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In fact, creating a prenuptial agreement takes a willingness to be completely open and honest about everything — ­ what you own, what you owe and how you want to live your financial lives together. That takes absolute trust.

Plus, there’s a basic tenet in any prenup that you can’t include anything that a court would consider “unfair” to either of you. There’s lots of room for different arrangements, but fairness is a given.

That said, a formal prenuptial agreement is most important if either one of you has considerable assets, large debts or kids from a previous marriage -- anything that makes your finances more complicated. If this isn’t you, a formal agreement is less necessary. Every couple, though, should provide complete financial disclosure and share their feelings about money. This will undoubtedly head off disagreements down the road and create a closer bond.

Here are some practical financial issues I believe every couple should discuss before they walk down the aisle.

What assets you’ll share and what you’ll keep separate You say you’ve both accumulated some assets, so start there. Property-wise, what do you own? Where do you keep your money, and how is it invested?

Look at the whole picture -- savings, investments, retirement accounts, real estate, cars, artwork, jewelry -- and decide what you’ll share and what you’ll keep separate. Then ask yourselves questions like:

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Will you pool your money to buy a house?

Do you want to keep individual control of a certain amount for some personal future goal?

One common approach is to consider all assets owned before the marriage as separate and assets acquired after as joint.

Just remember that if you co-mingle any separate property (for example, if you combine your separate accounts into a joint account, and then make deposits and withdrawals), it becomes jointly owned.

To me, there’s nothing wrong with a little financial independence in a marriage. In fact, I think it’s important for every adult to have a degree of financial autonomy. But it’s important to agree on what that means at the outset, so there are no hurt feelings later on.

and those you’ll keep separate (perhaps clothes, personal entertainment, etc.). You can also decide on a system for how this will work (for example, a joint account for shared expenses, individual accounts for personal things). Deciding this in advance can help keep small financial decisions from becoming large bones of contention.

If one of you makes considerably more money than the other, talk about what that means for your lifestyle. Most couples will want to have financial equality, but the details are up to the two of you. You might also discuss how financial responsibilities would change if one of you stays home to raise a family.

What happens if the worst happens Although no one wants to contemplate divorce, a prenuptial agreement gives you an opportunity to think clearly and rationally about what you’d want to do if you split up. An agreement should include decisions about division of property, spousal support and how you’d deal with conflict if a dispute arises -- for instance, agreeing in advance to mediation.

Another consideration is an illness or disability. If one of you becomes disabled and unable to work, how will this impact your financial arrangement? Or if one of you faces major medical expenses, how will you pay for this as a couple?

There’s more that can be in a prenup.

If you decide to go ahead with a formal document, an attorney can help you determine what you and your fiancé think is important to include. But to me, the main thing is to talk through these issues well before the wedding. Approach it in a loving way, listen to each other and form a trusting financial bond. That way, you can put your money concerns aside and look forward to a long and happy life together. ∆

Creating a prenuptial agreement takes a willingness to be completely open about everything.

How you’ll handle current and future debts While you’re not legally responsible for debts incurred by your spouse before the marriage, put all your debts on the table and decide how you’re going to handle them. If one of you has a mountain of debt, the other could agree to help pay it down to lighten the load. It would be smart to agree on this in advance.

Debts incurred during your marriage are another story. State laws vary, but, in general, if you have joint credit cards, car loans or mortgages, you’ll be jointly liable. If one of you is a spender and one a saver, confront this now and come to an understanding about how you’ll handle debt.

Who will be financially responsible for what Some couples choose to stipulate upfront how they’ll split up household expenses.

For instance, those you’ll share (commonly the mortgage, utilities, groceries, etc.)

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Child’s Curiosity

“In a nutshell, we’ve stopped placing an emphasis on the importance of curiosity,” says Victoria Ryan O’Toole, creator of the Molly Moccasins story, game, and activity book series for children. “We all live in a culture that depends on TVs, computers, smartphones, books, magazines, and other people to keep us constantly occupied and entertained. Think of all the adults (and even kids!) you know who would have absolutely no idea what to do with themselves if you left them alone and took away their electronics.”

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“Stimulating your children’s curiosity is a wonderful gift because it enables them to continually learn, grow, and question the world they live in,” she comments. “It also helps them to develop a healthy imagination and sense of creativity, and sets them up for a successful future.”

Here are ten ways for parents to encourage and strengthen curiosity in their kids.

Be a good role model Take advantage of your kids’ “monkey see, monkey do” tendencies to increase their curiosity. Whenever a question pops

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into your head, ask it out loud. “I wonder what makes this spaghetti sauce taste so good?” “Why was there hail in that thunderstorm?” “What makes the dog get so excited after a bath?” Then, together with your children, try to find the answers.

Answer questions It’s true; sometimes you simply don’t have time to answer every single question your child has for you. But don’t get into the habit of replying with a non-answer like “Because I said so” or “That’s just the way things are.” Give your child an answer or explanation whenever possible, and try to engage him in discussion afterward. If you don’t have an answer, try responding with something like, “Actually, I don’t know the answer to that. Let’s try to find one together. Where do you think we should start?” You don’t want your child to learn that his curiosity will never be rewarded!

Encourage your child’s interests Your child’s curiosity will naturally lead her toward topics and activities that interest her. Whenever possible, try to squelch the urge to say, “Not now, Lauren—you can play with your keyboard toy later,” or, “Put your shark books away and do something more constructive.” Too many rebuffs of this nature will teach your child that other things are more important than pursuing topics they’re curious about. Instead, encourage your kids to learn more.

Help your daughter look up keyboard tutorials on YouTube, for example, or go to the library with her and find more books about sharks!

Give your child tools Give your kids the ability to pursue the things they’re curious about on their own.

When it’s age appropriate, teach them how to use Internet searches (perhaps with parental controls in place) and libraries. Try to help them build a good home library, too, because you never know when a quesJuly - August 2013

tion about outer space, insects, or ancient Rome will pop up! You might also want to help your kids build a portable “curiosity toolkit” for when they’re on the go. Fill a backpack with paper, colored pencils, a ruler, a magnifying glass, a pocket dictionary, and whatever else you and your kids can think of. You’ll be ready for any adventure that comes your way.

Help your child live in a stimulating environment You don’t have to make your entire house a playground, but keep in mind that kids are interested by pictures, new objects, new experiences, etc. Visual, aural, and other sensory stimulation is especially important and powerful when your children are very young — just think about all of the things your toddlers have climbed on, picked up, and put in their mouths!

As your children get older, help them find things to do — don’t just turn on the TV or gaming system and allow it to “babysit.”

For instance, you might want to change one or two things around your house each week (e.g., switching the order of framed pictures on the bookshelf or putting different throw pillows on the couch) and ask your kids to figure out what is different.

You might also want to place interesting things — ranging from newspaper articles to old vacation souvenirs—on the breakfast table to serve as fun talking points that wake up the brain.

Don’t micromanage Let your child engage in open-ended play. Don’t always tell her how to do something (e.g., “Color only in this direction,” or, “Here’s what you need to do to build a fort underneath the kitchen table”). Let her figure things out for herself. Often, you’ll be pleasantly surprised — or even amazed — by the results. It’s also a good idea to avoid labeling what your child does. Instead, allow her to explain it to you. For example, instead of saying, “Your drawing looks like a cow — is that right?” say, “That’s a cool drawing. Tell me 26

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The Tiffany Leather Collection Tiffany has introduced its new line of leather accessories for spring. The chic and colorful collection is made in Italy using the finest materials. www.tiffany.com.

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One of the most effective ways to get off of the hamster track to nowhere is to disconnect from technology completely for a time. Go on a basic screen fast: no TV, no email, no Facebook, no Twitter, no texting.

If you need a computer to do your work, you may use it, but turn off the Internet and email. Instead, plug in to your inner voice. Connect and be present with work colleagues, friends and family. You’ll be surprised at the difference it makes.

We recommend giving yourself at least one week to detox from the noise and constant distraction caused by the digital domain. You need to put enough distance between yourself and your digital habits to comprehend on a visceral level the degree to which you have been distracted.

Follow these steps and enjoy newly found inspiration, innovation and invigoration.

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tempted by them. Declutter your desk and rooms. Remove everything that does not logically belong in the space. Put that stuff where it belongs. If it doesn’t have a home, create one. If you don’t love it or need it, let it go. Once you have a pristine environment, organize your thoughts. Decide what you want out of your detox. Clarification on the daily activities that truly matter to your work and your life? A fresh appreciation for something/someone? Once you know why you need to disconnect, then make a plan for how, which includes figuring out when. Holidays and vacations present a great opportunity to disconnect.

If you need a computer and the Internet to do your work, get a week ahead of any Internet-based work so that you can stay offline for the duration of your fast.

Set expectations Don’t just ignore your inbox and avoid the Internet without telling anyone what’s going on. People will worry. Tell friends and acquaintances that you won’t be available for the next seven days. Then use

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your email and phone tools to set up autoresponders. Tell everyone what you’re doing and let them know that if they MUST reach you for an absolutely urgent matter, they will have to call and talk to you. If you use Outlook, you can filter all your email into various folders and flag those of more importance so that when you do come back online, it will be easier to focus on high-priority items. Most of the other messages will be out-of-date by then and easy to delete.

Stop checking Just don’t do it. Every time you feel the urge to grab your phone, or log on to your computer, or turn on the television, have an action plan. Instead, engage someone in a conversation or game, walk the dog, share an intimate moment (or more) with your spouse, go on a walk.

DEVELOP YOUR CHILD’S— From Pg. 20 more about it!” Sometimes the answers are fascinating.

Allow your child to make mistakes Parents often want to swoop in and save the day. After all, it’s our natural instinct to prevent our kids from being disappointed, discouraged, rejected, etc. But making mistakes, then figuring out how to get up and move forward again is an important part of staying curious and resilient. As long as your child isn’t in danger, try to avoid stepping in. Offer guidance and encouragement, not solutions. And above all, teach your kids that mistakes aren’t failures; they’re opportunities to learn and improve.

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Make dates to socialize Fill each day with activities, with an emphasis on “active,” with the people who are most important to you. Do something special with your children. Go on a date with your spouse/partner. Host a fun event with friends (book club, clothing swap, happy hour). Find a friend who shares an interest and do that thing together (see live music, go to a play, try a new restaurant).

You’ll be surprised at how much extra time there is in the day when you aren’t constantly answering to the beeping of your phone/email or serving as a slave to your favorite TV shows. If you find that you really cannot unplug, you might have an addiction. And that’s OK, as long as you realize it and take steps to beat it, because studies show that there is such a thing as too much screen time. It can lead to depression and other behavioral issues. ∆

thing interesting if he isn’t stimulated.

Curious people are never bored because they have the ability to look around and ask questions: “Why is this the way it is?

How did it get that way? What can it tell me about the world?”

Teach your child how to observe Curious kids are able to look at the world around them and easily notice things that are interesting, mysterious, exciting, etc.

(That’s why they’re never bored!) Observation (and adventure) often starts with a simple, “I wonder…” To get your kids into the habit of noticing both the big picture and the small details so that curiosity can take root, point out interesting things you see yourself. For instance, “Look at that butterfly — how many colors can you count on its wings?” You can also “quiz” your kids on various things like, “Do you remember how many dogs were at your Aunt Erin’s house?” or, “What interesting things did you notice when you visited Daddy in his office?” (Oh — and the 56

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he picnic and barbecue season is in full swing but many still do not follow basic grilling safety rules.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimates that 76 million people get sick as a result of food-borne illnesses. Those who are most susceptible are the very young, the elderly and those whose immune systems are weak or compromised because of illness.

With our rapidly changing world, global travel, extensive trade, changes in food production, more food importation and distribution, microbial adaptation, and public health systems struggling to keep up with it all, we must be increasingly diligent to protect ourselves and our loved ones against the rise in food-borne diseases — especially during

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summertime festivities, when open air and raw meats are exposed even more to environmental elements.

Whether you prefer the long, low and slow barbecuing of tender and moist ribs, pork shoulder and brisket or you prefer the quick and hot grilling of chicken, burgers, steak, seafood and veggies, there are some safety tips you should follow.

The U.S. Department of Agriculture’s Food Safety and Inspection Service has great resource guides on its website (www. fsis.usda.gov/Education/Grill_It_Safe/ index.asp). It has lots of information — including fact sheets, videos and podcasts — to help you keep your family and friends infection-free.

There’s a card there that can be printed out or viewed on your smartphone so that you can keep those healthy tips at your fingertips while you’re grilling. Some of that advice may be basic for you master grillers, but a refresher at the beginning of every barbecuing year is always in good order.

Most good BBQ advice comes down to four words: clean, separate, cook and chill.

Clean • Before handling any food, thoroughly wash your hands, utensils and grill.

• Clean boards and thermometers in hot, soapy water before use and between uses.

• If you’re eating away from home, ensure there’s a source of clean water. If not, bring clean water for food preparation and cleaning, and pack clean cloths and moist towelettes for cleaning hands and surfaces. And bring some hand sanitizer for others, too.

Separate • Separate raw meat and poultry from other food to guard against cross-contamination.

• Keep raw meat juices away from cooked foods. To prevent cross-contamination, don’t use the same plates you placed uncooked meats on to hold cooked items.

Use clean and different plates for different, uncooked and cooked meats.

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Cook • Completely thaw meat before cooking so it cooks more evenly. Keep it refrigerated or, if you’re away from your house, in a cooler packed full of ice or gel packs to keep the food at 40˚F or less until you’re ready to cook. And avoid the “danger zone” — temperatures between 40˚F and 140˚F — in which bacteria can grow rapidly.

• Don’t let fragile and fresh foods stay unrefrigerated for longer than two hours.

It’s one hour if the temperature is higher than 90˚F. • Make sure your grill is hot enough to safely place and cook your food on it.

• Make sure your gas grill is evenly heated for cooking. Don’t place meats on any cold spots on the grill or where the gas is not turned on.

• If you barbecue with charcoal, buy commercial charcoal briquettes or aromatic wood chips.

• Use a food thermometer to ensure meat reaches a safe minimum internal temperature to kill any harmful bacteria.

(Raw beef, pork and lamb and veal steaks, chops and roasts should be cooked to a minimum internal temperature of 145˚F. Raw ground beef, pork, lamb and veal should be at least 160˚F. All raw poultry should be at least 165˚F.) Chill • Wash your hands before handling leftovers.

• Throw in the garbage any marinades or sauces that come in contact with raw meat juices.

• In clean containers or plates, immediately store leftovers in the refrigerator, the freezer or a cooler.

Practice those safety tips with perspective. Don’t lose the joy of spending time with family or friends (or allow your children to) by worrying to excess about contaminates. Share these tips with your loved ones, and delegate some of the safety actions above to others so that you’re not alone in shouldering everyone’s health. ∆

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his summer, white is one of the hottest fashion trends making the rounds at retail. And it’s easy to incorporate it into your wardrobe.

It goes with practically anything and any color. Here are a few tips on how to wear white right now: Go graphic This year, white looks right with the bold punch of black — this classic combo has long been a favorite, but now it’s gone graphic and mod. In everything from colorblocked sandals to wide striped handbags to those rockin’ round sunglasses of Korean pop star Psy, black and white just looks right for summer style.

Wear it head-to-toe A white pantsuit can be a modern “goto” outfit for all sorts of occasions this summer. Mix tailored trousers and jackets with a white ruffled blouse for the office or with a metallic tank for cocktails. Think of this white-on-white look as an alternative to the black tuxedo. And of course there’s nothing more classic than the crisp white blouse teamed up with a slim black pencil skirt.

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Mix it up Combining different shades of white in one outfit can be tricky. There are the bright shades of pure white and then the darker shades of creamier whites. These can be a sophisticated pairing, as a Moto- jacket and pencil skirt, or more casual in off-white linen pants and a white linen tunic.

Get dressed The white dress is another hit this summer, and it’s not just the garden party dress that’s brightening up the fashion landscape. These dresses have detail with a capital “D” — texture is the key — sheer panels, lace overlays and cutouts galore (in all the right places, of course)! Knee-length is the way to go!

Do denim White jeans have also become musthaves for summertime style for both men and women. The cropped Capri promises to be a great addition this season, if you don’t already own a pair. And of course, white denim shorts are another “go-witheverything” fashion staple.

Add accessories If wearing white head-to-toe just scares you right out of the line at Starbucks, then there are plenty of white extras available to brighten up your summer wardrobe.

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T he dress is perfect for work or play, and it’s a great travel companion.

From floaty and flirty pastels to bold and graphic modern prints, the dress is a personality piece sure to please even the most discriminating fashionista!

Choose from these key dresses for success shapes this summer: The A-line dress The sheath dress has been “the” last word in dress fashion for the past few years. Recently it has been reintroduced to a new generation of style-savvy women a la First Lady Michelle Obama.

But the newest classic has more fit and flare. The focus is on the waist — whether it’s belted or banded. Go for a “figureskimming” not “figure-hugging” dress style. Look for pleated accordion-style dresses for more dresses that don’t cling, but swing.

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The Printed dress Another one of the season’s favorites.

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quin checks. The bigger the better. A word of caution — to keep prints from becoming overwhelming, stick to dark background and one pattern per outfit.

The Lace dress In a season of special occasions — graduations, weddings, proms — the all-over lace dress may be the perfect choice. Lighten up with this feminine fabric interpreted in a myriad of ways — and colors. A white lace frock may say “bridal,” but in sugary candy-colored pastels, it’s a winner; in black, it’s a cocktail stunner.

The Sheer Dress The summer season is the perfect time to go sheer. By layering sheer fabrics on top of sheer or other opaque fabrics, the effect is romantic and provides endless options. These ethereal dresses are the perfect backdrop to lightweight cardigans and coats or jackets.

The Ruffled Dress One of the season’s trendiest details, the ruffle is showing up on sleeves, cuffs, necklines and waistlines. Flirty and flouncy, ruffles are a real way to fluff up your summer wardrobe. Don’t be afraid to get a little ruffled! In soft silks, chiffons and jersey knits, these ruffles are meant to rise to any occasion.

Dresses that go to all lengths Choices of hemlines abound this year with dresses from short to long and anywhere in-between. Choose a python mini for a night on the town or a long floral caftan for a poolside patio party. And the newest way to show off your legs in a dress? Cover them up! The midi-length is back. Your knees never had it so good! ∆

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ighten up this summer with a jaunty jacket. Whether it’s an ultra-cool moto bomber, a swingy cover-up or a breezy pastel piece, it’s what you wear on top that counts.

The newest jackets add a perfect polish to everyday wardrobes whether you wear it to work or to the beach. Check out these styles that move beyond the boring blazer:

a wide variety of separates. Wear the latest denim jackets with your favorite jeans or dress them up with sparkly tops and pencil skirts.

The Boyfriend Jacket This jacket is an easy option for casual occasions, and in the new powdery pastel colors, it’s an instant update. A little looser, but still lean, this boyfriend jacket works as a great layering piece over shift dresses, cuffed shorts or pencil skirts.

The Graphic Jacket Want to really make a statement on top? Try a great graphic — ­ in a black and white print — or a colorful combination that stands out and makes any outfit pop with only one jacket. Team these bold patterned jackets with neutral bottoms and fun accessories.

The Moto Jacket Tough chic is what this motorcycleinspired jacket is all about. Many of the newest jackets also have a preppy vibe that makes them even more modern. In lightweight leather, it’s even more of a unique way to put some edge into warmer weather wardrobes. Pair this jacket with feminine blouses or sheer tops for more contrast.

The Denim Jacket This classic is a winner this year and can extend your other wardrobe basics adding additional style by mixing and matching

The Cropped Jacket These abbreviated jackets provide lots of versatility for spring and summer. Whether they’re short and shrunken or short and swingy, the latest crop of short jackets gives you plenty of options. Pay attention to proportion with these cropped tops — one rule of thumb: the fuller the bottom, the more fitted the top. Stick to swingy tops over slim-fitting dresses, skirts or pants.

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here are lots of swimwear options floating around out there this summer.

Here are some of the best swimwear trends you’ll see in the stores and online:

The Retro Rewind This is the biggest news in swimwear that harks back to the glamorous pin-up stars of the ‘40s and ‘50s with boy-short bikinis and shirred one-shoulder maillots.

The banded halter with wider straps is also making a comeback. The good news this year? You can actually swim in these bathing beauties.

The Vintage Vantage Even if the swimsuit you like doesn’t shape up to all the movie-star drama, you can still get some vintage flair with the prints and patterns you choose. Swimwear designers are mad for retro plaids, tropical florals and picnic ginghams. Paisley scarf prints and lacy crochets are also making a big splash this season.

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Block it with Color Brighten up your wardrobe with a stark modern take on vivid colors — from neons to pastels — juxtaposed in graphic patterns.

Lemon yellow is a sunny favorite. The black and white color blocked suits are another way to put some edge into your swim attire.

The Bandeau Bikini If you feel a little “exposed” in a string bikini but love the look of a two-piece, this suit may be the one for you, especially if you have a bigger bust that will support the “no-strap” top. Go for some ruffles if you are smaller on top.

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et inspired by nail art this summer. From eye-catching designs to unexpected colors to optical illusions ... nailing it this year has never been easier and yes, you can do it yourself.

“Nail art is fun. Really fun. It’s as simple as that,” says Madeline Poole, a nail stylist and author of the new DIY book, “Nails! Nails! Nails!”

“Nail art is where art, beauty and fashion unite,” says the nail expert, who includes more than 25 step-by-step designs for giving your summer toes and fingers distinctive personality with leopard prints, to plaids, stripes, stained glass, lace, glitter and more.

“Many people come to nail art with an interest in cosmetics, applying polish and colors with the same passion and precision as they do eyeliner and lipstick,” admits Poole, while “others view it as a fashion accessory, completing an outfit and balancing color and texture in the same way a hat or purse can be a stylish finishing touch. Still others enjoy it as an exciting craft, spontaneously arranging shapes and colors on the nail like paints on a canvas, patches on a quilt or beads on a necklace.”

But before that secret artiste genie emerges from the bottle of nail polish on your dressing room table, there are some tips to Nails by Madeline Poole.

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get you started on this latest fashion craze.

• When choosing polishes for nail art projects, Poole advises selecting opaque polishes since they require fewer coats.

“The best way to test the opacity of a polish is to try it out,” she says, “painting a single stroke down the center of one of your nails.

Can you see the nail through the polish, or does the polish cover the nail in a denser layer of color?

• If you want to try a nail polish and testers are not available, Poole suggests simply holding the bottle up to the ceiling light and tilting it sideways. “If light passes through the glass, the polish has low opacity,” she says.

• But remember, pale polishes can also be opaque. “Light-colored polishes, such as white and pale pink can be just as opaque and highly pigmented as dark polishes, and vice versa,” she says. “Likewise the thickness of a polish is not an indicator of opacity. In fact,” says Poole, “thick, syrupy polishes are most likely old and should just be tossed out.”

• And how many of us have dozens of bottles of polish languishing in the back of the bathroom cabinet? “Nail polishes expire after a year or two,” says Poole.

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ish, so storing in a bathroom is not recommended. Make a safe home for your nail art supplies in a closet and store the bottles upright and securely capped.”

• Nail prep can be simple, according to Poole. Just make sure you remove old polish, wash with soap and water and dry thoroughly. Then file or clip nails and wash hands again. Then you’re ready to apply a clear base coat or primer. After nail art is applied, a fast-drying clear topcoat is needed to seal the underlying polish.

• Access to nail polish remover is a must for cleaning up mistakes. Poole uses a small angled-edge eyeliner brush to remove stray polish.

• And if you want to enjoy all your hard work, again and again, then just add your favorite designs to false nails and store them between wearings in small Ziploc bags. You may also want to team up with a “partner” to help you with more intricate nail projects.

• Don’t be afraid to experiment! “If you make a mistake, simply wipe it off and start over — or keep going, and see where it takes you,” adds Poole. “Let each nail you decorate represent a different side of your personality. Your finished nails will be stylish, crafty, beautiful and uniquely yours, all at once.”∆

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SWIMWEAR — From Pg. 38 party — a swimsuit with a plunging neckline. This silhouette obviously works best for those of us with smaller bust lines, but this is a sexy suit that you wear at your own risk! The white one-piece is one of the favorite styles taking the plunge this summer.

Animal Instincts Go ahead and get a little wild. Keep your eye out for leopard printed bikinis, zebraprinted maillots or python foil-printed boy shorts. Copper metallic suits are the shining stars. Going on a beach safari has never been this much fun!

Cut it Out Whether it’s a suit with sliced-out panels on the side, the neckline or the midriff, suits with cut-outs are one of the most popular ways to show a little skin at the beach this summer. For those who may not like to bare quite so much, check out the suits with sheer inserts in all the right places.

Covering Up To some of us, the beach cover-up may be even more important than the swimsuit itself! There are so many ways to do this — from sheer colorful shirts to oversized sarong scarves. This summer, the maxi sundress is a real winner for fun in (and out) of the sun. ∆

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ust as bubbling fountains became ubiquitous backyard accessories, outdoor fire features have become the newest must-have addition.

Fire adds another element to the yard. It adds ambiance and the drama of the flames. It gives you another reason to go outside.

A recent survey by the American Society of Landscape Architects reflects that demand. Among outdoor design features expected to be most popular this year, 95.8 percent of survey respondents rated fireplaces and fire pits high. The only feature that ranked higher: backyard grills.

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“It’s a social center,” said Buzz Homsy of California Backyard. “People don’t want to spend all their time at the patio table or dining area. People want to stay outside, especially in good weather.”

“Primarily, there’s more interest in early spring and late fall. They’re a way to extend your outdoor season. You can enjoy a crisp evening outdoors,” he said.

Like the backyard grill, fire pits have gone upscale, made to match any patio furniture with such features as automatic ignition and a propane tank hidden in a pullout drawer. In an outdoor setting, they create instant impact with the push of a button.

Because of restrictions on burning wood, propane- or natural gas-burning fire features have become the most popular options.

“You can use them any time,” Homsy said. “You can even cook on some of them.”

Fire pits have morphed into “fire furniture” -- fire tables, fire bars and fire banquettes. The flame area is surrounded by porcelain tile, decorative metal or natural stone. Slate is popular, too.

“They’re not ‘pits’; they’re furniture,” said Don Massie, outdoor living expert.

“They can be chat height (such as a coffee table), taller like a dining table, or even bar height. Almost all manufacturers of patio furniture are coming out with fire tables, too.”

Green Acres added high-end fire furniture -- mostly priced $1,000 to $4,000 from such makers as Outdoor Concepts and Oriflamme. It was an instant hit.

The Home Depot also has seen a surge in fire pits, particularly in the west. Among its best sellers: Hampton Bay’s wood-burning Collette fire pit ($149).

“It’s definitely a rising trend,” said Stacey Spillman, Home Depot’s national merchant for patio and pool. “We see customers buy simple basins in multiples for outdoor parties. But we’re seeing more interest in fire pit tables with room for drinks or fire pit chat sites with matching chairs.

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actually build the fire, but you still have the great look of the flames.”

When shopping for fire features, first decide what you want -- easy flame or heat?

Wood-burning pits put out more warmth.

For wood-burning pits, “you’ve got to get one large enough to actually build a fire,” Spillman said. “You absolutely have to have a cover or spark screen and a poker to move wood around. Look for proper ventilation -- holes to allow the fire to burn.

A good pit is not just a chunk of metal. And you want a sturdy stand -- it is fire. You don’t want it crashing down.”

Propane-burning fire pits and tables have less fuss, but produce less heat.

“Most customers ask: Do you feel the heat?” Massie said of the gas models. “Yes, but it’s not like a heater. You’re really getting it for the ambiance. Most of the heat is going straight up.”

In these gas-powered fires, the flames burn through “logs” (much like a gas fireplace), lava rock or glass.

“The glass is really beautiful,” Glassman said. “The fake logs used to be the only option, but now you can get fire glass in all different colors. It really gets the drama going on. It takes the flames to a whole another realm.”

Fire features raged through the last International Builders Show in Las Vegas.

“At the show (designer) home, there were outdoor fire pits, fireplaces, fire pots,” said Leslie Wheeler of the Hearth, Patio and Barbecue Association. “There was something at the front door, the balcony off the master bedroom, by the pool. For our manufacturers, it’s probably the fastestgrowing category.”

Like barbecue grills, fire features start simple; a portable metal fire pot -- something to carry to the beach or use at a tailgate party -- starts at under $50.

“There’s something for every pocketbook,” Wheeler said. “For under $100 or $200, you can get wood-burning fire pits that you can pick up and move anywhere.

Or you can have a fire pit in a coffee table or barbecue island, or create something built-in with natural gas.”

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f you’re green at heart but have a black thumb, don’t give up on gardening. There are some easy-care plants for indoors and out; in fact, some are so foolproof you simply can’t kill them.

Pothos.

Before you buy one, heed this advice.

There’s a popular saying that the surest way to kill a plant is through kindness – as in too much watering, chemicals, pruning and unnecessary TLC. The good news about these plants is that they don’t give a hoot about attention. A little water now and then is nice, especially for indoor plants that can’t count on rain. Otherwise, just let them do their thing.

The other rule of thumb is known as “right plant, right place.” In other words, don’t stick an indoor plant in a dark closet or plant a shade-loving one where it gets full sun from sunrise to sundown.

Follow those two mantras and check on your plants now and then, and you’ll be in the green in no time. Try your thumb at one of these expert picks.

indoors and out. It tolerates low light indoors and full sun outside, and doesn’t wither in even the worst soil. Also known as snake plant, it has long, sharp leaves that can grow up to 5 feet outdoors.

Neglect it all you want; this plant’s like a houseguest, or mother-in-law, who never leaves.

Mother-in-law’s tongue – Sansevieria trifasciata This is one tough broad of a plant for

Oleander – Nerium oleander It’s a good bet that the plants growing in highway medians are durable.

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Pothos – Epipremnum aureum This plant is so hardy you can keep cuttings in water for years. Indoors and out, pothos doesn’t ask for much – some light and water, of course – but once it’s established, it’s practically foolproof.

Grow it in a pot or hanging basket, as a ground cover or as a fast-growing vine with stems so thick Tarzan could swing from them.

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Mother-in-law’s tongue.

Oleander.

Fast-growing, evergreen oleander is a favorite with its beautiful flowers in white, red, pink, salmon and yellow. It’s highly toxic, so don’t plant it if children or pets are a concern. This tough plant survives drought, scorching sun, heat and exhaust fumes along the highway – just imagine what it can do in your yard.

Spider plant – Chlorophytum comosum Start with one plant and soon you’ll have dozens. The fast-growing spider plant produces baby plantlets on its long stems, which can be cut and transplanted to create new potted plants, hanging baskets and ground cover. Indoors or out, spider plants like all types of light except full sun. Water as needed, but don’t overdo. Neglect is the spider plant’s best friend.

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they all come with an important warning: Don’t plant them in the ground unless you have a lot of property! They are best used as shade trees in large containers because of their aggressive growth and invasive roots. Indoors or out, neglect them without guilt. They do just fine in any soil, even in drought conditions. Just make sure your ficus gets adequate light; full shade is a no-no.

Podocarpus – macrophyllus This evergreen shrub or tree is everhardy, from full sun to shade, acid to alkaline soil, dry times to wet. Also called Japanese yew, it is slow-growing but can reach 40 feet tall and 25 feet wide.

Schefflera – Schefflera arboricola Landscapers routinely use this glossy green plant in the landscape as a foundation or accent plant, and it’s easy to 57

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Juicing For Health And Happiness Ginny Grimsely

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t’s no longer just celebrities, world-class athletes and alternative-lifestyle hippies turning to green smoothies and freshly juiced vegetable and fruits for improved health.

“People from all walks of life are looking for proven ways to lose weight, energize, sleep better, strengthen their immune systems, and have brighter skin and a younger appearance. They’re also juicing to help their bodies heal from a variety of ailments,” says nutritionist and juicing pioneer Cherie Calbom, MS, author of “Juicing for Life” and “The Juice Lady’s Big Book of Juices and Green Smoothies.”

“No matter your diet, juicing offers a shot of goodness — nutrition, minerals, phytonutrients and more — that you

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might not otherwise get,” Calbom says.

Whether you’re just getting started or you’ve been juicing awhile and want to optimize the experience, Calbom shares some important pointers that will help.

Fruits & veggies happiness studies Plenty of new research shows that adding more produce to your daily diet can benefit your mental health and sense of well-being. In one analysis of the eating habits and moods of 80,000 British adults, researchers at Dartmouth and the University of Warwick found that those who consumed the most fruit and vegetables every day rated themselves as significantly happier and more satisfied with their lives than those who ate lesser amounts.

Research shows that the well-being score for people who ate seven to eight servings of vegetables and fruits per day was consistently three points higher than for those who ate little or none.

“Do I need to juice? can’t I just eat produce?”

This is a common response, but the reality is that most people in today’s society — especially those who are booked from morning to evening with a busy lifestyle — rarely get an optimal amount of produce throughout the day. A half-cup of veggies is a serving and ¾ of a cup of juice equals DEVELOP YOUR — From Pg. 26 classic “what’s different between these two pictures?” games work, too!)

Talk to your child about how curiosity “works” Get into the habit of talking to your kids about how curiosity impacts our world in areas ranging from government to education to technology to medicine and much, much more. Explain how many “staples” of our daily lives, like light bulbs, cars, computers, etc., were born because of July - August 2013

one serving; chewing seven to eight servings of produce every day requires much more effort and time than drinking fresh juice for some of the servings. That makes people much more likely to benefit from juice, she says.

Flavor diversification Some people soon fall into creative ruts because they stick to the same basic ingredients, and that can be a disincentive for sticking with juicing.

Diversify! Try gourmet and exotic juice blends, or even plant-based ingredients you simply haven’t yet considered, some of which may include: butternut squash, one-inch ginger chunks, beets with leaves and stems, Brussels sprouts, and fennel bulbs with fronds. “Juicing is not about just using common fruit ingredients — spice it up and experiment with healthy vegetables; it works!” Calbom says.

An exotic example A fennel-watercress-cucumber blend juice is an excellent way to mix up your typical cocktail. It includes: 1 handful of watercress; 1 dark green lettuce leaf; 1 cucumber, peeled if not organic; ½ fennel bulb and fronds; 1 lemon, peeled if not organic. Cut produce to fit your juicer’s feed tube. Wrap watercress in lettuce leaf and push through the juicer slowly. Juice all remaining ingredients. Drink immediately; this portion serves one. ∆

someone’s curiosity. You might find it helpful to check out library books about inventors like Thomas Edison or look up Internet articles about individuals like Bette Nesmith Graham, who invented Liquid Paper (typing correction fluid). Together with your child, talk through how these curious innovators went through the process of asking, imagining, planning, designing, and creating to end at a finished product.

Soon, your son or daughter might have a whole new set of real-world role models. ∆

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OUTDOOR FIRE — From Pg. 50 Glassman sees interest in fire as a natural complement to water.

“It’s the whole idea of natural elements and materials -- water, fire, earth,” he said. “People want a combination of fire and water.”

For a Sacramento-area home, Glassman & Associates recently completed a “fire fountain.” Accented by sculpture, a center fire bowl is surrounded by cascading water. The effect: Instant drama.

As part of this same fiery trend, outdoor fireplaces also are growing rapidly in popularity. People have outdoor kitchens; now, they want outdoor living rooms.

Fire pits aren’t for everyone, Glassman noted. A fireplace with a screen for protection might be a better option.

“If you have little kids, stay away from fire pits,” Glassman said. “They have a tendency to put their hands in it. A fireplace is safer.” ∆

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PLANTS — From Pg. 53 see why. It takes sun or shade, water or drought and any soil. It’s so darn hardy, you can start new plants simply by placing cuttings in the ground and providing moisture until they’re rooted. Schefflera also grows well in patio containers and indoors.

Yaupon holly – Ilex vomitoria This fast-growing evergreen shrub or small tree grows just about anywhere in your yard regardless of sun exposure, soil, watering or salt exposure. Even better, birds love to nest in its multiple branches with small leaves and feast on its red berries.

Mother of thousands – Kalanchoe daigremontiana This spreading succulent is the kind of plant that’s determined to live, no matter what you do. You can even drop a cutting on the ground and forget to plant it and still end up with a thriving, healthy plant.

It produces hat-shaped flowers in shades of pink, orange and magenta. ∆

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Turn Your Walk In

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alking is a wonderful way to exercise. It calms your mind, juices your joints, and makes you stronger so you can last longer.

If all of us began our day with a 30-minute romp around the neighborhood, enjoying the fresh air, breathing in, breathing out, saying hello to the birds, air-kissing the flowers, our world would be a better place. At least for those 30 minutes.

Any style of walking is admirable when you’re just getting started, but there comes a time when it makes sense to pick up the pace and add some moisture to your brow, so your walk becomes your workout. Here’s how to do it: GIVE YOURSELF A HEADS-UP Start walking your usual comfortable way, and after five minutes, flip on your Posture Awareness switch. Feel your body in space. Is your head jutting forward? Your chin pulled down? Are your shoulders rounded? All these misalignments can produce pain and tightness over time. You’ll feel July - August 2013

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tired more quickly because you aren’t able to breathe as well as you would if you were walking with your chin level, with your spine aligned. Be sure that your head is sitting balanced between your shoulders, not too far forward, not too far back.

CHECK THOSE SHOULDERS It’s very common to walk with your shoulders lifted instead of relaxed. To feel the difference, do what yogis do and assume the Banker’s Pose.

Try it now. Stand up, and lift up your shoulders, toward your ears. Then slowly, with awareness, roll them up and back and feel your shoulder blades moving toward each other, on your upper back. This will create a joyous spaciousness in your chest and open up your heart. When you’re walking, or driving, or just living your life, 70

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utting the right people at the helm has launched many high-profile, highly successful turnarounds.

But companies don’t have to fire the entire C-suite to put “new” leadership in place, says Barbara Trautlein, author of “Change Intelligence: Use the Power of CQ to Lead Change that Sticks.”

“Leadership is the key to successful major organizational change,” she says. “It is possible to lead successful and sustainable change - if it’s led effectively.

The problem has been that, so often, it’s not.”

Workforces in every industry — from manufacturing to service to health care to high tech — are confused and bruised, she says. Employees in this economy thirst for guidance but are distrustful and disenfranchised — not engaged, empowered, or equipped to do what is needed to help their organizations transform to survive and

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thrive.

The solution?

Those who lead change must first change themselves.

Here are five simple but effective ways to accomplish that: Change Your Story Reframe resistance. Resistance in organizations is like the immune system in the body; it protects against harmful invaders from the outside. Just like pain in the body is a symptom something is wrong, resistance is a sign to which managers should pay attention. The goal is not to eradicate it, but to allow it to surface, so it can be explored and honored. To lead more effectively, learn to see resistance as your ally, not your enemy.

Change Your Stance Picture a triangle. So often, we view ourselves on one angle, others at another

angle, and “the problem” on the third angle. In our minds, it feels like it’s us against the other people as well as the problem. That’s exhausting. Instead, reenvision yourself and the other people working together to solve the problem.

Move from being and feeling and acting against others, or doing something to others, or even in spite of others, to working with and even for them. If you can make this simple mindset shift, how you relate to others will almost immediately become palpably partnership-oriented to them.

Change Your Seat What you see depends on where you sit. Change looks very different at different levels of the organizational hierarchy.

Those at the top are typically isolated.

Those at the bottom are most resistant.

Those in the middle are squeezed. Sit in others’ seats and appreciate their pressures. Adapt your approach and messages to the very different needs and concerns of these very different audiences.

Change Your Style We all know the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you. To lead change effectively, follow the Platinum Rule: Do unto others as THEY want to be done unto. Tell stories they can relate to. Share statistics relevant to 70

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ormandy, the picturesque French province on the Atlantic coast, is a land of sprawling landscapes that inspired painters, writers and composers, a land forever associated with the heroic battle of D-Day on June 6, 1944.

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ris to Normandy

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The best way to explore the region is aboard a river cruise, sailing down the Seine through this pastoral countryside, once the home of Joan of Arc, Richard The Lionheart, Claude Monet, and Vincent Van Gogh.

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We recently sailed through Normandy aboard the Avalon Creativity on an 8 day round trip from Paris.

Guestroom with French doors.

Sun deck.

Dinner entree.

Monet’s garden.

Life on board the Avalon Creativity The ship is long and narrow, designed to navigate under low bridges and through tight locks along the Seine. It offers 70 bright and comfortable cabins appointed with queen size or single beds, built-in closets, and modern baths with stall showers. Rooms on the two upper decks have French doors, while the ones on the lowest deck have fixed windows.

The ship’s main public area is the salon, an all purpose space used for orientation talks, cocktail parties, tea time, performances, and live music.

In the back of the ship, in the intimate lounge/library, guests can enjoy complimentary cappuccino, coffee, tea and cookies around the clock.

Life on board is relaxed, unhurried, and follows a daily routine. Mornings start with a generous breakfast spread and an early or late risers continental selection.

The day continues with sightseeing trips followed by a buffet lunch with salads, daily entrees, and carvings. Afternoons are dedicated to shore excursions, sun tanning on the upper deck, or sailing through the enchanting countryside.

Dinner is the main culinary event, served a la carte with a daily changing menu. On special nights the chefs prepare celebratory, multi course tastings, and one evening, a visiting French chef served a Provençal dinner. If you wish, you can always order a salad, steak, chicken or grilled salmon.

Complimentary red and white house wines accompany the meal. After dinner, guests relax in the salon sipping drinks, dancing, or just listening to music. At 10:30pm, a warm snack is offered at the bar.

MONET’S HOME and gardens IN GIVERNY We visit Claude Monet’s house and studio where he lived from 1883 to his death in

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1926 and created most of his masterpieces.

We amble through his manicured gardens where thousands of flowers burst into a symphony of colors and shapes. We stroll around the serene water lilies pond, immortalized in many of his paintings.

Monet is one of the few impressionists who achieved fame during his lifetime and enjoyed his fortune until his death at 86.

VAN GOGH’S FINAL MONTHS in Auvers sur Oise The village of Auvers sur Oise is a popular stop due to its most famous resident, Vincent Van Gogh, who came in 1890 to be treated by Dr. Gachet. He lived in the village only for a couple of months before dying from a self inflicted wound.

The inn and the miniscule room where the tormented painter lived during these last months are open to visitors.

Throughout the village streets and neighboring fields there are reproductions of his works placed in the exact spot where he painted them. We pass by Notre Dame D’Auvers, a 12th century church, the subject of one of the artist’s masterpieces. On top of a hill, wheat fields surround a small cemetery where Van Gogh is buried next to his younger brother Theo, who died only a few months after him.

D DAY We travel by bus along the Allied landing beaches, and as our guide points out the different sites, the fateful day comes alive. In Arromanches, we visit a small museum dedicated to the artificial port built here from floated caissons. Parts of that construction are still standing in the shallow waters — a silent testimony to the port, jetties and the floating roadways that carried 2.5 million soldiers, 500,000 vehicles and 4 million tons of supplies.

On Omaha Beach, where thousands of Americans lost their lives, we observe the high bluff from where German machine guns mowed down the disembarking soldiers. The area is still scarred by the huge craters made by Allied bombardments.

Monet’s lily pond.

Van Gogh’ brothers graves.

Normandy Beach.

The American Cemetery.

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Les Andelys.

Chateau Galliard.

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The beaches of Normandy are dotted with museums and memorials dedicated to the allied forces who liberated this area.

The last stop is at the American Cemetery, the final resting place of 9,386 soldiers. The cemetery houses only about 40% of the fallen, since many remains were repatriated per the families’ requests.

The cemetery staff organizes a brief ceremony, playing the National Anthem and Taps, and we each place a solitary rose on a hero’s grave. We return to the ship in a somber mood with a new understanding of this epic battlefield and the sacrifices that the “Greatest Generation” made.

Les Andelys The ship docks close to a medieval church and a quaint downtown with several shops. Atop a high hill stand the ruins of Chateau Galliard, a formidable fortress built in 1196 by Richard the Lionheart.

From high above, we take in the sprawling vistas of the Seine River, the tapestry of yellow canola fields, and the green meadows dotted with grazing cows.

Honfleur Honfleur is a popular seaside resort with waterfront restaurants, a busy marina, and ancient cobblestone alleys. The narrow, winding streets are home to art galleries, sweets and chocolate shops, and stores dedicated to Normandy’s staple products: Calvados (apple brandy), caramel, and honey.

Ruen In the center of town, a large cross indicates the spot where Joan of Arc was burned at the stake in 1431. She was later canonized and is now the patron saint of France. The medieval city streets are lined with centuries-old half-timber houses now home to trendy shops and boutiques.

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the actual window where the artist painted his masterpieces. Inside the cathedral we pass by the marble grave where the heart of Richard the Lionheart is entombed.

Paris The cruise ends in Paris, with a complimentary shore excursion of the city’s highlights. We travel along the large avenues and stop at the Trocadero terraces for photos of the Eiffel Tower, pass by Place de la Bastille, the Arc de Triomphe, the Opera, and other landmarks. Optional excursions to the Louvre and the Versailles Palace are also offered for a fee.

The city of lights is as exhilarating as ever, pulsating with life and excitement.

The large boulevards and cafes are teeming with people, and the museums and tourist sites bustle with visitors from around the globe.

A visit to the Dorsey Museum is the perfect way to further understand and appreciate the sites explored during the cruise. The cavernous museum is home to many impressionists’ works including Monet’s paintings created at Giverny and Ruen, and Van Gogh’s canvases painted during his final months in Auvers sur Oise.

Don’t miss the L’Orangerie museum and view Monet’s large water lilies canvases.

Also visit the observatory on the 59th floor of Montparnasse Tower for panoramic views of the city.

For a change of pace, take a relaxing sightseeing cruise on the Bateau Parisiens and get a different perspective of Paris’ majestic sites.

After dark head to the Moulin Rouge, the famous nightclub immortalized in Toulouse Lautrec’s paintings. It offers a spectacular variety show, gorgeous dancers, amazing acrobats, and world class circus acts. * * * You could explore Normandy via several day trips from Paris, but it is more enjoyable to take a leisurely, all inclusive river cruise. www.avalonwaterways.com. ∆

Half timber houses in Ruen.

Versailles.

The Paris Opera.

Moulin Rouge.

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Travel Palazzo Margherita Celebrates Italian Culture and Cuisine

Windstar Cruises Expands Fleet

Windstar Cruises has purchased three Seabourn ships: Seabourn Pride, Seabourn Legend, and Seabourn Spirit. The delivery of the all-suite ships will take place over the next two years and will provide Windstar Cruises access to new destinations in Asia and South America. www.windstarcruises.com.

Palazzo Margherita, Francis Ford Coppola’s luxurious property in the Basilicata region of Italy, offers unique culinary packages. With three or eight-day itineraries, guests can experience trips to local markets, ancient wine cellars, historic sites, and participate in cooking classes and tastings on the property. www.coppolaresorts.com.

Summer in Quebec City

New Zipline Tours in Yosemite

Quebec City offers multiple festivals throughout the summer. Enjoy world music and street entertainment from July 4 to 14, unique firework displays from August 3 to 21, and the Bordeaux Wine Festival from August 29 to September 1. www.infofestival.com. www.lesgrandsfeux.com.

Zip Yosemite features seven ziplines in a fully guided tour lasting approximately three hours. Guests will navigate their way through a course in the heart of Sierra National Forest flying at 90 feet above the ground. www.zipyosemite.com.

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Notes Curtain Bluff in Antigua Features Fall Specials

Eden Rock in St. Barths Offers Luxury Villas

Curtain Bluff, one of the Caribbean’s finest ultra-inclusive resorts offers fall specials from October 26 through December 18. Stay in a junior suite or higher room category for 3 nights and you get the 4th night free, or stay for 5 nights and get the 6th and 7th nights free. www.curtainbluff.com.

Eden Rock Villa Rental in St. Barths now manages about 50 of the island’s most sought after private villas.

Rental guests can enjoy villa privacy and all of Eden Rock’s hotel amenities. www.edenrockhotel.com.

New Tours in Canada

Uniworld Upgrades Their All-Inclusive Services

The Great Canadian Travel Company offers a 13 day Atlantic Maritimes Tour to Nova Scotia, New Brunswick, and Prince Edward Island, starting at $3,507 per person. Through October 8.

The company also offers polar bear migration tours from October to November. Prices range from $1,875 to $3,810. www.greatcanadiantravel.com.

Uniworld Boutique River Cruises has announced that in 2014, they will further expand their all inclusive services and amenities to include unlimited alcoholic beverages, and all-gratuities for both onboard and onshore services. www.uniworld.com.

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AWARENESS IN MOTION— From Pg. 59 this is a very good thing.

those areas that tend to get loose and flabby as we age.

MOVE YOUR ARMS

You’ll be surprised how much more powerful your stride gets once you bring your upper body into play. Don’t tense your arms when you walk. Just allow them to swing in a relaxed and easy way in opposition to your feet. Keep your elbows tucked into your side (as opposed to flying elbows), arms bent at about 90 degrees, hands loose and tension-free. The more you pump those arms, the more energized your walking.

WORK THOSE HIPS Race walkers get a lot of forward thrust and speed from their exaggerated hip wiggle. You can, too. Think about your leg starting at your waist. As your right leg comes forward, so should your right hipbone in a loose and natural rotation.

Then your left. The more hip action you add, the more power you’ll have.

PULL IN YOUR TUMMY As you walk, be aware of pulling in your abdominal muscles and your gluteals (butt muscles). Think about pressing your belly button toward your spine -- and holding it there without holding your breath. Walking with this kind of body awareness and muscular effort can really help tighten

GO FOR THE ROLL To cover more distance at greater speed, it’s a matter of technique, not stride length.

For maximum efficiency, learn to walk heel-ball-toe style. That means you focus on landing (gently) on your heel, your toes flexed to the sky. Then roll through the foot, using your big toe to give your body a powerful push forward so that all your muscles -- from your lower calves to your glutes -- are awake and engaged.

Walking in the ways I’m describing definitely makes for a better workout, but please, be careful not to overdo it. Step up your pace gradually. And expect a little muscle soreness, especially in your shins once you start doing that rolling step, ending with your toes flexed. Welcome it, and drink some extra water.

And finally, it’s a worthy goal to turn your walk into a workout, but don’t push so hard you forget it’s supposed to be fun.

Walk with a friend; listen to a book or your favorite band; challenge yourself with occasional sprints; focus on your breath.

And when you’ve finished your walk, take a minute to soak up all the good feelings you’ve just generated. Close your eyes. Put your hand over your heart. This is what joy feels like. ∆

TRANSFORM YOUR BUSINESS— From Pg. 61 them. Demonstrate what’s in it for all of and insecurities, and building trust. Help us to work together in new ways. the “hands” apply the change — provide tactics, training and tools, and eliminate Change Your Strategy barriers standing in people’s way.

So often, what looks like resistance is The good news: None of these prescripreally that people don’t get it, don’t want tions require leaders to change who they it, or they are unable to do it. Engage the are. brain by explaining the “why” and “what” “They are all about shifts in mindsets of the change — help the “head” under- and behaviors. It’s about the flexibility to stand your vision, mission, and goals. adapt our leadership approach to get us Paint a clear picture of the target and the all where we need to go,” Trautlein says. end game. Inspire the “heart” to care about It’s amazing how when we change, others the change objectives by engaging with change. Be the change you wish to see in others, actively listening, dealing with fears the world. That’s leadership.” ∆ July - August 2013

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News and Openings Semerjian Shoes in Westwood Semerjian Shoes, a family business for over 70 years, has opened a spacious, contemporary shop at 301 Center Avenue in Westwood.

The NY style store features carefully selected well known international brands of footwear for men and women with emphasis on style and comfort for both daily use and special occasions. Owner Onnig Semerjian, an expert in all aspects of the shoe business from design and manufacturing to retail, invites you to stop by and check out the latest fashions. www.semerjianshoes.com. 201-497-3910.

Papillon Bambino in Westwood Papillon Bambino, an adorable children boutique, has opened at 37 Westwood Ave. in Westwood. They specialize in clothing and accessories for newborn to 24 months. They also offer baby registry, gift baskets, monogramming, baby room accessories and toys. Perfect for gift giving. www.papillonbambino.com. 201-497-3733.

Signature Step in Westwood Signature Step, a new shoe boutique, has opened at 271 Westwood Ave.,in Westwood. They specialize in bridal and evening shoes, and offer custom shoe dyeing in over 200 colors. They carry exquisite European styles, men’s shoes in all price points, as well as accessories such as Swiss watches, evening handbags and custom jewelry. Customer service and perfect fit is their priority. 201-608-0808.

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NYC Fall Season at New York City Ballet New York City Ballet opens its Fall season with a gala performance on September 19 at Lincoln Center featuring a world premiere ballet by choreographer Angelin Prelijocaj. Other highlights include six full length productions of Peter Martin’s Swan Lake, an all-Balanchine Black & White program, and Contemporary Choreographers programs. Through October 13. www.nycballet.com.

NY Philharmonic Concerts in the Park The NY Philharmonic will perform two free concerts on July 13 and 15 on Central Park’s Great Lawn. On July 15, Alan Gilbert will conduct Dvorak’s Cello Concerto and Tchaikovsky’s Symphony No. 5. Concerts begin at 8 pm. and are followed by fireworks. www.nyphil.org/parks.

Free Summer Events

by The Metropolitan Opera The Metropolitan Opera offers a free operatic recital at Central Park Summer Stage on July 16 at 8 p.m., and free encore screenings of Met HD productions at Lincoln Center Plaza starting August 24 for ten consecutive nights. www.metopera.org/parks.

Cuff Me! A Fifty Shades of Grey Musical Parody Cuff Me! A Fifty Shades of Grey Musical Parody is an unauthorized parody of the Fifty Shades of Grey book phenomenon. The zany show, performed by four versatile high-energy actors, plays at the Actors Temple Theater (339 West 47th Street). www.cuffmethemusical.com.

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The Fourth Restaurant in Union Square The Fourth is a new edgy and creative American Brasserie at 132 Fourth Avenue in Union Square. Its sleek design boasts two levels, 25-foot ceilings, and three seating areas, each with a different atmosphere.

The menu includes sophisticated small bites, communal plates made for sharing, house-made pastas, and farm fresh meat and seafood entrees. Don’t miss the daily “crudo,” a trio of seafood bites, and the risotto with wild mushrooms. 212-684-1324. www.onefivehospitality.com

Hospoda Restaurant on the Upper East Side Hospoda is a lively modern gastro pub in the historic Bohemian National Hall at 321 East 73rd Street. The artistically decorated restaurant offers seasonal contemporary dishes and Czech specialties paired with the freshest Czech Pilsner, local beers and specially selected wines.

Even if you don’t want a full meal, treat yourself to one glass or a full tasting of their wonderful draft beers.

212-861-1038. www.hospodanyc.com.

My Name is Asher Lev at the Westside Theater My Name Is Asher Lev, the hit off-Broadway play, winner of the Outer Critics Circle Award, tells the coming-of-age story of a boy prodigy who must be an artist, against the will of his Jewish orthodox family, community and tradition. At the Westside Theatre through September 1. www.asherlevtheplay.com.

Sleeping Under the Stars AKA Central Park offers a luxurious penthouse suite with an outdoor “bedroom” for romantic couples. A plush queen-sized bed is outfitted on the spacious 1,000 square-foot wraparound terrace in front of a wood burning fireplace. Outdoor massages, an alfresco dinner, and a private music performance are some of the amenities offered. Prices for the 5 star outdoor experience begin at $1,999 per night. www.stayaka.com.

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Lively, Full Cocktail Bar Private Parties Corporate Events Open Tuesday through Sunday

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Green Kitchen — 7000 Blvd. East, Guttenberg (at the Galaxy). A casual restaurant offering continental fare, home made desserts, and friendly service. Serving breakfast, lunch and dinner. Open Mon-Thurs, Sun 7am11:30pm; Fri, Sat 7am-12:30pm. Early bird specials $1295 from 4pm-6pm daily.

Weekend Entertainment in the @green bar/ lounge: (Friday) Karaoke, (Saturday) DJ spins from 10pm-2am. Champagne Brunch on Sat, Sun, & Holidays from noon-4pm.

Free local delivery. Free 4 hour parking in the Galaxy garage. Catering for private events.

Visit www.greenkitchenrestaurant.com.

201-868-4627.

Fusion Cuisine Sushi Bar Izakaya (small plates) Tasting Menus Sake, Beer, Wines Open 7 Days Lunch: Mon-Fri - 1130am - 230pm Dinner: Mon-Fri - 530pm - 11pm Sat-Sun - 1pm-11pm Chilean Seabass

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201-816-7343

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Italian Acanto Ristorante — 88 Piermont Rd. in Tenafly. This casual but elegant restaurant specializes in fine Italian cuisine with a Mediterranean twist. The kitchen is in the able hands of Chef Ermino Conte, who previously worked at top NYC restaurants such as Barolo and Giorgeone in Soho and Valbella in the Meat Packing District. Menu highlights include tuna tartare, grilled Branzino, and Greek style lamb shank. A fine assortment of wines completes the creative cuisine.

Lively, full cocktail bar, Happy Hour Tue-Fri 5:00-7:00pm, Dinner Tue-Thur 4:30-9pm, Fri & Sat 4:30-10pm, Sun 12-7pm. Closed Monday. Full bar. Available for private parties and corporate events. Complimentary valet parking Thur-Sat. 201-399-7171. www. ristoranteacanto.com.

Café Italiano — 14 Sylvan Ave., Englewood Cliffs. The restaurant occupies the historic home of flamboyant 1920s NYC mayor, Jimmy Walker. The turn of the century architecture, combined with the fine Italian cuisine makes for a memorable dining experience. The menu features great selections, large portions and affordable prices.

From the hot and cold appetizers, to the pastas, risottos, chicken, veal, seafood, beef and lamb entrees, you will find every item uniquely prepared and presented. End your meal with a cappuccino or sinful dessert. A wine list at fair prices is also offered. Open 7 days for Lunch and Dinner. Available for private parties of up to 100 people. Ample Parking. Call 201-461-5041.

Japanese Hanabi — 1550 Lemoine Ave. Fort Lee. This smartly decorated restaurant features a spacious dining room and a sushi counter overlooking the open kitchen and the well stocked sake bar. Chef Jeffrey Moon, who previously worked at the prestigious Chatham Bars Inn, Eleven Madison Park, Raoul’s and Tao NY, offers a fusion Japanese-inspired cuisine with modern touches.

His creative dishes combine textures and flavors that please the eye and tantalize the palate. Some highlights include miso glazed Chilean Seabass, Buta Kimchi, and 76

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meat and seafood tasting menus. Open 7 days. Lunch Mon-Fri 11:30am - 2:30pm, dinner Mon-Fri 5:30pm - 11pm, Sat-Sun 1pm-11pm. Beer, wine, and a wide selection of sake. Two private rooms for special events. Parking on premises. 201-944-0555. www.hanabiNJ.com.

Mediterranean Europe Cafe & Grill — One Highwood Ave., Tenafly. This cozy restaurant serves Mediterranean and Turkish dishes. The menu includes tantalizing appetizers, Pide, (a thin crust pizza with toppings), vegetarian, seafood, grilled meats and chicken, and other specialties. Daily 3 course lunch for $12 from 11am-2:30pm, and Saturday and Sunday 3-course for $21 from 11am-5pm. BYOB, takeout, and local deliveries. 201-569-4444.

Grill • Seafood • Vegetarian Specialty Foods BYOB • Takeout • Local Delivery

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Spanish Meson Madrid — 343 Bergen Blvd., Palisades Park. Casual elegance and exquisite cuisine from the heart of Spain for over 30 years.

This highly rated restaurant specializes in exceptional paellas, mariscadas, as well as superbly prepared selections of lobster, seafood, veal and poultry. Try the original 3 lb Steak Meson, Shrimp Plancha, and the Twin 1lb lobsters. Lunch specials from $ 95 7 . Available for private parties and corporate events. Full bar. Open Sun-Thurs 11am-10:30pm, Fri & Sat 11am-11:30pm.

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Uncompromising Quality Generous Portions at Great Prices Private Party Rooms Available to Fit Any Budget ­— Call Danny

Samdan — 178 Piermont Rd., Cresskill. This casual, elegant restaurant has won the hearts of area residents and food critics alike.

Samdan offers mouth-watering appetizers, kebabs, a large selection of Turkish delights along with regional delicacies and daily specials. Lunch Specials Mon-Sat $1195, Early Bird Special Mon-Fri 4-6pm, 4 courses plus coffee $2195. Open 7 days. Sun-Thurs noon-10pm, Fri-Sat noon-10:30pm. Full bar, Catering, Party Room for 80-100 people. www.samdanrestaurant.com. 201-816-7343.

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