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appy February! Although the shortest month, this year’s February is jam-packed with action! It brings us not only Valentine’s Day but also the 2014 Winter Olympics, hosted by Sochi, Russia. I always find the Olympics to be a nice break from the winter doldrums, and they provide lots of fun for the entire family. To that end, we bring you lots of great ideas on celebrating all things Olympics in this issue. From great gold medals you can make with your kids to terrific ideas on hosting an Olympic party to making a Sochi-inspired meal, we are your one-stop shop for Olympic family fun all month long! In honor of this year’s Olympics, we wanted to focus on local athletes. We asked for nominations for “gold medal teens” and had such a hard time choosing just five on which to focus. I am thrilled to introduce our five gold medalists. These local young people are athletes who not only excel in their chosen sports but also give back to the community in some way. Tisha Foley introduces us to these stellar students on pg. 22. Fear not! We haven’t forgotten about Valentine’s Day! For creative ways to show your kids you love them, check out Jen Duxbury’s article, “Spread the Love,” on pg. 14. Looking for a creative gift for your husband? Check out my article, “A Year of Dates,” on pg. 10. And our calendar, both in print and online at KCParent.com, has tons of great valentine activities for all of Kansas City.

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o longer is diabetes categorized as juvenile onset or adult onset. With the obesity epidemic on the rise, diabetes is now divided into type 1 and type 2. Diabetes is a metabolic disorder that interrupts how our bodies use and break down the sugar and carbohydrates that we consume. The food we consume is broken down into glucose, which is used for growth and energy. Glucose then enters our cells by insulin, which is produced in the pancreas.

Type 1 was formerly known as juvenile onset diabetes, because it is typically diagnosed among individuals under the age of 30 and consists of 5 to 10 percent of all diabetes diagnoses (Mayo Clinic). These individuals produce little to no insulin. Type 2 diabetes has been reported among children and adolescents, as well as adults. Eighty percent of those people with type 2 are overweight, and their bodies are either resistant to the effects of insulin or do not produce enough insulin to maintain a normal blood sugar level. The signs and symptoms of type 1 and type 2 are very similar: increased urination, feeling very thirsty and hungry, extreme fatigue, blurred vision and cuts/ bruises that are slow to heal. In those with type 1, weight loss occurs even though the individual is eating more. Parents of very young children who cannot yet ask for drinks have reported their childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s drinking bath water or finding other sources, such as the dog bowl. Tingling, pain or numbness in the hands and feet may also occur for those with type 2

(Diabetes.org). The main difference is that the symptoms of type 1 often come on quickly and are fairly noticeable. In type 2, the onset is gradual and often can be overlooked or disguised as some other ailment. Once diagnosed with diabetes 1 or 2, a patient must monitor blood sugar levels and diet. Type 1 diabetics will require insulin injections daily with or without the use of an insulin pump. The treatment for type 2 diabetics is dependent on the resistance of insulin and can change over time. Some type 2 diabetics are able to control their blood sugar with diet and exercise alone. Others must combine diet and exercise with oral medication once or twice a day, and some require insulin injections. It is important for all diabetics to check their blood sugar daily and adjust insulin and diet accordingly. Diabetes is a serious illness that requires daily monitoring and, if left untreated, can lead to many other complications. Talk to your doctor if you have any questions or concerns. Jessica Heine is a labor and delivery nurse. She lives with her husband and two kids in Olathe.

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A Year of Dates

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Watch Groupon. I was able to get dinner at a nice restaurant for our July anniversary date at a great rate thanks to Groupon. “Like” potential date locales on Facebook. One of our date destinations was running a deal through FB. I purchased an $80 gift card for only $40! Search the internet. I found several creative date night ideas on various blogs. This helped to ensure that every date wasn’t dinner and a movie (our go-to night out). Start early. The longer you can watch for deals and specials, the more money you will save.

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am what I would consider an okay gift giver. I can come up with clever ideas about 75 percent of the time. My mom, on the other hand, is an awesome gift giver. She comes up with the most creative, thoughtful and personal gifts for anyone and everyone. I aspire to be as good as she is! This past fall I saw an idea on Pinterest (where else) in which a wife gave her husband the gift of a year of dates, one date a month for 12 months. The idea resonated with me, and because I didn’t have a home run idea for a gift for my husband, I was sold. Anyway, the hubs and I don’t get out together nearly as often as we should. While this idea does take a bit of planning, it’s the perfect gift for that special someone for Valentine’s Day, a birthday or anniversary. Not only does this make a great gift for a spouse, it could work just as well with kids. What better present to give your children than the gift of time together? The best part is that you get to enjoy this gift as much as the recipient. To get your creative juices flowing, here are the 12 dates that I gave to my husband:

January: Tickets to a movie event at Alamo Drafthouse and a gift card for food. February: Gift card to a local bowling center and a new pair of socks to wear bowling. March: Dinner and a show at New Theatre Restaurant. April: Gift card to Black Dog Coffeehouse and a new card game. May: Drive-in movie tickets, popcorn and candy. June: Tickets to a local venue for a concert. July: Anniversary month! Dinner at Gaslight Grill. August: Progressive dinner through the mall and people watching bingo. September: At-home date night. Pizza gift certificate, new movie to watch and copies of quiz books How Well Do You Know Your Husband? and How Well Do You Know Your Wife? October: Gift card to Power Play. November: Bookstore date night. I printed up bookstore task cards and got a certificate to Russell Stover’s for dessert after the bookstore. December: Night out painting at Thirsty Pallette. I placed all items for each date in a manila envelope and wrote a note explaining what we would be doing on each date night. I purchased all gift cards and collateral items in advance to ensure that each date would happen. With the money already spent, we had to find the time to make each one happen so that the money wouldn’t go to waste. At the beginning of each month, we pull out that month’s envelope and sit down with the calendar to find a date for our night out. Those manila envelopes have become a fun highlight in our relationship. We both certainly look forward to some special time together. They’re also a regular reminder to my husband of how much he is loved. Give it a try with someone you love. Margaret Sarver lives in Lenexa with her family. She and her husband can be found out and about at least once a month on their date night.

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Heart Health at Any Age

ccording to the Centers for Disease Control, 26.5 million Americans suffer from heart disease, and heart disease is the leading cause of death in our country. But let’s bring this down to a simpler level. More than one in three women has some form of heart disease, and since 1984, the number of deaths for females has exceeded those for males. The American Heart Association’s Go Red campaign focuses specifically on women and women’s heart health. Here is what they suggest for heart disease prevention: Know your numbers: Go to a screening and find out what your cholesterol and blood pressure are. The goal should be below 200 for cholesterol and below 120/80 mmHg for your blood pressure. Know your family history: If anyone in your family suffered from a heart attack, stroke or other heart diseases, your risk for developing heart disease increases. This is good to know for future prevention. Smoking: Don’t smoke! This increases your risk for heart disease up to four times that of someone that doesn’t smoke. It’s never too late! For more information go to QuitNow.net. Alcohol: Drink in moderation. Drinking heavily can cause a spike in blood pressure and may cause heart failure or stroke. For women, this is no more than one drink per day. Birth Control: Oral contraceptives can cause an increase in your blood pressure and may lead to stroke. If you can safely use another form of birth control that doesn’t put your heart at risk, consider it. Talk with your doctor about birth control options that will be best for you. Eat balanced meals: Eating healthy means eating nutritiously. Include fruits, vegetables, whole grains, fish and beans. Avoid food that must be advertised. Exercise: Exercise at least 40 minutes four times per week. Brisk walking or jogging with friends or family may help accomplish this goal. It also provides a healthy social stress reliever. For more information visit GoRedForWomen.org and, as always, discuss any issues with your doctor.

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hugs all around Authors Write of Love, Friendship and Family in New Books By McGeath Freeman

The Runaway Hug By Nick Bland Illustrated by Freya Blackwood Best for: Ages 3-7

The adventure begins when Mommy gives Lucy her last hug. But we soon learn that one hug can go a long way. First, Lucy shares the hug with her dad. Then she forces it on her twin brothers. Her little sister always wants to share hugs. And the family dog is game for a hug. Lucy notices how the hug evolves and changes each time it is shared, but it is always just as nice as the first one with Mommy.

comfort as he builds the scene of a busy family just before bedtime. Blackwood’s illustrations are friendly and welcoming. They entice you into this family’s home with all of its imperfections, but only spotlight the love they share. Children will enjoy this tale and relate to the characters as they themselves snuggle into bed. The Runaway Hug will make a wonderful addition to any child’s bedtime ritual.

Bland incorporates a lot of warmth and What’s good: A sense of comfort and love comes through loud and clear. What’s bad: Nothing.

A Big Hug for Little Cub

By Lori Ann Grover Illustrated by Rosalinda Kightley Best for: Ages Infant-3

A Big Hug for a Little Cub is aptly named. It feels a little like you are getting a big hug as you read the sweet tale of a young lion cub spending the day with his mother in the African savannah. From practicing his pounce to tug-o-war with a friend, to bath and bedtime, the rhymes are simple and inviting for beginning readers, and the illustrations will make any baby feel safe.

Board books are great for infants and toddlers. Infants slobber and teethe on them without causing too much damage, and toddlers begin to recognize their first words as they practice their reading habits. So it’s good to find a book that makes them feel loved. “Big Hug” will be a good a bedtime book for young families, especially if you have a cat-loving toddler around the house.

What’s good: Inviting illustrations and friendly rhymes. What’s bad: The pages aren’t waterproof, so slobber can be a problem.

City of Light, City of Dark

By Avi Illustrated by Brian Floca Best for: Ages 8-12

In 1993, City of Light, City of Dark was Publishers Weekly’s book of the year. Twenty years later, it is being rereleased with new cover art and may gain a whole new audience, thanks to how graphic novels have gone mainstream. In this graphic novel, Avi takes us to another New York City, where light and dark are controlled by a group of beings

called the KURBS. They play a game with humans, but unbeknownst to us, our fate usually depends on just one person. But in this complicated tale, two kids fight to save the city. The two kids have to solve mysteries, uncover lies, defeat bad guys and fly a homemade plane as they try to find the one subway token that can ensure the city sees another day of light and warmth.

What’s good: The graphic nature will appeal to kids and comic book fans. What’s bad: The relationship, or lack thereof, of New York City to our own world is confusing.

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I am ... … excited for tomorrow. … a future astronaut. … crazy about music. … a great dancer. … a big sister. … a blood recipient. … determined. … a survivor. … brave. … strong. … happy. Eleanor has dreams that are out of this world! She is a big sister who loves to sing and dance all day long. Eleanor is able to dance, play and most importantly, dream anything that she wants to dream, because she is a survivor. She won her fight against Pre-B-Cell Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia! She is thankful for blood donors who took just 60 minutes of their time to help save her life.

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spread the love February is the month of love! There are never enough ways to show or express your love to your children, and their feeling loved and

Propose a milk toast to your child at dinner.

Leave sticky notes with funny quotes written on them around the house for them to find.

Have a tickle fest or pillow fight.

Place a small token/gift under their pillows at night.

Make an appreciation board and every morning write a word or place a sticker on the board and tell him why you appreciate him.

Mail them handmade cards or write them letters.

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Wish upon a star at night together.

show your children that you love and cherish them throughout the day, and while you might shower your family throughout the year with unconditional love, why not get creative this month and go beyond the hugs and kisses to show your affection? We’ve compiled some easy and creative ways to let your kid-

Designate a place in your home as an art gallery to display your child’s masterpieces.

Cut their sandwiches or pancakes into fun shapes.

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Dye their milk their favorite colors.

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Read them one more book.

Blow up a picture of your child and every day add a word that represents a quality that you respect about her.

Cuddle up on the couch with hot chocolate and their favorite book.

Start a journal together and leave each other passages. Place the book in a hidden spot for the other to find.

Cook a child’s favorite meal together.

Take them to a movie they want to see.

Hide Hershey Kisses in their coat pockets.

Search the house together for lost change, then take the kids to an arcade or candy store.

Make a frame together and put a picture of the two of you in it.

Write them a poem.

Make a CD of all of their favorite songs and have a dance party.

Decorate the doors to their rooms.

Allow them uninterrupted time at the dinner table to talk about their day.

Go to the store together and get ingredients to make hot fudge sundaes.

Wake them up in the morning with their favorite breakfast.

Welcome them home from school with their favorite snack.

Make a fort or tent and have a picnic inside; share funny stories or tell secrets to one another.

Share pictures of yourself as a child and tell them stories about your childhood.

Redecorate their rooms just because and have them help design their renovated spaces.

Create a secret handshake that only you and your kids will know.

Make a coupon book filled with things your child loves to do or passes for things they want to get out of. Make lists of all the things you love about them and place the lists on their pillows at night.

Surprise them and “kidnap” them from school to take them out for lunch.

Go through their baby books or baby pictures and tell them about the day they were born. Ask them what they want to do today and actually follow through with it, within reason of course. Make bath time elaborate with scented bubbles, dyed water, bath crayons and paint for the walls.

Watch home movies together, with them as the stars.

Throw some balloons in there and hang some streamers, too!

Spend a day “unhooked” and totally focused on them.

Leave encouraging notes in their lunch boxes.

Create bedtime stories with your child as the hero to highlight his special traits and strengths.

Cook a favorite meal together.

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Eight years and two children later, I realize that hen I was pregnant with a) my teacher was right—there is my daughter eight years always a work-around if you don’t have ago, I bumped into a former teacher the right thing on hand, and b) raising confident, independent as I was out shopping to prepare children may be the hardest job we have the nursery. I was stressed out at the as parents! Fortunately, I had the opportunity to time with concerns about getting the get answers from one of Kansas City’s top baby’s room, car seat, bottles and the experts on the subject, Randy B. Floyd, LSCSW, Midwest Anxiety, LLC. seemingly dozens of other things we One of the key factors in raising needed to get ready prior to Baby’s confident children, according to Floyd, is arrival. My teacher calmed me down encouraging your children to handle all types of situations—even uncomfortable as she advised me of our greater role ones—by themselves. “By parents’ allowing their child to as parents: step outside of his or her comfort zone, “Jane,” she said, “all these the parent conveys, ‘You can handle it.’ The goal of this active ‘trial and ertangible things will come and go. ror’ parenting style allows the child to Remember the one truly important develop the necessary skills to become job you have as a parent is to raise independent at the various developmental stages,” says Floyd. independent, confident children.” “It is important for parents to en-

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courage their child to build personal skills to manage distressing situations rather than the child’s expecting the parent to assist in avoiding, accommodating and reassuring during the distressing situation,” continues Floyd. Floyd also encourages parents to hold back from “rescuing” their children during difficult or uncomfortable situations. This is something we overprotective parents may find to be the most important—and challenging—rule to follow. “Rather than trying to control the environment or situation, assist the child in understanding the things he can control: the way that he thinks, feels and acts during distressing situations,” says Floyd. Along those lines, Floyd encourages parents to create “a ‘family operating system’ that emphasizes choices, learning and adapting” to foster childhood development. “Establishing a system of active behavioral experimentation, learning and adjusting to situations will increase the child’s independence and ability to better tolerate distressing situations without parental assistance,” he advises. Even simple things like chores can lead to effective teaching moments. “I give my boys age-appropriate chores or tasks to do around the house,” says Sarah Squires, Lee’s Summit mother of two, and hairstylist at Embellish. “They take out the trash and put away their own laundry. They are also expected to clean up after they eat. Even though those are simple tasks that I could do myself and, at times, may cause friction when someone doesn’t feel like doing their chores, I feel it’s important to encourage them to do independent tasks,” she says. “They get excited to help around the house, and it boosts their confidence in their own abilities.” Floyd says, “If you model ‘life is an experiment,’ your child will learn from you...and what kid does not like to experiment?” Jane Blumenthal Martin lives in Overland Park with her husband and two children.

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From the opening ceremony on Feb. 6 through the closing on Feb. 23, the world will be watching the Olympics. Cheer on team USA and celebrate the Olympics KC style with our Winter Olympic Fun Guide. From inspiring gold medal teens to cute medals to make at home, KC Parent is the place to turn for all things Olympic!

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TABLE OF CONTENTS: 19 SUPER SPARKLY OLYMPIC MEDALS 20 KEYSTONE & KIDS 22 GOLD MEDAL ATHLETES 28 CELEBRATING THE WINTER OLYMPICS

CRAFTCORNER Children of all ages will enjoy making their own medals to wear while celebrating the Olympics.

super sparkly olympic medals Step 1: Find some old jar lids. If you want to add some dimension to the medals, have your child decorate them with different foam stick-on shapes. Step 2: Mix a little bit of water with white glue. Brush the glue mixture all over the lid. Step 3: While the glue is still wet, sprinkle glitter all over the lid, covering it completely. Step 4: After the lid is dry, cut some ribbon to the desired length. An adult can hot glue the ends of the ribbon to the back side of the lid.

Get into the Olympic spirit by making these sparkly medals at home with your child. It only requires a few inexpensive materials and a little creativity. Children of all ages will enjoy making their own medals to wear while celebrating the Olympics.

Materials Needed: Jar lids Foam stick-on shapes (optional) Glue Foam brush Glitter (gold, silver and bronze) Ribbon Hot glue

Now your child is all set to become an Olympic medalist! Megan Kapple is a blogger from Kansas City, MO, where she lives with her husband and three young daughters. She loves anything DIY and crafty and blogs about her adventures at HomemadeGinger.com.

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FAMILY FRIENDLY ADVENTURES FILL WINTER DESTINATION

KEYSTONE & KIDS

Keystone by the Numbers: 662– acres of terrain fixed with snowmaking capabilities, helping Keystone be one of the first resorts to open each season. 171– days kids 12 years and under ski free at Keystone with two nights of booked lodging. No blackout dates. No restrictions. No red tape. Just you, your family and Keystone. 9– trails that remain open into the evening, equaling 243 acres, making it the largest night ski operation in Colorado, including a segment of the terrain park (Colorado’s only night park). 0– number of ski school programs in the nation like Keystone’s Mom, Dad and Me lesson: A one-hour private instruction at the end of the day to review your child’s progress and learn how you can help your child’s continued progression. 400-650– length, in feet, of the Adventure Point tubing hill. 150– approximate number of red wagons available for easier transport of gear to and from the slopes. 1– number of chicken dances performed each night at Der Fondue Chessel. 146,000– chocolate chunk and white chocolate cherry cookies baked annually by Chef Ned for Keystone’s check-in cookie bag program.

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If you stay in a Keystone property for at least two nights, kids 12 and under ski free.

s I anticipate watching this month’s Winter Olympics from the coziness of my Overland Park living room, my thoughts turn to a recent family vacation, one of my favorites because we were able to unplug and enjoy God’s beautiful creation together. While not as exotic as Sochi, Russia, our ski trip destination of Keystone Resort in Colorado was a perfect fit for the family and quite accessible—a doable 10-hour drive to the Denver area (plus, good airfare deals can shorten the trip affordably). Keystone Resort has long been a place where kids rule. From specialty family friendly après ski offerings to mountaintop snow forts, the resort is a winter wonderland that allows kids and parents alike to truly enjoy their well-earned vacation time together. Affordability was a big factor in our decision to choose Keystone Resort. If you stay in a Keystone property for at least two nights, kids 12 and under ski free. Keystone itself manages more than 800 different types of lodging units, and when you factor in VRBO.com and other options, vacationers can choose from a wide range of accommodations. For our family of six, we chose Red Hawk townhome with a fully stocked kitchen and an

easy walk from our doorstep to the main gondola lifts. After we got settled, we took some time to walk to the quaint River Run Village, boasting restaurants, stores, coffee shops, ice skating, a small grocer and amazing ice sculptures, to grab some dinner. We arrived at Pizza on the Run and although everyone claimed they were not very hungry, we nearly finished off two large pizzas! The braided crusts were piled high with our favorite toppings making for a yummy meal. Next, we went to get our ski rentals situated. I always feel like getting ski rentals is just a hassle, but we had a different experience at the Keystone Ski & Ride School/Rental tent. We were immediately greeted by a friendly staff member who assured that our experience would be efficient and successful. In less than 30 minutes, we were out the door with six people fitted for skis, boots, poles and helmets. Breathtaking views at the top of the peaks thrilled us on our first day of skiing. Our family quickly got acquainted with a 3.5-mile green run named Schoolmarm, which meanders all the way down the mountain. Located within Schoolmarm, the Schoolyard features

Rockin’ Rollers, terrain with small bumps, and Tornado Alley, an area with changing terrain, to encourage families to take their skiing to the next level. Our family has only skied a few times, and I was surprised how confident everyone felt by lunchtime of our first day. In the River Run Village, we grabbed lunch at Luigi’s Pasta House, which became our favorite and most-frequented restaurant in the village. We finished out the day skiing and made a wise decision to rent an inexpensive ski locker at the base of the gondola to avoid carrying our gear back and forth to the townhome. The next day, we ventured onto some new slopes and graduated up to a few blue runs, with the family favorite being Spring Dipper. We took some time to play in Keystone’s signature giant mountaintop snow fort complete with tunnels and snow slides for both the young and young at heart. Exploring the snow fort made our troops hungry, so we headed to the Kickapoo Tavern in the River Run Village and enjoyed the best burgers in the county! No trip to Keystone Resort is complete without an afternoon of ice skating or an evening of night skiing! We opted for the ice skating this trip. Keystone boasts two skating areas, a smaller one right in River Run Village and then a 5-acre lake just a few miles down the road at Lakeside Village. We thought we’d mix things up a bit on the third day of our trip, so we booked a Mountaintop Cat Tour. We climbed aboard a warm snowcat and were taken to Independence bowl to take in incredible views of the local mountain scenery, as well as the Continental Divide. After skiing all afternoon, we celebrated the first day of 2014 at the Der Fondue Chessel. Traveling to dinner via two scenic gondola rides, we arrived atop Keystone’s North Peak at 11,444 feet. With its old-fashioned Swiss Bavarian charm, Der Fondue Chessel welcomed us to an evening that will remain a highlight for 2014. We enjoyed a four-course traditional fondue dinner, complete with Bavarian music and dancing. The smoked gouda cheese fondue was my personal favorite, while the kids are still talking about dipping assorted fruits, marshmallows and pound cake in the decadent chocolate fondue. We awoke on our fourth day to picture-perfect ski conditions. It had snowed the day before and, with not a cloud in the sky, the sun beamed down on the fresh powder that was groomed to perfection. Although the family skied that entire day, I snuck out for a few hours to enjoy the spa at the Keystone Lodge and Spa. Treated like a queen, I enjoyed every minute of my treatments. That night we enjoyed another one of Keystone’s

LAKESIDE VILLAGE SKATING

memorable family friendly activities, a sleigh ride dinner. Pulled by 2,000-lb. draft horses, we took a 20-minute sleigh ride through a snow-covered valley to a historic ranch homestead while a wrangler explained to us a bit about the history of the area. Arriving at the homestead, we were greeted with hot chocolate, warm stew and biscuits followed by a delicious steak dinner topped off with homemade apple pie and ice cream. On the sleigh ride back home, we even spied a few elk grazing in the meadow. Our last day in Keystone Resort was another picturesque day filled with abundant sunshine. We first headed to the Adventure Point Tubing Hill, right at the top of Dercum Mountain, for an hour of tubing. The park’s five tubing lanes provided exhilarating fun as we whizzed down the hills. The unique enclosed carpet lift gave us easy access back to the top of the tubing hill. After tubing, we hit the slopes for a few final runs to close out our snowy vacation. Prior to our getaway, I was a bit concerned that Keystone’s size might be too much for our amateur ski family. I was wrong! Although the resort has all of the amenities of really large ski resorts, it caters to families and really is a perfect fit for both the beginners and the more advanced skiers. Keystone has really pulled out all the stops to earn the title “best family ski experience” in Colorado. Without limiting restrictions, kids truly ski free every day through the middle of April. Keystone has loudly declared itself “the ski resort family destination” and certainly lives up to its name!

KEYSTONE’S SNOW FORT

SLEIGH RIDE AND DINNER

MOUNTAINTOP CAT TOUR

Susan Gimotty lives in Overland Park with her husband and four children. They all enjoy skiing vacations! kcparent.com february 2014

GOLD MEDAL ATHLETES

Did you know? 1300 medals will be handed out at the Winter Olympic and Paralympic games.

MEET FIVE LOCAL TEEN ATHLETES WHO EXCEL IN SPORTS AND GIVE BACK TO THE COMMUNITY. 22

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CHRISTIAN CARDIN Many athletes start playing their game when they are young, and Christian Cardin is no exception. At the tender age of 4, he began ice skating and, shortly afterward, tried hockey. Eleven years later, he is still playing. Christian explains his love of hockey: “When I first started skating, I liked the fast pace of the game and the thrill and freedom of skating.” The Blue Valley Northwest High School sophomore plays for the Kansas City Jets, made up of local high school students who compete against teams from Iowa and Nebraska. The team practices at KCIC and their season runs from September to March, with games on most weekends. KC Jets coach Gary Emmons says, “This is my first year coaching Christian. He originally played defense, and I moved him to forward. He has exceeded all expectations at forward and has adjusted very well to the position. Early in the season, he scored a couple of big goals for us.” Christian’s teams have won quite a few awards along the way. He has been on several teams through the years that have won out-of-state tournaments and one year he played on a team that was nationally ranked. Traveling many weekends requires the 15-yearold to miss some school days, but Christian has a good system to keep up with his studies. “I try to look ahead to what my upcoming assignments are going to be and I also stay in contact with my teachers about my schedule if I am going to miss school,” he says. On top of his hectic hockey schedule, Christian stays active in his community, too. Through his church, he has participated in mission trips with his youth group, led small group discussions for younger teens going through confirmation and served as an usher. For the past three years, he has been a member of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes. Christian plays the cello and he assists at a music studio to help other cellists learn their instrument. “I enjoy giving because it helps me appreciate the opportunities that I have been given and it makes me feel good knowing that I am able to help others in my community who are less fortunate,” he says. Emmons acknowledges that the teen has a good head on his shoulders. “Christian is a good kid. He’s not like a lot of teenagers. He’s not rowdy or loud and he keeps to himself.” Christian is grateful for both of his parents, who have sacrificed and supported him through the years. “They have always helped me to see the bigger picture in life,” he remarks.

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ISAAC McAFEE Watching his older sister play basketball while their dad served as a coach sparked Isaac McAfee’s interest in the game at a young age. He played a lot of driveway ball, and when he was in fifth grade, his parents signed him up for a recreational league. Now 18 years old, Isaac has several years of basketball under his belt, including playing for KC Metro Mavericks in junior high, with his dad as the head coach. In high school, Isaac joined the Christ Prep Academy team and played varsity ball by the time he was 16. Isaac played power forward and wing throughout high school. He won a trophy or medal nearly every year, “mainly because our team was one of the best in the league,” he says. Last year he received the honorable mention award at the conference tournament. A senior who has been homeschooled his entire life, Isaac is ineligible to play basketball this year due to Kansas State High School Activities Association rules, so he took a position as Christ Prep Academy’s assistant coach, under head coach Sean McClintock. His dad, Charles McAfee, shares a story about Isaac: “We always played one-on-one and I would win 99 percent of the time. As Isaac grew in height and skill, the games became closer and closer. Now the tide has turned, and he wins 99 percent of the time. A father’s goal is to teach his children to be better than himself. Goal accomplished!” For the past several years Isaac also has played baseball, starting with a youth league in Olathe and now with RBI (Reviving Baseball in Inner Cities). In addition to playing sports year-round, Isaac also gives back to his community. He hosts a weekly book club at the library for boys ages 11 to 15, volunteered a year’s worth of Saturdays at a local pet hospital (where he is now employed) and has helped at Harvesters. He looks forward to more service opportunities through the Eta Sigma Alpha National Homeschool Honor Society. He says his reasons for giving back are simple. “It’s important to me because I know it’s the right thing to do and it’s fun, too.” Isaac credits his teammates, parents, sisters, extended family and friends for supporting him over the years. During downtime, the teen likes to read, play video games, hang out with friends and family, and make items from duct tape. He plans to go to Kansas State University to study veterinary medicine. Isaac has a few words of advice for other teens: “Work hard and never quit, even when it gets tough. If you try hard enough, you can do almost anything.”

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JORDAN McPIKE Around the age that most kids are learning to write their names and pedal a tricycle, Jordan McPike followed in her sisters’ footsteps and put on her first pair of ice skates. She has been hooked ever since. Today Jordan is a busy 17-year-old with an impressive ice skating resume. She was recently awarded the gold level designation in US Figure Skating’s 2014 Graduating Seniors Program and passed a series of tests called “moves in the field” to become a US Figure Skating gold medalist. Jordan has also brought home four medals from the Midwestern and Pacific Coast Synchronized Skating Sectionals, along with silver and pewter medals from the US National Synchronized Skating Championships. Hard work and dedication have earned Jordan these honors and more, but she is not content reaping the rewards without giving back. Jordan says, “Ultimately, all of our talents and gifts are wasted if we are not using them to help others learn to use theirs. That’s what I call true success: being an inspiration to others!” The energetic teenager passes her love of skating on to others through coaching. In 2010, Jordan and her two older sisters, Jessika and Jennifer, started their own synchronized skating teams out of the Independence Events Center called Team Amore’. The sisters love to see other skaters working together. “I am so happy that through Team Amore’ I am able to give back to my community an uplifting synchronized skating organization that offers lifelong friends, constant encouragement and, most importantly, a family and support system to skaters of all ages,” Jordan says. The skater credits her family for being her biggest cheerleaders, both on and off the rink. She says her mom has sacrificed a lot over the years. “She has driven me to all of my practices, helped me find the best coaches, bought my custom skates and, most importantly, has instilled within me an unstoppable drive and determination for my sport that I am now able to pass on to others,” she says. Jordan says her sisters have helped her improve by offering healthy competition and encouragement along the way, and her two coaches, Jessika and Katie, have helped her reach her goal of becoming a USFSA gold medalist in moves. During rare downtime, Jordan enjoys photography, making videos, spending time with family and friends, dancing and stretching. This month you’ll find her watching Olympic figure skating events, especially the ice dancing competitions. Jordan’s advice for other teens? “Strive to be an inspiration for others in your sports, activities and your everyday life … Be a teen that parents would want their kids to look up to!”

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KELLY O’CONNOR After watching her brother swim and managing the boys swim team at her high school, Kelly O’Connor realized she wasn’t content being on the sidelines. She says the coaches convinced her to start swimming, too. Now a senior at Shawnee Mission South High School, Kelly has been swimming competitively for four years. She competes for her school in the spring and for Brookridge Golf and Fitness in the summer. Along the way, she has earned her numerals in high school swimming, was awarded the Bruce Bove award and was selected to be the senior girls swim team captain at her school. Her coach at Brookridge Golf and Fitness, Chris Copeland, has a lot of praise for the swimmer. “Kelly has all the attributes that make coaching so enriching. She has physical limitations in her ability to be a top performer in the water, but her team spirit and enthusiasm to support all the other swimmers and divers are unmatched,” Copeland says. “Kelly has her own time/performance goals and works extremely hard in practice to achieve them.” Copeland sums up her feeling about Kelly: “When I consider how much she has accomplished during her high school years, how much she is loved by so many and her willingness to be the best she can be, I can only say how lucky I am to have the opportunity to know her and her amazing family.” The 18-year-old also stays busy out of the water. She is in the National Honor Society at her school and does volunteer work through that organization and though her church. “Giving back is important, because people have done so much to help me in my life that it is such a wonderful feeling to do the same for others,” Kelly says. In the few moments of spare time she has, the teen enjoys hanging out with her family, friends and dogs. She also likes to read, bake and shop. After graduation, she plans to attend the University of Kansas. She hopes to go into broadcast journalism. Kelly credits several people for supporting her in all her endeavors. “My coaches, Bruce Bove and Chris Copeland, have always been supportive of me, not only in swimming but in all my other activities, as well. I have had several teachers throughout the years who have encouraged me to stretch beyond my limitations. My family and friends are also always there to cheer me on.” Kelly would like to tell other young people, “Don’t let limitations stop you from doing the things you love. The only disability in life is a bad attitude!”

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ADDY RUBY Toddlers are generally active, but most of them probably don’t climb stair rails, jump and tumble on sofa cushions and swing on low tree branches from the time they can walk. Addy Ruby did all of these things, and she also pretended bleachers were balance beams while at her older sisters’ recreational gymnastics classes. “That is how I got invited to a tiny tot class. My parents say that I was always very active,” explains Addy. Now 16, Addy is a competitive USA Gymnastics level 10 gymnast who trains at Diamond Gymnastics. Over the years she has earned a host of awards and achievements. In 2009, she represented Kansas at the National Judges Cup (level 7), won all around at the IGI Chicago Style Gymnastics Meet (level 7) and won all around at Great West Gym Fest (level 8). In 2010, Addy placed first on beam at regionals in level 8, and the following year she won state at level 9. Last season she qualified to compete at level 10 regionals. This year Addy’s goal is to qualify and place well in Level 10 Junior Olympic Nationals. The Olathe East High School junior says that juggling school and gymnastics is all she has ever known. “My routine since kindergarten has always been school, practice, homework, bed. During competition season, I have to stay caught up and complete work ahead in school for days that I miss when we travel. My family is a great support to me in this area. We stick to routine and strive for balance.” Addy enjoys volunteering when she is able. She has worked at Harvesters and Catholic Charities, participated in the Knights of Columbus Tootsie Roll Drive and been a bell ringer for the Salvation Army. This active teen also has participated in Race for the Cure and other breast cancer events. “I have a new awareness about this disease, following my mom’s diagnosis of breast cancer during my freshman year of high school,” she says. Addy praises her mom, dad, two sisters, brotherin-law, grandparents, extended family and friends for supporting her in everything she does. “I appreciate all the hard work and time they invest in me and my sport,” she acknowledges. “My family also helps me spiritually in my faith, and always helps me keep things in perspective.” In her spare time, the teen likes to relax, watch movies, hang out with friends, shop and spend time with her family. After graduating from high school, Addy plans to attend an NCAA Division 1 college to continue competing in gymnastics and to study nutrition/dietetics or sports psychology. She advises other teens, “Don’t give up on your dreams. Let your faith be bigger than your fear!” Tisha Foley of Belton admires the drive and determination in these young athletes. She wishes them the best in their future endeavors.

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celebrating the winter olympics 2014

It is an Olympic year! Celebrate the Sochi Olympics with authentic Russian experiences, athletic adventures and a true taste of Sochi.

Observe the Opening Ceremony with an Olympic Party

Watch the opening ceremony on Feb. 7 with a simple home celebration. Decorate simply with the colors of the Olympic rings, making a classic paper chain with the colors of the rings and hanging brightly colored streamers and balloons. Purchase flags from around the world and Olympic decorations at U.S. Toy (USToy.com). Top off the festivities with themed snacks:

Learn to Ski

When the Olympic Games inspire the inner athlete in you, head to Snow Creek Ski Resort (816.640.2200) in Weston, MO, just 45 minutes from Kansas City. Whether you are a beginner or advanced skier, you’ll enjoy a day at Snow Creek, where they offer skiing, snowboarding and lessons for beginners.

Yell for the Mavericks

Yelling for the U.S. ice hockey team during the Olympics may bring out a renewed interest in the sport. You can cheer at live games for the Missouri Mavericks (19100 E. Valley View Pkwy., Independence, MO, 816.252.7825), our local minor league professional hockey team. The Mavericks are the only team in the CHL to win a playoff series in each of the team’s first four seasons, including trips to the league semi-final series in each of the last two seasons.

Olympic torches: Fill ice cream cones with popcorn. Olympic rings: Pipe circles of frosting onto Oreos in the colors of the rings. The five colors of the Olympic rings and the white background have at least one color of every nation’s flag in them. Parade of nations: Purchase toothpick flags from around the world at U.S. Toy (USToy.com) and use them to decorate finger foods: cubed cheese, pigs in a blanket, fruits and veggies and cupcakes.

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Missouri Mavericks

Make a Meal from Sochi

Kansas City markets sell Russian delicacies you can serve for a delicious Sochiinspired meal at home. The Better Cheddar (TheBetterCheddar.com, with locations at the Country Club Plaza and Prairie Village Shops) sells cheese from around the world and Russian tea. European Delights (8841 W. 95th St., Overland Park, KS, 913.385.3876), located in historic downtown Overland Park, is a Russian culinary store and gift shop where you can purchase Russian nesting dolls (Matryoshka dolls), meats, cheeses, caviar, smoked fish, sausages and chocolates. If you are not sure what to purchase, you may ask the staff for recommendations and try samples of some products. Taste of Europe (13378 Metcalf Ave., Overland Park, KS, 913.402.8500) is a European delicatessen selling deli meat, cheeses, pastries and chocolates.

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Play Russian Games

Experience a bit of Russian fun by introducing your children to these authentic Russian games. Cossacks and Robbers: Form two equal groups, one representing the Cossacks, the other as robbers. The robbers run and hide while the Cossacks stay behind to guard an area that serves as their camp. All of the Cossacks except one hunt for the robbers. The remaining Cossack guards the camp. When robbers are captured, Cossacks take them to jail at the camp. The game continues until all robbers are captured, with the final robber winning the game. Wizards: This game is similar to American freeze tag. One child is the wizard, chasing all the others and freezing them when they are touched or tagged. Once frozen, a child may yell for the other children to touch and unfreeze him so he may run again. When the wizard freezes everyone, he wins the game.

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Did you know that Sochi is the warmest place the Winter Olympics have ever been held?

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Ice Skate

Indoor and outdoor rinks abound in KC! Take a spin on the ice at one of these rinks. Indoor Ice Sports Arena, 19900 Johnson Dr., Shawnee, KS, 913.441.3033 HCA Midwest Community Ice, 19100 E. Valley View Pkwy., Independence, MO, 816.795.7577 Line Creek Community Center Ice Rink, 5940 NW Waukomis Dr., Kansas City, MO, 816.513.0760 Outdoor The Ice at Park Place, 11565 Ash St., Leawood, KS Crown Center Ice Terrace, Crown Center, 2500 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO Linden Square, NE 70th & N. Cherry, Gladstone, MO The Rink at Burlington Square, 6109 NW 63rd Ter., Kansas City, MO, 816.249.2600

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Cheer for Local American Olympians

The 2014 Winter Olympics inspires patriotism in all of us. And with athletes from across the nation, we have a great opportunity to root for athletes from our own hometown. Pete Yemm, bobsledder from Overland Park, KS will compete in the Olympics. He is a champion bobsledder, having won 2012-2013 North American Cup as brakeman for Colin Coughlin in two-man bobsled, and 2012-2013 North American Cup as push athlete for Codie Bascue and Colin Coughlin in fourman bobsled. Other nearby athletes include ice hockey team member Steve Cash, alpine skier Ian Jansing and speed skater Matt Plummer all from the St. Louis area.

Savor the flavors of Russia

One of the most exquisite historic sites in the area, the 1880 Asbury House, has been transformed into a fine dining restaurant and tea room warranting the nearly hour-long drive from Kansas City. The Belarussian Baker (2010 Shelby, Higginsville, MO, 660.584.5995, open Tue.-Sat., 10:00-8:00), specializes in savory and authentic Russian dishes. Diners enjoy dishes including shashlik (skewered meat), plov (Russian rice pilaf), and pickle soup, schnitzel and Russian honey cake in a relaxed and beautiful Victorian setting with hospitable service. In researching this article, Kristina Light learned that Bono (KC Parent editor Margaretâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s favorite performer) is perhaps the most famous person to have traveled to Sochi prior to this yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Olympics. To her dismay, Sinatra did not make the list.

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Youth-Arch Diocese of KCK Camp Tekakwitha offers horseback riding, high rope challenges, canoeing, hiking, rock climbing, rappelling, basketball, soccer, swimming, mountain boarding, archery, volleyball, mountain biking, outdoor camping, Bible studies, numerous Catholic prayer experiences and

other outdoor camp activities. Camp Tekakwitha is a powerful spiritual experience that leaves campers excited to return year after year. Camp Tekakwitha is operated by the Archdiocese of KC in Kansas. Full info is available online under youth. 785.746.5693. See display ad on pg. 34. www.ArchKCK.org

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LEARN HEALTHY EATING HABITS...AT CAMP!

ith childhood obesity affecting one in five children, camps play a vital role in turning back this national trend. Camps are important partners for parents and children who want to make positive changes that keep kids active and eating right all year long.

THE CULPRITS

Health professionals agree that numerous environmental and social factors are at play when it comes to the eating and exercise behaviors of young people. The era of “walking uphill two miles to school every day” is long-gone for most kids, and with the availability of buses and carpools, most children no longer walk to school. Playing outside is also decreasing with children spending much more time indoors than children 10 or 20 years ago. It’s no surprise to concerned parents that many children spend too much time with inactive technology, devoting as much as three to five hours a day to screen time. According to the Council for Physical Education for Children, sixty minutes is the minimum amount of physical activity recommended for children. Ideally, children should engage in flexibility games and exercises as well as muscular fitness activities at least three times a week, have active aerobics, active sports and recreation activities be a part of each day’s activities, and gather many of the sixty minutes of moderate and vigorous activities from outside play, games, walking, and other physical exer-

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cise. Camps offer an optimal environment to encourage varying levels of physical challenges, teach lifelong active recreational pursuits, and establish opportunities to learn active lifestyle behaviors.

A HEALTHY ATTITUDE

Camps and their staffs make sure that camp programs offer opportunities for healthy and active living. If children begin to change some of their food and activity habits at camp, they might be able to transfer some of these behaviors when they return home. How do camps help? For starters, camps continue doing what they do best, which is focusing on the positive development of children. • Camps can help children learn to like foods that are good for them by presenting good choices in a fun, safe environment. • Camps can provide older children and young adults as mentors for the children, to support positive, healthy behavior. • Camps can teach children that physical exercise is fun and can be an activity of choice over television and video games.

FOOD & NUTRITION

Many camps look for innovative, fun, tasty ways to provide healthy choices and decision-making skills to their campers. The following list includes some “tried-and-true” techniques found at camps:

• Teach children to alter food preferences by giving them good choices. • Offer taste tests, exposing children to new foods. • Encourage eating breakfast. • Offer new exercise/activity pro grams • Reduce “fast food” and junk food for snacks and side dishes (chips, cookies, candy, etc.). Provide healthy options at the snack bar or camp store.

PHYSICAL ACTIVITY

Most camp programs are synonymous with activity, from walking to field games, and the best camps challenge themselves every year by offering fresh activities to draw in new campers and excite returning campers. Camps can play a vital role in contributing to lifelong patterns of exercise and excellent nutrition. Camp is a great place to offer good food, great activities, a positive environment, safe and secure location, and most of all, fun. Adapted from the article, “Kids and Healthy Lifestyles,” by Viki Kappel Spain; M. Deborah Bialeschki, Ph.D.; Karla A. Henderson, Ph.D., published in the September/ October 2005 issue of Camping Magazine. Reprinted from CAMP by permission of the American Camp Association; copyright 2006 American Camping Association, Inc.

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Our traditional camps offer exciting weekly themes, and our specialty camps focus on outdoor activities, sports, engineering, leadership and service learning through Youth Volunteer Corps of Greater Kansas City.

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YMCA Summer Program The Y’s summer day camps offer fun and adventure for kids. Camps are Monday-Friday, and hours accommodate working parents. Camps for ages 5-12 are offered in Olathe, Shawnee Mission, Blue Valley, Bonner Springs, Raymore- Peculiar and Center school districts, and in Parkville. Choose traditional camps with different themes weekly or specialty camps including sports, outdoor and fine arts. In addition, Summer of Service is for ages 1215, and Junior Summer of Service is for ages 9-12. Visit www.KansasCityYMCA.org or call 913.345.9622. See display ad on pg. 33.

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od is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.” 1 John 4:16 It’s a common sentiment among parents: “We never knew how much love our hearts could hold until we had a child.” Words cannot describe the tenderness in my own heart as I stumble upon the swirly-Q “I-love-Mommy” notes my 7-year-old daughter hides around our home, or the elation when my son reaches his little arms around my neck from his top bunk and says, in his yawning 5-year-old voice, “Goodnight, Mommy. I love you more than anything in the whole wide world!” My deepest joys are found in these unfathomable bonds of love. And what I’m learning from my children is that these love-bonds are nothing short of the very presence of God.

“God is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him,” writes John the Apostle. God is love. The phrase resounds again and again in the Bible. It rolls off our lips as we comfort and encourage. It hangs on countless plaques dotting the aisles of the hybrid Christian-craft store. In a word, it’s familiar. And like many familiar truths, I hear it so often that I sometimes fail to hear it at all. I read, “God is love,” yet my comprehension dilutes to this: “God loves.” But that’s not what it says. Without the “is,” the phrase remains true, and yet its true meaning is lost. When it comes to God, love is much more than a verb. Love is the very identity and essence of who God is. God is love.

Because our children are such natural conduits of love, they help us see the world with a wholly new perspective. A holy perspective.

Sure, we say. Okay, true enough. Hang it on the wall. But what if this verse, domesticated by its ubiquitous presence and repetition, contains within a much more radical proposition: To experience love is to experience the very presence of God among us. Because our children are natural conduits of love, they help us see the world with a wholly new perspective. A holy perspective. Those once ordinary moments—the little hand coiled around Dad’s finger, the unexpected hug to comfort Brother’s tears, the belly giggle after yet another round of peek-a-boo—are sacred, all. “The kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these,” Jesus says, embracing the children as they embrace Emmanuel— God with Us—the incarnation of love himself. This Valentine’s Day, as we’re stricken with Cupid’s dainty red arrows, let’s look into our children’s beaming eyes, peer into their humble souls, and in the transcendent and mysterious love we share, recognize the holy presence of God. Wendy Connelly is the faith columnist for KC Parent magazine and a host of the Alpha Course at her church in Olathe.

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one are the days of the card catalog, the Reader’s Guide to Periodical Literature, microfilm, chalkboards, Xerox copies and dial-up modems. Instead, we have replaced them with online catalogs, internet research, white boards and smart boards, wi-fi throughout our buildings, iPads and, in some places, laptops in the hands of every student. With these significant changes in our society come significant changes in the classroom. The classroom where our kids will learn is not the classroom where we grew up.

“Today’s students are capable of much more than what was expected of them just a few years ago. Many of the jobs the kids will hold haven’t even been created yet,” Beth Oyler, mother of three and elementary school teacher, says. One area in education where changes have been marked is in the library or, as most are called now, the Library Media Center. Before, LMC’s were centered on book collections, and teachers would bring their classes down to the LMC for book checkout and other instructional lessons. As more and more students obtain digital readers like a Nook, a Kindle or an iPad, the need for print editions shrinks. “I feel that most reference and non-fiction collections will be digital but still see the need for some print materials in fiction. We still have some adults and, believe it or not, teens who want to hold a print book in their hands,” Connie King, mother of two and library media specialist, says. Another facet of an LMC was computer lab use. But now that many classes have laptops or carts of laptops, the need in many schools to take a whole class to a computer lab no longer exists. Consequently, the LMC shifts to more of a learning center. “Library space is obviously changing, but the current need for the facility still exists. At a school with one-to-one and blended learning, the space will house students who are working out of WEEKLY E-NEWS.

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class but not at home,” King says. Research has always been an important part of school and will continue to be. It is full of even more possibilities now with the vastly expanded amount of information available to students that they couldn’t access before. “With the glut of information available at the click of a mouse, two of the most important skills being taught are critical thinking and thorough evaluation, whether in regards to assigned research or personal inquiry,” King says. “These are important skills that have always been taught, but with the amount of accurate and inaccurate information increasing daily, the need to discern between the two has never been greater.” Oyler agrees and adds, “Students must be able to enter an effective search term and then be able to discern whether the source is credible, up-to-date and accurate. They must understand whether the information is fact or opinion. That has not changed with technology.” One additional thing that is changing with technology is how instruction occurs for students. Several local schools are looking into other options for learning. “We are re-thinking the structures of schools with blended learning, online options, leveraging technology and teacher experiences to bring more autonomy to students and how they want to learn—making them responsible for learning,” Tracey Kracht, mother of two and instructional technology specialist, says. With these changes in the classroom, teachers also have to change the way they instruct the students of this generation.

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“Access to information has changed, so instruction has to change. I have heard that a thing of the past will be arguments,” Kracht says. “You can just use Siri and find the answer; no longer do you have to argue who won a game. That changes instruction for teachers and creates revisions in strategies. Now we have the ‘googleable’ answer, because students have access to all kinds of data. But can they now apply what they know?” Also going by the wayside is teaching cursive in elementary schools. Many schools are no longer taking the time to teach cursive, saying it is no longer needed in the digital era. A quick search in the app store showed 62 results for teaching cursive handwriting. No longer do students need to practice with a teacher, because they can practice on an iPad, iPhone or iPod. With YouTube readily available for students, video learning and teaching themselves is becoming more prevalent. “I came downstairs from putting away laundry, and my fourth grader was sitting on a step with his rainbow loom in hand and his iPod Touch on his lap. He was watching a YouTube video to learn how to do a fish-type weave. He just looked it up because there weren’t any instructions on that particular weave in his directions, and he ‘prefers to watch a video to reading the diagrams.’ I didn’t help him; this is how students are learning now,” Kracht said. Jennifer Higgins is a freelance writer, mother and teacher from Kearney. She recently had her students create an iMovie project, but also enjoys “old skills” like taking notes and using markers and paper to create a poster.

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10 Tell-Tale Signs You’re Stuck in a Parental Idiom Rut 1. “Were you born in a barn?” 2. “Because I said so.” 3. “I’ll give you something to get cry about.” 4. “Because I am your mother/father! 5. “Don’t get smart with me!” 6. “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” 7. “Don’t look at me in that tone of voice!” 8. “Don’t make me pull this car over!” 9. “I don’t care who started it. I’m ending it.” 10. “This hurts me more than it hurts you.”

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hen I was growing up, sports were a big part of my life. Little did I know then my years on a basketball court would help prepare me for parenthood. Yet they have. And interestingly enough, what stands out to me as I journey through parenthood raising my three daughters is not the hard-fought victories or game winning shots, but the repeated go-to phrases and idioms coaches used to mentally train us to be successful individuals on and off the court. One phrase in particular was “remember who you are and where you came from.” This one line had the power to instill pride, honor and respectability in the hearts of a busload of unruly tweens, and it still carries meaning for me today as I’m challenged to impart a sense of self-worth to my own daughters. Finding ways to simplify your words while loading them with meaning may just be your ticket out of the land of nagging and into the domain of happier parents and kids. Whether you are chasing toddlers or carpooling teenagers, your words are significant and will remain with your children for years, maybe generations, to come—so why not make the most of them? Remember, much of the success of these suggested phrases hinges on their being spoken in a sarcasm-free, compassionate tone. Kids are masterful at reeling parents into arguments and negotiations to get what they want (or at least they try to be). How many times do your children ask the same questions over and over because they don’t like your response or just weren’t listening? Here is a list of suggestions to help curtail the negotiation talks and move into a whine-free zone. “Interesting thoughts. Ask me again after you take out the trash.” “Respect my no, please.” “Trash.” (Give one-word chore reminders and fight the urge to elaborate.) “Let’s pick a better time and place to discuss that.” “What are you going to do about that?”

“That is a problem, I agree. Let me know how it turns out for you.” “Bored means you need more business. I’ll fix that.” (kid business = household responsibilities) “Slow obedience is no obedience.” Other phrases come from principles that affect everyday life situations. Olathe mom Tasha Cook encourages her three kids to follow the principle “we are called to do what is right, not what is easy.” Cook says, “These words apply to a variety of situations, whether they be conflicts at school, complaining or sibling rivalry.” Consider your family’s core principles and how you can attach memorable phrases to guide your parenting language. “We don’t stop trying just because it’s hard.” “You’re a (insert your last name), and we don’t give up.” “You’re not who your friends say you are.” “You are (child’s name) no matter where you are or who you’re with.” “Do what you have to do, then you can do what you want to do.” “There is no excuse for poor behavior.” Overland Park mom April Tebbe has been known to sing her way out of frustrating moments with her 3- and 5-year-olds. Tebbe says, “I sing the chorus of ‘We are the Champions’ by Queen whenever they start fussing about something, like brushing teeth. It’s a good loud song, a distraction for them and me, and eventually they join in.” For a guaranteed eye roll and huffy breath, try singing the Rolling Stones’ line “You can’t always get what you want.” Our words have power in our children’s lives. The time to influence and train them to be successful contributors in the game of life is limited. Consider your family’s current expressions and whether they are achieving the desired results. If not, try out a new phrase or two and see how they fit. Language that builds integrity, trust and respect for themselves and others takes consistency and intentionality, but the payoff is exponential. Jena Meyerpeter writes from Lenexa and remembers her grandmother’s favorite expression, “You’ll just have to get glad in the same pants you got mad in.”

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id you just call your wife?” My co-worker shook his head in disbelief. “You bet I did.” “What on earth for?” This time, I shake my head in disbelief. Each day, millions of people separate and take it for granted that they’ll return to one another. Some might be angry or just a little irritated. Some might be in a hurry and skip a good-bye kiss, thinking that they’ll make it up after they get home. That’s fine, except for one thing. Thousands never return home. Peril, however distant, can take many forms. Whether it’s an accident, terrorist attack or a natural disaster, it’s always a possibility. I’m not a timid coward, and I don’t expect a tragedy. But, in case something does happen, I want Sandi to know how I feel. If she never hears my voice again, I want her to know my last words to her were “I love you.” “It keeps her from worrying about me, and it isn’t that hard. I even call her before I leave for home. She’s the most important person in my life, and I want her to know it.” I look him straight in the eye. “When will you get home?” He seemed uncomfortable. “Usually, about a half hour.” “Are you sure? Do you get cosmic emails that have your departure date in the header? How do you know that next accident on the radio won’t be you? Sandi calls me when she gets to work, too, just so I won’t worry. This even gives us a few extra minutes together each day, just to enjoy one another.” He knit his brows. “How long have you been married?” “Not long enough.” I took a step to leave, but glanced back at him. He had his phone out and was dialing. William R. Bartlett lives in Belton with his family. kcparent.com february 2014

What time we have left over is precious, and we certainly don’t enjoy spending it with two impatient toddlers when we need to get a little shopping done.

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ach morning, I review the day’s planned activities. There are play dates, haircuts and checkups. There are local activities I’ve made note of from the KC Parent calendar and blocks of time sectioned off for my freelance work (usually during the kids’ naptimes). I also try to schedule an hour every day for “school.” Then of course, there are household chores that need to be completed. This doesn’t even cover my husband’s schedule. What time we have left over is precious, and we certainly don’t enjoy spending it with two impatient toddlers when we need to get a little shopping done. Don’t even get me started on shoe shopping with a 1- and a 2-year-old. Forget about it! Recently, we’ve begun to do a majority of our shopping online. It’s quicker, and it eliminates chasing the boys around to get them dressed and motivated to leave the house. We can spend more quality time with them, too. Unsurprisingly, we aren’t the only ones who feel this way. According to a SOASTA survey, 74 percent say that shopping online is less stressful than visiting a brick and mortar store. Are you interested in online shopping but overwhelmed with the limitless options? Let me help narrow it down a bit. Stores.org recently published a survey listing consumers’ top 10 online stores. The number one site was the web giant Amazon.com. “I shop on Amazon almost daily. With Amazon Prime and free twoday shipping, it’s too easy to buy stuff,” Lenexa mom Danielle Knoll, says. “I’ve signed up for ‘subscribe and save’ for items I used to buy at the grocery store. It’s even more cost effective for 50% our family than Costco.” Amazon also has a subsection called Amazon Mom, where you can get All of it. Nothcompetitive prices on all of ing beats the convenience your baby needs, as well as and time I referral credits for sharing save! with family and friends. Mom of two Heather

Buchwitz frequents Amazon, but also shops on Target’s website and Zulily.com. She explains that it’s much more convenient when she needs to purchase a few things for herself. “If I can get out to shop for myself without a kid, it’s great, but with a kid in tow—no way!” Other stores included in the top 10 are Walmart, Best Buy, Kohl’s, eBay, JC Penney, Macy’s, Sears and Old Navy. Often, these stores offer a larger selection of items online, and many offer free shipping on qualifying orders. Though most parents are finding it easier to shop online, there are still occasions where you just have to get up and get out. Whether it’s a trip to the grocery store or to the mall, these helpful tips can streamline the process to make the most of your time. 1.) Prior to leaving the house, make two lists. The first is for your “to-do’s.” Write the top priority errands first. The second is your item list. This could be a grocery list or a rundown of any items you need to purchase, such as clothing, home décor, etc. 2.) Establish a reasonable goal and time frame for getting errands done with your kids in tow. For example, I try to plan my outings in the morning after we’ve had our breakfast. I try to make sure we’re back an hour before naptime. This typically insulates the kids from any hungeror lethargy-induced meltdowns. 3.) Look for quieter times to go. Weekday mornings are typically slowest at most stores, including the mall. Forego evening shopping when you can. That’s usually the busiest time. 4.) Know where to park. This is especially true of places with several stores, like the mall. Always try to park at an entrance closest to the stores you need to shop. 5.) Use mobile shopping apps to compare prices, use coupons and reduce shopping time. Target has a new mobile app called Cartwheel. You can select from a large variety of offers and discounts, add them to your “cartwheel” and at checkout, the barcode on your screen is scanned to receive all of the discounts. It’s incredibly simple. Megan Thode, Kansas City, recommends a mobile app called Redlaser. It’s a barcode scanner that allows you to scan any item you’re interested in and instantly compare prices with other local stores. Whether you’re doing it online or in person, effective planning will decrease time spent shopping and increase the quality of time with your family. I think that’s a win for everyone. Jennifer Bosse is a busy wife and mom living in Kansas City. She is always looking for better ways to manage her time.

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hen it comes to correcting a child’s behavior, it’s important that love be a driving force for that instruction, but it’s certainly not easy in the heat of the moment, is it? Here are some ways to diffuse situations with your own children, showing them that the boundaries you are providing are for their good and the good of everyone else. Discipline or Punishment? According to Focus on the Family, the purpose of punishment is to inflict a penalty for an offense, whereas discipline is the act of training children for correction and maturity. Merely punishing a child is reactionary, focusing on past offenses, whereas discipline is forward-looking, seeking ways to train and develop good character. Discipline requires consequences, but ultimately comes from a heart of love and concern on the behalf of a parent, not retaliation. Discipline seeks out the best in a child, wanting him to grow and mature and ultimately become self-disciplined. When to Train. Do you take advice well when you’re frustrated? More than likely you don’t, and neither do your kids! The best moments to instruct are times of non-conflict, not in the heat of the moment. If your child has a problem with running

away from you in public, the time to train is not in a busy parking lot, but rather at home. Set a timer and make a game out of seeing how quickly your kids can come to you from one end of the house to another. Start with calling them loudly and then get softer and softer. Take One for the Team. Part of training often requires personal sacrifice. If the consequence for bad behavior at a friend’s house or restaurant warrants going home, that means you may miss out on a good conversation or a nice meal, but in the long run it lets your child know that you mean what you say and you say what you mean. Consistency. A lot of times children act out to test where the boundaries lie, either because they’re curious to see whether you will be consistent in your response to repeated bad behavior or to see whether you and your spouse vary in how you handle their wrongdoing. Work together as a united front. If in doubt, write a family chart that displays what the consequences are for bad behavior so there’s no question how your family handles certain behavior. Give Yourself a Time Out. If you find yourself frustrated with your child to the point that you can’t think in a levelheaded way, give yourself a time out. By allowing yourself time to calm down, you de-escalate the situation, providing an opportunity to respond to your child in love, rather than out of anger. Provide Options. Not everything needs to be a battle. Getting dressed may be non-negotiable, but allowing your child to choose between the red shirt and the green shirt leaves him feeling empowered, while still submitting to your request. Discipline empowers children to grow in their ability to make good decisions independently. It does not control every decision of their lives, as that handicaps them from making choices on their own with confidence. Set an Example. You know what they say: more is caught than taught. So be the type of person you want your child to become. When you make a mistake as a parent, apologize. Demonstrating humility, maturity and selflessness is much more effective than merely discussing those concepts in theory. Lauren Greenlee doles out hugs, kisses and consequences to her three rambunctious little cuties. She and her family reside in Olathe. kcparent.com february 2014

sweets for your sweets Sweets and Valentine’s Day go hand in hand, and enjoying sweets with your kids is a great way to bond in the hustle and bustle of life. Try a few of these recipes with your little helpers by your side, or maybe whip up a batch to sneak into school lunch boxes. Either way, you’re sure to sweeten your family’s day!

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Tips to make your cookies even better!

1. Use room temperature butter and eggs. Don’t melt your butter in the microwave. Instead, cut the sticks of butter into small pieces and let them sit in a bowl on the counter to help speed up the process. • 2. It is possible to over-cream the butter and sugar. No need to whip the ingredients to death. Once they are creamed, stop the mixer until you are ready for your next step. • 3. Greasing your cookie sheet can sometimes cause cookies to over-spread. If the recipe contains a good amount of butter, there is no need to add additional non-stick spray to your pan.

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candy dipped marshmallows 12 large marshmallows 1 ½ c. candy melts 2-3 t. of vegetable shortening 12 sucker sticks (check the candy/ cake decorating aisle) Valentine’s Day-themed sprinkles

valentine’s day pudding cups Serves 4 2 pkgs. instant vanilla pudding mix 4 c. milk 1 packet of red Kool-Aid 1 packet of pink Kool-Aid In separate bowls, mix each package of instant vanilla pudding with milk according to package directions. Allow the pudding to set for 5-10 minutes. Add one packet of Kool-Aid to each bowl and mix thoroughly. Alternately layer the red and pink pudding in single serving cups and refrigerate until ready to serve.

Place the candy melts and vegetable shortening in a heat-proof container. It’s better to use a tall, narrow container to make dipping the marshmallows easier. Heat the candy melts and shortening in the microwave in 30 second intervals, stirring after each interval until melted. Dip the tip of a sucker stick in the melted candy and insert it halfway into a marshmallow. Holding onto the stick, dip the whole marshmallow into and out of the candy in one smooth motion. Use a knife to help finishing covering the marshmallow if necessary. While the candy is still warm, quickly add sprinkles for decoration. Allow the candy dipped marshmallow to dry before storing in an airtight container or ziplock bag.

Adapted from the Original Nestle Tollhouse Cookie Recipe (VeryBestBaking.com/Recipes) Makes 3 Dozen Cookies 2 ¼ c. all-purpose flour 1 t. baking soda 1 t. salt 1 c. (2 sticks) butter, softened ¾ c. granulated sugar ¾ c. packed brown sugar 1 t. almond extract 2 large eggs 2 c. (12 oz. pkg.) white chocolate chips ½ c. maraschino cherries, drained and chopped ½ c. slivered almonds Preheat oven to 375 degrees F. In a small bowl, mix the flour, baking soda and salt together. In a separate bowl, cream the butter, granulated sugar, brown sugar and vanilla extract. Beat in eggs, one at a time. Add the flour mixture slowly, a bit at a time, stirring to incorporate between each addition. Stir in the white chocolate chips, maraschino cherries and slivered almonds. Scoop cookie dough onto an ungreased cookie sheet in 1-tablespoon portions. Bake for 9-11 minutes, or until just lightly browned. Remove cookie sheet from the oven and let the cookies sit for 3-4 minutes before transferring them to a wire rack to cool. Rebecca Ishum lives in South Kansas City with her husband and 2-yearold quadruplets. An avid baker, she always has something sweet whipped up at her house. You can find her posting stories about her kids and more family-friendly recipes at ABeautifulRuckus.com. kcparent.com february 2014

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Visit Lanesfield School to experience at old-fashioned Valentine’s Day on select Fridays and Saturdays in February. Try your hand at pen and ink and make a valentine to take home. JoCoMuseum.org

Science City is OPEN on Presidents Day, Feb. 17. With the kids off of school, it’s the day to head to Union Station and spend the day playing and learning. ScienceCity.com

Winter on the Farm takes place on Feb. 22 at 10:00 at Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm. Work on the farm didn’t stop during winter! See what is cooking on the cookstove and visit the blacksmith. 913.971.5111

Visit Children’s Orchard on Feb. 8 to save 50% on a $30 purchase. Stock up on spring clothes and save $$$! ChildOrch.com

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Home Depot Kids Workshop 9:00, Home Depot stores. Bring in the kids for a free handson workshop and build something together. HomeDepot.com Kansas Day Celebration & Business Expo 9:00, Paola High School. Celebrate Kansas Day with kids activities, local entertainment and more. Free. 913.294.4335 Children’s Valentine Tea 9:30, Historic Mt Gilead School. Enjoy a valentine-themed tea party with activity and craft stations. Ages 8 and up. $10. Pre-reg. 816.736.8500 MPE Women’s Encouragement Day 9:30, Emmanuel Baptist Church. For homeschool moms (or those interested in homeschooling). Come for a day of encouragement. Pre-reg. 913.599.0311 Cupid’s Gems Jewelry Show 10:00, Thompson Barn (Lenexa). Enjoy the day with your girlfriends, sisters or plan a mother-daughter outing. Browse the handcrafted jewelry. Free. 913.477.7500 75 Years of Oz, Oh My! 10:00, Crown Center. There’s no place like Crown Center to celebrate the 75th anniversary of The Wizard of Oz with this interactive display for families. Free. 816.274.8444. February Foragers 10:00, Anita B Gorman Conservation Discovery Center. Build a simple suet

feeder to take home for birds during this cold month. 816.759.7300

of ice skating at Johnson County’s only outdoor skating rink. 913.663.2070

Love-to-Read Bookmark 11:00, Lakeshore Learning. Little readers will love to use this brilliant bookmark that they make themselves! Free. 913.432.3998

Snakes Alive 2:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. See Kansas snakes and explore the facts and fallacies of these legless wonders. $3. 913.764.7759

Valentine’s Day at Lanesfield 1:00, Lanesfield Historic Site. See the school decorated for an oldfashioned Valentine’s Day and make your own valentine to take home! 913.715.2552

Valentine’s Day Card Drive Thru Feb 28, American Stroke Foundation. Make cards for local homebound folks. Details at KCParent.com.

Leaving Tracks 1:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Discover what lives at Burr Oak Woods by looking at tracks and searching for other clues! 816.228.3766 Family Nature Hike 2:00, George Owens Nature Park. Bundle up and get outdoors for a hike with the family. See seasonal changes to the park. 816.325.7115 Ballet Memphis: Wizard of Oz 8:00, Yardley Hall (JCCC). Click your heels together and follow the yellow brick road—there’s no place like home for outstanding ballet! JCCC.edu

2 sunday Groundhog Day at the Zoo 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Spike, the KC Zoo hedgehog, returns to make his winter predictions. 816.513.5800 Ice Skating Noon, Ice at Park Place. Enjoy a day

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Visit Sea Life 10:00, Sea Life Aquarium (Crown Center). Come nose to nose with sharks and prepare for close views of everything from starfish and seahorses to rays. VisitSeaLife.com Toddler Takeover 10:00, Kansas City North Community Center. Bring your little ones under 4 to run and play in the gym. $1. 816.784.6100 Power Hour 1:00, Little Monkey Bizness. Arrive between 1:00 and 3:00 on Monday and Wednesday and admission is just $5 plus tax! 913.631.7000

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Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Irene B French Community Center (Merriam). Kids will enjoy inflatable bouncers, Little Tykes riding toys and more! $2. 913.322.5550 Indoor Playground 9:30-11:30, Sylvester Powell Comm Ctr. Children 6 and under can play on

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Feb. 6, 9:45 & Noon, Yardley Hall (JCCC). Enjoy the show where costumes and characters light up the stage! 913.469.4445 developmentally appropriate toys for just $2. 913.722.8200

playing at Science City. $11.50-$13.50. 816.460.2020

Creative Story Time 11:00, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. 913.383.0222

Animal Tales 10:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Visit the nature center for stories, songs and surprises. Meet a special animal friend every time. $2. 913.764.7759

2-for-1 Tuesday 5:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. After 5:00, pay one full price admission and receive a second for free. 816.274.8444

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Stories for Ones 9:30, Waldo Library. Bring your 1-year-old to a story time geared toward this age group. 816.701.3486 Funky Mama 10:00, Johnson County Museum. Funky Mama brings her energetic concert to the Johnson County Museum for one show only! $3. Pre-reg. 913.715.2550 Visit LEGOLAND 10:00, LEGOLAND Discovery Center. Spend the day creating with Legos. Be sure to visit the newly remodeled Lego Friends area. 816.471.4386 Science City 10:00, Union Station. With the cold temps outside, spend the day learning and

What’s for Dinner? 3:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Watch as the captive amphibians, fish and turtles enjoy their feast. 816.228.3766

6 thursday Free Play Cedar Ridge Christian Church. Daily free play for young children while parents enjoy a coffee drink. 913.393.3000 Indoor Playground 9:30-11:30, Sylvester Powell Comm Ctr. Children 6 and under can play on developmentally appropriate toys for just $2. 913.722.8200 The Ugly Duckling and The Tortoise & the Hare 9:45 & Noon, Yardley Hall (JCCC). Enjoy the show where costumes and characters light up the stage! 913.469.4445

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African Americans in the West 2:00, Nat’l Frontier Trails Museum. In this 30-minute guided tour, discover the important role played by African Americans. 816.325.7575 Family Science Night at the Zoo 5:30, Kansas City Zoo. Join us for hands-on zoo science nights for families to enjoy. Tonight’s theme: It All Matters. Free. 816.513.5800

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dence Mall). Join Gymboree of Lee’s Summit for fun songs and stories. 816.525.7529 Paint Me a Story 10:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire. Little ones can listen to a story and then paint a masterpiece. $15/$13 for siblings. 913.661.2529 Friday Playgroup 10:30, Turner Community Library. Little ones have fun listening to stories and joining in on crafts and songs. 913.596.1404 Ice Skating 11:00, Ice at Park Place. Enjoy a day of ice skating at Johnson County’s only outdoor skating rink. 913.663.2070 Story Time 11:00, Reader’s World Lee’s Summit. Every Friday enjoy story time with a story, crafts and a snack. Free. 816.246.7323 Mother/Son Valentine Dance 5:00, Vesper Hall (Blue Springs). Boys 4 and older and moms are invited to an evening of entertainment, dancing and dinner. Pre-reg. 816.228.0137 Friday Family Night 6:00, Cool Crest. Every Friday for only $21.99, enjoy unlimited soft play (four guests), 100 arcade tokens, large pizza and four drinks. 816.358.0088 First Fridays 7:00, Crossroads Art District. Galleries and shops remain open the first Friday of each month. KCCrossroads.org Storling Dance Theater’s Underground 7:30,

Kauffman Center. See the captivating story of the Underground Railroad told through dance. CultureHouse.com Daddy & Daughter Dance Today & tomorrow, 6:00, Providence Community Church. Dinner and a night of dancing for dads and daughters. Must purchase tickets in advance. 913.307.0710 Monster Jam Thru Feb. 9, Sprint Center. This year’s event features eight trucks, including Monster Jam World Final’s champions Grave Digger and Batman! MonsterJam.com

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Kick Off to Spring Savings 10:00, Children’s Orchard (Olathe, Lee’s Summit, Indep & KCMO). Receive 50% off of your purchase of $30 or more. ChildOrch.com Breakfast with the Beasts 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Meet some beasts that live in the backyard and learn what they like for breakfast. $5/kids; free/adults. 816.513.8960 Naturally from the Heart 10:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Make a valentine with beautiful materials that come from nature. Pre-reg. 816.228.3766 Lowe’s Build ‘n Grow 10:00, Lowe’s stores across the Metro. Bring the kids to create a fantastic craft. Free. LowesBuildAndGrow.com

Chocolate Crawl 10:00, Downtown Lee’s Summit. Follow the balloons through downtown to shops where delicious chocolate treats will be handed out. Free. 816.246.6598 Super Science Saturday 10:00, Missouri Western State University. Science educators present interactive science experiments for children of all ages. $2-$4. 816.232.8471 The View 10th Anniversary 11:00, The Grove @ Community Center (Grandview). Enjoy some great food, games, prize giveaways and much more! 816.316.4888 Second Saturdays 11:00, Grinter Place State Historic Site. Learn about Kansas City-area history and stay for lunch prepared on the wood stove. 913.299.0373 Heart-Shaped Card Holder 11:00, Lakeshore Learning. Celebrate Valentine’s Day by making and decorating a heart-shaped mailbox. 913.432.3998 Very Fairy Party 11:00, Mid-Continent Public Library (Blue Springs South). Dress up as fairy princesses, make sparkling crafts & read stories. Free. 816.229.3571 Meet Me at the Museum 1:00, Kemper Museum. Join a Kemper Museum docent for a lively discussion and tour of the museum’s current exhibitions. Free. 816.753.5784

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Feb. 9, 2:00, Allen Fieldhouse. Wear pink and receive $3 admission. Rally towel giveaway. 785.864.7988 7:30, Liberty Performing Arts Theatre. Featuring the love theme from Romeo and Juliet and more. $5-$18. 816.866.0576

Second Saturdays 4:00, Historic Downtown Weston. Stroll into unique shops and galleries for late night shopping and in-store specials. WestonMO.com

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Comedy Magic Show 4:00, KC Improv. Devin Henderson will entertain and amaze! A show for the entire family. $7. 816.759.5233

Valentine Day Card Drive Thru Feb 28, American Stroke Foundation. Make cards for local homebound folks. Details at KCParent.com.

The Curious Cat Family Quiz Show 4:30, Assembly of God Church (Grandview). Participate in this fun family quiz show. Prizes, food, face painting, animal balloons & more. $6. 816.348.7989

Ice Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Enjoy a day of skating with the family at KC’s only outdoor rink. See KC Parent ad for coupon. CrownCenter.com

Kiss & Tail 5:30, Kansas City Zoo. Time again for this annual, adults-only Valentine’s event. Enjoy music, a silent auction, great eats and beverages. $25-$35. 816.513.5800 Daddy & Daughter Dance 6:00, Providence Community Church. Dinner and a night of dancing for dads and daughters. Must purchase tickets in advance. 913.307.0710 Storling Dance Theater’s Underground 7:30, Kauffman Center. See the captivating story of the Underground Railroad told through dance. CultureHouse.com

Teddy Bear Tea 12:30 & 2:30, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm. Enjoy tea, refreshments and a craft with a favorite stuffed animal. $4-$6. Pre-reg. 913.971.5111 Fight for a Cure Game 2:00, Allen Fieldhouse. Wear pink and receive $3 admission. Rally towel giveaway. 785.864.7988

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Story Time for Preschoolers 1:30, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Young ones will enjoy stories in Noguchi Court the second Sunday of each month. 816.751.1278

The Hallmark Visitor’s Center (2450 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO, 816.274.3613, HallmarkVisitorsCenter.com) tells the history of Hallmark, but the highlight of the tour is watching the production processes of Hallmark cards on factory machines.

After visiting the Hallmark Visitor’s Center, stop in next door at Kaleidoscope (HallmarkKaleidoscope.com), the FREE art center for children. It’s an imaginative world where children can create their own masterpieces with a variety of supplies.

Love Letters from the President

The Harry S. Truman Library and Museum (500 W. US Hwy. 24, Independence, MO, 816.268.8200, TrumanLibrary.org) celebrates the lifelong love story of Harry and Bess with the online exhibit, “Love Letters from the President” at TrumanLibrary.org/ BessLtr.htm.

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75 Years of Oz, Oh My! 10:00, Crown Center. There’s no place like Crown Center to celebrate the 75th anniversary of The Wizard of Oz with this interactive display for families. Free. 816.274.8444. Toddler Takeover 10:00, Kansas City North Community Center. Bring your little ones under 4 to run and play in the gym. $1. 816.784.6100 Toddle Time 10:00, Bonner Springs Community Center. Bring your kids to play on the large assortment of toys in the gym. $2. 913.422.7010

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Feb. 11, 10:00 & 11:30, Folly Theater. A tribute to the great American who freed herself and hundreds of her people from the bonds of slavery. FollyTheater.org Power Hour 1:00, Little Monkey Bizness. Arrive between 1:00 and 3:00 on Monday and Wednesday and admission is just $5 plus tax! 913.631.7000

11 tuesday Conservation Kids Club: Whooo Knows About Owls? 8:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Kids ages 7-13 will discover the mysterious world of owls. Pre-reg. 816-228-3766 Young Explorers: Safety Friends 9:00, Lenexa Community Center. Kids enjoy songs, games, stories, hands-on activities and art projects. $12. 913.477.7100 Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Irene B French Community Center (Merriam). Kids will enjoy inflatable bouncers, Little Tykes riding toys and MORE! $2. 913.322.5550 Harriet Tubman 10:00 & 11:30, Folly Theater. A tribute to the great American who freed herself and hundreds of her people from the bonds of slavery. FollyTheater.org Harriet Tubman in the Footprints of Freedom 10:00, Theatre for Young America (Union Station).

See scenes from Tubman’s remarkable life. $9. TYA.org Creative Story Time 11:00, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. 913.383.0222

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Pop ‘n Play 9:00, Johnson County Museum. A drop-in program with age-appropriate activities for children 9 months to 3 years old. 913.715.2550 Stories for Ones 9:30, Waldo Library. Bring your 1-year-old to a story time geared toward this age group. 816.701.3486 Mommy and Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. Bumper bowling for moms and tots! $3/ea includes game, shoe rental and drink. 816.524.3322 Family Night 4:00, Monkey Bizness (Olathe). Open play is only $6, and pizza is available for purchase. 913.780.2500

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A drop-in program with age-appropriate activities for children 9 months to 3 years old. 913.715.2550 Stories for Ones 9:30, Waldo Library. Bring your 1-year-old to a story time geared toward this age group. 816.701.3486 Mommy and Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. Bumper bowling for moms and tots! $3/ea includes game, shoe rental and drink. 816.524.3322

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Family Night 4:00, Monkey Bizness (Olathe). Open play is only $6, and pizza is available for purchase. 913.780.2500

14 friday: valentine’s day Friday Playgroup 10:30, Turner Community Library. Little ones have fun listening to stories and joining in on crafts and songs. 913.596.1404 Story Time 10:30 & 11:30, Shawnee Books & Toys. Bring in the kids to participate in our weekly story time, craft and a snack. 913.962.1428 Winter Stargazing 6:00, Martha Lafite Thompson Nature Sanctuary. Become a pro at identifying a few stars, planets and constellations! $10/ family. Pre-reg. NatureSanctuary.com Friday Night Family Fun 6:30, Plaza Library. Join us every Friday night for fun activities the whole family can enjoy! 816.701.3481

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Teddy Bear Clinic Kansas City Zoo. Is your teddy bear in need of some TLC? Bring your injured bears to the Teddy Bear Clinic, and we’ll fix them right up. KansasCityZoo.org Bird Banding 10:00, Burroughs Audubon Nature Center and Bird Sanctuary. See our resident winter songbirds up close and personal. 816.795.8177

Scavenger Saturdays 10:00, Kemper Museum of Art. Follow the clues on this “ART-astic” adventure! 816.753.5784 Dragons, Bats & Buried Treasure 11:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. This show combines magic, giant puppets, mythical creatures and audience participation. $5. 816.833.9777 My Collage Picture Frame 11:00, Lakeshore Learning. A picture frame that children decorate with sequins, sparkles and tons of other craft materials! Free. 913.432.3998 Will Build to Suit: Bat Houses 12:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Learn about bat conservation and construct a bat house to take home! Ages 6+. Pre-reg. 816.228.3766 Valentine’s Day at Lanesfield 1:00, Lanesfield Historic Site. See the school decorated for an oldfashioned Valentine’s Day and make your own valentine to take home! 913.715.2552 Musical Maples 1:30, Anita B Gorman Conservation Discovery Center. A musical journey that will leave you with a lasting impression of the value of the maple tree. 816.759.7300 Comedy Magic Show 4:00, KC Improv. Devin Henderson will entertain and amaze! A show for the entire family. $7. 816.759.5233 The Fade Aways 9:00, Mission Bowl. Date night! Join the Fade Aways (’60s rock) for a fun, smoke-

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Visit Sea Life 10:00, Sea Life Aquarium (Crown Center). Come nose to nose with sharks and prepare for close views of everything from starfish and seahorses to rays. VisitSeaLife.com Backyard Bird Count 9:00, Powell Gardens. After a brief intro, be part of the team that counts the birds that frequent the gardens. $8/adult; $3/ child. Pre-reg. 816.697.2600 Great Backyard Bird Count 1:00, Martha Lafite Thompson Nature Sanctuary. Help us count the birds! Kids can enjoy a bird craft and a bird game. Pre-reg. NatureSanctuary.com

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Valentine’s Day Card Drive Thru Feb 28, American Stroke Foundation. Make cards for local homebound folks. Details at KCParent.com. Toddler Time 10:00, Bonner Springs Community Center. Bring your toddler in to jump and have some fun! 913.422.7010 Science City 10:00, Union Station. School’s out and Science City is open. Bring the kids to enjoy indoor fun all day! $11.50-$13.50. 816.460.2020 Ice Skating 11:00, Ice at Park Place. Spend the

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Feb. 2: Groundhog Day Celebrate Groundhog Day at the

American Heart Month: Contact the Community Blood Center (SaveALifeNow.org)

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Kansas City Zoo (KansasCityZoo.org) at 10:00 in the morning. Spike the Hedgehog is one of the zoo’s education ambassadors and appears from his “hibernation.” Will he see his shadow?

Feb. 11: Don’t Cry over Spilled Milk Day It’s always good to remember not to get upset over little things. It’s also good not to spill milk, especially when it’s from Shatto Milk (ShattoMilk.com/Tours.html), Missouri’s own dairy farm that offers tours to groups year-round. Feb. 15: National Gumdrop Day Delight in the tasty treat and more at Bitterman’s Eye Candy and Vintage Market (3107 Gillham Rd., Kansas City, MO, 816.531.3107). Founded in 1936 by Bernard Bitterman, the company is now a nationwide distributor of candy and snacks. The beautiful vintage candy store is a feast for the senses!

Feb. 17: Presidents Day Local museums, skating rinks and children’s places are open for the day, and many are offering terrific specials in honor of the occasion. Visit KCParent.com for details.

Black History Month: Celebrate Kansas City’s rich African American heritage at the American Jazz Museum (AmericanJazzMuseum.com) and the Negro Leagues Baseball Museum (NLBM.com). The American Jazz Museum celebrates the history of the African American experience on 18th & Vine and its contributions to Kansas City. And the Negro Leagues Baseball Museum features interactive exhibits for all ages.

Feb. 19: National Chocolate Mint Day On this day to indulge in anything chocolate and mint, our favorite is ice cream! These local shops dish up delicious mint chocolate concoctions: Murray’s Ice Cream and Cookies (816.931.5646), Sylas & Maddy’s (913.393.3500), Poppy’s Ice Cream and Coffee House ( 816.246.4141), Glace (GlaceIceCream.com). Feb. 20: National Cherry Pie Day Buy a delicious pie at the Upper Crust Bakery at Pryde’s Old Westport (115 Westport Rd., Kansas City, MO, 816.561.4990, UpperCrustPieBakery.com). Feb. 26: Tell a Fairy Tale Day Treat your children to a day at one of Kansas City’s most whimsical libraries. The Central Library of the Kansas City Public Library (14 W. 10th St., Kansas City, MO), housed in the former First National Bank of Kansas City, is one of the city’s most beautiful best-kept secrets. Enter the Children’s Department by walking through the pages of a book to a place where kids will discover a wonderful world of reading.

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Feb. 14: Valentine’s Day. Treat your children to a heartshaped pizza from Papa Murphy’s (PapaMurphys.com).

Winter Birding Story Time

Feb. 21, 9:00, Martha Lafite Thompson Nature Sanctuary. Short story reading about birds, followed by a hike and a craft. $2. Pre-reg. 816.781.8598 day off from school at Johnson County’s only outdoor rink. Last day to skate! 913.663.2070 Power Hour 1:00, Little Monkey Bizness. Arrive between 1:00 and 3:00 on Monday and Wednesday and admission is just $5 plus tax! 913.631.7000

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Springs). Join us to spark your imagination and express yourself through original print, video, audio or visual works. Pre-reg. 816.630.6721 2-for-1 Tuesday 5:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. After 5:00, pay one full price admission and receive a second for free. 816.274.8444

Babes in the Woods: Pelts, Puppets and Play 10:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Enjoy indoor fun as we learn about animals that stay active throughout the long winter chill. Pre-reg. 816-228-3766

19 wednesday

Harriet Tubman in the Footprints of Freedom 10:00, Theatre for Young America (Union Station). See scenes from Tubman’s remarkable life. $9. TYA.org

75 Years of Oz, Oh My! 10:00, Crown Center. There’s no place like Crown Center to celebrate the 75th anniversary of The Wizard of Oz with this interactive display for families. Free. 816.274.8444.

Animal Tales 10:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Visit the nature center for stories, songs and surprises. Meet a special animal friend every time. $2. 913.764.7759

Creative Story Time 11:00, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. 913.383.0222

Jo Ho Storyteller 10:00, Johnson County Museum. Put on your pj’s, grab a blanket and listen to these funny, yet calming, nighttime tales. Free. Pre-reg. 913.715.2552

Trout Stocking 1:30 (Kill Creek Park), 2:30 (Heritage Park) & 3:45 (SM Park). Watch as the lakes are filled with rainbow trout. Free. 913.831.3359

Toddler Takeover 10:00, Kansas City North Community Center. Bring your little ones under 4 to run and play in the gym. $1. 816.784.6100

Tales for Tiny Tykes 9:30 & 10:30, Plaza Library. Toddlers ages 18-36 months can listen to a 20-minute story time followed with a craft. 816.701.3481

Tots on Tuesday 11:00, Kemper Museum. Bring in your preschooler for a fun and fashionable gettogether every third Tuesday. 816.753.5784 Teen Creativity (Poetry) 4:00, MCPL (Excelsior

Pixie Class 9:30, Skate City (Overland Park). Bring kids age 2-6 to learn to skate safely while having fun. Snack included. $5. 913.888.6668

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Feb. 22, 10:00-1:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Skate with Clifford, the big red dog. 816.274.8444 Preschool Playtime 9:30, Beautiful Savior Lutheran Church. Join us for an open gym with various toys and equipment. Snack and drink provided. 913.579.6867 Indoor Playground 9:30-11:30, Sylvester Powell Comm Ctr. Children 6 and under can play on developmentally appropriate toys for just $2. 913.722.8200 Nature Story Time 10:00 & 11:00, George Owens Nature Park. Listen to nature stories and complete a craft or venture out on a short nature walk. 816.325.7115 African Americans in the West 2:00, Nat’l Frontier Trails Museum. In this 30-minute guided tour, discover the important role played by African Americans. 816.325.7575

21 friday

Winter Birding Story Time 9:00, Martha Lafite Thompson Nature Sanctuary. Short story reading about birds, followed by a hike and a craft. $2. Pre-reg. 816.781.8598 Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Irene B French Community Center (Merriam). Kids will enjoy inflatable bouncers, Little Tykes riding toys

and more! $2. 913.322.5550 JBF Consignment Sale Thru Sunday, Pavilion at John Knox (Lee’s Summit). Shop the nation’s largest consignment event for great deals! JBFSale.com Paint Me a Story 10:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire. Little ones can listen to a story and then paint a masterpiece. $15/$13 for siblings. 913.661.2529 Story Time 10:30 & 11:30, Shawnee Books & Toys. Bring in the kids to participate in our weekly story time, craft and a snack. 913.962.1428 Family Night 4:00, Little Monkey Bizness. Let your little ones monkey around in our indoor play area at a discount. 913.631.7000

Dracula Thru March 2, Kauffman Center. Date night! The Kansas City Ballet performs this acclaimed show. KCBallet.org

Friday Family Night 6:00, Cool Crest. Every Friday for only $21.99, enjoy unlimited soft play (four guests), 100 arcade tokens, large pizza and four drinks. 816.358.0088

Little Women, the Musical 8:00, Olathe Civic Theatre Association. Family friendly fun! The show follows the adventures of Meg, Jo, Beth and Amy. $12-$17. 913.782.2990

Friday Night Family Fun 6:30, Plaza Library. Join us every Friday night for fun activities the whole family can enjoy! 816.701.3481

Discover Maranatha March 4, 6:00-8:00, Maranatha Christian Academy. Make plans to attend on March 4 to learn what Maranatha has to offer. 913.631.0637

Dixon’s Famous Chili 9105 E. US Hwy. 40, Independence, MO, 816.861.7308 Dixon’s is one of Kansas City’s most famous restaurants—both for its chili and for its most beloved patron, President Harry S. Truman. Serving chili since 1919, Dixon’s hasn’t changed much since Truman frequented the lunch spot. And, much like the man from Missouri himself, Dixons’ is simple: basic diner-style restaurant atmosphere, serving up original Kansas City-style chili. This is a local landmark with a long history as one of Kansas City’s most popular diners. Fritz’s Chili 6737 W. 75th St., Shawnee Mission, KS, 913.381.3543

CHILI IN KANSAS CITY What is Kansas City-style chili? Chili means many things to many people. For some it is a soup/stew enjoyed in a deep bowl with a big spoon. For for the unfamiliar, Kansas Citystyle chili may come as quite a surprise. Kansas City-style restaurant chili is eaten with a fork, not a spoon. Hearty plates of chili-seasoned ground beef are served wet (with some grease) or dry, with or without beans and with the option of adding some ketchup, jalapeno sauce, onions, cheese or chili powder for flavor. These local restaurants have been making history dishing up hot plates of chili to satisfied customers for nearly 100 years!

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Originally a part of the Dixon’s chain, the Kansas location was owned by the Fritz family. In the early 1970s, the name was changed to Fritz’s Chili, and the favorite Johnson County lunch spot continues to dish up Kansas City-style chili. Hayes Hamburger and Chili 2502 NE Vivion Rd., Kansas City, MO, 816.453.5575 Catering to customers in the Northland since 1955, Hayes serves Kansas City-style chili in a cup or on a burger or fries. Fans also love their burritos, tamales and sandwiches. Fritz’s Railroad Restaurant 13803 W. 63rd St., Shawnee, KS, 913.375.1000 250 N. 18th St., Kansas City, KS, 913.281.2777 2450 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO, 816.474.4004 Famous for trains delivering food directly to tables, Fritz’s is a favorite with children. The menu includes burgers, fries and shakes….and Kansas City-style chili, to be enjoyed in a cup, on a burger, hot dog or fries.

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KCPT Kids on Ice Skate with Clifford 10:00-1:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Skate with Clifford, the big red dog. 816.274.8444

EVERY SATURDAY & SUNDAY FREE | 1–4 p.m. | Activities for all ages!

Reptile & Exotic Animal Show 10:00, Abdallah Shrine Center. Reptile event featuring vendors offering reptile pets, supplies, feeders, cages and merchandise. $5-$10. 863.268.4273

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Winter on the Farm 10:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm. Bundle up and enjoy winter activities. $4-$6, 913.971.5111 Rockin’ & Readin’ Nature Tales 11:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Join us for a story hour as we lead you on fantastic nature adventures! 816.228.3766 Meet Me at the Museum 1:00, Kemper Museum. Join a Kemper Museum docent for a lively discussion and tour of the museum’s current exhibitions. Free. 816.753.5784 Teen Gamers Monopoly Tourney! 2:00, MidContinent Public Library (Blue Springs South). Come and join us for the annual Monopoly tournament! Pre-reg. 816.229.3571 Harriet Tubman in the Footprints of Freedom 2:00, Theatre for Young America (Union Station). See scenes from Tubman’s remarkable life. $9. TYA.org Comedy Magic Show 4:00, KC Improv. Devin Henderson will entertain and amaze! A show for the entire family. $7. 816.759.5233

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art + family = FUN 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Join us every Saturday and Sunday for free activities for all ages! 816.751.1278 A Taste of Leavenworth 5:00, June’s Northland. A sampling of Leavenworth County’s finest in food, beverages, music businesses, artisans & auction. $25-$30. 913.682.1023 The Uncommon Princess 7:30, Slightly Off Broadway Theatre (Excelsior Springs). This fairy tale has it all, including disco, pirates, dragons and even kung fu. $10. 816.637.3728

FEBRUARY Explore the South and Southeast Asian galleries. Learn about our sculpture of a wish-granting cow and make your own “wish bracelet.”

Kamadhenu, the Wish-Granting Cow, South India, probably Karnataka, 15th–17th century. Stone and pigment with metal attachments on stand. Purchase: William Rockhill Nelson Trust through the George H. and Elizabeth O. Davis Fund, 2009.15. NelsonAtkins KCParentAd Feb14.2.indd 1

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Mt Gilead Monday: U.S. Presidents 10:00, Historic Mt Gilead School. The program includes historic interpretation of the theme, plus a craft project. $10. Pre-reg. 816.736.8500 75 Years of Oz, Oh My! 10:00, Crown Center. There’s no place like Crown Center to celebrate the 75th anniversary of The Wizard of Oz with this interactive display for families. Free. 816.274.8444. Power Hour 1:00, Little Monkey Bizness. Arrive between 1:00 and 3:00 on Monday and Wednesday and admission is just $5 plus tax! 913.631.7000

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25 tuesday

Toddle Time Tue & Wed, 9:00-11:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Fun and enriching open playtime for ages 5 and under. $1-$2/child. 913.895.6390 75 Years of Oz, Oh My! 10:00, Crown Center. There’s no place like Crown Center to celebrate the 75th anniversary of The Wizard of Oz with this interactive display for families. Free. 816.274.8444. Preschool Nature Time Yoga 10:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Come to act stories with animal and yoga moves. Ages 2-6 with adult. $2. 913.764.7759

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Visit LEGOLAND 10:00, LEGOLAND Discovery Center. Spend the day creating with Legos. Be sure to visit the newly remodeled Lego Friends area. 816.471.4386 Ice Skating Noon, The Ice at Park Place. Enjoy a day of ice skating at Johnson County’s only outdoor skating rink. 913.663.2070 art + family = FUN 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum

of Art. Join us every Saturday and Sunday for free activities for all ages! 816.751.1278

27 thursday

Pop ‘n Play 9:00, Johnson County Museum. A drop-in program with age-appropriate activities for children 9 months to 3 years old. 913.715.2550 I Am Jack 10:00 & 11:45, Folly Theater. A one-man show that follows the journey of Jack, an 11-year-old being bullied at school. FollyTheater.org Family Night 4:00, Monkey Bizness (Olathe). Open play is only $6, and pizza is available for purchase. 913.780.2500

28 friday

Friday Playgroup 10:30, Turner Community Library. Little ones have fun listening to stories and joining in on crafts and songs. 913.596.1404

Discover Maranatha March 4, 6:00-8:00, Maranatha Christian Academy. Make plans to attend on March 4 to learn what Maranatha has to offer. 913.631.0637

Story Time 11:00, Reader’s World Lee’s Summit. Every Friday enjoy story time with a story, crafts and a snack. Free. 816.246.7323

Free Play Cedar Ridge Christian Church. Daily free play for young children while you enjoy a coffee break. 913.393.3000

Dracula Thru March 2, Kauffman Center. Date night! The Kansas City Ballet performs this acclaimed show. KCBallet.org

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