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The Robust Sound Of 170 Gay Male Voices BY JAMEER
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The Gay Men’s Chorus of South Florida (GMCSF) is “Celebrating Five Years of Fabulous!” this year. The group originated in September 2010 with no more than 40 singers in their first season and within five short years they have massed 170 chorus members who delight and amaze spectators with their marvelous harmonies. The strength behind their voices is captivating and enchanting. It’s a prevailing sound that can’t be fully described but only witnessed by ones own ears. Their concerts are unique experiences, a difference from a mixed chorus made up of both males and females. “An all male chorus has a slightly more powerful and fuller sound,” said 5th Season President Dennis St. Jean. “It’s less shrill.” The large group is made up of talented male singers who go through an interview and audition in order to be inducted into the chorus. Each active member attends a minimum number of rehearsals and pays monthly dues of $20. “Most of our members have sung in a formal chorus (a chorus that regularly rehearses, has a conductor and offers sold concerts to the public),” said St. Jean. “Some are
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Boardwalk Bartender John Arculeo, Both Brains & Brawn BY JAMEER
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Take one look at 24-year-old John Arculeo and there’s no mistaking that he hits the gym hard. Then, have a conversation with him and you can immediately tell that he also has a good head on his shoulders. Arculeo has been putting his brain muscles and body muscles to work to get what he wants since he was a teenagaer. At the age 13, Arculeo took notice of his older brothers muscular physique and automatically knew he wanted the same. “He was as strong as an ox,” Arculeo recalled. It wasn’t that Arculeo looked up to his older brother, he just liked the appeal of muscles and he realized the attention they brought as well. He also knew it would help him standout from the rest. Weightlifting became a constant in Arculeo's life--so much so that he made the conscious decision to move out of his mom’s house and his hometown of Cassel-
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berry, Florida, to the small town of Deland with his dad for high school. Arculeo and his dad weren’t even on good terms when he decided to make the move but Deland High School had a better weightlifting program and that’s all that mattered to the budding strongman. Arculeo graduated from high school in 2010 and after taking a short break from school, he enrolled in an Orlando-based marine mechanical school, UTI, while still living with his father. Shortly after starting at UTI, Arculeo secured an apprenticeship at Hey Good Brothers Marine, a mechanical boating repair shop. Things were going well for the allAmerican 19 year old until he hit a series of snags. First, he learned that his school was not accredited--so he stopped attending. Then he learned that in order to get certified through his apprenticeship, he would have to spend two years working at a theguymag
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This special drink is John Arculeo’s favorite. He says “If you think about it, all of these flavors are tropical flavors." "Every single thing works together to make a very very tasty drink.” "It will blow your head off!”
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measly $140 a week before he could get his certificate to officially work as an employee. It was then that he began to explore his interest in men and ventured into a gay club, Pulse Orlando. He quickly fell in love and adamantly pursued a job there. While still apprenticing, he worked gigs as a Pulse shot boy and eventually started dancing at the club. When his boss at the apprenticeship made him choose between dancing or marine work, Arculeo chose dancing. Fun and lucrative beats hard work for low cash every time. Arculeo slowly began to come out to his friends and family. Even his father was okay with it or so he thought, until he asked him to move out. Looking down from his perch up on the bar, and seeing the tips being left, Arculeo realized that if he was going to make it in his solo new world, he would need to be share with us on guymag.net
behind the bar rather than on top of it. “It was all a blessing in disguise, I’ve learned more in that short amount of time then ever before,” Arculeo mentioned about the series of mishaps in his life. “It was an eye opening experience.” Three years later and a move to unfamiliar Wilton Manors, with no car and only $500 in his pocket, Arculeo ended up as an optimistic happy hour bartender at Boardwalk. “This is a career for me, not a job,” said Arculeo “And I love my career more than anything!” Visit Arculeo at Boardwalk Monday–Friday at 3:00 pm to 9:00 pm.
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BUSINESS PROFILE
Get Salted: It's Known To Improve The Body & Mind BY JAMEER
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It’s been an uphill battle for Suzann Hollis since her tragic construction accident 18 years ago, but she’s finally found her saving grace and she’s committed to sharing it with the rest of us. “I couldn’t find a passion after the accident.” Hollis confessed. “Now, I know I want to leave a healing legacy.” On June 20, Hollis opened Salt This Way in Wilton Manors. The new business is her creative interpretation of the holistic therapy, Halotherapy. In the 1800s, Polish doctor Felix Bochkowsky published a book about the health benefits of salt dust after he observed the respiratory issues found in coal and metal miners were nonexistent in that of salt miners. By the 1950s, scientists were backing Dr. Bochkowsky claims with effective salt therapies. Shortly Suzann Hollis thereafter, saltrooms Photos by started appearing Salt This Way web site in European hotels and spas when people realized that the salt not only diminished respiratory ailments but also combated emotional and skin problems. Hollis childhood memories on her family’s Kentucky farm riding and sometimes driving her grandpa’s tractor
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solidified her passion for operating machinery. However, while living out her dream tragedy struck on a cold Chicago December day in 1996. Operating a crane solo, Hollis became entangled in the gears, which began to crush the left side of her body. It wasn’t until she let out a big scream as the gears punctured her lung that her co-workers realized something was wrong. Twenty-two surgeries later and the lost of her left arm, Hollis rose from the incident resilient and determined to press on. “I attribute my strong well to the grandma who raised me,” said Hollis “The word “can’t” didn’t exist in our household.” Knowing that her accident was due to improper safety measures, Hollis focused her energy on getting her project safety management license while still recovering. Within a year and half from the date of the accident, she was back to work. “It helped me get through the trauma of it all,” mentioned Hollis. However, it couldn’t remove the everlasting physical and mental effects – a punctured lung, physical imbalance and phantom pain, which has no cure. theguymag
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Dolphins And Parrots And Alligators, Oh My: A Florida Wildlife Guide BY JAMEER BAPTISTE The Latin flare and international cultures that flourish in South Florida aren’t the only exotic species in the region. Our wildlife is just as diverse and robust as those who come to visit or call Florida their home. And just like our melting pot of a society, there are those rare native species that have earned their claim to fame as well. One infamous and well-known native species is the Florida Alligator.
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fun and interesting programs like shadow a trainer for a day, be kissed by a dolphin, or even paint with a dolphin. Dolphins Plus has 13 programs in total--all of which are interactive activities. The best part about Dolphins Plus is that their facilities are marine mammal conservations in which the staffs tentatively care for the marine life and ecosystem. The staff consider their mammals family, so much so that each dolphin and sea lion has their own bio description with attached photos and recorded acoustics on the website.
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772-429-6266). The center overlooks Indian River Lagoon and Moore’s Creek. There you can view manatees and other wildlife in their natural habitat in a covered observation walkway or on the second floor observation tower. Inside the center, you can enjoy hands-on exhibits as you learn about the sea cows or you can stroll outdoors in the center’s garden. Or head to the west coast of Florida to River Ventures (498 SE Kings Bay Drive Crystal River Florida 34429; 877-5818401) for an actual opportunity to swim side-by-side with the manatees.
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Get out of the water and back on land at Jungle Island (1111 Parrot Jungle Trail Miami Florida 33132; 305-400-7000) where you can witness daily exhibits of an extensive variety of wildlife both foreign and domestic. Be amazed at the tortoise exhibit as you view massive Tortoises that reach up to 500 pounds and live for nearly 150 years. Smile at the South African Penguins as they swim and waddle around. Clench your teeth at a rare glimpse of the endangered tigers and snap a photo chilling with a tiger cub. Be dazzled by the Winged Wonder Show that showcases stunningly colorful and playful birds from different parrots to the stunt-performing macaws. The list of Jungle Island activities seem endless and definitely can’t be accomplished in only one visit, but the
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If you are looking for something a little more subdued, yet still vibrant and whimsical, stop by Butterfly World (Tradewinds Park 3600 W. Sample Road Coconut Creek Florida 33073; 954-9774400). Created by Ronald Boender, a butterfly guru, Butterfly World sits on three acres of pristine and well-maintained gardens that house a butterfly museum along with a bug zoo, tropical rainforest, a vine maze and a bird aviary. The entire compound is blissfully gorgeous and simply breathtaking. The array of colorful butterflies are everywhere both inside and outside. And if you happen to be so lucky, one or a few just might land on your person as a sweet gesture of hello. .
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It is an all too common storyline for most gay men but those days of opting out of physical education (PE) class in high school (because you felt so darn uncomfortable) is a thing of the past. As we gay men get older and more comfortable in our own skin and our surroundings, physical fitness and outdoor activities become less tormenting and more enjoyable. It’s then that we sometimes find out that we are more athletic than what we once thought. So now, instead of fantasizing about those iron glad hunks bent over in seductive tights, we can become those stud muffins. Football is an honored and revered American sport that is watched all over the world. But it’s also played in the backyards of many neighborhood homes and in community parks as well. The sport itself is extremely accessible because it doesn’t have to be played on a designated football field. Literally, anywhere with an open grass or dirt (and in some cases paved) area can be transformed into a makeshift football field. Not to mention: the countless Fort Lauderdale parks with public football fields like Holiday Park (1150 G. Harold Martin Drive Fort Lauderdale FL 33304; 954-828-5385). Gather a group of your friends together and show them what you’re made of. Wheth-
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er effeminate and masculine, the game is perfect for some accelerating, fun-filled friendship rivalry. The most commonly known game of football is tackle football, which happens to be the most aggressive form of the game. In tackle football, make sure to strap up with protective gear and be prepared for bodily impact. The game is intense and hard-hitting but once you’re in play and your adrenaline is pumping, you become solely focused on one thing--The Win. It’s a perfect sport to relieve aggression and stress – like shouting in a pillow but so much better. If you are looking for less physical contact, then flag football is perfect for you. In exchange for tackling, a slight tug on your opponents flag football belt will do the trick. With that said, it’s important to note that flag football is still an intense sport just with less bodily impact. Interested in joining a team? Visit the Florida Amateur Flag Football League (FAFFL) at faffl.leagueapps.com. FAFFL is a statewide LGBTQIA coed contact flag football league. The organization prides itself on providing a competitive and recreational activity for the whole community. Whether you choose tackle or flag football, you will enjoy group encouragement, physical fitness and stress relief. theguymag
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Duval Street, Key West Has Only One Gay Guesthouse
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The New Orleans House is a staple in Key West. And it has everything a gay man would need to guarantee a fabulous time in South Florida’s oldest gay travel destination--known to its locals as “One human family”--Key West’s official city motto. The hotel is the only all-male gay guesthouse in the center of Key West’s booming entertainment hub and gay area, Duval Street. The New Orleans House is literally in walking distance to many of the LGBT nightlife in the area as well as great restaurants, boutique stores and beautiful art galleries. New Orleans House is a paradise within itself. The mega complex has rooms to suit every budget from their inexpensive rooms located next to the pool and in shaded areas to their freestanding cottage that boasts its own full kitchen, living room and large bathroom. Each room comes with cable TV, refrigerator, air conditioning and Wi-Fi access. But what stands out about the hotel is the amenities located on property. Guests have free range to the hotel’s gym, re-
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stricted men-only clothing-optional pool, 15-man jacuzzi, sundeck, grand balcony and garden bar. The garden bar has happy hour every evening. On the grand balcony, guests can enjoy continental breakfast and people watch during street events like Fantasy Fest, Key West’s annual Halloween festival. And if that’s not enough, the hotel has it own nightclub called Bourbon St. Pub. Guests of the hotel get in for free every night. The Bourbon St. Pub is known for its sexy male dancers, live entertainment and monthly underwear parties. To watch live drag performances, guest can walk across the street to club 801 Bourbon Bar where they receive free access to shows. The New Orleans House has two restaurants onsite for your convenience, Joe’s Chicken Shack and Pizza Joe’s.
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Anthony's Coal Fired Pizza: Italian Goes Mainstream by Tim
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Anthony’s Coal Fired Pizza should be on your restaurant rotation. I frequent the Planation location, but I have included the east Fort Lauderdale address for our readers’ convenience. This is a very successful operation with locations all over the country and six locations in Broward alone. They attribute the success of the operation to a combination of top-quality ingredients, a simple, consistent menu, authentic, coal ovens and a staff that treats guests like “family.” To begin, they have a very interesting story. Growing up on Long Island in a traditional Italian family, Anthony Bruno, the proprietor, had a passion for great food that started at a very young age. His father, Anthony Sr., moved to South Florida in 1982 and father and son debuted Anthony’s Runway 84, (one of the area’s most celebrated and popular restaurants). In 2002, Anthony unveiled a new concept that introduced the taste of coal oven pizza to South Floridians. He believed there was a great opportunity to create pizza that rivaled the ones he enjoyed growing up in New York. The Plantation location is very nicely laid out. There is table seating both indoors
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and out. There is a fully stocked bar at one end of the restaurant to imbibe while waiting to be seated, or just to enjoy a sporting event on one of the many flat screens that adorn the walls. While it is not the largest of spaces, it is never cramped, but it is quite popular, so get there early or be prepared to wait (the wait is worth it). There are old albums and covers adorning the wall and a great poster of John Lennon. It is a very nice atmosphere. After being seated by the hostess, I ordered the Roasted Chicken Wings to start with. These wings are special. They are served with caramelized onions and focaccia bread. I get the small (10 wings for $9.50) but they have a large (20 wings for $15.50) for the heartier appetite. I compliment this order with a Coal Oven Traditional Pie (12” for $12.25; 16” for $15.50). They cook their pizzas in an 800-degree oven that provides a ‘well-done’ flavor that has become their trademark. They have a number of different specialty named pizzas but you can create whatever you are in the mood for and they will make it. Each additional topping is $1.75 theguymag
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Frankie And Ariana Grande At The Grammys (photo courtesy of mstarz.com)
Ariana Grande, Frankie Grande, Sam Smith and Smashing Pumpkins by
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Shania Twain “Man! I Feel Like a Woman!” may be a ridiculous play on words (and possibly, ambiguously transphobic), but its massive popularity still helped Shania Twain’s third album Come on Over become the best-selling studio album of all time by a female act, selling around forty million copies. Some of her biggest hits include “You’re Still the One,” “From This Moment On,” “Forever and for Always,” and “Any Man of Mine.” After a twoyear stint at Caesars Palace in Las Vegas, Twain is back on tour, performing tonight at the American Airlines Arena. 7:30 p.m. American Airlines Arena. 601 Biscayne Blvd. Miami. 33132.
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The Last Five Years Two twentysomething New Yorkers deal with the ramifications of love and losing love in the span of five years. Jason Robert Brown’s innovative musical achieved acclaim for its unique storytelling structure: the woman’s story is told in reverse chronological order while the man’s story is told in traditional chronological order. A recent film adaptation brought even more attention to this gem of a show. Evening Star Productions presents this performance in Boca. 7:00 p.m. Sol Children Theatre. 3333 N. Federal Highway. Boca Raton. 33431. theguymag
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Ariana Grande Boca Raton native Ariana Grande began her career in 2009, landing the role of Cat Valentine on Nickelodeon’s Victorious. That role started her illustrious music career—her first album was actually a part of the soundtrack Music from Victorious. Two years later, she had her own studio album, Yours Truly, and the single “The Way” became a smash hit. Her second studio album, My Everything, was released last year and includes hits “Problem” and “Break Free.” She stops off tonight in Fort Lauderdale while on her 25-city arena tour. 7:00 p.m. BB&T Center. 2555 NW 136th Ave. Sunrise. 33323.
Frozen Disney’s spectacular hit movie doubles as an LGBT allegory, with the smash single “Let It Go” a metaphor for coming out. In the film, ice queen Elsa must find a way to manage her powers in order to save her sister and bring back order to the kingdom of Arendelle. All the while, false love, true love, a trusty reindeer, and an adorable talking snowman play vital roles in their quests. The movie is the highest grossing animated film of all time and received two Academy Awards. It will be screened as a sing-along experience tonight at Mizner Park Amphitheater. 8:00 p.m. MIzner Park Amphitheater. 590 Plaza Real. Boca Raton. 33432.
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Frankie Grande Ariana’s big brother is a minor celebrity in his own right. The openly gay reality TV star is known for his theatre roles, his YouTube personality, and his stint on Big Brother 16. He has appeared on Broadway in Rock of Ages and Mamma Mia! along with a series of roles in Off-Broadway and regional theatre productions. The day after Ariana’s big concert, Frankie performs his one-man cabaret show featuring impersonations, skits, and performances of his favorite songs at Culture Room. 7:30 p.m. Culture Room. 3045 N. Federal Highway. Fort Lauderdale. 33306.
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07/20
Sam Smith British soul singer Sam Smith is the owner of four Grammy Awards and the hearts of many LGBT fans. The openly gay singer has found success with his sultry ballads bemoaning the sad state of his relationships. He reached prominence in 2012 when he was featured on Disclosure’s single “Latch.” His debut studio album released last year included the single “Stay with Me,” which became an international success, reaching number one in the UK and number two in the states. Other hits include “I’m Not the Only One,” “Money on My Mind,” and “Like I Can.” 8:00 p.m. American Airlines Arena. 601 Biscayne Blvd. Miami. 33132.
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07/21
Taco Tuesday Fort Lauderdale’s Mexican restaurants celebrate tacos every week on Taco Tuesdays with a series of varying specials. Alibi/Monkey Bar offers its $13 Taco Buffet with 2-4-1 Happy Hour and $5
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THE WEEK Absoluts. Tacocraft on Las Olas has $2 tacos, $4 beers, and $6 sangrias along with live music. Rocco’s Tacos and Tequila Bar offers $15 allyou-can-eat tacos along with five dollar tequila shots and drinks. Tequila Sunrise also offers all-you-can-eat tacos and $6 margaritas. For anyone looking to enjoy delicious Mexican food at a discounted price over the summer, Tuesdays are the best day of the week. Various times and various locations.
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Smashing Pumpkins and Marilyn Manson Despite heavily publicized feuds throughout their careers, Billy Corgan’s Smashing Pumpkins and once-controversial goth rocker Marilyn Manson have teamed up for the End Times Tour. Smashing Pumpkins’ 1990s albums Siamese Dreams and Melon Collie and the Infinite Sadness were some of the most critically-acclaimed releases of the era. Marilyn Manson achieved fame as a shock rocker whose dark music was widely blamed for the Columbine Massacre. The End Times Tour brings together two of generation X’s biggest bands for an explosive show. 7:00 p.m. Bayfront Park Amphitheater. 301 N. Biscayne Blvd. Miami. 33132.
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The Not-So-Great Depression BY
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Infinitely Polar Bear Cast
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Art), Maggie applies to and gets into an MBA program in New York. And here is the setup. With Maggie away at school working on her degree, Cam moved into the apartment with his daughters and does as much as he is able to give them a somewhat normal life. Bouts of depression, excessive drinking and chain-smoking combined with reckless driving, slovenly housekeeping, irresponsible parenting, awkward social interaction and so on, become the daily routine of the girls’ childhood. The story has as many, if not more, highs and lows than Cam. Should a movie about a manic depressive be as manic and depressing as its subject? Forbes seems to think so. Infinitely Polar Bear, whose title comes from Faith’s mangling of her father’s condition is not Ruffalo’s best work (see The Normal Heart or The Kids Are All Right for that). The young actresses hold their own in their scenes, while Saldana is the one who comes out the best. Not the worst first film ever, but one that raises doubts about what might come next. theguymag
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the Internet. He doesn’t have a girlfriend (although he’d like to have one) and the two Davids’ exchange about “a five minute cup of tea” with Alanis Morissette is pretty priceless. Wallace is a man with a lot of opinions and once he becomes comfortable with Lipsky (they share a Pop-Tart), he opens up to him. There are numerous tense moments – Lipsky is, after all, a journalist, not Wallace’s buddy, and when he raises certain questions, about Wallace’s trademark bandanas, his hospitalization for depression and “suicide watch,” interviewing Wallace’s mother, and his rumored heroin addiction, for example, things get heated. But there are also mo-
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Stone editor and, before you know it, he’s on his way to Bloomington-Normal, Illinois where Wallace is teaching at Illinois State University. At first, the equally socially awkward, “nervous and terrified” duo is wary of the other. Thankfully, the presence of Wallace’s two active black labs are there to help break the ice (and snow). Wallace, a recovering alcoholic, whose “level of fatigue and fuckup quotient” can make him difficult to be around, is popular with and well-liked by his students. A smoker and tobacco-chewer with a penchant for junk food and diet soda, Wallace doesn’t have a TV and is wary of share with us on guymag.net
ments of joy, such as Wallace’s reading at The Hungry Mind in Minneapolis, a visit to the Mall of America, and Wallace’s reconnection with former University of Arizona classmate Betsy (Mickey Sumner) and writer Julie (Mamie Gummer). Joan Cusack, as Wallace’s Minneapolis escort, also brings some levity to the movie. As previously mentioned, Segel’s performance (on par with what Paul Dano does as Brian Wilson in Love and Mercy), is what gives The End of the Tour its heart and soul and is more than reason enough to see this film. theguymag
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1 Protection for one's head 6 Sweet dream spoiler 11 Prepare for phone sex 15 "I am ___ than grass..." (Sappho) 16 Hub-to-rim lines 17 Event for Geert Blanchart 18 Cara of Fame 19 Right on the button 20 What Dorian Gray never does 21 Porno film ____ 69 22 "I Do" singer 24 "Chapel of Love" singer 28 You betcha 29 Like sex for one 30 Threesome member for Dumas 34 Gaza Stripper, e.g. 38 Rick's old flame 40 Frame of mind 41 "Wedding Serenade" singer 44 Bound by routine 45 Mishima's continent 46 '50s talk-show pioneer 47 Homosexuality and more, in Leviticus
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Depression is a reality that many people deal with on a daily basis. A life threatening illness, the loss of a job, a relationship break-up are all setbacks that can make you down and blue. In time, most recover from the sadness and other negative emotions that accompany such unfortunate human crises. There are many other people who suffer constantly with feelings of desperation, worthlessness, and a sadness so profound that they cannot function. Psychotherapy, support groups, and medication can help tremendously with this form of generalized depression. If you struggle with recurrent depression or a depression which lasts over a week, consult your doctor. Don’t be ashamed to admit that you may have a problem and need help. It’s the first step toward recovery! If you feel depressed, or often get caught up in negativity because of work, relationships, or life in general, here are some practical cognitive strategies that will help you get out of that rut and keep your sunny side up! Maintain an active daily routine. When you’re depressed, it’s easy to withdraw, shut down and stay in bed all day. Instead, set a regular time to rise and shine. Have your clothes laid out, drink your coffee and eat a healthy breakfast. Delay checking and returning pesky e-mails and texts until you get to the office. Incorporate exercise into your daily routine. Many who exercise first thing in the morning before share with us on guymag.net
work report less anxiety, increased energy and a brighter mood all day-long. If you can’t work out in the AM, then try to get away at lunchtime, or hit the gym after work a few days a week. Whenever possible try not to take work home with you after hours. Once you’re home, walk the dog, prepare a healthy dinner, unwind with music, meditation or a favorite TV show. Schedule a regular time to retire and stick to a regimen that allows you to relax gradually so that you can enjoy at least eight hours of uninterrupted slumber. Don’t let negative thoughts control you. Let go of hurtful people and events from your past. Stop ruminating over things in the present that don’t concern you (i.e. a co-worker’s snarky remarks, a perceived snub by a next door neighbor, etc.). As far as the future goes, worrying and fretting can do nothing to make things turn out the way you desire. Stay grounded positively in the present. Make good choices, treat people well and try to find something good in everybody and everything. Treat yourself well. Work, relationships and the daily grind can take their toll on you. Instead of falling into a negative, depressed cycle, try always to have things to look forward to in life. A trip to Starbucks, taking lunch outdoors on a sunny day, reading a good book on your breaks, are all awesome ways to brighten your spirit and feed your soul. Reaching out to others is tough when you’re depressed, but it helps if you keep a steady stream of positive people in your life. Just remember to be one yourself when someone else needs a caring friend or a strong shoulder. Whether you are already receiving professional help for depression, considering it, or just trying to deal with an occasional case of the blues, these cognitive self-help tips can make a difference.
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