MY DAUGHTER...
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Issue 91 2020
My Daughter Wants A Maltipoo This is a sentence I never expected to say, considering her lifelong apprehension of dogs and general lack of interest in animals. Aside from processing the initial surprise of this sudden, desperate desire, and the price tag of an ethically bred Maltese cross Poodle puppy, I have been contemplating the possible benefits of pet ownership for both of my children. Psychiatric studies have demonstrated the benefits of pets for the mental wellbeing of adults and children alike. Potential perks for children include increased self-esteem and confidence, as they are permitted to handle and care for small or vulnerable animals. This also aids in the development of mutually trusting relationships. Being entrusted with a pet to name, feed and nurture can boost the trust a child feels toward their parent or caregiver
in return, and observing the trust a pet feels for its family highlights the mutual aspect of the relationship. A pet can act as recipient of a child’s innermost thoughts and secrets, and this nonverbal communication creates a special bond for children. As most of the affection a child feels for a pet is expressed through playtime and cuddles, this provides plenty of comfort contact for a child. Interaction with animals can teach children about empathy, compassion and responsibility - lessons I feel both my children could benefit from. Another valuable life lesson a pet can provide is the ability to cope with uncertainty. Good and poor health, dealing with the unexpected, accidents, death and bereavement are all a part of life. Having a pet can provide firsthand experience of managing all these things.
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