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KEN KEECHL FOR COUNTY Local attorney and political activist, has announced his candidacy for the Broward County Commission, District 7 seat, which includes southern Ft. Lauderdale, Dania Beach & east Davie. Courtesy, Ken Keechl
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COME OUT WITH PRIDE On Thursday, Oct 6 at 6 p.m., come out and celebrate the launch of Pride Weekend at The Abbey for a highfashion event by Macy’s & Sue-Bee.
Raising Awareness is the First Step to a Cure By BOB KECSKEMETY October is considered National Breast Cancer Awareness Month (NBCAM) which is an annual campaign organized by major breast cancer charities every October to increase awareness of the disease and to raise funds for research into its cause, prevention and cure. Through the last three decades, organizations have made millions of women aware of breast cancer, its early detection and available treatments and, as a result, have saved millions of lives. Though there are local organizations dedicated to breast cancer awareness, larger national and international organizations get most of the spotlight. The most well-known international organization dedicated to breast cancer awareness is the Susan G. Komen for the
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S & M RANCH WEEKEND Columbus Day Weekend, Oct. 7 through 10 at Sawmill Camping Resort. Enjoy Events all weekend. Beer Bust with $10 all you can drink all weekend long! Courtesy, Peter Belmi
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Cure. Komen was 33 when she was diagnosed with breast cancer and died three years later. In 1980, her younger sister, Nancy Brinker, decided to act upon a promise she made to Suaan to find a way to speed-up breast cancer research. In 1982, Brinker founded the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation in her sister’s memory. In 2007, the organization changed its name to Susan G. Komen for the Cure. The first Susan G. Komen “National Race for the Cure” was held in Dallas, Texas, in October 1983 with 800 participating. In 1991, the participants in the New York City race were handed a pink ribbon to wear—the intial appearance of what would become the international symbol for breast cancer awareness.
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The Miami-Dade Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce presents its Chamber Network Mixer on Wed. Oct. 9 at 7 p.m. at the Epic Hotel with Grey Goose Vodka drinks!
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A new study published in The Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy, produced by two professors from religious universities, claims that some people can change their sexual orientation. Psychologists Stanton L. Jones (Wheaton College, IL) and Mark A. Yarhouse (Regent University, VA) conducted the research initially with ninetyeight individuals seeking sexual orientation change over a period of six to seven years. “Evidence from the study suggested that change of homosexual orientation appears possible for some and that psychological distress did not increase on average as a result of the ‘CONVERSION THERAPY’ continues on Page 20 involvement in the change
process,” the authors of the study wrote. Both of the professors’ universities have connections to Exodus Ministries, which is a religious program designed to help “individuals and families impacted by homosexuality.” All of the participants were willing and seeking to change their orientation. Exodus said, “freedom from homosexuality through the power of Jesus Christ” was why people had joined the program. According to the study, thirtyfive people quit the program, and one person went back to “embracing a gay identity.” Still, the authors continued to follow the remaining sixty-five participants and track the “change
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Pet Project Hires New Associate Director/Resource Development Specialist OAKLAND PARK, FL – The Pet Project has welcomed back Michael Mulheron as the new Associate Director/Resource Development Specialist. Mulheron, who had served previously as Director of Fundraising, will now direct all resource development funding streams such as corporate and individual donations/gifts, fundraising special events, sponsorships, partnerships and grants. In addition, Mulheron will steer the organizations marketing and advertising, special event planning, and act as a liaison to the community. “I’m truly excited to be back with such a great organization as the Pet Project. As an owner of two dogs myself, I know firsthand how expensive it is to own and maintain an animal, so I can whole heartily get behind and see the value of the Pet Project’s mission to keep pets and their owners together during a health related or financial crisis,” said Mulheron. The Pet Project is a charitable organization that helps to serve the needs of Broward and Miami-Dade county pet owners infected/affected by HIV/AIDS and other terminal diseases or other disabilities, as well as senior citizens with qualifying low income by providing comprehensive services designed to enable them to care for their animal companions. H
Michael Smith Receives Endorsement for Gay Rights PAC ST. PETERSBURG, FL – Equality Florida Action PAC has announced its endorsement of Michael Smith for Largo City Commission, Seat One. Smith, who would become Largo’s first gay commissioner, is running a strong grassroots campaign. He has also been endorsed by the Stonewall Democrats of Pinellas County, the Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund, the Largo Firefighters Association, and St. Pete councilman Steve Kornell. Smith’s opponent, Mary Gray Black, has a history of anti-LGBT discrimination. In 2007, with Black leading the charge, the Largo City Commission made national headlines when they voted to fire then-city manager Steve Stanton, when they learned that Stanton was transgender and was planning to transition to Susan Stanton. Today Stanton has moved on and was welcomed as the City Manager of Lake Worth, Florida. Smith is a Pinellas County native, born in Largo and is a librarian and appointed by Mayor Gerard to serve on the Largo Historical Preservation Advisory Committee. In addition to his support of LGBT issues, he believes in a commonsense approach to fiscal responsibility and wants to preserve the quality of life in Largo. The election will be held on November 8, 2011. H
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Log Cabin’s Scott Herman to Run for Florida State House of Representatives FT. LAUDERDALE, FL – Hon. Scott Herman has announced that he was planning to run for the Florida State House, District 29. District 29 runs from Ft. Lauderdale north to South Boca Raton (mostly west of Dixie Highway and, depending upon the city, west of U.S. 1. Scott resides in Wilton Manors, is a long-time supporter of Log Cabin Republicans, often attends City of Wilton Manors Commission meetings, and is a vet who served in Iraq. H
Caldwell Theatre’s Family Drama, “After the Revolution” BOCA RATON, FL – The Caldwell Theatre Company presents Amy Herzog’s widely-acclaimed family drama, “After the Revolution.” The play was named one of the top ten of the New York Times plays of 2010, and was recently included in the prestigious yearbook, Best Plays of 2010-2011, which sites the top plays of the past New York theater season. “After the Revolution” is the story of the brilliant, promising Emma Joseph who proudly carries the torch of her family’s Marxist tradition. She devotes her life to the memory of her grandfather, much revered for refusing to “name names” during the McCarthy hearings. But when history reveals a shocking truth about the man himself, the entire family is forced to confront questions of honesty and allegiance they thought had been resolved. Performances will be held from October 16 through November 20 on Wednesdays through Saturdays and selected Tuesdays at 8 p.m. There will also be matinee performances on Wednesdays, Saturdays and Sundays at 2 p.m. Tickets are $27 to $50 depending on performance and seat location. $10 students with I.D. For tickets or more information, call 561-241-7432 or visit www.caldwelltheatre.com. The Caldwell Theatre Company is located at 7901 N Federal Highway in Boca Raton. H
“Knock Out Cancer 4 the Cure” FT. LAUDERDALE, FL – A new nonprofit organization has been formed to assist persons dealing with breast cancer including obtaining financial assistance, risk-reduction information and other forms of well-being support services. Bernadette Zizzo, who was diagnosed with breast cancer a short time ago, is the founder of “Knock Out Cancer.” Zizzo underwent surgery for a double mastectomy. Due to this country’s lack of health insurance coverage, she was forced to pay out-of-pocket for the removal of her second breast as that was considered elective surgery. She is still in the hospital and fighting for her own health and medical issues. She remains confident and is looking forward to helping other persons
via this new organization. Sidelines Sports Bar is lending assistance to “Knock Out Cancer’s” fundraising efforts, so beginning on Friday, October 7 through Sunday, October 9, “Knock Out Cancer 4 the Cure” and Sidelines Sports Bar will be hosting an outdoor Boxing Tournament in the parking lot next to Sidelines. The boxing matches will take place in a blow-up boxing ring with blow-up boxing gloves. MyGayRadio.com has agreed to stream the event live on their internet radio station as well as enlist resident deejays, such as D.J. Jared Michael, D.J. Soundgirl Rock, D.J. Dublin, and more to provide the music. Prizes, betting games and even a VIP Ringside Area will be available for purchase ($35 per night or $70 for the entire event). Tickets for the “Knock Out Cancer 4 the Cure”’s Boxing Tournament are available at Sidelines Sports Bar, The Pride Center and at the main office of Mark Magazine at 2157 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305. All profits from the Boxing Tournament will go directly to “Knock Out Cancer 4 the Cure.” H
Jerry Chasen Joins Board of SAGE FT. LAUDERDALE, FL – Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Elders (SAGE) announced this week that Miami resident Jerry Chasen has joined its Board of Directors. SAGE is the country’s oldest and largest organization dedicated to improving the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender older adults. Chasen, a fixture in the Miami-Dade County philanthropic community, is the third Board member in SAGE’s history from outside of New York City, signaling SAGE’s evolving national presence as a leader in the LGBT and aging fields. H
MDGLCC Spotlight Mixer at Epic Hotel MIAMI, FL - The Miami-Dade Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce (MDGLCC) presents its Chamber Networker Mixer on Wednesday, October 19 from 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. at the Epic Hotel, 270 Biscayne Boulevard in Miami. You are invited to mingle and network with members and guests. Free hors d'oeuvres and Grey Goose Vodka drinks plus a cash bar. Drawing for great prizes. Free admission for MDGLCC members and $10 general admission for non-members. Valet parking $5. For further information and registration, call 305-673-4440 or email mdglcc@bellsouth.net. H
Cool Limbo Author to Appear at Stonewall Library FT. LAUDERDALE, FL – The Stonewall Distinguished Author Series presents Cool Limbo by Michael Montlack on Saturday, October 15 at the Stonewall National Library and Archives, 1300 E Sunrise Boulevard in Fort Lauderdale. Montlack is joined by Maureen Seaton and Neil de la Flor to
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celebrate his first collection of poetry. Cool Limbo navigates a lavish parade of constantly shifting sexual codes, zeroing in with wit and precision on such topics as the pursuit of beauty, the lure of indifference, the gaudy charm of the suburbs and mortality. Even the somber pieces maintain a tone that celebrates subversive pleasure. In addition to being the editor of the non-fiction anthology “My Diva: 65 Gay Men on the Women Who Inspire Them,” which was nominated for a Lambda Literary Award, Montlack is the author of three poetry chapbooks: “Cover Charge.” Girls, Girls, Girls” and “The Slip.” This event is free and open to the public. H
“How to Be Gay in the 21st Century” FT. LAUDERDALE, FL – “How to Be Gay in the 21st Century,” a book-musical in two acts, starring David Leddick and Kley Tarcitano, is being performed at the Rising Action Theatre, 1480 SW 9th Avenue in Ft. Lauderdale on Friday, October 14 and Saturday, October 15 at 8 p.m. and Sunday, October 16 at 7 p.m. “How to Be Gay in the 21st Century” is a theatrical review of major gay changes in the 21st century. There is nothing wrong with being gay … but there’s plenty wrong with the way a lot of people are gay. In this musical romp, you’ll find that in this new century there are new ways to do everything, and being a 21st Century gay is foremost among those new things. Tickets are $25 for general admission and $20 for seniors and students. You can purchase tickets at www.brownpapertickets.com/event/190681 or by phone at 1800-838-3006. H
Ken Keechl Announces Run for Broward County Commission FT. LAUDERDALE, FL – Local attorney and political activist, Ken Keechl, has announced his candidacy for the Broward County Commission, District 7 seat. The District 7 seat is currently being held by John E. Rodstrom who is forbidden to run again due to term limitations. District 7 includes the southern portion of Fort Lauderdale, most of Dania Beach and eastern Davie, Florida. Ken Keechl served four years on the Broward County Commission, including one year as Broward County mayor. During his service to the county, he focused on balancing development with preserving green space. A native Floridian, Keechl, 48, has lived in Broward County for nearly twenty five years and is a graduate of Florida State University. Keechl, a partner at Broward County law firm of Kopelowitz, Ostrow, Ferguson, Weiselberg, Keechl, PA, is taking many cases pro bono in response to current economic conditions. Keechl, a Democrat, lost reelection to his seat in 2010 during the nationwide Republican sweep in that election. His loss was considered a major upset as he Continues on NEWS on Page 11
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was expected to walk away with being elected for a second four-year term. “The Broward County Commission needs a seasoned business professional with local government experience,” Keechl says. “I have the ideas, determination and skills to hit the ground running. I will make things happen.” Keechl believes it is critical to implement government accountability that ensures the residents of Broward County are served ethically, efficiently and respectfully. In announcing his candidacy for Broward County Commission District 7, Keechl said, “I pledge to continue to have an open door to District 7 residents, to seek out our community leaders for guidance, to listen to neighbors’ concerns, and together to find solutions.” Keechl also vowed to increase jobs in Broward County and work on improving the county’s infrastructure without raising taxes. Keechl is on record as having never voted for a tax increase while in office. “I will run a people-powered campaign – walking, knocking on doors and meeting residents and business owners of District 7,” Keechl said. “The people of District 7 will always be my main focus.” H
Out Race Car Driver Needs Your Support FT. LAUDERDALE, FL – Evan Darling, a local gay race car driver is taking part in a season-end race in Alton Virginia at the Virginia International Raceway. Paul Newman said of this track, “If there is heaven on earth, it’s V.I.R” Evan will be racing for the Trevor Project, a charity that he has been supporting since 2007 to put an end to teen bullying in the LGBT community. The Trevor Project logo will be on the car and on Evan’s driving suit. The race will be held on October 27-29. The thirteen-hour endurance race also goes by the name “Charge of the Headlight Brigade.” Darling is very experienced at endurance racing and has had a number of wins at the Virginia track. Darling is calling out to businesses in the community to sponsor him. This is a great opportunity to get involved with a good cause and support one of the very few “out” drivers in the pro racing circuit. Evan started road racing in 1994. He has won many divisional titles and has raced at all SE Division racetracks and won many sprint races and endurance events. He is also a driving instructor for many clubs including Chin Motorsports, Ferrari Owners Club and Porsche BMW Owners Club. Darling is the current SE Division ITA Champion. Evan can be reached by phone 754-2240260 or evan@edarlingenterprises.com. H
NY Town Clerk Refuses to Sign Same-Sex Marriage Licenses LEDYARD, NY – Claiming that God has condemned homosexuality as a sin,
Ledyard, New York, Town Clerk Rose Marie Belforti has refused to sign marriage licenses for same-sex couples. According to the New York Times, Belforti is at the heart of an emerging test case, as national advocacy groups look to Ledyard for an answer to how the state balances a religious freedom claim by a local official against a civil rights claim by a same-sex couple. Belforti is being represented by a Christian legal advocacy group based in Arizona. The Alliance Defense Fund is arguing that state law requires New York to accommodate her religious beliefs. Belforti has arranged for a deputy to issue all marriage licenses by appointment. H
briefed on the matter. The lower court originally ruled that the public has a right to access the recordings just like any other court record, even though the judge who presided at the trial said they were for his own personal use. The appeals court asked Proposition 8 sponsors and the lawyers for two samesex couples who sued to overturn it, to get their written arguments in by October 10. The 9th Circuit already is considering whether another federal judge erred when he struck down the ban, known as Proposition 8, as unconstitutional. Gay rights advocates want to use the recordings to try to puncture political arguments used by opponents of samesex marriage. H
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HAMILTON, MT – A Hamilton, Montana, pastor who has been charged with six felonies, claiming gays, pro-abortion activists and the state’s insurance commissioner are behind his fraud charges. According to the Missoulian, Pastor Harris Himes of the Big Sky Christian Center is accused of running an investment scheme with another suspect, Pastor James Bryant. Himes and Bryant are accused of perpetrating an investment scheme that reportedly bilked a Bitterroot Valley man out of his $150,000 inheritance. Himes said he will hire an attorney and posted a $10,000 bail after surrendering his passport. Bryant remains at large and is known to spend much of his time in Mexico. H
WASHINGTON, D.C. – The Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) announced that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender character account for 2.9% of regular characters in primetime scripted broadcast TV for the 2011-12 season. This figure is down from 3.9% in 2010. However, GLAAD praised shows such as “Modern Family,” “True Blood,” “Glee” and other shows that are both critically acclaimed and receive high ratings while developing LGBT characters. Among broadcast channels, Fox emerged as the leader with eight regular LGBT characters. On cable, GLAAD, in a written statement, said that standout series include HBO’s “True Blood” with lesbian and gay characters caught up in the occult, and TeenNick’s “Degrassi,” which features Adam, a transgender teen. “Degrassi” won a Peabody award for the two-part episode “My Body Is a Cage.” “I think we’re going to see more and more gay characters on both cable and network TV as time goes on,” said Herndon Graddick, GLAAD’s senior director of programs. “The American public is hungry for diverse characters. They want TV to be reflective of their experiences in life.” H
Senator Urged to Oppose DOMA WASHINGTON, D.C. – Equality Rhode Island has issued an open letter to U.S. Senator Jack Reed to support the repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), a law that, for purposes of federal benefits, defines marriage as between a man and a woman. According to the Providence Journal, Reed is the only member of the Rhode Island Congressional delegation who has yet to cosponsor the Respect of Marriage Act and has issued an open letter to bring the hold-out on board. According to a spokesman from Reed’s office, Reed may join in support of the repeal bill, due to the Senator’s strong record of supporting equal protection which includes opposition to a constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage. H
Court Halts Prop. 8 Video Release SAN FRANCISCO, CA – The 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals has halted the release of video-taped testimony on the constitutionality of California Proposition 8, which bans same-sex marriage. Earlier last week, a lower court ordered that the recording be released to the public but the Circuit Court put the order on hold until they can be further
ASA to Hold “Million March 4 Morals” WASHINGTON, D.C. – The AntiSodomite Association (ASA) has called for a “Million March 4 Morals” on their blog. The announcement requests that conservatives, Republicans, Evangelicals and Traditional Families show up in front of the White House at 9 a.m. on October 22 to help “preserve and nurture Christian rights and the morals/principals on which we were founded upon.” The ASA also made a plea to the LGBT community: “We also ask the homosexual ‘community’ to please not cause any trouble as this is a peaceful event and we are simply exercising our First Amendment rights.” For more information on the ASA, visit their website at http://antisodomiteassociation.blogspot.com. H
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HRC Honors Mayor Michael Bloomberg WASHINGTON, D.C. – The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) honored New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg last weekend for his work in supporting samesex marriage in the state. Bloomberg was widely credited for his public lobbying for the passage of the same-sex marriage act, which passed in Albany in June. The billionaire mayor also financed the cause, making donations to Republican state senators whose votes were needed for the bill to pass. “This has been a remarkable year in the fight for LGBT equality,” said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. “We’re thrilled to be joined by national leaders and inspiring artists as we celebrate our victories and redouble our efforts for the fights that remain ahead.” H
NFL Adds Nondiscrimination Language to its Collective Bargaining Agreement WASHINGTON, D.C. – For the first time, “Sexual Orientation” has been included in the National Football League’s collective bargaining agreement. According to Outsports, NFL spokesman Greg Aiello said it was due in part to an increasingly inclusive NFL which was introduced in the original draft of the agreement. H
Pentagon Rules that Military Chaplains May Perform Same-Sex Marriages WASHINGTON, D.C. – The Pentagon has decided that military chaplains may perform same-sex unions whether on or off a military installation. The Washington Post reported that some members of Congress have objected to military chaplains performing same-sex unions, saying it would violate the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act. The Pentagon also said that a military chaplain may officiate at any private ceremony, but isn’t required to if it would conflict with his or her religious or personal beliefs and that Defense Department property may be used for private functions including religious and other ceremonies such as samesex marriages as long as it’s not prohibited by state or local laws. H
U.S. Census Releases Revised Estimates of SameSex Married Couples WASHINGTON, D.C. – The U.S. Census Bureau has trickled out more results from its 2010 U.S. Census. According to the Census, there are 131,729 same-sex married couple households and 514,735 same-sex unmarried partner households in the United States. Continues on NEWS on Page 13
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The results of the 2010 Census revised estimates are closer to the results of the 2010 American Community Survey (ACS) for same-sex married and unmarried partners. The 2010 ACS estimated samesex married couples at 152,335 and samesex unmarried partners at 440,989. Statistics on same-sex couple households were derived from two questions on the census and ACS questionnaire: relationship to householder and the sex of each person. When data was captured for these two questions on the 2010 Census door-to-door form, the wrong box may have been checked for the sex of a small percentage of opposite-sex spouses and unmarried partners. Because the population of opposite-sex married couples is large and the population of same-sex married couples in particular is small, an error of this type artificially inflates the number of same-sex married partners. H
Serbia Bans Gay Pride Parade BELGRADE, SERBIA – The government of Serbia banned all gay pride parades last weekend as well as all other public gatherings. Officials feared a repeat of the violence that took place last year over gay pride festivities. Intelligence gathered by Serbian security agencies said that groups were ready to attack gay activists, members of the media, police and officials of the political parties had a gay pride parade taken place. Last year, over 100 policemen were injured and dozens of anti-gay activists were arrested trying to disrupt the parade. Other rioters attacked offices of the ruling coalition parties and caused widespread damage across Belgrade. H
Former Veep Now Also Supports DADT Repeal WASHINGTON, D.C. – Former Vice President Dick Cheney said on CNN’s “State of the Union” last Sunday that he supports the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” Cheney has been a regular recently on the news talk shows promoting his new book “In My Time.” Shortly after that, Cheney turned his attention to the recent Republican presidential candidate debate where the audience booed a gay service member. “I’m not sure that it was all focused on that particular issue," Cheney told “State of the Union” hostess, Candy Crowley. H
Majority Oppose North Carolina Anti Same-Sex Amendment RALEIGH, NC – The majority of residents of North Carolina oppose a proposed amendment to the state’s constitution banning gay marriage, according to a poll conducted by Elon University. The results released last week showed that 56% of the residents oppose the amendment lawmakers okayed for ratification by the voters next May. Thirty-
nine percent said that they support the ban which was a 4% drop from the same poll taken in March, 2009. The survey of 594 people conducted between September 25 and September 29 has a margin of error of plus or minus 4.02 percentage points. The poll also indicated that though residents of North Carolina don’t favor same-sex marriage itself, they don’t want an amendment to become part of the constitution. Only 33% of respondents said they support full marriage rights for gay couples which is an increase of 12% since March, 2009. H
New British Passport Form Gets Same-Sex Parents Option LONDON, ENGLAND – A proposal will allow same-sex parents to be included in the revised application for a British passport. According to the BBC, the new forms include “parent one” and “parent two.” The terms “mother” and “father” are expected to be removed from the application by the end of the year. The proposals also include sex-free passports to allow transgender people to opt out of identifying themselves as either male or female. Passport officials say the change of terms will ensure passports are issued safely to the right person. H
Country Music Star Comes Out in Favor of Gay Rights NEW YORK, NY – In an interview on the cable television show “CMT Insider” last weekend, country music star Toby Keith spoke out in favor of the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” although he did question the safety of females who are sent to the front lines of battle. “That whole gay issue thing, that’s never bothered me,” he told CMT Insider correspondent Allison DeMarcus. “I’ve never seen what that affects and [why] anybody should care -- and they never do affect me.” He then continued, “First of all, we’re going to stop somebody from getting a marriage license because they’re gay? You won’t stop them from living together, so what have you accomplished? Wasting a lot of money here and a lot of time that could be spent working on this deficit that we’re under. I never saw the reasoning behind getting in people’s personal lives.” H
Gay Couple Allege They Were Assaulted When They Tried to Enter Church JACKSON, TN – A gay Gibson County couple said they were assaulted when they tried to attend church services at the Grace Fellowship Church in Fruitland last week. Jerry Pittman Jr. and his partner Dustin Lee allege that when they tried to attend services, they were assaulted by the church’s pastor, Pitman’s father, who instructed two deaContinues on NEWS on Page 14
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Today, the “Race” is held in over 100 U.S. cities, attracting over 1.3 million participants. Races are also held in nine other countries: Australia, New Zealand, Germany, The Netherlands, Italy, United Kingdom, Canada, Hungary, and Bulgaria, plus the Commonwealth of Puerto Rico. Lesser known are the Susan G. Komen 3-Day Walks for the Cure which are held in several U.S. cities and consist of a 60mile trek which spans over three days. Other smaller Komen fundraisers are held throughout Europe. Funds raised by the Races and Walks help support community outreach programs. The money also supports local community breast health education and breast cancer screening and treatment projects through the Komen Award and Research Grant Program. In 1993, Evelyn Lauder, Senior Corporate Vice President of the Estée Lauder Inc. founded The Breast Cancer Research Foundation and used the pink ribbon as its official symbol. Estée Lauder has arranged to have 17 worldfamous landmarks illuminated at night in pink light to draw attention to the importance of mammography screening for early diagnosis of breast cancer as well as research for finding ways to cure and prevent breast cancer. Avon Cosmetics has formed the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer, the company’s largest annual fundraising event. There
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is a series of nine Avon 2-Day Walks for Breast Cancer held each year from April to October. From 2003 through 2008, the Avon Walks raised more than $265 million. The Avon Walk for Breast Cancer also raises awareness as participants spend an entire weekend walking 39 miles through cities and towns around the country. Pharmaceutical company, AstraZeneca, which manufactures several breast cancer drugs, founded National Breast Cancer Awareness Month in 1995 with the aim to promote mammography as the most effective weapon in the fight against breast cancer. National Breast Cancer Awareness month has come under fire over last few years. The Cancer Prevention Coalition has criticized the basic message of NBCAM as a form of victim blaming because it focuses on "early detection and treatment" while ignoring environmental factors. Their researchers contend that hormone use is one of the major factors raising the cancer risk and that drug and chemical companies have a vested interest in treating the disease rather than finding ways to minimize its rate of incidence. Recent studies show that breast cancer is linked to several environmental and genetic factors, which can be controlled or mitigated. In October 2008, First Lady Laura Bush had the White House decorated in pink in honor of National Breast Cancer Awareness Month. H
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cons and Pittman’s uncle to attack the couple and physically prevent them from entering the church. According to WBBJ-TV: “My uncle and two other deacons came over to the car per my dad’s request. My uncle smashed me into the door as the other deacon knocked my boyfriend back so he couldn’t help me, punching him in his face and his chest. The other deacon came and hit me through my car window in my back,” said Pittman. He said bystanders did not offer assistance. He said the deacon yelled derogatory homosexual slurs, even after officers arrived. He said the officers never intervened to stop the deacons from yelling the slurs. Since then, the couple filed assault charges against Deacons Billy Sims and Eugene McCoy. Pittman pressed additional charges against his father and Deacon Patrick Flatt. H
FDNY Welcomes First Transgender Firefighter NEW YORK, NY – In what has been described as a brave move, one of New York’s bravest is busting out of the box and becoming the first transgender firefighter in the city’s history. According to the New York Post, the male-to-female firefighter has been openly welcomed by the FDNY, even as a Brooklyn judge handling a discrimination lawsuit against the department has blasted it for its lack of diversity. H
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Power of Celebrity or Power of a Community? Alex Vaughn In today’s world, anyone can be a celebrity. It seems, you really don’t have to even achieve anything to become one. Thanks to reality TV, you simply have to go on a dating show, or perhaps venture into a jungle somewhere far away, or, better yet, stay in a house with complete strangers and if you are odious, good looking or stupid enough, you will grace the cover of US Weekly or the Enquirer. Celebrity culture is prevalent in our society, particularly as a result of this television phenomenon. They sell us everything from water to fiber supplements, oftentimes stuff we really don’t need. However above the vapid existence of some reality socialites, there are celebrities who are using their fame and popularity in fantastic ways for the gay community. Being gay or a gay-friendly celebrity in 2011 is extremely fashionable. Now, it seems, is the time. We have gay celebrities and their partners kissing on the red carpet. We can read about celebrity weddings, adoptions and much more. In a way, they have become poster children for the “normality” of gay lifestyles. Superstar Elton John and film producer David Furnish married and now have a child. They live a lovely jet-set lifestyle without bullying. Certainly, there’s the odd snarky remark, but on the whole … perfect. Then there are actors John Barrowman and his civil partner, Scott Gill; actor Neil Patrick Harris and his husband, chef David Bertka and their twins, Gideon and Harper; Ellen DeGeneres and her wife, Portia de Rossi, among others. Without counting any of their actual contributions to charities, or to political initiatives, their simple presence “out” is bringing gay life to the A-list forefront of our celebrity-obsessed culture. I have often said Middle America is where the decisions are made – not in Miami, NYC or other major cities on the peripheral. As these people see more and more of the celebrities they watch on “Glee,” or daytime talk shows, they will cut them more slack than they might otherwise afford the gay guy in the small town. More than just swanning around being “gay housewives” or over-stereotyped gays who sell products and unrealistic lifestyle ambitions, the instant reality show celeb also occasionally makes a positive impact as
well. Carson Kressley comes to mind. Not only has he kept his staying power (despite being the most “outrageous” of the bunch of “Queer Eye for the Straight Guy” crew), he is now headlining his own national TV show, “Carson Nation” and is topping the rating charts on “Dancing with Stars”– right beisde Chaz Bono, who is also flying the flag for the LGBT community. Without excuse or muting their instinctive behaviour, this pair shows that gays really can do anything they want. If the bigotry and hate that is putting a stop to legalizing marriage was actually as far reaching as the news would have us believe, then the voting majority would never have allowed a gay man and a post-op transsexual to be on a nationally televised reality TV show. Reality TV is part of our lives, and many people around the world will change their social schedules to stay in and watch a show. Thanks to Carson and Chaz, they are being taught that there is no need to fight, bully or judge. These are just normal celebrities, competing on a show watched by “everyone.” Add to the mix those celebrities who aren’t gay but who weigh in with their support of the “gay cause.” Brad Pitt and Angeline Jolie who wont marry until marriage is allowed for everyone, for example. The late Liz Taylor, Madonna, Cher, Bette Midler, Sharon Stone, Donatella Versace, Charlize Theron, Anne Hathaway and many, many more ensure their support of gay causes is loud and clear. Some have questioned why? Is it because they genuinely do care? Is it because it is a popular cause? Or could it just be the power of the gay community? Does it actually matter? Probably not. It’s worth understanding that the people listed above all have a strong gay following. They have been kept in their careers in no small part because of the support of this community. Many have clearly acknowledged this – and often. So too, comedienne Kathy Griffin who openly courts gay men and women as her fans. She is extremely vocal for “her gays” including threatening Sarah Palin’s daughter for using the “F” word on her Facebook. Lady Gaga has taken support of the gay community to an entirely different level. To call it the stratosphere would be an understatement. Ironically, her support has been knocked more often than not by the community itself. While I was reading news reports
Letters to the Editor In response to the Editorial “A Free Country?” in the Florida Agenda, Sept. 29. DEAR EDITOR, I totally agree with your views. I am a GermanAmerican who grew up speaking German and English. I went to live in Germany. What a different view Germans have of sexuality! For more than 10 years Germans have had what they call the HomoEhe (gay marriage). My then-time boyfriend and now husband and I visited Germany last year. We were treated like a couple in all the hotels and organizations that we visited. Then, this year, he took me to meet his family in Brazil. Brazil has gay marriage,
thinking about this editorial, I stumbled across a list of celebrities who support gay causes. It was compiled by the “viewers” of the website. One guy said in response to the question: “FFS. Don’t say Lady Gaga. WE ALL KNOW!” Wow – and yet I have felt the same way he did – particularly around the time that “Born this Way” came out. I mean honestly, “We know, we know.” And all this before the backlash when she was dubbed the “Gay Icon,” replacing Madonna in the role. If you take a step back, however, Lady Gaga realized early on that it wasn’t straight middle America who made her. They didn’t appreciate how “different” she is. She isn’t attractive; boys don’t fancy her; and she’s no Taylor Swift, though she has a great voice. It’s her individuality that struck the chord with the community. Not content with posturing on gay rights, or making a mint on sales of her “Gay Anthem.” Rather, she has used her voice, loudly and wisely. In fact, just last week, fresh from paying tribute to 14-year-old Jamie Rodemeyer. He was the fan who said goodbye to her on his Facebook page before he tragically took his own life, the victim of bullying. She even addressed the issue directly with the President of the United States. Like it or not, this is what a celebrity should be doing. While selling the gay lifestyle is nice and entertaining, it won’t help a 14 year old on the receiving end of taunts, it just may help turn the tables on bullies who will be made to look like the bigots they are. We encourage more celebrities to lend their voices to the growing outcry over the immediate need for gay rights and a stop to tolerance for any bullying in shools and the workplace. The need is great and the groundswell long overdue! We may not all be famous, but we all have a voice to join the outcry. Like celebrities, we need to speak out against bullying, for the protection of our rights, and for anything for which you feel passion. We can no longer be content to coast through a vacuous existence of bars and sex and assume someone else will do the work for us. If we can make a celebrity, why can’t we make a change? H
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too, even though it is not called "marriage" – it carries all the same rights. So we got married on August 3rd. At first I thought that this was just a lark. But as the public notary read us a very long list of our rights and obligations to each other I grasped how this would change our lives. Unforntunately, my fellow countrymen here do not recognize our marriage. So we are planning on moving to Brazil within the next couple of years. What really bowled me over: everyone, but really everyone congratulated us. When we got to the customs check at the airport to leave Brazil, the official asked for our documents. I gave her my American passport and my new Brazilian ID card. She asked me why I have a
Brazilian ID card. I told her that I had just married the man standing next to me. “Parabems!” she exclaimed (congratulations!) with a broad grin. We had to pay a lawyer in the US around $1,000 to draw up papers protecting us here. It cost us around $25,000 to get my husband his green card and then citizenship. Straights don't have those fees. Furthermore, as a state employee, I am not allowed to put him on my healthcare. I wish that my fellow countrymen could grow up and finally see that we should be treated equally as we are in most of Europe, South Africa, Argentina, Brazil, parts of Mexico, and Canada. ROBB KVASNAK, ED.D.
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Transgender Revolution? A Report from the 2nd Annual TransCon: Justice Summit By RajindRa naRinesingh
Transgender revolution! Well more like transgender empowerment! That is how I would describe the 2nd Annual TransCon: Justice Summit this past weekend at F.I.U. Biscayne Campus. As a transgender woman who has endured great discrimination, I have often felt alone in my plight. Getting together with other transgender people affirmed to me that I am not alone and that many of my trans sisters and brothers have had similar experiences. Besides members of the transgender community, there were a host of trans and non-transgender advocates in attendance. Medical professionals, activist, friends and family made up the group of about 70. The two-day conference was
presented by the Aqua Foundation for women and featured a group of dynamic speakers and presenters, including Jessica Lam – Transgender Activist (who developed the idea for TransCon), Rodrigo Lehtinen, son of Congresswomen Illiana Ros Lehtinen (Transgender Activist from Gender Justice L.A.), Holiday Simmons (Community Educator for Lambda Legal Southern Division), Dr. Carol Clark (facilitator of the transgender support group at the Pride Center, Wilton Manors), C.J. Otoma (Executive Director of Save Dade), Carrington “Rusty” Mead Esq. (dealing with LGBT legal issues), Daniel Redman (N.C.L.R. head of LGBT Elder advocacy), Dr. Christopher Estes (board certified Gynecologist and member of the University of Miami Center for Aesthetic and Corrective Genital Surgery), Jody Marksamer (who overseas N.C.L.R.'s policy and advocacy work), Dr. Marilyn Volker (well known transgender counseler and has been a pioneer in the field of transgender studies), and 11-year-old Jazz – transgender male-to-female who was featured on the Barbara Walters special with transgender children and played the principle role of my niece in
the all-trans cast movie “Bella Maddo”. Quite a number of topics concerning our community were covered. The presenters from NCLR referenced the “Injustice at Every Turn” report in which over five thousand transgender people were surveyed regarding their experiences with discrimination. The results produced some sad and disturbing statistics in the areas of health care, housing and employment discrimination. Overall, the entire conference was extremely informative. I was very enlightened to learn about some of the new laws regarding our community. In speaking to other trans people at the conference, they too seem to really appreciate the legal information. I had no idea that in 2010, the U.S. Tax Court ruled that medical treatment (i.e. hormones, surgery, etc.) for gender identity is tax deductible. And here in the State of Florida, a trans person can now get the gender marker changed on their driver’s license by taking a medical affidavit signed by their physician, social security card, your old state ID and two pieces of mail with your current address to the driver's license office. The workshop “Building Leaders in Our Community” presented by Gender
Justice and Save Dade provided a wealth of information on putting the activism into action. And gave effective ways on how our community can rally together to win the changes we want. For a 40-something trans woman like me, who often times feels like 80-something, this conference was a breath of fresh air. A transgender life can be a very challenging one. And after many years of advocacy work for the LGBT community, lately I had begun to feel like a lot of it had been in vain. I left this conference with a renewed spirit, truly feeling empowered. Eleven-year-old Jazz really confirmed for me the importance of my advocacy work, and that all of us LGBT adults have a responsibility to pave the way for future LGBT generations. Just as we stand on the shoulders of the ones that came before us, we all play an important role in our liberty. None of our efforts are in vain! H
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Buying & Selling: Neighborhoods By RiCK giBsOn When I first moved to Fort Lauderdale, I was told, “It’s a perfect grid system” and did not understand. I did not understand how a “perfect grid system” could be interrupted by canals, bridges, railroad tracks, a “thing” called the Intracoastal, and streets that went into winding loops and suddenly into straight lines again. Then I learned that there are not one, but two cities completely surrounded by Fort Lauderdale (Oakland Park and Wilton Manors), and if you include Lazy Lake, it could be said there are three. There is an intersection we know as “Five Points” where not four, but five streets meet in this “perfect grid.” NE 4th Avenue suddenly becomes Wilton Drive, and just when you think you “get it,” the same street becomes “Flying L Drive” (named after the Fort Lauderdale High School football team incidentally). Sunrise Blvd. just decides to become Federal and then changes its mind and goes on its separate way again. If you want to mess with someone who just moved here, tell them it is a “perfect grid system.” If you want to make a friend, tell them it’s not. I’m telling you it’s not. This is very important when buying and selling real estate here. The buyers must understand what they are buying and where they are buying, or in my experience, they will not buy. Sellers need to understand the particular changes in
their neighborhoods relative to others because they all gentrify and change price points at different rates. It can be said this is all quite complex. Like most things that are complex, it can be easiest to understand as a sum of its “parts.” In real estate, those “parts” are our neighborhoods, or in real estate jargon, they are “subdivisions.” Each subdivision could be thought of as its own little city in a way, and each one having a particular style, income level, demography, distance from the Atlantic, and countless other qualities the most significant of which may be price. If you have a child, you may want the “A rated” schools in Coral Ridge or Victoria Park. If you are an avid yachtsman, then you will want to be anywhere from Coral Ridge to the Isles of Venice to Sailboat Bend, but you will probably not want to have any fixed bridges. If you are an investor, you may choose the fastest changing neighborhoods with the highest cash flow like South Middle River and Lauderdale Manors between Wilton Manors and Downtown. The good news is our subdivisions make everything much simpler, so my advice is to get to know them, and try to focus on the positive aspects of each one. For the LGBT community, the “sense” of community can be of the utmost importance, especially since we are in
fact a minority, even though at times in Wilton Manors on Halloween or at Gay Pride that may not seem true. To be close to people who share your values and help you to feel comfortable, especially as we get older, is one of the most important considerations for any buyer, and that does not only hold true for the LGBT community. For the LGBT community, the City of Wilton Manors is well known to have one of the highest per capita concentrations of LGBT people in the United States and so therefore could be considered the “heart” of our LGBT community in a way. But this is not the rule, and it would be a mistake to not consider spectacular neighborhoods surrounding cities too. At one time, I was showing a property to some incredibly charismatic clients from London and the home happened to be in Poinsettia Heights, a nice subdivision of Fort Lauderdale. My client looked at the woman on the couch, who was in curlers, and asked “May I ask you a personal question?” The whole room stopped, as she looked up and said, “Why of course.” He then asked her “Do you consider this a very ‘gay friendly’ neighborhood?” I will never forget how stunned she looked before she laughed and said, “I don’t really have a choice now do I, since I am outnumbered three to one!” Well,
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contradict the commonly expressed view that sexual orientation is not changeable,” the professors claimed. The study has come under fire from experts and from gay advocacy groups. The former have claimed that the study is flawed because the change that occurs is only temporary and is detrimental to the psyche. Eli Coleman, professor and director of Human Sexuality at the University of Minnesota Medical School, was unconvinced by the findings. “We’ve been through this over and over,” he said. “You can get behavioral changes, but that’s not orientation change. You can get short-term behavioral change. It’s not sustained.” The study also went against the American Psychological Association, which in a statement in 2005 clarified that homosexuality was not changeable. The association had also stated that there was no evidence that conversion or reparative therapy aimed at changing sexual orientation was safe or effective. “The APA was making pretty strong statements that orientation really doesn’t change and that attempts to do so would be harmful,” said Yarhouse. “They were presenting absolutist claims about this immutability of orientation and great risk of harm. They were ideal questions for research. Can people change? Or is it truly an immutable characteristic?” Jones was also quick to suggest that "the forceful way in which the secular mental-health communit is saying
change is impossible and harmful is just not well-advised." The authors made clear that though advocacy groups and gay people may find religious conversion courses “deeply offensive,” there is a clear set of people who don’t want to be gay or part of the LGBT community. He went on to address the APA’s statement by saying, “I’d like to see mental health organizations to show greater respect for diversity for how a person chooses to live their life and live this out,” Yarhouse said. The researchers, who presented the results on Thursday in Nashville, found that not everyone experienced a successful change through the religious ministry. "Not even a majority is successful," Jones pointed out to CitizenLink, a publication of Focus on the Family, "but a very substantial group of people report fairly dramatic change." Jones also pointed out that change does not come easy even for the successful ones. "It needs to be said that this process is not like a light switch that switches from one switch point to the other,” the professor said, according to CitizenLink. “Life is still complicated for these people, and some still have some residuals of their homosexual attractions. However, they are people who report being able to function as heterosexuals, they're happy with their marriages, and they feel that their lives have changed dramatically." There have been claims of bias, but
process” over the time period. Yarhouse explained, “It’s a study for people who are highly religious who are distressed by the experience of attraction.” He went on to say, “They want to know, is it even possible? What might I experience if I go into religious-based ministry?” The ministries in question were throughout the US and totaled sixteen locations. The study claims that 53 percent were classified as successful outcomes. Of those outcomes, 23 percent reported success in the form of successful conversion to heterosexual orientation, and 30 percent reported stable behavioural chastity with substantive dis-identification with homosexual orientation. Just 20 percent reported to fully embracing a gay identity at the end of the study. At the beginning of the study, Jones and Yarhouse conducted a review of both any change in orientation and stress levels in the beginning of the study and a total of five times throughout. They conducted the study by interviewing the participants and consistently asking the same questions annually about sexual attraction, emotional or romantic infatuation and sexual fantasies. They drew results by using two different scales, one devised by sex researcher Alfred Kinsey and another measure called the Shively-DeCecco scale. “The findings of this study appear to
although her observation does not hold up statistically for Poinsettia Heights, it does show the importance to those savvy buyers, and how savvy the seller was to acknowledge that importance. Neighborhoods and their differences is one of my favorite topics, and they are more important here than anywhere I have ever lived. We have an incredibly diverse community and region. Rather than be confused by all the differences between neighborhoods, like the differences in each other, we can instead embrace those differences and learn as much as we can about each one. I hope you will try to notice the subtle and not so subtle differences between all of our neighborhoods, not just the one where you live. People live in all of them, and they are all home to someone. Perhaps they are a lot like you. H
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both professors stated they took the research wherever the results directed them. They also said they wanted the findings to help people keep an open mind to the idea that change in sexual orientation is possible. “For an individual who feels they need to pursue change, particularly on a religious basis, our study encourages them to pursue that path," they said. H
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Snowbiz Patricia Nell Warren Goes “Brokeback” By niChOLas snOW My West, the latest release from world-renowned and celebrated author Patricia Nell Warren (of The Front Runner fame), is “a sagebrush bouquet of 47 favorites on everything from agriculture to zest, by way of cooking, ethnicity, history, politics, sexuality and other subjects.” In his foreword, noted author/filmmaker Gregory Hinton, himself a born Westerner, says the book is "a masterwork by one of our most gifted storytellers. Patricia’s deeply evocative stories will quickly transport even the most dug-in urban reader to the heartland that is the American West.” In our exclusive interview, my good friend Patricia explained that her “core audience” is both gay and non-gay, and that for both, “the open discussion of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals and transgendered people in the American West, both past and present” is a new topic. “I was inspired to do this book, by the way, in which the Autry National Center in L.A. stepped forward last year to become the first museum in the U.S. that directly addresses this subject. They did it when they put the two iconic Brokeback Mountain cowboy shirts on display in their gallery devoted to classic Western films. Its action opened the door to producer Gregory Hinton's ‘Out West’ program which is ongoing at the museum now, and promotes study and discussion of this theme in a really wonderful way. Gregory is also taking the ‘Out West’ series to other cities and states, mostly to museums, public libraries and other cultural institutions.” The stories in My West are in sections which include among many Gender, Politics, Sexuality and Spirituality. In the Gender section about native American berdaches, Patricia writes, “To understand how a Two-Spirit saw himself/herself, and how others in the tribe or band saw this person as well, a twentieth century American has to put aside all the traditional Judeo-Christian beliefs about sexuality, and even the western European non-Christian humanistic notions of sexuality. We have to step through the looking glass, into a different world.” In “It’s My History Too” in the Sexuality section, Patricia explains, “Though many Americans today think of the West as the phalanx of ‘red states’ on the TV map during election night, the West can surprise with its sudden shiftings of spiritual sunlight and shadow, its social landslides that can reveal unsuspected layerings of raw experience and ideological challenge. In fact, the West’s essential quirkiness has enabled all kinds of LGBT people to find something out here – from hiding places to homes. At times, we have not only survived here, but thrived here.” In her own My West introduction,
Patricia explains, “So my body of Western writing is rayed through a changing perspective over half a century – as I evolved from young hopeful college scribbler to published best-selling author. As I left Christianity to become an ever-questioning pagan. As I came out to live the life of a gay woman.” In “Moments of Stillness” in the Zest section, Patricia gives us the perfect reason to curl up with My West: “SCW (severe communications withdrawal) is my term for what I experienced,” she explained about being isolated in a western bed & breakfast. “It’s a syndrome not yet studied by western medicine – but it does exist. Many of us live with multiple TVs in our homes; television even invades our cars now, where it com-
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pounds the uproar from radios, cell phones and CDs. Many of us spend the day with phone headsets on, or walk around with cell phones glued to our ears. We’re suffering from CA (communications addiction).” Patricia concluded my interview by explaining, “So many people think of me as a fiction writer. But I'm also passionate about nonfiction – not just political commentary, but history as well. I love the challenge of thinking about how I have experienced Western history from childhood, and how I've come to have my own perspective on it. Part of that history is how we LGBT people have been semi-hidden out there in the dust, and now we're becoming visible.” And for some breaking and fantastic news, My West, The Front Runner and other of Patricia’s titles will be available soon on Amazon’s Kindle. H
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Honoring the Women of the Community Dolphin Democrats Honor the Best of the Community Part 2 of 4, by BOB KECSKEMETY This Dolphin Democrats will be holding its annual Dolphin Democrat’s Award Reception on Sunday, October 23 at the IGFA Fishing Hall of Fame and Museum, 300 Gulf Stream Way in Dania Beach near Griffin Road and I-95. The evening will include a VIP Reception and/or cocktail reception in the main lobby from 6 p.m. to 7:15 p.m., dining and awards presentation from 7:15 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. There will also be a silent auction starting at 6 p.m. and ending at 7:45 p.m. The Dolphin Democratic Club is Florida’s oldest and largest LGBT political organization. The annual Dolphin Democrats’ Awards Reception is the premier event that recognizes outstanding leaders who have demonstrated their strength to lead and a vision to improve the lives of the LGBT community and all deserving citizens. Honoring these special members of the community celebrates the accomplishments and strengths and hope for the future. This week we will look at some of the women who will be honored at the awards presentation. The Jamie Bloodworth Leadership Award is the most prestigious of the awards presented, according to Michael Albetta, former president of the Dolphins. In fact, the only award that is outlined in the organization’s bylaws which states that the Jamie Bloodworth Leadership Award may be
awarded by the Board of Directors to any self-identifying female who has shown excellent leadership and/or sponsorship in improving community relationship in the LGBT communit-at-large. The purpose is to memorialize the life and accomplishments of Jamie Bloodworth in relation to Broward County human-rights issues. Recipients this year will be Jennifer Morales and Laurie Whittaker of Sidelines Sports Bar who, according to Albetta, have been instrumental in the Dolphin’s Get Out the Vote Campaigns. The Trailblazer Award will be presented to Patricia Windowmaker, the Sworn Legal Counsel to the Broward County Sheriff ’s Office. The Trailblazer Award goes to the person who has gone above and beyond outside their normal box. According to Albetta, Windowmaker has been instrumental in the hiring of transgendered individuals at BSO, which currently employes several transgendered staff. The weekend of the Awards Reception, Windowmaker will be in Massachusetts getting legally married to Broward Judge Lisa Porter, but Windowmaker will be returning for that evening to accept her award. The Political Alliance Award will be presented to Anne Sallee, Vice Mayor of Oakland Park, and also a member of the
Dolphins. Sallee is being presented the award for her hard work in the Dolphin’s Get Out the Vote Campaign by setting up the tent each month on the first Saturday of each month at the Pride Center’s Flea Market. Sallee moved to Oakland Park in 2003 and became a neighborhood director in 2005. She has been a member of the Dolphins since 2007. “I’m proud to be part of the greater community,” said Sallee. “I grew up in a household that believed that everybody should be accepted for who they are and that nothing else should matter. Everyone has the right to enjoy their lifestyle as long as it doesn’t impose on another person’s rights. I appreciate the friendships I’ve made and the involvement that I’ve had, and I look forward to it for a long time.” This year’s Humanitarian Award will be going to Maroone/AutoNation for their various work and sponsorships of organizations and events in the LGBT community. Accepting the award will be Gale M. Butler, Corporate Vice President of Maroone/AutoNation. Albetta said that Maroone/AutoNation, along with Butler, has been active in various LGBT pride events in the tri-county area, the Pride Center’s “Stars of the Rainbow,” and Women in Network (WIN) by sponsoring its golf tournament that raises money for can-
cer awareness. Maroone/AutoNation are also major sponsors of the International Gay Rodeo, the SMART Ride, Broward House, and the Gay and Lesbian Film Festival. “We’re very proud of the fact that we’re being honored,” said Butler. “We’ve always been supportive of the gay community and are most appreciative of this honor. We’ve been long-time supporters of AIDS causes since we first came into existence about fifteen years ago. We’re involved in the Community Foundation, which took on the cause of AIDS when nobody else would. I think it’s a good thing and important thing for a big company to do.” Tickets for the Dolphin Democrats’ Awards Reception can be purchased online at their website, www.DolphinDems.org. Individual tickets are $75, which includes the reception, dinner, awards presentation and silent auction. VIP tickets at $150 per person also includes the VIP reception. For additional information, either visit their website or you may call 866-478-8262. Sponsorship opportunities are also still available. In next week’s Florida Agenda, we will interview more recipients of the annual Dolphin Democrat’s Awards Reception. H
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and there was sincere interest in all directions, including mine. When it was time to eat, every item was blessed in prayer, surprisingly by my friend Eli – who impressed me with his knowledge of Hebrew prayer and etiquette in preparation of the feast. The blessed food included challah bread dipped in honey, beans, apples, squash and fish. There was tremendous appreciation given to each item and, though I do not speak or understand Hebrew, I understood the prayers that were spoken in my heart. Once the prayers were completed, I dove into the most delicious food prepared by several of the guests, including Tush-Tush, Elli and Harvey. During dinner everyone continued to talk, laugh and simply be happy. At one point, I had wondered why this was a part of the Jewish culture; more importantly, why I had never been witness to it before. And I admit, with no small amount of shame, to having accepting many common stigmas about what it meant to be Jewish. I heard stories of lost love, great adventures, professional aspirations, family and God (HaShem). I was captivated. To think that a Christian could find so much peace among Jews, celebrating a holiday he knew nothing about, was an awakening. How fortunate that I was able to abandon my ignorance and be blessed by the love, friendship, generosity and kindness of these wonderful people. Rosh Hashanah is described as “the day of judgment” (Yom ha-Din) and “the day of remembrance” (Yom haZikkaron). For me, it is the day where any judgments I held were whisked away, and a day which I will remember forever. H
By ChRistian aLexandeR The Elephant in the room is still has taken a backburner to terrorism and there, sitting quietly in its corner, just the economy. The drug companies pedwaiting to be brought up. Trouble is, dle their wares on television for all to maybe someone will throw it a peanut see. now and again, but no one really wants Look! The new advertising! It’s so to approach it. The Elephant of which I exciting! We’re not dying anymore … speak is, of course, HIV/AIDS. NO! We now (and I’m not exactly sure The funny thing is that no matter how when this happened) have a “managemany of us throw peanuts at the poor able illness!” Oh, the joy! They are showthing, it just keeps getting bigger and ing it on television, so it MUST be true. bigger and still no one seems to notice. Forget the miserable (I despise referring How do we miss such an obvious ani- to myself this way) “old timers.” There’s mal? Because we’ve been avoiding it for so very long now and Elephant in we’ve gotten used to it just sitthe Room ting there quietly … always quietly as not to disrupt our blissfully ignorant little lives. As I said in my last installment, AIDS is a four-letter word, but it has become a more acceptable, less gloom-filled four letter word than it once was. Having grown up in the 1980’s, I recall a time before it was even called HIV or AIDS. I remember something called GRID, which for those of you too young to remember or whom have just chosen to forget was an abbreviation for “Gay Related Immune Deficiency.” Between AIDS and GRID, I am forced to go with a pill just for you! Side effects? What side AIDS, at the very least, it doesn’t sin- effects? The last advertisement I saw for gle out a specific group of people. Time one of these meds featured several went on, names changed, Doctor’s were attractive, well-built men climbing still clueless and the media began to rocks, hang gliding, running marathons catch wind of this new “Gay Plague” and the like. that was spreading like wildfire. While I’m sure this is within reach of Throughout the 80’s, a few beloved many of the HIV population and I wish Hollywood as well as musical stars fell them the best of health from here to victim, rallying the likes of Elizabeth come, I have a big a big problem with Taylor, Doris Day, and others to the this. Whereas in the 80’s, AIDS=DEATH, cause. Lest I forget the relevance of now they are promoting it as no big deal. young AIDS patient Ryan White, who Take a pill or two and you’ll be out lost his fight against the disease but who climbing Everest in no time. As, for “old continues to live on through his founda- timers,” who have been surviving with tion. this longer than that cute, 21-year-old The point here is that although HIV twinkie you saw the other day has been was still a taboo subject not to be alive, it has a much different meaning. brought up in mixed company, it had We watch as the cute little twinkie dis“Star Power.” Sure, it was still going to covers the bars and all they entail. Will kill you and, if you listened to all the he/she/un-decided know the risks they religious groups, we deserved what we are taking? Will they care? Or, will they got. If it weren’t for Hollywood pouring just be as oblivious as I once was and money into the cause and all the brave wait until it’s too late to get educated. souls trying to change the disease’s They think no matter what happens, it image from a “Gay Man’s” problem to a won’t happen to THEM and even if it national crisis, we might still be living does, there’s a magic f… pill to take! in the ignorance of the time. There is When you were told you were POZ still a great deal of that ignorance with back in the middle ages or further back us today. Shameful as it is to admit, there into the dark ages, you were basically is still a part of me that wishes I were told you had a big expiration date on oblivious to the fact that, inside my body, your forehead. in my blood and wherever else it travels, Well, I may be expired in a lot of ways, there’s a virus wrecking havoc on what- but not the one that counts. Nor do I ever is still left of my immune system intend to be – at least not until I get my (which, from what the doctors tell me, Botox. isn’t very much). Until my next rant, take your vitaFast forward a bit to today. HIV/AIDS mins and stay healthy! H Photo courtesy, zargap
For several years, a good friend of mine had made every effort to get me to join in holiday events and special occasions, simply to involve me in something that was family-orientated, since I have no family. Year after year, invitation after invitation, I regretfully declined. Eventually, he gave up on me, and no more invitations were given until this past week when I received a invitation to celebrate Rosh Hashanah. While I’m not Jewish and had little knowledge of the culture of my friend, I gladly accepted his invitation to join him and others to celebrate the first of the High Holidays or Yamim Noraim (“Days of Awe”). When I arrived at the home of the host David, I was greeted with great kindness and an odd sense of familiarity (though we had never met). It was as if the moment I stepped into the door of his beautiful condo on the beach, I was not a stranger to him, but instead a welcome addition to the group of close friends. The aroma of fish, chicken, couscous and other amazing smells I could not identify consumed the room. As conversations took place, I simply listened and was amazed at the bond that these friends shared through religion. Some spoke in Hebrew, while others spoke in English or French. What was touching to me was that every conversation included smiles and laughter. I have not been around that type of levity in quite a while. There was absolutely no negativity in the room; no complaints; no issues; no drama. It was strange for me to be in an environment where people openly praised one another and the compliments were flying in every direction. Everyone there was so proud to be in one another’s company,
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A National Edge to a Local Chamber of Commerce Keith Blackburn, President & Founder, Talks Change By ALEX VAUGHN Earlier this year, the Rainbow Alliance membership unanimously voted to establish the Greater Fort Lauderdale Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce (GFLGLCC) as a 501(c)(6) non-profit organization dedicated to promoting business and economic opportunities for the LGBT and LGBT-friendly community in the Greater Fort Lauderdale area. The new Chamber is an affiliate of the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce (NGLCC) Chamber members will now have access to many more benefits, compared to the Rainbow Alliance. Keith Blackburn is the Founder and President of the GFLGLCC. The Agenda sat down with him to understand more about the changes and the benefits for the LGBT Business Community at large. What prompted the development of the Chamber? Although it may seem like we came out of nowhere, it actually evolved over the past four or five years. The Rainbow Alliance, which was set up as a hospitality organization, had been around for 15 years in total. It really couldn’t expand under its Bylaws and structure. I brought the idea of affiliation to the NGLCC at that time, but the organization wasn’t ready to undertake the change. The Rainbow Alliance focus was tourism and nearly all of the members were hotels, guesthouses, etc. With the economic situation of the past few years, many of our accommodation properties were sold. By the time I became chair last year, it was fairly clear that we needed to either expand, or close down. I contacted the NGLCC to discuss a possible affiliation. Without them, I don’t think it would have been viable for us to become a Chamber. On April 26th, the Rainbow Alliance membership unanimously voted to begin the GFLGLCC and to close the Rainbow Alliance. What are your aims for the future? I see a great future for the GFLGLCC because we have so much to offer our members and the community. As membership grows, I would like to see some counsels added, to serve the specific needs of our member businesses. As an example, I would love to have a “Tourism Council” which would pretty much be an advocate and promotions vehicle for LGBT tourism, while under the umbrella of the GFLGLCC. Our website SouthFloridaFun.com, is still up. It was the website for the Rainbow Alliance. We could easily make some modifications and use it to focus on the LGBT tourist market – linked from the Chamber website, GoGayFortLauderdale.com. Where do you most see the necessity for the GFLGLCC?
Because of the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce affiliation, we offer a unique set of benefits to our members and the community. We are the only LGBT focused chamber of commerce in Greater Fort Lauderdale and Broward County. Because of the relationships we have developed with the NGLCC and other affiliate chambers, our reach goes much further than it would without the affiliation. How do you feel the community has changed in terms of tourism? Since tourism is the number one revenue source in Greater Fort Lauderdale, we all know the impact on all of our businesses. Fort Lauderdale has been pretty consistently ranked as a top LGBT tourist destination. Back when LGBT tourism began to flourish in Fort Lauderdale, the focus was on the beaches. Although that’s always going to be a draw, we are now known internationally as a truly diverse destination with cultural offerings as well. Wilton Manors is also known internationally and is a huge draw with its nightlife, dining and shopping. Speaking of culture, we are proud to be sponsoring the 3rd Annual Greater Fort Lauderdale Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, presented by HBO. The Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention and Visitors Bureau is also sponsoring the event and has plans to promote next year’s festival at the Toronto Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, as well as other events. The goal is to make our annual film festival another reason for LGBT tourists to come here. We are also working with Manors Masquerade, Stonewall Pride and Pride South Florida. All of these events attract tourists. Greater Fort Lauderdale is very fortunate to have something for everyone, so this makes our community very unique and welcoming to all. What do you enjoy most about being part of the GFLGLCC? The part that I enjoy the most has been implementing all of the features and benefits for members. I also enjoy working with our Affiliate Chambers and Community Partners, as well as promoting beneficial events for the community. What are the benefits to membership of GFLGLCC? Becoming a member of the Greater Fort Lauderdale Gay & Lesbian
Chamber of Commerce isn't just about the financial support your membership provides. It's about the relationship. Becoming a member of the GFLGLCC brings you side-by-side with us as we continually make outreach and partner with local business organizations wishing to promote the LGBT business community. We will also promote Greater Fort Lauderdale to national organizations wishing to increase their opportunities and reach within our LGBT business community. Just a few of the benefits include,LGBT Corporate Events and National Exposure, Business Community Partners, Networking and Online exposure. The full list of benefits is available on our website.
Having joined with the NGLCC, what changes will be enacted? As an affiliate member of the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce, the Greater Fort Lauderdale Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce members receive full membership and benefits. We are now connected with other affiliate members and chambers. This allows our members to promote our businesses, tourism, etc. to a much larger audience. As an organization, it gives us the opportunity to promote community events to all of our affiliates as well. Using the upcoming Film Festival as an example, we are promoting this, beyond our borders, which will benefit tourism and related businesses in Greater Fort Lauderdale.
What advantages are there to being teamed with the NGLCC? Through the NGLCC, we will be informed of legislation that may affect our business. Being an affiliate member of the NGLCC, we have representation on issues important to LGBT business before Congress and Executive Branch agencies. Just last week, acting U.S. Secretary of Commerce Rebecca Blank hosted a conference call with NGLCC, our suppliers, affiliate leaders, and members to outline items in the American Jobs Act and what those items would mean for small businesses. I think one of the biggest offerings from the NGLCC is called Supplier Diversity Initiative (SDI). The NGLCC SDI offers certification to LGBTBEs, as well as a host of opportunities to enhance each business’ visibility to corporations seeking to do business with LGBT suppliers. Corporations can search for certified LGBTBEs through our exclusive LGBT supplier database, as well as meet face-to-face with potential suppliers at NGLCC SDI matchmaking events, which are held across the country throughout the year. Certified LGBTBEs may also be eligible for scholarship programs, mentorship and leadership training, and other business development tools to help your business grow. Certification is an important marketing tool that can serve as a critical point of differentiation between your business and your competitors. What are the advantages of working within the community? The community here is always evolving and there is so much diversity all around us. Because of this, we have a wealth of businesses, both LGBT owned and LGBT friendly. We also have a lot of different organizations. Many have similar or common goals and I really want to work with those who are compatible. I also believe in giving back to the community, so it is important for us to support those organizations. On a personal level, I enjoy meeting different people and trying to understand their business goals and needs. H
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WHAT’S INSIDE? n this week’s Style & Entertainment, Warren Day treats you to a sneak preview of the films being shown at Tampa and Fort Lauderdale’s Gay and Lesbian Film Festivals in Film; Paul Rubio takes us with him to Santorini and Rome with his “Port Highlights” of the Celebrity Silhouette cruise in Travel, and Jean Doherty shows us how to be the chef with a delectable recipe for Chili Con Carne in Recipe. Andy Kress enlightens us on the pitfalls of excess protein in Nutrition; Bob Kecskemety takes to the streets and asks “What is your favorite gay-themed movie?” in The Q, and Richard Hack enjoys the sumptuous delights offered up by Michele’s Dining Lounge in Dining. We also have your favorites, Out in Florida and our statewide Bar Guide. Enjoy! H – AV
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Upscale Dining at Neighborhood Prices By RICHARD HACK Sweep into Michele’s Dining Lounge and enter a world of sophisticated elegance. Beige, browns and shades of mocha cradle customers in a warm embrace that stands in stunning denial of its strip mall home where the restaurant neighbors with a hair salon, a cigar emporium, and a day spa complete with thai massage. Inside, however, is where the magic begins. A mirrored water-wall greets you at the entrance, while subtle lighting sets the stage for what promises to be a very special occasion. This is restaurateur Michele Bonarigo’s place, and she brings no small amount of talent to the table. She grew up in upstate New York working in eateries owned by her father and uncles, and learned her lessons well. Now it’s her turn to run the show, and Michele’s Dining Lounge has found an audience of swagged guests who fill the place to capacity on Tuesday through Saturday evenings. The comprehensive menu comes equipped with clever LED lighting for the visually challenged – all the better to see the smart array of appetizers, entrees and desserts that tempt through descriptions that ooze with flavor even before you’ve made a selection. We elected to start with flash-fried calamari with a pomodoro reduction ($10), escargots en croûte ($15)—snails in puff pas-
try in any other language, and a pan-fried jumbo lump crab cake ($15) with a spicy red pepper coulis. All well-chosen selections, though slightly heavy on sauces that unnecessarily masked the delicacies of the dishes. At $24, the grilled salmon entrée was a celebration in flavors – coconut, curry, and lime accenting a flawlessly prepared six-ounce portion. The medium-rare filet blue ($34), otherwise known as nine-ounces of heaven, was served on a square white plate that accented the amazingly juicy steak, sautéed asparagus and grilled portabella mushrooms, highlighted by a blue cheese sauce that drizzled perfection. And none of us could resist tasting the roasted pork tenderloin ($24) with wilted baby arugula in an apple/fig glaze that was presented on the plate in a design worthy of an art award. We’re told the dish is a specialty of chef Michael Kridlow. We believe it! Our server recommended the Francis Ford Coppola’s Director’s Cut Cabernet Sauvignon ($13 a glass), which displayed tones of cherry and chassis, and was such an excellent complement to the meal that seconds were ordered before our plates were licked cleaned. Of course, there’s always room for dessert – at least at our table – with votes lodged for the lemon tart with raspberry sauce ($8), the apple streusel with ice cream
jean’s kitchen Chili con carne Chili con carne (often known simply as chili) is a spicy stew. The name of the dish derives from the Spanish ‘chili con carne’, “chili pepper with meat.” Traditional versions are made, minimally, from chili peppers, garlic, onions, and cumin, along with chopped or ground beef. Beans and tomatoes are frequently included. Variations, both geographic and personal, may involve different types of meat as well as a variety of other ingredients. It can be found worldwide in local variations and also in certain American-style fast food restaurants. I got this recipe from a chef and customer in the West Saloon, our Tex-Mex restaurant in Vienne, France. • 2 cans (15 ounces each) red kidney beans drained • 1 tablespoon of good olive oil • 1 large onion, quartered, sliced • 2 red bell peppers, roasted, peeled & chopped • 1 pound ground beef • 1 can (14.5 ounces) tomatoes • 1 can (8 ounces) tomato sauce • 1 tablespoon cayenne pepper • 1 tablespoon cumin • 1/2 bottle of full bodied red wine (this gives a fantastic “earthy” flavor) • 1 small can of corn (optional I think it adds nice color)
• 1 1/2 teaspoons salt • 1 bay leaf In a large saucepan, heat the olive oil & brown the onion. Then add the ground beef. Cook for a few minutes. Add the tomatoes, tomato sauce, peppers, the wine and seasonings. Simmer for 1 to 2 hours. Check and stir frequently. Add the canned beans and corn and heat through. I usually serve with white rice & garnish with parsley, but, as I always say, you are the chef ! H
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and caramel sauce ($7.50), and the crème brûlée ($8) – three forks please. Since no one was eager to accept a proxy, we ordered them all and shared the decadence. Everyone knows that calories don’t count when you hold your breath, and that was exactly what we did at the first indulgent taste. If you’re in the mood for a lighter nosh, there is a separate menu avail- MICHELE’S DINING LOUNGE able only at the bar offering appetizers 2761 E OAKLAND PARK BLVD, at $10 per item. A personal favorite is OAKLAND PARK, FL the dynamic Ahi Tuna Sliders with 954-533-1919 wasabi aioli and Asian slaw on a challah bun. Show up at barside for Happy perfect Lavon the Sax Man Extraordinaire Hour between 5 p.m. and 7 p.m. and get an at full volume starting at 8 p.m. (Forget amazing 50% off on food and drink. about talking when Lavon takes control of Michele’s Dining Lounge is open for din- the mike.) Sal Fazio repeats on Saturday at ner Tuesday through Saturday evenings 8 p.m. to finish the week with an elegant from 5 p.m. until 11 p.m. with lunch served touch. Tuesday through Friday 11:30 a.m. to 3:30 The restaurant boasts the slogan, p.m. Tuesday, by the way, is LA-TEA-DA “Upscale Dining at Neighborhood Prices.” night with $5 mojitos and cosmos filling the While I don’t know what neighborhood you 10-ounce glassware. Wednesday night fea- come from, from where I sit, this is not an tures the glamorous songstress Chris Janes. inexpensive night on the town. However, Her trilling begins at 7 p.m. sharp. Thursday given the quality of the food, the elegant setevening, Cecilia Roy takes control of the ting, the friendly efficient staff, and the mix white baby grand and adds jazz to the mix of movers and shakers who’ll become your from 7 p.m. new best friends, Michele’s Dining Lounge On Friday, the piano stylings of Sal Fazio is worth every single penny. Save up your hold court at 5 p.m., followed by the note cash and go, ASAP. H
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Why Do We Need Gay & Lesbian Film Festivals? Tampa Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, October 6 – October 16, 2011 Fort Lauderdale Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, October 13 – 16, 2011 By WARREN DAY One law rules Hollywood: the films that are most likely to get made and to appear in a multiplex near you are the films with the biggest appeal to the biggest demographic in order to obtain the biggest boxoffice. Keep in mind that the majority of films lose money in their theater distribution. Under that bottom-line type thinking, it’s not only hard to get gay films financed, but to also get them shown in enough theaters to earn their money back. My hometown has over 120,000 population, and yet not even “Brokeback Mountain” and “The Kids Are All Right” were shown in any of its theaters. And in that regard it’s not unique, for it is estimated that movies with a dominant GLBT plot will not play on 70% of American movie screens. Even in gayfriendly Fort Lauderdale we’ve seen a recent shrinkage of such films due to a change in ownership of the Gateway Theater. For that and other reasons, gay and lesbian film festivals serve an important purpose in allowing us to see GLBT movies from around the world, movies we wouldn’t otherwise have the opportunity to see. The Tampa International Gay and Lesbian Film Festival is running October 6 through October 16, and the Fort Lauderdale Festival is October 13 through October 16. The 13th Miami Gay and Lesbian Film Festival was held April 21 to May 1 of this year. Orlando use to have a GLBT film festival, but it ceased two years ago.
In the Fort Lauderdale and Tampa film festivals this year several of the same movies will be shown. “Dirty Girl” (Tampa Oct. 7, FtL Oct. 13) Danielle is the dirty girl in her high school in Norman, Oklahoma. She’s sent to a remedial class where she’s paired with Clarke, a shy closet-case with no friends. The cast features Mary Steenburgen, Tim McGraw and William H. Macy. “So Hard to Forget” (Tampa Oct. 9, FtL Oct. 14) deals with the life-changing loss of a partner. Julia, a professor, loses her girlfriend when she falls for another, and Hugo, her best friend, loses his male partner in death. (Brazilian film with English subtitles.) “Going Down in La La Land” (Tampa Oct. 8, FtL Oct. 14) is an old-fashioned love story, except this one is done with rent boys and sit-com celebrities, set against the San Fernando Valley gay porn industry and ever-so-gay West Hollywood. “Tomboy” (Tampa Oct. 12, FtL Oct. 15) When ten-year old tomboy Laurie moves to a new neighborhood, the kids mistake her for a boy, a mistake she does not correct, even when Lisa develops a crush on her. A delightful and touching film. (French with sub-titles) “Hit So Hard” (Tampa Oct. 8, FtL Oct. 15) A documentary about the life and near death of Patty Schemel, the openly gay drummer of Courtney Love’s seminal band Hole, featuring home movies with Kurt Cobain and shockingly candid interviews with Courtney.
“Kink Crusaders” (Tampa Oct. 8, FtL Oct. 15) Well-made documentary that chronicles the 33-year history of the annual international Mr. Leather contest in Chicago, in what has been called the world’s oldest kink/fetish contest. “The Green” (Tampa Oct. 8, FtL Oct. 15) Fascinating and provocative drama about two men who leave the concrete of NYC for the green of an idyllic Connecticut village. Michael (played by Jason Butler Harner of “Law & Order”) is a drama teacher at a private high school who takes a strong interest in one lonely student who ends up making charges against him for “inappropriate behavior.” His partner Daniel (played by Cheyenne Jackson from “30 Rock”) comes to have doubts about his innocence once the investigation reveals a secret in Michael’s past. “eCupid” (Tampa Oct. 9, FtL Oct. 15) Love and temptation in the age of the Internet. Marshall is in a seven year relationship that has settled into a routine as has the rest of his life. At age 30 he’s having a mid-life crisis (as he says, in the gay world 30 is middle-age), which leads him to a mysterious app called eCupid, where fantasies are only a mouse click away. One of the better films being shown in the two festivals, it stars handsome newcomer Houston Rhines, and features Morgan Fairchild as the waitress who dishes out strong advice with the strong coffee. “Wish Me Away” (Tampa Oct. 11, FtL Oct. 16) Chely Wright seemed to have it all – Academy of Country Music Awards,
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#1 singles, popular music videos, and a high-profile relationship with superstar Brad Paisley, but she knew she was hiding her true self. A powerful and courageous documentary about the first major country/western star to come out of the closet (she kept a video diary of the month leading up to the public announcement). Her song “Wish Me Away” deserves to be a gay anthem. For information on showtimes, ticket cost, venue locations, and all the other films in the festivals, go to their respective websites online at www.tiglff.com and www.flglff.com. While the Tampa Festival will be using two movie theaters and the city’s Museum of Art, the Fort Lauderdale Festival, outside of opening night, will be showing the other 15 films at The Manor on Wilton Drive, where they will turn the two biggest rooms into theaters with high definition projectors and large screens. The FLGLFF opening night will be at Cinema Paradiso in downtown Fort Lauderdale, and will include a reception before the film. These are once-a-year events offering films that most gays and lesbians in America won’t get a chance to see. For the personal benefits we receive and for the support they offer to our GLBT community, we should take full advantage of and give full support to such festivals. For these are our stories, the films about the unique and common experiences of our sexual orientation, and how that impedes and empowers our own life journeys. H
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FORT LAUDERDALE/WILTON MANORS ALIBI 2266 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Gayborhood tradition since 1997. Comfortable, inviting atmosphere with indoor video bars, outdoor drinking and dining. Drink specials all week, with mammoth 22-ounce Long Island Iced Teas for $3 on Thursdays ATOMIC/BOOM 2232 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors The bar with two names features a dance club and Gayborhood bar. Drag Bingo on Mondays, karaoke Mondays and Tuesdays, dance music Fridays and Saturdays, and (indoor) Sunday T-Dance. BILL’S FILLING STATION 2209 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Videos, pool tables, dart boards, dance floor, happy hour, live shows, Tuesday and Thursday karaoke – and great burgers, to boot. Fun and friendly truck-stop-themed bar. BOARDWALK 1721 North Andrews Avenue, Fort Lauderdale Over 100 of the sexiest men from all over the world. Go-go dancers, cages, billiards, 2-4-1 Happy Hours. Drag emcees and did we mention the Boys? CORNER PUB 1915 N. Andrews Ave., Wilton Manors Friendly atmosphere, unpretentious clientele and staff. Next to Island City Pizza (so you can get your drink AND your slice on). CUBBY HOLE 823 N. Federal Hwy., Fort Lauderdale Butch bar and grill with a rockin’ daytime crowd (and a fun nighttime one, too). Fifty cent pool, 2-for-1 drinks all day every day, video games, hot movies on HDTV and DirecTV. Thursdays it’s Bare Bear Chest Night, and every Friday and Saturday the fur flies with Hot Bears on Poles (where their Grizzlies Grind)! DEPOT CABANA BAR AND GRILL 2935 N. Federal Hwy., Fort Lauderdale Adjacent to the America’s Best Inn and Suites. Pool open daily – No Cover or Day Pass. Great food, daily happy hour, Sunday afternoon T-Dance Poolside. Karaoke and live music. Open daily at 11:30 a.m. DUDES 3270 N.E. 33rd St., Fort Lauderdale Men dancing for men. Hot go-go boys in an upscale atmosphere, piano lounge for more quiet interludes. Steamy shower shows. JOHNNY’S 1116 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Club, bar, lounge. Male dancers and the men who love (to ogle) them. Sunday amateur strip contest (and karaoke!). LIPS 1421 E. Oakland Park Blvd., Oakland Park The Ultimate in Drag Dining. Dinner and shows six nights a week. Sunday Gospel Brunch with the Sisters of Sequins. LIVING ROOM 300 S.W. 1st Ave., Fort Lauderdale Fort Lauderdale Arts & Entertainment District meets South Beach. Friday nights they’re here, they’re queer, and they drink free from 10:30(ish) to Midnight. Only House Music club in town with its own Classical (and classicallychiseled) violinist. THE MANOR 2345 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors WeHo vibe (think: LA’s The Abbey) in the heart of the Gayborhood. Dine, drink, dance, play, mingle. Theme rooms (salsa and meringue every weekend in the Latin Quarter!). Live dancing and dining.
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PJ’S CORNER POCKET 924 N. Flagler Drive, Fort Lauderdale Friendly neighborhood interracial bar with drinks specials every night of the week including, “In the Biz Mondays” at 9 p.m. with 2-4-1 drinks and $3 Cosmos and Apple Martinis, “Splash Friday’s” wet underwear contest, and Sunday’s pool tournament, both with a $50 cash prize! RAMROD 1508 N.E. 4th Ave., Fort Lauderdale Voted World’s Favorite Leather Bar. Pig Dance first Saturday of the month – South Florida’s Busiest, Craziest Monthly Party (with caged hunks at Midnight on Saturdays – is there a downside to this?). ROSIE’S BAR & GRILL 2829 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Nexus of the A-Gay List. Be Seen in the Scene (without making one). Food, folks, libations, and a killer Sunday Funday. SCANDALS SALOON 3073 NE 6th Avenue, Wilton Manors A line-dancin’, tight blue jeans-wearin’ good time. Country and western music, two-steppin’, three-steppin’, pool tables, and themed events year ‘round. Cowboys and Indians was never this much fun, Pilgrim. SIDELINES 2031 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Where Sports come first. Nationally known destination sports bar with TVs streaming NFL, MLB, NBA and college games. Pool tables, dart boards and large indoor (and now smoke-free) facility. Outdoor patio features area for smokers. Mixed crowd of gay men and women (who would have thought?). Featured in Bloomberg Businessweek and recommended by LOGO. STABLE 205 E. Oakland Park Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Levis-and-leather neighborhood bar, where the bears line dance and the cowboys are VERY friendly. SMARTY PANTS 2400 E. Oakland Park Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Cozy neighborhood bar with daily happy hour, and regular patrons. Show night Thursdays at 9 p.m. Karaoke Friday and Saturday nights, and with matinee on Sunday afternoon.
SCORE 727 Lincoln Rd., Miami Beach Dance, drink, party all night on Miami Beach’s Lincoln Road. Tons of events throughout the year, including fundraisers for Winter Party, White Party, and Miami Beach Gay Pride. SPACE 34 NE 11th St., Miami Mingle and mix with gays and str8s in the heart of Downtown Miami. Indoor dance floors and outdoor rooftop bar, spectacular light show. TWIST 1057 Washington Ave., Miami Beach Great music, friendly staff, hot tourists and locals. Never a cover, always a groove. Bungalow Bar = Hot Men. In SoBe’s Art Deco District. JOHNNY’S MIAMI 62 NE 14th Street, Downtown Miami Club, bar and lounge. Johnny’s Miami boasts the best sound system in town! Plenty of safe, secured parking. Open 5pm to 5am daily. Hot male dancers and daily drink specials.
ORLANDO/CENTRAL FLORIDA HANKS 5026 Edgewater Dr., Orlando, FL Friendly local bar with a cruisy attitude. One of Orlando’s oldest and friendliest Gay bars. Beer and Wine. Pool Tables, Video Games and a Large Patio area. HAMBURGER MARY’S BAR & GRILL 110 West Church Street, Orlando, FL Eat, Drink & Be Mary! Tuesday BINGO with Miss Sammy & Carol Lee, Wednesday Trivia with Doug Bouser and Leigh Shannon’s Cabaret Dinner Show is every Saturday, 7:30 p.m. PARLIAMENT HOUSE 410 N. Orange Blossom Trail, Orlando, FL All gay entertainment complex with 130 newly-remodeled hotel rooms. Cruisy Hotel, Nightclub, Pool Bar, Bear/Leather Bar.
TORPEDO 2829 W Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Dance, shoot pool, drink til 4 a.m., 7 nights a week. Doors open at Midnight; dance til Dawn.
NEW PHOENIX 7124 Aloma Ave., Winter Park, FL Winter Park’s ONLY Gay & Lesbian Bar. Been There Forever! Karaoke every Tuesday and Friday at 9 p.m. Drag shows every Saturday night. Home of the $1 Jello shots.
VOODOO LOUNGE 111 S.W. 2nd Ave., Fort Lauderdale Gay and mixed every Sunday, with afternoon T-Dance and drink specials, then the popular Life’s a Drag show with gobs of female impersonators, hot dudes and the chicks who want to change them.
PULSE 1912 S Orange Ave., Orlando, FL Orlando’s Premier Gay Bar & Nightclub with Ultra Lounge, Jewel Box Dance Floor, and Adonis Dancers. Twisted Tuesdays with $10 All-U-Can Drink, College Wednesdays (18+) and 2-4-1 every Friday for Happy Hour.
WHISKEY BLUE 401 N. Fort Lauderdale Beach Blvd., Fort Lauderdale In the W Hotel on Fort Lauderdale Beach, downstairs it’s the elegant Whiskey Blue, upstairs the luxe Living Room: hot dance and social settings in a distinctive atmosphere with signature cocktails and upscale patrons. Indoor and outdoor lounges.
SAVOY ORLANDO 1913 N. Orange Ave., Orlando, FL “The hottest” gay bar and nightclub in Orlando. The MEN OF SAVOY Dancers from 6 p.m. til 2 a.m. every night in the main bar! Video Bar, Pool Tables.
MIAMI/MIAMI BEACH BAR 721 721 N. Lincoln Lane, Miami Beach Plush, lush and flush, a luxe, sexy décor that includes soft carpeting, comfy couches and a Grown Up Playroom equipped with a flat screen TV for video games, pool table, ceiling-mounted speakers. Enjoy 5 to 10 p.m. happy hours including $6 premium drinks.
MATTY’S ON THE DRIVE 2426 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Drink specials, billiards, and a chill gayborhood vibe. 75 Cent drinks on Wednesdays. No Drama, No Smoking.
CLUB BOI 777 NE 79 St., Miami With an urban vibe on the weekends, a diverse crowd and a diverse musical format, including Hip Hop, R&B, House, Reggae, Soca, Latin and Old School. Go-go bois and drink specials.
MONKEY BUSINESS 2740 N. Andrews Ave., Fort Lauderdale Cozy neighborhood bar. Karaoke, drag shows, Patio Bar – and open at 9 a.m. daily.
CLUB SUGAR 2301 S.W. 32nd Ave., Miami Gay Latin scene, with Salsa, Merengue, Reggaeton, Hip Hop and House music always playing.
MONA’S 502 E. Sunrise Blvd., Fort Lauderdale Cocktail Lounge in the heart of Searstown. Fun customers, fun bartenders and fun proprietor (the Legendary Jerry). Outside patio. Wednesday karaoke, Thursday Speedball Tournament.
DISCOTEKKA 950 NE 2nd Ave., Miami Hot music, hot scene, hot bartenders, and hot patrons in the hot heart of Downtown Miami.
NAKED GRAPE 2163 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors Relaxing, friendly, hip, unique – the alternative gathering place on Wilton Drive. Wine tastings and events. Tuesday and Wednesday Late Night In the Biz.
PALACE BAR 1200 Ocean Drive, Miami Beach This bar and restaurant in the heart of South Beach’s Art Deco District. Mouth-watering burgers, boys (and girls!). Weekend cabaret shows Thursday through Sunday.
MOVA LOUNGE 1625 Michigan Ave., Miami Beach On Miami Beach’s famed Lincoln Road, never a cover. Drink specials all week long, live DJs, high energy music and a fun crowd getting their dance on til late.
WYLDE'S 3557 S. Orange Ave., Orlando, FL Neighborhood bar South of Downtown Orlando. Jukebox, Video Games, Pool Tables and Dancers. PARADISE ORLANDO 1300 N Mills Ave, Orlando, FL Orlando’s casual Gay & Lesbian bar and nightclub. Patio, Tiki Bar and Pool Tables. Happy Hour 4 til 9 p.m. and drink specials every day til 9 p.m. BAR CODES (Formerly Bear Bar) 4453 Edgewater Drive, Orlando, FL Friendly Bar, Real Men and Bears... Oh My! Beer and Wine. Tends to attract the after work Happy Hour crowd.
TAMPA BAY 2606 2606 N. Armenia Ave, Tampa, FL Tampa's favorite Levi/leather bar has two floors (dimly lit), with the upstairs being the more cruisy. There's Hog House shop on-premises, and the 2606 is home to the Tampa Leather Club. Monday is Underwear Night, Tuesdays are $1 drinks and on Wednesdays, Longnecks are just $1.50. AZALEA LOUNGE 1502 N Florida Ave., Tampa, FL Exposed brick, cold beverages and friendly staff are the mainstays of the recently bloomed Florida Avenue flower! Neighborhood bar, pool tables. BAXTER'S LOUNGE 1519 S. Dale Mabry, Tampa, FL Tampa Happy Hour Tradition. Serving up some of the hottest dancers Wednesday thru Saturday nights at 10PM.
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FLIRT NIGHTCLUB & SHOWBAR 1909 N 15th St., Tampa, FL (Ybor City) Get that hometown feeling. Amazing lazer shows, big headliners and has been around for 6 years. CITY SIDE 3703 Henderson Blvd., Tampa, FL Tampa Bay’s “Best Happy Hour” til Midnight every night of the week. GBAR 1401 E 7th Ave, Tampa (Ybor City), FL Dance Club & Video Bar. Open Tuesday through Saturday, 4 p.m. til 3 a.m. No cover before 10 p.m., $5 after with ID. VALENTINES NIGHTCLUB 7522 N. Armenia Ave., Tampa, FL Voted #1 Nightclub in Tampa. Open 7 days a week 3 p.m. to 3 a.m. Monday, Latin Night, Tuesdays are Boys Night Out, Wednesdays are Karaoke Night, Thursdays, No Cover Dance Party, Fridays feature Hot Go-Go Girls, Saturdays are Latino Night “Uncut” and Sundays are Hip Hop Night. Ki Ki Ki III 1908 West Kennedy Blvd., Tampa, FL One of The Oldest Bars (beer and wine). A plain bar without pretention with its share of young regulars. RAINBOW ROOM 421 S. MacDill Avenue, Tampa, FL A mix between a neighborhood bar and a community center. Main bar with pool, darts, jukebox. Outdoor Tiki patio has a full volleyball court and live bands. Beer & Wine.
ST. PETERSBURG GEORGIES ALIBI 3100 3rd Avenue North, St. Petersburg, FL One of the most popular gay bars in St. Pete. It’s always busy! Great VJ’s play Top 40 music. Mondays are Drag BINGO and Talent contest, Pool tourney Wednesdays, and the legendary Long Island Iced Tea nights on Thursdays. Ages 21 and over, never a cover! FLAMINGO RESORT 4601 34TH ST SOUTH, St. Petersburg, FL Florida’s “largest, luxury all gay resort.” Non-stop entertainment, great menu, and drinks served poolside at the Cabana. Weekly events and 2-4-1 Happy Hour daily from 11 a.m. to 9 p.m. Saturday Happy Hour ($1 off) 11 a.m to 9 p.m. GEMINI LOUNGE 2315 Central Avenue, St. Petersburg, FL Gemini Lounge aims to serve a variety of tastes; music, karaoke, Internet access, poetry readings and sports on TV. OAR HOUSE BAR & LIQUOR STORE 4807 22nd Avenue South, St. Petersburg, FL Fun, friendly, laid-back atmosphere where you can get great drinks at cheap prices! Drama free! Happy Hour daily from 2 p.m. til 9 p.m. HAYMARKET PUB 8308 4th Street North, St. Petersburg, FL More of a Men’s bar. Showing hot videos, beer specials, Saturday Underwear Night, and different events each week. HIDEAWAY 8302 4th Street North, St. Petersburg, FL The oldest Womyn’s bar in the country. Where music is always the main entree! Coldest selection of beer in town. DETOUR 2612 Central Avenue, St. Petersburg, FL The hottest club in St. Pete. Daily specials, karaoke nights and gogo boys from Rico's Men. Noted for it’s Saturday Drag shows and Karaoke nights. Full liquor bar.
MELBOURNE/COCOA COLD KEG NIGHTCLUB 4060 West New Haven Avenue, Melbourne, FL Largest Gay Club in Melbourne Florida and the Premier Gay Bar & Nightclub in Brevard County. ULTRA LOUNGE 407 Brevard Avenue, Cocoa, FL Nestled in Cocoa Village, this bar has a full coffee bar, serving espresso, lattes, cappuccinos as well as draft beers & wine.
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Celebrity Silhouette Sets Sail Part 2: Ports of Call By PAUL RUBIO Last month, I ventured to the Holy Land on the sophomore voyage of the new Celebrity Silhouette (celebritycruises.com) cruise ship. With an itinerary that includes Italy, Israel, and Greece, the ports for Celebrity’s Holy Land tour are a far cry from the cheesy same-old, same-old like Nassau and Cozumel. Two of my favorite ports are highlighted below.
Rome Never one to turn down time in the Eternal City, I often opt for a few nights of pre or post-cruise fun in Rome, the common point of embarkation for European voyages on the high seas. For my Celebrity Silhouette sailing, I arrived in Rome three days early, giving me enough time to adjust for jetlag and tear up one of my favorite cities in the world! Upon arriving, I checked into my exclusive hotel, smack in the heart of the city in the shadow of the Spanish Steps – Portrait Suites Rome (lungarnocollection.com). This exclusive fourteen room micro hotel, above Rome’s famed Ferragamo store, bursts with the eclectic personality and refinement of its shoe-making, show-stopping owner,
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Salvatore Ferragamo. These fourteen “Portrait Suites” exude understated elegance, but the best part of this hotel isn’t even the superb design-driven rooms. The view from the hotel’s rooftop lounge, exclusive to its discerning guests, is one of Rome’s most inspiring nooks. Absorbing the timeless rapture of Rome’s rooftops and the zenith of the Spanish Steps at sunrise, sunset, and every hour in between, while indulging in Portrait Suite’s fabulous full-scale rooftop honor bar, could easily go down in your personal history as your greatest moments in Rome! I did all the obligatory Rome sight seeing, including the gorgeous Trevi Fountain, camera in hand, snapping away at the hot security guards in action. I wandered for hours on what I like to call a “Piazza crawl” – losing and finding myself in and around Rome’s greatest piazzas (e.g. Navona, Venezia, and Minerva). I eventually ended up in Vatican City at St. Peter’s Basilica, splendidly quiet on a Sunday in August, giving me that much more time for sinful thoughts over the Vatican guards. Come nightfall, I was practically lip locked with the Coliseum and loving every second of it. How? It’s called AROMA (palazzomanfredi.com) – the
rooftop restaurant of the Palazzo Manfredi hotel, situated across from the Coliseum. Flush with the top arches of the historic relic, situated at just the right distance from this postcard-perfect panorama rapture, AROMA delivers a mouth watering multi-course tour de force while you gawk at the Coliseum’s authority and fantasy about its history. This intimate experience with global grandeur never grows old! What’s more? AROMA is adjacent to one of Rome’s most popular gay bars, which fills the streets on weekends and Sunday evenings.
Santorini Unlike neighboring Mykonos, Santorini is more about immersion in the foremost examples of traditional Greek architecture and culture rather than long days on the gay beach and late night parties with European couples looking for hot threesomes. Santorini is undeniably sleepy compared to Mykonos, but it’s as impressive in person as it is in postcards. When I arrived in Santorini, I took the first tender off the ship to get a head start up to the cliff tops of Fara, the island’s capital city. I wanted to climb the massive zig-
zagged staircase; but after a few dozen donkeys nearly decapitated me and I slipped on an unavoidable mound of donkey doo, I opted for the easier cable car option (an animal rights advocate, I didn’t have the heart to ride a donkey in 100 degree heat). Once on the touristy hilltop, I rented a car at Hertz for 65 euros, grabbed a map, and Santorini was my oyster. I traversed most the island in a single day, spending the majority of time in the north, at Oia, the picture-perfect town you see in every ad for Greece tourism. Blue capped, white-washed buildings stacked along the mountainside, peering over vibrant aquamarine waters, flanked by bustling tavernas and colorful small fishing boats. This is the Greece of timeless romance and unwavering culture – somehow frozen in time despite the pressures of globalization. I gorged on my best meal of 2011 at Taverna Kristina – a small restaurant on the waterfront, serving the classics better than ever– tzaziki, grilled calamari, eggplant salad, Greek salad – the works! I asked the jolly and stocky owner if she had a website to share for this travel article, but it was soon clear that nobody on this old school pier had probably ever used the internet! H
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THE METRO 2929 Plum Street, Jacksonville, FL The Metro Entertainment Complex has been serving the GLBT community for 17 years. Features a total of 7 different venues under one roof to choose from. Lesbo-A-Go-Go, monthly Tea Dances, special quest performers, female impersonators and live musicians. BOOT RACK SALOON 4751 Lenox Avenue, Jacksonville, FL Your Neighborhood Gay Bar - the place for men. Cold beer, music and a warm and cozy atmosphere. Hot men and cheap beer... We all know where that leads! AJ'S BAR & GRILL 10244 Atlantic Boulevard, Jacksonville, FL Annie and Janie invite you to stop by and see some old friends and meet some new ones! Great food, awesome service, delicious mixed drinks and live entertainment. PARK PLACE LOUNGE 931 King Street, Jacksonville, FL A fun and comfortable gay bar that’s accommodating to both gays and non-gays. A great place to watch your favorite game, or enjoy playing Wii while the liquor flows! THE NORM 2952 Roosevelt Boulevard, Jacksonville, FL A neighborhood bar. Everyone is welcome, but remember it is a girls bar! Beer and Wine only. 616 BAR 616 Park Street, Jacksonville, FL A warm and friendly atmosphere with a Patio bar. Karaoke on Tuesdays and Wednesdays. Thursdays the Jax Bears are here for happy hour. Fridays and Saturdays enjoy the "Beer Blast." THREE LAYERS CAFE 1602 Walnut Street, Jacksonville, FL The name Three Layers comes from their large variety of delicious three layer cakes. An inviting loft style cafe located in Springfield. Enjoy a bistro style lunch or just stop in for your morning coffee. BO'S CORAL REEF 201 5th Avenue North, Jacksonville Beach, FL There are great shows Thursday through Sunday with the best of female impersonators. Pool tables, video games, and a large outdoor patio. The only gay bar on the beach!
INCAHOOTS 711 Edison Avenue, Jacksonville, FL This club offers good crowds every night. Recently remodeled with three bars and a friendly staff. Everyday is a different special. A fun place anytime. Full Liquor bar. Closed on Mondays and Tuesdays except for special events. KICKBACKS GASTROPUB 910 King Street, Jacksonville, FL This is a top class venue serving over 600 different bottled beers, 84 beers on tap, breakfast, lunch and dinner 20hrs a day 7 days a week!
KWEST 705 Duval St., Key West, FL Daily Happy Hour from 3 to 8 p.m., and a piano sing-a-long every Wednesday night. Men dancing for men after 10 p.m. Weekly drink specials and "Wet Jockey" contests on Fridays. SALOON ONE 801 Duval Street, Key West, FL (Behind 801 Bar) This is the only gay leather bar in Key West. Conveniently located behind 801 Bourbon Bar.
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LA TE DA 1125 Duval Street, Key West, FL An upscale hotel complex with 3 bars, cabaret and restaurant.
THE ROUNDUP 560 East Heinberg St, Pensacola, FL A neighborhood gay men’s bar... Pensacola’s Cowboy Bar. Open 2 p.m. til 3 p.m. daily.
PEARL’S PATIO BAR FOR WOMEN 525 United St., Key West, FL Tropical themed women's bar for gay women and gayfriendly women alike. Patio bar with a full bar featuring drinks like "Cosmopearlitans" and "Pearl's Passion".
CABARET 101 S Jefferson St # E, Pensacola, FL Not strictly a gay bar, the charming and friendly Cabaret is very much a fixture in Pensacola's GLBT community, drawing a mixed bunch each evening for happy hour, karaoke, videos, comedy shows, live music, and all-around hobnobbing and socializing.
KEY WEST BOURBON STREET PUB 724 Duval St., Key West, FL Opened in October of 1995 and has continued to grow ever since, it is now part of the larger collection of gay action in The Bourbon St. Pub Complex. Hot Go-Go boy dancers and a busy crowd. “Where the boys are!” 801 BOURBON BAR 801 Duval St., Key West, FL Cabaret shows upstairs with nightly performances by famed performers Sushi, Kylie, RV Beaumont, Margo, and others. This legendary establishment has been around for over 30 years, and host Happy Hour specials daily from 11 a.m. - 8 p.m. AQUA NIGHTCLUB 711 Duval St., Key West, FL Aqua features the "Reality is a Drag" show six days a week, followed by dancing. Monday is karaoke night and don't miss the great happy hour specials from 3 to 8 p.m. daily.
BOBBY’S MONKEY BAR 900 Simonton St., Key West, FL The gay Cheers style neighborhood bar of Key West. Happy Hour from Noon to 7pm, Karaoke on Sunday nights, pool tournaments on Tuesday nights at 7pm. Free Wi-Fi access. GARDEN OF EDEN 224 Duval Street, Key West, FL A Rooftop Bar with the BEST VIEWS in the city & “BEST Long Island Ice Teas made by Melinda!” Gay, straight, fat, or skinny... Doesn’t matter! Clothing optional - gay friendly!
WEST PALM BEACH H G ROOSTERS 823 Belvedere Road, West Palm Beach, FL Dark bar that attracts a fun party crowd. Camp is in at H.G.'s, where drag shows and bingo nights pack in crowds looking for laughs and fun. THE LOUNGE 517 Clematis Street, West Palm Beach, FL Sushi, tropical views and tasty cocktails are accompanied by acclaimed resident DJ Daisy DeadPetals. FORT DIX BAR & CLUB 6205 Georgia Ave, West Palm Beach, FL Mostly local crowd looking to mingle and relax. The bar is a bit on the dark and dingy side, but who knows--that could be a plus.
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OFFICE PUB 3704 Cleveland Ave , Fort Myers, FL Oldest gay bar in South West Florida with a festive attitude. This bear-friendly Office likes to have fun with underwear parties, drag shows, Wii bowling! Check out their country and western music night on Saturdays.
TUBBY'S 4350 Fowler Street , Fort Myers, FL Where men come to compete (in tournaments). "Never a cover... always a smile" Tubby's is a no-frills video bar with a total of 10 TVs and two projection screens available for patrons to use as they wish. Add a six-hour 2-4-1 Happy Hour during the Wii tournaments on the big screen! THE BOTTOM LINE 3090 Evans Ave , Fort Myers, FL This gay entertainment complex is one of the longest running clubs in southwest Florida at over 20 years, The Bottom Line features 7 bars, pool tables, drag shows and occasional guest appearances by porno stars.
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TOTI: TAVERN ON THE ISLAND IN VENICE 127 Tampa Ave. East, Venice, FL This South Beach inspired gay bar, boasts a dance floor and a game room with pool tables and dart boards. It's clean, the music is mixed and the staff are friendly. A mixed crowd can be found most nights... younger, older (duh, this is Venice), gay and straight. Did you know that in the Caribbean, TOTI is slang for a beloved male appendage? How apropos.
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SPIKES 4130 Northwest 6th Street, Gainesville, FL It is a laid-back kind of place, with friendly bar staff. The crowds vary depending on the night. The bar has a nice open air patio area that is rarely used, but would be nice if it was.
UNIVERSITY CLUB 18 East University Avenue, Gainesville, FL This is a fairly average small college town gay bar. It is usually busy and crowded on Thursday nights.
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“SPIRIT OF HOPE” GALA Broward House’s “Spirit of Hope” Gala – “A Night at the Cotton Club” – will be held on Friday, October 7 from 7 p.m. to 11 p.m. at the Signature Grand Mansion in Davie, Florida. Broward House’s “Spirit of Hope” galas are one of the most anticipated events of the South Florida social season. This year’s gala is honoring Congresswoman Debbie Wasserman Schultz, Tuesday’s Angels and AIDS Healthcare Foundation. Come out and relive those days of the secretive Speakeasies, where fabulous flappers will be waiting to welcome you. You will be treated to a three-course meal and all the hootch your liver can handle. Throughout the evening, you will be dazzled by the Cotton Club cast. Enjoy casino games such as roulette, craps, poker and blackjack. Tickets are $100 per person or a table of ten for only $950. For tickets or more information, visit www.BrowardHouse.org/donate.html. H
ART FALLOUT The Girls Club will host Art Fallout in conjunction with the Sailboat Bend Artist Lofts and 18 Rabbit Gallery to support contemporary art in the local community on Saturday, October 16 from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. Art Fallout will take place at three participating galleries. There will be a free trolley to shuttle people between the venues. Simultaneously, the neighboring artist spaces and galleries will join in and host their own events. South Florida artists can drop off works to at the Girls Club. There is a $5 per work fee and all works are accepted and presented. A panel of prominent South Florida arts professionals will judge the works in the exhibition on their merits and assign a variety of awards. 18 Rabbit Gallery will be showing “Altered States,” the first exhibition and grand opening of its new space in FAT Village, from 7 p.m. to 11 p.m. 1310 Gallery presents the juried show, “Myth of Power” curetted by Lisa Rockford. There will also be an open exhibit at FAT Village in the Museum of Art, Fort Lauderdale. H
SENIOR EXPO The LGBT Senior Expo will be held from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. on Saturday, October 22 at The Pride Center at Equality Park, 2040 N Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors. The event will provide LGBT Seniors with a comprehensive overview of healthcare services available to benefit the elder LGBT community. The event will feature a trade show with various LGBT-friendly medical, professional and financial services providers, who are eager to assist our community. Please RSVP to the Florida Assisted Living Coalition (please provide name and contact telephone number) at 800-939-2650. For more information, contact Pride Center Deputy Director Kristofer Fegenbush at 954-463-9005 ext. 111. H
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Miami 13TH ANNUAL MIAMI GAY AND LESBIAN FILM FESTIVAL From October 1 to November 1 at various locations. To enrich, entertain and educate the public, encourage a sense of community through international and culturally diverse film, video and other media that offer historical and contemporary perspectives on the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender experience. For a complete schedule; www.mglff.com. H
HEAT MIAMI BLATINO EXPLOSION Friday, October 7, from 5 p.m. to 10 p.m. in downtown Miami. Columbus Day Weekend will never be the same because The Heat is On! More information is available at www.thevaultmiami.com or by calling (954)3363197. H
“HAIRSPRAY” On Thursday, October 13, the Miami Dade Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce. in association with the Coral Gables Chamber of Commerce, presents Theater Night at the Actors’ Playhouse at the Miracle Mile Theatre (280 Miracle Mile, Coral Gables). The Chambers will join forces for the last preview performance of “Hairspray” with a pre-performance reception with wine and hors d'oeuvres in the theater lobby at 7 p.m. $30 for the reception and the performance. “Hairspray” is Broadway's hottest musical-comedy phenomenon and a joyous tribute to the ‘60s. RSVP required at mdglcc@bellsouth.net, 305-673-4440. H
TASK FORCE MIAMI RECOGNITION DINNER The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force announced that straight rugby star Ben Cohen will receive its Humanitarian Award on October 15 at the 15th annual Miami Recognition Dinner at the Fontainebleau Miami Beach. Cohen is the first straight sports star to dedicate his philanthropic efforts to the benefit of LGBT people. Cohen recently founded and serves as chairman of The Ben Cohen StandUp Foundation, the world’s first foundation dedicated to raising awareness about the long-term, damaging effects of bullying. The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force produces the event and donates the majority of the net proceeds to other nonprofit organizations serving the Miami-Dade LGBT community. H
HELLROTIKA SAVE Dade's 17th annual Halloween extravaganza, Hellrotika will be held on Saturday, October 29 from 7 p.m. to 2 a.m. at Jungle Island, 1111 Parrot Jungle Trail in Miami. For a limited time, buy specially-priced advancedsales tickets at www.hellrotika.com. Amazing music by renowned deejays, top-shelf liquor, costume contest, celebrity appearances, special performances and over 1,000 of Miami’s spookiest partygoers. General admission is $40 in advance, $60 if purchased after October 21 and at the door. H
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October 7 through 10 at Sawmill Camping Resort, 21710 US Highway in Dade City. Columbus Day is Monday so make it a long weekend. Free Thursday or Sunday night stay with your paid weekend reservation. Highlights include S&M Ranch's first Beer Bust with $10 all the beer you can drink weekend, the Trident Motocycle Club on Saturday, clothing optional pool. Reserve now at 352-583-0664 or visit on a day/evening pass. H
On Thursday, October 6 from 6 p.m. to 1 a.m. Come out and celebrate the launch of Pride Weekend at The Abbey in Orlando. This high-fashion event will include 32 designs by eight talented students of the International Academy of Design and Technology. Presented by Macy’s and Sue-Bee. No cover, live deejay music. Silent auction (includes tickets on JetBlue, certificates to Ideal Image, two-night hotel stays, restaurant gift cards and more.) Live art, cash bar. The fashion show and judging will take place at the COWP kickoff on October 6 and the winning designer will be featured on stage at Come Out With Pride on Saturday, October 8. Both the winning designer and design will also be featured in our famous parade. Get tickets at www.ComeOutWithPride.com. H
“ROCKY HORROR PICTURE SHOW” A live production of the “Rocky Horror Picture” featuring The Sawmill Players, from October 14 through 17 at Sawmill Camping Resort, 21710 US Highway 98 in Dade City. Dig out your Rocky Horror costumes and get ready to do the Time Warp again. Don’t miss this hysterical weekend. Make your reservations now. Sawmill supplies the props. Reserve your cabin, RV or tent site today or visit on a day/evening pass at 352-583-0664. H
CENTRAL FLORIDA’S BIGGEST ALL-GAY HALLOWEEN PARTY Saturday October 22 from 8 p.m. to 2 a.m. G.Bar (1401 E 7th Ave. in Ybor City) presents their annual Halloween bash starring one of the biggest deejays in the world, Manny Lehman. Manny has played every major city and gay event in the world and continues to headline stadiums and event parties across the globe. G.Bar’s theme this year is “Scared Stiff” and they guarantee to live up to the title with major set design and elaborate decor along with our famous dancers decked out in costume to mark our favorite holiday. Cover is $5 and will offer $1 drinks from 9 p.m. to 11 p.m. H
JOEY D’S PENITENTIARY Halloween Weekend with Parade and Joey D's Haunted Penitentiary will be held October 28 through 30 at the Sawmill Camping Resort, 21710 US Highway 98 in Dade City, Florida. Sawmill’s annual Halloween Parade starts at 6 p.m. on Saturday, emceed by Crystal Chandelier. Contests with cash and other prizes for Best Individual Costume, Best Group, Best Float, and more. Make your reservation now at 352583-0664 or visit on a day/evening pass. H
COSMOPOLITAN Cosmopolitan, a Square One Creative Event, will be held at The Ritz Ybor, 1503 E. 7th Avenue in Tampa on Friday and Saturday, November18 and 19. Square One’s 4th annual fall 2011 Creative and Performing Arts Showcase expands to two nights and will revolve around an international world theme. The Main Event showcases over 75 local artists on display and live performances from VYB Dance Company, Jeremy Gloff, The James-Lange Theory, On Carlton Row and more with a Debut fashion show by Ricky Lindsay. From 7 p.m. to 12 midnight. Proceeds of this event help benefit Pediatric Cancer Fund (PCF). Please visit Squareoneflorida.com/cosmopolitan.html. H
PROJECT NUNway Friday, October 7, from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. at the Parliament House, 410 N Orange Blossom Trail in Orlando. The Orlando Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence present Project NUNway, a fashion show benefitting Hope and Help Food Bank. A kickoff party to Pride. Door prizes, cover a $5 suggested donation. H
ORLANDO PRIDE October 7 through 10. Nationally recognized celebrities and entertainment, respected speakers, scores of vendors, and the longest parade in the history of Orlando Pride all have contributed to this special event that continues to break records for Orlando LGBT festivals in which attendance has doubled or tripled each year. The Come Out with Pride committee is comprised of volunteers who are dedicated to bringing a free, world-class event to Central Florida. For more information, visit www.comeoutwithpride.com. H
“DRAG RACE” VIP PARTY RuPaul “Drag Race’s” VIP Block Party, Saturday, October 8 from 4:30 p.m. to 8 p.m. at The Monkey Bar, 26 Wall Street Plaza in Orlando. This will be Orlando’s largest block party but you must be 21 or older to attend. The hot bartenders of “Jungle Sundays” will be serving drink specials all night long. Shotboys, Jungle Stud Dancers and hot go-go gods. Two great shows by the stars of RuPaul’s “Drag Race”: Alex Mateo, Tyra Sanchez and Yara Sophia. Be the first to meet members of the cast from the upcoming season 4 of “Drag Race.” Dance the night away with live DJs on Wall Street Plaza. H
MOVIES OUT LOUD Movies Out Loud present The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert on Thursday, October 13 from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. at Plaza Cinema Café, 155 South Orange Avenue in Orlando. Special guest host, Doug Baaser. Dancing in the aisles is encouraged. Don’t forget to bring your ping pong balls. Buy your tickets early at www.watermarkonline.com/moviesout-loud. H
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When Protein Becomes Poison Photo courtesy, theherbalsupplementsreview.com
Too Much of a Good Thing? By ANDY KRESS
“Eat or drink more protein!” This seems to be the motto of every bodybuilder and gym buff on how to get and keep big muscles. They seem to consume protein drinks like a magic elixir with untold powers of gaining and maintaining muscle mass. But does this really work? It’s certainly true that protein builds muscle. So the more protein we consume, the more muscles we can achieve in the shortest amount of time, right? Wrong, and I will tell you why. It’s easy to get too much of a good thing. Health food stores, supermarkets and gyms alike sell thousands and thousands of dollars worth of shakes, smoothies and nutrition bars loaded with protein. A protein bar alone typically contains 20 to
30 grams of the stuff. It seems like a great deal with all of that health in an easy-tocarry chew treat. Or perhaps you prefer to drink a wonderful smoothie after a hard workout. Twenty grams of protein – ice cold and blended in a cup to carry right out of the gym and into the light of day. Convenience in Styrofoam. And what could be simpler than a 51gram protein shake, canned or bottled, to power a workout or chug after an exercise class. Most people tend to consume these products in about 10-15 minutes. That is a huge dose of protein entering the system that needs to be broken down before it can be utilized. So what happens to this 20-51 grams of protein when it enters your body? To be sure, some of these proteins are going to repair and grow new muscle tissues to those worked muscles. That is what proteins do, of course. They are the building blocks for our muscles. Yet, as good as they are, proteins cannot be absorbed in unlimited amounts by the body. And therein lies the problem. Whatever your system does not use is going to be ultimately wasted. According to the National Academy of Sciences, the daily requirement for an average man is only 56 grams of protein. Women need
even less – 46 grams. Wow! Not a whole lot more than a single smoothie, bar or protein shake. The body can only break down five to nine grams of that protein in an hour. This means there is a tremendous amount of extra protein that the body cannot absorb. Continually trying to eliminate the excess, the body places unnecessary stress on the kidneys, a pair of organs that tend to be less productive with age. Constantly having to remove excess protein is extremely hard on these organs. Yet that is exactly what you’re doing when you consume shakes, bars and smoothies in short periods of time. A diet of more than 30% protein consumption is very deleterious to the body. Excess protein builds up toxic ketones within the body, which the kidneys must filter out through the urine, leaving the potential for possible dehydration. Additionally, with the elimination of protein comes loss of calcium. Losing calcium through urine could be potentially harmful for bone turnover, since the body tries to make up for the loss by stripping the bones of the very calcium they need to remain strong. Don’t get me wrong. I am not against any protein shakes, bars or smoothies, but do your body a favor and pace your
protein throughout the day – rather than in massive doses. You will achieve the same effect without the harm or the waste of money. And your body will thank you as your muscles grow. H
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Q: What is your favorite gay-themed film? By BOB KECSKEMETY Robert Cieslak, Realtor Saved! – This movie deals with coming out and coming of age. In a way, it really hits home. I spent the entire movie laughing at the homophobic references and cried with the touching message at the end.
Vincent P. Cicenia, Retired Writer The Single Man – It reflects my life during my younger gay years. I also like Colin Firth.
Mike Rivers, Adult Film Actor Latter Days – My favorite PG13 movie. It was very moving and emotional. Of course, I need to promote myself. For an adult film, I loved “Something’s Cum Up.” It was my first dud I’ve done with the talented and amazing Chi Chi LaRue.
Con Arvello, Dispatcher Priscilla, Queen of the Desert – All the music and colorful costumes, the scenes in the Australian outback and lastly, the Abba tunes..
Bruce Bogan, Owner, CopyThis The Big Gay Musical – Very entertaining musical about life, love and relationships, A love story that can happen – funny, serious, touching and make-believe all in one.
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