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He didn’t tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.
~ Clarence Budington Kelland (1881-1964), American writer
For a large portion of my childhood, my father was not the primary breadwinner in our family. Not to imply that he didn’t work, he just earned considerably less than my mother. Oddly, this did not put a strain on my parents’ marriage. My father revelled in household duties like dusting, vacuuming, and laundry—all things my mother loathed with a passion. He had—and still has—more than a light fondness for order and neatness, traits which I have inherited in large quantities. And, while cooking was never part of his repertoire—the poor man could burn water as easily as blink—helping with homework turned out to be one of his fortes.
Decades later, it seems that in this world of postnuclear families, fatherhood is not so cut-and-dried. For those without actual fathers, male role models come in the form of uncles, grandfathers, and friends. As for actual dads, their role in the home, as well as their responsibilities, seems to be changing drastically. These days, the stay-at-home dad (and his sibling, the work-at-home-dad) is becoming more common. In fact, it seems that there are quite a large number of these local fellows who are more than happy to re-arrange their lives and careers in order to shuttle, wipe, sweep and feed
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their little broods, while their partners go off into “the real world.” Our ideas about what a father’s role should be seem to be changing daily, and one senses a muchneeded evolution is taking place. Fathers as a whole certainly seem to be a more caring and empathetic lot than in past generations, more open to forming emotional connections and managing households with the same gusto that previous generations of dads showed for barbequing and fox trots.
We decided to speak with some of these SAHDs and WAHDs and hear their own perspectives on parenting, the money divide and work-life balance. June is also the month for our annual summer party guide, and you will find our handy resource listings just waiting for that summer birthday or anniversary party.
My own father just recently celebrated a birthday, and my present to him—in keeping with his interests—was not a tie, a sweater, or a new TV. It was a deluxe Swiffer model, with many attachments. Sweep on, Dad, sweep on.
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Summer Safety Fair
Rocky Point Park, Point Moody
June 26, 2010, 11am-4pm
Presented by MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving), the 2nd annual Safety Community Fair is designed to provide charity and not-for-profit organizations in our community a venue to highlight their services and programs together in one area. Local entertainment and tons of great activities (don’t miss the water park!) at this great community event. madd.ca/vancouver
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Living Small
Big Isn’t Always Better
By Heather Lochner
Like most young girls, I spent hours lazing around and daydreaming about my life as a grownup. In my fantasy world, I was going to be a worldfamous doctor or a school teacher. My husband was a photographer, dump truck driver, or a surgeon. My future home always looked the same. It was big and filled with lots of places for hide-and-go-seek. It had an inviting front yard and a backyard with a pool, tree house and a swing set. There was a family room filled with toys and a garage that housed bikes and wagons. Each child had their own room and our kitchen was bright and airy.
But fate comes in many different shapes and sizes and mine came in the form of a sailor. My husband dreamt of sailing the seven seas, visiting far-off shores and uncharted anchorages. His dream became our dream and his sailboat became my new abode. Goodbye walk-in closet; hello hanging locker! My home floats, is 48 feet long and 15 feet wide. Much to my surprise, I am raising my family in just under 500 square feet of indoor living space, and while my space is smaller than most, I am not alone in my cramped quarters. Just ask Royal LePage Realtor Matt Collinge. “Vancouver families often live in smaller spaces than those in other parts of the country. They live in apartment condominiums, townhouses, or on the main floor of a bungalow because the basement is rented out to help pay the mortgage.”
So, what is a castle-dreamer to do when space is at a premium? Get creative I say! Innovation has been the key to our success. As we all know, kids need stuff. Diapers. Clothes. Bottles. Bouncy Chairs. Toys and Jolly Jumpers. As infants it was easier—stuff was smaller and we needed less. We found a highchair that clips onto the side of the table. I bought a collapsible excer-saucer. The playmat folded up. But now the kids are older and have toys—big toys. We have a hot wheels track, trains tracks, dolls, doll houses, and action figures. Add to that books, play dough, puzzles and Lego and you’re talking a whole lot of stuff. Since you cannot deny the children their toys, I began the hunt for spacefriendly items. And believe it or not, the search has not been too difficult. Walking around a toy store the other day I found a car garage which folds up and is easy to hide away. At another store I happened upon a miniature pack-
and-play for my daughter’s dollies—it even comes apart when not in use. We have a mesh, collapsible basketball net and a fold-up cloth castle. You get the picture. The items are out there. It is just a matter of finding them.
I have also found that plastic bins work. We have a plastic toy chest in our main living area that houses the “in” toys. In our bathroom, hidden in a closet, are a couple of toy bins. When toys stop being played with, I switch them up. New ones come out; old ones go in. If there is a toy that never gets played with, off the boat it goes; there is no room for an unwanted item.
And when the indoors become too small, we head outside—no matter the weather. We head to the park, we take adventure walks, or we simply bike along the seawall. In the rain we dig for worms; in the sun we build sand castles. “We consider the park across the street our backyard,” says condo dweller Dr. Donna McLachlan. “And if the kids are tired of the park we head to the Art Gallery, Science World or the local community centre.”
Clothing works similar to the toys. I love to buy clothes for my kids, but if an item of clothing is too small, it is off the boat. If the kids refuse to wear it, bye-bye. There is no room for the “maybe they will wear this” clothing item. Wear it or lose it. It may sound harsh, but that is the reality of living with limited space.
As for the parents, life gets a little trickier. My wardrobe is seasonal. Off season items are stored in our locker. This for the most part is fine, except when the weather turns unexpectedly and I am caught in a heat wave in the midst of winter. Our bookshelf can be found at the library and all magazines are passed along once they have been read.
Alison Stringham, VP Operations with Hot Tomali Communications, has found a solution for her family through creative storage options. “One of the best investments we ever made was having a professional come in and install closet organizers in our bedrooms and pantry. This allowed us to eliminate our son’s dresser and provided lots of shelves to neatly store his toys and books. Another thing I can’t live without: our ottoman that stores toys and can be used in multiple ways, including as a seat or coffee table. We also utilize baskets that can store toys out of sight in our living room, since we don’t have a separate playroom.”
Basically though, the most useful thing I can do in a small space is to clean up. Each night toys and laundry are put away and nothing is left out. Not only does it bring order back into my life, it also gives my husband and I a chance to evaluate each toy and make sure it is still being played with and is not broken.
Creativity and ruthlessness are the names of the game. Children can be raised in small spaces. You just need to be organized, resourceful and be able to give stuff away.
Space saving ideas for children’s items
1. Create a Neighbourhood Toy Exchange. Why not trade toys among friends? Gather together a small group of parents with similarly-aged kids and trade toys. Your neighbour may have the electronic car your son has been wanting; while you may have the play tent your neighbour wants.
2. Storage bins are your friend! Use bins with lids to store train tracks, doll clothes, or your vast collect of Hot Wheels. Label each bin with what is inside and stack them in a designated area.
3. Out of Sight, Out of Mind. Put away toys the kids have lost interest in and bring out toys that have been hidden away for a few months. In other words, rotate your toys.
4. Think before you buy. Does your child really need another pair of shoes? Do you have room for the latest “must-have” toy? A sober second thought before a purchase will help decrease clutter.
5. Lose the boxes. Use closable plastic bags to store puzzles. Remember to cut out a picture of the puzzle for future reference.
6. Fold and go rules! Find toys that are compactable or can be folded up. Tents made from mesh, fold and go dollhouses, or miniature kitchens are ideal for smaller spaces.
7. Access community services. Look within your neighbourhood to see what is offered. Is there a book or toy-lending library nearby? This is a great way to offer variety without overloading your already crowded home.
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LEARNING CENTRES
BC Kids Education Centre
Specializing in mathematics and English programs. Numerous locations in the Lower Mainland. brainchild.org
Boundary Bay Montessori
Offering quality education programs to help equip children with proper tools necessary to be independent adults while allowing their unique personalities to unfold.
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Brainbridge Bilingual Education & Fine Arts Centre
Offering bilingual academic preschool programs (in English and Chinese), as well as after-school programs for students in kindergarten to grade 7 (including languages, math and fine arts).
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Capilano Learning Centre
Offering math and computer studies in North Vancouver.
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Children’s Kingdom Montessori
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Fraser Academy Association
Provides adapted instruction to match each child’s unique learning style.
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Ho Math & Chess Learning Centre Math skills structured around the benefits of learning the game of chess. 604.263.4321 | mathandchess.com
Jacquelyn Rud’s Reading Center
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Learning Disabilities Association of BC Programs for students with reading deficits and learning disabilities, such as dyslexia.
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Millennium Kids Learning Centre
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Oxford Learning Centres
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Reach for the Stars Montessori Learning Academy
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REACH Orton-Gillingham Learning Center
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Reading Foundation
Providing one-on-one attention to students struggling with reading and spelling or math and comprehension difficulties.
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Sylvan Learning Centre
A wide variety of tutoring services available to kids of all ages, in-centre and/or online. Various locations throughout the Lower Mainland.
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Vancouver Learning Centre: The Language Box
Programs enhance literacy and school performance.
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Wondertree Learning Centre
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Yaletown Montessori
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TUTORING SERVICES
Academic Advantage Educational Services
Servicing the entire Lower Mainland, offering in-home tutoring.
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Academy for Mathematics & Science
International product that assists kids in developing math, science and English skills. Richmond | 604.278-5109 North Vancouver | 604.980-3633 Coquitlam | 604.552-0086 acadfor.com
Canada Home Tutoring School
Tutoring and coaching services to learners of all ages. canadahometutoring.com
Club Z! In Home Tutoring Services
Helps to improve grades, raise test scores, learn study skills and build academic confidence. All ages.
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Ecole Francaise Internationale de Vancouver
Offering education in French and English. Located in North Vancouver. 604.924.2457 | efiv.org
PD Plus Tutoring Services Provides in-home tutoring. 604.421.6101 | pdplustutors.com
Progressive Learning Centre One-on-one tutoring services for kids and adults.
604.733.4400
Teachers’ Tutoring Service Tutoring for kids in all grades.
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HOME LEARNING
BC Home Learners’ Association Supports families who choose to educate their kids at home.
1.866.444.2299 | bchla.bc.ca
Burnaby Online Allows students to work online with the Burnaby School District to meet their educational needs.
604.664.2526 | online.sd41.bc.ca
Greater Vancouver Distance Education Flexible learning programs for elementary and secondary students, and adults too. 604.713.5520 | gvdes.com
Lochiel U-Connect Education Centre Innovative programming for home learners. sd35.bc.ca/uconnect
New Westminster Home Learners Program Program focuses on a three-way partnership between parents, teachers and children. Kindergarten to grade 8. 604.517.5917
Open School BC Resources for kindergarten to grade 12; online and in print.
1.888.883.4766 | pss.gov.bc.ca/osbc
Summit Learning Centre
604.820.3333 | summitlearningcentre.ca
Traditional Learning Academy: School at Home Christian education offering online and paperbased options for kindergarten to grade 12 students.
604.572.3441 | schoolathome.ca
Wondertree HomeLearners’ Network Program for home learners that allows children the freedom to feed their own curiosity. 604.224.3663 | wondertree.org
RESULTS 2010 WCM FitnessChallenge
Our WestCoast Mom Fitness Challenge has concluded and here are the winners!
By Angela Davidson
It has been a hard three months for all of our contestants. Due to an unrelated injury, we lost another contestant, Leanna Hall, in the final stretch, which brought the final number down to six. Of those, some found that the key to successful weight loss is all about the balance between eating habits and exercise, while others achieved remarkable results. Thank you to all of the contestants for your hard work and dedication. And an especially big thank you to the trainers of Cardio-Core Bootcamp, who motivated and inspired our contestants with their passion, dedication and energy. Without further ado, here are the top three finalists of the WestCoast Mom Fitness Challenge!
1st Place Winner: Arlene Bradley!
Arlene’s Story
Arlene, at 49 years of age at the start of this challenge, was the oldest contestant out of our eight finalists, and the only one with a heart condition that her doctors had told her would require surgery to correct. Arlene decided to complete the fitness challenge first, and her results have been amazing. In addition to her fabulous weight loss and improved outlook on life, it turns out that the operation for her heart is no longer in her future. “I went to see my doctor before the final weigh-in,” explained Arlene, “and my doctor told me the surgery wasn’t necessary anymore. The improvement in my health has minimized the symptoms so much that I no longer need surgery.” Congratulations Arlene and we wish you all the best!
Have you enjoyed reading about this fitness challenge? Would you like to read about and/or participate in another one? Let us know your thoughts by emailing editor@westcoastfamilies.com.
2nd Place Winner: Helena Tse!
Helena’s Story
before
after
34-year-old Helena came to this competition shortly after the birth of her second child, and has been, in fact, nursing throughout the competition. Despite two back-to-back weddings (with all of the accompanying feasting and merrymaking), Helena stuck to the program and has exhibited wonderful results. And a bonus has been that now her husband has embraced her healthy eating habits as well. Congratulations Helena!
3rd Place Winner:
Lynnette Penner!
Lynette’s Story
A busy doctor and mother of two young children, 41-year-old Lynnette found one of the biggest challenges for her was waking up early enough to get to bootcamp by six in the morning, and still have enough energy for her long days. “It meant giving up some of my quiet time in the evening in order to do it, commented Lynnette, “but the early morning workouts are definitely worth it! My energy level has increased and I’ve noticed it’s easier to get on the floor and play with my kids now.” Congratulations Lynnette!
All Aboard To Disneyland!
By Debbie Bowman
As the train emerges out of the tunnel through Oregon’s Cascade Mountain Range we see there is now snow on the ground around the tracks. Nevertheless, the train continues unabated through the mountain pass, allowing us to catch glimpses of reflective alpine lakes and distant snowy peaks coloured pink by the setting sun. We all “ooh” and “ahh” over the breath-taking views and the kids cry out with excitement when they see more tunnels in the distance. All of this occurs as we leisurely eat our dinner in the dining car of our Amtrak train.
Like so many before us, we were making the compulsory pilgrimage to Disneyland—but for something different we decided to take the train. And where normally the traveling part of our holiday would just be something to endure, this time the journey was as fun as the destination, if not more so.
Taking the train is a blast for the entire family—a blast from the past, actually. Everything is different and exciting. From waiting for the train in the old-fashioned train station to hearing the famous “All aboard” being called, train travel is interesting and adventurous. And once on the train, you’ll all enjoy exploring the cars and watching the towns go by.
Even a task as simple as bedtime can be fun and exciting when you take the train. There’s just something about sleeping on a train that speaks of comfort as well as adventure. It’s especially fun if you book a private sleeping compartment as your kids will be amazed and enchanted by the ingenious chairs that make into comfortable bunk beds. Once you overcome the excitement of sleeping on a train you’ll be rocked to sleep as your train sways its way toward your destination. And in the morning you’ll have fun looking out the windows to see where you traveled during the night.
The fun factor is very important but that’s not the only reason you should consider the train. Traveling by train is just easy. Not only is it easy to design your holiday, train travel is easy also on your pocketbook, easy on your mind, and easy on the environment.
It’s a cinch to create an itinerary that fits your schedule and your inclinations when you take the train. You can make the trip to Los Angeles in two days, but if you have time you can get off the train and enjoy some of the sights along the way. For example, en route to Disneyland we disembarked near San Francisco to spend an entire day exploring the famous city via bus, cable car and trolley—and the next day we boarded another train continuing its way south. How’s that for easy? Furthermore, after Disneyland there are even more stops of interest that you may want to include in your vacation—places like Legoland, the San Diego Zoo, and Sea World.
Taking the train is economical too. We were surprised when we realized that train travel is cheaper than driving. Remember, in addition to fuel and the wear-and-tear on your vehicle, driving long distances necessitates hotel stays and restaurant meals. But a first class ticket on the Amtrak will include your accommodation in a sleeper car as well as all your meals. Even with the upgrade we figured we saved over $200 by taking the train over driving.
Not only will you save money when you take the train, you’ll save yourself from acquiring a few grey hairs too. Instead of having white knuckles as you drive the freeways you can have white wine while you sit in the lounge and enjoy the view. Doesn’t that sound nice? As well, you can put puzzles together, play games, or read books with the kids. You can walk around the cars and stretch your legs anytime you want, or take a cat nap—all the while advancing toward your destination. Train travel is simply a civilized and serene way to get somewhere.
Finally, taking the train is an environmentally-friendly way to travel. If you cringe at the thought of burning fossil fuels to get where you want to go, you can relax knowing that train travel is seventeen percent more energy-efficient than traveling by airline or car.
So if you’d like to shed the stress of driving or flying, or if you’d simply like to enjoy the journey as much as the destination, take the train instead. Your entire family will be glad of it.
Debbie Bowman is a freelance writer whose most memorable part of the train trip was seeing the snow around the tracks before nightfall and then waking up to the view of palm trees in the morning.
To keep you on the right track...
• You can search schedules, get fares and buy tickets at amtrak.com or you can call 1.800.USA.RAIL.
• You can start your journey from Vancouver’s Main Street Station, via bus or train, depending on your schedule.
• Book a few months in advance as the sleeper cars sell out fast.
• You can either book a family sleeping compartment, which accommodates two adults and two small children, or you can book two double compartments, side by side.
• If your time is limited, consider taking the train down and flying back, or vice versa.
Useful things to bring on your trip:
• Bring detailed maps or a GPS so you can see where you are at all times.
• Bring some snacks and beverages to enjoy between your meals.
• A bag of games, activities, and books will come in handy if your kids get bored of the views.
Here’s a list of train books you may like to read to your kids while you ride the rails:
• The Caboose That Got Loose by Bill Peet
• Choo Choo by Virginia Lee Burton
• Trains by Lynn Curlee
• Train Song by Diane Siebert
• Niccollini’s Song by Chuck Wilcoxen
• And for older kids...The Railway Children by E. Nesbit
Green Planet Parties
The Stationery Position
This Canadian company produces whimsical, chic and unique note cards, invitations, birthday cards, wedding announcements and much more. Did we mention all cards are printed on FSC (Forest Stewardship Council) certified paper and made carbon neutral with 100% renewable green energy? www.thestationeryposition.com
From cloth name banners and goodie bags to tree-in-a-box gifts and biodegradable tableware, Vancouver-based Green Planet Parties is your source for local, sustainable party supplies for all ages. www.greenplanetparties.com
How to Hire an Entertainer
Here are some tips from Gina-Marie Frazier, an entertainer with over 27 years of experience and owner of Castletop Characters, on how to choose the right entertainer for your party: 1. Age Appropriate is All. Don’t hire an entertainer who specializes in young children for a bunch of teens. Ask questions about the type of entertainment provided and the intended age range. Find out what group size works best for each entertainer.
2. Do Your Due Diligence. Research several entertainers before choosing one. What is their experience? Do they have referrals/testimonials from private and corporate clients? Are they professional in their manner and approach? How useful is their website? Are they patient? Do they genuinely like kids?
3. Budget Appropriately. “You get what you pay for” is a good rule of thumb. Make sure to include enough in your budget for a quality performer, rather than the cheapest one available. Your kids will feel the difference. No matter what you end up paying, though, you have the right to a quality performance.
4. Get and Give the Details. Make sure to ask the performer how much space they need, if they need any materials, can they perform outside as well as inside, what equipment do they provide, etc. If your child or another have special needs or limitations, let the entertainer know in advance so that they can plan appropriately.
Coquitlam/Surrey | 604.931.1913 Fraser Valley | 604.931.1913 par-t-perfect.com
Party Arts and Crafts
604.318.1261 | partyarts.ca
Party Works Interactive
604.599.5541 | partyworks.bc.ca
Peter Rooke’s Fun Magic Shows
604.984.6822
Ray Wong Magic Entertainment
604.439.8809 | raywongmagic.com
Ready Teddy Go
604.460.7217 | readyteddygo.ca
Starchild & Co
604.541.0908 | starchild.bc.ca
Shé munchkinmusic.net
Suds N’ Scents Inc
604.859.7837 | sudsandscents.com
Take the Stress off Party Planning
778.227.5597
The Blues Berries 604.816.2684 | thebluesberries.com
The Great Marrdini 604-803-4813 | marrdini.com
The Magic Of Yeeri
604.306.6229 | yeeri.com
The Purple Pirate
604.805.4395 | purplepirate.com
The Ta Daa Lady angelabrown.ca
Vancouver Magic Productions
604.937.7258 | vancouvermagic.com
Will Stroet
778.896.1476 | willmusic.ca
Wobbles the Hip Hop Birthday Clown
604.780.4363 | diannadavid.net
Zox of the Forest
604.710.4234| zoxoftheforest.com
BC Children’s Hospital Foundation’s Celebration Donation Invitations make giving easy. These donation cards & envelopes to honour your child can be sent with invitations or provided for guests at your next party to collect donations in lieu of gifts.
Please consider supporting BC Children’s Hospital at your next event. For more information please contact tributeprogram@bcchf.ca or 604.875.2444. www.bcchf.ca
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Animal Grossology
Metropolis at Metrotown
Ongoing until August 22
Metropolis at Metrotown, in conjunction with Advanced Exhibits, the exhibit’s producer, invites the public to learn about some of the slimiest, stinkiest and downright yuckiest facts about creatures as small as a flea to as large as a cow. This educational exhibit introduces kids to science in a way that makes them both laugh and learn at the same time. metropolisatmetrotown.com
Summer Car Boot Sale
Boundary Bay Regional Park
Every 2nd & 4th Saturday
June – September, 8am-12:30pm
Load up your car with treasures. Buyers and sellers welcome at this popular multi-car boot sale at the Centennial Beach parking lot. Gates open for sellers at 8am, $10 per seller site. No reservations required.
604.943.0828
Bard on the Beach Shakespeare Festival Vanier Park
June 3-September 25, various times
Western Canada’s largest professional Shakespeare company, Bard on the Beach presents its festival in Kitsilano’s Vanier Park adjacent to Vancouver’s downtown core. The productions are staged in open-ended tents on the waterfront against a spectacular backdrop of mountains, sea and sky. Performances run Tuesdays through Sundays. Evening shows at 8pm, except Sunday evenings when curtain moves earlier to 7pm. Matinees are scheduled on selected weekends and weekdays. Tickets are on sale now and start at $18.75. Please check the website for more info. 604-739-0559 | bardonthebeach.org
Play On! Burnaby
Metropolis at Metrotown
June 5-6
CBC’s Hockey night in Canada presents Play On! Burnaby. This is an opportunity to test your hockey skills against the competition and have a great time doing it! Hundreds of teams with different tournament divisions for men, women, boys and girls, and hockey enthusiasts of all ages and abilities. Please pre-register online.
604.688.7584 | playon.ca
Day Out With Thomas
39645 Government Road, Squamish
June 5-6 & 12-13, 10am-4pm
Two full weekends of excitement with Thomas and his friends! Take a short ride behind the real Thomas; enjoy a miniature railway ride and so much more fun for the whole family!
604.898.9336 | wcra.org
18th Annual Coho Bon Voyage
Crippen Regional Park
June 6, 11am-3pm
Join this annual Bowen Island salmon celebration. Release young salmon; take a guided tour of the Terminal Creek Fish Hatchery and discover the ecological importance of the salmon life cycle. Meet at the hatchery, a 15-minute walk from the ferry dock.
604.947.9584 | bowenhatchery.org
Annual Brookswood Summerfest
Brookswood Village
June 12, 10am-4pm
A free community celebration, featuring special activities for the kids, side-walk sales, music, arts and crafts, great food and much more! Bring the whole family for a fun-filled day in the village! brookswoodvillage.com
Walk For Miracles
Stanley Park
June 13, 8am
Join thousands of Canadians at Stanley Park across Canada for the 7th Annual Walmart Walk For Miracles. The day includes a 1km or 5km walk to help raise funds for Canada’s children’s hospitals, which provide much needed care for over 2.6 million children each year. There will be music, activities, refreshments, and special guest appearances. Registration starts at 8am. walkformiracles.ca
Ladner Village Market
Ladner Village
June 13 & 27, 10am-4pm
This three-block long open-air market runs rain or shine with over 140 vendors from all over the southern province. Enjoy fresh produce, plants and garden accessories, handmade jewellery, soaps, crafts and much more! ladnervillagemarket.com
Splash! It’s Pond Season
VanDusen Botanical Garden
June 19, 10:30am-12:30pm & 1:30pm-3:30pm
Join program leaders for a hands-on look at pond life. Collect some critters with our pond-dipping nets and check them out up-close with our microscopes back at the Education Centre classroom. Price: Member Family $10, Non-Member Family $15 (includes admission to the Garden). One-time bursaries are available for families with limited resources. Suitable for families with children ages 5 to 11 years, however children must be accompanied by an adult. Pre-registration required.
604.718.5898 | vandusengarden.org
SPLASH! BC Family Fishing Day & Watershed Tours
Kick-Off
Lower Seymour Conservation Reserve
June 20, 10am-3pm
Try your luck at catching rainbow trout at Rice Lake. Enjoy exhibits and festivities, take a shuttle bus ride or guided bike tour to the Old Growth Trail and Seymour Falls Dam, enjoy a BBQ and win great prizes. BBQ extra.
604.451.6506 | metrovancouver.org
Kids In The City
Four Seasons Hotel, Vancouver
June 21-September 5
Kids between the ages of five and 12 are greeted with a t-shirt and an in-room treat from the chef, designed to energize them for the active day ahead. They can slip into child-sized hotel robes and make their way to the Hotel’s pool located in the Health Club where the Kids’ Activity Concierge offers a daily poolside activity, including arts and crafts day, face painting and scavenger hunts and more! The next morning, kids are welcomed at YEW restaurant with a complimentary breakfast. Here parents can proudly watch their kids learn some tricks of the culinary trade, including the all-important lesson of how to create the perfect cookie! Bring your camera! Reservations can be made online. fourseasons.com/vancouver.
Awareness Affair
Rocky Point Park, Port Moody
June 26, 11am-4pm
This is a day of multicultural celebration and safety awareness. It doesn’t matter what age, gender, or ethnicity we are; impaired drivers impact every single one of us when they are on our roads. Come out and visit 20 community booths. The afternoon will be filled with local performers, face painting, multi-cultural activities and various community groups providing information on their programs and services. This is a free event for the entire community.
604.515.9212
Damsels and Dragonflies
Burnaby Lake Regional Park
Saturday, June 26, 10am-11:30am
Search for flying adult dragonflies and damselflies and use a net to catch the young ones. Join your child to find out about these aquatic insects. $12.84 + HST per child/adult pair. Registration required, please quote barcode 216812. 604.421.5225
Huge Indoor Kids Swap Meet
Cloverdale Fairgrounds
June 26, 9am-1pm
For families and those expecting, this is a goldmine! Everything from toys to strollers, clothing to baby gates— you’ll find it here. Newborn to age 10. To book a table or for information please call.
604.588.9919
Toad-ally Awesome!
Derby Reach Regional Park
June 27, 9am-11am
What is lumpy, covered with warts, has golden eyes and indicates a healthy wetland? Join a professional biologist for a slide show on toad migration and then explore the wetland to look for toadlets. Find out about opportunities to help monitor toadlet migration. Ages 5+. $4/child/youth; $7.50/adult; $20/family. metrovancouver.org
A Midsummer Fête
Colony Farm Regional Park, June 27, 1pm-5pm
You’re invited to explore the diverse landscape, flora, and fauna of Colony Farm, and the people connected to it. Spend a lovely afternoon in the park and take in dancing, entertainment, storytelling, and visual arts. Enjoy the beauty of historic farmland, community gardens, trails, and wildlife areas. Park at the end of Colony Farm Road, off Lougheed Highway.
604.432.6359 | metrovancouver.org
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SAHDs and WAHDs
The Next Generation of Dads
By Amy Fardell
“Yeah, I never thought of myself as the housedad-type, but things change,” grins Eric Lindley*, a work-at-home-dad in North Vancouver. Eric’s wife works full-time in a corporate law office downtown. Instead of putting their two children, both under the age of four, in daycare, they decided that one parent would stay home with the kids, and Eric decided it would be him.
“My wife offered to do it, but I knew how much her career meant to her,” explains Lindley, “and my work is done from home anyway, so it made sense for me to be the at-home parent. I schedule my work around the kids’ nap times—thank God the older one still naps religiously— and I do a lot early in the morning or late at night when everybody is sleeping.”
John Leung*, a stay-at-home-dad of three kids under age eight in Surrey, said that making the decision to stay home with his kids was the easiest of his life. “I wasn’t passionate about my job,” say Leung, “it was just a way to earn money, and my wife makes a bit more than I do, so it made sense to keep the higher income. Plus, I really love having this time with my kids. I feel so lucky. In a few years, when they’re a bit older, I want to get back out there, but in the meanwhile…”
With the cost of daycare rising exponentially, and waiting lists of up to two years, examples like these are becoming much more common. Instead of working to pay for daycare, fathers are staying home with their kids, and letting their wives take over the breadwinning duties. But do they take over all of the household management?
“I clean the house during the week,” says Lindley, “do the laundry and all the cooking, plus I drive the kids to their play dates, doctor appointments and activities. On the weekends, my wife does the cooking and takes care of the dishes, but I still do the vacuuming. We both try to give each other time to rest from the kids and each other, so that we don’t burn out.”
“I try to keep on top of the housework,” admits Leung, “but I’m not as good at it as my wife, and my organizational skills could use improvement. If I don’t write it down, it’s gone in thirty seconds, and then I’ll have my daughter yelling at me for forgetting to buy a birthday present an hour before the party.”
All in all, it’s a far cry from the traditional father role that most of us grew up with. Maybe men today are more comfortable with their masculinity or were raised with a more balanced set of gender values, but the result seems to be fathers who find it completely natural to stay at home with their kids and run the household while their wives work outside the home. Of course, not every situation is idyllic.
“My wife is definitely still in charge of organization,” says Leung. “I know it’s a bit stressful for her to manage everything, and I have had to call her about where to find things while she’s away on business trips, but we’re working on it.”
*Names changed to protect privacy.
Money Matters
By Karin Mizgala
Iwas thinking of buying budgeting software in the hopes that this would help us manage our family finances better. My wife thinks it would be a waste of time and money. Who’s right?
Many of my clients and students ask me about the best accounting software packages to create a budget and keep track of their expenses, such as Quicken or Microsoft Money. They’re shocked when I say that I don’t recommend either of them.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m a big advocate of having a good handle on your expenses. The trouble is most people don’t use their “money time” wisely—and often focus their attention on the wrong things. Budgeting isn’t about dumping a whole bunch of numbers into a computer and then wasting time juggling those figures. Yes, you absolutely need to gather the critical budget information for a few months to see what your spending patterns have been. But you can use pen and paper, or a basic Excel spreadsheet to track these numbers.
The key is to do something useful with the information you have been gathering so diligently and to figure out what the numbers mean. Most importantly, are you living within your means or not? How can you tell? Well, an easy reality-check is to look at your debts—especially your credit card and line of credit balances. If your debts are going down year-after-year—and not up—then this is a good sign that you are living within your means.
Chef & Food Stylist
Murray Bancroft
What’s the lowdown on you?
I’ve been married five years with two daughters (four and one). As a chef/consultant and food stylist, my career and passions are one and the same.
What inspired you/led you to become a chef/ food stylist?
Paris. I had the chance to go to France on a high school trip and I still remember my first steak frites. After attempting to send it back (thinking they’d forgotten to cook it) I tried it, and I liked it. A summer job went towards going back the next year, then eventually moving to the South of France. In fact, I was working in Paris when I got the call that my wife had gone in to labour early. I missed the birth, but at least I had a bottle of Moët in tow when I arrived at the hospital!
What are some of your biggest challenges in work? In life?
Telling my kids they can’t play with their food when I do it for a living.
What would you describe as some of the biggest rewards of your work/family?
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Tasting entire menus in one sitting—and still making it home to cook for the family.
Do you manage to take time-out for yourself?
If so, what does that entail?
I try to get outdoors and exercise when possible— early morning runs. Lately it’s crabbing or tennis. We also have a big vegetable garden that I tend to every day from April to October.
How did your business come about?
I was working in the kitchen at Le Crocodile and got to know one of the locally-based farmers who delivered to the restaurant. He inspired me to start a company delivering farmers’ produce to customer’s homes. The experience of working for myself and discovering other ways of working with my passion for food was exciting. When I met my future wife, I told her I wanted to have dinner with her every night—something restaurant chefs don’t get to do. That’s when I began consulting and food styling.
Do you and your partner manage to make time for yourselves? How do you keep your relationship from going stale?
My wife and I are masters of the 48-hour vacation. We get away with and without the kids as often as possible to relax, but also to get inspired by new things.
Any must-haves?
Family, good food, wine.
Next, ask yourself: Am I setting enough money aside for important life goals—travel, retirement, kid’s education, charitable works, making a difference in the world, etc. If you aren’t sure how much you need to save now to reach each of your goals, then have your financial advisor run some projections for you.
If you have a plan in place for saving and investing wisely, if you’re living within your means, if you are working towards your life’s purpose—your dreams—your goals, then it really doesn’t matter how much money you spend in each budget category. Knowing how and where you spend your money is essential—before you put a financial plan in place. Stay on track with your plan by looking at the pace of your debt reduction, the quality of your life on a day-to-day basis, and your progress towards attaining your short, medium and long-term life goals. Spending the time up-front to set up a budgeting system that maintains itself will save you time and money in the long run.
Karin Mizgala MBA, CFP, is a fee-only financial planner and co-founder of the Women’s Financial Learning Centre. www.womensfinanciallearning.ca
Tell us one or two of the most important life lessons you have learned through being a dad/ business owner.
Don’t sweat the small stuff—especially when it’s in the form of a half-eaten piece of broccoli being hurled your way.
Anything else you’d like us to know about you? I taped a cooking show (while partially clad) for CityTV that may still be airing (albeit dubbed) in some South American countries—very late at night, I’m sure.
Adult Events for the Hip Dad Around Town!
Improve Communication and Speaking Skills
Pitt Meadows City Hall, Every Thursday at 7:30pm Toastmasters is dedicated to helping its members overcome speaking fears while building confidence and self esteem. This is for a Toastmasters, non-profit organization starting a new club in Pitt Meadows. Everyone Welcome. 604.465.9699
We Stand on Guard for Thee: Canadian Naval Centennial Vancouver Maritime Museum, Ongoing until September
A new exhibit at the museum recognizes and honours the Royal Canadian Navy’s centennial. The exhibit is supplemented with some rare vintage artefacts including the rare and unusual Mark IX torpedo. It was also the weapon that defined Canada’s role in the war, namely the Battle of the Atlantic. Among the numerous ship models on display will be a large scale replica of a German U-boat 203. vancouvermaritimemuseum.com
Sustainability Community Breakfasts
BCIT Downtown, June 2 & 30, 7:30am-9am
You are welcome to attend our ongoing series of breakfasts to share actions and strategies on building a more sustainable Metro Vancouver. The breakfasts are your opportunity to network with others working in the private, public, academic and not-for profit sectors. For updates, more information and to register, visit our website under “breakfast.” metrovancouver.org
The Challenge of Balance
Granville Island Hotel, June 4, 9am-11am
Momcafé is pleased to present two high profile women in the local business community who juggle multiple roles as moms, wives, business people, community leaders and more. Launi Skinner has enjoyed an incredible journey leading large organizations including Starbucks North America, 1-800-Got-Junk and now First West Financial, while making time for her two young daughters. Cybele Negris is an experienced entrepreneur building two businesses and raising two young children. Childcare is provided so attendees can take some time to linger over a latte, be inspired, and connect with other moms to share ideas and experiences. $37 non-members; $31 members (plus GST). Includes a light breakfast and latte.
604.290.4236 | momcafenetwork.com
Divas to Diapers
2nd Beach, Stanley Park, covered picnic area, June 5, noon-2pm
A family picnic raising awareness for Post Partum Depression. Please bring a blanket or lawn chair and a picnic lunch and join Post Partum Support Society speaker Sheri Brown. There will be children’s entertainment and a demonstration by Salsa Babies. RSVP before the event for a chance to win a gift basket. Donations accepted with proceeds going to the Pacific Post Partum Society. divatodiapers@gmail.com
Parents’ Survival Nights!
The Little Gym, Langley, June 18
Parents, do you need an evening out? Well drop the kids and go out and enjoy yourselves knowing your children are having just as much fun in a safe and nurturing environment with their friends! Call and reserve your spot today to avoid disappointment. These nights are open to the public for anyone between the ages of 3 and 12 years of age. thelittlegym.com
Sunday in the Park
Boundary Bay Regional Park, June 20, 9am-noon
or email
Father’s Day Walk/Run for Prostate Cancer
Burnaby Lake, June 20
Drop in and enjoy this 10th annual Father’s Day pancake breakfast served at Centennial Beach. There will be entertainment by Doghouse Group Celtic Band. At 11am, celebrate the grand opening of the Lions Club playground for children of all abilities. Breakfast: $5/adult, $2/child.
Choose from a 10k run, a 5k walk, or a 2k stroll. There is also a tot run, live music, free barbeque lunch, 100’s of prizes and special guests. It’s a fantastic party that you won’t want to miss. Do it for Dad! Please register online. fathersdayrun.ca | 604.574.4012
2010 Main Street Car Free Day Festival
Main Street, June 20, noon-8pm
Celebrate Father’s Day Car-Free! Check out local artists, and performers, street hockey, bicycles, storytelling and loads of family fun! This festival runs in conjunction with four other neighbourhoods, and will be a part of a larger movement, Car-Free Vancouver Day.
carfreevancouver.org
Entrepreneurial Moms: Understand the Meaning Behind the Numbers #300-1111 West Hastings St., June 21, 1pm-4pm
Learn how to assess the overall financial health of your business, optimize your tax and business structure, manage your books and how to work with an accountant, and discover creative ways to grow your business. This 3-hour session will provide key answers to questions such as: should I re-invest in my business or pay myself? When does it make sense to incorporate? Should I incorporate my family into my business? How do I pick an accountant? What are other creative ways to grow my business? Cost is $79 and includes 45min one-on-one professional coaching and a one-on-one appointment for personal or business consultation to map out your financial plan. flci.ca
Soirée Gala & Auction
Nu Restaurant and Lounge, June 24, 7pm
Playing host to BC’s movers and shakers, this show is truly a feast for the senses. Festivities start with a decadent cocktail reception, followed by a fine wine and food experience. The evening continues with live entertainment, a silent and live auction featuring priceless items and experiences, a spectacular grand prize raffle, and much more! $125 per ticket. Group rates available. Net proceeds to benefit the Whistler Film Festival Society 1.877.838.FILM (3456).
Food Fight! The Battle for Brunch
Vancouver Convention Centre, June 27, 11am-2pm
This is a fun and unique new fundraising event bringing together some of BC’s finest chefs in a battle for your taste buds. Mingle with friends as you sample each delicious brunch offering and cast your ballot to declare one chef the Food Fight champ! Guests will also enjoy a gorgeous floor to ceiling harbour view from the Vancouver Convention Centre’s most stunning ballroom and an auction featuring some fantastic items from participating restaurants and other local favourites. variety.bc.ca
Great reads for dads and the people who love them!
The Modern Dad’s Dilemma: How to Stay Connected to Your Kids ina Rapidly Changing World
by John Badalament, Ed.M.
In this hand-on approach from Badalament, a noted documentary filmmaker, author and parenting educator, the stories of fifteen diverse fathers are used as a starting point to explore issues like balancing family time with work demands, building open communication with your kids at any age, modeling a healthy relationship with your child’s mother, and sorting through your own father’s legacy. SRP $18.95.
Parking Lot Rules & 75 Other Ideas for Raising Amazing Children
by Tom Sturges
Tom Sturges is just a regular guy who, one day, was lucky enough to become a dad. Unfortunately, he realized that he had no idea on how to be one. Enter Parking Lot Rules, based on his endless notes and experiments raising his two boys. Along the way, he found that some rules worked (Parking Lot Rules, Smile When You See Them), while others—didn’t (Child Steers While Daddy Drives, for one). Humourous, practical and highly insightful, a great read for any new parent. SRP $16.50.
A Complete Guide for Single Dads
by Craig Baird
Whether you are a single father through divorce or death, A Complete Guide for Single Dads will guide you through the many obstacles and trials you may face in your new role. Author Craig Baird details the differences between parenting a daughter versus a son and outlines how to deal with the issues a mother would normally handle. You will learn how to communicate with your children as well as how to balance work and family time. Also included are tips on cooking healthy meals for your kids, divvying up chores, setting rules and instituting discipline, and introducing pets into the home. SRP $24.95.
What I Would Tell Her: 28 Devoted Dads on Bringing Up, Holding On To and Letting Go of Their Daughters
edited by Andrea N. Richesin
Vulnerable, endearing, often funny and occasionally heartbreaking, this collection of essays explores the complex, enigmatic bond between fathers and daughters, the overwhelming sense of responsibility that is so common, and the challenges and struggles of each. SRP $16.95.
C’Mon
Papa: Dispatches From a Dad in the Dark
by Ryan Knighton
The latest offering from Vancouver author Ryan Knighton explores his own journey through fatherhood as a legally blind dad. With wit, humour and much honesty, Knighton paints a graphic picture of what it’s like to have your baby toddle away and your only hope is she will respond to your calls, or walk through Vancouver’s busy streets with a three-month-old strapped to your chest, and hope you don’t crash into a pole—or worse. Compassionate, humourous and a great local read. SRP $29.95.
A Complicated Love
by Dene Rossouw
The true story of a local Vancouver father, A Complicated Love is about a straight father and a gay son and lessons from their road trip. It packs an emotional punch as father and son share their poignant journey of discovery—each man ultimately learning that by letting go of old baggage they open their hearts and minds to accept each other. At its core is the enduring message of love in its purest form. SRP $12.95.
Handy Dad: 25 Awesome Projects for Dads and Kids by
Todd Davis
In this super-cool book, Todd Davis, star of HGTV’s Design Star, shows how to build all sorts of projects kids will love—from half-pipes and zip lines to go-carts and more! SRP $24.95.
Fun All Year Long!
2nd Annual
ReadersChoice awards
Our ULTIMATE FAMILY PASS Grand Prize (Total Retail Value Approx. $1,000!) includes a one year family membership to ALL of the following attractions:
• Capilano Suspension Bridge
• Greater Vancouver Zoo
• H.R. McMillan Planetarium
• Maplewood Farm
• Museum of Vancouver
• Science World
• Vancouver Aquarium
• Vancouver Art Gallery
• Vancouver Maritime Museum
• Vancouver Police Museum
• VanDusen Botanical Garden PLUS: Four Season PlayPasses to Playland 2011 (April through September)
You can also win one of our two runner-up prizes:
One year membership for one parent and one child to The Great Escape in Langley (Value $299).
Four passes to one of Carousel Theatre for Young People’s 2011 performances of Literary Classics (Value $116). is pleased to announce the official launch of our Enter for your chance to WIN this ULTIMATE FAMILY PASS, good for one whole year for a family of four!
