How Not to become a
Bridezilla W
BY ZO I E KO N N E K E R
edding planning is hard work, so it’s difficult to stay focused on what’s most important — having a day dedicated to celebrating yourself and your future spouse. Oftentimes, unmet expectations, the mess of clashing families and tedious choices can push a bride over the edge, causing brides to be referred to as the most unholy of terms: a “bridezilla.” There’s no foolproof way to avoid the drama that seems to go hand-in-hand with wedding ceremonies, and there’s no certainty that there won’t be a meltdown, but there are some steps you can take to prevent anger and unrest from putting a damper on your big day. Below are some tips for staying in the right mindset and enjoying your wedding without ruining it for anyone else and being called the “b” word. 12 HERS Mag azi n e | H ER H ear t
It’s your day, but remember other people will be there, too.
You’ll have friends, family and loved ones there to see you enter a new chapter of your life. Although this is your wedding day, you don’t want to make your guests miserable with ridiculous demands or a bad attitude. Make all of your own choices but keep your guests’ considerations in mind. Order whatever flavor cake you want, make your own crazy signature drinks, bring your cat down the aisle with you. Just don’t have an overly expensive dress code or wait until the last minute to make major decisions that may greatly impact your guests. You want your guests to have a good time at your wedding. Show them your best side by putting on a great party and staying positive. The wedding is important, but it isn’t the most important — the people you celebrate your life with are.
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