18 I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.
19 For the creation waits in eager expectation for the children of God to be revealed. 20 For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope 21 that[h] the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay and brought into the freedom and glory of the children of God.
22 We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. 23 Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption to sonship, the redemption of our bodies. 24 For in this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what they already have? 25 But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.
26 In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.
27 And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.
28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who[i] have been called according to his purpose. 29 For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. 30 And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.
More Than Conquerors
31 What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? 33 Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. 34 Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. 35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? 36 As it is written:
“For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.”[j]
37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[k] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Life Builders Church
Full Gospel Christian Fellowship
P.O. Box 1048 Owings Mills, Md 21117 443.776.0255
lbcministry@yahoo.com LBCBaltimore.org
We welcome to Grace & Glory, Bishop J. Charles Carrington and his wife Lady Althea Carrington. Bishop Carrington is the Pastor of Life Builders Church, and he is hosting the 2025 Leadership Intensive Conference coming in April. The theme of the conference is HELPHealth, Empowerment, Learning, Progression, and we talk to Bishop Carrington about the significance and necessity of this leadership conference.
Bishop Marvin Denson
Balancing The Call: Marriage, Ministry, and Marketplace
For the LORD God is a sun and shield: the LORD will give grace and glory: no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly.
Psalm 84:11
Contributors
DR. CARLA DEBNAM
Dr. Carla J. Debnam is the wife of Bishop Dwayne C. Debnam and an associate minister of Morning Star Baptist Church, Woodlawn, MD. She is a National Certified Counselor (NCC) and Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) in Maryland. She is a member of the American Counseling Association, the American Association of Christian Counselors and Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Dr. Debnam has contributed to two books, Those Sisters Can Preach: 22 Pearls of Wisdom, Virtue & Hope, and 7 Ingredients To An Effective Prayer Life Series, Vol.3-5.
Jackie Epps
EDITORIAL
Dr. Carla J. Debnam
Min. Carenda Deonne
Brandie Manigault
Dr. Denyce Daniels
Rhoda Turner
Siobhan Saulsbury
Ericka J.
GRAPHIC ARTIST
Claire Lesesne
www.JandCDesigns.com
BRANDIE MANIGAULT
Brandie Manigault is the Co-founder of Healing Voice Ministries, Co-pastor of Ecos Church, and the author of New Day Fresh Start. Of all of the titles she has and hats she wears; her favorite is wife and mother. She is a firm believer that love wins and is passionate about the health of the soul.
MIN. CARENDA DEONNE
Min. Carenda is an Author, Speaker, Workshop Facilitator, Certified Life Coach, and TV Personality. Born and raised in Baltimore, MD, she received her BA degree from the Fashion Institute of Technology and her M.A. in Law Degree (Mediation and Dispute Resolution) from Regent University. Min. Carenda helps individuals and professionals rise above their circumstances by detoxing emotionally. Carenda believes Emotional Management Equals Life Management. Her new book, 12 Rounds...How to Detox Emotionally and Win, is scheduled to launch 2024.
DR. DENYCE WATTIES-DANIELS
Dr. Denyce Watties-Daniels has over 25 years of experience as a clinician and nurse educator. Her areas of expertise include critical care nursing, pathophysiology, pharmacology and the use of technology in the classroom. She currently serves as faculty and the Director of the Simulation and Learning Resource Centers of the College of Health Professions at Coppin State University.
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PASTOR RHODA TURNER
Rhoda possesses a spirit of humility. Her ministry style is graceful, her message is powerful and her presence is comforting. Being the 9th of 10 children, Rhoda has a deep passion for family and the wholistic development of children. She is considered by many as a mentor and mother figure.
Rhoda and her husband Pastor Jason Turner, serve as senior pastors of Christian Faith Fellowship Church in Chandler, AZ.
ERICKA J.
Ericka J. is a Baltimore Native Radio and TV Personality Media Mogul. Ericka J. is a community activist who is very passionate about carrying on the legacy of her mother the late Rev. Sandi Johnson. Ericka J. is also a sought-after hair stylist and fashion icon.
Siobhan Saulsbury
Siobhan Saulsbury is a financial ally. She inspires believers to transform their financial legacy for the benefit of future generations. She teaches on God's guidelines to financial success and health in a relatable and tangible way. Her signature phrase is "Make Good Choices"!
Black History Month originated in 1926 by Carter G. Woodson as Negro History Week. The month of February was chosen in honor of Frederick Douglass and Abraham Lincoln, who were both born in that month. It has been set aside to reflect upon the accomplishments and achievements as well as the struggles and tribulations of a race of people who ended up on the shores of America many centuries ago. For one entire month, schools, churches, museums, and the media will celebrate and honor AfricanAmericans and their history in every walk of life.
I believe everything we do is history. From day to day we are constantly making history whether we realize it or not. That is why it is so important to make each day of our lives count. At the end of the day we should be able to look back over the day and make note of what was accomplished. As the days turn into weeks, months and years, those years become the fabric of our lives. Woven into the
fabric of our lives are our successes, accomplishments and struggles that all become part of our history.
As African-Americans, it is our responsibility to know Black History. We should know who we are and where we come from. Take the time to teach your children, they should learn all there is to know about their heritage. Black History should start with the family. We can pass our history along from generation to generation within our own families. We can celebrate our individual families’ successes and triumphs and support them during their struggles. I believe it will teach our children self-confidence, selfrespect and most of all self-love. Many of us may only be able to trace back two or three generations, but we need to make it a point to tell our children about their ancestors, and repeat it as often as possible.
We may not ever find that link that connects every black person to their African roots, but we will discover
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that there is plenty of rich ‘Black History’ right in our own back yards. And last but certainly not least, we can teach our children that through God’s word we can trace and link ourselves to the root that brought forth our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. For the word of God tells us in Roman 8:16-17, “The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ.”
This month’s issue is dedicated to the history of African-Americans. It is very exciting to add a new chapter each year of our lives to this ever developing story. Stick your chest out and in the words of the late James Brown, “Say it loud, I’m Black and I’m Proud!”
CARRINGTON Bishop J. Charles & Lady Althea
Q&A Interview - Bishop J. Charles Carrington, Jr.
G&G: Bishop Carrington, welcome to Grace & Glory Magazine. We are excited to talk with you about the 2025 Leadership Intensive Conference coming in April. Let’s jump right in. What is the key theme for this year’s conference?
Bishop Carrington: The theme is in the form of an acronym. . .H.E.L.P.- HEALING. . .EMPOWERMENT AND EDUCATION. . .LEARNING AND LIFTING. . . PROGRESSION. LEADERSHIP INTENSIVE 2025 in its entirety is designed to lift the Leader and Usher them into the Presence of the LORD who is the ultimate HEALER.
G&G: What makes this event so important and who should attend this conference?
Bishop Carrington: The last 5 years have been pressing years; years that have stretched, compressed, and shaken. . .even stirred MANY in unfamiliar, unpredictable, and uncomfortable ways. GOD is calling Kingdom Leaders to a time of Divine and Designated Reset. . .More Than Networking. . .More Than Making New Connections. . .HE IS Calling KINGDOM Leaders Back to The Primary Focus On HIM. Who should attend? All Ministry Leaders. . .Senior Pastors, Ministry Personnel, Trustees, Deacons, Pastoral Assistants, and all who feel the call and are ready to answer.
G&G: Bishop Carrington, what objectives would you like to address during this leadership conference, and what are the biggest leadership challenges facing churches and ministries today?
Bishop Carrington: While Ecclesiastes records that there is nothing new under the sun, many of today’s challenges require the Anointing of the HOLY GHOST, and a keen and submissive ear to methods and administration. My utmost prayer and objective are to “INSTIGATE” the presence of the LORD where there is Fullness of Joy, Answers, Direction, and Strength needed to get the job done.
G&G: How do you envision this conference empowering attendees to be better leaders within their churches or ministries? What do you hope participants take away with them after experiencing this conference?
G&G: Bishop Carrington, what inspired you to begin hosting leadership conferences, and how has your own leadership journey influenced this initiative?
Bishop Carrington: We all have a call upon our lives. Very often that call is accompanied by a mantle, a Divine distinction. The LORD has used me to offer counsel and support to diverse Ministry Leaders, Government Officials, Corporate Executives, as well as lay-Leaders. I am committed to fulfilling my calling; one at a time or via gatherings such as LEADERSHIP INTENSIVE 2025.
Bishop Carrington: I envision 300 Kingdom Leaders gathered to meet JESUS. My prayer is that ALL attendees develop a fresh hunger for the LORD, and while we are developed by schools, mentorship, experiences and iron sharpening iron, nothing EMPOWERS THE LIFE like the HOLY GHOST. Please understand my heart. . .I want all to fall in love with and grow in devotion with JESUS.
G&G: Bishop Carrington, how can leadership conferences like yours help create a culture of mentorship within the church?
Bishop Carrington: We are undergirding this time in and with prayer; prayer that we stay true to what the LORD ordained this time for.
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G&G: Who are some of your leadership mentors, and how have they impacted your work and ministry?
Bishop Carrington: My Father in the Faith was Chief Apostle Monroe R. Saunders, Sr. I learned much from him. He taught me the value of listening, observing, and applying what I learned. My Pastor is Apostle I. V. Hilliard who remains a faithful source of Impartation and Enrichment. I also receive and honor several other tremendous and proven Vessels of GOD; Apostle John Eckhart, John Maxwell, Charles Swindoll, Dr. Bill Winston, Bishop T. D. Jakes, and Bishop John Bryant. These are with the LORD, but Bishop John Gimenez, Pat Robertson, my maternal Grandfather-John Frank Mooring, and Rudolph Chance. I mention my Dad, Bishop Johnny C. Carrington, Sr., as a TRUE Father naturally and spiritually.
G&G: Bishop Carrington, for someone who is newer to leadership in the church, what advice would you give them on developing strong leadership skills?
Bishop Carrington: One of those before-mentioned told me after I preached my ‘Trial Sermon’, “Stay on your knees because you need Him-Pray Often and Stay Humble.” This advice is timeless to me. I would tell developing Leaders to serve those who develop you, say less and listen and watch more, don’t seek an entourage but diminish your importance as you increase your service. . .Let the LORD elevate you. You will remain impactful long term.
G&G: Bishop Carrington, how do you see the role of leadership evolving in the church in the future years, and how culture influences faith?
Bishop Carrington: The Presence of the LORD is intoxicating to say the least. We as Leaders must Minister JESUS. This type of Ministry is timeless. We may alter methods, but JESUS CHRIST. . .The SAME. . . Yesterday, Today, and Forever More. JESUS influenced culture by Power and Purpose. This is the way that KINGDOM will also.
G&G: Do you think the church has lost influence; how can the church remain relevant in a rapidly changing culture while staying true to biblical truth?
Bishop Carrington: JESUS remains relevant because HE was purpose driven and allowed purpose to steer HIS life. I believe that this present Church Institution has always been irrelevant. Why? Because it has always been based upon man’s attempts to please the LORD on man’s terms. The True Church of JESUS CHRIST remains relevant and powerful to this day because the True Church of JESUS CHRIST is Kingdom Focused. We who are embracing Kingdom will always remain relevant.
G&G: Bishop Carrington, the pandemic was a huge culture shift for the church. How would you say the pandemic impacted the way people engaged with their faith, having to turn to social media and digital platforms for engagement.
Bishop Carrington: During 9-11, fear drove people to Church as the Church was open and offered hope. The pandemic saw Churches closed, Worship discouraged, gathering frowned upon, and we accepted it out of fear. Folk still think that the Church is closed, and they have replaced commitment with convenience. We have to decide what matters more.
G&G: Bishop Carrington, did the pandemic change your perspective on ministry as a pastor, and has it been difficult to get people to reengage with church?
Bishop Carrington: I would be lying if I did not admit my fight with frustration from time to time. But I resort to my strongly held belief, THE CHURCH BELONGS TO JESUS. HE knows best how to draw HIS people back to HIMSELF.
G&G: What do you believe the long-term effects of the pandemic will be on the church as a whole? What do you think the church can learn from the pandemic to be better prepared for such crises or challenges?
Bishop Carrington: A tremendous outcome can occur. . .The Church can return the original specification of the Manufacturer. ACTS 2:41-47 (NKJV) is straight from the OWNERS MANUAL, [41] “Then those who gladly received his word were baptized; and that day about three thousand souls were added to them. [42] And they continued steadfastly in the apostles’ doctrine and fellowship, in the breaking of bread, and in prayers. [43] Then fear came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were done through the apostles. [44] Now all who believed were together, and had all things in common, [45] and sold their possessions and goods, and divided them among all, as anyone had need. [46] So continuing daily with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, they ate their food with gladness and simplicity of heart, [47] praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daily those who were being saved.”
G&G: Bishop Carrington, lastly, what should the church be saying and doing as it relates to cultural shifts in society that affect the way people practice or understand faith?
Bishop Carrington: The LORD of the Church is so vast; we are still learning of HIM. I believe if we get back to HIM as our FIRST LOVE, HE will reveal more of HIMSELF, keep us hungry, thirsty, and DESIROUS of HIM. Faith will once again be relevant, and we will see and serve HIM and the LOVER of our Souls.
Immortal Like Her:
DEBNAM Dr. Carla
Everyone Counts
We live in an age where persons have become more concerned about their interests, their political beliefs, their neighborhood, their family and ultimately themselves more than they care about humanity at large. The idea of being concerned about one’s neighbor seems foreign to many yet this is what our Christian faith calls us to do. We are called to care about others and to be “our brother’s keeper”.
This call to look out for one another and to give them respect and honor is far from what we see at political debates, in church meetings, at family disagreements and in divorce court. Instead of attempting to be civil and maintain decorum in these tense moments it seems that persons revert to their base nature. They resort to responding with anger, sarcasm and insults. Instead of hearing each other out or working things out through mediation, some persons would rather leave the table
without a compromise or a win-win agreement.
There is a benefit to looking at the big picture and taking the ideas and viewpoints of others under consideration. When we seek to understand and make sense of things that are not in our nature we show love in action. Listening to others and agreeing to disagree is better than shutting them down the moment their idea is not the same as ours.
We have to move beyond our comfort zone and realize that other people are significant to God and therefore we must treat them as the Bible commands us to. We are to receive them with love. Jesus says, “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” John 13:43-35.
Making others feel loved is
a challenge for some of us yet it is within our power to do because of the love God has shown us. There is a theory in counseling called attachment theory. The theory seeks to uncover the importance of interpersonal relationships from birth to death. It is useful in identifying and finding a solution for those persons who have challenges bonding with others especially those they should be close to.
That is why the challenge to love one another is so important. Love and the lack of it can shape a person for their entire life. Everyone counts and in God’s eyes, deserves to be loved. That’s why we are here, to share God’s love. “The commandment we have from him is this: those who love God must love their brothers and sisters also.” 1 John 4:21. Be an ambassador of love and make a difference in someone’s life. Remember, everyone counts.
Carenda
Deonne Min.
A Loving Home!
For those of you who may not know, I am a hopeful romantic. One of my favorite movies of all time is Love Jones! What a classic. I am also a firm believer that love is a healer. I was blessed to come from a very loving home. My parents were affectionate, supportive and compassionate. No matter what the world and others were doing to discourage me, I could always find love at home! I knew I would feel better once I got home. I knew that everything would be okay, once I turned the key.
What does love look like in your home? When your family comes home, and when friends come and visit, can they find peace, support, trust and affection? Or is there unforgiveness, strife, stress and turmoil? Take inventory in this season of your life. It is so imperative that your home be a place of security and safety. Many of us may not be maximizing the love within our home because we are not communicating. Show love towards your family by talking, not texting. I remember growing up we would all sit at the table together. We didn’t have to compete with our cell phones. I know you are important, but your family is more important. Love one another to set boundaries and create that family time. Another thing you can do to create a loving home environment is remember to meditate on what the bible teaches about love.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8 states: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-
seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.”
We will experience disappointment in our lives but be encouraged that love never fails. Also, remember there are at least four things that love itself is committed to. It will always protect, trust, hope and persevere. These are four love principles that are sustainable for the foundation of your abode. It’s not about how big your house is. It’s not about how many rooms it has. It’s about can love be found there; can trust, protection, hope and perseverance be found there? I encourage you to fill your home with love! Maximize the greatness of love in your home like never before. I get joy when people come and visit me, and they can rest comfortably! That confirms that love is a settling force of comfort, peace and tranquility. Take inventory this month and let go of anything that would cause a crack in your home’s foundation. Please don’t allow the enemy to bring division, chaos, and confusion. The bigger the house does not mean the greater the love! I pray that the love within your home, big or small, remains prosperous, never lacking in its power or purpose.
Live life on the promise of IMPACT!
Min Carenda Deonne Author/Speaker/Life Coach
What’s Love Got to Do With It?
Rhoda
TURNER
What is Love? Love is a feeling of deep affection, attachment, or devotion for a person or thing. It can also refer to the expression of that feeling.
I was thinking about February being the month of Love. I thought about Tina Turner’s song, “What’s Love Got to Do With It”. I really thought about the title of that song. I thought about how man views love opposed to how God views love. Man’s love is wavering, and complicated. Man’s love typically comes with strings attached. Love shouldn’t be complicated or confusing, but sometimes people can make it out to be that way.
I remember a long time ago I was dating this guy and truly I thought that we were in Love. He would always say things like, “If you love me you would do what I asked you.” I would respond with why does love have to be negotiated. Well needless to say that relationship didn’t last long. Love shouldn’t be negotiable. I do for you because I love you and if you never in return do anything for me my love for you won’t change. That’s how men should love unconditionally. How God loves us.
The Bible tells us in John 3:16, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”
God loved us enough that He gave unto us something that was most precious to Him and didn’t ask for anything in return. I love how God loves us.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8, 4 “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.”
Pastor Rhoda Turner Christian Faith Fellowship Church Chandler, AZ www.cffaz.org
Woman's Heart Month
The month of February is celebrated as Women’s Heart Month. Red Dress Sunday and Go Red activities are a part of a national awareness campaign for women about heart disease. The Go Red initiative was started in 2002 to deliver an urgent wakeup call to American women. The initiative is sponsored by the National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute, which is a part of the National Institutes of Health (NIH). The campaign is designed to warn women of their risk for heart disease and related disorders. Heart disease is the #1 health threat to women over 40 years old. Encouraging women to wear red on specific days in the month of February is used as a national symbol for women and heart disease awareness. Red Dress Sunday events are aimed to educate, motivate and activate women, and provide the tools needed to understand and minimize risks.
Unfortunately, signs and symptoms of heart disease in women often go unnoticed or undiscovered. Women often realize they are victims of cardiovascular disorders when various disease processes are advanced. Beginning manifestations of heart disease can be overlooked. The fact is, symptoms of heart disease can be vague and can be contributed to other health problems. For women over forty, feelings of being tired, weight gain and transient shortness of breath can be attributed to lack of exercise, lack of sleep and changes in hormone levels. Cardiovascular disease is linked to hypertension, congestive heart failure, aneurysms and arteriosclerosis. These factors can lead to heart attacks, strokes, kidney and liver failure, diabetes, blindness, limb amputations, and death. Women, especially African-American women and women of color are largely unaware of their risk of heart disease.
• Only 55 percent of women realize heart disease is the No. 1 killer for American women.
• Fewer than half of American women know what a healthy blood pressure or cholesterol level is.
• Your Body Mass Index (BMI) isn’t just helpful when it comes to diets or losing weight – it’s also linked to your risk of heart disease.
• It’s a myth that strokes, which affect the arteries linked to the brain, only happen to older people. Strokes can happen even in infants.
• Women are also more likely to suffer from a stroke, contrary to popular myths. There are several risk factors for heart disease. Some can be controlled. Other risk factors cannot be controlled. Risk factors that you cannot control are called non-modifiable risk
factors. Uncontrollable risk factors cannot be changed. They may be present due to genetics or the environment. These risk factors include:
• Gender (males are at greater risk)
• Age (the older you get, the higher your risk)
• A family history of heart disease
• Being post-menopausal
• Race-African-American, American-Indian heritage
Modifiable risk factors require individuals to make changes in their lifestyle and habits. These changes can inhibit the development or low down the progression of heart disease. Modifiable risk factors include:
• Smoking
• High LDL, or "bad" cholesterol, and low HDL, or "good" cholesterol
• Uncontrolled hypertension (high blood pressure)
• Physical inactivity
• Obesity
• Uncontrolled diabetes
• Uncontrolled stress and anger
Socioeconomic status is a debatable risk factor for cardiovascular health. It can be considered a modifiable or a non-modifiable risk factor. Individuals of lower socioeconomic status are at a greater risk for heart disease for multiple and complex reasons. Poor diets and lack of access to health-related resources are considerable variables in cardiovascular health outcomes. Individuals from a higher socioeconomic background typically having greater access to a more nutritionally-balanced diet. Impoverished people often lack substantial health care benefits.
What can women do to reduce their risk of heart disease? Make an effort to reduce the presence and effects of the modifiable risk factors. Target a risk factor each month and implement strategies that will improve your cardiovascular outcomes. Within a year, you can significantly reduce your risk of developing heart disease. Get involved with the Red Dress campaign. Wear red throughout the month of February to raise awareness of heart disease in women.
Dr. Denyce Watties-Daniels Assistant Professor at Coppin State University DWatties-Daniels@coppin.edu healthytips025@gmail.com
Balancing the Call: Marriage, Ministry, and Marketplace
Balancing the roles of marriage, ministry, and marketplace responsibilities is no small feat. For over 35 years, I have walked this delicate path as the Senior Pastor of Restoration International Worship Center, Presiding Bishop of Covenant Churches of America, and C-Suite executive, while cherishing my role as a husband to Overseer Michele D. Denson and father to our two adult children, Monique and Neko. Now, as a grandfather to Kalyn and Nova, the lessons learned along the way have taken on even greater significance.
Prioritizing Marriage as a Covenant
Marriage is the bedrock of both ministry and marketplace success. My wife Michele and I have been married for 29 years, a union rooted in mutual respect, spiritual alignment, and intentional investment. We have learned the importance of keeping the covenant strong by setting aside time for one another amidst our demanding schedules. Whether it’s a simple evening walk or planning a getaway, these moments allow us to reconnect, reflect, and renew our partnership.
For anyone balancing similar responsibilities, the key lies in maintaining open communication and mutual support. Spouses are co-laborers in life, and it is essential to ensure that your shared goals remain aligned. A thriving marriage is a living testimony of Christ’s love, setting an example not only for your family but also for the communities you serve.
Leading with Grace in Ministry
As the Senior Pastor of Restoration International Worship Center and Presiding Bishop of Covenant Churches of America, ministry has been a calling that requires sacrifice and steadfastness. Ministry demands constant pouring out, but as leaders, we must also prioritize refilling our spiritual cups. Personal devotion, prayer, and accountability are non-negotiables.
Balancing ministry with family life requires boundaries. Early in my pastoral career, I made a commitment to prioritize family dinners
and important milestones. This intentionality demonstrated to my children, Monique and Neko, that they were just as significant as the congregations I served. It also allowed me to model the principles of a godly family for others to follow.
Additionally, delegating responsibilities and empowering leaders within the ministry ensures that no single person bears the weight of every decision. Effective leadership in ministry is about building a team and mentoring others to carry the vision forward.
Thriving in the Marketplace
As a CEO of a Federally Qualified Health Center, Executive Coach, Mentor and Consultant, and leading within the business sphere has provided unique insights into the practical side of stewardship and leadership. As I’ve navigated both ministry and business, I’ve learned that the principles of integrity, discipline, and excellence are universal.
One of the greatest challenges in the marketplace is managing time effectively. Establishing clear priorities and learning to say “no” when necessary is critical. Marketplace success should never come at the expense of family or ministry. The key lies in viewing work as an extension of your calling, where your faith informs every decision and interaction.
The Intersection of Faith and Life
Balancing marriage, ministry, and marketplace roles isn’t about perfection—it’s about harmony. It’s about seeking God’s wisdom daily, being present for those you love, and leading with a servant’s heart. Whether in the pulpit, boardroom, or living room, the principles of faithfulness, grace, and love guide every aspect of life.
Ultimately, it’s God’s strength that sustains me in this journey. My prayer is that my life inspires others to pursue balance, embrace their divine assignments, and thrive in their God-given purposes. After all, when God is at the center, every aspect of life finds its rightful place.
Brandie
Manigault
DAILY DEVOTIONS
(Excerpts
from NEW DAY FRESH START- by Brandie Manigault)
DAY 1
Stay in your lane. When you have been given an assignment by God you are also given authority to carry out that assignment along with the necessary instructions and tools for success. The problem comes when you look at your assignment and think of it as insignificant or even too much for you, so you assign yourself a different task. You have now switched into a lane that is not yours, and this unauthorized switch has the potential to harm you and those around you. Others cannot do their job effectively, because you are in the way, and you cannot do your job because you are not in the right place. Challenge: Today challenge yourself to fully commit to your assignment and be at peace with it. Know that you have everything you need to carry out your task, and then go for it.
Matthew 3:11
“I indeed baptize you with water unto repentance, but He who is coming after me is mightier than I, whose sandals I am not worthy to carry. He will baptize you with the Holy Spirit and fire.”
DAY 2
There is power in knowing the Word. It’s not all about being able to quote Scripture and verses and translating it into the Greek and Hebrew. When Jesus was being tempted by the devil He did not say, “Isaiah chapter 1 verses 1-3 says x-y-z.” He told Satan what that verse said and let the power of the Scriptures work in His situation. He knew His Word. It was inside of Him, and He understood how to apply it. It’s the same with us. When we say what the Bible says, it will work in our lives as well. The Word will turn our circumstances around. We just have to apply it.
Challenge: Today be confident in your knowledge of the Scriptures. Don’t be afraid to say what the Bible says even if you can’t say where it’s found.
Matthew 4:4,7, 10-11
“… But He answered and said, “It is written, ‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.’ “Jesus said to him, “It is written again, “You shall not tempt the lord your God.’ “Then Jesus said to him, “Away with you, Satan! For it is written, “You shall worship the Lord your God, and Him only you shall serve.’ “Then the devil left Him, and behold, angels came and ministered to Him.”
DAY 3
Do you know the power of your “YES”? One “YES” in obedience to the Lord will set off a chain of events that years of labor could not produce. The possibilities and the power of your “YES” are limitless. It puts things into motion. Your act of obedience today in taking a job offer you may feel overqualified for can lead to your promotion in the company and eventually you taking over. Your yes to sow a seed into someone’s life could keep them from foreclosing on their home and ending up homeless, they remember you when they get on their feet, and leave you an inheritance later in life. There are potential outcomes to you saying “YES” to the Lord that you cannot imagine. Challenge: Today challenge yourself to set off a chain reaction for your future; tell the lord YES.
Matthew 4:18-20
“As Jesus was walking beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw two
brothers, Simon called Peter and his brother Andrew. They were casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. “Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will send you out to fish for people.” At once they left their nets and followed him.”
DAY 4
Do you know that atmospheres change when you enter a room without you having to do anything or even say one word? When you go to work, school, or the grocery store, the harness that exists in those places must move when you arrive. Christ in you shines through you instantly turning dark places bright. You carry an unchallengeable light within you. You are supposed to make places better just by your presence alone. When the light of Christ shines through you it will illuminate and highlight things that have been hidden in the darkness and make vibrant colors that have been dimmed stand out even more.
Challenge: Today challenge yourself to challenge the darkness. Don’t hold back. Be an example of Christ, and shine bright!
Matthew 5:14-16 (MSG)
“Here’s another way to put it: You’re here to be light, bringing out the God-colors in the world. God is not a secret to be kept. We’re going public with this, as public as a city on a hill. If I make you light-bearers, you don’t think I’m going to hide you under a bucket, do you? I’m putting you on a light stand. Now that I’ve put you there on a hilltop, on a light stand—shine! Keep open house; be generous with your lives. By opening up to others, you’ll prompt people to open up with God, this generous Father in heaven.”
DAY 5
We are called to make an impact in this world. We are not supposed to blend in and become part of the norm, but we are supposed to do and be the exact opposite; different. Our job is to be an asset in our families, at our schools, and at our jobs These places should be bland without us around, lacking flavor and direction. It’s our job to be us so boldly that when we are not around these areas feel our absence. It’s important that we remember that we do not live these bold lives for our own benefit. The void they must feel when we are not around is the presence of God. Everything we say and everything that we do must point to Him. When they look at us they must be able to see Christ in us. Challenge: Today challenge yourself to be the difference that your job, school, or home needs. Give them Jesus with your presence. Matthew 5:13-16
“You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot. You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead, they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”
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News
House Of David Movie
Prime Video released the official trailer and key art for the upcoming biblical drama series, House of David. The trailer offers a first look at David, the eventual King of Israel, as he takes on Goliath and fulfills his destiny as God’s Chosen, anointed by Samuel the Prophet.
The series will premiere on February 27, 2025, on Prime Video with three episodes and one episode weekly thereafter in more than 240 countries and territories worldwide. House of David tells the story of the ascent of the biblical figure, David, who eventually becomes the most renowned and celebrated king of Israel. The series follows the once-mighty King Saul as he falls victim to his own pride. At the direction of God, the prophet Samuel anoints an unlikely, outcast teenager as the new king. As Saul loses his power over his kingdom, David finds himself on a journey to discover and fulfill his destiny, navigating love, loss, and violence in the court of the very man he’s destined to replace. As one leader falls, another must rise.
Jason Nelson
Congrats to Baltimore’s Own, Pastor Jason Nelson, on his song “Yahweh” hitting #1 on Billboard last month. Pastor Nelson continues to make amazing moves in music and for the enrichment of the kingdom. In addition to bringing us Billboard topping hits, he is also launching “Impact Mondays” a virtual masterclass for Senior Pastors and pastoral staff on February 3rd at 7pm. Oh, and did I mention he is also currently on the “Legends Of Gospel Tour”. Pastor Jason is ABSOLUTELY ON A KINGDOM MOVE KICKIN OFF 2025!
Deitrick Haddon
Congrats to D ‘Haddy on his single “Never Be The Same” hitting Number #1 on Billboard charts for February. He’s been giving us cutting edge billboard hit for years now and it’s good to see him back on top with this single! I’m actually digging the whole vibe of his new music; it’s breaking barriers in so many areas! Loving it! Go get it!
William Murphy
William has released a new single “Double” a simple message of encouragement, “God’s about to give you double and triple for your trouble.” It’s such a catchy declaration, available now!
Isaiah Thomas
Last month on January 27, gospel icon Isaiah Thomas transitioned from labor to reward. This was a loss felt not just by Baltimore and the DMV, but the Gospel Music Industry at large, he left us with hit songs like “I Will Bless The Lord, “Said He Would Be With Me”, and “High In All The Earth”, these timeless songs we will be singing for decades to come. He was such a jewel and always nice. While he was a husband and father biologically, he was “a big brother, Uncle, father figure, and mentor to so many not related by blood, and he touched so many others. We will continue to honor and cherish your memory and your deposit in the earth and will continue to “Bless The Lord” for your life.
Vincent Bohanan
NEW MUSIC ALERT! Vincent Bohanan & Victorious Army have gone to even higher heights on this one y’all! The way this youth choir took a few of these good ole school songs and gave them some youthful energy but still kept that authentic hand clappin’, foot stomping choir sound, is a beautiful thing, not to mention a few originals for us to love. Keeping choir music alive and transcending through generations is a real thing, and Vincent Bohanan & Victorious Army is doing that, we need it and love it! Y’all go grab this one “Vincent Bohanan & Victorious Army, Live In Detroit, Part 1”, you definitely want to teach your praise teams and choirs this music! It’s good! Available at all digital media outlets.
Stephen Hurd
Last month Maestro Stephen Hurd recorded a new project, “Song From The Sanctuary” and I have heard nothing but great things about the experience. The project featured Crystal Aiken, Darwin Hobbs, to name a few, I’m thoroughly looking forward to the release. Stay Tuned!
BC & 1 Way
“Hope Is Alive” the new single by Brandon Camphor & One Way is such a feel-good song, speaking a message we all need right now and one of “HOPE” is such a timely release, and I’m loving it. It is a mainstream and global message reminding us that “Hope Is Yet Still Alive” no matters how it looks, and let’s do our best to keep it alive! Download this one y’all!
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Tip 1
Did you know that the second Friday in January is known as Quitters Day? It’s because by that time most people have given up on their New Year’s Resolutions. Instead of some vague, random wishes that are likely unrealistic, here are some ways you can make proper goals and stay motivated to achieve them.
Tip 2
Expecting a smooth, easy ride to accomplish goals is unrealistic. Mistakes and setbacks will happen. We have to know how to get back up and get back on track when they do. If you’re not where you want to be in your financial journey, it’s not the end of the world. Start where you are and do what you can. Not everything will be perfect, but that’s how we learn and keep moving forward!
Tip 3
One way to combat the “automatic negative thoughts” that come to mind is to be intentional about staying positive. When you start your day being thankful, it can help steer your mind toward positive thinking. And when you’re thinking positively, you’re more likely to stay committed to your goals and doing what it takes to achieve them. Do yourself a favor and start each day with gratitude!
