KC Parent magazine April 2024

This is where miracles happen every day.

The Birthing Center at Liberty Hospital provides the premier experience you and your growing family deserve. With family-friendly birthing suites and advanced medical care, it’s no wonder more moms across the Northland choose Liberty Hospital for a comfortable, safe and nurturing place to welcome their new babies into the world.

Together, our teams of obstetric and neonatal nurses, lactation experts, and others care for you and your baby in a state-of-the-art medical facility, including a NICU for newborns who need highly specialized care. We provide many welcoming amenities for the whole family and a complete range of classes to support a healthy start for mom and baby.

We can’t wait to meet you.

Learn more libertyhospital.org/birthingcenter.

This is where health happens.

April has arrived, and I welcome it with open arms! Spring is bursting on the scene with new life and pops of color. Make some plans to enjoy the outdoors as nature awakens once again and beckons you.

As the outdoors spring to life, the rhythm of the season brings us plenty to celebrate: Earth Day on April 22, Arbor Day on April 26 and a unique eclipse on April 8, as well as National Gardening Day on April 14. Who knew? In case you haven’t checked a calendar recently, make note of Autism Awareness Day (April 2), National Picnic Day (April 23) and National Siblings Day (April 10). Give April a quick search on the inter-webs for plenty more things to note: Sourdough Bread Day, Peanut Butter & Jelly Day, Pet Day, Jackie Robinson Day, Grilled Cheese Day, Plant Appreciation Day, Laundry Day—and more than I can possibly list! There is indeed plenty to celebrate every day!

I believe waking up to life and breath itself is plenty cause for celebration! To help you mark some of these special days, don’t miss our new feature, “Park Jaunts” on pg. 21. You’ll get some lovely park destinations to consider to pair with National Picnic Day— and any other day you choose!

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Local Contributing Writers

Kim Antisdel (Liberty), Bill Bartlett (Kansas City), Hannah Berry (Kansas City), Janelle Cumro-Sultzer (Manhattan), Judy Goppert (Lee’s Summit), Lauren Greenlee (Olathe), Elizabeth Hammond (Overland Park), Kristina Light (Kansas City), Sarah Lyons (Olathe), Kailyn Rhinehart (Warrensburg), Joleen Sams (Shawnee)

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KC PARENT IS GIVING AWAY 2 FAMILY 4-PACKS WITH PIT PASSES TO MONSTER JAM (A $640 VALUE)!

For details and to enter, head to KCParent.com.

In honor of my beautiful and beloved “baby” sister, this month’s “5 Things” highlights some fun baby ideas as she anticipates welcoming her first baby. Additionally, have you ever considered how many of us parents are, in fact, parents of children with special needs? See Lauren Greenlee’s article on pg. 46 for ideas to help you rally around other parents as we all navigate this journey of parenthood.

Summer is coming quickly too. While I am sure there are plenty of days to celebrate in June and July, our Camp Guide can help you make the summer months even more fun for your kids. The guide begins on pg. 30 in print and can also be found online at KCParent.com.

Make time to celebrate!

Lauri Clapper, Editor

SPOTLIGHT ECLIPSE IN KANSAS CITY

Mark this unusual milestone. Check out KCParent.com to learn about how the eclipse will affect Kansas City as well as how to prepare and where to best view.

1. Camp Guide

2. Best of April

3. Earth Day Fun Guide

KCParent.com has a

Take a look and start making plans!

and

4. Free Fun in Kansas City

5. Farmers Market Guide

6. Calendar of Events

7. Family Vacation Inspiration

8. Best Zoos in the Midwest

9. Kids Eat Free Guide

10. Free Fun in Kansas City

DATE NIGHT

For this month’s roundup of dates, take a look at these fun choices in Westport.

ASHLEIGH’S BAKE SHOP

If you’ve got a hankering for a delicious piece of pie, grab your significant other and head straight to Ashleigh’s Bake Shop in Westport. We think she has the best pie in the city. Her little shop is located in the lower level of Pryde’s, which is an experience all its own. (More on that in a moment!) Ashleigh’s sells whole pies and pie slices—everything from apple and cherry rhubarb to coconut cream and key lime. The shop has some very interesting ones, like blueberry basil goat cheese and whiskey walnut chocolate. Ashleigh has many varieties that she rotates through and usually offers 10-15 different kinds each day. And let me tell you, it is some really amazing pie! I’m not usually big on pie crust, but hers is amazing. In addition to pie, she also offers quiche, cookies and bars. Ashleigh’s is open Thursday from 10:00 to 4:00 and Friday and Saturday from 10:00 to 5:00 or until she sells out.

PRYDE’S OLD WESTPORT

Pryde’s Old Westport is a 10,000-square-foot kitchen and housewares emporium and is a fun place for browsing, even for guys! Open since 1968, Pryde’s has a massive selection of kitchen goods. Their building even states on the outside that it’s “the hardware store for cooks.”

Basically, if they don’t have it, you probably don’t need it. They also have the largest collection of Fiestaware in the Midwest. Plus, the shop offers home decor, interesting locally made goods (like Pickwick candles) and a plethora of other things that would be good for gift giving. There is so much to look at and take in. It’s sensory overload at its best.

CREATIVE CULTURE

Just a few doors down from Pryde’s and Ashleigh’s is Creative Culture, a place to unleash your creativity through crafts or satisfy your sweet tooth with an over-the-top milkshake. They have a variety of craft projects that are all self-guided, including wreath-making, a plant bar, paint-your-own pottery, wood projects and more. The hubby and I did a plant potting project on our first visit, which was fun and fairly easy. More recently, we opted for a wood coaster set project that was not as easy as it sounds. Lots of intricate details, which were perfect for my husband, the artist in the family. What really brings me into Creative Culture are the handmade shakes. You can blow your diet for the day and have one all to yourself, or you can get one to share with a friend or date. They are delicious! The first time we went, we each had our own. The second time around, we wised up and shared one. Whatever you choose—crafts, shakes or both—Creative Culture aims to please.

Hannah Berry is a freelance writer who lives in the Northland with her husband. They love to explore Kansas City and try new restaurants and activities. Check out her Facebook page, Out & About in KC.

APRIL IN KANSAS CITY CROSSWORD PUZZLE

ACROSS

1 Born April 6, 1969, this famous actor and comedian with KC connections is still a local sports fan.

3 April 15 commemorates this famous tragedy, which is honored with a museum in Branson, Missouri.

4 $15 million land purchase was made on April 30, 1803, which included what is now Missouri and Kansas.

5 On April 9, 1863, this Englishman was made an honorary U.S. citizen by JFK. He is honored with a statue at the intersection of Ward Parkway & Wornall.

6 April 1 is a favorite holiday for this person.

10 April 8 is Zoo Lover’s Day. This most recent addition at our zoo increased the animal population by 8,000.

11 Surname of Missouri artist born April 15, 1889.

12 18th & Vine celebrates this musical genre, honored with a special day on April 30.

DOWN

1 KC averages 3.7 inches of this each April.

2 April 10 is Golfer’s Day. This famous golfer named Tom is a Kansas City native.

3 April 5 is Deep Dish Pizza Day, a signature food in Chicago. This Lenexa restaurant is recognized as the best in the area.

7 On April 12, 1945, FDR passed away, and this man from Missouri became president of the United States.

8 Photo Clue: April 2 is Children’s Book Day. _____ hOle, pictured above, is KC’s newest museum celebrating the genre.

9 On April 4, 1887, Susanna Medora Salter was the first woman to be elected mayor in the United States, governing the town of Argonia in this state.

earth day crayons

this Earth Day we are focusing on reducing, reusing and recycling some of our craft supplies! We have a giant pile of broken and short crayons, which makes this the perfect project for Earth Day!

SUPPLIES:

• Old broken and short crayons

• Silicone cupcake mold

• Baking sheet

• Knife (we used plastic, kid-safe ones)

• Cutting boards

DIRECTIONS:

Step one: Preheat oven to 250 degrees.

Step two: Remove paper from crayons.

Step three: Cut and break crayons into small pieces. This part was messy, so be prepared with a trash bag!

Step four: Place broken pieces of crayons into silicone mold. We tried a few different amounts of crayons, and you can fill the mold slightly over the top since the crayons will melt down.

Step five: Place silicone mold onto the baking tray and bake for around 12-15 minutes. There are different ways you can finish the crayons. First, you can melt less and leave chunks of crayons. A second option is to melt completely, resulting in the colors’ blending.

Step six: Allow to completely dry. The crayons will be extremely hot, so keep little hands away! Once they are dry, pop out the crayons and get to coloring!

Janelle Cumro-Sultzer lives in Manhattan, Kansas, with her husband, three children (1, 3 and 5) and two senior dogs. Janelle is mainly a stay-at-home mom in addition to being a mediator at a local counseling center. Janelle loves to focus on learning through play and getting messy with crafts.

FIVE FABULOUS BIKE TRAILS IN KANSAS CITY

Take a photo safari on a bike trail! These are just a few of Kansas City’s nicest bike trails. Discover more local trails at KCBike.info/KCTrails.

1 TROLLEY TRAIL: This 6-mile paved trail connects the Country Club Plaza, Brookside and Waldo in southern Kansas City, MO.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This is a great urban ride with many super lunch stops and shops along the way.

2 SWOPE TRAILS: Built for mountain bike enthusiasts, the 13.5 miles of trails wind through the woods at Swope Park. Local volunteers and the KC Parks system continue to improve these trails for athletes.

WHY WE LOVE IT: These trails are designed with adventure in mind. From beautiful limestone bluffs to wooded paths, the trails offer nature in the heart of the city.

3 SMITHVILLE LAKE TRAIL: This 4-mile (and growing) off-road trail is great for mountain bikers.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Smithville Lake offers a scenic view for the rider to get out and enjoy nature.

4 MILL CREEK STREAMWAY PARK: One of the nicest paved trails in Johnson County, this 10-plus-mile byway runs along the creek from the Kaw River, south through Shawnee Mission Park, to 119th Street in Olathe.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This popular trail offers a variety of scenery along the way.

5 SHAWNEE MISSION PARK: The park offers mountain bike trails connecting to Mill Creek Streamway Park trails.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Lake, woods and shelters make this a great choice for nature lovers.

FIVETHINGS

In honor of my sister, whose firstborn arrives this month …

Comotomo Teether

This profoundly simple little product is great for Baby. It’s easy for wee ones to grasp as well as hold, and the colors alone are perfectly playful. From a design standpoint, its prongs mimic little baby fingers and are long enough to reach back molars but also sized to prevent choking. The foodgrade silicone material is chewy, nontoxic and dishwasher safe. Comotomo.com

Pea Pod Prestige

Luxe Baby Hooded Towel

This baby line is dreamy. For starters, I have to rave about the super soft bamboo hooded towels. Fun fact about bamboo is that it’s ultraabsorbent. It multitasks by being a nice choice for sensitive skin. So wrap up your wee one in these luscious towels—whether it’s after a bath, after the pool, after the lake or after the beach. Baby will be snuggly and warm—and you won’t be getting wet too! KeaBabies.com

5THINGS WE RIGHT NOW

Continuing to embrace your adventurous spirit or love of travel once Baby is born has its challenges. This KidCo PeaPod is lightweight as well as compact for travel and easy to open and close. It’s terrific whether you’re headed to Grandma’s house, camping, hiking or hitting the beach. It also has UV protection, so enjoy some sunshine while Baby rests. KidCo.com

LOVE

Compiled by Lauri Clapper

Indestructibles Books

Little Hometown Products

My sister lives too far away. While she loves her hometown of KC, she now calls Seattle home. When I found these hometown items, I knew I wanted to honor her Seattle-born baby with a nod to the place they now call home. I cannot speak highly enough about the whimsical prints that honor places we love. Truly a special gift for someone near or far!

LittleHometown.com

Little ones tend to put absolutely everything in their mouths and that includes books. KC mom of triplets Amy Pixton created Indestructibles for the way babies “read.” These books are chew-proof, rip-proof and drool-proof, printed on 100% nontoxic paper-like material. I have found these at Made in KC as well as Barnes & Noble. What a genius idea! IndestructiblesInc.com

special skills

“Can your kids do anything better than normal kids can?”

I’ve heard that question many times and in many ways since my sons were diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder, and each time, it makes me wonder. Do youngsters on the spectrum need to do anything better? Isn’t it enough that they’re just kids? But, they don’t stay little. One is now 21 and the other will soon be 20, so the question becomes more relevant with each tick in my clock of life.

James likes ancient Middle Eastern languages like Syriac, the source of Arabic and Hebrew. Could he parley that interest into a career? Maybe, but he’d have to master at least one of those languages to be a translator, possibly for the Defense Department. He remembers details of things that interest him. From the writings of J. R. R. Tolkien to the history of the Byzantine empire, to the techniques of stop motion animation, he spouts out knowledge that surprises even me.

Ian also has his own talents. Horses relax around him, and, when he works with them, they act as if they’d found their soul mate. His coach noticed, saying that it was like they fell asleep with him in the saddle. Can he make a living as a groom, though? Equine career opportunities may be limited with his disability. Outside the barn, he absorbs the tiniest minutiae from comic book-based action movies. He searches the web constantly for updates, which he breathlessly relates to me as his latest discovery.

Sleep evaded me after someone asked me of their talents. The answer hit me with the simplicity of a pie in the face. It doesn’t matter. Whatever comes, we’ll deal with it. It’s enough that they are who they are. I closed my eyes and drifted off.

William R. Bartlett lives in Kansas City with his family.

PINKEYE

What Parents

Need to Know

Your kiddo wakes up with eye goo and bloodshot eyes. It’s pinkeye—but what caused it, and how will it affect your day? Pinkeye is usually the result of one of three causes: bacterial, viral or allergic. Your pediatrician will prescribe treatment based on the cause, which also determines how long your child will have to stay home.

Common symptoms of pinkeye

Pinkeye symptoms are often similar despite different causes. The most common include:

• Redness in the whites of the eyes and inner eyelids.

• Drainage and discharge out of the eye, which can be clear and watery to thick and crusty.

• Burning, itching or gritty feeling in the eyes.

• Swollen eyelids.

• Blurry vision (because of increased tearing and discharge).

The three common causes of pinkeye Viral conjunctivitis

Think of viral conjunctivitis as a cold in the eye. It’s often linked to respiratory infections and is highly contagious. Your child’s eyes might be matted shut in the morning, but the drainage is mostly clear to slightly yellow throughout the day. This is the most common type of pinkeye.

Bacterial conjunctivitis

Bacterial conjunctivitis is what most people think of when you say pinkeye. Think of lots and lots of thick, yellow-to-green drainage throughout the day. Antibiotic eye drops or ointments are needed to take care of this infection.

Allergic conjunctivitis

The final type of pinkeye, allergic conjunctivitis, is not contagious. It happens

when you come into contact with allergens like pollen or pet dander. The symptom that sets this apart from the other two is how itchy it is.

Pinkeye treatment

Make an appointment with your pediatrician if you think your child has pinkeye. Comfort measures help relieve the discomfort, but treatment varies based on the cause.

• Warm compresses can alleviate discomfort and reduce crustiness.

• Over-the-counter lubricating eye drops soothe irritation.

• Bacterial conjunctivitis is usually treated with antibiotic drops or ointment.

• Viral conjunctivitis has no specific treatment other than the comfort measures above.

Prevention strategies for viral and bacterial pinkeye

Viral and bacterial pinkeye are highly contagious; preventing its spread can feel like an uphill battle.

• The single most important prevention method is frequent, good hand washing, especially:

l After touching your face or interacting with others.

l Before you eat or drink.

l After using the restroom.

l Before and after playing with shared items.

• Avoid sharing personal items like towels and pillows.

• Encourage your child not to touch, itch or scratch at his eyes and face.

• Disinfect frequently touched surfaces regularly.

When can my child return to school, daycare or activities?

Most parents’ first question after a pinkeye diagnosis is, “When can my child return to school?” The answer depends on the cause and your school or daycare’s policies.

• Bacterial: Once your child has received at least 24 hours of the prescribed antibiotic he can return.

• Viral: The usual requirement is 24 hours fever-free and that symptoms are improving.

• Allergic: Children can return once their symptoms are manageable since this pinkeye is not contagious.

Help your school or daycare by teaching, practicing and emphasizing good hand hygiene with your child. Keep him home based on your health care provider’s recommendation and ask for a note that states when your child can return.

As you can see, determining the cause of pinkeye isn’t always straightforward. By understanding the distinctive features of viral, bacterial and allergic conjunctivitis, you’ll be better prepared to help your child manage the symptoms the next time it makes the rounds at school or daycare.

Joleen Sams is a family nurse practitioner who lives in Shawnee with her family.

References:

KidsHealth.org, “Conjunctivitis.” Cleveland Clinic, “Pinkeye.”

The Central Library of the Kansas City Public Library (14 W. 10th St., Kansas City, Mo., 816.701.3400), housed in the former First National Bank of Kansas City, is one of the city’s most beautiful downtown landmarks. The library is an architectural masterpiece with reading rooms, research areas, a cafe and a rooftop view of the city skyline complete with a giant life-size chess set! But the children’s department is the most special section of the library for families. Enter through the pages of a book to a place where kids will discover a wonderful reading area organized by age and interests and that offers many hands-on activities. This library is so special that even the parking garage is unique! The Community

Celebrate National Poetry Month in Kansas City

April is National Poetry Month, and our city offers many landmarks celebrating the art form.

Bookshelf painted along the south wall of the Central Library’s parking garage (on 10th Street between Wyandotte Street and Baltimore Avenue) displays book spines featuring 22 titles from classics to local interest, including The Collection of Poems of Langston Hughes (an ideal photo op for Poetry Month).

Mark Twain, the famous Missouri author and humorist, also wrote over 120 poems. Visit the Mark Twain statue on the corner of 10th & Central in Downtown Kansas City, Missouri, just a few blocks away from the Central Library and its parking garage, which is adorned with classic book titles—including The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn

“In Flanders Fields, ” a poem by John McCrae, became the signature of WWI. The poem memorializes the fallen soldier with the lines, “In Flanders fields the poppies blow … Between the crosses, row on row …” After the war, the American Legion adopted the Flanders Fields Memorial Poppy as the U.S. national emblem of remembrance. The National WWI Museum and Memorial chose to display 9,000 poppies under the Paul Sunderland Bridge, a clear walkway visitors cross to enter the museum, each flower representing 1,000 combatant deaths during WWI.

The 9,000 poppies under the Paul Sunderland Bridge

BY PEGGY GISLER AND MARGE EBERTS

HAVING YOUR CHILDREN PARTICIPATE IN ACTIVITIES

PARENTS: Before you ever sign your young children up for any formal activity, whether a sport, music, dancing or singing, they should be doing some of these activities at home with you. Dance with your toddlers, sing with them, play catch with them and let them frolic in kiddie pools. This will give you an early picture of which activities they particularly enjoy.

The Benefit of Activities for Children

One of the greatest benefits of participating in an activity, whether individual or team, is the opportunity it gives children to have fun. (If they are not having fun, or you have coerced them to take up an activity, it’s not likely to be the right activity for them.) Another beneift of any activity is developing a new skill. This is coupled with other perks like enhanced selfesteem and self-awareness, doing better socially and gaining personal confidence. Plus, activities that involve other children teach teamwork and cooperation skills. In addition, participation in extracurricular activities often leads to success in the classroom.

Choosing the Right Activity

The younger children are, the greater the role of parents in choosing activities for them. No matter who chooses an activity, parents need to consider these factors: the level of involvement required, the cost, what their children’s friends are doing and whether participation in the activity will be burdensome for the family. Opportunities abound for children to participate in activities. An easy way to find out what is available in your community is by looking at ads in this magazine and talking to other parents.

The Time to Start Participating in Activities

Today, there is a trend of children as young as toddlers participating in activities outside their families. Opinions about the best age to start specific activities vary among physicians, mental health experts and teachers. In general, though, everyone agrees that children develop at different rates and that this should be considered before

having kids start a specific activity. If you push them into an activity too early, you may scare them away from it. Here’s a look at the ages considered appropriate for engaging in a few activities:

Swimming: One activity that all children should participate in is swimming lessons. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) states that parents and infants being in a water class together helps babies grow accustomed to being in a pool and is a fun activity for them to share. The AAP advises that by their fourth birthday, most children are ready for swimming lessons and that by the age of 5 or 6, most can master the front crawl.

Sports: Children as young as 4 or 5 can try a sport, and by the ages of 6 or 7, most will have the physical skills and attention span to learn how to play a sport. The AAP says that before adolescence, young children should avoid specializing in a sport and should be encouraged to play a

variety of sports. Warriors basketball star Stephen Curry would agree with this, as he did not concentrate on basketball until he was a teenager.

Dancing: Little children as young as 2 who are already movers and shakers can be ready for a dance class. It is imperative that it be one designed for their age group. For children who want to take dance seriously, the age to begin formal instruction is between 7 and 9.

Gymnastics: The best age for starting gymnastics is when children want to do it. Nevertheless, USA Gymnastics the governing body for elite gymnasts, wants children to begin training between ages 2 and 5. This is one sport that can involve a lot of competition.

However, it can also be a sport that is engaged in just for fun that can be started at any age.

Music: Toddlers can begin informal music lessons where they learn to identify the beat and melody in music as well as the sound of different instruments. By age 5, children can begin semi-formal music lessons. However, the preferred age for beginning music lessons is between ages 6 and 9.

Singing: The best age for children to begin singing lessons is when they have the motivation, ability to focus and time to practice, typically between the ages of 7 and 9. However, children of any age can benefit from taking voice lessons.

Avoid Overscheduling Children in Activities

Overscheduling can lead to a whole family’s being overstressed. The golden rule for scheduling activities involving sports is one sport per season for elementary school. The younger children are, the more time they should spend in unstructured play. Studies show that most teenagers may be involved in two to three activities during the week, taking less than a total time of five hours. Overinvolvement for this age is not typically a negative unless it exceeds 20 hours a week.

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Leftover Pasta Frittata

Here is the permission you need to serve your kids spaghetti for any meal and feel great about it because you are using your leftovers. This mash-up of pasta and frittata combines some favorite comfort foods for a rich, cheesy, inexpensive pantry meal. The variations are endless too.

Recipe courtesy of Leite’s Culinaria.

Ingredients

6 large eggs

1/4 c. grated Parmesan or pecorino cheese

2 T. olive oil plus oil or butter for the skillet

1/8 t. salt

Freshly ground black pepper

4 oz. cold leftover spaghetti, sauced or un-sauced

Directions

Crack the eggs into a bowl and whisk very well. Mix in the cheese, oil, salt and a grind of pepper.

If you have sauced spaghetti, dump it in a large nonstick skillet over medium-high heat along with a couple tablespoons water and heat until it’s warm but before it starts to sizzle. Drain off any water that hasn’t evaporated and turn the spaghetti into the egg mixture. Wipe out the skillet, return it to medium-low heat and add enough oil or butter to slick the bottom and sides of the skillet. Add the egg mixture, distributing the spaghetti evenly if it clumps. If you have plain, un-sauced spaghetti, heat a couple tablespoons of oil or butter in a large nonstick skillet over medium or medium-high heat. Add the spaghetti. Let it get crisp and browned on the bottom, pressing down once or twice on the spaghetti with a spatula. Reduce the heat to medium-low and add the egg mixture.

Turn the heat to low and occasionally rotate the skillet a quarter turn if the egg seems to be cooking unevenly

around the edges. When the perimeter of the frittata looks set and the center is still somewhat liquid, which should be after about 8 minutes, run a table knife around the skillet to loosen the sides of the frittata and carefully slip a thin metal spatula under it to loosen the underside. Invert a plate over the skillet and place one hand over the plate and the other hand on the skillet handle. Here comes the exciting part—you’re going to flip the frittata onto the plate. Set the plate down and quickly slick the skillet with a little more oil or butter. Then, with the help of the spatula, encourage the frittata to slide back into the skillet. Don’t worry if things are looking a little Humpty Dumpty—just fit it all back together again and keep it over low heat until it’s cooked through, about 7 more minutes.

When the frittata seems to be cooked through, make a crack in the middle with the tip of the spatula and sneak a peek to see that the egg is all set. When it’s ready, slide or flip the frittata onto a plate. The good news is that there are a couple sides to every frittata—so if you like the looks of the top side, slide the frittata out the way you slid it in. If you like the looks of the other side better, flip it out onto a clean plate and show that one. Let cool a little or a lot, slice in wedges or squares or long skinny strips and serve. (A frittata tastes good hot, better after it has cooled a half-hour or so and possibly best after it has had a chance to regroup on the countertop for an afternoon.)

M usical parks in kansas city

These

local playgrounds bring out the inner musician in your child.

Hospital Hill Park: Sybil Silk

Wood Nutter Inclusive Playground

2401 Gillham Rd., Kansas City, Mo.

This park in front of Children’s Mercy Hospital in Downtown Kansas City is a charming and fully accessible playground perfect for children coming to the hospital. The park’s signature is the Big Walking Piano, designed by artist Remo Saraceni, who was also responsible for the piano from Tom Hanks’ film Big. In 2019, Variety KC oversaw renovations of the park, including repair to the piano so that it plays when walked, danced or wheeled on so that even children with wheelchairs or leg braces may play it. The park is home to more musical instruments and traditional features including climbing tunnels and slides.

Strang Park

9879 W. 88th Ter., Overland Park

The first inclusive playground in Overland Park, this delightful park is home to a 30-foot tower and slide, a sensory tunnel, climbing cargo nets, in-ground trampolines and more. The toddler playground is beloved for its farmers market themes and nature play area. Teens love to play cornhole, checkers or giant chess, and young musicians enjoy the many playable instruments, including a giant xylophone.

Valley Park

4000 E. 123rd Ter., Grandview

Valley Park is a favorite for climbing. With a 55-foot-long slide, rope climbing structures, zip line, Cloud 9 swings and a soft surface, this is a top pick for local children. The giant nature-inspired musical instruments and shade canopies are favorites for creative play.

Ad Astra Park

8191 Maurer Rd., Lenexa

Another accessible park, this playground features a play set for children ages 2-5 with slides and a climbing wall. The play equipment for ages 5-12 features bridges, climbing walls, boulder climbing and slides. The swing set includes an ADA-accessible swing. The music-making station features multiple percussion instruments.

Howard Station Park

228 SE Main St., Lee’s Summit

This small park is a meeting place in Downtown Lee’s Summit with access to the Lee’s Summit History Museum (housed in the depot), an old caboose, benches, a fountain and giant playable percussion instruments. Make music with the drums and xylophone at this quaint park.

Hospital Hill Park: Sybil Silk Wood Nutter Inclusive Playground in Kansas City

KC Parent’s party guide fresh ideas

terrific themes great venues

Ceramic Café

Celebrate your child’s birthday at Ceramic Cafe. All parties are scheduled for one-and-a-half hours, giving you plenty of time to open presents and serve cake and ice cream. Choose from painting pottery, creating with clay or a glass fusion project. Ceramic Cafe birthday parties are creative and fun for any age. Call 913.383.0222 or visit CeramicCafeKC.com for more details. See display ad on pg. 25.

Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium

Let the Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium host your child’s next birthday party. We guarantee a wild time

for every guest! We are currently offering birthday party options on weekends. Zoo admission and rides wristbands are available as an add-on. You are welcome to provide your own décor, food, and activities. Visit KansasCityZoo.org/birthdays to join us for a celebration like no other! See display ad on pg. 25.

Movies2U

Roll out the red carpet and celebrate that special occasion with a movie! Round up the kids to watch their favorite movie on one of our largerthan-life inflatable screens. Throw in our popcorn machine and the effect will be complete. The kids won’t forget it and you’ll love it as

our professional staff takes care of every detail. One of our 4 differently sized screens is sure to fit your occasion and budget. See display ad on pg. 23. Movies2U.com

Princess at My Party

Have your child’s favorite character come to the birthday party! Choose from Raya, Elsa, Anna, Rapunzel, Moana, Elena, Ariel, Belle, Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella, Jasmine and Snow White. Also, inquire about our Super Girl, Wonder Woman or Bat Girl parties! Watch the magic unfold as the children go on an adventure that includes a story, games, music, a makeover or face

painting and a treasure hunt. See display ad on pg. 23. 816.830.4841, PrincessAtMyParty.com

Urban Air Adventure Park

Urban Air Adventure Parks in Lenexa and Overland Park continue to be voted Best Kids Birthday Party Place year after year. It’s the perfect place for indoor stress-free birthday parties for all ages. More than just a trampoline park, Urban Air has something for everyone. Let the kids fly through the park on our sky rider, take on our climbing walls, or reach new heights on our trampolines. Urban Air. Let ‘em fly. See display ad on pg. 22. UrbanAirLenexa.com, UrbanAirOverlandPark.com

MakingBirthdaysMagical

Achild’s birthday is the most magical day of the year. An entire 24 hours dedicated just to them. Balloons, friends, presents and, of course, cake and ice cream. And though the magic of a birthday party is easy to imagine, the reality for a parent hosting that day often conjures a little less magic and a lot more mayhem.

Relax. We’ve got the tips and tricks to keep you super zen, the kids uber happy and the memories beautiful on this especially important day.

Pick a theme; keep the theme

Kids are fickle. One minute they want to be Buzz Lightyear for Halloween and the next they want to be a Lego character. It’s for this reason that children absolutely cannot be trusted with the theme for their own birthday party. So what’s a parent to do? Provide two options for them to choose from that meet the following criteria: available and accessible. Your daughter may adore some obscure show on Netflix, but if those party favors aren’t at Costco? Well, you’re the one left scouring the internet at 2:00 a.m. looking for a tablecloth that costs $40 and may or may not arrive in time.

Hard no.

Two options will give your child some autonomy and you a lot of sanity. Once decided, lock it in. No changes. No deviations. You’ll thank me later.

Skip the cake

Not to be gross, but have you ever watched a child blow out candles on their birthday cake? And then you want to

pass that cake around to other children? Nahhhh.

Consider taking the easier—and more sanitary—route and go with cupcakes. Cupcakes are kid-sized, individually wrapped, and they don’t require a sharp object to distribute. Win, win, win.

Afraid your child won’t feel special without their own cake? Fair enough. Consider having a small, family-sized cake for after everyone goes home. You’ll save some dough and get better pictures of your kiddo blowing out the candles.

Save present opening for later

It’s a hard truth, but opening presents during the birthday party stresses out every single person there. You’re worried your child won’t seem grateful enough. The other parents can’t get their kid off the bounce house to come and watch your kid open the presents. There’s jealousy and wrapping paper and tears and temper tantrums. Enough. Let the

other parents know to place their gift on the table and your child will be opening the presents after everyone has gone home. Their relief will be observable. Just remember that your child does need to send a thank you note for the presents they receive. It might be 2024, but manners and thankfulness never get old.

If the idea of helping your child write 23 thank you notes is overwhelming … see the next tip.

Don’t invite so many people

Let’s be real; how many true, close friends does your kid have? My son can’t even remember his best friend’s name sometimes. No, I am not kidding.

It is not being rude or taking any joy from your child by keeping their party small. Consider keeping the guest list of friends to less than five. Bear in mind this means you can’t send a bunch of invites in your child’s school backpack to be distributed. It’s best to locate the emails or phone numbers of your guests’

parents and invite them individually. That might be a little more work on the front end, but the amount of time, money and energy you will get back is well worth it.

Take it away … far away

It’s tempting to have a big blowout at home. You don’t have to go anywhere; everyone comes to you. Super easy, right?

Wrong.

Kids will find their way into every room in your house, especially the ones you block off with a big sign that says “DO NOT ENTER.” They will flush toys down the toilet. They might draw on your walls. They will raid your fridge. And guess who gets to clean all that up later? It’s you.

A birthday party at a park, a bounce house, a skating rink or just about anywhere that doesn’t have your address on it is a much better deal for everyone. And it doesn’t have to be expensive. Parks are as close to free as you can possibly get. A pizza party at a local movie theater is surprisingly affordable.

If your child has a friend with a similar birthday, consider a double party and split the cost down the middle.

There are a lot of ways to save or splurge with a birthday party, but if you can splurge on the location and have it outside the home, you’ve made a great choice.

Gift bags are a no

Maybe I’ll get heat for this, but it’s the absolute truth. You don’t need to hand out gift bags. No sane guest that attends a birthday party should ever expect a present for themselves.

Teach this lesson to your children early and often: The guest of honor receives the presents, and the guests get treats and the honor of being invited. Done and done.

Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re being stingy or tacky for not having a gift bag. Half the time the items in those gift bags get instantly donated or end up in a landfill. Spend the extra money you save on better snacks or a fun game.

Designate a photographer

Trust me on this. You will not remember to take photographs of the day. Ask your good friend or spouse to take pictures throughout the day. You want to remember these moments, but you’re also hosting and need to focus on guests. Take the photos task off your plate and enjoy the day.

Birthday parties are inherently a lot to handle. Don’t beat yourself up if a few things go awry during the day. It’s best to use your child as a barometer. Are they laughing? Smiling? Excited? If those criteria are met, it’s a win. Your child won’t remember if the cupcakes were dry or the décor didn’t match. They’ll remember you made their day amazing, and that’s all that matters.

Kim Antisdel is a freelance writer and interior design sales rep for KC. She lives in Liberty with her husband, stepdaughters and son.

BOARD GAMES That Teach Kids Math and Money Skills

One of the best ways to teach children foundational skills is by playing board games. Board games allow children to develop all kinds of skills— academic, social, interpersonal and more. They can encourage a child’s math, literacy and money skills too.

The best thing is that children of all ages can play board games. Not to mention, board games are a great way for children to bond with family and peers!

Why You Should Play Board Games with Your Child

Foundational learning skills are necessary at any age, but especially in early childhood. They set children up for success later on. A solid foundation especially helps children master challenging skills like math and money. Playing board games is an effective way to sneak in some of those learning building blocks while the family is having fun. After all, academic learning isn’t just limited to the work done within the walls of a classroom!

Board games can expand on skills like:

• Counting and number sense

• Identifying numbers

• Adding and subtracting (numbers and money)

• Greater than, less than, equal to

• Interpersonal skills (taking turns, following rules, fairness, etc.)

• Critical thinking skills

Board games allow children to learn in a flexible, comfortable environment. Most of the time, they don’t even realize they’re learning valuable life skills. Games with family and friends create an environment that is low-stress, informal and even portable.

What to Look for in a Board Game for Kids

Easy-to-Use Pieces, Setup, Parts

It’s OK if kids get frustrated sometimes, but you want a balanced frustration level. You want games to challenge kids but not be so hard that they get frustrated and give up. This also creates a level of independence as they grow.

Opportunities for Extension

As a parent, you want games that can extend your child’s learning. If the games don’t provide specific extensions, you should always feel free to add additional questions or discussion topics.

Appropriate Age Level

If your family has multiple children with a large age range, finding the right game that fits everyone’s abilities can be difficult. You

want a game that isn’t too easy for the oldest child, but not too hard for the youngest. This may take some time to figure out!

Can Be Played Repeatedly

A good game begs to be played again and again. Children want engaging and interactive games that challenge them. And so do parents!

Benefits of Board Games

That Encourage Math and Money Skills

Toddler Years

As a toddler, a child begins to recognize numbers, letters and colors. These are valuable skills in both academic and daily life. Incorporating these skills into games is an informal and fun way to strengthen them.

Preschool Years

As children get to the preschool years, be more intentional in teaching them number sense—but that doesn’t mean it has to be rigid or boring. Board games allow children to improve their number recognition even more. They also teach counting, money and basic math operations, and expand number comprehension.

Early Elementary/Elementary Years

In elementary school, children learn math and money skills in the classroom. To grow those skills, parents can and should strengthen them at home. Children become more confident learners by playing board games because board games tangibly reinforce difficult skills. Some of these skills are addition/subtraction, money identification and spatial recognition. Practicing skills in a fun and engaging way extends a child’s learning and creates confidence.

Eight Games That Teach Kids Math and Money Skills

Monopoly/Super Mario Monopoly

Recommended age: Typically 8+ (may vary with the many versions available)

What it teaches: Monopoly encourages basic money management skills to children. Children can even play the banker and distribute the money too. Monopoly also reinforces basic number sense, such as counting.

Sneaky Snacky Squirrel

Recommended age: 3+

What it teaches: Sneaky Snacky Squirrel is great for younger children who cannot read. It teaches many foundational math skills, like one-to-one identification, summation, matching and counting.

Trouble

Recommended age: 5+

What it teaches: Trouble helps kids slow down counting. It helps them to identify numbers, use a die and gain a sense of number sequences.

Money Bags

Recommended age: 7+

What it teaches: Money Bags ties in practical “chores” with earning money. It allows children to associate working hard with a reward. This game also encourages critical thinking skills. Children can even exchange smaller amounts of money for larger coins.

Sum Swamp

Recommended age: 5+

What it teaches: Sum Swamp reinforces math fluency. Children must add and subtract the numbers they roll to move spaces. This is a great board game that strengthens basic mathematical operations.

Monkey Balance

Recommended age: 3+

What it teaches: Monkey Balance promotes counting, number identification, simple addition and the fundamentals of weight. This game helps with quantity concepts and encourages very early critical thinking skills.

Math Island

Recommended age: 6+

What it teaches: Math Island enforces counting, number identification and addition/ subtraction skills.

Hi Ho! Cherry-O

Recommended ages: 3+

What it teaches: Hi Ho! Cherry-O offers very young children the chance to practice counting skills. This game teaches counting-to-10 skills.

Kailyn Rhinehart writes from Warrensburg, Missouri, where she lives with her husband and two small children.

GO GREEN TO SAVE GREEN

Being good stewards of the environment means that we’re actively engaged in making the world a better place for our families and future generations. One of the hidden benefits to living sustainably is that it can actually be more cost-effective than not. By implementing small changes incrementally, we can add up a big difference both in the environment and our budgets. Here are some ways that going green can save some green.

Embrace Reusable Resources

One of the simplest ways to make the biggest impact is to ditch single-use disposable plastics. Plastic bags, plastic water bottles and disposable coffee cups take hundreds of years to decompose and end up polluting our air, land and water sources. Start by investing in a handful of reusable cloth grocery bags (simply store

them in the trunk of your car after use so that you have them on hand each time you make a purchase). Reusable shopping bags can be used beyond the grocery store (think clothing, books or lawn and garden supplies). They can also be washed and, unlike plastic or paper, won’t rip or tear holding heavy items inside.

In the kitchen, swap plastic baggies for reusable silicone or cloth ones (a single

reusable bag can replace hundreds of plastic ones). Getting kids on board is a snap when they can choose their favorite colors, patterns or designs. After all, who wouldn’t want to eat a sandwich wrapped in a dinosaur or unicorn baggie? Use, wash, repeat!

Instead of using plastic wrap, check out silicone bowl covers or beeswax wrap. For food storage, look to use glass or metal, which are easy to sanitize and don’t warp, melt or leach microplastics when washed in hot water. Options abound for purchase, but you can start by repurposing glass jars from food purchases (think spaghetti jars or Mason jars).

Stay hydrated using stainless steel water bottles at home and on the go instead of opting for disposable water bottles. Not only will you save money, but it makes identifying whose cup is whose a snap. In my house, each family member has a water bottle that’s a different color, making it easy to tell them apart.

Using a stainless steel tumbler is a smart investment for warm drinks on the go, and some coffee shops even offer a discount when you bring in your own cup.

Lastly, ditch plastic straws for metal reusable ones.

Buy Local

There’s no limit to what you can find in your store, but when you buy items grown close to home, you’re supporting the local economy and you’re cutting down on carbon emissions associated with transportation and storage. Not only does local food taste fresher, but there’s nothing better than knowing where it comes from. Sign up for a community co-op, shop at one of KC’s 30 area farmers markets or buy directly from a u-pick farm. Check out KCParent.com to find the closest farmers market or u-pick farm near you.

Less Is Best

The average person throws away roughly 4.5 pounds of trash daily. One of the easiest ways to limit adding to the heap is to opt out of junk mail. You can register at DMAChoice.org, CatalogChoice.org and OptOutPrescreen.com. While at it, register for Yellow Pages Opt Out to avoid getting unnecessary phonebooks that many recycling plants will not accept anyway. Not only will you have less clutter, but your mailbox will be reserved for treasured snail mail instead. By signing up for online bill pay, you can save money on both checks and postage. Scrap paper can be placed in a box for kids to use for arts and crafts (encourage them to use both sides).

To limit packaging waste on groceries, consider buying in bulk. If you can’t use an economy sized item before it expires, go in on the purchase with another family. In doing so, you’ll save money in the process.

did you know?

More than one-third of all energy consumption takes place at home, while the average person throws away roughly 4 pounds of trash daily.

Make Your Own Cleaners

Not only are homemade cleaners better for the environment, but they’re also easy to make and better on your wallet. Recipes abound online for homemade laundry detergent, dish soap or all-purpose cleaner. When you make your own hand soap or spray cleaners, you’ll also end up purchasing fewer single-use plastic containers. (Look into amber glass spray bottles, which provide UV protection for any liquid within them.) I’ve made my own cleaners for years and find that the process takes no time—but if you’re intimidated or want to go in on a product bulk buy, consider hosting a party to make homemade soap with a handful of friends. Ditch paper towels and disposable cleaning products. Instead, reach for microfiber towels, reusable cloths and biodegradable scrub brushes.

Avoid Fast Fashion

In the United States, we’re buying clothing items at unprecedented rates. We own more clothing than ever before

but also wear items fewer times before discarding—and those discards end up piling up in landfills. According to the World Resource Institute, it can take up to 2,700 gallons of water to make one cotton shirt, enough to meet the average person’s drinking needs for two-and-a–half years. A sustainable wardrobe is an investment in fewer pieces that are high quality and can be used again and again. The concept of a capsule wardrobe (pieces that interchangeably mix and match) is a great way to get more with less.

Children grow so quickly that they often outgrow clothes before they even get to wear them. Upcycling and thrifting can be a great way to find items that still have a lot of life left in them. Better yet, host a swap with family and friends to pass along items that can serve someone else when you’re done.

Toys

Toys that blink, flash, make noise and have motion don’t hold a child’s attention for long. And let’s be honest—parents find all the extra stimuli highly annoying. Choose toys that are open-ended and don’t require batteries or chargers. Wooden toys are far more sustainable than plastic, less likely to break than plastic and can even be passed down as heirloom pieces. Instead of being massproduced in a factory that emits toxic chemicals into the air, the manufacturing process of ethically sourced wooden toys is better for the environment—and they’re oftentimes handmade! Go for quality over quantity, which keeps cleanup a breeze and allows kids to explore the full possibilities of each toy individually.

Boymom of four Lauren Greenlee can be found developing her green thumb this spring. She gardens and writes from her Olathe home.

KC Parent’s

Camp Guide

Club SciKidz Kansas City

We’re proud to offer educational summer camps that ignite curiosity and inspire young minds. We offer STEM programs that encompass various fields of science and technology, making us your ideal destination for academic summer camps in Kansas City. Our courses are hands-on, engaging and fun. Discounts available for multiple children, multiple sessions and referring a friend. We believe that learning is at its best when it’s an adventure, and that’s what we provide. KansasCity.ClubSciKidz.com, 913.475.3121. See display ad on pg. 35.

Colonial Presbyterian Church

Summer is twice as fun at Colonial with two weeks to choose from for your Vacation Bible School Summer Blast adventure! This evening program is for

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kids ages preschool through fifth grade to learn about the Bible and Jesus’ love through games, crafts, songs, storytelling and even experiments! Join us at either campus: 95th & Wornall, Kansas City, Mo. (dinner included) or 12501 W. 137th St., Overland Park. For more info or to register: 816.942.3272, ColonialKC.org/blast. See display ad pg. 39.

The Coterie Theatre School Classes and Performance Camps

The Coterie offers summer acting and drama classes to students entering Grades K-12 at five sites: Crown Center (at the Coterie), The Plaza (Pembroke Hill), Overland Park (Miller-Marley), Liberty (Liberty Community Center), and Kansas City, KS (KCKCC). Led by professional, trained teaching artists, Summer 2024 week-long, halfday classes include creative drama,

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acting, and audition skills; and full-day performance camps for Grades 6-12 will be held at the Plaza, Liberty, and KCK locations. Get class schedules & descriptions or enroll online now at TheCoterie.org. See display ad pg. 5.

The Culinary Center of Kansas City

We are passionate about culinary arts! The Culinary Center of Kansas City, a beloved institution in Downtown Overland Park, has been serving the community for 25 years. Our vision is to set the standard of excellence for interactive cooking experiences in the Midwest. We host 500 cooking classes and 250 private interactive cooking events each year. We offer a range of cooking classes for kids throughout the year, including summer camp classes with award-winning instructors. KCCulinary.com. See display ad on pg. 31.

Culture House

A summer of fun your kids will always remember happens at The Culture House, where performing and fine arts camps fill the building with creativity, inspiration and friendship. There are all kinds of camps for your children: theater, musical theater, dance, music and art. Parents will love how smoothly all aspects of registration and logistics are handled, making it easy for all to enjoy a summer filled with great memories and new friendships. Sign up today before camps are full at CultureHouse.com. See display ad on pg. 37.

DID YOU KNOW?

KCParent.com has a geo-based, searchable Camp Guide with maps, descriptions, photos and videos. With these stats, it’s easy to see how KC Parent has camps covered!

Johnson County Park & Recreation District

From Outdoor Discovery to Just for Fun, we offer over 95 different and well-supervised camp programs conveniently located throughout Johnson County. Dedicated to providing activities that promote emotional, intellectual and physical health, our summer fun choices include nature and science, preschool enrichment, art, sports, computers, leadership development, music, theater and dance. The options include both indoor and outdoor programs, and full- and partial-day schedules are available. For details, call 913.831.3359 or visit JCPRD.com/Camps. See display ad on pg. 36.

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KANSAS CITY YOUNG AUDIENCES

SUMMER DAY CAMPS

MONDAY – FRIDAY | MAY 29 – AUGUST 9

Morning and afternoon hands-on cooking classes

Little Chefs: Ages 5 – 8

Junior Chefs: Ages 9 – 14

Campers receive a free T-shirt and 3 hours everyday

REGISTRATION OPEN NOW!

kcculinary.com | 913-341-4455

7920 Santa Fe Dr. | Overland Park, KS

June 10th - 14th

Lenexa (8-11am)

June 17th - 21st

Blue Springs (8-11am)

July 1st - 5th

Lees Summit (8-11am)

July 8th - 12th

Overland Park (8-11am)

CAMPGUIDE

Kanakuk

Kanakuk is a premier Christian summer sports camp experience for kids ages 6-18 with locations in Branson and Lampe, Missouri. Five overnight camps provide Kampers with fun, safe experiences that develop them spiritually, physically, emotionally and socially. Kampers make memories while participating in more than 70 sports and activities. Sessions run all summer with one-, two- and four-week options. Learn more about customizing your child’s summer camp experience at Kanakuk.com or call 417.266.3000. See display ad on pg. 41.

Kansas City Young Audiences

Sing, dance, act, make and play in KCYA summer camps! Join professional teaching artists for

week-long performing and visual arts camps designed to help children discover and develop their own unique talents. From Broadway Bound to Puppet Play, Dance Camp to Musical Theatre, there is a camp to engage and inspire every child! Scholarships and multi-camp discounts are available. Summer camps begin June 3! Learn more here: KCYA.org. See display ad on pg. 31.

Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium

Go wild this summer with summer break camps at the zoo! Camp runs June 5 through Aug. 18. Day camp curriculums are age-appropriate and are properly chaperoned at all times. Activities may include but are not limited to educational games, crafts, shows, rides, science experiments

and educational movies. Full-day camps are available for ages 5-17, Monday-Thursday, 8:30-3:30. COST: $260 or $234 for FOTZ members. Single-day camps also available. Learn more at KansasCityZoo.org. See display ad on pg. 34.

Lenexa Camps

Choose an action-packed camp adventure with Lenexa Parks & Recreation. From sampling art in the great outdoors and hands-on science experiments to performing exciting live theater, your kids will explore new activities, stay active and have a great time. Camp options include spring, summer and winter break camps, as well as other school’s out days. Learn more and register at 913.477.7100 or Lenexa.com/GetActive. See display ad on pg. 40.

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which camp is best for your child?

1) How often do I want to have my child occupied/entertained over break?

a. The majority of break.

b. About 50% of break.

c. Occasionally.

d. Maybe a couple of times.

2) Does my child need to work on anything specific over break?

a. Yes.

b. Part-time help would be helpful.

c. Some refreshers here and there would be great.

d. Not really.

3) How do I feel about overnight camp?

a. I think it’s a great rite of passage!

b. I think a few nights would be fun!

c. I think a couple nights may be OK.

d. I’m not quite ready for that yet.

4) I think it’s important to keep up with academics over break.

a. Absolutely!

b. Mostly.

c. Somewhat.

d. Let them enjoy their childhood vacation!

5) I would like my children to focus on one of their interests.

a. Strongly agree.

b. Agree.

c. Somewhat agree.

d. Neutral.

6) I would like my child to stay active over break.

a. Strongly agree.

b. Agree.

c. Somewhat agree.

d. Neutral.

7) I would like my child to improve athletically over break.

a. Strongly agree.

b. Agree.

c. Somewhat agree.

d. Not really.

8) I would like my child to improve artistically over break.

a. Strongly agree.

b. Agree.

c. Somewhat agree.

d. Not really.

9) I would like my children to be with their friends over break.

a. Strongly agree. b. Agree.

c. Somewhat agree d. Not really.

10) I would like my child to gain more independence this year.

a. Strongly agree.

b. Agree.

c. Somewhat agree.

d. Not really.

11) How far away am I comfortable sending my child?

a. If the camp is worth it, we’ll go!

b. Maybe half a day’s drive.

c. An hour away.

d. It needs to be within 30 minutes.

12) How much is cost a factor?

a. It’s not a factor.

b. Not much.

c. A little bit.

d. A lot.

Mostly A’s

Sounds like you’re ready for your kiddo to enjoy all there is to experience at a long-term summer camp, even overnight! Chances are you experienced and loved summer camp as a child (or wished you could have) and want your child to have that experience too! Camp can provide kids with life skills, socialization, and keep them active and learning in a different way over the summer.

Mostly B’s

Sounds like you’re ready to have your children experience some various day camps according to their interests. Maybe they will fine tune their drawing skills or come home the best free throw shooter for the team! Selecting a few different camps can help kids focus on one area at a time and maybe be with different friends throughout the summer.

Mostly C’s

Sounds like you’re ready to get your feet wet with some shorter camps throughout the summer as they are available and work into your schedule. These can give the kids something to look forward to and you a break from entertaining them 24/7, but you’ll have room in your schedule for a relaxed summer vacation.

Mostly D’s

Sounds like you’re not quite ready to start in on summer camps, or perhaps they don’t seem that important or worth it to you. Maybe you’re able to be home with them and enjoy doing a summer bucket list and spending time with them before they head back to school. Perhaps a week or two at some local vacation Bible schools is a reasonable way to fulfill any camplike experience you feel your kids need.

Stephanie Loux is the mother of Layla, 13, Mason, 12, and Slade, 9, and has been known to send her kids to numerous VBS camps throughout the summer and has finally reached that magical time when all three can go at the same time!

CAMPGUIDE

Oakhill Day School

Every day is a blast at Oakhill Fully Charged! Our dynamic weekly themed day camps, for ages 2 through middle school, blend play and creativity. Experience the essence of summer with field trips, campwide water balloon fights, pool days, and more led by our amazing Fully Charged counselors! Enroll online: OakhillDaySchool.org. See display ad on pg. 34.

Nexus Prep Summer Adventure Club

Looking for a fun, safe, and Bible focused day camp for your children this summer? Look no further! Enroll your K-5th graders in Nexus Prep’s Summer Adventure Club, spanning May 28th to August 9th. Choose from flexible plans: Full Time at $225/wk, 3 Days (M/W/F) at $185/wk, or 2 Days (T/TH) at $150/wk. Dive into daily adventures, Bible studies, and four off-site field trips weekly! Limited spots – enroll now for an unforgettable summer! Contact us at nexusprep@gmail.com or visit NexusPrep.org. See display ad on pg. 35.

Rock Springs Ranch

Since 1946, Rock Springs Ranch has been host to generations of young campers. They unplug, explore, learn lifelong skills and grow in the heart of the Flint Hills of Kansas, a wondrous place with wide-open spaces. Many make friends for life. Open to ages 8-17 with choice of three- or five-night adventures with enrichment activities, outdoor fun and expanded programming, including a focus on leadership skills. RockSpringsRanch4HCamp.org, 785.257.3221. See display ad on pg. 38.

Summer at Barstow

Have you heard the buzz? Summer at Barstow is Kansas City’s favorite summer camp program for kids ages 3 and up. Campers love Summer at Barstow’s action-packed adventures in creative arts, athletics and—new this year— STEAM campus for grades 1-12 at the Dan & Cassidy Towriss IDEA Space just down the road in Leawood. Kids love exclusive camps and adventures; parents love our experienced instructors, 4-to-1 camper-to-staff ratio and extended care options. Check out camps for every budget, age, interest and schedule at BarstowSchool.org/Summer or call 816.277.0445 for more information. See display ad pg. 32.

Theater of the Imagination

Acting! Singing! Dancing! Movie making! Fun and flexible week-long camps let you start and stop whenever you like. Open to grades first-eighth (in fall 2024), no previous experience needed. No auditions, no leads and small class sizes. Big performance at the end of each week. Free shows and costumes. Shows include Swift/ Kelce: The Musical!, Unicorns, Space Warriors, Larry Spotter, Frozen Princess, Stranger Zombies, Ninjas and more! Mention KC Parent and get $25 off (some restrictions apply). See display ad on pg. 38. DramaKC.com

Tiger Rock

Unleash the potential within your child this summer at Tiger Rock’s Martial Arts Summer Camp! For just $189, dive into a world of excitement and growth at our studio. Your fee covers a sleek summer training uniform and endless martial arts lessons. Act fast! Secure your spot by June 1. Our classes are in high demand every summer, so don’t miss out—

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Why Should Parents Send Their Kids to Camp?

Pack those bags and spread those wings!

Singing “Kumbaya,” telling scary stories around the campfire, sleeping in a bunk bed, sharing sunscreen and bug spray, rolling up a sleeping bag and cooking s’mores—the lore of summer camp is storied! And although times have changed, the memorable experiences of camp continue to make lifelong impacts on kids. Here are some reasons why you should consider it for your youngsters:

Camp teaches children to step outside their comfort zones and learn independence and teamwork. Whether or not children bring a friend along, they will leave with new buddies. Before you dive into how much fun you think your kids will have, make sure to watch for signs they are prepared to leave the comfort of home— and you.

Camp stretches that responsibility. You know your child. Sleepaway camps are usually a good idea for kids beginning at 7 or 8 years old. By that age, venturing into a new environment where he tackles taking care of his basic needs and looking out for the needs of his fellow campers can help maturity and responsibility stretch to new levels.

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CAMPGUIDE

Camp builds confidence. Campers will feel proud when they rustle up the confidence to be away from home, meet new people and try new activities.

Preparing for camp enhances decision-making. When she packs her toothbrush, shampoo, shorts and swimsuit for a week at camp, your daughter will grow. On that note, a great way to prepare your child for camp is to begin packing at least a month in advance.

Camp helps kids learn to take care of themselves. Packing clothes, toiletries, a water bottle, a favorite book, and maybe a journal to write down the fun that happens will help your kids tend to their own physical and emotional needs. Involve your children in the packing and planning process, and they will love setting up their new home base when they arrive at camp.

WHERE LEADERS GROW

Camps help children expand their skills. There are many themed camps that may suit your children’s interests. Visit KidsCampingEssentials. com for ideas on great camps, from archery to horseback riding to fashion, space, engineering and sports. Your children’s interests can be expanded through camp!

You may learn something too. Homesickness is not just something that kids feel. Parents may feel the pangs while their children are away. Combat this by putting notes inside your child’s bag in unexpected places. Consider sending postcards ahead of time so they arrive early in the camp mail for your child to enjoy. Supply your camper with a selfaddressed postcard or two to send to you. The fun of writing about whether or not he liked the canoe ride or how magical listening to crickets at night is will thrill him—and it will warm your heart too!

Books about camping are wonderful ways to help your children see what camp is like. Visit WhatDoWeDoAllDay.com/booksabout-summer-camp for titles to read with your kids. Help your youngsters get ready for a rewarding and fun camp experience— and remember to pack that flashlight!

An avid outdoors girl, Judy Goppert lives in Lee’s Summit. She enjoys drawing on her personal experiences to write about the nuances of everything wonderful about life.

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SURVIVING a mom sick day

We do what we can to avoid it, but at some point, the inevitable will happen. Mom will get sick. Enjoying a quiet, restful day in bed is not an option for most mothers. What’s a mom to do? Here are some tips to help you survive a “mom sick day”:

Call in the reinforcements

In some cases, the working parent may be able to stay home and help with the kids, but often this is not a feasible option. “Don’t be too proud to call in reinforcements if necessary!” says Olathe mom Becky Baldridge. Ask friends and family to take the kids to school or help cook dinner. Most friends are willing to help, especially if you offer to return the favor in the future.

Simplify meals

For a sick mommy, feeding her family can be a huge challenge. Keep it simple by ordering takeout, raiding the freezer or letting the kids eat cereal for dinner. “I’ve had my husband order, pay for and have pizza delivered from work, because when

I’m sick, preparing meals is impossible,” says Rodganna Avery, mom of three.

Let go of “normal”

Many families limit the amount of screen time their children are allowed each day, but when Mom is sick, it’s okay to relax the rules. “I let them watch TV all day and I lie on the couch and sleep. I feel better the next day because I get rest,” says Olathe mom LouAnn Cunningham. Allowing extra TV or video game time helps to entertain the kids so Mom can rest. Mother of six Chrissy Roussel says, “When you are sick, just focus on making sure they’re fed and changed. Let go of the ‘normal’ parenting rules for a few days.” It won’t hurt the kids to have one or two days of extra screen time, and they will probably enjoy it as well.

Utilize more entertainment

What do you do when TV time gets old? Build a fort, get out craft supplies or play with blocks. “I have a secret stash of toys that I only bring out when I’m sick,” says Jessi Cole, mom of three. “Since they are

rarely out, my kids think it’s a huge treat.” Try having the kids read a book aloud or put on a puppet show for you while you rest. When Mom is sick, anything goes. The goal is to keep the kids entertained but as quiet as possible throughout the day.

Plan ahead

The last tip is one you can do in advance. Before you get the first hint of a runny nose or sore throat, prepare for when you do. Set some special toys and movies aside for your sick day, keep easy-to-prepare snacks and freezer meals on hand and teach your kids to prepare simple meals like sandwiches or cereal so they can help themselves when needed.

As moms, we do so much for our families, and when we aren’t feeling well, a smoothly run household can spiral out of control fast. It’s okay to let the house go and rely on others for a few days. If Mom has time to rest, she should be back to her old self in no time.

Sarah Lyons lives in Olathe with her family.

My dogs have a disgusting habit of eating poop in the backyard. It’s so bad that one of my dogs will start eating poop when another dog is actively pooping. I have tried yelling at them, but if I do, they will eat it as fast as they can then run away from me. I’ve tried the over-the-counter supplements at the pet store, but they don’t seem to work at all. I’m so embarrassed of their foul-smelling breath when my friends come over. How can I get them to stop this behavior?

- Sarah Campbell

Coprophagia (eating feces) can be a tough habit to break for many dogs. Trying to find out why they eat poop is key in understanding how to curb it. Dogs may eat poop because of stress, parasites, boredom, poor diet, issues with their pancreas, and sometimes they just do it because they enjoy it, which is one of the tougher ones to break. Try to find out why, then you can work on it. I also recommend hanging out with your pooches outside so you can pick their stool up immediately and redirect them from eating it, do this for a few months and work on the commands “leave it” and “come” so you can direct them without being close by. There are also some supplements for bad breath if you would like to try those.

– Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA

We got a couple of dogs from a family member that could no longer take care of them. We love them dearly, but they will not stop fighting with my neighbor’s dogs through the fence. They immediately go to the fence to start a fight as soon as we let them go outside for a restroom break. Please help! Can they eventually live peacefully together?

– Andrea Johnson

Teach your dogs the “leave It” command when they are inside. Once they have learned this command reliably, take them outside on a leash and get close enough to the fence so that your dog is still listening to you and will follow basic commands, but can view the dogs in the other yard. Once the dog barks at the other dogs, say “leave it” and make them sit. Reward calming behavior and redirect them into “watch me” when they are reacting to the other dogs. Do this routinely until they learn the command, then try it closer to the fence. This will take patience but is highly effective. It would be even better if your neighbors practiced this with the dogs on their side of the fence. Train your dogs individually for even quicker results.

– Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA

My dog has terrible allergies and itches herself raw all the time. She is most happy in the winter when it’s cold, but other than that she gets inflamed and will bite her tummy and paws until they

bleed. I use Benadryl which helps a little but it’s not enough. I even do steroid injections to get her to stop itching so much. Any ideas on how to get her some relief? –

Blake T.

I would highly recommend seeing an allergist if her allergies are that severe. They can do an allergy test to find out exactly what your dog is allergic to, from grass/molds to things inside your home such as wool. They can even test to see if your dog is allergic to human dander. Yes, that’s right. Dogs can be allergic to humans, and it happens more often than people believe. When you get the results, you can try and eliminate the things your dog is allergic to or can start your dog on immunotherapy. Hope she gets the help she needs.

- Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA

Taking long walks is my jam. I’m told my leash skills are impeccable.Dogs coming up to me while I’m walking with my people, no worries, I will greet them with a wagging tail and a smile on my face. I have a very playful side and my energy does raise the happier I become, so I would like to meet all your kiddos in the shelter before we decide to become a family. I want to make sure me and the youngsters are on the same page. If you’re looking for a dog to take on family outings where nature is your destination, I’m begging you to come meet me. We could have so much fun together. Email adoptions@greatplainsspca.org for more info!

Email askashley@greatplainsspca.org for a chance to have your pet question answered in KC Parent magazine. Animal expert, Ashley Flores, CPDT-KA, is the Senior Director of Animal Behavior and Training at Great Plains SPCA. Ashley has more than 16 years of experience in animal training and behavior.

Finding Your Village

As mothers, we all understand the importance of children learning how to socialize. It helps them step out of their bubble, be empathetic, talk to other children, share and helps them gain confidence. We all were once children and have had to learn these skills, but what happens when we’re in the thick of motherhood? Where does our socialization come from? Whether you’re a stay-at-home mom or a working mom whose whole world has been thrown upside down, this is where the importance of finding your village comes in.

Motherhood can be all-consuming and a unique stage of life where you can feel lonely but you’re rarely alone. It’s often a time where our self-identity gets blurred or lost along the way, but we need to be aware of this loss and proactive to reel it back in once we get our sea legs. Finding a community to socialize with is important for us moms in the same way it’s important for our

children. It helps us step out of our bubble, share empathy with other moms and be heard when we have tough days. Social connections let us share tips and tricks— even childcare sometimes—and help us gain confidence in our parenting journey.

We understand why community is important, but where does one go to find it? Here’s where stepping outside your bubble comes in. As mentioned before, we must be proactive and intentional about finding our village. Luckily, there are numerous groups to check out from the safety of your screen. Once you find one that sounds appealing, you must actually show up if you want others to show up for you. Some other mom is waiting for you to attend too.

We moved when I was a new mom, and although I loved being a stay-at-home mom to my new baby girl, it was lonely. When our second child came soon after and I had two under 2 and two in diapers, I joined all the mommy groups just to have some

outside socialization for both my babies and myself. I was in MOPs groups that met on opposite days, a moms group at a church that met weekly, as well as a moms group through Meetup.com that hosted playdates as well as moms nights out. I was involved to the point that it was kind of a joke, but I loved having community and something to structure my days around. I even started hosting my own book club at local coffee shops on weeknights once a week.

MOPs (Moms of Preschoolers) is a great organization run by other moms at various churches around the world. Most groups meet twice a month for a couple of hours and include childcare, brunch, speakers on topics pertaining to motherhood, crafts and more. I met many friends through my MOPs groups over the years, and it was a great way to practice separation from my littles. They also have groups for working moms as well. This is a safe place to share and learn from others about all

Motherhood can be all-consuming and a unique stage of life where you can feel lonely but you’re rarely alone. It’s often a time where our self-identity gets blurred or lost along the way, but we need to be aware of this loss and proactive to reel it back in once we get our sea legs.

things motherhood. My playdate group through Meetup.com was a great way to make friends with local moms while our kiddos made friends as well. It was fun to discover new parks, playgrounds and indoor play areas. This was where I could have conversations with other adults while letting the kids play and tire themselves out for nap time. There are even apps now that help with Mommy “dating.” We have since moved two more times, and I had to start over at square one each time. But I knew what to do to get plugged in, so I joined a bunch of groups once again. It definitely helped our new dwelling place feel more like home more quickly.

Now my kids are older, and proximity and consistency really matter in maintaining friendships. Once my kids aged out of my preschool groups, I didn’t see my friends I had met there as often. Life gets busy for us all, so without that set time to see each other, it’s hard to make time to get together—especially when you live in different neighborhoods and your kids go to different schools. So what comes next? A pivot to join different kinds of groups: Volunteer at your children’s school, join the PTO/PTA, meet the other parents at your kids’ extracurricular activities or start your own group based on an interest you have and invite others to attend.

My current mommy playdates include our baseball family (entering our third year together) and my new book club that’s been a success for a year now. Commitment is what I find to be key to getting to know other moms. There are definitely some practices where I gladly

drop off my sons or daughter and carry on with whatever else needs to get done, but friendships are not made if you’re not there. With our baseball team, we spend most weekends March through July cheering the team on. That’s a lot of time spent together, which is a lot of time to get to know each other if you want to. It means sitting near other families and having conversations with them; it means helping out with carpool and loving on the other players.

Book clubs are probably my favorite way to take friendships to a deeper level. Inviting people to your home lets them see you as a more complete person. With my husband’s travel schedule and three kids under 8 that went to bed by 7:30 p.m.—I was essentially trapped at my own house. I decided to host book club and have my friends come to me. It was the best! We met weekly and discussed a few chapters at a time while also catching up and doing life together. This group continued even after we moved and is still going strong, led by the amazing Amanda Wettersten. She is fabulous at hosting and hospitality, so if that side of things stresses you out, check out her 100 People Project at AmandaWettersten.com for simple and sweet ideas on how to invite others in.

After our most recent move, I began a book club that gradually became a podcast club where we listen to a podcast episode and then discuss it each week. Sadly, it came to a halt during the pandemic. Last year I put myself out there (yet again!) with a social media or text invite to anyone who was interested in starting a new book

club with me. Our current book club meets monthly, and we take turns hosting. We often have new people each month, and it’s my favorite thing! In fact, a friend met a woman in the bathroom line at the Taylor Swift concert, learned she was new to town, invited her and she came!

Going back to extracurricular practices for your kids, be intentional with your time. Introduce yourself at the practices and find common interests. Want to get more steps in each day? Walk together around the field or neighborhood until practice is over. Have younger kids to entertain? Visit a nearby park for a playdate while you wait for their older siblings to finish practice. If your children aren’t in extracurricular activities, invite a coworker to walk during your lunch break everyday or work out before or after work several days a week. After our last move, I found that many neighbor friends were home or worked from home, so I had them over for a ladies’ lunch since it was easier than trying to work around kids’ activities after school. Evening walks with neighborhood friends is another way to find deeper friendships. Another tip is to keep it consistent and plan your next meeting before you leave. Once it’s on the calendar, it’s more likely to happen instead of falling into the dreaded, “We should get together sometime!” that keeps looping every time you see someone you’d actually like to meet up with.

Stephanie Loux is the mother of Layla, 13, Mason, 12, and Slade, 9, and enjoys hosting and creating community wherever she goes.

parents supporting whose children have special needs

parenting is hard work. Parenting a special needs child, however, amplifies everything. There’s more exhaustion, more overwhelm, more expense, more need for advocating and intense research to advocate further. There are also limitations: lack of equipped childcare options, lack of time for self-care, developing a healthy work/home life balance, enriching a marriage or spending individual time with other children in the family who do not have special needs. Perhaps the biggest challenge of all is simply being misunderstood by the broader community. Here in no particular order are things that special needs parents want you to know.

We’re different, but we’re not. You might not understand all the intricacies of our daily routines—all the therapies and specialists, elimination diets and demanding protocols—but you could (and you would) do it if you were in our shoes too. Deep down we want the same things for our children: We want them to thrive. And as parents, we’ll do anything to help them get there, even if it requires much of us.

We need extra grace. Please don’t put us on pedestals or hold us at a distance. We’re not superhuman, and we have the same needs as anyone else. If anything, we just need extra grace. Having a special needs child can bring about immense guilt and grief that we’re constantly working through. Our time may be limited, so don’t take it personally if we can’t accept every invitation you send, but please know it means a ton to be invited!

Hard is hard. There’s no prize for having the most difficult special needs situation. So please don’t compare our situation to someone else’s in an effort to either make us feel more noble or make light of the challenges our child faces. Statements such as, “I don’t know how you can do it! I could never do what you do!” or “Well, at least your kid can fill-in-the-blank!” aren’t helpful to our daily reality. Likewise, please withhold irrelevant advice and cliche comments. If you don’t know what to say, silence is golden.

Seen and unseen disabilities are equally painful in different ways. Children with physical disabilities wear their struggles on their sleeves and can be on the receiving end of awkwardly long stares, confused glances and wellintentioned but hurtful statements. Oftentimes, parents of children with physical disabilities feel pitied. Children with hidden disabilities, such as spectrum disorders and intellectual disabilities, face their own fair share of public scrutiny when strangers, family and friends wonder why they can’t seem to just “get it together” and act neurotypical when, in fact, they’re not. In this case, many parents feel blamed or shamed for their child’s behavior.

Odd behaviors are not the result of bad parenting. Children with special needs may moan, groan, yell, clap or engage in a stimming activity to selfsoothe such as rocking, rolling or swaying. They may make a ruckus if overwhelmed or overstimulated because they don’t have the ability to communicate otherwise. Special needs children are not making a show for attention, and their behavior isn’t an indicator that they’ve not been parented well.

Parents aren’t the only ones impacted by life with special needs. It’s natural for sibling rivalry to occur between brothers and sisters. But when one child requires the majority of the family’s time, energy and resources, it can cause a mix of emotions for a non-special needs sibling such as guilt for being well, anger or resentment for feeling unseen or shame about peer response to the family dynamic. Our special needs child then isn’t the only one with unique needs. Our other children need friends and special supports to better equip them for the dynamic present at home.

WAYS YOU CAN SUPPORT A SPECIAL NEEDS PARENT

If you have a friend or loved one with a special needs child and you don’t know how to help, here are some great starting points.

Ask. One of the greatest ways to show care to special needs parents is to simply ask what helps them the most. Not only do degree and severity of special needs differ, but so do the needs and temperaments of special needs parents. Just simply stating, “How can I help the most?” is a great starting point and a gift itself.

Learn. Do your due diligence to become better informed regarding the special need your loved one is facing. Watch a documentary, take a class, read some books or listen to podcasts that help you become better informed so that you can more actively engage in kind and appropriate ways during your next interaction.

Babysit. Childcare for special needs can be incredibly limited, not to mention expensive. It’s a huge gift, then, when a loved one makes the effort to provide respite care for any length of time, be it an hour, a day or a weekend. If you find that providing childcare for a special needs child is outside your comfort zone, consider offering these alternative services instead:

• Offer to babysit the special needs child’s siblings. Take them to the park, offer to drive them to extracurriculars or do a special outing they wouldn’t be able to participate in with their sibling, such as going to the movies or a theater show.

• Offer to watch the special needs child while Mom and Dad are at home, close enough to assist if needed, but otherwise given the freedom to catch up on work, household chores or self-care such as reading, journaling, working out or resting.

• Offer to help with housework so that your loved one has more bandwidth to be fully present with her child

Pick up the tab. Special needs can cost a bundle, and many parents let their own needs go. Thoughtful gifts like restaurant gift cards, grocery delivery, spa services (haircut, massage, pedicure, etc.), or a gym membership can go a long way in helping Mom and Dad feel loved.

Accommodate. When planning an outing that includes your loved one’s child, make sure the venue will accommodate their needs, for instance access at an optimum time of day, wheelchair accessibility, a sensory friendly room and a menu that covers dietary restrictions.

Be there. A good friend doesn’t have to have all the right answers or provide all the right resources. Sometimes it’s as simple as sending a text of encouragement, leaving a note on the doorstep or offering to go on a walk. Presence truly can be one of the greatest presents.

Lauren Greenlee is a boymom of four neurocreatives ranging from teenagers to toddler. She writes from her Olathe home.

THE BENEFITS OF SAYING NO

Boy, was I thankful for baby gates as a young mom! I remember jumping up from the couch every time I saw my little one make a beeline for the Berber-carpeted stairs that took a steep dive toward the finished basement. It never really mattered how many times I would tell her no-no! Mommy doesn’t want you to get hurt! She would still go directly to where she wasn’t supposed to go. She didn’t understand she was in danger, and as often as I would redirect her from that peril, she would still head straight to the forbidden. I remember telling my husband how setting a few physical boundaries gave our little girl freedom in her own space; it made her feel secure and safe and allowed me to relax. It also saved me from using no as a reflex response! Ironically, boundaries in our home became a place of movement and growth.

Is your home a retreat from responsibility or a place of movement and growth?

– DR. HENRY CLOUD

Children are born without an understanding of power and constantly try to control things and assert power over things that are not theirs. The beauty of boundary development is that it respects the limits of others, involves self-protection and offers a sense of control and choice. Using the word no in boundary development allows for correction and provides children with more internal structure and responsibility. Children mature by gathering information and sometimes making mistakes and choices within their boundaries, but those mistakes are their teachers! I have always thought of boundaries as the banks of a river. Children have so much freedom and opportunity within the banks of their river, but if we don’t teach them ownership and responsibility within those riverbanks, kids spill over into other areas and lose control. They often blame others for their mistakes and don’t take responsibility for their choices.

Ultimately, teaching children that their success or failure depends on them and their own choices within their river fosters ownership and responsibility. As parents, we have the job of helping our children take the initiative to think, make good decisions and find a balance of control in their lives. When children make decisions suitable for their age, they feel a sense of control and security, and when they feel secure, they are more content and confident. Though they can certainly look to God for comfort and instruction, they have experienced accountability for their own choices. As parents, we may ache to prevent our children from making painful decisions, but that can diminish the importance of our children’s taking responsibility for their actions within the sovereignty of God. They must learn to consider the importance of making their own decisions and not relying on others to make those decisions for them. Tying in consequences to a child’s actions best replicates a broader worldview beyond the tiny one they see from their immature perspective. It prepares them to become healthy, functioning adults in a very big world!

I often find myself kneeling at eye level with my children. Seeing things from their perspective helps me glimpse how they view their world, and their world is big and overwhelming! I can understand how if children have no boundaries in this big and overwhelming world, they lose respect for others and do not understand limits. They can run across the street anytime, take from others when they feel like it and set boundaries around things that are not theirs. Children who never understand their limits to power can become controlling. Setting boundaries— even when it means disappointing others—tells them how they should treat you. A boundary is a safe way to create healthy relationships and interactions, but control tells others what they can and cannot do. It’s not about controlling children but setting boundaries for them to take ownership of their actions and choices.

Springing forward 21 years from that baby gate obsessed toddler, I find that one of the most talked about subjects in our home today still is boundaries. Yes, we have removed the wooden

baby gates, and yes, we still have the well-worn Berber carpeting on those steep basement stairs, but we don’t have to use the word no much anymore. Creating boundaries for our young children was good; it created a safe place, saved my sanity, taught my children responsibility and respect, and taught them ownership of their decisions and life’s problems. Boundaries also define us as parents; they show our children where we end and they begin. That leads to respect, trust and patience! The word no can teach children delayed gratification and patience, preparing them for adulthood. As adults, my children better understand what they own because of boundaries and how taking responsibility for their space gives them freedom. They know where their yard ends and others begin. They are free to do what they like in their space.

As you begin to draw boundaries for your child, which often requires the word no, consider your child’s age, abilities and developmental stage. Boundaries are a guide to your children’s behavior and keep them safe—but they don’t necessarily keep them happy!

Be realistic. Children are still growing, learning and pushing the limits. Many times, it isn’t the boundary you have set that they are resisting but how they feel about it. Children are incredibly emotional beings who feel more about things than understand the reasoning behind those things.

Listen to your child. Respect begins with you as the parent modeling it for your children. There is nothing wrong with listening to your child and hearing that he disagrees with your boundaries. That doesn’t mean you change or move his boundaries; it means you are listening to him, even in his frustration. Your boundaries remain firm, and your child’s emotional response does not dictate them.

Consistency is key in responding to your kids. They will push back, so you have to be prepared in your weak and exhausted moments to continue to say no with intention, purpose and calm.

Communicate the boundaries you have created. Lack of communication can cause the most significant breakdown in a family unit. We may assume children know what is going on in our exhausted and overworked brains, but they do not. They need clarity, direction and patience.

Take heart, dear parents! These years go quickly, and the investment you are making in your children’s lives to help them develop healthy responses to the challenges they face as they grow is priceless. Make your home a place of movement and growth!

Elizabeth Hammond thrives in her tiny Overland Park cottage as a homeschooling mama of six who believes that boundaries have become a compass for her children to navigate through life!

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AGRITOURISM

It’s spring, and that means it is time to enjoy the outdoors and unique agritourism experiences.

ALPACAS

Green Meadows Alpaca Ranch (Facebook.com/GreenMeadowsAlpacaRanch) in Holden, Missouri, is a local ranch, Airbnb and agritourism attraction we have come to love. Melissa and Jason Ashley operate the ranch, along with their kids, and they welcome guests to stay overnight or come for an afternoon “Paca Picnic.”

The scenic farm is home to 33 Suri and Huacaya alpacas. Suris are known for their twisted strings and locks, and Huacayas are fluffy and soft. Both are beautiful, and each alpaca has its own unique personality. The farm is also home to two llamas, one llama/alpaca cross, goats, sheep, turkey, guineas, chickens, ducks, cats and dogs.

Overnight guests stay in luxurious bedrooms, or they may opt to bring a tent and camp outside. Guests get to feed the animals a few times during their stay, spray down the alpacas to cool them off if it’s hot, and pet and hold them. Guests learn about the different types of alpacas and other animals, their fleeces, their care and their individual stories and personalities.

If you’d like to make a day trip rather than an overnight, consider a Paca Picnic, where two to 10 guests get to feed the alpacas and bring their own picnic to enjoy on the farm.

Shatto Milk Company (ShattoMilk.com) has become Kansas City’s dairy, known for specialty milk celebrating holidays and local sports. On a tour of the farm, visitors have the chance to explore a working dairy farm and milk bottling company that offers tours to groups of any size.

The Shatto family has farmed their land in Osborne, Missouri, for more than 120 years—70 of those as a dairy farm, with the milk bottling company opening in 2003. One thing that sets Shatto apart is that their cows are not treated with growth hormones. And, of course, kids love another Shatto trademark … the unique flavors of delicious milk.

On an hour-and-a-half tour of the farm, you get to experience the entire process from start to finish. Children delight in petting calves, milking cows and meeting the famously happy herd. Watch through a window as milk is processed and bottled, and end your tour by sampling delightful flavors! Root beer, strawberry, orange creme, banana and traditional whole or chocolate milk are a few of the cold, creamy flavors. Shatto opened a brand new cheese-making facility last year, and visitors now can watch the cheese-making process firsthand!

EXPERIENCES

GOATS

For an unforgettable day trip, visit Providence Hill Farm (ProvidenceHillFarm.net) in Atchison, Kansas. Christy Harris, the owner and creative mind behind the business, loves sharing unique goat experiences with visitors to the farm. On our family’s visit, we held baby goats, petted the goats, tried her freshly made goat cheese and, best of all, went hiking with goats!

Providence Hill Goat Farm is home to many breeds, including Nigerian dwarf goats, mini sable goats, LaMancha (Spanish) goats and Nubian cross, all an assortment of dairy breeds. Harris, a native of Alaska who now calls Kansas home, is passionate about all things natural, and her love of learning, creating, animals and nature led her to goat farming and making products from their milk, including cheese, soap and candles. Harris offers tours, classes and outings for all ages, occasions and group sizes. Her favorite thing is to create a program specifically with your group in mind.

Harris offers a variety of goat programs, including meet-and-greets, yoga, baby goat play, animal-assisted therapy and goat university—great for future goat shepherds.

People often think of goats living on farms with lots of grass, but they love living in the woods. Harris’s goats browse to eat, meaning they will eat leaves, twigs and brush on her property—in addition to the alfalfa, grain, grass and hay that she feeds them. The goats graze in the forest so much that they’ve created paths for visitors to experience the Enchanted Goat Forest.

Hiking with goats was our favorite experience on the farm. We hiked with the goats as they trailed behind, experiencing their home, discovering special spots (including the bow tie tree) and watching as they ate from branches.

Everything produced at Providence Hill is done consciously, seeking the best methods for the environment, the animals and humans. Harris takes pride in knowing that she is “connected to the antiquity of humanity” doing what people have done for thousands of years in the same ways.

Providence Hill Farm is a hidden Atchison gem that offers truly unforgettable experiences that let visitors learn that life truly is better with goats.

SHEEP

Green Dirt Farm (GreenDirtFarm.com) in Weston is open for tours on select dates. This working sheep farm on the bluffs of the Missouri River Valley offers an educational tour unlike any other. Guests learn why grass is the best food for the 150 ewes on the farm, how important healthy soil is to the environment, and what makes the cheese so good. Visitors also learn about pasture rotation while watching the dairy sheep graze on the hills. Guests experience a guided tour of the pastures (hilly, grassy and dirty … dress for the occasion), meet the sheep and learn all about the dairy farm.

The highlights of the tour, though, are the final steps: watching as the sheep are milked in the milking parlor, peeking into the cheese kitchen and a tasting of three cheeses in the retail shop. On the hour-long tour, guides use the opportunity to educate and entertain guests who learn about the environmentally friendly and healthy practices that make Green Dirt Farm cheeses so special. Reservations are required, and admission is charged.

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From April 11 to 28, enjoy Tulips at Twilight at Old Prairie Town where the gardens are decorated with more than 90 lighted displays including larger-than-life illuminated flowers. VisitTopeka.com

watch

The Peking Acrobats will perform on April 21 at Midwest Trust Center. Marvel at daring maneuvers, trick cycling, precision tumbling, juggling and gymnastics. JCCC.edu

landscape

On April 13, attend the free Kansas Healthy Yards Expo at Shawnee Civic Centre. Discover simple earthfriendly practices for achieving a nice yard. Johnson.K-State.edu

explore

Introduce your family to opera with a showing of The Haberdasher Prince at various locations throughout the month. Story of a musical king and his not-verymusical son.

KCOpera.org

celebrate

Celebrate with the free Passport to India April 21 at the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art.

Enjoy Bollywood and classical films, a colorful fashion show, art activities and more.

Nelson-Atkins.org

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Tulips at Twilight at Old Prairie Town

1 Monday

APRIL FOOLS’ DAY

Journey to Oz Thru May 5, Crown Center. A free exhibit celebrating the 85th anniversary of the film lets you explore the enchanting world of Oz. CrownCenter.com

Plaza Easter Bunnies Thru April 8, Country Club Plaza. Iconic statues transform the Plaza into an Easter wonderland, a tradition dating back nearly 100 years. CountryClubPlaza.com

Sensory-Friendly Days 9:00, Johnson County Museum. This limited-occupancy session is for children and families with sensory processing differences. JCPRD.com

Farmstead Opening Day 9:00, Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead. Experience life on a turn-of-the-century Kansas farm with animals, gardens, a fishing pond and more. VisitOverlandPark.com

Open Gym 9:30, Kaw Prairie Community Church. Grab a coffee from the coffee shop and hang out with friends while your kiddos play! KawPrairie.info

Mom & Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. For just $3 per person, you get a game, shoe rental and drink. SummitLanes.com

Pirate Treasure Hunt 10:00, Sea Life Kansas City. Join the Pirate Crew at this exclusive event and go on a quest to find the lost treasure. VisitSeaLife.com

Lego Ninjago Dragon’s Rising 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center. Learn the skills of Spinjitzu at the Ninjago Training Camp. LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com

Knox Classical School Info Meeting 7:00, Knox Classical School. Learn about this new school offering K-3 beginning in fall 2024. KnoxKC.org

2 Tuesday

Naked Mole Rat Gets Dressed Thru May 19, Coterie Theatre. Live rock ’n’ roll parable based on the beloved children’s book by Mo Willems. TheCoterie.org

We, the People: Exhibit 9:00, National Archives at Kansas City. An exhibit focused on how records impact the lives of every American. Archives.gov/Kansas-City

Little Explorers 9:00, Tony Aguirre Community Center. Bring your little ones out for an hour of exploration doing self-guided activities and play. KCParks.org

Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Merriam Community Center. Ride and slide, drive, pull or push your favorite Little Tikes vehicles. Merriam.org

Discovery Day 10:00, Overland Park Arboretum. Free admission day and make-andtake project. February features a leaf bookmark. OPKansas.org

Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com

3 Wednesday

Giggle Time Children’s Program 10:00, Tomahawk Ridge Community Center. Free program featuring storyteller Priscilla Howe. OPKansas.org

Splash with Me: Lenexa Rec Center 10:00, Lenexa Rec Center. Let your little ones splash, play and build confidence in the water. Lenexa. com

Sensory Sensitive Story Time 10:00, MCPL – Red Bridge Branch. This story time is designed to be inclusive of sensory processing differences. MyMCPL.org

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Catchy songs and lively concerts get the whole family dancing and learning in Spanish and English.

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Spring Fling

April 20, Science City at Union Station. Experience a jam-packed day of hands-on activities, demos and family fun.

Family Night 5:00, Lenexa Public Market. Bring the whole gang for free activities like a balloon artist and classic board games. LenexaPublicMarket.com

The Thorn Thru April 4, Kansas City Music Hall. An immersive show featuring live music, drama, aerial acts and dance telling the epic story of God’s love. TheThorn.com

4 Thursday

Journey to Oz Thru May 5, Crown Center. Free exhibit celebrating the 85th anniversary of the film lets you explore the enchanting world of Oz. CrownCenter.com

Playtime 8:30, Inspired Play Cafe. Enjoy an educational environment for children and a fullservice cafe with nutritious food and beverages for adults and caregivers. InspiredPlayCafe.com

Thursday Toddler Time at Ceramic Cafe 10:00, Ceramic Cafe. Toddlers 5 and under paint one of our selected items for just $12. CeramicCafeKC.com

Visit Sea Life 10:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Bring the kids to see the Doodle Reef, the touch pool, Stingray Bay and more! Purchase tickets online at VisitSeaLife.com.

Visit the Zoo 10:00, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. The zoo is open year-round with thousands of animals to visit at the zoo and aquarium. KansasCityZoo.org

First Thursdays Chocolate Walk 4:00, Historic Downtown Liberty. Indulge in a variety of chocolate delights from more than 20 local shops. LibertyMissouri.gov

5 Friday

The Diary of Anne Frank Thru April 7, Sermon Community Center. The story of the Frank family who lived in Germany and had to go into hiding during WWII. CityTheatreOfIndependence.org

Plaza Easter Bunnies Thru April 8, Country Club Plaza. Iconic statues transform the Plaza into an Easter wonderland, a tradition dating back nearly 100 years. CountryClubPlaza.com

Storybook Trail Thru April 14, Armstrong Park. Enjoy reading, exercising and family time all in one! A fun story will be displayed along the Armstrong Park Trail. CityOfGrainValley.org

Jumperoo 8:00, Urban Air Trampoline Park Overland Park. Children 5 and under and their parent/guardian are invited to jump, bounce and crawl around safely. UrbanAirOP.com

Preschool Splash 9:30, Blue Valley Activity Center. For $7 a visit, one adult and up to two kids 5 and under get full access to the heated pool and lazy river. BlueValleyRec.org

Toddler Time 10:00, Blue Springs Fieldhouse. Children ages 6 months to 5 years old play inside on cars, scooters, slides, playhouse, books, mats and more! BlueSpringsGov.com

Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Cafe. Read a book, then the kids get to paint a ceramic item that goes along with the story and finish with a snack. CeramicCafeKC.com

Collection Tour Noon, The Underground. Come visit Kansas City’s car collection in the subterranean facility that features an eclectic assemblage of vehicles. KansasCityAutoMuseum.com

Junkin Market Days KC 4:00, Adams Pointe Conference Center. The markets feature boutique clothes, jewelry, home decor, furniture, candles, gourmet foods and more. JunkinMarketDays.com

Club SciKidz Camp Jurassic 4:30, Idea Space. Campers learn about a variety of dinosaurs and their habitats. Register at IdeaSpaceKC.org

Arty Party 4:30, Indian Creek Library. Explore your creativity and express yourself through a drop-in crafting station. OlatheLibrary.com

Puzzle Madness 5:30, Gamber Community Center. This jigsaw puzzle competition is a race against teams to see who can finish building their puzzle the fastest. CityOfLS.net

Harriman-Jewell Series Presents Step Afrika! 7:00, Folly Theater. Performances integrate songs, storytelling, humor and audience participation. HJSeries.org

First Fridays in the Crossroads 7:00, Crossroads Art District. Art galleries, retailers and other participating art venues showcase art for free. KCCrossroads.org

Quicksilver 7:30, Grace & Holy Trinity Cathedral. The group brings together today’s top North American historically-informed performers. ChamberMusic.org

6 Saturday

Week of Young Child in Science City Thru April 12, Science City at Union Station. Focusing public attention on the needs of young children and their families. ScienceCity.UnionStation.org

Lattice Planter Project 9:00, Home Depot locations across the metro. Free in-person workshop for children. Make a lattice planter this month. HomeDepot.com

EXPLORE A DIFFERENT PATH

Christ-Centered, Classical, Collaborative Education in Johnson County

• Grades K-3, and growing

• Hybrid model: Two days on campus, three days at home

• Member of the Association of Classical Christian Schools and the Society for Classical Learning

Learn more and preview our robust curriculum at an upcoming info meeting.

Monday, April 1 | 7:00 pm

Sunday, April 28 | 12:30 pm RSVP at www.knoxkc.org

Hike with a Naturalist 10:30, Lakeside Nature Center. Hike focused on habitats around Lakeside Nature Center. Dress for the weather and enjoy this free program. LakesideNatureCenter.org

Backyard Chickens 101 10:00, Shawnee Town 1929. Join expert Vonnie Fisher at the historic 1920s coop to learn about chickens. ShawneeTown.org

Dino Lab Open House 11:00, Science City at Union Station. Get hands-on with paleontology. Guests receive a free fossil. Learn all about dinosaurs. ScienceCity.UnionStation.org

The Haberdasher Prince 11:00, Michael and Ginger Frost Production Arts. New opera for families about a musical king and his not-verymusical son. KCOpera.org

Cedar Cove: Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary. See these epic animals and learn about their characteristics and behaviors! SaveOurSiberians.org

Friends of the Library Pop-Up Book Sale 11:30, Johnson County Library Friends HQ. Shop gently used books and items. Enjoy 20% Friends Members discount all day. JoCoLibrary.com

Spring Open House Noon, Historic Downtown Excelsior Springs. Explore the shops, boutiques and galleries and enjoy spring discounts. VisitExcelsior.com

Hands-On History Noon, National WWI Museum and Memorial. History is brought to life in this family-friendly program. Handle Great War artifacts. TheWorldWar.org

Shark Feeding 1:00, Wonders of Wildlife. Stop by our Out to Sea exhibit to watch our team feed the sharks at Wonders of Wildlife. Included in admission. WondersOfWildlife.org

7 Sunday

Naked Mole Rat Gets Dressed Thru May 19, Coterie Theatre. Live rock ’n’ roll parable based on the beloved children’s book by Mo Willems. TheCoterie.org

Brunch and Bingo 10:00, Chicken N Pickle: Overland Park. Hang out with us every Sunday for free bingo! ChickenNPickle.com

The Haberdasher Prince 2:00, KC Public Library – Central Branch. New opera for families about a musical king and his not-very-musical son. KCOpera.org

Operation Wildlife 2:00, MCPL – Red Bridge Branch. Learn the facts and the future of wild babies and birds. MyMCPL.org

Harriman-Jewell Series Presents Emanuel Ax, Piano 3:00, Folly Theater. One of the most respected and awarded pianists of all time performs in Kansas City. HJSeries.org

8 Monday

SOLAR ECLIPSE

Storybook Trail Thru April 14, Armstrong Park. Enjoy reading, exercising and family time all in one! A fun story will be displayed along the Armstrong Park Trail. CityOfGrainValley.org

Visit Legoland 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center. Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com

eclipse will paint the skies in mesmerizing hues.

9 Tuesday

Goldilocks and the Three Bears Thru May 4, Theatre for Young America. A delightful play for young children performed on the City Stage at Union Station. TYA.org

Playtime 8:30, Inspired Play Cafe. Enjoy an educational environment for children and a fullservice cafe with nutritious food and beverages for adults and caregivers. InspiredPlayCafe.com

Prairie Village Art Walk 9:00, Meadowbrook Park. Grab your favorite walking shoes to celebrate spring and our city’s public sculptures. ArtsPV.org

Play 9:00, Kanga’s Indoor Playcenter. This vibrant, safe indoor center offers activity areas for young children designed to help them learn through play. KangasPlaycenter.com

Acoustic Night 6:00, Garrison Community Center. Enjoy a night of relaxing acoustic music performed by local musicians during this free concert. LibertyMissouri.gov

10 Wednesday

Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Community Center. This activity provides kids a place to run, ride and play while making new friends. Lenexa.com

Mom & Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. For just $3 per person, you get a game, shoe rental and drink. SummitLanes.com

Visit the Zoo 10:00, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. The zoo is open year-round with thousands of animals to visit at the zoo and aquarium. KansasCityZoo.org

Retro Story Time 10:00, Johnson County Museum. Preschoolers love stories and crafts from long ago, read by a special guest from the 1950s All-Electric House. JCPRD.com

Family Skate Night 6:00, Winnwood Skate. Every Wednesday is family night at the rollerskating rink. WinnwoodSk8.com

11 Thursday

Thursday Toddler Time at Ceramic Cafe 10:00, Ceramic Cafe. Toddlers 5 and under paint one of our selected items for just $12. CeramicCafeKC.com

Watkins Tiny Tours! 10:30, Watkins Museum. Interactive hands-on activities based on Lawrence history for children ages 3-5. WatkinsMuseum.org

MUSEUM HOURS

Monday - Saturday 9am - 4:30pm

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Trucks & Big Rigs for Kids 10:00, Shawnee Mission Park. Crawl, climb and sit in the driver’s seat and talk with the real-life operators of these vehicles. JCPRD.com

Free Day at Lanesfield School 10:00, Lanesfield School Historic Site. Visit the oldest operating schoolhouse in Johnson County. JCPRD.com

Birds: Owls Are a Hoot! 10:00, Anita B. Gorman Park. Learn about owl species and conservation efforts to support owl populations. MDC.MO.gov

Let’s Partea 10:00, Vesper Hall. Princesses and knights ages 3-10 are invited to enjoy royal goodie bags, snacks, crafts and sing-a-longs. BlueSpringsGov.com

Little Acorns 10:00, Anita B. Gorman Discovery Center. Registration required. Join naturalists for hands-on nature projects. MDC.mo.gov

Early Childhood Panther Playdate 10:00, Oakhill Day School. Register for this opportunity to experience Oakhill. OakhillDaySchool.org

Garden Tea 10:30, Powell Gardens. Enjoy a champagne tea service complete with sparkling wine, botanical tea and a selection of sweet and savory treats. PowellGardens.org

GRIMMZ Fairy Tales 11:00, Starlight Theatre. The stories of the Brothers Grimm come to life with a contemporary hip-hop spin. KCStarlight.com

Bear Frolics 11:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. Enjoy a bear-themed puppet show on Saturdays, April 13, 20 and 27. Bear puppets sing, dance, juggle and shine. PuppetryArtsInstitute.org

Hands-On History Noon, National WWI Museum and Memorial. History is brought to life in this family-friendly program. Handle Great War artifacts. TheWorldWar.org

Conservation Families: Archery and Sunset Stroll 6:30, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Shoot archery targets and enjoy an interpretive nature stroll. MDC.mo.gov

Störling Dance Theater’s Butterfly 7:00, Folly Theater. A piece of beautiful dance theater choreographed by Mona Störling-Enna. StorlingDance.org

14 Sunday

2024 Noah’s Bandage Run 8:30, Corporate Woods Office Park. This family-friendly race will take place on a flat, scenic route through Corporate Woods. NoahsBandageProject.com

Sensory Play 9:00, Urban Air Trampoline Park Lenexa. A special event designed for children with autism and special needs. Enjoy a calmer atmosphere to play. UrbanAirLenexa.com

Visit Legoland 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center. Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

Spring Shopping 10:00, Family Tree Nursery. Shop Family Tree Nursery’s unbelievably creative garden displays and find everything you need to landscape this spring.

FamilyTreeNursery.com

Brunch and Bingo 10:00, Chicken N Pickle: Overland Park. Hang out with us every Sunday for free bingo! ChickenNPickle.com

Cedar Cove: Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary. See these epic animals and learn about their characteristics and behaviors! SaveOurSiberians.org

15 Monday

Kids Day Out 8:00, Johnson County Museum. Discover history through hands-on activities and exploration of KidScape and museum exhibits, play games and enjoy downtime. JCPRD.com

SIX-STOP TOUR: GO GREEN

April kicks off spring and brings Earth Day … excellent reminders of the importance of going green and taking steps to reduce, reuse and recycle.

1. CRAFT IT

Scraps KC, located in Downtown KC, is a shop filled with items begging to be creatively repurposed. You’ll find everything from the unusual to the ordinary: yarn, fabric, bottles, art supplies, paper, plastic, frames and everything in between. A new purpose is just waiting for everything in this oasis for creatives.

2. MAKE IT

Habitat for Humanity has five local ReStore locations. At the shops, they sell remodeling materials that would otherwise be discarded. Donated materials— everything from hardware, tile and carpet to the proverbial kitchen sink and furnishings—are sold at a fraction of retail. Good for the budget, good for the environment and a good cause for the community.

3. GREEN SPRING

Powell Gardens, a 970-acre botanical garden, features an entirely edible landscape in their Heartland Harvest Garden, a 600-foot living rock wall, 3-mile nature trail, meadows and flower gardens. Through classes, tours and programs, they are committed to nature education for both novice and expert gardeners. Many of the plants are regionally native, and all highlight the changing seasons.

4. NATURE LOVERS

Located in Swope Park, Lakeside Nature Center is home to native wildlife including birds of prey, snakes, amphibians, turtles, fish and invertebrates. The center helps care for injured animals and abandoned native animals. With interactive exhibits teaching the importance of conservation and the role we play in protecting nature, the center is dedicated to education

5. GREEN ZOO

The Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium knows the importance of the environment, and they practice what they preach through a variety of initiatives, including a compost program, environmentally friendly construction, the purchase of sustainable products, the use of solar panels and the sale of composted animal manure, or Zoo Manoo, to the public year-round.

6. EAT GREEN

Cafe Gratitude, located on Southwest Boulevard, is a leader in environmentally friendly dining. They specialize in gourmet plantbased cuisine that is nutritious and delicious. The menu spotlights food that is healthy and sustainable. In addition to a welcoming and warm restaurant, the cafe also offer classes and workshops related to healthy living.

Visit the Zoo 10:00, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. The zoo is open year-round with thousands of animals to visit at the zoo and aquarium. KansasCityZoo.org

Journey to Oz Thru May 5, Crown Center. Free exhibit celebrating the 85th anniversary of the film lets you explore the enchanting world of Oz. CrownCenter.com

16 Tuesday

Fountain Day 9:00, Zona Rosa. Kansas City is known as the “City of Fountains,” and on this day the entire city celebrates when all publiclyoperated fountains get turned on. ZonaRosa.com

Open Gym 9:30, Kaw Prairie Community Church. Grab a coffee from the coffee shop and hang out with friends while your kiddos play! KawPrairie.info

Visit Sea Life 10:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Bring the kids to see the Doodle Reef, the touch pool, Stingray Bay and more! Purchase tickets online at VisitSeaLife.com.

Totally Tots 10:30, Kemper Museum of Contemporary Art. Sing songs, read books, explore art and make your own art at this free program. KemperArt.org

17 Wednesday

The Savannah Sipping Society Thru April 28, Chestnut Fine Arts Center. A delightful comedy where four women are drawn together at an impromptu happy hour. ChestnutFineArts.com

Kansas Autism Conference 8:30, Kansas Association of School Boards. Opportunity for teachers, caregivers or parents to learn more about autism. EasterSeals.com

Storybook STEAM—Rosie Revere Engineer 10:00, Tony Aguirre Community Center. Journey into the world of science, technology, engineering, art and mathematics (STEAM). KCParks.org

Operation Art: Family 10:00, KCK Library –West Wyandotte. Foster independence, selfregulation, creative thinking, experimentation and fine motor skills in children. KCKPL.org

Baby Goat Meet and Greet 2:00, Providence Hill Farm. Come and meet our adorable baby goats and learn about raising dairy goats. ProvidenceHillFarm.net

Wheel of Fortune LIVE! 7:30, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. One of the greatest game shows of all time has been adapted into a stage show. KauffmanCenter.org

18 Thursday

Midwest GameFest 8:00, Stoney Creek Hotel. Four-day tabletop hobby game convention. In-person RPGs, historical miniatures, board games and more. MidwestGameFest.org

Play 9:00, Kanga’s Indoor Playcenter. This vibrant safe indoor center offers activity areas for young children designed to help them learn through play. KangasPlaycenter.com

Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com

Thursday Toddler Time at Ceramic Cafe 10:002:00, Ceramic Cafe. Toddlers 5 and under get to paint one of our selected items for just $12. CeramicCafeKC.com

Free Family Fun Night 5:00, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. Enjoy a special place where children can create, discover and learn through play. KansasDiscovery.org

19 Friday

The Real Inspector Hound Thru May 5, Olathe Civic Theatre. In the hilarious spoof of Agatha Christie-like melodramas, this is a riotous play for the family. OlatheTheatre.org

Jumperoo 8:00, Urban Air Trampoline Park Overland Park. Children 5 and under and their parent/guardian are invited to jump, bounce and crawl around safely. UrbanAirOP.com

Preschool Splash 9:30, Blue Valley Activity Center. For $7 a visit, one adult and up to two kids 5 and under get full access to the heated pool and lazy river. BlueValleyRec.org

Toddler Time 10:00, Blue Springs Fieldhouse. Children ages 6 months to 5 years old play inside on cars, scooters, slides, playhouse, books, mats and more! BlueSpringsGov.com

Family Program: Dandelion Play 10:00, Powell Gardens. Enjoy story time, craft making, a snack and garden adventure to look for dandelions at Powell Gardens. PowellGardens.org

Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Cafe. Read a book, then the kids get to paint a ceramic item that goes along with the story and finish with a snack. CeramicCafeKC.com

Critter Feeding 2:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Captive amphibians, fish and turtles enjoy their feast every Tuesday and Friday. MDC.mo.gov

Club SciKidz Camp Jurassic 4:30, Idea Space. Campers learn about a variety of dinosaurs and their habitats. Register at IdeaSpaceKC.org

Local Life: Overland Park 6:00, Downtown Overland Park. Shop and dine at locally owned businesses and enjoy local activities. DowntownOP.org

20 Saturday

Spring Craft Show 9:00, High Blue Wellness Center. Featuring more than 50 local craft vendors! Come in to kick off your spring with something unique. BeltonParks.org

Spring Fling 10:00, Science City at Union Station. Bring your entire family for an exciting day jam-packed with hands-on activities, interactive demos and plenty of fun. UnionStation.org

Earth Day 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Explore nature in the city and things you can do to support the earth. LakesideNatureCenter.org

Conservation Families: Get Outdoors! 10:00, Blue Springs Rotary Park. Activities include fishing, wild edible plants, birding, outdoor yoga and archery. BlueSpringsGov.com

Teen Hangout: Unleash Your Creativity 11:00, MCPL – Red Bridge Branch. At this event, teens will have a blast exploring their artistic side in a wide variety of ways. MyMCPL.org

Bear Frolics 11:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. Enjoy a bear-themed puppet show on Saturdays, April 13, 20 and 27. Bear puppets sing, dance, juggle and shine. PuppetryArtsInstitute.org

Friends of the Library Pop-Up Book Sale 11:30, Johnson County Library Friends HQ. Shop gently used books and items. Enjoy 20% Friends Members discount all day. JoCoLibrary.com

Earth Day 1:00, Indian Creek Library. Take an Earth Day pledge, make recycled and naturethemed crafts and learn to care for planet Earth. OlatheLibrary.com

Hands-On History Noon, National WWI Museum and Memorial. History is brought to life in this family-friendly program. Handle Great War artifacts. TheWorldWar.org

Shark Feeding 1:00, Wonders of Wildlife. Stop by our Out to Sea exhibit to watch our team feed the sharks at Wonders of Wildlife. Included in admission. WondersOfWildlife.org

The Peking Acrobats

April 21, Midwest Trust Center. Witness daring maneuvers, trick cycling, precision tumbling, juggling and gymnastics.

21 Sunday

Naked Mole Rat Gets Dressed Thru May 19, Coterie Theatre. Live rock ’n’ roll parable based on the beloved children’s book by Mo Willems. TheCoterie.org

Passport to India 10:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Free festival. Enjoy Bollywood and classical films, a colorful fashion show, art activities and more. Registration required. Nelson-Atkins.org

Cedar Cove: Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary. See these epic animals and learn about their characteristics and behaviors! SaveOurSiberians.org

Flights of Fancy Noon, MCC-Longview. Bring blankets and chairs to this free festival featuring awe-inspiring mega kites, power kites, stunt kites and more. MCCKC.edu

Sunday Afternoon Free Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. A 30-minute free program on nature topics will be presented each day. LawrenceKS.org

Paint a Sheep 2:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm. Pinot’s Palette will host a painting workshop as a fundraiser for Mahaffie. Mahaffie.org

Overland Park Orchestra’s 50th Anniversary Celebration 3:00, Matt Ross Community Center. This concert will be a momentous occasion featuring many favorites. OPOrchestra.org

The Peking Acrobats 7:00, Midwest Trust Center. See daring maneuvers atop a precarious pagoda of chairs and watch trick cycling, precision tumbling, juggling, somersaulting and gymnastics. JCCC.edu

22 Monday

Playtime 8:30, Inspired Play Cafe. Enjoy an educational environment for children and a fullservice cafe with nutritious food and beverages for adults and caregivers. InspiredPlayCafe.com

School’s Out! Nerf War 9:00, Raymore Activity Center (RAC). Themed day with many variations of Nerf battles. Nerf guns and darts are provided. Register at Raymore.com.

Museum Visit 9:00, Harry S. Truman Presidential Library. Explore the museum commemorating President Truman and American history. TrumanLibrary.gov

The Haberdasher Prince 6:00, Victory Hills Baptist Church. New opera for families about a musical king and his not-very-musical son. KCOpera.org

23 Tuesday

We, the People: Exhibit 9:00, National Archives at Kansas City. An exhibit focused on how records impact the lives of every American. Archives.gov/Kansas-City

Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com

Splash with Me: Lenexa Rec Center 10:00, Lenexa Rec Center. Let your little ones splash, play and build confidence in the water. Lenexa.com

AKMA After Hours 5:00, Albrecht-Kemper Museum of Art. Free after-hours event featuring kids games and activities, a chance to see exhibits and art activities. Albrecht-Kemper.org

Tulips at Twilight Thru April 28, Old Prairie Town. More than 90 lighted displays including larger-than-life illuminated flowers and thousands of multicolored tulips. VisitTopeka.com

24 Wednesday

Spring Shopping 10:00, Family Tree Nursery. Shop Family Tree Nursery’s unbelievably creative garden displays and find everything you need to landscape this spring. FamilyTreeNursery.com

Family Night 5:00, Lenexa Public Market. Bring the whole gang for free activities like a balloon artist and classic board games. LenexaPublicMarket.com

Family Skate Night 6:00, Winnwood Skate. Every Wednesday is family night at the rollerskating rink. WinnwoodSk8.com

Squabbles Thru June 30, The New Theatre. Jerry and Alice are happily married. Then her father moves in with them. Then his mother moves in with them. NewTheatre.com

25 Thursday

Spring Homeschool Days 10:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm. Activities may include visiting the Mahaffie House, cookstove and blacksmith demonstrations. Mahaffie.org

Thursday Toddler Time at Ceramic Cafe 10:00-2:00, Ceramic Cafe. Toddlers 5 and under get to paint one of our selected items for just $12. CeramicCafeKC.com

Visit Legoland 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center. Take the kids to the ultimate indoor playground for the biggest fans of Lego. Purchase tickets at LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com.

Music & Movement Toddler Time 10:30, KC Public Library – Central Branch. Build early literacy and language skills through song, dance and movement games. KCLibrary.org

A Fox on the Fairway Thru April 28, Corbin Theatre. Filled with mistaken identities and over-the-top romantic shenanigans, it’s a furiously paced comedy. CorbinTheatre.org

Girl Scout Day

April 27, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. Scouts in branded apparel receive free admission and can participate in activities around the Zoo.

26 Friday

Pleasant Hill Railroad Days Thru April 28, Downtown Pleasant Hill, Mo. Free event featuring model trains, vendors, re-enactors, music and more. PHillRailroadDays.com

Club SciKidz Camp Jurassic 4:30, Idea Space. Campers learn about a variety of dinosaurs and their habitats. Register at IdeaSpaceKC.org

Final Fridays 5:00, Downtown Lawrence. Storefronts convert into flash spaces, and performances and exhibits spill in and out of galleries and businesses. ExploreLawrence.com

Food Fest Friday 5:30, Raymore Recreation Park. Enjoy live music, food truck service and family fun! Raymore.com

Fourth Fridays Art Walk 6:00, Downtown Lee’s Summit. Local artists and live music performances that you can enjoy at participating shops and restaurants. DowntownLS.org

Spark of Genius 7:30, Folly Theater. The International Chamber Music Series will close with the fiery genius of Felix Mendelssohn in his String Quintet in B-flat Major. ChamberMusic.org

27 Saturday

Adventure Center Open House 9:00, TimberRidge Adventure Center. Archery, BB gun shooting, slingshot, canoeing, hiking, fishing, kayaking, pedal boating and more. JCPRD.com

Girl Scout Day 9:30, KC Zoo & Aquarium. Scouts in branded apparel will receive free admission and one parent/guardian accompanying them will receive a discount. KansasCityZoo.org

Little Acorns 10:00, Anita B. Gorman Discovery Center. Registration required. Join naturalists for hands-on nature projects. MDC.mo.gov

Third Annual Bigfoot Search 10:00, Historic Downtown Weston. Bring the family for Weston’s Third Annual Bigfoot Search. Searches available at WestonMo.com.

Field Day Frenzy 10:00, Merriam Community Center. Come play at Field Day Frenzy with prizes, nostalgic games, healthy snacks and water provided for teams of four. Merriam.org

The Silver Snout Variety Show 11:00, MCPL – Red Bridge Branch. Silly dog parody songs, fairy tales and sketches performed with rescue senior dogs. MyMCPL.org

Crawfish Boil 12:00, Peculiar Winery. Enjoy this annual event at Peculiar Winery, including crawfish, potatoes, corn, sausage—plus enjoy live zydeco/Cajun music and lots of fun! Purchase tickets in advance. PeculiarWinery.com

28 Sunday

Naked Mole Rat Gets Dressed Thru May 19, Coterie Theatre. Live rock ’n’ roll parable based on the beloved children’s book by Mo Willems. TheCoterie.org

Cedar Cove: Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary. See these epic animals and learn about their characteristics and behaviors! SaveOurSiberians.org

Live Music 12:00, Serendipity Farm and Vine. A great Sunday at Serendipity! Come out and join us for live music with Garrett Childers from 12 to 3 PM. Our coffee shop and winery will be open. SerendipityFarmAndVine.com

Knox Classical School Information Meeting 12:30, Knox Classical School. Learn about Knox Classical School, offering K-3 beginning fall 2024, at this information meeting. KnoxKC.org

Sunday Afternoon Free Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. A 30-minute free program on nature topics will be presented each day. LawrenceKS.org

Great Wind Festival 2:00, Ironwoods Park Amphitheatre. Free outdoor wind extravaganza celebrating the power and wonder of wind with kites, paper airplanes and more. GreatWindFest.com

The Simon & Garfunkel Story 2:00 and 7:00, Midwest Trust Center. A critically acclaimed concert-style theater show about two boys from Queens who become the world’s most successful music duo of all time. JCCC.edu/midwest-trust-center/events

29 Monday

Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Community Center. This activity provides kids a place to run, ride and play while making new friends. Lenexa.com

Museum Visit 9:00, Harry S. Truman Presidential Library. Explore the museum commemorating President Truman and American history. TrumanLibrary.gov

Dia De Los Ninos Celebration 5:30, KCK Library – South Branch. Celebrate Mexican Children’s Day with educational activities and fun. KCKPL.org

Journey to Oz Thru May 5, Crown Center. Free exhibit celebrating the 85th anniversary of the film lets you explore the enchanting world of Oz. CrownCenter.com

30 Tuesday

Goldilocks and the Three Bears Thru May 4, Theatre for Young America. A delightful play for young children performed on the City Stage at Union Station. TYA.org

Playtime 8:30, Inspired Play Cafe. Enjoy an educational environment for children and a fullservice cafe with nutritious food and beverages for adults and caregivers. InspiredPlayCafe.com

Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com

Shark Feeding 1:00, Wonders of Wildlife. Stop by our Out to Sea exhibit to watch our team feed the sharks at Wonders of Wildlife. Included in admission. WondersOfWildlife.org

Experience the wonders of science through indoor and outdoor interactive exhibits, as well as hands-on, educator-led programs. Younger guests will practice their social and cognitive skills in the play area and learning lab. With new monthly themed programming, there is always something new to explore!