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SOMETHING FOR EVERYONE. Family Life Night is designed to strengthen everyone in the family. p. 12

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OPPOSITES ATTRACT An excerpt from Tom and Jan Lane’s book Strong Women and the Men Who Love Them. p. 10

BLESSING PEOPLE, ONE TACO AT A TIME

A VALENTINE’S DAY IN THE LIFE

The extraordinary story of So-Cal Tacos. p. 14

Navigating the holiday as a single person. p. 18

WHEN JESUS SEES US, HIS BRIDE, HE SAYS, “WHEN YOUR EYES OPEN IN THE MORNING, THE SUN RISES. AND WHEN YOUR EYES CLOSE AT NIGHT, THE STARS SHINE. AND WHEN YOU WALK INTO A ROOM, I CAN’T SEE ANYONE BUT YOU. I LOVE YOU WITH ALL OF MY HEART, NO MATTER WHAT, FOREVER AND ALWAYS. AND YOU WILL NEVER, EVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT ME BEING UNFAITHFUL BECAUSE I AM MADLY AND PASSIONATELY HEAD OVER HEELS IN LOVE WITH YOU.”

ROBERT M ORRIS | TAKEN FR O M “AMAZING H US B AND”

CONTENTS FEBRUARY 2015

COMMENTS

2 WELCOME 3 PULSE OUTREACH

8 THE KINGDOM ABROAD How to go on a ministry trip with Gateway Church.

F E AT U R E S

OPPOSITES ATTRACT

An excerpt from Tom and Jan Lane’s book Strong Women and the Men Who Love Them.

SOMETHING FOR EVERYONE

BLESSING PEOPLE, ONE TACO AT A TIME.

Family Life Night is designed to strengthen everyone in the family.

The extraordinary story of So-Cal Tacos.

KARI JOBE & CODY CARNES’ "Let the Heavens Open"

A VALENTINE’S DAY IN THE LIFE Navigating the holiday as a single person.

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ANNOUNCEMENTS ACTIVITIES PROFILE – RITA SPRINGER

DOWNLOAD THE GATEWAY LIFE APP AND READ GATEWAY LIFE ANYTIME, ANYWHERE. Now available for iPhone, Android phones, iPad, and Kindle Fire. For more information, visit gatewaylifemag.com.

WELCOME

WELCOME to GATEWAY LIFE WE’RE WELL INTO 2015, and I’m so excited about the impact that The Blessed Life series has had on our church so far. We just wrapped up the devotional and our churchwide fast (which means I might be eating some Blue Bell Chocolate Ice Cream as I write this), and I couldn’t be prouder of your participation.

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The Blessed Life has been my life message for a long time. Many years ago, God challenged Debbie and me to live outrageously generous lives, and we’ve been on an adventure ever since. I hope that as we continue this series, you begin to realize that God is challenging you to do the same. I encourage you to seek the Lord and ask Him how you can reach another level of generosity. An easy way you can start serving and blessing others right now is through Bless A Life, which is an initiative we plan to continue after the series ends. I’m

editorial Stacy Burnett, Managing Editor Daniel Hopkins, Senior Writer/Editor Shea Tellefsen, Staff Writer/Editor Katie Smith, Staff Writer Georgette Shuler, Copy Editor

looking forward to hearing about all the creative and generous ways you will be a blessing to others. One of my favorite stories in this issue of Gateway Life has to do with generosity. When Scott Wooley started his food truck business (page 14), he used his tips to help people in need. He even paid a few people’s monthly mortgage payments for them. Now, he has an extremely successful restaurant in Grapevine. You’ll also enjoy reading about how Gateway is working to strengthen marriages and families with our new Family Life Night (page 12). And, if you’ve ever considered going on a ministry trip, find out on page 8 how easy it is to be a part of one of our trips this year. I would love to see every member of Gateway go on a ministry trip! It’s my hope that you’ll be blessed and encouraged by reading this issue of Gateway Life.

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art Shane Dennehey, Creative Director Tim Lautensack, Art Director/Designer Megan White, Designer Katrina Sirmon, Production Designer David Phillips, Print Coordinator

photography Cory Hale Jonathan Volk (Contributing Photographer)

OUR VISION is to see people saved, healed, set free, discipled, equipped, empowered, and serving.

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For Gateway’s complete mission statement, visit mission.gatewaypeople.com.

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“So honored to learn from a wise man like Jack Hayford. Thank you, Lord for blessing him to share his message.” Bobbi Jackson | via Facebook

“For years, I struggled with living carelessly. I was in college, independent, and didn’t want to answer to anyone. I was so far away from God. It took some hard lessons for me to finally realize that I was done with that lifestyle, and I took a step and joined Gateway. I cut off a lot of negative relationships, but ended up secluding myself, thinking I was safe from the world by sitting at home alone all the time. After months of being antisocial, I knew it wasn’t how God intended me to live. I decided to get connected in the church and joined a group. It has made a huge difference in such a short time and has really been a blessing in my life! It’s a great feeling to be involved with people who are in the same stage of life and who are intentionally making positive, Christ-centered relationships. I haven’t had any desire at all to go back to my life before, and I’m confident that I am finally becoming the person God intended me to be!” Jacquelyn Bushnell | via Email

“We enjoyed the profile of Pastor Gayland Lawshe in the January issue of Gateway Life. My husband and I laughed about his pet bear! He showed that it’s never too late to learn something new (Tae Kwon Do), and we loved reading about the healing and restoration in his marriage. We are glad we get to know the church staff through these great articles!” Carlos & Luvit Alvarez | via Email

Gateway is committed to seeing every person BELIEVING in Jesus, BELONGING to family, BECOMING a disciple, and BUILDING His kingdom.

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“THE BOUNDARIES THAT GOD PLACES AROUND US ARE NOT RESTRICTIVE OR CORRECTIVE; THEY’RE PROTECTIVE AND FREEING. HIS BOUNDARIES AREN’T PUNISHMENTS; THEY’RE BLESSINGS!” Jack Hayford | First Conference 2015

“God is a trustworthy God. You may not be able to always trust yourself or others, but you can ALWAYS trust Him.” John C. Maxwell | First Conference 2015

First Conference 2015

“ALL AUTHORITY IN HEAVEN AND EARTH BELONGS TO JESUS. SATAN HAS NONE, EXCEPT WHAT YOU GIVE HIM.” First Conference 2015

Miles McPherson | First Conference 2015

First Conference 2015

“To advance your life, you must first advance your thinking. So, get in the Word and get the Word in you.” Tom Mullins | First Conference 2015

Pink Night | North Fort Worth Campus

Family Candlelight Service | Southlake Campus

“THE SILENCE OF GOD IS NOT HIS DISPLEASURE; IT IS HIS DEVELOPMENT.” John Gray | First Conference 2015

Family Candlelight Service | Southlake Campus

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“We play your podcast every Sunday in our church in Mumbai, India. Every one of our church members love the way you bring forth the Word and your honesty in telling your own stories. Love and prayers from India!” Jose Mathew | via Email

We asked how God blessed you in 2014:

“SOMEONE I LOVE VERY MUCH AND HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR SINCE MY TEEN YEARS (MORE THAN 30 YEARS) ACCEPTED CHRIST THIS YEAR!” Charlotte Baker Barnes | via Facebook

“GOD BLESSED US IN 2014 WITH A SON WE HAVE BEEN TRYING 12 YEARS FOR!” Donny Heather Amburgey | via Facebook

“He brought my beautiful baby girl into this world.” Amanda Constance | via Facebook

“On a hospital bed in the emergency room last year, my world almost came to an end. After being admitted when the oxygen level in my blood dropped drastically, doctors told my wife they didn’t expect me to make it. I woke up six days later and found out that Deacon Larry Griffon had stopped by the hospital and prayed for me. My son-in-law later said that he could see a change happening in me while Larry prayed. How powerful is that? After four weeks in rehab, I finally was well enough to return home. This was a surprise to the doctors and nurses, but I knew better; God had worked a miracle with my recovery. My family was told two times that it was questionable whether I would survive or not, but we all witnessed God’s power in answering prayer. The first Sunday at church after returning home from rehab, my family and I went up to the front for prayer and were greeted by Deacon Larry who prayed for us again. We thank all of the Gateway family and especially Deacon Larry for the many prayers and get well wishes. Jesus never fails.” Jack Wiersma | via Email

“At the end of last year, ASELSI Ministries International, a Gateway ministry partner in Guatemala, was able to celebrate Christmas by giving food and providing ministry to Guatemalan families in need. More than 1,500 children along with their parents came to ASELSI for this year’s ‘Fiesta Navideña’ (Christmas party), where they received gifts, supplies, and food donated by Gateway. For many of the families, it was the first time to visit ASELSI. Thank you for supporting Gateway Global Ministries!” Pastor Juan Constantino | via Email

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IN RESPONSE TO FIRST CONFERENCE:

“WATCHING FROM MINNESOTA! LOVE BEING A PART OF THIS CONFERENCE!” Kristine Kemp | via Facebook

“A great message from a great man (Jack Hayford) and a great God!” Sharon Bolton | via Facebook

“Talk about on fire for the Lord. We saw it in John Gray! It is so refreshing to see people laugh in church. It seems like each night of the First Conference just gets better.” Deidra Yerby-Waggoner | via Facebook

“THANK YOU FOR FILMING LIVE ON DAYSTAR.” Connie Beene Dill | via Facebook

“JOHN GRAY IS ONE OF MY MOST FAVORITE PREACHERS! I LOVE HOW HE BRINGS BACK OLD, SOULFUL SONGS. HE IS SO INSPIRING, ENCOURAGING, AND MOTIVATING!!” Tiffani Smith Dye | via Facebook

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“My favorite moment was when Miles McPherson reminded us to break the curses in our lives. Not only did I break them in my life but I told the enemy he has no place in the lives of my kids and their families!” Jo Haussman | via Facebook

“IT’S AMAZING THAT FIRST CONFERENCE IS REACHING PEOPLE AS FAR AWAY AS TANZANIA AND UGANDA. GOD IS DOING AWESOME THINGS!” Alexandra Strawn | via Facebook

“I was so blessed by Coach Mullin’s pregame pep talk and reminder to stay in God’s Word in order to walk in the favor of God!” Neakia Payton | via Facebook

All responses taken from Gateway Church social media. Send us feedback on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram, or email us at life@gatewaypeople.com.

FAVORITE MUSIC? Bluegrass. I’m kidding. I don’t really even know what that is. I genuinely have an appreciation for every genre (especially film scores), except for country music. I just can’t let myself fully go there yet. MOST EMBARRASSING MOMENT? As a teenager, my mom (the worship leader) had me do an interpretive dance in front of my church. As she was playing the piano, she said, “Jelani, don’t you want to dance before the Lord?” I absolutely did not, but you don’t say no to Mom. I’m pretty sure I had an out-of-body experience. PROUDEST MOMENT? Probably when my dad held my daughter, Judah, for the first time. She looked so much like me when she was born, my brother called her Benjamin Button (a little, old version of me). IF YOU COULD GET COFFEE WITH ANYONE LIVING OR DEAD … I don’t typically drink coffee, but I would sip a caramel apple cider with Martin Luther King Jr., King David and one of his mighty men, and Denzel Washington. DO YOU HAVE ANY HOBBIES? Biking (not with spandex on), fishing (typically in people’s neighborhood ponds—I owe some additional HOA fees), reading, going on cruises, and attending theatrical/musical productions with the lovely Mrs. Erin Lewis. For more about Gateway pastors and staff, visit bios.gatewaypeople.com.

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OUTREACH

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Visit global.gatewaypeople.com to learn more about upcoming ministry trips. Each trip summary includes travel dates, the Gateway ministry leading the trip, the cost, and a brief explanation of the trip’s purpose.

Apply online or by contacting the person associated with your chosen trip. Feel free to ask any questions. Or, if there’s a country or region God has put on your heart and you don’t see a trip listed for it, ask when a future trip could happen.

Gateway ministry trip costs vary. Some require more than $4,000 while others cost less than $1,000. Trip goers are responsible for raising their own funds in advance; however, Gateway offers access to a free online profile to help. You can post the link to your profile on social media or email, offering people a chance to help fund your trip through

Some trips require strenuous physical activity. You wouldn’t want to trek through the mountains in Nepal without getting in shape first. If you have a specific skill set (education, medical, etc.), email globaltrips@gatewaypeople.com to see how it might be used on a trip.

All international trips require a passport and some may require release forms, immunizations, and special visas. Each person will be given an organized checklist of all the preparations they need to make before going on their trip.

tax-deductible donations. Or if you prefer, you’ll have access to a template for a letter, which can be sent in the mail or via email. Creativity is encouraged—one person made and sold T-shirts, while another family harvests and sells honey to fund their trips.

There’s a lot to do before going on your trip, but with Gateway’s organized planning and help, you could easily find yourself bringing the kingdom abroad or right next door.

For more information, visit global.gatewaypeople.com.

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AN EXCERPT FROM STRONG WOMEN AND THE MEN WHO LOVE THEM BY TOM AND JAN LANE

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ROMANTIC THOUGHTS OF RELATIONAL BLISS have their roots in fairy tales. Cinderella, the attractive young woman who was mistreated by her mean stepmother and stepsisters, finds help through a fairy godmother. A pumpkin is turned into a coach, mice become tailors and coachmen, and Cinderella captures the heart of the prince at the ball. The story ends with the declaration that they married and lived happily ever after. We think, if that can happen to Cinderella, why not to me? We need “the rest of the story,” as Paul Harvey used to say. The greatest joy and fulfillment in marriage comes as the result of two hearts becoming one. Achieving this result involves a process that allows the uniqueness of the two individuals to be blended together. The expression of each person’s gifts enhance the relationship as each one values and supports the other without one person dominating or repressing the other. Our own perspective is uniquely individual and when blended with our spouse’s, it gives a greater perspective to life’s circumstances and reflects the partnership God designed for marriage. This is the process that produces the fullest results from blending our lives together into one focus, one purpose, and one heart with multiple reflections as it produces fulfillment and happiness for both parties in the marriage. This is God’s perfect design. The truth is, not every woman is Cinderella and not every man is Prince Charming! Every person is uniquely created, so there are as many personality dynamics as there are people in the world. When it comes to building a marriage partnership, every relationship is one-of-akind, meaning we do not uniformly reflect the people depicted on screen. When two different personalities come together, they create a unique combination that must be considered in order to grow the relationship. Each couple has to contend with their differences, all with the aim of discovering what it means, in their relationship, to become uniquely one—reflecting the partnership God designed us to experience in marriage. As we build a partnership with our spouse, there is one aspect of our lives regardless of our individuality that all couples must address. We must address the way we communicate, deal with conflict, and make decisions to ensure that both parties are honored and represented in the relationship. When a woman is confident, gifted, and strong, her aggressive actions and reactions may come across as dominant, controlling, or even offensive. When a man is confident but reflective and nonconfrontational, his slowness to engage can come across as passive, weak, and uncaring. If a couple with these tendencies wants to build a deep and satisfying marriage, they need to address the issues that crop up through these varied expressions of their personalities.

The passive husband is disposed toward avoiding conflict in an effort to create peace and harmony at any price. His approach makes communication less direct and more subtle, as he believes that peace and harmony can be achieved with less emotional friction. For an outgoing wife, this approach is unclear, evasive, and confusing, leaving her perplexed

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about her next step. The aggressive woman’s nature is to engage her husband on issues that impact their lives with little regard for peace and harmony. She is single-minded in her pursuit of connection and finding solutions to the circumstances being faced in the relationship. The assertive

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FAMILY LIFE NIGHT IS DESIGNED TO STRENGTHEN EVERYONE IN THE FAMILY by Daniel Hopkins

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EVERYONE IS PART OF A FAMILY. Whether you’re single, a married couple with kids, or a single parent, we’re all going through life together. That’s why Gateway is introducing Family Life Night, which is designed to strengthen us, no matter where we are in life. We’ll hear from dynamic speakers including Dr. John Townsend, Lisa Bevere, Jimmy Evans, and many of Gateway’s pastors as they tackle important topics that relate to us all and help us grow in practical ways. “We’re all in a different season of family life,” says Pastor Mike Guzzardo, who oversees Family Life Night. “This night gives us an opportunity to come together and equip ourselves to do well in the season we’re in.”

How It Works There are two options at Family Life Night. The first option starts in the Auditorium with worship followed by a speaker. After that, attendees will be invited to form small process groups to discuss the speaker’s message. During this time, teens and preteens will have their own classes and learn about the night’s topic in a relatable way. “Both parents and kids will be learning about the same subject matter,” says Kathy Boyle, Associate Pastor of Family Life. Our goal is to promote ‘tabletalk,’ which will provide the family with an opportunity to come around the dinner table and have a discussion about it.” The second option starts in various classrooms where several different teaching tracks are offered. The subject matter of these tracks include marriage, premarriage, parenting, intimacy, single parenting, blended families, and single life. Children’s Ministry is available.

Building Your House

Family Life Night starts February 23 and will meet at 7:00 pm every Monday at the Southlake Campus. deliberate planning. “It’s important that we take the time to proactively build our families,” says Mike. “You wouldn’t build your house by calling a bricklayer, a plumber, and a window guy and saying, ‘Alright guys, go to work.’ You need a plan! But that’s the approach we tend to take when we build and plan our families and lives. The family unit is God’s design. Morals, identity, and worldview are all communicated within the family, so we’re here to help build it the right way.” So beginning February 23, make sure to check out Family Life Night. No matter where you are in life, there will be something for you. After all, we’re all part of the same family. GL For more information, email familylife@gatewaypeople.com.

When it comes to building our families, Gateway is dedicated to a purposeful approach. With so many reactive programs such as crisis marriage and divorce care, Family Life Night seeks to build up and strengthen families before they ever get to a crisis stage. And we’re doing so by encouraging

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BLESSING PEOPLE, ONE TACO AT A TIME BY DANIEL HOPKINS

SCOTT WOOLEY DOESN’T HAVE AN OFFICE. Instead, you’ll find him perched at the end of the bar at So-Cal Tacos, the restaurant he owns in Grapevine. In front of him sits a computer, which he frequently leaves so he can run a plate of “gnarly nachos” to a guest, clear a table, or make sure every detail of his dining room is in order. There’s a distinct Southern California vibe in the restaurant from the surfboards that decorate the wall right down to Scott’s laid back, 14 FEBRUARY 2015

surfer-dude accent. He carries himself like a guy who’s been in the restaurant industry his entire life. But he truth is, he’s relatively new to the business. So-Cal Tacos was born when Scott was given a second chance. In 2010, he was diagnosed with a Brachial Plexus nerve tumor. It was inoperable, so the only thing doctors could do was prescribe pain medication. Doped up and depressed, Scott lost hope. He worried about his wife and how their three children would grow up without a father.

California comes to Grapevine in the So-Cal Tacos dining room.

Then one Sunday at Gateway’s NRH Campus, he went to Pastor Kam Hunt at the altar to receive prayer for his pain. But Kam didn’t pray for his pain—he prayed for his healing. “I never thought to pray for healing,” says Scott, a Gateway member since 2010. “I always prayed that God would help me manage the pain.” He didn’t think much about it until the next day when he woke up with no pain at all. After a few weeks of feeling great, he met with his neurosurgeon who ran a series of scans. “His jaw hit the floor,” says Scott. “He told me ‘There’s nothing there—it’s gone!’”

“I WAS BARELY PAYING MY BILLS AT HOME, BUT I WAS ABLE TO GIVE PEOPLE CASH TO PAY FOR MONTHLY MORTGAGE PAYMENTS AND CAR PAYMENTS.” Scott felt like he was given a fresh start and a story to tell. So he quit his high paying job in real estate and bought a food truck. “We prayed about it and almost overnight we created the brand for So-Cal Tacos,” says Scott. However, when all excitement around his plan subsided, he began having doubts. Was he really supposed to take a risk this big, especially now that he and his wife were expecting a fourth child?

The feeling of uncertainty lasted until a friend called and said he had a message from God. “He told me to read Luke 9:13,” says Scott, pointing out that this friend isn’t exactly a theologian. “It’s the verse where Jesus tells his disciples to feed the 5,000. In that moment, I knew what I had to do.” With that confirmation, Scott dove into his new business venture. The first year was difficult, but he and his first employee (who still works with him today) stayed focused on the goal of sharing his story and blessing the community. They devised a plan in which all of the tips the food truck received each month would be given away to struggling individuals, families, and single parents. “From the beginning, we identified that our tip money needed to be given away,” says Scott. “I was barely paying my bills at home, but I was able to give people cash to pay for monthly mortgage payments and car payments.” Scott didn’t run his food truck with profits in mind, but instead he focused on how he could use it to help others. Over time, business started booming. On October 15, 2012, the first year anniversary of the So-Cal Tacos food truck, he was invited to serve tacos to Gateway Conference attendees and volunteers. “Guess how many people we served that day?” he asks. “Five thousand! Isn’t that radical?”

But shortly after that day—the most successful one in the truck’s history—God told Scott to do the unthinkable. “He told me to close the truck,” he says. “I didn’t understand it. We were doing so much good for so many people. But God just said, ‘trust Me.’” Scott obeyed, but he became depressed for a few months until his business partner called with a question: “Have you ever thought of turning the food truck concept into a restaurant?” After a few meetings, a deal was inked, and just over a year ago the first So-Cal Tacos restaurant opened on Hall-Johnson Road in Grapevine. The restaurant concept has been so successful that Scott will be expanding to new locations very soon. “We’ll add one more store this year and after that we’ll begin

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So-Cal Tacos’ owner Scott Wooley doing what he does best—serving great food and hanging out with his customers.

to double on an annual basis,” he says. But he hasn’t lost sight of the original goal of the restaurant—building the kingdom. “Our culture is to give love, receive love, repeat the process,” he says. A few months ago, at the restaurant’s one-year anniversary party, a woman sat next to Scott’s wife, Susan, and they began talking. The woman, a single mother of four, had no idea about So-Cal’s history, but when she found out the restaurant started as a food truck, she started to cry. Several years ago, she had been struggling financially. Her church, Compass Christian in Colleyville, asked Scott if he would donate money to help the woman, and he gave $1,800 but never knew what happened after that. All she knew was that a man who runs a taco truck donated the money.

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“OUR CULTURE IS TO GIVE LOVE, RECEIVE LOVE, REPEAT THE PROCESS.” The night of the party, the woman made the connection and was able to tell Scott and his wife about the difference So-Cal Tacos had made in her life. She told him the words her son said when she received the tip money several years ago—words that go so well with what Jesus told His disciples in Luke 9:13: “Mom, that means we can eat!” GL Watch Scott's video testimony at gatewaylifemag.com. So-Cal Tacos is located at 2140 Hall-Johnson Road, Grapevine, TX 76051. eatsocaltacos.com

SONG STORY

KARI JOBE AND CODY CARNES’

“LET THE HEAVENS OPEN” by SHEA TELLEFSEN

IN MAY 2013, Pastors Kari Jobe and Cody says. “This song is just a cry for that faith our trust our hope in our great Carnes set out to write a new worship holy moment. That’s what we want.” God / Our great God.” “When he comes song to help people welcome God’s They finished the song at the in on that part, you see the people who presence in worship. But it didn’t hap- Gateway Conference in October, and are worshipping start to really agree pen quickly; writing “Let The Heavens decided to test it out during worship. with the words they’re saying and make Open” actually happened over the It went over well, but the song really them their prayer. It gets electric every course of about six months. thrived for the first time at the live time,” Kari says. To get some inspiration for the recording of Kari’s album Majestic. “I Not long after they recorded the song, Cody started looking at scrip- just remember thinking, Oh my good- song at the Majestic Theater in Dallas, tures about heaven opening, and ness, this is just a very strong presence the two became a couple. And now almost every one had to do with a of the Lord,” Kari says. “There’s such a they’re newlyweds, writing even more move of God. One that stuck out was unity in inviting Him.” In particular, music together that will minister to Matthew 3:16, when Jesus is baptized: the bridge that inspired the song title people around the world. It’s safe to “Jesus came up immediately from the is a really powerful moment. As Kari say we can expect many more songs water; and behold, the heavens were is singing “Let the heavens open / Let like “Let The Heavens Open” from opened to Him, and He saw the Spirit your kingdom move,” Cody comes in Kari and Cody. GL of God descending like a dove and in the background with a part that alighting upon Him.” “Anytime the they both say brings the song home: “Let The Heavens Open” is available on The Blessed Life: heavens were opened in the Word “No heaven locked up / let it open. No Songs from Gateway Devotions. of God, it was a holy moment,” Cody kingdom stand still / let it move. Our

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Our panel (left to right): Chelsea Seaton, Amanda Key, Josiah Solis, and Jason Tam gathered at Grapevine’s RE:defined Coffee House.

ON A RECENT AFTERNOON, THE TEAM AT why it’s important not to rush into it. If you know the Lord GATEWAY LIFE INVITED FOUR PEOPLE IN has someone for you, then when the right one comes along, MINISTRY AT GATEWAY TO DISCUSS THE you’ll know. So instead of having a date on Valentine’s Day just for the sake of dating, you can have peace. And if it’s a UPS AND DOWNS OF VALENTINE’S DAY super hard day for you, get around other people. Use it as AS A SINGLE PERSON. IRONICALLY, THE a day to pray for your future spouse. Go and do something AFTERNOON FELL ON THE CHINESE HOLI- fun that takes the focus off of yourself. I’m happy when I DAY “SINGLE’S DAY,” A TONGUE-IN-CHEEK see someone receive flowers on Valentine’s Day, but it’s RESPONSE TO VALENTINE’S DAY, WHICH because I know my identity is in Christ and God has my INSPIRED GREAT CONVERSATION AMONG whole life planned out for me. One day, when I get married, every day will be like Valentine’s Day. JASON TAM, JOSIAH SOLIS, AMANDA KEY, AND CHELSEA SEATON. JOSIAH SOLIS – MINISTRY COORDINATOR, FREEDOM

JASON TAM – PASTOR, WORSHIP CONNECTION

For me, Valentine’s Day is just an ordinary day. But there’s something about it that makes you feel pressured to ask someone out. You see your friends who are married and have kids and you want the same thing. I have to remind myself

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I love seeing people go all out on Valentine’s Day. My parents are like that. I’m the oldest of 10 kids—so they clearly like each other. They are romantic in an almost cheesy way, but I love it. I agree with Jason, Valentine’s Day is just an ordinary day with an extraordinary amount of pink in stores. And if days like that bring out feelings

of frustration and sadness, it’s important to find good friends and express those feelings to them. But you don’t want to drown in self-pity and post about it on social media. Nobody is attracted to that, and it just turns people away. My advice is to not make it about you—just have fun with it. The truth is, if you’re not happy as a single person, you’re probably not going to be happy as a married one. So enjoy life!

AMANDA KEY – PASTOR, COMPASSION MINISTRIES

I always treat Valentine’s Day like a normal day. For me, it’s not a difficult day. Sometimes other people can be awkward about it and have pity on a single person. In the same way, sometimes people relate to you differently when you’re single versus in a relationship. They think you have more value or credibility when you are part of a couple. But I believe individuals have so much value—in every season of their life. When you’re single you should live it up! Have as much fun as you can. Serve at church, have a variety of friends of different ages, go on fun vacations, and get a job you love. Do it all while you can. Enjoy the benefits of this season of life!

CHELSEA SEATON – ASSOCIATE PASTOR, PINK

One of my favorite things to do on Valentine’s Day—and this is going to sound overly spiritual—is to help others have an awesome day! Working with a bunch of guys at the North Fort Worth Campus, I like to give them tips on how they can make the day more special for their wives. I’m like, “Go for it dudes!” However, one of my biggest pet peeves about Valentine’s Day, and relationships in general, is when people try to play matchmaker for the wrong reasons. People see that I’m single and they act desperate on my behalf. I’m not desperate—I’m okay with being single! I don’t need them to be desperate for me! Most single people I know feel the same way. When the matchmaker is so desperate on my behalf that they’ll set me up with anyone breathing, it’s frustrating. One time, I was set up with a guy who told me he liked the smell of weed, followed by the story of his first DWI—the keyword in that sentence is first. The person who set me up had no idea about any of this, but their rights as a matchmaker were revoked. Instead of dwelling on what I don’t have right now, I’m working on improving what I do have, which is myself. And I encourage all single people to do the same. GL

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HEALING MINISTRY

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First Monday of the Month | 7:00 pm | Auditorium

First Monday of the Month | 5:00–6:45 pm | Lobby

HEALING MINISTRY

GUEST EXPERIENCE ORIENTATION

Join us for Equip First Mondays to experience God in a deeper way! Each month will have a different focus and follow-up materials as we take you on a discipleship journey through 2015. Contact: Mark O’Bryan, 682.223.6137, equipfrs@gatewaypeople.com

The Frisco Campus now has healing rooms open before the monthly Monday night Equip classes! The process takes about 30 minutes and includes an introduction video, communion, individual prayer, and a follow-up class. Contact: Mark O’Bryan, 682.223.6137, healingfrs@gatewaypeople.com

If you have recently joined or would like to join a Guest Experience Team as a greeter, usher, Welcome Center host, parking lot attendant, or Gateway Safety Unit member, come hear the vision behind serving and receive additional training! Contact: Stefanie Urquidez, 817.328.2074, volunteerfrs@gatewaypeople.com

EQUIP TOPICAL CLASSES

Saturdays 5:45 pm & Sundays 9:00 am | Classroom B Join us for a variety of Equip classes now being offered during weekend services, such as our Foundations of Freedom and other topical classes. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Mark O’Bryan, 682.223.6137, equipfrs@gatewaypeople.com

FREEDOM FOUNDATIONS OF FREEDOM

Saturdays, Feb 7–Mar 7 | 5:45 pm | Classroom B

Our Foundations of Freedom classes help you become all you were created to be through a powerful ministry process. Register at freedom.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Mark O’Bryan, 682.223.6137, freedomfrs@gatewaypeople.com

Saturday, Feb 21 | 4:00 pm | Classroom B

MARRIAGE

ALTAR MINISTRY TRAINING

Saturday, Feb 7 | 4:00 pm | Classroom B

MARRIAGE CHALLENGE

Sundays, Beginning Mar 1 | 10:45 am Gateway Frisco Offices (6136 Frisco Square Blvd, Ste 375) Is your marriage a struggle, hurting, or in crisis? We can provide scriptural equipping, encouragement, and prayer support. Registration is not required. Contact: Mark O’Bryan, 682.223.6137, pastoralcarefrs@gatewaypeople.com

WOMEN PINK IMPACT 2015

MEMBERSHIP

Thursday–Saturday, Apr 23–25 | Auditorium This year, we are hosting Pink Impact live at our very own Frisco Campus, and we need your help! To sign up as a volunteer, visit pinkimpact.com/volunteer. Contact: Hannah Nelson, 817.552.7346, pinkfrs@gatewaypeople.com

FREEDOM MINISTRY TRAINING

Thursday–Saturday, Feb 26–28 | Auditorium We offer a training process to equip people to effectively minister freedom. The training is open to anyone at Gateway (who has completed the Foundations of Freedom classes and KAIROS) and any outside churches or ministries. Contact: Mark O’Bryan, 682.223.6137, freedomfrs@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY GROUPS GATEWAY GROUPS

If you’re looking for a way to get connected and make new friends at Frisco, join a Gateway Group! Find a group at groups.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kelly Hamilton, 817.552.7301, groupsfrs@gatewaypeople.com

MARRIAGE REVOLUTION GROUPS

We’re recruiting leaders for our new Marriage Revolution groups. If you’re interested in leading a group, email us to sign up. Contact: Kelly Hamilton, 817.552.7301, groupsfrs@gatewaypeople.com

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Do you have a desire to minister to others at the altar? Join us for this training that will equip and guide you as you pray for people at the altar. Contact: Mark O’Bryan, 682.223.6137, pastoralcarefrs@gatewaypeople.com

YOUNG ADULTS

CATCH THE VISION (MEMBERSHIP CLASS) Saturday, Feb 7 | 9:00 am | Lobby

This class connects you to Gateway Church and explains our purpose, values, and history and gives you an opportunity to become a member! Register at ctv.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Stefanie Urquidez, 817.328.2074, ctvfrs@gatewaypeople.com

SEVEN COLLECTIVE (18–30s)

Saturday, Feb 7 | 5:45 pm | Auditorium Are you looking to get plugged in? Join other young adults for Gateway’s Saturday night service followed by dinner! Contact: Benjamin Gilmore, 817.552.7614, sevenfrs@gatewaypeople.com

OUTREACH MINISTRY TRIP TO COLOMBIA

Apr 30–May 7

Do you have a heart to minister to those in need? Join us on a ministry trip to Colombia! The trip will include community outreach, children’s ministry, food delivery, and home visits. Contact: Jeremy Meister, 817.552.7501, frisco@gatewaypeople.com

BLESS A LIFE SERVE DAY

Saturday, Mar 7 | 8:00 am–1:00 pm Are you looking for a way to serve the Frisco community? This is a great opportunity for Gateway Groups, families, and individuals to serve together through various projects and partnerships. There is somewhere for everyone to serve! Contact: Allie Wilke, 817.328.2088, outreachfrs@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS SUNDAYS »» Foundations of Freedom | 9:00 am »» Marriage Challenge | Beginning Mar 1 10:45 am | Frisco Offices (Canceled on holiday weekends) WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium SATURDAYS »» Foundations of Freedom | 5:45 pm

Visit frs.gatewaypeople.com for the latest information.

WHAT’S HAPPENING

GATEWAY GRAND PRAIRIE

EQUIP THE BAPTISM IN THE HOLY SPIRIT

Sundays, Feb 8–22 | 12:30 pm | Prayer Center

This interactive class explores the biblical foundations of what it means to be baptized in the Holy Spirit and provides an opportunity for you to experience a deeper revelation of God’s Spirit and empowerment. Contact: Amanda Cheatham, 972.314.9084, equipgrp@gatewaypeople.com

FREEDOM

KIDS AMAZING KIDS PAID POSITIONS

We’re looking for team members to help us shape the next generation for the future God has planned for them! We have paid positions at all campuses, especially as we prepare for the grand opening of our new facility. Contact: Anne Hardin, 817.552.7475, kidsjobs@gatewaypeople.com

VOLUNTEERS GUEST EXPERIENCE VOLUNTEERS NEEDED

Saturdays | 5:00 pm | Weekend Services

As we expand to a new service on the weekend, we need more volunteers to help prepare hearts for worship. You can volunteer as an usher, greeter, parking lot attendant, and more! Contact: Rachel Sandefur, 972.314.9088, gxpgrp@gatewaypeople.com

MARRIAGE MARRIAGE REVOLUTION CLASS

Sundays, Mar 1–Apr 19 | 10:45 am | Prayer Center

FOUNDATIONS OF FREEDOM

Sundays, Feb 8–Mar 8 | 9:00 am | Prayer Center A prerequisite to KAIROS, these five classes are designed to help you begin the journey to freedom. Each class provides a part of a larger picture, which will deepen your experience of freedom as well as help you to maintain a life of freedom over time. Contact: Amanda Cheatham, 972.314.9084, equipgrp@gatewaypeople.com

FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP 10 FINANCIAL COMMANDMENTS

Sundays, Feb 1–15 | 10:45 am | Prayer Center

We’ll cover 10 financial commandments (principles) that coincide with the Ten Commandments of the Bible. Come learn God’s ways to manage money and the pattern that leads to the abundant life Christ intended you to live. Contact: Amanda Cheatham, 972.314.9084, equipgrp@gatewaypeople.com

In this class, we’ll explore and define a biblical model of marriage in new and fresh ways. You will strengthen your marital bond, extend grace toward each other, build intimacy, and be empowered as a couple. Contact: Amanda Cheatham, 972.314.9084, equipgrp@gatewaypeople.com

MYGATEWAY

GATEWAY STUDENTS VOLUNTEERS

Wednesdays | 7:00 pm | Auditorium

Come be a part of what God is doing at Gateway Students Grand Prairie! As we grow, we need volunteers to help serve, disciple, and mentor the next generation. Contact: James Gadberry, 972.314.9078, studentsgrp@gatewaypeople.com

WOMEN PINK MENTORING

GRAND PRAIRIE CAMPUS ON MYGATEWAY

Discover exclusive teaching videos and content that can only be found on the app! Visit my.gatewaypeople. com to download the app today. Contact: Niles Holsinger, 972.314.9000, mygatewaygrp@gatewaypeople.com

Do you want to discover more about yourself, your potential, and your capabilities? Consider becoming a Pink Mentor. Contact: Laurinda Dunn, 817.328.2093, pinkmentoring@gatewaypeople.com

OUTREACH BLESS! LOCAL OUTREACH OPPORTUNITY

Tuesdays & Thursdays | 9:00 am–2:00 pm First Saturday of the Month | 9:00 am–2:00 pm People That Care Center Come use your gift to serve others and minister God’s grace to families in need at our local food pantry. People That Care (PTC) Center is located at 2129 Galveston Street in Grand Prairie. Contact: Leigh Anne Uribe, 972.262.8318, leighanne@ptccenter.org

Visit grp.gatewaypeople.com for the latest information.

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GATEWAY NORTH FORT WORTH

BABY DEDICATIONS BABY DEDICATIONS

Sundays, Beginning Feb 8 4:00–6:00 pm | Compass A & B

If you would like to dedicate your child to the Lord, register at kids.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Lara Bledsoe, 817.552.7351, babiesnfw@gatewaypeople.com

The North Fort Worth Campus now has healing rooms open before the monthly Habitation nights! The process takes about 30 minutes and includes an introduction video, communion, individual prayer, and a follow-up class. Contact: Debbie Rhodes, 817.552.7325, pastoralcarenfw@gatewaypeople.com

EQUIP SPRING SESSION 2

Thursdays, Feb 19 & 26 | 7:00 pm It’s time for another session of Equip! We have some great classes and teachers lined up, and we’d love for you to join us as we go deeper in our relationship with God. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Jeannie Ware, 817.552.5801, equipnfw@gatewaypeople.com

EQUIP LEADERSHIP TEAM TRAINING (LTT)

Mondays, Feb 23–Apr 20 | 7:00–9:00 pm | Compass B Do you have a teaching gift? Are you a leader? If you would like to take the next step to becoming a member of our Equip team, contact us about our Leadership Team Training (LTT). Contact: Jeannie Ware, 817.552.5801, equipnfw@gatewaypeople.com

FREEDOM FOUNDATIONS OF FREEDOM

Saturdays, Feb 7–Mar 28 | 4:00 pm | Compass B Join us this spring for the next set of Foundations of Freedom classes and learn how to live freely. Register at freedom.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Debbie Rhodes, 817.552.7325, pastoralcarenfw@gatewaypeople.com

FREEDOM TRAINING

Tuesdays, Feb 3–Mar 24 | 7:00–8:30 pm | Compass B

Mondays, Mar 2–May 18 | 7:00 pm You don’t have to go through the pain of separation or divorce on your own. Learn how to deal with your past and look forward to rebuilding your life. Cost: $25 for materials. Register at spf.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Christian Lee, 817.552.7545, spf@gatewaypeople.com

HEALING MINISTRY

Saturday, Mar 14 | 5:30 pm | Auditorium Sunday, Mar 15 | 12:15 pm | Auditorium

EQUIP

DIVORCE CARE CLASS

HEALING MINISTRY

VOLUNTEERS SERVE!

Second Saturday of the Month 4:00–5:30 pm | Compass A

MEMBERSHIP CATCH THE VISION (MEMBERSHIP CLASS)

First Saturday of the Month 4:00–5:30 pm | Compass A

Our Catch the Vision class connects you to Gateway Church and explains our purpose, values, and history as well as our vision for the future. Register at ctv.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Meredith Tilton, 817.328.2075, ctvnfw@gatewaypeople.com

NEW BELIEVERS FRESH START

Third Saturday of the Month | 4:00–5:30 pm | Compass A Have you recently prayed to accept Jesus? Join us for our Fresh Start class to receive support and encouragement to grow in your relationship with Jesus! You can also stop by our booth in Guest Central to meet with our friendly volunteers! Contact: Meredith Tilton, 817.328.2075, freshstartnfw@gatewaypeople.com

Looking for a place to serve at the North Fort Worth Campus? Every month you can receive information and training on ways to serve as a greeter, an usher, a parking attendant, tech arts volunteer, group leader, and more! Contact: Meredith Tilton, 817.328.2075, volunteernfw@gatewaypeople.com

COMMUNION VOLUNTEERS

February 14 & 15 | Weekend Services We're looking for communion volunteers! If you’d like to serve, visit the Welcome Center 30 minutes before the service you attend for instructions. Attire is business casual. Contact: Meredith Tilton 817.328.2075, communionnfw@gatewaypeople.com

YOUNG ADULTS SEVEN (YOUNG ADULTS, 18–30)

Tuesdays, Beginning Feb 3 | 7:00 pm | Auditorium The Seven family is expanding! You can now join us at the Southlake, Grand Prairie, and North Fort Worth Campuses for weekly Tuesday night services centered on worship, the Word, and community. Contact: Emily Bua, 817.552.3604, seven@gatewaypeople.com

RELATIONAL CARE GRIEFSHARE CLASS

Tuesdays, Feb 3–May 12 | 7:00–8:30 pm | Compass A

Freedom Training is a two-part process that gives you the tools needed to minister freedom to others. You’ll receive teaching on freedom and personal ministry and be equipped to lead others to a new level of hearing God. Contact: Debbie Rhodes, 817.552.7325, pastoralcarenfw@gatewaypeople.com

If you’re experiencing heartache from the death of a loved one or friend, you don’t have to go through it alone. This class is dedicated to helping people through the grieving process. Cost: $25 for materials. Register at care.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Debbie Rhodes, 817.552.7325, carenfw@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY GROUPS

SINGLE PARENT FAMILIES

»» Seven (Young Adults, 18–30) | 7:00 pm

THE BLESSED LIFE SERIES GROUPS

FAMILY LIFE NIGHT

WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium

We’re continuing our churchwide emphasis on The Blessed Life, and we still have Gateway Groups meeting to discuss it. To find a Blessed Life group near you, visit groups.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Shannon Tolliver, 817.552.7469, groupsnfw@gatewaypeople.com

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WEEKLY EVENTS MONDAYS »» Single Parent Life | 7:00 pm TUESDAYS »» Pray First | 7:00 am | Auditorium

Mondays, Beginning Feb 2 | 7:00 pm We are now offering Single Parent Life, Divorce Care, Embrace Grace, and Embrace Life classes on Monday nights! On February 2, we’re kicking it all off with a night of worship. Contact: Peggy Thomas, 817.552.3752, spf@gatewaypeople.com

SATURDAYS »» Morning Prayer | 8:00 am | Parking Lot SUNDAYS »» Preservice Prayer | 8:00 am | Compass A

Visit nfw.gatewaypeople.com for the latest information.

WHAT’S HAPPENING

GATEWAY NRH

BABY DEDICATIONS BABY DEDICATION SERVICES

FREEDOM FOUNDATIONS OF FREEDOM

Mar 7–8 | Before Weekend Services | Auditorium

Sundays, Feb 1–15 | 10:45 am | Classroom A

If you would like to dedicate your baby or child to the Lord, register at kids.gatewaypeople.com by March 2. Space is limited! Contact: Amy Sellars, 817.552.7342, babiesnrh@gatewaypeople.com.

To help you become all God created you to be, we offer a powerful ministry process that begins with Foundations of Freedom. Register at freedom.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Ana Rodriquez, 817.552.7619, freedomnrh@gatewaypeople.com

EQUIP

TOPICAL FREEDOM: GENERATIONAL INIQUITIES Sunday, Feb 15 | 9:00 am | Classroom A

WEEKLY EQUIP EMAIL

If you would like to receive a weekly email update on all of the Equip classes we offer, email equipnrh@gatewaypeople.com.

WHAT IS WORSHIP?

Sundays, Feb 15–Mar 1 | 12:30 pm | Classroom A

You were created to be a worshipper. In this series, you will discover what worship truly looks like, and why becoming a better worshipper will bring you closer to God. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Danny Hageman, 817.328.2024, nrh@gatewaypeople.com

THE BAPTISM IN THE HOLY SPIRIT

Sunday, Feb 22 | 9:00 am–12:00 pm | Classroom A

If you’d like to learn more about the person and power of the Holy Spirit, join us for this Equip class! Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Ana Rodriquez, 817.552.7619, equipnrh@gatewaypeople.com

The Bible teaches us that the sins of our fathers are passed down from one generation to the next. Come hear what the Bible also says about being released from the power of the past. Register at freedom.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Ana Rodriquez, 817.552.7619, freedomnrh@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY GROUPS JOIN A GROUP!

If you’re looking for a way to get connected at NRH, join a group! Register at groups.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Saphrin Pediford, 817.552.7326, groupsnrh@gatewaypeople.com

LEAD A GROUP!

Are you interested in leading a Gateway Group? As we continue our emphasis on The Blessed Life, we’re hosting groups that we need leaders for! We’re also looking for leaders for our regular Gateway Groups. Contact: Saphrin Pediford, 817.552.7326, groupsnrh@gatewaypeople.com

KIDS

MEN ENTRY POINT

Wednesdays, Beginning Mar 4 | 7:00–8:00 am | The Mix Enter into a brotherhood of men that will make you a better husband, father, and leader while taking your spiritual walk to the next level. We’ll have worship, prayer, and practical teaching. Free breakfast is served at 6:30 am. Contact: Matt Lankenau, 817.552.5802, mennrh@gatewaypeople.com

OUTREACH BARABBAS FREEDOM MINISTRY

Sundays | 7:00 pm | Chat Room

This ministry is for men and women (18+) who have been incarcerated or struggle with addictions. Discover how to find new life through faith in Jesus. Contact: Matt Lankenau, 817.552.5802, nrh@gatewaypeople.com

MINISTRY TRIP TO NICARAGUA

March 7–14

Do you have a heart for ministering to orphans and impoverished children or providing medical care? Join the NRH Campus on a ministry trip to Nicaragua! Contact: Danny Hageman, 817.328.2024, nrh@gatewaypeople.com

RELATIONAL CARE RELATIONAL CARE ADVOCATES

Our Relational Care Ministry offers encouragement to people who are experiencing hospitalization, critical illness, birth, adoption, or loss of a loved one. If someone at NRH is experiencing one of these life events, let us know! Contact: Marie Brown, 817.552.7437, carenrh@gatewaypeople.com

FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP FINANCIAL PEACE UNIVERSITY

Tuesdays, Feb 3–Mar 31 | 7:00 pm | Auditorium This Dave Ramsey workshop is the most successful financial stewardship program in America. Learn how to eliminate debt, make a budget, and plan for tomorrow. Cost: $99 for materials. Register at generouslife.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Mike Harrell, 682.223.6143, generouslife@gatewaypeople.com

AMAZING KIDS PAID POSITIONS

We’re looking for team members to help us shape the next generation for the future God has planned for them! We have paid positions at all campuses. Contact: Anne Hardin, 817.552.7475, kidsjobs@gatewaypeople.com

AMAZING KIDS JEWEL STORE

March 14–15 | Before and After Weekend Services Court Room Bring your jewels and have a blast shopping the Amazing Kids’ Jewel Store. Jewels can be earned by returning Replay Sheets, bringing your Bible to class, participating in games, and more! Contact: Amy Sellars, 817.552.7342, kidsnrh@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS MONDAYS »» Healing Ministry | 7:00 pm | Lobby WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium

Visit nrh.gatewaypeople.com for the latest information.

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WHAT’S HAPPENING

GATEWAY SOUTHLAKE

DIVORCE CARE DIVORCE CARE CLASS

JEWISH

VOLUNTEER

PRAYER FOR ISRAEL

Mondays, Mar 2–May 18 | 7:00 pm | Classroom 2C

Tuesday, Feb 24 | 7:00 pm | The Mix

If you’re experiencing the pain of separation or divorce, you don’t have to go through it alone. Learn how to deal with the pain of your past and look forward to rebuilding your life. Cost: $25 for materials. Register at spf.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Christian Lee, 817.552.7545, spf@gatewaypeople.com

Join us this month as we meet to pray for the peace of Jerusalem, and the salvation of Israel. Contact: Mark Anthony, 817.552.3789, israelprayer@gatewaypeople.com

GUEST EXPERIENCE VOLUNTEERS

Volunteer with our parking lot or usher teams! By using golf carts to assist guests outside the building or by greeting and assisting people in finding seats in the Auditorium, you can help prepare hearts for worship. Visit gxp.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Jim Mayher, 817.552.7566, gxp@gatewaypeople.com

KIDS

HEARTLINE MINISTRY VOLUNTEERS

EQUIP

Do you love connecting with people? Then help us make phone calls from home to follow up with our first-time visitors. Contact: Kristine Lopez, 817.328.2030, heartline@gatewaypeople.com

EQUIP WINTER/SPRING SESSION 2

Feb 14–Mar 8 | Auditorium

Whether you attend a weekend class or prefer Wednesday nights, Equip offers dynamic classes in areas like worship, leadership, stewardship, and freedom. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Nicole Grey, 817.552.3686, equip@gatewaypeople.com

FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP ESTATE PLANNING WORKSHOP

Sunday, Feb 22 | 12:00 pm | Classroom 2D Learn how to create a will and build an estate plan through a biblical perspective. Register at generouslife.gatewaypeople. com. Children’s ministry is not available. Contact: Yoana Sampayo, 817.552.7428, generouslife@gatewaypeople.com

KINGDOM ADVISORS LUNCHEON

Tuesday, Feb 24 | 11:45 am | V! Lounge If you’re a financial advisor, CPA, attorney, banker, or real estate or mortgage professional, join us for our monthly luncheon. Register at generouslife.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Yoana Sampayo, 817.552.7428, generouslife@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY GROUPS the

BLESSED

Life

GATEWAY GROUPS

Blessed Life Series Groups conclude the week of February 22. Stay connected by continuing to meet, finding another group, or becoming a group leader. Contact: Jana Mason, 817.552.3705, groups@gatewaypeople.com

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WELCOME HOME MINISTRY VOLUNTEERS

AMAZING KIDS PAID POSITIONS

MEMBERSHIP

WOMEN

CATCH THE VISION (MEMBERSHIP CLASS) SPANISH TRANSLATION AVAILABLE

PINK MENTORING

Saturday, Feb 21 | 4:00–7:00 pm | Classroom 2D This class connects you to Gateway Church and explains our purpose, values, and history and gives you an opportunity to become a member! Register at ctv.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kristine Lopez, 817.328.2030, ctv@gatewaypeople.com

NEW BELIEVERS WATER BAPTISM

We’d like to celebrate with you as you publicly declare your decision to surrender your life to the Lord through water baptism. The class discusses the meaning and significance of baptism and the details of the baptism service. Register at baptism.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kristine Lopez, 817.328.2030, baptism@gatewaypeople.com

SINGLE PARENT FAMILIES SINGLE PARENT FAMILIES CAMP

June 22–25 | Horseshoe Bay Resort

Join us for our annual Single Parent Families Camp! This is a great time to have fun with your kids and meet other families. Cost: $500 per family. Register at spf.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Christian Lee, 817.552.7545, spf@gatewaypeople.com

Our volunteers meet with families who are new to Gateway and the DFW area to encourage them to connect at church and in their new community. Contact: Kristine Lopez, 817.328.2030, welcomehome@gatewaypeople.com

Do you want to discover more about yourself, your potential, and your capabilities? Consider becoming a Pink Mentor. Contact: Laurinda Dunn, 817.328.2093, pinkmentoring@gatewaypeople.com

Visit slk.gatewaypeople.com for the latest information.

CHURCHWIDE JEWISH MINISTRY MESSIANIC SERVICE

Friday, Feb 6 | 7:30 pm | Auditorium

NRH

Join us for a message from guest speaker Scott Volk and stay after service for dessert! Children’s ministry is available. Registration is not required. Contact: Oli Snyder, 817.552.7452, jewish@gatewaypeople.com

KIDS AMAZING KIDS CAMP 2015

June 8–13 | Dry Gulch, U.S.A. | Kids 7–12 Years Old Amazing Kids Camp is coming up so register your child now! Cost: $550 if registered by March 5. Pay deposit and register at kids.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Melanie Baley, 817.552.3685, kidscamp@gatewaypeople.com

MARRIAGE BECOMING ONE (PREMARRIAGE CLASS)

Saturdays, Feb 21–Mar 28 | 5:30–7:00 pm Classroom 2C SLK

Learn how to build a strong foundation for marriage while navigating the realities of life. Cost: $40 per couple. Register at becomingone.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Carol Johnson, 817.552.7481, becomingone@gatewaypeople.com

NEWLY MARRIED B1 BOOT CAMPS

Join other newly married couples (0–3 years) for an eight-week boot camp–style group that promotes fun, laughter, and foundational building blocks for a strong marriage! Contact: Carol Johnson, 817.552.7481, bootcamp@gatewaypeople.com

OUTREACH RACE2RESCUE COLOR RUN

Saturday, Mar 7 | 8:00 am Meadowmere Park, Grapevine

Run with us as we support our ministry partner, Rescue Her, in opening a safe home for trafficked girls in Chennai, India. Register at bless.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Audrey Wells, 817.552.3704, outreach@gatewaypeople.com

YOUTH WORLD OUTREACH

Saturday, Mar 7 | 9:00 am | Youth World, Dallas

Come minister to at-risk youth in the Dallas area through a spring break carnival and food distribution! Register at bless.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Audrey Wells, 817.552.3704, outreach@gatewaypeople.com

PRIMETIME PRIMETIME DINNER & DANCE

Friday, Feb 27 | 7:00 pm Trinity Ballroom, DFW Airport Marriott South

This annual event for adults (50+) will feature Trey & the Tritones, great food, and fun! Register at primetime.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kelly O’Briant, 817.552.3684, primetime@gatewaypeople.com

SPECIAL SERVICES HABITATION

Sunday, Feb 8 | 6:00 pm | Auditorium

SLK FRS NFW

Join us for our first Habitation service of 2015 for a time of extended worship, ministry, and prayer! Prayer begins at 5:15 pm. Contact: Amanda Wise, 817.552.7578, habitation@gatewaypeople.com

STUDENTS GATEWAY STUDENTS SPRING CAMP

Friday–Sunday, Mar 20–22 Lakeview Camp & Retreat Center

Students (7th–12th grade) will experience powerful worship, dynamic teaching, crazy games, and lots of fun! Register at students.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Joy Cromer, 817.552.7375, students@gatewaypeople.com

THE KING’S UNIVERSITY THE KING’S UNIVERSITY (TKU) CAMPUS DAY Saturday, Feb 28 | 9:00 am–12:00 pm

Find out how TKU combines higher education with the ministries of Gateway, meet students, and talk with faculty and staff. Register at tku.edu. Contact: Angela Tranel, 817.552.7381, angela.tranel@tku.edu

LOCATIONS &

SERVICE TIMES SOUTHLAKE CAMPUS SLK 700 Blessed Way · Southlake, TX 76092 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm FRISCO CAMPUS FRS 7125 Legacy Dr · Frisco, TX 75034 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm GRAND PRAIRIE CAMPUS GRP 2404 N Carrier Pkwy · Grand Prairie, TX 75050 Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm NORTH FORT WORTH CAMPUS NFW 4209 Basswood Blvd · Fort Worth, TX 76137 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm

NRH CAMPUS NRH 7501 Davis Blvd · North Richland Hills, TX 76182 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm MINISTRY CENTER MIN 540 S Nolen · Southlake, TX 76092 UNIVERSITY CAMPUS UC 2121 E Southlake Blvd · Southlake, TX 76092

WOMEN PINK IMPACT

Thursday–Saturday, Apr 23–25 SLK FRS Thursday–Saturday, Apr 30–May 2 SLK NFW

Gateway’s annual women’s conference is approaching, and there's a seat just for you! All events and speakers will be live at each campus. To register or volunteer, visit pinkimpact.com. Contact: Brushfire Customer Service Team, 800.569.7108, info@pinkimpact.com

SUNDAYS »» Marriage Challenge | 9:30 am MIN (Canceled on holiday weekends)

WORSHIP GENERATE NIGHT OF WORSHIP

Friday, Feb 20 | 7:00 pm | Auditorium

WEEKLY EVENTS

SLK

Everyone is invited to worship with Pastors David and Alena Moore and the Generate team! Doors open at 6:30 pm. Group seating is available. Children’s ministry is not available, but families are welcome. Contact: Hannah Brown, 817.552.7453, generate@gatewaypeople.com

MONDAYS »» Healing Ministry | 7:00 pm

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wife’s approach makes this process focused and direct and confrontational when needed, in an effort to arrive at an immediate result—all of which causes her passive husband to back away from an encounter with her. The temptation with this dynamic is to build coping mechanisms to deal with our differences rather than address them. Believe us, we get that. But rather than build coping mechanisms that would allow us to “get by” or ignore and deny our frustrations until they became so toxic that we can no longer stand each other, we choose to act with faith and diligence each day to address issues in our personal lives and as a couple that produce barriers in our marriage. We refuse to allow bitterness or unforgiveness to become a part of our relationship, as we know the fruit of bitterness and unforgiveness ultimately destroys each person and the marriage by ruining the loving commitment the two people share. While our marriage is not perfect—we are still growing and learning—we are committed to each other, we love each other, and we have learned to successfully blend our very different personalities and perspectives into a happy, satisfying marriage. We share what we have learned here with you in the confidence that God will help you apply it to your situation in just the way you need to strengthen, encourage, and connect your lives in a marriage that satisfies all your dreams and desires! GL

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. John 3:16

Strong Women and the Men Who Love Them will be available exclusively during XO Conference, February 13–14, at Passages, Gateway’s bookstore.

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I WAS ABOUT FIVE YEARS OLD when I raised my hand to receive the Lord. I brought the neighbor girl to church, and I thought she had raised her hand, so I raised mine just to help her not feel so alone. Then I had a real encounter with the Lord. It was funny because I later realized that she hadn’t raised her hand, but it was a life-changing moment with the Lord. It was an “accidental” salvation (laughs)! GROWING UP, my father and mother were radical Christians. They followed the idea that we were to sell everything we had. For a lot of my life prior to kindergarten, we lived in campgrounds like hippies. We were incredibly poor, had no money at all because the mentality was that you just lived off the land, and you asked God to provide. But we also saw God do miracles. In fact, I don’t remember a time when miracles, signs, and wonders were ever questioned. I saw people’s legs grow, and I was there when people got their hearing back. When we needed groceries, my parents would pray and bags of groceries would show up on the doorstep.

RITA SPRINGER RITA SPRINGER IS A PASTOR AND ARTIST IN RESIDENCE AT GATEWAY CHURCH.

MY PATH TO GATEWAY goes back more than 16 years. When Pastor Thomas Miller ran Christ For The Nations, he invited me to minister there several times. He says it was during that time he felt we would one day be at the same church together. When Gateway started, he would invite me to be a guest artist at certain events, and he would joke around, saying, “Are you sure you don’t want to come to Gateway?” I always thought he was kidding. On a whim in 2012, when I was living in North Carolina, I emailed Thomas and wrote, “Can you use someone like me at Gateway?” I expected him to say, “Not right now,” but within 24 hours, he replied and said, “We’ve been waiting 13 years for you to make this decision.” I ADOPTED A SON THREE YEARS AGO, and the biggest change in my life has been a sense of settling down. This is the first time I’ve ever been on a church staff in the course of my ministry career. I’ve always been a worship leader and I’ve always traveled, but it’s mostly been in a guest capacity.

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AT ONE POINT my father met a man who gave him a job as the caretaker of his 350-acre ranch. We lived like paupers in that house. My father would go to a nearby drug rehab center and bring drug addicts and alcoholics over for healing and prayer weekends we would host at the ranch. The rehab center would send the food, and we would have these huge barbecues. I grew up seeing God profoundly change people’s lives in front of my house. Now, when I read scriptures about helping the poor and needy, I think I know what that looks like. My front yard looked like that. Having radical parents gave me a radical heart for Jesus and that is what channels itself through my worship. I believe God speaks to us and loves the downtrodden. I’m passionate about that because of the way I grew up. WHEN I WAS YOUNGER, my siblings (two sisters and three brothers) took piano and vocal lessons. At the age of 11, 12, and 13, when none of my siblings were home, I would just journal to the Lord on the piano. I had no clue it was worship, but it was. I’m so grateful for those days. In my career as a worship leader, I’ve never found a night of worship that comes close to what I experienced in those days. For more about our Gateway pastors and staff, visit bio.gatewaypeople.com.

FEATURING Jimmy & Karen Evans | Steven Curtis & Mary Beth Chapman Sean & Catherine Lowe | Josh & Katie Hamilton Hosted by Tim Ross February 13â&#x20AC;&#x201C;14, 2015 Gateway Church Southlake Campus*

*The conference will be simulcast to the Frisco and North Fort Worth Campuses. xomarriageconference.com

Not Your Average Men’s Conference

MARCH 5–6 Gateway Church Southlake Campus

FEATURING

Jase Robertson Of A&E’s Duck Dynasty

John Gray Associate Pastor Lakewood Church

Tim Ross Executive Pastor Gateway Church

WORSHIP WITH

Hillsong Young & Free

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To see the full lineup and register, visit menssummit.com.

Special Ministry Partner:

Robert Morris Founding Senior Pastor Gateway Church