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Up Same-Sex Child Custody Case

By CLIFF DUNN

TALLAHASSEE – Last week, the Florida Supreme Court heard oral arguments in a child-custody case between two women who are former partners in a committed same-sex couple. The case reflects the disparity between what Florida law defines as family units, and the reality as it exists down the length of the Sunshine State.

The case concerns two women contesting parental rights to their daughter, who was conceived in 2006 by having one of the women’s eggs implanted in the womb of the other (meaning that the girl has one birth mother, but a different biological mother). After the women split in 2006, the birth mother cut off all contact with her former partner, and took the child to Australia.

In most circumstances, both state and federal law recognize parental rights in the case of a biological mother who is raising her own child.

But during the original custody suit, the Brevard County trial judge said that, because egg and sperm donors relinquish their parental rights, and because Florida law defines a “couple” as “one man and one woman” he was required to classify the biological mother as an “egg donor.”

For the protection and privacy of the child, the women are identified in court records by their initials. After his ruling, the judge told the biological mother, who is identified as TMH, “If you appeal this, I hope I’m wrong.” The 5th District Court of Appeal in Daytona Beach ruled in favor of the biological mother, saying that both women have parental rights.

Experts say that at the heart of the case is a 1993 state law regulating sperm and

egg donation, as well as the rights of gay people to raise children and claim equal protection under the law. (In 2010, another appeals court ruled that Florida’s ban on gay adoption was unconstitutional.)

The 5th District’s ruling led to the appeal of the birth mother—who is identified as DMT—which was heard on October 2.

Her attorney, Michael B. Jones, cited the precedence of other courts recognizing a birth parent’s privileged status. “A

step-parent, a grandparent, under many different kinds of circumstances, may have a relationship with the child, but when the actual parent decides that that relationship is no longer appropriate for the child, then that is terminated,” Jones said.

Justice Barbara Pariente asked Jones why the biological mother isn’t an actual parent, when a man who fathers a child out of wedlock is recognized as such if he helps to raise the child. “Is that not a situation that at least implicates equal protection of women, at least to have equal protection as men?” asked Pariente, a West Palm Beach Democrat.

Chief Justice Ricky Polston noted the

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definition of a “couple” under state law, and asked whether the panel could even consider such questions. “It seems like you’re asking this court to implement social policy that’s not reflected in the Florida statutes, not in the Florida Constitution or, to me, in the U.S. Constitution. But you’re asking us to make a constitutional ruling on social policy,” said Polston (who was appointed to the Florida Supreme Court in 2008 by then-Gov. Charlie Crist) to the biological mother’s attorney, Robert Segal.

Segal, said, “We’re asking the court to make a determination that appellee [the biological mother] has protected parental rights, based on the actions of the parties.” He said the biological mother wasn’t just an egg donor, that she had taken equal part in the raising of the child until she was taken away by the birth mother.

Because Florida law banned gay adoption at the time of the child’s birth, the woman didn’t have the option to adopt her child. As noted above, that ban was declared unconstitutional in 2010.

The justices raised the possibility of returning the case to the original trial judge to decide upon a doctor’s informed consent form signed by the biological mother, in which she gives up all rights to the donated egg, as well as any resulting offspring.

The birth mother’s attorney argued that the case hinges upon the consent form.

The biological mother’s lawyer countered that the form is not a legal contract (it wasn’t signed by both parties), and applies strictly to anonymous sperm and egg donors, not a committed couple who plan to raise children together.H

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“Ten Commandments” Ex-Chief Justice Says Gay Marriage Will Lead To America’s “Destruction” FORT PAYNE, AL — Alabama’s once-and-(he hopes)-future Chief Justice says that the “ultimate destruction” of America will be the end result of legalizing gay marriage.

Speaking at a Tea Party rally on Saturday in Fort Payne, Republican nominee for chief justice Roy Moore said that marriage equality attacks the country’s foundation.

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Moore’s opponent, Circuit Judge Robert Vance, a Democrat, says that same-sex marriage isn’t an issue in Alabama, because the state has a constitutional amendment that prohibits such unions.

Moore, 65, became Alabama’s chief justice in 2001. In 2003, the Alabama Court of the Judiciary unanimously removed Moore from his post after he refused the order of a federal judge to take down a Ten Commandments monument from the Alabama Judicial Building.

In 2006, Moore sought the Republican primary nomination for Governor of Alabama, but lost nearly two-to-one to incumbent Gov. Bob Riley. In the 2010 GOP gubernatorial primary, Moore received only 19 percent of the vote, placing fourth.

Iowa Republican Party Opposes Existing State Anti-Bullying Law, Promotes Confrontation

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DES MOINES, IA – The Iowa Republican Party has adopted a platform that directly opposes the state’s 2007 anti-bullying statute.

It likewise complains about the teaching of homosexual behavior as “a normal or acceptable lifestyle,” and the establishment of GayStraight Alliances, or similar clubs, in the Iowa schools. It also suggests that the best way to combat bullying is via direct confrontation.

“We assert that it is the individual school’s responsibility to police these matters, not the state’s,” the state GOP platform reads. “We also assert that students have the right and responsibility to stand up for themselves.”

In 2007, Iowa lawmakers passed an anti-bullying law. The statute, signed by then-Gov. Chet Culver, a Democrat, includes sexual orientation as one of 17 explicitly protected student traits. During the debate, Republican state senators offered an amendment to exempt religious schools from the law, but it was defeated by a 28 to 22 vote.

Iowa Gov. Terry Branstad is organizing an anti-bullying summit in November. Branstad, a Republican, tried to distance himself from the platform, saying that it was “a statement of the grassroots individuals” that are the party’s “activists.”

The Iowa Democratic platform supports efforts to promote “antibullying legislation.”

Mormon Leaders Warn Against SameSex Parenting, Other “Selfish Interests” SALT LAKE CITY, UT – During the biannual General Conference of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS), one of the highest ranked members of the church condemned “nontraditional” family arrangements, including same-sex parenthood, cohabitation, divorce, and single parenthood.

“Children need others to speak for them,” said church apostle Dallin Oaks, “and they need decisionmakers who put their well-being ahead of selfish adult interests.”

Oaks, a member of the LDS Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, was one of several church leaders

who spoke to the 20,000 attendees about topics mostly concerning maintaining traditions in a modern context. He called abortion a “great evil,” and condemned child abuse and neglect.

Although he called for the parents of children who experience same-sex attraction to treat them with “loving understanding, not bullying or ostracism,” Oaks warned about the impact to children of same-sex couples or single mothers, saying that, “Children are also victimized by marriages that do not occur.”

His fellow apostle Neil Andersen urged gay and single Mormons to remain chaste, despite external pressures. “The world protests: ‘How can you ask so much?’” said Andersen. “The Lord responds, ‘As the heavens are higher than the Earth, so are my ways higher than your ways.’”

LDS Apostle Quentin Cook said that many Mormon faithful apply the church’s teachings through a prism of modern sensibilities, and “allow intense cultural or political views to weaken their allegiance to the gospel of Jesus Christ.”

Scalia: Tough Cases—Like “Homosexual Sodomy”—Are Easiest To Rule On WASHINGTON, DC – For a “textualist” like Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia, interpreting the Constitution is a no-brainer.

“The death penalty? Give me a break. It’s easy,” said Scalia during an address and book-signing at the American Enterprise Institute. “Abortion? Absolutely easy. Nobody ever thought the Constitution prevented restrictions on abortion. Homosexual sodomy?

Come on. For 200 years, it was criminal in every state,” he added.

The 76-year-old Scalia said that he applies the Constitution’s words as they were understood by their framers, contrasting that style of jurisprudence with those of colleagues who apply them through the values of a changing world. For such a hypothetical colleague, “the Constitution means exactly what [he thinks] it ought

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to mean,” rather than what the Founders intended.

Scalia, who is the longest-served member of the current Supreme Court, said that citizens should turn to their elected officials, instead of judges, when it comes to public policy changes like ending capital punishment or securing reproductive rights.

Same-sex marriage is expected to be a major issue for the high court this term. It seems likely that the justices won’t decide whether to take up marriage equality until after next month’s presidential election, which means arguments won’t take place until spring.

Newark Mayor Says Gay Marriage Will Come to NJ WASHINGTON, DC – On Saturday night, Newark, N.J. Mayor Cory Booker told attendees at the 16th annual Human Rights Campaign (HRC) National Dinner that as Governor of New Jersey, he would sign marriage equality legislation into law.

“I’m going to declare right now that the state of New Jersey—with all of the fiber of my being, with my allies left and right—that we will ensure that marriage equality is signed into law in the state of New Jersey,” said Booker, adding, “And when that bill is signed, I may have a very good seat for it.”

The rising star of the progressive movement reaffirmed remarks he made at this summer’s Democratic National Convention in Charlotte, N.C.—in which he also hinted at a possible gubernatorial run in the Garden State. In February, state lawmakers voted to legalize marriage equality, but the legislation was vetoed by Gov. Chris Christie, a Republican.

“It is the unconquerable spirit that when some of us in our nation were told you aren’t good enough, this spirit stood and said, ‘Yes I am,’” Booker told the 3,000 attendees at the Washington Convention Center. H

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U.S. Rep. Barney Frank To Attend “Stonewall Stars” WILTON MANORS – America’s most prominent gay elected official, U.S. Rep. Barney Frank (D-MA), will discuss marriage equality during this year’s “Stonewall Stars: Turning the Tide,” which will be held on November 17 at The Manor. The event, hosted by the Stonewall National Museum and Archives (SNMA), will celebrate the achievements of local and national persons who are furthering the cause of the LGBT community.

“The issue of marriage equality is one that will be at the forefront until we have reached true equality,” said Tom Tabor, chairman of SNMA. “We are thrilled that Rep. Frank, who will be attending with his husband James Ready, has agreed to headline this important event and fundraiser.”

Tickets for “Stonewall Stars: Turning the Tide” start at $75 for general admission and $150 for VIP. A limited-attendance brunch with Rep. Frank and Mr. Ready will be held at a private residence on Sunday, November 18 for $500. For more information, visit stonewallnationalmuseum.org.

BSO Presents Anti-Bullying Competition and Award Celebration FORT LAUDERDALE – As part of a competition to raise awareness against bullying, teams of students from Broward County schools have created one-minute public service announcements (PSA) utilizing the “12 Trigger-Proof Anti-Bullying Tools” (which were developed by author and psychotherapist Gay Lynn Grigas) as the basis for their productions.

Filmmaker Lyndale Pettus has produced a behind-the-scenes documentary of the PSA competition, which premieres Saturday, October 13, at an invitation-only event held at Cinema Paradiso (503 SE 6 St., Fort Lauderdale), to be followed by the announcement of the PSA winners.

The anti-bullying campaign and competition is organized by The Empowerment Center Corporation (TECC), a 501(c) (3) non-profit that delivers training for elementary, middle and high school students that helps them

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to recognize their emotional triggers, and manage their reactions from the inside. The campaign has been approved by the Broward County Public Schools, the nation’s sixth largest public school district. For more information, visit theempowermentcentercorporation.org.

“Dueling” Prides Announce Working Partnership FORT LAUDERDALE – Pride One of Broward County, Inc. (d/b/a Pride South Florida), producer of Pridefest, has announced a working partnership with Stonewall Summer Pride, to be known as Pride United of Broward.

“We are very excited about working with Pride South Florida,” said Greg Hardy, Board member of Stonewall Summer Pride and the Rainbow Business Coalition of Greater Fort Lauderdale, which co-produces Stonewall Summer Pride in Wilton Manors. “Working together on projects and events, we can bring a unified voice that has been long absent in Pride organizations in Broward County.”

The first joint event was a booth at Oktoberfest in Oakland Park, during the weekend of October 5, with representatives of both organizations attending.

“South Florida’s LGBT community has yet to realize the full power of our influence,” said Marc Hansen, President of Pride South Florida. “We tend to be our own speed bump in the road to our true equality instead of coming together and putting aside our own self-induced labels, prejudices and ill will, and truly work together as a community.”

Officials say they have plans for additional joint events. For more information, visit pridesouthflorida. org, stonewallsummerpride.com, and rainbowbusinesscoalition.com.

Feminist Lion(ess) Gloria Steinem To Appear at Artserve FORT LAUDERDALE – Author and activist Gloria Steinem will be the guest at a free event on Sunday, October 21, at Artserve Auditorium (1350 E Sunrise Blvd, Fort Lauderdale), to discuss current topics, as well as her upcoming book, “Road to the Heart: America As If Everyone

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Mattered.” The event is sponsored by the Broward County Pro-Choice Coalition. Light refreshments will be served. To RSVP, email beth@ browardgwencherry.com.

North Miami Pastor Claims “Homosexual Network” Conspiracy NORTH MIAMI – Pastor Jack Hakimian of Impact Miami Church claims that openly-gay former North Miami Mayor Kevin Burns and other local gay business and civic leaders are using “Mafiastyle coercion” to undermine his congregation’s relationship with the community.

As previously reported in the Florida Agenda ( June 27, 2012: “Why, BIG BIRD—Why? Public TV Station Teams with Anti-Gay North Miami Pastor to Halt Strip Club”), Hakimian has had a volatile history with officials both gay and straight, including a near-miss this summer when Miami-Dade Schools Superintendent Alberto Carvalho threatened to sever Impact Miami’s lease with North Miami Senior High School, because of the pastor’s outspoken remarks about LGBT issues.

Last month, Hakimian claimed that Burns helped squash a deal between Impact Miami and the owners of local Moca Café, where the pastor had planned a monthly event. Hakimian alleges that Burns and the owner of the café building applied pressure to kill the plans.

In an email, “Former Homosexual Mayor Attacks North Miami Church,” Hakimian slammed Burns

and others, including North Miami City Councilman Scott Galvin.

“Can these homosexual leaders be trusted, or will they continue to bully if unchecked?” wrote Hakimian.

He also railed against “rich AngloHomosexuals using their ‘old power’ structures to intimidate conservative immigrant Haitians, minorities and immigrants.”

“Pastor Jack needs to grow thicker skin,” Galvin told the Agenda this week. “Even though I was aware he was preaching in the restaurant, I didn’t point it out to anyone, let alone his landlord.”

As to the existence of a ‘pink conspiracy’ against Hakimian and his flock, Galvin insists, “There is no ‘gay mafia’ trying to ruin him. If he thought I was part of such a silly conspiracy, he could have called and asked. I thought we had opened lines of communication at our Inclusion Town Hall (See Agenda, August 15, 2012: “Controversial Miami-Dade Pastor: ‘Love Doesn’t Mean We Can’t Disagree,’ Inclusion Forum Was Scene of Emotion, Conciliation).

“Instead, he took to the airwaves with gossip and attacks,” Galvin added. “That’s a shame.”

Gulf Coast Gay Couple Applies For, Refused Marriage License TAMPA – Two Hillsborough County men celebrated their 19th anniversary together by applying for a marriage license at the county Records Department. “We thought it would be a fitting tribute to the life that we’ve lived together to try and obtain a marriage license,” Jarrod Scarbrough told WFTS Tampa Bay. After their number was called, Scarbrough and his partner, Les Sewell, were told by a county employee, “The state of Florida does not recognize same-sex marriage, so I’m not going to be able to issue the marriage license,” Scarbrough recalled. “It would be illegal for me to issue the license, because it is Florida statute,” the clerk added.

The men told WFTS that they wanted “to put a face [to the] issue.”H

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Business vs. Government: A Tale of Two Failures OCTOBER 10, 2012 • ISSUE 151

CLIFF DUNN, EDITOR “We do not believe that everything in Society is either exactly right or exactly wrong; what is good we desire to preserve and improve; what is evil, to exterminate, or reform.”

– Mission statement of the New York (Daily) Times, published in its first issue, September 18, 1851

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series of unrelated events last week— including the first presidential debate— put me in mind of the shortcomings of both government and business, and helped clarify for me the ridiculous nature of the notion that a President of the United States equates with the CEO of a Blue Chip Corporation, along with the idea that a country should be run like a business.

There are a large number of Americans who sincerely believe that a government of, by, and for the people should function under the same conventions that govern business, and who equate the forms themselves as being interchangeable, with POTUS as the hypothetical CEO, and Congress functioning as a Board of Directors.

Even that most well-groomed Captain of Industry, Mitt Romney, doesn’t believe this analogy.

The trouble with trying to run a country like a business is that the “customer” base is different for each one. In a country, we are one another’s customer (as fellow citizens), and we contribute to one another’s common welfare. That is why when a tornado strikes a town in Kansas, the federal government sends money or material aid, just as it will if a hurricane ravages South Florida. That is, as Republican Oliver Wendell Holmes said, both “the price we pay for living in a civilized society,” and its benifit.

But if that scenario played like it does in “business”—which counts “customers” as well as

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“investors”—there would be a profitand-loss reckoning as to how many resources went to New Orleans, versus how much was sent to South Beach: A nation with a debt (which includes all the successful ones) has the “luxury” of not having to decide between those choices (just as—when push comes to shove—we don’t have to “choose” between fighting one war or two; “sadly,” wehave the resources —in the form of deficits—to do both, something employed by both Democrats and Republicans).

In a nation, we are all customers and investors.

When Hurricane Katrina ravaged the Gulf Coast in 2005, the Bush Administration’s handling of the federal emergency response was unworthy of a great nation. The postKatrina cleanup was handled like a business—one that enriched large contractors who had longstanding relationships with high-ranking officials. My purpose here is not to Bush Bash: It is to draw attention to the disastrous consequences of trying to manage a nation as a profit center.

Another dramatic example of the stark difference between the way a government and the way a business operate occurred in the hours immediately after the September 11, 2001 terrorist attacks. Following the attacks, the New York City Municipal Credit Union, which is headquartered across from ground zero, lost its computer link to the network that controls its automated teller machines. Because of this, the

network had no way to check accounts to verify that sufficient funds existed to cover ATM withdrawals.

Rather than shut down its ATM operation—and looking after the interests of its 300,000 members during a time of crisis—credit union officials allowed customers to make withdrawals from their accounts without knowing if the money was there to cover them.

The Municipal Credit Union, whose members include city, state, and federal employees, as well as health care workers, is a nonprofit financial institution with $1 billion in assets. As a credit union—of, by, and for its members—it functions much like a governmental body, providing financial services to those members, who in turn contribute to a pool used by other members (yes, this smacks of communism). In the months following 9/11, $15 million dollars was looted by credit unions members, and 118 individuals were charged by prosecutors in the thefts.

Ironically, I think their bad example is the exception that proves both the rule and my point. Those members who took advantage of the goodwill of the credit union officials after 9/11 were scoundrels in their actions, and we don’t know how many honest members were helped during those months. But the fact that the “bottom line” wasn’t the bottom-line for those officials in a time of trauma is very much to their credit.H

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Jan Carpenter (1949 to 2012): Farewell to a larger than life friend

By CLIFF DUNN

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reater Fort Lauderdale lost a friend last week, as Jan D. Carpenter, respected business and community leader and loving partner of Dale Russell, passed away October 2. Carpenter, born January 17, 1949 in White Bear Lake, Minnesota (“Go Bears!”), attended Bemidji State University before accepting a management position with Target Corporation, a job that would take him to Denver for 25 years.

Carpenter spent time in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, before going to Houston as Senior Vice President for BankOne. While living in Space City that Carpenter met his future life and business partner, Dale Russell, who was at the time living in Dallas.

“We were one of the original ‘AOL Couples,’” Russell recalls. The two would move to Savannah, Georgia, where Carpenter became a senior manager for Pitney Bowes. That

company would eventually bring him to Florida, as Director of Offshore Operations.

“It was the greatest time in his life,” says Russell, who came to South Florida with Carpenter in 2003.

“He travelled around the world 36 times.”

He retired in 2009, although retirement for him meant going to work full time with Russell, in their Dale Russell Network (DRN) real estate firm.

The successful brand enable Carpenter and Russell (a past President of the Pride Center at Equality Park) to participate in the joys and challenges of the LGBT community of which they became such an integral part, including serving on the boards of several notfor-profit and philanthropic groups.

“He was always there, no matter the cause to further the LGBT community,” remembered Carl Marzola, President of Atlantic Properties International, which serves as the broker for DRN. “He has done so much as an activist. He once said to me, Carl, I believe in Wilton Manors, because it’s a community where I—you, any gay person—can feel comfortable, safe, and not be judged. He helped make this place that reality.”

Christopher Dunham, President of Dunham Insurance Services, said that Carpenter was “a beautiful and loving man, and such an asset to our community.”

Russell, his partner of 16 years—

their anniversary is tomorrow, October 11—said that Carpenter “was full of life. He could walk into a room and just become its centerpiece. He had that forceful of a personality.”

To honor Carpenter’s philanthropic history, Russell has established the Jan Carpenter Fund, to benefit the Bears of South Florida (BOSFL), a charitable organization that disseminates funds to local service and non-profit groups. Russell says that friends of Carpenter’s and others who would like to remember him in the spirit of generosity should make a contribution to BOSFL, 1170 N Federal Hwy, Suite 401, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304. BOSFL is a 501 (c)(3) , and donations are taxdeductible.

A private memorial event in Carpenter’s honor will be held at the end of October at the Pride Center at Equality Park in Wilton Manors.H

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Homegrown Homophobia

By ART GREENWALD

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hile recently at a South Florida gay club, I overheard an exchange that sent shivers up my spine. A six-pack of patrons within earshot were chitchatting, when one of them stated snidely, “This place has gotten really ‘dark’ of late—not that I’m prejudiced or anything.”

“Oh, no, here it comes,” I mumbled under my breath.

Another interjected, “Why so many trannys? Don’t they have their own hangout?”

Shock and disgust filled my face (which turned scarlet), and my first impulse was to pounce all over them faster than a pit bull on a Porterhouse steak. Regretfully, I walked away from the hate-fest, although it got me thinking about a story I wrote in the 90s, the gist of which centered on homophobia within

the LGBT community.

It did happen, although it was hardly the norm or seen on a massive scale. Certain ethnic groups and genders were, on occasion, denied access to some of our clubs. Those deemed as “undesirables” were required to produce upwards of two or three picture IDs: No one carried that many forms of ID and anyone so targeted eventually caught on, their protestations against exclusion pooh-poohed.

Not only was it difficult, if not impossible, for some LGBT persons to enter certain nightspots, there also existed an appalling air of “factional” superiority, resulting in put-downs of certain “uncool” types within the LGBT community (most egregiously directed at drag queens, leathermen, butch lesbians, overly-effeminate men, and anyone who didn’t fit the “acceptable” image of what it

meant to be gay).

Fortunately, times have changed, and we’ve evolved in our attitudes and treatment of others who may be different, respecting and rejoicing in diversity instead of feeling threatened by it. And yet, in 2012 I still hear cutting comments fired at LGBT individuals by other LGBT persons, and by minorities bashing other minorities, treading on the wrong side of equality for all.

The insensitivities occur far too frequently to dismiss. Recently, Emmet Burns, a Maryland lawmaker with a history of hostility towards the LGBT community, tried to gag an NFL player for publicly supporting gay marriage, hoping to quash equal marriage rights for Marylanders.

Toronto Blue Jay shortstop Yunel Escobar, in a mindless, ill-informed, and hurtful gesture, wore eye-black that displayed a gay slur written in

Spanish. Burns is African-American and Escobar is Hispanic, two groups that have historically been marginalized.

It makes zero sense. You’d think that belonging to any disaffected group—those suffering the sting of oppression—would automatically decree sensitivity to such slights and slurs, and mandate defending other minorities that are struggling to gain acceptance. Where’s the empathy?

Or perhaps homophobia—like racism, that dark, strange and inexplicable cancer of the human soul—will never be completely eradicated, despite the best intentions. We must stop the hate and the divisiveness, and celebrate our differences. It starts within the LGBT community. We must do better. H Art Greenwald is a free-lance writer, author and journalist. He lives in Oakland Park.

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The East Health Center HIV/STD’s Testing, screening and treatment, Immigration medical examination 2421 SW 6th Ave., Ft. Lauderdale (954) 298-1749 (954) 467-4705 Broward House HIV services, shelter, empowerment, housing, client services 1726 SE 3rd Ave., Ft. Lauderdale (954) 522-4749

Red Hispana HIV Testing, Hispanic support groups, emergency relief fund assistance, pre-case management 1350 East Sunrise Blvd., Suite 129, Ft. Lauderdale (954) 462-8889

LAMBDA Support groups, substance abuse 1231-A E Las Olas Boulevard Fort Lauderdale, FL 33301 (954) 761-9072 Gay & Lesbian Youth Support Group Provides support to gay and lesbian youths 16 to 24 years of age 1480 SW 9 Avenue 2nd Floor Ft Lauderdale Sunshine Cathedral Campus (954) 764-5150

Brian Neal Fitness & Health Foundation Weekly group workouts, gym membership, nutrition and life mentoring classes by professionals, online programs, exercise, and health monitoring for persons living with HIV/AIDS and other lifechallenging conditions.

2435 N. Dixie Hwy., Wilton Manors (954) 336-0436 (561) 255-4913 AIDS Healthcare Foundation/Out of the Closet HIV testing, client services, STD’s testing & treatment, AHF Pharmacy 2097 Wilton Dr., Wilton Manors (954) 318-6997 The Community Anger management, counseling Self pay/Sliding Scale $25-$85 16 NE 4th St., Suite 130, Ft. Lauderdale (954) 533-9819 Family Therapy Center Anger management 2415 University Dr., Coral Springs (954) 345-6222 South Florida Gender Coalition Support groups for Cross-dressers, trans-sexuals and significant others; Age 18 and older.

3233 NW 34th Ct., Ft. Lauderdale (954) 578-9454, 954-677-2587 Teen Space 211 Tough teen issues, bullying, counseling 3217 NW 10th Terr., Suite 308, Ft. Lauderdale Pride Institute of Fort Lauderdale Gay/Lesbian/Bisex/Trans; Mental Health Services; Substance Abuse Detox; Substance Abuse Inpatient (954) 463-4321, 954-453-8679 (800) 585-7527

Legal Aid Service - Broward Human Rights Initiative Low-income gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender (GLBT) individuals in need of legal services, Gay/ Lesbian/Bisex/Trans; Legal Services 491 N State Rd. 7, Plantation (954) 358-5635 SunServe Counseling, mental health intake and referral, Noble McArtor Senior Day Care Center, youth and family services 1480 SW 9th Ave., Ft. Lauderdale (954) 764-5150, (954) 764-5055, (954) 764-5055, (954) 549-0263 Fusion Program open to the GLBTQ community. Activities include meditation, social events, groups, movies, games, classes, and condom distribution campaign.

2304 NE 7th Ave., Wilton Manors (954) 630-1655 Spectrum Programs Case Management, Marriage & Family therapy, Outpatient Counseling, Psychiatric Services, Substance Abuse Residential Treatment 450 E Atlantic Blvd., Pompano Beach (954) 580-0770 (954) 781-4405 Drag it OUT, Inc. Drag it OUT’s mision is to provide a safe space for the LGBTQ community and their supporters who are interested in exploring gender identity, self-expression and community activism by way of educational workshops, social opportunities and artistic projects.

Learn how to get involved at dragitout.org facebook.com/dragitoutinc 1310 SW 2nd Ct. #103 Fort Lauderdale (954) 612-4489 (954) 213-7112

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After 7 Years, It’s Still “Guido to the Rescue” Canned Food Drive Makes Life Richer for Many in Need

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even years ago, Paul Renaldo witnessed the suffering being experienced at several local food pantries and service agencies, in the aftermath of the Summer of Hurricanes (better known as “2005”). Among these, Shadowood II suffered a significant loss: With no generator, this home for some 70 souls lost all of its clients’ food.

Renaldo—who passed away in April from complications due to pneumonia—was and is better known in the community as “Guido.” A well-recognized photographer, he stepped up to the plate and launched a food drive to help replace those precious foodstuffs.

Hosting a food drive is never easy, but that first “Guido to the Rescue,” with the help of many of the house drag performers at Monkey Business Bar on North Andrews Avenue, collected over 1,000 pounds of food.

Despite Guido’s passing, his efforts

food. We can take canned goods or dry on behalf of others will continue. This goods like pasta.” weekend, Guido’s Annual Canned This year’s event will support Pantry Food Drive will continue the legacy of Broward, which of a man who helps both the was dedicated to homeless and helping others. the elderly. “Our “Guido was shelves are nearly truly one in a empty,” said one million,” says pantry volunteer Gus Sanchez, the who asked not to owner of Monkey be named. “I’ve Business. “At one volunteered here time, we thought for nearly two that we wouldn’t years, and I have continue, since never seen it like Guido was gone. this. Times are Many of our loyal tough, and people customers kept have really cut asking, ‘What are back on donations. you going to do Paul “Guido” Renaldo We just can’t help to honor Guido?’ all those who need Then one day it the support of our services.” hit me: Let’s keep his name going with Says Sanchez, “Between now and the Canned Food Drive, and our goal Sunday [October 14], people can this year is for at least 1,000 pounds of

drop off items, and each donation will receive a free raffle ticket. On the final day we will draw the winner at 3 p.m.”

According to Sanchez, plans are still in the works to continue the “Sleazy Awards,” which Guido started 10 years ago (when he was published “Rimmer” magazine), once again to support local charities.

“We’re looking to make the ‘Sleazies’ another annual event, to once again remind people of how big the ‘little guy’ from New York was, and what a difference he made in so many lives here in our community,” adds Sanchez.

Monkey Business is located at 2740 N Andrews Ave., Wilton Manors. For more information, call (954) 514-7819.H If your non-profit organization is not listed in the Agenda Non-Profit Services Directory, please send your information to Dale Madison at dalemadison@guymag.net.

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rue Story: Although I am a ‘fan’ of “American Idol” (in the sense that I am a ‘fan’ of Picasso’s, even though I don’t own any of his works), I haven’t really watched the show on a regular basis since season two (the “Clay/Ruben” season), which also featured another one of my personal favorites from that high-tech talent show, Frenchie Davis, who recently came out as a gay woman. The bubbly performer brings her talent this Saturday, October 13 to Bill’s Wilton Manors, on Wilton Drive.

It’s the Great Pumpkin! The Kiwanis Pumpkin Patch is back at Five Points in Wilton Manors, which can only mean one thing: All Hallows Eve is just around the corner. If you want to really get into the spirit of the Scary Season, check out the Festival of Souls at The Village at Gulfstream Park in Hallandale, now through October 31. The 19-day Halloween event features an 8,000 sq. ft. Haunted House (the “Demon Mansion”), and a—wait for it!— Zombie Safari Paint Ball Hayride. (Shallow breaths now so I don’t hyperventilate. Weird for a guy my age, right?) Find out all there is to do this week, OUT in Florida.

Georgie’s Alibi has been people-pleasing Greater Fort Lauderdale (even the little part outside the Gayborhood) since 1997, and a big part of its success is the award-winning food (voted “Best Burger in Fort Lauderdale” in 2010 and 2011—gay or straight, there’s just no better meat in town). Richard David Chamberlain takes a stroll down the Drive to visit a familiar friend, and checks out the new menu, inside Dining.

Chicago–it’s My Kind of Town (it’s also apparently a Toddlin’ Town, whatever the deuce that means). America’s Second City is, in the words of Carl Sandburg, “Hog Butcher for the World” (not that we don’t see our share of pigs around here), and a far cry from the sandy beaches of SoFla. Robert Elias Deaton has been to State Street (“that great street”), and other spots in the City of the Big Shoulders, and has a full report on the ins and outs of Chi-Town, in this week’s Travel—plus a great deal more.

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By MARIO WEIR

Frenchie Kiss and Tell

“American Idol” Sensation Comes to Bill’s

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renchie Davis first hit the world stage in Season 2 of “American Idol.” Since then she has starred on stage in the Broadway and touring productions of “Rent,” “Dream Girls,” and “Ain’t Misbehavin’” (a performance that earned the singer her first Grammy nomination).

Last year, she hit the national spotlight again, joining Team Christina on NBC’s hit show “The Voice,” and becoming one of the top four finalists.

After her cover of “When Love Takes Over” landed at number three on the iTunes Dance Chart, she was ready to get started on an album—teaming with international singer/songwriter Janice Robinson to record “Love’s Got a Hold On Me,” her first single from the upcoming album, “Just Frenchie.” Hear it live when she performs the track this Saturday, October 13, at Bill’s Wilton Manors, on Wilton Drive. Mario Weir caught up with Davis for the Florida Agenda.

FA: Have you been in love?

FD: Love has been painful in the past.

These days it’s pretty wonderful. I’m in love with a woman I think I can be with forever.

FA: Is being a prisoner to love a good or bad thing?

FD: You have to find a balance. You want to give your all to your partner without losing yourself. You don’t want to wake up

one day not having a clue who you are anymore.

FA: What do you love about singing?

FD: I feel free when I sing and I love to create colors with my voice.

FA: Did you love starring on Broadway?

FD: Musical theatre was my first love, and how I first fell in love with music. The best part was developing the discipline and endurance required to do eight shows a week. You hear so many stories about performers suffering from exhaustion. After surviving the Broadway schedule for five years, I believe I can survive anything.

FA: What part did hitting number three on iTunes play in releasing your own music now?

FD: It made me realize, maybe I can still do this. And maybe I can do dance music instead of R&B. There are enough big black girls doing R&B already.

FA: Tell us about your first single, “Love’s Got a Hold On Me.” FD: It’s a dance track written by my dear friend Janice Robinson, best known for the songs she’s written for Deborah Cox and Ashley Tisdale. The track was produced by Magnificent, a really talented artist from NYC. Brian Friedman, who I love for his work with Britney Spears and “The X Factor,” co-directed and choreographed the video.

FA: What’s your favorite thing to do when you’re not working?

FD: I love to go swimming at the beach. It relaxes me, and it is awesome exercise.

FA: What’s next?

FD: In addition to my debut album, I’m putting the finishing touches on my Christmas album.

And I’m really excited to be in talks about starting my own line of plus-size bras and lingerie!

For more information, visit FrenchieDavis.org and Facebook.com/OfficialFrenchie.

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The Windy City Takes on New Airs

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hicago, Chicago, that toddlin’ town,” Frank Sinatra sang in his 1957 recording. It was quite the popular hit at the time, though we’ve always been hard pressed to understand what a toddlin’ town actually is. One thing we do know is that Chicago has earned every bit of its reputation as an exciting, sophisticated and dangerous place to live. Yes, dangerous. So far this year, there have been over 400 murders in Chicago—more murders than the much larger cities of New York (312) and Los Angeles (212).

The Art Institute of Chicagosecond largest museum in the US

That aside, it’s fortunate that the charm of this town continues unabated, particularly for those with an interest in architecture and the arts.

The Art Institute of Chicago (111 S Michigan Ave) is the second largest museum in the United States (the largest is the Metropolitan in New York). It has a truly amazing permanent collection, particularly focusing on impressionist and post-impressionistic painters. Additionally, the African American Art Collection found here is well known for its assortment of paintings

by Archibald John Motley, Jr. There’s a roof-top terrace that provides a great break from the art, and offers a fantastic view of the city. For those using public transportation, head for the Adams/ Wabash Station via the Brown, Green, Orange, Pink, or Purple Lines.

Architecturally speaking, Chicago is a Whitman’s Sampler of tastes and style. Some of our favorite buildings in this city on Lake Michigan include Our Lady of Sorrows Basilica (3121 W Jackson Blvd.); the former Sears Tower—now officially called the Willis Tower (233 S Wacker Dr)—at one time the

tallest building in the world; the Chicago Avenue Pumping Station (821 N Michigan Ave) Our Lady of Sorrows Basilica that survived the Great Chicago along Lake Michigan, is showcased by the Fire of 1871; the CNA Center (333 S Wabash Ave), whose major claim to fame famed Buckingham Fountain, dedicated in is its sunset red paint; and the 311 S Wacker 1927. A water show operates in the RococoDr. Building that holds two distinctions. Until style fountain from April to October, with recently, it was the tallest reinforced concrete decorative lighting taking the stage when the building in the world, and it remains the tallest weather turns cooler. For those into trivia, the building to be known by its street address alone. fountain was featured in the opening credits to The city devotes over eight percent of its the TV hit “Married.with Children.”

Our favorite new hotel in Chicago is the land area to parks. Of these, Lincoln Park holds a special place for us since it is not PUBLIC (11301 N State Pkwy.). The one-time only the largest of Chicago’s parks (with Ambassador East Hotel, home of the famous 1,200 acres), it is also the only park to span Pump Room, has been re-invented by Ian many different neighborhoods throughout Schrager (of Studio 54 fame). While the Pump the north side, as it is nestled between Lake Room remains a fragment of its former self, the Shore Dr. and Lake Michigan. As such, it has guest rooms in PUBLIC are incredibly efficient, many different entrances, but the one located lovely, and beginning at $135 a night, they’re at 2001 N Clark St. will get you to the front a bargain.

Next week, we’ll cover the bar and club of the Lincoln Park Zoo—always a fun place to visit. Any time of the day or night, Grant scene of the Windy City. Hold your breath. It’s Park, located in the downtown business district worth the wait.H

Robert Elias Deaton is a world-traveling epicure who enjoys the finer things in life.

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MSNBC Anchor Ties the Knot MSNBC anchor and host Thomas Roberts wed his longtime partner, Patrick Abner, this weekend, in a small ceremony at Manhattan’s toney Gansevoort Hotel. Roberts is the first cable news anchor to marry a person of the same sex. In June 2011, he and Abner served as honorary Grand Marshals for Wilton Manors’ Stonewall Street Parade and Festival. “Good Morning, America” weather guy Sam Champion’s similar announcement last week of an engagement brought sharp reaction—including from some who support his nuptials but thought GMA made too big a deal of it on the air.

This Is What a “Modern Family” Looks Like For the third year in a row, ABC’s smash sitcom “Modern Family” won a clean sweep in most of last month’s Emmy Awards categories.

Star Eric Stonestreet, who plays chunky Cameron on the hit series, was up against— so to speak—his TV hubby, actor Jesse Tyler Ferguson (who plays uptight redhead Mitchell) for Outstanding Supporting Actor

in a Comedy Series.

After Stonestreet (who is straight) proved a repeat-winner, co-star Ferguson stopped by the set of “Jimmy Kimmel Live!” to playfully bitch about the loss.

Asked by host Kimmel if Stonestreet had been pulling for his screen-partner, Ferguson said with smarm, “Who knows if it’s true, but he said he wanted me to win.”

To bolster his chances of a win at next year’s Emmys, Ferguson, 36, unveiled a mock “attack ad,” in which he accuses Stonestreet of “steal[ing] gay American jobs,” and calls him a “liar” and an “ass-kisser.” Ah, family.

Etheridge Rocks for Maryland Marriage Equality Still-rocking singer Melissa Etheridge has sent out a letter on behalf of Marylanders for Marriage Equality, calling for equal treatment under the law for every American. As some added incentive for supporting same-sex marriage, Etheridge is offering campaign donors a chance to meet her backstage during an upcoming show in Bethesda.

Last month, the singer (“Come to My Window”) told TV host Joy Behar, “I’m for gay marriage, because I’m for gay divorce.” She added: “I don’t think people realize what a system heterosexuals have for marriage. You can marry someone and then, oops.”H

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et me start this week with a fun fact about you and me: We are all social and, no matter how fervently some will deny it, we crave acceptance. Not by everyone, of course. I, for example, take no issue in being left out of fantasy football leagues (or terrorist cells).

Generally speaking, we want people to like us. Were this not the case, we’d make no sacrifices for our friends, and their charity towards us would dry up. Nor would we likely find partners, keep decent jobs, or dress the way we do. Even those who consider themselves “outsiders” living on the fringe aim to find solidarity: The fringe “community” wouldn’t exist were there no “community” with which to so label it.

That we are inherently social creatures is a good thing (it’s gotten our species this far). But some take the license too far—some feel that they MUST be liked by everyone. The cliché is to label these types as “People-Pleasers,” but I prefer to call them “douchebags.”

If you MUST be liked by everyone (and sometimes it’s hard not feeling that way), there are two possible routes: 1) You lose all personality traits—and ticks—that might be considered even mildly controversial (and thus affect a bland, lukewarm personality); or, 2) You become a disingenuous chameleon whose personality is lost behind all the masks you wear. Whatever route you chose, you are not being “you,” and so failure is the eventual end.

If you wish to be liked by everyone, you must dedicate the rest your life to it. You must never speak out of turn (unless present-company enjoys it). You must act with high regard

to even those with whom you disagree (unless a challenge is what they’re after). You must place the considerations of others above your own, and give reverence to others’ wishes or expectations—even with trivialities (small things build with time, you know).

And in all of this, at every turn, you will be met with dilemmas, such as when you’re faced with two or more people who have wildly different expectation—situations from which you must always excuse yourself, or else risk being exposed as a social deceiver.

Yes, your goal must be to please everyone all the time, either through proactive forms of lying (“OMG—I love all the same things you love!”), or total complacency. And despite all your “best” efforts, you will still fail. There will be instances when you disappoint your “friends,” no matter how hard you try.

Even more devastating to People-Pleasers are those annoyingly “perceptive” people who see through your veil and dislike you for allowing your “self” to slip away into an endless existence of catering to the sensibilities of others.

A Public Service Announcement to People Pleasers: Nobody pays your bills! Be yourself if you want to find people who LOVE you, not pity you.

(I’m Justin Jones, and I approve of this message.) H

Justin Jones, 26, is a writer based in Minneapolis. In addition to his column “Love Jones,” Justin pens “Through These Eyes,” a bi-weekly column for Lavender Magazine. He writes about things like being alive, being in love, and drinking too much. Facebook.com/JustinJonesWriter.

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FRENCHIE DAVIS AT BILL’S Saturday, October 13. At Bill’s Wilton Manors, Wilton Drive. Frenchie Davis, the recently-out sensation from “American Idol” Season 2 and Fox’s “The Voice,” will perform her new dance track, “Love’s Got a Hold On Me,” and other hits. For more information, visit billsfillingstation.com.

your will and shake your courage, as you make your way through a labyrinth of demons and creatures of the night. All ghouls, vampires, witches, ghosts, and goblins come out and celebrate the scariest holiday of the year. Ever wish you could shoot real zombie? Well, here’s your chance, with the Zombie Safari Paint Ball Hayride, as well as night after night of phantasmagorical music, straight from the festival’s Resident Evil DJ, Maximus 3000.

TASTE OF THE ISLAND AND SILENT AUCTION Monday, November 5, from 6 to 9 p.m. At Richardson Park. Advance tickets $30, at the door $35. For more information, visit tasteofhteisland.org.

FORT LAUDERDALE ANDREWS LIVING ARTS: ROCKY HORROR LIVE! Thursdays, Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays, from October 18 to 27, at 8 p.m., at Andrews Living Arts Studio (23 NW 5th St, Fort Lauderdale). Special Late Night shows at 11 p.m. on Friday, October 19 and 26, and Saturday, October 20 and 27. A Halloween Night Rocky Horror Costume Ball will be held on Wednesday, October 31, at 8 p.m.

Tickets available at andrewslivingarts. com, or (800) 838-3006.

BROWARD HOUSE RED RIBBON AWARDS LUNCHEON Wednesday, October 31, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m., at the Hyatt Regency Pier 66, Fort Lauderdale. Join us as Broward House—the county’s oldest and largest service organization for persons with HIV/AIDS—recognizes those members of the community who have gone above and beyond to help those in South Florida living with HIV/AIDS. This year’s honorees are former Fort Lauderdale Vice Mayor and Broward House board member Dean Trantalis, community activist and owner of the New Moon Bar, Carol Moran, attorney George Castrataro, Esq., Broward House- and communitysupporter Susan Rennissan of the Seminole Tribe of Florida, and Broward House Vice President of Community Health Services Jasmin Shirley. For more information, visit browardhouse.org.

HALLANDALE THE FESTIVAL OF SOULS Now through October 31, at The Village at Gulfstream Park. The FESTIVAL OF SOULS is a 19-day Halloween event featuring an 8,000 sq. ft. Haunted House known as the “Demon Mansion,” which will test

MIAMI BEACH SANDPIPER’S NETWORKER OVER COCKTAILS Wednesday, October 17. The Miami-Dade Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce presents its monthly networking program (held on the middle Wednesday of each month). This month’s location is Williams McCall Gallery (110 Washington Ave., Miami Beach).

Works from Provincetown artists Madeliene Abling, Ernie Bynum, Joan Cobb Marsh, Mike Wright, and John Dowd will be on display. Drawing for prizes 5 to 7 p.m. Complimentary appetizers and wine. Free admission (limited to 50 persons). RSVP to rsvp@gaybizmiami.com, or (305) 673-4440.

BOOKSIGNING: “COOPER’S PROMISE” Wednesday, October 24, 7 p.m., LGBT Visitor Center, 1130 Washington Avenue, Miami Beach Monday, October 29, 8 p.m., Books & Books, 265 Alhambra Avenue, Coral Gables Called “literary dynamite” by Kirkus Reviews, “Cooper’s Promise” was also on the Philadelphia Gay News shortlist of recommended summer reading.

RAINBOWLING Wednesday, October 24, at Lucky Strike Bowling Lanes (1691 Michigan Ave., Miami Beach). The MiamiDade Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce presents a fun night of bowling and networking, from 7 to 10 p.m. Unlimited bowling and a cash bar, free drawing for great prizes (including trips to Mexico or Aruba and NY, among others). $15 general admission for everyone (includes rental of bowling shoes + 1 FREE drink). Limited capacity. rsvp@ gaybizmiami.com, or (305) 673-4440.

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FORT LAUDERDALE/WILTON MANORS ALIBI 2266 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Gayborhood tradition since 1997. Comfortable, inviting atmosphere with indoor video bars, outdoor drinking and dining. Drink specials all week, with mammoth 22-ounce Long Island Iced Teas for $3 on Thursdays.

BILL’S FILLING STATION 2209 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Videos, pool tables, dart boards, dance floor, happy hour, live shows, Tuesday and Thursday karaoke – and great burgers, to boot. Fun and friendly truck-stop-themed bar.

BOARDWALK 1721 N Andrews Ave., Fort Lauderdale Over 100 of the sexiest men from all over the world. Go-go dancers, cages, billiards, 2-4-1 Happy Hours. Drag emcees and did we mention the Boys?

BOOM 2232 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors The bar with two names features a dance club and Gayborhood bar. Drag Bingo on Mondays, karaoke Mondays and Tuesdays, dance music Fridays and Saturdays, and (indoor) Sunday T-Dance.

CORNER PUB 1915 N Andrews Ave., Wilton Manors Friendly atmosphere, unpretentious clientele and staff.

Next to Island City Pizza (so you can get your drink AND your slice on).

CUBBY HOLE 823 N Federal Hwy., Fort Lauderdale Butch bar and grill with a rockin’ daytime crowd (and a fun nighttime one, too). Fifty cent pool, 2-for-1 drinks all day every day, video games, hot movies on HDTV and DirecTV. Thursdays it’s Bare Bear Chest Night, and every Friday and Saturday the fur flies with Hot Bears on Poles (where their Grizzlies Grind)!

DEPOT CABANA BAR AND GRILL 2935 N Federal Hwy., Fort Lauderdale Adjacent to the America’s Best Inn and Suites. Pool open daily – No Cover or Day Pass. Great food, daily happy hour, Sunday afternoon T-Dance Poolside. Karaoke and live music. Open daily at 11:30 a.m.

DUDES 3270 NE 33rd St., Fort Lauderdale Men dancing for men. Hot go-go boys in an upscale atmosphere, piano lounge for more quiet interludes.

Steamy shower shows.

JOHNNY’S 1116 W Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Club, bar, lounge. Male dancers and the men who love (to ogle) them. Sunday amateur strip contest (and karaoke!).

LIPS 1421 E Oakland Park Blvd., Oakland Park The Ultimate in Drag Dining. Dinner and shows six nights a week. Sunday Gospel Brunch with the Sisters of Sequins.

THE MANOR 2345 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors WeHo vibe (think: LA’s The Abbey) in the heart of the Gayborhood. Dine, drink, dance, play, mingle. Theme rooms (salsa and merengue every weekend in the Latin Quarter!).

Live dancing and dining.

MATTY’S ON THE DRIVE 2426 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Drink specials, billiards, and a chill gayborhood vibe. 75 Cent drinks on Wednesdays. No Drama, No Smoking.

MONKEY BUSINESS 2740 N Andrews Ave., Fort Lauderdale Cozy neighborhood bar. Karaoke, drag shows, Patio Bar – and open at 9 a.m. daily.

MONA’S 502 E Sunrise Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Cocktail Lounge in the heart of Searstown. Fun customers, fun bartenders and fun proprietor (the Legendary Jerry).

Outside patio. Wednesday karaoke, Thursday Speedball Tournament.

NAKED GRAPE 2163 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Relaxing, friendly, hip, unique. The alternative gathering place on Wilton Dr. Now serving tapas nightly. Social Hour features $5 house wine glasses, $1 Barcelona Bites, and In The Biz all the time.

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PJ’S CORNER POCKET 924 N Flagler Dr., Fort Lauderdale Friendly neighborhood interracial bar with drinks specials every night of the week including, “In the Biz Mondays” at 9 p.m. with 2-4-1 drinks and $3 Cosmos and Apple Martinis, “Splash Friday’s” wet underwear contest, and Sunday’s pool tournament, both with a $50 cash prize!

RAMROD 1508 NE 4th Ave., Fort Lauderdale Voted World’s Favorite Leather Bar. Pig Dance first Saturday of the month – South Florida’s Busiest, Craziest Monthly Party (with caged hunks at Midnight on Saturdays – is there a downside to this?).

ROSIE’S BAR & GRILL 2449 Wilton Dr., Wilton Manors Nexus of the A-Gay List. Be Seen in the Scene (without making one). Food, folks, libations, and a killer Sunday Funday.

SCANDALS SALOON 3073 NE 6th Ave., Wilton Manors A line-dancin’, tight blue jeans-wearin’ good time. Country and western music, two-steppin’, three-steppin’, pool tables, and themed events year ‘round. Cowboys and Indians was never this much fun, Pilgrim.

SIDELINES 2031 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Where Sports come first. Nationally known destination sports bar with TVs streaming NFL, MLB, NBA and college games. Pool tables, dart boards and large indoor (and now smoke-free) facility. Outdoor patio features area for smokers. Mixed crowd of gay men and women (who would have thought?). Featured in Bloomberg Businessweek and recommended by LOGO. STABLE 205 E Oakland Park Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Levis-and-leather neighborhood bar, where the bears line dance and the cowboys are VERY friendly.

SMARTY PANTS 2400 E Oakland Park Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Cozy neighborhood bar with daily happy hour, and regular patrons. Show night Thursdays at 9 p.m. Karaoke Friday and Saturday nights, and with matinee on Sunday afternoon.

TORPEDO 2829 W Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Dance, shoot pool, drink til 4 a.m., 7 nights a week. Doors open at Midnight; dance til Dawn.

WHISKEY BLUE 401 N Fort Lauderdale Beach Blvd., Fort Lauderdale In the W Hotel on Fort Lauderdale Beach, downstairs it’s the elegant Whiskey Blue, upstairs the luxe Living Room: hot dance and social settings in a distinctive atmosphere with signature cocktails and upscale patrons. Indoor and outdoor lounges.

WILTON’S BIER GARDEN 2245 Wilton DriveWilton Manors German cuisine meets Der Gayborhood, in a fun, relaxed atmosphere. Upstairs dining, downstairs outdoor patio and bar, DJ music, and a fun staff make one of Wilton Manors’ newest venues a good time to be had by all.

MIAMI/MIAMI BEACH ­ CLUB BOI 777 NE 79 St., Miami With an urban vibe on the weekends, a diverse crowd and a diverse musical format, including Hip Hop, R&B, House, Reggae, Soca, Latin and Old School. Go-go bois and drink specials.

CLUB SUGAR 2301 SW 32nd Ave., Miami Gay Latin scene, with Salsa, Merengue, Reggaeton, Hip Hop and House music always playing.

DISCOTEKKA 950 NE 2nd Ave., Miami Hot music, hot scene, hot bartenders, and hot patrons in the hot heart of Downtown Miami.

JOHNNY’S MIAMI 62 NE 14th Street, Downtown Miami Club, bar and lounge. Johnny’s Miami boasts the best sound system in town! Plenty of safe, secured parking.

Open 5pm to 5am daily. Hot male dancers and daily drink specials.

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MOVA LOUNGE 1625 Michigan Ave., Miami Beach On Miami Beach’s famed Lincoln Road, never a cover.

Drink specials all week long, live DJs, high energy music and a fun crowd getting their dance on til late.

Azalea Lounge 1502 N Florida Ave., Tampa, FL Exposed brick, cold beverages and friendly staff are the mainstays of the recently bloomed Florida Avenue flower!

Neighborhood bar, pool tables.

PALACE BAR 1200 Ocean Drive, Miami Beach This bar and restaurant in the heart of South Beach’s Art Deco District. Mouth-watering burgers, boys (and girls!).

Weekend cabaret shows Thursday through Sunday.

Baxter’s Lounge 1519 S Dale Mabry, Tampa, FL Tampa Happy Hour Tradition. Serving up some of the hottest dancers Wednesday thru Saturday nights at 10PM.

SCORE 727 Lincoln Rd., Miami Beach Dance, drink, party all night on Miami Beach’s Lincoln Road. Tons of events throughout the year, including fundraisers for Winter Party, White Party, and Miami Beach Gay Pride.

SPACE 34 NE 11th St., Miami Mingle and mix with gays and str8s in the heart of Downtown Miami. Indoor dance floors and outdoor rooftop bar, spectacular light show.

TWIST 1057 Washington Ave., Miami Beach Great music, friendly staff, hot tourists and locals. Never a cover, always a groove. Bungalow Bar = Hot Men. In SoBe’s Art Deco District.

ORLANDO/CENTRAL FLORIDA Hanks 5026 Edgewater Dr., Orlando, FL Friendly local bar with a cruisy attitude. One of Orlando’s oldest and friendliest Gay bars. Beer and Wine. Pool Tables, Video Games and a Large Patio area.

Hamburger Mary’s Bar & Grill 110 W Church St., Orlando, FL Eat, Drink & Be Mary! Tuesday BINGO with Miss Sammy & Carol Lee, Wednesday Trivia with Doug Bouser and Leigh Shannon’s Cabaret Dinner Show is every Saturday, 7:30 p.m.

Parliament House 410 N Orange Blossom Trail, Orlando, FL All gay entertainment complex with 130 newly-remodeled hotel rooms. Cruisy Hotel, Nightclub, Pool Bar, Bear/Leather Bar. New Phoenix 7124 Aloma Ave., Winter Park, FL Winter Park’s ONLY Gay & Lesbian Bar. Been There Forever!

Karaoke every Tuesday and Friday at 9 p.m. Drag shows every Saturday night. Home of the $1 Jello shots.

Pulse 1912 S Orange Ave., Orlando, FL Orlando’s Premier Gay Bar & Nightclub with Ultra Lounge, Jewel Box Dance Floor, and Adonis Dancers. Twisted Tuesdays with $10 All-U-Can Drink, College Wednesdays (18+) and 2-4-1 every Friday for Happy Hour.

Savoy Orlando 1913 N Orange Ave., Orlando, FL “The hottest” gay bar and nightclub in Orlando. The MEN OF SAVOY Dancers from 6 p.m. til 2 a.m. every night in the main bar! Video Bar, Pool Tables.

Wylde’s 3557 S Orange Ave., Orlando, FL Neighborhood bar South of Downtown Orlando. Jukebox, Video Games, Pool Tables and Dancers.

Paradise Orlando 1300 N Mills Ave, Orlando, FL Orlando’s casual Gay & Lesbian bar and nightclub. Patio, Tiki Bar and Pool Tables. Happy Hour 4 til 9 p.m. and drink specials every day til 9 p.m.

Bar Codes (Formerly Bear Bar) 4453 Edgewater Dr., Orlando, FL Friendly Bar, Real Men and Bears... Oh My! Beer and Wine.

Tends to attract the after work Happy Hour crowd.

TAMPA BAY 2606 2606 N Armenia Ave., Tampa, FL Tampa’s favorite Levi/leather bar has two floors (dimly lit), with the upstairs being the more cruisy. There’s Hog House shop on-premises, and the 2606 is home to the Tampa Leather Club. Monday is Underwear Night, Tuesdays are $1 drinks and on Wednesdays, Longnecks are just $1.50.

Flirt Nightclub & Showbar 1909 N 15th St., Tampa, FL (Ybor City) Get that hometown feeling. Amazing lazer shows, big headliners and has been around for 6 years.

City Side 3703 Henderson Blvd., Tampa, FL Tampa Bay’s “Best Happy Hour” til Midnight every night of the week.

GBar 1401 E 7th Ave., Tampa (Ybor City), FL Dance Club & Video Bar. Open Tuesday through Saturday, 4 p.m. til 3 a.m. No cover before 10 p.m., $5 after with ID. Valentines Nightclub 7522 N Armenia Ave., Tampa, FL Voted #1 Nightclub in Tampa. Open 7 days a week 3 p.m. to 3 a.m. Monday, Latin Night, Tuesdays are Boys Night Out, Wednesdays are Karaoke Night, Thursdays, No Cover Dance Party, Fridays feature Hot Go-Go Girls, Saturdays are Latino Night “Uncut” and Sundays are Hip Hop Night.

Ki Ki Ki III 1908 W Kennedy Blvd., Tampa, FL One of The Oldest Bars (beer and wine). A plain bar without pretention with its share of young regulars.

Rainbow Room 421 S MacDill Ave., Tampa, FL A mix between a neighborhood bar and a community center. Main bar with pool, darts, jukebox. Outdoor Tiki patio has a full volleyball court and live bands. Beer & Wine.

ST. PETERSBURG Georgies Alibi 3100 3rd Ave. North, St. Petersburg, FL One of the most popular gay bars in St. Pete. It’s always busy! Great VJ’s play Top 40 music. Mondays are Drag BINGO and Talent contest, Pool tourney Wednesdays, and the legendary Long Island Iced Tea nights on Thursdays.

Ages 21 and over, never a cover!

Flamingo Resort 4601 34th St. South, St. Petersburg, FL Florida’s “largest, luxury all gay resort.” Non-stop entertainment, great menu, and drinks served poolside at the Cabana. Weekly events and 2-4-1 Happy Hour daily from 11 a.m. to 9 p.m. Saturday Happy Hour ($1 off) 11 a.m to 9 p.m.

Gemini Lounge 2315 Central Ave., St. Petersburg, FL Gemini Lounge aims to serve a variety of tastes; music, karaoke, Internet access, poetry readings and sports on TV. Oar House Bar & Liquor Store 4807 22nd Ave. South, St. Petersburg, FL Fun, friendly, laid-back atmosphere where you can get great drinks at cheap prices! Drama free! Happy Hour daily from 2 p.m. til 9 p.m.

Haymarket Pub 8308 4th St. North, St. Petersburg, FL More of a Men’s bar. Showing hot videos, beer specials, Saturday Underwear Night, and different events each week.

Hideaway 8302 4th St. North, St. Petersburg, FL The oldest Womyn’s bar in the country. Where music is always the main entree! Coldest selection of beer in town.

Detour 2612 Central Ave., St. Petersburg, FL The hottest club in St. Pete. Daily specials, karaoke nights and gogo boys from Rico’s Men. Noted for it’s Saturday Drag shows and Karaoke nights. Full liquor bar.

MELBOURNE/COCOA Cold Keg NightClub 4060 W New Haven Ave., Melbourne, FL Largest Gay Club in Melbourne Florida and the Premier Gay Bar & Nightclub in Brevard County.

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Ultra Lounge 407 Brevard Ave., Cocoa, FL Nestled in Cocoa Village, this bar has a full coffee bar,

serving espresso, lattes, cappuccinos as well as draft beers & wine.

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2929 Plum St., Jacksonville, FL The Metro Entertainment Complex has been serving the GLBT community for 17 years. Features a total of 7 different venues under one roof to choose from. Lesbo-A-GoGo, monthly Tea Dances, special quest performers, female impersonators and live musicians.

Boot Rack Saloon

4751 Lenox Ave., Jacksonville, FL Your Neighborhood Gay Bar - the place for men. Cold beer, music and a warm and cozy atmosphere. Hot men and cheap beer... We all know where that leads!

AJ’s Bar & Grill 10244 Atlantic Blvd., Jacksonville, FL Annie and Janie invite you to stop by and see some old friends and meet some new ones! Great food, awesome service, delicious mixed drinks and live entertainment.

Park Place Lounge 931 King St., Jacksonville, FL A fun and comfortable gay bar that’s accommodating to both gays and non-gays. A great place to watch your favorite game, or enjoy playing Wii while the liquor flows!

The Norm 2952 Roosevelt Blvd., Jacksonville, FL A neighborhood bar. Everyone is welcome, but remember it is a girls bar! Beer and Wine only.

616 Bar 616 Park St., Jacksonville, FL A warm and friendly atmosphere with a Patio bar. Karaoke on Tuesdays and Wednesdays. Thursdays the Jax Bears are here for happy hour. Fridays and Saturdays enjoy the “Beer Blast.”

Three Layers Cafe 1602 Walnut St., Jacksonville, FL The name Three Layers comes from their large variety of delicious three layer cakes. An inviting loft style cafe located in Springfield. Enjoy a bistro style lunch or just stop in for your morning coffee.

Bo’s Coral Reef 201 5th Ave. North, Jacksonville Beach, FL There are great shows Thursday through Sunday with the best of female impersonators. Pool tables, video games, and a large outdoor patio. The only gay bar on the beach!

Incahoots 711 Edison Ave., Jacksonville, FL This club offers good crowds every night. Recently remodeled with three bars and a friendly staff. Everyday is a different special. A fun place anytime. Full Liquor bar. Closed on Mondays and Tuesdays except for special events.

Kickbacks Gastropub 910 King St., Jacksonville, FL This is a top class venue serving over 600 different bottled beers, 84 beers on tap, breakfast, lunch and dinner 20hrs a day 7 days a week!

PENSACOLA The Roundup 560 E Heinberg St, Pensacola, FL A neighborhood gay men’s bar... Pensacola’s Cowboy Bar. Open 2 p.m. til 3 p.m. daily.

Cabaret 101 S Jefferson St. #E, Pensacola, FL Not strictly a gay bar, the charming and friendly Cabaret is very much a fixture in Pensacola’s GLBT community, drawing a mixed bunch each evening for happy hour, karaoke, videos, comedy shows, live music, and all-around hobnobbing and socializing.

KEY WEST Bourbon Street Pub 724 Duval St., Key West, FL Opened in October of 1995 and has continued to grow ever since, it is now part of the larger collection of gay action in The Bourbon St. Pub Complex. Hot Go-Go boy dancers and a busy crowd. “Where the boys are!”

801 Bourbon Bar 801 Duval St., Key West, FL Cabaret shows upstairs with nightly performances by famed performers Sushi, Kylie, RV Beaumont, Margo, and others. This legendary establishment has been around for over 30 years, and host Happy Hour specials daily from 11 a.m. - 8 p.m.

Aqua Nightclub 711 Duval St., Key West, FL Aqua features the “Reality is a Drag” show six days a week,

followed by dancing. Monday is karaoke night and don’t miss the great happy hour specials from 3 to 8 p.m. daily.

KWest 705 Duval St., Key West, FL Daily Happy Hour from 3 to 8 p.m., and a piano sing-along every Wednesday night. Men dancing for men after 10 p.m. Weekly drink specials and “Wet Jockey” contests on Fridays.

Saloon One 801 Duval St., Key West, FL (Behind 801 Bar) This is the only gay leather bar in Key West. Conveniently located behind 801 Bourbon Bar. La Te Da 1125 Duval St., Key West, FL An upscale hotel complex with 3 bars, cabaret and restaurant.

Pearl’s Patio Bar for Women 525 United St., Key West, FL Tropical themed women’s bar for gay women and gayfriendly women alike. Patio bar with a full bar featuring drinks like “Cosmopearlitans” and “Pearl’s Passion”.

Bobby’s Monkey Bar 900 Simonton St., Key West, FL The gay Cheers style neighborhood bar of Key West. Happy Hour from Noon to 7pm, Karaoke on Sunday nights, pool tournaments on Tuesday nights at 7pm. Free Wi-Fi access.

Garden of Eden 224 Duval St., Key West, FL A Rooftop Bar with the BEST VIEWS in the city & “BEST Long Island Ice Teas made by Melinda!” Gay, straight, fat, or skinny... Doesn’t matter! Clothing optional - gay friendly!

WEST PALM BEACH H G Roosters 823 Belvedere Rd., West Palm Beach, FL Dark bar that attracts a fun party crowd. Camp is in at H.G.’s, where drag shows and bingo nights pack in crowds looking for laughs and fun.

The Lounge 517 Clematis St., West Palm Beach, FL Sushi, tropical views and tasty cocktails are accompanied by acclaimed resident DJ Daisy DeadPetals.

Fort Dix Bar & Club 6205 Georgia Ave., West Palm Beach, FL

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Mostly local crowd looking to mingle and relax. The bar is a bit on the dark and dingy side, but who knows--that could be a plus.

FORT MYERS Office Pub 3704 Cleveland Ave., Fort Myers, FL Oldest gay bar in South West Florida with a festive attitude. This bear-friendly Office likes to have fun with underwear parties, drag shows, Wii bowling! Check out their country and western music night on Saturdays.

Tubby’s 4350 Fowler St., Fort Myers, FL Where men come to compete (in tournaments). “Never a cover... always a smile” Tubby’s is a no-frills video bar with a total of 10 TVs and two projection screens available for patrons to use as they wish. Add a six-hour 2-4-1 Happy Hour during the Wii tournaments on the big screen!

The Bottom Line 3090 Evans Ave., Fort Myers, FL This gay entertainment complex is one of the longest running clubs in southwest Florida at over 20 years, The Bottom Line features 7 bars, pool tables, drag shows and occasional guest appearances by porno stars.

VENICE TOTI: Tavern on the Island in Venice 127 Tampa Ave. East, Venice, FL This South Beach inspired gay bar, boasts a dance floor and a game room with pool tables and dart boards. It’s clean, the music is mixed and the staff are friendly. A mixed crowd can be found most nights... younger, older (duh, this is Venice), gay and straight. Did you know that in the Caribbean, TOTI is slang for a beloved male appendage? How apropos.

GAINESVILLE Spikes 4130 NW 6th St., Gainesville, FL It is a laid-back kind of place, with friendly bar staff. The crowds vary depending on the night. The bar has a nice open air patio area that is rarely used, but would be nice if it was.

University Club 18 E University Ave., Gainesville, FL This is a fairly average small college town gay bar. It is usually busy and crowded on Thursday nights.

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Wilton Manors Development Alliance: A Citywide “Main Street”

By DALE MADISON

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f all the things that Krishan Manners, President and CEO of Wilton Manors Development Alliance (WMDA), finds striking about his adopted city, one of the most notable is that so many things to see and do are packed into such a small geographic space.

“You know the city is only two square miles, but we have so much going on,” says Manners. A roster of upcoming events proves out the truth of that remark. “First, we have ‘Wicked Wilton,’ presented by the Rainbow Business Coalition [RBC] and the City of Wilton Manors, which will be held on Wednesday, October 31 [Halloween], from 6 to 11 p.m. The bars and restaurants along the Drive, of course, will be staying open past that time. This year the city is paying for the street closure, and the event will more resemble the original ‘Wicked Manors,’” he notes, adding that “the event is entitled ‘Fairy Tales,’ and they are expecting over 10,000 revelers.”

Also just around the corner is the “Taste

of the Island, which is slated for November 5 from 6 to 9 p.m. at Richardson Park,” Manners says, continuing down the list of must-do activities.

“This is the seventh annual event, and people can taste specialties from local restaurants, as well as mix and mingle with neighbors.” He notes with a smile (fully engaged now in local-booster-mode) that the deadline for restaurants to register is October 15.

“Tickets are $30 in advance, and $35 at the door,” he offers. “We keep some of the monies from ticket sales for seed money, and then the balance is split between the Kiwanis Club, the Historical Society of Wilton Manors, the Wilton Manors Library,

and the Wilton Manors Development Alliance.”

Manners helms an organization that was previously known to locals as Wilton Manors Main Street.

“We made the name change as a way of reaching out to more businesses off Wilton Drive,” he explains.

The change was made to encompass a more citywide mandate. “We are currently working on funding in order to have a larger impact on the entire city,” Manners notes. “We are still working to make Wilton Drive a two-lane street, and to create angled-parking,” he adds, with real enthusiasm.

“For 2013, we are working in partnership with the City of Fort Lauderdale for ‘Full

Sails,’ which would be similar to ‘Cows on Parade’ in Chicago.” Manners explains, “These sailboats are seven feet tall and five feet long. Local artists paint and decorate the boats, which are placed all around the city, but particularly on Wilton Drive.”

Manners says “Full Sails” represents a unique opportunity to highlight the Island City in a creative and striking way, which will draw attention—and revenue—to local commerce. “We need local sponsors to make this a huge success,” he says. “We want to see more art in Wilton Manors, and with this alliance we believe we will get there.” (Sponsorship for each boat is approximately $4,000. To learn more, visit fullsailsinfortlauderdale.com.)

Finishing our autumnal Tour de Wilton, the “Chairman of the Boosters” notes that “November 16 marks the first ‘Art Walk’ this year, to usher in ‘season.’

So you can see,” Manners adds with a smile, “there is a lot going on in the Island City.” To say the least.H

so that you both can easily coordinate your schedules.

Once you’ve found the right person, remember that you as a client have responsibilities to your trainer. If you can’t treat your trainer with courtesy and respect, as you should any other paid professional in your life, then you are wasting his time and your money.

Everyone is occasionally tardy, but some people make it a habit. Not only is this disrespectful to your trainer, but it also shows that you are not serious about attaining your fitness goals (i.e. weight loss, building muscle, staying healthy, etc.). Make the commitment to yourself and your trainer, show up on time, ready to warm up and, if you can, leave that damn phone in the

car to reduce distractions.

Habitual cancellations are not acceptable. You would not put up with a personal trainer who was a constant no-show. Everyone, on occasion, has emergencies and scheduling conflicts, and these are understandable. But last minute texts and calls to cancel on a regular basis are rude and inconsiderate. If you have to cancel, at least give your trainer a 24 hour notice, or expect to be charged for the session.

If you find yourself swamped at work or stuck in traffic, simply call your trainer, apologize, and ask if you can re-schedule your session.

Hiring a personal trainer is an investment in your health and well being. Expect nothing less than the best service from your CFT. Realize also that this is a relationship, and as such you must do your part to make it successful and fruitful. For more information or tips on fall fitness and workout routines that will do the trick for you, contact TrainerTomB@aol.com. H

Confessions of a Personal Trainer ByTom Bonant

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f I’ve said it once, I’ve proclaimed it a thousand times, I have one of the best jobs in the world! As a personal trainer (and licensed massage therapist and owner of my own gym), I get to work with some of the finest and most interesting ladies and gentlemen in Fort Lauderdale. Day in and day out, I get to help them feel healthier, look better and live longer.

As a trainer, my work is not just about handing weights to clients and standing around blankly counting to “12.” It is much, much more. A CFT (certified fitness trainer) has a responsibility to provide a safe, happy atmosphere and situation where clients are challenged and pushed, but also respected and affirmed for their hard work and commitment. Is this always an easy task?

No, but for the most part, life is good and my clients rock!

With that said, I’d like to remind anyone who presently uses, or is thinking of hiring a personal trainer, what they need to look for in this individual. First, make sure the trainer has an up to date

certification and liability insurance.

Second, if possible, watch the trainer in action with other clients.

Is he attentive and does he take notes? Or is he on the phone or always texting? If you are going to make the personal and financial commitment of hiring a trainer, get a professional who will be undyingly devoted to you throughout the entire duration of your session.

Most trainers will meet with a prospective client for a free consultation before either party makes a commitment.

Make sure to write down your questions and fitness goals. Ask this person about his training philosophy, methods, style, etc., and how he would go about helping you to achieve your objectives. Inquire about the trainer’s flexibility and availability

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A new twist to an old theme

By RICHARD DAVID CHAMBERLAIN

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rab legs are coming to the Alibi and you heard it here first. After a super successful summer promotion of Tuesday night all-you-can-eat lobster at $39.99, the outside patio at Wilton Manor’s most established gay gathering spot is looking to shake things up with crab. Lobster is out and crab is in on all-you-can-eat Tuesday nights for the next few months, we’re told.

We will, of course, be leading the crush to get a table, bib in hand.

A few years ago, when Alibi eliminated

Alibi’s award-winning burger & onion rings

tortilla-wrapped sandwiches from its menu, we were openly disappointed. The café replaced its lighter fare with bigger plates for heartier appetites—a trend that continues still. Heavy on burger entrees, Alibi does make an admittedly amazing assortment of flavorful hamburgers. It’s no wonder that their 10-ounce 100 percent Angus beef patty has been repeatedly named the Best Burger in Fort Lauderdale.

Our favorite of the selection is the Bleu Moon Burger ($11), with blue cheese and bacon on an artisan Challah bun. We always get ours with caramelized onions, and a side of cole slaw, though you can request fries, potato salad or potato chips on the side if you prefer. The Classic Alibi Burger ($10) comes with lettuce, tomato and raw onion, and has its share of fans.

A carry-over from the old menu is the White Chicken Chili ($4). This is a superb chili, full of chunked chicken meat and beans, topped with a dollop of sour cream and colorful tortilla chips. It’s the perfect compliment to the Chicken Cobb Salad ($11.75), with its large helping of romaine lettuce mixed with bacon, tomato, egg, avocado, red onions, and grilled chicken breast, all tossed with a

ranch dressing. Yum. If fish is your favorite, let your fingers do the walking down the menu to the Ancho Mahi Mahi Club ($10) which features toasted thickly-sliced white bread surrounding a hearty cut of Mahi Mahi rubbed with Ancho chilis, and served with lettuce, tomato, bacon and guacamole. Or, the place makes an awfully tasty Albacore Tuna Salad Sandwich ($9.50) on multi-grain bread. Savor the house-made mix of capers, lemon juice, and pickled red peppers on a leaf of romaine, and you’ll discover perfection.

While the full menu is available until 11 p.m., the kitchen stays open until 1:30 a.m., serving late-night specialties including its Baja Chicken Breast Sandwich ($9.50) plated on a ciabatta roll. What makes this choice so special is the caramelized onions, melted provolone cheese, jalapeno peppers and slash of roasted garlic mayo. If that’s too much of a good thing, eat lighter with Tezza’s Southwestern Eggrolls ($7), which blends corn, black beans, Jack cheese, jalapenos, red peppers, spinach, and grilled chicken breast—all wrapped in a fried flour tortilla.

An excellent size for a late-night graze.

On Saturday and Sunday, 11 a.m. to 2 p.m., a Jazz Brunch takes center stage. There’s a special menu for the occasion (although the regular menu is available as well). A good choice for healthy eats is the Breakfast Burrito ($9), which dishes up scrambled eggs, housemade chorizo, cheddar cheese, and salsa. Olé. Should originality prove too difficult for a Sunday morning, your fall-back position can always be the Steak and Eggs ($12), a rather predictable slab of beef known as a Flat-Iron Steak topped with two overeasy eggs and Béarnaise sauce, served with oven-roasted potatoes and arugula. Wash it down with a Bloody Mary ($2.50) and tell them The Agenda sent you. H

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This Week’s Delicious Recipe

By JEAN DOHERTY

his is a “hot” vegetarian dish, or vegetable accompaniment to any poultry, meat, or fish dish you like. It will make any reluctant squash-eater a total fan— believe me I know what I’m talking about. I was one. For 4 servings you’ll need: Ingredients:

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2 lbs of zucchini (about 4 or 5 mediumsized ones), sliced Salt and Pepper 1 tbsp of extra virgin olive oil 1 small onion, chopped Béchamel sauce 1 cup of Gruyere or Swiss cheese, grated

Place the sliced zucchini in a saucepan and pour in enough water to cover the top. Add a pinch of salt. Bring the water quickly to boil, then reduce the heat and simmer for about 5 minutes, until the zucchini is tender (but still firm). Drain thoroughly. You can mash them, or leave them in slices (depending on your energy or mood, remember: You are the Chef).

Heat oven to 400 degrees. In a frying pan over medium heat, heat the

oil, and add the onion, frying it until golden brown. Add the fried onion to the zucchini and a little grated cheese, and generously season with salt and freshly ground black pepper. In a lightlygreased gratin dish, pour in the mixture combined with the béchamel sauce.

Sprinkle the remaining cheese evenly over the surface. Bake for about 15 minutes, or until golden brown, and serve immediately. Enjoy! H

Although born in Dublin, Ireland, chef Jean Doherty spent most of her life in Lyon, France, the gastronomical capital of the world. Together with Vero, her partner of 25 years, Jean has owned and run multiple restaurants including Fort Lauderdale’s Le Patio.

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RENT / LEASE ROYAL PARK Near Wilton Manors 1BR/1.5BA, $825$900/mo. 2BR/2BA, $950 - $1100/mo. Gated Security, Clubhouse, Pools, Gym, Sauna and Steam room. Pets OK. Cable/Water/Trash incl. Call Naim Naqi, Realtor RWSF Realty 954.565.2025.

RENT/LEASE-FURNISHED HOUSING PERFECT RELOCATION RENTALS From $325/week – October/ November Special. Beautiful Studio, 1 & 2 BR Apts. Turnkey, fully furnished & equipped, clothing optional pool, laundry, parking. Close to Gay & Nude Beaches. Pets Welcome. Incl. utilities, cable, tel., Wi-Fi Internet. 954-927-0090 or visit www.LibertySuites.com 1/1 Walk to Drive. Walk in closet, Large Bedroom, Full Kitchen, Large Living rm with Glass Doors going into a Larged Fenced Backyard, Central A/C, $785 Call 954825-5598.

N.E. FT. LAUDERDALE-WILTON MANOR AREA Lovely, IMMACULATE, 2/1 and 1/1, BOTH include tile floors, A/C, washer/dryer available, cable ready, water, garbage, pest control included, private patio, gay friendly, NO PETS, please.1/1 $700 and 2/1 $875. By appointment. (954) 5923772 WILTON MANORS 3 BED / 2 BATH POOL HOME JENADA ISLAND, GREAT LOCATION! Almost 1800 Sq. Ft., plus carport, tile, new carpet in bedrooms, new paint, fenced private pool area, washer/dryer, pets OK, Only $2200. Call Robert Geary MacKilligan 954-234-8759 or rgmsell@aol.com

1/2 Wilton Manors Small 5 unit gay complex, super clean, updated, C/A, tile, patio, laundry. Avail Now $795 Call Nick 954-805-1195. 1645 N Dixie.

2/1 Near Wilton manors Til, updated, C/A, laundry, small gay complex. Avail Now $850 Call Nick 954-805-1195. 731 NW 1st Ave. WILTON MANORS- large 1 BD Apt. located on quiet cul-de-sac one block from Shoppes of Wilton Manors. CAC, ceiling fans, tile floors, fireplace, lots of storage. 12 ft. sliding glass doors lead to screened pool and patio. W/D on premises.

Rent, which includes electric, water & propane is $975/mo.

Sorry no pets. (954) 563-4442 WILTON MANORS-Beautiful 2/1 apartment with Private Laundry Room available for Rent/Lease in East Side of Wilton Manors. Apartment is part of a duplex, on a quiet street. Large Rooms and Large Closet. Central Air Conditioning. Great Neighborhood. Excellent Schools. Freshly, stylishly painted and White Tile throughout the unit. All pets considered.

Compromised credit considered for right applicant. $925 monthly. 1st/Last/Security. Shown by appointment. Please call Al at (954) 557-7447 or E-Mail for more information to ALFL33305@aol.com.

Spirituality T h e Pa r i s h o f St s . F r a nci s & C l a r e 101 NE 3rd Street - just N of Broward Blvd. and E of Andrews Ave. Mass Times: Sat @ 5 PM; Sun @ 10:30 AM; Wed @ 7 PM. Where we welcome and appreciate diversity - a progressive community in the Catholic tradition.

954-731-8173; www.stsfrancisandclare.org CHURCH OF THE HOLY SPIRIT SONG welcomes you to come and worship with us every Sunday at 10am and every Wednesday night at 7pm. We meet at the Spirit Song Worship Center at 2040B North Dixie Highway, Suite 3 in Wilton Manors (Building B on Equality Park Campus, behind the Pride Center). God loves you just the way He made you.

Come discover His purpose for you. For more info: 954-4188372, info@cohss.com, www.cohss.org We are here for you…DIVINE MERCY CHAPELThe American New Catholic Church 2749 N.E. 10th Ave., Wilton Manors, FL, 33334 (954)567-1930 www. newdivinemercy.org Sunday Mass 10:30AM, Friday Holy Hour 7:00PM WIG WILD INSPIRATIONAL & GATHERINGS Calling all Queens, Bears, Twinks, Guppies, Trannies, Fairies, Spiritualists, Yoga Folks, LGBTQ’s, Poets, Dancers, Actors and all our Straight Allies. WIG the Gay Empowerment/Spiritual Revival awaits you every Wed. 8PM at Boom - 2232 Wilton Drive Wilton Manors, FL 33305, $10 Donation Call (954) 630-3556 Miami Herald, “The next generation’s spiritual Stonewall.”

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