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elcome to February— with so much to love and to do in Kansas City! The pink and red images that surround us this month warm at least our hearts, but the days actually are getting longer, which means the sun is shining more in promise of an end to our long winter naps! Yay! But don’t wish February right on by. Lean in and pause to honor those who bring light and love to your life. When I was a child, my mom sent us each on a short valentine scavenger hunt around the house to find something special. I can’t say I’ve done the same thing every year as a parent, though we’ve had heart-shaped Rice Krispie treats and chocolate fondue, shared words of love and encouragement and enjoyed a basketball game (sometimes playing, sometimes watching), among other things. We have many ideas for you scattered throughout these pages, and I hope something herein inspires you to communicate your love to those you hold dear. Janelle has created some adorable accordion valentines to create with kids (pg. 10), and Kristina has compiled some truly sweet ways to say “I love you” Kansas City style (pg. 11)! You also have one extra day to celebrate February this year, so find something unique to do on Feb. 29! You can check out the book Unique Eateries listed in “5 Things,” visit one of many presidential sites across the Midwest, plan a local date night, find inspiration for connecting with kids and stepparents, enjoy a romantic getaway and find even more ideas on KCParent.com. We’re here with resources to help you get out and share the love!

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Heart Accordion Valentines

eed an easy, cute and quick homemade Valentine’s Day card that will make a big impression on someone special? Here is your answer!

SUPPLIES: • Assorted paper (We used red and pink for our card and white for our pattern piece.)

• Glue stick • Scissors • Pencil

DIRECTIONS: Step one: Draw a heart on your white paper. Cut it out and trace the heart onto the colored paper. We were able to get eight hearts onto the paper.

Step two: Cut the hearts out and make a pile. Step three: Use the glue stick to put approximately a half-inch of glue on the side of the heart.

Step four: Attach the next heart and add glue to the current heart. Glue should go onto opposite sides of the hearts.

Step five: Repeat until all the hearts are used. Step six: Allow to dry. Step seven: Give your Valentine’s card to your special someone!

Janelle Cumro-Sultzer lives in Manhattan, Kansas, with her husband, three children, two dogs, eight fish and a frog. Janelle is the owner of Flint Hills Mediation LLC and loves to focus on learning through play and getting messy with crafts.

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Snap a pic with Hartley’s Heart in Downtown Lee’s Summit near Third & Douglas. The iconic heart commemorates Dale Hartley, the owner of Hartley’s Furniture Store (no longer in business) and one of Downtown Lee’s Summit’s founders. DowntownLS.org

Commemorate your love with a love lock on the Old Red Bridge in Minor Park. Purchase a lock and engrave it with your message, then secure it to the bridge as a symbol of your love.

Give the gift of a Great Plains SPCA Puppygram all February long! Puppygrams are puppies delivered to your home or office for you to play with and snuggle for 15, 30 or 60 minutes. All proceeds benefit the shelter pets at Great Plains SPCA. GreatPlainsSPCA.org

Serve the kids Shatto Dairy Farm’s pink strawberry milk or baby blue cotton candy milk for breakfast. The Missouri dairy farm sells milk at local grocery stores. ShattoMilk.com

Attach one of Helzberg’s “I Am Loved” pins to a card or package. The pins have been a Helzberg Kansas City tradition since they were first announced in the Kansas City Star in a 1967 ad campaign. Helzberg.com

Send “the very best” with a Hallmark card—or pay a visit to the card maker together. The Kansas City-based company offers free self-guided tours through the Hallmark Visitors Center (2450 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, Mo., 816.274.3613), where you’ll learn the history of Hallmark and watch the production processes of Hallmark cards on factory machines. And don’t leave without pressing the button to watch a gift bow made right before your eyes as a free souvenir to take home.

Treat your sweetheart to made-from-scratch personalized chocolates from Laura Little’s Candies. The confectionary offers free personalization on fudge hearts for your valentine. LauraLittleCandy.com

Buy a box of chocolates from a local company. Go classic with Russell Stover (RussellStover.com) or splurge with gourmet delights from Christopher Elbow (ElbowChocolates.com).

Take pictures together at local landmarks: fountains, local galleries, parks or the Married Love statue of Sir Winston and Lady Churchill at the Country Club Plaza.

Show your KC love with a Charlie Hustle shirt emblazoned with a huge heart and the letters “KC.” CharlieHustle.com

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Q&A DEARTEACHERS

BY PEGGY GISLER AND MARGE EBERTS

IT’S RAPIDLY BECOMING THE COMPUTER HOMEWORK WORLD

PARENTS: Pencil and paper homework is becoming extinct for students as early as second grade. The

The Pros and Cons of Homework In the primary grades especially, and even in

computer is rapidly becoming the major tool for

elementary school, homework shows very little benefit.

doing homework. By sixth grade, students do almost

According to many studies, the students who get the

all homework on the computer in many schools. One

biggest benefit from homework are high schoolers, and

thing that hasn’t changed about homework, though,

there are some benefits for middle schoolers. The pros

is students’ view that homework isn’t fun. And another

of homework include promoting higher achievement

is all the time that students have to spend doing

and better study skills. Plus, homework can give parents

homework—even if they are doing it on the computer.

insight into what their children are learning through conversations, as well as observing some of their work.

The Right Amount of Homework The accepted guideline approved by the National

There are definitely cons to homework, though. It turns some children away from academics. It also can limit the

PTA and National Education Association and

time children have with their families, as well as the time

researchers in this area is spending 10 minutes a night

children have for activities and leisure.

per each grade level. Thus, the second grader should be spending no more than 20 minutes nightly, and the high school senior up to two hours. If your children

The Benefits of Online Assignments A great number of you experienced having your

are going wildly over these suggested time limits,

children do all their schoolwork online during the

it is time for a talk with their teachers. Is a teacher

pandemic. The younger your children were, the more

making too time-consuming assignments? Are the

likely it was close to an educational disaster that put them

assignments too difficult for your children? What help

behind in their learning. Thankfully, the story is not the

is needed to get homework time to a reasonable

same for children who are now in class and doing much

level? We have just discovered an interesting fact:

of their homework on computers. One minor benefit is

Around the world, 15-year-olds spend about an hour

that students no longer have to lug around a lot of books

a day less on homework than students in our country.

and notebooks. There are several major benefits too. One,

And, surprisingly, students of this age in Finland and

of course, is having access to just about anything that

Singapore spend two to three hours a week on

they want to know about on the web. Solid help is also

homework while scoring higher on international tests of

available when students write essays or reports through

achievement.

the grammar and spelling programs all computers have.

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Other helpful features are all the practice worksheets that let them strengthen basic math skills. And when students are

The Downsides of Computer Homework Unfortunately, there are some downsides to

completely baffled about how to handle an assignment,

computer homework. Many students cannot resist the

good help is available at reliable websites. Plus, students

temptation while they are online of checking to see

can often receive immediate and personal feedback from

what their friends and classmates are doing on popular

their teachers on the assignments that they complete online

social media. Others can be tempted to play games.

instead of waiting for papers to be returned or a general

These actions can definitely disrupt the time they should

class discussion of homework assignments. There also is the

be spending on their homework assignments.

added benefit of enhancing their computer skills, giving them an easier transition into today’s work world. Benefits of computer homework accrue to both

Another very unfortunate aspect to doing homework on the computer is the ability students have to get answers to almost any homework question. While some

teachers and parents. On the practical side, teachers no

websites and tutors provide a helpful road to doing

longer have to print reams of worksheets for their students,

an assignment, others will simply do the work for the

and teachers can expand the range of activities beyond

students. Of serious concern are the sites students can

those that can be given on paper. They also can vary

find where reports and essays and even projects can be

assignments to meet the needs of individual students, and

done for them.

they can see at once where students have problems and give them immediate feedback.

Parental Awareness Is Important

Teachers can share their students’ online homework

If parents have their children do computerized

assignments with parents, letting them see exactly how

homework assignments in an area where they can

well their children are handling the content and skills.

observe the screens, they have a better chance of

Parents can also easily communicate their concerns about

keeping their students on task. And they also need to

problems their children are having with homework and

take a look at their children’s online homework from

expect quick feedback.

time to time to ensure it is truly their children’s own work. © Compass Syndicate Corporation, 2023

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FIVETHINGS Chopper Mill Mittens These Chopper Mill mittens are absolutely fabulous— warm, waterproof and windproof! A sizing guide to be sure we had the perfect fit, impeccable craftsmanship and play-outside-for-hours-in-thewet-snow stamina—these mittens are every bit worth the splurge! And if ever we lose a mitten, they offer a one-of-a-kind “re/PAIR” plan to replace the lost one! Psst, they come in adult sizes too! ChopperMill.com

Unique Eats and Eateries of Kansas City I adore books about Kansas City, its history and unique offerings. Unique Eats and Eateries of Kansas City: The People and Stories Behind the Food provides an exceptional insight into a wide variety of local favorites. Pick up this gem by local news anchor Matt Stewart for some inspiration for a great date night or to impress visitors to our great city. Enjoy! MattStewartBooks.com

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Renew Lotion Hands down an all-time family favorite! I was skeptical that we could love a lotion as much as my friend thought we would … and here we are years later. It brought relief to some nasty eczema patches and is profoundly moisturizing. It’s within arm’s reach all over our house and cars. This 39-yearold company is referral based to shop so reach out if you need assistance. RenewLotion.com

Colsen Fire Pit Whether the weather is frightful and you need some incredible ambiance or plans are falling apart and you need some hail Mary indoor fun, meet the tabletop Colsen fire pit. We recently enjoyed s’mores around the dinner table. The alcohol created a lovely tabletop fire, and we relished in the moment without even heading outside. A perfect winter win! ColsenFirePits.com

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WORDFROMDAD

PRIORITIES IN LIFE

“Dad, what did you tell Steve?” Our friends, Steve and Marcie, had just been married at our church, and I’d taken it upon myself to share a wee bit of wisdom I’d accumulated over the years. “Why do you want to know, Ian?” “He looked really serious when you were telling him these things, and, if it’s good for him to know, maybe I should, too.” “All right. Every man has a special pastime. Some have wholesome activities like sports or fishing. Others have less healthy pursuits, a weekly poker game or

spending time with some buddies at a watering hole. Mine was strategy gaming, and I spent hours painting figures, poring over rules or preparing gaming tables.” Ian kept his eyes on me. “Years before you and James were born, I’d gone to the gaming store after work. Since Mom got off later than me, I thought I’d play a bit before going home. What I didn’t know was that she’d had a hard day at work and needed me to be with her.” “What did Mom do?”

“She called the gaming store and asked for me. While I spoke to her, she said she needed me at home.” “What did you say?” “I told her I was on my way. The other guys made fun of me, implying I wasn’t man enough to stand up to my wife.” Ian’s eyes opened wide. “I told them that I loved Mom, and she was worth more to me than all of them put together. I walked out and never came back.” I took a breath. “You see, son, if you love a woman enough to marry her, you’ve already decided that she’s the most important person in your life. All you have to do is to live with your priorities.” A lifelong resident of the Kansas City area, William R. Bartlett lives in one of the more charming areas inside the city limits with his Fayre and Gracious Wyffe, his two grown sons, both on the autism spectrum, two young dogs and a rather pompous cat.

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PRESIDENTIAL SITES Across the Midwest

Harry S. Truman Presidential Library

THE MAN FROM MISSOURI: PRESIDENT HARRY S. TRUMAN

HONEST ABE: PRESIDENT ABRAHAM LINCOLN

Harry S. Truman Presidential Library

Abraham Lincoln Presidential Library and Museum

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PresidentLincoln.Illinois.gov

The recently renovated museum in Independence features exhibits capturing the story of Truman and his presidency. Visitors read, listen, watch, look and relive through film and interactive displays some key moments in American history. Cinematic films are shown throughout the museum previewing the various exhibits and setting the stage for the stories they tell.

Located in Springfield, Illinois, the Abraham Lincoln Presidential Library and Museum is one of the most interactive history museums in the Midwest, with exhibits telling the life of Lincoln from boyhood through his death. Exhibits also focus on his campaigns and the Civil War. In addition to exhibits, two theaters captivate audiences, one with a hologram performance explaining historical documentation, and a 3D theater telling of the Civil War.

Abraham Lincoln Presidential Library and Museum

KANSAS LIKES IKE: PRESIDENT DWIGHT D. EISENHOWER Dwight D. Eisenhower Presidential Library and Museum Eisenhower.Archives.gov

The Eisenhower Presidential Library and Eisenhower Museum in Abilene, Kansas, a 25,000-square-foot museum, features exhibits showcasing innovations in technology and interactive displays to engage audiences of all ages and learning styles. The site includes a visitor center, Eisenhower’s boyhood home, the Place of Meditation, and the library and museum, all in a park-like setting.

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1 Name of the full moon that should be visible on Feb. 24. 2 Photo Clue: Feb. 14 is National Ferris Wheel Day. Celebrate at

the dog park located in Leawood City Park. 5 Both Missouri and Kansas have counties named in honor of this U.S. president born on Feb. 12. 6 Both Missouri and Kansas have cities named in honor of this U.S. president born on Feb. 22. 10 Feb. 24 is National Tortilla Chip Day. This KCK company is known for its salsa, chips and tortillas available at local grocers. 11 Feb. 9 is National Pizza Day. This KC pizzeria is known for its slogan, “Gourmet, and going to stay that way.” 12 According to CandyStore.com, conversation hearts are the most popular valentine candy in this state. 13 On Feb. 9, 1920, the city council approved a plan to build the 217-foot ____ Memorial.

the new KC Wheel, now at home in this entertainment district. (two words) 4 According to CandyStore.com, heart-shaped boxes of chocolate are the most popular valentine candy in this state. 7 This KC-based company has been selling valentine cards since 1913. 8 Feb. 27 is Polar Bear Day. What is the name of our city’s resident polar bear? 9 Number of Super Bowl games won by the Kansas City Chiefs. 13 The special name for the last day of February in 2024.

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DATENIGHT SAIL AWAY WINE North Kansas City, just north of downtown KCMO, has a vibrant food and drink scene, and one of our favorite places for both is Sail Away Wine. This wine tasting bar and eatery is the first of its kind in the KC area and offers around 70 wines to try from all over the world. A free wine passport allows you to sample as many wines as you like from the tasting machines and keeps track of the amount you spend. Samples range from $1.40 to more than $10, depending on the wine and the size of the pour. Each wine offers three different sizes of pours. In addition to wine, the establishment has a great food menu. The star is the flatbread. Each one we have tried has been delicious! And on Mondays, they are buy one, get one free! The menu also has meat and cheese boards, salads and small plates. In addition to food and wine, Sail Away has live music on Tuesdays and trivia on Sundays.

J. RIEGER & CO. For a great tour, head to J. Rieger & Co., a local distillery. Even if you aren’t a fan of liquor, or even alcohol, this tour is worth the time and money because this place has a fascinating history. Originally founded in 1887, the company was the largest mail order whiskey house in the U.S. prior to Prohibition in 1920. It boasted a customer base of more than 250,000. But Prohibition, sadly, forced its closure. Almost 95 years later, in 2014, the brand was relaunched—and it is well poised to be here in 95 more years. Not only does J. Rieger & Co. have top-notch distilled whiskey, gin and vodka, but also a beautiful facility, featuring the swanky second-floor Monogram Lounge (which overlooks the distillery production floor) and the basement Hey Hey Club with a speakeasy vibe. Both serve food and drinks. The spot also offers the Electric Park Garden Bar, open seasonally and featuring an outdoor food truck and bar, lounge seating, fire pits and a swing set table. To top off your visit, be sure to experience the 40-foot slide that will deliver you back to the main level once you are finished on the second floor. It’s a fun—and fast—way to avoid the stairs!

BRICK RIVER CIDER CO. Brick River Cider Co., which opened last March, is the first cidery in Kansas City. It is surrounded by other great breweries in the Crossroads but stands out because of its offerings. You might think you were headed to a winery based on the “semi-dry” and “semi-sweet” descriptions for the ciders, but don’t be fooled. These ciders are high on flavor but low in alcohol content, which means you can have more than one! Each one averages around 5% ABV. My husband and I each ordered a flight of four to try, and we enjoyed them all! The Homestead, which is one of the flagship ciders, was a clear favorite. Brick River also has a good food menu. We shared a Texas flatbread with pulled pork to start and liked it so much that we ordered a second one. We look forward to trying some of the other menu items on our next visit. Highly recommend! Hannah Berry is a freelance writer who lives in the Northland with her husband. They love to explore Kansas City and try new restaurants and activities. Check out her Facebook page, Out & About in KC.

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WOMEN’SHEALTH

ECZEMA:

It’s Not Just Dry Skin

inter can be especially challenging for little ones dealing with itchy, painful, dry patches that are the hallmark of eczema. This skin disorder is more bothersome and painful than the dry skin many of us experience during cold, dry winter months. There’s no single treatment that’s right for every person, so it can be a challenge to find the right combination of lotions and medications to keep flares under control.

WHAT IS ECZEMA? Eczema, also known as atopic dermatitis, is a skin condition that causes dry, itchy and red skin, usually in patches. The exact causes aren’t known. Most experts agree that a complex interaction between the immune system and the environment leads to symptoms. Eczema rashes typically come and go, depending on triggers. Most little ones are more sensitive to flare-ups in winter when the air is cold and dry. Eczema is very common in infants and young toddlers. The chance of development increases by 40%-50% when one or both parents have a history of eczema or other allergies. Symptoms usually resolve by age

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2 but may be a precursor to a diagnosis of asthma or allergies later in childhood.

Symptoms The hallmark symptom of eczema is a dry, itchy rash usually described as patchy. In light skin tones, the patches are often red. The color may appear gray, dark brown or even purple in darker skin tones. In babies, the rash is often on the cheeks or around the mouth. As they get older, toddlers and older children start to have patches in flexural areas—think the inside of the elbow or behind the knee. Hands and feet are common sites too. Other symptoms parents may notice include fussiness or difficulty sleeping. When your skin is dry and itchy, it’s hard to be happy!

MANAGING ECZEMA CARE The cornerstones of eczema treatment are a consistent daily skincare routine and avoiding substances that trigger flare-ups.

Bathing and daily care A consistent skincare routine helps improve the moisture barrier and provides comfort. Some general measures include:

Daily bath routine • Use lukewarm water and keep the bath short; five to 15 minutes is enough. Use unscented, mild soap at the very end to clean the skin. • Pat the skin dry with a soft towel. • Immediately apply a thick moisturizing cream or balm to moisturize the skin. • Allow it to dry a bit before putting on clean clothing. Cotton or other natural fibers are best. Other measures • Apply the moisturizer of your choice two to three times per day. • Cool compresses may soothe irritation. • Colloidal oatmeal baths are also soothing. • Avoid scratching—keep those fingernails short! The baby aisle is filled with lotions, creams and ointments/balms. How do you choose? During an eczema flare, look for an unscented ointment or balm with emollient and occlusive properties to hydrate and lock in moisture. Petroleum jelly and coconut oil are common ingredients. Lotions soak in quickly, while balms and ointments create more of a barrier.

Triggers Young children’s skin is sensitive. Over time, you will likely recognize and understand what triggers your child’s flares. These can include: • Moisture (sweat) • Dry air (winter) • Heat and sweating • Scents in lotions, soaps and detergents • Pet dander • Dust

Medical treatments When eczema flares do occur, your little one may benefit from medications that help soothe and lessen the irritation. Steroid creams are a mainstay of eczema treatment. These anti-inflammatory creams decrease the inflammation, pain and itching on localized patches. Hydrocortisone is one steroid cream you can purchase over the

counter. There are several other strengths and types of steroids that your child’s doctor might prescribe. Phototherapy may help decrease symptoms in some children. This treatment is usually prescribed by a dermatologist. Other medications decrease or alter the immune system’s ability to respond to certain triggers. These are reserved for challenging cases that don’t respond to other treatment options. They are usually prescribed by a dermatologist. Superficial skin infections can also occur during flare-ups. Your health care provider may prescribe antibiotic treatment depending on the severity of the infection. Eczema flares are miserable for little ones and their caregivers. If you’re concerned your child may have eczema, call your pediatrician for evaluation and

advice. Although there isn’t a cure, several treatments help decrease the itch and pain caused by flares.

Joleen Sams is a family nurse practitioner who lives in Shawnee with her rowdy bunch of a family. Caring for children and families has always been a passion, and she loves the opportunity to share knowledge with wider audiences. References Johns Hopkins Medicine, “Managing Eczema in Winter and Year-Round” National Eczema Association, “Eczema Treatment For Children” American Academy of Pediatrics, “How to Treat & Control Eczema Rashes in Children”

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oughly half of Americans send their 3- to 5-year-olds to preschool. Many parents have their sights set on academic preparation for formal school years. Once kindergarten was the warm-up zone for elementary school and beyond, but now families are seeking earlier interventions and head starts with the hope that an extra year or two of structured learning will make a difference in test scores down the road—or, at the very least, help Little Jimmy or Suzie feel less trepidation about separation anxiety upon entering elementary school. Still others view preschool with less lofty ambitions: Preschool is a place for social interactions among peers. It’s an opportunity to learn to share, stand in line, take your turn and generally learn how to get along with others. Still others look at it as a way to provide structure for a child’s week while providing parental space to work, run errands or fulfill any number of other responsibilities parenting requires sans-kids.

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Not all preschools are equal, and it’s important that you know what you’re looking for. Many public and private schools offer preschool programs, and church and independent preschools abound as well. Just as programs vary, so do price tags. Preschool can cost a pretty penny but can be done on the cheap as well. And as the expression declares, not all classrooms have four walls. A growing trend, nature schools are making their way to the United State, providing rich learning opportunities that take place largely outdoors. Some parents recognize intuitively that they are drawn to a particular learning model, such as Reggio-Emilio, Montessori or Waldorf, which helps narrow the field. You’ll consider other factors too. Classroom size is important—the smaller the ratio of students to teacher the better. Proximity to your home or workplace is worth weighing too. Also consider the quality of the instructors. How many have early childhood education degrees and longterm experience? And does the program have low teacher turnover? Scheduling flexibility is another factor to look at. Does the preschool offer options for half- or fullday attendance or schedules of two to five days a week? For Olathe mom Emily Hunt, proximity was of prime concern. “We wanted something close to our home that was focused more on social interaction and not academic goals,” she comments. Landing at a local Baptist church preschool program, the Hunt crew couldn’t be happier. Both of her children, six years apart, had similar experiences with continuity of care (both had the same director and two of the same teachers). For Spring Hill mom Emily Murphy, finding the right preschool for her 3-yearold was akin to interviewing a job candidate. After extensive research, she limited the field to a handful of local preschools, which she then toured. “I asked about curriculum used, what their communication stream was like between parent and teacher, as well as how they handled discipline. It was important to me that no question was too small, and I didn’t feel rushed in the

process,” she says. Ultimately, Murphy landed on a program whose director was well-versed in resources that Murphy found helpful as a parent, such as The Whole Brained Child. The icing on the cake was having a local friend whose child was also attending the same class as her son.

seatwork too early, it backfires, causing children to harbor resentment toward the learning experience. Pushing left-brain cognitive learning before securing social emotional bonds is akin to putting shoes on before socks.

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Just as there are many reasons why parents opt to sign their children up for preschool, so there are equally as many reasons why families opt out. Some of these reasons include financial restrictions, scheduling challenges, health concerns (preschool brings with it a myriad of germs and illness) or simply wanting children to have the freedom of unstructured play within a fleetingly short season of childhood. For Jaimi of TheStay-at-HomeMom SurvivalGuide.com, flexibility was a key motivation to do preschool at home with her 4-year-old daughter. “I loved that preschool at home was flexible. There was no driving to drop off and then back to pick up. If we had a playdate or appointment in the morning, we could do our preschool time in the afternoon. We also had the ability to cut the activity time short or extend it based on my child’s interest and my time,” she says. Learning takes place organically within the home and doesn’t particularly need to have an expensive program to go with it. Sorting, for instance, can be figured out by putting away clean utensils or sorting laundry by types (whites, darks, delicates, etc.). Nature walks, playdates, reading hour at the library and field trips enhance the work done at home. Simple rhythms like reading together at bedtime or starting the day with a simple calendar routine (singing days of the week or months of the year, for instance) can establish a sense of structure to a day. And don’t forget the most important part of all: play. Mr. Rogers said, “Play is often talked about as if it were a relief from serious learning. But for children play is serious learning. Play is really the work of childhood.” Psychoanalyst Erica Komisar asserts that when we push structured

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• NASA applicants are asked how they played as a child. • Animals that play live longer. • “Genius grant” winners of the MacArthur Foundation had twice the likeliness of winning the grant if they spent more time in active play. So pass on the flashcards and instead focus on open-ended toys like train tracks, wooden blocks, felt finger puppets, playsilks, rag dolls, Duplo Legos or Magna-Tiles. If you’re looking for a program, you can start by finding free printables or curated book lists on Pinterest then simply check recommended books out from your local library. Or consider using pre-built thematic preschool units your library has already compiled, including books, audiobooks, CDs and DVDs on topics ranging from weather to transportation to getting a cold. Looking for thoughtful resources, arts, crafts, songs and more? Consider these resources available for purchase:

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Lauren Greenlee is a boymom of four children ranging from toddler to teenagers. She writes from her Olathe home. kcparent.com february 2024

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Birthday Traditions

raditions give us a sense of comfort, purpose and belonging. We can rely on them like old friends, and we call on them periodically to keep us connected and to give symbolic meaning to special moments in our lives, like anniversaries, holidays, vacations and birthdays. I have created more traditions in my tiny cottage with my big old family than I have amassed coffee mugs in my pantry. The joy of traditions captures a moment of time and allows me to part with that time more willingly knowing I’ll revisit that tradition once again in the future! My traditions began long ago when I started saving every wax birthday candle that embellished my children’s birthday cakes. Those little drippy wax candles, some with sparkles, some in the shape of numbers and letters and some still covered in chocolate cake, represent hundreds of wishes and tiny thoughts worth saving to this sentimental mama. I have them all tucked in a giant mason jar sitting on a shelf in our dining room. Every birthday, I reuse a candle from that jar and incorporate it into the theme, color, particular birthday mile marker or special celebration. The sentimental practice is an excellent reflection of how joyful our

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family is to celebrate those we love year after year, decorating the cake with a little piece of the past. Time is fleeting, and as my six children grow, I feel the need to hold tightly to traditions, like I would to an old friend. Traditions can be a great time of reflection, helping us pause to focus on the essential things that strengthen the family. I love tangible tokens that elicit my remembering just by a touch, and that big 1950s faded blue Mason jar now sits on my shelf, holding decades of birthday songs, silent wishes and great family moments. So that’s how one of my little birthday traditions began. Are you ready to create some of your own? Traditions can be monotonous and exhausting if you don’t simplify them and infuse them with meaning. If you’re not careful, they can rob you of the moment you wish to capture and save, depleting your joy. Traditions also require more heart than financial investment—and a little planning too. It’s kind of like saying grace before you eat a meal and break bread: Whether you bow your heads and fold your hands or offer thanks for the hands that prepared the meal, you are creating a tradition. These moments of tradition offer the security of coming together to eat a meal and acknowledge how vital faith and family are. By incorporating traditions into birthdays, you can give your child a gift that is more than a material item. It’s a heartfelt spiritual connection they can “open” for years to come.

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B is for banners! Themed birthday parties are fun and very personal, but sometimes we get carried away with the theme and lose focus on what or whom we are celebrating. It can also get expensive, matching all the plates, banners, napkins, cups, hats, balloons and yard art! Party City is like an amusement park for birthday party planning. I used to stand befuddled, staring at large and flamboyant balloon bouquets, matching plastic silverware and giant yard art and wondering whether the disposable decorations mattered more to my kids or to me. One year, I finally decided to ditch the commercial birthday banners that eventually ended up in the trash and make our own that I could bring out annually and hang up the night before, welcoming another year of growth and experience. I personalized it with ribbons, glitter, photographs, stickers and trinkets that I’d collected. I use the same banner for each child, so it features a bit of each of their personalities sprinkled among the “Happy Birthday” letters. The sentimental aspect of birthdays persuades me to put a little piece of mama in all aspects of their special day. Thoughtful touches you just can’t buy. Time is better spent adding to a “forever” birthday banner every year than contributing to a disposable birthday pile so easily forgotten.

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PARTYGUIDE to be sliced, smash them together. Let your kids pick out their favorite cake and ice cream flavors, select some great additions like sprinkles, whipped cream, chocolate syrup or crumbled cookies, and layer away. It takes me back to my old Dairy Queen days when my mom would treat us to the round ice cream cake with chocolate, peanuts, crunchies and chocolate ice cream. Sometimes, the flavors and textures of homemade ice cream cake made by Mom, Dad or Grandma surpass the professionally decorated, store-bought versions. Surprise your kids with a unique concoction made by you, especially for their special days!

R is for random acts of kindness I is for ice cream smash cake! Ice cream and cake are a timeless complementary combo. They are even better when they are smashed together, separated by chocolate fudge layers and sprinkles and covered in frosting. (We can thank the ancient Greeks for the cake tradition—birthday cakes were initially shaped into little round moons and adorned with candles to mimic the moon’s glow.) Instead of pulling a variety of ice cream flavors from the freezer only to melt on the countertops while the cake stands alone in its candle glow waiting

In a world of me, mine and I, there is no better way to leave an imprint in other people’s lives than by spending your birthday loving on others. Shift the focus away from a “celebration of me” to a “celebration of what I can do to encourage, edify and make someone else’s life better because I exist.” We all want to impact others positively, and encouraging your kids to share kindness with others, even on their birthdays, is a true gift. Write a letter or send flowers to a friend or family member, compliment a random stranger, offer to pick up groceries for your elderly neighbor, walk your friend’s dog, buy someone coffee in the drive-through or donate to a food bank. One year, we had a birthday party for my

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Learning how to celebrate your children’s birthdays through tradition is a meaningful and loving way to make them feel valued, honored and secure in their family—and it brings intentionality into the home. Home is the birthplace of tradition, and it beckons us to give our children a sense of connection with their past as they reach new milestones yearly. Whether you decide to plant a tree and take a photo with that tree every year, write a birthday letter to your child, fill your child’s room with balloons before dawn, conduct a birthday interview, serve a special birthday dinner of a favorite meal or hang a personalized birthday banner, you are creating birthday traditions that will last a lifetime. Ronald Reagan once said, “Wherever a beautiful soul has been, there is a trail of beautiful memories.” These words resonate with my motherhood! I want my children to look back as they age and see a beautiful trail of memories behind them formed by traditions I’ve created for their beautiful souls.

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hy do you talk like that?” I heard the question come from behind me as I helped another child in the Sunday school class. “It’s just the way I am,” I heard my sister-in-law wisely answer the curious boy. My sister-in-law, Kara, was born with cerebral palsy. She was helping me in the classroom that day when one of the kids noticed her speech was different. After years of questions about her differences, Kara has learned to answer, “It’s just the way I am.” Our kids have grown up around their beloved Aunt Kara and accept her as she is, but there did come a time when each of them asked about Kara’s disability and why it makes her different. Chances are, at some point, your child will meet someone at school or in the community who has disabilities. It is normal for children to have questions about people who are different, which means parents should be prepared to answer their questions in an intelligent and appropriate way. Here are some tips to get the conversation started.

Everyone is different but the same All of us have unique gifts, personalities and challenges. No two people are the same, and this is a great thing because diversity makes life interesting and fun. While we are all different, everyone has things in common too. All people, including people with disabilities, want to have friends, be shown respect and have the desire to be accepted. Encourage your child to embrace the differences of others and find common ground, february 2024 28 kcparent.com kcparent.com

as well. If your child is interested in a popular television show, book, toy or game, chances are a person with special needs is too. Ask your kids what they love to do. My guess is they will be happy to tell you. “People with disabilities don’t need or want people to fix them,” says Jawanda Mast, parent of a child with Down syndrome and founder of #321 Advocate. “We all face challenges and need different types of support. People with disabilities are the same.”

Explain different types of disabilities Some disabilities are obvious and some are not. Some people may need a walker or wheelchair to help them move around. Others may have a cognitive (thinking) disability that is not as visible. Explain in simple terms that people struggle with different things and may need a little extra help from a physical tool (like a wheelchair) or help from others. “I would like parents to tell their child it is OK to be curious and ask questions. It is not OK to stare,” says Michelle Lyons. People can have impairments with sight, hearing, walking, speech, cognition or a variety of other things. “Acknowledge your child’s curiosity and help them as a normal person with an extra challenge,” says Olathe mom Krystal Laws. It is important to note that just because someone is in a wheelchair, it does not mean they have a cognitive disability. Also, disabilities are not contagious, and children are not going to “catch” the disability. These things may sound obvious to adults, but children process things differently and many have these questions.

Name calling is never OK Emphasize that people with disabilities have feelings too. Name calling is hurtful, is disrespectful and is a form of bullying. People with disabilities need others to stand up for them when they cannot stand up for themselves. Encourage your child to tell an adult if kids are teasing another child. “Talk to your children about including people with disabilities and people who are different for birthday parties, games, playdates, and to sit with them at lunch,” says Mast. “They want to be included like everyone else.” Your child can be an example to others by being kind and respectful. Parents can set an example by using positive language and behavior toward others, as well.

A note about “rude” comments Kids are curious and love to ask questions. Many times they will speak exactly what is on their mind, without thinking about whether the comments will be hurtful. This can be very embarrassing to parents. So what do you do if your child blurts out a rude and embarrassing comment? Start by answering calmly and matter-offactly. If, for example, your child says, “Why is that boy in a wheelchair?” Simply answer, “He needs it to move around. Why don’t you say hello?” If the child is reluctant, say hello to him yourself along with something like, “John likes trains. Do you like trains too?” If the person accompanying the child responds, follow his lead. It is always better to treat others as you would like to be treated than to hurry away in an embarrassing situation. Later, when you are at home, you can ask your child whether he has any other questions about others with disabilities and reinforce the value of treating everyone equally. “Don’t be embarrassed that your child is staring and pull them away,” says Marie Taylor, Olathe mom of two. “If you do that, they will think it’s something to be afraid of. Encourage them to say hello and ask questions. Once they know,

see and understand, it’s like there are no differences.” My sister-in-law, now 45 years old, has been asked many questions over the years, some rude and some just curious. She has learned to handle them well because she knows that, just like anyone else, she has challenges to overcome and successes to celebrate. Kara loves watching movies, dancing to music and taking care of animals. She loves eating candy, pizza and tacos. She is fun to be around and loves to get out and explore new places. People with disabilities are just people. Sometimes that simple fact is all kids need to know.

Books with Differently-Abled Characters All My Stripes: A Story for Children with Autism by Shaina Rudolf Brilliant Bea: A Story for Kids with Dyslexia and Learning Differences by Shaina Rudolf Katie Can: A Story About Special Needs by Erin Palmer Different: A Great Thing to Be! by Heather Avis When Charlie Met Emma by Amy Webb Tic and Twitch: A Story About Tourette Syndrome by Melisa Mederos I Am Different, The Same As You by Deborah Okon

Sarah Lyons is an Olathe mom of six kids. She tries to teach her kids to respect others’ differences and appreciate their own.

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hile it feels strange to be reading about summer camp with snow and cold temperatures still plaguing us, believe it or not, you are right on time! Camp registrations start soon (some probably already have), so let’s take a look at how to tackle this sometimes overwhelming process. Whether you are looking into single day or weeklong camps, or even overnight ones, the best place to start is by figuring out what interests your children. Just because you want them to participate in something doesn’t mean they will want to … and why waste the money or haggle with your kids each time they must go? Meredith, mom of one, says, “My husband and I both enjoyed playing tennis when we were in elementary school, so we signed our 8-year-old up for a weeklong half-day camp. She didn’t enjoy it, and luckily we hadn’t made a long-term commitment of time and money to lessons.”

Once you’ve narrowed down interests, look at your family calendar and determine which days and weeks are available. While doing this in February can be difficult, at least plug in the things you know to be nonnegotiable. At this time, you’ll also want to consider just how busy you want the schedule to be, which can be different depending on how many children you have and what they are involved in. I thought scheduling several activities into June and basically nothing in July last summer would be great for our family. The reality was having so much downtime in July was difficult for all four of our kids—and me— so we’ll definitely plan things differently this year! Once you have determined interests and schedules, do the actual research to see what last piece of the puzzle will fit … the camps! Angie, mom of two, says, “Start researching camp options early. Some camps offer a discount if you register early, plus this also guarantees a spot for your child in the camp that best fits with your schedule.” Meredith says, “We waited too long to enroll last year and missed out on a few opportunities we had hoped to participate in.” Don’t let the many local and nearby options overwhelm you. Chat with other families to see what camps or places come recommended—and maybe even see whether a classmate wants to join your child in camp. This could be particularly helpful if considering an overnight camp. Summer camp is a time-honored tradition that can create a lifetime of memories. “We are lucky to live in an area with so many great resources!” Meredith says. “City and county recreation centers, school districts, gyms and dance studios offer a wide variety of camps that last anywhere from an hour to a full day. You name an activity, and I bet there is a camp for it!” So, get out there, do your research and start registering!

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hroughout the 20th century, traditional summer camps boasted an unplugged and otherwise vintage experience, allowing children to partake in activities their grandparents would have indulged in as kids. These experiences are still in the majority, but specialized camps are a growing trend, offering fully structured opportunities for campers to explore everything from computer coding to stand-up comedy. In fact, some camps boast that their specialized training provides a competitive edge for kids when they go back to school, making the camp experience sound more like a summer school than the lazy, hazy days you might have loved as a kid yourself. Not surprisingly, there has been pushback from this trend, and traditional camp experiences are on the rise. Just what is so special about a classic summer camp experience?

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shuttled to extracurriculars at an unprecedented rate. From long days at school to soccer practice and piano lessons, finding a way off the carousel of frenetic activity often requires a leave of absence. Camp provides just that: a chance to breathe without fear of what might be missed.

cut screen time cold turkey, reminding kids there is so much to do that doesn’t require the internet or batteries. Unplugged time outside cures the modern “nature deficit disorder” that plagues so many youth of today. And with all this newfound time, kids are typically increasingly physically active and creative.

It gives a kid a chance to establish a new identity. Oftentimes, when kids are together throughout the school year, cliques form and categorizing takes place. There are the smart one, the quiet one, the athletic one and the like. Summer camp shakes everything upside down, giving kids an opportunity to meet with a completely new group of future friends from different schools, communities and, in some cases, even nations.

It reinforces independence. All that you teach your kids is put to the test when you’re not there to mediate every choice. It’s on them to navigate sticky situations with fellow campers, brush their teeth without reminder and tidy up their bunk. Lauren Greenlee was a big-time summer camp enthusiast growing up. She writes and is raising four kiddos from her Olathe home.

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TASTYTREATS

Valentine’s Recipes You’ll Love to Share (Family Features) If the way to your loved one’s heart is through the stomach, there’s no better way to start off this Valentine’s Day than with a homemade breakfast prepared with love. Whether you’re whipping up a breakfast for a spouse with a sophisticated palate or trying to tempt the taste buds of your littlest loves, explore these ideas to get inspired. • Red is the color of love, so build your menu around fresh strawberries or raspberries, which pair perfectly with French toast or crepes and can even dress up a simple cereal. • For a more sensible menu, opt for a fruity berry smoothie or a parfait layered with fresh fruit, low-fat yogurt and granola. Add a hint of loving indulgence by sprinkling dark chocolate shavings on top. • Show your affection with a plate of these colorful Cocoa-Kissed Red Velvet Pancakes, featuring rich 100% cocoa, buttermilk and fresh berries. Heart-shaped cookie cutters lend a special touch to these fluffy, flavorful confections. Add sweet garnishes like powdered sugar and berries for a sensational way to say “I love you.” Find more recipes you’ll love to share with your nearest and dearest this Valentine’s Day at Culinary.net.

Cocoa-Kissed Red Velvet Pancakes Recipe courtesy of Nestlé Servings: 10 pancakes

Ingredients

Directions

1 c. all-purpose flour 1/4 c. granulated sugar 3 T. Nestlé Toll House Baking Cocoa 1 t. baking powder 1/2 t. baking soda 1/2 t. salt 1 large egg 1 c. reduced-fat buttermilk or low-fat milk 2 T. unsalted butter, melted 1-1/2 t. vanilla extract 1 t. red food coloring Heart-shaped pancake cutters or cookie cutters (optional) Butter, powdered sugar, maple syrup, fresh berries for garnish (optional)

In large bowl, combine flour, sugar, baking cocoa, baking powder, baking soda and salt; stir well. In separate large bowl, whisk together egg, buttermilk, unsalted butter, vanilla extract and food coloring. Add to flour mixture and stir to combine. Allow mixture to sit 5 minutes. Heat nonstick skillet or griddle over medium heat. Brush with oil or butter. Add about 1/4 cup batter to skillet. Cook about 2 minutes or until bubbles start to form on top. Flip and cook 1-2 minutes more or until bottom is lightly browned. Serve immediately with butter, powdered sugar, syrup and berries if desired. Tip: If using pancake or cookie cutters, be sure to coat with oil so pancakes don’t stick. Place cutters in skillet and pour batter into cutters. Remove cutters before flipping. kcparent.com february 2024

LISTENING SKILLS and Why They Are So Important for Kids

Listening skills begin to develop in childhood. Listening skills help our children become better participants in the world around them, better students in school and better communicators overall.

e’ve all been there. We ask our children to put on their shoes or pick up a toy. We ask again, and again … and again … until one of us gets frustrated enough to do the task we’re requesting. You may have younger toddlers with selective or distracted listening skills. You may also have older children who think listening to their parents is uncool or annoying. Regardless, listening skills are important for everyone! We want a spouse who hears our needs and contributes around the home. We want kids who are part of our family and participate in the tasks that help manage the household. Listening to each other is important not just to keep the home and family running smoothly, but because listening can be a sign of respect.

Why are listening skills important for kids? Listening skills don’t just happen in childhood then become forgotten well into adulthood. Listening skills are developed and practiced starting from childhood. Listening skills help our children become better participants in the world around them, better students in school and better communicators overall.

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By listening to adults and those around them, younger children can take in and interpret language and develop their comprehension skills. They can hear about a task and then complete the task as it was asked of them. Listening doesn’t just mean that you’ve heard someone else talk or make a noise either. Listening is an active quality. It means that we’ve taken in the information

shared with us and fully absorbed it. Listening to someone else means that we can respond and give feedback on what they’re saying. It means we are capable of following instructions asked of us, engaging in a conversation or sharing something about ourselves. All this is an important part of being a person! This is something children should know as they grow. It allows them to participate in conversations both at home and in the classroom—the two most important places they likely spend most of their time. Eventually, children will carry these skills into the workplace and into adult interactions. Children who are good listeners grow up to become good communicators.

Why do some kids have poor listening skills? Poor listening skills can be due to low concentration, negativity or other behavioral circumstances. Sometimes children have trouble listening because of circumstantial factors such as accent, tone or the length of the conversation. However, poor listening skills can also have underlying developmental or medical causes, such as an auditory processing disorder. If you’re concerned about your child’s ability to listen, speak with your doctor, who may request a hearing test or further evaluation to get to the root cause of your child’s struggles to listen.

What can parents do to help improve listening skills? As the saying goes, practice makes perfect. But what about practice makes progress? As parents, we can get ahead of our children’s developmental skills. We can notice needs and enforce habits around our homes so that others outside our homes can continue building on the communications groundwork we’ve laid. By enforcing listening skills within the walls of our homes, we lay the groundwork for effective listening skills throughout our

kids’ lives. We can play games and have our younger children practice these skills with older siblings. After all, one of the most effective ways to improve listening skills is to model good listening skills.

Model good listening skills It’s probably been a while since you’ve been in a preschool or kindergarten classroom. But when a teacher or adult in a classroom full of younger children wants to get students’ attention, the teacher typically presents some sort of call and response. “Class, class?” the teacher asks firmly. “Yes, yes!” the students usually respond. By doing this, the teacher has modeled a format of question and response. She asks for their attention. The students respond to show she has their attention. And then the subsequent expectation is that the students will now listen to what she has to say afterward. Modeling listening skills happens daily in classrooms in many formats. It can also be modeled in our homes. Even if you don’t have a catchy call and response for your children!

Speak less We’ve all done it—it’s easy to speak for our children. As adults, we’re used to moving quickly. We’re able to accomplish tasks and answer questions with ease. However, children’s brains aren’t as developed as ours are, and they tend to process more slowly. Make sure you’re not always talking or answering questions for your child. Wait for a longer response time than you may think you need. Ask, then wait. If your child struggles to respond, of course you may help. But sometimes a child just needs a longer time than we expect to think something through.

conversation. This helps children feel a sense of responsibility and expectation, which, in turn, improves listening skills. Be sure to demonstrate through your words and body language that the children are active participants in the conversation. They will then be more likely to demonstrate the ability to follow verbal cues and communicate effectively.

Teach active listening As any skill, active listening must be taught—even if we adults don’t often think about it! Focus on your and your child’s body language, asking follow-up questions and limiting interruptions. Of course, these practices may not always be in play in our day-to-day lives. However, if you feel your child is struggling with listening skills, you may want to go back and consider these points. Take a step back. Ask follow-up questions. Allow kids time to answer. Model active listening. Some things you can do at home to help your child’s listening skills develop might include: • Take a five senses nature walk. • Ask questions after reading a story. • Read and follow a recipe. • Identify sounds inside or outside the home. • Play listening games. Listening games that help with development: • Red Light Green Light • Simon Says • Mother May I? • Telephone • Musical Chairs

Allow the child to lead the conversation Get to know the children. Figure out what they like, their interests and their personalities. By doing this, we can allow children to take the lead in the

A former teacher turned writer, Kailyn Rhinehart writes from Warrensburg, Missouri, where she lives with her husband and two kids. kcparent.com february 2024

ignite a love of literacy

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eading is one of my favorite hobbies. I read in print, listen to audiobooks and listen to book podcasts. I have my own Little Free Library and my own Bookstagram account, and I have started four book clubs—the one I host now just celebrated its first anniversary! I bring books to read when I substitute teach. I did read to my children all throughout their childhoods and still do read to my boys every night. In spite of all of this, only two of my three kids loves to read. So how do we encourage the love of reading in our kids, especially the reluctant readers in our families? I grew up relishing reading. I loved The Baby-sitters Club series by Ann M. Martin, the Shiloh series by Phyllis Reynolds Naylor and everything by Roald Dahl. When I became a parent, I prioritized reading to my kids and read to them as infants before each nap and bedtime as part of our routine. I would read picture books most of the time, but for their long afternoon naps I read the entire Narnia series by C. S. Lewis to each of them when they were infants. It will always hold a special place in my heart. We have done many read-alouds since then, and my daughter got hooked with the Junie B. Jones series by Barbara Park when she was a fresh reader and she just took off. She has been reading constantly since then, and now we can share and talk about books we love. As long as she has a pile of books at the ready, she’s always reading something. Now, has she always scoffed at all my recommendations? Yes. But has she also loved all my recommendations once she gave them a chance? Also, yes. These days, she reads middle grade, YA and is venturing into some adult fiction, so it’s been fun to share more books and reading experiences with her. My sons are a different story. They are great readers, but they haven’t fallen in love with the act of reading and being sucked into a story quite like my daughter and I have. My older son has enjoyed a few book series, including the Ali Cross series by James Patterson and the Double Vision series by F. T. Bradley, and it was often with the help of positive peer pressure because friends were talking about them. I recently got him into reading my copies of Roald Dahl books and have been back to reading aloud to him while he builds with Legos. I’m reading The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins, and I’m hoping once we read the first book, he will want to pick up the next in the series. But if he doesn’t, I will gladly keep reading to him. My younger son is at the perfect age to fall in love with reading. I’m soaking up all the picture books with him since this special time is fading, and I honestly love a good picture book! Plus, I’m making sure he gets his reading minutes logged with either his reading to me from a grade-level chapter book or my reading a chapter book to him. These are just some of my favorite memories with my kids, and I’m trying to instill the love in both of my boys during these slower winter months.

So what are some ways to encourage a love of literacy for these kiddos who aren’t gravitating toward reading in either their free or scheduled time? Do a quick search on which books are popular with their grades or email your librarian at your public or school library for some suggestions. Check out some bookish podcasts or browse the lists on their websites for some ideas too. Use peer pressure to your advantage and ask your child’s friend’s parents which books they have been enjoying or suggest their child lend a favorite book to your child. This could lead to a book swap every couple of weeks or even a book club if they get other friends to join them. My daughter loves “making” her friends read her favorite books and loves getting reading “homework” from them in return. Battle of the Books is another great program some schools offer. Even if your school doesn’t yet participate, you could make it a challenge to see whether your child could read the books listed in a certain time period, like a winter book challenge. If your child does well with incentives, consider a reward for pages or books read. Another fun tactic is getting to watch the movie together with a favorite snack after your child has first read the book. If your child isn’t competitive, shift gears toward staying curious and encouraging learning about any topics of interest—because there are bound to be books on those interests. Children can read to learn more about their favorite animal, sport or video game. Or they could read just to laugh—Garfield or Calvin and Hobbes books, for example. Reading should be a pleasurable experience, so it doesn’t always mean reading a real chapter book. As mentioned earlier, my middle son prefers to listen to me read while he builds with Legos or draws, and my daughter has gotten into listening to audiobooks over the past year. I personally love using audiobooks while getting other tasks done, and we have enjoyed a few audiobooks as a family while running errands, shuttling kids to their extracurricular activities and racking up the miles on road trips. Some favorites we’ve listened to together include Echo Mountain by Lauren Wolk and Gregor the Overlander by Suzanne Collins. My favorite middle grade audiobooks are the Nevermoor series by Jessica Townsend. Read-alouds and audiobooks still count and are important because kids are still getting to enjoy the stories while learning new vocabulary and how words are pronounced. Another favorite perk is the inside jokes I now have with my kids about books and stories we have shared together. So if your child hasn’t found a love of reading just yet, don’t be discouraged. Keep reading, keep encouraging and remind your child that school and life will be easier and more interesting the more they read. Stephanie Loux is the mother of Layla, 13, Mason, 12, and Slade, 8, and enjoys sharing her love of reading with her children.

Igniting the love of literacy in each stage Baby/toddler stage Make reading part of your sleep routine with silly board books, funny picture books, vocabulary learning books and even chapter books while rocking to sleep. According to an article by Adizah Eghan on GreatSchools.org, “Research shows that young children need to hear about 21,000 words per day. The simple act of talking to kids helps them develop not just their vocabulary, but their language skills, including listening, memory and speaking.”

Preschool Go to the library each week and let children pick out all the books they want—or maybe you set a limit of five to 10. Then, encourage kids to “read” to their pets or stuffed animals. Continue having reading be a part of your sleep routine and be associated with a fun and relaxing time with you that you both look forward to each day.

Young readers Continue library visits (maybe they can get their very own card!) and bedtime reading routines. Have patience with beginner readers and utilize resources like Bob and Usborne books. Take turns reading: Have your child read one page and then you read the next page. Read at grade level and find books you both enjoy. Encourage all sorts of books on a variety of interests to show that reading helps us learn about the world around us. Don’t stop reading picture books but also find a series you can continue with like The Princess in Black series by Shannon and Dean Hale or The Magic Treehouse series by Mary Pope Osborne. Try some audiobooks using Playaways, available at some libraries.

Middle grades Find the “cool” books and lean into positive peer pressure by encouraging your children to try some books their friends have enjoyed. Leave some suggestions around the house that they can ponder on their own accord or suggest books that have a movie you can watch together afterward. Check out some audiobooks using free library apps like Libby and Hoopla. kcparent.com february 2024

pets enrich life in special ways

ARE YOU READY TO TAKE ONE ON? LET’S SEE …

very child at one time or another asks Mommy and Daddy for a pet—be it a puppy, a kitten, a hamster, a bird or even a bearded dragon! I know this one for sure, because that is what I ended up getting my son. He wanted a snake, and I drew the line. My vet explained that bearded dragons are a better option. We ended up getting Dudley the Dragon and Puff the Magic Dragon. They actually laid an egg, and we had baby Speedy. A learning experience for all of us!

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If you’re pretty sure your family is ready for a pet, My father was a veterinarian, which influenced my how do you select the one that will be the best fit for your life, and my daughter’s and son’s. We have also had family? After all, families are known to squabble about cats, dogs, hamsters and fish, all teaching my children even small decisions like what to eat for dinner or which responsibility, empathy and how an animal can comfort movie to watch. The choice of a pet is a lifelong decision— them in ways they couldn’t imagine. the pet’s life, anyway. Here are several things to consider: How can you tell whether you and your family are ready to handle a pet? A good way to prepare for any • How much space will the pet need and do you have it? pet is to spend time with someone else’s animal. If your • What type of pet will fit best with your work neighbor has a dog, give your children the chance to schedule? You’ll need to allow ample time to care for go over and visit. They can ask the neighbor if they can and interact with the pet. walk the dog, feed him and clean up his poop in the • Is anyone allergic to animals? yard. That last one is a biggie that will help you know whether your children are ready for Get your children involved in all the responsibility. Another great deciding what type of dog or cat or way to test the water is to pet sit for Children have short attention other animal to get, naming him a family member or friend. This spans, so make sure their or her and picking out supplies like trial run will help you see whether desire for a pet is long-lasting. bedding, collars and toys. Kids can your child remains happy to help take part in visiting the vet and, of feed and clean up after the pet. If You don’t want to make a course, lots of snuggling and playing. your child loses interest, you may spur-of-the-moment There are books about animals to need to reconsider. decision on such a read, and the Lucky Dog show on Children have short attention PBS gives detailed ways to train your spans, so make sure their desire for long-term commitment. dog. Visit your local animal shelter a pet is long-lasting. You don’t want to see which type of animal attracts to make a spur-of-the-moment your child’s eye, but if you do, be prepared. You may be decision on such a long-term commitment. Explain tempted to go home with him even that day! that puppies and kittens don’t stay small forever and Pets are a wonderful part of childhood and will foster that they will grow up with your children. They also pet ownership for life. They teach life skills and bring require a lot of care—unlike the favorite stuffed animal families so much happiness and companionship. With a your child sleeps with. Live animals need food and little preparation, you can bring your new family member water, just like kids do, and a safe space to live, which is home with no problem. another consideration. Is your yard fenced? Will there be a safe place for your pet to live? Another thing to consider is whether your children have the maturity to be around animals. If Grandma has a cat, make sure your children understand that they don’t pull her tail and that cats like their space. When you see that your children have love and respect for animals, you are seeing a plus on the side of readiness. One aside: If you have a child who fears large dogs you encounter on walks or shies away when a cat comes close, resist getting your own animal to teach the child to not be afraid. A better option is to visit petting zoos, so your children can touch and feed critters behind the fence and get more comfortable with animals before you venture into pet ownership. Older children are obviously more capable of walking a dog, feeding him and putting him outside An avid outdoors girl, Judy Goppert lives in Lee’s Summit. for bathroom breaks. If your child takes care of himself She enjoys drawing on her personal experiences to write and brushes his teeth, makes his bed and takes out the about the nuances of everything wonderful about life. trash, he is more likely to be able to take care of the Sources: IHPI.UMich.edu, TheDailyPup.com family pet.

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BIG STEPS TOWARD LOVE Accepting a New Stepparent

dding a new stepparent into the family dynamic can be tricky. It’s a journey filled with bumps, sharp turns and even an occasional land mine. And though some growing pains will undoubtedly occur as the family structure shifts, some tools

and resources can help make the transition smoother for everyone. Keep an open mind, lead with love and soon enough you’ll find that there’s a place for everyone.

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THE PROBLEM: Stereotypes for stepparents

HOW TO FIX IT: Remember who it hurts

Entire generations of parents and kids have been raised in pop culture that stereotypes stepparents as evil, untrustworthy and, worst of all, children haters. Cinderella and Snow White certainly had the mothers of all bad stepmothers, and let’s not even get started on Meredith Blake from The Parent Trap. Although these typecasts are wrong and arguably even dangerous, they have undeniably penetrated the conscious minds of kids and families, making the transition for a new stepparent extra tough.

No one says you have to like this new situation. But stalling progress by focusing on insignificant mistakes only causes your children to suffer. Be the bigger person and welcome the new stepparent into your world. After all, they’re new here. Establish early on that everyone’s goal is to make your children’s lives easier, not make the new stepparent’s life harder. If the adults in the room can swallow their pride and establish a baseline of respect, a new rhythm will emerge much faster, and everyone will be happier for it.

HOW TO FIX IT: Shine a new light Changing the negative narrative around a stepparent starts with you. Whether the new stepparent is at home or at your ex’s across town, it’s your job to create a space of encouragement and positivity. Seek out films and literature that shine a constructive light on a blended family. Yours Mine & Ours, Instant Family and even The Sound of Music (if your kids love a musical) are great examples of stepparent-positive movies. Check out library books that encourage positive stepparent relationships too.

THE PROBLEM: Talking trash Big feelings are an inevitable part of this transition. The children and the parents on both sides are adjusting. But when one parent starts finding ways to speak negatively about the incoming stepparent, things can get infinitely worse. Feelings and emotions you have about the new addition are just that: your feelings. Sharing them with your child is a surefire way to make the process longer and harder for everyone.

HOW TO FIX IT: Take it somewhere else It’s perfectly acceptable to have a range of feelings and opinions about a new stepparent joining your children’s lives. And the only appropriate place to discuss those opinions is with your partner, friends or therapist. When you’re in front of your children, keep your lips sealed. Use encouraging language about the new stepparent and find ways to let your children know you are supportive of their developing a relationship with them. Children need to know it’s OK—and important!—to love both parents without being afraid of punishments or penalties.

THE PROBLEM: Breaking out the petty The new stepparent forgot to pack socks for your child. Dock a point. The stepparent was 10 minutes late picking up the child from soccer. Dock another point. Your child’s hair looks more unruly than usual when you pick him up. Dock 40 points. It’s easy to fall into the trap of cataloging every single flaw the new stepparent has and, to make it worse, sharing them with your child. After all, you would’ve done it differently. Better even. Rather than asking how you can help the new stepparent transition into the new role, you actively assist—and secretly delight—in their failure.

THE PROBLEM: Going it alone The disruption of adding a new person into the family is monumental. Everything is changing. New schedules, new menus, new preferences—it can be a lot. Oftentimes, parents on both sides of the aisle feel the answer is to keep their heads down and power through all the disruption.

HOW TO FIX IT: Ask for help Families have been dealing with divorce and second and third marriages for decades, but that doesn’t mean they’ve done it wisely. Burying your collective heads in the sand and hoping for things to get better is not only foolish, it’s a wasted opportunity. If your family is struggling with this very new transition, consider seeking out a family counselor. A third party who can see all sides of the situation will be instrumental in creating a healthy routine and establishing respect for everyone involved. The biggest bonus? Your child will see that it’s OK to ask for help when a situation gets too big. Your family admitting that help is needed isn’t a weakness—it’s a display of true strength.

THREE WAYS TO WELCOME A STEPPARENT TODAY Give grace – When the new stepparent makes a mistake, don’t harp on it. Accept the goof and move on. If you’re feeling extra generous, consider sharing a time you did the same thing. Because, let’s face it, you aren’t perfect either.

Ask for input – If you and your ex are making a decision about something that isn’t significant, ask for the stepparent’s input. No one is asking you to involve them in choosing a college for your child, but they can certainly provide thoughts on the flavor of birthday cake. Involve the co-parent – There are a lot of dynamics that a stepparent is trying to navigate. Involve your co-parent to try to help with the transition. They can act as a buffer because of their shared history with you and the future history with the stepparent. Kim Antisdel is a freelance writer and interior design sales rep for KC. She lives in Liberty with her husband, stepdaughters and son. kcparent.com february 2024

ife seems to get busier and busier as time goes on, doesn’t it? The frenetic pace society embraces is hard to fight against sometimes, but carving out time for the important relationships in your life, namely the one with your kids, is crucial. For our kids to grow and flourish in their emotional wellbeing, they need to develop strong bonds, feel loved and needed, as well as valued for the individuals they are. A simple but effective way to help accomplish this is by spending one-on-one time with your child. You may be thinking, “Simple? Yeah, right! Have you seen our schedule?!” And while I haven’t, I am here to share some ideas that can work with just about anybody’s crazy schedule!

Be intentional

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Make family time a priority. If you don’t, something else is always going to get in the way. Think about scheduling it physically into your calendar and treat it with the same importance you would a meeting at work. Consider a shared family calendar, too, where each person’s commitments can be added and free slots can easily be identified for potentially having a “date” with one of your children.

Be present Man, this one can be so challenging sometimes, right? We are connected to our phones 24/7 it seems, and our brains are always thinking of the next thing, the next to-do that can be checked off the list. However, continuing to check your device, watch TV or think about other things

signals to the other person that your time together isn’t valuable or other things are more important. Unplug for a bit from the texts, emails and the thoughts circling in your head and just be with your kiddo for a time. “We have two boys and a girl, all of which have very different hobbies and interests,” shares Kathleen Russell, Overland Park mom of three. “We try to take each of our kids on a ‘date’ to have time with just them, where we can talk and hang out without phones or distractions.”

Use drive time Alli Gordon, Olathe mom of two, shares how time in the car can be valuable as a “date” opportunity too … and let’s face it, we are all in the car a lot these days running taxi service! “When I’m in charge of taking my oldest to practice and it is just the two of us, I make sure we get a special treat or grab lunch or dinner,” Gordon says. “I ask him about his latest favorite songs and play them. It’s small but very intentional and truly some of my favorite times together because we just don’t get a lot of that these days.”

Involve them Find small ways to involve children in what you are doing. Invite them to help you prepare and cook dinner, clean with you, wash the car or go on a walk with you and the dog. Last fall, I needed to redo some caulking around one of our bathtubs, and I asked my 12-year-old if he wanted to help. It was simple, didn’t cost more than a tube of caulk, and we enjoyed spending time together. He videoed me replacing the caulking (for the YouTube channel we don’t have!), and we laughed and learned with each other along the way. I hope that will be a date he will remember for a while!

they have gotten older and schedules have gotten busier, the dates may be as simple as staying up a little late with Dad and watching a Marvel movie or running to Costco or Starbucks with Mom. Sometimes the simpler the date, the greater the experience!” This couldn’t be more true! You don’t have to spend loads of money or time for a one-on-one experience to be just what the two of you need. Russell agrees: “While date time could be a special trip or going out for breakfast, it could be as simple as getting an Icee while shopping at Sam’s Club together.”

Bring bedtime to bear

Share a hobby

Spending one-on-one time with your kids is going to take intentionality and creativity on your part—and willingness to have an open mind about situations you can possibly turn into a “date.” Even though it is cliche, quality is definitely more important than quantity when it comes to the time together. Our kids need and want us to spend time with them—even if they don’t act like it!

Gordon shares another idea that works for their family. “My son and I both love to read. Sometimes after the younger one goes to bed, I’ll snag him and say, ‘Let’s read.’ We don’t read the same book, but we sit on my bed side by side and read together, and then tell each other what’s happening in our books as we wrap up our time,” she says. Danielle Jodts, Overland Park mom of three, says, “My sons especially share during dates that involve activity (eye contact optional!), so as a non-sporty mom, I try to find ways to involve sports with my third grader. Recently, my 14-year-old and I tried the Fowling Warehouse (think bowling with a football)—so fun for teens!”

We have four kids, and sometimes bedtime is the only one-on-one time we get with the kids in a rather busy week. And while I felt really guilty about this for a while, I have let that go—and you should too! Over the years, bedtime has evolved into being some of the best oneon-one times I have with our kids. They are oftentimes willing to chat and share things they wouldn’t ordinarily share in the light of day. Having this time before bed is a special way to connect and unwind together.

Julie Collett is an Overland Park mom of four. She tries to find simple ways to have one-on-one time with her kids at home— playing a game, reading, making a craft together or her favorite—lying and talking together at bedtime!

Keep it simple Oftentimes, parents make the mistake of thinking dates or one-on-one time has to be big, extravagant or consume hours of time. Emily Dischinger, Louisburg mom of two, says, “Creating dates with our girls has changed over the years. As kcparent.com february 2024

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fter having six children, you would think my vintage yellow trunk would be overflowing with Ninja Turtle costumes, princess dresses, matching Mary Janes and Power Ranger gear. At one point, I couldn’t even close the lid. Ready to accommodate my kids’ vivid imaginative play, the trunk burst at the seams with dress-up gear like police uniforms and The Wonderful Wizard of Oz red sparkly shoes. Now that my youngsters are moving into a more realistic stage of play, I’ve cleaned out all but a few of the costumes for future grandbabies. But the memories linger, and so do all the benefits of imaginative play. Certainly I’ve bought plenty of costumes for trick-or-treating and party events over the years, but I’ve invested more in gathering wardrobe for the creative, developmental and imaginative aspects of dress-up. I love how dress-up nurtures the imagination, develops critical thinking, explores problem-solving, expands vocabulary and helps us imitate behavior by observation. We live in a society fixated on educating our children at a young age. Although that is important, we must remember that learning and play complement one another. Children need to learn how to process their emotions, and parents play a very intricate part in helping them explore through play. There are some things you just cannot learn in a book or computer; you must play to open those neuropathways! Rudolf Steiner, an early 20th century thinker, once said, “The need for imagination, a sense of truth and a feeling of responsibility—these are the three forces which are the very nerve of education.” What a powerful statement on the importance of the multifaceted approach to education through imaginative play! Do you have your costume on yet? Take a few minutes and think back to when you were young. We all have that one photo of

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when we were little ones, standing in our daddy’s loafers or cowboy boots or walking around in our mama’s high heels three times too big. Learning to walk in someone else’s shoes is a concept I wish we could practice today! Oh, the empathy we would have for one another! As parents, we have a duty to strengthen the emotional muscles of our children as they grow. It’s good for us to realize that our children begin dressing up before they can speak! I have had a pirate living under my roof for about a year or so. I’ve also had a policeman with paper handcuffs, a sleeping beauty, a cosmetologist, a Lego master builder, a few cowboys and a cowgirl. One of my favorite places to take my little kids was a local children’s museum that had a learning-through-play interactive experience where youngsters could work in a diner, take care of patients in a hospital, perform a puppet show, deliver mail or work in a grocery store. They were able to dress up, explore and play with others. They loved it! So what are the best imaginative play items to have on hand at home in your old trunk? Let’s explore that together. n Have you ever been asked what you would like to be when you grow up? Clothing and props typical of everyday heroes allow children to role-play, problemsolve and interact with others, fostering empathy for the community and society. Secondhand stores, thrift stores and garage sales are excellent ways to find costumes

for the play! Stethoscopes, dad’s old dress shirts for little white lab coats, firefighter hats and helmets, pillowcases for nurse’s aprons, plastic handcuffs and hammers, Velcro bandages and sunglasses are some manipulatives for kids to use in role-play. n Superman once said, “I think a hero is an ordinary individual who finds strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles.” Superheroes represent the strength, courage and bravery that humans aspire to. They come in all shapes and sizes and have many attributes, such as endurance, speed, perseverance, strength and skill. During great adversity, superheroes have the choice to use their powers for the good of humanity, even when tempted by destruction, greed and control. Many superheroes overcome difficulties and aspire to be their best to edify others. Pick up fabric remnants or use sheets on hand for capes, spandex clothing to fit snugly, a body suit, tall boots or socks, or masks. Be creative and teach kids they can even make up their own superheroes!

n Reach for the stars! Dreaming is vital

for kids and a form of their imagination— and imagination is an excellent way to explore experiences currently out of reach. Outer space is a boundless imaginary destination for boys and girls. They can explore planets, stars and rockets in homemade space suits. My husband had some dryer hose tubing left over from

some laundry room work, and I think my 9-year-old played with that dryer hose for weeks! He made a space suit, duct-taping the tubing to his body suit like an astronaut. It was fantastic to see him create! Have you ever seen a rocket pack made with 2-liter bottles wrapped in aluminum foil? Constructing homemade space suits is so entertaining and captivating for kids!

n “Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in

living; it’s a way of looking at life through the wrong end of a telescope,” the grand Dr. Seuss once said. Bringing the pages of books to life through imaginative costumed play engages that oh-so-necessary skill of reading. Read Anne of Green Gables, Magic School Bus, Where’s Waldo, Dr. Suess, Harry Potter, The Wonderful Wizard of Oz, The Lord of the Rings, Mary Poppins … the list goes on … then bring life to the pages of books through dress-up. When my children were little, some moms would get together and swap costumes over coffee and blueberry muffins. Once I saw a mom swap red sparkly slippers for a Lord of the Rings wig. Oh, the places we will go and the things we do for our children! n “To be or not to be, that is the question,” William Shakespeare penned. Being fully immersed—or dressed—in character makes a deep impression on little people. I still vividly recall a Thanksgiving dinner in elementary school, youngsters gathered around a cafeteria table with handmade woven construction paper placemats. I dressed as a Pilgrim with a black paper hat and velvet coat three sizes too big from my dad’s closet. History is a priceless gift that lets us take a peek into the future while preserving the past. Role-play is an excellent teaching tool for children, allowing them to engage with history through texture. Clothing can communicate the purpose, periods, occupations, cultural markers, environment, function and character background, so bring Cleopatra, Laura Ingalls Wilder, Abraham Lincoln, Amelia Earhart, King Arthur, Medieval knights, Mozart and even Sally Ride to life!

As Albert Einstein once said,

“Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.”

Elizabeth Hammond is a sourdough-baking homeschooling mom of six and a “want-tobe” homesteader living in a tiny cottage in northern Overland Park. kcparent.com february 2024

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GETAWAYS IN THE MIDWEST

February is the month for valentines. It’s also a great time for parents to plan a weekend getaway for some quality time together. Here are a few local ideas.

Firefly Inn in Weston, Missouri

WESTON, MISSOURI Nestled on the banks of the Mighty Mo, Weston is a quaint river town about an hour north of Kansas City. With charming boutique shops, locally owned restaurants, wineries, breweries and a beautiful state park, Weston is a favorite weekend getaway. Where to Stay: Firefly Inn (WestonFireflyInn.com). This bed and breakfast was notably featured in the filming of Lifetime’s Rebuilding a Dream Christmas. The inn has recently been renovated with luxurious accommodations. Guests enjoy a delicious homemade breakfast and Midwestern hospitality at this boutique inn. Memorable Experiences: Sample local wines and beers at local businesses and enjoy a day of shopping for antiques and collectibles on Main Street. Weston Wine Company features a wine tasting room and hosts events throughout the year, including

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murder mysteries and trivia nights. Pirtle Winery, housed in a historic church, has been serving Missouri wines since 1978. Weston Brewing Company celebrates the town’s Irish heritage with its selection of craft beers. More to Do: In the winter months, you may ski or snow tube at Snow Creek. And May through October, the Historic Weston Orchard is a wonderful u-pick farm, cider mill and winery to explore. Year-round, visitors enjoy hiking and biking at Weston State Park where trails offer scenic views overlooking the Missouri River. Where to Eat: O’Malley’s Irish Pub is one of Weston’s most loved landmarks, serving traditional Irish fare. Tin Kitchen is a Southern smokehouse known for homestyle cooking in an old-fashioned setting. The Avalon Café, located in an 1847 home, offers fine American dining.

Where to Stay: Hotel at Old Town (HotelOldTown.com) is walkable to Wichita’s Old Town district, a favorite spot for shopping and dining. The hotel features spacious accommodations, the 1906 Lounge with live jazz on weekends, and a variety of suites to suit your taste.

Audubon’s Hotel and Restaurant in Ste. Genevieve, Missouri

STE. GENEVIEVE, MISSOURI Located near the Mississippi River in the heart of Missouri’s wine country, this small town celebrates its French heritage and history. Where to Stay: Audubon’s Hotel and Restaurant (TheAudubons.com). The charming hotel celebrates John James Audubon and his love for birds with beautiful artwork throughout the hotel. Each room is luxuriously appointed with comfortable mattresses and bedding. The restaurant and bar are open nightly for guests and serve homemade meals and delicious drinks. Memorable Experiences: Of the many wineries in the region, Cave Vineyard with its winery and distillery is one of the most unique. Named for the saltpeter cave on the property, this is one of the few places where you can enjoy locally made wines in a natural cave. This family owned winery sells award-winning wines made from grapes grown on property. On a tour, visitors learn about the wine-making process and have the opportunity to sample the wines, our favorite being the Chambourcin, a medium-bodied dry red. There are many more local wineries to explore in the area. MissouriWine.org More to Do: Ste. Genevieve celebrates its French history at many local museums. The Centre for French Colonial Life features exhibits telling the area’s history and role in the Revolutionary War. The museum also tells of the state’s early settlers who became known as Creoles. The 1806 Guibourd-Vallé House is on the National Register. The home was constructed for Jacques Guibourd with

vertical, hand-hewn log walls and a double-pitched roof, notable as the only historic house in town where visitors can go into the attic to see the Norman truss architecture. The Sainte Geneviève Museum Learning Center is home to Guy Darrough’s collection of dinosaur replicas. Where to Eat: Common Grounds is a special restaurant known for hiring special needs individuals in the community. With a wide selection of affordable beverages, pastries, salads and sandwiches, this is a wonderful lunch spot. Café Genevieve is known for American fare and hospitality. And El Potosino is a favorite Mexican restaurant.

WICHITA, KANSAS This small city in Kansas offers many great options for a weekend getaway. With a one-of-a-kind wildlife experience, historic shopping and dining, and boutique hotels, this is an easy trip from Kansas City.

Memorable Experiences: Tanganyika Wildlife Park is a one-of-a-kind experience animal lovers won’t forget. This unique wildlife park is a truly exceptional place where visitors experience the adventure and wonder of meeting animals up close and personal. Whether it’s feeding giraffes and lemurs, going behind the scenes to meet and feed Amur leopards, swimming with penguins or encountering a new baby animal ... the experiences guests find at Tanganyika make the park one of the most memorable getaways in the Midwest. With the Best Day Bundle, you can experience two animal encounters, unlimited feeding and unforgettable memories. More to Do: Old Town is a favorite Wichita district with many shops and restaurants. Throughout the year, it is the spot for festivals, live music and events. Botanica, Wichita’s 17-acre botanical garden, is a beautiful place to enjoy the outdoors. Tour Frank Lloyd Wright’s Allen House to see the designs and influence of one of the world’s most famous architects and designers. Where to Eat: One of the most romantic restaurants in Wichita is Georges French Bistro. The Sienna Tuscan Steakhouse features upscale Italian cuisine. And the Larkspur Bistro & Bar is a favorite for locals. Kristina Light writes about memorable experiences in Kansas City and great vacations all year long on KCParent.com.

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Celebrate Valentine’s Day with your family at a father-daughter or family Valentine’s dance in your community. You’ll find many on this calendar and a complete guide on KCParent.com.

Celebrating the 17th annual performance of Underground, Störling Dance presents the story of the Underground Railroad through music and ballet. StorlingDance.org

Ice-skate with favorite Disney princesses during the Royalty Skate on Feb. 4 or favorite superheroes during Super Hero Skate on Feb. 18 at 1:00 at The Rink at Zona Rosa. ZonaRosa.com

Celebrate the Year of the Dragon during a Lunar New Year special event at Midwest Trust Center at JCCC (Feb. 4) or Lenexa Public Market (Feb. 11) with entertainment, food and dance.

Experience the 1860s during the Open House at Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm on Feb. 4. Visit with Lucinda Mahaffie over tea, handcrafts and news of the day. Mahaffie.org

1 Thursday The Lightning Thief: The Percy Jackson Musical Thru March 10, the Coterie Theatre. A dynamic new musical adapted from the bestselling book by Rick Riordan! TheCoterie.org PuppyGrams Thru Feb. 17, Great Plains SPCA. Surprise your loved ones, coworkers or yourself with some cute and cuddly puppies to play with and snuggle. GreatPlainsSPCA.org Bricktionary: The Ultimate Lego A-Z Thru March 31, Union Station. Composed of more than 150 custom-built Lego models, Bricktionary is inspired by boundless imagination. UnionStation.org Jumperoo Toddler Time 9:00, Urban Air – Lenexa. Jumpers 5 and under and their guardian are invited to jump, bounce and crawl around safely. UrbanAirLenexa.com Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com Ice-Skating 11:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Enjoy Kansas City’s original outdoor ice-skating rink open thru March 10. Shop and dine at Crown Center as well. CrownCenter.com

First Thursdays in Liberty 4:00, Historic Downtown Liberty. Shops and eateries are open late for customers on the first Thursday of each month. HistoricDowntownLiberty.org

Toddler Time 10:00, Blue Springs Fieldhouse. Children ages 6 months to 5 years old play inside on cars, scooters, slides, playhouse, books, mats and more! BlueSpringsGov.com

Störling Dance Theater’s Underground 7:30, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. The Underground Railroad story told in a historically accurate way through dance. StorlingDance.org

Collection Tour Noon, The Underground. Come visit Kansas City’s car collection in the subterranean facility featuring an eclectic collection of vehicles. KansasCityAutoMuseum.com

Gaslight Thru Feb. 4, 7:30, City Stage. This incredible 1938 Victorian thriller details the dark tale of a marriage based on deceit. KCActors.org

Arty Party 4:30, Indian Creek Library. Explore your creativity and express yourself through a drop-in crafting station. OlatheLibrary.com

2 Friday World of Wheels Thru Feb. 4, KC Convention Center. Indoor custom car show including manufacturers’ displays, specialty and concept vehicles. KCConvention.com Catch Me If You Can Thru Feb.4 at New Theatre & Restaurant. Parks and Recreation star Jim O’Heir leads the charge in this edge-of-yourseat comedy murder mystery! NewTheatre.com Jumperoo 8:00, Urban Air Trampoline Park – Overland Park. Children 5 and under and their parent/guardian are invited to jump, bounce and crawl around safely. UrbanAirOP.com

Fiesta-Themed Father-Daughter Dance Feb. 2 or 3, 6:00, Gamber Community Center. Enjoy this annual valentine event in Lee’s Summit. Register at CityofLS.net/parks. Daddy-Daughter Disco Cowgirl Dance Feb. 2 or 3, 6:00, Vesper Hall. Twirl and groove under the starlit disco ball, creating timeless memories together. BlueSpringsGov.com Dads Night Out Barbecue Dinner 6:30, Church of Christ. Homeschool dads enjoy fellowship, barbecue dinner, a message from Joe Tyler and dessert. MidwestHomeschoolers.org

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Daddy Daughter Dance Opportunities across the metro, all month long. Visit KCParent.com for a full list of valentine fun to help you celebrate. KCParent.com

Early Childhood and Kindergarten Roundup 9:00, the Barstow School. Families interested in Barstow’s early childhood and kindergarten programs are invited. BarstowSchool.org

First Fridays in the Crossroads 7:00, Crossroads Art District. Art galleries, retailers and other participating art venues showcase art for free. KCCrossroads.org Störling Dance Theater’s Underground 7:30, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. The Underground Railroad story told in a historically accurate way through dance. StorlingDance.org

Valentine’s Basket Project 9:00, Home Depot locations across the metro. Free inperson workshop for children. Make a valentine basket this month. HomeDepot.com

Apollon Musagète Quartet 7:30, Folly Theater. Free tickets for students ages 18 and under to attend this creative and charming musical performance. ChamberMusic.org

3 Saturday MPE Women’s Encouragement Day 8:30, Journey Bible Church. Homeschool moms are invited to enjoy food, fellowship and a message brought to us by Zan Tyler. MidwestHomeschoolers.org

Winter Market 9:00, Independence Uptown Market. Come support local businesses and pick out handcrafted items, home-baked goodies and more! IndependenceMo.gov Historic and Primitive Skills: Cold Cordage 10:00, Anita B. Gorman Discovery Center. Learn how Native Americans utilized prairie plants to twist into cordage. MDC.MO.gov Conservation Kids: Nature’s Story Time 10:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Interactive story time learning about Missouri wildlife, plants and more! MDC.Mo.gov

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Hike with a Naturalist 10:30, Lakeside Nature Center. Hike focused on habitats around Lakeside Nature Center. Dress for the weather and enjoy this free program. LakesideNatureCenter.org Penguin March 11:00, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. These fun events are included with admission and occur every Saturday and Sunday thru February. KansasCityZoo.org

Hands On History Noon, National WWI Museum and Memorial. History is brought to life in this program in which guests are invited to handle Great War artifacts. TheWorldWar.org

Back to the ’50s: Bowling Noon, Summit Lanes. Games, shoe rentals, hot dogs and sodas are just 50 cents each with a $5 cover charge. SummitLanes.com

Second Annual Sweetheart Dance 5:00, Thompson Barn. Elegant and fun experience for families, with entertainment focused on our kids. ExploreFoundation.org/sweetheart-dance

Daddy-Daughter Date Night 6:00, The Lodge at Ironwoods Park. Dads, grab your best gal(s), dress in your fanciest threads and head to our winter wonderland. Leawood.org

Knox Classical School Information Meeting Noon, Knox Classical School. Learn about Knox Classical School, offering K-3 beginning fall 2024, at their information meeting. KnoxKC.org

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Sweetheart Ball 6:00, Merriam Community Center. Enjoy tasty treats, games and dancing with DJ Phil. Plus take home a keepsake photo and a sweet surprise! Merriam.org

Mahaffie Open House, 1860s Style 1:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm. Enjoy an open house style visit with Lucinda Mahaffie, sharing tea, handcrafts and the news of the day. Mahaffie.org

Father-Daughter Valentine Dance 7:00, Grain Valley Parks & Rec and Aquatic Center. Dancing, refreshments and prizes will make this date one to remember. CityOfGrainValley.org Lee Brice: Me & My Guitar 7:30, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. Multi-platinumselling country music artist Lee Brice performs. KauffmanCenter.org

4 Sunday Brunch and Bingo 10:00, Chicken N Pickle – Overland Park. Hang out with us every Sunday for free bingo! ChickenNPickle.com

Playtime 8:30, Inspired Play Cafe. Enjoy an educational environment for children and a fullservice cafe with nutritious food and beverages for adults and caregivers. InspiredPlayCafe.com Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Community Center. This activity provides kids a place to run, ride and play while making new friends. Lenexa.com

Royalty Skate 1:00, The Rink at Zona Rosa. Come skate with Beauty and the Beast, Cinderella, Prince Charming and Mulan. ZonaRosa.com

Sensory-Friendly Days 9:00, Johnson County Museum. Come enjoy the Johnson County Museum and KidScape in a comfortable, lowsensory environment. JCPRD.com

Sunday Afternoon Free Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. A 30-minute free program on nature topics will be presented each day. LawrenceKS.org

Open Gym 9:30, Kaw Prairie Community Church. Grab a coffee from the coffee shop and hang out with friends while your kiddos play! KawPrairie.info

KC Lunar New Year Festival 3:00, Midwest Trust Center. Free event with performance groups presenting a grand and warm celebration. Enjoy games, food and more. KCCAKS.org

Teen Murder Mystery Night 5:30, Trails West Library. Put on your best flannel and sparkliest butterfly clips to solve this ’90s-themed murder mystery. KCLibary.org

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6 Tuesday PuppyGrams Thru Feb. 17, Great Plains SPCA. Surprise your loved ones, coworkers or yourself with some cute and cuddly puppies to play with and snuggle. GreatPlainsSPCA.org Indoor Playground 9:30, Powell Community Center. For kids 6 years and under. Play with variety of developmental toys. MissionKS.com Harriett Tubman and the Underground Railroad 9:45, Folly Theater. This stirring drama with music is a classic tribute to the great American. FollyTheater.org Discovery Day 10:00, Overland Park Arboretum. Free admission day and make-and-take project. February features a leaf bookmark. OPKansas.org Escape All day, Tick Tock Escape Games. Quality, creativity and cool special effects separate Tick Tock from the crowd. Book an escape room for your family. TickTockEscapeRoom.com

7 Wednesday Museum Visit 9:00, Harry S. Truman Presidential Library. Explore the museum commemorating President Truman and American history. TrumanLibrary.gov

The University of Wonder & Imagination 10:00, Midwest Trust Center. The mysterious Professor Bamberg guides you through this interactive theater experience. JCCC.edu Visit Legoland 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center. Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com Kids Eat Free at IKEA 11:00, IKEA. IKEA family members get up to two kids entrees free when they buy any adult entree at the Swedish restaurant. IKEA.com Kids in the Kitchen 4:00, Harrisonville Library. In this class, you will prepare and taste a healthy recipe each week. Register online for the free class. CassCoLibrary.org Kids Create Art: Lunar New Year 6:00, MCPL – Red Bridge Branch. Celebrate Lunar New Year with holiday-inspired crafts and learn about the holiday traditions. MyMCPL.org Family Skate Night 6:00, Winnwood Skate. Every Wednesday is family night at the rollerskating rink. WinnwoodSk8.com

The Black Violin Experience 7:30, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. A mystifying musical fusion of exquisite classical sounds and exhilarating hip-hop beats. KauffmanCenter.org

8 Thursday PuppyGrams Thru Feb. 17, Great Plains SPCA. Surprise your loved ones, coworkers or yourself with some cute and cuddly puppies to play with and snuggle. GreatPlainsSPCA.org Thursday Toddler Time at Ceramic Cafe 10:00, Ceramic Cafe. Toddlers (5 and under) paint one of our selected items for just $12. CeramicCafeKC.com Watkins Tiny Tours! 10:30, Watkins Museum. Interactive hands-on activities based on Lawrence history for children ages 3-5. WatkinsMuseum.org Elvis: Aloha from Vegas Thru April 21, New Theatre & Restaurant. Trace the King’s journey through the ’70s with unforgettable songs. NewTheatre.com Charlotte Street Fellows Exhibit Thru April 14, Nerman Museum. Free exhibit featuring three exceptional Kansas City-based visual artists. NermanMuseum.org

FOUR FAVORITE Children’s Books Come to Life in February Journey to Oz, the newest free exhibit to enjoy at Crown Center, opens Feb. 10 and runs through May 5. The exhibit celebrates The Wizard of Oz film’s 85th anniversary. The film, based on the imaginative series by L. Frank Baum, takes children to the land of Oz where magic awaits. In the exhibit, families explore the enchanting world of the Munchkins, follow Dorothy, the Scarecrow, Tin Man and Cowardly Lion down the Yellow Brick Road, sneak into the Wicked Witch’s castle and much more. CrownCenter.com Little Women by Louisa May Alcott has been enchanting readers for over 150 years. Midwest Trust Center brings the tale to stage in Little Women the Musical, showing Feb. 10. Based on Alcott’s book, the musical follows the adventures of sisters Jo, Meg, Beth and Amy March, four independent sisters who love each other deeply. The endearing musical is a must-see for families this winter as it captures the joy, adventure and spirit of young women in a heartwarming tale. JCCC.edu/midwest-trust-center Rick Riordan is one of the most popular authors for young readers with his actionpacked Percy Jackson series. Now, Coterie is bringing Percy to life with The Lightning Thief: The Percy Jackson Musical. The play features a thrilling original rock score “worthy of the gods” (Time Out New York) that stormed Broadway in 2019. When teenager Percy Jackson discovers he’s a demigod, he and his friends embark on an epic journey to find Zeus’ missing lightning bolt and prevent a war among the gods. TheCoterie.org

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One of the most famous children’s tales of all time, The Three Little Pigs, comes to the stage at Theatre for Young America Feb. 27-March 23. In the Life & Times of the Three Little Pigs, Mama Sow and her three piglets set out in the world to make it big in show biz. Will they be wise in their new homes as the Big Bad Wolf comes knocking? Young children will enjoy this modern retelling of the classic story. TYA.org

9 Friday The Lightning Thief: The Percy Jackson Musical Thru March 10, Coterie Theatre. A dynamic new musical adapted from the bestselling book by Rick Riordan! TheCoterie.org Kids Day Out 8:00, Johnson County Museum. Come have fun when school is out! Discover history through hands-on activities and exploration. JCPRD.com Succulent Container Workshops 10:00, Family Tree Nursery locations. You choose from stylish containers and various succulents to make a Valentine’s Day gift. FamilyTreeNursery.com Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Cafe. Read a book, then the kids get to paint a ceramic item that goes along with the story and finish with a snack. CeramicCafeKC.com

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KC Comets Game 7:05, Cable Dahmer Arena. Cheer on Kansas City’s indoor soccer team as they face Tacoma Stars. KCComets.com

10 Saturday Journey to Oz Thru May 5, Crown Center. Free exhibit celebrating the 85th anniversary of the film. Explore the enchanting world of Oz. CrownCenter.com

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Succulent Container Workshops 10:00, Family Tree Nursery locations. You choose from stylish containers and various succulents to make a Valentine’s Day gift. FamilyTreeNursery.com Valentine’s Cooking Class 10:00, Maggiano’s. A fun-filled, hands-on cooking experience designed especially for kids to celebrate the season of love. Maggianos.com Kids Club 10:00, Colonial Gardens. Kids ages 4-10 step into nature with this handson learning session experiencing nature. ColonialGardensKC.com Lowe’s Free Workshop 10:00, Lowe’s stores across the metro. Valentine’s workshop building a chalkboard that doubles as a vase. Lowes.com Saturday Morning Cartoons at the Library! 10:00, Harrisonville Library. Come to a Saturday morning of cartoons and cereal! CassCoLibrary.org Mr. Stinky Feet’s Scoops of Love 11:00, MCPL – Red Bridge Branch. Join Mr. Stinky Feet for a family dance party celebrating love and friendship. MyMCPL.org Little Women the Musical 4:00, Midwest Trust Center. Based on Louisa May Alcott’s life, Little Women follows the adventures of the March sisters. JCCC.edu

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Puppygrams Thru Feb. 17, all day, Great Plains SPCA. Volunteers will deliver puppies to home or office to play with and snuggle. GreatPlainsSPCA.org

Family Valentine’s Dance 6:00, Centerview. There will be music, dancing, a chocolate fountain, games and a photo booth to help capture the memories. Raymore.com Kiss & Tail 6:00, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. Celebrate Valentine’s Day at this adult event with presentations, food and romance. KansasCityZoo.org City Center Live: Shakedown Strings 6:30, Lenexa Public Market. Performers known for their energy, passion, joy and improvisational prowess. Lenexa.com KC Mavericks Game 7:05, Cable Dahmer Arena. Cheer on the KC Mavericks vs. the Rapid City Rush at an ice hockey game. KCMavericks.com

11 Sunday Lunar New Year 10:00, Lenexa Public Market. Celebrate the Year of the Wood Dragon with performances, entertainment and food. LenexaPublicMarket.com

The Road Home: A Journey from Homelessness to Housing Thru April 28, KC Museum. Photography exhibition created by artist and filmmaker Randy Bacon. KansasCityMuseum.org Cedar Cove: Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary. See these epic animals and learn about their characteristics and behaviors! SaveOurSiberians.org Fun with Fossils 2:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. From the sky full of winged dinosaurs to the ocean’s depths, Kansas was an ocean landscape teeming with life! JCPRD.com Kids STEAM: Brick Building 2:00, MCPL – Red Bridge Branch. Our plastic brick building time includes free builds, challenge builds and themed builds. MyMCPL.org Escape All day, Tick Tock Escape Games. Quality, creativity and cool special effects separate Tick Tock from the crowd. Book an escape room for your family. TickTockEscapeRoom.com

12 Monday Journey to Oz Thru May 5, Crown Center. Free exhibit celebrating the 85th anniversary of the film. Explore the enchanting world of Oz. CrownCenter.com Bricktionary: The Ultimate Lego A-Z Thru March 31, Union Station. Composed of more than 150 custom-built Lego models, Bricktionary is inspired by boundless imagination. UnionStation.org

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Playtime 8:30, Inspired Play Cafe. Enjoy an educational environment for children and a fullservice cafe with nutritious food and beverages for adults and caregivers. InspiredPlayCafe.com Play 9:00, Kanga’s Indoor Playcenter. This vibrant, safe indoor venue offers interactive areas for young children designed to help them learn through play. KangasPlaycenter.com DIY Valentines 10:00, West Wyandotte Library. DIY valentine take-home kit, available at the West Wyandotte Library Circulation Desk. For kids ages 3 and up. KCKPL.org

Acoustic Night 6:00, Garrison Community Center. Enjoy a night of relaxing acoustic music performed by local musicians during this free concert. LibertyMissouri.gov

Valentine’s at the Aztec: Top Hat 7:00, Aztec Shawnee Theater. Enjoy an evening of classic romance sponsored by Shawnee Town 1929 Museum. ShawneeTown.org

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Valentine’s Day

Charlotte Street Fellows Exhibit Thru April 14, Nerman Museum. Free exhibit featuring three exceptional Kansas City-based visual artists. NermanMuseum.org

PuppyGrams Thru Feb. 17, Great Plains SPCA. Surprise your loved ones, coworkers or yourself with some cute and cuddly puppies to play with and snuggle. GreatPlainsSPCA.org Café Equinox Open daily, Family Tree Nursery (Shawnee & Overland Park). Enjoy a warm drink and explore the nursery. FamilyTreeNursery.com

Homeschool EdVentures: Urbanized Mammals 9:00, Wonders of Wildlife. Investigate some species known as urban mammals, including raccoons and opossums. WondersOfWildlife.org

Homeschool EdVenture: Marine Mammals 9:00, Wonders of Wildlife. Learn about marine mammals and their unique adaptations. WondersOfWildlife.org

Retro Story Time 10:00, Johnson County Museum. Preschoolers love stories and crafts from long ago, read by a special guest from the 1950s All-Electric House. JCPRD.com

Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com

Indoor Playground 9:30, Powell Community Center. Kids 6 years and under play with variety of developmental toys. MissionKS.com

Learn About Baseball 10:00, Negro Leagues Baseball Museum. Learn the history of American baseball from the Black perspective, beginning in 1863. NLBM.com

Free Family Fun Night 5:00, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. Enjoy a special place where children can create, discover and learn through play. KansasDiscovery.org

Family Skate Night 7:00, Rink Ratz. Every Wednesday is family night at the roller-skating rink in Blue Springs. Enjoy discounted admission and family-friendly music. Rink-Ratz.com

Tuck Everlasting Thru Feb. 17, Avila College Goppert Theater. Natalie Babbitt’s Tuck Everlasting is the story of a girl who faces the difficult decision of whether to live forever. CultureHouse.com

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Toddler Town 10:00, Sermon Community Center. Children ages 5 and under enjoy a special indoor playground. IndependenceMo.gov

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SIX-STOP TOUR: 18TH & VINE February is Black History Month, and what better time to visit the district that celebrates the contributions of Black Americans all year long! 1. AMERICA’S PASTIME

2. BLACK HISTORY

The Negro Leagues Baseball Museum is a Kansas City landmark. This family-friendly multimedia museum showcases the history of American baseball from the Black perspective, beginning in 1863, and acquaints you with many famous local baseball stars. Measure up against the life-size bronze statues of players in mid-game on the baseball diamond.

The Black Archives of Mid-America hosts exhibits honoring the local Black community’s history: thousands of photos, sports memorabilia, taped interviews, documents on slavery and desegregation, and the papers of famous choreographer and activist Alvin Ailey, as well as Kansas City’s The Call founder Chester Arthur Franklin.

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3. LIVE MUSIC

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The Blue Room, located at the American Jazz Museum, is a living exhibit operating as a live jazz club with performances Monday evenings, Thursday noontimes, Friday evening happy hours and Saturday nights. Concerts and shows are also spotlighted at the Gem Theater, a fixture in the city for more than a century.

The bronze statue of Charlie “Bird” Parker is located behind the American Jazz Museum right near the eastern corner of E. 17th Terrace & Vine. Young Charlie Parker came of age as both man and musician in the 18th & Vine area. Take a self-guided walking tour telling the history of the district and Charlie Parker’s contributions to jazz.

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It has been said that jazz may have been born in New Orleans, but it grew up in Kansas City. The American Jazz Museum is a celebration of our city’s music. Guests experience the sights and sounds of jazz through interactive exhibits and films. Children can experiment with music styles through engaging displays.

Serving celebrities since 1930, Arthur Bryant’s is the closest barbecue restaurant to the district and has been enjoyed by Steven Spielberg, Michael Landon, Robert Redford and Jack Nicholson—to name just a few. Presidents Truman, Carter and Obama have all enjoyed the King of Ribs’ food too.

16 Friday Tuck Everlasting Thru Feb. 17, Avila College Goppert Theater. Natalie Babbitt’s Tuck Everlasting tells the story of a girl who faces the difficult decision of whether to live forever. CultureHouse.com Museum Visit 9:00, Harry S. Truman Presidential Library. Explore the museum commemorating President Truman and American history. TrumanLibrary.gov Visit Legoland 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center. Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com. Winter Homeschool Day 10:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm. Visit the Mahaffie house, cookstove and blacksmith demonstrations. Mahaffie.org Sharkcuterie 6:00, Wonders of Wildlife. Ages 16 and up. We’re teaming up with 417 Charcuterie for a night of food and fun! WondersOfWildlife.org Local Life: Overland Park 6:00, Downtown Overland Park. Shop and dine at locallyowned businesses and enjoy local activities. DowntownOP.org KC Comets Game 7:05, Cable Dahmer Arena. Cheer on Kansas City’s indoor soccer team as they face Chihuahua Savage. KCComets.com

17 Saturday Tuck Everlasting Thru Feb. 17, Avila College Goppert Theater. Natalie Babbitt’s Tuck Everlasting tells the story of a girl who faces the difficult decision of whether to live forever. CultureHouse.com Escape All day, Tick Tock Escape Games. Quality, creativity and cool special effects separate Tick Tock from the crowd. Book an escape room for your family. TickTockEscapeRoom.com Birding: Great Backyard Bird Count 9:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Learn about the birds that spend winters in Northeast Kansas and help with the count. JCPRD.com Wildlife: Winter Hike 10:00, Anita B. Gorman Discovery Center. Beat that cabin fever! Bundle up and dress in layers for this guided hike with a naturalist. MDC.Mo.gov All About Babies, Wildlife That Is 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Presentation is about common Missouri wildlife babies and how you can help them. LakesideNatureCenter.org

Preschool Story Time: Apple Farmer Annie 10:00, Alexander Majors House. Come join families with preschoolers for a fun and free story time event. WornallMajors.org Hands On History Noon, National WWI Museum and Memorial. History is brought to life in this program in which guests are invited to handle Great War artifacts. TheWorldWar.org Sunday Afternoon Free Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. A 30-minute free program on nature topics will be presented each day. LawrenceKS.org

18 Sunday The Lightning Thief: The Percy Jackson Musical Thru March 10, Coterie Theatre. A dynamic new musical adapted from the bestselling book by Rick Riordan! TheCoterie.org Super Hero Skate 1:00, The Rink at Zona Rosa. Join Superman, Batman, Captain America, Wonder Woman and Captain Marvel at the rink. ZonaRosa.com National Symphony Orchestra of Ukraine 7:00, Kauffman Center. One of the most distinguished European orchestras. HJSeries.org The Peking Acrobats 7:00, Midwest Trust Center. Daring maneuvers and technical prowess include trick cycling, precision tumbling, juggling, somersaulting and gymnastics. JCCC.edu

19 Monday PRESIDENTS DAY Journey to Oz Thru May 5, Crown Center. A free exhibit celebrating the 85th anniversary of the film. Explore the enchanting world of Oz. CrownCenter.com Kids Day Out 8:00, Johnson County Museum. Have fun when school is out! Discover history through hands-on activities and exploration. JCPRD.com Play 9:00, Kanga’s Indoor Playcenter. This vibrant, safe indoor venue offers interactive areas for young children designed to help them learn through play. KangasPlaycenter.com School’s Out Skate 10:00, Skate City OPKS. Meet your friends at the skating rink as you enjoy a break from school. SkateCityKansas.com Intro to Soldering 5:30, Central Resource Library. Learn to wield a soldering iron like a pro as we guide you through the basics. Register online at JoCoLibrary.org.

20 Tuesday Playtime 8:30, Inspired Play Cafe. Enjoy an educational environment for children and a fullservice cafe with nutritious food and beverages for adults and caregivers. InspiredPlayCafe.com Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Merriam Community Center. Ride and slide, drive, pull or push your favorite Little Tikes vehicles. Merriam.org Totally Tots 10:30, Kemper Museum of Contemporary Art. Sing songs, read books, explore art and make your own art at this free program. KemperArt.org American Girl Book Club 6:00, Cedar Roe Library. American Girl offers many character stories exploring historical perspectives. JoCoLibrary.org

21 Wednesday Café Equinox Open daily, Family Tree Nursery (Shawnee & Overland Park). Enjoy a warm drink and explore the nursery. FamilyTreeNursery.com Splash With Me: Lenexa Rec Center 10:00, Lenexa Rec Center. Let your little ones splash, play and build confidence in the water. Lenexa.com Family Night 5:00, Lenexa Public Market. Bring the whole gang for free activities like a balloon artist and classic board games. LenexaPublicMarket.com Family Skate Night 6:00, Winnwood Skate. Every Wednesday is family night at the rollerskating rink. WinnwoodSk8.com

22 Thursday Jumperoo Toddler Time 9:00, Urban Air – Lenexa. Jumpers 5 and under and their guardian are invited to jump, bounce and crawl around safely. UrbanAirLenexa.com Thursday Toddler Time at Ceramic Cafe 10:00, Ceramic Cafe. Toddlers (5 and under) paint one of our selected items for just $12. CeramicCafeKC.com Visit Sea Life 10:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Bring the kids to see the Doodle Reef, the touch pool, Stingray Bay and more! Purchase tickets online at VisitSeaLife.com. Shark Feeding 1:00, Wonders of Wildlife. Stop by our Out to Sea exhibit to watch our team feed the sharks. WondersOfWildlife.org

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Bricktionary: The Ultimate Lego A-Z Thru March 31, Union Station. Stretch your imagination as you interact with more than 150 custom-built Lego models. UnionStation.org

23 Friday Jumperoo 8:00, Urban Air Trampoline Park – Overland Park. Children 5 and under and their parent/guardian are invited to jump, bounce and crawl around safely. UrbanAirOP.com Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Cafe. Read a book, then the kids get to paint a ceramic item that goes along with the story and finish with a snack. CeramicCafeKC.com

Full Moon Hike 7:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. By the light of the silvery moon, join us for a quiet hike to connect with nature and the night sounds. JCPRD.com KC Mavericks Game 7:35, Cable Dahmer Arena. Cheer on the KC Mavericks vs. the Utah Grizzlies at an ice hockey game. KCMavericks.com

24 Saturday

Ice-Skating 11:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Enjoy Kansas City’s original outdoor ice-skating rink open thru March 10. Shop and dine at Crown Center as well. CrownCenter.com

The Lightning Thief: The Percy Jackson Musical Thru March 10, Coterie Theatre. A dynamic new musical adapted from the bestselling book by Rick Riordan! TheCoterie.org

Final Fridays 5:00, Downtown Lawrence. Storefronts convert into flash spaces, and performances and exhibits spill in and out of galleries and businesses. ExploreLawrence.com

Great Overland Comic Convention 10:00, Great Overland Station. This event features special guests, cosplay, geek boutiques, video games, board games, comics and more. TSCPL.org

Mario Kart Tournament 6:00, Harris Park Community Center. LSPR is hosting a Mario Kart tournament. CityOfLS.net

International Polar Bear Weekend 10:00, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. Celebrate our polar bear pal, Nuniq, with winter fun. KansasCityZoo.org

Meet the Illustrator: Charlie Mylie 1:00, Central Library. Local author and illustrator Charlie Mylie shares his latest book, Treehouse Town, written by Gideon Sterer. KCLibrary.org Inspiring Scales with Epic Style 11:00, MCPL – Red Bridge Branch. Learn fun facts about reptiles and meet some. See why reptiles make goods pets and whether they are right for you. MyMCPL.org

Honoring Black History in Kansas City

ebruary is Black History Month, and Kansas City is honoring the legacy of Black Americans with special events all month long. On top of these events, check out our Six-Stop Tour of 18th & Vine on pg. 60.

Störling Dance Theater’s Underground Feb. 1-2, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts, StorlingDance.org Underground is called Störling’s Nutcracker of the year, presenting the Underground Railroad story in a historically accurate way.

Harriett Tubman and the Underground Railroad

Songs of the Black Pioneers Various dates and times, Mid-Continent Public Libraries, MyMCPL.org Hear original songs from storyteller Brother John whose performance will explore the remarkable contributions of Black pioneers.

The Greatest Thing: A Story About Buck O’Neil Various dates and times, Mid-Continent Public Libraries, MyMCPL.org Join educator and author Kristy Nerstheimer as she introduces the late Buck O’Neil with her book The Greatest Thing: A Story About Buck O’Neil.

Feb. 6, Folly Theater, FollyTheater.org

Tom Bass’ Commencement Address

This stirring drama with music is a classic tribute to the great American who freed herself and hundreds of others from the bonds of slavery.

Various dates and times, Mid-Continent Public Libraries, MyMCPL.org

Winterlude – Delfeayo Marsalis and the Uptown Jazz Orchestra

Join storyteller and cultural historian Brother John as he portrays Tom Bass, world-renowned equestrian and creator of the American Royal Horse Show.

Magical Jazz: Exploring Louis Armstrong

Feb. 24, Midwest Trust Center, JCCC.edu

Various dates and times, Mid-Continent Public Libraries, MyMCPL.org

The mission of the Uptown Jazz Orchestra is to promote a greater appreciation for jazz and its New Orleans-rooted traditions.

Enjoy an inspiring show about the jazz pioneer and celebrated musician Louis Armstrong in Magical Jazz, performed by Tommy Terrific.

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Penguin March 11:00, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. These fun events are included with admission and occur every Saturday and Sunday thru February. KansasCityZoo.org Cedar Cove: Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary. See these epic animals and learn about their characteristics and behaviors! SaveOurSiberians.org Trees: Maple Sugaring 1:30, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Savor this wonder of nature by learning how to tap trees, collect sap and make delicious syrup. MDC.MO.gov

25 Sunday Bricktionary: The Ultimate Lego A-Z Thru March 31, Union Station. Composed of more than 150 custom-built Lego models, Bricktionary is inspired by boundless imagination. UnionStation.org The Road Home: A Journey from Homelessness to Housing Thru April 28, KC Museum. Photography exhibition created by artist and filmmaker Randy Bacon. KansasCityMuseum.org

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Brunch and Bingo 10:00, Chicken N Pickle – Overland Park. Hang out with us every Sunday for free bingo! ChickenNPickle.com Back to the ’50s: Bowling Noon, Summit Lanes. Games, shoe rentals, hot dogs and sodas are just 50 cents each with a $5 cover charge. SummitLanes.com Lego Showcase 1:00, Indian Creek Library. Check out the KC Brick Lab Showcase to see Lego creations built by master builders using Lego bricks. OlatheLibrary.com Wolves 11: The Basics 2:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Join us for an informative and fun program about these often misunderstood apex predators. JCPRD.com Escape All day, Tick Tock Escape Games. Quality, creativity and cool special effects separate Tick Tock from the crowd. Book an escape room for your family. TickTockEscapeRoom.com

26 Monday Journey to Oz Thru May 5, Crown Center. Free exhibit celebrating the 85th anniversary of the film. Explore the enchanting world of Oz. CrownCenter.com Splash With Me: Lenexa Rec Center 10:00, Lenexa Rec Center. Let your little ones splash, play and build confidence in the water. Lenexa.com

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Penguin March Every Saturday and Sunday at 11:00 thru February, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. These fun events are free with admission. KansasCityZoo.org

Snowflake Crowns 10:00, West Wyandotte Library. Snowflake crowns take-home kit, available at the West Wyandotte Library Circulation Desk. For kids ages 3 and up. KCKPL.org

27 Tuesday The Life & Times of The Three Little Pigs Thru March 23, Theatre for Young America. A delightful play for young children performed on the City Stage at Union Station. TYA.org Toddler Town 10:00, Sermon Community Center. Children ages 5 and under enjoy a special indoor playground. IndependenceMo.gov AKMA After Hours 5:00, Albrecht-Kemper Museum of Art. Free and open to the public. Bring the whole family for kids games and activities. Albrecht-Kemper.org

28 Wednesday Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Community Center. This activity provides kids a place to run, ride and play while making new friends. Lenexa.com

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Family Night 5:00, Lenexa Public Market. Bring the whole gang for free activities like a balloon artist and classic board games. LenexaPublicMarket.com Family Skate Night 7:00, Rink Ratz. Every Wednesday is family night at the rollerskating rink in Blue Springs. Enjoy discounted admission and family-friendly music. Rink-Ratz.com

29 Thursday Bricktionary: The Ultimate Lego A-Z Thru March 31, Union Station. Composed of more than 150 custom-built Lego models, Bricktionary is inspired by boundless imagination. UnionStation.org Playtime 8:30, Inspired Play Cafe. Enjoy an educational environment for children and a full-service cafe with nutritious food and beverages for adults and caregivers. InspiredPlayCafe.com

Open Gym 9:30, Kaw Prairie Community Church. Grab a coffee from the coffee shop and hang out with friends while your kiddos play! KawPrairie.info Learn About Baseball 10:00, Negro Leagues Baseball Museum. Learn the history of American baseball from the Black perspective, beginning in 1863. NLBM.com Visit Sea Life 10:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Bring the kids to see the Doodle Reef, the touch pool, Stingray Bay and more! Purchase tickets online at VisitSeaLife.com.

SNUGGLE UP

with a Snow-Themed Family Film This Winter The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe: The film captures C.S. Lewis’ classic tale of the Pevensie siblings traveling to the magical land of Narnia.

Smallfoot: Migo, the friendliest Yeti in the world, has a big heart. His world is turned upside down when he discovers that the legendary humans actually exist!

101 Dalmatians: This Disney classic is a delight for all seasons, but we especially love the snowy scene as the pups try to escape the evil Cruella De Vil.

Miracle: Based on a true story, this heartfelt film tells of the 1980 U.S. men’s Olympic hockey team and their journey to victory. Disney Nature’s Penguins: The photography in

Mr. Popper’s Penguins: Jim Carrey will have the whole family laughing as he adopts and raises penguins in his New York apartment.

this film is truly spectacular. Journey with Steve the penguin from chick to fatherhood.

Snowball Express: This Disney film from the 1970s Frozen and Frozen II: The modern Disney classics tell the tale of two sisters, their beloved snowman, Olaf, and a bit of magic.

is a classic screwball comedy about a family operating a ski resort in the mountains.

Snow Dogs: This adventure comedy film tells of a Eight Below: With the help of a team of sled dogs, explorers traverse Antarctica. This film is based on a true story and is a hit for dog lovers.

Miami dentist who inherits a team of snow dogs from Alaska and must learn how to race them or he’ll lose the team.

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