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CNN Host Ejects Anti-Gay Activist From Tuesday Morning Broadcast By CLIFF DUNN
ATLANTA, GA – On Tuesday morning, after American Family Association spokesman Bryan Fischer began propagandizing the alleged “documented” health risks of being gay, CNN anchor Carol Costello terminated the interview, offering tepid thanks for his opinions, which included the claim that a majority of Nazi Germany’s SS storm troopers were gay. During her regular midday broadcast of “CNN Newsroom” (which airs Monday through Friday, from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m., Eastern time), Costello hosted an interview with Fischer, who serves as Director of Issues Analysis for the Tupelo, Miss.based AFA. Their discussion opened with Fischer’s criticism of the Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC) “Mix It Up at Lunch Day” project, which promotes tolerance in school lunchrooms in an effort to combat the nationwide bullying epidemic. According to Fischer, the event, which SPLC launched in 2001 and is held in 2,500 schools nationwide, is an effort by the progressive advocacy center to force students “to accept homosexuality as a normal, healthy alternative to heterosexuality.” Fischer said that the Mix It Up initiative is “toxic” to students’ “moral health,” and compared it to “poisoned Halloween candy” that has been injected with cyanide. “The label looks fine, it looks innocuous, but once you internalize it, you realize how toxic it is.” Costello later quoted from the transcript SUNSHINE STATE
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of an earlier radio interview with Fischer, in which he claimed that “Hitler recruited homosexuals around him to make up his storm troopers. They were his enforcers. He discovered he could not get straight soldiers to carry out his orders, but homosexual soldiers had no limit to the savagery and brutality Hitler sent them after.” “That spells agenda to me,” remarked NATIONAL DESK
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Costello, who noted that what Fischer was saying could be considered “hate speech.” After Fischer called SPLC—which is best known for its legal victories against white supremacist groups, and its monitoring of extremist organizations— the real “bullying group,” he claimed that “they’re the ones that want to silence any view that would criticize the normalization POLITICAL DESK
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of homosexual behavior.” When he added that “homosexuality has the same risks associated with it as intravenous drug use,” an exasperated Costello cut him off, noting, “That’s just not true. I’m going to end this interview now, sir, because that’s just not true.” She added: “Thanks for sharing your views, I guess.” H NUPTIALS
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Rick Gibson Appointed to Community Redevelopment Advisory Board FORT LAUDERDALE – Realtor Rick Gibson has been appointed to serve on the City of Fort Lauderdale’s newlyformed Community Redevelopment Advisory Board (CRA), which was created under the mandate of the City Commission to help formulate and implement strategies to redevelop and improve the area between West Sunrise Boulevard, Northwest 16th Street, I-95, and Flagler Drive.
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The board will consider such strategies as encouraging new commercial and residential construction, making infrastructure improvements such as sidewalks, street lighting, and traffic calming devices, and measures which could offer grant or financial incentives to residents and business owners looking to improve their properties. Fort Lauderdale City Commissioner Charlotte Rodstrom noted the “important duties” and planning the board members including Gibson will be undertaking for the area’s future, and said she “look[s] forward to working with this board to make this portion of the city a more vibrant area.” “This appointment is an honor, considering the impact to the city of CRAs in general and this particular CRA’s central location,” Gibson, who has an extensive background in marketing and communications, and was recognized as Best Community Realtor 2011, told the Agenda. “The LGBT community has historically resided and operated
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businesses in the areas affected by the CRA boundaries,” he said. “I am very excited to be able to have input to the city on how to make these areas safer, more valuable, and to promote business,” added Gibson, whose affiliate was recognized this year as the RE/MAX 2012 Number One South Florida Team. “Naturally, due to the proximity to Wilton Manors, and to the number of LGBT residents in the CRA boundaries, this will over time have tremendous positive impact for the greater good and the LGBT community,” he predicted.
Stonewall Museum Hosts U.S. Rep. Barney Frank and Partner WILTON MANORS – The Stonewall Museum and Archives will host America’s most prominent gay elected official, at The Manor on November 17. During this year’s “Stonewall Stars: Turning the Tide,” U.S. Rep. Barney Frank (D-MA), will discuss marriage equality and other relevant issues in the postelection cycle. The event is organized to celebrate the achievements of local and national individuals who further the cause of the LGBT community.
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Tickets for “Stonewall Stars: Turning the Tide” start at $75 for general admission and $150 for VIP. A limited-attendance brunch with Rep. Frank and his partner, James Ready, will be held at a private residence on Sunday, November 18 for $500. For more information, visit stonewallnationalmuseum.org.
Pridelines Youth Services Presents 6-Session Discussion Series MIAMI – Pridelines Youth Services will present a six-session discussion series, “Sharing Our History,” beginning this month. According to officials, the series will explore the history of LGBT equality advocacy in Miami-Dade County, with a long-term aim of instilling in local youth a desire to build upon the efforts of their predecessors to achieve equality for the LGBT community. The program will utilize the life stories of current and former LGBT activists. The first of the six sessions will take place Thursday, October 23, and the program will continue until Tuesday, December 11. Each session will be held from 6 to 8 p.m. at the Pridelines Youth Services’ drop-in center, 9526 NE 2nd Avenue, Suite 104, Miami Shores. The series is free and open to the public. For more information, visit pridelines.org.
“Drag Bar Crawl” Comes to South Beach MIAMI BEACH – Four South Beach establishments will host the first “Drag Bar Crawl” fundraiser in support of Miami Beach Gay Pride on Thursday, October 25. The Drag Bar Crawl begins at 8 p.m. at Palace Bar, 1200 Ocean Drive, with drag superstar Tiffany Fantasia presenting the “Best Float” award from the 2012 parade to Borinquen Medical Center of Miami. At 9:30 p.m., the progressive party will move to Mova Lounge, 1625 Michigan Avenue, for the Pride Volunteer Appreciation Hour. After Mova, crawlers will proceed to Score, 727 Lincoln Road, at 11 p.m. for a video showcase from the parade and festival held in April. The Drag Bar Crawl will then culminate at Twist, 1057 Washington Avenue, at 12:30 a.m. “It’s important that the community comes out to support Miami Beach Gay Pride for this first fundraiser of the season,” said Babak Movahedi, chairman of the Pride Board of Directors. “Pride is an event produced by the community, for the community, and to keep the event free and to keep the event growing each year requires a great deal of operating capital from donations.”
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Miami Beach Gay Pride has grown into the largest, single-day event of the year in the City of Miami Beach. In April, it attracted more than 60,000 people. The 2013 event, which will be held from April 12 to 14, will be its fifth annual. For more information, visit miamibeachgaypride.com.
Sarasota Commissioners Unanimously Approve Domestic Partner Registry SARASOTA - Sarasota City Commissioners unanimously approved a domestic partner registry that gives same-sex couples the same rights to shared health care coverage, choices about education for their children, and other decisions. Beginning December 4, both gay and straight couples can file under the guidelines. Sarasota joins other Florida cities including Gulfport, Tampa, and St. Petersburg in establish a domestic partner registry. The registry guarantees specific rights, including Health Care Facility Visitation and Health Care Decisions, Funeral/burial Decisions, and Pre-need guardian designation, among other things spelled out by the ordinance. Under the measure, “two persons are considered to be domestic partners if: They consider themselves to be members of each other’s immediate family. They agree to be jointly responsible for each other’s welfare. Neither of them is married under the laws of the State of Florida, is a member of another domestic partnership, or civil union with anyone other than the co-applicant. They are not blood related in a way that would prevent them from being married to each other under Florida state law. Each is at least 18 years of age and competent to contract.”H
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Evangelical Group Urges Boycott of School Event’s “Push To Promote Homosexual Lifestyle” MONTGOMERY, AL – In 2001, the Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC) created “Mix It Up at Lunch Day,” an annual event to encourage schoolchildren to spend time with another kid with whom they might not normally associate. The Montgomery-based nonprofit civil rights organization—best known for its court victories against white supremacist groups, and its monitoring of extremist organizations—designed the project as a way for schools to promote tolerance, with a long-term goal of breaking up cliques and sensitizing kids to the evils of bullying. More than 2,500 schools take part nationwide, most of them on Oct. 30. This month, the conservative American Family Association (AFA) sent an email to its supporters, in which it denounced the event as “a nationwide push to promote the homosexual lifestyle in public schools.” It called upon parents to keep their children home on Oct. 30. According to the SPLC, as of last Friday, about 200 schools had cancelled their scheduled commemorations. “I was surprised that they completely lied about what Mix It Up Day is,” Maureen Costello, the Director of the Teaching Tolerance project of the SPLC, told The New York Times. “It was a cynical, fear-mongering tactic.” The SPLC recently added the AFA to its list of active hate groups, which includes neo-Nazis, white and black separatists, and Holocaust deniers. The AFA, which is based in Tupelo, Miss., says its mission is to combat “increasing ungodliness” in America.
Megachurch Pastor: Sexual Orientation is a “Modern Phenomenon” LAS MESA, CA – In a recent online interview, Pastor Jim Garlow of the evangelical Skyline Church addressed “Biblical Issues for This Election.” The megachurch pastor,
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whose weekly congregation numbers around 2,500, told author Wayne Grudem that “sexual orientation” is a “modern phenomenon” and “construct” with no Biblical basis. “The Bible talks about practices,” Garlow said, “it does not talk about orientation.” He told Grudem that although a person may hold a “pernicious tendency towards same-sex attraction,” he or she doesn’t have to act upon it. By comparison, “every healthy heterosexual male I know has a pernicious tendency towards polygamy,” Garlow told a visibly uncomfortable and notaltogether-convinced Grudem, adding, “but we don’t act out on it.”
Church picketed the military funeral of a gay non-commissioned officer, US Army Sgt. Donna Johnson, 29, who was among 14 people killed October 1 in a suicide bomber attack in Afghanistan. Hundreds of people showed up at the event to prevent the attempt by Westboro members to disrupt the memorial service. According to local television station ABC 11, when one of the Westboro congregation tried to stamp upon the American flag, a military service member physically rushed the individual, preventing the flag desecration. Last week, Westboro member Jonathan Phelps, a relative of church founder Fred Phelps, told radio host David Pakman that he “absolutely” supports the concept of putting gays to death.
Marriage Equality Advocates Call Upon President Obama To Carry Their Standard Nordstrom Comes Out in Favor of LOS ANGELES, CA — LGBT Same-Sex Marriage rights advocates are calling upon President Obama to reiterate his support for marriage equality in four states where the question will be decided on November 6 by ballot initiative. Los Angelesbased LegalizeLove.com said on Monday that it will air one-minute television spots in Maine, Maryland, Minnesota, and Washington state using the words the chief executive used in May when he endorsed same-sex marriage. On Monday, organizers from LegalizeLove.com dropped off a wedding cake with two grooms on the top and a bullhorn at Obama’s Portland, Maine campaign office. Next month, voters in Maine, Maryland, and Washington will decide whether to approve or ban same-sex marriage, while in Minnesota, a ballot measure calls for a constitutional ban on marriage equality. Obama is expected to carry all four states in the presidential election.
SEATTLE, WA – Retailer Nordstrom has announced its support for marriage equality. The Seattle-based brand sent out a company-wide memo last week, written by CEO Blake Nordstrom and co-signed by brothers Erik and Pete Nordstrom that spelled out the luxury chain’s “philosophical approach” to business, which includes a workplace where “every employee is welcomed and respected.” Although the company currently offers domestic partnership benefits to its same-sex employees, “We feel the next step in this journey is to now support freedom to marry, also called marriage equality,” wrote Nordstrom. “We gave this thoughtful consideration and felt the time was right to come out in support of this civil rights issue,” he explained. “It is our belief that our gay and lesbian employees are entitled to the same rights and protections marriage provides as all our employees,” Nordstrom added, noting that “the decision is consistent with our longWestboro Baptist time philosophy of inclusivity and Protests Lesbian equality.” Non-Commissioned The retailer joins other Officer’s Military Washington-based corporations, including Amazon.com and Funeral Starbucks, in supporting the state’s RAEFORD, NC – On Saturday, Referendum 74, which would members of the Westboro Baptist legalize marriage equality. Other Fortune 500 companies are
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Moscow Gay Bar Terrorized in Attack By Masked Men MOSCOW, Russia — Moscow police are looking for two dozen masked men who attacked one of the Russian capital’s most popular gayfriendly bars last Thursday night, beating patrons with improvised weapons and fists. Over a dozen people— mostly women—were hurt. According to authorities, more than 50 people were inside 7freedays, one of a handful of Moscow’s gay and gay-friendly bars. Witnesses said that the attackers entered the club wearing hooded sweatshirts and surgical masks. They told police that some of the men shouted, “You asked for a fight? Now you’ll get it,” and then attacked. The invasion lasted less than five minutes, with the attackers fleeing before police arrived. LGBT advocates in Russia say the attack is part of a cultural effort to promote intolerance against gay men and women throughout the country, where three cities, including St. Petersburg, have passed laws that criminalize “homosexual propaganda.” An official with the Russian Orthodox Church, which is the country’s predominant faith, recently supported introducing such laws nationwide, and Moscow’s highest court has upheld a municipal ordinance that bans gay pride parades until May 2112. H
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Opposing Censorship While Defending the Indefensible OCTOBER 17, 2012 • ISSUE 152
CLIFF DUNN, EDITOR “The part I took in defense of Capt. Preston and the [British] soldiers procured me anxiety and [verbal abuse] enough.” – John Adams, 1773
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ast week, this publication printed a paid political advertisement that had been provided by the Broward County chapter of the Log Cabin Republicans. The half page black and white ad depicted the late U.S. Ambassador Christopher Stevens, as his body was carried out of the U.S. Consulate in Benghazi, Libya, in which he had died moments earlier. The national coverage on the advertisement has, correctly, focused almost entirely on the Broward LCR’s actions, and the consequences it is likely to face from its national chartering organization. Since I had no involvement in the ad’s creation, or participation in deciding whether the ad ran, I do not want to put words into the mouths (by way of explaining what they were thinking) of either the Broward LCR chapter or of their national organization. Speaking for the latter, the Log Cabin Republicans’ national executive director, R. Clarke Cooper, has already responded in eloquent language about his organization’s outrage (see this issue’s Florida Agenda “POLITICAL DESK,” Page 11) concerning the depiction of a fallen American diplomat who died in the service of his country (regardless of the specific details of that death, both of which remain matters of national sensitivity and security), and of the use of that image to garner cheap, fear- and hate-inspired political support. Nor will I impart my own personal feelings concerning the use of Ambassador Stevens’ portrayal in such straits, or of how such a portrayal distresses men and women of goodwill, gay and straight, Muslim and Christian, Jew and atheist, and gives aid and comfort to all enemies of decency and goodness. That sentiment must be one which is expressed individually, and I will not engage in the same tactics as did the members of the Broward LCRs who were responsible for the ad, in the interest of assuaging my own moral outrage. That would be irresponsible of me as a journalist, a keeper of our most sacred secular commandment, the First Amendment to the U.S. Constitution. By now, I have heard from members of
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the press—gay and straight, legitimate and tabloid—concerning the righteous anger and disdain that has been directed both at the Broward Log Cabin Republicans and the ad’s grotesque depiction of a fallen American who died of unnatural causes. There has likewise been concern about the decision to run the ad, in light of reports that it was declined in other publications. I cannot speak to the reasoning behind those publications’ decision not to run the ad, other than to accept at face value their own explanations, and try to give you a window into our reasoning, one which informs our commitment to serving as a community-wide instrument to disseminate information and opinions—not all of them popular, and in this extreme case, one which tries the very fabric and tolerance of that very relevant concept, free speech and open-access to a community journal. As I told the very capable national LGBT journalist Bil Browning of the Bilerico Project, the balance between censorship and sensitivity has more farreaching implications for the press than it does for a person sitting in your own living room. Was the Agenda free to censor a message we found repugnant? I can think of no legal constraint preventing it. But in advertising ourselves as a community publication, we have an obligation to serve the entire community. When a lobbyist provides financial incentives to a lawmaker, he is legally buying access under a system that is as old as our Republic. That same access is afforded to both pro-life and anti-gun groups alike. It is a part of an open dialog that is likewise as old as our Republic—as is the suppression of free speech during times of national distress, which in our nation dates from the Alien and Sedition Acts of the 18th Century to the Patriot Act of the 21st. As a journalist, my first responsibility must always be to err on the side of free speech and expression, so long as it doesn’t contradict the law. Along with the Bill of Rights, I would offer an older, more fundamental imperative that was in play here: the Golden Rule, which demands that the
same treatment be afforded the “good” among us as the “bad.” This was the point behind the admonishment, “I’d give the Devil [the] benefit of law, for my own safety’s sake,” in the 1960 play “A Man for All Seasons.” In 1822, Denmark Vesey led one of the largest slave rebellions in preCivil War America. Vesey, a freed slave, purchased his own freedom sometime around 1800. He was a leader of a black church which preached the abolition of slavery in very white, very anti-abolition Charleston, S.C. Twice—and with the collusion of the authorities—white property owners shut down Vesey’s African Church, a provocation that would lead to the uprising of several thousand African-American slaves and freedmen. Although the owners of the African Church property could have chosen to allow Vesey’s congregation to stay open, they instead decided to ignore the members’ First Amendment rights to assembly and to practice their beliefs. Of course, as private landowners they were not actually constrained by the Bill of Rights—those Constitutional prohibitions are directed specifically at Congress—and so they were under no obligation to honor its language. But they apparently felt no obligation either to honor the Golden Rule, of doing unto others as one would have done unto them. Doesn’t a community journal have an ethical obligation to provide a balance, offering ad space (and editorial column inches) for all political sides in a presidential election year? Would censorship have been the “high road?” I cannot in good conscience say that it would have been. I know that others will debate on where a line of decency or good taste, not to mention humanity, should be drawn, and I hope to take part in that discussion. I know that I would hope that the LCRs will use a more sensitive measuring stick when they next try to influence the social message, since I think this time around they clearly went far afield. I think a long-term good will Editor’s Desk, continued on Page 11
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Ad Does Not Represent Position of Log Cabin Republicans By R. CLARKE COOPER (Editor’s Note: This open Letter to the Editor was published online by the author, who is the national executive director of the Log Cabin Republicans [LCRs]. It is a direct response to a paid political advertisement placed in the October 10, 2012 Florida Agenda, that was paid for by the Broward County chapter of the LCRs.) Dear Editors: The recent ad run in the Florida Agenda by the Broward Log Cabin Republicans does not represent the position of Log Cabin Republicans, and we reject it completely. The 9-11 attack on Americans posted in Libya was an act of terrorism. To suggest that the AlQaeda in the Islamic Maghreb attack on the US consular mission in Benghazi was connected to homophobia is just as ridiculous as US Ambassador to the UN, Susan Rice, claiming the attack in Benghazi was prompted by a film critical of Mohammed. Violence against the LGBT community is a challenge to civil society throughout the world, and America is a beacon for
freedom for all minority voices. There are plenty of reasons to vote Republican to protect US interests and human rights abroad, but the obscene ad in this publication is fallacious, grossly inappropriate and irresponsible. Further, on a personal level and as a former diplomat, seeing this ad makes me sick. I know Israel’s ambassador to the US, Michael Oren, who happens to be a pro-gay rights conservative, and I am deeply embarrassed to have to explain to him and strong pro-gay rights conservative ally, House Foreign Affairs Committee Chairman, Ileana Ros-Lehtinen, that a local chapter of Log Cabin Republicans ran such an offensive ad in an attempt to get voters
to the polls and bolster the US bilateral relationship with Israel. Our organization’s mission is to build a stronger, more inclusive Republican Party, and this ad failed on all fronts. Regards, R. Clarke Cooper Executive Director, Log Cabin Republicans Washington, D.C.
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be served by that, in every sense. The question of which good is best served by what deed puts me in mind of John Adams, who was in 1770 the lawyer selected to defend the British soldiers who took part in the Boston Massacre. Although even then a leading Patriot in the cause of American liberty, and a firm believer that the citizens of Boston had every reason to “call the action of that night a massacre,” Adams—later our country’s second president—held that not providing the British soldiers full access to the best defense “would have been as foul a stain upon this country as the executions of the Quakers or witches, anciently.” Then as now, some things remain more indefensible than others.H
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he debate about gay marriage is in an interesting place these days. The extremists in the Republican Party continue to insist that legalizing the act will somehow tear our country apart. But outside of that radical thinking, the progress made regarding gay marriage, and its acceptance in general, has been heartening. And that’s exactly why I took strong issue with what Rupert Everett, the openly gay actor with a history of critical commentary regarding gays, was recently quoted as saying. From his simple opinion that “children need a father and a mother,” to his infuriatingly dismissive and insulting judgment that “I can’t think of anything worse than being brought up by two gay dads,” Everett has shown himself to be something of a
self-hating homosexual. More importantly, though, he’s hurting a cause that he should be helping, regardless of how he feels about parenthood. I often get upset when people on “our side” don’t seem to understand the relevance or importance of the debate. I’m particularly troubled when such a person is perceived as taking the opposing side. Clearly he has no interest in being a parent. Mr. Everett, as a man who is looking forward to the day when I get to hold my own baby in my arms, I would respectfully like to invite you to shut up, at least until you can prove that you’re not as misguided as you sound. Just because you may not care to be a father does not mean that I don’t want to, or am incapable of doing so with another man. Your comments are a setback to an already-fragile cause.
Is it difficult to accept that you’re furthering the cause of people who want to shove you back in the closet, and not allow you to live the life you’re currently living anymore? That’s what happens when you make flippant, uneducated comments. Why would you bother bringing it up in the first place? You don’t have children, nor are you expecting to. Beyond our differing desires regarding parenthood (and besides the fact you seem to dislike being gay), there’s also this: You’re flat-out wrong. The facts aren’t on your side. There is no evidence to support that children from a same-sex household are at any significant disadvantage than their peers raised in heterosexual households. If there was clear evidence to prove that it’s a detriment to children, or that they were being placed at risk in any way, those who
oppose gay marriage would quote those facts daily. Although your decision to speak against your community provided you an opportunity to separate from us, you failed miserably in your chance to dignify yourself. This makes you as inaccurate as you are irrelevant. (I’ll be honest, the fact that I’m even taking the time to write about it bothers me.) As a community, we should be beyond the point of debating whether gay marriage is “morally acceptable.” But when someone says something idiotic in order to make headlines, the only appropriate response is to come back with a “simple-as-a-Palin” retort to put them in their place. Really, Rupert: It’s a shame.H David Kitchen, a Phoenix native, is captain of the Live Free Be Strong team in this year’s Smart Ride
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Red Hispana HIV Testing, Hispanic support groups, emergency relief fund assistance, pre-case management 1350 East Sunrise Blvd., Suite 129, Ft. Lauderdale (954) 462-8889
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Brian Neal Fitness & Health Foundation Weekly group workouts, gym membership, nutrition and life mentoring classes by professionals, online programs, exercise, and health monitoring for persons living with HIV/AIDS and other lifechallenging conditions. 2435 N. Dixie Hwy., Wilton Manors (954) 336-0436 (561) 255-4913 AIDS Healthcare Foundation/Out of the Closet HIV testing, client services, STD’s testing & treatment, AHF Pharmacy 2097 Wilton Dr., Wilton Manors (954) 318-6997 The Community Anger management, counseling Self pay/Sliding Scale $25-$85 16 NE 4th St., Suite 130, Ft. Lauderdale (954) 533-9819 Family Therapy Center Anger management 2415 University Dr., Coral Springs (954) 345-6222 South Florida Gender Coalition Support groups for Cross-dressers, trans-sexuals and significant others; Age 18 and older. 3233 NW 34th Ct., Ft. Lauderdale (954) 578-9454, 954-677-2587 Teen Space 211 Tough teen issues, bullying, counseling 3217 NW 10th Terr., Suite 308, Ft. Lauderdale Pride Institute of Fort Lauderdale Gay/Lesbian/Bisex/Trans; Mental Health Services; Substance Abuse Detox; Substance Abuse Inpatient (954) 463-4321, 954-453-8679 (800) 585-7527
Legal Aid Service - Broward Human Rights Initiative Low-income gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender (GLBT) individuals in need of legal services, Gay/ Lesbian/Bisex/Trans; Legal Services 491 N State Rd. 7, Plantation (954) 358-5635 SunServe Counseling, mental health intake and referral, Noble McArtor Senior Day Care Center, youth and family services 1480 SW 9th Ave., Ft. Lauderdale (954) 764-5150, (954) 764-5055, (954) 764-5055, (954) 549-0263 Fusion Program open to the GLBTQ community. Activities include meditation, social events, groups, movies, games, classes, and condom distribution campaign. 2304 NE 7th Ave., Wilton Manors (954) 630-1655 Spectrum Programs Case Management, Marriage & Family therapy, Outpatient Counseling, Psychiatric Services, Substance Abuse Residential Treatment 450 E Atlantic Blvd., Pompano Beach (954) 580-0770 (954) 781-4405 Drag it OUT, Inc. Drag it OUT’s mision is to provide a safe space for the LGBTQ community and their supporters who are interested in exploring gender identity, self-expression and community activism by way of educational workshops, social opportunities and artistic projects. Learn how to get involved at dragitout.org facebook.com/dragitoutinc 1310 SW 2nd Ct. #103 Fort Lauderdale (954) 612-4489 (954) 213-7112
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Has New Owners with Familiar Faces By DALE MADISON
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t’s hard to believe that Wilton Manors Art Walk is now turning seven years old. What began as an art gallery owner’s vision to entice residents to stroll along “the Drive” for an evening of art, wine, and cheese has become a call to action to explore everything that Wilton Manors has to offer, with a new group of owners having plans to grow Art Walk into a citywide event. Those new owners will look awfully familiar to many locals, as the event was purchased by the Wilton Manors Development Alliance (WMDA) President and CEO, Krishan Manners, and his right hand, WMDA Vice President, Tony LoGrande. “We would like the Island City Art Walk to expand to encompass the whole city of Wilton Manors, not just Wilton Drive,” says Manners, the event’s new co-owner. “We want to encourage other businesses across the city to get involved in ‘the Walk,’
particularly along Dixie Highway.’” “Over the past six years, it has grown consistently, and we want to see it grow even more,” adds LoGrande. Art Walk started as a way to expose
Says LoGrande, “We were concerned that if Island City Art Walk were to end, it would be one of those monthly events during season that so many people look forward to, and it is truly a
people who were walking along the Drive to the street’s many art galleries. But just as the Walk kicked off, so did the economic collapse. That didn’t influence the new owners, whose fervor and “drive” is bound to make a difference. “We don’t want this to be a craft fair but a chance for local artists to come out and show their talents,” Manners explains. “We want to showcase local talent, and we want to sustain this for the community and show the diversity of art.”
networking event for so many, and also a social event where neighbors get out at a time when the weather is so nice.” The first Island City Art Walk is scheduled for November 16, and then on the third Friday of every month through April. Galleries or individual artists can get more information by emailing Info@islandcityartwalk.com, or visit Facebook, Island City Art Walk. “This is a real call to action,” LoGrande says. “We really want to reenergize those talented people in the area to come on board. We want to
see more galleries on the Drive, but we also want to see other businesses get involved and host showings of local artists.” “Through our work at WMDA, we are in the process of finding sponsors to bring the Full Sails Fort Lauderdale project into Wilton Manors,” says Manners. “These boats are 7’ high and 5’ long, and we will have local artists paint them with their special talents and they will be displayed, similar to the ‘Cow Parade’ in Chicago. It would be great to have these lining Wilton Drive – they would benefit the community with art and the businesses with another attraction for visitors.”H
If your non-profit organization is not listed in the Agenda Non-Profit Services Directory, please send your information to Dale Madison at dalemadison@guymag.net.
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never knew how much work goes into selecting just the right pumpkin. Fortunately, the Kiwanis Pumpkin Patch at Five Points in Wilton Manors has a great selection of pumpkins—even white ones—as well as cornstalks with which to create your own Great Pumpkin Patch in the run-up to the big day. Something that will also put you in the “fright” state of mind for Halloween is the premiere of Rocky Horror Live at Andrews Living Arts Studio (23 NW 5th St., Fort Lauderdale), which runs October 18 (tomorrow) through October 31, with special late night shows and a Halloween Night Rocky Horror Costume Ball on October 31. Learn more inside, OUT in Florida. If you’ve lived in South Florida long enough to remember “When you say ‘Taco,’ say ‘Viva,’” then you have seen your share of southwestern restaurants of all menus and price-ranges come and go. Food maven Richard David Chamberlain is a regular fan of this week’s culinary gem, Fort Lauderdale’s Tijuana Flats, and he serves up the Tex-Mex “dish” in this week’s Dining. As writer Robert Elias Deaton tells us, Chicago’s Boystown isn’t just for boys, and he shares all the nothing-to-be-shy-about-ChiTown-secrets (and some not-so-secrets), Part II of a series, this week in a brand new Travel column. The phrase “I have a migraine” has become so commonplace, that the very serious health issues underlying the condition are often seen as just part of the “punch line.” Nutrition writer and expert Andy Kress takes a serious look this week at a serious ailment that debilitates millions of Americans, and the good news is that many of the symptoms of a migraine are corrigible. Read on about this, and a great deal more, including community profiles from Mr. (Dale) Madison’s Gayborhood, and a special announcement about a special “engagement” this week for some special friends of the community. I have to know: How big is your pumpkin? CD
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By JOSEPH NORMAN
Chris Crocker Bares All
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hris Crocker, best known for his tearful YouTube plea to “Leave Britney Alone!” is the newest gay “celebrity” to dive into the murky waters of adult film. He recently announced a deal with OLB Media (the porn company behind Onthehunt.com, Fraternityx.com, Straightmen.com, Parolehim.com, and Maverickmen.com) to create, develop, and manage his own adult site, ChrisCrockerXXX.com, which will premiere later this winter. His first film, which Chris filmed with ex-boyfriend Justin Goble, is available for download now at Maverickmen.com. He spoke with the Agenda’s Joseph Norman. FA: How does one go from pleading for everyone to “Leave Britney Alone!” to launching his own adult film brand? CC: I was 19 when that [Britney YouTube] video came out. I’m 24, turning 25 now. As my HBO documentary (“Me At The Zoo”) pointed out, I’ve used film as an emotional outlet for years. I’ve filmed myself being crazy, having fun, crying. Filming myself having sex is just an extension of what I already do. FA: Why was the YouTube video such a phenomenon? CC: I think the video was just straight from the heart and it made people uncomfortable. They didn’t know whether to laugh at it or to take it seriously. They just knew to watch. I also think me being an effeminate male crying over a woman added to the interest. FA: How have you grown in the last five years? I’ve shifted my interests quite a bit. I went from crying over
pop stars to becoming one. I’ve sold nearly 100,000 songs on iTunes. FA: You also “butched” up. It was a natural evolution. I felt the change coming on inside of me and wanted to act on it. It wasn’t a calculated decision to distance myself from my old persona. I simply felt new inside. FA: You’re being criticized for promoting bareback sex in your films. What’s your response? CC: I see the complaints. I don’t necessarily disagree with them but at the same time, I represent myself, not the community. I’m not a role model because I don’t play a role. FA: But as a public persona, do you not feel a responsibility to promote safe sex among your audience, many of whom are young gay men? CC: As I said, I answer to myself. Lots of people are public figures. The public shouldn’t assume that just because someone receives attention, they’re fit to be a moral compass. I do promote safety to youth. I was in a relationship with the guy in the video so I didn’t wear a condom. FA: You came to Britney’s support. Do you think she would support your decision to do porn? CC: Probably not. Judging from her “X Factor” audition clips, she seems easily weirded out by people. But I don’t need her approval or anyone else’s. I’m my own idol now.H
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Boystown Isn’t Just for Boys
By ROBERT ELIAS DEATON
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ollowing up on last week’s introduction to Chicago, Illinois, we return to President Obama’s onetime hometown to scour the gayborhoods best bars, clubs, and cafés. Chicago’s largest gay village is nicknamed Boystown, though it’s legally known as Lakeview. The first officially recognized gay neighborhood in the United States, it is also the cultural center of one of the largest LGBT communities in the nation. For those who keep track of such statistics, Boystown also has more resident drag queens per square inch than any other place in America.
Sidetrack has big bars, big crowds, and big gay fun
Our hands-down favorite club in the area is Sidetrack (3349 N Halsted St., between Roscoe and Buckingham). Currently celebrating its 30th anniversary, Sidetrack is a labyrinth of seven bars, lounges and a celebrated balcony from which all things wicked can be observed. It’s the largest video bar in Chicago, and swears it sells more vodka per night than any other bar in the entire U.S.A. Just down the block and across the street is Roscoe’s (3356 N Halsted St.), where the kids go to dance, and the Daddies go to spoil them. Roscoe’s, now in its 25th year, is a great place for eats in spring, summer and the beginning of fall, with its sidewalk café. The big draw is the wet boxers contest the first Sunday of each month— boxers as in underwear, not pugilists. Continue walking up Halsted Street and visit Cocktail (3359 N Halsted St.), where the drinks are fun concoctions like strawberry mojitos, legendary DJ’s spin sizzling hot music, and some surprisingly good Chicago pizza and salads are served at The Garden. Very hot go-go dancers perform on Tuesday, Thursday and Friday nights. Hydrate (3458 N Halsted St.) gets points for
its College Night on Tuesday. Drinks are $1 each and you don’t have to be matriculating to attend. Those that are, however, get inside for no cover charge with appropriate college I.D. The rest of the week are drag events at Hydrate, with all the drama and hair such a schedule suggests. For those into leather and bear packs, there is always the tried-and-true CellBlock (3702 N Halsted St.). While the front bar is rather tame, the back bar is serious leather, with porn videos to prove the point. For something a lot sleazier, pump it up and head to Manhandler Saloon (1948 N. Halsted St.). This place is Chicago’s bar-equivalent to a bathhouse, so don’t give us those Betty Boop eyes when your pants are pulled down around your knees and a wet mouth enters your sightline. This does not happen in plain view, of course. Mosey right through the front bar with its surly bartenders, and right through the back patio. The action takes place beyond the stockade fencing where crowds as large as three dozen will be doing the nasty nightly. Chicago’s alternative gayborhood to Boystown is Andersonville. This one-time
A fitting structure in Boystown
Swedish settlement has given way to upscale LGBT residents who flock to @mosphere (5355 N Clark St. at Balmoral Ave.). The attractions here are drink specials, a large dance floor, and go-go dancers from Wednesday through Saturday. Go a little further north and discover Touché (6412 N Clark St. at W Devon Ave.), a fancy name for a leather bar that’s been around for 35 years. The place is sweet with just the right stench, and men’s men playing in the backroom. Our kinda town.H
Robert Elias Deaton is a world-traveling epicure who enjoys the finer things in life.
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Christopher Dunham, Joseph Dominguez, to Wed By RORY BARBAROSA
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hristopher Trevor Dunham and Joseph Anthony Dominguez have announced that they will enter into wedded matrimony on Friday, October 19, in Boston, Mass. The couple, who resides in Wilton Manors, says that the ceremony will take place at 12 p.m. on the Boston Wedded-for-bliss: Common, with a reception to be held afterwards at Dominguez (l), Dunham (r) the Taj Boston, a luxury five-star hotel that opened in 1927 as the Ritz-Carlton Boston. Dunham was born in Rockledge, Florida on January 1, 1964. The President and owner, since 1997, of Fort Lauderdale-based Dunham Insurance Services, he attended Stetson University in Deland, and was drafted by the Cleveland Indians Major League Baseball team in 1987. Cliff Dunn, executive editor of the Florida Agenda and GUY Magazine, said that Dunham is one of the community’s “irreplaceable men.” “I have known Chris since we worked together at Publix in Miramar 30 years ago,” Dunn recalls. “He and I were on a Publix crew who called ourselves the ‘A-Team’—we thought we were
something else,” says Dunn with a laugh. “Chris was the hardest working man I knew, then as now, and he has always used his enthusiasm and drive to the benefit of everyone else around him, his family, his co-workers, his teammates, and everyone who is blessed to know him.” His fellow groom, Joseph Dominguez, was born on September 30, 1971, at Lakenheath Air Force Base, near Lakenheath, Suffolk, England (United Kingdom). He is employed as an agent at Dunham Insurance Services. The couple has been engaged in a domestic partnership since November 26, 2003. “Yes, in-house romance,” Dunham acknowledges, noting that “one shouldn’t play in his own backyard” before adding, “well I differ with that.” “I couldn’t be happier for two of my very best friends,” said the couple’s close friend, Irwin Drucker, executive director of the non-profit PYP Foundation. “I wish we lived in a state where they could legally marry right here at home, where we could all be standing proudly with them.” H
SPOTLIGHT
The (Many Hot) Men of MoJo’s Men’s Room By DALE MADISON
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hen you hear the words “barber shop,” most people (my age, anyway) think of Floyd, from the old “Andy Griffith Show,” with an old rotating red, white and blue barber pole outside a sleepy little shop. You’ll still find the pole, but nothing that’s remotely “sleepy” at a “cutting edge” (pun intended) salon that has turned the Gayborhood on its ear, MoJo’s Men’s Room on Wilton Drive. Owner Joe Sansone is the spark that has set his little corner of Wilton Manors’ main drag—at 2348 Wilton Drive—ablaze. For over ten years, Sansone, 33, owned a very successful salon in Boca Raton. “Boca is a very lucrative area, and I did very well. But it just wasn’t what I wanted,” he relates. “One day, I happened to be in Wilton Manors,” he recalls, “which,
by the way, I love this town. Belle Isle [townhomes] had been here for a couple of years, and several things had gone in and out of this location. I drove by and saw the ‘for rent’ sign in the window, made the call, and the next thing you know, I am signing on the proverbial dotted line.” “The atmosphere here in Wilton Manors is so different from the vibe in Boca Raton,” Sansone says. “That’s not to say anything negative about Boca, but here you have a much younger demographic. It’s sort of—” he pauses for a moment, before adding with a charming, almost rakish smile, “a barber shop surrounded by eye candy.” He also says that there is more synergy in the Gayborhood among local businesses. “They actually work to promote and support each other here, which is
a far different world.” About his own business, Sansone offers proudly that “MoJo’s is the sort of salon that a man can enter and not feel intimidated. We want everyone to come in and feel relaxed. We have great music and videos, and the staff is amazing.” Sansone says he comes from a long line of barbers. “My grandfather and his brother moved here from Italy. They opened in Brooklyn, and were a great success. One day my great-uncle turned to my granddad and said, ‘I want to buy you out.’ That was at lunchtime, and by one o’clock the deal was done with a handshake. Then, my grandpa found this space in Manhattan which he really liked. It was in this place called 30 Rockefeller Center, the home of General Electric and NBC—where they film the ‘Today Show.’ “One day, the Chairman of
General Electric, then the parent company of NBC, came in for a haircut. Grandpa impressed him so much with the care, the cut and just his general business style that, next thing you know, he had the likes of Jack Parr from the ‘Tonight Show,’ the members of the Rat Pack, and Ronald Reagan as part of his clientele.” We can assume the sense of style and showmanship runs in the family, as does the pride in his craft. “I am a third generation barber— you notice I said ‘barber,’” said Sansone, as we wrapped things up. “I am proud to be called a barber.” The Men’s Room is open Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 7 p.m., Saturday from 9 to 5, and closed on Sunday. Call for an appointment at (954) 566-1350, and know you will not be disappointed.H
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TASTE OF THE ISLAND AND SILENT AUCTION Monday, November 5, from 6 to 9 p.m. At Richardson Park. Advance tickets $30, at the door $35. For more information, visit tasteofhteisland.org. ANDREWS LIVING ARTS: ROCKY HORROR LIVE! Thursdays, Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays, from October 18 to 27, at 8 p.m., at Andrews Living Arts Studio (23 NW 5th St, Fort Lauderdale). Special Late Night shows at 11 p.m. on Friday, October 19 and 26, and Saturday, October 20 and 27. A Halloween Night Rocky Horror Costume Ball will be held on Wednesday, October 31, at 8 p.m. Tickets available at andrewslivingarts. com, or (800) 838-3006.
SANDPIPER’S NETWORKER OVER COCKTAILS Wednesday, October 17. The Miami-Dade Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce presents its monthly networking program (held on the middle Wednesday of each month). This month’s location is Williams McCall Gallery (110 Washington Ave., Miami Beach). Works from Provincetown artists Madeliene Abling, Ernie Bynum, Joan Cobb Marsh, Mike Wright, and John Dowd will be on display. Drawing for prizes 5 to 7 p.m. Complimentary appetizers and wine. Free admission (limited to 50 persons). RSVP to rsvp@gaybizmiami.com, or (305) 673-4440.
BROWARD HOUSE RED RIBBON AWARDS LUNCHEON Wednesday, October 31, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m., at the Hyatt Regency Pier 66, Fort Lauderdale. Join us as Broward House—the county’s oldest and largest service organization for persons with HIV/AIDS—recognizes those members of the community who have gone above and beyond to help those in South Florida living with HIV/AIDS. This year’s honorees are former Fort Lauderdale Vice Mayor and Broward House board member Dean Trantalis, community activist and owner of the New Moon Bar, Carol Moran, attorney George Castrataro, Esq., Broward House- and communitysupporter Susan Rennissan of the Seminole Tribe of Florida, and Broward House Vice President of Community Health Services Jasmin Shirley. For more information, visit browardhouse.org.
HALLANDALE THE FESTIVAL OF SOULS Now through October 31, at The Village at Gulfstream Park. The FESTIVAL OF SOULS is a 19-day Halloween event featuring an 8,000 sq. ft. Haunted House known as the “Demon Mansion,” which will test your will and shake your courage, as you make your way through a labyrinth of demons and creatures of the night. All ghouls, vampires, witches, ghosts, and goblins come out and celebrate the scariest holiday of the year. Ever wish you could shoot real zombie? Well, here’s your chance, with the Zombie Safari Paint Ball Hayride, as well as night after night of phantasmagorical music, straight from the festival’s Resident Evil DJ, Maximus 3000.
BOOKSIGNING: “COOPER’S PROMISE” Wednesday, October 24, 7 p.m., LGBT Visitor Center, 1130 Washington Avenue, Miami Beach Monday, October 29, 8 p.m., Books & Books, 265 Alhambra Avenue, Coral Gables Called “literary dynamite” by Kirkus Reviews, “Cooper’s Promise” was also on the Philadelphia Gay News shortlist of recommended summer reading. RAINBOWLING Wednesday, October 24, at Lucky Strike Bowling Lanes (1691 Michigan Ave., Miami Beach). The MiamiDade Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce presents a fun night of bowling and networking, from 7 to 10 p.m. Unlimited bowling and a cash bar, free drawing for great prizes (including trips to Mexico or Aruba and NY, among others). $15 general admission for everyone (includes rental of bowling shoes + 1 FREE drink). Limited capacity. rsvp@gaybizmiami. com, or (305) 673-4440.
MIAMI BEACH MDGLCC BUSINESS BUILDERS LUNCH Thursday, October 25, at City Hall, The Restaurant (2004 Biscayne Blvd., Miami). The Miami-Dade Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce presents its monthly networking program, held the last Thursday of each month. Registration at 11:30 a.m., with luncheon/networking from noon to 1:30. Cost: MDGLCC members ($30), Potential Members ($40, $10 applied to new MDGLCC membership). Includes seated style lunch limited to 25 persons. Please bring a friend. rsvp@gaybizmiami.com or 305-673-4440.
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FORT LAUDERDALE/WILTON MANORS ALIBI 2266 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Gayborhood tradition since 1997. Comfortable, inviting atmosphere with indoor video bars, outdoor drinking and dining. Drink specials all week, with mammoth 22-ounce Long Island Iced Teas for $3 on Thursdays. BILL’S FILLING STATION 2209 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Videos, pool tables, dart boards, dance floor, happy hour, live shows, Tuesday and Thursday karaoke – and great burgers, to boot. Fun and friendly truck-stop-themed bar. BOARDWALK 1721 N Andrews Ave., Fort Lauderdale Over 100 of the sexiest men from all over the world. Go-go dancers, cages, billiards, 2-4-1 Happy Hours. Drag emcees and did we mention the Boys? BOOM 2232 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors The bar with two names features a dance club and Gayborhood bar. Drag Bingo on Mondays, karaoke Mondays and Tuesdays, dance music Fridays and Saturdays, and (indoor) Sunday T-Dance. CORNER PUB 1915 N Andrews Ave., Wilton Manors Friendly atmosphere, unpretentious clientele and staff. Next to Island City Pizza (so you can get your drink AND your slice on). CUBBY HOLE 823 N Federal Hwy., Fort Lauderdale Butch bar and grill with a rockin’ daytime crowd (and a fun nighttime one, too). Fifty cent pool, 2-for-1 drinks all day every day, video games, hot movies on HDTV and DirecTV. Thursdays it’s Bare Bear Chest Night, and every Friday and Saturday the fur flies with Hot Bears on Poles (where their Grizzlies Grind)! DEPOT CABANA BAR AND GRILL 2935 N Federal Hwy., Fort Lauderdale Adjacent to the America’s Best Inn and Suites. Pool open daily – No Cover or Day Pass. Great food, daily happy hour, Sunday afternoon T-Dance Poolside. Karaoke and live music. Open daily at 11:30 a.m. DUDES 3270 NE 33rd St., Fort Lauderdale Men dancing for men. Hot go-go boys in an upscale atmosphere, piano lounge for more quiet interludes. Steamy shower shows. JOHNNY’S 1116 W Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Club, bar, lounge. Male dancers and the men who love (to ogle) them. Sunday amateur strip contest (and karaoke!). LIPS 1421 E Oakland Park Blvd., Oakland Park The Ultimate in Drag Dining. Dinner and shows six nights a week. Sunday Gospel Brunch with the Sisters of Sequins. THE MANOR 2345 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors WeHo vibe (think: LA’s The Abbey) in the heart of the Gayborhood. Dine, drink, dance, play, mingle. Theme rooms (salsa and merengue every weekend in the Latin Quarter!). Live dancing and dining. MATTY’S ON THE DRIVE 2426 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Drink specials, billiards, and a chill gayborhood vibe. 75 Cent drinks on Wednesdays. No Drama, No Smoking. MONKEY BUSINESS 2740 N Andrews Ave., Fort Lauderdale Cozy neighborhood bar. Karaoke, drag shows, Patio Bar – and open at 9 a.m. daily. MONA’S 502 E Sunrise Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Cocktail Lounge in the heart of Searstown. Fun customers, fun bartenders and fun proprietor (the Legendary Jerry). Outside patio. Wednesday karaoke, Thursday Speedball Tournament. NAKED GRAPE 2163 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Relaxing, friendly, hip, unique. The alternative gathering place on Wilton Dr. Now serving tapas nightly. Social Hour features $5 house wine glasses, $1 Barcelona Bites, and In The Biz all the time.
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PJ’S CORNER POCKET 924 N Flagler Dr., Fort Lauderdale Friendly neighborhood interracial bar with drinks specials every night of the week including, “In the Biz Mondays” at 9 p.m. with 2-4-1 drinks and $3 Cosmos and Apple Martinis, “Splash Friday’s” wet underwear contest, and Sunday’s pool tournament, both with a $50 cash prize! RAMROD 1508 NE 4th Ave., Fort Lauderdale Voted World’s Favorite Leather Bar. Pig Dance first Saturday of the month – South Florida’s Busiest, Craziest Monthly Party (with caged hunks at Midnight on Saturdays – is there a downside to this?). ROSIE’S BAR & GRILL 2449 Wilton Dr., Wilton Manors Nexus of the A-Gay List. Be Seen in the Scene (without making one). Food, folks, libations, and a killer Sunday Funday. SCANDALS SALOON 3073 NE 6th Ave., Wilton Manors A line-dancin’, tight blue jeans-wearin’ good time. Country and western music, two-steppin’, three-steppin’, pool tables, and themed events year ‘round. Cowboys and Indians was never this much fun, Pilgrim. SIDELINES 2031 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Where Sports come first. Nationally known destination sports bar with TVs streaming NFL, MLB, NBA and college games. Pool tables, dart boards and large indoor (and now smoke-free) facility. Outdoor patio features area for smokers. Mixed crowd of gay men and women (who would have thought?). Featured in Bloomberg Businessweek and recommended by LOGO. STABLE 205 E Oakland Park Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Levis-and-leather neighborhood bar, where the bears line dance and the cowboys are VERY friendly. SMARTY PANTS 2400 E Oakland Park Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Cozy neighborhood bar with daily happy hour, and regular patrons. Show night Thursdays at 9 p.m. Karaoke Friday and Saturday nights, and with matinee on Sunday afternoon. TORPEDO 2829 W Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Dance, shoot pool, drink til 4 a.m., 7 nights a week. Doors open at Midnight; dance til Dawn. WHISKEY BLUE 401 N Fort Lauderdale Beach Blvd., Fort Lauderdale In the W Hotel on Fort Lauderdale Beach, downstairs it’s the elegant Whiskey Blue, upstairs the luxe Living Room: hot dance and social settings in a distinctive atmosphere with signature cocktails and upscale patrons. Indoor and outdoor lounges. WILTON’S BIER GARDEN 2245 Wilton DriveWilton Manors German cuisine meets Der Gayborhood, in a fun, relaxed atmosphere. Upstairs dining, downstairs outdoor patio and bar, DJ music, and a fun staff make one of Wilton Manors’ newest venues a good time to be had by all. MIAMI/MIAMI BEACH CLUB BOI 777 NE 79 St., Miami With an urban vibe on the weekends, a diverse crowd and a diverse musical format, including Hip Hop, R&B, House, Reggae, Soca, Latin and Old School. Go-go bois and drink specials. CLUB SUGAR 2301 SW 32nd Ave., Miami Gay Latin scene, with Salsa, Merengue, Reggaeton, Hip Hop and House music always playing. DISCOTEKKA 950 NE 2nd Ave., Miami Hot music, hot scene, hot bartenders, and hot patrons in the hot heart of Downtown Miami. JOHNNY’S MIAMI 62 NE 14th Street, Downtown Miami Club, bar and lounge. Johnny’s Miami boasts the best sound system in town! Plenty of safe, secured parking. Open 5pm to 5am daily. Hot male dancers and daily drink specials.
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MOVA LOUNGE 1625 Michigan Ave., Miami Beach On Miami Beach’s famed Lincoln Road, never a cover. Drink specials all week long, live DJs, high energy music and a fun crowd getting their dance on til late.
Azalea Lounge 1502 N Florida Ave., Tampa, FL Exposed brick, cold beverages and friendly staff are the mainstays of the recently bloomed Florida Avenue flower! Neighborhood bar, pool tables.
PALACE BAR 1200 Ocean Drive, Miami Beach This bar and restaurant in the heart of South Beach’s Art Deco District. Mouth-watering burgers, boys (and girls!). Weekend cabaret shows Thursday through Sunday.
Baxter’s Lounge 1519 S Dale Mabry, Tampa, FL Tampa Happy Hour Tradition. Serving up some of the hottest dancers Wednesday thru Saturday nights at 10PM.
SCORE 727 Lincoln Rd., Miami Beach Dance, drink, party all night on Miami Beach’s Lincoln Road. Tons of events throughout the year, including fundraisers for Winter Party, White Party, and Miami Beach Gay Pride. SPACE 34 NE 11th St., Miami Mingle and mix with gays and str8s in the heart of Downtown Miami. Indoor dance floors and outdoor rooftop bar, spectacular light show. TWIST 1057 Washington Ave., Miami Beach Great music, friendly staff, hot tourists and locals. Never a cover, always a groove. Bungalow Bar = Hot Men. In SoBe’s Art Deco District. ORLANDO/CENTRAL FLORIDA Hanks 5026 Edgewater Dr., Orlando, FL Friendly local bar with a cruisy attitude. One of Orlando’s oldest and friendliest Gay bars. Beer and Wine. Pool Tables, Video Games and a Large Patio area. Hamburger Mary’s Bar & Grill 110 W Church St., Orlando, FL Eat, Drink & Be Mary! Tuesday BINGO with Miss Sammy & Carol Lee, Wednesday Trivia with Doug Bouser and Leigh Shannon’s Cabaret Dinner Show is every Saturday, 7:30 p.m. Parliament House 410 N Orange Blossom Trail, Orlando, FL All gay entertainment complex with 130 newly-remodeled hotel rooms. Cruisy Hotel, Nightclub, Pool Bar, Bear/Leather Bar. New Phoenix 7124 Aloma Ave., Winter Park, FL Winter Park’s ONLY Gay & Lesbian Bar. Been There Forever! Karaoke every Tuesday and Friday at 9 p.m. Drag shows every Saturday night. Home of the $1 Jello shots. Pulse 1912 S Orange Ave., Orlando, FL Orlando’s Premier Gay Bar & Nightclub with Ultra Lounge, Jewel Box Dance Floor, and Adonis Dancers. Twisted Tuesdays with $10 All-U-Can Drink, College Wednesdays (18+) and 2-4-1 every Friday for Happy Hour. Savoy Orlando 1913 N Orange Ave., Orlando, FL “The hottest” gay bar and nightclub in Orlando. The MEN OF SAVOY Dancers from 6 p.m. til 2 a.m. every night in the main bar! Video Bar, Pool Tables. Wylde’s 3557 S Orange Ave., Orlando, FL Neighborhood bar South of Downtown Orlando. Jukebox, Video Games, Pool Tables and Dancers. Paradise Orlando 1300 N Mills Ave, Orlando, FL Orlando’s casual Gay & Lesbian bar and nightclub. Patio, Tiki Bar and Pool Tables. Happy Hour 4 til 9 p.m. and drink specials every day til 9 p.m. Bar Codes (Formerly Bear Bar) 4453 Edgewater Dr., Orlando, FL Friendly Bar, Real Men and Bears... Oh My! Beer and Wine. Tends to attract the after work Happy Hour crowd. TAMPA BAY 2606 2606 N Armenia Ave., Tampa, FL Tampa’s favorite Levi/leather bar has two floors (dimly lit), with the upstairs being the more cruisy. There’s Hog House shop on-premises, and the 2606 is home to the Tampa Leather Club. Monday is Underwear Night, Tuesdays are $1 drinks and on Wednesdays, Longnecks are just $1.50.
Flirt Nightclub & Showbar 1909 N 15th St., Tampa, FL (Ybor City) Get that hometown feeling. Amazing lazer shows, big headliners and has been around for 6 years. City Side 3703 Henderson Blvd., Tampa, FL Tampa Bay’s “Best Happy Hour” til Midnight every night of the week. GBar 1401 E 7th Ave., Tampa (Ybor City), FL Dance Club & Video Bar. Open Tuesday through Saturday, 4 p.m. til 3 a.m. No cover before 10 p.m., $5 after with ID. Valentines Nightclub 7522 N Armenia Ave., Tampa, FL Voted #1 Nightclub in Tampa. Open 7 days a week 3 p.m. to 3 a.m. Monday, Latin Night, Tuesdays are Boys Night Out, Wednesdays are Karaoke Night, Thursdays, No Cover Dance Party, Fridays feature Hot Go-Go Girls, Saturdays are Latino Night “Uncut” and Sundays are Hip Hop Night. Ki Ki Ki III 1908 W Kennedy Blvd., Tampa, FL One of The Oldest Bars (beer and wine). A plain bar without pretention with its share of young regulars. Rainbow Room 421 S MacDill Ave., Tampa, FL A mix between a neighborhood bar and a community center. Main bar with pool, darts, jukebox. Outdoor Tiki patio has a full volleyball court and live bands. Beer & Wine. ST. PETERSBURG Georgies Alibi 3100 3rd Ave. North, St. Petersburg, FL One of the most popular gay bars in St. Pete. It’s always busy! Great VJ’s play Top 40 music. Mondays are Drag BINGO and Talent contest, Pool tourney Wednesdays, and the legendary Long Island Iced Tea nights on Thursdays. Ages 21 and over, never a cover! Flamingo Resort 4601 34th St. South, St. Petersburg, FL Florida’s “largest, luxury all gay resort.” Non-stop entertainment, great menu, and drinks served poolside at the Cabana. Weekly events and 2-4-1 Happy Hour daily from 11 a.m. to 9 p.m. Saturday Happy Hour ($1 off) 11 a.m to 9 p.m. Gemini Lounge 2315 Central Ave., St. Petersburg, FL Gemini Lounge aims to serve a variety of tastes; music, karaoke, Internet access, poetry readings and sports on TV. Oar House Bar & Liquor Store 4807 22nd Ave. South, St. Petersburg, FL Fun, friendly, laid-back atmosphere where you can get great drinks at cheap prices! Drama free! Happy Hour daily from 2 p.m. til 9 p.m. Haymarket Pub 8308 4th St. North, St. Petersburg, FL More of a Men’s bar. Showing hot videos, beer specials, Saturday Underwear Night, and different events each week. Hideaway 8302 4th St. North, St. Petersburg, FL The oldest Womyn’s bar in the country. Where music is always the main entree! Coldest selection of beer in town. Detour 2612 Central Ave., St. Petersburg, FL The hottest club in St. Pete. Daily specials, karaoke nights and gogo boys from Rico’s Men. Noted for it’s Saturday Drag shows and Karaoke nights. Full liquor bar. MELBOURNE/COCOA Cold Keg NightClub 4060 W New Haven Ave., Melbourne, FL Largest Gay Club in Melbourne Florida and the Premier Gay Bar & Nightclub in Brevard County.
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Ultra Lounge 407 Brevard Ave., Cocoa, FL Nestled in Cocoa Village, this bar has a full coffee bar,
serving espresso, lattes, cappuccinos as well as draft beers & wine. JACKSONVILLE
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2929 Plum St., Jacksonville, FL The Metro Entertainment Complex has been serving the GLBT community for 17 years. Features a total of 7 different venues under one roof to choose from. Lesbo-A-GoGo, monthly Tea Dances, special quest performers, female impersonators and live musicians.
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4751 Lenox Ave., Jacksonville, FL Your Neighborhood Gay Bar - the place for men. Cold beer, music and a warm and cozy atmosphere. Hot men and cheap beer... We all know where that leads! AJ’s Bar & Grill 10244 Atlantic Blvd., Jacksonville, FL Annie and Janie invite you to stop by and see some old friends and meet some new ones! Great food, awesome service, delicious mixed drinks and live entertainment. Park Place Lounge 931 King St., Jacksonville, FL A fun and comfortable gay bar that’s accommodating to both gays and non-gays. A great place to watch your favorite game, or enjoy playing Wii while the liquor flows! The Norm 2952 Roosevelt Blvd., Jacksonville, FL A neighborhood bar. Everyone is welcome, but remember it is a girls bar! Beer and Wine only. 616 Bar 616 Park St., Jacksonville, FL A warm and friendly atmosphere with a Patio bar. Karaoke on Tuesdays and Wednesdays. Thursdays the Jax Bears are here for happy hour. Fridays and Saturdays enjoy the “Beer Blast.” Three Layers Cafe 1602 Walnut St., Jacksonville, FL The name Three Layers comes from their large variety of delicious three layer cakes. An inviting loft style cafe located in Springfield. Enjoy a bistro style lunch or just stop in for your morning coffee.
Bo’s Coral Reef 201 5th Ave. North, Jacksonville Beach, FL There are great shows Thursday through Sunday with the best of female impersonators. Pool tables, video games, and a large outdoor patio. The only gay bar on the beach! Incahoots 711 Edison Ave., Jacksonville, FL This club offers good crowds every night. Recently remodeled with three bars and a friendly staff. Everyday is a different special. A fun place anytime. Full Liquor bar. Closed on Mondays and Tuesdays except for special events. Kickbacks Gastropub 910 King St., Jacksonville, FL This is a top class venue serving over 600 different bottled beers, 84 beers on tap, breakfast, lunch and dinner 20hrs a day 7 days a week! PENSACOLA The Roundup 560 E Heinberg St, Pensacola, FL A neighborhood gay men’s bar... Pensacola’s Cowboy Bar. Open 2 p.m. til 3 p.m. daily. Cabaret 101 S Jefferson St. #E, Pensacola, FL Not strictly a gay bar, the charming and friendly Cabaret is very much a fixture in Pensacola’s GLBT community, drawing a mixed bunch each evening for happy hour, karaoke, videos, comedy shows, live music, and all-around hobnobbing and socializing. KEY WEST Bourbon Street Pub 724 Duval St., Key West, FL Opened in October of 1995 and has continued to grow ever since, it is now part of the larger collection of gay action in The Bourbon St. Pub Complex. Hot Go-Go boy dancers and a busy crowd. “Where the boys are!” 801 Bourbon Bar 801 Duval St., Key West, FL Cabaret shows upstairs with nightly performances by famed performers Sushi, Kylie, RV Beaumont, Margo, and others. This legendary establishment has been around for over 30 years, and host Happy Hour specials daily from 11 a.m. - 8 p.m. Aqua Nightclub 711 Duval St., Key West, FL Aqua features the “Reality is a Drag” show six days a week,
followed by dancing. Monday is karaoke night and don’t miss the great happy hour specials from 3 to 8 p.m. daily. KWest 705 Duval St., Key West, FL Daily Happy Hour from 3 to 8 p.m., and a piano sing-along every Wednesday night. Men dancing for men after 10 p.m. Weekly drink specials and “Wet Jockey” contests on Fridays. Saloon One 801 Duval St., Key West, FL (Behind 801 Bar) This is the only gay leather bar in Key West. Conveniently located behind 801 Bourbon Bar. La Te Da 1125 Duval St., Key West, FL An upscale hotel complex with 3 bars, cabaret and restaurant. Pearl’s Patio Bar for Women 525 United St., Key West, FL Tropical themed women’s bar for gay women and gayfriendly women alike. Patio bar with a full bar featuring drinks like “Cosmopearlitans” and “Pearl’s Passion”. Bobby’s Monkey Bar 900 Simonton St., Key West, FL The gay Cheers style neighborhood bar of Key West. Happy Hour from Noon to 7pm, Karaoke on Sunday nights, pool tournaments on Tuesday nights at 7pm. Free Wi-Fi access. Garden of Eden 224 Duval St., Key West, FL A Rooftop Bar with the BEST VIEWS in the city & “BEST Long Island Ice Teas made by Melinda!” Gay, straight, fat, or skinny... Doesn’t matter! Clothing optional - gay friendly! WEST PALM BEACH H G Roosters 823 Belvedere Rd., West Palm Beach, FL Dark bar that attracts a fun party crowd. Camp is in at H.G.’s, where drag shows and bingo nights pack in crowds looking for laughs and fun. The Lounge 517 Clematis St., West Palm Beach, FL Sushi, tropical views and tasty cocktails are accompanied by acclaimed resident DJ Daisy DeadPetals. Fort Dix Bar & Club 6205 Georgia Ave., West Palm Beach, FL
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Mostly local crowd looking to mingle and relax. The bar is a bit on the dark and dingy side, but who knows--that could be a plus. FORT MYERS Office Pub 3704 Cleveland Ave., Fort Myers, FL Oldest gay bar in South West Florida with a festive attitude. This bear-friendly Office likes to have fun with underwear parties, drag shows, Wii bowling! Check out their country and western music night on Saturdays. Tubby’s 4350 Fowler St., Fort Myers, FL Where men come to compete (in tournaments). “Never a cover... always a smile” Tubby’s is a no-frills video bar with a total of 10 TVs and two projection screens available for patrons to use as they wish. Add a six-hour 2-4-1 Happy Hour during the Wii tournaments on the big screen! The Bottom Line 3090 Evans Ave., Fort Myers, FL This gay entertainment complex is one of the longest running clubs in southwest Florida at over 20 years, The Bottom Line features 7 bars, pool tables, drag shows and occasional guest appearances by porno stars. VENICE TOTI: Tavern on the Island in Venice 127 Tampa Ave. East, Venice, FL This South Beach inspired gay bar, boasts a dance floor and a game room with pool tables and dart boards. It’s clean, the music is mixed and the staff are friendly. A mixed crowd can be found most nights... younger, older (duh, this is Venice), gay and straight. Did you know that in the Caribbean, TOTI is slang for a beloved male appendage? How apropos. GAINESVILLE Spikes 4130 NW 6th St., Gainesville, FL It is a laid-back kind of place, with friendly bar staff. The crowds vary depending on the night. The bar has a nice open air patio area that is rarely used, but would be nice if it was. University Club 18 E University Ave., Gainesville, FL This is a fairly average small college town gay bar. It is usually busy and crowded on Thursday nights.
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The Green, Green Produce of Home:
Wilton Manors Green Market By DALE MADISON
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hree years ago, the City of Wilton Manors opened a monthly “Green Market” at Hagen Park. The market was a success until the sweltering days of summer arrived, and many of the vendors decided that it was time to either find an air conditioned venue, or wait until the cooler winds of fall and winter swept into South Florida once again. Then entrepreneurs Frank Altieri and Ron Leonard came up with an idea. “What if we featured a ‘green market’ that wasn’t just all fruits and vegetables?” Altieri wondered. Thus the Wilton Manors Green Market was born. “We researched and reached out to others in the community and wow, what a difference,” Altieri explains. “We are here whether its ‘hot or not’ every Saturday and Sunday, opening at 9 a.m. and closing at 2 p.m. The crowds keep growing every week.” Altieri says that it was just a matter of demographics. “There was indeed a
niche in the community for a Farmers Market, and I feel we have filled that,” he says. “On any given weekend, we have between 10 and 20 vendors, and of course, we are always looking for more, and more varied vendors. We want unique individuals.” Among his current “crop” of merchants,
Altieri notes, “we have an incredible vendor with fruits and vegetables—items that you won’t find in a supermarket. We have organic items, which so many people in this community really want.” What about guilty pleasures? “[We have] homemade cookies that you just can’t beat. Olive oils and vinegars, orchids that you won’t find anywhere else, New York pickles, fresh herbs, and of course, the best soups on the planet,” he adds, shamelessly, I might add, since he’s the one who makes the soups. “Every week I make about six different homemade soups with all fresh ingredients for the market,” he quips. At the same time we were speaking, Carmine Martorilli and his partner, Bob Foster, popped in to make a few purchases. With apparent “paisan” solidarity,
he seconded Altieri’s vote on the soup. “Oh my God, you will never find better soups, even if you try to make them yourself,” he offered in praise. “These are the best.” Chimed in Foster, “His matzo ball soup is over the top.” Ladles aside, Altieri stresses his and Leonard’s commitment to bringing in new vendors and offerings, and to see the event blossom, especially now that the cooler weather is coming. “We are always looking for new vendors to join, and it’s very simple: You must sign for at least four days, and it’s $25 per day, so we really make it affordable,” he notes. “Of course, parking during those hours of 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. is free [at the city parking lot adjacent to Wilton Manors City Hall], so that is never an issue,” Altieri explains. “The City of Wilton Manors has been great to work with. They want to see more and new events coming to the area.” For more information, visit greenwilton.com. H
Migraine By ANDY KRESS
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igraines are a paroxysmal affliction that have plagued the world with painful headaches since recorded medical history. People who suffer from this disease are stricken with pain on one side of the head, along with radiant eye pain and loss of appetite, making the most menial tasks seem like big jobs. Migraine sufferers will show this defined pattern of events daily, weekly, monthly or periodically throughout the year. Living through the torment of this raging pain leaves many of its victims in a wake of depression and malnutrition. Yet, being under the harsh grip of this painful tension headache does not have to be so for intelligent, methodical, and perfection-minded people who suffer from it. Ironically, migraine sufferers often unknowingly bring this problem on themselves through their busy daily lifestyles. Most cases are caused by low blood sugar, infection, allergies, over-intake of certain drugs and chemicals, over working, low energy from loss of appetite, improper sleep and over-consumption of tobacco, alcohol, and sex. Other outside stimulations like excessive light, eye strain, fear, fright or anger,
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and resentment after hard work can bring on migraine symptoms. Knowing that most of the conditions that create a migraine are caused by our own actions, it becomes easier to find a cure through behavior modification. Nutrition also plays a part. Having a balanced diet along with a balanced lifestyle is a sure-fire way to eliminate the unbearable symptoms that migraines can cause. However, due to the fact that migraines cause a lack of appetite and lower energy levels, this will be no easy task. With any kind of successful treatment plan you need to fix or repair the organism as a whole. Doing this will require you to make a change to get a change. Changing the internal
environment of the body to relieve migraine suffering will require an internal cleansing of the body to restore its overall vitality. This part is easy, requiring only a little time and effort. Changing your stressful environment is a different story. People suffering from migraine tension first need to detox the body with a special cleansing ritual. The cleansing should start with two to three day fasting, consuming only orange juice and water taken every two hours for a 12-hour time period each day. Alternative juices that are acceptable during this cleaning are celery, carrot and cucumber. After the juice fasting, an allfruit diet should be incorporated for the next five days. Taking in three meals a day of fresh juicy apples, pineapples, melons,
grapes, grapefruits, oranges, peaches and pears is the ideal diet. No other foods should be taken at this time or it will compromise the overall effect of the detoxification. After finishing the terms of the five-day all-fruit fasting, a wellbalanced diet should be instated. This diet should consist of nuts, seeds, grains, fruits and vegetables. In time, the diet should be supplemented with milk and dairy products, vegetable oils and honey. Short periods of the all-fruit diet may be needed for a month or two down the road to eradicate any future migraine from reoccurring. A well-balanced dietary plan is imperative for keeping any future migraine episodes at bay. The new diet must become a lifestyle choice, and perpetuated. Never, ever go back to eating refined cereals, sugars and sweets, for fatty and refined foods will only offset the body and send it right back into the state from which it came. Please choose wisely. You are what you eat!H Andy Kress is a certified fitness trainer, yoga instructor and nutritional counselor in Fort Lauderdale, FL. For more nutritional tips or inspired exercise routines, reach him at 954-789-3930 or via email at andyfitnesstrainer@gmail.com
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TIJUANA FLATS
There Is No Problem a Burrito Can’t Solve By RICHARD DAVID CHAMBERLAIN
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ijuana Flats on East Sunrise Boulevard is a one-room joint of the place-yourorder and-wait-for-the-magic-tohappen type. Around 7 p.m. on any night, the place is a chatty, crazy kind of fun where it’s likely you’ll end up becoming best friends with the folks at the next table. Everyone, from the wait staff who cashier your order, to the kitchen staff who prepare it, to the manager who may just end up serving it, likes to talk. It’s this slap-ya-on-the-back sort of camaraderie that is as intriguing as the food.
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We’ve eaten at Tijuana Flats maybe ten times over the past two years, so we know this menu well. It breaks down rather easily, as most things Mexican do, into burritos, chimichangas, tacos, nachos, flautas, tosdadas, enchiladas, and quesadillas. At TF’s, you not only get to choose your meal, you get to choose the size of your meal—as in the quantity of food on your plate. Burritos, for instance, come in three sizes—the Regular—about the size of Rhode Island; the Tijuana—about the size of Pennsylvania; and the Megajuana—think Texas. Our favorite is the Blackened Chicken Burrito Tijuana Size at $6.19. For that price you get a whole-wheat tortilla, filled with the aforementioned chicken (done delightfully moist), tomatoes, lettuce, onions, jalapenos, and sour cream—with your selection of 15 different hot sauces from the “pump your own” serving bar. Hot sauces are a specialty here, with Tijuana Flats serving their own “Smack My Ass & Call Me Sally” brand in varying intensities from mild to five-alarm fire. And regardless of where on the menu you may wander, you’ll eventually end up back on the sauce, so to speak.
Tuesday nights is Taco Tuesdaze where for $4.99 you can get two large crispy tacos, with lettuce, chopped tomatoes, onions, jalepenos, plus chips and a drink—and yes, hot sauce. A deal that packs the place. On Thursday night, think Throwback Thursdaze during which $5.99 gets you a regular burrito, chips and a drink. Same fillers, same sauces. The bargain remains in your pocketbook. Lighten your potbelly with the Norrito Bowl, a burrito without the tortilla, served in a bowl and topped with a light salsa-based rice, black beans, pico de gallo sauce, fresh guacamole and green onions. All for only $6.19. If calories are no object, then rush right over and order a Chimichanga, which is stuffed full of cheese, chicken or beef, all the toppings and lightly fried. The Megajuana Carnitas Chimichangas go for $8.59. The chain was started just up the road in Winter Park, Florida back in 1995 by Brian Wheeler, and Brian is still at the wheel along with his pop Chester,who’s CFO, and industry insider Camp Fitch (ya gotta love the name), who’s co-partner and chairman.
The restaurant now numbers some seventyplus eateries, spread over several states, with Florida getting the lion’s share. From the murals on the wall, to the funky drawings on the menus, nothing is taken too seriously at Tijauna Flats—except the food, which is consistently great, fast, and plentiful. The company gives back to the community through its Just in Queso Foundation that to date has donated $670,000 to those in need. Check out the action any night of the week. The restaurant is snuggled next to the Trek Bicycle Shop, so expect to see plenty of spandex in the vicinity. And, as always, tell them Agenda sent you. H
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ALL-AMERICAN CHOCOLATE FUDGE A Classic Favorite from our Archives
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ome recipes are just too good to overlook and this one, for All-American Chocolate Fudge, certainly qualifies. It originally ran in Florida Agenda on September 8, 2011. The smooth consistency of delicious chocolate fudge is what makes it a delectable treat. It’s the cooking temperature that separates hard caramels from fudge and tiny microcrystals of sugar in fudge gives it its firm but smooth texture. The secret to great fudge is getting these crystals to form at just the right time. American-style fudge contains chocolate, while in Europe it’s all or mostly caramel. • 1 lb pack of miniature marshmallows • 2 bars (200g) of chopped cooking chocolate (I use Lindt’s Dessert chocolate which is 70% cocoa) • 2 cups sugar • ½ cup salted butter • 1 12-oz can of evaporated milk • 2 teaspoons of vanilla • 1½ cup hazelnuts
Roast the hazelnuts for six-to-eight minutes until lightly browned. Don’t skip
this step as the roasting really brings out the flavor. Keep your eyes on them so they don’t burn. Using cooking spray, liberally spray a 9x13 inch pan and an 8 inch square pan. Measure out 1¼ cup of marshmallows and set aside for later use. Place the chopped chocolate and remaining marshmallows in a large glass bowl with the roasted hazelnuts. In a pan, combine sugar, butter, evaporated milk, and 1¼ cup of marshmallows. Bring to a low boil and stir for ten minutes. (This is an important step; skip it and your fudge won’t set and will become gooey.) Remove from the stove and add the vanilla. Pour this mixture over the chocolate, hazelnuts & marshmallows in the glass bowl, stirring quickly as it will begin to set. Pour into sprayed pans with a spatula and cool. You can replace the hazelnuts with walnuts, pecans or dried fruit…you are the chef! H Although born in Dublin, Ireland, chef Jean Doherty spent most of her life in Lyon, France, the gastronomical capital of the world. Together with Vero, her partner of 25 years, Jean has owned and run multiple restaurants including Fort Lauderdale’s Le Patio.
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