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Most couples and their families love to see some religious or cultural customs honored at a wedding. In fact, some of these traditional customs have been in place for so long, we’ve forgotten why they are a part of our traditions in the first place! We’ve gathered the most common traditions, revealed their meanings and superstitions and offered a new spin. Some of the following have us giggling and questioning is this worth keeping or is it time to buck the trends? matching bridesmaids dresses: toss it Past: This tradition was originally meant to confuse the bride’s former suitors and protect them from evil spirits! Present: With bridal parties uniting at a wedding destination from across many states, it's tough to find a "one style fits all" approach. Most modern approach - the bride may choose a color or designer and have her bridesmaids choose a dress that flatters them most. the best man: keep it Past: Back when arranged marriages were more common, the Best Man was in place to make sure the bride didn’t get cold feet and run away. Present: The groom's Best Man is now in place to keep him calm, cool, and collected. We suggest making sure both bridal parties feel like a unit, that way they can best support their friends. Invite the groomsmen to a pre-ceremony toast with your gals! something old, something new: keep it Past: Something old represents continuity; something new offers optimism for the future; something borrowed symbolizes borrowed happiness; something blue stands for purity, love, and fidelity; and a sixpence in your shoe is a wish for good fortune and prosperity (although this remains largely a British custom.) Present: We’ve seen beautiful brooches from Grandma on the ribbon of the bride’s bouquet, and lots of romantic, sentimental touches. For a really new spin, add some fabulous blue shoes, or let your bridesmaids write a message on the soles in blue marker.
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