Gateway Life | July 2016 by Gateway Church

JULY 2016

STAKE YOUR CLAIM

“Each campus has a miracle story. This is ours.” p. 12

SPARKING A FIRE

TAKE A KNEE

TRADITION!

Gateway’s new prayer series and how you can get involved. p. 10

Jim Mayher’s story of addiction, pain, and reconciliation. p. 14

Gateway takes on a Broadway classic this summer. p. 18

This hand-dyed quilt, titled “The Color of Freedom,” was designed by Kelly Monroe and inspired by a trip her family took to the East Coast that included a study of American history. She and her family have attended the Gateway Church Grand Prairie Campus since 2015.

CALLING ALL CREATIVES!

We want to showcase your art in Gateway Life! For details, visit art.gatewaypeople.com.

CONTENTS JULY 2016

COMMENTS

WELCOME

PULSE OUTREACH

RAISE THE ROOF Gateway’s building operations team use their skills in Berlin. F E AT U R E S

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SPARKING A FIRE Gateway’s new prayer series and how you can get involved.

STAKE YOUR CLAIM

“Each campus has a miracle story. This is ours.”

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Jim Mayher’s story of addiction, pain, and reconciliation.

SONG STORY

TRADITION!

ANNOUNCEMENTS

ACTIVITIES

THE INTERSECTION

PROFILE – BEN & ELISA HAAKE

David Moore’s “Found In You”

Gateway takes on a Broadway classic this summer.

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WELCOME to GATEWAY LIFE SUMMER IS HERE AND IN FULL SWING. This is the month we celebrate our independence by blowing up fireworks and painting the sky with bright and beautiful colors of fire. In years past, we have always gone to the lake to watch fireworks because they look so much more vibrant reflected off the water. One year we were at my aunt and uncle’s lake house, and my brother James, my cousin Jacob, and I were responsible for putting on a fireworks show from the boat dock as the whole family sat on the porch. We had found an old PVC pipe that was capped off at one end and open

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on the other, and we dropped bottle rockets down into the pipe after lighting them and shot them into the sky above the lake. After a while, the bottom of the pipe got hot and the cap melted off. We dropped a bottle rocket down the pipe and it stuck in the ground, pointing directly toward the house and my entire family. The only thing I had time to do was yell, “Watch out!” and then pray for the best. It headed right for the crowd of people but miraculously began to ascend right before reaching everyone and then blew up about 20 feet above the house. My aunt and uncle thanked God that we didn’t burn down their house that day. I’ve spent many July fourths celebrating with fun activities, but this year will be very different for me. I recently returned from a ministry trip

to Cuba, and it did something in me that was profound and meaningful. I watched as the people of this amazing church gathered in a small home and stood for hours to be able to worship God without air conditioning or any of the other comforts that we have become accustomed to. As I watched them worship, I was reminded that our true freedom comes from Christ alone and no man can take it from us. One of my favorite stories in this issue of Gateway Life is about how Jim Mayher turned to Jesus and found freedom and restoration for his marriage (page 14). You’ll love the miraculous story of how your Heart for the Kingdom giving is making big things happen in Frisco (page 12). And you’ll be inspired by the article about Gateway’s upcoming prayer series and 40-day prayer challenge (page 10). As you and your family celebrate Independence Day this year, I want to encourage you to remember that we have a lot to be grateful for, but that none of those things are greater than the freedom that we have been given through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

Josh Morris Associate Senior Pastor

editorial Stacy Burnett, Managing Editor Daniel Hopkins, Senior Writer/Editor Shea Tellefsen, Staff Writer/Editor Katie Smith, Staff Writer/Editor Sydnie Shreffler, Staff Writer/Editor Georgette Shuler, Copy Editor

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All responses taken from Gateway Church social media. Send us your story, testimony, or feedback on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram, or email us at life@gatewaypeople.com.

“So thankful my church has live stream! Nurses don’t get weekends or holidays off, so I listen or watch services while I chart and in between patient care. Such a blessing!” Leigh-Taylor Hester | via Instagram

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IN RESPONSE TO GATEWAY WORSHIP’S VOICES

I’VE LISTENED TO PASTOR ROBERT FOR YEARS.

In March of 2013, I was staying with my brother as he was dying of cancer. He was sleeping on the couch and woke up when I turned The Blessed Life television program on. My brother had never been baptized, but when the program finished, he looked at me and said, ‘Sis, I need that. I need to be baptized.’ I told him that I agreed and would make sure it got done. We had my mom’s pastor come over a week later to spend some time with my brother and baptize him. When I saw my brother the next week, he was more at peace despite the incredible pain he was in. Later that week, he went to be with the Lord. As incredibly painful as it was to lose my only sibling, I knew beyond a doubt that he was at home with the Lord.

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Laura Cunningham George | via Facebook

WHAT?!

Defining Gateway Church Lingo

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“I ALREADY ORDERED MY COPY AND CAN’T WAIT TO BUY SEVERAL MORE FOR THE LADIES AT CHURCH!” Hector Castro | via Facebook

HERE AT GATEWAY, WE LIKE TO USE ABBREVIATIONS, INITIALISMS, AND ACRONYMS—OH MY! DO YOU KNOW WHAT EACH OF THESE STANDS FOR? 1. DAL

4. SLK

7. TKU

2. FRS

5. WILD

8. NFW

3. CTV

6. GRP Answers: 1. Dallas Campus, 2. Frisco Campus, 3. Catch the Vision (Gateway’s Membership Class), 4. Southlake Campus, 5. Women In Leadership Development, 6. Grand Prairie Campus, 7. The King’s University, 8. North Fort Worth Campus

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“With Kari, Lauren, Rebecca, Anna, Rita, Alena, and the others, this should be a bestseller!”

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North Fort Worth Laundry Project

“IT MAY HAVE BEEN JUST WASHING AND DRYING TO SOME PEOPLE, BUT FOR US IT WAS A HUGE BLESSING. THANK YOU!” Peter N Amy Garcia | via Facebook

North Fort Worth Laundry Project

“AN AMAZING, HAPPY, SUPER FUN NIGHT!” Julie Morris | via Facebook

Shavuot

IN RESPONSE TO FRISCO’S SERVE NIGHT OUT

“JJ AND THE GINGERS KEPT US DANCING!” Erin Sullivan | via Instagram

Frisco Serve Night Out

HIGH FIVE

IN RESPONSE TO THE GATEWAY YOUNG ADULTS MINISTRY TRIP TO TIJUANA

“THIS TEAM. I HAVE WATCHED EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM WALK BOLDLY IN THE SPIRIT THIS WEEK IN TIJUANA. THEY HAVE LOVED WELL. THEY HAVE PRAYED POWERFUL PRAYERS. I AM CONTINUALLY AMAZED THAT THE LORD FINDS SUCH GREAT JOY IN BLESSING HIS KIDS WHEN THEY WALK OUT THEIR FAITH IN SERVING OTHERS!” Katie Willis | via Instagram

AARON WRONKO

ASSOCIATE PASTOR, MEMBER SERVICES

IN RESPONSE TO THE GATEWAY LIFE ARTICLE, “TWO IS BETTER THAN ONE”

DO YOU HAVE ANY HIDDEN TALENTS? I am awesome at singing dorkydad songs that embarrass my kids. MOST EMBARRASSING MOMENT? When I was a teacher, I had to call a parent about their child who was misbehaving. While the phone was ringing I was also thinking I needed to call my wife, so when the child’s mother picked up the phone, my first words were: “Hey Sweetie!” When I heard the shocked, “um … helllooo,” I was mortified. My first instinct was to quickly hang up the phone, but I swallowed my pride and tried to explain I was thinking about calling my wife while making this call. Thankfully she was gracious, but to this day, I never multitask while making phone calls. FAVORITE WAY TO RELAX? Off-road biking and working out are huge stress relievers for me. I recharge when I can be alone with my wife anywhere, doing anything. WHAT DID YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GREW UP? I wanted to be a brain surgeon. WHAT IS SOMETHING NOBODY KNOWS ABOUT YOU? I was an English teacher in Taiwan for a year, and my favorite thing to do there was go surfing on the Taiwanese coast. For more about Gateway pastors and staff, visit staff.gatewaypeople.com.

“I HAD A PINK MENTOR IN 2013, A TIME IN MY LIFE WHERE I NEEDED A GODLY WOMAN TO HELP ME PUT THE BROKEN PIECES BACK TOGETHER. IT WAS A DIVINE APPOINTMENT BY GOD HIMSELF! GATEWAY HELPED AND GOD DID THE REST THROUGH MY AMAZING PINK MENTOR. WE ARE STILL FRIENDS TODAY!” Cindy Wakely-Copeland | via Facebook

“I AM STILL REELING over how wonderful our God is

and how He uses Gateway Church to bless people time and time again! A year ago, I felt led to donate my car to the Gateway car donation program. I was unsure what the next carless season would look like, but I knew that when God leads you somewhere He always has your best interest in mind—and He always provides! Four weeks ago, I decided to pursue a career path I’ve always wanted, and I felt like the Lord told me He would provide a job and a car this month. I do not believe it is a coincidence that I received a car and a job interview on the same day! He is so faithful and cares deeply about our hearts’ desires!” Christin Warren | via Facebook

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“I STEPPED OUT OF THE MORNING SESSION and decided to grab a coffee. A few people behind me in line, there was a lady leaning on her cane talking about wanting a vanilla latte. I felt the Lord nudging me to buy her coffee so I said, ‘Could I buy you that vanilla latte? I would love to bless you this morning.’ She couldn’t even talk she was crying so hard. I gave her a big hug, and then she stepped out of line to wait for her coffee. When I brought it to her, she was still crying. I was thinking, It’s just coffee ... I wonder what’s going on. Through her tears, she said, ‘I never receive from people. I am always meeting others’ needs, and when you said you wanted to buy me coffee, all the pain in my back left. Now I can walk and stand without my cane!’ She started bouncing up and down. We walked back into the arena together, and she carried her cane. I ran into her later on, and she was still free from any pain! Turns out, she and her daughter came to the conference all the way from South Carolina.” Katie McCombs | via email

“THERE’S SOMETHING POWERFUL THAT HAPPENS WHEN WOMEN COME TOGETHER IN UNITY AND START WORKING TOGETHER INSTEAD OF AGAINST EACH OTHER. WHAT AN INCREDIBLE WEEKEND AT PINK IMPACT!”

“THIS WAS AN AMAZING CONFERENCE. I AM REFRESHED, RENEWED AND SO HAPPY THAT I AM REDEEMED BY THE AUTHOR AND FINISHER OF MY FAITH.”

Rachel Lamb | via Instagram

Kate Anderson | via Facebook

“We are so grateful for Gateway Church and the Pink team. My life and the lives of those I brought with me are markedly better because of your obedience and dedication. Our group received seven prophetic words. There was not one repeat, and all of them were perfectly timed, personal, and impactful words.” Andrea Moede | via Instagram

In the year since the Grand Prairie Campus opened its Amazing Kids’ wing, 152 children have dedicated their lives to the Lord. • This year, more than 9,455 women attended Pink Impact at the Fort Worth Convention Center. • The Pink Impact gifts arrived in two 18-wheelers, 577 volunteers served, and 5,362 lunches were served on site. • 99 churches simulcast Pink Impact and an estimated 9,900 people attended via simulcast. Last month, 420 Gateway Kids and 39 volunteers went to a life-changing summer camp at Dry Gulch, U.S.A. • 2,126 adults attended the launch of Gateway Summer Equip at the Southlake Campus. • Gateway celebrated its volunteers with a Cirque du Soleil performance at the Southlake Campus; Four Day Weekend, an improvisational comedy show, at the Grand Prairie Campus; a multicultural party with food and music at the NRH Campus; an “Oscar-style” awards ceremony at the Frisco Campus; and a tour of all things Fort Worth at the North Fort Worth Campus.

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Outreach

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GATEWAY ’S NEW P RAYER SE AND HOW RIES YOU CAN GET INVO LVED.

WE KNOW WE’RE SUPPOSED TO PRAY … BUT WHY? Do our prayers really make a difference? And is there a “right” way to pray? Prayer can be confusing for many people. And when we do pray, we often get bored and distracted, or we feel like what we’re praying about is too trivial. Then there are the times we experience disappointment and discouragement, because it feels like God’s not responding. We all have ups and downs with prayer. Although prayer feels abstract and complex, it’s actually quite simple—we have an all access pass to God! Sometimes it’s hard to believe that He actually wants us to go to Him with our thoughts, feelings, worries, and needs. He wants to hear from us every day, and He wants to speak to us every day. At its essence, prayer is simply heart-to-heart communication 10 JULY 2016

between God and us. And like a tiny spark that ignites a fire, revolutionary prayer begins with a conversation. When we bow our heads or fall to our knees in prayer, we’re partnering with God as He shapes nations, heals marriages, or simply helps us make it through a tough day without falling apart. Jesus promises that when we ask, we will receive (Matthew 7:7) and that we can ask for anything, and if we have faith, we will receive it (Matthew 21:22). So how can we contend with those promises? How do we pray those kinds of prayers? This summer at Gateway, we’re engaging in a prayer revolution as we discover how and why we should pray. Here is how you can learn about and experience the power of prayer in your own life.

40-DAY PRAYER CHALLENGE July 4–August 12

You and a partner. Five minutes a day. That’s it. Super simple, yet immensely powerful. Jesus said: “If two of you agree here on earth concerning anything you ask, my Father in heaven will do it for you. For where two or three gather together as my followers, I am there among them” (Matthew 18:19–20). So here’s the challenge: 1. Choose a friend, family member, or spouse to join with you in this commitment. 2. Before you begin the prayer challenge, visit powerofprayer.gatewaypeople.com and fill out the pre-challenge survey. (This is not mandatory, but it will give you a great before and after picture.) 3. Spend five minutes a day for 40 days praying with that

person. Express thankfulness, pray about concerns, speak God’s Word over each other, and expect to see God move. 4. At the end of the 40 days, visit powerofprayer.gatewaypeople.com again and complete the post-challenge survey. Prayer is the most powerful force on the planet because it connects us to God. In the amount of time it takes to brush your teeth and comb your hair, your life can change forever.

THE POWER OF PRAYER A GATEWAY SERIES WEEKEND SERVICES | JULY 9–AUGUST 7

Whether you’re struggling in your prayer life, an experienced prayer warrior, or unsure what a prayer life means, this series will encourage and inspire you. You won’t want to miss a single weekend!

FEATURING

Dr. Henry Cloud Blynda Lane Mark Jobe Jimmy Evans Tim Ross powerofprayer.gatewaypeople.com

WHO SHOULD I CHOOSE AS MY PRAYER PARTNER? Choose someone you can trust and be open with. You also want to make sure you have access to them (whether in person or by phone) for at least five minutes a day. Anyone is fair game: a spouse, a family member, a good friend, a coworker, a girlfriend/boyfriend, or a mentor.

WHAT DO WE DO? Take turns thanking God, asking God for His help or provision in certain areas, or praying God’s Word over each other. If you want to, you can choose different friends/family members, church leaders, political figures, or nations to pray for each week.

SPECIAL BUNDLE PRICE $15 Available at the Gateway Bookstore

WHAT IF IT’S AWKWARD? Don’t worry about it! If you’re not used to it, praying with someone can be awkward at first, but continue to focus on God and enjoy your time connecting with that person. You’ll quickly start to feel comfortable praying together. GL

Wondering where to begin when it comes to prayer? Check out our pocket prayer guide card included in this issue of Gateway Life!

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STAKE YOUR CLAIM by KATIE SMITH

“Each campus has a miracle story. This is ours.” – Pastor Randy Cochran

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The Gateway Frisco Campus staff looks on as Campus Pastor Randy Cochran drives a stake into the ground on the edge of the adjacent property. The land he is surveying with these stakes has been highly sought after but unavailable for many years. The lack of space at the Frisco Campus has become a bit of a struggle. Because the campus was a church building adopted by Gateway in 2010, it does not have some of the things the other campuses do, like ample parking or classrooms or even a full Gateway Café. On weekends, cars fill the parking lot and the surrounding streets. And with minimal overflow space, people sit in the Lobby to watch the service. Expansion of the Frisco Campus has been on the Heart for the Kingdom Initiative list for several years, but progress has been slow. The elders looked at the land next door, but it wasn’t for sale, even after they made multiple inquiries. In August 2014, Randy felt God was prompting him to do something a little different. He was reminded of his brother, a pastor in Georgia, who stuck a stick in the ground on a piece of land and the Lord provided that land for his church. “I really felt like God was telling me to make a similar declarative move,” Randy says, “to drive a stake into the ground and pray for the land instead of passively waiting for a decision.” It would be a true miracle for the land to be theirs, and he decided obedience was the way to go. Before the next Frisco Campus staff meeting, Randy went to Home Depot to purchase two wooden stakes. He wrote “Wait trustfully, walk confidently, and watch expectantly” on one

“THE TREASURE IS THE PEOPLE, NOT THE LAND. IT’S ALWAYS BEEN ABOUT THE PEOPLE.”

stake and “I believe” on another stake, having faith that God would do a miracle and provide the land, and therefore the opportunity, to expand the Frisco Campus. Randy took the campus staff outside, and as he put the stakes in the ground next to the land, he explained what he felt the Lord had said. Over the next year, men’s groups and deacons and staff members could be seen praying next to those stakes on a weekly basis. In November of 2015, the Frisco Campus held a vision night, and amidst food trucks, picnic tables, worship, and altar ministry, Randy shared the vision the Lord gave him, and with blank stakes lying on all over the platform, he encouraged the congregation to take a stake and stand in prayer and faith for the neighboring land. Not long before the Frisco Campus vision night, the land had become available and Gateway placed an offer on the property. But we were outbid by one of the large corporations who want to attend. Since Gateway Frisco opened in 2010, also vying for the land. Discouraged and convinced it was the city’s population has increased approximately 23%. over, Randy had a conversation with his boss, Pastor Todd The city is expected to double in size again (to 320,000) Lane. “I remember he looked at me and said, ‘Yeah, that at buildout, and now the Frisco Campus can grow with it. doesn’t look good … but we’re the only ones with stakes in the “The day I heard we closed on the land, I thought I would ground,’” Randy says. Still believing, but also knowing that feel overjoyed and want to celebrate, but all I felt was an the chances were slim to none, Randy waited while some extreme gratefulness to those who prayed and gave,” Randy of the elders contacted the new owner about purchasing a says. “The treasure is the people, not the land. It’s always portion of the acreage. been about the people.” GL On March 24, 2016, an email was sent to the Frisco Campus staff. It said, “We have closed on the land.” A portion of the 12.5 acres Gateway purchased will be used for constructing an Now, because of your Heart for the Kingdom giving, the entirely new building for the Frisco Campus. For more information on our Heart Gateway Frisco Campus is making room for all the people for the Kingdom initiatives, visit heartforthekingdom.gatewaypeople.com.

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Take a Knee J I M M AY H E R ’ S S T O R Y O F A D D I C T I O N , P A I N , A N D R E C O N C I L I AT I O N by DANIEL HOPKINS

THE MOST IMPORTANT MOMENT IN JIM MAYHER’S LIFE HAPPENED

when he got down on one knee and asked his wife, Marlaine, a question he’ll never forget. It wasn’t the proposal you might expect: “If you and Jesus will have me, I want to come home,” he said. While he and his wife had been married for 11 years (almost two of which they spent separated until that moment), he had never had a relationship with Jesus. That was about to change, along with so many other things in his life. Jim was born in Springfield, Massachusetts, where his father—a recovering alcoholic—ran a halfway house. As a teenager, Jim began falling into patterns that his father had worked hard to avoid. “I started smoking pot and drinking when I was 14,” he says. “When I was 16, my dad asked me 10 questions that were warning signs for alcoholism. I answered yes to 8.” Despite his father’s warnings, Jim continued to drink, smoke pot, and experiment with other drugs, increasingly as time went on. He describes his lifestyle back then as that of a functioning alcoholic—one who masks their heavy drinking with the appearance of a normal, successful life. In Jim’s case, it worked for quite a while. He moved to Tacoma, Washington, to take a job in the timeshare industry. Jim met Marlaine when she came to work for him in the summer of 1980. They were married and a few years later found out they had a baby on the way. While Jim’s appearance of success was better than ever, on the inside things were falling apart.

“I was a full-blown alcoholic with blackouts three or four nights a week,” he says. “I didn’t think I had a problem with marijuana, but when my son needed a dentist appointment or a new pair of sneakers, I didn’t have the money. But I always had money for pot.” In the late ‘80s, Jim’s work brought his family to Bedford, Texas; he hoped things would improve in both areas of his life. However, they only got worse. After a while, Marlaine moved out—it was the third time she’d left him—and Jim lost hope. “The marriage problems were a result of my selfishness and ego.” He wasn’t willing to change, and so the separation went on for almost two years.

“I WAS A FULLBLOWN ALCOHOLIC WITH BLACKOUTS THREE OR FOUR NIGHTS A WEEK.”

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“ W E D E LV E D INTO THE DEEP END OF COUNSELING, MENTORING,AND MARRIAGE CLASSES.”

“On March 5, 1993, I got a call from a friend who offered me an opportunity to have the most lecherous weekend of debauchery you can imagine,” he says. “I was broke, my business was failing, my car was going to be repossessed, my wife had left me, so I thought I might as well empty out the business account and spend it at the bar.” As he was making his plan, another thought came to him out of nowhere. He had lived on the fence too long. He needed to either get serious about being a wild man or get serious about being a husband and a father. He could no longer occupy the space in between. He drove to Marlaine’s apartment, got down on one knee, and asked for another chance. She prayed about it and the Lord told her, “I took you just the way you were. You take him just the way he is, and trust Me.” Jim dedicated his life to Jesus that day, and he was instantly free from alcoholism, the withdrawals of which doctors say can kill people who drink as heavily as Jim did. He didn’t have so much as a headache.

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In the years that followed, Jim’s business improved along with his health and his spiritual life. They found a good church and eventually migrated to Gateway, where they became members in 2003. Even though the alcohol and drugs were no longer a part of his life, he says his ego and selfishness were stronger than ever and his marriage problems continued. When Marlaine discovered Jim had been viewing pornography, it was the last straw for her and she left him again saying, “You’ve been sitting under the ministry and leadership of Robert Morris and Jimmy Evans for too long to be doing life and marriage like this.” He knew if he didn’t get help right away, his marriage would end for good. He realized just how serious the situation was when Marlaine was admitted to the hospital and she didn’t tell him. “That’s what prompted me to get help from Gateway,” he says. “We delved into the deep end of counseling, mentoring, and marriage classes.” When Jim began focusing on the heart of his problem— his ego—that’s when things began to change in his marriage and spiritual life. “I was deeply committed to getting it right this time,” he says. “I finally understood what Ephesians 5:25 means when it says to lay down your life for your wife. It means to lay down the remote, lay down work … lay down anything that you find more important than your wife.” Eventually, he became a deacon, and later he and Marlaine began mentoring couples going through difficult seasons in their marriage. Today, Jim has earned a Graduate Certificate in Christian Ministries from The King’s University and works as a ministry coordinator in Gateway’s membership services department. Marlaine works as a coordinator for the Gateway Bookstore. Together, they participate in marriage ministry, lead small group book studies on Discovering the Mind of a Woman, by Ken Nair, and counsel couples. It’s been almost 24 years since Jim took a knee in Marlaine’s apartment, and the road they’ve traveled together hasn’t been easy, but he has seen God do so many miracles— the biggest of which was the restoration of his marriage. “God healed three different areas of my life—alcohol, drugs, and impurity—and I believe He knew I wasn’t going to be able to do it on my own,” he says. “I’m so grateful He took those things out of my life and put my family back together.” GL

“Found In You”

SONG STORY

DAVID MOORE’S

by Daniel Hopkins PASTOR DAVID MOORE WROTE “FOUND IN YOU” FOUR YEARS AGO, others about the mess I was making of my life. This song on June 15, 2012. And while most people would have a is about getting freedom from all of that.” difficult time remembering exactly what they were doing “Found In You” was written during a songwriting experion a given day that long ago, the song’s lyrics instantly jog ment in which David would write one song per week for a David’s memory. “Listening to this song is like taking pages year. During this prolific time in 2012, he devoted himself out of the story of my life,” says David. “It’s like opening a to creating new songs, and something about this one stood journal and showing the world—or whoever listens to the out among the others, not only for its melody but also for song—an intimate part of my life.” its poignant message that many believers can relate to. It’s not often that such a personal song becomes a popu“I love how it starts with a calming moment,” says David. lar corporate worship song, but in this case, the lyrics are “The lyrics say, ‘All my sins are gone, washed away, white so relatable and focused on freedom—one of the pillars like snow.’ It starts at the end, which is what I wanted to of Gateway’s vision—that it quickly began to resonate communicate—that the Lord has already done the work.” throughout the congregation. David’s initial inspiration for the song came from “God brought a lot of freedom into my life in the years Philippians 3:8–9, which says, “Indeed, I count everything leading up to writing the song,” he says. “It was the begin- as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ ning of being honest with myself and being honest with Jesus my Lord. For His sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ and be found in Him.” The connection of being found in Him and laying down one’s own life, passions, and will was more apparent than ever for David, especially when he considers the freedom he has experienced. This is most evident during the song’s bridge: “Once a slave but now set free / Once was blind but now I see / Once an orphan now a king / Once a liar now believed.” “The most special part to me is the bridge,” says David. “It’s difficult for me to sing sometimes because I remember what it was like being a slave, feeling like an orphan, and being a liar—and now to be believed. It’s literally the testimony of what God has done in my life.” GL “Found In You” is on Gateway Worship’s album Walls, available in the Gateway Bookstore and on iTunes.

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TRADITION! GATEWAY TAKES ON A BROADWAY CLASSIC THIS SUMMER by SHEA TELLEFSEN

A FIDDLER ON THE ROOF. SOUNDS CRAZY, NO? Gateway Performing The show will also feature a 40-member cast and a live Arts doesn’t think so! orchestra, all of which are made up of people from Gateway To follow up last summer’s production of Godspell, who are getting the opportunity to express their gifts in the Gateway Performing Arts is presenting the classic Broadway church setting. Another unique aspect of this show is that it musical Fiddler on the Roof this August. Set in 1905 Russia, is being held at Gateway’s Dallas Campus, which opened in the story centers around a traditional Jewish father, Tevye, March. With the new campus came an opportunity to hold and his five daughters, three of whom push the limits of a community-theater-style production because the buildJewish tradition as they search for love. ing already had a performance venue, the Great Hall, which The show originally opened on Broadway in 1964 can seat 600 people. It gives Gateway the chance to have and went on to win nine Tony awards in 1965, including an expression in the ever-growing Dallas arts community. Best Musical. In 1971, a film version was also released. So, Gateway’s performance of Fiddler on the Roof promFiddler on the Roof has been part of American culture for ises to be an engaging experience—from the live orchestra over 50 years. and actors to the unexpected nature of live performance. So, why choose this show for Gateway’s summer musi- “It’s literally a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity every time cal? “It’s very relevant in our culture today. The themes you go see a show. You never have that collection of all of grappling with change in our culture—especially in the those people and personalities performing together in the context of our faith—are universal,” says David Schubert, moment twice, and it can be very moving and impactful in pastor of Performing Arts and producer and music direc- that way,” says Erik. tor of the show. And the script offers many opportunities for laughs. Even In fact, a revival of the show is currently running on though the story’s setting is heavy and covers weighty topics, Broadway, and Erik Snodgrass, director of Performing Arts it’s very witty and has a lot of dry humor. From Tevye’s freand the summer production, was able to see it earlier this quent Bible storytelling mix-ups and his daughters’ subtle spring. Watching how Broadway freshened up this clas- comments to family dynamics and clashes, the shenanigans sic inspired our team as they planned Gateway’s version. only stop to make gripping revelations about faith, family, “Seeing the best of the best do it is always inspiring,” says and of course, tradition. Erik. “It helps us set a bar in our mind.” “You spend probably 80% of the show laughing,” says While sticking to the original script and the familiar Erik. “But the other 20% is very moving and poignant and songs, including “To Life,” “Sunrise Sunset,” “Tradition,” really hits the heart.” GL and “Matchmaker, Matchmaker,” Erik and David plan to Fiddler on the Roof is running August 5–14 at Gateway’s Dallas Campus. You can purgive the show its own Gateway flair. “We’ll follow most of chase tickets ($15 for adults and $12 for students) at showtickets.gatewaypeople.com. the traditions, but we’ll also give a fresh take by pulling out Online ticket fees will apply certain colors in the story that might not have come through in previous performances people have seen,” says Erik.

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FIDDLER ON THE ROOF VOLUNTEERS

Aug 5–14

Help us create a memorable experience for everyone who comes to Fiddler on the Roof this summer. For serving, you’ll receive a complimentary ticket to enjoy one of our mid-week shows! To register, visit the “Get Involved” tab on performingarts.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Emily Thomas, 817.552.7597, performingarts@gatewaypeople.com

AMAZING KIDS PAID & VOLUNTEER POSITIONS

Help us shape the next generation for the future God has planned for them! We have part-time paid and volunteer positions available. Contact: Anne Hardin, 817.552.7475, kidsjobs@gatewaypeople.com

HAWAIIAN FALLS BAPTISM NIGHT

Thursday, Jul 7 | 10:30 am–8:00 pm Hawaiian Falls, The Colony All families are invited to join us for a fun day! We’re also offering an opportunity for children (1st–6th grade) to be baptized. For baptism, sign up at the table by the Wave Pool at 6:00 pm. No registration required. Discounted park admission cost: $12/person.

FRESH START

If you’ve recently given your life to the Lord for the first time or as a recommitment, visit the Welcome Center in the Lobby. We’d love to meet you, answer any of your questions, and give you a free devotional to help you begin your new life as a believer! Contact: Jesse Kramer, 817.552.5818, freshstart@gatewaypeople.com

Contact: Victoria Latta, 817.552.7539, mix56@gatewaypeople.com

PRAY FIRST

Thursdays | 7:00–8:00 am | Prayer Suite Join us as we gather to worship and pray! Come ready to connect with God and release His kingdom on earth through prayer. Contact: Tracey Newcomer, 469.801.7206, prayerdal@gatewaypeople.com

DALLAS CAMPUS NIGHT OF WORSHIP

Sunday, Jul 10 | 6:00 pm | Auditorium

Don’t miss our second Night of Worship at the Dallas Campus! Everyone is invited to come for extended worship and ministry. Plus, there will be some great treats afterward! Contact: Ruben Robles, 469.801.7232, worshipdal@gatewaypeople.com

HEARTLINE MINISTRY VOLUNTEERS

Do you love connecting with people? Then help us make phone calls from home to follow up with our first-time visitors.

Contact: Kelly O’Briant, 469.801.7222, servedal@gatewaypeople.com

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SUMMER PINK NIGHT FIGHT STRONG. LOVE OUTRAGEOUS.

Thursday, Aug 4 | 7:00 pm | Auditorium Don’t miss our annual summer Pink Night as we focus on having a strong body, soul, and community. Later, we’ll have a fun after party and yummy treats! We will also be collecting school supplies for local schools to bless students. Register at pink.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kim Schmied, 469.801.7228, pinkdal@gatewaypeople.com.

WEEKEND GUEST EXPERIENCE

Are you looking to get involved and be part of a team? We need people to be Guest Central and Welcome Center hosts, ushers, and greeters. For more information, visit gxp.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kelly O’Briant, 469.801.7222, servedal@gatewaypeople.com

YOU BELONG IN A GATEWAY GROUP!

MEN’S MINISTRY

If you want to get connected and make new friends in the Dallas area, join a group! To find a group, visit groups.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Rachel Kevil, 817.552.7486, groups@gatewaypeople.com

Our vision is to see men seek God first in every area of their lives by providing opportunities that bring men into a more direct relationship with God and each other. To learn about Men’s Nights, Men’s Brigade, small groups, prayer times, and more, visit men.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: David Rivera, 817.552.3631, men@gatewaypeople.com

PARKING LOT ATTENDANTS

We are looking for people who love to be outside and want to serve. Bring your sunscreen and help us welcome people to the Dallas Campus! For more information, visit gxp.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Lamar Slay, 817.552.7212, gxpdal@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS TUESDAYS »» Gateway Young Adults (20s–30s) 7:00 pm | Auditorium THURSDAYS »» Pray First | 7:00–8:00 am | Prayer Suite SUNDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 10:45 am | Classroom 2A

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PRAYER FOUNDATIONS CLASSES

Sundays, Jul 31–Aug 21 | 9:00 am | Classroom B This series of teachings outlines the key elements for an intimate and effective prayer life. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Connie Brown, 817.552.5878, equipfrs@gatewaypeople.com

EXPECTANT COUPLES CLASSES

Sundays, Jul 31–Aug 21 | 12:30 pm | Classroom B

FREEDOM BASICS CLASSES

Our goal is to prepare first-time expectant couples for the first year of their child’s life—as parents and as a couple. You’ll learn about adjustments you may face as well as general health issues and tips. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Connie Brown, 817.552.5878, equipfrs@gatewaypeople.com

Saturdays, Jul 30–Aug 20 | 5:45 pm | Classroom B These classes are designed to set the stage for you to begin your journey toward true freedom in Christ. Register at freedom.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Connie Brown, 817.552.5878, freedomfrs@gatewaypeople.com

PINK SUMMER DAYS

Wednesdays, Jul 6–20 | 10:00–11:45 am | Auditorium Ladies, join us this summer for a time of worship, the Word, and fellowship. Contact: Kelly Hamilton, 817.552.7301, pinkfrs@gatewaypeople.com

HAWAIIAN FALLS BAPTISM NIGHT

Thursday, Jul 7 | 10:30 am–8:00 pm Hawaiian Falls, The Colony

YOUNG ADULTS COLLECTIVE

Saturday, Aug 6 | 5:45 pm | Auditorium

Are you in your 20s or 30s and looking to get plugged in? Join other young adults for Gateway’s Saturday night service—and dinner after! We also meet every second and fourth Tuesday night for worship, fun, and the Gateway Young Adult message simulcast from the Southlake Campus. Contact: Kelly Hamilton, 817.552.7301, youngadultsfrs@gatewaypeople.com

All families are invited to join us for a fun day! We’re also offering an opportunity for children (1st–6th grade) to be baptized. For baptism, sign up at the table by the Wave Pool at 6:00 pm. No registration required. Discounted park admission cost: $12/person. Contact: Victoria Latta, 817.552.7539, mix56@gatewaypeople.com

PINK INCORPORATED

Tuesdays, Jul 12–26 | 6:30–8:30 pm | The Mix Pink Incorporated desires to equip and empower women in the marketplace while also providing a place of connectivity and community at the Frisco Campus. Contact: Allie Wilke, 817.552.2088, pinkfrs@gatewaypeople.com

SUMMER PINK NIGHT FIGHT STRONG. LOVE OUTRAGEOUS.

Thursday, Aug 4 7:00 pm | Auditorium

Don’t miss our annual summer Pink Night as we focus on having a strong body, soul, and community. And as always, we’ll have a fun after party! Register at pink.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Allie Wilke, 817.328.2088, pinkfrs@gatewaypeople.com

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CATCH THE VISION (MEMBERSHIP CLASS)

Saturday, Aug 6 9:00 am | Lobby Come learn more about Gateway’s purpose, values, and history and explore how to get involved. Register at ctv.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Vernita Lovett, 817.552.7517, ctvfrs@gatewaypeople.com

GUEST EXPERIENCE ORIENTATION

Saturday, Jul 16 | 4:00 pm | Classroom A

Help us create an atmosphere for people to encounter the Lord. Come to Guest Experience Orientation to learn more about serving with us! Contact: Leigh-Taylor Hester, 817.552.3638, gxpfrs@gatewaypeople.com

PARKING TEAM

We are looking for people to serve as parking lot attendants as we welcome people to our campus! Contact: Leigh-Taylor Hester, 817.552.3638, servefrs@gatewaypeople.com

ALTAR MINISTRY

If you have a heart to partner with people in prayer, serve with us on the altar ministry team! We’re also looking for Spanish-speaking team members. Contact: Connie Brown, 817.552.5868, pastoralcarefrs@gatewaypeople.com

AMAZING KIDS PAID & VOLUNTEER POSITIONS

Help us shape the next generation for the future God has planned for them! We have part-time paid and volunteer positions available. Contact: Anne Hardin, 817.552.7475, kidsjobs@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY GROUPS SUMMER SEMESTER

If you’re looking for a way to get connected and make new friends at the Frisco Campus, join or lead a group! Register at groups.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kelly Hamilton, 817.552.7301, groupsfrs@gatewaypeople.com

PINK MENTORING

Pink mentors serve as godly role models and come alongside their mentees with love and acceptance, pointing them to Jesus. Contact us if you’re interested in becoming a mentor or mentee! Contact: Kelly Hamilton, 817.552.7301, pinkmentoringfrs@gatewaypeople.com

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GATEWAY GRAND PRAIRIE

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MEN’S SUMMER SOFTBALL

Thursdays, May 26–Aug 18 | 7:00 pm | Mike Lewis Park Join us every week for a time of community. Invite your friends and family! Contact: Rachel Sandefur, 972.314.9088, mengrp@gatewaypeople.com

MARRIAGE CHALLENGE

CATCH THE VISION (MEMBERSHIP CLASS)

Saturday, Jul 16 | 5:00 pm | Classroom 2A This class connects you to Gateway Church and explains our purpose, values, vision, and history and gives you the opportunity to become a member of Gateway. Register at ctv.gatewaypeople.com.

Sundays | 9:30 am | Ministry Center (2410 N Carrier Pkwy) (Canceled on holiday weekends) Is your marriage struggling? We provide scriptural equipping, encouragement, and prayer support. No registration required. Contact: Bri Kramer, 972.314.9000, marriagegrp@gatewaypeople.com

Contact: Joel Maldonado, 972.314.9108, ctvgrp@gatewaypeople.com

BLESS! LOCAL OUTREACH OPPORTUNITY

Tuesdays, Wednesdays & Thursdays | 9:00 am–2:00 pm First Saturday of the Month | 9:00 am–2:00 pm The Joseph Storehouse Emergency Relief Center Come use your gift to serve and minister God’s grace to families in need at our local food pantry. Contact: Steve Taylor, 972.262.8318, staylor@tjsercenter.org

YOUNG ADULTS VOLUNTEERS

Tuesdays | 6:30 pm | Auditorium

We need volunteers to be an essential part in helping others meet Jesus and facilitate our growing community of young adults! Contact: Zach Faught, 972.314.4725, youngadultsgrp@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY STUDENTS FIRST LOOK

First Wednesday of the Month | 6:30 pm If you’re interested in serving with Gateway Students, come visit a service, meet our staff, shadow another leader, and hear our heart and vision for the next generation. Registration is not required. Contact: Abby Fernandez, 972.314.9107, studentsgrp@gatewaypeople.com

HAWAIIAN FALLS BAPTISM NIGHT

Thursday, Jul 7 | 10:30 am–8:00 pm Hawaiian Falls, Roanoke

MEN’S SUMMER NIGHT: TOP GUN

Thursday, Jul 28 | 6:00 pm Preservice Activities | 7:00 pm Service

This is a free night for men of all ages to experience community, encounter God, and enjoy some great barbecue and activities! Register at men.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Rachel Sandefur, 972.314.9088, mengrp@gatewaypeople.com

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SUMMER PINK NIGHT FIGHT STRONG. LOVE OUTRAGEOUS.

Thursday, Aug 4 | 7:00 pm Don’t miss our annual summer Pink Night as we focus on having a strong body, soul, and community. Later, we’ll have a fun after party and yummy treats! We will also be collecting school supplies for local schools to bless students. Register at pink.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Bri Kramer, 972.314.9000, pinkgrp@gatewaypeople.com

AMAZING KIDS VOLUNTEER & PAID POSITIONS

We’re looking for Amazing Kids team members to help us shape the next generation for the future God has planned for them! We have volunteer and paid positions available for all ages at our campus. Contact: Courtney Watkins, 972.314.9099, kidsjobsgrp@gatewaystaff.com

WEEKEND GUEST EXPERIENCE VOLUNTEERS

Are you looking to get involved and be a part of a team? We are looking for people to be Guest Central and Welcome Center hosts, parking lot attendants, ushers, and greeters. Contact: Joel Maldonado, 972.314.9108, gxpgrp@gatewaypeople.com

EQUIP SUMMER SEMESTER

Sundays, Jul 31–Aug 21 | 9:00 am Equip is in session for the summer! We will have Freedom Basics and Stewardship classes. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Angela Wescott, 972.314.9106, equipgrp@gatewaypeople.com

FREEDOM BASICS

Sundays, Jul 31–Aug 21 | 9:00 am | Classroom 2A These classes are designed to set the stage for you to begin your journey toward true freedom in Christ. Register at freedom.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Jackie Alexander, 972.314.9076, freedomgrp@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS TUESDAYS »» Gateway Young Adults (20s–30s) 7:00 pm | Auditorium WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium SUNDAYS »» Marriage Challenge | 9:30 am Ministry Center, 2410 N Carrier Pkwy (Canceled on Holiday Weekends)

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HAWAIIAN FALLS BAPTISM NIGHT

Thursday, Jul 7 | 10:30 am–8:00 pm Hawaiian Falls, Roanoke

SINGLE PARENT FAMILY LIFE | SPLASH BASH Monday, Jul 11 | 5:30 pm

Come join us as we celebrate summer with water games, inflatables, food, fun, and more! Contact: Taryn Golightly, 682.223.6045, spfnfw@gatewaypeople.com

ESTATE PLANNING SEMINAR

Saturday, Jul 16 | 4:00–5:45 pm | Compass A & B

CELEBRATE MARRIAGE SEMINAR

Friday, Sep 9 | 5:30–9:00 pm Join us for a truly memorable night of teachings from Pastor Marcus & Lexa Brecheen, Pastor Mondoe & Lisa Davis, and Pastor Mike & Judy Brisky. There will be food, fun, and time to connect with others. Cost: $25 per couple. Register at marriage.gatewaypeople.com.

Everyone needs an estate plan, regardless of your age or phase of life. This workshop will make a seemingly complicated process very simple and clear. Register at stewardship.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Katie Rushing, 817.328.2087, stewardship@gatewaypeople.com

Contact: Shannon Tolliver, 817.552.7469, marriagenfw@gatewaypeople.com

CATCH THE VISION (MEMBERSHIP CLASS)

1st Saturday of Every Month | 4:00 pm | Compass A This class connects you to Gateway Church and explains our purpose, values, and history and gives you an opportunity to become a member! Register at ctv.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Donya Allen, 817.552.5899, gxpnfw@gatewaypeople.com

MARRIAGE CHALLENGE

Sundays | 9:30 am | North Fort Worth Offices (7451 N Beach St | Suite 100) Is your marriage struggling or under attack? We provide scriptural equipping, encouragement, and prayer support. No registration required. We also need Spanish-speaking leaders willing to minister to those in hurting marriages! Contact: Denise Edwards, 817.552.5801, marriagenfw@gatewaypeople.com

LOCAL OUTREACH APARTMENT LIFE TEAMS

We are sending outreach teams into apartment complexes near our campus to host events and classes to bring His love to our community! Contact: Matt Osgood, 817.552.5846, outreachnfw@gatewaypeople.com

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GATEWAY GROUPS WORSHIP & PROPHETIC NIGHT

Monday, Jul 25 7:00 pm | Auditorium We’re hosting a night of worship and ministry with an awesome after party! To register for children’s ministry, email groupsnfw@gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Byna Terndrup, 682.223.6072

SINGLE PARENT FAMILY LIFE | BACK-TO-SCHOOL SHOPPING Monday, Aug 1 | 5:30 pm

Each year before school begins, single parents who regularly attend Monday night services at the North Fort Worth Campus are welcome to come shop for their children’s school supplies! For more information or to register, email spfnfw@gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Taryn Golightly, 682.223.6045

SUMMER PINK NIGHT FIGHT STRONG. LOVE OUTRAGEOUS.

RELATIONAL CARE

Thursday, Aug 4 | 7:00 pm | Auditorium

Don’t miss our annual summer Pink Night as we focus on having a strong body, soul, and community. And as always, we’ll have a fun after party! Register at pink.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Christy Atkinson, 817.552.3657, pinknfw@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS

TECHNICAL ARTS VOLUNTEER ORIENTATION Sunday, Jul 17 | 2:00 pm

Are you looking to meet new people and be part of a team? You can get involved in live audio, video, or lighting production. Training is provided (no prior experience required)! Contact: Debbie Kramer, 682.223.6939, avl@gatewaypeople.com

COMMUNION VOLUNTEERS

Jul 23–24 | Weekend Services We’re looking for communion volunteers! If you’d like to serve, visit the Welcome Center for instructions 30 minutes before the service you attend. Attire is business casual. Contact: Donya Allen, 817.552.5899, communionnfw@gatewaypeople.com

FREEDOM BASICS

Sundays, Jul 24–Aug 14 | 12:30 pm (7451 N Beach St | Suite 176) These four classes were designed to set the stage for you to begin your journey toward true freedom in Christ. Contact: Meredith Tilton, 817.328.2075, freedomnfw@gatewaypeople.com

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Our Relational Care ministry offers encouragement to people experiencing hospitalization, critical illness, birth, adoption, or loss of a loved one. For after-hours crises, call 817.328.1000. Contact: Debbie Rhodes, 817.552.7325, carenfw@gatewaypeople.com

TUESDAYS »» Pray First | 7:00–8:00 am | Auditorium »» Gateway Young Adults (20s–30s) 7:00 pm | Auditorium

GRIEFSHARE

Tuesdays, Aug 16–Nov 22 | 7:00–8:30 pm | Compass A If you’re experiencing heartache from the death of a loved one or friend, you don’t have to go through it alone. This class is dedicated to helping people through the grieving process. Cost: $25. Register at care.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Debbie Rhodes, 817.552.7325, carenfw@gatewaypeople.com

LOCAL OUTREACH | SCHOOL MENTORS

Do you desire to invest in the next generation? If you have a heart for mentoring at-risk youth at your local elementary school, join us as a school mentor! Contact: Matt Osgood, 817.552.5846, outreachnfw@gatewaypeople.com

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NIGHT OF WORSHIP

Sunday, Jul 17 | 6:00 pm | Auditorium Pizza Party 5:00 pm | Preservice Prayer 5:30 pm Join us for a powerful time of extended worship and prayer as we press into the mighty presence of God together! All ages are welcome! Contact: Katherine Hesami, 817.552.3600, worshipnrh@gatewaypeople.com

MARRIAGE REVOLUTION

Saturdays, Jul 30–Sep 17 | 5:45 pm | Classroom A Marriage Revolution is an eight-week course designed to grow, strengthen, and empower your marriage. Whatever the condition of your marriage, God will do abundantly more than you can imagine. Register at marriedlife.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Alicia Osgood, 682.223.6144, marriagenrh@gatewaypeople.com

PRAY FIRST

Mondays | 7:00 am | Lobby Pray First is now weekly! Come join us every Monday morning as we gather together and pray for what the Lord is putting on our hearts. Contact: Katherine Hesami, 817.552.3600, prayernrh@gatewaypeople.com

BARABBAS FREEDOM MINISTRY

FIFTY-PLUS LIFE

Sundays | 7:00 pm | Chat Room

Tuesdays | 10:00 am | Chat Room

This ministry is for men and women (18+) who have been incarcerated or struggle with addictions. Discover how to find new life through faith in Jesus. Contact: Matt Lankenau, 817.552.5802, outreachnrh@gatewaypeople.com

If you’re a part of the 50+ crowd, then you’re invited to join us for Fifty-Plus Life. We meet on Tuesday mornings for Bible study and fellowship! Contact: Jim Vanderburg, 817.449.3663, fiftypluslifenrh@gatewaypeople.com

MEN’S PRAYER

Wednesdays | 6:30–7:30 am | Lobby Gateway Men gather to pray for the men of our church. We worship and pray for men to turn their hearts toward God and effectively lead their homes, businesses, and communities. Contact: Matt Lankenau, 817.552.5802, mennrh@gatewaypeople.com

HAWAIIAN FALLS BAPTISM NIGHT

Thursday, Jul 7 | 10:30 am–8:00 pm Hawaiian Falls, Roanoke

SUMMER PINK NIGHT FIGHT STRONG. LOVE OUTRAGEOUS.

Thursday, Aug 4 | 7:00 pm

Don’t miss our annual summer Pink Night as we focus on having a strong body, soul, and community. Later, we’ll have a fun after party and yummy treats! We will also be collecting school supplies for local schools to bless students. Register at pink.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Rachel Sabo, 817.552.5885, pinknrh@gatewaypeople.com

SUMMER PINK EQUIP CLASSES

Wednesdays, Jul 6 & 13

Join us as we explore foundational topics that will deepen your relationship with God. Register for children’s ministry at groups.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Rachel Sabo, 817.552.5885, pinknrh@gatewaypeople.com

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A NIGHT TO REMEMBER

Friday, Jul 29 | 6:00–10:00 pm Join us for a memorable date night away from the kids, dishes, piles of laundry, and work. We’ll have fun exploring our theme, How to Keep It Fresh, and also have a delicious dinner, crazy games, tons of giveaways, and lots of surprises. Cost: $25 per couple. Space is limited. Contact: Alicia Osgood, 682.223.6144, marriagenrh@gatewaypeople.com

VOLUNTEER CREATIVE TEAM

We’re looking for a team of people to help set up and decorate at our events. If you are good with your hands and enjoy decorating, making crafts, or stage design, we have a place for you!

Contact: Katherine Hesami, 817.552.3600, creativenrh@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY YOUNG ADULTS

If you are in your 20s or 30s and interested in being part of our young adults gatherings, let us know! Contact: Brian McNabb, 817.552.7318, youngadultsnrh@gatewaypeople.com

JOIN OR LEAD A GROUP! BECOMING ONE: PREMARRIAGE CLASS

Saturdays, Aug 6–27 | 4:00–6:00 pm

Whether you’re pre-engaged, engaged, or newly married, you’ll gain valuable insight and understanding into what the Bible has to say about the design, purpose, and wonder of married life. Cost: $50 per couple. Contact: Alicia Osgood, 682.223.6144, marriagenrh@gatewaypeople.com

If you are looking for a way to get connected at the NRH Campus, join a group! We are also looking for group leaders. Register at groups.gatewaypeople.com Contact: Rachel Sabo, 817.552.5885, groupsnrh@gatewaypeople.com

PRAYER TEAM

If you’re interested in being on the NRH Prayer Team and receiving weekly prayer requests from the NRH Campus congregation, email prayernrh@gatewaypeople.com.

VOLUNTEER SOCIAL MEDIA TEAM

Join our social media team and have your photography featured on our NRH Campus social media page! If you have a passion for photography and would like a place to volunteer at the campus, contact us! Contact: Katherine Hesami, 817.552.6021, socialmedianrh@gatewaypeople.com

BACK-TO-SCHOOL OUTREACH

Friday, Aug 19 | 6:30–8:30 pm | ACFT Elementary School We will be throwing a back-to-school carnival bash for the students, parents, and faculty of ACFT Elementary School in North Richland Hills. We need volunteers willing to help us out with our bounce houses, games, and giveaways that night. Contact Alicia Osgood, 682.223.6144 outreachnrh@gatewaypeople.com

EQUIP CLASSES

This month we are offering a wide range of Equip classes, featuring Jewish Equip, Home Buyer’s Education, topical freedom classes, and Money & Marriage. For more information, visit the Equip booth in the Lobby or visit equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Crystal Molinar, 817.552.7619, equipnrh@gatewaypeople.com

LEAD AN OUTREACH GROUP!

If you are looking for a way to get connected while serving our community at the NRH Campus, lead an outreach group! Contact: Matt Lankenau, 817.552.5802, outreachnrh@gatewaypeople.com

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Visit events.gatewaypeople.com for the latest information.

GATEWAY SOUTHLAKE

Stay connected with us! GATEWAYPEOPLE FREEDOM MINISTRIES INFO NIGHT

Wednesday, Jul 20 | 7:15 pm | Ministry Center Would you like to volunteer with the Freedom Ministries team but don’t know where to start? Join us to learn more about how to serve in Freedom classes, groups, sessions, and more! Contact: Elizabeth Settle, 817.552.7368, freedomslk@gatewaypeople.com

CHURCHWIDE BAPTISM VOLUNTEERS

Jul 30–31 | Weekend Services

We are looking for volunteers who want to be a part of making a difference in the lives of others. As people make a public declaration of their faith by getting water baptized, we want to serve them and make it a great experience. Contact: Bree Vasquez, 817.552.7483, baptismslk@gatewaypeople.com

KINGDOM ADVISORS’ LUNCHEON

Monday, Aug 8 | 11:45 am–1:00 pm | Serve Lounge

CATCH THE VISION (MEMBERSHIP CLASS)

We offer in-depth training and a tight-knit community for Christian financial professionals who want to integrate their faith with their practice. Lunch is provided. Register at stewardship.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Katie Rushing, 817.328.2087, stewardship@gatewaypeople.com

1st Saturday of Every Month | 4:00 pm | Classroom 2D This class connects you to Gateway Church and explains our purpose, values, and history and gives you an opportunity to become a member! Register at ctv.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Bree Vasquez, 817.552.7483, ctvslk@gatewaypeople.com

PINK GROUPS SUMMER CLASSES

Tuesdays & Thursdays, Jun 7–Jul 14 | 10:00 am We are offering two tracks of summer classes: Parenting and Leadership. Register at groups.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Christy Linder, 682.223.6935, pinkgroups@gatewaypeople.com

HAWAIIAN FALLS BAPTISM NIGHT

Thursday, Jul 7 | 10:30 am–8:00 pm Hawaiian Falls, Roanoke

WOMEN’S WORSHIP & PRAYER NIGHT

Monday, Jul 11 | 7:00–8:30 pm | Classroom 2D

Join us for this monthly evening as we come together in an intimate setting to pray, worship, and intercede. Registration not required. Contact: Christy Linder, 682.223.6935, pinkgroups@gatewaypeople.com

PRAYER FOR ISRAEL

Tuesday, Jul 12 | 7:00 pm | The Mix Join us as we pray for the peace of Jerusalem, the salvation of Israel, and divine protection for the Jewish people. Contact: Mark Anthony, 817.552.3789, israelprayer@gatewaypeople.com

ESTATE PLANNING SEMINAR Saturday, Jul 16 | 9:00–11:00 am Classroom 2D

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ANNOUNCEMENTS

SUMMER PINK NIGHT FIGHT STRONG. LOVE OUTRAGEOUS.

Thursday, Aug 4 | 7:00 pm | Auditorium Don’t miss our annual summer Pink Night as we focus on having a strong body, soul, and community. Later, we’ll have an after party filled with music, crazy games, and a nacho bar! We will also be collecting school supplies for local schools to bless students. Register at pink.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Jessica Harry, 817.552.3775, pinkslk@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY EQUIP

Wednesdays & Weekends, Aug 31–Nov 20 This fall, in addition to our regular Wednesday and weekend classes, we are excited to announce our newest class, #SquareUp. Pastor Jan Greenwood will share how God called her to fight the good fight. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Karen Darwin, 817.552.7462, equip@gatewaypeople.com

PARKING LOT MINISTRY

CAREER MINISTRY SEMINAR

Saturdays, August 20 & 27 8:30–11:30 am | Classroom 2C

This interactive two-day course will cover topics such as job transition, discovering biblical calling and purpose, highquality résumé writing, effective networking, and the art of interviewing. Register at stewardship.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Katie Rushing, 817.328.2087, stewardship@gatewaypeople.com

We have several volunteer opportunities, including escorting guests, giving tours, or assisting guests who need help finding an open parking space. To learn more, visit gxp.gatewaypeople.com or stop by the Welcome Center during weekend services. Contact: Jim Mayher, 817.552.7566, gxp@gatewaypeople.com

TUESDAYS »» Pray First | 7:00 am | The Mix »» Gateway Young Adults (20s–30s) 7:00 pm | Auditorium

FINANCIAL HOPE WORKSHOP

Tuesdays, Aug 30–Oct 18 5:45 pm (Young Adults) or 6:45 pm

WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium [UC]

Learn how to create a financial plan that includes a budget, a debt repayment strategy, and a solid savings plan. Register at stewardship.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Jacquelyn Bushnell, 817.552.7428, stewardship@gatewaypeople.com

FINANCIAL PEACE UNIVERSITY

Tuesdays, Aug 30–Nov 8 | 7:00 pm | Flying Ferris Wheel We all need a plan for our money. This course will show you how to get rid of debt, manage your money, spend wisely, and much more! Register at stewardship.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Jacquelyn Bushnell, 817.552.7428, stewardship@gatewaypeople.com

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WEEKLY EVENTS

THURSDAYS »» Men’s Prayer Meeting | 5:30 am | Lobby

PINK SUMMER PLAYGROUPS WITH A PURPOSE

Playgroups are a safe, fun place where our children can make godly friends and moms can connect! For more information, visit groups.gatewaypeople.com and search “Playgroups.” Contact: Christy Linder, 682.223.6935, pinkgroups@gatewaypeople.com

SATURDAYS »» The Connection (Adults 50+) 5:30 pm | Classroom 2C SUNDAYS »» Freedom Basics | 9:00 am | Classroom 2D »» Prayer Tools | 9:00 am | Classroom 2C »» Corporate Prayer for the Nation | 10:40 am

Visit events.gatewaypeople.com for the latest information.

40-DAY PRAYER CHALLENGE

Jul 30–31 | Weekend Services

This summer, join us as we embark on a churchwide 40-Day Prayer Challenge. Here’s the challenge: choose a partner and pray with them every day for five minutes. It’s that simple. For more information, visit powerofprayer.gatewaypeople.com.

GATEWAY WORSHIP INFORMATION MEETING UC

If you’re interested in being part of any area of worship ministry, including Gateway Worship Choir or Worship Team Academy, join us for this meeting! Register at worship.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Rachel Melton, 817.552.3728, worshipconnection@gatewaypeople.com

MESSIANIC SERVICE

SERVICE TIMES CHURCHWIDE BAPTISM

Jul 4–Aug 12

Thursday, Jul 7 | 7:00 pm

LOCATIONS &

SLK DAL FRS GRP NFW NRH

We want to stand with you as you publicly declare your decision to follow Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior through water baptism. Register at baptism.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Bree Vasquez, 817.552.7483, baptism@gatewaypeople.com

ID SEMINAR

Friday–Saturday, Aug 12–13 | 6:30–9:30 pm Discover your life mission as you explore your strengths and spiritual giftings! Cost: $25. Register at id.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Sarah Weaver, 817.552.3774, id@gatewaypeople.com

CREATIVE ARTS CLASSES

Aug 15–Sep 26

SLK

Come hear Pastor Wayne Wilks Jr. teach on Jesus in the book of Judges and join us for our dessert fellowship afterward. Preservice prayer begins at 7:00 pm. Contact: Oli Snyder, 817.552.7452, jewish@gatewaypeople.com

Join us for our Performing Arts classes (acting, dancing, and singing) and new classes focused on the visual arts (drawing, film, photography, and songwriting). Classes meet weekly and are offered in six-week sessions. Cost: $25 per session. Contact: London Wright, 817.328.2018, creativearts@gatewaypeople.com

HABITATION

WORSHIP TEAM ACADEMY

SLK FRS GRP NFW

This is a 12-week, video-based curriculum to train musicians in worship theology and musical craft. For more information, attend the Worship Information Meeting on July 7, or visit wta.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kristy Luth, 817.552.7611, worshipteamacademy@gatewaypeople.com

Friday, Jul 8 | 7:30 pm | Auditorium

SLK

Sunday, Jul 10 | 6:00 pm | Auditorium Join us for a special time of worship, testimonies, and ministry. Prayer starts at 5:15 pm. For more information, visit habitation.gatewaypeople.com.

GATEWAY STUDENT CONFERENCE: LIMITLESS

Jul 20–22

SLK

Join students (7th–12th grade) and leaders as they come together to hear from dynamic speakers and experience powerful worship! Register at gatewaystudentconference.com. Contact: Joy Cromer, 817.552.7375, students@gatewaypeople.com

WACKY WEEK JR.

Tuesday–Thursday, Jul 26–28

SLK

It’s time to register your 4- or 5-yearold for an amazing week! Cost: $10 per child. Register at kids.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Julie Stockenberg, 817.552.7433, wackyweek@gatewaypeople.com

PERFORMING ARTS: NIGHT OF SCENES

Thursday, Jul 28 | 7:00 pm

You’re invited to an all-new event where you’ll see live performances of scenes from four different productions and a special sneak preview of our summer show, Fiddler on the Roof. Admission is free! Contact: Rachel Turner, 682.223.6918, performingarts@gatewaypeople.com

Session Begins in August

SOUTHLAKE CAMPUS SLK 700 Blessed Way · Southlake, TX 76092 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm DALLAS CAMPUS DAL 12123 Hillcrest Rd · Dallas, TX 75230 Sat 4:00 pm Sun 10:45 am FRISCO CAMPUS FRS 7125 Legacy Dr · Frisco, TX 75034 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm GRAND PRAIRIE CAMPUS GRP 2404 N Carrier Pkwy · Grand Prairie, TX 75050 Sat 5:00 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm NORTH FORT WORTH CAMPUS NFW 4209 Basswood Blvd · Fort Worth, TX 76137 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm

SLK FRS GRP NFW

THE SCHOOL OF TECH ARTS

Fall Semester Registration Open

Get out of the studio and gain real-world experience! We have Pro Tools certification courses; live audio, video, and stage lighting courses; and more! Visit schooloftecharts.com. Contact: Vivian Brassel, 817.552.5884, info@schooloftecharts.com

THE KING’S UNIVERSITY

NRH CAMPUS NRH 7501 Davis Blvd · North Richland Hills, TX 76182 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm MINISTRY CENTER MIN 540 S Nolen · Southlake, TX 76092 UNIVERSITY CAMPUS UC 2121 E Southlake Blvd · Southlake, TX 76092 817.328.1000

CHILDREN’S MINISTRY AVAILABLE

Fall Enrollment

The King’s University offers accredited undergraduate and graduate degrees where you can gain practical ministry experience within Gateway Church. Apply today and register for fall courses at www.tku.edu. Contact: Tyler Maxey, 817.552.7570, admissions@tku.edu

CHRISTMAS PRODUCTION | COSTUME MAKERS

Are you gifted in sewing or clothing construction? We need your help! This Christmas, we will need numerous brand new costumes for our fun and endearing characters. Contact: Rachel Turner, 682.223.6918, performingarts@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS TUESDAYS »» Gateway Young Adults (20s–30s) 7:00 pm | Auditorium SLK DAL

GRP NFW

WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium UC FRS GRP NFW NRH

SUNDAYS »» Marriage Challenge | 9:30 am MIN (Canceled on Holiday Weekends)

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CHURCHWIDE

ACTIVITIES

COLOR YOUR COUNTRY

Get your map pencils out and color coast to coast!

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MATCH THE FACTS 1. Who had the largest signature on the Declaration of Independence? 2. Who was the first man to walk on the moon? 3. Where was Abraham Lincoln born?

WHERE

Neil Armstrong

Virginia

John Hancock

4. Who was the youngest president?

Kentucky

5. Who gave the Statue of Liberty to the United States?

Theodore Roosevelt

6. Which state is the birthplace to the most presidents? 7. Which president got stuck in the White House bathtub? 8. Who was the first person to use the term “The White House”?

William H. Taft

France

John F. Kennedy

FAITH + POP

CULTURE

MEET

by Stacy Burnett

ONE OF THIS YEAR’S BIG OSCAR WINNERS was a movie called Room. Based on a book by Emma Donoghue, the movie recounts the harrowing fictional story of a teenage girl who is kidnapped and imprisoned in a one-room shed. While it’s home to her five-year-old son, Jack, it’s a prison to her. In a brilliant scheme, they escape the room where they lived for the entirety of Jack’s short life. Before their escape, Joy, better known as Ma, relays to Jack stories about life outside of “Room.” She talks about being at home with her parents and lying in a hammock in her backyard. She can’t wait for Jack to meet his grandparents one day, and she tells him he will love the outside world. Her precious relationship with Jack and these memories give Ma hope and something to hold onto during some of the darkest moments of her life. But the reality is that everything changed while she was stuck in the room. Her parents divorced, and her father didn’t want anything to do with her or Jack. There was no longer a hammock in their backyard. She could never go back to the innocence of her youth because everything had changed. Life as she’d known it no longer existed, and although outside of the room, she found herself distraught. I can’t help but think about where Ma put her hope—in familiar, comfortable things from her past. Most of us do the same thing when going through a difficult time, only to be let down. The Bible says we should put our hope and trust in Him, not in things of this world, and while the world is constantly changing, Hebrews 13:8 tells us, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.” When we put our hope in Him, we know that, regardless of our circumstances, He is good. He is good when we find ourselves in a literal prison or the prison of our own making. He is good when we are abused and when our faith is shaken. His goodness stays the same, through every age; we can bet our lives on it. Even if everything else changes, He is the same inside the room and outside of the room. While Gateway doesn’t recommend the film due to its “R” rating, the story’s strong themes of dedication and survival are inspiring.

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1. John Hancock, 2. Neil Armstrong, 3. Kentucky, 4. John F. Kennedy, 5. France, 6. Virginia, 7. William H. Taft, 8. Theodore Roosevelt

PROFILE

Gateway Frisco, and it’s been cool seeing a culture of worship be established. It’s a very tight-knit community, like a small town.

BEN & ELISA HAAKE BEN HAAKE IS THE FRISCO CAMPUS WORSHIP PASTOR. HE AND HIS WIFE, ELISA, HAVE TWO BOYS: GRAHAM AND COLIN. ELISA: I first saw Ben at the end of 2007 when he was leading worship one night at Seven (now Gateway Young Adults). Then when I came on staff, we happened to be in the same Financial Peace University class. We didn’t really know each other before the class, so for those 13 weeks, I decided to sit next to him in every class. It wasn’t necessarily because I was interested in him, but he was always so serious, and I wanted to see if I could get him to smile!

interested in me, because he didn’t really talk to me, other than to ask me if I needed anything or wanted something to drink. It was kind of funny. BEN: People are always pretty surprised to find out that I’m highly introverted. You wouldn’t really see that on the weekend when I lead. ELISA: We eventually figured out we liked each other and ended up dating. After three breakups, the Lord made it very clear we were supposed to be together, and we got married. BEN: I knew whoever I married would minister with me, side-by-side. We had both received prophetic words that we were going to marry someone we could lead with and that our ministry would go to the next level when we were joined together.

ELISA: It’s family—literally for me! My brother, Johnny, is on the worship team with us, my sister-in-law is involved with Pink at our campus, my dad is a deacon, and my mom oversees prophetic training. But the campus is also one big spiritual family. We know what certain people are going through, and they trust us to lead them into the presence of God. We definitely feel the weight of that. BEN: We love traveling together—especially the Pacific Northwest, like Portland and Seattle. ELISA: My family moved here from Portland, Oregon. We lived on seven acres there and raised all kinds of animals—pigs, goats, horses, you name it. My least favorite chore was walking our pigs. The pigs were supposed to build more muscle than fat, but ours were all fat because we hated walking them. Sometimes they’d get out of control, and you’d have to chase them and catch them. It just wasn’t worth it. BEN: And I actually worked on a hog farm in Iowa growing up. My youth pastor raised 3,000 head of hog, and I used to help him.

BEN: I thought she was very attractive, and I loved her passion for the Lord. And she was obviously interested in me—she sat by me every week! [laughs]

ELISA: We’ve been doing that for almost six years now, and when we’re leading worship together, there’s a synergy there. We flow together easily, and it’s fun to sort of read each other’s minds in that way.

ELISA: I think we found out we both had grown up around pigs during one of those party games where you have to say two truths and a lie. It was one of those, “Wait! You did too?!” moments. [laughs]

ELISA: He ended up asking me out on a double date, and on the date I thought, There’s no way he’s really

BEN: We love leading together at the Frisco Campus. We were here right in the beginning when it became

For more about our Gateway pastors and staff, visit staff.gatewaypeople.com.

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