Gateway Life | December 2014

DECEMBER 2014

CHRISTMAS ALL OVER THE METROPLEX

Gateway’s guide to Christmas events around DFW. p. 10

WORTH THE WAIT

What are you waiting for? p. 8

TRUTHICAL

A behind-the-scenes look at Gateway’s Christmas musical. p. 12

EYES ON JESUS

Maddie Mendenhall’s doctors expected to find cancer. They were baffled by the truth. p. 14

CONTENTS DECEMBER 2014

COMMENTS

2 WELCOME 3 FEEDBACK 4 GATEWAY PEOPLE 5 TELL ME SOMETHING GOOD OUTREACH

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THE POWER OF ONE

One gift can change a life.

One life can change the world.

F E AT U R E S

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WORTH THE WAIT What are you waiting for?

ALL OVER 1 THE 0 CHRISTMAS METROPLEX Gateway’s guide to Christmas events around DFW.

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TRUTHICAL

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EYES ON JESUS

A behind-the-scenes look at Gateway’s Christmas musical.

Maddie Mendenhall’s doctors expected to find cancer. They were baffled by the truth.

16 ANNOUNCEMENTS 22 ACTIVITIES 23 SONG STORY 24 PROFILE – THOMAS AND

MARY BETH MILLER

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WELCOME

WELCOME to GATEWAY LIFE MERRY CHRISTMAS! It is time to create

some family memories.

The charm of each Christmas is often shaped by the memories of Christmas past. Building sweet memories of family time is the cornerstone of holiday activity, yet we stress over the perfect gift, the best green bean recipe, the most adorable wrapping paper, and how many lights we can pile on one dead tree. May I dare say, it shouldn’t be so hard to build memories.

Several years ago, after weeks of preparing, cleaning, shopping, fretting, wrapping, and organizing—it hit me! Out of nowhere—it hit me! A snowball made of tinsel, tissue, and wrapping paper slapped me in the gateway life gatewaylifemag.com David Smith, Thomas Miller, Senior Pastoral Oversight Lawrence Swicegood, Editor-in-Chief project management Tracey Schwellinger

head. Not some metaphoric thought, but a real-life paper snowball. The atomic paper wasn’t intended for me, but I got hit in the crossfire. You see, when our kids, along with their cousins, realized they were too old to be grounded, they started something I am confident is unique to our family. Every neatly wrapped present is a potential weapon. As one gift is unwrapped, the paper is wadded up into the shape of a snowball. The kids would try to wait until everyone opened all the gifts, but self-restraint doesn’t run that deeply when the opportunity presents itself to smack an inattentive relative in the face.

We didn’t plan for that to be our thing. No one ever sits around the table remembering what we had for dinner or how the tree was decorated last year, but the kids still debate who drew “first blood” years ago and who got in the best shot in this year’s saga of our wrapping paper snowball fight. editorial Stacy Burnett, Managing Editor Daniel Hopkins, Senior Writer/Editor Shea Tellefsen, Staff Writer/Editor Katie Smith, Staff Writer Sydnie Shreffler, Staff Writer Georgette Shuler, Copy Editor

Still we wrap gifts, decorate the tree, and try to cook an edible meal because we love family. We look forward to the look in the eyes of the grandkids as they discover the wonders of the holiday. But I have learned to relax when it comes to creating memories because they are likely to hit me in the head.

At Gateway, we started a holiday tradition. Every year we celebrate Christmas with a musical. This year Truthical is back by popular demand!

It's one of the most popular musicals that Gateway has ever produced. I hope you will invite your friends and family to join us for this Broadwaystyle production. (Turn to page 12 for a behind-the-scenes peek.)

It is our hope that this issue of Gateway Life does more than just put you in the Christmas spirit.

Maddie Mendenhall’s story of healing from a brain tumor will inspire you (page 14). And, if you’re looking for local Christmas activities to get the family out of the house, we have some great ideas for you (page 10)!

Finally, a word of wisdom from a shallow thinker. Duck! Incoming!

Wrapping paper snowballs are headed your way (metaphorically, of course!). Remember, memories are being created even if they are not the ones you were trying to create.

Be blessed,

DEBBIE MORRIS Executive Pastor, Pink (Gateway Women)

art Shane Dennehey, Creative Director Tim Lautensack, Art Director/Designer Megan White, Designer Kiki Thompson, Contributing Illustrator Katrina Sirmon, Production Designer David Phillips, Print Coordinator

photography Cory Hale Jessica Sheppard, Contributing Photographer Natalie Arnold, Contributing Photographer OUR VISION is to see people saved, healed, set free, discipled, equipped, empowered, and serving.

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HIGH FIVE

FEEDBACK

ZACH FAUGHT’S STORY OF REDEMPTION IS INSPIRING. HERE’S YOUR RESPONSE:

“I really enjoyed reading this story! I just started going back to church about four months ago, and I already feel so much better. I want to know Jesus so desperately. I love reading testimonies like yours.”

-Jade Cude

“VERY ENCOURAGING! THANK YOU, ZACH, FOR SHARING YOUR STORY!” -Cody Norris

HERE’S WHAT YOU HAD TO SAY ABOUT THE COVER OF NOVEMBER’S GATEWAY LIFE:

“I LOVE SEEING THE CONCEPT GO FROM PAPER AND PENCIL TO LIFE!” -Teresa Newton Lickliter

“I absolutely adore the cover art on this month's Gateway Life. Thank you for all you do!”

-Valerie Wills

IN RESPONSE TO THE NOVEMBER ISSUE OF GATEWAY LIFE:

“I READ IT ALL IN ONE SITTING! LOVE THE RECIPES!”

“I READ IT TODAY. ‘ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE’ … I NEEDED THAT ONE!” -Bev Anderton

-Rosa Rodriguez

“This write-up about pastor Samantha Golden made me cry! I’m so thankful for her leadership. ‘It's just been a privilege to get to walk alongside people as they learn to dream again.’ So sweet—the whole thing.”

-Amy Ford

WE ASKED ON SOCIAL MEDIA HOW THE GATEWAY CONFERENCE IMPACTED YOUR LIFE. HERE’S WHAT YOU SAID:

“I’M STILL TRYING TO DIGEST IT ALL, BUT I HONESTLY FELT VALUED, LOVED, AND APPRECIATED FOR “It changed my perspective on my real BEING A LEADER calling and the idea

BY EVERYONE AT that our gifts are much GATEWAY. THANK more important than YOU SO MUCH.” we think.”

-Liz Neu Zabaneh

-Kelsey Marie Roche

“IT HAS HELPED ME “I got rid of a root of WANT TO ALWAYS BE bitterness and IN HIS PRESENCE, BE unforgiveness, and now I am free to serve God in MORE LIKE HIM, AND LISTEN TO HIS VOICE.” a new and special way.”

-Sonia Elizabeth Lee

TROY WIERMAN

PASTOR, BLESS! (GLOBAL MINISTRIES), LOCAL/NATIONAL OUTREACH

FAVORITE MUSIC? My favorite music is ’80s new wave. I’m an ’80s child and grew up listening to bands like New Order and Duran Duran.

MOST EMBARRASSING MOMENT? Thinking I looked good in parachute pants in 1983. Come on, I know there are more people out there who thought the same of themselves!

PROUDEST MOMENT? Aside from my wedding day and the birth of my sons, escorting my 90-year-old father during a World War II Honor Flight and watching him walk through a hero’s welcome at the airport when he returned home.

WHAT DID YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GREW UP? Marcia Brady’s boyfriend.

WHAT IS SOMETHING NOBODY KNOWS ABOUT YOU? When I am in my 70s, I want to be the greeter at Silver Dollar City in Branson, Missouri.

-Barbara Walk

For more about Gateway pastors and staff, visit bios.gatewaypeople.com.

All responses taken from Gateway Church social media. Send us feedback on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram, or email us at life@gatewaypeople.com.

Gateway is committed to seeing every person BELIEVING in Jesus, BELONGING to family, BECOMING a disciple, and BUILDING His kingdom.

For Gateway’s complete mission statement, visit mission.gatewaypeople.com.

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Gateway Students Fall Retreat

Gateway Students Fall Retreat

Men's Gearing Up

Embrace Grace

Gateway Students Fall Retreat

Men's Gearing Up

Men's Gearing Up

Embrace Grace

Fall Festival | Southlake Campus

Fall Festival | Southlake Campus

Embrace Grace

Embrace Grace

Fall Festival | Southlake Campus

Fall Festival | Southlake Campus

Fall Festival | Southlake Campus

Tell Me Something Good An update on “Open House” from Gateway Life’s September issue: “When you’re becoming a foster parent, you have to pass three pretty difficult home inspection visits. Our first visit—the fire inspection—was two days after Gateway Life came out. When the fireman walked in the backyard, he looked at the fort and stopped. He turned around and said, ‘Wait, are you the Beasleys?’ He and his wife attend the North Fort Worth Campus, and he had just read our article and recognized the fort from the photograph. After that, his demeanor became warmer and more relational, and he offered to help our family any time we needed it.

A week or so later, our foster care agency came out to inspect everything in the house. Sometimes it’s hard to have a personal connection with them because they deal with so many people. So I said, ‘Why don’t I show you our story?’ and handed her the magazine.

She started crying. She took the story back to her agency, and they are going to send it out in their national newsletter to encourage all of their caseworkers.

The third visit—our Child Protective Services home study— was the most difficult. This was the big kahuna! It’s meant to be an intense, five-hour interview

and inspection. When I told her we attend Gateway, she stopped and said, ‘Don’t tell me you’re the Beasleys from the magazine!’ She attends the Frisco Campus, and we got to share our desire to teach the kids how to hear the Lord.

The inspections were still intense, but they were all dramatically impacted by the story. We still had to have all of our ducks in a row, but each inspection turned from a staunch meeting to a relaxed talk with a friend. It was such a good experience.” >> Lindsey Beasley To read the Beasleys’ story, visit gatewaylifemag.com.

During one of the baptism services on September 28 at the NRH Campus, the Buckinghams—a family of 13— baptized their eight youngest children. Audrey Chirico, the oldest family member baptized that day, shares their story: “My seven younger siblings ( five sisters and two brothers) were planning to be baptized. (The youngest just turned 11 recently!) The weekend before the baptism services, Pastor Stokes Collins said, ‘If you haven’t been baptized since you’ve been saved, you should be baptized.’

I was baptized when I was six, and although I do remember it, I don't

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think I fully understood! I believe that the gospel really made sense to me when I was 12, and I committed my life to Christ then. I had thought about getting baptized all week and finally talked to my husband about it on Friday night.

Saturday, I talked to Pastor Larry Brown, and he encouraged me. So Sunday, I brought my shorts and joined my brothers and sisters! It was super special for all of us to be baptized together! People were tearing up just watching! Our older siblings came to watch too. Then, we all went to my parents’ house and celebrated!” >> Audrey Chirico

Fall Festival: “My family went to the Fall Festival and took an eight-year-old friend from a local elementary school. Fall Festival was a huge deal to this little girl. She kept saying, ‘This is the best day of my life!’ Gateway also made volunteering pleasant.

Everything was organized and clearly marked. It takes a lot of time and resources to pull off an event this big. I am truly grateful!” >> Noelle Preston

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OUTREACH

ONE GIFT CAN CHANGE A LIFE. ONE LIFE CAN CHANGE THE WORLD.

by KATIE SMITH

The Bible is filled with stories surrounding the power of one. One child gave his lunch so the masses could eat. One covenant birthed a nation. One man delivered his people from slavery. We are called to help, love, and care for people, and though we may have little to give, He can multiply it. Whether it’s one gift card, one car, or one day of your time, you have the opportunity to change lives this Christmas.

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GIFT CARDS FOR SINGLE PARENT FAMILIES Every year during the holidays, many single parents are unable to give their children Christmas gifts. Through your generosity, we are able to bless Gateway’s single parent families during the holidays. You can give a special offering designated to the Single Parent Families Ministry or donate Walmart, Target, or other major retail store gift cards. Please place check or cash donations and gift cards in a clearly marked envelope and place in an Offering Container located in the back of the Auditorium or give online at egiving.gatewaypeople.com.

CAR DONATIONS

VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES

END-OF-YEAR GIVING

To many people, a car symbolizes opportunity: the opportunity to make money, be independent, pursue recreational activities, or provide for their family’s needs. Over the past 11 years, the Generous Life Ministry at Gateway has provided families in need with a reliable car, truck, or van!

There are still many more families at Gateway who need a dependable vehicle but aren’t in a financial position to purchase one.

You can make a difference in a family this Christmas by donating your used car.

For more information or to donate, email vehicle@gatewaypeople.com.

As thousands of people, mostly first-time visitors, flood through Gateway’s doors this Christmas season, we need caring and cheerful volunteers at all campuses to be ushers, greeters, parking lot attendants, Guest Central hosts, Fresh Start volunteers, and Welcome Center workers. A smile and a helping hand can be a valuable gift to someone this Christmas. For more information, visit gxp.gatewaypeople.com.

If you would like to give to Gateway’s Heart for the Kingdom initiative or any other ministry at Gateway before December 31, place your offering in a clearly marked envelope in any Offering Container located in the back of the Auditorium, or give online at egiving.gatewaypeople.com.

ONE KIND WORD CAN SOFTEN A HEART. ONE SMILE CAN MAKE SOMEONE’S DAY. ONE GIFT CAN CHANGE A LIFE. ONE LIFE CAN CHANGE THE WORLD.

To receive tax credit with the IRS, all 2014 contributions must be received or postmarked by Wednesday, December 31.

You can also drop them at our Ministry Headquarters or any of our campuses by 5:00 pm on Tuesday, December 30. For more information, contact Debbie Lang at 817.552.7324 or email contributions@gatewaypeople.com.

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by CHAD SYKES

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CHRISTMAS ALWAYS REMINDS ME OF WAITING. And I’ll admit or may not happen. But can you imagine waiting for cenI’m no good at it. Patience is a virtue that often experituries? For millennia? ences a supply shortage in my life. If you would like some That’s what the world was doing over 2,000 years ago. evidence, just ask my mom. I was that beloved child who Creation was groaning for redemption. Groaning to be freed would wake up at four o’clock on Christmas morning from the bondage of corruption that had been brought ready to open presents. My relationship with waiting has upon it. Futility was the order of the day. The earth and always been … complicated. This is an area of my character all of the created order were but a mere shadow of what I’m working on, and I’m better than I used to be. Like the our Father had intended. Over the centuries, kingdoms development of other virtues, patience grows as we find rose and kingdoms fell. And all the while the beauty and ourselves in situations that require it. I found myself at love He showered on His creation was masked by the sin of that exact place several years ago. humanity. Yet a remnant of God’s people continued to wait.

On a cold, cloudy day in early January 2002, I married But wait for what? the girl of my dreams. Brandy and I met during my first Maybe for the same thing you’re longing for today: semester of college, and we knew early on that we wanted freedom from the bondage of corruption. Freedom from to spend the rest of our lives with one another. After five living a life void of purpose. Freedom from the pain of years of marriage, we sensed that we were arriving at a a broken body. Freedom from living under oppression. new phase in our life together. It was time to start a family.

Freedom from engaging in patterns harmful to ourselves I’m not quite sure how we thought the process of getting pregnant would go, but I can assure you, we didn’t expect it to be so difficult. We tried month after month and AFTER MANY MONTHS OF ANTICIPATION, had no luck. She tracked her temperature with meticulous detail and followed all the doctor’s advice, but still no plus sign on the test. We got our hopes up once, but … nope.

Nothing. These many months were really challenging as we waited and trusted.

When the phone rang just two days before Christmas, my heart began to race. An especially faint positive pregnancy test suggested we might finally be pregnant, and Brandy had gone to see her doctor for confirmation. As she spoke with him on the phone, he shared some amazing and those we love. Freedom to live as a true son or daughnews: a baby would be arriving in August! The joy we felt ter of the Father. Freedom to receive healing and bring that day is beyond description. Finally! A baby is coming! it into the lives of others. Freedom to find deep meaning On Christmas Eve, we stood together in a worship in a life dedicated to loving God and loving our neighbor. service with tear-filled eyes and hearts bursting with Freedom to stand before the Father without shame or gratitude as we thanked God for this new life. After many fear of rejection. Freedom to trust and rest in the Messiah months of anticipation, our hopes and dreams were being sent to rescue us. fulfilled. Fast forward to today. That baby, our seven-yearFrom the ancient days of the church, Christians have old daughter, Ella Kate, blesses our family with her infecoften celebrated the season of Advent—the time of rejoictious personality and reminds us that God was with us in ing in the One who came and is coming. During this seaour time of waiting. And of course, as my only daughter, son leading up to Christmas, the church goes on a journey she has a very special place in her daddy’s heart! She was that starts with a promise and ends with joy. Waiting is worth the wait. the process between the promise and the joy. The mesAll of us have a story of waiting. Actually, much of our sage of Christmas is that the promise is here. He is here. time spent waiting is full of anticipation about what’s So, rejoice! Your Messiah has come! GL coming. Sometimes we even sacrifice our full awareness or enjoyment of the present moment. Most of the time, we wait for short periods—a few hours here, a few days there. Occasionally we wait for years for things that may

OUR HOPES

& DREAMS WERE BEING FULFILLED.

Chad Sykes is pastor of Spiritual Life Technology and has been on staff at Gateway since 2008.

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CHRISTMAS ALL OVER THE METROPLEX THERE’S MORE TO FAMILY CHRISTMAS ACTIVITIES THAN TAKING SANTA PICTURES AT THE MALL. THE DALLAS/FORT WORTH METROPLEX IS FULL OF EVENTS SPRINKLED WITH LIGHTS AND COVERED WITH SNOW. HERE ARE JUST A FEW OF THE FUN, FAMILY FRIENDLY EVENTS TAKING PLACE IN DFW THIS CHRISTMAS.

FESTIVALS & EVENTS 12 DAYS OF CHRISTMAS AT THE DALLAS ARBORETUM | NOVEMBER 16–JANUARY 4 DALLAS | FREE–$57

The Dallas Arboretum is hosting a brand new exhibit inspired by A Christmas Carol. dallasarboretum.org GRAPEVINE—THE CHRISTMAS CAPITAL OF TEXAS | NOVEMBER 22–JANUARY 4 GRAPEVINE | FREE AND UP

Choose from more than 1,400 Christmas events including shows at the Palace Theatre, the North Pole Express Steam Train, and the

annual Ice! exhibit at the Gaylord Texan! Prices vary by event. grapevinetexasusa.com THE TRAINS AT NORTHPARK | NOVEMBER 22–JANUARY 4 | DALLAS | $3–$7

Every year, the NorthPark Center has the most elaborate toy train exhibit in Texas. This exhibit helps support the families served by the Ronald McDonald House of Dallas. rmhdallas.org/trains

choreographed music and lights show in North Texas. Holiday activities feature snowman building, trackless train rides, and a threelane snow slide. friscosquare.com

2014 TEXAS CHRISTKINDL MARKET NOVEMBER 28–DECEMBER 21 ARLINGTON | FREE

Enjoy authentic German food, local entertainment, and handmade gifts at the holiday market near Globe Life Park in Arlington. texaschristkindl.com HOLIDAY IN THE PARK AT SIX FLAGS OVER TEXAS | NOVEMBER 28–DECEMBER 30 ARLINGTON | FREE–$64.99

Along with the permanent rides and attractions, during the Christmas season, Six Flags turns into a winter wonderland. sixflags.com/overtexas CHRISTMAS IN THE SQUARE | NOVEMBER 28– JANUARY 3 | FRISCO | FREE AND UP

Frisco Square boasts the largest

SPARKLE! CHRISTMAS AT THE ANATOLE NOVEMBER 28–JANUARY 4 DALLAS | FREE–$19.95

Go ice skating, see light shows, and do so much more at the Anatole Hotel. hiltonanatolehotel.com BETHLEHEM REVISITED | DECEMBER 5–14 WAXAHACHIE | FREE

Walk the streets of ancient Bethlehem in Waxahachie’s historic and live interpretation of the nativity scene. waxahachiecvb.com CHRISTMAS IN THE STOCKYARDS DECEMBER 6 | FORT WORTH | FREE

This year’s event includes a holiday parade, chicken roping, a cowboy Santa, and caroling. fortworthstockyards.org BREAKFAST WITH SANTA DECEMBER 6 & 13 | SOUTHLAKE

Santa’s making a special trip to Southlake Town Square. southlakehomefortheholidays.com FAMILY CANDLELIGHT SERVICES DECEMBER 20–21 | ALL GATEWAY CAMPUSES

HOLIDAY CARRIAGE RIDES | NOVEMBER 22–DECEMBER 23 | SOUTHLAKE | $25–$150

Enjoy evening carriage rides through Southlake Town Square. southlakehomefortheholidays.com

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Join us for a memorable holiday service that will surely bring the wonder of Christmas to all ages. gatewaychristmas.com

HOLIDAY BREAK C.A.M.P. MANIA DECEMBER 22–26 & DECEMBER 29– JANUARY 2 | SOUTHLAKE | $80–$105

Holiday Break C.A.M.P. Mania provides daytime holiday activities for your little ones while they’re on winter break. southlakehomefortheholidays.com

PARADES GRAPEVINE PARADE OF LIGHTS DECEMBER 4 | GRAPEVINE | FREE

Bring the family to the largest lighted parade in North Texas. grapevinetexasusa.com HOLIDAY WISHES CHRISTMAS PARADE

Prairie Lights’ elaborate display. prairielights.org CHRISTMAS LIGHTS, CHOCOLATE AND SIPS TOUR | NOVEMBER 28–DECEMBER 30

CHILDREN’S HEALTH HOLIDAY PARADE DECEMBER 6 | DALLAS | FREE–$38.25

All proceeds from this holiday parade benefit Children’s Health. dallaschildrensparade.com

DALLAS | $22–$28

Featuring: Miracle on 34th Street and Frosty & Friends. dct.org/plays

DALLAS | $39

Take a bus tour of the Park Cities’ most beautifully lit homes while enjoying treats from local craft chocolatiers. dallasbychocolate.com HIGHLAND PARK CHRISTMAS LIGHTS CARRIAGE RIDES | DALLAS | $80

Take a horse-drawn carriage ride or walking tour to see the decorated homes of Highland Park. brazoscarriage.com

DALLAS THEATER CENTER DALLAS | $45 AND UP

Featuring: The Nutcracker, A Christmas Story, Manheim Steamroller, Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, Brian Setzer Orchestra: Christmas Rocks, Michael W. Smith and Amy Grant in concert, and Trans-Siberian Orchestra’s The Christmas Attic. dallas-theater.com THE GIFT OF CHRISTMAS | DECEMBER 8­–14

DECEMBER 4 | CARROLLTON | FREE

Carrollton’s annual Christmas parade features marching bands, lights, and more. carrolltonmainstreet.com

DALLAS CHILDREN’S THEATER

PERFORMANCES CASA MAÑANA THEATRE FORT WORTH | $25.75–$85

Featuring: Here Comes Santa Claus, A Musical, and A Tuna Christmas. casamanana.org

PLANO | $20–$80

Prestonwood Baptist Church’s visually stunning Christmas performance features a 500-member choir, live animals, flying angels, and popular Christmas songs. prestonwoodgoc.org

THE LEGENDS OF CHRISTMAS PARADE DECEMBER 13 | MCKINNEY | FREE

Come see the 15th Annual Parade of Lights in Historic Downtown McKinney. mckinneyparadeoflights.com

LIGHTS THE DALLAS SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA (DSO) | DALLAS | $20–$145 GIFT OF LIGHTS | NOVEMBER 26–JANUARY 1 FORT WORTH | $20

Two million LED lights brighten this jaw-dropping drive-through display at Texas Motor Speedway.

Proceeds benefit local charities. tmsgiftoflights.com PRAIRIE LIGHTS | NOVEMBER 27–JANUARY 4 GRAND PRAIRIE | $20–$80

Boasting 4 million lights, an animated light tunnel, and a laser light show, you’ll want to ride through

Featuring: DSO Christmas Pops and Organ and Brass Christmas Spectacular. mydso.com BASS PERFORMANCE HALL FORT WORTH | $20–$165

Featuring: Elf the Musical, The Nutcracker, Michael Martin Murphey’s Cowboy Christmas, Home for the Holidays, Messiah, and Christmas with the von Trapps. basshall.com

TRUTHICAL | DECEMBER 12–14 SOUTHLAKE CAMPUS | FREE

Gateway’s original musical Truthical is filled with wondrous, festive, and creative elements sure to be enjoyed by all ages. For more information, see our feature on page 12. gatewaychristmas.com

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by S. GEORGE THOMAS

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I LOVE STORIES. I devour them every chance I get. The people who know me best might even say I’m addicted to stories.

They ignite my imagination, transport me to places I want to visit, and introduce me to characters—both real and fictional—whom I would never meet outside the pages of a book, the frame of a movie, or the screen of a TV. Jesus primarily used parables—or stories—to teach people truths about our heavenly Father and His kingdom. Why? Because stories transform cold, hard facts into meaningful principles and lessons. They connect our thoughts to our emotions in inexplicable ways.

That’s probably why I love musicals so much. Now, I get that musicals aren’t everyone’s cup of tea. But to me, a good musical combines the emotion of music with the liveliness of a story. As a writer, I’m passionate about communicating in a way that speaks to people at a heart level, and I feel like musicals are an effective way to do that.

When Pastor Walker Beach first told me we were going to perform Truthical once again for Christmas this year, I was excited. First of all, it’s such a blessing to be part of a church that embraces the arts and understands its value

in reaching those who don’t normally step inside the four walls of a church building. Secondly, Truthical is my alltime favorite Gateway musical thus far. Seriously, what’s not to love about a show with all of the most beloved songs in film and theatre history?

Now, for those of you who didn’t see Truthical the first time, you’re in for a treat. For those of you who did see it, I promise you’ll love it too! While it still carries the same name, this is a whole new show.

I want to pull back the curtain and give you a sneak peek at what went on behind the scenes in retooling this show. But don’t worry—no spoilers here!

This year, I had the privilege of working with a gifted team. I’ll be honest, Pastor Walker Beach, Pastor David Schubert, and Erik Snodgrass are insanely creative, and I’ve had a blast working with them. For the last six months— week in and week out—our days have been devoted to writing and rewriting the songs and script … and then rewriting some more.

We spent so much time on it, because we were committed to making Truthical a show you can invite your friends, neighbors, coworkers, and family members to and not worry that they’ll feel preached at or excluded. We knew we had to make this show accessible for everyone, which is why we decided to look at the show (as best as we could) from the perspective of someone who doesn’t attend church regularly. After all, those are the very people we want to reach. However, it’s more than just about entertainment. At this year’s Gateway Conference, Pastor Robert said, “We’re not doing a Christmas production just so we can all come and be entertained ... the main reason is so people can come and be saved.”

To that end, we came up with the idea of having Kate— one of our new lead characters—be the voice of the audience. Through her eyes and perspective, we’re introduced to the world of Truthical. Using melodies from some of the most iconic songs in musical and film history, our goal was to have Kate go on a 55-minute journey to truth that felt authentic. And while it contains a lot of truth (it is called Truthical), I promise it’s also funny and entertaining.

The first night our cast of 68 talented dancers and singers met to read through the new script, Pastor Walker Beach told them: “Whatever you remember from three years ago. This isn’t it ... It’s better!” GL

TRUTHICAL IS A SHOW YOU CAN INVITE YOUR FRIENDS, NEIGHBORS, COWORKERS, AND FAMILY MEMBERS TO.

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by DANIEL HOPKINS

three healthy children had ever suffered a seizure, but in their front entryway one night in early August, all that changed. Their 12-year-old daughter Maddie—their youngest—stood up, only to buckle into her mother’s arms. Maddie’s 17-year-old brother Josh frantically called 911 as Vanessa laid Maddie NONE OF DAVID AND VANESSA MENDENHALL’S

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down, hovering over her wide-open, yet blank, eyes. “Just blink and let me know you’re okay,” Vanessa shouted as Maddie stared up at nothing. There was no response.

Earlier that night, Maddie had been complaining about her right leg being numb. David and Vanessa didn’t think much of it. After all, Maddie is an active kid and could

have injured herself that day. At one point, her leg was so numb she had to sit down. When she stood up again, that’s when the seizure began.

Even though Maddie wasn’t responding, she remembers the whole thing. She tried to blink for several minutes and was finally able to. It’s hard to know what was louder, the Mendenhalls’ celebration when Maddie was able to move her eyelids or the ambulance driving through the neighborhood. By the time they reached the hospital, Maddie had fully regained consciousness.

David and Vanessa thought it was a knee problem, but a CT scan revealed something much more troubling. “They took us to a monitor in the emergency room and showed us a white spot on her brain,” says David. “At that point, as parents, we probably should have just lost it right there.”

Instead, a different feeling overtook them. They began to feel a peace that would sustain them over the next few days—even as the news got worse and worse. “I’ve heard of peace that passes understanding,” says Vanessa. “It’s real, and it’s unbelievable!”

During their weeklong stay at the hospital, Maddie’s room was filled with people from Gateway—all of whom were singing and praying.

The amount of support and prayer they received from the church was overwhelming. An MRI scan was scheduled to give a better look at the white spot. Doctors were convinced it was a brain tumor. They believed a full recovery was unlikely and told the Mendenhalls the outlook was grim.

Upon hearing the news, Maddie’s only words were, “Brain tumor? Really?!” “She didn’t accept it,” says Vanessa.

“She turned into somebody we didn’t recognize. She had so much peace over her.”

The key for Maddie was to focus on the Bible story of Peter walking on water. In Matthew 14:28–30, Jesus’ disciples were in a boat when a terrible storm hit. Suddenly, they saw Jesus walking on the water. Peter jumped out of the boat and walked toward Him, but when he saw the waves and became scared he began to sink. “Eyes on Jesus,” says Maddie. “When the doctor was giving us bad news, we kept our eyes on Jesus.”

There was a lot of bad news to wade through, and the doctors were pessimistic. In fact, one of them earned the nickname “Dr. Doom.” However, when Maddie met her neurosurgeon, something was different. “This was a godly man,” says David. “He led us in prayer right before

the surgery. He said, ‘God, let my hands be Your hands.’”

Several hours into the surgery, the neurosurgeon reached the tumor in Maddie’s head. A cancer specialist came to David and Vanessa to prepare them for the worst. He said, “She may not ever be able to walk again, and she’ll need to immediately begin radiation to prevent the tumor from returning.”

Vanessa looked at him and said, “We don’t accept that.

God has a bigger plan.” A short time after, a nurse burst in the room. She took the Mendenhalls to the pathology lab to meet with the neurosurgeon. He sat down with them and calmly said, “It’s not a tumor. In fact, I’ve never seen anything like it before.”

Just as quickly as the bad news came, the good news started pouring in. Within two hours of surgery, Maddie was sitting up and eating soup, and the next day she was able to return to her hospital room. If it weren’t for the bandages, you wouldn’t know a surgery had just happened.

The incision on the top of her head was hardly noticeable.

In follow-up meetings pediatricians have said, “Your recovery is nothing short of a miracle.” And the doctors who have run tests on the unknown, liquefied object removed from Maddie’s head are dumbfounded. After 30 to 40 tests, results are inconclusive. One thing is for certain— it’s not cancer. There will be no radiation or chemotherapy. Maddie gets to return to her normal life, and she was even back at Gateway Students within 10 days of surgery.

A few weeks later, David received an unexpected phone call. It was a doctor friend who ran into Maddie’s neurosurgeon at a medical conference. David’s friend asked him what he thought happened with the tumor. The neurosurgeon said, “It’s either one or two things. Either God liquefied the tumor from the time of diagnosis, or her brain created a type of liquid no physician in the world has ever seen. I’m leaning toward the first one.”

The Mendenhalls know it was a miracle, and they know God was in control the entire time. In the darkest moments of their lives, they experienced overwhelming peace. “We think we’re in control of our lives, but we have no control. God has your days, and when you are low, it’s God who catches you,” says Vanessa. “When we were in that hospital looking at the worst case scenario of our lives, He was there. No matter what you go through, He’s going to be there.” GL

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GATEWAY FRISCO

BAPTISM BAPTISM SERVICE

Saturday, Dec 6 | 4:00 pm | Courtyard We want to celebrate with you as you declare your decision to surrender your life to the Lord! Check-in is in Classroom B. Register at baptism.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Stefanie Urquidez, 817.328.2074, baptismfrs@gatewaypeople.com

MARRIAGE & FAMILY

WOMEN

MARRIAGE & FAMILY LEADERS

Do you have a heart for marriage and family?

We’re looking for leaders to serve during our upcoming ministry opportunities.

Contact: Mark O’Bryan, 817.552.7642, pastoralcarefrs@gatewaypeople.com

MEMBERSHIP

FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP

CATCH THE VISION (MEMBERSHIP CLASS)

KINGDOM ADVISORS LUNCHEON

This class connects you to Gateway Church and explains our purpose, values, and history and gives you an opportunity to become a member! Register at ctv.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Stefanie Urquidez, 817.328.2074, ctvfrs@gatewaypeople.com

Thursday, Jan 15 | 11:45 am | Lobby

If you’re a financial advisor, CPA, attorney, banker, or real estate or mortgage professional, join us for our monthly luncheon. Contact: Mashelle James, 817.552.7616, kingdomadvisors@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY GROUPS

We’re looking for volunteers to help us serve, disciple, and mentor the next generation at Gateway Students.

Contact: Michelle Mueller, 817.552.7334, studentsfrs@gatewaypeople.com

Beginning Jan 10–11

In January, we’re launching a churchwide emphasis on The Blessed Life, and we’ll have seven-week Gateway Groups to discuss it. If you’re interested in leading a group, email us to sign up. Contact: Kelly Hamilton, 817.552.7301, groupsfrs@gatewaypeople.com

Do you want to discover more about yourself, your potential, and your capabilities? Consider becoming part of Pink Mentoring as a mentor or mentee.

Contact: Kelly Hamilton, 817.552.7301, pinkmentoringfrs@gatewaypeople.com

VOLUNTEERS GATEWAY STUDENTS VOLUNTEERS

THE BLESSED LIFE GATEWAY GROUPS

What do laughter, camping, glamour, and comedy have in common? Laugh!, of course!

Come to this free night of comedy, featuring The Skit Guys, to escape the postholiday blues! Register at pink.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Hannah Nelson, 817.552.7346, pinkfrs@gatewaypeople.com

PINK MENTORING

Saturday, Dec 6 | 9:00 am | Lobby

GATEWAY GROUPS If you’re looking for a way to get connected and make new friends at Frisco, join a Gateway Group! Find a group at groups.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Kelly Hamilton, 817.552.7301, groupsfrs@gatewaypeople.com

LAUGH! | A PINK NIGHT OF GLAMPING

Thursday, Jan 15 | 7:00 pm | Auditorium

Wednesdays | 7:00 pm

GUEST EXPERIENCE VOLUNTEERS

As our campus grows, we’re looking for volunteers to welcome our guests each week! You can serve with Guest Central, the Welcome Center, or the Gateway Safety Unit or as an usher, greeter, or parking lot attendant.

Contact: Stefanie Urquidez, 817.328.2074, volunteerfrs@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS MONDAYS »» Gateway Equip | 7:00 pm | Auditorium WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium SATURDAYS »» Foundations of Freedom | 5:45 pm

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WHAT’S HAPPENING

GATEWAY GRAND PRAIRIE

GATEWAY GROUPS THE BLESSED LIFE GATEWAY GROUPS

SERVICE TIMES NEW SATURDAY SERVICE

WOMEN LAUGH! | A PINK NIGHT OF GLAMPING

Beginning January 10–11

Saturdays, Beginning Jan 10 | 5:00 pm

Thursday, Jan 15 | 7:00 pm | Auditorium

In January, we’re launching a churchwide emphasis on The Blessed Life, and we’ll have seven-week Gateway Groups meeting to discuss it. If you’re interested in leading a group, register at groups.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Rachel Sandefur, 972.314.9088, groupsgrp@gatewaypeople.com

This January, we’re adding a Saturday service at Grand Prairie! As our campus grows, join us at this new service.

What do laughter, camping, and glamour have in common? Laugh!, of course!

Come to this free night of comedy featuring Chonda Pierce (simulcast from Southlake) to escape the postholiday blues! Register at pink.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Rachel Sandefur, 972.314.9088, pinkgrp@gatewaypeople.com

MEMBERSHIP CATCH THE VISION (MEMBERSHIP CLASS)

Saturday, Jan 17 | 9:00 am

This class connects you to Gateway Church and explains our purpose, values, and history and gives you an opportunity to become a member! Register at ctv.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Amanda Cheatham, 972.314.9084, ctvgrp@gatewaypeople.com

MYGATEWAY MYGATEWAY APP

If you haven’t already, download the myGateway App for exclusive teaching videos and other content that can only be found on the app!

Contact: Niles Holsinger, 972.314.9087, mygatewaygrp@gatewaypeople.com

VOLUNTEERS GUEST EXPERIENCE VOLUNTEER ORIENTATION

Sunday, Jan 18 | 9:00 am | V! Lounge

Come find out more information about volunteering as an usher, greeter, parking lot attendant, and more!

Contact: Rachel Sandefur, 972.314.9088, gxpgrp@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY STUDENTS VOLUNTEERS

Wednesdays | 7:00 pm

As Gateway Students grows, we need volunteers to help us serve, disciple, and mentor this next generation.

Contact: James Gadberry, 972.314.9078, studentsgrp@gatewaypeople.com

WORSHIP LOVE EXPRESSED NIGHT OF WORSHIP

Saturday, Dec 6 | 6:00 pm

Come together with your Grand Prairie family for this special night as we encounter and worship God! Stay after for a dessert reception. Contact: Amanda Cheatham, 972.314.9084, nightofworshipgrp@gatewaypeople.com

AMAZING KIDS VOLUNTEERS

If you have a passion for kids, enjoy having fun, and want to be part of an incredible family, Amazing Kids is the perfect place for you to volunteer! Contact: Kari Lowrie, 972.314.9082, kidsgrp@gatewaypeople.com

OUTREACH BLESS! LOCAL OUTREACH OPPORTUNITY

Tuesdays & Thursdays | 9:00 am–2:00 pm First Saturday of the Month | 9:00 am–2:00 pm People That Care Center Come use your gift to serve others and minister God’s grace to families in need at our local food pantry. People That Care (PTC) Center is located at 2129 Galveston Street in Grand Prairie. Contact: Leigh Anne Uribe, 972.262.8318, leighanne@ptccenter.org

WEEKLY EVENTS TUESDAYS »» Seven (Young Adults, 18–30) 7:00 pm | Auditorium WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium »» Prayer for the Nation 7:00 pm | Prayer Center »» Men’s Bible Study 7:00 pm | Prayer Center Lounge SUNDAYS »» Prayer for Israel | 6:00 pm | Prayer Center

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EQUIP GATEWAY EQUIP

Thursdays, Beginning Jan 22 | 7:00 pm Get equipped to fulfill your calling with classes in the areas of spiritual life, marriage and family, financial stewardship, freedom, worship, and more!

Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Mondoe Davis, 817.552.3681, equipnfw@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY GROUPS THE BLESSED LIFE GATEWAY GROUPS Beginning January 10–11

In January, we’re launching a churchwide emphasis on The Blessed Life, and we’ll have seven-week Gateway Groups meeting to discuss it. If you’re interested in leading a group, register at groups.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Shannon Tolliver, 817.552.7469, groupsnfw@gatewaypeople.com

GUEST CENTRAL GUEST CENTRAL LOCATION

Guest Central has moved! We’re now greeting our first-time guests in the soft seating area across from Passages. This move will provide a welcoming environment for our guests and create extra space for classes, overflow, and ministry.

MARRIAGETODAY XO MARRIAGE CONFERENCE SIMULCAST

MYGATEWAY

VOLUNTEERS

MYGATEWAY CHAMPIONS

COMMUNION VOLUNTEERS

Dec 20–21 | Weekend Services

Looking for a way to minister and connect to your North Fort Worth family? Learn how myGateway will build community and give a new platform for leaders. Contact: Amy Alise, 817.328.2083, mygateway@gatewaypeople.com

If you’d like to help serve communion, visit the Welcome Center for instructions 30 minutes before the service you attend. Attire is business casual.

Contact: Meredith Tilton 817.328.2075, communionnfw@gatewaypeople.com

MYGATEWAY MINISTRY GROUPS

Did you know Equip, Freedom Ministries, Pink, and other NFW Campus ministries have myGateway groups? You can connect with others, hear from our leaders, post prayers and topics for discussion, and more!

Contact: Chelsea Seaton, 817.328.2094, mygatewaynfw@gatewaypeople.com

NEW BELIEVERS

GUEST EXPERIENCE VOLUNTEERS

We’re looking for volunteers to welcome our guests each week. There are opportunities to serve on the following teams: usher, greeter, Guest Central, Welcome Central, parking lot, and Gateway Safety Unit.

Contact: Meredith Tilton, 817.328.2075, gxpnfw@gatewaypeople.com

WOMEN

FRESH START BOOTH

LAUGH! | A PINK NIGHT OF GLAMPING

Have you recently prayed to accept Jesus?

Stop by our booth in Guest Central to meet with our friendly volunteers who will help you determine your next step!

Contact: Meredith Tilton, 817.328.2075, freshstartnfw@gatewaypeople.com

Tuesday, Jan 13 | 7:00 pm | Auditorium

What do laughter, camping, and glamour have in common? Laugh!, of course! Come to this free night of comedy featuring John Gray to escape the postholiday blues!

Register at pink.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Shannon Tolliver, 817.552.7469, pinknfw@gatewaypeople.com

PRAYER HABITATION PRAYER TEAM

Habitation Sundays | 5:00 pm | Auditorium Join our team to intercede and pray before all of our Habitation services in 2015! Register at Guest Central. Contact: Tagi Takape, 817.328.2061, prayernfw@gatewaypeople.com

Feb 13–14

Join Jimmy and Karen Evans this Valentine’s weekend! XO features new content from Jimmy Evans, a celebrity Q&A, breakout sessions, a “starry night” reception, and more. Register at marriagetoday.com.

Contact: Mondoe Davis, 817.552.3681, marriagenfw@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium SATURDAYS »» Morning Prayer | 8:00 am | Parking Lot SUNDAYS »» Preservice Prayer | 8:00 am | Compass A

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WHAT’S HAPPENING

GATEWAY NRH

EQUIP THE BAPTISM IN THE HOLY SPIRIT

Sunday, Dec 7 | 10:45 am | Classroom A

KIDS AMAZING KIDS JEWEL STORE

Dec 6–7 | Before and After All Weekend Services Court Room

If you’d like to learn more about the Holy Spirit and discover how to hear His voice, join us for this Equip class!

Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Ana Rodriquez, 817.552.7619, equipnrh@gatewaypeople.com

Kids, grab the jewels you’ve been saving all year and do some early Christmas shopping in the Amazing Kids Jewel Store. This will be our last Jewel Store of the year, so don’t miss it!

FREEDOM

MARRIAGE & FAMILY

BARABBAS FREEDOM MINISTRY

FAMILY NIGHT AT THE RODEO

Sundays | 7:00 pm | Chat Room

This ministry is for men and women (18+) who have been incarcerated or struggle with addictions. Discover how to find new life through faith in Jesus. Contact: Dusty Petree, 817.552.7298, nrh@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY GROUPS JOIN A GROUP!

If you’re looking for a way to get connected at NRH, join a group!

Register at groups.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Stan Dennis, 817.328.2022, groupsnrh@gatewaypeople.com

LEAD A GROUP

Are you interested in leading a Gateway Group? As we launch an emphasis on The Blessed Life in January, we’re hosting seven-week groups that we need leaders for! We’re also looking for leaders for our regular Gateway Groups semester.

Contact: Stan Dennis, 817.328.2022, groupsnrh@gatewaypeople.com

Sunday, Jan 25 | 11:30 am–5:30 pm Fort Worth Stockyards Join us for barbeque, a tour, the rodeo, and more! We’ll ride a bus together from the NRH Campus to the stockyards. The cost is $39. Register at family.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Stan Dennis, 817.328.2022, nrh@gatewaypeople.com

NEW BELIEVERS FRESH START CLASS

Saturday, Dec 6 | 4:00 pm | Classroom A If you’ve recently made a commitment to Christ, Fresh Start is designed to help you know what to do next! Register at freshstart.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Phillip Hunter, 817.552.3720, freshstartnrh@gatewaypeople.com

RELATIONAL CARE RELATIONAL CARE ADVOCATES

Our Relational Care Ministry offers encouragement to people who are experiencing hospitalization, critical illness, birth, adoption, or loss of a loved one. If you know someone at NRH experiencing one of these life events, let us know!

Contact: Ana Rodriquez, 817.552.7619, carenrh@gatewaypeople.com

VOLUNTEERS GREETER TEAM VOLUNTEERS

Looking to get involved and meet new people? Join our greeter team!

Contact: Ana Rodriquez, 817.552.7619, gxpnrh@gatewaypeople.com

WOMEN LAUGH! | A PINK NIGHT OF GLAMPING

Tuesday, Jan 13 | 7:00 pm | Auditorium

What do laughter, camping, glamour, and comedy have in common? Laugh!, of course!

Come to this free night of comedy, featuring The Skit Guys, to escape the postholiday blues! Register at pink.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Dana Stone, 817.552.3758, pinknrh@gatewaypeople.com

OUTREACH MINISTRY TRIP TO NICARAGUA

March 7–14

Do you have a heart for ministering to orphans and impoverished children or providing medical care? Join the NRH Campus on a ministry trip to Nicaragua!

Contact: Phillip Hunter, 817.552.3720, nrh@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS MONDAYS »» Healing Ministry | 7:00 pm | Lobby WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium THURSDAYS »» DayTime Bible Study (Senior Adults) 10:00 am | Chat Room

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GATEWAY SOUTHLAKE

FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP KINGDOM ADVISORS LUNCHEON

MEMBERSHIP CATCH THE VISION (MEMBERSHIP CLASS)

Tuesday, Jan 27 | 11:45 am | V! Lounge

Saturday, Jan 10 | 4:00–7:00 pm | Classroom 2D

If you’re a financial advisor, CPA, attorney, banker, or real estate or mortgage professional, join us for our monthly luncheon. Register at generouslife.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Mashelle James, 817.552.7616, kingdomadvisors@gatewaypeople.com

This class connects you to Gateway Church and explains our purpose, values, and history and gives you an opportunity to become a member! Register at ctv.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Kristine Lopez, 817.328.2030, ctv@gatewaypeople.com

ESTATE PLANNING WORKSHOP

Sunday, Feb 22 | 12:30 pm | Classroom 2D Learn how to create a will and build an estate plan through a biblical perspective.

Register at generouslife.gatewaypeople. com. Children’s ministry not provided.

Contact: Yoana Sampayo, 817.552.7428, generouslife@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY GROUPS THE BLESSED LIFE GATEWAY GROUPS Beginning Jan 10–11

In January, we’re launching a churchwide emphasis on The Blessed Life, and we’ll have seven-week Gateway Groups meeting to discuss it. If you’re interested in leading a group, register at groups.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Jana Mason, 817.552.3705, groups@gatewaypeople.com

VOLUNTEERS GUEST EXPERIENCE VOLUNTEERS

We’re looking for volunteers to welcome our guests each week. There are opportunities to serve on the following teams: usher, greeter, communion, Guest Central, Welcome Central, parking lot, and Gateway Safety Unit. Contact: Jim Mayher, 817.552.7566, gxp@gatewaypeople.com

WOMEN LAUGH! | A PINK NIGHT OF GLAMPING

Thursday, Jan 15 | 7:00 pm | Auditorium

What do laughter, camping, and glamour have in common? Laugh!, of course! Come to this free night of comedy featuring Chonda Pierce to escape the postholiday blues! Register at pink.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Dana Stone, 817.552.3758, pink@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS TUESDAYS »» DayTime Bible Study (Senior Adults) 10:00 am | Classroom 2C »» Seven (Young Adults, 18–30) 7:00 pm | Auditorium WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students 7:00 pm | University Campus Auditorium THURSDAYS »» Men’s Prayer Meeting | 5:30 am | Lobby SUNDAYS »» Foundations of Freedom | 9:00 am »» Corporate Prayer for the Nation | 10:40 am

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CHURCHWIDE FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP FINANCIAL HOPE WORKSHOP

SPECIAL EVENTS ID SEMINAR

Jan 16–17 | Classroom 2D

SLK

Come discover the unique life mission God has for you! The cost is $25. Register at id.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Sarah Thomas, 817.552.3774, id@gatewaypeople.com

Tuesdays, Feb 10–Mar 31 | 6:45 pm Classroom 2C SLK

TECH ARTS

Learn how to create a financial plan that includes a budget, debt repayment strategy, and solid savings plan. Register at generouslife.gatewaypeople.com.

Children’s ministry is provided.

Contact: Yoana Sampayo, 817.552.7428, generouslife@gatewaypeople.com

We offer a college-level education in live audio, video, and lighting. Check out techartstraining.com for more information!

Contact: Christine Krenik, 817.552.7296, info@techartstraining.com

VOLUNTEERS

KIDS

BUILDING SERVICES VOLUNTEERS

AMAZING KIDS PAID POSITIONS

We’re looking for team members to help us shape the next generation for the future God has planned for them! We have paid positions available at all campuses.

Contact: Anne Hardin, 817.552.7475, kidsjobs@gatewaypeople.com

MEN MEN’S SUMMIT

March 5–6

THE SCHOOL OF TECH ARTS

SLK

Men, join us for two incredible days full of activities, competitions, food, worship, and messages from special guest speakers. Register at menssummit.com. Contact: Fedrick Bowe, 817.552.3631, men@gatewaypeople.com

MYGATEWAY MYGATEWAY APP UPDATE

Available for iOS and Android

Be sure to check your app store for the latest update of myGateway for enhanced features and many fixes. Contact: Amy Alise, 817.328.2083, mygateway@gatewaypeople.com

PRAYER PRAYER FOR ISRAEL

Tuesday, Dec 16 | 7:00 pm | The Mix

SLK

Join us for a special time of prayer for the peace of Jerusalem and the salvation of all Israel. Contact: Mark Anthony, 817.552.3789, israelprayer@gatewaypeople.com

NEW YEAR’S EVE PRAYER GATHERING

Wednesday, Dec 31 | 6:00 pm | Auditorium

If you’re passionate about helping people, we need you! Consider joining one of our volunteer teams: medical, food hospitality, event setup, and more.

Contact: Brandon Anderson, 817.552.7485, cssv@gatewaypeople.com

HEARTLINE MINISTRY OPPORTUNITY

Do you love connecting and talking with people? Then this is the ministry for you!

Heartline volunteers make phone calls from home to follow up with our first-time visitors. Contact: Kristine Lopez, 817.328.2030, heartline@gatewaypeople.com

WELCOME HOME MINISTRY OPPORTUNITY

Our volunteers meet with families who are new to Gateway as well as Dallas/Fort Worth and encourage them to connect at church and in their new community.

Contact: Kristine Lopez, 817.328.2030, welcomehome@gatewaypeople.com

LOCATIONS &

SERVICE TIMES SOUTHLAKE CAMPUS SLK 700 Blessed Way · Southlake, TX 76092 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm FRISCO CAMPUS FRS 7125 Legacy Dr · Frisco, TX 75034 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm GRAND PRAIRIE CAMPUS GRP 2404 N Carrier Pkwy · Grand Prairie, TX 75050 Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm NORTH FORT WORTH CAMPUS NFW 4209 Basswood Blvd · Fort Worth, TX 76137 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm

NRH CAMPUS NRH 7501 Davis Blvd · North Richland Hills, TX 76182 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm MINISTRY CENTER MIN 540 S Nolen · Southlake, TX 76092 UNIVERSITY CAMPUS UC 2121 E Southlake Blvd · Southlake, TX 76092

WORSHIP GATEWAY WORSHIP INFORMATIONAL MEETING

Thursday, Jan 8 | 7:00 pm

UC

If you’re interested in being part of platform ministry, weekday teams, kids worship, students or Gateway Worship Choir, join us for this informational meeting. Catch the Vision is a prerequisite.

Register at worship.gatewaypeople.com.

Contact: Kristy Luth, 817.552.7611, platform.ministry@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS

YOUNG ADULTS SLK

Gather your family and friends to celebrate all God has done this year! We’ll pray for His plans and purposes for next year and record prayer requests for 2015 in our annual time capsule. Contact: Jayme Dixon, 817.552.3640, prayer@gatewaypeople.com

SEVEN WORSHIP NIGHT & AFTER PARTY

SUNDAYS »» Marriage Challenge | 9:30 am

Young adults (18–30) from all campuses are invited to a night of worship followed by a Christmas after party! Contact: Emily Bua, 817.552.3604, seven@gatewaypeople.com

MONDAYS »» Healing Ministry | 7:00 pm

Tuesday, Dec 16 | 7:00 pm | Auditorium

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TUESDAYS »» Seven (Young Adults, 18–30) 7:00 pm | Auditorium SLK GRP

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by DANIEL HOPKINS IN THE SUMMER OF 1992, Mark Harris was in the Christmas spirit. He, Don Cook, and Dave Clark had been piecing together a Christmas song, but the deadline to complete it for the new 4Him Christmas project was looming. And in the middle of an August night, Mark couldn’t stop thinking about Bethlehem.

“I was sitting there at the dining room table in the wee hours of morning thinking, ‘We’ve got to complete this song,’” says Mark. “My wife, Jodie, and I had this little nativity—it wasn’t a real expensive one. I set it up and looked at the different people in the scene. That’s when it hit me that the song needed to be about Joseph and how he felt inadequate for his calling. Then, part of the chorus came to me: ‘Why me? / I’m just a simple man of trade. / Why Him? / With all the rulers in the world. / Why here? Inside this stable filled with hay. / Why her?

She’s just an ordinary girl.’”

The song, “A Strange Way to Save the World,” would go on to be one of the most popular Mark has ever written.

Over the years, it’s been recorded and performed by dozens of artists, including Rascal Flatts, who performed the song for the 2013 CMA Country Christmas program on ABC. But all of these accolades eclipse one of the song’s more interesting facts: It almost wasn’t recorded. “It was the last song we’d written for The Season of Love [4Him’s 1993 Christmas album], and the question we kept asking ourselves was, ‘Are we even going to finish the song?’” says Mark. “The day we went into the studio to record it, we didn’t have the finished lyrics for the second verse.”

At the last minute, Dave Clark wrote some lyrics to what became the most important verse—the one that invites the listener to imagine if Jesus’ birth had been different. “To think of how it could have been / If Jesus had come as He deserved. / There would have been no Bethlehem. / No lowly shepherds at His birth.” The song’s fresh perspective helps people relate to the Christmas story in a new way, and it also helps people examine their own lives. Mark says we all feel like Joseph from time to time—not fully capable of carrying out our callings.

“What I love about this song is that most of my life I’ve never felt qualified or talented enough to do the job I’ve been given,” says Mark. “Then later on in life, I looked back at my journey and realized, ‘I’m really not, but God is.’”

“A Strange Way to Save the World,” from Mark Harris’s album Christmas Is, can be purchased on iTunes.

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I wasn’t ready for it to be over. Now, whenever I want to hear Christmas music or watch a Christmas movie, I just do it! My all-time favorite is White Christmas.

I’ve watched it more times than I can even count.

THOMAS: My favorite hobby is running. When I picked that up two years ago, the first race I entered was the Disney marathon. Then I found out there was also a half-marathon the day before the race and a 5K the day before that. So I entered all of them. When I decide to do something, sometimes I go to extremes!

MARY BETH: My favorite thing to do is create beautiful things—art, photos, stories, songs—in hopes to make a difference in people’s lives. Right now, I’m launching dreamstart.us, creating and selling multiple art forms and using proceeds to help abused and abandoned children. Our first art collection releases in early 2015, and I’m so excited!

THOMAS & MARY BETH MILLER HAVE BEEN AT GATEWAY SINCE DECEMBER 2000. HE IS AN ASSOCIATE SENIOR PASTOR, AND TOGETHER THEY SERVE IN GATEWAY WORSHIP AND HAVE A SON NAMED HARRISON (10)

THOMAS: When I was a kid, I wanted to be an engineer. I loved music and took piano lessons and was involved in choir, but I never thought of music as a profession. I studied engineering in college and that’s where I met Mary Beth. She was the homecoming queen!

MARY BETH: When we were rehearsing for the homecoming awards on the football field, I received a dozen roses from Thomas. I still have those rose petals.

THOMAS: I came to Texas with a thick West Virginia accent. We went to Christ For the Nations Institute (CFNI), and our friends would have people call our answering machine just to listen to my accent.

You know who those friends are? Pastor Randy and Cheri Cochran!

MARY BETH: We started our Christmas music and movies early this year—in September! One year, I decided not to listen to Christmas music until the day after Thanksgiving. But when Christmas came,

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THOMAS: When we first came to Gateway, we were both happy with our jobs at CFNI—she was the director of admissions, and I had just started full-time at CFNI’s School of Worship. I got a call from a friend saying, “There’s a new church in the Dallas area, and they’re looking for a worship pastor. You’d be great for the job!” I wasn’t really interested in leaving my job. Eventually, my friend talked me into meeting the pastor of the church, and in November of 2000, Mary Beth and I met with Pastor Robert and Debbie. He shared his vision with us and asked if we would come lead worship a few times in December. We agreed to do it. At the end of the second weekend we led at Gateway, Pastor Robert came to me and said, “The Lord spoke to me during worship. You’re the worship pastor for Gateway.” A few days later, I was praying about it, and God completely confirmed to me that we were to come to Gateway. In that moment, I knew I was supposed to be the worship pastor of Gateway Church.

MARY BETH: After that second weekend, Pastor Robert asked, “Have you guys been to Southlake Town Square?” We hadn’t, so he and Debbie took us there for dinner. When we drove in and I saw trees covered in Christmas lights, my heart melted. We fell in love with the place and are thrilled to still be living nearby today!

For more about our Gateway pastors and staff, visit bios.gatewaypeople.com.

For more about dreamstart.us, follow @dreamstartus on Twitter and Instragram.

Whether it’s by the dazzling lights of the theatre or the soft glow of candlelight, Gateway is brightening up Christmas with two special events.

A GATEWAY CHRISTMAS MUSICAL GATEWAY CHURCH SOUTHLAKE CAMPUS

Admission is free, and tickets are not required.

FRI

Dec 12 | 5:45 pm & 7:30 pm

SAT

Dec 13 | 4:00 pm, 5:45 pm & 7:30 pm

SUN

Dec 14 | 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm

Children’s ministry is available, birth through sixth grade.

TRADITIONAL FAMILY CANDLELIGHT SERVICES GATEWAY CHURCH SOUTHLAKE CAMPUS SAT

Dec 20 | 4:00 pm, 5:45 pm & 7:30 pm

SUN

Dec 21 | 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm

Children’s ministry is available, birth through five years old.

For other service times and locations, visit gatewaychristmas.com. @gatewaypeople /gatewaypeople /gatewaypeople /gatewaypeople