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appy New Year! I trust your holiday season was a good one!

After the hustle and bustle of the holiday season, January is a good time to settle in and enjoy a comfy, cozy winter. We here on the KC Parent staff are divided on the issue of summer vs. winter. Yours truly is very much a warm weather gal, while KC Parent’s Digital Media Manager, Kristina Light sure loves the cold and winter.

(For the record, I think all you winter-loving folk are nuts!) To that end, she’s the perfect person to put together ideas on how your family can relish some downtime and enjoy a comfy, cozy January in your home. Check out all of her great ideas on pgs. 50-51. And, just so I don’t seem like a complete winter downer, one thing I do love this time of year is the citrus fruit in season—so tasty!

Spend a short amount of time with me and you’ll learn I’m a talker. So much so that now my younger gets in the car after school and says, “Because I know you’ll ask: I don’t have any homework, my day was pretty good and nothing out of the ordinary happened.” I need to change up my repertoire and get creative in my conversations. For tips on inspiring creative conversations with your kids, check out pg. 30.

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MOJOFORMOMS mōjō: 1. influence, especially magic power 2. mom joy

2019 FAMILY FOCUS

New Year’s is like magic, fresh and full of possibilities. Gather your tribe to create your best year yet.

1 Reflect

2 January Goals

Before you jump ahead to 2019, take time first to reflect with gratitude on 2018. Don’t focus on the things that went wrong. Instead, reminisce together on shared experiences, personal growth, joyful memories and how you’ve collectively evolved. Ask questions like:

Making a commitment to yourself for an entire year can feel overwhelming. Consider creating a short-term January goal chart, encouraging the whole family to begin the work toward what they hope to do, create and become through some small task each day.

Make a poster for the wall and number it 1-31 underneath each person’s name, for all the days in January. Each day, cover the number with a small sticker when you’ve accomplished your task, and decide on a reward if the whole family meets their January goals.

Hold each other accountable and cheer each other on. Small, consistent steps over time create big, meaningful results.

• What was the highlight of 2018?

• How did we grow as individuals?

• How did we grow together as a family?

Now, think about 2019 from this state of gratitude. Survey each member of your family, one by one, as if you’re circling up again at the end of next year. Envision 2019 as if it’s already happened, and answer these questions: • What did you do?

• What did you create?

• Who did you become?

3 Focus Word

Small, daily tasks help us zoom in to the specifics of our goals, but coming up with a focus word helps us zoom out, remembering the bigger picture.

Encourage each person to think of a single word or phrase for 2019. The power of this exercise is that it tells our brains what to look for and create more of in our lives. Some focus word examples: Consistent. Wellness.

Joy. Service. Presence. Mindful. Selfcompassion. Confident. Spirit. Together.

Commitment. Adventure.

Share your focus words and display them in some visual way—write them on sticky notes, draw them on a poster or use an app like WordSwag to turn them into a screensaver.

Next, work together to create a family focus word. What word will you focus on together as a family in the coming year? What does this word look like, applied to your life?

Seize new year momentum, focus on the future with your family and watch in wonder as it unfolds…2019’s going to be epic.

Wendy Connelly, M.Div., is a podcaster (MoJo For Moms podcast), Christian life coach and mother of two.

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It’s date time! This month, why not take a class together and learn something new?

Cooking Class One idea is a cooking class. My husband and I attended one on a Thursday evening at Olive Tree, a specialty food emporium in Overland Park. This was not a hands-on cooking experience, but more like a fun cooking show with lots of eating intertwined.

Chef Rachel Ciordas prepared a Mexican-inspired menu of queso fundido, jicama salad, red mole with pork, and caramel with crepes and pecans. Of all the dishes, we enjoyed the queso fundido the most! The use of goat cheese in the recipe was an unexpected and delicious addition. Chef Rachel was great at explaining the cooking process for all the dishes and demonstrated superb knife skills. She also offered up random, helpful cooking tips. For example, to get the most pungent taste from an onion, buy the whitest and roundest one you can find.

Another tip is to use a dough scraper to easily round up all your chopped fruits and veggies. After watching Chef Rachel use it during the whole class, I promptly put it on my must-buy list!

Create Crafts Another excellent option is Board & Brush in Lenexa, which is a DIY sign-making studio. Prior to the class, you pay for a spot and choose the sign you want to make. This ensures your stencil is precut and ready to go when you arrive. We chose to do a fall sign together to put on our front porch. My husband and I were there for our first time, but several people were returning for a second or third visit. The class is set up as a workshop, with all attendees working on their signs simultaneously while the instructor provides step-by-step instructions. First, you sand your board with the grain and then distress it with a hammer or meat tenderizer. Next, you stain your board, choosing one of six stain options. Then, you carefully apply the stencil. The final step is to paint, using a foam brush. They have many colors to choose from and plenty of examples to look at all over the studio. I was so pleased with how our fall porch sign turned out, and I can’t wait to go back!

DIY Classes Of course, you may have something else in mind. Nowadays, many stores, libraries, restaurants, community centers and wineries offer up DIY classes and workshops, everything from wine glass etching to flower arranging to soap making. We have taken a few of these classes at different venues with mixed results. One class we especially enjoyed was learning hand lettering and how to blend and pour our own soy candles. My best tip though is to do your research, read reviews and talk to people who have taken a class at the venue you are considering.

Hannah Berry is a freelance writer who lives with her husband in Kansas City. They enjoy regular date nights and love trying new restaurants and activities.

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like to think the first weeks after the holidays offer the chance to start from a clean slate. Beginning the new year by organizing rooms, especially kids’ rooms, can have a positive effect on you, your family and your sanity. In fact, because kids receive so many new things for Christmas, it’s almost a necessity. As a result, I’ve come up with a few hacks of my own that I’d like to share that have seemed to help my kids’ rooms seem more organized, making me feel less overwhelmed. Because, after all, the holidays are over, so feeling overwhelmed should be over too!

Declutter. Clearing out their rooms can

make a huge difference. The easiest way to go about this is to set aside some time on the weekend when you can sit down together and go through their toys to see which ones your kids still use and which ones should go in a donate pile. Don’t forget to explain that the donate pile is going to children who don’t have as many toys as they do. This way, your

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youngsters are more apt to let go of the toys, as well as learn the importance of giving to those less fortunate. Plus, with so many new toys, the old ones will have lost the shinybright appeal they had when first received.

Organize items. Once you’ve

decided on what you want to keep, try to organize items into little piles. Always put like items into clear containers. Why clear?

So kids can readily find what they want to play with without just dumping the whole container to look for something specific.

I like to keep the large clear containers in their closet, so they are out of sight but still accessible. Small containers to hold smaller things, like pencils and play dough, I usually leave out on shelves. These containers can be more decorative and playful, because they will be in sight. Try for colorful lids— or maybe even do an art project where the kids can decorate the lids themselves with markers, cute stickers, even pom-poms.

After all, what child doesn’t like a glue stick?

Shelving. Adding shelving to a

bedroom is extremely easy and very beneficial for organizing. It’s easier to keep things in certain spots. Having shelves handy gives the kids a particular home for particular toys. Repeatedly having kids pick up after themselves gives them a sense of responsibility and you peace of mind. Well, a little anyway!

Picking up. When kids have certain places to put their toys, they begin to enjoy feeling responsible and seeing the outcome of a fresh, clean and organized room. So, organize that room, find a home for everything and encourage kids to put everything in its home when they are finished with it.

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new year, a new start. According to StatisticBrain.com, each year 62 percent of Americans make New Year’s resolutions, hoping to make positive and healthy changes.

Statistics show that within the first two weeks, 25 percent of those same Americans have given up on their goals, and only 8 percent reach their ultimate goal by the end of the year. These numbers are not encouraging. In 2019, try a different tack.

Focus on setting positive intentions rather than unrealistic resolutions that may fizzle out faster than you can say Happy New Year.

Set realistic and reachable intentions If 36 percent of people give up on their New Year’s resolutions by February, they are not likely setting realistic or reachable goals. When setting resolutions, choose intentions that make sense. Goals that are interesting, fun, and that you are motivated to keep are more likely to end in success. If you want to read more, set a goal of reading a certain number of books or completing a challenging but interesting book series.

If weight loss is a goal, choose a fun way to reach your goal weight. If you despise running, don’t plan to shed pounds on the treadmill. Pick an activity you love and incorporate it into your exercise routine while choosing healthy meal options. “I made a reading goal this year to read my age in books,” says Stephanie Loux, mom of three. “It was a fun self-care resolution, which made it easier to reach. It also helped me discuss books with friends.”

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Set measurable and specific intentions How will you know whether you have reached your goals? Many people give up on their resolutions because they don’t know how to achieve them or when they have been met. Examples of unmeasurable goals include “get healthy,” “become more organized,” and “save money.” Be specific when setting intentions. How will you become healthier? Does that include changing your eating habits? Incorporating exercise? What type of exercise and how often? Your goals need to be both measurable and specific so you know how to achieve them. Goals such as “raise my grade in science class from a B to an A,” “read one book a month” or “save x amount of dollars for a family vacation” are all specific and measurable. These types of intentions are great because you know exactly how to reach them, when you have reached them and when to celebrate your success.

Reward yourself

Speaking of celebrating, don’t forget to set some rewards for yourself as you choose your New Year’s intentions. This will help motivate you to follow through when things get challenging. Here are some ideas: “If I lose 15 pounds, I will buy three new outfits.” Or for your child, “If you complete your reading goals, you can pick a special toy.” Select a reward that is enough to motivate you or your child and work together toward your goal.

in the new year Don’t overdo it Many people make the mistake of setting an unattainable number of intentions or goals, setting themselves up for failure. When you create your intentions, list all the areas you would like to work on. Once you have a list, narrow it down to the items that are realistic, measurable and come with a reward.

Prioritize and categorize your goals. Can you consolidate any? Do you see a theme? Which goals are you most excited about? Make your list again and try to be as specific as possible in order to give yourself the best chance of success. If you have several things you would like to achieve, keep your grand list handy so you can move on to another goal after you meet one.

“I find that setting goals for shorter terms, say three months, is easier to stick to than a yearlong endeavor,” says Kelly Lawton, Olathe. “It allows me to reevaluate my progress and reset or restart as I need without the guilt.”

Keep your list of intentions for the year positive. Give yourself permission to create intentions that are fun rather than a punishment or chore. When we create goals that are actually obtainable and set rewards for our completion of them, we are much more likely to be successful.

Sarah Lyons is a part-time freelance writer and a full-time mom of six living in Olathe.

Reframe Your Resolutions to Intentions Most people never reach their resolutions. Try reframing your goals to intentions this year and make them more attainable and realistic.

Resolution: Lose weight Intention: Create a healthier lifestyle by eating healthier and exercising regularly.

Focus on how you feel rather than what the scale says.

Resolution: Save money Intention: Create a budget and stick to it, buy used when possible, spend less, save more. What are you saving for? Be specific (college, vacation, pay off debt, etc.).

Resolution: Spend more time with friends and family

Intention: Host get-togethers for friends, put them on the calendar, plan regular family game nights. Ask someone to help you plan events so you aren’t doing it alone.

Resolution: Get organized Intention: Define what area feels the most unorganized and focus on that. Tackle one area at a time. Use organizational tools that are realistic and will work for you long term.

Sources: StatisticBrain.com/new-years-resolution-statistics

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outines can be a good thing; that’s why classrooms are built on schedules and why family dinnertime is important.

Sometimes, though, parts of your family life need a makeover, and a new year is a fantastic time to make some small changes.

Start by identifying what routine needs a makeover and sit down together as a family to talk about ways you can improve the routine.

Encourage input from all family members and make a pact to work together.

Here are some routines that often need improvement and ideas to make each one better:

Harried Mornings Do mornings start with your barking at the kids multiple times to get out of bed and end with everyone scrambling out the door with a donut in hand? A few small changes are often all it takes to turn your mornings from stressful to successful.

Do everything you can to prepare for the next day: Assemble outfits, put the backpacks by the door, locate your keys and pack lunches. Prepare breakfast ahead of time if possible: Bake and freeze muffins for a quick thaw in the microwave, or mix up pancake batter and store in the fridge. In the morning, make sure everyone is up in plenty of time and aware of their tasks.

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Too Much TV There’s nothing wrong with watching a little TV here and there, but if your evenings revolve around the family’s camping out on the couch for several hours, it’s time to change your routine.

Too much TV time could lead to health problems like obesity, heart disease and even an early death. And not only are you sedentary, but you’re likely snacking in front of the tube too.

Set a time limit of how much TV your family watches each day (say, one 30-minute program) and stick with it. Then, brainstorm how your family can better spend quality time together. Ideas include having a game night, playing outside, going bowling or joining a gym.

Eating Out Do busy schedules frequently lead your family to grab a quick dinner at the burger drive-thru or pizza place? Are you eating out (or ordering in) more often than preparing a home-cooked meal?

Eating out may seem like a quick, easy option compared to fixing a meal at home, but restaurant food can shrink the wallet and fatten the waistline. With a little prep work, you can change this routine.

Take a look at your calendar each week and make plans for quick meals on

nights that you know will be hectic. Throw something in the crock-pot that morning, chop up veggies and meat for a fast roll-up or make meals ahead of time and freeze them.

Bedtime Battles In a perfect world, the kids are in bed by 8:00 so you can enjoy a little downtime at the end of your hectic day. In reality, bedtime often means tears, meltdowns and a sudden hunger/thirst/urge to potty. Pretty soon, it’s 9:00, the kids are overtired and Mom and Dad are exasperated.

Are you nodding in agreement?

I find that kids take about twice as long to do anything as I think they should. With that in mind, starting bedtime earlier can go a long way in establishing a positive routine. Set a timer to go off an hour before bed, which signals the start of the ritual.

Then turn off electronics and play soft music to create the mood.

Do things in the same order each night, and build in five minutes before lights-out when kids can grab one more sip of water or run to the bathroom one more time.

Tisha Foley and her family work on their bedtime routine from their home in Belton.

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Ian stood behind him, his arms crossed because I allowed no electronic games.

“Why don’t you go outside?”

“It’s too cold.”

“How about a movie? We have lots.”

“Nothing sounds good,” Ian said.

I glanced out the window at the gray clouds and the overpowering drabness of a January afternoon. The temperature hovered slightly above freezing without a single flake of snow in sight.

“OK, there’s only one thing to do.” I raised my voice. “Sandi, feel like playing a board game?”

She laughed, and a few minutes later, we sat at the table around the game.

“OK, James, this is easy. Just roll the dice, then move your token that number of squares.”

He rolled the dice.

“Two. OK, now move your red guy two spaces.”

James took up his token and placed it on the other side of the board.

“No, see these little squares? You move your guy just two of them. Ian’s turn.”

The dice clattered on the board. “Nine.

Move your green guy nine squares.”

Ian slid his token three squares, counting up to eleven. Sandi took his hand in hers and counted off nine squares, then took her turn while I brought up the rear.

“Your turn again, James.”

He rolled the dice off the table and the game stalled while Mom and I looked for the missing die.

Minutes later, Sandi held up the wayward cube. “Found it.”

“Roll again, James, and this time, keep the dice on the table.”

“Nah, I want to watch cartoons.” He sped toward the TV with Ian on his heels.

Sandi winked at me. “My turn?”

I turned toward the boys, absorbed in a cartoon DVD they’d seen dozens of times before.

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Gymboree Choose your child’s favorite theme and we’ll create a private, personalized party

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iFLY Kansas City From birthday parties to corporate events and everything in between, iFLY is the perfect venue for groups of all sizes.

We offer plenty of ways to make your event memorable, from exciting flight enhancements to food and beverage options. We’ll help your customize your event to fit your needs to throw the party of the year, while your guests experience the thrill of a lifetime. See display ad on pg. 23. www.iFLYWorld.com/Kansas-City

Jump City Jump City’s parties are full of bouncing, sliding, and jumping fun for kids 12 & under. With wall-to-wall inflatables, a variety of arcade games, full concession options and private party rooms, you can sit back, relax and enjoy the party while we do all the setup and cleanup. See display ad on pg. 25. www.JumpCityKC.com

Kansas City Zoo Let the Kansas City Zoo host your child’s next birthday party. We guarantee a wild time for every guest! Our birthday party packages are for children 1-10 years of age. All packages include Zoo admission, a private space with your Education Party Host, cupcakes, and much more! Add-on options include face painters, themed decorations, Continued on page 24

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o plan a perfect birthday party this time of year takes a bit of ingenuity, as any parent who has babies born in the chilly months of winter knows.

Even though it’s cold outside, don’t let that stop you from planning a memorable, fun birthday party for your winter-born kiddos. You can find plenty of places to go, and all offer perfect ways to celebrate.

One idea is to bring the party to your home, with in-home entertainment.

Another idea sure to get kids up and moving is host your party at a local gym or activity center, both of which offer plenty of gymnastics. Some also include a trampoline and foam pit to play in, along with lots of other fun activities.

Want to swim while it’s freezing outside? Plan a party at an indoor pool.

Kids can enjoy the water and take a break in the party room for cake and presents.

For a great list of indoor pools all over the metro, log onto KCParent.com.

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An ideal winter activity is ice skating, indoors at the variety of ice skating rinks around the city. Check online to find one close to you.

Crown Center is a famous destination throughout the winter months, but bundle up as it’s outdoors. Speaking of Crown Center, the Crayola Café and Coterie Theatre are delightful indoor ways to entertain youngsters.

Young boys and girls alike will enjoy a video game competition at their home. Provide plenty of popcorn and snacks to keep them fueled as they compete with their favorite games.

To extend the fun—or as the feature itself—plan a camping party for the kids. Have everybody bring a sleeping bag and pjs for a night of fun. If you have a tent, set it up inside, and they’ll have their own little hideout. And don’t forget the s’mores!

Another fun idea for a themed home party is a drive-in movie event.

Create cars from cardboard boxes and paper plates and bring out washable markers so kids can decorate and detail

their own vehicles. Before the feature film begins, make sure the snacks are plentiful, from popcorn and veggies to candy and Kool-Aid. Then, light the candles on the car birthday cake you made!

Why not create your own carnival indoors? Bring the amusement inside with a carnival-themed party featuring classic games, including paper plate ring toss and bean bag throw. Jazz up the table with salted peanuts, cotton candy and a face-painting station. Be sure you make or purchase a cake shaped like a carnival ride or the big top.

Another fun activity for a birthday is a Nerf gun competition. You can do this at home or, for a larger venue, check out renting a school or church gym.

Treasure hunts are favorites, and your home has plenty of hiding places.

Whether you come up with your own treasure hunt game, complete with pirate ship birthday cake, or purchase a game, kiddos will have fun searching for clues and being the first to find the treasure and solve the mystery.

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Games are a big part of any party for young children, and indoor adaptations of favorites are many. Create an indoor hopscotch, making the squares from pizza boxes. The kids can decorate them with markers and stickers, then tape them to the floor and let those little feet jump.

A candy Olympics is another fun diversion. Set up three candy-themed stations, and children can bob for marshmallows, run a relay race with a licorice baton and compete in a Smarties chopstick challenge by seeing how many Smarties then can place in a bucket across the room using only the chopsticks. Provide candy necklace medals as prizes.

Whether you opt to cart your crew to a fun location or plan a party at home, let your creativity and kid’s personality be your guide.

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Sky Zone Throw your child the best party ever at Sky Zone! Your kids and their friends will experience the WOW of jumping, flying and flipping on our wall-to-wall trampoline courts. NEW Ninja Warrior, Rock Climbing, Warped Wall, Challenge Zone-Trapeze, Zip Line, Aerial Silks, Wipe Out and more coming soon! Throwing a great party can get complicated, but Sky Zone offers all-inclusive packages that make it easy. Attractions vary by location. Two Locations: Sky Zone Kansas City and Sky Zone Lee’s Summit. See display ad on pg. 21. www.SkyZone.com

SoPro Gaming Make your next birthday bash awesome with a game-themed birthday party, inspired by your favorite video games. Let SoPro manage the party so you can enjoy

this special day. SoPro’s amazing staff will make your special occasion memorable and hassle-free! Access to all Games, PCs, Consoles, and our Virtual Reality motion platform. Play Minecraft, Overwatch, Call of Duty, Mario Kart, Madden Football, and more! Refreshments & gift bags also available. See display ad on pg. 24. www.SoProGaming.com

Urban Air Trampoline Park Urban Air Trampoline Park is an attractive solution to a common problem: needing one place to entertain kids of every age. Just a few blocks from Prairiefire and Corbin Park, our facility is the perfect destination for family entertainment. Our facility caters to birthday parties for kids of all ages. If your group is up for a little sweat and a lot of bounce, we are the place for you. See display ad on pg. 27. www.UrbanAirOP.com

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Your child doesn’t understand his algebra homework, but you do.

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a. Do his algebra homework for him so it doesn’t take all night?

b. Show him how to work the problems and then let him find the answers on his own?

c. Ignore his cries and pleas for help and make him do his own homework?

Your daughter is struggling with a question in her history workbook and asks you for the answer. While desperately trying to get dinner on the table, do you …

a. Give her the answer so you can get dinner finished?

whose “A” is it?

b. Read the question to her aloud, ask her what she knows about that question and then tell her to reread that section in her history book for the answer?

c. Tell her you don’t know and that it’s her responsibility to do her work.

Your son is frantic because he has an essay due tomorrow and hasn’t done a bit of research for it yet. Do you …

a. Jump on Google and do the

b. Make a quick run to the library

research for him? together to gather a few books to read on the essay topic and then help him with notetaking to get him started writing?

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Shout at him for waiting until the last minute and tell him he’d better figure out a way to get it done?

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Your tween daughter struggles with writing and has an essay due once a week in her English class. Do you …

he gets home from his friend’s house and tell the school he’s sick the following morning so that he can finish it?

a. Write all her papers for her so she doesn’t have to struggle?

b. Sit down and help her with the

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Cancel his plans with his friend and have him come home directly after his basketball practice so he can complete his homework?

first few essays, step-by-step, to build her confidence and skills?

c. Tell her to research Google on how to write an essay?

You know your son knows how to do his math problems, but he insists he needs your help on every homework assignment. Do you …

a. Sit down and help him every night anyway?

Your daughter is overwhelmed with the 35-question civics worksheet she needs to turn in the following day. As she pleads for your help, do you …

a. Sit up late and finish it for her? b.

Wake her earlier than usual in

the morning and let her finish it before heading off to school?

c. Make her go to school with it unfinished so she’ll get a bad grade and perhaps learn a lesson about finishing her work when she’s supposed to?

Your son has basketball practice right after school, followed by plans he made to hang out at his friend’s house. He won’t have enough time to finish his homework before morning.

Do you …

c. Remind her that you had a lot of homework back in your day, and it’s not your responsibility to do hers for her?

Your daughter went to bed before completing her homework. Do you …

Your child has a science project due by week’s end, and she doesn’t know where to begin. Do you …

a. Get excited because science projects are your favorite, opt to help but end up doing the entire project by yourself?

b. Ask her what she envisions her project to be, give her some tips on how to make it great and tell her you’re there to help guide her along the way as she needs it?

a. Tell him that the next time he runs out of time to finish his homework, you’ll do it for him so it gets done properly?

b. Explain to your son why it’s important to complete his work in a timely manner, even if it means missing a few after-school activities to do so?

c. Complain to the teacher, demanding a chance to re-do the assignment so you can help him?

b. Have her work on 10 to 12 questions at a time, then take a break and then work on the next batch, etc., so she’ll feel more confident?

c. Remind him that he knows how to do the assignment and that you aren’t helping him again?

a. Tell her that if she does half of the questions, you’ll finish the rest for her?

Your son didn’t have enough time to complete his homework due to his lineup of activities after school. In a hurry to turn it in the next morning, he wrote in answers he knew were incorrect, resulting in a D grade.

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c. Don’t say a word and let him fail?

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Make it into a game—you vs. him—and see who gets the correct answer for each problem first?

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c. Tell her to look online for science projects that other kids have done and just copy one of those?

key: Mostly As: You’re way too involved and need to cut back and trust that your child can do it.

Mostly Bs: Your amount of help is just right. Keep up the good work!

Mostly Cs: You need to tune in a little more with your child’s schoolwork and how you can help from time to time to show him you care.

Kansas City mom and author Gina Klein enjoys helping her daughters with their schoolwork but refuses to do it for them because it doesn’t teach them anything and will eventually backfire.

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TIPS FOR INSPIRING conversation with your kids

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aving meaningful conversations with your kids can be tough. We’ve all asked, “How was your day?” and received the dreaded one-word replies of “Good” and “Fine.” Here are a few tips to inspire good conversation and get your kids to open up to you with more than those generic single-syllable replies.

Ask Open-Ended Questions Instead of asking questions that can be answered with just one word, ask openended questions. Ask kids what their favorite parts of the day were or what they did with their best friends that day. When they answer, continue the conversation with follow-up questions.

Remove Distractions Take time to fully engage with your child during conversations and, most importantly, listen to him. That means turn off the television, cell phone and tablets, and give him full eye contact. If the phone rings, let it wait until after your

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conversation. Giving your child your full attention demonstrates that you respect him and what he has to say is important to you.

Make It a Habit Take time every day to have a conversation with your kids. The time of day is different for everyone. For some, the prime opportunity is on the ride to and from school. Others converse best as a family at the dinner table. Some families even go around the table, each person sharing the best and worst part of his day. This becomes a habit and keeps the conversation going throughout the entire meal. I’ve noticed my daughter is usually excited to tell me about her school day on the ride home from school. However, at bedtime when we’re snuggling, she opens up to me about deeper things she’s been thinking about all day. That’s when we have the best conversations. Take notice of when your kids feel the most comfortable opening up to you.

Know What’s Going On

My daughter’s teacher sends a daily email letting us know what they learned that day, as well as fun things that happened. These emails are amazing, and I make it a priority to read the email before I pick her up from school. I’ve realized if I didn’t read up on some of the interesting things they did in the classroom that day, my daughter doesn’t think to mention them to me most of the time. Now I can say, “Did something special happen at recess today?” Usually she will get excited and tell me all about what was special that day. If your child’s teacher doesn’t send emails, try reading school newsletters, asking the teacher about the day when you pick your child up or getting to know your children’s friends and their parents.

Open Up About Your Day Conversations are a two-way street.

When you ask too many questions, kids may feel like they’re being interrogated. Open up and talk to them about your day. They love to hear what you did while they were

in school. Speak with your spouse about his day in front of your children too. Modeling good communication with your spouse will encourage children to join in on the conversation each day. Before your know it, your kids will start asking, “How was your day, Dad?” and “What did you do at work today, Mom?”

Try out these 20 conversation-starters at the dinner table:

Spend One-on-One Time Together

Going for a walk, cooking together or just watching a movie can help inspire conversation. When you’re doing something together, teens are much more likely to open up. In a laid-back setting, they might start a conversation with you that is much more meaningful to them than answering the many questions you ask them after school every day. Sometimes just letting kids know you’re there to talk can be the best advice, and when they’re comfortable, they will start the conversation.

Regan Lyons is a freelance writer who lives in St. Joseph, MO, with her husband and 4-year-old daughter.

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More opportunities. More possessions. Although rooted in love, that desire for more of anything has come with a cost—which became abundantly clear recently when we undertook a basement renovation.

A rec room/playroom/library/catchall, our basement is home to my kids’ toys and books, as well as a media center with an ever-growing number of games, DVDs and Blurays. With multiple children in the house, stuff accumulates quickly, and before I knew it, our playroom was outfitted with pretty much the entire boy aisle of a toy store. Initially, this brought me great delight. But I quickly realized there was a trade-off.

As an influx of new items made their way into our home with each passing Christmas and birthday, I noticed my boys seemed more stifled in their ability to play. And it made perfect sense. With so many options available to them, it was only a matter of time before they dumped everything on the ground. At that point, the fun was gone, and the kids would take their leave. Night after night, battles ensued over cleanup time. My stress levels maxed out every time I walked through and saw the state of the room. And sadly, I noticed a spirit of entitlement creep in. Toys were disregarded carelessly, and my children assumed new ones would take their place at an upcoming holiday.

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I found myself acutely aware of the downside of too much stuff when we began preparing to install new carpet in the basement. All the room’s contents found themselves boxed up and whisked upstairs to make room for the installers. Seeing all the boxes strewn about the living room and dining room was a wake-up call. Our need clearly went beyond better storage or organization. What we needed was a complete overhaul. At that moment, I made a commitment: The bulk of what had found its way upstairs would not be going back downstairs again after the new carpet was laid.

My suspicion that less is more was confirmed shortly after the carpet installers left. My boys hauled a giant tub of Duplos back down to the playroom while I went through and assessed the toy contents of boxes remaining upstairs.

For the better part of a day, my three boys contentedly played together with the only toys available to them.

In the following days, I asked each of my children to name his three favorite toys, noting my own observations about what he gravitated toward. Not surprisingly, the favorites were open-ended toys they could reconstruct into new configurations again and again, such as train tracks and Legos. From there, we began slimming down the collection drastically. Everything with a sound box and batteries left.

Some toys were transported to Grandma’s house for special play at her place. But more than three-quarters our toy collection went on to other homes through donation or

A L I S M IS MORE online sales. Initially, my kids resisted this decision, but over time, all three recognized everyone was happier with less.

You could say the basement toy project launched a wholehouse movement toward minimalism. The garage and closets received an overhaul. A later kitchen renovation provided yet another perfect opportunity to slim down unnecessary items.

One of the biggest surprises in getting rid of so much stuff was how much richer life felt. And that’s when I realized I finally had a handle on what minimalism is about.

Maybe you, like I once did, believe minimalism, although popular, is some bizarre competition where he with the least stuff wins. In that sense, minimalism isn’t all that great.

Thankfully, minimalism isn’t really about self-denial. At its core, minimalism is about aligning your time, space and energy with your core values, ensuring your lifestyle is in sync with your priorities. It means we realize everything comes at a cost, so it’s up to us to make sure we’re preserving what matters most. Because people’s core values differ, their interpretations of minimalism can look different too. Minimalism doesn’t mean that stuff is bad, but it does mean we should take a good hard look at what we have and ask ourselves questions like:

• Does this bring me joy?

• Do I use this with regularity?

• Am I holding on to this item only because one

day I might actually use it?

• Does the sight of it cause stress?

For my family, asking these questions yielded some interesting insights. I personally hate doing excess laundry, and my whole family had far too many clothes (fewer clothes = problem solved). But as a family who puts a high value on reading, our having a large collection of books wasn’t a conflict of interest. In fact, it was worth buying extra bookshelves and providing space for future books.

Minimalism is so much more than clearing physical clutter. It’s also about giving breathing space to our budgets and schedules. We live in a culture that views consumerism and busyness like a badge of honor, but what’s to be won as a result? Debt? Exhaustion? In her article “How to Parent Like a Minimalist,” Denaye Barahona, PhD, explains what children need more than any new toy or extracurricular activity. “Research shows us that childhood anxiety is a rising epidemic in this generation,” Barhona writes. “A child who grows up with anxiety is significantly more likely to be plagued with mental health challenges throughout their adult years. Do you know what our children need? Rest. Do you know what we need? Rest. Stop making rest a luxury—make rest a priority. The mental and physical health of your family depends on it.”

Lauren Greenlee is an aspiring minimalist who places a high value on reading books, making memories and living a life rich in relationships. She writes and raises her three boys in Olathe. kcparent.com january 2019

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Simple Home Renovations ven if you have no immediate plans for leaving your home, approaching renovations with resale value in mind is a good idea. Upgrades that are likely to appeal to future buyers protect your investment while also improving your enjoyment of the home.

One key to a successful renovation is figuring out how to personalize your space without making

it so customized that it’s not attractive to other potential owners. For example, eliminating a bedroom to create a giant walk-in closet may help achieve your dreams, but losing that bedroom can be a major hit to your home’s value.

A good rule of thumb is to focus on aesthetics when it comes to integrating more of your personal tastes, because these easily can be changed with a coat of paint or minor work. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t make other, more significant changes to enhance your home.

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These renovation ideas—which include both cosmetic touch-ups and more laborintensive suggestions—can help boost your home’s value.

OPEN SPACE Older homes were often designed with a boxy, formal layout that is less functional for most modern families’ lifestyles. Today’s open floor plans offer functionality for everything from keeping an eye on the kids while making dinner to entertaining guests.

This type of floor plan also can make small rooms feel larger and invite more light into darker parts of the house.

The most cost-effective way to create an open space is to remove non-load-bearing walls. (Load-bearing walls help support the roof; while they can be removed, there’s typically quite a bit more time, labor and expense involved.) Removing a wall may not be that complicated unless you encounter plumbing or HVAC ductwork that needs to be relocated. You’ll likely have some electrical outlets to move, and both the floor and ceiling will need attention to remove lingering signs of the former wall.

COLOR CHANGE Although paint is one of the easiest ways to personalize your home, it’s also one of the least expensive, simplest ways to improve its value and appearance. A fresh coat of paint, inside or out, can create an appealing illusion of newness, no matter the age of your home. For maximum resale value, stick to neutral tones so future buyers can focus on envisioning the place as their own, without the distraction of your own vibrant choices.

If you don’t like the thought of boring beige, consider adding accent walls for pops of color that can be easily changed down the road.

CLIMATE COMFORT Not every aspect of home improvement is visible at first glance like a fresh coat of paint; some value-boosting upgrades are more behind the scenes. One example is

climate management. If you renovate a space that needs better climate control, or if you add a new room where extending the existing ductwork is impractical, a split-ductless HVAC system may be the perfect solution. The ductless design saves HVAC contractors time during installation; therefore homeowners save money.

EVEN IF YOU HAVE NO IMMEDIATE PLANS FOR LEAVING YOUR HOME, APPROACHING RENOVATIONS WITH RESALE VALUE IN MIND IS A GOOD IDEA. An option like Mitsubishi Electric’s MLZ One-Way Ceiling Cassette fits between standard 16-inch ceiling joists, eliminating the need for more complicated construction.

The sleek, narrow-body design can be easily installed in existing homes and new construction projects. Additionally, these ceiling cassettes can be serviced from directly beneath the unit itself without an access panel, further eliminating the need to modify the surrounding area, which can also provide significant cost savings on installation. Learn more at MitsubishiComfort.com.

ADJUSTABLE LIGHTING A room’s ambiance can be completely transformed with lighting. For multipurpose rooms, an option like dimmer switches lets you customize the lighting to fit the use, which can vary throughout the day. A well-lit living room is essential for a large gathering or a small group huddled for game night.

That same space can be equally inviting for an intimate conversation or a casual movie night when the lights are turned down low.

One of the best parts about lighting projects is minimal experience is needed to swap out standard switches for the more versatile dimmers. Plus, in today’s technologydriven world, there’s an app for seemingly

everything—including lighting. Homeowners can control the ambiance from their phones by installing smart lightbulbs and lighting strips.

GRUNGE-FREE GARAGE Even though a garage’s functionality is the top concern for most buyers, a dingy, unkempt space can be a real turnoff. One way to instantly brighten and refresh the space is to put an epoxy coating on the floor.

Applying the coating is relatively easy, and once dry, it helps prevent unsightly stains and damage in the future. Combine that with a thorough sweeping, wiping down of walls and other surfaces, and organizing the clutter to create a more inviting space you can utilize to the fullest.

UNDERSTATED ELEGANCE Features like crown molding and other wood accents, such as chair rails, are elegant upgrades that can elevate a home’s value with a relatively modest investment. An office or dining room is the perfect place to introduce these design elements to add a bit of formality to the space. You can also find crown molding in spaces like the living room, with the molding coordinating with builtin shelving flanking a fireplace. Although getting the angles and fit just right is hardly a beginner’s endeavor, this is a project that can pay dividends in the long run.

BETTER BATHROOMS Many homeowners approach a bathroom upgrade with big projects in mind, like swapping out the vanity, replacing the tub or installing tile flooring. However, it’s possible to make a noticeable impact with much smaller changes. Simply updating bathroom fixtures and fittings, such as shower heads, faucets, towel racks and lighting, can transform the space with minimal effort and far less work and expense than a large-scale renovation.

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turning stalling into

FOCUS I’m still hungry! I’m sooo thirsty!

One more story, please! The excuses children give to delay bedtime are many.

Stalling is no means limited to just bedtime either. Getting ready in the morning can be a monumental challenge, and so can getting out the door to run a simple errand.

How do you stop kids from stalling and keep them focused while transitioning to the next phase of the day?

Lee’s Summit mom LaTasha James has developed a system using closet organizers and the Amazon Alexa to help guide her children as they get ready in the morning.

The closet organizer makes it easy for the kids to see everything they need to get dressed, and the Alexa gives them verbal cues for other tasks, such as eating and brushing teeth.

“It has automated our entire process,” James says.

Most importantly, James says she’s not having to nag. If the kids follow the guides without requiring intervention, they earn a star for a chart. A week’s worth of stars earns them a toy or prize.

James also uses Google Home alarms to automate bedtime cleanup and preparation.

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Lee’s Summit mom Michelle Wray says she has made a list of morning tasks for her daughters. They have it laminated, and the girls check off the tasks as they complete them each morning. The list also includes reminders about library books, homework sheets and other easily-forgotten things.

Between this list and setting an alarm for the amount of time they have to eat breakfast, Wray says their morning routines have improved.

The need to have such a list began, Wray says, when both of her daughters had to start getting ready for school at the same time and ended up playing and distracting each other. Because breakfast proved to be an especially sticky issue, enforcing the consequence of no after-school screen time if they don’t finish breakfast has helped streamline mornings.

Overall, explaining expectations is key to making transitions easier.

“The first step is to not assume the kid knows exactly how to get ready or how to do the transition,” says Dr. Charles Fay, president of the Love and Logic Institute.

Also, consider rehearsing how to get out of the house in the morning, Fay suggests.

As a parent, your nerves can be on edge

while trying to get everyone out the door early on Monday morning, so why not try practicing the routine on a Saturday morning when the stakes aren’t as high?

Fay also suggests taking pictures of everything involved in the morning routine, then displaying these pictures where the child can see them to provide a visual morning guide.

Once expectations are in place, holding the child accountable to stay on task is easier, Fay says.

If a child still is unable to get herself ready on time despite preparation and guides, Fay says, go ahead and leave at the necessary time—even if she is still in her pajamas. She can bring her clothes in a bag and get dressed at school in these cases.

Teaching younger children about the hard-to-grasp concept of time is important.

Consider providing your child with a clock and talk about time, when you need to leave and how long it generally takes to get ready.

For bedtime preparation, consider keeping the routine simple and make sure the child has had plenty of food and water before beginning the routine. The same tactics of using checklists, pictures

or automated reminders can work for the bedtime rituals of taking a bath, brushing teeth, cleaning up toys and laying out the next day’s clothes.

Getting ready in the morning or going to bed at night in a quick and efficient manner is not something many children master easily, but a little parental planning can make it easier.

Allison Gibeson, Lee’s Summit, is a freelance writer whose husband and 5-year-old son both like to stall bedtime by building creations with Legos and K’Nex.

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Family rules must be pretty universal, considering you can buy wall canvases in most big box stores. For instance, the Golden Rule is a pretty good rule of thumb for most, but all families are unique and may have their own specific rules.

Rose Miller, mother of four from Center Point, IA, says, “We don’t have ours written out except what’s written in the Word. ‘Encourage one another and build each other up,’ ‘through love serve one another,’ etc. Come to think of it, it might be worth writing them down!”

Rules and guidelines help families know what is expected of them and how to interact with the rest of the family. They also help the house run effectively. Most of us do have family rules even if they are not written down and prettily displayed on the wall for all to see. If you would like to put some thought into what your family rules should be, consider having a family meeting. Discuss and agree upon what is important to your family and then perhaps assign specific consequences when rules are broken.

Working on this little project as a family can bring you closer, as well as ensure everyone is on the same page when it comes to expectations. Family rules should pertain to the whole family, not just the children. After all, we all know that more is caught than taught, and kids love to catch Mom and Dad breaking the rules. Seeing that everyone makes mistakes and faces consequences are helpful learning tools for children as well.

Rules can apply to general behavior and character building, as well as be more specific to help your house run smoothly.

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We have not had a family meeting yet, but we do have some rules we have adopted and adapted to over the years. We refer to the Golden Rule almost daily and have even incorporated a reward system we call Kindness Points. We have a chalkboard in our kitchen where we record a tally mark for each time we “catch” the kids being kind.

When they receive 10 points, they get to go out with a parent for a one-on-one date.

Another rule we have in our house is that my kids are not allowed to have breakfast or do anything else until they are ready for the day. This means they need to dress, brush their teeth and tend to their hair before anything else happens. This prevents their forgetting things and arguing about going back upstairs to finish getting ready for school. This rule began when my kids and I started having activities to get to on time, such as MOPS, and is especially helpful now that two of them are in school.

Another rule we have in our house is that children must practice piano and get their daily homework done before school. This rule changed when we moved out of state and switched schools. At their previous school, they were on the bus by 7:00 in the morning, which meant that all homework and piano practice was to be done after school after their snack and before they could go play.

Now, their new school begins at 9:05, so we have extra time in the morning and less time in the afternoons, and we try to utilize that extra morning time. This is a good place to point out that “rules” can be flexible when family life changes.

As for meal rules, we have told our kids they must eat all their meal in order to have one small treat afterward and that they never have to finish dessert. If they take a cold lunch to school, they must finish it before enjoying a snack after school. If they consistently “forget” or choose not to finish their lunch but somehow are always able to enjoy their lunchbox treat first, then they lose lunchbox treats for the rest of the week as well. As for family meals, we try to eat together whenever we can, and that’s when our kids learn how to take turns talking

everyone can follow about their day and listening to everyone’s highs and lows. We also have a rule that all must sit on their bottoms at the table and use their manners.

Safety rules include holding hands when crossing a street and looking both ways, wearing a helmet when riding a bike or scooter, no lying and no secrets. Begin these rules early so these habits are all your children know, and stick to your rules. If a child forgets to look both ways, take the extra minute to have him walk back and try again. If she refuses to wear her helmet when riding her bike, maybe her bike needs to be put in time-out for the day. These early interventions are key to making your children understand your rules are meant to be followed.

Blue Springs mother of four Jennifer Willis explains her family’s no secrets rule: “I did overhear Charlie and one of his friends talking one time, and his friend wanted to tell him a secret that he couldn’t tell anyone. Charlie told him that he doesn’t keep secrets from his mom. I just want my kids to feel comfortable telling everything, especially if someone hurts them and possibly tells them not to tell.” Willis credits learning about this rule to a Grace at Home session offered at Grace Church in Overland Park.

Helpful rules include picking up before you get something else out, helping pick up the house at the end of the day and always using manners. We both encourage and praise our kids’ saying please, thank you and holding the door open for others. My sons especially like holding doors open for strangers. We like to incorporate books as resources to reiterate these important lessons. When we are helpful and kind to others outside and inside our home, we talk about “filling up their buckets,” from the book Have You Filled a Bucket Today?: A Guide to Daily Happiness for Kids by Carol McCloud. A catch-phrase like this is an easy reminder, like a secret code between you and your kids.

Another important rule in our family is to apologize when we have done something

wrong. The popular PBS Kids program Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood does a great job reinforcing important rules like apologizing. Watch with your kids. The episodes even come with catchy jingles you can sing throughout the day, such as “Saying I’m sorry is the first step, then, how can I help?” Another episode handles frustration and anger with songs such as “When you get so mad that you want to roar, take a step back and count to four.”

I don’t know about you, but these are still crucial lessons I need to hear—especially when parenting!

“Rules can apply to general behavior and character building, as well as be more specific to help your house run smoothly.”

Another helpful rule is no interrupting.

“When an adult is in a conversation and the child wants to say something, he puts his hand on the adult’s arm,” Miller says. “The adult places a hand over the child’s hand to acknowledge his request to interrupt. When there’s an appropriate break in the conversation, the adult turns to the child to listen to him. You also can teach appropriate times to interrupt, like emergency situations.”

As kids get older, add or reevaluate rules as needed. You can do this as a New Year’s Day tradition or on milestone birthdays. Rules for older children may concern screen time, sleepovers, driving privileges and curfews. Lori Tate, Bloomington, IL, mother of three, has rules regarding screen time for her elementary-aged children. “Screen time is earned. For 30 minutes of screen time, they

must read for 30 minutes,” she says. “Screens are always in family spaces.”

As for sleepovers, they are quite the hot button topic. My oldest is in third grade, and at this point, our rule is no sleepovers except with family members and in each other’s rooms—which they think is great fun! Laura Loeffert, Overland Park mother of three, says, “We don’t do sleepovers. I am a firm believer that they can go have fun and still come home at say 10:00. Time will be negotiable. Also, I don’t want to be responsible for other people’s kids overnight and don’t expect them to take care of mine overnight.” Fellow Overland Park mother of three Meredith Barreth says, “We don’t do sleepovers because I’m concerned about unfiltered internet and my kids’ being exposed to pornography early in life. They stay over at Grandma’s and occasionally we have houseguests.”

Kids naturally test their boundaries, and parents need to remember back to when they were kids and how they’d try to get away with things. But rules and consequences are a normal part of life that kids should learn now, when the stakes are low. When they are older, they will face bigger consequences for bigger offenses. “An unhappy child is a healthy child,” explains Kevin Leman, psychologist, on an episode on FocusOnTheFamily.com. “There’s times your son or daughter has to be miserable, quite frankly, because they disobeyed you.

They talked back to you.”

Rules help family members learn how to interact properly with others, think about others, learn obedience and that there are consequences when rules aren’t followed.

Contrary to what kids may say, rules and guidelines do help children feel secure and stable in their home, as well as understand what the expectations are within their family.

Stephanie Loux is the mother of Layla, 8, Mason, 6, and Slade, 3. You can check out more at LettersFromTheLouxes.com. kcparent.com january 2019

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training my child to be independent I find it can be hard to let them struggle through or even fail at experiences outside their comfort zone. However, those experiences develop confidence and independence, which are valuable in raising children.

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s a mom of kids ranging from 2 to 12, I realize how quickly time flies. I love watching them grow, try new things and discover their passions. As a parent, I find it can be hard to let them struggle through or even fail at experiences outside their comfort zone. However, those experiences develop confidence and independence, which are valuable in raising children. I want to raise self-sufficient adults, and that means I need to start training them now. Here are some ideas to help kids naturally develop the independence needed to be confident and responsible adults.

THE PRESCHOOL YEARS (ages 2-5) Create a helper Toddlers and preschoolers love to follow their parents around the house; so why not have them help with the chores?

They can help put clothes in the dryer, match socks, sweep the floor or assist in any other task. They may not be able to do chores independently or have household responsibilities yet, but taking the extra time now lays the groundwork for the future.

Give opportunities During the preschool years, kids typically show an interest in trying selfcare tasks themselves. It may be easier (and faster) to tie your child’s shoes, zip up his coat, make his lunch and buckle his seatbelt, but allowing your child to try these things on his own helps him become more independent. Consider starting the preparation for your day 15 minutes earlier to allow time for your child to try some things on his own. If frustration arises,

What chores are appropriate at what age?

Head to KCParent.com for a list of chores for every age group. remain calm and ask if he would like help.

Instead of just completing the task for him, take time to teach him how to do it so he can try again tomorrow.

Problem solve Problem solving skills begin to develop at a young age. Toddlers and preschoolers will often get frustrated when things don’t go their way and may wind up in the throes of a temper tantrum. Although this is age appropriate, parents can begin to help their children develop problem solving skills by calmly suggesting solutions to what is upsetting them. Have your child come up with ideas to solve the problem and, when possible, help her work through it on her own.

Bonus tip for preschoolers Give your children choices whenever possible to help them develop independence and to give them a sense of control.

may look different depending on your child’s age and maturity, but some ideas may be ordering and paying for her food at a restaurant, riding her bike home from school, packing her own lunch or trying a new extracurricular activity. Each opportunity, even a challenging one, helps your child become self-sufficient and develop more independence.

Problem solve Elementary school kids will begin to face bigger problems that may include challenging friendships, struggles with schoolwork or even bullying. Foster good communication with your children and help them come up with solutions they are comfortable with. Cheer them on when they are able to work through obstacles.

Bonus tip for the elementary school years Do your best not to criticize your children’s efforts but instead praise them for doing their best.

THE ELEMENTARY SCHOOL YEARS (ages 6-11)

THE TEEN YEARS (ages 12-18)

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For elementary age kids, you can advance what was done in the preschool years. I will assign my child a chore, like washing windows, vacuuming or putting away dishes. Because he has helped me with these tasks for years, he no longer needs my assistance. If a child is reluctant to do chores, I make a list of things that need to be done and have him choose a few things to do. When the tasks are done, the child will have free time for electronics, outside play or something else he has been looking forward to. Chores teach kids to be independent and responsible.

Tweens and teens should be given even more household responsibilities as they are nearing adulthood. Take note of what skills it takes to run a household and begin to teach them these tasks. Cooking, yard work, babysitting, laundry, car care and even a part-time job fall into this category.

The more responsibilities your child is comfortable with while in your home, the smoother the transition to living on his own later.

Give opportunities Give your child more opportunities to be independent as she matures. This

Give opportunities There is a fine line between giving your child independence and keeping him safe in the teen years. As kids start to drive, spend more time with friends and work outside the home, parents have less control

over their choices. Continue working on open communication and trust with your teen so that as she ventures into the world, you both feel comfortable with the change.

Problem solve One of the hardest things kids have to experience is the consequence for a poor choice. A parent’s first reaction may be to step in and “save” her child, but in the long run, this does not teach teens anything. For example, if your child left her homework at home, she will not receive credit for the work. The easy thing to do would be to run the assignment to the school, but chances are your child will forget again and most likely on a larger assignment. As adults, we have to manage our responsibilities, and teens must also learn these lessons. If forgotten homework is repeatedly an issue, suggest packing up the night before. Sit down with your child and help him come up with solutions to problems. You can encourage him to do this without you, then come back and present his solution to you.

Bonus tip for the teen years Set specific household rules so that your child has the opportunity to be independent but not out of your comfort zone as a parent.

As our children grow, so must their responsibilities. As always, you will be there to guide and train them, but giving your children tools throughout childhood will help them grow into confident and independent adults.

Sarah Lyons is a part-time freelance writer and a full-time mom of six living in Olathe.

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winter fun guide 43 sock snowmen 44 kid-approved fun 46 tips to nourish spirit 48 soup recipes 50 comfy, cozy winter 52 movie-inspired fun

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eed a snowy day activity for when school is closed? Old socks find a whole new purpose with these darling and easy-to-make snowmen. Use everyday items from around the house to create sock snowmen that can be used as decorations, door stops or just for play!

• Uncooked rice • Scissors • Rubber bands • Buttons • Googly eyes

(or more buttons)

• Socks (2) • Sharpie • Hot glue and glue gun (or any strong glue)

Step one: Cut the bottom off your sock for your snowman’s body. If you want to make two snowmen, use the other half for the other body.

Step two: Fill with rice.

Step three: Tie the top closed with a rubber band.

Step four: Create your snowman’s head and middle by separating two more sections with rubber bands.

Step five: Use hot glue (or glue of choice) to add your eyes and buttons.

Draw on nose with Sharpie. Washable marker works, too.

Step six: Cut other sock to create your hat and scarf.

Step seven: Tie the top of the hat with a rubber band. Cut end of scarf to create frays.

Step eight: Dress up your snowman and find him a cozy spot in your home!

Megan Coffey is a former kindergarten teacher who lives in Overland Park with her husband and two kids. She loves encouraging creativity with her children through art and play.

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Winter is seriously the hardest. The stir-crazy kids, the germs, the being stuck inside. It gets to you after a very short time.

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arenting is full of excitement and challenges. One of the most challenging aspects of parenting includes keeping your little humans active and engaged during the long winter months. “Winter is seriously the hardest.

The stir-crazy kids, the germs, the being stuck inside. It gets to you after a very short time,” says Monica Wells, Kansas City, KS, mom. When the slick roads, the cold winds and the threat of every virus known to man combine to keep you and your kids home for extended periods of time, life can get chaotic. “The kids’ energy levels don’t subside just because we can’t go out and play,” says Robin Allen, Olathe mom. So, how do you keep your kids from bouncing off the walls while you are stuck inside?

We have five tips to keep your winter days wonderful!

Work It Out. Regular exercise helps to reduce risk factors of cardiovascular disease, such as high cholesterol, high blood pressure, Type 2 diabetes and obesity, according to a multitude of studies. The science makes a great argument for being active, but we parents know our kids are happier when they have outlets for their

endless energy. “My kids are happier and, as a family, we get along better when we exercise. Staying active is a key to our sleep habits, how we eat and our ability to relax during the downtimes,” says Laura Purdue, Olathe mom. Staying active when you are stuck in the house gets a bit complicated, but it doesn’t have to be impossible. Try getting your kids involved in a regular workout routine. You can try making obstacle courses in the living room, playing red-light-green-light or Simon Says or have a push-up contest. Try workout videos or invent some routines yourself! These small efforts can make all the difference and can get your blood pumping!

Get Crafty. In today’s Pinterest world, crafting is always an option. But it doesn’t have to be over-the-top or stressful. Choose projects that align with your kids’ interests and your household vibes. “I look to Pinterest now and then, but mostly we do crafts that fit with what is going on with our family at the time,” Joelle Martin, Kansas City, MO, mom says. “We make cards for neighbors and friends. We paint pictures for people on their birthdays.” Coloring in a coloring book, making paper dolls or

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drawing a picture for the grandparents are all crafts that excite the imagination. And craft time offers bonus benefits. Children who use their hands for cutting, coloring, writing and playing with Play-Doh develop stronger hand muscles and greater finger dexterity—all of which help with the ability to write and to hold a pencil correctly.

Crafting at home is a boredom buster that can help set your child up for success down the road!

Mix It Up in the Kitchen. “Cooking is our go-to in the winter. Not only is it fun for the kids, it helps me with meal planning!” says Gretchen Kelley, Shawnee mom.

Cooking with your kids sounds like a great way to make a mess, but it is also a great way to make memories and happily pass a cold, wintry afternoon. No matter what is on the menu, kids love to help. And teaching them about nutrition, where their food comes from and how dinner gets on the table are life lessons important at any age! Try checking out some kid-friendly cookbooks from the library or finding some online tutorials to get you started. Before you know it, you could be cooking up meals with the next Top Chef Junior!

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Build a fort indoors.

Learn, Learn, Learn. Just because you are stuck inside doesn’t mean you have to put learning and fun on hold. From online learning apps to playing Crazy Eights, you can find a million ways to teach your children while having fun indoors.

“We set up flash card challenges. We play board games. I have some workbooks, but I actually feel like my kids learn more through imaginative play, playing with toys or dressing up,” says Samantha Brown, Overland Park mom. Designating a theme day can help to narrow down your choices.

Choose a topic, a period in history or an animal to learn more about. Incorporate your theme into the stories for the day, your dress-up games and your snacks to help make learning fun and interactive. Your local library is a great place to go to add depth to any topic!

Explore KC! If the roads are safe, exploring Kansas City in the winter is well worth it! The metro offers lots of places to go get some exercise and have some indoor fun. In addition to spots dedicated to children’s entertainment around KC, you can explore great places to learn more about our city.

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For indoor exercise, try Urban Air in Overland Park, Sky Zone in Shawnee and Lee’s Summit, Rainbow Play Systems in Olathe and Zona Rosa shopping area in Kansas City.

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If you can make it outside, try exploring the World War I Memorial or checking out the architecture on the Plaza.

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Kansas City is host to a number of wonderful museums that offer great learning opportunities for kids. Try the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art, the American Jazz Museum and the American Royal Museum.

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Our local grocery stores, the post office and the police or fire stations can provide great opportunities to learn about the community and how those services benefit each of us.

Melissa Bellach is a freelance writer, wife and mom of three living in Overland Park. kcparent.com january 2019

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ot the winter blahs? You’re not alone. With the lighthearted holidays behind us and a stretch of cold, dark days ahead, this time of year can be rough, especially for women.

Banish winter yuck with a few of these nourishing self-care tips.

Rest. With flu, colds and various other

ailments running crazy eights through many households this time of the year, taking time to rest can help protect your health. Treat yourself to a cat nap, early bedtime, or simply rest with your eyes closed for 15 minutes.

Tip: Are worries keeping you awake? Write them

down in a worry journal along with three daily gratitudes. Spray lavender essential oil mixed with water on your pillow. Then, lights out.

Collect the good stuff. File away feel-

good comments people share with you and read them when you’re down. Make a Pinterest board with items that raise your spirits like inspiring quotes, pretty homes or comforting recipes.

Tip: Start a Joy Jar. Include notes from friends,

photos that lift your spirits, enlightening quotes, small trinkets, funny quips from your kids or daily gratitudes.

Make lists. No, not to-do lists, which only

serve to overwhelm a tired, tender spirit.

Instead make lists that answer questions like: Wouldn’t it be amazing if…? What are my dreams? What do I need less of in order to get more of what I want in my life? What am I grateful for? Who am I grateful for? What did I notice today? Or simply list your favorite books, movies, people, music, etc.

Tip: Decorate a special notebook just for your dream lists.

Disconnect. Just as you can catch feelings of sadness, anger or happiness from people you interact with face-to-face, a study published in the journal Proceedings in the National Academy of Sciences suggests that emotionally-charged posts on social media also can influence your mood. Notice whether you feel bummed or drained after spending time on social media. Curate your feed by unfollowing consistently negative individuals or groups, disable constant news notifications and be aware of the types of posts you click on and share.

Tip: Take weekly social media Sabbaths and

establish daily time limits to regain control.

Curb social media use by downloading an app like Space, Freedom or App Detox.

Listen. Dial up your favorite tunes by creating music playlists that either soothe or energize you. Also, try a guided meditation. Even a few minutes a day can help you interrupt the loop of negative, anxiety-provoking thoughts.

Tip: Check out the many mindfulness apps

available like Insight Timer, Calm, Headspace and Stop Panic and Anxiety.

Get away. Escape winter by traveling to a warm, sunny spot for a few days. Can’t leave right away? Planning an upcoming getaway still can buoy low spirits.

Tip: If you don’t have time for an extended trip, schedule an overnight retreat somewhere to recharge.

Read. From inspiring memoirs and

humorous essays, to page-turning novels, a great read will do you wonders. Curl up with a book and a warm beverage. Share your love of reading by starting a book club with other enthusiastic bibliophiles.

Tip: Follow your favorite authors online for quick hits of inspiration.

Relax. Are you someone like me who has trouble warming up on a cold day? On days like that, my go-to is a warm, soothing bath. Candles and lavender Epsom salts are inexpensive ways to make bath time even more special.

Tip: Schedule a massage, hot stone treatment,

manicure or pedicure. Or, forget scheduling and visit a walk-in spa.

Seek deeper conversation.

Remember how good you feel after you’ve spent time laughing or discussing meaningful topics with close friends? Good conversation that goes deeper than small talk helps us feel a strong sense of connection with others.

And, it’s good for you. Time with friends helps boost our immune systems and decrease our stress levels.

Tip: Phone, email or text a friend today and

schedule a coffee, breakfast or lunch. Even an hour will make a significant difference in your outlook.

Give. Big or small, doing something

kind for someone is uplifting times two!

Surprise an acquaintance with a thoughtful note, mail a funny card to a friend or post a positive review for a local business.

Volunteer an hour of your time for an organization you admire or deliver a dessert to a new neighbor.

Tip: Pay for the customer behind you in

the drive-thru at your favorite coffee shop.

Baristas say they get inspired by this practice too!

winter fun guide Exercise. If weather permits, bundle up

and take a walk. The fresh air, the sun’s bright light on your face and time spent in nature can effectively lift an otherwise damp mood.

If you can’t get outside, any kind of regular exercise can boost the feel-good endorphins in your body. Ask a friend to join you for additional motivation.

Tip: Part of healthy living includes feeding

your body well. Choose colorful berries, winter vegetables and comforting soups.

Play. We aren’t designed to work, work,

work all of the time. Even animals play!

Play with paint, turn on the tunes for an impromptu dance party with your kids or try a Pinterest project just for fun.

Tip: Get your family playing by scheduling a game night or goofing off outside together.

Declutter. Feeling stuck and bogged down?

Begin decluttering your home, and you’ll immediately feel lighter. Start with things that are broken, damaged, no longer fit or no longer bring you joy.

Tip: Grab a bag or box and go around your

house, picking up something from each room that you are ready to give away or discard.

For additional tips, check out the book Soulful Simplicity by Courtney Carver.

Laugh. With all of the chatter, vitriolic opinions, depressing news and chaos in the world right now, it’s easy to get mired in everything that isn’t going right. Sharing silly memes and videos on social media, spending time with friends who make you laugh and watching laugh-out-loud sitcoms helps.

Tip: Set your DVR to record reruns of your

favorite sitcoms or funny movies and watch when you need a break. **Note: Depression and anxiety are serious health conditions. Please consult your physician if you continue to struggle.** Christa Melnyk Hines is a nationally published freelance writer. She believes nourishing selfcare is key to wintertime sanity. She resides in Olathe with her family, which includes her husband, their sons and a menagerie of pets kcparent.com january 2019

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SOUP NUTRITIONNUGGETS

BABY, IT’S COLD OUTSIDE Once Mother said, “My little pet, you ought to learn your alphabet.” So in my soup I used to get all the letters of the alphabet. Then I learned them all, from A to Z, and now my Mother’s giving me animal crackers in my soup. Okay, so maybe your kids already know the alphabet, but they still can benefit from an alphabet of vitamins and nutrients. Defy the chill air and let your kids go out to play all January long. After that, welcome them in and warm their growing bodies with these delicious, nutrient-rich, cozy-warm soups.

BUTTERNUT SQUASH SOUP INGREDIENTS: 1 t. olive oil 1 clove garlic (minced) 1/2 c. onion (chopped finely) 3 c. chicken broth 1 1/2 c. butternut squash (cubed) 2 t. salt 2 t. pepper 1 t. sage 1 t. thyme leaves

INSTRUCTIONS: • Sauté 1 teaspoon olive oil, 1 minced clove of garlic and 1/2 cup chopped onion in large stockpot over medium heat for a few minutes.

• Add a pinch of salt, pepper and sage to 3 cups of chicken broth.

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• Add in 1 1/2 c. of cubed butternut squash and bring to a boil.

• Cover, reduce heat and simmer until squash has a tender consistency (about 20 minutes).

• Garnish with black pepper and thyme.

BOUNTIFUL BODY BENEFITS: Beta-Carotene & Vitamin A. The butternut squash in this recipe meets close to half the recommended dietary allowance (RDA) for beta-carotene, which ultimately gets converted into vitamin A. This is great for your kiddo’s skin and hair health because the nutrient plays a vital role in the growth of bodily tissues. It also is needed for sebum production, which aides in moisture production. Can you say hallelujah, dry skin?

Fiber. Offering about 6 grams of filling fiber, just one cup of this soup meets about 25 percent of the RDA. Fiber helps your child stay full and satisfied during this chilly month.

winter fun guide CHUNKY TOMATO BEEF SOUP INGREDIENTS: 1 lb. ground sirloin 1 T. canola oil 1 onion, diced 1 carrot, diced 2 cloves garlic, minced 4 c. reduced-sodium beef broth 2 cans (14 oz. each) diced tomatoes, undrained 2 T. Worcestershire sauce 1/2 t. dried thyme 1 c. elbow macaroni 1/4 t. salt 1/4 t. ground black pepper 2 T. grated Parmesan

INSTRUCTIONS: • Heat a large pot over medium-high heat. Add the sirloin and cook for 3 minutes or until no longer pink. Transfer to a bowl and set aside.

• Add the oil, onion and carrot to the pot. Cook for 4 minutes or until softened. Add the garlic and cook 30 seconds longer.

• Add the broth, tomatoes, Worcestershire sauce, beef and thyme. Raise heat to high and bring soup to a boil. Add the pasta.

• Reduce heat to medium-low and simmer for 8 minutes or until the pasta is tender. Add the salt and pepper.

• Serve with Parmesan cheese.

This soup dish is a tried-and-true staple during the cold winter months in the Leawood household of Rebecca, a mother of five active and growing kids. “This dish is ideal for snow days when schools get canceled,” she says.

BOUNTIFUL BODY BENEFITS: Protein. With the sirloin beef being a complete protein, it helps keep aches and breaks away from your kid’s growing bones, muscles and tendons.

Energy. The elbow macaroni is a rich and nutritious complex carbohydrate that enhances your kiddos’ energy supply to keep them learning, exploring and playing.

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Overall, you and your kids can’t go wrong feasting on these tasty, simple and satisfying soups all January long!

Sources: The Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, KidsHealth.org, National Institutes of Health

Amy Hundley is a registered dietitian nutritionist, licensed in both Kansas and Missouri, and a published freelance nutrition writer. She is currently practicing as a clinical RD and has been a resident of Olathe since early childhood. kcparent.com january 2019

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comfy, cozy winter Cabin fever seems to be a common winter ailment, but you can ward off the malady by truly enjoying the best of winter. Make this season cozy, comfortable and peaceful and enjoy the best of it with your family.

Curl Up with a Good Book Screen-free family time is important. Choose a new book to read aloud as a family.

Out & About: In addition to many marvelous libraries, Kansas City is also home to several charming book shops. For more than 40 years, Rainy Day Books (2706 W. 53rd St., Fairway, KS, 913.384.3126, RainyDayBooks.com) has been the neighborhood bookstore for all ages, instilling a love of reading in the community. The cozy shop is quaint and ideal for an afternoon of scouring shelves on the hunt for the perfect new book to enjoy.

At Home: Choose a book to read aloud as a family that has been shown as a film as well. Read the book, then watch the film and compare the two. You can choose from an array of new and classic books to enjoy as a family.

Toasty Warm Socks Warm socks are a comfy winter essential we often take for granted. Brighten your winter mood with a new pair of socks.

Out & About: Learn to knit your own socks. The Studio Knitting & Needlepoint (9555 Nall Ave., Overland Park, TheStudioKC.com) offers a range of classes for beginning and experienced needle artists. Knitting, crochet and needlepoint lessons are offered, including classes to knit your very own pair of socks. Not only will you be fashionable, but you can take pride in your newfound skill.

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At Home: We often socialize so much over the holidays, we forget to connect with friends in fun ways after ringing in the new year. This year, invite some friends over for a dessert buffet (or serve pizza or soup and sandwiches) and host a Sock Exchange Party. Ask each guest to bring a new pair of cozy socks. Then, host an exchange using classic techniques from white elephant parties. You can find many ideas for exchange games on Pinterest, but my favorite is to roll one die and assign a step to each number. Roll 1: Pass one place to the left. Roll 2: Pass two places to the right. Roll 3: Trade. Roll 4: Mix it up – all gifts in the middle and randomly mix. Roll 5: Pass two places to the left. Roll 6: Pass one place to the right.

Take turns rolling the die around your group circle. Once everyone has rolled once or twice (decide in advance), the game ends and everyone keeps the pair of socks in their possession at that point in the game. For more fun, pop in a favorite movie or play classic board games.

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Lighting candles at the dinner table or as you’re reading creates a relaxing and comfortable atmosphere.

Out & About: The Create-It Studio (1409 W. 11th St., Kansas City, MO, CreateItKC.com) is a maker studio offering a variety of classes and workshops for crafters and artists alike. You can find public events on their calendar or you can pop into their studio for a workspace and help with your project. Among their many class offerings are candle making lessons. Learn to melt and pour your own candles, creating the perfect winter centerpiece for your table.

At Home: Turn out the lights and light the candles. Host a “techfree” dinner for the family. No screens, no electric light.

Just enjoy a candlelight dinner together talking and sharing ideas. The meal doesn’t have to be fancy; in fact, the simpler the better. The goal is simply to shut out distractions and spend some time truly together.

winter fun guide Warm Drinks Hot tea, cocoa, cider, coffee…sipping steaming drinks can warm the soul on a cold winter’s day.

Out & About:

Enjoy the Great Outdoors Winter can be beautiful. Nature is quiet and serene, and the outdoors begs to be explored.

Out & About: Visit one of the city’s many nature centers and explore their paved trails. Listen for birds, look for nests, watch for animal tracks and enjoy the quiet. Some of our favorites include: • Burr Oak Woods (1401 NW Park Rd., Blue Springs, 816.228.3766) • Cave Spring Nature Center (8701 E. Gregory Blvd., Kansas City, MO, 816.358.CAVE) • Anita Gorman Discovery Center (4750 Troost Ave., Kansas City, MO, 816.759.7300) • Ernie Miller Nature Center (909 N. Hwy. 7, Olathe, 913.764.7759) • George Owens Nature Park (1601 S. Speck Rd., Independence, 816.325.7115) • John Barkley Visitor Center (7900 Renner Rd., Shawnee, 913.888.4713) • Lakeside Nature Center (4701 E. Gregory Blvd., Kansas City, MO, 816.513.8960) • Prairie Oak Nature Center (14701 Mission Rd., Leawood, 913.681.0902) • Martha Lafite Thompson Nature Center (407 N. Lafrenz Rd., Liberty, 816.781.8598) • Overland Park Arboretum (8909 W. 179th St., Overland Park, 913.685.3604) • Parkville Nature Sanctuary (12th & East, Parkville, 816.741.7676)

Kansas City is home to several tea rooms, each with its own distinctive personality. This can be a fun outing for a group of friends. Henry’s Tea Room (401 SE Douglas St., Lee’s Summit, 816.524.3992) in downtown Lee’s Summit houses an antique shop and is close to many great shops.

Heirloom Bakery & Hearth (401 E. 63rd St., Kansas City, MO, 816.492.7259) in Brookside is beloved for their made-from-scratch bakery items, perfectly complemented by a warm drink. Greenwood Country Tea Room (502 W. Main St., Greenwood, MO, 816.537.8434) is housed in a local antique store in the heart of Greenwood’s downtown boutique and antique shopping district. Country Keepsakes Tea Room (2513, 501 Main St., Belton, MO, 816.348.7888) is a charming little restaurant in the heart of downtown Belton.

Make to Enjoy at Home: Enjoy creative family time and take the kids to a paintyour-own pottery shop where they can paint their own personal mugs for enjoying cocoa and cider at home.

Paint, Glaze & Fire (12683 Metcalf Ave., Overland Park, 913.661.2529, PaintGlazeAndFire.net) and Ceramic Café (9510 Nall Ave., Overland Park, 913.383.0222, CeramicCafeKC.com) are our favorites. Both shops offer family events, including story times, pizza and painting, and other specials throughout the year. After painting your own personal mug, make some homemade cocoa to enjoy with popcorn and a family game or movie night.

At Home: Spend some time bird watching on the deck. View the night sky through a telescope. Light a fire in the fire pit and make s’mores. Go sledding, make snowmen and snow angels, and play in the snow. Take a walk in your own neighborhood. Don’t let the cold temps keep you inside—you’ll find much to enjoy outside all winter long.

Kristina Light ranks winter as her second favorite season.

She’s hoping for a nice pleasant snowfall and a bit of sledding this year. kcparent.com january 2019

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beat the winter blahs with

movie-inspired fun

by Kristina Light

national treasure Home Theater: National Treasure stars Nicholas Cage as historian and code-breaker Ben Gates.

He’s been searching his entire life for a rumored treasure. The movie is filled with thrills, adventure and intrigue as Gates races to get ahead of those that betrayed him. National Treasure appeals to many age levels so that both younger and older children will enjoy.

Edible Pyramid. Make crispy rice treats and then cut and stack them into the shape of a pyramid.

If you are ambitious, you can frost and add detail with gel paint.

Treasure Hunt! Create a treasure hunt for your kids to follow, complete with clues, mysteries and a prize at the end. Another fun idea is to play the board game Clue or to solve cryptograms. Better yet, each write your own cryptogram and trade with family members to solve. Or, hide a treat and the only way to find the treat is by solving a cryptogram puzzle.

a very merry unbirthday Home Theater: In Disney’s animated classic Alice in Wonderland, the Mad Hatter sings the “Unbirthday Song” about the 364 days a year that are NOT your birthday. Enjoy the film, then celebrate with your own unbirthday party!

Backwards Dinner! Decorate the party with an unbirthday banner and upside down decorations.

Invite your children to a backwards dinner and encourage them to wear their clothes backwards.

Then dine backwards, starting with dessert and ending with appetizers.

Play Backwards Games! Create a pin the tail on the donkey game, but place many tails on the donkey.

Then, blindfold the contestants one at a time as they take turns removing one of the donkey’s tails. The object of the game is to remove the correct tail—the one in the proper spot. Replicate the concept to play other favorite games backwards. Play Candyland beginning at the finish line. Play Old Maid where the winner is the player holding the maid at the end. Raid the game cabinet and see what games inspire your kids.

winter the dolphin Home Theater: Is winter making you long for the beach? Cuddle up with Winter the dolphin for an at-the-beach, heart-warming family film, Dolphin Tale. A boy rescues Winter the dolphin when her tail is lost in a crab trap. With creativity, he persuades a team of scientists to develop a prosthetic tail enabling the dolphin to swim again.

Dolphin Sandwiches! Local grocery stores sell sandwich cookie cutters in dolphin shapes. If you are unable to find these, you may purchase food-coloring markers in the bakery aisle and let the kids draw ocean scenes on their sandwiches.

Dolphin Olympics! Create two teams and compete in some fun races. Catch Fish in Your Mouth: Dolphins can jump up and catch a fish in midair with their mouths. Provide everyone with a cup of goldfish crackers (5-10/person) and see who can successfully toss them into the air (one at a time) and catch them in their mouths. Award one point per successful catch. Balance a Ball on Your Nose: Give each player a plastic ball and, using a timer, determine who can balance the ball on the nose the longest (no hands!).

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snowed in Home Theater: Dean Jones, the iconic actor of Disney’s Herbie movies and That Darn Cat, stars in this oft-forgotten but fun-filled slapstick family comedy, Snowball Express. Jones’ character, John Baxter, inherits a Rocky Mountain ski resort and, along with his family, must fix up the property and make it profitable in order to keep it.

Eat Tortilla Snowflakes. Warm flour tortillas for 15 seconds in the microwave. Fold the tortillas in half once and then in half again, so you create a pie wedge shape. Using clean scissors, cut as you would paper snowflakes. Unfold tortillas. Brush with butter or spray with non-stick cooking spray.

Sprinkle with cinnamon and sugar or shredded mozzarella cheese. Bake until just warm and slightly crisp (about 4 minutes at 250˚).

Snowball Fight! Try an indoor snowball fight. Create indoor snowballs using balled up white socks, white tissue paper or giant pom-poms. Create two teams and divide the space into two sections.

Set a timer for 2-5 minutes and have each team throw snowballs to the other side. If a snowball lands on your side, you may throw it back to the opponent’s side. This continues until the time expires. The team with the fewest snowballs on its side wins.

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Bring the family to Main Event for Monday Night Madness. Choose from three super specials, each just $10.95. Available Mondays 4:00-close.

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The Broadway Princess Party comes to the Carlsen Center Jan. 18. Unleash your inner princess with Broadway’s original Cinderella, Belle and Jasmine.

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Jan. 21 is a holiday for the kids, and while most schools are out, Science City is open. Bring the kids for a day of learning while having fun!

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Head to the Overland Park Arboretum Jan. 26 for Happy Birthday, Kansas!

Celebrate with crafts, storytelling, music, a history fair and more!

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Head to the Folly Theater Jan. 29 for Meet Dr. King.

A wonderful introduction to the life and work of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. FollyTheater.org

1 Tuesday New Year’s Day

Extraordianry Eagles 10:00, Martha Lafite Thompson Nature Sanctuary. Learn about the life, habitat and behavior of our nation’s symbol. Pre-reg at NatureSanctuary.com.

The Pigeon Comes to Topeka Thru Jan 4, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. Exhibition inspired by the art and characters of Mo Willems. KansasDiscovery.org

First Day Hike 10:00, Weston Bend State Park.

Start a new tradition with friends and family as you get some healthy exercise on a guided tour.

MoStateParks.com

Laser Holiday Magic 11:00 & 1:00, Arvin Gottlieb Planetarium. See favorite holiday tunes brought to life with gorgeous laser choreography. $7. UnionStation.org

Play All Day 11:00, Main Event. For a limited time, it’s only $7 per activity, any activity, all day.

Details at MainEvent.com.

Ice Skating Noon, Crown Center Ice Terrace.

Spend the first day of 2019 skating with the family on Kansas City’s only outdoor rink.

CrownCenter.com

Winter Teen Bash 7:00, Olathe Community Center. Bring two canned food items for a free night of fun for teens in grades six to eight.

OlatheKS.org

Plaza Lights Thru Jan 13, Country Club Plaza.

The lights on the Plaza shine for just a couple of more weeks. Bring the family to experience the magic! CountryClubPlaza.com

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2 Wednesday Day Camp Thru Jan 4, Code Ninjas. Come for one day or all three! Activities including coding, game-building, robotics and creative thinking.

Pre-reg at CodeNinjas.com.

Open Jump 10:00, Urban Air Trampoline Park.

Bring the kids to run, play and jump. Enjoy a little sweat with a lot of bounce! 913.298.0626

Hansel and Gretel Mini Camp Today & tomorrow, Rolling Hills Presbyterian Church.

Listen to music from the opera, crafts, dramatic playtime and more. Pre-reg at KCOpera.org.

Snake Days 4:00, George Owens Nature Park. See the snakes fed, learn how to handle them and discover how snakes live their lives.

GeorgeOwensNaturePark.org

4 Friday Dinosaurs Revealed 10:00, Union Station. Take a hands-on trek that brings you face to face with 26 life-size dinosaurs. Last days to visit!

UnionStation.org

Little Critter’s Day Out 9:30, Ernie Miller. Make a craft, play games, have a snack and see an animal visitor. $14-$16. 913.826.2807

Open Play 10:00, Jump City. Bring the kids to Jump City—where excitement and laughs are found daily! $8/child; parents are free.

JumpCityKC.com

Toddler Time 2.0 9:30, Blue Springs Fieldhouse.

Play inside the fieldhouse on mats, scooters, slides, a bounce house and more. $2-$3.

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Rockin’ Rob 10:00, Johnson County Museum.

Interactive and educational musical kids show that promotes fun and education.

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Toddler Time Sundays & Tuesdays, Sky Zone. A time for little ones to bounce under the supervision of their parents and without interference from the big kids. SkyZone.com

Paint Me a Story 10:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire.

Paint a pottery piece that goes along with a favorite story. Snack included. $13-$15. Pre-reg at 913.661.2529.

Hands-On History 11:00, National World War I Museum and Memorial. History is brought to life. Handle Great War artifacts.

TheWorldWar.org

First Fridays 5:00, Crossroads Arts District.

Galleries and shops remain open the first Friday of each month. KCCrossroads.org

Scandal in the Schoolhouse 11:00, Lanesfield School. Solve the mystery of the missing school marm at this new escaperoom-style adventure. Pre-reg at 913.715.2570.

5 Saturday Easel Workshop 9:00, Home Depot. Pique your child’s visual arts interests with a hands-on workshop where you and your child can build an easel. HomeDepot.com Tropical Weekend Today & tomorrow, Kansas City Zoo. Animals in Discovery Barn, Tropics and Penguin Plaza will enjoy tropical enrichments.

KansasCityZoo.org Eagle Days Today & tomorrow, Paradise Point Golf Course. Enjoy outdoor eagle viewing and indoor activities. Refreshments for sale.

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Kansas Women’s Basketball 1:00, Allen Fieldhouse. The Jayhawks take on Iowa State. Visit the Kid Zone before the game.

KUAthletics.com Saturday Night Feeder Saturdays, 2:00, Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary. Watch the cats being fed, weather permitting. $6-$8. 816.739.0363 Festival of Lights 4:00, Powell Gardens.

Botanically-themed lighting stretches along a winding pathway through six gardens.

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Bess Truman was first lady of the United States and the constant support of Harry Truman’s life. The Harry S. Truman Library & Museum (500 W. US Hwy. 24, Independence,

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6 Sunday Daddy Daughter Dance Feb 8 & 9, Providence Community Church. Purchase tickets for this fun evening! Event will sell out!

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on the president’s life underscores the importance of his relationship with Bess, her role in his life and as first lady.

The Coterie is showing Secret Soldiers: Heroines in Disguise Jan. 22-Feb. 10 (TheCoterie.org) for ages 10+. The play tells true accounts of four women who, for different reasons, served as men in the Civil War. Woven into this unique and interactive play: the early suffrage movement, as well as the formation of the Massachusetts 54th Regiment (the first African American regiment in U.S. history) and Harriet Tubman.

The “first lady of flight” Amelia Earhart was born in Atchison, KS. The Amelia Earhart Birthplace (223 North Terrace St., Atchison, KS, 913.367.4217, AmeliaEarhartMuseum.org) tells the story of the legendary lady and her childhood adventures. Earhart was born in the home on July 24, 1897, to Edwin Stanton Earhart and Amy Otis Earhart. On a tour of the home, visitors learn about the pilot’s early love of flight and her daredevil adventures as a little girl.

Major League Improv 7:00, Comedy City. A comedy sporting event where everything is based on suggestions from the audience. $9-$13. 816.842.2744

learn about women in history 816.268.8200, TrumanLibrary.org) exhibits cover U.S. history during the Truman presidency, as well as the life of the Truman family. One of the most prized museum collections features the many letters exchanged between Harry and Bess Truman over the years. The exhibit

Kansas City has a rich history in the fashion industry, including being home to Nelly Don. She was the founder of the Donnelly Garment Company, one of the premier fashion companies of the world in the 20th century that introduced affordable ready-to-wear clothing for women.

The history of fashion is captured at the Kansas City Museum at the Historic Garment District (KCMO. gov/kansascitymuseum/visit/historicgarment-district-museum). The museum updates exhibits throughout the year.

At the Dole Institute of Politics (2350 Petefish Dr., Lawrence, KS, 785.864.4900, DoleInstitute.org), visitors learn about the functions of the U.S. government and the lives and legacies of Kansas Senators Bob and Elizabeth Dole. This married couple played an important role in national politics for much of the late 20th and early 21st centuries.

Toddler Time 9:00, Sky Zone. A time for little ones to bounce under the supervision of their parents and without interference from the big kids. SkyZone.com

Friends and Family CPR 6:00, Olathe Medical Center. American Heart Association class that teaches basic CPR. Non-certified class. $35. Prereg at OlatheHealth.org.

Farmers Market 9:00, the City Market. The market is open year-round and offers a variety of fresh produce, meat, specialty groceries and more. TheCityMarket.org

8 Tuesday

Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slide show and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org

7 Monday Me and Mini Me Swim 9:00, Olathe Community Center. Parents and children ages 5 and under are invited to swim in the zero-depth area. OlatheKS.org Moms Free Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms are free at the Children’s EduTainment Center with a paid child’s admission. 816.246.5224 Kids Read: Read-Aloud Hour 4:00, MCPL (Blue Ridge). Join every Monday to listen to great stories or get the chance to read aloud.

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Toddle Time 9:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Open playtime with an array of toys, including blocks, balls and puzzles. $1-$2.

913.895.6350 Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Rec Center. Kids ages 5 and under play with push toys, riding toys, balls, inflatables and more. $2. Lenexa.com Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. $12. CeramicCafe.com

9 Wednesday Indoor Playground 9:30, Sylvester Powell Community Center. Developmental toys, inflatable and more for kids in a safe, clean indoor play area. 913.722.8200 Open Play 10:00, Jump City. Bring the kids to Jump City—where excitement and laughs are found daily! $8/child; parents are free.

JumpCityKC.com

Open Gym Noon, Integrity Gymnastics. A great time to practice, get familiar with the gym and for kids to release energy. $6. IntegrityOP.com

10 Thursday Toddle Time 10:00, Bonner Springs Community Center. Bring little ones 9 months through 5 years to play on the large assortment of toys. $2. BonnerSprings.org Adult & Pediatric First Aid/CPR/AED Training 2:00, Jewish Community Center. An American Red Cross blended learning course. TheJKC.org Widdershins Thru Jan 20, Roger T Sermon Center.

A surreal and mystical suspense from beginning to end. CityTheatreOfIndependence.org

11 Friday Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air. A special time when entire park is open for children 5 & under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl!

UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com Scribble Workshop 10:00, Kansas City North Community Center. A child/parent art event with a different theme each month. Dress for mess! 816.513.7741

Get creative at the

Nerman Museum!

Contemporary Creations classes (ages 8-11) and Early Explorations classes (ages 5-7) combine engaging, interactive tours with hands-on studio projects, and students explore different topics each week.

Pre-registration is required.

Saturdays, Jan. 26 – April 13 $15 / $10 for Museum Members Register through JCCC Continuing Education: Summer weekday class enrollment opens Feb. 1 nermanmuseum.org • 913-469-2323

FREE general admission Free NMOCA KIDS family guide with NEW outdoor sculpture activity cards.

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The Sound of Music Jan. 15-20, Kauffman Center. The beloved musical story of Maria and the von Trapp family will thrill audiences. BroadwayInKC.com

Fine Art Friday 1:00, Kemper Museum.

Interactive experiences in the galleries encourage students to examine art. Includes tour with docent. Free. KemperArt.org KC Restaurant Week Thru Jan 20, various restaurants. Enjoy an old favorite or explore a newly opened restaurant. Specially priced lunch and dinner menus. KCRestaurantWeek.com Rescue the Animals 6:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Solve puzzles and use clues to unlock rooms and help the animals make a great escape. Ages 5+. 913.826.2807 Monster Jam Triple Threat Series Thru Sunday, Sprint Center. Adrenaline-charged, high-flying, four-wheel excitement. MonsterJam.com

12 Saturday KidDo Fair 8:30, Mill Creek Middle School. A resource fair featuring vendors who provide services from birth to 5 years of age. Free.

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STEAM Sculptural Saturdays 9:00, Johnson County Arts & Heritage Center.

Adult and child work together to create a sculpture with balance. Pre-reg at JCPRD.com Babysitter Safety Class 9:30, Olathe Medical Center. Learn infant and child care, along with home safety, first aid and more.

Ages 11-15. $50. Pre-reg at OlatheHealth.org.

Free ACT Practice Test 9:30, MCPL (Liberty).

Practice tests designed to give students an assessment of where they might score on the real ACT. Pre-reg at 816.781.9240.

Read to a Dog 9:30, Central Resource Library.

Kids practice reading-out-loud skills with a certified and well-behaved therapy dog as an audience. JoCoLibrary.org Penguin March 11:00, Kansas City Zoo. The King and Gentoo penguins will march from back of exhibit outside for guests to see up close. KansasCityZoo.org

Second Saturdays 4:00, Downtown Weston. Stroll into unique gift shops and galleries for late-night shopping and in-store specials. WestonMO.com

13 Sunday Whirlwind: Art in Motion 8:00, Overland Park Arboretum. Bundle up to see sculptures that change in the light and wind throughout the garden. OPKansas.org Ice Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace.

Spend the day skating with the family on Kansas City’s only outdoor rink. CrownCenter.com

Christmas Tree Recycling Thru Jan 31, Shawnee Mission, Heritage, Kill Creek and Big Bull parks. Trees will be collected. Please remove decorations. 913.888.4713 art + family = FUN 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Join us every Saturday and Sunday for free activities for all ages!

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14 Monday Splash with Me 10:00, Lenexa Rec Center. Kids can swim, play and become more confident in the water at the kiddie pool. $2. 913.477.7100 Indoor Play Park 9:00, New Century Fieldhouse. Hop, skip and jump through obstacles, bounce and kick balls, build with blocks and more! $3. 913.826.2850 Moms Free Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms are free at the Children’s EduTainment Center with a paid child’s admission. 816.246.5224 Monday Night Madness 4:00, Main Event.

Choose from three super specials, each just $10.95. Available Mondays 4:00-close. See pg 2 for coupons. MainEvent.com

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Celebrate January KC Style

Jan. 1: New Year’s Day This year, resolve to try something new! You’ll find hundreds of places to visit and experiences to enjoy right in your own backyard with our KC Going Places Guide at KCParent.com/Going-Places.

Jan. 9: Take the Stairs Day The National World War I Museum and Memorial is one of the city’s best museums. Visits include a trip to the top of the tower aboard an elebator followed by 45 stairs to the observation deck for a view of city’s skyline. We can’t think of a better way to take the stairs!

Jan. 14: Dress Up Your Pet Day Dress up your family pet in a fun costume with accessories from your own closet, or treat him to a new outfit courtesy of K9 Closet at 74th & Wornall. You can dress up too! And snap fun pics.

Jan. 26: Australia Day Visit Australia at the Kansas City Zoo where you can see a free roaming mob of red kangaroos, which are able to jump nearly 30 feet and travel up to 40 mph.

Jan. 29: Puzzle Day Springbok Puzzles (Springbok-Puzzles.com) are the oldest puzzle brand in the United States, and they happen to manufacture their jigsaw puzzles right here in Kansas City.

Buy a new puzzle and enjoy a family night!

15 Tuesday Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. $12. CeramicCafe.com

Junior Jaunts 10:15, Nelson-Atkins Museum.

Bring your baby in a stroller or carrier and enjoy an adult-focused, baby-friendly mini museum tour. Nelson-Atkins.org

Tots on Tuesday 10:30, Kemper Museum. Bring in your preschooler for a fun and fashionable get-together every third Tuesday. 816.753.5784

Paint Me a Story 10:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire.

Paint a pottery piece that goes along with a favorite story. Snack included. $13-$15. Pre-reg at 913.661.2529.

Toddler Open Gym 11:00, Excelsior Springs Community Center. Open playtime features an array of toys and teaches children how to interact with others. 816.656.2500

Third Friday Art Walk 5:30, Englewood Station Arts District. Tour the art galleries. View live performances and artists on the sidewalks in front of shops. EnglewoodStation.com

The Sound of Music Thru Jan 20, Kauffman Center. The beloved musical story of Maria and the von Trapp family will thrill audiences.

BroadwayInKC.com

The Broadway Princess Party 7:00, Carlsen Center. Dust off your tiara for the Broadway Princess Party with Broadway’s Cinderella.

JCCC.edu/theseries

16 Wednesday

Major League Improv 7:00, Comedy City. A comedy sporting event where everything is based on suggestions from the audience. $9$13. 816.842.2744

Daddy Daughter Dance Feb 8 & 9, Providence Community Church. Purchase tickets for this fun evening! Event will sell out!

SovGraceKC.org/Dance

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Toddler Time 10:00, Sky Zone. A time for little ones to bounce under the supervision of their parents and without interference from the big kids. SkyZone.com

Battle of the Bean 5K 8:00, Foo’s Fabulous Café. Choose Team Coffee or Team Cocoa and join the race. Jellybean race for kids.

BattleOfTheBean5K.com

Animal Tales 10:00, Johnson County Arts & Heritage Center. Stories, songs and surprises.

Today’s theme: Kansas Wildlife. $2. JCPRD.com

Penguin March 11:00, Kansas City Zoo. The King and Gentoo penguins will march from back of exhibit outside for guests to see up close. KansasCityZoo.org

Baby Story Time 10:30, Cedar Roe Library.

A lap-sit story time with songs, rhymes and movement for babies birth thru 18 months with a caregiver. JoCoLibrary.org

17 Thursday Toddler Time 2.0 9:30, Blue Springs Fieldhouse.

Play inside the fieldhouse on mats, scooters, slides, a bounce house and more. $2-$3.

BlueSpringsGov.com KC Restaurant Week Thru Jan 20, various restaurants. Enjoy an old favorite or explore a newly opened restaurant. Specially priced lunch and dinner menus. KCRestaurantWeek.com What’s for Dinner? 3:00, Burr Oak Woods.

Discover what’s for dinner as you watch the captive amphibians, fish and turtles enjoy a feast. 816.228.3766

18 Friday Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air. A special time when entire park is open for children 5 & under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl!

UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com

Scavenger Saturdays 10:00, Kemper Museum of Art. Children with adults follow the clues on this “ART-tastic” adventure. KemperArt.org Hands-On History 11:00, National World War I Museum and Memorial. History is brought to life.

Handle Great War artifacts. TheWorldWar.org Story Time 1:30, Martha Lafite Thompson Nature Sanctuary. Hear a naturalist read a tale about an animal and make a craft. Pre-reg at 816.781.8598.

Dancing Woderland 2:00, Rockhurst High School. The Community School of the Arts performance will warm your heart on a winter’s day! KCYA.org Saturday Night Feeder Saturdays, 2:00, Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary. Watch the cats being fed, weather permitting. $6-$8. 816.739.0363 Mahaffie Dinners 4:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm. Enjoy a meal served in the stagecoach dining room by lantern light!

Pre-reg at Mahaffie.org.

20 Sunday Farmers Market 9:00, the City Market. The market is open year-round and offers a variety of fresh produce, meat, specialty groceries and more. TheCityMarket.org Ice Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace.

Spend the day skating with the family on Kansas City’s only outdoor rink. CrownCenter.com Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slide show and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org Family Nature Series 2:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Bring the family on Sunday afternoons for entertainment and education. Today’s theme: snakes alive. $3. 913.764.7759 Winterlude 7:00, Carlsen Center. The Winterlude series continues with performances

by Eddie Moore and Pamela Baskin-Watson.

JCCC.edu/theseries Lunar Eclipse 7:00, Overland Park Arboretum.

Bring flashlights and watch as the Earth passes between the sun and moon. OPABG.org

21 Monday Martin Luther King Jr. Day Science City Open 10:00, Science City.

School’s out, and Science City is open! Bring the kids for a day of learning while having fun!

UnionStation.org Space Creatures Meet Mother Goose 11:00 & 2:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. Aliens land at a library and learn about humans through Mother Goose rhymes. 816.833.9777 Grand Opening Celebration 2:00, Code Ninjas (Lenexa). Stop by to see the new center and enjoy face painting, refreshments and games!

CodeNinjas.com Beginners Night 6:00, Central Resource Library.

Introduction and demonstration of 3D printing, laser cutting, design software and more.

JoCoLibrary.org

22 Tuesday Toddle Time 9:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Open playtime with an array of toys, including blocks, balls and puzzles. $1-$2.

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Underground Underground Jan. 31-Feb. 2, Kauffman Center. Storling Dance presents a powerful and inspiring portrayal of the Underground Railroad. CultureHouse.com

Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Rec Center. Kids ages 5 and under play with push toys, riding toys, balls, inflatables and more. $2. Lenexa.com Secret Soldiers: Heroines in Disguise 9:45, Coterie Theatre. True accounts of four women who served as men in the Civil War. Ages 10+.

TheCoterie.org Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. $12. CeramicCafe.com

23 Wednesday Christmas Tree Recycling Thru Jan 31, Shawnee Mission, Heritage, Kill Creek and Big Bull parks. Trees will be collected. Please remove decorations. 913.888.4713 Me and Mini Me Swim 9:00, Olathe Community Center. Parents and children ages 5 and under are invited to swim in the zero-depth area.

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Open Play 10:00, Jump City. Bring the kids to Jump City—where excitement and laughs are found daily! $8/child; parents are free. JumpCityKC.com Toddler Time 10:00, Sky Zone. A time for little ones to bounce under the supervision of their parents and without interference from the big kids. SkyZone.com

24 Thursday Indoor Playground 9:30, Sylvester Powell Community Center. Developmental toys, inflatable and more for kids in a safe, clean indoor play area. 913.722.8200 Snake Days 4:00, George Owens Nature Park. See the snakes fed, learn how to handle them and discover how snakes live their lives.

GeorgeOwensNaturepark.org Swan Lake7:30, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. See Russian National Ballet perform this masterpiece. HJSeries.org

25 Friday Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air. A special time when entire park is open for children 5 & under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl!

UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com Breakerspace Teen Lock-In 6:00, MCPL (Colbern). Break down old stuff and turn it all into works of art! Ages 12+. Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

On Top of Spaghetti…

Five Favorite Places to Eat Spaghetti in KC January is National Spaghetti Month. This family-friendly favorite is dished up deliciously at these local eateries: Italian Delight: 6522 Martway St., Mission. Italian Delight is a New York-style

pizzeria, locally owned and operated by the Avelluto family. Known for the homey atmosphere, affordable prizes and delicious meatballs, Italian Delight is a consistent favorite in local polls and contests.

Buca di Beppo: Country Club Plaza, 310 W. 47th St., Kansas City, MO. Buca serves family portions meant for sharing. With a vibrant, fun atmosphere, this is a favorite for family gatherings. Make reservations ahead and ask to dine in the kitchen where you can watch the cooks in action firsthand.

Cinzetti’s: 7201 W. 91st St., Overland Park. Cinzetti’s is one of the most fun places to dine in town. Chefs prepare food at various stations throughout the restaurant where you choose your Italian cuisine buffet-style. The Tuscan décor and lively atmosphere make this a memorable and delicious restaurant for the family.

Pizza Shoppe: Multiple locations: PizzaShoppe.com. The kids want pizza again.

You want a fun and affordable meal. But, you don’t want pizza…again. Pizza Shoppe serves a variety of pasta dishes in addition to pizza, including classic spaghetti and meatballs. This fun pizzeria is a perfect family hangout with arcade games and specials throughout the week.

Jasper’s Marco Polo’s: 1201 W. 103rd St., Kansas City, MO. Jasper Mirabile is one

of Kansas City’s celebrity chefs, and rightfully so. Known for exquisite Italian dishes, his namesake restaurant is perfect for special occasions and a romantic date night.

However, if you’re wanting to take the kids out for a laid-back dinner, Marco Polo’s, his casual dining restaurant, is the place for you. Serving a variety of classic Italian dishes, the eatery offers a unique take on spaghetti: Spaghetti Aglio Olio E Broccoli, a delicious pasta with fresh broccoli, garlic and extra virgin olive oil.

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Winter Princess Formal 6:30, NKC Parks & Recreation Center. Enjoy a special night out with your little lady. Includes dinner, a photo, treat and rose. NKC.org

Augmented Reality 10:30, Verizon Smart Store. Kids learn how digital information is integrated with their own environment. Pre-reg at Verizon.com/LearningLabs.

Shen Yun Thru Sunday, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. Performance by the premier classical Chinese dance and music company.

ShenYun.com/KC

Valentine’s Day 1:00, Lanesfield School. Use pen and ink as you make a valentine. Shop for your sweetheart in our gift shop! JCPRD.com

26 Saturday MPE Women’s Encouragement Day 8:30, City Center Church (Lenexa). A quiet, relaxing day of encouragement for homeschool moms.

MidwestHomeschoolers.org Penguin March 11:00, Kansas City Zoo. The King and Gentoo penguins will march from back of exhibit outside for guests to see up close. KansasCityZoo.org Stories in Art 10:00 & 2:00, Nerman Museum.

Learn about stories in contemporary American Indian art and create a scratch-art drawing. Prereg at NermanMuseum.org.

Happy Birthday, Kansas! 10:00, Overland Park Arboretum. Celebrate Kansas heritage with crafts, storytelling, music, a history fair and more! OPABG.org

Unplugged Family Night 5:00, Vesper Hall.

Take a night away from screens and enjoy food, board games, life-size games, music and more.

BlueSpringsGov.com Winter Jam 6:00, Sprint Center. Christian music spectacular featuring first, 360° “in the round” center stage, showcasing a diverse lineup.

2019.JamTour.com Comedy City at Culture House 7:00, Culture House Stage & Studio (Oak Park Mall). Five of the funniest improvisers create hilarious sketches. $10. CultureHouse.com 1860s Dance Party 7:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm. Celebrate Kansas’ statehood with a dance party with live music! Ages 16+.

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27 Sunday Groundhog Run 8:00, Hunt Midwest SubTropolis. An underground race to benefit the children of Ability KC. AbilityKC.org/events Chinese New Year Celebration 10:00, NelsonAtkins Museum. Features live entertainment, art activities, learning in the Chinese art galleries and food. Nelson-Atkins.org Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slide show and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org Family Nature Series 2:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Bring the family on Sunday afternoons for entertainment and education. Today’s theme: Kansas symbols. $3. 913.764.7759 Inside Pediatrics 6:00, KMBC. Viewers see inside the stories at Children’s Mercy, a top pediatric medical center. InsidePediatrics.com

28 Monday Daddy Daughter Dance Feb 8 & 9, Providence Community Church. Purchase tickets for this fun evening! Event will sell out!

SovGraceKC.org/Dance

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All tickets are $6! follytheater.org 816.474.4444

Monday, April 22 The Folly Kids’ Series is made possible through generous support from the Missouri Arts Council; ArtsKC; Oppenstein Brothers Foundation, Commerce Bank, Trustee; Theater League; R. A. Long Foundation; McDonnell Foundation; Sullivan Family Foundation; and Ronald D. Deffenbaugh, Sr. Foundation.

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Ice Skating Daily, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Spend the day skating with the family on Kansas City’s only outdoor rink. CrownCenter.com

Splash with Me 10:00, Lenexa Rec Center. Kids can swim, play and become more confident in the water at the kiddie pool. $2. 913.477.7100 Indoor Play Park 9:00, New Century Fieldhouse. Hop, skip and jump through obstacles, bounce and kick balls, build with blocks and more! $3. 913.826.2850 Moms Free Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms are free at the Children’s EduTainment Center with a paid child’s admission. 816.246.5224 Monday Night Madness 4:00, Main Event.

Choose from three super specials, each just $10.95.

Available Mondays 4:00-close. MainEvent.com

29 Tuesday Meet Dr King 9:45 & 11:30, Folly Theater. A wonderful introduction to the life and work of Dr Martin Luther King, Jr. FollyTheater.org Ice Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace.

Spend the day skating with the family on Kansas City’s only outdoor rink. CrownCenter.com

Baby Story Time 11:00, Shawnee Library.

A lap-sit story time with songs, rhymes and movement for babies birth thru 18 months with a caregiver. JoCoLibrary.org

30 Wednesday Secret Soldiers: Heroines in Disguise 9:45 & 11:45, Coterie Theatre. True accounts of four women who served as men in the Civil War. Ages 10+. TheCoterie.org Open Play 10:00, Jump City. Bring the kids to Jump City—where excitement and laughs are found daily! $8/child; parents are free.

JumpCityKC.com Toddler Time 10:00, Sky Zone. A time for little ones to bounce under the supervision of their parents and without interference from the big kids. SkyZone.com Inside Pediatrics 7:00, KMBC. Viewers see inside the stories at Children’s Mercy, a top pediatric medical center. InsidePediatrics.com

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Kansas City Zoo Janurary 5 & 6 Tropical Weekend Gentoo and King Penguin March Janurary 12 & 13 Gentoo and King Penguin March Janurary 19 & 20 Wild About Penguins Gentoo and King Penguin March Janurary 26 & 27 Gentoo and King Penguin March

Tropical Weekend January 5 & 6

The temperatures are rising at our indoor exhibits.

Animals in Discovery Barn, Tropics and Helzberg Penguin Plaza will enjoy tropical enrichment items.

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