do three to four sets of 10-12 reps.

As far as traps and machines go, I like to use a plain old universal chest press machine.

Stand facing the machine. Take an overhand grip on the bar, with your hands slightly more than shoulder width apart or, if the machine allows it, with your palms facing toward each other. Keep your head and back straight and shrug your shoulders. Return to the starting position. Do three to four sets of 10-12 reps.

Remember, guys, you may like to work certain muscle groups more than others – pecs, bi’s, etc. Just don’t forget that a truly

superior physique is one that is forged with well balanced workouts that develop strength, size and symmetry in every muscle group.

For tips on effective training routines contact TrainerTomB@aol.com!H

Rick Gibson is a Realtor and Team Leader with Re/Max Preferred. A Certified Distressed Property Expert (CDPE) and Investment Agent Specialist (CIAS), he is Principal of Gibson Group Property Management, LLC.

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here’s nothing like nice trapezius muscles to make your shoulders look fuller and your upper back look more massive. Upper body strength and symmetry depend upon your traps being fully developed. The main role of these large fanshaped muscles which extend from upper back and neck to your mid-back region, are to keep your head and neck erect and upright.

I like to work traps when I do back or shoulders and I try to hit them twice a week.

I usually do an upright row exercise when I include traps with my shoulder routine. When I combine traps with back, I focus primarily upon shrugs.

Upright rows not only work your traps, but they are also excellent for deltoid development. Stand with your feet slightly spread. Keep your back straight. Take an overhand grip on the bar with your hands palm-width apart or a little more. Generally, the closer your grip the more you emphasize traps. Inhale and pull the barbell straight

upward until it contacts your chin. Lift your elbows as high as possible at the top point of the movement. Exhale and slowly lower the barbell back to starting position. Three to four sets of 10-12 reps should do just fine.

Barbell shrugs are universally popular as the most effective trap developer. Stand with your feet slightly apart, facing the bar resting on the floor or on a weight rack. Take an overhand grip on the bar (or an over-under grip if the weight is heavy), with your hands a little more than shoulder width apart. Keep your arms and back straight, contract your abdominals and shrug your shoulders upward and to the rear as high as possible. This exercise isolates the trapezius better than any other. Do three to four sets of 10-12 reps.

Dumbbell shrugs allow for better range of motion than barbell shrugs but do not isolate traps as well. Stand with your feet slightly apart. Keep your head straight or slightly bent forward. Hold the dumbbells with your arms extended at your sides. Shrug your shoulders as high and as far back as possible. Lower the

Tom Bonanti is a certified personal trainer and owner of Pump’n Inc Gym at 1271 NE 9th Ave, Fort Lauderdale. For more tips on how to maintain your muscular, toned summer body, give me a shout at TrainerTomB@aol.com

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FORT LAUDERDALE/WILTON MANORS ALIBI 2266 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Gayborhood tradition since 1997. Comfortable, inviting atmosphere with indoor video bars, outdoor drinking and dining. Drink specials all week, with mammoth 22-ounce Long Island Iced Teas for $3 on Thursdays.

BILL’S FILLING STATION 2209 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Videos, pool tables, dart boards, dance floor, happy hour, live shows, Tuesday and Thursday karaoke – and great burgers, to boot. Fun and friendly truck-stopthemed bar.

BOARDWALK 1721 N Andrews Ave., Fort Lauderdale Over 100 of the sexiest men from all over the world.

Go-go dancers, cages, billiards, 2-4-1 Happy Hours.

Drag emcees and did we mention the Boys?

BOOM 2232 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors The bar with two names features a dance club and Gayborhood bar. Drag Bingo on Mondays, karaoke Mondays and Tuesdays, dance music Fridays and Saturdays, and (indoor) Sunday T-Dance.

CORNER PUB 1915 N Andrews Ave., Wilton Manors Friendly atmosphere, unpretentious clientele and staff.

Next to Island City Pizza (so you can get your drink AND your slice on).

CUBBY HOLE 823 N Federal Hwy., Fort Lauderdale Butch bar and grill with a rockin’ daytime crowd (and a fun nighttime one, too). Fifty cent pool, 2-for-1 drinks all day every day, video games, hot movies on HDTV and DirecTV. Thursdays it’s Bare Bear Chest Night, and every Friday and Saturday the fur flies with Hot Bears on Poles (where their Grizzlies Grind)!

DEPOT CABANA BAR AND GRILL 2935 N Federal Hwy., Fort Lauderdale Adjacent to the America’s Best Inn and Suites. Pool open daily – No Cover or Day Pass. Great food, daily happy hour, Sunday afternoon T-Dance Poolside.

Karaoke and live music. Open daily at 11:30 a.m.

DUDES 3270 NE 33rd St., Fort Lauderdale Men dancing for men. Hot go-go boys in an upscale atmosphere, piano lounge for more quiet interludes.

Steamy shower shows.

JOHNNY’S 1116 W Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Club, bar, lounge. Male dancers and the men who love (to ogle) them. Sunday amateur strip contest (and karaoke!).

LIPS 1421 E Oakland Park Blvd., Oakland Park The Ultimate in Drag Dining. Dinner and shows six nights a week. Sunday Gospel Brunch with the Sisters of Sequins.

THE MANOR 2345 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors WeHo vibe (think: LA’s The Abbey) in the heart of the Gayborhood. Dine, drink, dance, play, mingle. Theme rooms (salsa and merengue every weekend in the Latin Quarter!). Live dancing and dining.

MATTY’S ON THE DRIVE 2426 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Drink specials, billiards, and a chill gayborhood vibe. 75 Cent drinks on Wednesdays. No Drama, No Smoking.

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MONKEY BUSINESS 2740 N Andrews Ave., Fort Lauderdale Cozy neighborhood bar. Karaoke, drag shows, Patio Bar – and open at 9 a.m. daily.

MONA’S 502 E Sunrise Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Cocktail Lounge in the heart of Searstown. Fun customers, fun bartenders and fun proprietor (the Legendary Jerry). Outside patio. Wednesday karaoke, Thursday Speedball Tournament.

NAKED GRAPE 2163 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Relaxing, friendly, hip, unique. The alternative gathering place on Wilton Dr. Now serving tapas nightly.

Social Hour features $5 house wine glasses, $1 Barcelona Bites, and In The Biz all the time.

PJ’S CORNER POCKET 924 N Flagler Dr., Fort Lauderdale Friendly neighborhood interracial bar with drinks specials every night of the week including, “In the Biz Mondays” at 9 p.m. with 2-4-1 drinks and $3 Cosmos and Apple Martinis, “Splash Friday’s” wet underwear contest, and Sunday’s pool tournament, both with a $50 cash prize!

RAMROD 1508 NE 4th Ave., Fort Lauderdale Voted World’s Favorite Leather Bar. Pig Dance first Saturday of the month – South Florida’s Busiest, Craziest Monthly Party (with caged hunks at Midnight on Saturdays – is there a downside to this?).

ROSIE’S BAR & GRILL 2449 Wilton Dr., Wilton Manors Nexus of the A-Gay List. Be Seen in the Scene (without making one). Food, folks, libations, and a killer Sunday Funday.

SCANDALS SALOON 3073 NE 6th Ave., Wilton Manors A line-dancin’, tight blue jeans-wearin’ good time.

Country and western music, two-steppin’, threesteppin’, pool tables, and themed events year ‘round.

Cowboys and Indians was never this much fun, Pilgrim.

SIDELINES 2031 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Where Sports come first. Nationally known destination sports bar with TVs streaming NFL, MLB, NBA and college games. Pool tables, dart boards and large indoor (and now smoke-free) facility. Outdoor patio features area for smokers. Mixed crowd of gay men and women (who would have thought?). Featured in Bloomberg Businessweek and recommended by LOGO. STABLE 205 E Oakland Park Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Levis-and-leather neighborhood bar, where the bears line dance and the cowboys are VERY friendly.

SMARTY PANTS 2400 E Oakland Park Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Cozy neighborhood bar with daily happy hour, and regular patrons. Show night Thursdays at 9 p.m.

Karaoke Friday and Saturday nights, and with matinee on Sunday afternoon.

TORPEDO 2829 W Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Dance, shoot pool, drink til 4 a.m., 7 nights a week.

Doors open at Midnight; dance til Dawn.

WHISKEY BLUE 401 N Fort Lauderdale Beach Blvd., Fort Lauderdale In the W Hotel on Fort Lauderdale Beach, downstairs it’s the elegant Whiskey Blue, upstairs the luxe Living Room: hot dance and social settings in a distinctive

atmosphere with signature cocktails and upscale patrons. Indoor and outdoor lounges.

WILTON’S BIER GARDEN 2245 Wilton DriveWilton Manors German cuisine meets Der Gayborhood, in a fun, relaxed atmosphere. Upstairs dining, downstairs outdoor patio and bar, DJ music, and a fun staff make one of Wilton Manors’ newest venues a good time to be had by all.

MIAMI/MIAMI BEACH ­ CLUB BOI 777 NE 79 St., Miami With an urban vibe on the weekends, a diverse crowd and a diverse musical format, including Hip Hop, R&B, House, Reggae, Soca, Latin and Old School. Go-go bois and drink specials.

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Beaumont, Margo, and others. This legendary establishment has been around for over 30 years, and host Happy Hour specials daily from 11 a.m. - 8 p.m.

AQUA NIGHTCLUB 711 Duval St., Key West, FL Aqua features the “Reality is a Drag” show six days a week, followed by dancing. Monday is karaoke night and don’t miss the great happy hour specials from 3 to 8 p.m. daily.

KWest 705 Duval St., Key West, FL Daily Happy Hour from 3 to 8 p.m., and a piano sing-a-long every Wednesday night. Men dancing for men after 10 p.m. Weekly drink specials and “Wet Jockey” contests on Fridays.

CLUB SUGAR 2301 SW 32nd Ave., Miami Gay Latin scene, with Salsa, Merengue, Reggaeton, Hip Hop and House music always playing.

SALOON ONE 801 Duval St., Key West, FL (Behind 801 Bar) This is the only gay leather bar in Key West.

Conveniently located behind 801 Bourbon Bar.

DISCOTEKKA 950 NE 2nd Ave., Miami Hot music, hot scene, hot bartenders, and hot patrons in the hot heart of Downtown Miami.

LA TE DA 1125 Duval St., Key West, FL An upscale hotel complex with 3 bars, cabaret and restaurant.

JOHNNY’S MIAMI 62 NE 14th Street, Downtown Miami Club, bar and lounge. Johnny’s Miami boasts the best sound system in town! Plenty of safe, secured parking. Open 5pm to 5am daily. Hot male dancers and daily drink specials.

PEARL’S PATIO BAR FOR WOMEN 525 United St., Key West, FL Tropical themed women’s bar for gay women and gay-friendly women alike. Patio bar with a full bar featuring drinks like “Cosmopearlitans” and “Pearl’s Passion”.

MOVA LOUNGE 1625 Michigan Ave., Miami Beach On Miami Beach’s famed Lincoln Road, never a cover.

Drink specials all week long, live DJs, high energy music and a fun crowd getting their dance on til late.

BOBBY’S MONKEY BAR 900 Simonton St., Key West, FL The gay Cheers style neighborhood bar of Key West. Happy Hour from Noon to 7pm, Karaoke on Sunday nights, pool tournaments on Tuesday nights at 7pm. Free Wi-Fi access.

PALACE BAR 1200 Ocean Drive, Miami Beach This bar and restaurant in the heart of South Beach’s Art Deco District. Mouth-watering burgers, boys (and girls!). Weekend cabaret shows Thursday through Sunday.

SCORE 727 Lincoln Rd., Miami Beach Dance, drink, party all night on Miami Beach’s Lincoln Road. Tons of events throughout the year, including fundraisers for Winter Party, White Party, and Miami Beach Gay Pride.

SPACE 34 NE 11th St., Miami Mingle and mix with gays and str8s in the heart of Downtown Miami. Indoor dance floors and outdoor rooftop bar, spectacular light show.

TWIST 1057 Washington Ave., Miami Beach Great music, friendly staff, hot tourists and locals.

Never a cover, always a groove. Bungalow Bar = Hot Men. In SoBe’s Art Deco District.

KEY WEST ­ BOURBON STREET PUB 724 Duval St., Key West, FL Opened in October of 1995 and has continued to grow ever since, it is now part of the larger collection of gay action in The Bourbon St. Pub Complex. Hot Go-Go boy dancers and a busy crowd. “Where the boys are!”

801 BOURBON BAR 801 Duval St., Key West, FL Cabaret shows upstairs with nightly performances by famed performers Sushi, Kylie, RV

GARDEN OF EDEN 224 Duval St., Key West, FL A Rooftop Bar with the BEST VIEWS in the city & “BEST Long Island Ice Teas made by Melinda!”

Gay, straight, fat, or skinny... Doesn’t matter!

Clothing optional - gay friendly!

WEST PALM BEACH H G ROOSTERS 823 Belvedere Rd., West Palm Beach, FL Dark bar that attracts a fun party crowd. Camp is in at H.G.’s, where drag shows and bingo nights pack in crowds looking for laughs and fun.

THE LOUNGE 517 Clematis St., West Palm Beach, FL Sushi, tropical views and tasty cocktails are accompanied by acclaimed resident DJ Daisy DeadPetals.

FORT DIX BAR & CLUB 6205 Georgia Ave., West Palm Beach, FL Mostly local crowd looking to mingle and relax. The bar is a bit on the dark and dingy side, but who knows--that could be a plus.

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