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JUNE 2015

t has arrived! My favorite season of the year is here! In its honor (and because it’s been a while since I’ve written an ABC list), here is my A-Z list homage to SUMMER!

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Air Conditioner: If it’s running, then it must be summer! Beaches: Did you know we have those in Kansas and Missouri? We spend at least one day there each summer. Camp: Not for me, but the girls—they love going away to camp! Daylight: We enjoy extra, and it makes my heart sing! Easy: Not having to worry about school lunches, uniforms, forms, carpool, etc., makes my life easy. Festivals: Summer is chock-full of them! Grilling: The best way to prep a summer meal. Heat: I am not a cold weather gal. Bring on the heat and humidity! Ice Cream: It just tastes better during summertime! June and July: The full months of summer break. Kick Back: It’s summertime, and the living is easy! Take a day just to play. Live Music: This year’s calendar is overflowing with great music acts in the great outdoors! Margaritas: Love to sip on whilst listening to that live music. Nights: We enjoy them longer, and I love it! Outside: The place to be to read, eat, drink, relax, play, etc. Parks: We love to explore new ones and visit favorites. Quiz: A break from studying for quizzes and tests. Read: My older has said the best day is one where you start a book in the morning and finish it in the evening. Swim: Is there anything better than a cool pool on a hot day? Tan Lines: Yes, we use sunscreen, but yes, I love to lounge and get a tan. U2: My fave band is touring this summer—huzzah! Vacation: Our first vacay with extended family is this summer. There are 23 of us traveling together. It will be either great fun or a great disaster. Water: Drink plenty of it and play plenty in it. eXtra Sun: Have I mentioned how much I love the extended daylight? Yawn: Take time out for an afternoon nap. Zucchini: Love the plethora of fresh fruit and veggies!

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MEDIAMIX

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books offer lessons on practice, perseverance and following dreams By McGeath Freeman Forever Young By Bob Dylan Illustrated by Paul Rogers Best for: Ages 5-10 The lyrics of Bob Dylan’s 1974 song “Forever Young” provide the text for this quasi-biography. Paul Rogers’s illustrations fill two-page spreads with vignettes of Dylan’s life in Greenwich Village, the Newport Folk Festival, marching at a 1960s peace demonstration and other details. The street scenes are filled with Dylan’s friends and idols. See if you can spot Jack Kerouac, Joan Baez, Pete Seeger and others. Note all of the city landmarks as well. For parents and grandparents, Forever Young is a fun Where’s Waldo? of hidden references. For those not yet exposed to Dylan, Rogers offers endnotes about the illustrations and listening recommendations.

Leontyne Price: Voice of a Century By Carole Boston Weatherford

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What’s good: Intriguing illustrations

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What’s good: Progressive illustrations that keep the attention of young readers.

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By Marcia Wells

Illustrated by Raul Colón Beautifully depicted with lyrical narration and evocatively-etched watercolors, this book brings to life the story of pioneering African American opera singer Leontyne Price. From the segregated Mississippi Delta of 1927 to a 42-minute standing ovation at the Metropolitan Opera House in 1955, details of her journey draw readers in. Loved by her parents, guided by a college professor and inspired by Marian Anderson’s historic 1939 performance on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial, Leontyne went on to star on Broadway before becoming the first black singer to star at Italy’s famed opera house, La Scala. This is a great tale of perseverance, hard work and following a dream. A wonderful addition for any classroom.

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Imagine Nancy Drew as an African American teenage boy and you’re well on your way to understanding Eddie Red. He and his photographic memory already helped the NYPD solve an art heist in the first installment of this mystery series. In this, the second installment, Eddie and his OCD friend Jonah are traveling to Mexico with Eddie’s family for a conference/vacation. Of course, there is a robbery at their hotel, and believe it or not, Eddie’s father is a suspect. With the help of some local characters, Eddie and his friends set out to solve the crime and save the day.

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hat are you doing, Dad?’ I gave an exasperated huff while he laid bacon in a dry skillet. At 14, I knew more than my dad ever could and food needed oil to keep from sticking in a frying pan. Dad smiled, but said nothing. In a few minutes, I fought to keep my jaw from dropping as the slices swam in a pan full of bacon grease. How did Dad know that? It was my turn now. I didn’t pull the car into the driveway. Instead, I pulled it over the

shallow ditch in front of our home and my choice filled Patrick with disdain. “That’s stupid.” Contempt filled his eyes, daring me to come up with a rationalization. I kept my temper. “I’ll tell you what, son. Why don’t we come out here in a couple hours? Then you can see how stupid I am.” Two hours later, I dragged him away from his pursuits, gathered some tools along with a drain pan and went back to the car. He tagged along, grudging, but curious. I pointed to the ditch. “Lie down and crawl under the engine.” I did the same. “Tell me how stupid I am.” I placed the drain pan under the engine and unscrewed the bolt. Dirty oil poured out. “I have to change the oil and I don’t have a ramp. This way, I have room to do everything I need to do.” He didn’t speak and I could see him grappling with two concepts. He didn’t know as much as he thought he did and I knew more than he thought I could. Point proven. That was almost 30 years ago and now, I have sons aged 14 and 15. I’ll have to go through this again. I hope I have the strength. William R. Bartlett lives in Belton with his family.

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is a wonderful way for children to express themselves and practice important skills used for writing and more. But what can we actually do with all of these masterpieces? Luckily, creative options abound to display your child’s imagination and skill at home without having artwork plastered over every blank wall space he deems appropriate. My kiddos have not yet entered school but do participate in three moms groups, as well as children’s ministry programs through church, and they seem to bring home at least one paper from each of these activities every time. I heard a tip from a speaker in one of my past moms groups to keep one folder per child in the car to help corral the paper clutter before you even exit the vehicle. As for displaying inside your home, designating places that artwork can be displayed can help enforce boundaries and limit the clutter problem. Some possible locations around the house are the refrigerator, front or back doors, the child’s room, a playroom or a family room. In a child’s bedroom or playroom, an inexpensive bulletin board on the wall is an easy solution. However, if you are fine

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with displaying artwork in common areas, there are plenty of ways to show off your young artist’s masterpieces. “We decorate our playroom with it!” suggests Jennifer Gentry, Overland Park mother of three. Laura Loeffert, Overland Park mother of two, agrees and says, “I painted 1-inch thick pieces of wood and cut them to the length I wanted. Then I bought clips from the office section of the store.” Allyce Trusheim, Iowa elementary art teacher and mother of one, says, “I’m always a fan of the easy clothespins on a string against a wall, or I’ve also seen where a clothespin is hot glued to a large picture frame and the artwork is easily changed.” Then comes the dilemma of rotation and keepsakes. Children (and parents alike) are proud and become attached to their masterpieces! Determine a rule that allows your children to be happy but ensures your own sanity. Limiting space can allow children to participate in choosing which pictures they would like to hang up and which ones they can let go. Having a set system can help any family, especially larger families, as that of Sarah Lyons, Olathe mother of six. “My elementary kids bring home a big folder

the last month of school. I pick about five to seven favorites and put them in a file box separated by grade with other awards and a school picture. One folder per grade, one box per kid,” Sarah says. “They bring home at least a dozen pictures and school papers per week, and I toss almost all but the cutest, funniest items, which also go in the big box.” Julie Keller, Olathe mother of three, says, “On top of what Anna brings home from school, she colors and draws every day at home. Favorites are photographed and then displayed for a short period of time, and then I sneak them into the trash.” For those amazing art pieces that keep on coming, there are apps available to help preserve without taking up space. Apps such as Artkive and Keepy allow you to take pictures of all prized work and keep it organized digitally for your family. If you or your child is really interested in art, check out Artsonia.com, where you can share yours and enjoy other children’s art, as well as make great gifts for yourself or those hard-to-buy-for grandparents. Stephanie Loux is the mother of three little ones—including a new baby—and writes from her home in Olathe.

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Father’s Day doesn’t have to involve expensive gifts or extravagant outings. Quality time with family and homemade gifts are often what dads crave over material things. Read on for ideas on how to celebrate Dad’s big day.

30 WAYS TO CELEBRATE

FATHER’S DAY 1. Breakfast in bed. This is usually associated with Mother’s Day, but Dad might enjoy this special treat, too! 2. Collage. Have the kids cut out pictures from magazines and newspapers that represent their father and arrange them in a colorful collage.

3. Homemade t-shirt. Use fabric paint or permanent markers to design a fun shirt for Dad.

4. Make a video. Before the big day, record your kids describing what their father means to them. Surprise him with the video on Father’s Day.

5. Picnic in the yard. Local mom Stacy Taylor has this simple, yet fun, suggestion: Spread a blanket on the grass, pack your family’s favorite foods and enjoy the great outdoors close to home!

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6. One-on-one time. Carving out individual time with children is important yet hard to do sometimes. Make a point on Father’s Day weekend for Dad to spend time with each of his children one-on-one, doing what they like to do together. 7. Gridiron Glory. Take Dad to Union Station to see the best of the Pro Football Hall of Fame at the Gridiron Glory exhibit, now open! 8. Reminisce. Take a journey through old photos and revisit favorite family memories.

9. Make Dad “king for the day.” The kids can decorate a crown for him and spend the day getting him snacks, giving him backrubs and doing what he wants to do.

10. Have a backyard campout. For families who love the outdoors, Father’s Day weekend is the perfect time to go camping, and you don’t have to venture far from home. Pitch a tent in the yard, tell stories in the dark and look for constellations.

11. Treasure hunt. Buy or make a few small gifts, hide them throughout the house and have Dad hunt for them. The kids can draw a map or provide clues.

12. Cookout. Celebrate all the men in your family by inviting them over for a cookout and games in the backyard.

13. Pitch in with a project. Local mom Stacy Green says, “My husband

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loves cleaning the vehicles as long as he has the time, so how about an afternoon helping Dad clean the family car?”

can write lots of little notes describing what they love about Dad and put them in a decorative jar for him to read on his special day.

14. Coupon book. Create “coupons” for chores Dad normally does. Whenever he desires to kick back and relax, he can turn in a coupon and let someone else do that chore.

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he means to the family. Mom and kids can each write their own notes or combine their sentiments into one big letter.

were ages 2 and 5, they used markers to make colorful pictures for Father’s Day. Those drawings meant a lot to my husband and are still hanging in our house.

16. Get outdoors. Get some fresh air and exercise together by going for a hike or bike ride or visiting a park for the afternoon.

17. Turn the driveway into a canvas. Use sidewalk chalk to turn the driveway into words of endearment for Dad and illustrate with colorful drawings.

21. Interview Dad. Children can learn more about their father by asking him questions about his childhood.

22. Photo album. Local mom Tracy Goodall says, “One year I made a photo book with pics of the kids and their dad from birth on. I let the kids pick the pictures, so they helped too. He loved it.”

23. Kid chefs. If your kids are old enough, have them create a smorgasbord of Dad’s favorite foods for lunch or dinner.

18. Make Dad his favorite dessert. Apple pie? Chocolate cake? Whatever his sweet tooth craves, get the kids in the kitchen to help create it.

19. Candy letter. Here’s a unique take on a letter to Dad: Include wrapped candy (glued to heavy stock paper) in addition to words to tell him how much he means. For example: “You are ‘Extra’ special to us and we would be ‘Airheads’ if we didn’t tell you the ‘Mounds’ of love we have for you.

fathers, leaving blanks throughout the story for different parts of speech. Example: “My dad is so _______ (adjective). He likes to _______ (verb) …” Without letting him read the story, ask Dad to supply verbs, adjectives, nouns and adverbs to fill in the blanks. Then read the story aloud—the results are bound to be hilarious!

29. Decorative picture frame. Take a photo of the kids and put it in a frame they’ve decorated. Be creative—you can glue twigs, pebbles or Lego pieces around it, or let the kids write a special message.

30. Dad’s choice! Ask Dad what he wants to do. Maybe an afternoon of golf, a movie marathon or a family trip to the zoo is how he wants to spend the day. Tisha Foley’s two children love to make homemade cards for their dad on Father’s Day.

24. Trivia time. Did you know that the first Father’s Day was celebrated in 1910, but it wasn’t a nationwide holiday until 1972? Find more fun facts about the holiday at History.com and quiz Dad to see if he knows the answers. 25. Start a tradition. For example, if your kids are younger, take a photo of them each year holding a “Happy Father’s Day” sign. Keep the photos in a small album; Dad will like looking back through them to see how the kids have grown. 26. Play a favorite sport. Does Dad like shooting hoops or playing catch? Make a family game out of it. kcparent.com june 2015

FAITH&FAMILY

10 ways to encourage your child’s faith

arents play a vital role in helping shape the faith of their children. There’s never a better time to start encouraging your children to grow in their knowledge and relationship with God than now. Check out these 10 ways to encourage your children in their faith journeys today.

• Pray for and with your kids, and when possible give them a chance to pray too. • Read them an age-appropriate Bible. Check out the Bible App and the Bible App for Kids by YouVersion for engaging, interactive learning experiences. • Listen to faith-based music the whole family can enjoy. Try Seeds Family Worship or MercyMe for starters. • Memorize Bible verses. Write a weekly verse on the bathroom mirror with a dry erase marker for easy access or set it as a screen saver on cell phones for a quick reminder.

• Go outside and point out God’s creation all around, from the tiniest, intricate bug to beautiful, painted sunsets. • Don’t shy away from hard questions. As kids grow up, their questions do too. Try viewing doubts and questions as opportunities to foster kids’ personal relationships with God, and a chance to search the Bible for themselves. • Connect with a faith community. Kids love to have a sense of belonging (don’t we all?), so finding a church home with a children’s or youth group that fits

the needs of your family is a great starting place. • Choose a family life verse. Pick a verse or section of the Bible that represents the heart and desires of your family. Hang it up somewhere in your home and talk about it regularly. Philippians 4:13, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me,” is a popular life verse choice. • Serve others. Volunteer at a food pantry, rake a neighbor’s yard or raise money for a charity or mission trip. Opportunities abound for families to serve others in our cities and beyond. • Model generosity. Showing our kids how to be generous with their time, talents and money, from an early age, helps them understand God’s heart for generosity. Set aside a “giving jar” for a portion of their allowance and give it to your local church or ministry. Encourage them to use their gifts to bless others, and they’ll experience the joy of Jesus’ words from Acts 20:35: “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Faith & Family writer Jena Meyerpeter is praying her way through parenthood one day at a time.

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o you have decided to start running, but where’s the starting line? Overwhelmed by all the helpful information out there? Like most, you may have questions about how far, how fast and how often. Let me help you understand the basics of running and, hopefully, make it easier to get out the door! Running has so many benefits, such as strengthening your heart and cardiovascular system, increasing bone density and improving your mind, body and spirit connection. When we exercise, our body releases endorphins that interact with the receptors in our brain that reduce our perception of pain. Endorphins also trigger a positive feeling in the body, similar to the effects of morphine, often called a “runner’s high.” Running is a high-impact, repetitive activity that can result in overuse injuries—especially in beginners—if you aren’t careful. Consequently, visiting your physician is especially important before beginning a running program, to make sure the activity is right for you. Here are a few simple tips:

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eating only what might be available to you if you lived in the 1800s—that means no boxed food! • Sleep well. Get your eight hours, every night! • Find a good plan and stick with it. The latest recommendations by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention are that we do some form of exercise on a daily basis. However, if you are a beginner I suggest three to four days per week at first. A great way to get started is to get the app “Couch to 5K” from iTunes. This app will provide you with instructions and a plan to go from the couch to a 5K race over a nine-week period. To explore information similar to that found on the app, visit RunningForBeginners.com. Melanie Yunger is a local wife, mother and nurse practitioner who enjoys running for exercise. “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” 2 Timothy 4:7 As always, please consult your health care provider with any questions or concerns.

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Freeze a towel. Find a golf towel or something of a similar size. Wet it, wring it out, fold it, place it in a zip-close baggie and place in the freezer. The next morning, place it in your camper’s lunch. By midday, the towel will have thawed just enough that your camper can place it around his neck. It’s built-in air-conditioning that really helps when the temps soar. Dress them right. I was always a bit taken aback by what some kids wore to camp. Campers need to be dressed to

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hose little eyes are always watching, and little ears are always listening. You are their hero, and they want to be just like you. Watching little ones model your behaviors is heartwarming, but sometimes they model the not-so-flattering habits as well. “My 7-year-old daughter uses phrases I use, and she will correct her younger brother or calm him in the same manner that she has seen me correct or calm him,”

says Jamie Jansen, Kansas City mother of two, ages 3 and 7. “My 3-year-old will follow his older cousins around doing everything they do, and I know he wants to be like his dad when he grows up.” Anna Saviano, licensed professional counselor in the Kansas City area, is not surprised by this behavior. “Children pay special attention to the behavior of adults. They notice everything, and the primary caregivers have the biggest impact,” she says. “Kids repeat what they have witnessed.” Saviano communicates to parents that because of those watchful eyes and always open ears, caregivers and other adults should be cautious of their behaviors. “As caregivers, we need to be especially mindful of what we model. It is good for us to present behaviors that are consistent with our directions to our children, as they build their trust for others by watching what they say and what they do and the congruence in those behaviors,” she says. While putting your best foot forward is always the goal, parents are human too and have moments their children see that are not ideal. “There have been times where I have been frazzled, to say the least, trying to time manage the stresses of life, and I have behaved in a manner I would have preferred to have managed differently,” says Kansas City-area mother of three Krista McGee. She understands that these moments are bound to happen and makes an effort to address them by talking it through. “When I act in a way I’m not proud of,” she says, “I make sure that I take a moment to talk to my kids about how I should have acted.” Jansen seconds these thoughts. “Sometimes my daughter will lose patience and yell at her brother, and when I correct her she reminds me that she has seen me do it,” she says. “I acknowledge that she is correct and apologize. I let her know that, yes, I do yell at times, but that doesn’t make it right and that we all have to work to do better.”

Children pay special attention to the behavior of adults. They notice everything, and the primary caregivers have the biggest impact. Saviano supports talking through when you don’t quite get it right. “I always start with describing what happened. If I have demonstrated a bad behavior, I own it. I don’t want to deny reality, and I want to be honest with my children,” she says. “I apologize for my actions and make sure it’s clear that we all make mistakes. I like to brainstorm ideas for how to handle it better the next time a difficult situation arises.” Having an understanding of the values and vision that you have for your family and the goals you have for your children is a good first step in managing how you behave. “This speaks to knowing your family’s values. Children will model what they observe, so our actions must also be

congruent with our values,” Saviano says. “This includes everything from language to tone of voice. We can’t expect our kids to be patient, understanding or flexible when they don’t like a situation or person if we aren’t.” McGee stresses the values of listening and communicating effectively in their household. Her goal is for those values to carry out to her children’s social experiences. “When my children get upset or have a conflict, I make sure to listen to their concerns and comfort them accordingly. I feel like listening is a key attribute and want to make sure that my kids see that in how I treat them and others,” she says.

Jansen agrees that communicating is a key skill to model and teach her children. “I make sure to have a conversation with my children and discuss different ways to handle a situation when things don’t go well instead of yelling or storming off,” she says. At the end of the day, being real is the most important thing you can be for your kids. And while your behaviors might not always be on target, your open, honest conversations and apologies will.

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Leave the kids at home. Shopping with children slows down the process, making it a challenge to focus on the task at hand: sticking to a list, finding the best deal and getting in and out as quickly as possible to save the most possible. Work out a childcare swap with friends or family to expedite the process and avoid the need for treats, snacks and potty breaks (there’s something to be said for nightly runs when the kids are asleep and the stores are quiet, too).

shelves—which results in higher prices on those products. When scouting a good deal, be sure to look at the top and bottom shelves, which house lower priced alternatives. Divert your gaze when you see seasonal displays, which typically showcase items at full price. Have fun! Saving money can seem like a chore but it needn’t be one. Make a game of seeing how much you can save. Start with a goal of $5, then $10, and so on! Before you know it your grocery budget will be slashed in half! Olathe mom Lauren Greenlee tries to utilize as many super savvy shopping practices for her family as possible!

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The Giver by Lois Lowry – My reading list wouldn’t be complete without a Newbery Medalwinning title. Lowry provides a couple to choose from, but I’ve selected The Giver because today’s readers can’t seem to get enough young adult dystopian literature. Dark and intense at times, The Giver offers plenty for an adult audience to appreciate. Its story centers around 12-year-old Jonas, who is selected to become the Receiver of Memory for his community. As he learns more about his new assignment, Jonas begins to question not only his ability to handle the difficult job but also the society in which he lives. Jonas’ emotionless, tightly controlled world will probably feel familiar to those who have read Ally Condie’s Matched trilogy

or the Divergent books by Veronica Roth. However, Lowry apparently chose her words carefully, as the tightly written novel practically feels like a short story compared to the multi-volume sagas that curently fill the young adult landscape.

The Baby-Sitters Club books by Ann M. Martin – It’s tough to imagine a more nostalgiainducing read than Kristy’s Great Idea, the first book in this long-running series about a group of babysitting pals. If you’re like me, Kristy, Claudia, Mary Ann, Stacy and Dawn were some of your closest literary companions during your grade school years. Updated versions of some of the books can be found for sale on Amazon.com. However,

I recommend tracking down the originals. It’s a real treat to revisit a world of telephone landlines and hair permanents, where preteens transmit their secret messages via flashlight instead of sending them by text. Find a complete list of all 145-plus titles in the series, including Super Specials, at Scholastic.com/annmartin/bsc/index.htm.

Sideways Stories from Wayside School by Louis Sachar – Sachar’s Wayside School was inadvertently built vertically, with one classroom on each of its 30 stories. This fun, silly novel features 30 short chapters about the zany characters that populate the school. Readers will meet Kathy, who dislikes everyone and

everything, and Todd, who manages to get kicked out of class on a daily basis despite not actually doing anything wrong. While I loved reading about Mrs. Jewels and the kids in her class when I was young, some of the jokes are subtle enough that I probably appreciate them more as an adult. If you crave more Wayside hijinks after finishing this one, you can move on to Wayside School Is Falling Down

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Pretty much anything by William Sleator – William Sleator provided me with an introduction to science fiction I’ll never forget. As a result, I can’t pick just one of his books! If

you’re unfamiliar with Sleator’s works, the deliciously creepy House of Stairs might be a good place to start. This dark, thought-provoking novel compares favorably with recent young adult literature, with a vibe similar to James Dashner’s The Maze Runner series. If you’d prefer a trip to outer space, the fun, suspenseful Interstellar Pig still gives me goosebumps more than 15 years after reading it for the first time. The Duplicate, geared toward a younger audience, offers a quick, easy read with an exciting twist or two along the way. Sleator was quite prolific during his lifetime, so if you enjoy his style you’ve got plenty of reading to do.

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hen your children are babies or toddlers, it’s easy to get advice from other parents. Whether at play groups or on social media, moms and dads don’t think twice before asking other parents about diapering, sleep habits, feeding and other baby and toddler issues. But parents need to recognize when it’s time to stop oversharing about their children. As your children move into the teenage years, there will come a time when they no longer want you posting their photo on Facebook every day or asking your “mom friends” for advice on how to deal with acne or dating failures. That leaves some parents struggling with how to get parenting guidance at the very moment they are

entering uncharted territory and needing advice on how to survive the teenage years. They are cut off from their source of advice and sharing. Where should a parent go to talk about things best kept private? How can you find advice or support when your children’s issues become more serious or more embarrassing? Here are some ways to connect with other parents going through the same challenges as you and places to get advice as you raise your tweens and teens. Get face to face. Remember how your mom used to have friends over for coffee during the day? They were probably talking about you. In this age of online communication it’s easy to forget about the benefits of face-to-face gatherings. Make time to get together with your friends in person, especially those with teens and tweens of their own. Better yet, invite some parents who have survived the teen years already! Use that time to vent and ask for advice on those tough parenting questions that are too serious or embarrassing for social media. Choose a group that you trust and institute a “what is said here stays here” rule so that you know your kids’ business won’t end up being public knowledge. Go online. Though social media may be off limits, there are plenty of resources online where parents can get support and advice from other parents. Think about joining an online forum for parents of teens and tweens where you can post your concerns and questions without sharing your or your child’s identity fully. Check BabyCenter.com for their Parents of Tweens and Teens forum or check any of your favorite parenting websites to see whether

they have forums. It may take a few tries to find the right fit, but there are definitely great groups of parents online! The benefit to this type of resource is that you can be brutally honest about your concerns and share things that you may be uncomfortable discussing even with your best friends. Dr. Mary Hamm of Leawood Pediatrics also suggests HealthyChildren.org and KidsHealth.org as good online resources for parents and teens where you can get advice and information from pediatricians and other experts. Ask the doctor. Many parents don’t realize that they can seek advice from their pediatrician on common tween and teen concerns. Hamm says that they commonly cover issues like puberty, periods, safe sex, acne and safe driving with their patients. Most of these conversations will take place with your child present, but if you ever need advice on how to deal with a specific issue, don’t be afraid to seek advice from your child’s pediatrician.

someone to talk to about it. Listen to your child carefully and let him know that you will find solutions to his problems together. Ask him if he has any ideas on different subjects, suggest he do his own research and, most of all, make sure he knows that you are a team. Parenting is an ongoing process, and the important thing is to realize that everyone can use advice and help from other parents and experts. Use these resources to make it easier for both you and your child to navigate through these uncharted waters. By depending on friends, professionals and sometimes strangers, you will both get through it!

Sara Keenan lives in Brookside with her husband and two children. She belongs to a wonderful online group of moms that serves as an endless source of parenting advice and support.

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Take a class. Parenting teens can be challenging, so don’t be afraid to take a class from a local organization. Hamm suggests the Johnson County Department of Health and Environment course on adolescent health. It covers topics like puberty, hygiene, reproduction and social development and is designed for both parents and children (boys and girls). Find out more and register for a class at their website JoCoGov.org. Olathe Health System also offers a course called “Girls Growing Up” that focuses on a girl’s changing body in a light and humorous way for both parents and girls. Information on that class can be found at OlatheHealth.org. Check with your neighborhood hospital or child development center for options near your home or ask your pediatrician for recommendations. Talk to your child. It’s okay to tell your teen or tween that you don’t have all the answers. Sometimes kids don’t need you to fix a problem as much as they need

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Newsflash: We live in a competitive society, a culture driven by success and winning. Well, obviously this isn’t news. But what parents may find alarming is how much our success-driven mentality is harming our children, particularly in athletics.

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ccording to a USA Today study conducted at Michigan State University, 35 million children participate in organized sports every year. This same study asserts that 65 percent of athletes joined sports to be with their friends and that 71 percent would not mind if no score were kept in their games. However, despite kids’ often joining athletics to make enjoyable memories with friends and teammates, a large percentage of them quit sports by the end of high school. What is the most common reason? They are burned out and no longer having fun. As parents, knowing how important athletics, exercise and teamwork are in a child’s development, we must examine these startling statistics as we raise our children in this competitive world of organized sports. A major shift in youth organized sports has occurred in the past few decades. In the ’70s and ’80s, most kids participated in a variety of sports year-round: baseball, soccer, football and basketball would often be incorporated into a child’s life throughout a 12-month period. In recent years, however, children have begun specializing (choosing one sport on which to focus) at younger ages. It is increasingly common for a 10-year-old to choose a “specialty” and devote his or her entire year to practice, training and honing skills in a specific sport. While specialization in a sport is not harmful in itself, parents, coaches and trainers must ensure that a child does it in the right way, at the right age and, most importantly, that the child wants to make such a commitment. In order to fairly debate raising a child as a one-sport athlete versus a multi-sport athlete, we should examine the pros and

and the bad of year-round sports cons of each choice. For an athletically inclined child, playing multiple sports throughout the year provides many advantages. His body will benefit as different muscle groups are trained at different times, allowing the tired muscle groups from the previous sport to rest. On the other hand, when an athlete is devoted to one yearround sport, the chance of injury increases. A child who swims 12 months of the year does not allow her muscle groups to rest, and she may overextend herself. Also, a child who participates in a variety of sports gets a chance to see where his interests truly lie, an important and enjoyable process of childhood. Due to the change of pace and activity, the child who plays different sports throughout the year is less likely to become disenchanted with

sports. Also, she will likely have a brief rest between seasons where she can enjoy free time and unstructured play, activities helpful for her imagination, bonds of friendship and overall childhood development. Why, then, would parents and coaches push children to specialize if there are so many possible harmful repercussions? For a variety of reasons, becoming a one-sport athlete is more and more common. One major reason is the competitive level of collegiate athletics. Scholarships are hard to come by, and athletes are getting better and stronger at an earlier age. Parents, who see a talent in their child at 8, 9 or 10, realize they have eight years to prepare for scouting and recruitment. So rather than waiting until high school or even middle school to specialize, many children are already

committing at the elementary school level. Another reason kids choose one sport is simple interest. There are boys who live and breathe baseball, and that is all they want to do. If they love it, why not let them play it year-round? This might seem innocent, but if a boy plays competitively in several tournaments every weekend, he might be overusing muscle groups that are still developing throughout his crucial growing years. Specialization of a sport can be done properly, but it involves a knowledgeable support team of trainers, coaches and parents to ensure that the child does not burn out and end up quitting all together or hurt herself through excessive physical endurance. The athlete must rest overused muscles during the off-season. Getting

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things to keep in mind for young athletes: • Teach children to be careful with repetitive motions, such as pitching or kicking, which use the same muscles of the same body part over and over. Ensure that they give these highly used muscles rest and utilize other muscles for strength training. • Treat injuries seriously, especially if the child is specializing and hoping to make a high school and/or collegiate career out of the sport. Pushing through an injury or neglecting it may worsen the damage, possibly causing the child to give up the sport entirely in the end. • Let them rest and be kids. Allow them time to ride their bikes. Take them on nature walks and let them play tag. Teach them to throw a Frisbee and play mini-golf.

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enough sleep is also crucial for kids. Often, competitive athletes have hours of training, practice and games, as well as academic requirements, part-time jobs, family commitments and social lives. Not only does lack of sleep adversely affect grades, but also greatly increases the chance of athletic injury. The exhausted athlete’s brain has not rested, which can cause him to be distracted, and his body has not rested, which can lead to injury. Proper nutrition is another necessity to keeping an athlete healthy. Kids who eat French fries for lunch and skip dinner will not have healthy, strong bodies to endure hours of daily athletics. Parents and coaches should work with their athletes to ensure they are eating balanced, healthy meals with enough calories. For any parents who involve their children in sports, specializing or not,

remembering that they are kids is important. They deserve a childhood of fun, spontaneity, support and friendship. Talk to your child. Is she enjoying the sport? Does she have a sense of camaraderie with her teammates and coaches? Does she seem passionate about playing? Is it all about winning, or she is really having fun and making memories? Asking these questions on a regular basis will help ensure that your child is in the right sport and doing it the right way.

Olathe mom Karen Johnson has three children, ages 6, 4 and 2. She writes at The21stCenturySAHM.com.

tips to being a great athletic parent • Value effort over results. If athletes are taught to manage the challenges of the game, to remain calm under pressure, to maintain composure, to stay focused and to play with confidence, they learn vital life skills. They also will perform much closer to their ideal performance level, because focusing on outcomes usually develops anxiety and tension. • Choose a coach or program that values your athlete over winning games. This could mean choosing a team with lesser players or a lower league level in order to get the best coach and team culture. The best coaches create winning people. • Don’t be heard making excuses for your child’s performance unless you want your child to start making excuses for himself. When he hears you saying that the referees are to blame, what are you teaching him?

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• S ay “I believe in you.” When a child worries about a parent’s belief, it’s impossible to perform to her ability. Doubt fuels anxiety. “Parents need to give kids their full support and confidence,” says Stilwell tennis player Justin Leslie. •A sk your child what he needs from you. Communicate in a quiet place (not after a game) and, preferably, over ice cream. Kyle Kindler of Overland Park says, “I had some really good talks with my son over the weekend. Seems it was fear and stress of pleasing me that was the issue.” • E quip your kids to recognize an occasional bad day and don’t pile on criticism. “Every kid that is putting in the time and effort wants to do his best to achieve goals. So when kids are having a rough day, it’s not because they don’t care,” Taylor Leslie, freshman, says.

• P rovide resource options but don’t sign kids up until they are ready. Adding a fitness coach, a mental coach and private lessons to a child’s schedule will help only if the child is ready to take advantage of the resources. Otherwise, it’s a recipe for creating pressure from high expectations. Offer the options and provide a single exposure to them, then back off until she is ready. Rockhurst athlete Harrison Kotre says, “One of the most important things kids need from their parents is trust. Sometimes parents think they need to be responsible for their kid’s every move.” By Kim Bastable, mental toughness specialist from Vital Leadership, an organization based in Kansas City dedicated to providing training and inspiration to young adults and athletes to allow them to grow in their selfleadership and mental toughness.

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“Instead of telling people what not to do, we want to show people what to do and help set up environments to make it easier to do that.” – Shelly Summar

rom strengthening relationships to achieving a healthier lifestyle, we all have behaviors we’d like to change to create a more satisfying life. But when we have families, establishing more positive habits can prove tricky. To get your family motivated, begin by focusing on one behavior at a time and make changes in a fun, collaborative way. “One of the biggest opportunities we have that we often don’t take enough advantage of is role modeling, and that can be done by parents or by kids,” says Shelly Summar, dietitian, Children’s Mercy Hospital. “Instead of telling people what not to do, we want to show people what to do and help set up environments to make it easier to do that.” Curb sibling battles. Nothing makes a parent want to pull her hair out more than listening to her kids battle it out day and night. Refocus how your kids treat each other by rewarding cooperation. First, define what it means to treat each other with respect and kindness. Then, using a token

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point system, reward behaviors that fulfill your expectations. “It’s important that the behaviors are very specifically identified and reinforcement is very immediate,” says Dr. Jane Sosland, child psychologist, University of Kansas Medical Center. For example, you might say, “I really like the way you answered your sister there.” Or “I really like the way you guys are cooperating.” Keep track of points earned by using a sticker chart, a jar with marbles, cotton balls or poker chips, or beads on a string. To encourage teamwork, your kids must have an equal number of points to redeem for a special reward. For example, when each child has earned 20 points, they earn a trip to Worlds of Fun. Get more active. Aiming for a healthier lifestyle? That’s easier if your family is involved. Invite them to help you make a list of activities you can all enjoy together at least once a week. Ideas could include visiting a nature center, strolling through a museum, going

for a bike ride, spending the day at the zoo or swimming at your local community center. During extra busy weeks, plan simple activities like shooting hoops, playing hopscotch or tossing a ball in the backyard. Connect more by disconnecting. These days, family time competes with an array of extracurricular activities and screen distractions. Become intentional about making space for unplugged time together, whether through a regular evening meal or by creating traditions like a weekly family game night. “Perhaps my biggest concern about the overuse of technology in families is ‘opportunity costs,’ which is an economic term that means time spent in front of a screen is time not spent engaging in healthier and more meaningful activities such as family time, exercise, faith, culture, education, etc.,” says Dr. Jim Taylor, psychologist and author of Raising Generation Tech. Summar, who has two teenage girls, says that her family has enjoyed a “Sunday Fun

Day” tradition for years, a time in which the family plays games together, laughs and talks. “In a fun situation, you can find out a whole lot more rather than sitting down one on one and drilling them,” she says. Grow more intentional about screen time. Rather than disappearing down individual digital rabbit holes, use technology together to strengthen communication skills and creativity. For example: • Invite your child to Facetime or Skype with grandparents. • Show her how to start a private blog about one of her favorite subjects. • Take digital photos together and collaborate on a photo book or a calendar. • Make a vacation video using the app “One Second Every Day.” • Seek video games that entertain and encourage critical thinking. And, connect with your kids by playing their favorite video games with them. “Parents miss a huge opportunity when they walk away from playing video games with their kids. Many video games are meant to be shared and can teach young people about science, literacy and problem solving,” says researcher Elisabeth Hayes, professor at Arizona State University’s Mary Lou Fulton Teachers College. Eat a more wholesome diet. Plan well-rounded meals, beginning with meals you know your family will embrace. Half

the plate should be covered with a fruit or vegetable and the other half with grain and protein. Encourage family buy-in by including your kids in the planning and preparation of meals. Replace common snack foods like chips, cookies and snack cakes with colorful fruits and vegetables, beginning with the ones your kids like, such as carrots, celery, natural applesauce, watermelon, blueberries or canned peaches in a light syrup or juice. As you set out to make healthy dietary changes, avoid setting up barriers for yourself that will make success more difficult, like limiting yourself to fresh organic fruits and vegetables. “That’s a really difficult goal to achieve,” Summar says. “Make sure the goals you set are realistic, like ‘I’m going to go to a farmers market once this summer.’” And, Summar adds, don’t feel bad about purchasing canned fruits and vegetables. They are good alternatives when fresh produce isn’t handy. Above all, remember that changes come easier when they’re rewarding—and that goes for kids and adults. Freelance journalist, Christa Melnyk Hines, and her husband are the parents of two boys. Christa’s latest book is Happy, Healthy & Hyperconnected: Raise a Thoughtful Communicator in a Digital World.

To help families achieve their goals in a simpler way, Children’s Mercy Hospital started a program called 1-2-3-4-5 Fit-Tastic. “If families focus on these five key behaviors and taking one step each day toward achieving those behaviors, we think it makes it a little easier to achieve a healthier lifestyle,” Shelly Summar, dietitian at Children’s Mercy Hospital, says. The Fit-Tastic Formula: 1 – One hour more activity 2 – Two hours maximum screen time 3 – Three servings of low-fat or nonfat milk or yogurt 4 – Four servings of water, not sugary drinks 5 – Five servings or more of fruits and vegetables Visit 1-2-3-4-5 Fit-Tastic’s Pinterest page for ideas about fun meal and snack ideas and getting physically active in the Kansas City area. For more information, visit FitTastic.org

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it’s and the grilling is easy tips and tricks to make your grill sizzle

(Family Features) f the idea of longer, warmer days has you reaching for the tongs, it’s time to get your grilling game on before the season is in full swing. Serving family and friends the most mouthwatering grilled entrees with ease requires a little know-how and a few crowdpleasing recipes. From versatile chicken to hearty ribs to tender seafood, incorporating new flavors into grilled cuisine has never been more fun. For the best results on the grill, keep these tips in mind:

• A grill is not an oven, so don’t walk away

from it when it’s on. Organize what you’ll need ahead of time; no running back and forth.

• Always scrape hot grill grates clean with

a wire brush so food will release more easily. Before cooking, try using tongs to dip paper towels lightly into oil and swipe over the grates.

• If the meat or skin sticks, it’s not ready to

be turned. Let it sit for another minute or two.

• Try chicken thighs, which have a deeper, richer flavor than breast meat.

• The pork tenderloin can withstand the dry heat of the grill and stay moist.

• A safe internal temperature for ground

beef is 160° F; medium steak is 140° F. Heat poultry to 165° F and whole cuts like breasts to 170° F. Medium pork should be 150° F. Seafood should be 145° F.

• For maximum flavor and juiciness, let

meat rest 5-10 minutes before cutting or serving.

Another tasty grilling tip is to add flavor with sauce. These recipes all feature Musselman’s Apple Butter, a delicious way to add excitement to your standard summer fare.

Servings: 4 For up to four fish fillets or 2 pounds of shrimp 1/2 c. Musselman’s Apple Butter 2 T. orange juice 2 T. lime juice Mix all ingredients in medium bowl. Cook one side of seafood (skin side down). Brush glaze generously on top. Flip seafood and cook until done. Discard any remaining sauce.

Molasses Apple Butter Barbecue Sauce for Chicken

Asian Apple Butter Grilling Sauce for Pork

Servings: 4 For up to 2 pounds of chicken

Servings: 4 For up to 2 pounds of pork tenderloin or ribs

1/2 c. Musselman’s Apple Butter 1/4 c. molasses 1/2 t. ground ginger 1/2 t. salt 1/4 t. pepper Mix all ingredients in medium bowl. Brush sauce over chicken in the final five minutes of grilling. Additional sauce can be served at the table.

• Salmon, tuna and swordfish steaks grill

well because they are thick and crumble less than other types of fish.

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1/2 c. Musselman’s Apple Butter 1/4 c. apple cider vinegar 1/4 c. water 2 T. honey 3 cloves garlic, minced 1 t. ground ginger 1/4 t. salt 1/8 t. pepper Mix all ingredients in medium bowl. Lightly brush or mop sauce over pork during entire grilling time so sauce slowly cooks into pork. Discard any remaining sauce. kcparent.com june 2015

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his summer embark on fresh adventures with your kids exploring some of Kansas City’s favorite places and best-kept secrets.

10 Wild Summer Rides

Olathe, KS, 913.971.5111), where Thursday nights are free hands-on history nights for families.

5. Enjoy a bird’s eye view of Africa aboard the Sky Safari at the Kansas City Zoo (KansasCityZoo.org). 6. Ride shotgun at speeds of up to 165

mph or get behind the wheel and drive a 600-horsepower NASCAR race car for eight to 18 laps at the Richard Petty Driving Experience (800.237.3889, DrivePetty.com) at Kansas Speedway.

7. Take the plunge on the tallest water slide

in the world at Schlitterbahn (913.334.5200, Schlitterbahn.com/kansas-city).

8. Ride seven world-class roller coasters at Worlds of Fun (816.454.4545, WorldsOfFun.com). Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm

1. Bicycle across a high wire at Science

City (30 W. Pershing Rd., Kansas City, MO, 816.460.2020).

2. Ride the rails with the Belton,

Grandview & Kansas City Railroad (BeltonRailroad.org), where they offer hot dog rides, ice cream trains and more throughout the summer.

3. Slide the City, Aug. 8-9 (SlideTheCity.

com), as you ride 1,000 feet of slick vinyl through Kansas City’s streets.

4. Step back in time with a horse-drawn

stagecoach ride at Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm (1200 E. Kansas City Rd.,

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9. Tour the city aboard an old-fashioned

trolley with KC Fun Tours (KCFunTours. com), where you’ll learn the history and secrets of the city.

2. Watch a magician at Minsky’s Pizza

(12920 State Line Rd., Leawood, KS, 913.317.9965), where tricks are performed at your table every Saturday night.

3. Dine in a castle at Renee Kelly’s

Harvest (12401 Johnson Dr., Shawnee, KS, 913.631.4100).

4. Eat barbecue at the Filling Station (333 SE Douglas St., Lee’s Summit, MO, 816.347.0794), a renovated Texaco station turned restaurant. 5. Eat food delivered to your table by a model train at Fritz’s Railroad Restaurant (find a location at FritzsKC.com), where they have been serving hamburgers, hot dogs and shakes since 1954. 6. Explore local art galleries and eat al fresco, enjoying a variety of tasty cuisine from the city’s best food trucks at First Fridays in the Crossroads (KCCrossroads.org).

10. Rent a bike and explore downtown (BikeShareKC.com).

10 Ways to Have Fun with Food in Kansas City

1. Dixon’s Chili (9105 E. US Hwy. 40, Independence, MO, 816.861.7308) has been one of Kansas City’s most famous restaurants since 1919—both for its chili and for its most beloved patron, President Harry S. Truman.

Fritz’s Railroad Restaurant

2015 FOTZ Memberships 7. Pick berries this summer. Search “Berry

Picking” on KCParent.com for a complete guide to local berry patches and their picking season.

8. Experience one-of-a-kind decadence showcased in a dozen ice cream flavors you’ve never imagined at one of Glace’s two locations (4960 Main St., Kansas City, MO, and 4535 W. 119th St., Overland Park, KS). Locally owned and operated, this Christopher Elbow ice cream shop frequently invents new flavors just begging to be tried. 9. The Roasterie, known for selling premier air-roasted coffee, offers one of the most fun free tours in town. Visitors watch as coffee goes from bean to brew. Call 816.931.4000 for reservations.

10. Watch as potato chips are made from scratch in a machine at Price Chopper (7201 W. 151st St., Overland Park, KS, 913.897.4600), then sample the flavors and choose your favorite to take home.

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3. Feed baby goats at the Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead (138th & Switzer, Overland Park, KS, 913.897.2360). 4. Milk a cow on a tour of the Shatto Dairy Farm (9406 N. Hwy. 33, Osborn, MO, 816.930.3862), where you learn how milk is processed and bottled and sample Shatto Milk’s variety of products.

6. Feed the fish at the Longview Marina

(11100 View High Dr., Kansas City, MO, 816.966.0131). Fish food is sold for a small fee.

7. Visit the Native Hoofed Animal

Enclosure (8010 E. Park Rd., Lee’s Summit, MO, 816.229.8980), where you can watch white-tailed deer, elk and bison eat and play.

8. Watch fish in the giant aquariums at Bass

Pro (Independence and Olathe, BassPro. com) or Cabela’s (Cabelas.com).

9. See falcons, owls, eagles, toads, frogs,

fish and insects at Lakeside Nature Center (4701 E. Gregory Blvd., Kansas City, MO, 816.513.8960).

10. Take a class at Burr Oak Woods

(1401 NW Park Rd., Blue Springs, MO, 816.228.3766), one of the largest nature centers in the area and home to some of Missouri’s freshwater fish, snakes, turtles, toads and more.

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1. Touch sea animals at Sea Life Aquarium (2475 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO, 816.471.4386). 2. Sleep with animals at the Kansas City Zoo (KansasCityZoo.org), which offers overnights with the polar bears and penguins or campouts in Africa. Visit their

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4. Attend King Lear at Shakespeare in the Park, June 16-July 5 (KCShakes.org). 5. Play at “Storyland: A Trip Through Childhood Favorites,” Crown Center’s free summer kids exhibit through Sept. 7 (CrownCenter.com). 6. Create a masterpiece at Kaleidoscope (HallmarkKaleidoscope.com), a free handson art center for kids. 7. Imagine at KidScape, a child-sized play

village at the Johnson County Museum (6305 Lackman Rd., Shawnee, KS, 913.715.2550).

8. Tour KC Strings and learn how violins

are made.

9. Build a free project at Lowe’s (Lowes. com) or Home Depot (HomeDepot.com). Both offer free kids workshops on select Saturdays. 10. Kauffman Memorial Gardens (4800 Rockhill Rd., Kansas City, MO, 816.932.1200) is a beautiful free botanical garden near the Country Club Plaza, perfect for a summer stroll.

2. Head to the KC Power & Light District for the free Sprint Family Fun Days event the second Saturday of each month. 3. Splash and play at a Kansas City area sprayground. Search “Spraygrounds” on KCParent.com.

Kristina Light loves to discover new ways to enjoy Kansas City with her daughters.

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online calendar for information and to make reservations.

5. Learn about big cats at Cedar Cove Exotic Feline Sanctuary (3783 Hwy. K68, Louisburg, KS, 913.837.5515), where they protect and care for endangered animals.

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These DIY charts are so easy to put together and look cute enough to hang on any wall for easy access. Even a toddler can easily move around the Velcro chore tags when he or she is finished with a task!

Velcro Chore Charts Step One: If desired, paint your clipboard with

Now that summer is in full swing and the kids are out of school, they may need help keeping to a routine. Creating a chore chart with your child is a fun way to get him involved in choosing age-appropriate chores and also helps keep a sense of routine in the summer. These DIY charts are so easy to put together and look cute enough to hang on any wall for easy access. Even a toddler can easily move around the Velcro chore tags when he or she is finished with a task!

Step Three: Adhere one side of the Velcro to the back of the tags and the other side onto the clipboard.

Materials needed:

Step Four: To complete your chart, create “to do”

Clipboards Circle tags Self-adhesive Velcro Permanent marker Chalk paint Chalk Wooden letters

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black chalkboard paint and allow it to dry before assembling the chore chart.

Step Two: Using a permanent marker, write chores or draw pictures on the circle shaped tags.

and “done” columns with chalk and attach wooden letter initials with hot glue. Hang on a wall and let your kids get to work!

Megan Kapple is a blogger from Kansas City, MO, where she lives with her husband and three young daughters. She loves anything DIY and crafty and blogs about her adventures at HomemadeGinger.com.

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n estimated 30 million children in the United States play some form of organized sports, with even more participating in recreational activities such as bike riding and skateboarding. Approximately 3.5 million injuries occur each year and more than 800,000 of those injuries require a visit to the emergency department (SportSafetyInternational.org). For most children, the benefits of organized sports far outweigh the risk of injuries, but as caregivers, we must be alert to precautions we need to take to keep the children in our lives safe. Staying hydrated is the most important summer safety tip. The Midwest is known for its heat and humidity, and children overheat and become dehydrated more quickly than adults. WebMD recommends drinking two to three glasses of water approximately two hours prior to any activity outdoors. Safe Kids USA recommends 12 ounces of water 30 minutes prior to activity, and children should break every 20 minutes for water or sports drink. Before all activities, sports or recreation, warming up is important. Start slow and allow the joints and muscles to prepare for the exercise that will be beginning soon. After an appropriate warm-up, stretching also can help decrease the chances for injury (WebMD). Being alert to knocks on the noggin also is important. Head injuries (concussions) can range from mild to severe, and many children— especially young ones—may have difficulty expressing their feelings or pain levels. If a bump on the head seems like more than just a bump, make sure to take your child to see her doctor. Common signs of a concussion are dizziness, nausea, vomiting, confusion, memory troubles and sleep disturbances (Spotlight.Vitals.com/2014/06/ summer-sport-safety-kids). Finally, sun protection is essential. The sun shines its strongest from 10:00 until 2:00. During all hours—but especially these—pay close attention to the amount of exposure your child is getting. Sunscreen with SPF 30 or greater should be applied every two hours. Also make sure everyone wears sunglasses and light cotton clothing covering up as much skin as possible (WebMD). Summer is a great time to be a kid. Sun, water, fresh air and physical activity make for a lot of fun. This summer enjoy the great outdoors and feel confident you are doing it in a safe way. Jessica Heine is a labor and delivery nurse. She lives in Olathe. As always, please consult your health care provider with any questions or concerns.

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“The memories I hold dear are the simpler ones spent connecting with my family.”

harvesting, making soap and watching birds. Netherfield Natural Farm is located 60 miles south of Kansas City near Fontana, KS.

2. Breakfast Picnic in the Park On Babble.com, breakfast picnics are a unique spin on typical picnicking. Pack a basket with breakfast sandwiches, fruit, chocolate milk for the kids, a thermos with mimosas or coffee for the adults, a blanket and a ball to toss around afterwards. It’s a beautiful way to start the day.

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Summer is perfect for local festivals and street fairs. Mom of three Molly Schalz recommends Lee’s Summit Downtown Days…Streets Alive! The event runs on the first weekend of June every year. This festival spans six city blocks and includes live entertainment, a barbecue contest, a variety of local vendors, a carnival, kids area and more. Don’t miss the white tiger exhibit!

4. Lemonade Stand Summer doesn’t officially begin until there’s a neighborhood lemonade stand. I love watching all of the children on my block work together to make, promote and sell to friendly passersby. My boys love running over to the stand and paying for their Dixie cups.

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ummer is always my favorite time of year with my boys. There’s just something about the longer days and warmer nights that leaves me yearning for more. We spend more time outdoors. I say yes more. We stay up past bedtime more often. We explore more new places. There are also more opportunities to make lasting memories. I grew up only 20 minutes from the beach, and my fondest memories are of catching sight of the ocean as my mom drove across the connecting bridge to the island. My sister and brother and I would strain our necks to catch the first glimpse, and the anticipation was palpable. After

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a long day of sand castle building and jumping waves, we’d make our way back across the bridge, but not before collectively waving good-bye to the sea. Living in the Midwest now, my kids can’t experience that tradition. However, we’ve created many traditions of our own to ensure that they can one day look back with that same nostalgic feeling. Here are eight simple but fantastic ways to make summer memories:

1. Farm Stays Both educational and fun, farm stays provide families the opportunity to experience farm living by milking cows, collecting eggs, riding horses, fishing,

With temperatures on the rise, there are unlimited ways to keep cool. One of the most popular weekend destinations is Lake of the Ozarks. Even better, there are activities for the entire family, including boating, fishing, golfing, state parks and shopping. If you’re looking to keep things simple, turn on the sprinklers and let the kids run wild. It’s inexpensive and highly entertaining for little ones.

6. Plant a Garden This is an activity that truly can be tailored for all ages, experience levels and budgets. It also provides an added educational benefit, as your kids learn how to plant, water, grow and harvest the fruits of their labor. According to Inhabitots. com, some of the easiest produce to grow is peas, strawberries, potatoes and

tomatoes. Powell Gardens offers a youth gardening program for ages 6-12, from spring through fall. The program features a variety of gardening activities and opportunities for kids to learn more about plants and insects.

7. Quirky Family Traditions Every year in July, my friend Leanne packs up the car and heads to Beaver Lake with her husband and sons. Her aunts, uncles, siblings, cousins and grandparents meet them there, and they all have a huge Christmas in July celebration with presents and even a familyappointed Santa Claus to hang out with the kids. It’s something the entire family looks forward to every year and an opportunity to make unique memories that will last a lifetime.

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The memories I hold dear will always be the simpler ones spent connecting with my family. It doesn’t have to be fancy, expensive or large-scale. What our children will remember most are the smiles, the laughs and, most importantly, the love. Now go out and have some fun making memories! Jennifer Bosse lives in Kansas City with her husband and two sons. She loves making memories with her family.

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family vehicle wears many hats. Sure, it’s primarily a source of transportation, but it also functions as an office and restaurant-on-the-go, a mother’s room (for breastfeeding and changing dirty diapers), a time-out station and a dressing room between kids’ activities. With so many jobs, it’s only a matter of time before the family car begins to take on the look of a dumping ground. Here are some ways to ensure that your vehicle stays tidy, despite the miles you put on it this summer season and beyond!

In and Out. Verse your family in the golden rule of car care: if it goes in, it also must come out. This is the most effective habit

clear the clutter in the car everyone can adopt to prevent a major mess from occurring in the car. If a change of clothes or some toys are brought along for an outing, make sure that each item also is taken out of the car when you return home. The easiest way to put this rule into practice is by doing it every time you pull back into your driveway. Require that everyone look around his seat, grabbing items that don’t belong, before exiting the vehicle. It might take a while to get into the groove, but this little practice can reap huge dividends long term!

Get Organized. A place for everything, and everything in its place applies just as much to the car as it does anywhere else. Figure out what your family needs in the car full time and ensure that it has a proper place to be housed. If you prefer your kids take leak-proof water bottles with them on outings, make sure they are stored in the car seats’ drink compartments, the car’s cup holders or a bagged organizer that can be attached to the back of the front seats. Doing this ensures kids can easily grab them and put them back when not in use. Car organizers abound in shape, style and price point but are readily available at most retailers for good reason: They do a great

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job of keeping items easily within reach and prevent those items from rolling around between or under seats. Look for ones specially designed for storing baby gear (especialy handy if a quick diaper change is necessary but the diaper bag is not handy), groceries or sports gear. Better yet, repurpose fabric or plastic storage bins you already have on hand for an economical solution.

Create car kits. Most of our vehicles fill with clutter when we attempt to be over-prepared. Avoid the overhaul by designating kits with basic necessities. For instance, by keeping a stack of diapers, wipes and a spare outfit stowed away in a car compartment at all times, it ensures that you and your little one are golden whether or not you brought the diaper bag. By placing an accordion-style file folder in the glove compartment with all your current car paperwork, such as insurance, registration and emergency contacts, you avoid a scramble when you need it. A simple store-bought firstaid kit and flashlight aren’t a bad idea to have on hand either. Eat with care. In an ideal world, we would never eat in our cars, and the mess that comes with it would never materialize. But the reality is sometimes it’s a necessary evil. Keep messes at bay by designating sectioned art caddies for kids to place their meals in or use non-spill bowls for toddler snacks.

Establish a long-term cleaning habit. Determine how often your car needs to be washed and schedule it on your calendar. After washing down the exterior of the car, thoroughly vacuum the interior. Purchase cheap rubber floor mats to prevent carpet stains and use Q-tips with a gentle cleaning solution to wipe away grime stuck inside cupholders. Keep grocery sacks on hand to use as trash bags or storage bags for dirty clothes and shoes. Utilize carpool lines and red lights as mini-cleaning opportunities, giving the steering wheel, front panel and middle console a good rubdown (baby wipes work just as effectively as specially designed car wipes and have fewer chemicals). With three little boys of her own, Olathe freelance writer Lauren Greenlee never quite knows what she’ll find when cleaning out her car!

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According to the U.S. Department of Transportation, the average American family will put more than 314 miles on their car one way during their summer vacation.

Need ideas for games to play in the car? Log onto KCParent.com and find a list of great games to keep kids busy on long car trips!

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The Great Backyard

Backyard fun is a hallmark of summer vacation, and that humble green space is a place where families make memories that last a lifetime.

ow that the days are longer and the sun is warmer, many of us are heading outside to enjoy the weather with our kids. While summer often brings family vacations, trips to the zoo and camping at the lake, that entertainment can get expensive. Luckily, there is a spot filled with family fun that is completely free and right outside your door. That’s right—your backyard! Backyard fun is a hallmark of summer vacation, and that humble green space is a place where families make memories that last a lifetime. We rounded up a list of outdoor ideas from metro moms to help kick-start your summer fun!

Family Picnic. Gather up your favorite grub, a blanket and your family. Head out back and enjoy a meal together in the great outdoors. This is a fun way to change up the normal routine and snack on some delicious treats.

backyard for generations. “We love playing baseball in the backyard. My husband and I played softball and baseball in college, and our kids seem to love the sports just as much as we do!” says Laura Hernandez, Olathe mom.

Ballgames. From croquet to football, families have been playing ballgames in the

Scavenger Hunt. Whether you hide

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items in the backyard in advance or let

nature set the stage, a backyard scavenger hunt is sure to be a hit. For a nature scavenger hunt, make a list of items like leaves, flowers and acorns. Divide the family up into teams and see who can complete the list first! Or hide some special items around the yard in advance for the other family members to find.

Barbecue. You don’t have to wait for July 4th to host a great barbecue in your backyard. Invite the neighbors or just the family. Fire up the grill and let each person make a special side dish. Or get creative and have a barbecue contest!

Get Out Your Gear. Bring out your gear from the garage and let the family enjoy it together. Frisbee? Kite? Oversize bowling? Washers? These are all great things to play with in the backyard!

Water Fun. Get out the hose, set up the baby pool and bring out the Slip n’ Slide. Playing with water in the backyard will keep you cool and provide waves of fun. “I love sprinkler time,” says Kristin Ruder, Overland Park mom. “It brings me back to being a kid before there were pools

everywhere!” Want some more water favorites? Try throwing water balloons or having a water gun fight!

Bubbles. Blow them, pop them or chase them! Bubbles are always a great time. There are so many varieties of bubbles, you are sure to find one to suit every taste. You can find bubbles in all different colors and textures. There are even bubbles that don’t pop when they land!

Bugs. “Catching fireflies/lightning bugs!” says Elizabeth Maloney. “The girls get to stay up late, and they just find it so magical, especially when we let them all go at once at the end of the night.” Catching lightning bugs is only one fun backyard pastime provided by insects. Go on a bug hunt! Make a list of bugs, like ladybugs,

We love the classics! We asked Kansas City parents to list their favorite backyard games from their own childhoods. Here are their top five:

grasshoppers, ants and roly polies, then have the family race to find them.

Races. Lace up your running shoes and get the family moving. Playing tag, running races or playing relay games are great exercise and a lot of fun for everyone. “We love playing catch and tag in the backyard,” says Shanita Terrill, Kansas City mom. No matter how you choose to enjoy your family time outdoors this summer, remember to put on sunscreen and drink plenty of water. Staying safe and enjoying the people around you are the two biggest parts of a great summer! Melissa Bellach is a freelance writer and mom of two living in Overland Park.

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Lights out? No problem. Featuring Nerf Firevision Ignite technology, the Nerf Firevision Ignite football will glow each time it’s thrown, making each pass even more incredible. Three AAA batteries required, not included. Available at most major retailers nationwide and HasbroToyShop.com.

Bunch O Balloons Tired of spending countless hours filling and tying water balloons only to enjoy throwing them for five minutes? Bunch O Balloons allows for 100 balloons to be filled in less than 60 seconds, is self-tying and eliminates the hassle and aggravation of trying to tie regular balloons. Hours of fun and limited prep time! BunchOBalloons.com

Visit KCParent.com for a list of 10 super backyard games that equal family fun.

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tips for travel with teens The more ownership teens have of the vacation planning process, the more interested they will be in participating once you get there.

f Let your teens help with the planning process. Before you plan your family vacation, have a family meeting and get input from each member. Teenagers will like having some say in where you go on vacation and what activities you’ll be enjoying. Letting them provide input will help you realize ahead of time whether you have completely different ideas of what a “good vacation” looks like.

Compromise on location and activities. You want to wander for hours in an art museum, but your teen wants to spend a week on a beach. Finding a way to meet in the middle is crucial for successful travel as a family. Try to find common ground or choose a vacation like a cruise that will provide a variety of activities and options for all members of the family. This becomes even more important if you also have younger children. The key is finding a destination that has a little something that each of you will enjoy.

Give teens responsibility. Once you choose your location, let your teen do some of the planning. Give him a day to plan whatever activities he wants for the family, or have him map out the public transportation you’ll have to take. The more ownership teens have of the vacation planning process, the more interested they will be in participating once you get there.

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amily vacations are a great way to bond and expose your children to history, culture and new experiences. But traveling with teens is sometimes stressful and challenging due to their growing independence. Here are some ways to make family vacations fun for everyone…even teenagers!

Allow for some privacy. When booking your accommodations, consider giving your teen some personal space. Whether you book a suite or adjoining rooms, your teen will appreciate having her own room to relax in at the end of the day (and you might too!). Davenport recommends family suites, if possible, because it is hard to guarantee that two separate rooms will be near each other in many hotels.

Split up. Plan for a mixture of family

Let them sleep. Like everyone, teenagers need their sleep. They typically like to get that sleep by sleeping late. Everyone feels better when fully rested, so avoid the urge to plan early-morning adventures every day and allow your teen to sleep in occasionally. Use that early morning time for yourself: Relax over a long breakfast in the hotel or enjoy a solo walk on the beach.

Set them free. Depending on your location and whether your teens are responsible enough, consider letting them explore on their own for an afternoon. Giving them a taste of freedom and letting them find their own way can leave teens feeling confident and excited about travel. Obviously, considering their safety is important, but many resorts and familyfriendly destinations will be a great place for them to spread their wings.

Plan media-free time. Set some ground rules for “device time” while on vacation. Completely taking away phones or devices would not be wise, as quitting anything cold-turkey can make teens grumpy. Instead, declare certain activities or hours of the day to be “media-free” for the whole family. This can lead to everyone’s being more connected and engaged with each other. Set a good example…if you put away your phone and laptop, your teen will be more likely to willingly put away hers.

togetherness and separate adventures. Spending time together with the entire family is important, but some days you may want to send your teen off with one parent to ride roller coasters while the other takes the little kids to a park. Planning one-onone time with your teen not only can allow him to participate in the activities he most enjoys, but it also provides great teen/parent bonding time.

With just a little bit of planning and compromise, travel with teens can be fun and memorable for the whole family. Bon voyage! Sara Keenan lives in Brookside with her husband and two children. Some of her very favorite childhood memories were of the family vacations she took…even the ones when she was a teenager!

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or the uninitiated, the “maker movement” is a celebration of things people have created and made themselves. With an explosion of creativity, this enriching movement inspires people to create anything and everything from “new technology and electronic gizmos to urban farming and ‘slow-made’ foods to homemade clothes, quilts and sculptures.” Scientists, inventors, artisans and farmers come together one weekend a year at Kansas City’s Maker Faire to exhibit and demonstrate their creations. So, what is it like to visit Maker Faire and what should families expect? As at most fairs, booths offer exhibits to see and explore, as well as products for sale. At one booth you might see robotics in action, while another displays an urban farming demonstration, and yet others sell locally made clothing or crafts. Throughout the day, experience presentations and demonstrations on a variety of topics including rockets, Tesla coils, Arduino, woodworking, a delicious array of artisan foods, modern arts and many homemade products.

Maker Faire has been called “the Greatest Show (and Tell) on Earth,” as inventors, creators and artists come together to celebrate imagination, ingenuity and design. With 200+ makers at the Kansas City fair, this event is educational, entertaining and engaging. There is truly nothing like it. Families learn from the makers themselves to better understand how and why things work. Children dive in to hands-on exhibits, creating their own works of art and participating in science experiments. And, hopefully, the entire family will be inspired to make.

tips for families:

• Union Station members receive discounted admission. • There are more than 200 booths and exhibits to see, as well as performances, demonstrations and hands on activities. You can easily spend all weekend at this event, but be sure to plan on four hours or more.

• Bring some spending money. Many makers are selling products from delicious

food, to beautiful works of art, to local inventions. You will also be able to collect business cards and websites for future purchases and inspiration. • Wear comfortable shoes; you’ll be on your feet all day. • There is food for sale at this event; plan on lunch or dinner. • Maker Faire is popular! It is crowded and it can get loud. Keep this in mind for children and be sure to take advantage of Science City and the outdoor activities at the fair to break up the experience. • Visit the Maker Faire website (MakerFaireKC.com) to learn about the makers before your visit to make certain you see those who interest you most! • This is an excellent outing for Scout troops, robotics teams, Lego teams, arts and crafts clubs and other creative clubs and groups.

It’s sure to get your creative juices flowing!

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1 Monday Toddler Takeover 10:00, Kansas City North Community Center. Bring your little ones under 4 to run and play in the gym. $1. 816.784.6100 Toddler Time 10:00, Bonner Springs Community Center. Bring your kids to play on the large assortment of toys in the gym. $2. 913.422.7010 Power Hour 1:00, Little Monkey Bizness. Arrive between 1:00 and 3:00 on Mondays and Wednesdays and admission is just $5 plus tax! 913.631.7000 Family Night 5:00, Backyard Specialists. Bring the entire family out the third Monday of each month to let kids run and play on the play sets. $2. 913.307.6023

2 Tuesday Nature Connects Thru Sept 7, Powell Gardens. Built from more than 300,000 Lego bricks, this special exhibit features 25 amazing sculptures. PowellGardens.org Free Summer Movies Every Tue-Thu, Phoenix Theatre (Legends). Cool off from the summer heat with a free movie. Different movies each week. Doors open at 9:00. PhoenixTheatres.com

Hooray for Hometown Heroes! 10:00, MCPL (Camden Point). Listen to stories about real-life heroes from Kansas and Missouri. Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

Story Time in the Park 10:00, Englewood Park. Join MCPL for playtime songs and games, stories and crafts. Open to any age child and their caregiver. KCParks.org

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Sensory Time 9:00, Johnson County Museum. Kidscape can be loud; this special time is for kids with sensory integration and processing needs. 913.715.2575

Farmers Market 7:00, Downtown Lee’s Summit. Shop for a variety of fresh produce, plants, meat, baked goods, crafts and more. 816.246.6598

Kiddie Pool Playtime 9:30, Mission Family Aquatic Center. Time for young kids and families to use spray pad and leisure pool before entire facility opens. 913.722.8200

Gridiron Glory Thru Sept 6, Union Station. Come experience the best of the Pro Football Hall of Fame only at Union Station. UnionStation.org

Preschool Bowling 10:00, Mission Bowl (Olathe). Receive one game of bowling, shoes, ball and a soft drink for only $3. MissionBowl.com

CD Release and Birthday Show 10:00, Tomahawk Ridge Comm Center. Celebrate the release of Funky Mama’s newest album, 10. It’s also her birthday, so let’s party! Free.

Family Fun Night 6:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach. Enjoy free admission and different activities based on a theme Thursdays in June and July. 913.971.8563

Animal Tales 10:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. A listen-and-learn activity for children ages 2 to 6 to learn all about busy flower power. 913.764.7759

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First Fridays 5:00, Crossroads Art District. Galleries and shops remain open the first Friday of each month. KCCrossroads.org Tween Night 6:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire. Don’t spend Friday night at home! Come for painting, pizza and fun. $25 includes pizza, drink and pottery piece. Pre-reg at 913.661.2529. Brandon Draper Drum Safari 6:30, KCPL (Plaza Branch). This program includes interactive songs, dancing, and, of course, DRUMMING! Free. 816.701.3481 Ice Cream Train 7:00, Belton, Grandview and KC RR. Enjoy a train ride and an ice cream treat. A great summer evening! 816.331.6630

Liberty Arts Squared Today & tomorrow, Liberty Square. Art festival with full range of exhibits, activities, live music, crafts and more. LibertyArtsSquared.org

Stories Under the Stars 7:00, Ernie Miller Park Amphitheater. Enjoy old-fashioned family fun with stories and music. $3/person. 913.764.7759

Food Truck Face Off 4:30, The Roasterie. MidContinent Public Library hosts this yummy event. Vote for the best new food truck! $25$35. MYMCPL.org/FaceOff

Jazzoo 7:00, Kansas City Zoo. Fundraiser for the zoo. Enjoy delicious dishes from many Kansas City area restaurants, limitless libations and entertainment. KansasCityZoo.org

Children’s Film Festival 7:30, Hyde Park. Enjoy a great movie, live entertainment, neat prizes and fantastic refreshments! Tonight’s movie is Big Hero 6. 816.753.6719

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Children’s Day & National Trails Day 9:00, Missouri Town 1855. Kids will get a glimpse into simpler times through games of yesteryear… tug-of-war, marbles and gunny sack races! 816.503.4860 1 Saturdays 9:00, Shoal Creek Living History Museum. Re-enactors bring the 19th century village to life with skits, skirmishes and demonstrations. KCParks.org st

Strawberry Festival 9:00, Vaile Mansion. Strawberry treats, craft and antique booths and plants for sale. Children’s corner and free entertainment. VaileMansion.org Living History Farm Program 9:00, Watkins Woolen Mill State Historic Site. Costumed interpretive staff present life in rural Missouri. 816.580.3387 Cane Pole Fishing 10:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Our poles are ready and waiting. The fish are biting and the worms are wiggling. Ages 3-5. Pre-reg at 816.228.3766. A Day in the Park 10:00, Shawnee Mission Park. A free, day-long celebration of trails, parks and recreational spaces. Enjoy a wide variety activities for the entire family. 913.831.3355

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Bugs Extravaganza 10:00, Lakeside Nature Sanctuary. An interactive and informative day on all things bugs. Crafts, bug walk, tattoos and more. 816.513.8960 Mrs Wilson’s Knitting Circle 10:30, World War I Museum. Come for a quick history lesson and a free WWI era specific patter. Pre-reg. TheWorldWar.org Beaded Bubble Wands 11:00, Lakeshore Learning. Create a festive and fun wand with which to blow lots and lots of bubbles all summer long! LakeshoreLearning.com Open Gym 12:30, Elite Gymnastics & Aquatics. Run, jump and play in the foam pit, rope swings and more. EliteGymSwim.com Saturday Night Feeder Saturdays thru Oct, 4:00, Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary. Watch the cats being fed. $5. 816.739.0363 Public Stargazing 8:30, Powell Observatory. Program includes a talk on astronomy, a tour of the observatory, and (if skies are clear) viewing through telescopes. ASKC.org FREE Movie in the Park 8:30, Cornerstone Park (Gardner). Grab your blankets and lawn chairs and head out to enjoy a movie under the stars. GardnerKansas.gov

Overnight Fishing 11:00, Heritage Park (Olathe). Bring poles and bait to enjoy the first overnight fishing event at Heritage Park.

7 Sunday Kids Day Noon, Weston City Park. Fun for all ages including food, games, and drawings for prizes. Mark your calendar and kick off your summer fun! 816.640.2300 art + family = FUN 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Join us every Saturday and Sunday for free activities for all ages! 816.751.1278 Jump into June 2:00, Pendragon Farms. See current students show what they have learned with their horses. Student show case, pony games, raffle, prizes. 816.225.0452 Train Rides 2:00, Belton, Grandview & KC RR. Enjoy an old-fashioned train ride Saturdays and Sundays. 816.331.0630 Free Outdoor Concert 6:00, Sar-Ko-Par Trails Park (Lenexa). Bring your lawn chairs or blankets and picnic dinner and enjoy a variety of music. Lenexa.com

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Music in the Park 6:00, Rotary Park (Blue Springs). Bring a blanket and enjoy music in a park setting. Free. 816.228.0137 Music in the Park 7:00, Santa Fe Commons Park. Enjoy music under the stars by the Overland Park Civic Band. Free. 913.344.8656

8 Monday Vacation Bible School thru Friday, Lenexa Baptist Church. While exploring through crafts, music and missions, kids will discover that Jesus is the Ultimate Guide. LenexaBaptist.com Moms FREE Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms are free at the Children’s EduTainment Center with a paid child’s admission. 816.246.5224 KidsGiG thru Friday, Westside Family Church. Kids will enjoy an exciting week that will be engaging and interactive while growing in God’s word. WestsideFamilyChurch.com Power Hour 1:00, Little Monkey Bizness. Arrive between 1:00 and 3:00 on Mondays and Wednesdays and admission is just $5 plus tax! 913.631.7000

Family Vacation Bible School 6:00, Thru Friday, Antioch Community Church. Families will step back in time exploring what it was like to live in the town where Jesus grew up. Free. 816.935.1510 Monday Mania Swim Party 8:30, Bay Water Park and Springs Aquatic Center. Music, games and prizes for the entire family. 816.513.7500

9 Tuesday

Popsicles in the Park 6:30, Glendale Park. Bring the entire family out for live music, puppet shows, art stations, raffled prizes and frozen treats. Free. 816.325.7843 Camelot Thru June 14, Starlight Theatre. One of the most legendary musicals, Camelot recounts the legend of King Arthur and the Knights of the Round Table. KCStarlight.com

10 Wednesday

Free Play Cedar Ridge Christian Church. Daily free play for young children while parents enjoy a coffee drink. 913.393.3000

Free Summer Movies Every Tue-Thu, Phoenix Theatre (Legends). Cool off from the summer heat with a free movie. Different movies each week. Doors open at 9:00. PhoenixTheatres.com

Nature Connects Thru Sept 7, Powell Gardens. Built from more than 300,000 Lego bricks, this special exhibit features 25 amazing sculptures. PowellGardens.org

Wagons HO! 10:00, National Frontier Trails Museum. Tour the exhibit galleries with a guide, pack a prairie schooner & take a covered wagon tour. Pre-reg at 816.325.7575.

Pay-for-Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Kids explore 17 play sets and munch on snacks at the picnic tables. $2. 913.307.6023

Story Time in the Park 10:00, Hidden Valley Park. Join MCPL for playtime songs and games, stories, and crafts. Open to any age child and their caregiver. KCParks.org

Creative Story Time 11:00, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. 913.383.0222

The Princess and the Pea 10:00, H&R Block City Stage (Union Station). The hilarious and enchanting The Princess and the Pea comes to Theatre for Young America. TYA.org

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Animal Heroes Story Time 10:30, KCPL (Trails West). Read about some heroic pet friends and make a pet friendly craft. Ages 5 and under. KCLibrary.org

Paint Me a Story 10:30, Paint, Glaze and Fire. Paint a pottery piece that goes along with a favorite story. Snack included. $13-$15. Pre-reg. 913.661.2529

Middle School Teen Night 7:00, Paradise Park. Spring is in the air, and tonight’s shindig is packed with plenty of spring break fun. DJ, ping pong, rock wall and more! Paradise-Park.com

11 Thursday

Story Time 11:00, Reader’s World Lee’s Summit. Every Friday enjoy story time with a story, crafts and a snack. Free. 816.246.7323

Sand Cinema 9:00 pm. Longview Lake Beach. Family fun at its best! Load the kids in the car and head to the movies on the big screen. Concessions available. $5/car. 816.503.4800

Free Play Cedar Ridge Christian Church. Daily free play for young children while parents enjoy a coffee drink. 913.393.3000 Preschool Bowling 10:00, Mission Bowl (Olathe). Receive one game of bowling, shoes, ball and a soft drink for only $3. MissionBowl.com Indiana Bones: Heroes! Past, Present and Future 7:00, MCPL (Smithville). Travel along with the storyteller Indiana Bones as he tells amazing stories of heroes. Free. 816.532.0116 Moonlight Movies 9:00, Pharaoh Theater Parking Lot. Free outdoor movie shown every Thursday. Fun outdoor family time together! Concession stand is available onsite. FreeMoonlightMovies.com

12 Friday Nature Connects Thru Sept 7, Powell Gardens. Built from more than 300,000 Lego bricks, this special exhibit features 25 amazing sculptures. PowellGardens.org

Snow Queen-A Frozen Dance Adventure Noon & 7:00, Olathe Northwest. The Culture House presents this show based on the Hans Christian Anderson fairy tale of The Snow Queen. CultureHouse.com Food Truck Frenzy 5:00, 87th Street Parkway & Penrose Lane (Lenexa). An evening of fun and celebration (and of course, good food!). Lenexa.com Car Cruise 6:00, Downtown Blue Springs. View the latest innovations in car restoration, enjoy a friendly atmosphere, and delicious concession treats and sodas. BlueSpringsGov.com FREE Concert 7:00, Kansas City Museum at Corinthian Hall. Enjoy the sounds of Whiskey for the Lady at this free show. 816.513.0720 Birds of Prey 7:00, Ernie Miller. Using live birds, participants will see these magnificent raptors and their special adaptations. $3/person. 913.764.7759

13 Saturday Dragon Boat Festival 8:00, Brush Creek (Country Club Plaza) Dragon boat races, entertainment, food and fun for the entire family. ChinaGardenSociety-KC.org Flag Day 9:00, Ft Osage. Learn about proper flag etiquette and explore a display of flags representing different periods of American history. $3-$7. 816.503.4860 Busker Festival 9:00, the City Market. Festival will showcase musicians, unicycling, juggling, fire twirling, aerial arts and more. TheCityMarket.org World Oceans Day 10:00 Kansas City Zoo. Learn all about the world’s oceans and how they impact our everyday lives. KansasCityZoo.org

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