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Before even reading the email, in my mind I answered a resounding “YES!” The email was, unfortunately, not inviting me to an exciting night on the town, but it was from a writer sending in her article (which you can read on pg. 24). Let’s face it, this parenting gig is a tough one. Yes, the rewards are endless and totally worth it, but the day-to-day? Whew! That Mom and Dad get out and take a much needed night to themselves is so important. Whether you schedule a weekly date night or monthly, make sure to get in that precious and much-needed time alone.

The Winter Olympics take place this month!

Cheering on Team USA can provide lots of fun quality time with the fam and lots of opportunity for learning. Did you know that the Winter Olympics are fairly new? I did not!

The first games were in 1924. This year’s host, PyeongChang, South Korea, has an elevation of 700 meters, which the region claims as one of the most ideal places in the world for health and sports. Who knew? Olathe mom Lauren Greenlee has put together a great piece that not only includes trivia and fun facts, but has tons of great ideas for family Olympic activities.

Check it out on pg. 18.

Even though February is the shortest month, it’s jam packed with fun all over Kansas City!

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Love

By Matt De La Pena Illustrated by Loren Long Best for: Ages 3-7

Libba: The Magnificent Musical Life of Elizabeth Cotten

Grandpa’s Great Escape

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Illustrated by Tatyana Fazlalizadeh

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Best for: Ages 4-8 What is love? It’s a difficult concept for any age, but children have no preconceived notions. So for them, love can be anything and anywhere. De La Pena presents Love in prose that is easy for children to understand. They can see examples and feel the love through warm, lyrical text and soft illustrations from Long. The images offer examples from all ages and walks of life. Through good times and tough times, de la Pena shows that love and comfort are always there.

This is a nice book to help young children grasp the concept of love.

During this time of the year, love is everywhere, and this book offers some real examples that young children can understand.

What’s good: Warm prose that speaks

Love and heroism come in many forms.

For Elizabeth Cotton, love comes in the form of music, and heroism comes in the form of using her talents. Elizabeth Cotton was a little girl in North Carolina at the end of the 19th century. One day she picked up her brother’s guitar and taught herself to play. She was a natural. By the age of 11, she wrote “Freight Train,” which went on to be recorded by numerous musicians and become one of the most famous folk songs of the 20th century. As the book progresses, we see an older Cotton who no longer plays the guitar. She is a housekeeper for a family that happens to be folk singers. Naturally, this fateful junction leads to a late-in-life resurrection of Cotton’s music career. This title is an excellent addition to biography collections, especially for those who love music.

to young children.

What’s good: Great message and

What’s bad: Tackles a very big concept that may be too big for some young children.

intriguing story.

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What’s bad: Cotten is relatively unknown to young readers, so it could be a tough sell.

Walliams has already been dubbed the next Roald Dahl, and his intelligent mix of humor, quirky characters, creepiness and fantasy show the moniker is right on the money. His cover illustrations mimic those of currently published Dahl books as well. All of that aside, Grandpa’s Great Escape is an adventure with heart, as Jack helps his aging (possibly suffering from Alzheimer’s) grandfather escape from the old folks’ home run by the evil Matron Swine. The mix of humor and fantasy keep this title light and enjoyable.

What’s good: Humor, fantasy and a touch of heart make for a fun adventure.

What’s bad: The grandfather’s condition is touched on but used mainly for humor.

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veryone forgets things from time to time, but it seems the more kids I have, the more forgetful I become.

Forgetting an appointment or an important deadline occasionally is frustrating, and sometimes costly, but when you notice it happening regularly, it’s time to get organized. What are some easy tips parents can use to improve memory?

Write it down “I am a paper person. I have a spiral notebook I write everything in,” says Olathe mom Jean Janner. “I use them for menu planning, shopping lists, to-do lists, notes from phone calls and doctor appointments, and holiday and vacation planning. I write the date on the front so I can look back if needed.” According to a study done at UCLA, taking notes, rather than typing on a laptop, improves memory. So it follows that taking notes during a meeting, writing to-do and shopping lists and using paper calendars and planners should help you remember more easily.

There’s an app for that If you prefer to go paperless, technology offers great tools to help you remember what you have on your plate today. “Everything, no matter how trivial, goes on a list or calendar in an app I use on my phone,” says Colorado mom Kara Thomas. “I cannot imagine motherhood without it.” Many families like the ease of electronic calendars because they can be shared easily with all family members. “My husband and I have a calendar where we store all our information, which

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is automatically shared,” says Holly Searls, Olathe mom of four. “I also utilize the alarm function on my phone. I set alarms and name them for recurring events and select the days I want them to go off.” Try alarms for appointments, or as reminders to take medicine or grab the library books for school.

The key to using technology effectively is to be diligent about entering the information as soon as it’s received.

Take care of yourself When you are overtired, hungry or stressed, prioritizing, organizing and remembering what needs to be done can be difficult. A good night’s sleep can do wonders to help improve memory. Similarly, a healthy diet of food low in saturated fats can help keep your mind sharp. Eating empty calories will cause you to feel tired and sluggish, making it difficult to focus.

If you are already eating and sleeping well, try adding cardiovascular activity to your day. Exercise can greatly improve memory.

Depending on your fitness level, start with 10 to 20 minutes of brisk walking each day to give yourself a boost.

The art of multitasking Parents become great multitaskers. We simultaneously pack school lunches, feed the kids breakfast, watch the news and go through a mental checklist for the day.

Although this can be a very useful approach, it also can adversely affect memory. When our minds are occupied with multiple things at once, forgetting one of them is far too easy. With the constant bombardment of

information in today’s society, breaking this habit can be hard. Try sitting down for a few minutes in the morning to focus on what needs to be done. Prioritize your tasks, set reminders on your phone, make lists and check the calendar to ensure you don’t miss anything important.

Challenge yourself You can improve your memory by doing things you enjoy or trying something new.

One way to keep the mind sharp is to take on new challenges on a regular basis. Learn to play the piano or take up knitting, read a book or work on logic puzzles—or simply visit a museum and learn something new.

When we keep our minds active and sharp, our memory improves.

Sarah Lyons lives in Olathe with her husband and six children.

Fun activities that improve memory • Learn to play an instrument.

• Take up a new hobby.

• Learn a new language.

• Play logic games and puzzles.

• Take up knitting or crochet.

• Do crafts and/or scrapbook.

• Read a book or magazine.

• Listen to music or audiobooks.

• Play games that involve hand-eye coordination, like tennis or basketball.

• Play video games.

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ongratulations! You’ve made it to the preschool years! Your child can walk, talk and use the potty (most of the time), and he is ready for preschool!

Preschool is the first step into years of learning for your child, and choosing a preschool is a big decision. As with all things parenting, don’t fret. Many parents ahead of you have made this journey and you can too! Below are some things to consider when choosing a preschool for your child.

What type of preschool?

Preschools may offer a few different learning environments. Some are more academic, like a younger version of kindergarten, while others follow a more play-based model, such as the Montessori method. According to Anne Zachry’s article “6 Types of Preschool Programs,” featured on Parents.com, “The Montessori approach emphasizes nature, creativity and hands-on learning with gentle guidance provided by the teachers. The goal of the Montessori method is to develop a child’s senses, character, practical life skills and academic ability.” Consider how your child tends to learn best and which type of program would fit your family. An example of a play-based model Montessori is Agape Montessori Schools.

Many churches and public schools also offer preschool options that may be the right fit for your family, such as the one at Little Treasures Learning Center at Indian Creek Church in Olathe. “Full disclosure: My mother-in-law is the director at my kids’ preschool so that was a big part of our consideration, but after looking around, it was the best fit for our kids. We looked

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at preschools with a couple of different discipline techniques, love and logic, conscious discipline, etc., to see what would be the best fit for our kids. I also wanted a play-based preschool that limited the number of worksheets that they used in the classroom,” says Jessi Cole, Overland Park mother of three.

What age?

Most preschools offer preschool classes for 3- to 5-year-olds, but some programs also offer day-out programs for younger children, as well as transitional pre-kindergarten classes for older children not quite ready for traditional kindergarten. As the parent, you get to choose when you want to send your child to preschool. Preschool is not a requirement. Kansas and Missouri do not even have a kindergarten requirement. So if you’re not quite ready to send your 3-yearold to preschool, maybe you would be more comfortable waiting until she’s a 4-yearold to help her prepare for kindergarten.

You also have the option simply to forego mainstream preschool altogether.

Days and times Another decision to make is how many days a week to send your child to preschool, which specific days, as well as morning or afternoon and how many hours a day he will attend. Whether your child is still napping or has outgrown that need will

be a consideration too. Having younger children at home may affect your decision.

Having your preschooler attend class within a specific time may help your days run a bit more smoothly with a new baby for instance.

“I wanted a preschool with a five-day, halfday transitional kindergarten class,” Cole says. Overland Park mother of three, says.

“My boys are both summer birthdays, and I knew that we would be delaying kindergarten to give them a little more time to mature.

They have all attended Little Treasures Learning Center at Indian Creek Community Church at 123rd and Black Bob.”

Staff retention Ashley Cornell, Olathe mother of three, adds a unique angle from teaching preschool before becoming a mother. “I also took into consideration the staff retention rate. I knew from my background of teaching preschool that if the staff are there for many years, they are probably treated well, have lots of experience and love teaching!” Cornell is the parent of a student from Aldersgate Preschool in Olathe.

Research, register early and get referrals If you are considering preschool within the upcoming six to 12 months, begin your research and registration process early and ask for referrals. “I started with referrals. It seemed like three or four preschools were

mentioned over and over again, so those are the ones I investigated further,” says Amy Siebert, Overland Park mother of two.

Carrie Miller, Olathe mother of three, says, “We absolutely loved Little Treasures. It was referred to me by my neighbor who also loved it. And it led me to MOPS!”

Trust your gut “I considered price, days/times, location and general feel for the program from the website and a phone call before I chose which ones to visit in person. Going in

person was for my final decision,” Siebert says. “A place can be perfect in so many ways, but still not feel right for you and your kids. I love where we ended up, and they were very good for our family during our pre-k years!”

In the end, children are sponges and learn all day every day. Personally, we looked into preschools and I was not prepared to decide on a preschool in February before my daughter was 3. I decided that I was staying home with my kids and didn’t mind doing preschool at home with them. I have

successfully done preschool at home with my two older kids and have begun teaching my 2-and-a-half-year-old this year. You’ll find plenty of preschool options for your family, so trust your gut and change courses later if need be.

Stephanie Loux is the mother of Layla, 7, Mason, 5, and Slade, 2, and writes from her home. You can check out more of her writing at LettersFromTheLouxs.blogspot.com.

You’ll find plenty of preschool options for your family, so trust your gut and change courses later if need be.

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WINTER OLYMPICS 2018 family style

about the olympics winter games While the Summer Olympics

have a long-standing history dating back to 776 B.C., the Winter Olympics are fairly new in comparison. The first Winter Games took place in Chamonix, France, in 1924, drawing some 10,000 spectators. This year, the international sporting event will host eight new events, bringing the total to a whopping 102 events in 15 sports (more than any other previous Olympic Winter Games), spread out over the course of 19 days. Four new disciplines will be introduced as well: mass start speed skating, mixed doubles curling, mixed team alpine skiing and big air snowboarding. Approximately 90 nations are set to participate, and organizers estimate more than a million spectators will visit to take in the events firsthand. The games and celebrations are set to take place in Pyeongchang, South Korea.

about the emblem Pyeongchang’s official emblem finds its origins in Hangul, the Korean alphabet. The first consonant from each syllable of the word Pyeongchang is formed through the shapes within the logo. The first emblem represents harmony between heaven, earth and humanity.

The second emblem represents strong athletic performances on snow and ice. The emblem of the Pyeongchang Olympic Games encapsulates South Korea’s vision as the host of the Winter Games: “A square where the earth meets the sky, and where athletes excel in snow or on ice—that’s where everyone will celebrate the world’s biggest winter festival in 2018.”

about the mascot South Koreans have long

about pyeongchang

The International Olympic Committee announced that Pyeongchang would be the official host of the 2018 games back in July of 2011. Other considerations were Munich, Germany, and Annecy, France.

This will mark South Korea’s second time to host the Olympics (and its first to host the Winter Games). Tucked away in the northeastern province of South Korea, Pyeongchang is a mountainous county that sits roughly 110 miles away from the South Korean capital of Seoul and boasts a population of 43,000. It’s slogan, “Happy 700,” is derived from its 700-meter elevation, which the region touts as one of the most ideal places in the world for health and sports. For more than a decade, the region has taken on massive building projects, erecting several new shops and hotels, as well as a worldclass ski resort known as Alpensia to prepare for the Winter Games.

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regarded the white tiger as their national guardian angel. It’s no surprise then that the 2018 Olympic Winter Games mascot is none other than Soohorang, one of the host nation’s beloved white tigers. The cuddly tiger motif is thought to represent passion, protection and loyalty. (But let’s be honest. He’s also just downright adorable!).

about the motto passion.connected. The Pyeongchang 2018 Organizing Committee (POCAG) has chosen two small words to express the vision of this year’s Winter Games. “The new slogan embodies POCOG’s vision to expand winter sports participation to a truly global audience and encourages people to create and share their once-in-a-lifetime experiences at Pyeongchang,” said POCOG President Yang-ho Cho at a special event at Seoul’s Olympic Park. “By hosting the 2018 games, we want to make a lasting effect on the youth and inspire the generations to come.”

on your mark, get set, go! The Olympics aren’t just about sports. They’re also a natural segue into learning about geography (both physical and political) and cultural diversity. Simple crafts, snacks and games easily up the ante, making this special event educational as well as enjoyable.

olympic ring munchies It’s hard to pass up food platters that look like the classic Olympic rings insignia (especially when there are so many ways to do it!). Here are some fun and edible ways to come up with the famous five rings.

•M ake a pizza: olives, pepperonis, green and yellow peppers and blue cheese.

•M ake a fruit platter: blueberries, pineapple, blackberries, green grapes and strawberries.

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To prepare for the opening ceremonies, make a paper chain (with the Olympic ring color pattern in succession, of course!) to use as a family countdown. Each day let a different family member tear off a ring. Add a little extra pizazz by including a fun fact or trivia bit about the Olympics on the inside of each ring (think of it as the fortune found within a fortune cookie).

fun fact How young was the youngest Olympic competitor and medalist? How many women competed in the first winter Olympics? Which continents have never held an Olympic game? For answers to these questions (as well as many more Olympic fun facts), check out KCParent.com.

this little light of mine The Olympic torch has long been a sign of peace and friendship between participating nations. New torches are designed for each Olympic Games. Why not design your own custom torches as a family? All you will need are:

• Empty toilet paper rolls (or empty paper towel rolls cut in half)

• Gold spray paint • Hot glue • Y ellow and orange tissue paper (four pieces each, cut into 5-inch squares)

• Orange cupcake wrappers • Battery-operated tea lights Directions: Spray paint the toilet paper rolls gold and let dry.

Glue the cupcake wrapper onto the top of the toilet paper roll and adhere the tissue paper inside using hot glue. Place the battery operated tea light deep inside the tissue paper and enjoy a luminous fire-colored glow!

•M ake a veggie platter: roasted blue potatoes, black olives, yellow peppers, broccoli and cherry tomatoes.

•M ake sugar cookies: Frost with white icing and adorn with blue, yellow, green, black and red M&M’s

and the winner is… This year’s Olympic medals are etched with diagonal lines meant to look like the texture of tree trunks. You can make your own take on this design at home.

All you’ll need is ribbon, a mason jar lid, a wooden skewer and gold spray paint. Spray-paint the lid and scratch the signature oblique lines using a wooden skewer. Once dry, use a hole punch to string the ribbon through.

for further exploration Looking for a family movie night flick with an Olympic sports flair? Check these out!

• Cool Runnings • The Mighty Ducks • Ice Castles • Miracle

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• H is For Hockey • O is For Olympics • Z is For Zamboni • Learning to Ski with Mr. Magee • Tacky and the Winter Games

Lauren Greenlee is an Olathe boy mom, a freelance writer and an Olympics fanatic. She will be found watching the opening ceremonies—as well as all the figure skating events—with rapt attention this February kcparent.com february 2018

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Special treat. We like to hit the cupcake restaurant or grab huge, frosted cookies from a local baker and share with our friends and neighbors to spread the celebration around. A cheap— and just as special—route would be to make your child’s favorite dessert at home. Cookies, cake, banana splits, shakes or ice cream sundaes are always a good bet. Depending on which fruit is in season (or go frozen!), a decadent fruit smoothie made with frozen yogurt could be nice.

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night out? m oms and dads, remember life before kids? Going to happy hour, taking long walks on a Saturday morning, stopping at a coffee shop, going away for the weekend…

And now, you are probably lucky to get a five-minute conversation in before you both fall asleep watching Netflix at 10:00 in the evening.

Parenting can suck the life out of a marriage if you don’t make time for it—for each other.

Setting apart a regular night (once a week, or even once a month) to reconnect with your spouse says something to each other. It’s a way of saying, “Hi. Remember me? I remember you. I miss you. I love you.

I need you. Our marriage matters.”

Far too often, we prioritize our kids so much that we forget the person who was there before the kids. No wonder that 20 years later, when the kids are gone, many couples look at each other and don’t remember how to enjoy life together. Some couples find they don’t

even like each other anymore. How heartbreaking! But nurturing your marriage throughout the child-raising years can help set you up for a strong marriage to last a lifetime.

The great thing about date night is that it can be very simple.

Don’t have a babysitter or can’t afford one? A fancy night out not in the budget? That’s okay. Sometimes date night can be cooking a later dinner together after the kids are in bed and sitting at the table together over a cheap bottle of wine. Just looking at each other and hearing about each other’s day can strengthen the ties.

Or look at dream vacations together online, snuggled up on the couch. Maybe you’ll never go. But dreaming together is good for the soul of a marriage.

The key to a good date night is to eliminate distraction and have a real conversation. Think about how much time you had to talk before kids and try to get back there. Put your phones away, hold hands and spend real quality time together—even if only for an hour or two. If date night turns into sitting on opposite couches and watching TV, well that probably wasn’t much of a date. That’s not to say there’s anything wrong with separate TV watching. Many nights are like that for married couples. But if you’re setting aside a date night to reconnect, then you have to actually reconnect.

One great date night idea is to scroll through Groupon or Living Social. Grab a coupon for a new restaurant or experience like an escape room or pub crawl. You and your spouse will make memories doing something new and remembering your younger selves.

Like wine and beer? Hit up a winery or brewery for a tasting!

You can learn about each other’s favorite beers and wines and keep them in the back of your mind for the future when you want to surprise each other to celebrate after a promotion or to cheer each other up after a bad day.

If you both like house projects, do them together! Paint a room or refurbish some old furniture together after the kids are asleep. You’ll end up talking for a couple hours as you create a new masterpiece you both can be proud of.

Going for a walk or a jog is another great way to connect. For couples into more intense fitness, training for a shared race or fitness event means lots of time together too—and you’re doing something for your health.

You also can alternate, letting each person plan the date and keep it a surprise. The person in charge can choose whether it’s a stay-in or go-out event. He/she can book the sitter (if needed) and do all the planning. Wondering what your spouse will plan next can be exciting and reignite the spark in your marriage.

If nights don’t work well for your schedule, try day dates! Go hiking, biking, grab lunch or visit some open houses just for fun.

You can reconnect and spend quality time with your spouse any time of the day.

Matt Garrett of Relationships Australia (Relationships.org.au) explains the importance of nurturing marriage in this effective analogy in the Huffington Post: “It’s like if you have a car, you want to make sure you are topping up the oil and water regularly, rather than waiting for it to conk out on the freeway.”

And it’s when that relationship conks that married couples often feel like it’s too late. They didn’t top off the oil and water.

Instead, they drained the life out of the car until it died on the side of the road.

Put a date on the calendar, parents! Set a budget if you need to. But make it a priority because your marriage deserves it.

Karen Johnson has three kids, ages 8, 6 and 4. She writes at The21stCenturySAHM.com.

date night ideas in kansas city: 1. Enjoy dinner out at Charleston’s restaurant in Ward Parkway. The food is top-notch and the chicken tenders will bring back memories of dining at Houston’s!

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4. Get some exercise and fresh air at one of the many beautiful outdoor parks or gardens in the KC area. The Overland Park Arboretum, Shawnee Mission Park or Loose Park are all perfect day date locations for a walk with your main squeeze.

5. If you can get away for an entire day, take a mini-day trip to a city like Weston or Parkville.

Hit some antique shops and local parks and eateries as you spend an entire day reconnecting.

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consider myself an okay gift giver. I can come up with clever ideas about 75 percent of the time. My mom, on the other hand, is an awesome gift giver.

She comes up with the most creative, thoughtful and personal gifts for anyone and everyone. I aspire to be as good as she is!

I saw an idea on Pinterest (where else) in which a wife gave her husband the gift of a year of dates, one date a month for 12 months. The idea resonated with me, and because I didn’t already have a home run gift idea for my husband, I was sold. Anyway, the hubs and I don’t get out together nearly as often as we should.

Although this idea does take a bit of planning, it’s the perfect gift for that special someone for Christmas, Valentine’s Day or even a birthday. Not only does this make a great gift for a spouse, it could work just as well with kids. What better present to give your children than the gift of time together?

The best part is that you get to enjoy this gift as much as the recipient.

To get your creative juices flowing, here are the 12 dates I gave to my husband: January: Tickets to a movie event at Alamo Drafthouse and a gift card for food.

February: Gift card to a local bowling center and a new pair of socks to wear bowling.

March: Dinner and a show at New Theatre Restaurant.

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April: Gift card to Black Dog Coffeehouse and a new card game.

May: Drive-in movie tickets, popcorn and candy.

June: Tickets to a local venue for a concert.

July: Anniversary month! Gift card for nice dinner out.

August: Progressive dinner through the mall and people watching bingo.

September: At-home date night. Pizza gift certificate, new movie to watch and copies of quiz books How Well Do You Know Your Husband? and How Well Do You Know Your Wife?

October: Gift card to Dave & Buster’s.

November: Bookstore date night. I printed up bookstore task cards and got a certificate to Russell Stover’s for dessert after the bookstore.

December: Night out painting at Thirsty Palette.

I placed all items for each date in a manila envelope and wrote a note explaining what we would be doing on each date night.

I purchased all gift cards and collateral items in advance to ensure that each date would happen. With the money already spent, we had to find the time to keep each date so the money wouldn’t go to waste. At the beginning of each month, we pull out that

month’s envelope and sit down with the calendar to select the date for our night out.

Those manila envelopes have become a fun highlight in our relationship. We both certainly look forward to some special time together. They’re also a regular reminder to my husband of how much he is loved. Give it a try with someone you love.

Margaret Sarver lives in Lenexa with her family. She and her husband can be found out and about at least once a month on their date night.

Tips: Watch Groupon. I was able to get dinner at a nice restaurant for our July anniversary date at a great rate thanks to Groupon.

“Like” potential date locales on Facebook. One of our date destinations

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Search the internet. I found several creative date night ideas on various blogs.

This helped to ensure that every date wasn’t dinner and a movie (our go-to night out).

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howing your children extra love during this month of love is a joyful reminder of how important they are in your world. With a little imagination, and a lot of happy thoughts, it’s a snap to create tiny moments in each day of February.

One wonderful, simple way to make each morning before school inspirational is to get little pads of red and pink sticky notes. Write loving words on each one and place the sticky note on your child’s mirror, breakfast cereal box or in his or her lunchbox, alternating places so your kids find it a fun treasure hunt. Try words such as “You light up my life,” “You are special in every way,” “I love you to the moon and back,” “You are in my heart forever” or, simply, “Smile!”

Bring food into the spotlight by freezing pink lemonade in ice cube trays and serving

“I buy red and pink fabric from Hobby Lobby and then together my children and I cut it into scarves. Then we take them to the local animal shelter and tie them around the dogs’ necks, and even the cats,” she notes. “And we dress up our own dogs and cat for the month.”

Spread love as much as you can. Talk with your children about the true meaning of love and how important it is to love beyond differences. Think about making your own valentines for your child’s school party and get kids involved with cutting them out and putting stickers on them. Think about making one for the elderly neighbor down the street, the mail carrier or even the grocery store clerk you see all the time. Have your child decide who to give them to. Your child will understand that making others feel loved on a daily

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Many nail salons offer fun discounts during February, so take your daughter to the salon and sit together while getting a manicure and pedicure, which they now call a mani-pedi. Red polish! Or pink, with hearts on the toes. Then go for ice cream.

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create magical memories and heart-filled dreams this month for your kiddos. them in water for a pink Valentine treat.

Make heart-shaped pancakes for breakfast, cut sandwiches into hearts for the lunchbox, make cookies together using that heartshaped cookie cutter and decorate them with sprinkles, red icing and red-hot candies. Bake a pan of chocolate brownies and cut them into different sized hearts.

And why not serve something heart-shaped with every meal? Cut biscuits, meatloaf, hamburger and more into hearts. Cut a heart shape into a piece of toast and place an egg inside. Use your culinary imagination.

You might even have dessert before dinner once in a while.

Get the pets involved too. One local mom has a fun tradition.

basis is a lifelong goal. This will strengthen your family bonds and help make lasting memories.

One Kansas City psychologist suggests that children feel value when complimented daily, explaining, “Today’s world is filled with negativity and fear, and a strong, solid belief in a child’s mind that he or she is smart, kind and loved makes a big difference.”

For a fun project, and to begin a family winter tradition, how about making a heartshaped bird feeder? Simply melt coconut oil, then add a variety of bird seeds, sunflower seeds, etc. Place the mixture on a cookie sheet lined with waxed paper, let it cool a bit and use a heart-shaped cookie cutter to cut

loving words are spoken on your outing both to your child and others you meet along the way.

Purchase a special journal for your child. Tell him or her to find one thing or person he or she is thankful for each day and write it down in the journal throughout the month of February. You never know, he or she may like it so much it will become a year-round hobby.

Happy Valentine’s Day! An avid outdoors girl, Judy Goppert lives in Lee’s Summit and enjoys all seasons, especially summer. She enjoys drawing on her personal experiences to write about the nuances of everything wonderful about life. kcparent.com february 2018

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Ages 2 and 3: When your toddler is

Ages 7 and 8: This may be a good age to

curious about exploring and can leave your side for short periods of time, this is a sign he is ready to stretch his wings. Encourage his curiosity, but be sure to supervise closely at all times.

begin letting your child cross the street by herself, especially if she has good impulse control and the patience to make sure no cars are coming. But don’t just let her go off on her own right away. First, be sure she knows the basics well, such as looking both ways before crossing and not running between cars in a parking lot. Regardless of how experienced you think she may be, practice with her on a quiet road. Have her cross the road with you following behind her for a couple of weeks.

Then have her practice crossing by herself and meeting you on the other side. If you live on a busy street with a lot of traffic, however, wait until she is over the age of 10.

Ages 4 and 5: At this age, your child is probably ready to play on the sidewalk or in the front yard without you right by her side.

Keep an eye on her and make sure she knows not to wander off. You can draw a line with sidewalk chalk on the driveway to let her know her boundaries in which she can play.

Ages 5 and 6: Is your child good at following directions? If so, he is probably ready to try walking to a nearby friend’s house by himself. Arrange a play date with his friend’s parent, and then tell your child exactly what to do. Be sure to watch him from your front door or porch until he arrives (or have his friend’s parent call you when he arrives), and remind him that he cannot leave or go to another house. When it’s time for him to return home, tell him to call you (or have the parent call you) to let you know when he’s on his way home so you can watch out for him.

Ages 10 and up: Children over the age of 10 who behave well at home and consistently follow safety rules (i.e., not opening the door to strangers) may be ready to stay home for short durations of time by themselves. Begin with brief outings, 20 to 30 minutes. Be sure your child has your phone number and knows how to call you and leave a voice mail message. Post emergency numbers where he can see them and be sure he knows how the

locks on all of the doors work. Also, be very clear on what he can and cannot do while you’re away. Tell him when you will return and then be on time.

Ages 13 and up: The teen years may seem a little more daunting, only because your teenager will want more independence and time away from the house. Just breathe, folks. Begin by giving your young teen jobs around the house to prepare her for the working world. Regular household chores are great to start with, and babysitting jobs will give kids skills for their futures. And when your teen reaches the legal working age, encourage her to get a part-time (or summer) job. This can lead into lessons on money management, another great way to help kids feel competent when they do leave home.

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sweets from your children’s diet will only help them overindulge when the chance comes. Help yourself out by offering small portions or thinking within reason when it comes to sweets.

Stick to the schedule.

Learning new things for children can be tough, so just imagine learning about this new weird-shaped, funny-smelling food. Give kids time and lots of encouragement. Don’t force it on them and don’t give up!

Kids love routine. As a matter of fact, building a routine gives them structure and helps them feel less bombarded when new things come into play. Especially with matters like food. If you have a healthy snack schedule, or want to make one, incorporate the food groups and stick to it. According to the American Heart Association, kids that have routine eating schedules only eat when they are fed during those normal food times. So don’t push the envelope, just stick to the script.

Eat at the table, not the TV.

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Eating at the table gives parents not only a chance to catch up on what’s new, but also the opportunity to observe kids’ eating habits and what foods they push around and which ones they tackle first—and then to talk to them about it. Also, sitting in front of the TV is distracting. Kids caught up in their favorite show may not notice how much or how little they’re eating, so avoid the distracted dining if you can.

Be a great role model.

Be patient with new foods.

The best way to encourage your children is to lead by example.

Odds are, if they see you doing it, moving it or even eating it, they are going to want to be just like you. So encourage your children and lead by example. More than likely, your kids will follow suit.

Eat with color.

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Foods that lack color usually lack nutrients, so have a little fun.

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parenting with fewer interruptions how to have an adult conversation while the kids are around

Parents who play face-to-face social games with their children will have children who interrupt less.

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fter a busy day with the kids, wanting to have a short phone conversation with a friend or to take a quick shower seems reasonable. Yet we all know how that goes.

As soon as you turn your attention away from the kids and onto something else, they suddenly seem to be in great need. The kids find you and interrupt until you address their need, which most likely is something trivial.

What can we parents do so we can divert our attention elsewhere for a few precious moments?

Blue Springs mom Jennifer Engel says she sets expectations for her young children when she needs to make a phone call. She finds it works best when she tells them in advance whom she is going to call or what she plans to do. She simply explains her plans and tries to provide the kids with the reason she is turning her attention elsewhere. She says this method is generally

successful, and if her children do not respond as she wishes, she addresses what she would like them to do in the future.

Jill Molli, a master instructor with Conscious Discipline, says that truly mastering the skill of not interrupting takes until adulthood developmentally. “(Children) don’t have the impulse control skills or the awareness to realize you are doing something else,” she says.

What that means is the real goal becomes increasing a child’s pause button, and this is primarily achieved through connection with the child. “The more connected you are, the more willing kids are to pause and help with impulse control,” Molli says. “Parents who play face-to-face social games with their children will have children who interrupt less.”

Molli also says modeling the kind of demeanor we wish to see in our children is essential. “It helps if parents can notice when they are in an upset state and find a way to regulate themselves,” she says. If we want our children to respond in a calm manner, we need to respond in a calm manner when they interrupt us.

Additionally, she says using language that notices and acknowledges the child is important. For example, if a child is tapping you as a way of clamoring for attention, tell the child you noticed him tapping and describe why it was difficult for you to respond immediately. Then explain what you would like for the child to do instead. If you are in the middle of a conversation, you might suggest he come and stand at your side quietly until you are able to address him. This works because not only does a child need to be acknowledged, a child needs to hear what he is supposed to do instead of just hearing what he is not to do.

Molli also suggests asking the child to be of service and giving her a task or chore. She says children have a sense of accomplishment when they complete a task, plus the task keeps them occupied with something productive and extends their attention span.

Perhaps most importantly, if a child is active in play, she effectively can override her developmental attention span and stay engaged longer in what she is doing. A child generally has a minute of attention span

per year of age, but interactive play often can increase this attention span to that of an adult—even if the child is faced with distractions.

Overall, we can work to increase the length of children’s general attention spans, as well as motivate them to focus their attention on goals we select. With some effort, parents can manage to engage with other aspects of life while still giving their children the attention they need.

For example, Lee’s Summit mom Rachael Fields works from home and often has to tend to work when her 5-year-old daughter is also home. She continually reminds her daughter of when she will need to make a phone call, giving her warnings in advance.

Then when the time comes for Rachael to do some work, her daughter goes to her room and plays by herself.

Additionally, Rachael says she has explained to her daughter how she needs to work to make money for necessities. As a result of such practical conversations, her daughter understands the importance of being quiet during those times. Rachael also has trained her daughter to come up to her very quietly if she truly needs something and wait until she is able to acknowledge her.

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hen I was 5, I was in a baton twirling club. It was 1973. One afternoon we pigtailed shorties

were choosing colors for our uniforms because we were going to twirl in the town parade.

Every single one of the twirlers in line ahead of me had chosen the same two colors. Those were not the colors I wanted.

When eyes turned to me, I think I was in shock. If a heart simply can freak out short of having a heart attack, that’s what happened, blood running around punching its tiny, red fists into everything inside my chest cavity. How could I utter my own words and not repeat the clan’s? My short, 5-year-old legs must have been lead weights. I somehow mustered the courage to announce my choice, and the

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“So I am thinking we might add another certainty to taxes and death: decisions.

They are most definitely a certainty.” baton leader didn’t bat an eye, just jotted down the colors. No quiet smile to acknowledge the profound difficulty I’d overcome. Obviously, she didn’t realize this 5-year-old had just suffered a myocardial in-freak-tion. That 30-second blip of time still lives in me 45 years later. Kid decisions can be painfully hard.

This is what I remember: First, the question. I had one innocent color combo to decide. Second, overwhelming panic.

And third, no one said a word about my dissent. I don’t remember names or faces or even the colors I chose. I don’t remember what the gym looked like, the lighting, the weather. None of that came to me when the memory surfaced. But because this ancient, tiny memory arrived as a felt moment in my adulthood, this made me think. Sometimes what we view as trivial decisions might be incredibly difficult and highly emotional for a child. The hard part as a parent is that most often we don’t know what’s happening inside our kids’ heads, or the depth to which they feel their feelings.

I also don’t know why twirling clubs aren’t the rage today, but I do know my daughters would love to throw metal rods 10 feet in the air. Perhaps this activity has gone the way of the saber-toothed playgrounds of the ’70s. We’ve made things safer (sometimes blunted them to a fault), but there still exist inside kids’ heads a lot of scary moments when they feel the pressure to choose perfectly. Add to that when they are called to decide something that puts them at odds with others. Decades or centuries likely won’t soften that pressure.

Making decisions can leave kids feeling they will make mistakes or leave them feeling exposed or ignorant.

What can ease this process is giving kids our attention and respect as they try to wrangle an answer out of their mini storehouse of life lessons. I’ve started slowing down, trying harder to not trivialize my girls’ waffling around in their decisions. I never openly have dismissed my kids when they are trying to make a

decision, but I have grown impatient. Now when I recall that baton moment, I realize if I had such a hard time announcing two colors, albeit two colors different from the pack, most of the time kids are probably genuinely laboring over their decisions.

Life is a sliding scale of decisiveness.

Part of the inherent virtue of aging is that as adults, we’ve made our share of decisions, both good and bad. Our children are just on-ramping to life. We do well to remember little decisions are bigger to littler people.

Even if we have no magic answer to dispense, our not adding pressure has to be a relief to their busy, often confused brains.

By the time I turned 6, we had moved thousands of miles away from the city of batons. I couldn’t unearth the leader if I tried. I find it strange that she lives in my memory, just the idea of a person, so I can’t see her face. I only know that she didn’t make a face that day to tell me in any way that I made an error in choice.

She played it like a pro and let me have my colors. This is another take-away from that 30-second blip. What if that woman had chosen a different tack? She could have looked up from her clipboard and said, “Well, honey, seems so many want the blue and red colors, I think we’ll just all go with that.” Or, “Are you sure you want orange and yellow?” Now that I am an adult, I hear myself tailoring language in this way.

I have overlaid my children’s choices with a question, perhaps trying to save them potential embarrassment. I don’t want them to feel lonely on their solo planet.

When I twist the memory and make those changes, I see that the way the baton leader handled it, her giving tacit approval, is maybe why I stored the memory. I had made a hard decision in public and it got to stand. I grew up a little in the few seconds of that exchange. Somehow in the complexity of the mind, the cartoon figures that operate my emotions slid that eight ball right down into my core memory tube.

We make zillions of types of decisions and they all have different weights and

textures. But the exchange that helped me carry this lesson deeper into myself was when my 12-year-old showed up at the front door ready for the day out. Her clothing ensemble in my mind was akin to five different designers’ each choosing separate pieces without communicating with one another. There were florals, plaids, different colors…I honestly wondered how those decisions had been structured. This took place, though, after years of my having to decide my fashion sense (not trendy in any sense) was not my daughters’. More to the point, I didn’t want them to discount their own sensibilities.

This ensemble, though, made my cup run over, and I said something. My daughter replied, “I like it.” She took a moment to look over her clothing and nodded, once again deciding to go with it. Sometime later I saw a trending thread of clothing pictures where the look was just that. Mixed. I really liked the look when I actually thought about it. It makes complete sense to the 50-year-old I am and the 5-year-old inside me. The younger obviously likes color, and the older is lazy about what to pair together. I was just not as up to speed as my daughter.

So I am thinking we might add another certainty to taxes and death: decisions.

They are most definitely a certainty. At age 50, I have made uncountable decisions and I still waffle in some of them. And I still make a number of bad ones. The one advantage parents have? We know there’s a hefty million more decisions to make. We’re quicker. But that’s how the tender little moments become time-consuming-no-bigdeals.

So while you’re waiting for your kid to decide which stuffed animal in the toy aisle is the perfect one, zoom back to your 5-year-old self if you can get there. She or he might wonder the exact same thing.

Maggie Uhl lives in Waldo with her husband and two daughters. kcparent.com february 2018

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FAMILY FUN

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few years ago my older and I took a motherdaughter trip to Hilton Head. Since that time, my younger has been awaiting anxiously her turn for a trip. She and I recently had the opportunity to visit Taos Ski Valley in New Mexico. I’ll have to admit, I was hesitant about a ski trip because I didn’t fare so well on my last ski adventure (as I’ve gotten older, I’ve gotten more fearful of heights), but my younger loves to ski and it’s for the kids, right? Well, I needn’t have worried; I found plenty for this mama to enjoy while Ally was hitting the slopes!

This was my first visit to New Mexico, and if you haven’t been, you are missing out. The scenery is beautiful, and the people are so welcoming. We flew into Albuquerque and took a shuttle to our hotel, the Blake. Taos Ski Valley is currently undergoing a renovation to make it a premier vacation destination.

As a member of the marketing team commented, they are three years into a 10-year plan. The Blake opened last winter and is the perfect spot for a family get-away.

Our room was spacious with a spectacular view.

With equipment rental at the hotel, a valet to hold your equipment and a gondolita (a small gondola, unique to Taos Ski Valley) ride to the Children’s Center, the Blake has everything you need to hit the slopes right there, just steps from your room. The Children’s Center, which just opened in December 2017, is perfect for kids ages 3-15 to take lessons and build confidence as skiers. In addition, it offers childcare for the smallest family members, ages 2 months through 3 years. Mom and Dad can hit the slopes while the kids are enjoying ski school or in childcare, a win-win!

You may be wondering what I did while Ally skied.

Was I bored? Hardly. The area offers so much for nonskiers like me to enjoy. The Blake has a spa—need I say more? My morning spent at the spa, with lunch at

the Hotel St. Bernard (right across from the Blake), followed by a leisurely walk around Ski Valley and a nice sit by the fire pit watching the skiers made one of the most relaxing days I’ve had in a long time.

Ally was scheduled to ski for just one day but loved it so much she went back for day two. On her second day of skiing, I went into the town of Taos (about a 30-minute drive from Ski Valley, shuttle service provided by the Blake) and so enjoyed wandering around the Plaza area visiting local shops.

Later in the day, Ally and I enjoyed a hike together to Williams Lake. Not gonna lie: The hiking was tough thanks to the altitude, but I did it! The view was breathtakingly beautiful and so serene, an outdoor adventure to be enjoyed by all.

I didn’t know much about Taos Ski Valley before my visit but left convinced it’s the perfect destination for a family vacation. What makes it stand out from other ski towns I’ve visited is its intimate feel.

It’s big enough to have 30 ski runs for all levels, beginner to expert, yet compact enough for me to feel comfortable allowing Ally to walk around on her own (she’s 13). I didn’t worry about letting her stroll around the hotel by herself and was confident she was in good hands while at ski school. The mountains are dotted with yellow jackets, ski patrol to help anyone on the slopes in need. Taos Ski Valley truly offers something for everyone, and being tucked away in the mountains for several days gives moms and dads the chance to step back from the rush of everyday life and spend quality family time together.

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’ve been waiting on this trip with my mom for a long time and was so excited when I found out it was a skiing trip to Taos, NM. While skiing was a big part of the trip for me, I soon realized how many activities there are to do: things for kids, adults and the whole family to enjoy. A lot of the reason this trip was so memorable was because of our stay at the Blake. Everyone there was so friendly and welcoming.

These are just a few of the reasons Taos, NM, is the place to plan your next family vacation.

From our flight in, I could tell this trip would be memorable. As we began our landing into New Mexico, I could see the beautiful mountains quite clearly. Then on our drive to the Blake, the view just got better. When we arrived at the hotel, my mom and I were greeted very warmly and given our room keys quite quickly. The room was very nice and had a great view of the mountains. After a long day of traveling, we were quite hungry and went to get dinner at a restaurant called Rhoda’s. Our meal was incredible and very close to the Blake—within walking distance.

Then we rested, unpacked and anticipated the fun we planned for the next day.

The next day, we woke up and had a nice breakfast at 192 inside the Blake. After eating, my mom took me to the Children’s Center where I met my ski teacher, Noel, who was extremely nice and very open and easy to talk to. She was a very good teacher, and in about an hour I was moving on to the bigger slopes.

After a fun skiing day, I went back to our hotel room to rest. My mom and I then watched Indian dancers.

That was such a cool experience; I had never seen anything like it.

I then had a nice dinner while my mom went on a tour of the building and then went to bed.

We woke up the next day just as excited as we were the first. I skied again while my mom went on a tour of Taos. Noel and I then went back up to the top of the mountain, because the skies were more clear that day, and really saw the view. It was absolutely breathtaking. After we skied for a little longer, my mom picked me up early and we enjoyed lunch at the Bavarian.

We then went snowshoeing with the mayor of Taos Ski Valley. The hike was a bit difficult, but the view that we got at the end made it all worth it. After a very long and fun day, we went to dinner and then to the heated pool. A relaxing swim ended our day.

The next morning we had a nice breakfast and walked around Taos for a little bit. We then packed our bags and headed home. This was the perfect end to a wonderful trip.

It was full of great memories and was so much fun!

I really hope we can make it out next year to make some new memories!

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What are the qualifications of the director and staff and the ratio of staff to children?

Some camps employ high school or college students, while others require college degrees and more experience.

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Make sure the camp does background checks on all employees, has EMTs nearby, staff trained in CPR and first aid and lifeguards if there will be swimming. If transportation is involved, ask about the training and licensing of drivers, how often vehicles are inspected, etc.

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Kansas City Ballet Kansas City Ballet School Summer Programs include once-a-week classes and four-day ballet camps for children ages 2-7. Camp themes include Little Mermaid, Fairy Princess, or Super Hero. Additional courses and workshops available for ages 8-18. Classes begin June 4th. Enroll today to guarantee your child’s spot. Two convenient locations: Downtown and Johnson County. See display ad on pg. 40. For more information visit www.KCBallet.org or call 816.931.2299.

Notre Dame de Sion School Join us and get ready to be extraordinary!

At Sion Summer Spectacular students can participate in engaging, innovative, and age-appropriate enrichment camps for PreK-8 boys and girls in the arts, STEM, crafts, tactics, wellness, and fitness led by our outstanding faculty and renowned industry partners. Our program is designed to accommodate your family’s schedule, offering weekly camps, as well as morning and afternoon extended day care options.

Whether students take center stage with Camellot Academy, or participate in our weekly classes with our expert instructors, Sion Summer Spectacular will make their inner superhero shine! To enroll please visit www.ndsion.edu/summer. Grade School Campus: 3823 Locust, KC MO. See display ad on pg. 42.

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Camp ARTRAGEOUS! Paint Glaze & Fire Ceramics & Coffee House is offering summer camp for its 21st season! Your child will learn new techniques and have fun creating art in our multi-medium camps (ceramics, clay, canvas & glass fusion). Class size is limited - sign up early! Check it out online and find more information as well as a registration form at www.PaintGlazeAndFire.net. For more information on these and many other fun and creative programs, visit the website. See display ad on pg. 41. 913.661.CLAY (2529).

Science City Science City Summer Camp 2018 provides a fun, hands-on environment to explore exciting STEAM (science, technology,

engineering, art and math) topics. Campers ages 6-12 engage in life science, physical science, art and innovation each week.

Camp runs June 4-Aug 3, Monday through Friday, 9:00-4:00. FREE early and late care available. $200/week for Union Station members, $225/non-members. Space is limited! For more information, visit www.ScienceCity.Com/SummerCamp.

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here’s no doubt that summer camp is fun. Kids get to sing silly songs, play funny games, swim in lakes and tell spooky stories around a campfire. This is the image of camp that has been captured and memorialized in films, books and television programs for the past 50 years. But there’s much more to camp than just a good time. In addition to the fun, parents should be aware of these five reasons their child needs camp.

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Camp forever changes your child… for the better – American

Camp Association® (ACA) research has confirmed that camps build skills necessary to prepare campers to assume roles as successful adults. Campers said that camp helped them make new friends (96%), get to know kids who are different from them (93%), feel good about themselves (92%), and try things they were afraid to do at first (74%).

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Camp teaches your child to “move it, move it” – Camp

provides children the opportunity to try new things and participate in human powered activities. An estimated 22 million of the world’s children under the age of 5 are already considered obese. According to research conducted by ACA, 63 percent of children who learn new activities at camp tend to continue engaging in these activities after they return home.

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Camp keeps all that hard work from going to waste – Camps

understand the critical role they play in helping young people learn and grow. Many offer programs that help reduce summer learning loss, bolster academic enrichment and socialization, provide opportunities for leadership development, and ensure that campers achieve their full potential.

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Camp allows kids to take a deep breath and feel the nature –

Camp is a great way for your child to unplug from electronics and plug into the world around them. According to a study by two Cornell University environmental psychologists, being close to nature can help boost a child’s attention span.

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sing silly songs and play funny games at camp. Children are allowed to play in a safe and nurturing environment and are allowed to just be kids. Play is a powerful form of learning that contributes mightily to the child’s healthy physical, emotional, social and intellectual development..

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aaah, summer camp. A time for kids to make memories, bond with new friends and taste some freedom away from Mom and Dad. For parents, however, sending children to summer camp can be a daunting task that involves research, budgeting for tuition and setting goals and expectations for the summer camp experience.

As you and your children begin your camp search, it is important to learn about the three basic camp models: day camps, overnight camps and specialty camps (which can be day or overnight). There are pros and cons to each category, as listed below.

OVERNIGHT CAMPS

DAY CAMPS Day camps are usually more flexible, offering various options throughout the summer. The same camp is often held repeatedly, every day for a week, or once a week throughout the summer, allowing families to choose the week or days that work for them. Also, day camps are usually more affordable than overnight camps. However, day camps may offer less in-depth activities, and your child will probably not bond as closely with other campers as she would at an overnight camp.

Overnight camps will provide a greater chance for long-lasting, meaningful friendships, as opposed to day camps. Also, children will find more independence and experience true growth as they are away from Mom and Dad for an extended period of time. On the other hand, overnight camps are more expensive than day camps and will use up more of the family’s budget for summer activities.

Additionally, having their children away from them and under the supervision of others makes some parents uncomfortable. You and your children should decide together whether they are mature enough for the responsibilities related to overnight camps.

SPECIALTY CAMPS Specialty camps can be offered in day camp or overnight camp format. On the positive side, specialty camps are tailored to specific talents and interests. For example, if your child has a passion for music, a music camp might offer her exactly the memories and opportunities she desires.

However, specialty camps likely will not offer the well-rounded camp experience that more generalized camps will. Nonspecialty camps may offer your child new activities that he has not tried before, whereas a specialty camp geared toward something he already loves may allow him to remain in his comfort zone a bit more.

Another complication that often arises when researching camps is the cost. Keep in mind that many camps offer scholarships as well as payment plans, so if the cost of camp is a concern, look into those options. If you are considering a very expensive camp, realize that the high tuition camps cost more for a reason. They will likely offer nicer housing, more elaborate excursions and higher end products for the children to use. While those options are enticing, there are long lists of less expensive, yet worthwhile, camps in the KC area. These camps may be more rustic and simple, but there will still be friends for your kids to make and memorable activities for them to enjoy.

In searching for the best camp for your son or daughter, you may consider checking the American Camp Association.

The ACA accredits camps across the country using up to 300 standards of assessment, such as staff training and emergency management. ACA accreditation is voluntary, and it is a camp director’s decision to apply for it. Check out ACACamps.org for more information.

Karen Johnson has three kids, ages 8, 6 and 4. She writes at The21stCenturySAHM.com.

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available to all campers. Catalog available at www.barstowschool.org/summer.

Contact summer@barstowschool.org or 816.277.0445 for information. Enrollment begins Feb. 15! Join us and create smiles to last a lifetime! See display ad pg. 45.

YMCA Kids can have the best summer ever at Y Summer Day Camps! The focus is on achievement, relationships and belonging.

A wide variety of experiences include fields trips, swimming, arts, STEM, outdoor education and more. Locations throughout the metro. Opportunities for ages 5-12 include traditional camps with exciting weekly themes, and sports specialty camps.

Youth Volunteer Corps Summer of Service is available for ages 11-18. Learn more and register at KansasCityYMCA.org/camp. See display ad on pg. 5.

Youth-Archdiocese of KCK Camp Tekakwitha offers horseback riding, high rope challenges, canoeing, hiking, rock climbing, rappelling, basketball, soccer, swimming, mountain boarding, archery, volleyball, mountain biking, outdoor camping, Bible studies, numerous Catholic prayer experiences and other outdoor camp activities. Camp Tekakwitha is a powerful spiritual experience that leaves the campers excited to return year after year. Camp Tekakwitha is operated by the Archdiocese of KC in Kansas. Full information is available at our website under youth.

785.746.5693. See display ad on pg. 46. www.ArchKCK.org

Youthfront 2018 marks 75 years that Youthfront Camps have offered a camp experience for students in Kansas City. Options include, Day Camp

for younger campers and overnight stays for Kids, Middle School and High School students. All camps include swimming, theme nights, solitude and attractions like Splash Parks, Nerf Wars, Climbing Walls and more! We provide an authentic community where students grow in their relationship with God and make strong friendships that last a lifetime. Contact info@youthfront.com to learn more. See display ad on pg. 46. www.Youthfront.com

Many camps begin registration in February.

Visit the virtual camp guide at KCParent.com for photos, videos and more to help with your camp decision.

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NEWS YOU CAN USE February 2018

What does the latest research say about listening, placenta capsules and the benefits of holding your babies? Take a look:

SPEAK INTO MY GOOD EAR!

YOUR DAILY DOSE OF PLACENTA

HOLD YOUR BABIES CLOSE

If your children aren’t listening to you, try speaking into their right ear.

New findings suggest that children both process and retain information better, especially when there is a lot of background noise and interruptions, from their right side.

“The more we know about listening in demanding environments, and listening effort in general, the better diagnostic tools, auditory management (including hearing aids) and auditory training will become,” says Auburn University audiology researcher Danielle Sacchinelli.

Unlike adults, children cannot sort and separate sounds going into both ears at the same time. They rely on the information coming in from the right, which is then processed by the left side of the brain. The left brain controls speech, language development, and portions of memory. So basically, they can remember and understand information much better when it comes in through the right ear.

A ground-breaking study by UNLV researchers reveals that consuming capsules of placenta has little to no effect on postpartum mood or maternal bonding, but has a small effect on a mother’s hormone levels.

Supporters of the practice say that because mammals in the wild often consume their placenta, human mothers are likely to experience a natural benefit as well.

“While the study doesn’t provide firm support for or against the claims about the benefits of placentophagy, it does shed light on this much-debated topic by providing the first results from a clinical trial specifically testing the impact of placenta supplements on postpartum hormones, mood, and energy,” says Dr. Sharon Young, lead author of the study and program manager for UNLV’s Office of Undergraduate Research. “What we have uncovered are interesting areas for future exploration, such as small impacts on hormone levels for women taking placenta capsules, and small improvements in mood and fatigue in the placenta group.”

An ongoing study by the University of British Columbia and British Columbia’s Children’s Research Institute suggests that physical contact between infants and their caregivers actually changes their molecular profile. This is the first study to show in humans that the simple act of touching, early in life, has deeply-rooted and potentially lifelong consequences on genetic expression.

After studying a group of 94 healthy children over four and a half years, the researchers found that the children who had been more distressed as infants and had received less physical contact had a molecular profile in their cells that was underdeveloped for their age.

Scientists discovered that there were consistent differences in the DNA of children who received a lot of physical contact and those who received less.

However, the effects of these differences on development and health are not yet known.

Erin McIntosh is a mom of four children, 15, 12, 10, and 6. She works at the Kansas City Art Institute and is also a freelance writer and photographer. She is currently working on her first book, a memoir about single parenting.

As always, please consult your health care provider with any questions or concerns.

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TEACHERTALK

is my child gifted?

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s parents, we have a great responsibility to support our children in every way possible, especially academically. We read to our children from an early age, engage in conversation to build vocabulary, we encourage them to be confident learners, motivated to do their best—and we take responsibility for their learning. Plus, we work closely with our children’s teachers to ensure we stay informed concerning their educational needs.

As children grow and learn, parents want to make sure their youngsters receive every advantage available to them. This includes opportunities that may identify a child as a gifted learner.

First of all, what does “gifted” really mean? The National Association for Gifted Children (NAGC) characterizes a gifted child as one whose ability is significantly above the norm for his age. NAGC also conveys that individuals may be gifted in different domains, such as intellectual, creative, leadership or in particular academic areas.

So, what should you be looking for to determine whether your child excels academically? One thing parents must acknowledge is that there is a marked difference between being a high achiever and being a gifted learner. High achievers in general do well in school, are attentive, need several repetitions to master a task, get As and perform at the top of the class. In gifted learners, the following characteristics are evident:

Deeply curious Excellent memory n Questions often n Enjoys solving problems n Self-taught n Learns basic skills quickly and with little help n Abstract thinker n Longer attention span n Wide range of interests n Highly sensitive to the needs of others n Interested in doing things differently n n

things to look for and ways to support a gifted child

These are just a few of the many attributes seen in gifted children. Not all gifted learners demonstrate all of these characteristics all of the time. A complete list and many other resources can be found on the NAGC website.

Each school district has its own set of screenings and evaluations used to determine whether a child is a gifted learner so the school may better serve each individual student to meet her educational potential. Many districts screen at predetermined grade levels, administer one or more assessments specifically designed to identify the gifted learner, give an IQ test, request teacher documentation to show evidence of exceptional performance and

align their requirements to comply with state mandated guidelines.

If you believe your child displays characteristics of a gifted learner, begin the process by talking to your child’s teacher.

In addition to what you already see in your own child, the teacher will be able to give you some insight into what your child exhibits on a daily basis in the classroom setting and can point you in the right direction if you would like more information concerning the process of identifying a gifted learner in your particular school district.

Angela Rosheim is a library media specialist in the Liberty Public School District and the mother of three. kcparent.com february 2018

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February Family Fun in Kansas City

February may be the shortest month of the year, but it’s jam-packed with holidays and occasions for fun.

Feb. 2: Groundhog Day Out & About: Every year on Groundhog Day the Kansas City Zoo celebrates with their resident hedgehog. Why the hedgehog? It is believed that the early Romans observed Hedgehog Day. If the hedgehog saw its shadow, the prediction was that six more weeks of bad winter weather would occur, a second winter. When the tradition moved to North America, Groundhog Day became the moniker because hedgehogs are not a native species.

At Home: Make shadow puppets. Trace your favorite animal shapes using stencils or cookie cutters onto black construction paper then cut them out.

Tape the silhouette of the animal to a straw or Popsicle stick. To use the stick puppets, shine a flashlight behind them as they cast shadows onto a white wall or sheet and put on a shadow puppet play.

Feb. 4: Super Bowl Sunday Out & About: On Sundays through the Super Bowl, Paradise Park in Lee’s Summit (Paradise-Park.com) hosts Football Fun Days. With 15 televisions mounted throughout the park, the venue invites football fans to enjoy the game while kids play and explore. With arcades, the foam factory, laser tag and the EduTainment Center, kids have a blast while fans cheer for their favorite teams.

Favorite family snacks and adult beverages are served at Paradise Café.

At Home: Invite a few friends over for a Super Bowl

Sunday sundae party. Ask your guests to bring their favorite ice cream sundae topping, you provide the ice cream and let everyone create their own dream desserts.

Feb. 14: Valentine’s Day Out & About: Treat the kids to a heart-shaped pizza from Papa Murphy’s, then enjoy a crafty outing to make cards or gifts for loved ones. Visit a local pottery shop to paint gifts. Paint valentine paintings at a BYOB painting shop (all on KCParent.com under Going Places). Take the kids to a free family session at Kaleidoscope at Crown Center (HallmarkKaleidoscope.com), where they may use materials to create their own cards.

At Home: Make a special family meal serving everyone’s favorite dish. After dinner, have everyone put on pajamas, pop some popcorn or serve ice cream and watch A Charlie Brown Valentine. Spend time together doing what you enjoy most.

TIP: For MORE ideas, search “Free Winter Fun” on KCParent.com.

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Feb. 19: Presidents Day Out & About: Celebrate the birthdays of George Washington and Abraham Lincoln at Pancakes with the Presidents (Feb. 24, 8:30-10:00). Eat a delicious pancake breakfast and meet the first and 16th presidents. Participants enjoy a craft and educational activities. Cost is $8/person ages 3 and up; all participants must register. Admission includes one photo and admission to Winter on the Farm. Pre-register at Mahaffie.org.

At Home: Build a log cabin for Lincoln using pretzel sticks as logs and either cheese spread, cream cheese or peanut butter as mortar. Graham crackers and frosting may compose the roof. After creating your cabin, enjoy it as a fun snack.

February Is Library Lovers Month: Out & About: We love all our local libraries, but our favorite is the Central Library of the Kansas City Public Library (14 W. 10th St., Kansas City, MO), housed in the former First National Bank of Kansas City. This library is an architectural masterpiece with reading rooms, research areas, a cafe and a rooftop view of the city skyline, complete with a giant life-size chess set! But the best section of the library for families is the Children’s Department. Enter through the pages of a book to a place where kids will discover a wonderful reading area organized by ages and interests and offering many hands-on activities, as well.

At Home: Bring home a few favorite books

and snuggle up with some popcorn and reading. Choose one night each week in February to host a family night and ask each child to choose a game, movie, snack or craft inspired by a favorite book. Reading Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs? Serve spaghetti and meatballs. Read a classic like The Wizard of Oz, Peter Pan or Mary Poppins and then enjoy the corresponding film. Compare the film and book for similarities and differences. Read Little House on the Prairie and spend the evening playing marbles. Let the books inspire the fun.

February Is Black History Month: Out & About: Celebrate Kansas City’s rich African American heritage in the 18th & Vine District at the American Jazz Museum and the Negro Leagues Baseball Museum.

Also, make plans to take the family to see Underground, performed by Störling Dance Company Feb. 16 & 17 at the Kauffman Center.

See the story of the Underground Railroad depicted like never before. GoUnderground.org At Home: Read biographies of famous African

Americans in history and discuss them as a family. Discuss their impact on today.

Bonus: Beat the Winter Blahs: Out & About: Challenge your friends and family to the ultimate

puzzle. Escape rooms are an interactive game where teams of friends are locked into a small room for an hour while they solve puzzles and clues to unlock the room. The rooms typically include props and a series of puzzles each unlocking the next until you escape—hopefully in an hour or less. If you fail, the staff releases your team and takes a photo wishing you the best next time. Tick Tock Escape Games in Overland Park (TickTockEscapeGames.com) is one of our favorites. Their Bailey’s Billions and Pyramid Paradox rooms are both outstanding for their special effects and the diversity of the puzzles. They even offer duplicate rooms so you may divide into two teams and race to see who completes the puzzle first. This is a great way to combat winter “brain drain” and have fun with the family.

At Home: Break out the board games and host a family game night

every Friday. Let your children take turns choosing the game and the menu (but keep it simple). Looking for a new game to freshen things up? Search “Board Game Shops” on KCParent.com for great resources.

Kristina Light writes all year long on KCParent.com, where you’ll find hundreds of great ideas to beat the winter blahs kcparent.com february 2018

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Relive history in A Day in the Life Feb. 11 at the National World War I Museum and Memorial.

Interactive presentation allows visitors to step back in time.

TheWorldWar.org

School’s out Feb. 19 so enjoy a Free Day with the kids at the Johnson County Museum. Free admission to the museum. The KidScape experience is included.

JoCoGov.org

Date night! Board Game Night for Grown-Ups is Feb. 23 at the National Museum of Toys and Miniatures.

Enjoy a marble-ous evening of games, snacks and drinks.

816.235.8000

See Complexions Contemporary Ballet Feb. 24 at Carlsen Center.

Complexions reinvents dance through a groundbreaking mix of methods, styles and cultures.

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The Harlem Globetrotters come to town Feb. 24 & 25. See ball handling wizardry, dunks, trick shots and more. Photos and autographs after the show.

Harlem Globetrotters.com

1 Thursday Open Play 10:00, Jump City. Bring the kids to Jump City—where excitement and laughs are found daily! $8/child; parents are free.

JumpCityKC.com Nature Story Time 10:00 & 11:00, George Owens Nature Park. A nature-focused story time and craft for children. 816.325.7115 Toddler Tumbling 10:00, Kansas City North Community Center. Bring toddlers for fun exercise while allowing them to build motor skills. $4. 816.784.6100

2 Friday

Preschool Dance Party 10:30, Olathe Downtown Library. Let’s dance! Come shake, shimmy and dance up a storm. Free.

913.971.6874

Penguin March Today & tomorrow, Kansas City Zoo. Watch as the Gentoo and King penguins march outside and back into the building.

KansasCityZoo.org

Valentine’s Day 1:00, Lanesfield School.

Experience a traditional 1904 Valentine’s Day! Use pen and ink to write a note and create a puzzle purse. 913.715.2570

Early Explorations 10:00 & 2:00, Nerman Museum. Learn about animals in art and create an imaginary creature. Ages 5-7. Pre-reg at JCCC.edu/youth.

First Fridays 5:00, Crossroads Arts District.

Galleries and shops remain open the first Friday of each month. KCCrossroads.org

Missouri Snakes 10:00, Anita B Gorman Discovery Center. Because snakes are hibernating, meet a snake indoors and get a chance to touch one. 816.759.7300

3 Saturday Pre-Spring Flea Market 8:00, Riverfront Community Center (Leavenworth). Get ready for spring by shopping the flea market!

VisitLeavenworthKS.com

GROUNDHOG DAY The Secret of Courage 9:45, 11:45 & 7:00, the Coterie. Based on the short story “Imaginary Friends,” this world premiere production is filled with magic and wonderment. Ages 11+.

TheCoterie.org Paint Me a Story 10:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire.

Paint a pottery piece that goes along with a favorite story. Snack included. $13-$15. Pre-reg at 913.661.2529.

Women’s Encouragement Day 8:30, City Center Church. A quiet, relaxing day of encouragement for homeschool moms.

MidwestHomeschoolers.org Valentine Bean Bag Toss 9:00, Home Depot.

Build a Valentine bean bag toss the whole family will love. Free. HomeDepot.com/workshops

Hands-On History 11:00, National World War I Museum and Memorial. History is brought to life.

Handle Great War artifacts. TheWorldWar.org Free Crafts for Kids 11:00, Lakeshore Learning.

Every Saturday Lakeshore Learning offers free crafts for kids. Materials supplied. LakeshoreLearning.com Chocolate Crawl for a Cause Noon, Downtown Lee’s Summit. Bring winter items to Got Art Gallery and get a Chocolate Crawl wristband.

DowntownLS.org Royal Ball 6:30, Shawnee Civic Centre. Dads, grab your girls, because it’s daddy-daughter date night! Dancing, refreshments, a photo and more.

Pre-reg at 913.631.5200.

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Honk! Jr. Feb. 15-18, Bell Cultural Events Center. See the story of the little fowl who finds himself on an adventure of self-discovery. CYTKC.org

Daddy Daughter Date Night 7:00, Ritz Charles.

Dance to Top 40 hits provided by a DJ, games, activities and light refreshments. Pre-reg at BlueValleyRec.org.

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5 Monday Moms Free Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms are free at the Children’s EduTainment Center with a paid child’s admission. 816.246.5224

Daddy Daughter Dance Feb 9 & 10, Providence Community Church. Buy tickets today and save $10 off of Friday with code KCP2018. SovGraceKC.org/Dance

Charlotte’s Web 9:45 & 11:30, Folly Theater.

Based on E.B. White’s story of the friendship between a pig named Wilbur and a spider named Charlotte. FollyTheater.org

Farmers Market 9:00, the City Market. The market is open year-round and offers a variety of fresh produce, meat, specialty groceries and more. TheCityMarket.org

Toddle Time 10:00, Bonner Springs Community Center. Bring little ones 9 months through 5 years to play on the large assortment of toys. $2. BonnerSprings.org

Ice Skating Noon, the Ice at Park Place. Enjoy ice skating with the family at Leawood’s only outdoor ice rink. ParkPlaceLeawood.com

Open Jump 4:00, Urban Air Trampoline Park.

Bring the kids to run, play and jump. Enjoy a little sweat with a lot of bounce! 913.298.0626

Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slide show and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org

6 Tuesday Toddle Time 9:00, Matt Ross Community Center.

Open playtime with an array of toys, including blocks, balls and puzzles. $1-$2. 913.895.6350

UNDERGROUND “Top 10 of the Decade!” - Paul Horsley, The Independent “Powerful, educational, INSPIRATIONAL!” - Laine Kent, audience Störling Dance Theater presents the story for our time.

The Underground Railroad depicted like never before.

Find hope for our times at UNDERGROUND!

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Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Rec Center. Kids ages 5 and under play with push toys, riding toys, balls, inflatables and more. $2. Lenexa.com Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. $12. CeramicCafe.com Family Feast Day Pizza Shoppe. Get a single topping king pizza, two Shoppe house salads and an order of garlic cheese bread for only $19.99. PizzaShoppe.com

Two-For-One Tuesdays 5:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. After 5:00, pay one full price admission and receive a second for free! CrownCenter.com

7 Wednesday The Art of the Brick Thru May 28, Union Station. A captivating exhibition featuring works of art made exclusively from Lego bricks.

UnionStation.org Retro Story Time and Art Fun 10:00, Jo Co Arts and Heritage Center. Hear stories from long ago and then enjoy an art activity. $2. Pre-reg at 913.831.3359.

Open Gym Noon, Integrity Gymnastics. A great time to practice, get familiar with the gym and for kids to release energy. $6. IntegrityOP.com Table Top Game Night 6:00, Jo Co Library (Antioch). Learn new board games or bring a favorite to share. JoCoLibrary.org Happy Hour Concert 6:00, Kauffman Center.

Enjoy works by Leonard Bernstein in this delightful performance. Free with RSVP. KCSymphony.org

8 Thursday Kindergarten Preview Today & tomorrow, Summit Christian Academy. Learn about what our kindergarten program can offer your child.

816.525.1480

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The Secret of Courage 9:45 & 11:45, the Coterie. Based on the short story “Imaginary Friends,” this world premiere production is filled with magic and wonderment. Ages 11+.

TheCoterie.org Open Play 10:00, Jump City. Bring the kids to Jump City—where excitement and laughs are found daily! $8/child; parents are free.

JumpCityKC.com Toddler Tumbling 10:00, Kansas City North Community Center. Bring toddlers for fun exercise while allowing them to build motor skills. $4. 816.784.6100 Teen Art Collective 4:00, Nelson-Atkins. Drop in and create! Guest artists and educators will help with projects. Supplies and a snack provided. Free. Nelson-Atkins.org

9 Friday Indoor Playground 9:30, Sylvester Powell Community Center. Developmental toys, inflatable and more for kids in a safe, clean indoor play area. 913.722.8200

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Grand Opening Celebration Feb. 19, 1:00, Code Ninjas (Leawood). Drop in for tours of Game Development Center, face painting, games and more! 913.735.9346

Fine Art Friday 1:00, Kemper Museum.

Interactive experiences in the galleries encourage students to examine art. Includes tour with docent. Free. KemperArt.org Daddy & Daughter Dance 6:00, Providence Community Church. Dinner and a night of dancing for dads and daughters. Must purchase tickets in advance. 913.307.0710 Valentine Dance 6:00, Adams Pointe Conference Center. Event for dads and daughters includes dancing, dinner, photo booth and more. Pre-reg at BlueSpringsGov.com.

Fisherman and the Goldfish Today & tomorrow, Carlsen Center. Based on a Russian story, tale of an old fisherman that catches a talking fish.

Free. JCCC.edu/academics/arts-design Daddy Daughter Dance Today & tomorrow, Gladstone Community Center. Dancing, dinner, photos and a memorable parting gift. Pre-reg at Gladstone.mo.us.

Valentine’s Ball 7:00, Centerview (Raymore). Evening for dads and daughters includes music, dancing, snacks, games and photo booth. Pre-reg at 816.331.2791.

10 Saturday Lil Chefs 9:30, Kearney Culinary Academy. Class that focuses on ways to fancy up sandwiches.

For ages 2-6; parent must be present entire class. Pre-reg at KearneyCulinary.com.

Contemporary Creations 10:00 & 2:00, Nerman Museum. Learn about American Indian art and then create a wearable sculpture. Ages 8-11. Pre-reg at JCCC.edu/youth.

Old-Fashioned Love 10:00, Shawnee Mission Indian Historic Site. Make old-fashioned valentines for a special person. For toddlers and Pre-K. Pre-reg at 913.262.0867.

Valentines for Groundhogs George Owens Nature Park. Learn all kinds of cool things about groundhogs and make a craft. Call 816.325.7115 for more info.

Valentine’s Day 1:00, Lanesfield School.

Experience a traditional 1904 Valentine’s Day! Use pen and ink to write a note and create a puzzle purse. 913.715.2570 Second Saturdays 4:00, Downtown Weston. Stroll into unique gift shops and galleries for late-night shopping and in-store specials. WestonMO.com

five faves for chips & salsa Feb. 24 is National Tortilla Chip Day. Celebrate with outstanding chips and salsa at one of these local restaurants:

PONAK’S (2856 Southwest Blvd., Kansas City, MO, 816.753.0775, PonaksMexicanKitchen.com). A Kansas City favorite since 1975, Ponak’s claims to have served more than six million tacos over the years! This local cantina is beloved for its casual vibe and delicious food. The restaurant frequently wins local contests for their delicious food and margaritas.

MANNY’S (207 Southwest Blvd., Kansas City, MO, 816.474.7696, MannysKC.com). Another longtime favorite, Manny’s has been the recipient of numerous restaurant awards for their delicious food. This restaurant is very popular, but it’s worth the wait.

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LOS TULES (1656 Broadway St., Kansas City, MO, 816.421.9229, Los-TulesKC.com) is a great choice for a preshow meal if you’re visiting the Kauffman Performing Arts Center. The queso at Los Tules is one of our top picks locally.

POCO’S (3063 Southwest Blvd., Kansas City, MO, 816.931.2526) serves authentic Mexican food for breakfast, lunch and dinner. With made-from-scratch fiery salsas and a vast menu of spicy favorites, Poco’s offers much to savor.

DOS DE OROS (13029 Holmes Rd, Kansas City, MO, 816.942.0020, DosDeOrosKC.com). This authentic Mexican restaurant is beloved in South Kansas City. With salsas made fresh daily, authentic handmade tamales and guacamole prepared tableside, this is a classic.

Daddy Daughter Ball 5:00 or 7:30, Gardner Edgerton High School Commons. Enjoy an evening of music, dancing and ice cream! Prereg at GardnerKansas.gov.

Kiss & Tail 5:30, Kansas City Zoo. Hors d’oeuvres, live music and explore love in the animal kingdom. Adults-only valentine event. $35-$45. KansasCityZoo.org Daddy Daughter Dance 5:30, Irene B French Community Center. A magical night under the stars. Pre-reg at 913.322.5550.

Daddy Daughter Dance 6:30, VIP Event Space. Dads, treat your little lady to a princessfilled night. Enjoy desserts, dance and meet Cinderella. Pre-reg at 816.517.8834.

Kansas Women’s Basketball 7:00, Allen Fieldhouse. The Jayhawks take on Oklahoma.

Visit the Kid Zone for poster making, cookie decorating, inflatables and more. KUAthletics.com

11 Sunday Farmers Market 9:00, the City Market. The market is open year-round and offers a variety of fresh produce, meat, specialty groceries and more. TheCityMarket.org

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A Day in the Life 10:00, National World War I Museum and Memorial. An interactive presentation that allows visitors to step back in time. TheWorldWar.org

14 Wednesday Valentine’s Day

Paint Me a Story 10:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire.

Paint a pottery piece that goes along with a favorite story. Snack included. $13-$15. Pre-reg at 913.661.2529.

art + family = FUN 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Join us every Saturday and Sunday for free activities for all ages! 816.751.1278

The Art of the Brick Thru May 28, Union Station. A captivating exhibition featuring works of art made exclusively from Lego bricks.

UnionStation.org

Third Friday Art Walk 5:30, Englewood Station Arts District. Tour the art galleries. View live performances and artists on the sidewalks in front of shops. EnglewoodStation.com

Toddler Story Time 10:00, Johnson County Library (Antioch). Story time includes short stories, finger plays and movement activities.

Ages 2-3. JoCoLibrary.org

Open House 6:00, Nexus Prep. Now enrolling for ages 1-5. Drop in and see all we have to offer your child. Anchoring kids in God’s love.

NexusPrep.org

Open Gym Noon, Integrity Gymnastics. A great time to practice, get familiar with the gym and for kids to release energy. $6. IntegrityOP.com

Underground Today & tomorrow, Kauffman Center. Storling Dance presents a powerful and inspiring portrayal of the Underground Railroad. StorlingDance.org

Meet the Experts 2:00, the National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Explore the craft of marble making from Bruce Breslow. Free with admission. 816.235.8000 Bess Truman Tea 2:00, Harry S Truman Library and Museum. Guest speaker Elizabeth Way discusses first lady fashion. TrumanLibrary.org Laura’s Memories 2:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Step back into time and celebrate the life and birthday of author Laura Ingalls Wilder.

913.764.7759 Lara St John and Matt Herskowitz 7:00, Carlsen Center. Canadian-born violinist Lara St John performs Lavuta with Matt Herskowitz.

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12 Monday Funville 10:00, Crown Center. What do you want to be? Children experience grown-up occupations in a kid-friendly setting. Free.

CrownCenter.com Mother Goose Rhyme Time 10:00, Jo Co Library (Central Resource). Program includes songs, rhymes and finger plays for ages 12-24 months. Free. JoCoLibrary.org Toddle Time 10:00, Bonner Springs Community Center. Bring little ones 9 months through 5 years to play on the large assortment of toys. $2. BonnerSprings.org

13 Tuesday Toddle Time 9:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Open playtime with an array of toys, including blocks, balls and puzzles. $1-$2.

913.895.6350 Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. $12. CeramicCafe.com Sweetheart Skate 7:00, Line Creek Community Center. Enjoy a romantic evening as you glide around the rink with that special someone.

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Coding Club 4:00, Jo Co Library (Gardner).

Learn through exploration, self-directed projects and guidance from a librarian.

JoCoLibrary.org Open Jump 4:00, Urban Air Trampoline Park.

Bring the kids to run, play and jump. Enjoy a little sweat with a lot of bounce! 913.298.0626

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Night at the Arboretum 7:00, Overland Park Arboretum. Bring a flashlight and walk the Deer Trail to discover a raccoon’s habitat. OPABG.org

17 Saturday Great Backyard Bird Count 9:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Learn about birds that spend winters in Northeast Kansas. Free. 913.826.2805

For the Love of Books Breakfast 7:30, Uptown Theater. Join Reach Out and read to support early literacy in Kansas City.

ReachOutAndReadKC.org

Teddy Bear Clinic 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Is your teddy bear in need of some TLC? Bring your injured bears and we’ll fix them right up.

KansasCityZoo.org

Visit Sea Life 10:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Bring the kids to see the Doodle Reef, the touch pool, Stingray Bay and more! VisitSeaLife.com

A Forest Has Many of Uses 10:00, Anita B Gorman Discovery Center. Learn how to light a campfire, split firewood and tap a tree for syrup.

816.759.7300

Nature Story Time 10:00 & 11:00, George Owens Nature Park. A nature-focused story time and craft for children. 816.325.711 Honk! Jr Thru Feb 18, Bell Cultural Events Center. See the story of the little fowl who finds himself on an adventure of self-discovery.

CYTKC.org New Moves Thru Feb 18, Todd Bolender Center.

A chance for audiences to see Kansas City Ballet company in an up-close space. KCBallet.org

16 Friday Mini Makers 10:00, Olathe Downtown Library.

Learn more about the world through making and exploring STEAM. Ages 3-5. Pre-reg at 913.971.6874.

Junie B Jones Is Not a Crook 10:00, H & R Block City Stage. One of the most beloved modern characters comes to life on the TYA stage.

TYA.org

Mother Nature Reads 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Children hear a story, make a craft and often see a wildlife interpretation. 816.513.8960 Pirates & Mermaids Party 11:00, Paradise Park.

A jolly good day of giveaways, photo ops and legendary fun! Paradise-Park.com The Bear Necessities 11:00 & 2:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. Big Mama presents a jamboree of amazing bear talent. See them sing, juggle, dance and amuse. Hazelle.org Story Time 1:30, Martha Lafite Thompson Nature Sanctuary. Listen to a naturalist share a tale about an animal and make a fun craft.

816.781.8598 Saturday Night Feeder Saturdays, 2:00, Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary. Watch the cats being fed, weather permitting. $6-$8. 816.739.0363

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FamBlitz Live 3:00, Woods Chapel United Methodist Church. A fast-paced, high-energy, family-oriented event. Free, but must pre-reg at 816.795.8848.

Major League Improv 7:00, Comedy City.

A comedy sporting event where everything is based on suggestions from the audience. $9-$13. 816.842.2744

19 Monday PRESIDENTS DAY Free Day 9:00, Johnson County Museum.

Admission to the museum featuring the 1950s All-Electric House. The KidScape experience is included. JoCoGov.org Pinkalicious and Peterrific 9:00 (KCPT) & 4:00 (KCPT Kids). All-new show based on the favorite storybook characters. KCPT.org

18 Sunday Ice Skating Noon, the Ice at Park Place. Enjoy ice skating with the family at Leawood’s only outdoor ice rink. ParkPlaceLeawood.com Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slide show and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org Staycation at the OCC 6:00, Olathe Community Center. Explore the coral reef, snorkel for prizes, make a boat and enjoy a tropical treat.

OlatheKS.org Charles Williams Trio 7:00, Carlsen Center.

Enjoy a concert by native Kansas Citian Charles D Williams, who has played for more than 40 years. JCCC.edu/theseries

Science City Open 10:00, Science City (Union Station). School is out, and Science City is open today! Bring the kids for a day of learning and fun. UnionStation.org Grand Opening Celebration 1:00, Code Ninjas (Leawood). Drop in for tours of Game Development Center, face painting, games and more! 913.735.9346

Tots on Tuesday 10:30, Kemper Museum.

Bring in your preschooler for a fun and fashionable get-together every third Tuesday.

816.753.5784

21 Wednesday Playgroup at FBC 9:00, First Baptist Church of Shawnee. A safe place for kids to run and play and for parents to enjoy coffee and conversation. Free. 913.226.9438 Baby Bounce Story Time 9:30 & 10:30, Plaza Library. Stories and activities for the youngest set, ages newborn through 18 months.

816.701.3481 Open Gym Noon, Integrity Gymnastics. A great time to practice, get familiar with the gym and for kids to release energy. $6. IntegrityOP.com

20 Tuesday

Winter Trout Program 2:30 (Kill Creek Park) & 3:45 (Shawnee Mission Park). Watch as the lakes are stocked with 1,600 lbs of trout.

913.888.4713

Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Rec Center. Kids ages 5 and under play with push toys, riding toys, balls, inflatables and more. $2. Lenexa.com

22 Thursday

Story Time for Preschoolers 9:30, MCPL (Liberty). An exciting and unique story time for ages 3-5 and a caregiver. Free. MyMCPL.org

Early Education Preview Today & tomorrow, Summit Christian Academy. Learn more about Summit Christian Academy through a tour and more. 816.525.1480

three for free: indoor fun in kc Looking for KC family fun on the cheap? Check out these three themes for free winter fun:

Nature Centers

the perfect time to visit The NelsonAtkins Museum of Art (Kansas City, MO), the Kemper Museum of Art (Kansas City, MO) and the Nerman Museum (Overland Park).

Kansas City is home to several Explore Downtown wonderful nature centers, and Kansas City admission is always free. Our local Downtown Kansas City boasts many nature centers offer hands-on free options for your exploration. exhibits teaching families about Kemper Museum of Art Rides aboard the KC Streetcar native plants and animals. They also are always free (download our offer free classes and programs scavenger hunt on KCParent.com), and many stops include year-round. With aquariums, animal exhibits and trails to attractions with free admission. Visit Kaleidoscope in the explore (weather permitting), nature centers are a favorite Crown Center Square where children make art projects in a educational outing any season. Our favorites include Burr whimsical world of creativity. Explore the Hallmark Visitor’s Oak Woods (Blue Springs), Anita Gorman Discovery Center and learn about the company. Tour the National Center (Kansas City, MO), Martha Lafite Thompson Nature Archives (near Union Station) and explore their free exhibits.

Sanctuary (Liberty), Ernie Miller Nature Center (Olathe) Watch a miniature train display at Union Station with the KC and Prairie Park Nature Center (Lawrence).

Rail Experience. Visit the Central Library and explore one Art Galleries of the most enchanting children’s library departments in the World-class art awaits at our city’s finest art galleries. Admission area. Visit the Money Museum and take a free tour leaving is free at three of our favorites (you may have to pay for with a souvenir bag of shredded cash. parking), and you’ll always find something new to see. All three offer guidebooks or audio tours with families in mind, and Tip: Search “Free Winter Fun” on KCParent.com for even you’ll find special programming throughout the year. Winter is more inspiration!

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Felted Forms Exhibit Thru April 30, Overland Park Arboretum. Take a stroll along the woodland sculpture garden and discover felted forms. OPKansas.org

Kids Night Out 4:00, Indoor Aquatics Center (Lawrence). Kids-only night features pizza, games, crafts and swimming. $15. Pre-reg at LawrenceKS.org.

Mother Nature Reads 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Hear a story, make a craft to take home and see a wildlife interpretation. Free.

816.513.8960

Open Play 10:00, Jump City. Bring the kids to Jump City—where excitement and laughs are found daily! $8/child; parents are free.

JumpCityKC.com

Board Game Night for Grown-Ups 6:00, the National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Enjoy a marble-ous evening of games, snacks and drinks. 816.235.8000

Music Mixing 10:15, Kansas City Verizon Smart Store. Kids will learn to mix music samples and create loops to produce their own songs.

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Toddler Tumbling 10:00, Kansas City North Community Center. Bring toddlers for fun exercise while allowing them to build motor skills. $4. 816.784.6100

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Hands-On History 11:00, National World War I Museum and Memorial. History is brought to life.

Handle Great War artifacts. TheWorldWar.org

Shrek the Musical Thru Sunday, Bell Cultural Events Center. See the tale of an unlikely hero who finds himself on a life-changing journey.

CYTKC.org

Pancakes with the Presidents 8:30, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm. Enjoy pancakes and crafts with George Washington and Abraham Lincoln. Pre-reg at Mahaffie.org.

Maple Sugaring 1:00, Burr Oak Woods. Learn how to tap trees, collect sap and make syrup from native trees. Pre-reg at 816.228.3766.

Kids in the Kitchen 9:30, Jo Co K-State Research and Extension. Learn basic cooking skills, nutrition and delicious recipes. Today’s theme: fish. Pre-reg at 913.715.7000.

Tillie the Library Cat 2:00, MCPL (Claycomo).

Join storyteller Jo Ho for some purrrfectly funny tales. Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

The Art of the Brick Thru May 28, Union Station. A captivating exhibition featuring works of art made exclusively from Lego bricks.

UnionStation.org

Species Spotlight 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. On the fourth Saturday, the zoo shines a spotlight on an amazing animal. Today’s animals: polar bears. KansasCityZoo.org

Harlem Globetrotters 7:00, Sprint Center. See ball handling wizardry, rim-rattling dunks, trick shots and more. Photos and autographs after the show. HarlemGlobetrotters.com

Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. $12. CeramicCafe.com

Early Explorations 10:00 & 2:00, Nerman Museum. Learn about symmetry in art and create a mask. Ages 5-7. Pre-reg at JCCC.edu/youth.

Free Discovery Concert 7:00, Folly Theater.

15-year-old Nathan Lee will play some of the most virtuosic works in piano literature.

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Daddy Daughter Dance 7:00, Memorial Station (Belton). Have a rock ‘n’ rollin’ good time at the ’50s-style sock hop! Pre-reg at BeltonParks.org.

Complexions Contemporary Ballet 8:00, Carlsen Center. Complexions reinvents dance through a groundbreaking mix of methods, styles and cultures. JCCC.eud/theseries

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26 Monday Moms Free Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms are free at the Children’s EduTainment Center with a paid child’s admission. 816.246.5224 Funville 10:00, Crown Center. What do you want to be? Children experience grown-up occupations in a kid-friendly setting. Free.

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Farmers Market 9:00, the City Market. The market is open year-round and offers a variety of fresh produce, meat, specialty groceries and more. TheCityMarket.org

Draw Like Van Gogh 4:00, MCPL (Weston).

Learn about Van Gogh and study his brush strokes and create your own version of his Sunflowers painting. Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slide show and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org

Story Time Special Feature 7:00, Jo Co Library (Antioch). Enjoy a themed story night with a popular picture book. JoCoLibrary.org

Harlem Globetrotters 2:00 (Silverstein Eye Center) & 7:00 (St Joseph Civic Arena). See ball handling wizardry, dunks, trick shots and more.

HarlemGlobetrotters.com Family Series 2:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center.

Bring the family on Sunday afternoons for entertainment and education. Today’s theme: Kansas symbols. $3. 913.764.7759

27 Tuesday Toddle Time 9:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Open playtime with an array of toys, including blocks, balls and puzzles. $1-$2.

913.895.6350 Junie B Jones Is Not a Crook 10:00, H & R Block City Stage. One of the most beloved modern characters comes to life on the TYA stage.

TYA.org

Family Feast Day Pizza Shoppe. Get a single topping king pizza, two Shoppe house salads and an order of garlic cheese bread for only $19.99. PizzaShoppe.com Open Jump 4:00, Urban Air Trampoline Park.

Bring the kids to run, play and jump. Enjoy a little sweat with a lot of bounce! 913.298.0626 Two-For-One Tuesdays 5:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. After 5:00, pay one full price admission and receive a second for free! CrownCenter.com

28 Wednesday Indoor Playground 9:30, Sylvester Powell Community Center. Developmental toys, inflatable and more for kids in a safe, clean indoor play area. 913.722.82 Tuck Everlasting 10:00, the Coterie. See the story of the Tuck family, who drink from a forest spring and never age. Ages 9+. TheCoterie.org Toddler Story Time 10:00, Johnson County Library (Antioch). Story time includes short stories, finger plays and movement activities.

Ages 2-3. JoCoLibrary.org Open Gym Noon, Integrity Gymnastics. A great time to practice, get familiar with the gym and for kids to release energy. $6. IntegrityOP.com

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MARBLE CRAFTS / MARCH 15, 22, AND 29 / 1-3:30PM Create a special marble craft to take home! On March 15 and 29, create a necklace or keychain made out of a crackled marble. On March 22, craft an animal using clay and marbles.

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February 10 Kiss & Tail *registration required, adults only

February 10 & 11 Zootastik learning Fest— Who’s Active When February 17 Teddy Bear Clinic February 24 & 25 Species Spotlight— Polar Bear

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–STINGRAY & SHARK TOUCH TANK– Open May 2018 Check online for more Zoomazing experiences!

kansascityzoo.org | 816.595.1234 | Open Daily The Kansas City Zoo, a private, non-profit organization is operated in agreement with the Kansas City, MO Board of Parks and Recreation Commissioners, partially funded by the Zoological District in Jackson and Clay Counties in MO, and is accredited by the Association of Zoos and Aquariums.