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ARTICLES GOWNS. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Budgeting Your Big Day . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Creative Details. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17 Micro Weddings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20 Attendant Gifts. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22 Pinterest. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26 Bestman Responsibilities. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28 Maid of Honor Responsibilities. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29 Parents Responsibilities. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30 TRENDS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32, 54 Guide to Pre-Wedding Events. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 40 Gracious Bride. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44 Great Groom. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45 More than Love. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 46 Backdrops. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 48 Working with Vendors. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50 Choosing Bridesmaids . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 52 REHEARSAL/INTIMATE VENUES. . . . . . . . . . . 56 RECEPTION. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 64 Modern Families. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 72 Getting Married Again. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 74 Furry Friends. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 76 Perfect Wedding Toast. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 78 LGBTQ Weddings. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 80 CATERING . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 90 Hire a Pro Bartender. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 96 CONSULTANTS. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 100 RENTALS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 104 PHOTOGRAPHY. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 130 Creating Your Wedding Album. . . . . . . . . . . . . 138 INVITATIONS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 142 FLOWERS. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 148 CAKES. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 164 ENTERTAINMENT. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 172 Most Requested Songs. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 178 Photo Booths. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 180 BEAUTY . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 188 Signature Drinks. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 196 GROOM. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .212 TRANSPORATION. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 216 Bachelor(ette) Parties. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 222 HONEYMOON. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 225 Budgeting Your Wedding. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 232 Home Ownership. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 244

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GOWNS

becoming reality

Even from a very young age, most girls daydream about their wedding dress. We’re constantly bombarded with movies, TV, and photos of picture-perfect, iconic brides. And what makes these brides iconic? The dress! Although finding the right dress for your wedding day isn’t as easy as daydreaming, we’re here to help with these bridal gown basics.

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VENUES GOWNS GOWN STYLES Bridal attire ranges from extravagant princess gowns to tailored suits. There’s no rule saying a

a rustic lodge, classic ballroom, or ultra-modern loft? Ask yourself, “What kind of dress makes sense for the activities of the day?”

bride must wear a fancy gown. This is the age

Also think about what kind of dress makes

when brides dress for their own comfort level

sense for you. Weddings are no longer strictly

and personal style, but more polished. Even

adhering to tradition, and brides are embracing

so, most brides stick with a dress. The strapless

this new mainstream by crafting weddings that

style is always a favorite, but the market has

are a true reflection of themselves, and that goes

expanded in recent years to include gowns with

for bridal style, too. If you’re not into princess

all manner of straps, sleeves, and accessories.

gowns, wear a white jumpsuit and sassy heels.

You’ll see many dresses that are modest in the

If your wedding’s on a beach, don a knee-length

front and dramatic in the back. Dresses are

sheath and comfy sandals. Keep your vision of

also belted, have convertible or removable cap

your true self in mind as you search for ideas.

sleeves, and come in an array of bold and muted

Then, make an appointment at your local bridal

colors in addition to just white. Some brides even

salon. Salons give you more bang for your buck

wear more than one dress. They might choose a

and a better overall experience and value than an

traditional gown for the ceremony and a short

online retailer. At a salon, you can try on multiple

dress for the reception, so they can comfortably

styles free of charge, and you’re guaranteed to

dance the night away.

work with a consultant who has seen countless brides before you and can help discern the

FABRIC & AFFORDABILITY

right style of dress for your body type. A local

Satin, tulle, and lace are the most common

salon may also offer, or can at least refer you to,

fabrics for wedding gowns, and the type of fabric

someone who can make alterations to the dress

you choose will greatly affect the price. If you’re

you choose.

dreaming of intricate, hand-stitched, Italian lace

When you go, invite a trusted team of family

with delicate beading, the cost will rise, not to

and friends to join you. You don’t need an army,

mention the price of alterations. But these days,

just a few close people you can count on to tell

it’s entirely possible to find designers that create

you the truth. Ideally you should start visiting

gorgeous gowns with price points that suit the

salons anywhere from nine months to a year

mainstream bride. The professionals at your local

before your wedding to allow enough time.

bridal salon will be able to help you determine

If you’re in a rush, 6 months or less, tell your

which fabric and details fit within your budget.

consultant immediately.

STARTING THE SEARCH

SHAPES & SIZES

Start by gathering ideas. Bridal magazines,

Remember that no two brides are shaped

designer websites, and Pinterest are a great

alike, therefore, no dress will ever accent your

source as you start the hunt for your wedding

silhouette exactly the same way it does another

dress. Compile the styles you like that suit the

bride’s body. When the time comes to try on

mood of your wedding. Is your wedding venue

gowns, explore a myriad of styles and cuts to

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VENUES GOWNS figure out what works for you. Keep an open

gown they never even dreamed of. Remember

mind; you might be surprised! Note that bridal

that the gowns at salons are just samples, so the

salons often carry only one sample size of each

size won’t be tailored to you, and most dresses

gown. Try on these gowns even if they’re not your

can be ordered in various shades of white. So

size. Consultants are there to help you get in and

just because you’re not crazy about that big blush

out of sample sizes. If you’re nervous about the

dress on the hanger, try it anyway! What do you

sizes available at your local bridal salon, give

have to lose?

them a call. Talking to a representative will ease

WORKING WITH A CONSULTANT

your mind, and you’ll find that whether you’re full-figured or very petite, there have never been

While at the salon, make sure to take advantage

more options to accommodate brides of all

of your professional consultant’s knowledge

shapes and sizes.

and expertise. A good bridal consultant should steer you in the right direction so communicate

TRYING ON DRESSES

your likes, dislikes, wants, and needs as much as

Don’t be afraid to try on dresses that aren’t

possible. It’s the consultant’s job to handle every

necessarily in your comfort zone. You never know

step of your salon experience including showing

what a gown will really look like until you try it

you every option within your price range. They

on, and lots of brides end up choosing a style of

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GOWNS practical matters once you’ve found “the one.”

fits the biggest part of you, not the smallest part.

If you’re not in sync with the consultant you’ve

It’s easier to take a dress in to hug your figure

been dealt, don’t hesitate to ask to work with a

than it is to let it out. If you’re not working with

different representative. Every bridal salon’s goal

a salon and have to find your own seamstress,

is to give you an enjoyable experience.

choose one that has a great reputation, not the lowest rate.

ALTERATIONS & FITTINGS

When the time comes for your first fitting, make

There are usually as many as four fittings that

sure you’re sporting the same undergarments

follow saying “yes” to the dress. Here are some

and shoes that you’ll be wearing on your wedding

tips for making this process run as smoothly as

day. Even the slightest tweak in bra padding or

possible. First, give yourself and the seamstress

heel height can change the way a dress hangs

sufficient time. If you’re in a rush, this is when

and where the hem falls. As you’re working with

working with a bridal salon can really help. It’s

the seamstress, trust that they know what they’re

usually their job to make sure alterations run

doing. You may ask them to make one alteration,

smoothly and on time.

and they might suggest an alternate way to

Second, choose a dress that’s very close to

achieve that look, or advise against it altogether.

your actual size. Most gowns can’t be changed by

Know when to take a deep breath and have some

more than two sizes, up or down. Buy a dress that

faith in the professionals.

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1. HEALTH & WELLNESS Q

pain killers antacid band-aids eye drops allergy meds toothbrush toothpaste mouthwash

tissue tampons/pads deodorant q-tips sunscreen hand sanitizer dental floss baby powder

2. GROOMING Q

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BUDGETING YOUR BIG DAY deciding what’s important

Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you know there have been better economic climates in which to plan a wedding than now. Just because you can’t throw down as much money as before, however, does not mean you can’t have the elegant wedding you’ve always dreamed of. You just need to be a little smarter about planning for it! Here are some tips to keeping the sparkle in your wedding in a budgetsavvy way.

FIRST, MAKE YOUR OWN BUDGET. It sounds like a no-brainer, but this needs to get done. Before any kind of planning (or even thinking about planning!) gets done, sit down together and use this simple equation. Add how much you have in savings right now that you can use on the wedding. Then, calculate how much you can save between now and the wedding. Next, add on what your parents are willing to contribute, if anything. Finally, ask yourself if you are willing to go into debt to pay for some of the wedding. Think carefully about the last one – a wedding is one day, and it signifies the beginning of a future. Are you willing to sacrifice parts of your future (putting a down payment on a home, having children right away) for a lavish wedding? The total here is your overall wedding budget. Know it, and stick to it!

THEN DECIDE WHAT’S IMPORTANT. Once

you’ve

added

those

components

together, ask yourself what is most important about your wedding - the things that you can’t imagine cutting corners on. The “nonnegotiables” are different for every couple; what

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from this day

FORWARD

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VENUES MANAGING A BUDGET are they for you? Is it the wedding gown, a good photographer, music at the reception or including the entire extended family? Do your research and decide exactly how much the most important parts of your big day will be, and then find out if your remaining money will be enough to cover the rest of your expenses. If not, there are quite a few easy ways to trim some costly endeavors. DO IT YOURSELF. Depending on how crafty or enterprising you are (or how crafty your maid of honor is!) there are countless things that you can do yourself, or have a fun afternoon with your wedding party doing together. With computer and photo programs becoming more advanced every day, it is relatively easy and inexpensive to design some of the printed material you’ll need for your wedding. Save-the-date cards, invitations and name cards can all be designed and printed entirely by you, or some copy or design shops offer the help of a professional to get you started. It is less expensive than paying for the full invitation service, but still gives it a professional touch. Other DIY could be making personal favors for the wedding guests, crafting your own centerpieces, enlisting the help of a friend or sister to do everyone’s hair and makeup for a smaller fee than a professional salon or making your own jewelry. Even if you don’t consider yourself a hands-on, creative person, don’t be afraid to ask around for friends and family who might be willing to help you try something new to cut costs. CUT THE CAKE. A fancy cake can be pretty expensive, but don’t go without a dessert! Ask your favorite bakery if they offer items just as pretty but smaller such as fun cookies for everyone, design-your-own cupcakes or just a smaller version of a cake you have in mind. 12 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

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very careful about what you buy and the “small print details.” If you don’t want to keep your dress, then there are also plenty of shops that

VENUES MANAGING A BUDGET rent designer gowns so you can look stunning on your big day without footing the entire cost of the dress. SAVE ON BOOZE. Depending on your crowd, an open bar can be one of the costliest endeavors for your wedding. In the past, it was considered poor etiquette to make your guest pay for ANY drink. Today, it’s perfectly appropriate to keep the options limited to beer, wine and soda, with mixed drinks available for cash purchase. Although rare, depending on your reception site and/or caterer, ask if you can provide the liquor and beverages for the open bar, and look into buying your own beverages at a discount liquor store or wholesale club like Sam’s Club or Costco. DIFFERENT TUNES. A full musical ensemble or even a DJ can really add up, so if you must cut corners, try taking advantage of technology for a night. Rent a sound system, or, if the venue is small, than use your own computer or borrow one from a friend and hook it up to play a playlist of your favorite songs. Before you make the list, you can look online for a list of great 80s tunes or the best dance songs. Ask around for requests, plug it all in, and you’re set for a night of exactly the type of music you want to hear. The most important thing to remember when trying to budget your wedding is that it is one day. A special and meaningful one, of course,

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CREATIVE DETAILS enhancing the guest experience

Give your guests a night they’ll never forget!

FOR THE THIRSTY ONES. Start with a bride and

Creative details really help to make a wedding

groom signature cocktail or His and Her drinks.

celebration magical and memorable for your

Another trend is martini ice sculptures where

family and friends.

guests pick their preferred martini flavor and

FOR THE LITTLE ONES. If children are invited to

watch as it glides through the sculpture, chilling

the wedding and reception, then consider

along the way. In the spirit of “help yourself”

hiring a babysitter for part of the evening. The

dinner and dessert bars, try a whiskey table for

babysitter can be stationed in a room off of the

the fellas, jugs of flavored lemonades or kegs

main reception hall that’s fully equipped with

of root beer for the kids. For a late-night treat,

kid-friendly movies, games, and food.

offer a coffee or hot cocoa bar complete with all

FOR KIDS OF ALL AGES. Set up lawn games horseshoes. Hire magicians, living statues, walking food tables, face-painters, or caricature artists.

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like croquet, cornhole (bean bag toss), or

the fixings.

FOR THE FOODIES. Dinner doesn’t just have to be “your choice of chicken or beef.” Play with your food! Try the build-your-own trend with a gourmet burger or baked potato bar topped off with all the trimmings. Serve a Bride’s Menu and Groom’s Menu featuring each of your favorite foods, or offer ethnic cuisine to celebrate each

FOR THE DRAMATIC. Show your favorite movies

family’s nationality. Serving a late night snack?

during the reception and don’t forget the

You can’t go wrong with pizza.

popcorn, candy, fountain sodas, and red carpet

FOR THOSE WITH A SWEET TOOTH. Be it donuts,

photo un-booth! Give your wedding a theme,

cupcakes, or s’mores, there’s really nothing

and ask guests to dress in costume. Some ideas

stopping you from turning your favorite sweet

might be: dressing all in black and white, from a

into your wedding day dessert. Love candy?

certain era, or from a fictional world.

Imagine an entire table chockfull of pixie

FOR THE MORE TRADITIONAL. Set a table with

sticks, gummies, and rock candy — all in colors

photos of your parents, grandparents, and great

coordinated to match the décor. Have an ice

grandparents on their respective wedding days.

cream obsession? Try make-your-own sundaes

Be sure to include all of the must-have songs

with toppings galore, or scoops of artisan Gelato

and activities during the dancing portion of the

for a more continental vibe. If you’re throwing

evening — everything from the Electric Slide

an entirely elegant affair, a chocolate fountain is

to the garter and bouquet toss. A photo booth

always a classic way to wow.

never hurts either!

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MICRO WEDDINGS Intimate & Unforgettable

Whether you’ve always dreamed of an

If you have a set budget, consider if you spent it

intimate wedding or have come around to

on a party of 200 vs. a party of 50. The smaller

the idea due to the state of the world, micro

party allows you to allocate more budget to

weddings are a trend that seems poised to

doing every inch to the nines, giving those 50

stand the test of time. So what is a micro

lucky people an experience they’ll never forget.

wedding? It’s every bit as significant and

The elements of a micro wedding will differ

special as a traditional wedding, but the guest

from couple to couple. There’s always a

count only ranges from about 5 to 50 people.

smaller guest list, but like we said, the price may vary — and so, too, may the experiences and vendors involved. Although a reception is optional, micro weddings will always need an officiant, witnesses, and a location for the ceremony. This could be someone’s backyard, the courthouse, a park or garden — the list goes on. Almost always, micro-wedding couples still spring for a photographer. There are even vendors taking the micro wedding and really running with it. Some venues offer packages for a set price that include use of their space, an officiant, a photographer, seasonal floral, and more.

Micro weddings are popular for a number

The idea with these micro wedding packages

of reasons. On the heels of COVID, a smaller

is to keep it simple. The vendors have done

wedding may be a necessity for some. For

the legwork of coordinating a beautiful little

others, a micro wedding may mean less

wedding — all the couple has to do is show up!

spotlight and attention. It can also mean less

In the end, one of the best things about

stress, as planning an event for fewer people

a micro wedding is the intimacy. With fewer

inevitably means less to keep track of and

people to make small talk with, you’re able

worry about.

to get actual quality time with your guests.

Budget also comes into play, as some brides

After all, these are the people that mean the

and grooms would rather not spend their dollars

most and the ones you can’t imagine your

on a big wedding. Opting for a courthouse

wedding day without. At a micro wedding,

ceremony followed by a meal at home or at their

you can enjoy their company — and your new

favorite restaurant with just those nearest and

spouse’s company! — without the sense of

dearest greatly lowers the cost.

distraction that can sometimes come with a

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HOW MUCH?

up to $500 or 15% of $5 - $10 personal fee, or a per person gift gift

15 - 20%

WHEN?

after the honeymoon

15 - 20%

$100 $500

optional

RECEPTION/ CATERING STAFF

OFFICIANT

if gratituity no, but a is not donation included, is a nice then yes gesture

yes

BAND

not if not if for he/she he/she exemplary owns the owns the service business business

CEREMONY MUSICIANS

SHOULD I?

TRANSPO

HAIR/ MAKEUP

PHOTO/ VIDEO

DELIVERY/ SET-UP STAFF

PLANNER

tips FOR TIPPING if gratituity is not included, then yes

$15 - $20/ musician $20 - $50/ 15 - 20% or $25 - $150 or 15% of musician see below fee

when the at the after you driver picks rehearsal upon after the at the at the at the at the are made- you up, or or delivery honeymoon ceremony reception reception reception up after the rehearsal last ride dinner

Remember, being appreciative and a personal thank you note go a long way, too!

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ATTENDANT GIFTS remembering the day

They’re the friends you have known for years

In regards to the luncheon you might also want

or perhaps soon-to-be in-laws who you admire

to include your mother, the groom’s mother and

and cherish for their special words of love and

a few of the other participants who are helping

laughter. Wedding attendants play a large part

to round out your day. This could include singers,

in weddings and it’s no surprise that brides

organists, attendants at your reception and even

often languish and toil over the perfect wedding

parents of important people who have helped

attendant gift.

your day come together in such a unique way.

It’s no wonder that you want to give these

A special gift is also in order and you might

special people a gift and long-term memory

even want to present it to the attendants at the

of how important they are in your life. If some

luncheon. More than anything the gift is a thank

of your attendants are traveling in from out

you for all their hard work. Many times gifts are

of town, then how about holding a luncheon

engraved and can range from a jewelry box to a

for them the day before the wedding? Local

key chain to a toasting flute. Jewelry is another

attendants can also be treated to a nice lunch,

gift that just about any woman can appreciate,

however in this case you can do it several weeks

but be sure and remember not to give pierced

before your big day.

earrings to friends who don’t have pierced ears

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ATTENDANT GIFTS or a lipstick case to a woman who does not wear

just put away in a drawer somewhere. Make a

makeup.

special memory that they’ll be able to view on

The general rule when giving gifts is to make

multiple occasions. Still having trouble deciding?

everything identical with the exception of your

Here are some more ideas.

maid/matron of honor and the best man.

Tried and true gifts include:

Talk to your photographer about creating special albums for your attendants of the images shot the day of your wedding. If you have them, also consider including pre-celebration images like bachelor(ette) parties and showers. You can create different albums for the different groups of people involved - parents, bridesmaids, groomsmen, etc. - depending upon the events they were a part of throughout the experience. Of course the list goes on and on when it comes to attendant gifts. Try to make the gift personal and unique to the relationship you have with your attendants. Make it something that they won’t

• Silver or gold bracelet • Silver picture frame • Silver engraved compact • Silver or crystal engraved jewelry box • Wine bottle stopper • Wine accessory set • Candle with verse • Handkerchiefs • Engraved key ring • Wish pearl and necklace • Silver notepad and pen set • Compact mirror • Roses that are 24k gold • Silver-plated lip stick case PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 23

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groom’s EMERGENCY KIT

1. HEALTH & WELLNESS Q

pain killers antacid band-aids eye drops allergy meds toothbrush toothpaste mouthwash

tissue deodorant stress ball q-tips sunscreen hand sanitizer dental floss baby powder

2. GROOMING Q

brush/comb lip balm hairspray lotion cologne tweezers nail clipper

nail file lint brush shoe polish shave gel aftershave shoe horn extra socks

3. JUST IN CASE Q

sewing kit safety pins boutonniere pins hem tape copy of vows

playing cards stain remover static-cling spray phone charger portable battery

4. FOOD & BEVERAGE Q

water drink straws energy drinks protein snacks

nuts & chews candy gum/mints alcohol

• • • • •

Silver-plated makeup brushes and pouch Silver heart shaped bookmark Bridesmaid bookmark with silk ribbon Engraved bud vase Ribbed glass trinket box Men also have the responsibility of giving their

groomsmen and ushers thank you gifts for their time and loyal friendship.

For men, thoughtful gifts include: • Key rings • Corkscrews • Cuff-links • Engraved beer mugs • Business card holder • Cigarette lighter However, for every tradition in the world there is an opportunity to break it. Nowadays, some couples are getting more than just a little creative with their attendant gifts. Concert tickets, sporting event tickets or a dinner for the wedding party after the newlyweds return from their honeymoon are great options for group activities. If it’s a destination wedding, you might also opt to pay for your attendant’s airfare or hotel accommodations in order for them to be able to attend. While some of the attendants you choose to be part of your special day might be able to afford a trip to the South Pacific, others might have to say no. An excellent gift, in this case, is just offering to get them to the destination at no charge or offer them a discounted room rate. Once there, it’s certain that your attendants will also be able to relax and enjoy your special day with you. Whatever you decide, make sure it reflects the

BECAUSE IT’S BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY ON YOUR WEDDING DAY

fact that these special attendants realize how much you appreciate their time and efforts spent on your behalf.

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PB TIPS FOR USING PINTEREST using pinterest for wedding planning

HOW IT WORKS

You can also find lots of photos from real

If you’re planning a wedding, you already

weddings. Try searching for keywords such

know the Internet is a great resource. Pinterest

as: whimsical, woodsy, DIY, rustic, vintage,

is an easy way to organize your wedding

elegant, chic, romantic, and couture. These are

inspiration and ideas. On pinterest.com, you

all popular words on Pinterest’s wedding pins,

can grab photos from around the web and pin

and even if you think those adjectives wouldn’t

them onto virtual inspiration boards named

apply to your big day, type them in and browse.

with categories of your choosing.

You might be pleasantly surprised!

You can also browse other users’ boards,

If you’re serious about using suggestions

and there are seemingly endless wedding-

from Pinterest, then do your homework. Each

themed boards to choose from! The photos are

picture can be traced back to its original blog or

often accompanied with comments, and can

website, so when you find something you like

include tips or instructions on how to create

and think you could apply it to your wedding,

the look that was captured in the picture. Like

click through and take notes or bookmark the

wedding forums, you can interact with friends

page.

or strangers to get suggestions and ideas for your special day, but this time, it’s all centered around pictures of your choosing.

REALITY CHECK While Pinterest offers a gorgeous visual array of picture-perfection to all brides with

PIN DOWN THE DETAILS

a dream, this new Pinterest culture can cause

Pinterest certainly displays boards for all

some problems in the real world. Brides pin

the biggies like the gown, décor, and food. But

things like extravagant flower arrangements

the site’s real strength is in highlighting the

that far exceed their budget. They show their

details. It’s here that you’ll find inspiration for

photographers images of a bride with her veil

handmade place cards, fun photography poses,

caught perfectly in a breeze - a lucky shot that

or ideas for “something blue.” Those seemingly

surely can’t be recreated.

insignificant details will make your day truly unique.

Pinterest can be a recipe for disappointed hopes if taken at face value. Always remember

But like many online wedding hotspots,

that only perfect, surprising, and unique

Pinterest runs the risk of being overwhelming.

images make the cut on Pinterest and most of

To get the most out of the site, make sure to

what you see just isn’t realistic. Pinterest should

be specific when you’re scoping out ideas. In

only be used to ignite ideas and to capture the

the search box in the top left hand corner of

overall look and feel you’d like to aim for at your

the page, use as many details as possible such

wedding. In the end, know that while Pinterest-

as “fall DIY wedding décor” or “cream wedding

inspired touches are pretty for a day, saying “I

pumps.”

do” to someone you love lasts a lifetime!

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ATTENDANT’S RESPONSIBILITY the best man

• Assists groom with wedding details such as accommodations for out-of-town groomsmen and ushers.

• Coordinates the ushers and makes sure they are properly dressed and understand where to seat the guests.

• Sees that the groom is properly attired and at the church or synagogue on time. Ties bowties, provides drinks, if applicable and otherwise supports the To-Be-Wed.

• Proposes the first toast to the newlyweds.

• Gives the minister a sealed envelope with payment (from the groom) immediately following the ceremony. • Signs the marriage license as a witness. • Holds the bride’s ring during the ceremony. • Sits to the bride’s right at the reception providing charming conversation throughout. • May dance with the maid/matron of honor during the first dance. 28 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

• Holds luggage under lock and key until the bride and groom depart. • Helps the groom change into going-away attire. • Escorts the bride and groom to their limousine or drives them to the hotel or airport. • Returns all formalwear rentals on time, and to the correct formalwear shop. • Assists maid of honor in transporting gifts to the bride and groom’s home.

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ATTENDANT’S RESPONSIBILITY the maid/matron of honor

• Assists the bride with pre-wedding tasks including smiling while making tiny favors out of birdseed, because that’s what she really wanted. • Assists bride in setting a date to have bridesmaid’s dresses fitted and coordinates other bridesmaids to ensure they get to the proper location on time. • Attends all pre-wedding parties and hosts a bridal shower with other bridesmaids. • Arranges the bride’s veil and train before the grand walk down the aisle • Holds the bride’s bouquet during the ring exchange. • Holds the groom’s ring during the ceremony.

• Stands next to the groom in the receiving line and sits to his left at the head table. • Signs the marriage certificate as a witness. • May dance with the best man during the first dance. • Helps the bride bustle her train, remove her headpiece and change into going-away outfit. • Attends to the bride throughout the day such as running errands and tying up loose ends, calming nerves and otherwise ensuring the success of the wedding celebration. • May assume responsibility for transporting the bride’s gown home or to the cleaners. • May assist the best man with transporting gifts to the bride and groom’s home.

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Wedding Venue

PARENT’S RESPONSIBILITY parents of the bride

In addition to offering their love and support, and perhaps a bit of the green stuff, your parents also play a big part in the celebration

1 2

What is the capacity for the space?

of your marriage. Their responsibilities are

• Find out if table set-up affects capacity • Ask about your layout options

customize this list for your personal situation.

What are your deposit and cancellation policies? • Ask when deposit and full balance are due • Find out how late you can cancel and still get a refund

Will I have access to spaces besides the event room? • Ask about bridal suites and places to take pictures • Determine if there are enough parking spaces and restrooms on-site

What on-site coordination services do you offer? • Find out who will be in charge of the event on the day • Ask if there will be a host or hostess on-hand for guest needs

Does your staff have health and safety training? • Verify if staff is trained in CPR and First Aid • Ask about T.A.M. training (Techniques of Alcohol Management)

Is your catering menu flexible? • Browse the selections for variety • Find out if you can design your own menu

What is your bar policy?

What special amenities do you offer?

• Ask if you can have an open bar • Look for variety, including frozen and non-alcoholic drinks

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generally as follows, though you may want to

• Parents formally announce your engagement in the newspaper in your hometown, your fiancé’s hometown and the town where you’ve chosen to make your home. • Hosting the engagement party. • Inviting the groom’s parents to their home. • Assisting you with scheduling the rehearsal, ceremony and reception. • Offering opinions and advice during the planning, but respecting your wishes. • Preparing a list of restaurants should the groom’s parents ask for recommendations for the rehearsal dinner. • Composing their portion of the guest list as early as possible. If needed, they may tactfully remind the groom’s mother that you need her list too. • The mother of the bride should select a gown in a style and color that complements the bride’s gown, and inform the groom’s mother of her selection. • Parents inform the groom’s family on a regular basis of all RSVPs from their list. • The father of the bride should offer a toast to the newlyweds after the best man, groom and bride have shared their toasts.

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TRENDS

ultimate celebration 2020-21 proved that love and marriage doesn’t quit in the face of a pandemic. If anything, brides and grooms are getting more creative than ever before, and that will certainly affect trends from fashion to floral to food as we move forward. Because of this surge in couples’ creativity, weddings in 2022 will run the spectrum from larger-thanlife, escapist extravaganzas to more modest backyard affairs, all the time leaving no detail unattended to.

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VENUES TRENDS STYLE: FROM MAXIMALISM TO MINIMALISM In bridal fashion, nothing is off limits. Brides are embracing maximalism with showstopping fairytale ball gowns, dramatic silhouettes dripping with glamour, or punchy pops of color. In uncertain times, a wedding is the ultimate celebratory moment, and brides want their look to reflect that jubilation. Still other brides are leaning more

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minimalist in the face of that uncertainty, choosing a Little White Dress instead of a formal gown. With

outdoor

venues

being

hot

commodity, weather is also a fashion consideration. Dresses are designed to be

adaptable

with

detachable

shrugs,

cropped lace toppers, and capes to bring both warmth and drama. Beyond weather, gown details don’t shy away from making a statement. From off-the-shoulder balloon sleeves to high-low hemlines to oversized bows and ruffles, gowns are going big. Other details are more about the cut of the dress itself. Look for square necklines and backless styles. As for the bridesmaids, mix and match is where it’s at, but brides will certainly still have a say in what’s being worn. Dresses range from less-formal looks to the opulence of luxury fabrics. Velvet is definitely having a moment. But whether laid-back or fancy, the goal is often to work in various different-butcoordinating cuts, colors, fabric types, and patterns to let the personality and beauty of each bridesmaid shine through. And after many seasons of neutral and blush wedding colors, brides are starting to amp up the color. 34 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

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VENUES TRENDS As brides get on board with color, so do the grooms. For the more daring fella, suits

between going for broke and home-spun perfection.

in sophisticated shades of blue, burgundy,

FLOWERS: LUSH & LEAFY WITH BOLD BLOSSOMS

brown, and green are taking the place of traditional black tuxedos. Shoes also reflect this colorful range. Further accessorizing with

The floral industry is experiencing a return

patterned shirts, ties, pocket squares, and

to the botanical, cascading bridal bouquet

socks lets the groom and groomsmen have

and more saturated colors. Brides want

some fun with their fashion, too.

flowers with a natural and undone feeling: lush, loose, and looking like they were just

WEDDING THEMES: INTIMATE MADE INCREDIBLE

plucked from a garden. Some brides are turning to exotic blooms,

While the classic wedding is always in style,

while others work with their florist for

couples are thinking outside the box when it

bouquets full of locally-gathered foliage.

comes to their ceremony and reception this

Sometimes, the flowers themselves are few.

year. Brides and grooms are seeking out more

Some brides are opting for an abundance of

open-air and outdoor venues, which affects

greenery and branches instead.

the vibe overall. There’s also a trend toward

To bring the drama, you’ll see canopies

more intimate events. Smaller guest counts

mean more budget can be reserved for

arrangements, and archways or wall-like

details that may otherwise have taken a back

backdrops trimmed with flowers for a

seat, such as elaborate floral design, unique

beautiful photo op. These creative, picture-

rental furniture, and a highly-personalized

perfect backdrops are often seen at outdoor

guest experience.

weddings. Florists work with nature to frame

Couples

are

pushing

the

leaves,

vines,

and

blooms,

hanging

boundaries

the “I dos” with something sensational. A

of wedding decor, opting for bold colors

floral installation might use an existing tree

and personalized touches that are a true

as a base, with blooms crawling up the trunk

reflection of both their relationship and

or elegant fabric sweeping from branch

family traditions. Now, it is about celebrating

to branch. Man-made arches range from

with those nearest and dearest, and doing so

traditional curves to geometric angles.

with the utmost thought, care, and attention to detail. Rustic-chic weddings are still common, but

FOOD & DRINK: TASTY FAVORITES + VEG & VEGAN VARIETY

the trend is shifting to combine earthy-glam

The traditional sit-down, three- or five-

with a touch of edginess. You’ll see elements

course meal is enjoying a sort of revolution.

like crystal chandeliers and eclectic antique

While you’ll still see these formal dinners at

place settings juxtaposed with neon signs. As

more traditional weddings, many brides and

with dress trends, the overall look of wedding

grooms are turning dinner into something

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VENUES TRENDS NARROWING YOUR GUEST LIST

IN 30 SECONDS

Couples want their food and drinks to have

or less

meaning, so they’ll work with caterers to

Not sure who to invite? Use this quick guide to help you in that process!

that feature sustainable catering with locally-

feature some of their favorite things. Dinners grown and in-season ingredients are also highly

Are they family?

yes

create custom meals and craft cocktails that

sought-after.

These

casual

farm-to-table dinners go hand-in-hand with

Immediate?

Friend?

yes no

family-style dining to foster a comfortable, homey environment. When it comes to desserts, some couples choose to have both a classic wedding cake

Are they the Have you talked in immediate family or the past 5 years? the spouse of your immediate family?

(aunts & uncles, grandparents, etc)

yes no

yes no Do you like them?

Have you talked in the past 6 months?

yes no

yes no Have you talked to them in the past 5 years?

yes no Would you be upset if they didn’t invite you to their wedding?

yes no

favorites, like donuts, ice cream or candy. As variety reins, a series of small wedding cakes also lends a fanciful touch full of many flavors. And just as food trucks are gaining popularity, so are dessert “trucks” like gelato carts and gourmet popsicle stands. Then there’s the late-night snack — a treat that many guests have almost come to expect

Coworker?

nowadays. Couples can go for a crowd favorite

yes no

like pizza or sliders, or offer a hometown specialty. Late-night snacks are not only

Do you spend time together outside of the office?

yes no Ex?

yes no Everyone else

Can you imagine your big day without them?

(it’s tradition!) along with non-traditional

yes

yummy, they’re yet another opportunity for the bride and groom to get creative and show off their personality and style. In all stages of the meal, couples are being increasingly conscious of food preferences and allergies. More and more people follow specialty diets nowadays, and if you aren’t one of them, odds are someone on your guest list lives a gluten-free, vegetarian, or vegan life. Whether due to health reasons or a lifestyle choice, it’s important to accommodate those guests. Luckily, wedding and event caterers are keeping up with the

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A Guide to Pre-Wedding Events When you get engaged, you’re not the only one excited to celebrate. Everyone from moms and aunts to friends old and new are standing by to help toast to your happiness. Let’s take a look at some of the ways brides and grooms are partying before the biggest party of them all.

ENGAGEMENT PARTY After

popping

the

question,

pop

the

champagne! Engagement parties can be a fun, more-casual chance to get together with those nearest and dearest to celebrate the start of a new chapter in your life. You or a close family member or friend might host a little party, or you could meet out at a favorite bar or restaurant. Regale

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those gathered with your engagement story and get ready to start casually brainstorming your wedding. Consider this the kick-off to all the parties and planning yet to come.

BRIDAL/COUPLE’S SHOWER Traditionally, a bridal shower is meant solely for the ladies. Begin by consulting your wedding guest list. Involve all important women in your life, including extended family, friends, and wives of close friends. Minor acquaintances can remain

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off the bridal shower guest list. Showers are typically hosted by the mother of the bride or groom, an aunt, or member(s) of the bridal party. If possible, avoid hosting the shower yourself. Gift-giving is a bridal shower cornerstone, so it doesn’t send the right message to throw your own party. In appreciation for everyone’s presents and presence, a meal or heavy appetizers are always served. Get modern with it! Consider hosting a couple’s shower, where the groom is present along with the most important men in your lives. You can

VENUES PARTY TIME! also give any shower a modern twist by hosting it at a restaurant, brewery, or other public event space. Tip: Have enough items on your registry before sending invites to your shower, and include the registry link on the invitations. When it’s over, prompt thank-you notes are a must.

BACHELORETTE PARTY Now’s your chance to let loose! Most bachelorette parties are friends-only affairs, so everyone feels free to let their hair down. You might spend a crazy night dancing on top of the nearest bar, but brides are also branching out.

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parks, drag shows, shopping destinations, live music or theater, and the list goes on. Work with your Maid of Honor, or whoever is planning your party, to make it something that’s fun for not only yourself but the people who come out to celebrate with you.

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members of the wedding party and their dates, and any close extended family, such as grandparents. This is a chance to get up and say a few thankful words to those people who matter most to you, and maybe hear some speeches by any family members or friends who aren’t speaking at the actual wedding. Typically, a rehearsal dinner is a bit more elegant, but it doesn’t have to be fussy. Nice-casual is a good

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Choosing

PARTY TIME!

DRESS STYLES

vibe to aim for, so everyone feels comfortable. In

Just started looking at wedding dresses and not sure where

pick up the tab for the rehearsal dinner, but times

to begin? Torn between a ball gown and a sheath style dress?

and trends are changing. There are no hard and

Here are some descriptions of dress silhouettes to help you while shopping for the most important dress of your life!

Sheath

A dress that creates a close silhouette to the body. Typically, the sheath uses charmeuse or a very soft and flowing material that fits close to the body, with some beading on an overlay. The sheath is a perfect fit for casual weddings.

Mermaid

Also known as a fit and flare gown, the mermaid gown looks great on girls with tiny waists and for those who want to show off their curves. Accentuate the waist with a belt for more definition.

the past, the groom’s family has been known to

fast rules.

BONUS PARTIES Some brides consider dress shopping a party. If you’re traveling to another city to shop, or if you’re inviting bridesmaids, aunts, and moms, the act of browsing dresses can suddenly become an all-day affair. Lean into it and make the day feel festive! Enjoy mimosas and light appetizers while you shop, or plan a luncheon after a morning spent in bridal salons. This is something you, the bride, should plan and execute, since you will be the point of contact

A-line

This dress resembles an “A” that creates a long line for your body. This classically elegant gown is universally flattering and will look great!

with any bridal shops you’re visiting and can coordinate timing from there. Another mini party that some brides plan is a bridesmaid brunch or luncheon. If all of your bridesmaids are in town a day or two prior to

Ballgown

This gown has a fitted bodice and full skirt. It’s the perfect proportion for any bride with a bustier bosom. If you’ve always dreamed of being a princess, this is the gown for you!

your wedding, get the girls together for some quality time and yummy food. This is a great way to gather under one roof and get on the same page about the wedding day timeline and field any final questions. Lastly, when the wedding is over, there’s still a

Empire

This gown is flattering because it created a long line and disguises the hips. Extending from the bust line, this shape is youthful and elegant.

chance for one final party: the post-wedding gift opening. Many couples and their families opt to meet the day after the wedding to share a meal, relive last night’s events, and watch the happy couple unwrap any presents. Attendance to such

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a party should be optional, as some folks would rather rest. In fact, you might prefer to rest, too! Having a gift-opening is by no means mandatory. But it’s a bonus party option, in case you’re not already partied out.

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BE A GRACIOUS BRIDE making it a great day for everyone

You may have heard the expression “it’s your day, do it your way,” as you’ve been planning your

much as possible, to craft your day’s schedule with the guests in mind.

wedding. And this is true! It’s a time to express

Jump on those thank you notes. Guests are

your true self, be authentic, and drown out the

excited to get you something wonderful in honor

expectations of others. On the other hand... A

of your marriage, and they can’t wait to hear if

recent “Dear Abby” letter described a bride at a

you not only received it, but liked it! Write a

wedding who preferred to dance on an empty

conversational, personalized note and respond

stomach, so she had guests wait five hours for

as quickly as possible.

their dinner, and had the dancing first! That’s a great example of taking it too far…

Give others grace. Just know that weddings are an emotional time for your close relatives,

Here are a few tips about being a gracious bride:

especially parents, siblings and close friends. In

Understand your guests’ perspective. How

addition to the joy, there can also be this strange

does the day’s schedule look, from your guests’

sense of “loss,” that they’re losing you, and this

viewpoint? Awkward gaps of time between the

can bring up unexpected emotions. As much as

ceremony and reception are difficult for guests,

possible, when people around you are driving you

and asking them to drive more than 30 minutes

crazy, give them grace and, maybe, a warm hug.

between locations is usually too much. Try, as

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BE A GREAT GROOM 4 tips to pulling it off

Maybe discussing floral arrangements and

about her dear family and close friends… It

seating charts makes your eyes glaze over…

happens to the best of us. Listen to her, be

That’s fine! Figure out what DOES interest you,

empathetic to her distress, but do NOT join in on

and get involved. The entertainment, the food,

the complaining. She’ll get over her stress, but

the cake, the transportation, the honeymoon…

she may remember, and feel bad about, your

Pick your areas, own them, make them happen.

negative comments. Again, for best relationship

Keep the bride in the loop and be open to her

results, remember this tip always.

input – she’ll love knowing she’s not doing this wedding thing all by herself.

Show your romantic side. Share your deepest, loving feelings – she wants to hear them! Here

Speak up. Be an active team member by sharing

are a few ideas: write her a letter that she can

your opinion, voicing your support, and offering

open the morning of the wedding. Have her

words of encouragement and appreciation. It’s

favorite flowers delivered the week before the

also important that you be the primary contact

wedding along with a supportive note. Plan a

with your family. These are important skills not

special, relaxing evening for the two of you in the

only during the wedding planning, but forever!

weeks before the wedding, where she can escape

No bashing. It’s quite likely that your stressed out bride-to-be will complain bitterly at moments

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IT TAKES MORE THAN LOVE life after the wedding

Of course you should savor the warm glow

anger effectively, to talk about sex, and to

of falling and being in love. That’s what getting

provide positive feedback Sometimes it’s hard for couples to talk

for your wedding day, thrill over the dress and

about their relationship. These questions

trousseau, and the flowers, music, attendants,

offer a useful guide to tackling tough issues

reception and honeymoon.

as you begin your new life together: idealimpressions.com

married is all about! Enjoy the preparations

• What are your expectations of marriage? • Do you treat each other like equal partners? • What will be different simply because you get married? • What will be the same? • How do you make decisions as a couple? • What happens if you do not agree? • Do you argue fairly? • Do you resolve conflicts easily? • How do you handle finances? • How will you manage money? • Are there issues and behaviors you would never tolerate in the marriage?

As you come together to form a new family,

• Are you committed to each other, always

take the time to discuss why you are getting

looking out for each other’s best interests?

married, and begin building a productive,

• Do you talk to each other and feel you have

loving environment. Dreams of living happily in the partnership of marriage are never guaranteed, but hard work on your part can help make your marriage last. Communication is essential for building

been heard? • Are you satisfied with your emotional intimacy and physical intimacy? • How does your partner treat your family and friends?

and sustaining a good, healthy marriage both

• Is your partner compassionate?

new and old alike. But even couples who don’t

• Is it likely that you both will be open to

find it very easy to talk can learn to express their feelings, needs and ideas to each other, thereby increasing their prospects for a successful marriage.

forgiving each other? • How open and comfortable is communication with each other? • Are you both in agreement about children?

Any sincere effort to communicate usually

If you do have children now, how will you

strengthens the relationship and lowers the

negotiate childcare, household management

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BACKDROPS FRONT & CENTER subtle and show-stopping ideas

Whether you’re framing the moment you say “I

with vertically-hanging garland can be striking.

do,” giving guests a pretty spot to snap a photo, or

Have a rustic wooden wall? See if you can attach

sprucing up your reception space with something

strategically-placed planters for some leafy flair

that’s more your style, backdrops might come

and dimension.

into play at any number of times throughout your

SHAPELY FRAMES – Metal or wooden, curved or

wedding day. Here are some ideas for backdrops

squared-off, airy archways and on-trend hoops

both subtle and show-stopping.

are more of a frame than a full-on backdrop.

BOTANICAL BEAUTIES – From black tie to boho,

Yet they serve the same purpose: lending style

flowers and greenery go with any style

and calling attention to special moments on

of wedding. If your flower budget allows,

your wedding day. Shapely frames are best-

incorporating lush botanicals into your wedding

suited to ceremony vows and reception photo

backdrop ensures a stunner. Consider a literal

ops. Usually, they’re adorned with foliage and/

wall of flowers or a sculpted, sky-high hedge of

or draped fabric. The nice thing about these

greenery—the kind you’d find in a perfectly-

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WONDROUS WALLS – Look around. Does your

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colors. Try your hand at weaving decorative

you could adorn, a spot with exposed brick, a

macramé to hang from a plain wood frame.

fireplace and mantle you could decorate, or a

Enlist a professional to hand-letter your last

special nook with gorgeous wallpaper or stained

name or a favorite phrase on a canvas, wooden,

glass? Though this backdrop isn’t portable, it can

or chalkboard backdrop. These personal,

still make for a marvelous kind of photo booth—

handmade touches make for a wedding

one that you don’t even have to pay extra for.

backdrop that’s truly one of a kind.

PRETTY PROPS – Take stock of what you, your

ILLUMINATED LOVELIES – Let there be light!

friends, and family have at home that could

A curtain of airy fabric looks ethereal and

create a photo-worthy scene. A painted room

enchanting when mixed with strings of warm

divider, a series of reclaimed doors or windows,

white fairy lights. Hanging marquee letters or

or a gorgeous tapestry are all imaginative ways to

a custom neon sign bring some boldness and

create an eye-catching backdrop for your big day.

electric edge. Having an outdoor wedding?

You might also create a photo-worthy vignette with

Commandeer a tall tree and suspend bulbs from

furniture, lighting, and accessories that suit the

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style of your wedding. Dare to think outside the box

You really can’t go wrong with a little bit of light.

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WORKING WITH VENDORS tips for fulfilling your expectations

From photographers to caterers, DJs to

everyone’s expectations are clear and agreed

florists, a successful wedding hinges greatly on

upon. Is there a service fee and is gratuity

the vendors you choose and the relationship

included? Don’t be afraid to politely ask for

you cultivate with those professionals. Here

what you want, especially if it’s a matter of

are some ways to ensure a vendor experience

merging certain parts of a vendor’s available

that keeps all parties happy and expectations

packages. For instance, a caterer might tack

fulfilled.

on an additional passed appetizer. It doesn’t

APPRECIATE THE PROS – For starters, appreciate

hurt to ask nicely. In the meetings you have

and treat each vendor like a professional.

leading up to your wedding, be honest and

Established vendors come with years of

upfront about any concerns or dislikes, so the

experience in their industry, plus the proven

vendor has a chance to make it right ahead

results that made you seek out their services in

of time.

the first place. Respect their expertise and skill.

DAY-OF BREAKS & MEALS – For any vendor

Listen to them and trust that a good vendor will

putting in significant time at your wedding,

always have your best interest at heart.

breaks are required by law. It’s also good

ACT LIKE A PRO – Remember that you get

form to provide a meal for vendors working

what you give, so it always pays to act like a

six or more hours. Talk with your caterer about

professional yourself. At your initial meeting

vendor meals, as they might differ from your

with a vendor, be on time and make a good first

regular menu or come at a discounted rate. Set

impression. Once hired, make payments in a

aside time and seated space for your vendors

timely manner. Stay on top of communication,

to eat, ideally when the rest of your guests are

but be reasonable with your expectations in

eating. The DJ or musicians might eat during

how that vendor communicates back. They may

cocktail hour, so they can keep the music and

have dozens of events to tackle before your big

speeches flowing during dinner.

day, so understand that you can’t be the center of their universe.

AFTER-WEDDING ETIQUETTE – For any vendor who doesn’t include gratuity in their fee,

HELP THEM HELP YOU – Before your initial

be sure to tip them. If you were especially

meeting with a vendor, thoroughly read

impressed a particular vendor, leave them a

through their website, view their portfolio,

thoughtful review on their social media pages.

and check out any testimonials so you have a

Also, send a physical thank-you card or email

full understanding of their offerings up front.

that they could reference as a testimonial in

Come to that meeting with ideas and a vision,

the future. This way, you will have built and

or at least be prepared to explain what you

maintained a positive relationship with your

don’t want. Even the best vendors aren’t mind

vendors, rooted in respect and admiration for

readers, so help them help you.

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Color Trends

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INTIMATE VENUES, REHEARSAL DINNERS & CEREMONIES fun and fabulous! With the main event just around the

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CEREMONY / REHEARSAL What’s the point of rehearsing your marriage

you’re getting married in a church, then there

ceremony the night before the wedding? There’s

are sure to be a few rules. There’s also a lot

so much more to a wedding ceremony than just

of symbolism in a religious ceremony, and the

taking a walk down the aisle. A rehearsal for

rehearsal is an opportunity for the officiant to

the entire bridal party and anyone involved in

walk you all through the various traditions and

the ceremony is a chance to set the stage and

explain their meaning.

work out any bugs, and to bring your closest friends and relatives together in anticipation of the big day.

PRE-REHEARSAL PREP Before your rehearsal and ceremony, there

A rehearsal also allows you and your bridal

are obvious things to think about such as

party to get comfortable in the ceremony

who will walk the bride down the aisle. But

space. You’ll find out where you can all get

you also have to think about who is escorting

ready the next day, which entrances to use,

the mothers-of, pairing the bridesmaids and

and where the bathrooms are — things that

groomsman, and the order the couples will

are often taken for granted. You’ll also learn

proceed down the aisle. The order will vary

any venue rules and get answers to pressing

depending on if you have junior bridesmaids

questions, such as, are music and mimosas

and flower girls and whether you want the

allowed in the church bridal room? Yes, if

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REHEARSAL DINNER CEREMONY / REHEARSAL the full length of the aisle or to meet them

every word of the ceremony. Rather, you’ll be

halfway. And in today’s wedding world, it’s not

blocking out the words and actions: when the

uncommon to see the bride and groom walking

bouquet is handed off and taken back, when

down the aisle together – a nice touch if you’re

you sit and when you stand, etc. The bride and

game to shake up tradition.

groom are usually asked to say a few lines just

Once you have the procession order all set,

to work out the pace and volume of their vows.

there are still plenty of other details to hammer

If there are any readings, the reader will also

out. For example: will you need microphones

rehearse a few lines.

during the ceremony? Is your venue wheelchair-

If not all of your key players can be present

accessible? Depending on your venue, these

at the rehearsal, it’s okay. In fact, it is standard

are the kinds of details that a site manager or

practice for the musicians to be absent; if you’ve

a priest will help you consider ahead of time.

hired professional musicians or if the church provides a pianist or organist, they already know

WHAT TO EXPECT

what to do. It’s also possible that the officiant

Rehearsals are quick, not comprehensive,

might not be present at your rehearsal. If this

and are meant to act as an overview so that

happens, make sure they offer stage directions

everyone knows what happens when. Once the

beforehand, or if the venue has another on-site

rehearsal starts, you won’t be reading through

coordinator, then that person might be able to

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REHEARSAL DINNER CEREMONY / REHEARSAL As you’re going through the stages of the ceremony, ask questions if you don’t know what to do or if there’s something you don’t understand. Bottom line, don’t be afraid to ask! At the wedding, the head table is where the bride & groom sit. Depending on the arrangement, some or all attendants & parents may join them. It is usually distinguished from the other tables with a floral arrangement or distinct centerpiece.

extravagant as you like. You could rent a party room at a nearby restaurant or just invite

A table for just the bride & groom at the focal point of the room. Traditionally, the groom sits to the right of the bride.

party TAB L E BRIDESMAID

GROOMSMAN

MAID OF HONOR

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BRIDE

their parents to host a dinner for all involved. off the festive spirit and can be as simple or

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sweetheart

GROOM

REHEARSAL DINNER After finishing up the ceremony rehearsal,

BEST MAN

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everyone back to your parents’ house for homemade eats. It’s up to you! Just have fun with it and keep it within your budget. After all, everyone has your fabulous wedding to look forward to the very next day!

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RECEPTION

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You’ve said the “I do’s,” kissed the bride, and now it’s time to party! You want your reception to be unforgettable. The venue itself, the food, the ambiance, and the overall guest experience determines just how your reception will be remembered for years to come. Where to host your reception is a huge, day-defining decision. There’s so much to consider. Luckily, we’re here to help! amandaketterhagenphotography.com

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VENUES RECEPTION Before you can determine the type of venues to look at for your reception, ask yourself some

eliminate any outlying reception venues: venues that are too expensive or too small.

broad questions. What style of wedding do

WEDDING DATE

you envision? A relaxed, summer wedding and a formal, winter wedding are better-suited to

If you’re committed to a particular wedding

very different reception sites. Below are some

date — perhaps it’s your parents’ anniversary

examples.

or a holiday weekend — this will also narrow

RUSTIC STYLE: Barns, farms, country inns, and

down your options. If a reception site doesn’t have your date available, move on. If it does,

ranches. TRADITIONAL/CLASSIC STYLE: Ballrooms, banquet

know that nothing is final until you’ve signed

halls, hotels, country clubs, or community

a contract and made a deposit. Once your

centers. These are often all-inclusive!

decision is made, it’s critical to officially secure

NATURAL/OPEN AIR STYLE: Waterfront, forest,

the space as soon as possible. Some choice

vineyard, city park, or other locations where

venues are booked one to two years in advance,

Mother Nature’s beauty shines. Also consider a

particularly on popular dates.

Plan B for inclement weather. NON-TRADITIONAL

STYLE:

Museums,

ON-SITE VS. OFF-SITE

zoos,

planetariums, and antique stores. URBAN/INDUSTRIAL STYLE: Downtown lofts, art galleries, and warehouses. INTIMATE STYLE: Unique spaces catered toward

Most on-site locations provide the majority of goods and services needed for your reception: catering, beverages, tables, chairs, tableware, linens, and serving staff. Such locations are

small weddings — historic homes, a small party

typically

hotels,

ballrooms,

private

clubs,

room at your favorite restaurant, or a tent in

restaurants, and more. These facilities usually

your parents’ backyard (tented weddings can

charge on a per-person basis and have a

work for other styles, too).

minimum guest requirement.

Once you’ve settled on your reception’s

Off-site locations offer the use of the

aesthetic and the type of spaces you wish to

reception space only — no other services.

explore, it’s time to get to work. Here are the

You’re responsible for supplying the caterer,

first three factors to consider during your hunt.

furnishings, décor, waitstaff and bartenders, and everything in between. Such locations

GUEST COUNT AND BUDGET These sound like two separate entities, but

range from open-concept urban lofts to tented receptions.

are in fact totally entwined. You can only afford

The responsibility of coordinating your own

to host the number of people that your budget

reception goods and services might sound like

allows; therefore your budget will determine

a headache to some brides, and to others, it’s

your wedding’s headcount. That, or you need

an opportunity to fully personalize their day.

to increase your budget to accommodate more

Off-site venues are often a blank slate, allowing

folks. Once you finalize your budget and total

you to furnish and dress up the space as you

number of potential guests, this will quickly

like, bring in whatever food and drink your heart

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VENUES RECEPTION desires, and run the day on your own schedule.

you should still make sure your friends and

There are pros and cons to both on- and off-site

family have plenty of room to mix and mingle,

venues — what matters is what’s right for you

rather than bump shoulders. Will the entire

and your wedding!

reception take place in one room, or will there

Once you’ve determined the above, it’s nitty-

be a separate space for cocktail hour, dinner,

gritty time. Below are seven details to take into

and dancing? As you look at spaces, think about

account as you visit and evaluate reception

where to situate the tables, dance floor, DJ, etc.

venues.

PRIVACY. Public spaces such as county parks

LOCATION. Consider the distance between the

won’t close down for your reception. Bear in

ceremony and reception locations. Is it more

mind that a wandering local might stumble upon

than a 30-minute drive? That’s asking a lot of

your party! Or if your venue has multiple event

your guests. If the distance to your reception

spaces (such as a hotel with several ballrooms),

is lengthy, if the place is difficult to find, or if

find out if there will be another party going on

the spot is inconvenient (say, located near a

at the same time as yours. Make sure there is

baseball stadium on game day), you might want

enough separation between the event spaces

to provide transportation for your guests.

so the two parties don’t interfere.

SIZE AND LAYOUT. You’ve already eliminated

PARKING. Confirm that there is ample, well-

sites that are too small for your guest list, but

lighted, and convenient parking for your guests.

Selecting a

RECEPTIONSITE

Ask the Right Questions! Questions! • May I see photographs of other receptions held here? • Where will we have access? Are there restrictions? • Is there ample parking for guests? • Do you provide a sound system, AV or PA system? • Are there any restrictions on decor, photography, videography, smoking or bar service?

• Will you provide valet, coat check, restroom, bar and door attendants? • Is there an onsite caterer? Are we required to use him/her? • Are there adequate restrooms that are handicap accessible? • Are there adequate electrical outlets for the entertainer? • Could other events be scheduled the same day? • Is there a certain time when we must leave? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? degrootfilmco.com

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RECEPTION If there isn’t, find out if a valet or shuttle service

suit the style and season of your wedding?

is available.

Is it a room with a view? If photography is of

TECHNICAL DETAILS. Whether you’re planning

great importance to you, search online for

to have a DJ or live band, ask about possible

professional photos from weddings staged in

restrictions on the type, volume, or duration

the space. Does it photograph well?

of music. Confirm that there’s adequate power

SERVICES OFFERED. With each site you visit, note

and electrical outlets for speakers, mixers,

what’s included in the rental price. Whether it’s

and amplifiers, and consider the acoustics of

big things like catering and waitstaff or details

the space. It’s not uncommon for a venue’s

like candles and breath mints in the bathroom,

coordinator to invite future brides and grooms

it pays to get those details up front. Also bear in

to stop by a scheduled wedding to get a feel

mind that the included services greatly impact

for sound levels and acoustics. If this is a real

whether or not a reception site fits within

concern for you, just ask if you can do a drop-in.

your budget. An affordable venue that doesn’t

Odds are the site coordinator will be welcoming.

include any furnishings, for instance, might not

ROOM DÉCOR. Most sites are rather neutral, but it still pays to take note of the permanent

be so affordable in the end.

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Marriage Laws OFFICE OF THE COUNTY CLERK • All Counties are by appointments only. • Apply in County in which either is a resident. License may be used anywhere in the state. • Both must apply in person. Certified birth certificate is required. • Proof of residence is required. (drivers license, utility bill, etc.) • Apply no later than 8 working days (Milwaukee County), 6 working days (Ozaukee, Racine, Kenosha, Waukesha Counties) prior to wedding date — two weeks prior is recommended. • Non-residents (both out-of-state) must apply in the county they will be married. License will only be valid in that county. • Each party must provide the Clerk’s office with their social security card. • License is valid 30 days from date issued. • Legal age is 18. If younger, you must bring a certified consent form (available at the Office of the County Clerk) from both parents or legal guardian. • If divorced, copy of judgement of divorce, court annulment or death certificate. 6 month waiting period. • Most counties require name, address and phone number of the person performing the ceremony. Location and date may also be required. • Some counties require documents not in English be translated and notarized. Please Note: State and county marriage license requirements often change. The above information is for guidance only and should not be regarded as legal advice. It is important that you verify all information before making any wedding or travel plans.

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RACINE Racine Courthouse 730 Wisconsin Ave., 1st Fl. Racine, WI 53403 (262) 636-3121 (800) 242-4202 co.racine.wi.us

KENOSHA County Admin. Bldg. 1010 56th St. Kenosha, WI 53140 (262) 653-2552 co.kenosha.wi.us

WALWORTH Office of the Clerk Walworth Government Ctr. 100 W. Walworth St., Rm 101 Elkhorn, WI 53121 (262) 741-4241 co.walworth.wi.us

MILWAUKEE Courthouse 901 N. 9th St., Rm 105 Milwaukee, WI 53233 (414) 278-4070 milwaukee.org OZAUKEE Administration Bldg. 121 W. Main St., Rm 128 Port Washington, WI 53074 (262) 284-8110 co.ozaukee.wi.us

WASHINGTON Office of the Clerk 432 E. Washington St., Rm 2027 West Bend, WI 53095 (262) 335-4301 (262) 335-4735 co.washington.wi.us WAUKESHA 1320 Pewaukee Rd., Rm 120 Administration Bldg. Waukesha, WI 53188 (262) 548-7010 waukeshacounty.gov

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MODERN FAMILIES

divorced parents and mixed families

Weddings can be tricky when the bride or

tradition in the process), stay sensitive to your

groom’s parents are divorced or the extended

family’s feelings and recognize when to be

family is mixed. If you or your fiancé have

the bigger person. In an ideal world, you’d be

divorced parents who are on good terms, count

able to explain your decisions to your divorced

your blessings. If their relationship is bitter or

parents and each would be entirely supportive

merely polite, then correct handling of delicate

– but that’s not always the case. Remember that

matters on your wedding day can help avoid

it might be within your power to ease tensions

unwanted tension. Toss out the traditional

and keep everyone happy. Perhaps you’ll have

wedding rulebook and, above all else, be sensitive

to compromise on whose names appear on the

to the situation.

invitation or who walks you down the aisle, but

Start by considering wedding traditions and anticipate ways to prevent any hurt feelings by

those are small sacrifices to make to keep your wedding day running smoothly.

keeping the lines of communication open with

Similarly, think about how the choices you

both parents right from the get-go. For instance,

make on this one day might affect the family

it’s tradition for the parent with whom you’ve

dynamic for years to come. Your wedding day

lived the longest to issue the wedding invitations.

could result in tensions flaring up, or it could

This may not sit well if your parents are divorced

be a chance for forgiveness and healing. Talk

so try to include both parent’s names on the

to your divorced parents about what this day

invites.

symbolizes to you: the creation of a new family.

Then there’s the escort question: Who will

Remind your parents and step-parents of

walk the bride down the aisle? When dealing with

this especially if there are any major points of

mixed families, the lines sometimes blur between

contention between family members. Appeal to

the biological father and step-dad and the

their rational side and encourage everyone to

biological mother and step-mom. Again, throw

set aside their differences for this one day in

tradition out the window and ask yourself, “Who

celebration of this new family.

deserves to walk me down the aisle?” It might

A few more practical ways to avoid any

be your dad, mom, both parents, a step-parent,

awkwardness: If one of your parents is remarried

two dads, two moms – that’s for you to decide.

and the other is single, encourage the single

What matters in the end is that you choose the

parent to bring a guest to the wedding. Brief your

person or pair of people who have earned the

wedding professionals on the family dynamics so

honor of being your escort. Do your best to avoid

they know who not to push together for a photo

hurting anyone by, again, keeping the lines of

or special dance. You’ll also want to determine

communication open. This same logic holds true

the ceremony and reception seating ahead of

for the traditional father/daughter and mother/

time. In the end, for every decision that affects

son dance at the reception.

you and your divorced parents or mixed family,

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ask yourself, “What’s right for me and my family?” and do just that.

VENUES

GETTING MARRIED AGAIN the second time around

It’s no secret that men and women are

What about the children

getting married more than once nowadays.

Many couples nowadays are choosing to

However, with the decision to wed a

have their children be part of the ceremony. For

second or a third time, there are also the

example, sons might play the part of an usher

common worries about tradition and proper

or even a ring bearer. Depending on the age of

etiquette.

the children, the daughter can also take part

Brides who are walking down the aisle for

in the ceremony as a flower girl or even as a

at least the second time tend to be more

bride’s maid. The bride’s son or daughter might

mature and ready to take on the world

stand next to the bride in a show that the groom

in a more sophisticated manner. Often,

is not only marrying the mother, but is also

they are busy career women barely able

acknowledging he is taking the child as his own.

to fit a wedding into their schedule. With commitments such as work, children and a personal life, it can be a tricky balancing act to plan a wedding during the prime of your

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UNIQUE GUEST BOOK IDEAS time. However, white dresses are no longer

over full-blown affairs and the bouquet and

taboo. The most important thing is to pick a

garter toss are absent and replaced by having

dress, regardless of the color, that brings out

the longest married couple in the room be

the beauty of the bride. Hemlines are shorter

awarded these items.

and the colors are often soft and pastel.

The wedding invitations are issued from the

Overall, dresses tend to be less ornamental

bride and groom, in third person, without titles.

with better quality silk or silk satin and the train

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is not as long. Another trend for a second time bride is a hairstyle donning fresh flowers. Wedding parties also tend to be pared down and attendants are usually allowed to pick their favorite cocktail dress that is within the brides color scheme or theme.

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Finally, remember that while you might have

WEDDING TRENDS

been married before, it was not to each other.

Smaller, intimate weddings are definitely the

Treat your special day as just that, and keep in

norm for second time couples. Simple dinner

mind it is the first day the two of you will spend

parties or cocktail receptions are preferred

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YOUR FURRY FRIENDS

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married, you want your furry friend there to be with you to make some great photo opportunities. The Pros: Dressing your pet in a wedding dress or a tuxedo is probably one of the cutest things in the world. Not to mention, walking them down the aisle and seeing how sweet they look! Pets can provide a comic relief, especially if your pet has a funny personality. If having a small outdoor ceremony, this might be the best situation for your pet. They are free to roam about, (with a designated handler) and can relieve themselves (hopefully before the wedding!) The Cons: Pets are unpredictable, and you don’t know how your pet will react in a situation with two hundred people. You also need to think about if you are going to pick the pet up. Will their paws stain your dress? Keep that in mind. If you are the type of bride that is very traditional, then you might want to steer clear of having your friend at the ceremony, since you might not know what he/she will do. If you decide to have your pets present on your wedding, keep in mind that some guests might be allergic, and some guests might not even be animal lovers. Have a designated

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the perfect wedding toast A lot of people fear public speaking, and you may be one of them. If you’re truly prepared to speak in front of people, then you’ll find it’s much easier to let the words flow. The best toasts are those that are heartfelt. Sit down and list everything you want people to know about your friends. (Remember, it’s important to talk about both the bride and the groom in your toast). Start with the best qualities. Include memories of good times together, especially the first time he/she spoke of his/her beloved. Scribble some thoughts about what makes the bride and groom a great couple. Finally, based on what you know about their common interests, think about what you would want to wish for them and their future together. Now that you’ve got a rough idea of the themes you’ll touch on in your toast, go beyond your own experience. Find memorabilia of the bride and groom’s dating history such as their first concert tickets, old love letters or gifts they bought for one another. You have two audiences. One is the bride

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While you don’t want to bring a full essay to the microphone, it does help to write it all out ahead of time in order to rehearse before the big day. Many wedding toasters aim for lyricism in song or rhyming poetry. That’s a great idea, if it’s you. But a direct, from-the-heart talk works as well. Be sincere and be yourself. If what you’ve written doesn’t sound like you, then rewrite it.

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One of the classic rules of wedding toasting is to end by tugging on the heartstrings. If you can’t be sentimental at a wedding, where can you be? On the other hand, while a couple of well-placed jokes can win the crowd, you’re not there to do a stand-up routine. If jokes were all the couple wanted, they would have hired a comic.

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A toast should last no longer than three minutes which translates to no more than five liberally double-spaced pages. Rehearse your toast with a stopwatch and see how long it takes. If it’s five minutes or under, then don’t worry since under the glare of the spotlight,

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LGBTQ+ WEDDINGS

Love is love! Celebrate in extra-special ways As an LGBTQ+ couple, not everything about a

the aisle, you can do so together, or escorted

traditional wedding translates well. At the end

by a parent, dear friend, or mentor. Infuse the

of the day, it’s about creating a ceremony and

ceremony with gender-neutral language and

celebration that reflect you and your love story.

choose readings that speak to your relationship.

So forget what you think a wedding should be,

When picking your wedding party, go

and go and make it your own!

ahead and mix it up. Include anyone who

That said, there are many ways to take

has supported you, regardless of gender. In

traditional elements and update them. Some

finding your vendors, look for LGBTQ+ -friendly

of these updates aren’t even unique to LGBTQ+

businesses, like the ones featured in Premier

weddings — they’re relevant to anyone. Let’s

Bride. Keep an eye out for diversity as you

start with who’s paying. While this traditionally

view vendor portfolios. Choosing vendors who

fell to the bride’s family, it’s now much more

share your vision of weddings and the world will

about who can afford it.

ensure a celebration that exceeds your wildest

What to wear? Whatever your heart desires!

dreams. With the right people by your side, a

Don a couple of killer suits or stunning gowns —

little imagination, and the confidence to show

or one of each. As long as you feel like a million

up as your truest selves, your day is sure to be

bucks, anything goes. When it’s time to walk down

an unforgettable one.

RECEPTION GAMES Wedding reception games are a great way to keep your guests entertained while you are being photographed before the reception or as they wait for food! Some games are also a fun way for your guests to get to know you and your partner a little better!

Couple Mad Libs

Bride and Groom Trivia

Create a Mad Libs-style template

I SPY Place a disposable camera on each

for your guests to fill out at

Create a list of trivia questions

guest table with a list of special

their tables for marriage and

for each guest to fill out at the

moments to capture. Each group

love advice. This is a wedding

table. Have a member of the

will have a different shot from

game guests can do alone, or the

wedding party collect and read

their perspective. Some examples

whole table can get in on the fun,

the cards to determine the

could be the first dance, “cheers,”

sharing their tips on how to keep

winner. The guest with the most

table selfie, or just let them

the romance alive, fun ideas for

correct answers wins!

choose! You won’t know what you

“married dates,” and other words

end up with until you take the

of wisdom.

cameras to be developed!

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Bacchus 925 E. Wells, Milwaukee 414-765-1166 bartolottas.com/weddings

Bartolotta Events & Catering at Discovery World 500 Harbor Dr., Milwaukee 414-765-8610 bartolottas.com/weddings Bartolotta’s Lake Park Bistro 3133 E. Newberry Blvd., Milwaukee 414-962-6300 bartolottas.com Bradley Symphony Center 212 W Wisconsin Ave Milwaukee 414-226-7813 resonancefoodco.com/weddings Bottle House Forty Two 1130 North 9th St., Milwaukee 414-988-1554 fstreethospitality.com

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The Brown Bottle 221 W. Galena St., Milwaukee 414-988-1554 fstreethospitality.com

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Canal Street Yacht Club 1200 W. Canal St., Milwaukee 414-273-8300 CanalStreetyachtClub.com

75-450

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The Cooperage 822 S Water St Milwaukee 414-763-4935 cooperagemke.com

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Corvina Wine Company 6038 W. Lincoln Ave., West Allis 414-546-3407 corvinawinecompany.com

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The Factory on Barclay 1120 South Barclay St., Milwaukee 414-481-3337 thefactoryonbarclay.com

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The Gage 1139 S. 70th St., West Allis 414-367-7004 thegagemke.com

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The George & Madcap Lounge Walker’s Point Milwaukee 414-256-8765 Thegeorgemilwaukee.com Grain Exchange Room 225 E. Michigan, Rm 100, Milwaukee 414-727-6980 bartolottas.com/weddings Hilton Milwaukee City Center 509 W. Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee 414-390-3802 marcusweddings.com Hotel Metro Milwaukee 411 East Mason St., Milwaukee 414-225-3256 hotelmetro.com

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1903 Weddings 400 W. Canal St., Milwaukee 877-HD-MUSEUM 1903events.com

400

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DOWNTOWN 1451 Renaissance Place 1451 N. Prospect Ave., Milwaukee 414-272-1451 renaissanceplace.com

Venue Charles Allis Art Museum 1801 N. Prospect Ave., Milwaukee 414-271-3656, ext 2 charlesallis.org

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Renaissance Milwaukee West 2300 N. Mayfair Rd., Wauwatosa 414-771-2300 renmilwaukee.com

300

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Saint Kate - The Arts Hotel 139 E Kilbourn Avenue Milwaukee 414-276-8686 saintkatesarts.com/weddings

300

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Sonesta Milwaukee West 10499 Innovation Dr., Wauwatosa 414-475-9500 sonesta.com/us/wisconsin/ wauwatosa/sonesta-milwaukeewest-wauwatosa

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South Second 838 S. 2nd St., Milwaukee 414-256-8765 southsecondmke.com

88-89

350

Story Hill Firehouse 407 N Hawley Rd., Milwaukee 414-477-5813 storyhillfirehouse.com

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Tripoli Shrine Temple 3000 W. Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee 414-933-4700 tripolishrinecenter.com

50-450

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Turner Hall Ballroom 1040 N. Vel R. Phillips Ave., Milwaukee 414-286-6164 turnerhallballroomweddings.com

400

Villa Terrace Art Museum 2220 N. Terrace Ave., Milwaukee 414-271-3656, ext 2 villaterrace.org

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Italian Community Center 631 E. Chicago Street, Milwaukee 414-223-2800 bartolottas.com/weddings

10-650

Marcus Center for the Performing Arts 929 N. Water St., Milwaukee 414-276-2030 sazamas.com Milwaukee Art Museum 700 N. Art Museum Dr., Milwaukee 414-224-3287 mam.org/wedding Milwaukee County Zoo 10001 W. Bluemound Rd., Milwaukee 414-256-5432 milwaukeezoo.org The Pfister Hotel 424 E. Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee 414-390-3802 marcusweddings.com Pizza Man - Milwaukee 2597 N. Downer Ave., Milwaukee 414-988-1554 pizzamanwi.com Pizza Man - Wauwatosa 11500 W. Burleigh St., Wauwatosa 414-988-1554 pizzamanwi.com

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Potowatomi Hotel & Casino 1721 W. Canal St., Milwaukee 414-847-8600 paysbig.com

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The Iron Horse Hotel 500 W. Florida St., Milwaukee 414-831-4600 theironhorsehotel.com

Loft on Broadway 177 N. Broadway, Milwaukee 414-481-3337 theloftonbroadway.com

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Pritzlaff Events 315 N. Plankinton, Milwaukee 414-433-6088 pritzlaffevents.com

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25-600

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550

88-89

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Hyatt Regency 333 W. Kilbourn Ave., Milwaukee 414-276-1234 milwaukee.regency.hyatt.com

Jan Serr Studio 2155 N. Prospect Ave., Milwaukee 414-256-8765 janserrevents@sazs.com

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WEST & LAKE COUNTRY 1896 Room 6996 Pennsylvania St., Oconomowoc 262-269-9095

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Broadlands Golf Club 18 Augusta Way, North Prairie 262-392-6320 broadlandsgolfclub.com

The Carriage House at the Club at Lac La Belle 6996 Pennsylvania St., Oconomowoc 262-269-9095 carriagehouseatlaclabelle.com

Chivaree on Park N8345 Park St., Ixonia 262-354-4848 mychivaree.com The Cupola Barn N88 W35490 Mapleton Rd., Oconomowoc 262-617-4038 cupolabarn.com

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Delafield Brewhaus 3832 Hillside Dr., Delafield 262-646-7821 delafield-brewhaus.com

10-200

Delafield Hotel 415 Genesee St., Delafield 262-333-0209 delafieldhotel.com

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fête 500 E. Summit Ave., Wales 262-528-3383 feteofwales.com

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Golden Mast W349 N5293 Lacy’s Lane, Okauchee 262-567-7047 goldenmastinn.com

300

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The Hay Loft W2765 East Gate Drive, Watertown 414-333-8511 hayloftbarn.com

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Historic Courthouse 1893 916 N. East Ave., Downtown Waukesha 262-574-9170 courthouse1893.com

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The Ingleside Hotel 2810 Golf Rd., Pewaukee 262-547-0201 theinglesidehotel.com

500

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Kettle Moraine Ranch W379S9674 County Rd. S , Eagle 262-594-2122 kettlemoraineranch.com

500

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Lilac Acres S47 W23045 Lawnsdale Rd., Waukesha 262-309-0653 lilacacres.com

150

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Marriott Milwaukee West W231 N1600 Corporate Ct., Waukesha 262-574-0888 marriott.com/mkemw

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Milford Hills W5670 French Rd., Johnson Creek 920-699-2249 milfordhills.com

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Oconomowoc Community Ctr 220 W. Wisconsin Ave., Oconomowoc 262-569-2190 oconomowoc-wi.gov/ communitycenter

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Red Circle Inn N44 W33013 Watertown Plank Rd., Inside Nashotah Front 262-367-4883, ext 15 Cover redcircleinn.com

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The Rotunda 235 W. Broadway, Waukesha 262-574-9170 therotunda.com

200

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50-300

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War Memorial Center 750 N. Lincoln Memorial Dr., Milwaukee 414-273-5533 warmemorialcenter.org

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Tuscan Hall Banquet Center & Catering 409 Delafield St., Waukesha 262-292-1322 tuscanhallwi.com

200

Watertown Country Club 1340 N. Water St., Watertown 920-261-5009 watertowncc.com

Waukesha Parks: EB Shurts Building 810 W. College Ave., Waukesha 262-522-2953 ci.waukesha.wi.us

256

Waukesha Parks: Rotary Building 1150 Baxter St., Waukesha 262-522-2953 ci.waukesha.wi.us

256

Western Lakes Golf Club W287 N1963 Oakton Rd., Pewaukee 262-961-9796 sazs.com - westernlakes.com

88-89

225

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Schauer Arts & Activities Center 147 N. Rural St., Hartford 262-670-0560 schauercenter.org/ourfacility

139

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Terrace 167 3210 Hwy 167, Richfield 262-623-6588 terrace167.com

140

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Timmer’s Resort 5151 Timmer Bay Rd., West Bend 414-988-1554 fstreethospitality.com

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Washington County Fair Park 3000 Hwy PV, West Bend 262-677-5060 wcfairpark.com

141

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West Bend Country Club 5858 Highway Z, West Bend 262-334-9541 westbendcc.com

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Hubbard Park Lodge, Riverclub & Beer Garden 3565 N. Morris Blvd., Shorewood 414-273-8300 hubbardparklodge.com escapetomilwaukee.com

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550

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Sheraton Milwaukee Brookfield 375 S. Moorland Rd., Brookfield 262-364-1012 SheratonMilwaukeeBrookfield.com

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The Clubhouse at The Bog 3121 County Road I, Saukville 262-292-0740 golfthebog.com

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Best Western Plus Airport 5105 S. Howell Ave., Milwaukee 414-769-2100 bwplusmke.com

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The Barn at The Bog 3121 County Road I, Saukville 262-292-0740 golfthebog.com

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Chandelier Ballroom 150 Jefferson Ave., Hartford 262-673-4946 chandelierballroom.com

Creekside Conference Center 1900 W. Creekside Crossing Circle Oak Creek 414-915-6660 creeksideconferencecenter.com

140

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The DeKoven Center 600 Caron Butler Dr., Racine 262-633-6401 dekovencenter.org

250

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Davian’s Catering & Events N56 W16300 Silver Spring Dr., Menomonee Falls. 262-781-3333 davians.com

The Farm at Dover 26060 Washington Ave., Dover 773-802-6351 thefarmatdover.com

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Four Points by Sheraton Milwaukee Airport 5311 S. Howell Ave., Milwaukee 414-481-2400 clarionmilwaukee.com Polish Center of Wisconsin 6941 S. 68th St., Franklin 414-529-2140 polishcenterofwisconsin.org

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Grand Geneva 7036 Grand Geneva Way 800-558-3417 grandgeneva.com Hawk’s View 7377 Krueger Road, Lake Geneva 877-429-5788 hawksviewgolfclub.com

Sometimes a special diet is the result of an allergy or health consideration, such as a nut allergy or celiac disease (gluten intolerance). choice. Sometimes, that choice even stems

300

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from a religious belief, so it’s important to treat

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all such choices with respect. Vegetarians do not eat meat. Vegans do not eat any animal byproducts, including dairy. People who are gluten-free stay away

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only meets your guests’ needs, but also tastes delicious.

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Vegetarian meals often include meatless pastas and veggie lasagna, as cheese isn’t off limits to vegetarians. There are times that a

Lake Geneva Cruise Line Rivera Docks 812 Wrigley Dr., Lake Geneva 262-248-6206 cruiselakegeneva.com

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Lake Lawn Resort 2400 E. Geneva St., Delavan 262-725-9218 lakelawnresort.com

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vegetarian meal can be made vegan simply by

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removing the cheese — but not always. Going gluten-free? Eliminate grains. The key is to plan ahead. In your wedding

400

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invitations, on the RSVP card, include a line which says “please advise of any dietary requirements.” This invites your guests to alert

The Ridge W4240 State Road 50, Lake Geneva 262-249-3840 ridgelakegeneva.com

161

The Treasury 303 E. Walworth Ave., Delavan 312-720-5185 thetreasurydelavan.com

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Veterans Terrace at Echo Park 589 Milwaukee Ave., Burlington 262-763-9400 veteransterrace.com

dare to be different & delicious

For other folks, a special diet is a lifestyle

GREATER LAKE GENEVA AREA Geneva National 1221 Geneva National Ave. South, Lake Geneva 262-245-7044 genevanationalresort.com

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you to any restrictions without feeling like a

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bother. Whenever possible, work with your caterer to plan hors-d’oeuvres and dinner options

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that cover all your bases. If serving passed appetizers during cocktail hour, make sure there’s a variety of offerings, rather than

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everything being wrapped in bacon. This same variety is also easier to achieve if serving a buffet or family-style dinner.

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a memorable menu Last year’s trends haven’t gone

away; they’re just pitched toward health & social responsibility. Luckily, catering services have raised the bar on every aspect of wedding cuisine creating personal, memorable, and delicious meals. 

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CATERING A MEMORABLE MENU FEASTS WITH FLAIR

Planners are recognizing trends of attendees

As couples get more adventurous with their

cutting back on cocktails. Serving zero-proof

cuisines, caterers are offering more bold flavors,

mocktails that have the same fizz, color and flavor

meaningful meals, and interactive experiences.

lets your guests still feel like they’re drinking

From grazing tables to lite bits to gourmet

something festive but can reduce the risk of

tacos, caterers are doing it all with extra faire

attendees becoming intoxicated.

and presentation. While staying true to the feel

There’s also been an emphasis not only on

and theme of your wedding, there are so many

unique meals, but locally sourced ingredients.

options for creativity and personalization

Couples like to support local purveyors, since

Ethnic cuisine is a great way to bring a little

hosting a locally harvested meal means they’re

flavor to your reception. Take your guests around

not only building up their own community, but also

the world with a variety of food stations. Think

enjoying the freshness of a farm-to-table feast.

about hosting each of your favorite meals. The more you embrace what makes you unique, the more memorable your wedding will be. Food

7 STEPS TO HIRING A CATERER Step 1: Start the search

trucks are another popular way to up the fun

Once you secure a reception site, your catering

factor, and late-night snacks like popcorn, pizza,

search can begin. Some reception locations require

or grilled cheese sliders are a huge hit with guests.

that you use their in-house caterer or banquet

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A MEMORABLE MENU services, which makes your choice simple. This

Step 2: Decide on your style

usually applies to venues like hotels and country

With all the general specifics such as

clubs. If your reception location allows you to bring

serving style in place, it’s time to factor in your

in an independent caterer, you still might have to

wedding’s style and degree of formality. Right

choose from a pre-approved list.

off the bat, caterers will want to talk about your

If you’re able to choose your own caterer,

personal tastes (and budget!). Don’t be afraid

narrow down your options three or less so that

to disclose your food budget as it will make

all the flavors won’t blur together. As you call

the process easier. Think about the vibe your

caterers to inquire after their services, make sure

wedding — is it a classic ballroom affair or a

to have as much information on hand as possible.

rustic outdoor bash? Do you want the food to be

They’ll want to know your wedding date, time,

posh or playful? Such details will help a caterer

approximate number of guests, and whether

determine what they can offer that falls in line

you’d like a sit-down, family-style, food stations or

with your budget and vision.

buffet-style meal. If you already have some ideas for your menu or any specific limitations (think

Step 3: Schedule a tasting

vegetarian or gluten free), let the caterer know so

When you finally narrow down your list of

they can better prepare for the initial meeting. Ask

prospective caterers, it’s time for the fun part

to see sample wedding menus and references.

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CATERING A MEMORABLE MENU and don’t be afraid to ask if they can tweak

Step 5: Calculate the cost

something to your tastes. This is your day

Finalizing the menu and calculating the cost

and your meal, and any good caterer will be

might happen somewhat simultaneously, since

pleased to work with your wishes as much as

your budget will surely affect the direction of your

they can.

wedding meal. Here’s a bit about what you can expect in terms of pricing: Facilities with in-house

Step 4: Finalize the menu

catering departments may have a minimum

Gather inspiration from magazines, websites,

charge or set-up fee, while an independent

and bridal shows to clarify what you like and

caterer will usually work within any reasonable,

dislike in a wedding meal. Think about weddings

agreed-upon budget. Keep in mind that buffets

you’ve attended or ask friends for favorites and

are usually priced higher since they’ll have to

failures. Your caterer will also be a great resource

account for a little more per person.

to bounce ideas around and finally craft a menu

Caterers usually require your final guest

that’s perfect for you. When in doubt, ask your

count one week before the wedding. This is the

caterer and trust them. They’ve seen lots of

number of people you’ll actually be charged

weddings and know what works best for the

for, though most caterers will factor in a few

number of people, time of day, and location, so

last-minute guests, too. Include any wedding-

take their professional advice to heart.

related personnel, such as the DJ, musicians,

Selecting a

CATERER

Ask the Right Questions! Questions! • What packages do you offer? What do they include? • Have you worked at my reception site before? • Do you provide beverage service? • Do have opening or corking fees? • When is the deadline for the final guest count? • When will we need to finalize the menu? • Can you provide entrees for my guests who have special dietary needs? • Will you provide flatware, china, stemware, etc? • Do you supply or arrange tables, chairs or linens? • How will you and your staff be dressed? • Do you provide wait staff? How many are appropriate for my wedding? • Do you have references from previous weddings? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? degrootfilmco.com

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• Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much?

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Let us cater the

WEDDING OF YOUR DREAMS

W ED D IN G S B YA N T I G UA . C O M A MEMORABLE MENU photographer, and on-site coordinator. If cost

a buffet-style dinner. If you’re having a full open

is an issue, ask your caterer about more casual

bar, that will require one bartender for every 60

meals for vendors.

guests. Make sure to talk with your caterer ahead

Finally, make sure to ask what extras are included in the catering cost. Find out if your

of time to make sure that the servers’ style of dress works with the style of your wedding.

caterer will provide table linens, plates, glasses, crystal, silverware, and serving pieces — otherwise you’ll need ample time to make other arrangements.

Step 7: Get it in writing Sign a contract with your caterer only after you have all the details spelled out: date, time, address of site, food items by course, beverages

Step 6: Hire the servers

and bar guidelines, number of guests covered,

With a finalized menu all priced out and good

provisions for special meals, time of cocktail

to go, it’s time to determine how many wait

hour, time meal is served, contact people,

staff you’ll need to serve the feast and keep the

number of wait staff and bartenders, linens,

reception running smoothly. Your caterer will give

terms of payment, and liability insurance. There

you their expert opinion, but a safe bet is one

will probably be an advance deposit when you

server for every 10 to 12 guests for a sit-down

sign the contract — and don’t forget to check the

dinner, and two servers for every 50 guests for

cancellation policy.

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wedding reception – opinions vary among today’s brides. Open seating allows guests to choose their seat which works well with informal type and cocktail party type receptions. With assigned seating, guests can be assigned a seat or just a table where they choose their seat at that table. A few guidelines will help the process of assigned seating. Begin working on the table layout and

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seating chart a few weeks prior to the wedding to allow for changes. Include those you believe will attend but have not yet responded. Determine if you need just a seating chart or if you also need place cards at each seat. Some brides are finding creative ways to combine the two such as a table with glass Coke bottles that have a tag hung around the neck stating the guest’s name and table number. Guests pick up their bottle as they enter the reception and place it at their seat. Place cards can help guests to remember each other’s names. Traditionally,

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friends, people of the same age (teenagers or the elderly), and groups of friends. For interest, mix the bride’s and groom’s friends at one table. Do not sit together divorced couples and/or feuding families. Planning a seating chart should not be a stressful part of wedding planning. Ask for help from the mothers of the bride and groom and begin early to make the process simple and hassle-free.

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DATE

NIGHTS (that won’t break the wedding budget!)

Volunteer Together Visit a local shelter or charity and serve someone. Not only are you having fun with your fiancé, it’s a great way to give back to your community.

Explore a Local Park Sometimes the best adventures are right outside your door!

Have a Game Night Ask your friends over and play some good ole fashioned board games. You don’t realize how competitive your friends are until Monopoly comes into the picture!

DIY Day You know all those pins you’ve saved on Pinterest and never tried? Now is the time to get crafty! You can probably find most of the items around your house.

Check out Open Houses Near You Who doesn’t want to be Joanna Gaines? Why yes, we’ll take the $1,000 house without walls. We can shiplap that. (JK, please don’t do that!)

Watch the Worst Movies on Netflix Ask your friends for ideas. Sometimes all you need is a good laugh with the person you love to have a great night. Don’t forget the popcorn.

Grab a Disposable Camera Walk around and take pictures of each other with this oldie but goodie. After you’ve used all 28 of your pics, get them developed. The cloud may fail you, but prints last (almost) forever.

Exercise Encouraging each other to be healthy can be a SARAH PEARSON PHOTOGRAPHY 98 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

fun way to stay in shape.

CATERING

HIRE A PRO BARTENDER take wedding spirits to the next level

You’ve hired professional photographers, caterers, musicians, and videographers to make

bartender to create one or more signature drinks for your wedding.

your wedding day an unforgettable one. Don’t

Before hiring a professional bartender for your

overlook everyone’s favorite pro: the bartender!

wedding, do your research. First, inquire with

Not only can you count on knowledgeable,

your venue and caterer. Some have restrictions

speedy drink service for your guests, but a

on who’s allowed to serve alcohol on site. Others

professional bartender will handle the nitty gritty,

require that the venue or caterer provide the

like the bar’s inventory and shopping list. You

alcohol, as opposed to purchasing it off site.

won’t have to trouble yourself with glassware, ice,

How many bartenders do you need? Check

mixers, or garnishes — just sit back, relax, and

your guest count. A general rule is 75 people per

enjoy your professionally-poured cocktail.

bartender. When budgeting, figure two to three

But it’s more than meticulous drink mixing:

drinks per person during cocktail hour and one

Like other wedding pros, bartenders are artists.

drink per person, per hour, for the rest of the night.

Drinks are garnished just-so, and they’re able

To determine whether or not a professional

to craft cocktails based on individual guest’s

bartender is the right fit for your wedding, meet

preferences. You can also work with your

with a professional near you!

something old REPRESENTS CONTINUITY

something new OPTIMISM FOR THE FUTURE

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CONSULTANTS ma er the details The best gift a bride and groom can give each other is a professional wedding coordinator. Today, planning a wedding is more complicated than ever. Most couples have high expectations for their special day, but are novices at planning such a big event.

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Selecting a

WEDDING CONSULTANT

Ask the Right Questions!

• What packages do you offer? What do they include? • Are your fees based on total cost of wedding or an hourly or flat rate? • Have you done weddings similar to mine? • What cultures and traditions are you familiar with? • Do you offer “day of the wedding” assistance? • Will you be willing to work with the coordinator at my reception location? • Can you provide me with special rates when working with various vendors? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? degrootfilmco.com

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CONSULTANTS MASTER THE DETAILS Besides handling all the time consuming,

related to the event industry. They network with

stress inducing details, a wedding coordinator

vendors, stay on top trends and are experts

can help make the planning process an

in exceeding your vision to create something

enjoyable experience. There are so many fine

beyond what you ever dreamed.

points that go into planning a wedding that it

Another common trait they possess is

can be difficult for today’s couples with busy

creativity. They work within the couples’ own

careers to enjoy the process.

style and apply it in a way that works for their

Wedding consultants can essentially do

wedding creating a beautiful, timeless event.

everything you need. From handling pre-

While many couples prefer to pick their own

wedding plans to coordinating the events on the

vendors, flower arrangements, cake design

wedding day, wedding consultants offer services

and location, wedding consultants can assist

that include as much or as little as you need.

or do this for you. It is not unusual for wedding

Many offer “day-of” services as well.

consultants to work with the bride, choosing the

Wedding coordinators should be detail-

color of her wedding, flower arrangement and

oriented, organized and reliable. They stay on

even the wedding gown. On the other hand,

top of their field by attending seminars and

consultants are also good at just taking over the

constantly watching what’s hot across the

small details. In some cases they are only there to

country. Many belong to groups or associations

coordinate everything on the day of the wedding.

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CONSULTANTS MASTER THE DETAILS If you do decide to choose a wedding consultant, it’s vital it be someone you truly like and who works well with your personalities. The caliber of wedding planners varies greatly. Hiring a friend because he/she loved planning his/her own wedding might work for you, but beware. That doesn’t make him/her an experienced professional who knows how to orchestrate your event, handle unexpected challenges and take criticism if you have disagreements.

FINDING THE RIGHT COORDINATOR 1. Ask a trusted caterer, another bride or the quality wedding consultants listed in this publication. 2. A professional coordinator should offer an introductory meeting free of charge. Discuss your ideas and see if you click with each other. 3. Look for someone with experience and find out how long they have been in business. 4. Questions to ask when you check references should include: did the consultant help to achieve what you wanted? Did he/she listen to your comments and concerns? Did he/she pay close attention to your wedding budget? Would they use them again? 5. Is he/she a member or certified with a professional Association of Bridal Consultants, such as ABC.

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RENTALS PERSONALIZED STYLE Even if you’re working with a venue that already provides things like tables, chairs, linens, and place settings, rentals might still end up on your wedding checklist. Ask your site contact if you can see their items first hand, in case you want to switch up the look — for instance, springing for vintage tableware, textured linens, or shapely chairs. Of course if you’re hosting a wedding where the venue isn’t outfitted with even the most basic furnishings, it’s up to you to procure every last champagne flute and salad fork. If you love a DIY challenge, you could track down these goods yourself. But why stress? With a trusted rental company by your side, you can borrow everything from your ceremony arch to your centerpieces. Our advice: Leave it to the pros!

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WHAT NOT TO RENT While many wedding day items are one-timeuse or simply don’t make sense to own (what are you going to do with 200 vintage glasses?), other pieces are absolutely worth purchasing. For one, the bride and groom’s attire. Despite the surge in high-end fashion rentals, owning your

RENTALS PERSONALIZED STYLE dress and suit allows for custom tailoring and a bespoke ensemble you’ll treasure forever. The same goes for shoes and jewelry, which make for easy keepsakes.

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needs. Your venue might include all the basics, leaving only fun stuff on your rental wish list. On the flip side, you may be looking to rent a 200-person tent and everything that goes inside it. Both ways are doable. In general, these are the main furnishings you’ll need: tables, chairs, linens, plates, flatware, serving pieces, utensils, and glassware. Other large rentals might be a dance floor, band stage, portable toilets for an outdoor wedding, a free-standing bar, or lounge furniture. Also consider any heating or cooling needs, depending on your venue and time of year. Now let’s dig a little deeper into your most basic rentals, as these are, for the most part, non-negotiable for all weddings.

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Selecting your

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• What items are available for rent? • What is the rental fee? Do you have a price list? • Have you worked at my reception location before? • Do you provide delivery, set-up and pick-up? Is this included in the cost? • When will the items be delivered and picked up? • Will you move decorations from the ceremony to the reception site if needed? • If tents are needed, do you recommend one large tent, or multiple smaller tents at my reception location? • What is your policy on damaged or missing items? • Who will be my contact on the day of the wedding? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? wildelegancewi.com

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RENTALS PERSONALIZED STYLE Have high chairs or booster seats for any little

For glassware, you might need champagne

ones. Chair covers add color and texture to the

flutes, glasses for water, beer, wine, cocktails, and

space, however, stylish Chiavari chairs and fresh,

cups for non-alcoholic drinks like coffee or tea.

white folding chairs work wonderfully, no covers

The number of glasses depends on whether or

necessary. Decorative chairs are a fun way to

not there will be a dishwasher at your wedding.

add a dash of décor to a sweethearts table.

Think about how many glasses you go through in an evening out; you need to keep the clean

PLATES, GLASSWARE & UTENSILS

glassware coming. So either hire a dishwasher,

With all the delicious food at a wedding, it’s

or work around it. Calculate three or four glasses

no wonder so many plates are required. You’ll

per person, or make it clear that guests should

need plates for cocktail hour, salad, dinner,

reuse their one glass the entire evening.

and dessert. Today, tables are often set with

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See if you can coordinate with your venue and

A mix of silverware is also in fashion. Always

consolidate any rentals into one order. Odds are

order about a dozen extra place settings in case

your venue is renting something. If you can rent

a plate drops, shows up chipped, or you realize

from the same company, it usually means one flat

later that your vendors also need to eat.

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No matter what inspires you, working with your

round up. You can always remove a dozen place

venue is key. Embrace the best of your venue.

settings or a couple tables, but adding them at

Perhaps it’s a blank slate, or maybe nature will be

the last minute might prove tricky.

doing a lot of the heavy lifting. Think about what

Thoroughly read your rental agreement and the itemized list of goods coming your way.

you can afford and what will actually look good in the space.

Make sure the amounts and times of drop-off

Consider antiques, bird cages, vintage books,

and pick-up are all correct, and understand

chandeliers, a disco ball, neon or marquee

the state in which goods are to be returned.

lighting, eclectic vases, or gilded mirrors. Want

Do dishes have to be washed? Chairs folded?

fun on a bigger scale? Bring in fabulously funky

Also be aware of added fees, such as a service

furniture to act as both a cozy lounge area and a

charge, delivery charge, or tip, as this can

dramatic backdrop for photos. Up the playfulness

sometimes turn a seemingly-inexpensive rental

with popcorn machines, cotton candy makers,

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FRIDAY/SUNDAY WEDDINGS the advantages of weekend weddings

If you decide to have your wedding on

the ceremony is followed immediately by

a Friday or a Sunday, you’ll reap several

dinner. This means that you will avoid the

rewards: both financial and otherwise. You’ll

extra cost and hassle of a one-to-two-hour

save time, you’ll probably save a significant

interim reception or cocktail party. Having

amount of money, and you’ll find that your

the ceremony and reception back to back may

guests may appreciate having a Saturday free

ensure more people at the church ceremony.

to spend time with you and the other guests they know.

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SAVE THE DATE Planning for a Friday or a Sunday wedding makes it much more likely that you will be able to reserve the church, hall, music and other services on the date of your choice. Choosing a Friday or Sunday date allows you to avoid making several calls to numerous vendors, only to hear, “Sorry, we’re booked on that date.”

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For Friday or Sunday weddings, the majority of banquet facilities, photographers, video producers,

musicians/entertainers

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limousine services are much more willing to

other evenings during the week since those

negotiate in order to reach a price that suits

are typically their slower business days. You

your budget. Vendors tend to see Friday and

will find a more relaxed atmosphere and the

Sunday as bonus days, a time when they can

staff will be more attentive to your party’s

earn income. Savings on these services can

needs.

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to save money without having to sacrifice

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the quality of your wedding.

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After months of fittings, tastings, and planning down to the very last detail, the day you’ve always dreamed of will seem to come and go in a blur. That’s why quality photography is a must! You want to be able to preserve the day and look back on everything that happened. Through pictures captured in a style that speaks to you, you can remember, relive, and cherish each moment for the rest of your lives.

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PHOTO / VIDEO CAPTURE THE MOOD From falling in love with a dreamy online portfolio to the nitty gritty of contracts, let’s look at the process of finding a photographer that’s your perfect match.

gravitate toward the effortless, unforced feel of documentary-style photos. PORTRAIT: Classic and posed. Poses can be staged with traditional backdrops, such as a church alter, or more creative, holding hands

DEFINE YOUR STYLE Wedding photography is more than just documenting the event. The right photographer

in front of a vibrant city mural. Portrait doesn’t mean dull or dated, it just means the scenery and composition are thoughtfully arranged.

for you will capture the spirit of you as a couple,

FINE ART OR EDGY & BOLD: Dramatic and dreamlike,

as well as your day. While other factors come into

with interesting angles and framing. Might use

play when choosing a photographer, determining

more muted tones for a film-like effect. These

a style that speaks to you is the first order of

photos will represent the photographer’s vision,

business. Below are a few styles you might

so if you love an artist’s unique style, fine art

encounter as you start your search.

photography could be a great fit.

DOCUMENTARY: Candid, spontaneous, not styled

Many photographers can do a blend of these

or posed. Capturing moments as they happen;

styles, so don’t worry so much about being

shots of decorative details, action, and people.

pigeon-holed into one or another. In the end,

This style is currently trending, as couples

worry less about what a photographer calls their

Selecting a

PHOTOGRAPHER

Ask the Right Questions! Questions!

• Will you be taking the pictures? If not, can I meet him/her? • How long have you been a wedding photographer? • What packages do you offer? What do they include? • What type of photography do you specialize in? • Have you photographed at my ceremony or reception location before? • How many other weddings do you have this night? How long can you stay? • Do you offer online ordering for my guests? • Can we purchase all of our images on disk? • Can we order additional prints later? • What happens if you are sick or have an emergency on my wedding day? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? amandaketterhagenphotography.com

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• Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much?

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CAPTURE THE MOOD style and more about whether or not their work

well-thought-out contingency plans, and a

makes you happy.

professional attitude.

SHOP AROUND

MEET IN PERSON

Once you’ve established your target style, it’s

Once you’ve made a shortlist of potential

time to shop around. Collect referrals from friends,

photographers that seem to check all your

review local wedding magazines and websites, and

boxes, it’s time to meet. Don’t underestimate

check out bridal shows near you. Browsing local

this step! Even if your artistic visions align, it’s

photographers’ websites, blogs, Facebook pages,

just as important that your personalities click.

and Instagram feeds is the quickest way to get a

Remember, this person is shadowing you on your

feel for the talent in your area.

wedding day!

But beware of amateur photographers with

Ask yourself how this person will mesh with

limited real-world experience. Just because

your friends and family, too. They should be

someone takes pretty iPhone photos, launches

professional, respectful, and know when to hang

a website, and has a business card, that doesn’t

back, while also being bold enough to go after

make them a professional photographer. Choose

great shots and draw natural expressions from

someone with a strong portfolio of quality work,

your guests.

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Have a critical eye when assessing wedding albums: Did they capture all the shots you’re hoping for? Are the images clear? How’s the composition? Is the lighting blown out, too dark, or just right? Some photographers are more skilled at capturing low-light images, so consider the time, season, and location of your wedding and chose a professional whose talents suit your needs.

GET IT IN WRITING Photography

packages

vary

from

one

professional to the next, so it’s critical to find out what’s included, as well as the cost of any add-ons. A photography package may or may not include the following: second shooters, additional hours, high-res jpgs, photo albums, or engagement sessions. Some photographers offer such services a-la-carte, so you can Where every woman’s natural elegance, beauty, and grace shine.

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PHOTO / VIDEO CAPTURE THE MOOD timeline for delivering proofs and final photos.

package prices or a-la-carte. If you’re on the

Bear in mind that faster isn’t always better.

fence about engagement photos, our advice

Some professionals shoot weddings nonstop

is to go for it. Think of it like a trial run for

during the high season, then spend the next six

your wedding day. An engagement session is

months of the low season processing photos

a chance to get comfortable both with your

flawlessly.

photographer and together in front of the

When you finally make your decision, get

camera.

everything in writing. When is payment due? Will there be a backup camera? What’s the

CAPTURE MOMENTS THAT MATTER

contingency plan should your photographer

If there are friends and family that you want

fall ill or have a family emergency? When will

to be sure to snap a photo with or a particular

proofs be ready to view? Answering all of these

time in the ceremony or reception that you

questions up front will ease your mind and

want captured, it helps to put that in writing as

manage your expectations.

well to help keep you and your photographer on track. Download our Ultimate Planner online

DO A TRIAL RUN Nearly all photographers offer engagement shoots, either included in their wedding

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Selecting a

VIDEOGRAPHER

Ask the Right Questions! Questions! • Will you be shooting my wedding? If not, can I meet him/her? • May I see samples of your work?

• What packages do you offer? What do they include? • How many cameras and microphones will be used and where will they be located? • Are you able to work with the restrictions on lights and tripods at the ceremony or reception site? • How long will it take to get our completed video? • Can I keep the raw, unedited footage? • Can you film while a photographer is present? • Will backup equipment be on hand for the event? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? • Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much?

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Statement-Making Florals & Foliage Flowers can do more than act as a pretty pop

pair of statement-making arrangements to

of décor. For both a beautiful photo op and a

frame your altar. These showstoppers can

functional way to draw your guests eyes to

then be moved to your reception location

the pivotal moments of the day, flowers are a

and strategically placed among the rest of the

fabulous way to accentuate the scene. At the

décor.

ceremony, a traditional or rounded archway is a picture-perfect spot for saying “I do,”

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especially if your event is being held outdoors.

When it comes to wedding reception

Your archway could be anything from a simple

centerpieces, there has been a recent surge of

wooden frame adorned with a few floral

suspended floral pieces. For practical reasons,

flourishes, or an entire arbor lush with leafy

it’s nice to get the flowers off the table and

greenery and a bounty of blooms.

allow more room for easy chatting and dinners

Living walls and full-floral backdrops also

served family style. If gorgeous impact is your

look lovely at the ceremony and can double

goal, a hanging flower arrangement is tough

as a stunning open-air photo booth for

to top. Chandeliers draped with greens and

guests at the reception. Can’t commit to an

flower boxes that run the length of reception

entire archway or wall of foliage? Consider a

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bulky than the traditional crown, perhaps being

set under a bloom-filled wooden pergola, woven

tied with a ribbon at the back of the head, rather

with lights, is nothing short of magical. Don’t

than an abundant wreath of flowers. Cuffs of

have the budget for such an elaborate scene?

flowers are also on the rise for both brides and

You might work with your florist to craft a series

bridesmaids, as well as the occasional statement

of hanging geometric pieces trimmed with

necklace made of greenery. When it comes to

greenery. These could be large wooden frames

the groom and his groomsmen, however, you

wrapped in budding vines, or a cluster of hoops

may notice that simplicity is where its at; no lapel

strung together and festooned with flowers.

gardens, rather simple, unfussy boutonnieres.

Embrace this “less is more” aesthetic for all the impact at a fraction of the cost.

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and anthuriums to old fashioned dahlias and

Until lately, the most popular wearable

chrysanthemums, lauded for their remarkable

wedding blooms were flower crowns. Now,

range of color. Some brides are all about the

brides are branching out in their floral fashions.

tropics, while others turn to their own backyard,

A close cousin to the flower crown, floral tiaras

incorporating branches, leaves, and wildflowers

are having their moment. These are a little less

found in local plant-life for a field-to-vase vibe.

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details

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bride getting ready

venue, dress, shoes, flowers, rings, invitations

hair & makeup, candid, gift exchange

buttoning dress & putting on shoes

groom getting ready

first look

bride & groom portraits

jacket, tie, cufflinks, & shoes

when he sees you for the first time

kisses, rings, & posing

ceremony decor

ceremony

wedding party

flowers, set up, & aisles

down the aisle, groom’s reaction, & first kiss

bridesmaids & groomsmen

bride’s family

groom’s family

bride & groom sunset

Mom, Dad, & family

first photos of the married couple

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INVITATIONS

fir impression

Invitations seem like such a basic item but there’s a lot that goes into them and a lot that comes out of them! Invitations set the stage and build excitement, offering guests a peek at your wedding’s style. With creativity and proper etiquette, your invites will give a great first impression.

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INVITATIONS FIRST IMPRESSION It’s best to find a qualified local professional

save-the-dates going out months in advance.

to act as your go-to person for all paper goods

Save-the-date cards, or even an in-formal

and etiquette questions. If you choose to

conversation with your guests, are especially

purchase online, give yourself some extra time

important for out-of-town guests. Plenty of

in case there are any problems that require

advance notice gives traveling guests enough

shipping back and forth.

time to book flights and lodging with some

Before you choose a style of invitation, it’s

flexibility.

crucial to know some of the broad themes of

CREATIVE THINKING

your wedding: casual vs. formal, bold colors vs. soft hues, etc. Knowing these key details will

While formal invitations, complete with

help you find or create invitations to reflect the

calligraphy and foil-lined envelopes are never

style of your day.

out of style, the breadth of invite design options

If possible, order invitations and other

has grown immensely. The use of watercolor

wedding stationery six or more months before

and illustrated elements is also growing to such

the big day to give yourself plenty of time

an extent that many stationery companies

for proofreading, printing, addressing and

now have a resident artist to accommodate

envelope stuffing. Formal invitations should be

those

sent six to eight weeks before the wedding with

Beyond formal calligraphy, you might choose

personalized,

handmade

touches.

Selecting your

INVITATIONS

Ask the Right Questions! Questions! • May I see samples of your work? • What packages do you offer? What do they include? • What kinds of products do you offer? • How long will it take to have each order processed? • Will we see a proof before the invites are printed? • Do you offer discounts if we order other items at the same time such as thank you notes? • Do you offer custom designs? • Do you offer labels? • Can you create a program for the ceremony? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? • Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much? memoriesbymeghan.com

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• Are you able to fill future orders such as monogrammed stationery or additional thank you notes?

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INVITATIONS FIRST IMPRESSION whimsical hand-lettering or even white ink on

INVITATION WORDING

dark envelopes. Dress up your invites with a

Traditionally, whoever is hosting (read:

belt or sash wrapped around the middle. Hand-

paying for) the wedding will be listed first on

drawn embellishments, a chalkboard look, and

the invitation. But it’s best to work this out on

vintage-inspired designs are also lovely if they

a case-by-case basis with open communication

work with the style of your wedding.

between the couple, the bride’s parents, and the groom’s parents. Some couples today who

PAPER PARTS & PIECES

are paying for the majority of their wedding

Wedding invitation suites typically consist

say “Mary Bride and John Groom, together

of several parts: a ceremony card, a reception

with their families, request the honor of your

card, a response card with its stamped/

presence at their marriage.” An experienced

addressed envelope, a card with directions to

professional will be able to assist you more

the ceremony/reception and hotel information

with wording.

for out-of-town guests, and an inner and

ADDRESSING ADVICE

outer envelope. The rules aren’t hard and fast, however, you can really think outside the box

To address the envelopes, you can run them

with your design if that suits the style of your

through your printer in a beautiful font, hand-

wedding day.

write them yourself, or hire a hand-letterer

invite

WEDDING TIMELINE

These are not hard and fast rules (except for the thank you cards!), but they serve as a starting point. Destination Weddings (D) Timeline is on the top, and Local Weddings (L) are on the bottom.

SAVE-THE-DATES

INVITATIONS

RSVP DEADLINE

THANK YOUS

( D) 8-12 MONTHS ( L) 6-8 MONTHS

( D) 3-4 MONTHS ( L) 4-8 WEEKS

( D) 3-5 WEEKS ( L) 2-3 WEEKS

( D) IMMEDIATELY ( L) IMMEDIATELY

Save-the-dates give your guests a friendly headsup. They are not always necessary, but are never a bad idea. Your guests may decide to turn your destination wedding into a getaway trip, so those save-the-dates can be sent up to a year in advance.

There is such a thing as too early! Send invitations so that your guests’ maximum anticipation lines up with your big day. Invitations for destination weddings should be sent far enough in advance for your guests to make their travel plans.

Your RSVP Deadline will depend on how much lead time your wedding professionals need. The first one to consider is your caterer’s meal count. Check with each vendor to determine when they need a final number, and set the RSVP return date for a week before that.

Believe it or not, you’ll start receiving gifts even before you walk down the aisle. Send thank you cards immediately. Once you’re back from your honeymoon, kick it into high gear to get them out no later than six weeks after the wedding.

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INVITATIONS FIRST IMPRESSION to do the job for you. Hand lettering gives a beautiful first impression and can even act as a sort of frameable gift to your guests. Avoid using labels at all costs, even clear ones as they just

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don’t convey an elegance or special-ness that a wedding deserves. If you want to keep things formal/classic, here are some tips for the etiquette of addresses. Street names, cities, and states should be written out completely (no abbreviations). To address a married couple, use “Mr. and Mrs. Tom Smith.” For an unmarried couple living together, use “Mr. Tom Smith and Miss Judy Jones.” If every member of the family is invited, use “Mr. and Mrs. Tom Smith & Family.” If you don’t want young children at your reception, then politely say “adults only” somewhere in the invite. Include your return address on the back of the

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envelope. Placing it on the back is less crowded and leaves room for the guest’s address to shine on the front. You can handwrite your return address, or in this case, printed labels are an acceptable shortcut. You’ll also want to make sure that the return address matches the primary host. Is it Mary Bride and John Groom, or Mary’s parents?

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JUST A FEW TIPS TO MAKE YOUR RECEPTION PERFECT. INTERESTED IN PUTTING BASKETS IN THE RESTROOMS AT YOUR RECEPTION?

your invites, take one to the post office. Have it

Special items (for both men and women) will help your guests handle mishaps and rejoin your celebration. After the wedding, it makes a great addition to a guest bathroom in your home.

weighed to confirm the postage cost in case it

HAVING CHILDREN AT YOUR RECEPTION?

STAMP STUFF One last critical tip: before you send all of

weighs more than the normal envelope or is an odd shape. The last thing you want is for all of your invitations to be returned as “insufficient postage!” So stop at the post office, make absolutely sure all is right with your stamps, pop those gorgeous invitations in the mail, and take a deep breath. Your wedding is officially underway!

Consider hiring a company that specializes in just such arrangements.

HAVING DISPOSABLE CAMERAS AT THE RECEPTION? Using a Scavenger Hunt theme, create a list of possible ideas for photos.

PLANNING A DOLLAR DANCE? Consider making a donation to your favorite charity with the proceeds.

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FLOWERS

defining your day Through decades of evolving

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FLOWER PRESERVATION After your wedding, look into ways to preserve your flowers via drying, pressing, painting, or resin.

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FLOWERS DEFINING YOUR DAY If possible, you should book a florist 8 to

elements (your style, venue, and budget) and

10 months before your wedding. You can find

create something special just for you. Florists

potential candidates in a print publication like

know which flowers will and won’t wilt in the

this one, at a bridal show, online, or by asking

sun, which are best for indoors, and which will

friends and family for recommendations. Your

work better in a centerpiece than in a bouquet.

goal is to find someone who is organized, professional, and whose style and personality

FOR YOU AND YOUR WEDDING PARTY

meshes with your own. To start, create a

You’ll first want to determine the look of your

flowers-only Pinterest board to gather images

bridal bouquet. All other floral pieces will take

that you love, and maybe some that you don’t. It

their cue from this piece. This is the perfect

helps to have lots to show your potential florist.

opportunity to bring your style and personality

Have a budget in mind.

to the forefront. Full, rounded bouquets are

At your florist meetings, you should know

gorgeous, as are cascading bouquets which are

your wedding colors and ceremony and

a classic choice making a modern comeback.

reception locations. If you have a picture of your

Today’s cascades are a loose, more natural

wedding dress and any fabric swatches from the

style of bouquet. Also on trend are dried floral

bridesmaid dresses, bring those along as well.

elements combined with fresh blooms for

The right florist for you will take all of these

gorgeous texture and dimension.

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DEFINING YOUR DAY Then there’s the wedding party flowers: Just

FOR THE RECEPTION

as bridesmaids might mix-and-match dresses,

There’s an endless array of options for floral

you can also mix-and-match bouquets and

reception centerpieces: elegant vases filled

boutonnieres. Remember to also consider

with cut flowers, footed pedestals brimming

corsages

parents,

with blooms, glorious bunches of wildflowers,

grandparents, and other important people.

assorted small vases with single stems, nature-

These miniature arrangements have been

inspired elements, and so much more. You may

updated in recent years. Corsages often take

even think beyond the tabletops themselves in

shape on metal cuff bracelets, while a spray of

favor of hanging floral installations. Use your

small flowers makes an easy pocket boutonniere.

imagination to incorporate flowers into one-

and

boutonnieres

for

of-a-kind centerpieces and scene-setters that

FOR THE CEREMONY

reflect your style and your wedding’s theme.

If you’re having your ceremony in a place of

Keep in mind that the height of the

worship, check with your officiant for any restrictions

arrangements shouldn’t get in the way of

before finalizing the flowers. Consider aisle

conversation. Florists can create centerpieces

adornments and arrangements — such as an arch,

at a variety of heights: all high, all low, or half

swag, or spray — to frame your vows. Oftentimes

and half, usually with three different styles.

ceremony flowers can play double duty by adorning

The key is to either make the arrangements

the ceremony as well as the reception hall.

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FLOWERS

Selecting your

FLOWERS

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DEFINING YOUR DAY talk under. A riser or vase that is about 24 to

the venue is also a lovely way to bring the

32 inches will elevate above the conversation

outdoors in. Run any and all ideas past

as long as the vase is narrow enough to talk

your florist so they can help you refine your

around.

vision, stay within your budget, and create a

If your bridal party bouquets are doubling as

beautiful, memorable ambiance.

decoration at the reception, equally spacing the bouquets at the head table is a lovely way to go. Finish off the table with a garland of greenery laced with flowers for a gorgeous effect.

FLOWERS IN ALL SEASONS Seasonality plays an even bigger role when it comes to florals. One of the most important

If your budget allows, consider adding

things for you and your florist to factor into

floral flourishes throughout the reception

your choice of flowers is the season in which

hall to tie everything together. Thinking big, a

your wedding falls. You’ll find flowers that

gorgeous floral backdrop certainly makes for

bloom during the month of your wedding will

a fabulous photo-op. A ceremony arch could

be more affordable and will last longer than

even double as a sort of floral photo booth

those that are out of season. Also keep in

during the reception. On a smaller scale, your

mind that around certain holidays, flowers will

florist might sprinkle flower petals on serving

increase in price across the board. Let’s look

trays or trim the dessert table with an extra

at some popular flowers in each season to

flourish. Simple greenery placed throughout

kickstart your search.

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FLOWERS DEFINING YOUR DAY • WINTER: Amaryllis, Casablanca Lily, Freesia, Gerbera Daisy, Heather Holly, Narcissus, Poinsettia, Rose, Stephanotis.

KEEPING IT CLASSIC No doubt roses are the most widely used flower in wedding arrangements. These timeless

• SPRING: Peony, Sweet Pea, Lilac, Ranunculus, Hydrangea, Tulip, Calla Lily, Magnolia.

blooms are available in three grades: fancy, extra

• SUMMER: Anemone, Azalea, Camellia, Daffodil, French Tulip, Hyacinth, Jasmine, Lily of the Valley, Mimosa, Pansy, Primrose, Violet.

roses as they tend to wilt rapidly (they are most

• FALL: Celosia (Cockscomb), Chinese Lantern, Chrysanthemum, Crosnia, Dahlia, Statice.

bouquets are all white and can combine an array

• YEAR-ROUND: Baby’s Breath, Calla Lilies, Carnation, Cattleman, Chrysanthemum, Cymbidium Orchid, Daisy, Dendrobium, Orchid, Freesia, Gardenia, Gerbera Daisy, Gladiolus, Hydrangeas, Iris, Lily, Rose, September Aster, Snapdragon, Stephanotis, Tuberose.

fancy, and select. Florists rarely deal with fancy commonly found in supermarkets). Roses that are of top quality will last the longest. Traditional of blossoms that are unique in shape and size. It’s also possible to have a vibrantly colored bouquet that still reflects classic styles and shapes. Whatever your wedding’s theme and style, by collaborating with a professional florist, you’re sure to have the flowers of your dreams. Work together, but always remember to trust your florist’s expertise. In doing so, your wedding flowers will be the envy of all.

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LAKE GENEVA

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UNIQUE CEREMONIES special locations

Unique sites can help create an interesting and memorable event. Popular locations require advance booking usually six months to a year before the wedding date. Most require a 50 percent deposit when you reserve them with the balance due seven to 10 days before the event. Refundable security deposits are usually required, and some facilities may request a special liability insurance policy. In

selecting

unique

reception

site,

consider the different restrictions regarding food, alcohol, smoking, music and hours of operation. Some locations may require that you use an in-house caterer or one chosen from a preferred list. Some sites will provide tables and chairs, but many require that you

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or your caterer provide your own furniture, as well as linens and china. Check the kitchen facilities as many sites have only a small kitchen or require that caterers bring a tent for food set up and service. Keep in mind that not all unique sites will allow you to have your reception inside the facility. Often historic homes are available for your guests to tour, but the event itself must be held in the gardens. If that is the case, be sure to include money in your budget for a tent to accommodate your guests in case of rain. Make sure your special site is appropriate for your wedding needs and fits your unique

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with an eloquence that is extremely unique.

simple questions “WHY?” Why have you

So here is my Answer.

Hugh Hefner chose Lake Geneva as the

decided to have a Lake Geneva Wedding?

home for the nationally acclaimed Playboy

There are a lot of great reasons to have a

Club & Resort, now the Grand Geneva Resort

wedding in lake Geneva. Your reasons may

& Spa.

vary but here are some good ones:

If your into to a nautical theme, you can’t

It’s Gorgeous. It is one of the most

beat lake Geneva. The Geneva Lake area is

beautiful Lakes in North America. Geneva

the home of Buddy Melges, 1972 Olympic

Lake is the second deepest lake in Wisconsin

yachting gold medallist and helmsman of

(5,500 acres, 152 feet deep, 21 miles around,

the winning America’s Cup team in 1992.

3 miles wide, and 9 miles long). An has many

There are several regatta’s throughout the

deep caves and is rumored to have a sea

summer.

monster similar to Loch Ness living deep within.

It may be the best wedding your guests ever attend! Give them a vacation on the way

It is the original Chicago destination and

to your wedding! Lake Geneva is hopping

reminiscent of the roaring 20’s and GREAT

with boaters, swimmers, parasailers and

events. It is and always has been one of the

paddleboarders. The shopping is incredible,

best party towns in the country… but comes

the nightlife impeccable, and there are more

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A GORGEOUS LAKE resorts and Bed and Breakfasts than you

So how do you find the best? Well I think

could probably visit in a year. Lake Geneva’s

you have! Premiere Bride proudly displays

unique 26 mi shore path along with Boat

the best Lake Geneva has to offer! So “why

Tours, Skiing, Horseback riding, hunting,

choose Lake Geneva?” There are so many

fishing and all kinds of other activities make

great reasons to choose Lake Geneva, I think

this one of the best gifts you could give back

the better question is “why wouldn’t you

to your guests.

choose Lake Geneva!”

But more importantly in regard planning a wedding, it offers some of the best wedding resorts in the Midwest often at a fraction of the cost of a Downtown Chicago Venue.

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Wedding vendors know their town like no other. From wedding planners, officiants, photographers, and florists and more you will find some of the best customer service available and delivered with a smile and a warm welcoming handshake.

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A SMALL WEDDING IN A BIG WAY Planning (or pivoting to) a smaller wedding

Due to the pandemic, many have had to pivot

Since many couples shifted back their 2020

their planning. Couples rescheduled, pared

wedding date, Saturdays are filling up fast in the

down their guest lists, and largely scrambled to

foreseeable future. This means a rise in Sunday,

rearrange and reimagine. We’ve seen a surge in

Friday, and even mid-week weddings. One good

smaller weddings done up in a big way. Whether

thing about a weekday wedding: Your dream

you’re choosing a small wedding out of want or

venue will likely be more wallet-friendly.

need, here are some things to consider.

Couples are also embracing nature, taking any chance to host some or all of their wedding

A NEW VISION

outside. Live-streaming and wedding watch

On the heels of 2020’s uncertainties, there are a

parties are on the rise, as is the desire for

few key changes many couples are encountering

professional videography services to fully capture

as they plan weddings in 2022 and beyond. First

the day for friends and family at home.

up, streamlining the guest list. Brides and grooms are choosing smaller, intimate affairs in an effort to keep guests at ease and conform to any local

SMALL WEDDING, BIG STYLE While a small wedding limits guest count— and a post-2020 wedding may limit options for

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Just a scenic, 13-minute ride from Lake Geneva is Southeastern Wisconsin’s premier venue for indoor/outdoor weddings, corporate events, fundraisers, conferences and more. Veterans Terrace is located in historic downtown Burlington and is situated on the banks of the White River and Echo Lake dam. As a bonus, we’re blessed with a front row seat to the most stunning lakeside sunsets every evening. We’d love to host your wedding and look forward to sharing our passion for weddings, corporate events and our wonderful small town with you! Check out our 3-D tour at www.veteransterrace.com.

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SMALL WEDDING IN A BIG WAY THOUGHTFUL THROUGHOUT

dates and venues—there are also boundless, exciting opportunities for creativity. Because of

While couples want to plan a day that’s

the modest number of guests, couples are able

beautiful to behold, there’s also a focus on

to allocate budget funds elsewhere. Consider

keeping guests safe and healthy. As such,

detail-driven tablescapes, larger-than-life floral

weddings are leaning heavily on thoughtfulness.

installations, and characterful rentals to create

To limit points of contact throughout the day,

the ultimate atmosphere. Think outside the box to

consider giving each guest a personalized

create the small wedding of your wildest dreams.

welcome box complete with their wedding

Brides and grooms are getting creative with

program, favors, and more. Rethink passed

entertainment, too. There’s still uncertainty

appetizers in favor of individual charcuterie

surrounding crowded dance floors, so couples

boards or boxes of snacks. Perhaps seat guests

are either ensuring ample space to spread out or

in smaller, spaced-out clusters, rather than at

dreaming up a fun alternative. From musicians

crowded banquet tables.

to live painters to dancers, there are countless

With the right attitude and imaginative

ways to keep guests entertained even off the

thinking, an intimate wedding can be the

dance floor. It might also help to think of your

wedding of your dreams. Make the most of your

intimate wedding as a glorious dinner party and

small numbers, focus on the marriage, and

find inspiration in that. With an intimate group,

you’re sure to find that a small wedding can be

the vibe can be more communal and casual.

perfect in a big way.

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& DESSERTS a sweet ending

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CAKES & DESSERTS A SWEET ENDING YOUR WEDDING CAKE

ice cream sundaes or everyone’s favorite boost, a

Classic tiered cakes crowned with fresh

coffee bar, are fitting additions to any celebration.

flowers and porcelain toppers are never out of

TIERED STYLE

style. But there are lots of ways to freshen up tradition or even stray from it entirely, while still

Tiered cakes are a timeless choice for a

serving a sweet that is timeless, delicious, and

reason — they’re impressive, eye-catching,

uniquely you.

and make for a very pretty picture. There’s no end to the myriad of styles you can apply to

DESSERT DECISIONS

this classic design. Tiers might be adorned with

The look and feel of your sweet treat should

textural elements or ruffles for a cake with lots

match the rest of your wedding day, whether

of delightful dimension. Metallic luster or edible

that’s

sequins and gold leafing bring the glam. For more

classic

elegance,

rustic

romance,

colorful weddings, consider a painted, illustrative,

whimsical fun, or megawatt glam. If your wedding is black tie, a traditional tiered

or ombre cake that draws out the color story of

wedding cake is probably the way to go. If your

your wedding. Watercolor, geode, sculptural, or

wedding is outdoors or in a barn, a traditional

tile-inspired designs are modern showstoppers,

cake, bunt cake, lattice-topped pies or cookies

while painted or fondant monogramming and

add ample charm to the scene. A candy buffet,

lace details are a classic, elegant way to go.

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invite guests to make s’mores or build their

While a lone tiered cake can be a stunner,

own sundaes, complete with a well-stocked

there are lots of ways to feature your dessert

toppings bar. A display brimming with deep-

table as décor. Instead of just one large

fried confections can be fun and whimsical. Or

wedding cake, consider three to five smaller

choose two desserts - one bride’s pick and one

tiered cakes displayed at staggered heights.

groom’s pick. For winter weddings, a coffee or

Cupcakes are another way to expand your

hot chocolate bar with an array of toppings

wedding cake’s presence: Try showcasing the

(marshmallows, whipped cream, peppermint

central cake surrounded by towers of matching

sticks) is a cozy addition.

cupcakes. You can even place a small cake at

SWEETS TO SIP

the center of each dinner table so the dessert can double as a centerpiece.

Who says dessert must be merely edible — why not drinkable, too? For winter weddings,

A LITTLE VARIETY It’s not uncommon to see a traditional

hot chocolate bars are a cozy way for guests to warm up. Have help-yourself hot cocoa

cake paired with other sweets like cookies,

dispensers

truffles, or whole tables chock full of candy.

marshmallows,

At an outdoor or summer wedding, you might

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Selecting your

CAKES & DESSERTS Ask the Right Questions!

• Do you specialize in any certain styles or flavors? • What do you recommend for an outdoor/seasonal reception? • Can you customize a cake from a photo/idea? • Can you match the cake colors to fabric swatches or flowers? • Can you create individual cakes for wedding favors? • Can you create specialized cakes for certain dietary needs? • Do you offer a tasting? • How long do you need to prepare the cake at the reception? • Do you offer instruction on how to cut the cake? • Will you supply a container to freeze the top of the cake? • Will you charge for any supports or bases on the cake? May I return them for a refund? • Do you provide a plateau or stand for the cake? If so, what is the charge? May I return it for a refund? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? deltalow.com

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• Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much?

CAKES & DESSERTS A SWEET ENDING sticks. Consider hiring a barista for a portion

PRICING

of the evening to whip up lattes, cappuccinos,

Wedding cakes are typically priced by the

and espresso drinks to compliment pastries,

slice, depending on the style, ingredients, size,

biscotti, and specialty chocolates.

and embellishments. Your reception site might also charge a plating fee, often per person, to

FINDING A BAKERY Whatever you decide on, take advantage of

cut and serve the cake. But ask about this; it might be negotiable.

all food tastings. That shouldn’t be hard to do when desserts on the tasting menu! Go with

THE FIRST BITE

your gut and choose the dessert you deem

If you’re planning on a traditional cake

the tastiest, but also factor in the bakery’s

cutting, make sure you have a knife and lifter

efficiency and professionalism. The baker

set to go; these might be engraved with your

should return your calls and emails in a timely

initials or decorated with ribbons in your

manner, be flexible with your needs, have some

wedding colors. Traditionally, the bride grasps

familiarity with your reception venue, and

the knife with her right hand and the groom

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E RTAINMENT your sound track Imagine a wedding without a

soundtrack. Sounds crazy, right? From moving songs at the ceremony to classy cocktail hour tunes to the late-night dance jams, music does so much to set the tone at a wedding. Here are the many ways you might incorporate music into your wedding day, and some helpful tips for ensuring that your soundtrack goes off without a hitch.

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MUSIC / ENTERTAINMENT YOUR WEDDING SOUNDTRACK CEREMONY MUSIC What have you always envisioned for the soundtrack to your ceremony? A vocalist? String quartet? Solo pianist? When weighing your options for ceremony musicians, consider your vision, but also look to your wedding’s style and venue; make sure there is harmony between the location and the music you choose. Think back to past weddings you’ve attended. What did you like about the music for each ceremony? What didn’t work so well? Did you cry like a baby when friends of bride

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played a charming, acoustic tune? Did you cringe when the groom’s cousin, even with the best of intentions, sang entirely off-key? Your guests could likely react the same way, so choose wisely! Once you and your fiancé have some ideas in mind, check out local musicians. Visit bridal shows, review bridal publications and online sources like premierbride.com, or ask for referrals from recently married friends or from your ceremony officiant. You could also work with an experienced talent or booking agency that offers convenient, one-stop-shopping for all your wedding music needs. Narrow down your options, and arrange meetings to hear your musicians and singers in person before signing any contracts.

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After you’ve secured musicians for your ceremony, they can help you decide on what songs to include. Most musicians who specialize in weddings have a lot of valuable experience and will be a great resource for song suggestions. Your ceremony officiant will also be helpful in guiding your musical selections. Also, you may have to have the music approved by the officiant, depending on your ceremony location.

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day. Conversation is key during cocktails and

If you go with your reception’s DJ or band,

dinner, so the tunes should set the mood, but

make sure they keep it on the softer side. You

not intrude.

might even want to make a list of songs to be

For live music, some solid options include chamber music, classical or acoustic guitar, or

played during this time to keep the soundtrack on, well, track.

Selecting Music &

EN TERTAINMENT Ask the Right Questions! Questions!

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• Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much?

MUSIC / ENTERTAINMENT YOUR WEDDING SOUNDTRACK RECEPTION AND DANCING MUSIC Let’s face it, this is one critical decision that can make or break an entire wedding. First and foremost, ask yourself: live band or DJ? While there are pros and cons to each, it always comes down to personal taste and budget. Start researching musicians early in

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the wedding planning process. This way, once you find someone you like, availability is less likely to be an issue. Live music gives the evening a sort of festive energy and is a wonderful option if your budget

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offer an almost infinite variety of music – truly something for everyone. Some keys to finding

Consider your ceremony and reception

happiness in a DJ: 1) If possible, see them live

site and how this might impact your choice

before booking. 2) Consider personality. Are

of music and entertainment. Communicate

you looking for a crazy-fun, “put a ring on it”

with your site manager so you’re aware of any

party animal or an upscale, keep-it-classy

restrictions and so that he/she is aware of your

entertainer? 3) Ask for, and follow up on,

plans ahead of time. If your entertainment has

several references. 4) Communicate. Clarify

never performed at your chosen ceremony

what songs and events (first dance, father &

or reception site before, ask the site manager

bride dance, bouquet & garter toss, etc.) you

when they can visit the venue to make sure it

do or do not wish to include. Decide on the

meets their needs in terms of space, electricity,

details ahead of time; make a “do not play”

and lighting.

list of any songs you simply can’t stand and

As with other wedding vendors, make sure

a “must play” list of songs you don’t want to

the ins and outs of your agreement with your

miss.

musicians is very clear and in writing. Once

All things considered, whether you go for

you’ve done your homework, hired musicians

a band or a DJ, your dance party will be a

for each stage of your wedding day, and worked

guaranteed success as long as you treat your

out the details, you can rest easy. That is, until

guests to a wide variety of music.

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Wedding Songs FIRST DANCE 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9

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Can’t Help Falling In Love Perfect From The Ground Up Speechless Beautiful Crazy Thinking Out Loud All Of Me Yours Tennessee Whiskey

FATHER DAUGHTER DANCE 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8

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I Loved Her First My Little Girl Butterfly Kisses My Wish My Girl Cinderella Isn’t She Lovely What a Wonderful World

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My Wish A Song For Mama Humble and Kind I Hope You Dance What A Wonderful World Simple Man Days Like This You’ll Be In My Heart

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The Git Up Shut Up And Dance Can’t Stop the Feeling! I Wanna Dance With Somebody (Who Loves Me) Boot Scootin’ Boogie

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Beyonce Meghan Trainor Shania Twain Cyndi Lauper David Guetta Feat Flo Rida & Nicki Minaj

Ginuwine Nelly Queen Def Leppard Marvin Gaye

Maroon 5 James Taylor Archies DNCE Def Leppard

Sugar How Sweet It ls (To Be loved By You) Sugar, Sugar Cake By The Ocean Pour Some Sugar On Me

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Bring ‘Em Out Forever Can’t Stop The Feeling! I Gotta Feeling Marry You

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Semisonic Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes Journey Donna Summer Billy Joel

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Tennessee Whiskey Why Don’t We Just Dance I Wanna Dance With Somebody (Who Loves Me) The Way You Look Tonight My Girl

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CEREMONY PROCESSIONAL 1 The Piano Guys 2 3 4 5

A Thousand Years (Instrumental (Piano/Cello Remake) Can’t Help Falling in Love Marry Me A Thousand Years Canon In D

Haley Reinhart Train Christina Perri Pachelbel

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Closing Time (I’ve Had) The Time Of My Life Don’t Stop Believin’ Last Dance Piano Man

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Single Ladies (Put a Ring On It) Dear Future Husband Man! I Feel Like a Woman! Girls Just Want to Have Fun Where Them Girls At

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PHOTO BOOTHS

FUN WITH PHOTO BOOTHS

capturing the excitement and emotion of your guests A wedding is just one day, so everyone

pictures right away, in the traditional photo

knows photos are a great way of capturing

booth setting, with the four black and white

the excitement and emotion for years to

prints on one single strand. This is a great way

come. The professional photographer usually

to give guests a souvenir right away, especially

does a great job of snapping the couple, but

because it’s a unique type of print. Other photo booths just continuously shoot

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throughout the night, and provide the couple

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pics of your friends and family members

Then, guests could go to an online database to choose which photos they want and print them at their own convenience. The newest innovation in photo booths is a flip book which is more interactive and involves a true keepsake for everyone. With a flip book, a representative from the company is on hand acting as kind of a mini-director encouraging guests to perform skits or don playful costumes. At the end, it’s put together into a video and everyone receives a copy. One fun way to really spice up the photos is to supply props like goofy hats, accessories,

In the past, couples used to leave disposable

or fake mustaches for guests to poke around

cameras at tables for guests to point and

with. A chalkboard or dry erase board is also

shoot, but the chance in finding a gem

fun so family and friends can doodle a special

amongst those blurry, low-quality shots is

message or sentiment and capture it on film. A

rare, especially when kids get their hands on

giant, decorative frame is another fun prop to

them. Plus, the cost of developing film is going

create the picture-within-a-picture look.

up steadily.

When deciding on a rental, choose one

Instead, a fun, plucky alternative can be to

where you can really customize it, if you’d

get a photo booth. Photo booth rentals are

like. You could ask for the background to be

becoming popular at wedding receptions. Not

matching the colors of the wedding, or add

only do you get too see everyone in their finest

your names or the date to a sign at the top of

for your big day, but your guests can take

the photo. But no matter how basic it is, your

home a quality memory from the wedding.

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will make it a truly personal memory!

PHOTO BOOTHS

Selecting a

PHOTO BOOTH

Ask the Right Questions! Questions!

• What exactly is included in your package price? Props? Color choice? Personal message? Travel Charge? • What does it look like, what are the space requirements and when should it be on? • Will there be an attendant present the entire time? • Do you use a high quality printer and photo paper? • What are the payment and cancellation policies? • Are there any current promotions or discounts available? • When will you setup and breakdown? • How many people can fit into the Photo Booth? • Have you worked at my venue before? Do you provide references? • Is there a limit on the number of pictures taken or printed? • Is the Photo Booth handicap accessible? kaybacon.com

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PHOTO BOOTHS

ROMANCING THE MOOD Something old, new, borrowed and you!

Today’s options don’t end with the traditional

your finds. Do things need cleaning or repair.

party rental store. A decorating and planning

Too much work prior, during, or immediately

business can also offer chair covers and linens

after your wedding can really dampen the

option as well along with event design. They can

overall enjoyment.

help provide floral, tabletop, specialty draping

Eliminate the stress without sacrificing style.

for a dramatic effect along with lanterns and

It’s better to keep it simple then to overwork

columns.

family and friends. These design and decorating

Their expertise is working with you to create

specialists will work within your budget. They

something special and personal. Whether

have enormous experience and knowledge

it’s a simple, yet elegant table centerpiece,

in the wedding industry. If they don’t have a

to a complete transformation using ceiling

product, they’ll know where to get it for you.

chandeliers and draping, these professionals

Some companies offer rental for items like fine

help create an air of individuality by helping

leather lounges. That’s right; an intimate seating

incorporate intimate touches throughout the

area brought right to you. Couch groupings,

ceremony and reception. These details come

which vary in size and style depending on your

through in the decor - everything from lighting

needs and space, are just the thing for mingling

to furniture.

guests who are all danced out. Beyond seating, your

think about including other furniture to add a

big day affects a warm, close-knit feeling

comfortable touch here and there. These pieces

amongst your guests. They can help you select

add to the fashion, but they can also serve a

one decorative element to focus on such as

function. A decked out dresser makes an inviting

centerpieces. Give each table a homespun,

dessert table and a spruced up mailbox or bird

made-with-love feeling by including an object

cage is perfect for collecting cards.

Eclectic

accessorizing

throughout

that represents you as a couple. Think: old

Other fun items can also be found like large

books (if you’re big readers), records (if

picture frames and Bride & Groom chairs.

you’re into music), or film canisters (if you’re

Whether used for a dramatic image of the

cinephiles). Prefer flowers only? Miscellaneous

wedding couple or fun interactive images for

bud vases and mason jars let you grow your

your guests, it will certainly be remembered by

own garden at each table.

all.

These vases and other table decor can be

In the end, there’s no right or wrong way to go

brought from home, borrowed, or rented

about adding personal touches to your wedding

at more and more locations. Local small

day. Just know that these decor & event services

businesses offer an array of vintage plates,

can really make the process easier, produce a

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look like you. Your partner fell in love with your beautiful face and would never want you to cover it up! But you can still have fun with it and pamper yourself. Define your eyebrows with a pencil and try fake eyelashes so that your eyes really pop in photos. Highlight key places, try a bold lip color, or use a primer under your foundation, lipstick, and eyeshadow so that it lasts longer. Whatever you do, wear waterproof mascara to fend off any streaks from tears of joy.

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If you have any problem areas that you want

wedding day, and this can be achieved with the use

your makeup artist to address, be sure to ask! If

of a makeup artist. A good makeup artist will have

you have any tattoos that you might want covered

a strong reputation with a long history. If you find

up on your big day, let your makeup artist know

a makeup artist you like, then consider doing a test

ahead of time so that he/she can prepare for using

run so that you both know what you are going for

a little more makeup than usual. Tattoo cover up

on your wedding day.

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When choosing a makeup artist, take a look at

together, and maybe even an airbrush.

his/her portfolio as this can tell a lot about their

If you cannot afford the use of a makeup artist,

work. Ask for references or recommendations

then go on line and look at some videos to assist

from past clients and ask them about the speed

you in proper makeup application. Also, go to

and accuracy of what they were looking for as

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opposed to what they received. Also interview

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the makeup artist and ask what types of makeup

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DRINK UP

give wedding day spirits a special touch Martini,” “Something Blue Punch,” or, a play

preferred way of drinking to the health of

on the couple’s last name. For a bride and

family and friends. What better time to toast

groom who don’t agree on beverages, go for

life and love than at a wedding? Let’s look at

His and Her drinks…perhaps pink sangria

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“Cheers! Salud! Prost!” We all have a

(“Blue-eyed Groom”). If you’re connoisseurs of a particular type of alcohol, then create an entire focal table dedicated to your spirits of choice. Add a fun touch to the table with handmade signs: “Whiskey for the boys!” or “Eat, drink, and be married!” And if you want things to get really personal (and your venue allows bringing in alcohol), be your own bartender. Pre-mix drinks in mason jars and keep them on ice. Or, if brewing is your thing, brew your own beer. It doesn’t get much more unique than that! Beyond booze, incorporate nonalcoholic

friendly, to bolster a day brimming with drink

refreshments so that there’s a little something

infused merriment.

for everyone. Kegs of root beer are fun for the

At the reception, lead with refreshments.

kids. Large jugs of lemonade are not only thirst

During cocktail hour, greet guests with

quenching at a summertime wedding, but they

personalized drink glasses doubling as place

also make for a very pretty picture. When it’s

cards. Try attaching a miniature nametag to

time for dessert or a late night second wind,

paper straws or scrawl names on chalkboard-

consider a coffee bar complete with flavor

style stickers and stick them on rustic mason

shots and donut pops as stirring straws. In

jars. Another way to individualize the drinking

the winter months, a hot cacao bar with all the

experience: tiny bottles of champagne waiting

marshmallow trimmings and peppermint stick

at each table. Wedding favors for each guest

trappings leaves a warm, lasting impression.

might also be drinkable. If you’re a coffee-

Want an even more unique-factor? Try

loving couple, gift a small bag of coffee

soaking fruit in spirits! Popular combinations

grounds labeled “the perfect blend” or “love

include

is brewing.”

tequila-soaked watermelon wedges. Aside

champagne

soaked

berries

and

To give potables even more personality,

from fruit, any gummy candy can also soak

ask the bartender to create a signature drink

up spirits for a yummy treat your guests are

for the bride and groom. Be sure to call

sure to be buzzing about long after the boozy

the drink something clever, like “Marry Me

gummy-bear buzz has worn off.

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GROOM MOST HANDSOME MAN In warm weather, think lighter colors

When

shopping

for

formalwear,

bring

(tan, light grey, white). In all climates,

color swatches of the bridesmaids’ dresses

darker

colors

and pictures of formalwear styles he likes.

always

look

(nav y, sharp.

charcoal, Ties,

black) and

Nowadays, rental suits come in various fits:

cummerbunds can match the wedding

vests,

classic, modern, and slim. But buying your

colors, or compliment them with neutrals.

formalwear promises custom tailoring and the

Add some personalit y with colored socks

best fit. Fit is key to looking your best.

and suspenders, or unique boutonnieres.

Out-of-town groomsmen can get measured

If the bride’s gown is ivor y, the men

at any formalwear store or local tailor’s near

should wear ivor y shir ts, not white, to

them, and send their measurements to the

compliment her.

groom or to your formalwear store.

Semiformal and formal wedding st yles

Someone should be designated to return all

var y, so a groom should work with a

formalwear to the store on time in order to

formalwear consultant to get the right

avoid late fees, which can get quite expensive

look for his wedding ’s level of formalit y.

adding up the per day, per outfit costs.

The most formal look is “white tie,” calling

While there are etiquette guidelines for

for a traditional black tux with tails, a vest,

a groom’s attire, remember that men’s

a white winged- collar shir t, and bow tie.

formalwear doesn’t have to be stuffy.

Selecting his

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N SPORTATION you have arrived ! From your home to the ceremony to photo locations to the reception and beyond, it’s fitting that the bride, groom, and bridal party travel in style. Some opt for limos and other luxury vehicles, others take a turn on the trolley, and some go by golf cart. There are lots of fun, fashionable ways to get from here to there on your wedding day. Here are some ideas.

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TRANSPORTATION YOU HAVE ARRIVED! TO START: TAKE A HEAD COUNT

day. Unlike some other forms of transportation,

Your search for transportation starts once

a limo can be booked for an entire day, so you

you decide how many people you’ll be moving.

could get a high-class ride to pick you up at the

Do you want just the bride and the groom in a

house, deliver you to the ceremony, reception,

vehicle, or is the entire wedding party heading

and even to the airport to jet off on your

to the reception together? If the whole party

honeymoon. Most companies have a one or two

is going, do you want to include their spouses

hour minimum for their services, so think about

or dates? What about each couple’s parents?

what would be the most cost-effective way to

Once you make those decisions, you can start

keep the limo around. If you want a car for both

searching for transport based on size. Then, you

going to and leaving from the ceremony, it might

can pick out a limousine, a coach party bus, a

be more affordable to hire two separate cars,

trolley, or something more unique and personal.

rather than pay for the vehicle to sit there during

Whatever you decide on, keep safety in mind

a long reception.

while revelers are bouncing from place to place.

There are quite a few options for limos. A formal limousine seats four people, and

LIMO LIFE

sometimes a bride and groom will travel to the

If there is a day to splurge on this iconic

ceremony alone. Or, if you’d like to include the

luxury vehicle, your wedding is certainly the

wedding party, stretch limos can allow for six

Selecting your

TRA NSPORTATION Ask the Right Questions! Questions!

• What types of transportation modes do you offer? What are their features and benefits? • How many people does each option comfortably fit? • What packages do you offer? What do they include? • Are your charges based on time or distance? • Do you have a minimum rental time? What are the charges after that time? • What does your insurance cover? • Can you guarantee a certain vehicle for the day of my wedding? • How will the driver be dressed? • Do you or can we do any decorating? • How far in advance must I book your services? • What is your cancellation policy? idealimpressions.com

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• Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much?

TRANSPORTATION

YOU HAVE ARRIVED! to 10. For larger parties and a flashier mode of

have a very small wedding and the ceremony

transport, sport utility models like the Hummer

and reception are separated by a long distance,

and Explorer are popular and unique both inside

a party bus can also be a fun way to get all the

and out. The larger models are often posh, with

guests in on the party right away.

flashy lights and decorative interiors.

Like limousine services, passenger and luxury coach companies require a minimum number of

CATCH THE COACH

hours. The size and type of coach will determine

For larger wedding parties or for those that

the hourly rate. Depending on the size of your

want a little extra elbow room, a party bus or

party, it may make sense to hire two coaches

a luxury coach is a great way to travel from

— maybe a luxury coach for the bride, groom,

the ceremony to the reception. These boast all

and attendants, and a passenger coach for the

the amenities and style of a luxury limousine,

guests. This provides guests with a little more

but with more room to spare; they seat up to

flexibility, too.

10 people very comfortably. For even bigger parties, a passenger coach or a party bus can

TAKE THE TROLLEY

seat anywhere from 21 to 49 people. This can be

A fun and photo-ready alternative to a limo or

a great way to let a few special guests and family

a passenger coach is a trolley, if it’s available in

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TRANSPORTATION YOU HAVE ARRIVED! between 20 and 35 people, so they’re great for larger parties and for adding on some family members or friends into the mix. With their antique look and old world charm, they’ll lend a lovely, elegant touch to this wedding day detail. Since most have outdoor decks, these are especially fun in small towns, so you can take a peek outside and watch onlookers wave at the newlyweds. Plus, there’s no transportation alternative that looks as great in photos!

UNIQUE IDEAS Limos, party buses and trolleys are fabulous, traditional options, but some couples might opt for something more personal or creative. A horse-drawn carriage is a romantic, vintage option especially if you can decorate it with

• Pack liquid refreshments that won’t leave a mark, such as sparkling water. Wine or coffee can discolor your gown. For after the ceremony, you can go with champagne or mimosas, but be careful not to overindulge. • If you go for pictures between the ceremony and reception, champagne glasses can make a cute picture. • Be mindful of the time. Though cruising around can be fun, you don’t want to keep your guests waiting! • Have a point person. Weddings are busy, chaotic days, so it’s wise to have someone closely associated with the wedding party, such as the best man or a family member, designated to coordinate with the chauffeur to make sure everything is on schedule.

your wedding colors or pull up to your waving

DOWN TO DETAILS

guests. Vintage cars are also great photo ops and

Make sure to confirm transportation booking

add a touch of timeless class. Cars such as an

and verify pick-up and departure times well

antique Rolls Royce or a ’69 Mustang are fun

in advance of your wedding dates. And don’t

and something you don’t get to ride in every day.

be afraid to ask for a test drive! In a written

Or, as with everything else in the wedding,

contract, look for these things: • Name and contact information for you and the company (including cell phone!)

transportation could be an opportunity to add a truly personal touch. Maybe you met at a Harley rally — rev up your twin Hogs! Perhaps you’re both avid golfers — drive off in a golf cart! Or maybe you share a love of biking — don’t be afraid to wheel over on a tandem. Personality is what makes weddings memorable, so if it’s possible to reflect your own style in your wedding transportation, go for it!

TIPS & TRICKS • Customize your playlist! Ask how the sound system works in your limo or party bus and come prepared to pump up the jams.

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• Date, time and address of all pick-up and drop-off locations • Type and number of vehicles rented, and amenities supplied with each • Exact hours of vehicle rental • Total cost, including gas, mileage, tip, and overtime fees • Deposit amount, balance, due date, and cancellation policy • Signatures, including yours, company’s representative

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BACHELOR(ETTE) PARTIES

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Both

the

bachelor

and

bachelorette parties celebrate the end of singlehood and include the wedding party and same-sex friends of the bride or groom. Renting a room in a restaurant or hotel allows guests to fully enjoy themselves. It also makes planning easy since an experienced staff handles most of the food arrangements and cleanup. Bridal showers and bachelorette parties can also be combined into one event, especially if the same group of friends will be attending both. If a night of barhopping is the choice, treat yourself to a limousine ride for both elegance and safety. Consider having your bachelor(ette) party at a

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casino. A professional staff and dealers, gaming tables and equipment can even be brought to YOUR location. Casinos offer assistants to help plan your event. Professional staffs of waitresses, bartenders and anyone else you might need can even be provided. A

home

party

might

feature

diverse

entertainment. For example, a comedy gram or some other entertainment is an option and it can be catered with prepared party trays. A bachelorette party can even take the form of a shower featuring lingerie, gag gifts or items to be used on the honeymoon. Bachelor and bachelorette parties are best held a week before the wedding and not the

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BACHELOR(ETTE) PARTIES

BACHELOR (ETTE) PARTIES take on a new look

If you think you know all about these

planned out, orchestrated and included in the

traditional events, think again! Bachelor and

modest pricing. Choosing a destination close to

bachelorette parties are about friends getting

home, within driving distance, or at a mid point

together, sharing old stories and, perhaps,

that is convenient to all members, is a plus. Too

creating some new memories. A weekend

often out of town guys must make two costly

immersed in an outdoor adventure with plenty

trips to the wedding city. The same concepts and

of time before and after for fine dining and visits

advantages apply for the gals.

to the local pubs is a great way to do just that! Adventures include white water rafting, cattle drives, deep sea fishing, ATV desert rides, sky diving … well you get the idea. The adventure also can be adjusted to fit the skill level of the group. The adventure bachelor parties give the best man, who didn’t take “Party Planning 101,” a chance to sign up the group and then relax. From the time the groomsmen arrive at the destination city until they depart, everything is

The questions you or your fiancé need to be thinking about are: 1. How many people are involved and where are they coming from? 2. What type of adventure is appropriate? 3. What is our price range, considering all the members of the group? 4. How much time is there to schedule the event? 5. How do I learn more?

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HONEYMOON FLY ME TO THE MOON! WHEN TO TRAVEL

Weddings have resumed and many couples are ready to enjoy the honeymoon they

Enjoying the afterglow of the wedding,

envisioned. Some concerns loom and should

maximizing time away from work or the

be taken into consideration. We strongly

best weather conditions are all factors that

recommend using a travel agent for their

determine when couples are booking their

expertise and experience to help navigate any

honeymoon. If you’re traveling to a spot that’s

restrictions or special issues you need to be

popular with college students or families with

aware of. Requirements can be fluid and change

young kids, it’s best to time your trip when

depending on COVID rates. Most countries are

school is in session. Honeymooning during

requiring proof of vaccination and/or a negative

spring break can change the vibe of your entire

COVID PCR test within a certain time prior to

trip.

travel. Please note that compliancy is the client’s

GO TROPICAL. For the most active of couples,

responsibility regarding testing and filling out

your honeymoon is one time when it’s okay

forms per destination prior to arrival.

to sit back and be pampered. If you choose a

The cost of using a travel agent is generally

tropical destination, an all-inclusive resort is a

zero and an experienced agent will save time

most relaxing way to go, and most places offer

and greatly reduce your stress. If anything goes

a honeymoon package.

wrong (cancelled flight, lost reservation, etc.), your travel agent is just a phone call away.

ALL ABROAD!

If you’ve never been abroad

before, make sure this is an experience you’re both fully committed to. Planning an

WHAT SHOULD COUPLES CONSIDER?

international trip for the first time can be

If you do plan to travel internationally and

stressful. But if you’re up to the challenge, the

don’t have an up-to-date passport we highly

result can be a most romantic, unforgettable

recommend doing so as soon as possible. With

experience.

more countries opening for travel and cruise

STAYING LOCAL. If you don’t have the funds for

lines sailing again, the demand for passports

a plane ticket abroad or can’t get away for a

will be high and there could be delays.

long trip, consider what’s close to home. You’ll

If your destination is not open, consider

probably be surprised to learn that there’s a

planning something smaller and keep planning

quaint bed & breakfast just a few miles away.

the trip you have always wanted for a later date.

Turn off your cell phones and focus on each

As for countries that you should avoid, we suggest visiting the U.S. Dept. of State’s website

other. It will seem as if you’re lightyears away. TAKE A CRUISE.

If you can’t decide on a

(travel.state.gov) for current travel conditions

destination, a cruise might be for you. If you

along with updates and travel advisories on the

want to see Europe, try a Mediterranean cruise.

horizon. Hotels and Resorts in tourist areas have

If you know you want to go tropical but can’t

really stepped up their cleaning and sanitizing

decide on a spot, island hop on a Caribbean

to help assure safety of guests. You’ll see table

cruise. And if you can’t decide whether you

spacing in restaurants and staff wearing masks

want to relax or be active, a cruise will give the

throughout resorts.

chance to do both.

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HONEYMOON Aruba is literally a desert island in the Caribbean, meaning much of its landscape

Aruba — but even on days with some rain, there’s also ample sunshine.

resembles the Southwest, right down to the cacti. The coastline, on the other hand, makes

WHEN TO VISIT ARUBA

way for sprawling, palm-lined beaches and aqua-

If traveling during the high season of mid-

blue water. For lovers of nature and diverse

December through mid-April, know that the

landscapes, there’s much to love about Aruba.

island tends to be more crowded since many people are looking to escape the cold. Over

GETTING THERE

these months, hotel rooms go quickly and prices

Aruba is easy to get to from the U.S. All you

are higher, so be sure to book well in advance.

need to have handy is your passport — and, on

Low season starts in mid-April and lasts until

the heels of Covid, any health documentation

December. Remember, Aruba has gorgeous

required at the time of your trip. When you pack,

weather year-round, so going in the off-season

plan for beach vibes and casual fun in the sun.

can afford you a similar experience with fewer

Formalwear really isn’t needed when you’re on

crowds and lower fares.

island time. Whatever you do, don’t forget your

You could also plan your trip around one of

sunscreen! Even on overcast days, the sun is very

Aruba’s many festivals. There are several music

intense on the island, so ample SPF is a must.

festivals that would be fun for couples who are into that scene. Carnival, which takes place

WEATHER FORECAST

between January and March, is another popular

When it comes to weather, Aruba truly enjoys

time to visit Aruba. Carnival season brings

near-perfect weather in all seasons. The island

weeks of festivities, parades, contests, music,

is located outside of the Hurricane Belt, keeping

and dancing.

it far away from any storms. On occasion, there may be some effects from larger storms, but

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it’s usually just some short rain showers. Most

Aruba is host to a ton of fun options for

rainfall happens between October and January in

lodgings. As you might imagine, there are ample

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ARUBA ON THE WATER

timeshares, apartments for rent, and boutique

From champagne brunch cruises to happy

hotels ranging from the adorable to the height

hour sunset sails to moonlit dinner and dancing

of luxury. Whatever vibe you’re hoping for, you’ll

excursions, there’s no shortage of nautical

find it here.

experiences to be had by boat. The water is so clear around the island, you can enjoy great

ARUBA ON THE BEACH After the stress of wedding planning, maybe

views of coral formations, marine life, and even shipwrecks without ever making a splash.

all you want to do is lay in the sun, soak up some

For all you adventurous water babies, there’s

rays, and cool off in that stunning sea. No one

an incredible variety of activities to be had. You

would blame you for that, and Aruba is just the

can find everything from a snorkeling or scuba

place to kick back and relax. If you stay along

diving cruise to a swim-with-the-dolphins

one of the pristine beaches, your itinerary may

adventure to deep-sea fishing. Skim the sea

take you from beach to pool to cocktails and

with wind and kite surfing — a popular activity

back again. If you’re looking for a resort with a

because of Aruba’s steady stream of trade

luxurious spa experience, you’ll find it in Aruba.

winds and calm pockets of water, making it

Not sure which beach is the right one for you?

perfect for beginners.

Consider Palm Beach, consistently rated one of the best beaches in the world.

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ADVENTUROUS ARUBA BY LAND

views of the island. The Alto Vista Chapel, known

On dry land, animal lovers can horseback ride

as “Pilgrims Church” stands in the hills with a

either through the exciting desert terrain or along

breathtaking view of the Caribbean below. Built

an easy-breezy stretch of coastline. Horses not

in 1750 and reconstructed in 1953, this chapel is

your thing? Rent bikes or mountain bikes to

a sacred place of peace for the locals.

give yourselves a tour of the island. About 20%

If you’re an art lover, the Aruba Art Fair in San

of Aruba is made up of Arikok National Park,

Nicolas is not to be missed. This is a yearly festival

filled with endless trails, caves, natural pools,

where both international and local artists create

flora, wildlife and more. Hikers would surely

incredible street art. To accompany the visual

love exploring the park — just make sure to

art, the three-day festival also includes music,

bring plenty of water, sunscreen, sturdy and

dancing, and other live entertainment.

comfortable shoes, snacks, sunglasses, and a

Looking for a little nightlife? There’s a tour

hat. Feeling sporty? Golfers can swing away at

for that. In addition to ATV tours, hiking tours,

one of Aruba’s three golf courses.

historic walking tours, and food tours, Aruba boasts bar-hopping tours as well. Sounds like a

SIGHTS TO SEE & THINGS TO DO

great way to really let loose and celebrate for an

Which attractions will you pick? Some tourist

evening. And the great thing? After the last island

favorites include the scenic California Lighthouse,

cocktail, the beach will still be there to welcome

first constructed in 1910, with its 360-degree

you back for some romantic R&R.

Budget Your

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Cake & Sweets $500 TO $4,000+

Cakes are often priced “per slice” or how many people it will feed. They are also priced on the level of décor difficulty.

Invitations

$3 -$20+ PER INVITE Invitations have many different options and formats. Your invitation budget will depend on the quantity, number of pieces to the invitation, using a calligrapher and postage. Calligraphy can range from $2 to $8 per invitation depending on the number of pieces you address, the RSVP’s, style of font and ink. Also, keep in mind, some invitations are more than 2 oz which requires more than one stamp!

Catering

$20 TO $75+ PER PERSON Factors that can affect the price; type of venue, choice of food, serving style, and number of servers. Alcohol is not included in price; this is figured on a per person basis too. Alcohol can be estimated at $20 to $50 per person depending on venue, length of open bar and alcohol choices.

Average number of weddings guests is between

75-125

Photography

$1,800 TO $7,000+ Factors that can affect the price; number of hours the photographer shots, number of photographers shooting the event, number of prints and photo album.

Dresses

$99 TO $15,000+ Most brides select a dress between $800 and $3,000. Please budget for alterations which can start at $125 and go up depending on the amount of work. More if it’s not done at the location of purchase.

Average National Wedding in U.S. is around $25,000

Videography

$1,500 TO $6,000+ Factors that can affect the price; number of hours they film, number of videographers, length of wedding video, number of hours of editing

Transportation

Limo buses or limos run on a hourly basis with a typical 4 hour minimum. Distance is also a factor. Minimum charges of $400 are typical and will increase based on size, time, and mileage.

Wedding Planning

$600+ – $3,500+

Flowers

$300 TO $15,000+ Flowers have so many variables and it is hard to give a range because it depends on the quantity of bouquets, center pieces and décor arrangements, the type of flowers, the season or time of year, and how many stems you use. Bridal bouquets could be $125 to $800+ and Bridesmaids from $60 to $250+ depending on what you pick! With flowers, talk to your florist about what you want and estimated budget to come up with a plan!

Décor & Rentals

There are so many elements to this! Chairs can rent for $2 to $20+ per chair not including delivery and set up. Tables can rent for $6 to $75+ depending on style, size not including delivery and set up. Linens can rent for $6 to $75+ depending on style of linen. China, glasses and flat wear can rent for $0.75 to $10+ per setting depending on what you pick!

Day of Coordination starting at $600+, Weekend or Month of starting at $1,500+ and FullService Planning starting at $3,500+. Factors that can affect the price are involvement in the wedding planning process, experience of the wedding coordinator, wedding budget, or number of wedding guests.

Popular wedding months are

June & July

Hair & Makeup $50 TO $200+

Wedding Officiant

$250 TO $500+ A wedding officiate costs vary based on time location and time.

Makeup can run $50 to $125 for a bridesmaid and $50 to $150+ for a bride. Hair can run $50 to $125 for a bridesmaid and $50 to $200+ for a brides’ hair style. Prices might not include hair extensions. There also might be a travel fee!

DJ’s & Musicians $750 TO $10,000+

A professional wedding DJ company will start around $750 and go up to $3,000+ depending on time, date, and experience. Ceremony musicians will start around $100 to $250+ per hour, per musician depending on experience and travel time. Wedding bands could range from $1,000 to $10,000+ depending on how many members, time, and travel.

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DESTINATION WEDDINGS are they right for you?

More and more couples are planning

because brides are busy. Most destination

destination weddings and combining their

wedding resorts around the world have

wedding celebration and honeymoon. Here are

wedding planners who take care of the details

a few reasons why.

so that you don’t have to.

For anyone with a sense of adventure, there

Destination weddings allow couples to

is no limit to the fun you can have when you

express themselves. Often, for the second

choose a destination wedding. That’s why

or third time couple, it is about making a

many brides and grooms are no longer taking

statement and expressing to family and friends

the traditional church route, but instead

an idea of how they see their future together.

looking for the perfect foreign country, distant

Destination weddings can also be taken

mountain or secluded beach. From riding a

care of at once. Usually the wedding planner

camel across the desert to exchanging vows

will handle the flowers, photographer, caterer,

underwater in Mauritius, anything is possible

musicians and reception area, all with your

with a destination wedding.

input. In most cases, the wedding planner will take care of the marriage license too and all you

One reason that so many couples are

have to do is send the necessary documents.

choosing destination weddings nowadays is

PLANNING YOUR

destination wedding Some of the world’s most beautiful wedding and reception venues, photo opportunities, and luxe accommodations can be found far from home, but destination weddings come with special planning challenges.

12 MONTHS BEFORE • choose date & venue • contact venue’s on-site wedding coordinator • research airfare & room rates for your destination • review legal marriage requirements

6 MONTHS BEFORE • reserve block of rooms • book travel • book officiant • purchase travel & wedding insurance • confirm cake, flowers, menu, & decor

9 MONTHS BEFORE • visit resort • tour venue & guest rooms • ask about group discounts • send out save-the-dates & hotel info

3 MONTHS BEFORE • send formal invitations • create wedding day itinerary for your programs

1 MONTH BEFORE • discuss final details with wedding coordinator • finalize vows, music, & schedule • release any extra rooms from your room blocks • have programs printed & obtain additional wedding favors & ship to resort

2 WEEKS BEFORE • make sure you have proper documentation to obtain marriage license • collect all insurance related documents 1 WEEK BEFORE • create a photo shot list for your photographer • share contact info with wedding party • final check with coordinator

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Imagine riding in a horse-drawn carriage through a vibrant autumn forest; snuggling in front of a cozy fire as snowflakes fall gently outside; discovering the first wildflowers of spring along a winding, wooded trail; or basking in the sun on a white sand beach as waves gently lap the shore. With over 300 miles of shoreline and its quiet, wooded landscape dotted with quaint harbor side villages and historic lighthouses; Door County provides an ideal backdrop for a romantic getaway. 4

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HONEYMOON DOOR COUNTY The ten villages that make up Door County offer dozens of specialty shops, galleries and studios to browse through. Local restaurants feature everything from traditional Door County fish boils to candlelight gourmet dinners. Many newlyweds enjoy a winery tour or two at the five wineries in Door County. Others take in one of the many seasonal festivals or sample cultural offerings ranging from chamber music festivals and theater in the woods, to drive-in, double feature movies under the stars.

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For couples who prefer to get away from it all, there are countless breathtaking views in Door County just waiting to be discovered. Cave Point, on Lake Michigan’s shore, is one popular spot for honeymooners, with its spectacular rock formations and pounding waves. And to many, nothing is more romantic than exploring the

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back roads on a bicycle built for two. Some newlyweds enjoy Door County’s shoreline scenes from an elegant concert or dinner cruise, a snug little paddle-boat, a tranquil canoe, or even

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a picnic blanket on the shore. Others comb the waters of Lake Michigan in search of legendary shipwrecks. Even winter can’t put a damper on the romance in Door County, with its picturesque horse-drawn sleigh rides, serene cross-country skiing, snow-laden trees and cozy inns. No matter what the season, budget or lifestyle, Door County is the perfect honeymoon destination. There is a magical lure to Door County that draws couples back again and again. Its closeness to home makes it ideal for romantic getaways long after the honeymoon is over, keeping the romantic spark alive for many years to come. Contact the Door County Visitor Bureau at 800-527-3529 for personal assistance or visit DoorCounty.com.

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December or May, big or small, afternoon or evening, traditional or decidedly not. Whatever your preference, the staff at Stone Harbor Resort will help you make your dream a reality.

Luckily, you don’t have to hop on a plane to get the wonderful benefits of a destination wedding or elopement. Often times, you can have it all right in your own backyard! By turning to a local destination like Door County, a spot just a few hours from your hometown, you can enjoy the thrill of a true get-away with all the convenience of being close to home.

SMART SPENDING Money on your mind? Costs may be lower outside of the city, or you might find you get

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more bang for your buck. Regardless, a local destination will always be more affordable than getting married in a place that’s a plane ride

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reception, rehearsal dinner or engagement party, the Landmark Resort facilities and staff would be delighted to provide a scenic vista, superior service and exceptional food. Are you ready to plan your best day ever?

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HONEYMOON LOCAL DESTINATIONS away. Plus, if most of your guests live within driving distance, it will be more convenient and cost-effective for them, too. A destination

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CHECKLIST

wedding that’s within a few hours of home allows busy guests, especially families with small children, to come and go as needed or desired.

SMALLER CELEBRATIONS A local destination wedding also lends itself to a smaller affair. If you’re looking to invite only a small group of close family or friends, or even keep things family-only, a local destination opens up the possibility of an entire wedding weekend, as opposed to just one night. If you do invite guests to spend the weekend celebrating with you, be sure to

carry on Q Flight confirmation

Q Camera

Q Hotel Confirmation

Q Sunglasses

Q ID (passport and driver's Q Lip balm

license)

Q Credit Cards Q Cash Q Phone

Q Gum/Snacks Q Chargers Q Headphones

for the bride Q Bra/underwear/socks

Q Light jacket or cardigan

Q Bathing suit

Q Sandals

guide for them, or include information on your

Q Shorts

Q Sneakers

wedding website of places to go, things to eat,

Q Tops

Q Heels

Q Jeans

Q Tampons/pads

Q Nice dinner dress

Q Makeup

Q Sundress

Q Skincare

Q Lingerie

Q Jewelry

Q Pajamas

Q Hair tools

consider entertainment along the way. Make a

and sights to see.

DESTINATIONS NEAR YOU If you like the idea of a local destination wedding but don’t know where to start, begin by researching hotels and resorts near you.

for the groom

Everyone who travels to spend your wedding

Q Boxers/socks

Q Suit

weekend with you will require a hotel stay

Q Bathing suit

Q Belt

Q Shorts

Q Pajamas

Q Tops

Q Flip Flops

Q Jeans

Q Sneakers

Q Nice shirt for dinner

Q Dress Shoes

anyway, so hosting the entire celebration at a hotel would be an easy way to approach the wedding planning. Chances are you’ll be able to find a hotel or resort that offers everything you need, right on site. Some resorts even have restaurants, spas, salons, and other amenities

toiletries Q Body wash

Q Q-tips

to keep you and your guests wedding ready,

Q Shampoo/conditioner

Q Hair ties

well fed, and plenty entertained.

Q Toothpaste/toothbrush

Q Nail clippers/file

Q Razors

Q Brush

Q Contacts/solution

Q Deodorant

Q Glasses

Q First aid kit

Q Vitamins/medication

Q Sunscreen

Looking for a local destination wedding Door County? Check out our favorites on the preceding pages or visit premierbride.com for more information.

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PRE-WEDDING GETAWAY when you need a break

With the stress of planning your wedding, you might feel as if you need a break which is exactly why couples are taking a prehoneymoon! What is a pre-honeymoon? It can be a weekend getaway or just an overnight stay at a bed and breakfast a couple hours away. Why do I need a pre-honeymoon? You might feel stressed due to wedding planning, and this can ease that stress by getting away for a couple days to decompress and to come back with a fresh start. It also allows you to rekindle as a couple, rather than constantly planning your wedding. Where

should

go?

You

could

somewhere abroad, if money permits, or just somewhere a couple hours away. As long as you are together, have a great stress free weekend! You could even just check into a nice hotel and get pampered for the night. This will keep your stress level down as you are relaxing! You

could

also

somewhere

that’s

sentimental to you as a couple, including where he proposed, or where you went on your first date. The purpose of the prehoneymoon is to unwind and connect as a couple, and taking a pre-honeymoon is just the ticket! Travel deals can pop up at anytime, and there are many websites that you can use to find the best deal for your travel plans. You can also utilize the coupon applications for getaways with your special someone, and this is sometimes the cheapest way to travel!

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Do’s & Don’ts 5 DO remember your guests with small children. Ask your reception site manager if there is a small room or play area near the festivities that you can rent. Hire a professional babysitting service to take care of the kids. Parents will appreciate your consideration and be able to relax and enjoy your reception knowing they are close to their children.

1 DO take advantage of Internet technology. There are many sites dedicated to wedding planning that offer a wealth of information at your fingertips. Coordinate with vendors, make and confirm reservations, create a Pinterest account to save your favorite images and ideas. (Visit our website at PremierBride.com for trusted local vendors).

6 DO remember when purchasing a gown to be realistic about your expectations for losing weight. A gown can always be taken in, but rarely can it be let out without leaving stitch marks for all to see.

2 DO create a separate email address and use it for everything you sign up for during the planning process. You’ll enjoy getting special offers and information but can delete the address after your wedding date.

3 DON’T forget to pamper yourself. Treat your mom and maids the day before the wedding with an afternoon at the spa. You’ll have the time of your life enjoying facials, massages, manicures and pedicures. It will make you feel more relaxed and beautiful.

4 DO contact the church or synagogue where you will perform your ceremony and ask about any rules or guidelines regarding music. Some churches require that you use their organist. 242 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

7 DON’T forget to involve stepparents in your ceremony in some way; perhaps a reading during your ceremony or an invocation before dinner.

8 DO consider table visits during your reception. It is a grand display of appreciation and respect when the bride and groom spend a few moments visiting their guests at each table.

9 DON’T seat older guests near the band or the speakers as it may be hard for them to hear anything else.

10 DO consider decorating chairs in a new way such as black, silver, white or traditional gold. Transform an ordinary room or site into a ballroom. Chair covers completely change the look of your reception.

11 DON’T forget to discuss black and white and sepia tone images with your photographer. This classic style is dramatic and remains popular.

12 DO remember that the hour of the ceremony is an indicator of the formality of the reception.

13 DO consider having your entire wedding at a full-service hotel. The convenience of having the ceremony, reception and guest lodging in one place is incomparable, especially for a complicated event.

14 To get your skin in shape for your wedding day, DON’T forget to start six months prior to your wedding and practice make-up techniques.

15 When renting a stretch limo, DO remember that it can usually seat up to 10 people, but fewer when the bride’s gown and train and the bridesmaid’s dresses are factored in to the equation.

16 DON’T forget that the best way to let people know where you are registered is to have family and friends spread the word. Although it’s impolite to mention the registry on wedding invitations, a hostess may do so on shower invitations.

17 DO remember to return rental items on time and undamaged.

18 DO select the ceremony and reception locations nine to 12 months before your wedding. If you’re getting married in popular months like May or June, select these locations as soon as possible.

19 DO make finding the right caterer and baker a priority. Great food is critical to the wedding celebration. Interviews and tastings are a must.

20 DON’T waste time getting to your reception. Have photos of the wedding party taken before the ceremony.

21 DO reserve your photographer nine to 12 months before your wedding. Decide which shots you definitely want and which ones you can live without.

22 DON’T forget to send an invitation to your officiant and to all of your wedding party.

23 DO pick up your invitation envelopes as soon as possible so that you can begin addressing them.

24 DO consider having two bouquets, one to keep and one to throw.

25 DO check with your church or temple about their policies, especially regarding alcohol. PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 243

HOME

FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE managing monetary gifts

Among the toasters and food processors

FIGURE YOUR NET WORTH. You can’t decide where

you’ll receive as gifts, you may find a few

to go until you’ve measured where you are. So

envelopes filled with good wishes, cash and

add up the value of everything you own. Now,

checks. Though it’s tempting to imagine

subtract from that everything you owe. That’s

spending the money, it’s also important to

your net worth.

get your finances in order to assure lifelong

DETERMINE YOUR FINANCIAL GOALS. What are your dreams? Where do you plan to be financially in

security. While some believe the best gifts lie in those envelopes, you have probably noticed

five, 10 or 15 years? Create a safety net, such as insurance, to protect against the unexpected.

that monetary gifts are the only ones that

PLAN A STRATEGY TO REACH YOUR GOALS. What’s

don’t come with instructions. Emptying those

it going to take to reach your goals? Seek out

envelopes into the most prudent method of

a financial planner to help advise you of your

cash management isn’t really that complicated

options. Many professionals will even provide

or time consuming. Not only is it vital for the

a free initial consultation.

married couple, but it’s critical that newlyweds

Be sure to learn as much as possible. It’s

get their “financial houses” in order to assure

important that you start out on the right foot and

lifelong financial security.

that begins with making informed decisions.

y wh can ut e o m d o n Fin g a h ha rt n e i p y a ! u b che ing be rent

happily ever home-owners SEE JUST HOW AFFORDABLE HOME OWNERSHIP CAN BE

Debra Casper Mortgage Loan Originator NMLS# 241996

dcasper@ccmclending.com 414-531-8368 CCMCWI.com

Cherry Creek Mortgage Co. Inc, NMLS# 3001

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BRIDAL SHOWS everything you need under one roof and everything

they have to offer. Visit PremierBrideMKE.com for up-to-date information.

thepaperelephant.com

BRIDAL SHOW TIP Don’t go to a bridal show alone! You need others’ objective opinions and perhaps some physical help carrying around the many things you will inevitably pick up. Wonderful World of Weddings

PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 245

BRIDAL SHOWS

2022 BRIDAL SHOWS

Milwaukee and Southeast Wisconsin

ANNUAL BRIDAL EXTRAVAGANZA

February 6 • 11am - 2pm

The best bridal show in the Geneva Lakes area. Join us to explore the latest trends and creative design ideas. Everything for your wedding; all in one place, in one afternoon. Grab your girls, taste some wine and don’t forget the cake!

$7.0 Adm 0 issi (at o t he d

oor

)

7377 Krueger Road, Lake Geneva 262-348-9900 hawksviewgolfclub.com

(visit premierbridewisconsin.com/shows-events for most up-to-date listings)

2022

WEDMKE

A unique engagement featuring local wedding vendors as individual as you are. Turner Hall Ballroom wedmke.com SEE PG 251

JANUARY 22, 2022

LAKE GENEVA WINTER BRIDAL EXPO The Riviera 812 Wrigley Dr. Lake Geneva Show Times: 10am-3pm 262-298-0502 lgwinterbridalexpo.com

JANUARY 23, 2022

WASHINGTON COUNTY BRIDAL FAIR

Washington County Fair Park & Conf Ctr Show Times: 11am-3pm 262-677-5060 • wcfairpark.com SEE PG 139 & 250

JANUARY 30, 2022

WATERTOWN BRIDAL FAIRE

SUNDAY, MARCH 27, 2022 11AM-3PM 2810 GOLF ROAD | PEWAUKEE, WI 53072 FREE ADMISSION WITH PRE-REGISTRATION OR $5 AT THE DOOR OPEN TO THE PUBLIC

262.547.0201 • lakecountryweddingshow.com

246 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

Turner Hall, 301 S 4th St., Watertown Show Times: 10am-2:30pm 920-261-7770

FEBRUARY 6, 2022

19TH ANNUAL BRIDAL EXTRAVAGANZA

Hawks View Golf Club, Lake Geneva Show Times: 11am-3pm 262-348-9900 hawksviewgolfclub.com SEE PG 246

PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 247

Angela Swan Photography

John Dart Photography

Vito Rade Photography

John Dart Photography

Marcin Cymmer Photography

John Dart Photography

Vito Rade Photography

BRIDAL SHOWS 2022 BRIDAL SHOWS (CONT.)

FEBRUARY 6, 2022

TERRACE 167 WINTER BRIDAL FAIR Richfield Show Times: 11am-2pm 262-623-6588 Terrace167.com

FEBRUARY 6, 2022

THE 10TH ANNUAL RACINE BRIDAL SHOWCASE Delta Marriott Racine 7111 Washington Ave., Racine Show Times: 11am-2pm 262-656-6209

At the wedding, the head table is where the bride & groom sit. Depending on the arrangement, some or all attendants & parents may join them. It is usually distinguished from the other tables with a floral arrangement or distinct centerpiece.

sweetheart TAB L E

FEBRUARY 20, 2022

14TH ANNUAL BRIDAL FAIR IN THE EVERGREEN ROOM Evergreen Golf Club, Elkhorn Show Times: 11:30am-1:30pm 262-723-5722 evergreengolf.com

GROOM

party TAB L E

FEBRUARY 20,2022

THE 3RD ANNUAL KENOSHA BRIDAL SHOWCASE Upper East Kenosha 622 58th St., Kenosha Show Times: 11am-2pm 262-656-6209

FEBRUARY 28, 2022

VETERAN’S TERRACE BRIDAL SHOW

BRIDE

A table for just the bride & groom at the focal point of the room. Traditionally, the groom sits to the right of the bride.

BRIDESMAID

GROOMSMAN

MAID OF HONOR

GROOM

BRIDE

BEST MAN

BRIDESMAID

GROOMSMAN

A rectangular table at the focal point of the room for the bride, groom, maid of honor, & best man.

family TAB L E

Veteran’s Terrace, Burlington Show Times: 11am-2:30pm 262-763-9400 – veteransterrace.com

MARCH 2022

16TH ANNUAL WEDDING & QUINCEANERA EXPO 10am-5pm – 414-383-1000 conquistadornews.com SEE PG 250

MAID OF HONOR

FATHER

MOTHER

GROOM

BRIDE

FATHER

MOTHER

BEST MAN

This arrangement honors the couple’s parents by sitting them at the head table along with the maid of honor and best man. PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 249

BRIDAL SHOWS JANUARY 23, 2022 - 11 am - 3 pm

2022 BRIDAL SHOWS (CONT.)

MARCH 6, 2022

BRIDAL EXPO

Brookfield Sheraton Doors Open: 10:30am-4pm Fashion Show 3-3:45 For Free Tickets Call: 414-427-4325 bridalexpomilwaukee.com SEE PG 18-19, 247

MARCH 6, 2022

THE 2022 GENEVA LAKES BRIDAL SHOWCASE  Free Parking  $5 in Advance / $6 at the Door  Over $5,000 in Door Prizes

The Ridge Hotel Lake Geneva Show Times: 11am-2pm 262-656-6209

MARCH 27, 2022

Tickets available online at wcfairpark.com For more information, visit wcfairpark.com 3000 County Hwy PV • West Bend, WI 53095

16th Annual

LAKE COUNTRY WEDDING SHOW

The Ingleside Hotel Pewaukee Show Times: 11am-3pm 262-547-0201 lakecountryweddingshow.com SEE PG 246

MARCH 27, 2022

2022

WISCONSIN’S LARGEST WEDDING RUMMAGE SALE Presented by Rustic Manor 1848 Waukesha County Expo Center Show Times: 11am-2pm 262-224-0316 Rusticmanor1848.com

APRIL 7, 2022

ILLUMINATE A FASHION SHOW

Coming in March 2022 • 10am - 5pm

250 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

Historic Pritzlaff Bldg. 325 N Plankinton Ave, Milwaukee Show Times: 7-9pm 414-755-2900 missrubyboutique.com

BRIDAL SHOWS 2022 BRIDAL SHOWS (CONT.)

MAY 22, 2022

BRIDAL EXPO

Brookfield Sheraton, 10:30am-4pm Fashion Show 3-3:45pm For Free Tickets Call: 414-427-4325 bridalexpomilwaukee.com SEE PG 18-19, 247

JULY 2022

4TH ANNUAL PIECE OF CAKE 5K Frame Park Pieceofcake5k.com

T U R N E R H A L L B A L L R O O M & M K E A I R WAV E S P R E S E N T

SEPTEMBER 18, 2022

BRIDAL EXPO

Brookfield Sheraton Doors Open: 10:30am-4pm Fashion Show 3-3:45pm For Free Tickets Call: 414-427-4325 bridalexpomilwaukee.com WEDMKE.COM

SEE PG 18-19, 247

SEPTEMBER 2022

DISCOVER LAKE GENEVA BRIDAL SHOWCASE Riviera Docks, Lake Geneva Show Times: 10am-1pm

NOVEMBER 6, 2022

BRIDAL EXPO

Brookfield Sheraton Doors Open: 10:30am-4pm Fashion Show 3-3:45pm For Free Tickets Call: 414-427-4325 bridalexpomilwaukee.com

TIME TO GET REWARDED FOR YOUR WEDDING!

Just for registering, you already have one entry. For every Premier Bride vendor that you book, you get an additional entry.

SEE PG 18-19, 247

JANUARY 7-8, 2023

54TH ANNUAL WONDERFUL WORLD OF WEDDINGS

Expo Center at Wisconsin State Fair Park, Milwaukee 262-367-5500 wisconsinweddingshow.com

It’s Easy!

Just select PB Rewards next to the name of the PB vendors you’ve used

SEE PG 248 PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 251

DIRECTORY OF SERVICES DIRECTORY OF SERVICES DIRECTORY OF SERVICES

DIRECTORY KEY • ACCESSORIES • ALTERATIONS/ CUSTOM DRESS DESIGNS • BACHELOR(ETTE) PARTIES • BANQUET FACILITIES & REHEARSAL DINNERS • BARTENDING SERVICES • BEAUTY, SKIN & WEIGHT LOSS (Also See Makeup)

• BRIDAL SHOWERS/ GIFT OPENINGS • BRIDAL SHOWS

Complete listing and information (See pg 245)

• CAKES, SWEETS & FAVORS • CATERING • COORDINATORS/ Event Planners • COSMETICS (See Makeup)

• DANCE INSTRUCTION • DECORATING SERVICES (Also see Rentals)

• DESTINATION WEDDINGS (See Travel Agencies)

• DOOR COUNTY WEDDINGS

• HONEYMOON (See Travel Agencies & Door County Weddings)

• HOUSING – FINANCIAL • HOTELS/CLUB SUITES • ICE SCULPTURES • INVITATIONS • JEWELRY (CUSTOM) • LIMOUSINES (See Transportation)

• MAKEUP (Also See Beauty)

• MASSAGE (See Spas)

• MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT • MUSIC, SPECIALTY/LIVE • OFFICIANTS • ONLINE VENDOR RESOURCE • PHOTOGRAPHY • PHOTOGRAPHY BOUDOIR

• REHEARSAL DINNER, CEREMONIES AND INTIMATE WEDDINGS

(and Rental Items)

• FORMALWEAR • GOWNS, CUSTOM

(See full listing of bridal salons online at premierbrideMKE.com/ bridal-salons)

• HAIR

(See Beauty)

(See pg 194)

ALTERATIONS/ CUSTOM DRESS DESIGNS BRIDAL

GOWNS

Premier Alterations Experts – Specializing in Gowns – We Measure, Trim & Sew – Gown Fittings

262-521-9710

mymartinizing.com

• PAINTER

• EXCITING & DIFFERENT

• FLORISTS

beadit-wi.com 262-366-5573

• LINGERIE

• PHOTO BOOTHS

• FIREWORKS

Bead IT LLC

(Also see Banquet Facilities)

• DRY CLEANING / GOWN Preservation • FAVORS & GIFTS

ACCESSORIES

• REGISTRY

• RENTALS • RESTROOMS (See Rentals)

• SPAS/MED SPAS • TRANSPORTATION • TRAVEL AGENCIES & HONEYMOONS • VIDEOGRAPHY

252 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

BACHELOR(ETTE) PARTIES Milwaukee Pedal Tavern info@pedaltavern.com pedaltavern.com 414-409-8022

(See pg 186)

Riverwalk Boat Tours & Rentals

at Pere Marquette Park (on Old World Third St, between State and Kilbourn) riverwalkboats.com escapetomilwaukee.com 414-283-9999 (See pg 222)

Twisted Fisherman

Beach Bar/Near Downtown 1200 W. Canal St., Milwaukee twistedfisherman.com escapetomilwaukee.com

(See pg 39)

DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Vino Third Ward

Historic Third Ward 219 E. Erie St., Milwaukee vinothirdward.com 414-277-8466

(See pg 187)

Whirly Brookfield, LLC. 185 South Moorland Rd. Brookfield whirlyball.com/brookfield 262-786-7777

(See pg 223)

The YellowBus Bloom Bar

Serving SE WI yellowbusphotobooth.com/bloom-bar 262-492-7695

(See pg 181)

BANQUET FACILITIES & REHEARSAL DINNERS 1451 Renaissance Place

1451 N. Prospect Ave., Milwaukee renaissanceplace.com 414-272-1451

(See pg 14)

6996 Pennsylvania Ave., Oconomowoc 262-269-9095

The Bog

The Clubhouse at The Bog 3121 County Road I, Saukville The Barn at The Bog 3121 County Road I, Saukville golfthebog.com

262-292-0740 262-292-0740

(See pg 140)

1130 North 9th St., Milwaukee fstreethospitality.com 414-988-1554

(See Back Cover)

Bradley Symphony Center

212 W Wisconsin Ave, Milwaukee resonancefoodco.com/weddings 414-226-7813

1903 Weddings

Bartolotta’s

Best Western Plus Milwaukee Airport 5105 S. Howell Ave., Milwaukee 414-769-2100 • bwplusmke.com

Bottle House Forty Two

1896 Room

500 West Canal Street, Milwaukee 1903events.com 877-HD-MUSEUM

Beautiful Ceremony Location Transformable Event Space Overnight Accommodations

(See pg 23)

Bacchus-A Bartolotta Restaurant 414-765-1166 925 E. Wells, Milwaukee Bartolotta Events & Catering 414-765-8610 at Discovery Wisconsin 500 N. Harbor Dr., Milwaukee Grain Exchange 414-727-6980 225 E. Michigan Ave., Ste 100, Milwaukee The Harbor House 414-395-4900 550 N. Harbor, Milwaukee Italian Community Center 414-223-2800 631 E. Chicago St., Milwaukee Lake Park Bistro 414-962-6300 3133 E. Newberry Blvd., Milwaukee bartolottas.com/weddings bartolottascatering.com (See pg 67)

(See pg 13)

Broadlands Golf Club

18 Augusta Way, North Prairie broadlandsgolfclub.com 262-392-6320

(See pg 74)

The Brown Bottle

221 W. Galena Street, Milwaukee fstreethospitality.com 414-988-1554

(See Back Cover)

The Carriage House at the Club at Lac La Belle 6996 Pennsylvania Ave., Oconomowoc carriagehouseatlaclabelle.com 262-269-9095

(See pg 70)

Chandelier Ballroom

150 Jefferson Ave., Hartford chandelierballroom.com 262-673-4946

(See pg 140)

Charles Allis Art Museum

1801 N Prospect Ave, Milwaukee charlesallis.org (414) 271-3656, ext 2

(See pg 49)

Chivaree on Park

N8345 Park St., Ixonia mychivaree.com 262-354-4848

(See pg 8)

The Cooperage

822 S Water St, Milwaukee cooperagemke.com 414-763-4935

(See pg 15)

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DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Corvina Wine Company

6038 W. Lincoln Ave., West Allis corvinawinecompany.com 414-546-3407

The George & Madcap Lounge (See pg 31)

Creekside Conference Center

1900 W. Creekside Crossing Circle Oak Creek creeksideconferencecenter.com 414-915-6660

(See pg 47)

(See pg 22)

Davians Catering & Events

N56 W16300 Silver Spring Dr., Menomonee Falls davians.com 262-781-3333 (See pg 51)

The DeKoven Center

600 Caron Butler Dr., Racine dekovencenter.org 262-633-6401 ext 102

(See pg 34)

Delafield Brewhaus

3832 Hillside Dr., Delafield (Just off I-94 & Hwy 83) delafield-brewhaus.com 262-646-7821 (See pg 40)

Delafield Hotel

415 Genesee St., Delafield delafieldhotel.com 262-333-0209

(See pg 11)

The Factory on Barclay

1120 South Barclay St., Milwaukee thefactoryonbarclay.com 414-481-3337

(See pg 73)

The Farm at Dover

26060 Washington Avenue, Dover thefarmatdover.com 773-802-6351

(See pg 15)

fête

500 E. Sumit Ave., Wales feteofwales.com 262-528-3383

(See pg 16)

Four Points by Sheraton Milwaukee Airport 5311 S. Howell Ave., Milwaukee fourpointsmilwaukeeairport.com 414-481-2400

(See pg 76)

The Gage

1139 S. 70th Street, West Allis thegagemke.com 414-367-7004

Geneva National

(See pg 69)

1221 Geneva National Ave. South, Lake Geneva genevanationalresort.com/weddings 262-245-7044 (See pg 162)

W349 N5253 Lacys Lane, Okauchee goldenmastinn.com 262-567-7047

(See pg 45)

Grand Geneva

7036 Grand Geneva Way, Lake Geneva grandgeneva.com/weddings 800-558-3417

Hawk’s View Golf Club

7377 Krueger Rd., Lake Geneva hawksviewgolfclub.com 262-348-9900

(See pg 159)

The Hay Loft

W2765 East Gate Dr., Watertown hayloftbarn.com 414-333-8511

(See pg 41)

Hilton Milwaukee City Center 509 W. Wisc Ave., Milwaukee marcusweddings.com 414-390-3802

Historic Courthouse 1893

916 N. East Ave., Downtown Waukesha courthouse1893.com 262-574-9170

(See pg 77)

Hotel Metro Milwaukee

411 East Mason St., Milwaukee hotelmetro.com 414-225-3256

(See pg 48)

Hubbard Park Lodge, Riverclub & Beer Garden

3565 N. Morris Blvd., Milwaukee hubbardparklodge.com / escapetomilwaukee.com 414-273-8300 (See pg 39)

Hyatt Regency

333 W. Kilbourn Ave., Milwaukee milwaukee.regency.hyatt.com 414-276-1234

(See pg 53)

The Ingleside Hotel

2810 Golf Rd., Pewaukee theinglesidehotel.com 262-547-0201

(See pg 25)

The Iron Horse Hotel

500 W. Florida St, Milwaukee theironhorsehotel.com 414-831-4600

(See pg 9)

Jan Serr Studio

2155 N. Prospect Avenue, Milwaukee janserrevents@sazs.com 414-256-8765

(See pg 88-89)

Kettle Moraine Ranch

W379 S9674 County Rd. S, Eagle kettlemoraineranch.com 262-594-2122 254 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

(See pg 79, 88-89)

Golden Mast Inn on Okauchee Lake

The Cupola Barn

N88 W35490 Mapleton Rd., Oconomowoc cupolabarn.com 262-617-4038

Walker’s Point, Milwaukee thegeorgemilwaukee.com 414-256-8765

(See pg 44)

DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Lake Geneva Cruise Lines-Gage Marine cruiselakegeneva.com 262-248-6206

(See pg 154)

Lake Lawn Resort

2400 E. Geneva St., Delavan lakelawnresort.com 262-725-9218

WEDDINGS CATERING ENTERTAINMENT DINING

(See pg 157)

Lilac Acres

S47 W23045 Lawnsdale Rd., Waukesha lilacacres.com 262-309-0653

(See pg 36)

The Loft on Broadway

PAYSBIG.COM/WEDDINGS

177 N. Broadwaym Milwaukee theloftonbroadway.com 414-481-3337

(See pg 73

Marcus Center for the Performing Arts sazs.com 414-276-2030

(See pg 88-89)

Marriott Milwaukee West

W231 N1600 Corporate Ct., Waukesha marriott.com/mkemw 262-574-0888

(See pg 40)

Milford Hills

(See pg 12)

Milwaukee Art Museum

(See pg 55)

Milwaukee County Zoo

N44 W33013 Watertown Plank Rd. Hwys 16 & C, Nashotah redcircleinn.com 262-367-4883 (See Inside Front Cover) 2300 N. Mayfair Rd., Wauwatosa renmilwaukee.com 414-771-2300

(See pg 21)

W4240 Road 50, Lake Geneva RidgeLakeGeneva.com 262-249-3842

(See pg 161)

The Rotunda

10001 W. Bluemound Rd., Milwaukee milwaukeezoo.org 414-256-5432

(See pg 81)

Oconomowoc Community Center

220 W. Wisconsin Avenue, Oconomowoc oconomowoc-wi.gov/communitycenter 262-569-2199

235 W. Broadway, Waukesha therotunda.com 262-574-9170

(See pg 77)

Saint Kate - The Arts Hotel (See pg 49)

The Pfister Hotel

139 E Kilbourn Ave, Milwaukee saintkatesarts.com/weddings 414-276-8686

(See pg 43)

Schauer Arts & Activites Center

424 E Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee marcusweddings.com 414-390-3802

147 N Rural St., Hartford schauercenter.org 262-670-0560 ext 215

Pizza Man - Milwaukee

(See pg 139)

Sheraton Milwaukee Brookfield Hotel (See Back Cover)

Pizza Man - Wauwatosa

375 S. Moorland Rd., Brookfield marriott.com/mkesi 262-364-1001

(See pg 35)

Sonesta Milwaukee West (See Back Cover)

The Polish Center of Wisconsin 6941 S 68th St, Franklin polishcenterofwisconsin.org 414-529-2140

(See pg 7)

Red Circle Inn

The Ridge Hotel

700 North Art Museum Dr., Milwaukee mam.org/wedding 414-224-3287 (event line)

11500 West Burleigh St., Wauwatosa pizzamanwi.com 414-988-1554

315 N Plankinton Ave, Milwaukee pritzlaffevents.com 414-433-6088

Renaissance Milwaukee West

W5670 French Rd, Johnson Creek milfordhills.com 920-699-2249

2597 North Downer Ave., Milwaukee pizzamanwi.com 414-988-1554

Pritzlaff Events

10499 W. Innovation Drive, Wauwatosa sonesta.com/us/wisconsin/wauwatosa/sonestamilwaukee-west-wauwatosa 414-475-9500 (See pg 75)

South Second (See pg 14)

838 S. 2nd St., Walker’s Point, Milwaukee southsecondmke.com 414-256-8765 (See pg 88-89) PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 255

DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Story Hill Firehouse

407 N. Hawley Rd., Milwaukee storyhillfirehouse.com 414-477-5813

(See pg 82)

~ 3 separate banquet facilities ~ Guest lists from 20 to 200 ~ Spectacular photographic grounds ~ Affordable rates ~ No catering requirements ~ Beautiful views of the Fox River

Terrace 167

3210 Hwy 167, Richfield terrace167.com 262-623-6588

(See pg 140)

Timmer’s Resort

5151 Timmer Bay Rd., West Bend fstreethospitality.com 414-988-1554

For more information: call 262-522-2953 or email mpalmer@waukesha-wi.gov

(See Back Cover)

Visit waukesha-wi.gov/560/Rentals

The Treasury

303 E. Walworth Ave., Delavan thetreasurydelavan.com 312-720-5185

West Bend Country Club (See pg 156)

Tripoli Shrine Center

3000 W Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee tripolishrinecenter.com 414-933-4700

(See pg 29)

1040 N. Vel R. Phillips Ave., Milwaukee turnerhallballroomweddings.com 414-286-6164

(See pg 27)

Tuscan Hall Banquet Center & Catering 409 Delafield St., Waukesha tuscanhallwi.com 262-292-1322

W287 N1963 Oakton Rd., Pewaukee sazs.com 262-691-9796

(See pg 88-89)

BARTENDING SERVICES Bar Stars Bartending

(See pg 41)

barstarsbartending-mke.com 414-208-9500

Bartenders on the Go

Veterans Terrace at Echo Park (See pg 160)

Serving SE-WI bartendonthego.com 414-899-6151

(See pg 99)

La Piccola Corvina

Villa Terrace Decorative Arts Museum 2220 N. Terrace Ave., Milwaukee cavtmuseums.org 414-271-3656

(See pg 49)

War Memorial Center

750 N. Lincoln Memorial Dr., Milwaukee warmemorialcenter.org 414-273-5533

(See pg 28)

Washington County Fair Park Hwy 45 at Pleasant Valley Road wcfairpark.com 262-677-5060

(See pg 48)

Western Lakes Golf Club

Turner Hall Ballroom

589 Milwaukee Ave., Burlington veteransterrace.com 262-763-9400

5858 Hwy Z, West Bend westbendcc.com 262-334-9541

Serving SE-WI corvinawinecompany.com/private-events 414-546-3407

(See pg 31)

BEAUTY, SKIN & WEIGHT LOSS (Also See Makeup)

(See pg 141)

Watertown Country Club

1340 N Water St., Watertown watertowncc.com 920-261-5009

(See pg 79)

Aqua Beauty Lounge & Med Spa

W279 N2221 Prospect Ave., Pewaukee aqua-beautylounge.com 262-691-1814

(See pg 191)

halo

1221 E. Brady St., Milwaukee halosalonmke.com 414-272-4256

(See pg 195)

Lovely Beauty Bar

2940 S 108th St., Milwaukee lovelybeautybar.com 414-541-4444

256 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

(See pg 192)

DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Simma’s

817 N. 68th St., Wauwatosa simmasbakery.com 414-257-0998

BEAUTY BAR Oconomowoc Lake Plaza W359 N5002 Brown St. Suite 106

MAYHOUSECOLLECTION.COM/BEAUTY-BAR • 262-354-8100 Merle Norman Cosmetic Studios

Brookfield Square (exterior entrance)262-782-4406 mnsalonbrookfield.com 5300 S. 108th St., Hales Corners414-421-3788 mnhalescorners.com (See pg 193)

Wide Eyed Bride

Serving SE-Wisconsin wideeyedbride.com 414-377-0540

(See pg 169)

Sweet Perfections Bake Shoppe 1501 Paramount Dr., Waukesha sweetperfections.com 262-446-2253

(See pg 167)

CATERING All Occasions Catering / Bubb’s BBQ W230 S8855 Clark St., Big Bend bubbs.com 262-662-4201

(See pg 93)

Antigua Catering

6207 W. National Ave., West Allis weddingsbyantigua.com 414-321-5775

(See pg 95)

(See pg 194)

BRIDAL SHOWERS/ GIFT OPENINGS Riverwalk Boat Tours & Rentals

at Pere Marquette Park (located on Old World Third St., between State and Kilbourn) riverwalkboats.com 414-283-9999 (See pg 222)

Vino Third Ward

Historic Third Ward 219 E. Erie St., Milwaukee vinothirdward.com 414-277-8466

Chef Jack’s (See pg 187)

(See pg 181)

24 South Main St., Oconomowoc cornerstonepuboconomowoc.com 262-354-8282

(See pg 63)

Davians Catering & Conference Center

BRIDAL SHOWS

Complete listing and information (See pg 245)

N56 W16300 Silver Spring Dr., Menomonee Falls davians.com 262-781-3333 (See pg 51)

Excess Coffee Co

Serving SE WI excesscoffee.events 414-617-3215

CAKES, SWEETS & FAVORS

(See pg 96)

Noble Catering

1134 N. 9th Street, Milwaukee, WI noblecateringco.com 414-988-1554

Excess Coffee Co

Serving SE WI excesscoffee.events 414-617-3215

(See pg 92)

Cornerstone Catering

The YellowBus Bloom Bar

Serving SE WI yellowbusphotobooth.com/bloom-bar 262-492-7695

215 South St., Waukesha chefjacks.com 262-549-5558

(See pg 97)

(See pg 96) PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 257

DIRECTORY OF SERVICES LUSH Ice

Serving SE-WI luxurylushice.com 920-287-1504

(See pg 187)

Pizza Shuttle

1827 N Farwell Ave, Milwaukee pizzashuttle.com 414-289-9993

(See pg 96)

kristin@naturalelegancellc.com

262-751-5260

Saz’s Catering

201 W. Walker St., Milwaukee sazs.com 414-256-8765

naturalelegancellc.com

(See pg 88-89)

Bringing a fresh, stylish, and authentic approach to planning unforgettable and personalized weddings for joyful couples

Rosewood

food. fun. venues.

5 Exclusive Venues. 50+ Preferred Vendor Locations.

sazs.com

COSMETICS (See Makeup)

Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Brookfield (See pg 88-89)

409 Delafield St., Waukesha tuscanhallwi.com 262-292-1322

15760 W Capitol Dr. fredastaire.com/wisconsin 262-796-1121

(See pg 129)

Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Greenfield

Tuscan Hall Banquet Center & Catering (See pg 41)

4868 S 74th St. fredastaire.com/wisconsin 414-281-9191

(See pg 129)

Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Menomonee Falls N87W17317 Main St. fredastaire.com/wisconsin (262) 251-2000

COORDINATORS/ EVENT PLANNERS

(See pg 129)

Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Mequon 10934 N Port Washington Rd. fredastaire.com/wisconsin 262-241-1221

Ambrosia Events

5110 W. Lincoln Ave., Milwaukee ambrosiaeventsmke.com 414-837-4925 (office) 414-546-2854 (mobile)

(See pg 103)

DANCE INSTRUCTION

Sazama’s Fine Catering

201 W. Walker St., Milwaukee sazamas.com 414-276-2030

Serving SE-Wisconsin rosewoodwed.com 262-496-9832

(See pg 102)

Event Day Dreaming

Serving SE-WI eventdaydreaming.com 847-347-5197

(See pg 129)

Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Milwaukee 323 N Milwaukee St fredastaire.com/wisconsin 414-291-9999

(See pg 129)

Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Oak Creek 2121 E Rawson Ave, Oak Creek fredastaire.com/wisconsin 414-304-8999

(See pg 129)

Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Pewaukee 615 Ryan St, Suite 200 fredastaire.com/wisconsin 262-691-8181

258 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

(See pg 129)

DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Fred Astaire Dance Studio of Pleasant Prairie 9000 76th St., Unit B fredastaire.com/wisconsin 262-577-5859

(See pg 129)

DECORATING SERVICES (Also see Rentals) Ambrosia Events

5110 W. Lincoln Ave., Milwaukee ambrosiaeventsmke.com 414-837-4925 (office) 414-546-2854 (mobile)

(See pg 102)

DESTINATION WEDDINGS (See Travel Agencies)

DOOR COUNTY WEDDINGS (See pg 238)

(See pg 237)

Serving SE-WI brad.geers@yahoo.com

(See pg 186)

(See pg 187)

LUSH Ice

Serving SE-WI luxurylushice.com 920-287-1504

(See pg 187)

Milwaukee Pedal Tavern pedaltavern.com 414-409-8022

Stone Harbor, A Door County Resort & Conference Center 107 N. 1st Ave., Sturgeon Bay stoneharbor-resort.com 920-746-0700

artbelowzero.com 414-779-7000

Brad Geers – Live Wedding Painter

Newport Resort at Main St. 7888 Church St., Egg Harbor newportresort.com 920-868-9900 or 800-468-6160

The Specialist in Bridal Gowns Free Pickup & Delivery mymartinizing.com 262-521-9710 (See pg 78) Hartland 418 Merton Ave. 262-367-4508 Mequon 11106 N Port Washington Rd 262-241-3535 Milwaukee 233 W. Layton Ave. 414-747-1077 Oconomowoc 1300 Brown St. 262-560-9981 1320 Pabst Farm Circle 262-560-0666 Waukesha W229 N2494 Cty Rd F 262-521-9710 Wauwatosa 6737 Milwaukee Ave. 414-771-3331 Whitefish Bay 285 E Hampton Ave 414-964-4747

Art Below Zero

The Lodge at Leathem Smith

1640 Memorial Dr., Sturgeon Bay thelodgeatls.com 920-743-5555

Martinizing

EXCITING & DIFFERENT

Landmark Resort

7643 Hillside Rd., Egg Harbor thelandmarkresort.com 800-273-7877

DRY CLEANING / GOWN PRESERVATION

(See pg 186)

Vino Third Ward (See pg 238)

219 E. Erie St., Milwaukee vinothirdward.com 414-277-8466

(See pg 187)

Voluptuous Secrets

1740 N. Martin Luther King Dr., Milwaukee voluptuoussecrets.com 414-264-7776 (See pg 186)

FAVORS & GIFTS Bead IT LLC

beadit-wi.com 262-366-5573

(See pg 194)

PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 259

DIRECTORY OF SERVICES LUSH Ice

HONEYMOON

Serving SE-WI luxurylushice.com 920-287-1504

(See pg 187)

Mayhouse Collection

W359 N5002 Brown Street, Oconomowoc mayhousecollection.com 262-354-8100

(See pg 150)

HOUSING – FINANCIAL Cherry Creek Mortgage

dcasper@ccmclending.com 414-531-8368

FIREWORKS

(See pg 244)

HOTELS/CLUB SUITES

Wolverine Fireworks

Serving SE Wisconsin wolverinefireworks.com 262-968-4178

(Also see Banquet Facilities) (See pg 52)

Homewood Suites Oak Creek Milwaukee

1900 W. Creekside Crossing Circle, Oak Creek creeksideconferencecenter.com 414-915-6660 (See pg 47)

FLORISTS (and Rental Items)

Sybaris Pool Suites

10240 N. Cedarburg Rd., Mequon sybaris.com 262-242-8000

Bank of Flowers

N88 W16723 Appleton Ave Menomonee Falls 346 Oakton Ave Pewaukee bankofflowers.com

(See Travel Agencies & Door County Weddings)

262-253-9111 262-695-9911

(See pg 151)

Belle Fiori

2014 N. Farwell Ave., Milwaukee bellefioriflorist.com 414-272-2234

(See pg 153)

Magnolia Floral Market at Mayhouse Collection W359 N5002 Brown Street, Oconomowoc magnoliafloralshoppe.net 262-468-4255

(See pg 150)

FORMALWEAR DuBois

1700 W. Bluemound Rd., Brookfield262-754-9296 822 N. 8th St., Sheboygan 920-458-1412 duboisformalwear.com (See pg 215)

GOWNS, CUSTOM

(See full listing of bridal salons online at premierbrideMKE.com/bridal-salons)

HAIR

(See Beauty)

260 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

(See pg 227)

ICE SCULPTURES Art Below Zero

Call or visit our website for info artbelowzero.com 414-779-7000

(See pg 186)

INVITATIONS CMYKnot

Serving SE-WI cmyknot.com 262-617-1385

(See pg 147)

Paperwhites

Hours by appointment paperwhites-invitations.com 262-370-0465

(See pg 145)

JEWELRY (CUSTOM) Bead IT LLC

beadit-wi.com 262-366-5573

LIMOUSINES (See Transportation)

(See pg 194)

DIRECTORY OF SERVICES DJ Felix Entertainment

LINGERIE

djfelixentertainment.com 262-749-4367

Voluptuous Secrets

1740 N. Martin Luther King Dr., Milwaukee voluptuoussecrets.com 414-264-7776 (See pg 186)

Wolverine Fireworks

Serving SE Wisconsin wolverinefireworks.com 262-968-4178

Mary Kay Cosmetics • Complimentary Makeovers • Skin Care & Color Cosmetics • Personalized Gift Service

Elegant Music Service

elegantmusicservices.com 262-619-1900

(See pg 179)

Gabriel’s Horns

Independent Beauty Consultants Tammy Ehrett, Independent Sales Director

gabrielshorns.com 414-581-7391

marykay.com/tehrett

Merle Norman Cosmetic Studios

Brookfield Square (exterior entrance)262-782-4406 mnsalonbrookfield.com 5300 S. 108th St., Hales Corners414-421-3788 mnhalescorners.com (See pg 193)

MASSAGE

(See pg 179)

OFFICIANTS Wild Elegance

Serving SE-WI wildelegancewi.com 262-309-2240

(See pg 60)

ONLINE VENDOR RESOURCE

(See Spas)

Premier Bride

premierbridemke.com 414-416-8368

MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT

PAINTER

ACA Music & Entertainment

Brad Geers – Live Wedding Painter (See pg 174)

Serving SE-WI brad.geers@yahoo.com

(See pg 187)

PHOTOGRAPHY

Brad Geers – Live Wedding Painter Complete Weddings & Events of Milwaukee

(See pg 187)

Allysha Noelle Photography

(See pg 176)

Serving SE-WI allyshanoellephotography.com 262-337-0352

(See pg 141)

Complete Weddings & Events of Milwaukee

DJ Express

djexpressfun.com 262-306-1138

(See pg 52)

MUSIC, SPECIALTY/LIVE

262-781-4848 OFFICE 262-336-7920 CELL

completemilwaukee.com 414-751-6886

(See pg 175)

Serving Milwaukee and Most of Wisconsin theweddingdjay.com 800-901-1007 (See pg 177)

(Also See Beauty)

Serving SE-WI brad.geers@yahoo.com

ringtunesdj.com 414-807-2648

The Wedding Djay

MAKEUP

705 Larry Ct., Waukesha acaentertainment.com 262-790-0060

(See pg 163)

Ring Tunes

completemilwaukee.com 414-751-6886

(See pg 137)

PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 261

DIRECTORY OF SERVICES SB Photography and Design

2727 N Grandview Blvd., Suite 101, Waukesha sbphotoanddesign.com 414-220-0022 (See pg 134)

PHOTO BOOTHS Complete Weddings & Events of Milwaukee completemilwaukee.com 414-751-6886

(See pg 176)

The Photo Booth 414-671-1512

(See pg 135)

Ring Tunes

DeGroot Film Co

degrootfilmco.com 262-844-7355

(See pg 133)

(See pg 158)

JC Designs LLC

(See pg 175)

Serving Greater Milwaukee & Madison shutterbooth.com 414-255-3800

(See pg 183)

The YellowBus Photobooth

jcdesignswi.com 414-507-2192

Serving SE WI yellowbusphotobooth.com 262-492-7695

Sara Cote Photography saracotephotography.com 651-387-1040

ringtunesdj.com 414-807-2648

ShutterBooth

Ideal Impressions

idealimpressions.com 262-729-3192

Serving Milwaukee and Most of Wisconsin 262photo.com 800-901-1007 (See pg 185)

(See pg 137)

SB Photography and Design

2727 N Grandview Blvd., Suite 101, Waukesha sbphotoanddesign.com 414-220-0022 (See pg 134)

(See pg 181)

REGISTRY Mayhouse Collection

W359 N5002 Brown Street, Oconomowoc mayhousecollection.com 262-354-8100

(See pg 150)

REHEARSAL DINNER, CEREMONIES AND INTIMATE WEDDINGS Cream City Garden

1036 S. 5th, Milwaukee creamcityphotovideo.com 414-671-1512

(See pg 59)

Eldr+Rime

2300 North Mayfair Rd., Wauwatosa renmilwaukee.com 414-867-9158

PHOTOGRAPHY BOUDOIR

3565 North Morris Blvd., Shorewood hubbardparkbeergarden.com 414-332-4207

l.e. Boudoir

Serving SE-WI lisaeisenbergphotography.com 920-988-1985

(See pg 21)

Hubbard Park Beer Garden

(See pg 39)

Maggiano’s (See pg 134)

262 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

2500 N. Mayfair Rd., Wauwatosa maggianos.com/banquets 414-978-1000

(See pg 58)

DIRECTORY OF SERVICES Maison LaBelle

Arnold’s Environmental Services Inc.

731 N. Lake Rd., Oconomowoc maisonlabelle.com 262-236-7292

(See pg 60)

3031 Hwy 33, Saukville arnoldsenvironmental.com 262-675-2497

Mason Street Grill

Brookfield Party Rental

Milwaukee Chop House

Celebrations Tent & Party Rentals

425 E. Mason St, Milwaukee (located at the Hilton) masonstreetgrill.com 414-298-3131 633 North 5th St, Milwaukee chophouse411.com 414-226-2467

Div. of Equipment Rentals Inc. 2001 Decorah Rd., West Bend 630 Grand Ave., Hartford eqrents.com 1-877-362-TENT

Pizza Man - Milwaukee

2597 North Downer Ave., Milwaukee pizzamanwi.com 414-988-1554

(See Back Cover)

Pizza Man – Oak Creek

7974 South Main St., Oak Creek pizzamanwi.com 414-988-1554

(See pg Back Cover)

Pizza Man - Wauwatosa

11500 West Burleigh St., Wauwatosa pizzamanwi.com 414-988-1554 (See pg Back Cover)

Riverwalk Boat Tours & Rentals

at Pere Marquette Park (on Old World Third St, between State and Kilbourn) riverwalkboats.com 414-283-9999 (See pg 222)

Rodizio Grill - Milwaukee

777 N. Water St., Milwaukee rodizio.com 414-431-3106

(See pg 61)

The Rooms at Cornerstone

24 South Main St., Oconomowoc Cornerstonepuboconomowoc.com 262-354-8282

12630 Robin Ln. Suite 200, Brookfield madfoxparty.com 262-786-2666

(See pg 108)

(See pg 111)

(See pg 139)

Gertrude & Evelyn Vintage Rentals Serving SE-WI gertrudeandevelynvintage.com 262-716-6676

La Piccola Corvina

Serving SE-WI corvinawinecompany.com/private-events 414-546-3407

(See pg 31)

Well Dressed Tables by Arena Americas 10861 S. Howell Ave., Oak Creek welldressedtables.com 414-831-7000

(See pg 107)

RESTROOMS (See Rentals)

SPAS/MED SPAS Aqua Beauty Lounge & Med Spa

(See pg 63)

Saz’s State House Restaurant 5539 W. State St., Milwaukee sazs.com 414-453-2410

W279 N2221 Prospect Ave., Pewaukee aqua-beautylounge.com 262-691-1814

(See pg 191)

Forward Healthy Lifestyles & Forward Medi Spa N112 W15237 Mequon Rd., Unit 100 Germantown forwardhealthylifestyles.com 262-313-8375

RENTALS

(See pg 190)

All Star Rentals

S167 W16262 Loomis Dr, Muskego allstarrentals.net 414-427-9951

(See pg 106)

Area Rental & Sales Co.

Corporate Office 262-827-1444 17000 W. Cleveland Avenue, New Berlin Delafield Location 262-646-4444 3430 Hillside Road, Delafield 262-827-1444 (See pg 110)

PremierBrideMKE.com PREMIER BRIDE • 263

DIRECTORY OF SERVICES

TRANSPORTATION

VIDEOGRAPHY Complete Weddings & Events of Milwaukee

HIGH CLASS LIMOUSINE & TROLLEY

completemilwaukee.com 414-751-6886

(See pg 137)

414-671-1512

(See pg 135)

First Class Service!

414-762-0809

highclasslimousinevip.com SEE OUR AD ON PAGE 221 Lamers Limousine Service

“The Elegance You Deserve” golamers.com/services/weddiings 800-236-1240

(See pg 219)

Lamers Trolley & Coaches

golamers.com/services/weddiings 800-236-1240

Ideal Impressions (See pg 219)

TRAVEL AGENCIES & HONEYMOONS CTS Travel

Specializing in Destination Weddings & Honeymoons ctstravelpros.com 414-276-3388 (See pg 241)

Specializing in:

– Romantic Honeymoons – Destination Weddings – All-Inclusives – Cruises – Free Consultations Ask about our exclusive

“Life’s Special Moments” Offer!

414-433-4873 • LatitudesWI.com LovinAway

Luxury Romance Travel lovinaway.com 844-568-2929

(See pg 234)

264 • PREMIER BRIDE PremierBrideMKE.com

idealimpressions.com 262-729-3192

JC Designs LLC jcdesignswi.com 414-507-2192

(See pg 158)

planning SAVING YOUR SANITY, ONE LIST AT A TIME

Twelve Month Wedding Timeline Now that you’ve said “yes!” it’s time to get organized! Use our checklist as a guideline to help you through the wedding planning process. TWELVE MONTHS

z Choose the date & time z Plan the budget z Reserve ceremony site z Start your guest list z Hire a wedding consultant z Meet with officiant to discuss premarital counseling

z Visit reception sites & reserve one

z Choose your attendants z Shop for gown and arrange alterations

NINE MONTHS

z Order wedding dress, veil & accessories

FOUR MONTHS

z Choose ceremony music z Order men’s formal wear z Reserve rehearsal dinner location

z Book stylist or salon for bridal party hair, nails, & makeup

z Discuss menu with caterer z Order wedding bands z Meet with premarital counselor z Purchase mothers’ dresses TWO MONTHS

z Address & mail invitations z Plan hair & makeup trial z Confirm ceremony details z Arrange rehearsal dinner plans z Complete proper documents

z Take engagement pictures z Select dress for bridal attendants for changing your name z Decide wedding style z Confirm delivery date of gown formal, casual, etc. z Announce engagement in your local newspaper z Interview & book photographer, videographer, caterer, & florist

z Discuss honeymoon plans (get passport if needed)

z Choose reception music z Send Save-the-Date cards SIX MONTHS

ONE MONTH

z Obtain marriage license z Arrange final gown fittings z Buy gifts for the wedding party z Make reservations for bridesmaids’ luncheon

z Reserve rental equipment z Purchase wedding accessories (guest book, z Choose your baker & order your wedding cake & groom’s cake

z Finalize guest list z Register for gifts z Order invitations, stationery, & thank you cards

z Reserve accommodations for out-of-town guests

z Finalize honeymoon plans z Choose favors

unity candle, cake knife)

TWO WEEKS

z Start reception seating chart & place cards

z Confirm rehearsal dinner plans z Contact guests who didn’t RSVP z Break in wedding shoes z Write rehearsal dinner & wedding toasts

z Meet with photographer & videographer & submit a list of must-take shots

z Confirm honeymoon plans

ONE WEEK

z Pick up your gown z Pack for honeymoon z Confirm transportation details z Give caterer final head count z Review timetables & details with vendors

z Put fees in wedding day envelopes

DAY BEFORE

z Deliver gift baskets to hotels z Host bridesmaids’ luncheon z Have manicure and pedicure z Attend ceremony rehearsal z Hold rehearsal dinner & hand-out special gifts to wedding party

z Prepare tip envelopes & arrange for someone to distribute them

WEDDING DAY

z Eat breakfast z Arrange to get checked in & have luggage delivered to your hotel

z Get hair & makeup done z Relax! You’re getting married!!!

Wedding Day Checklist A checklist of things every bride should have on hand for her wedding day. Be prepared! Check off items as you assemble your kit. HONEYMOON CHECKLIST

z Airline tickets (note flight number & departure/ arrival time)

z Cruise tickets (note cabin number & departure/ arrival time)

z Resort/Hotel phone & confirmation number z Passports/Visas z Camera, SD cards & charger z Credit cards z Traveler’s checks z Sewing kit z Medicines/Prescriptions z Extra contact lenses or glasses z Toiletries z Electrical plug adapters z Hair dryer UPDATING YOUR NAME

z Auto Registration z Bank & Credit Card Accounts z Car Insurance Policy z Credit Reporting Agencies z Deeds/Titles z Driver’s License z Employee Records z Investment Accounts z Life Insurance Policy z Medical/Dental Records z Memberships z Passport z Post Office Records z Social Security Records z Stock Certificates z Tax Agency Records z Voter Registration Records z Wills/Trusts

WEDDING DAY EMERGENCY KIT

z Phone numbers for

wedding party, wedding coordinator & vendors

z Sewing kit (thread, needle, safety pins & scissors)

z Personal emergency kit

(including Shout wipes, tampons, & a small snack)

z Skin care (cleansers,

moisturizers & lotion)

z Hair care (hair dryer, curling iron, curlers, brush, comb, hair spray, hair gel, bobby pins, hair elastics, barrettes)

z Nail polish, nail file & polish remover (in shade worn & clear to stop runs in nylons)

z Makeup & makeup remover z Double stick tape z Extra pair of nylons z Toothbrush, toothpaste, floss & mouthwash

z Steamer or iron z Hand mirror, tweezers & small grooming scissors

z Tissues & disposable wipes z Anti-cling spray z Deodorant, perfume & baby powder

z Cotton balls, cotton swabs z Headband or clips for pulling hair back while applying makeup

z Small hand towel z Lint brush z Breath mints z Cash z Checks z Something old, new, borrowed & blue

WEDDING ATTIRE

for her:

z Gown z Headpiece & veil z Lingerie (bra, bustier, slip) z Hosiery & garter z Shoes z Jewelry & accessories z Wrap/jacket z Gloves for him:

z Coat, shirt, vest, trousers z Cummerbund z Neckwear z Cufflinks z Socks & shoes

don’t forget z Rings & marriage license z Ring bearer pillow z Flower girl basket z Wedding programs z Cake knife & server z Toasting flutes z Favors z Guest book & pen z Unity candle, kiddush cup z Pay officiant & vendors z Assign person to collect gifts

Cakes Planner CAKE STYLE

CAKE ACCESSORIES

GROOM'S CAKE

ADDITIONAL DETAILS

Type of Cake

Cake Topper

Type of Cake

Wedding Cake Location

Flavor of Filling

Cake Flowers

Cake Theme

Groom's Cake Location

Flavor of Icing

Cake Decorations

Flavor of Filling

Cake Table Decorations

Date to Taste Samples

Cake Stands

Flavor of Icing

Part to Save

Description

Cake Boxes

Cake Decorations

Person Responsible for Cake Top, Knife, & Server

Cake Knife & Server

Description Person to Save & Freeze Cake

Cake Napkins

Catering Planner TYPE

COURSES

ENTRÉES

ALCOHOL

SERVICE

RENTAL ITEMS

z Beer & Wine z Wine with Dinner z Champagne Toast z Specialty Cocktail

z Passed Hors d'oeuvres z Hors d'oeuvre Tables z Seated Meal z Buffet

z Breakfast/Brunch z Tea z Lunch z Cocktails z Dinner z Dessert z Full Bar

z Hors d'oeuvres z Appetizer z Soup z Salad z Entree z Dessert z Cocktails

z Beef z Chicken z Pork z Fish/Seafood z Lamb z Pasta z Tables z Chairs & Chair Covers z Linens z China, Glassware, Silverware & Serving Dishes

SPECIAL

z Vegetarian z Kosher z Gluten Free z Other

Flowers Planner FLOWERS BY SEASON SPRING

Cherry Blossom Daffodil Dogwood Forsythia Hellebore Hyacinth Lilac Lily of the Valley Muscari Peony Quince Rose Sweet Pea Tulip Viburnum SUMMER

Anemone Astilbe Azalea Calla Lily Camellia Cosmos Daffodil Dahlia Daisy Delphinium French Tulip Hollyhock Hyacinth Hydrangea Jasmine Lady's Mantle Larkspur Lilac Lily of the Valley Marigold Mimosa Pansy Peony Primrose Ranunculus FALL

Autumn Leaves Celosia (cockscomb)

DESCRIPTION OF WEDDING FLOWERS

Chinese Lantern Chrysanthemum Crosnia Dahlia Hydrangea Seasonal Berries Statice Sunflower Yarrow

HELPERS

CEREMONY

Cake Cutting Attendant

Altar/Chuppah

Guest Book Attendant

Candles & Holders

Officiant

Pew/Aisle Markers

WINTER

Soloists & Musicians

Other

WEDDING PARTY

Other

Bride’s Bouquet

RECEPTION

Bride’s Toss Bouquet

Entryway

Bride’s Attendants’

Head Table Centerpiece

Bouquets

Parents’ Table

Flower Girl’s Headpiece / Basket

Centerpieces

Amaryllis Anemone Casablanca Lily Evergreen Forced Bulbs Freesia Gerber Daisy Heather Narcissus Holly (ilex) Paper-white Poinsettia Rose Stephanot YEAR ‘ROUND

Baby’s Breath Calla Lily Carnation Cattleman Chrysanthemum Daisy Freesia Gardenia Gerber Daisy Gladiolus Iris Lily Orchid Protea Ranunculus Rose September Aster Snapdragon Stephanotis Tuberoses

Groom’s Boutonnière Groom’s Attendants’ Boutonnière Ushers’ Boutonnière Ring Bearer’s Boutonnière Mothers’ & Grandmothers’ Corsages

Guest Table Centerpieces Reception Room Flowers Cake & Cake Table Champagne/Punch Table Gift Table Guest Book Table Restroom

Fathers’ & Grandfathers’ Boutonnières

Other

BOUTONNIERE | Single flower for men worn on lapel

NOSEGAY | Single flower or small bouquet, carried

CORSAGE | Single flower for women worn on wrist

POMANDER | Round bouquet on cord usually for flower girls

CASCADE | Blossoms & greenery in teardrop shape

SPRAY | Small bunch of gathered flowers, carried

HAND TIED | Cut flowers tied with ribbon/fabric, carried

TOSS BOUQUET | Bouquet thrown to the single ladies

Wedding Budget CEREMONY

MUSIC

Ceremony Site Fee

Ceremony

Save-the-Date Cards

Officiant

Reception

Marriage License

Candles/Candelabra

OPTIONAL ITEMS

Invitations & Envelopes

Calligrapher

Postage

Thank You Notes

Ceremony Programs

FAVORS & ACCESSORIES $

Cake Knife & Server

Cake Top

Favors

Flower Girl’s Basket

Guest Book & Pen

STATIONERY

Wedding Coordinator

Attendant Accommodations

Bridesmaids’ Dresses & Shoes

Placecards

Flower Girl’s Dress

Other

Groomsmens’ Formal Wear

TRANSPORTATION

Ring Bearer’s Pillow

Ring Bearer’s Attire

Toasting Glasses

Bridesmaid Luncheon

Unity Candle, Kiddish Cup

Host & Hostess Gift

Attendants Gifts

Other

FLOWERS $

Bride’s Bouquet

Attendants’ Bouquets & Boutonnière

Groom’s Boutonnière

Ceremony Flowers

Reception Flowers

Decorations

GIFTS $

Maid/Matron of Honor

Bridesmaids

Best Man

Groomsmen

Ushers

Child Attendants

Bride & Groom

Bride’s Parents & Grandparents

Groom’s Parents & Grandparents

Pre-Wedding Party Hosts

Cake Cutting Attendant

Soloist/Musicians

Program Attendants

Other

PHOTOGRAPHY $

Photographer Fees

Engagement Session

Proofs

Wedding Album(s)

Disk of Images

RECEPTION

Wedding Party

Guests

Parking

VIDEOGRAPHY $

Videographer’s Fee

Wedding DVD

Additional Copies

Edited Highlights

“Love Story” Production

WEDDING ATTIRE

Reception Site Fees

FOR HER:

Food & Service

Gown

Tax & Gratuity

Alterations

Beverage/Bar Fee

Headpiece / Veil

Cake/Cake Cutting Fee

Lingerie & Garter

Rental Items

Shoes

Other

Jewelry & Accessories

Hair, Makeup, Manicure

Other

RINGS $

Engagement

Bride’s Wedding Band

Groom’s Wedding Band

FOR HIM:

Formal Wear

Neckwear & Cufflinks

Accessories

Shoes

Other

Sharing the Cost Willingness and ability should always be taken into account when negotiating who pays for each expense. Use these traditional guidelines for some basic guidance, but don’t be afraid to break the “rules!” Everyone should be comfortable with their share and nothing is ever set in stone.

BRIDE

GROOM

z Groom’s Wedding Ring z Wedding Gift for Groom z Gifts for Bridesmaids z Gift for Parents z Gowns for Bridesmaids (optional) z Accommodations for Out-of-

z Bride’s Engagement & Wedding Ring z Bride’s Bouquet z Mothers' Corsages z Wedding Gift for Bride z Gifts for Groomsmen & Ushers z Gift for Parents (optional) z Formal wear for Groomsmen (optional) z Accommodations for Out-of-

Town Attendants (optional)

z Informal Stationery

Town Attendants (optional)

BRIDE’S FAMILY

z Engagement Party z Bride’s Wedding Attire z Bride’s Parents’ Wedding Attire z Wedding Gift for Newlyweds z Invitations, Announcements,

z Marriage License z Honeymoon z Fee for Officiant

z Engagement & Wedding Photographs

z Groom’s Wedding Attire z Groom’s Parents’ Wedding Attire z Wedding Gift for Newlyweds z Rehearsal Dinner z Shipment of Wedding Gifts to Couple’s Home z Welcome Party for Out-of-Town Guests (optional)

GROOM’S FAMILY

z Engagement Party (optional; following

Thank You Notes, Postage

party by bride’s parents)

z Wedding Ceremony Programs

z Wedding Reception z Flowers for Ceremony & Reception z Bridal Party Bouquets & Flowers for Flower Girl z Transportation for Wedding Party to Ceremony & Reception

WEDDING PARTY

z Videographer z Musicians/Vocalists z Security & Insurance for Gifts z Welcome Party for Out-of-Town Guests

z Bridal Shower for Bride z Bachelor(ette) Party z Accommodations for Self z Wedding Attire & Shoes

totals for budget

Ceremony

Music

Stationery

Favors & Accessories

Photography

Transportation

Flowers

Reception

Videography

Gifts

Rings

Wedding Attire

Your

Registry Checklist RISE & SHINE

z Sheet Set z Duvet z Comforter z Pillows z Mattress Pad

COOK A MEAL

z Saucepans z Cookware z Cutting Boards z Mixing Bowls z Knife Set

HONEYMOON

z Plane Tickets z Hotel z Luggage z Rental Car z Beach Towels z Excursions

ENTERTAIN TOGETHER

z Flatware z Cheese Plate z Wine Glasses z Whiskey Glasses z Pitcher z Salad Bowl z Bar Tools

FLOWER POWER

FRESHEN UP

ENTERTAINMENT & SOUND

z Bathmat z Shower Curtain z Soap Dispenser z Storage

z Sound Bar z Security System z Digital Camera z Alexa

z Towel Set

z TV

DECORATE TOGETHER

z Picture Frames z Throw Blankets z Lamps z Art z Furniture

z Grill z Patio Furniture z Lawn Mower z Leaf Blower

TOOL STUFF

WAKE UP

z Coffee Maker z Toaster z Blender z French Press z Waffle Maker

GET OUTSIDE

z Planters z Yard Items z Hose z Lawn Ornaments

OFFICE TIME MAKE IT SPOTLESS

z Vacuum z Broom z Laundry Basket z Iron / Board z Mop

z Desk z Office Supplies z File Cabinet z Stand Up Desktop z Paper Shredder

z Toolbox z Electric Drill z Step Ladder z Full size Ladder z Saw z Laser Level z Stud Finder

FOR FUN

z Board Games z Camping Gear z Fitness items z Books z Bikes

THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX

z Hangers z Kitchen Furniture

z Sports Items z Yard Games

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More than Love

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