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wenty-one years ago, as my husband and I celebrated our fifth wedding anniversary in July, we also were anxiously awaiting another big life moment: the birth of our first child. She was scheduled to arrive on July 25, my husband’s birthday. He took that day off from work because, “That’s when the baby is coming.” I informed him that babies rarely arrive on their due date, but he kept the scheduled day off, just in case. My dad had shared that the only day the baby (the first grandchild on both sides of the family) couldn’t arrive was July 19, as he was having knee surgery that day. With the combination of my husband’s requesting July 25 off and my dad’s telling me not to have the baby on July 19, you can see where this is going. During the evening of July 18, I met my husband for dinner and then went home. He had to work late that evening, and when he arrived home, I described some pains I’d been having, possibly contractions. We stayed up through the night, timing how often the pain came, and called the doctor around 4:00 in the morning. He said to go to the hospital, but I was sure that once we got to the hospital, they would send us home. It was my first baby, a week before my due date, and my contractions weren’t consistent. After about an hour at the hospital I asked the nurse, “Am I staying?” to which she replied, “Oh yes, you are having a baby today!” Around 4:00 that afternoon, Victoria Marie entered our lives, and as all you parents know, life hasn’t been the same since.

I can’t believe I’m wishing my baby a happy 21st birthday, but here we are! I hope it’s the best, most amazing year yet! We love you!

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GREAT DATE IDEAS FOR SUMMER DAYS! ICE CREAM DAY AND MONTH Not only is July 17 National Ice Cream Day, but July is also National Ice Cream Month—and Kansas City has no shortage of great ice cream places to help celebrate! Start with Betty Rae’s, one of the cult favorites in this town that always has fun and yummy combinations (like goat cheese, apricots and candied walnuts). Then there’s Foggi Ice Cream, where you get to watch your ice cream being freshly made with nitrogen. Their cookies and cream is a tasty choice. Next, try the Golden Scoop, which is a nonprofit ice cream and coffee shop that employs people with developmental disabilities. Their strawberry jam ice cream is a delicious top seller. One of our favorite dates is trying out a new-to-us ice cream place, even if it’s a 30-minute drive from where we live.

COLLECTOR CAR APPRECIATION DAY Collector Car Appreciation Day is July 9, and we think the best way to celebrate that is to hit up a cruise night in downtown Parkville. Held in the farmers market and city parking lots just to the south of the railroad tracks, cruise nights are a fun outing of looking at classic, restored and show quality cars while also listening to live music, exploring the downtown and just enjoying the weather. We often like to grab dinner or dessert after looking at all the beautiful cars, and we find it very entertaining to talk to the owners of the cars to find out more about their ride and what they’ve done to it. Besides Parkville, cruise nights have been known to show up in places like Liberty, Belton, Overland Park and Merriam. Check the calendar of events for the KC metro and you just might find a cruise night close to you.

DRIVE-THRU DAY July 24 is National Drive-Thru Day, so in honor of that we decided to pay a visit to our favorite drive-through Italian place … at a car wash. Yep, that’s right. At a car wash. I’m talking about Dominic’s, one of the Northland’s best places for Italian food. They have a location in Burlington Creek off 64th Street, but the one we really enjoy going to is at a car wash on North Oak. Where else can you get great food and a good wash for your car? My husband and I are creatures of habit when it comes to Dominic’s. He likes the lasagna, and I like the shells with meat sauce.

The thing that keeps us going back is that sauce. It manages to be both sweet and spicy, which in our minds is the best of both worlds. Honestly, it’s probably my favorite sauce from any Italian restaurant in KC. Coupled with some side salads and breadsticks, this makes for a great drive-thru meal.

Hannah Berry is a freelance writer who lives in the Northland with her husband.

They love to explore Kansas City and try new restaurants and activities.

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Heardle By now you know about Wordle, but have you tried Heardle? Naturally, if I’m a fan of live shows then I must love music—which I do! Heardle is like Wordle, only instead of unscrambling a word, you have to guess a song by hearing just a snippet. I have a pretty good streak going of guessing correctly after only one second, but if the song is more current, I typically don’t get it at all. It’s a fun, daily activity to do on your own or with others, trying to see who can guess it first! Heardle.app

Calendar App I’ve written here in the past about the Cozi family calendar which has served us well for years.

But one thing I didn’t love about it was that in order to see a full month view, you had to purchase that option. To keep up with everyone’s summer schedule this year, we’ve been relying heavily on a shared calendar, and my girls introduced me to TimeTree, which does show the full month calendar view (for free!).

We’ve made the switch, and it’s super helpful to keep track of where everyone is and what we have coming up!

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Live Music To know me is to know I love live music. My husband and I enjoy both traveling to see concerts and attending them in our own backyard. Though it’s fun to see those national groups, we have a plethora of talent right here in KC! Not only do we have some amazing talent here, but we have so many great opportunities to see live music. We live in Lenexa so we typically go to the Public Market on Friday evenings for Friday Night Sound Bites, but you can find shows in Gladstone, Olathe, NKC, Blue Springs, Zona Rosa, the Legends and more all summer long! Check out the calendar at KCParent.com for tons of options to see live, local music!

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Visit Walnuts.org/snacking for more snack recipes.

Strawberry Walnut Hand Pies To make dough: In food processor, pulse walnuts until fine and evenly ground. Add flour, sugar and salt to ground walnuts; pulse to combine. Add cubed butter; pulse until butter is in small pieces. Add cold water 1 tablespoon at a time, pulsing while adding, until dough starts sticking together.

Transfer dough to clean surface; shape into two 4-inch discs. Wrap with plastic wrap and refrigerate 1 hour.

To make filling: In food processor, pulse strawberries and lemon juice until slightly chunky.

Transfer to saucepan and gradually whisk in cornstarch until dissolved. Stir in sugar.

Heat over low heat until sugar dissolves, about 3 minutes. Turn heat off and stir in chopped walnuts.

Transfer mixture to small bowl; refrigerate.

Dough: 1/4 c. California walnuts 1 1/4 c. all-purpose flour 1 t. cane sugar 1/4 t. salt 7 T. cold unsalted butter, cubed 4-5 T. ice cold water 1 egg, beaten Strawberry Walnut Filling: 1 c. strawberries, tops removed, halved 1 T. fresh lemon juice 1 t. cornstarch 2 T. cane sugar 1/3 c. finely chopped California walnuts Frosting: 1/2 c. powdered sugar 2 T. 2% milk 1/2 t. beetroot powder 2 T. finely chopped California walnuts

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To assemble hand pies: Remove one dough disc from refrigerator. Lightly flour work surface and rolling pin.

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Preheat oven to 375 F. Trim uneven edges of dough with sharp knife and brush tops and sides with egg wash.

Bake 20-24 minutes until golden brown around edges.

Cool at room temperature 5 minutes on baking sheet then transfer to wire cooling rack until completely cooled.

To make frosting: In bowl, whisk sugar, milk and beetroot powder until thick but smooth. Drizzle frosting over hand pies and top with chopped walnuts. Cool 15 minutes or until frosting is set.

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20s For a young adult in her 20s, life starts to take full swing. Daily exercise might seem like an overwhelming task to add to your already busy schedule, but adding exercise to your schedule at a young age can allow for a good fitness foundation that will set you on the path to success in the long run.

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Working out doesn’t always mean a gym is involved. A walk or run outside provides a convenient cardio option. For weight training, buy some dumbbells and find a quick YouTube video for a workout in the comfort of your home.

As age increases, metabolism decreases, providing an even greater incentive for a woman in her 40s to work out more frequently. A healthy balance between cardio and weight training becomes even more important with age. Strength training can lead to better balance and coordination, as well as maintain muscle and tissue strength. Incorporating two 30-minute sessions of strength training weekly makes a solid plan. One day you may focus on the upper body and the next on the lower body. Yoga simultaneously provides strength training as well as deep stretches and can be a good form of active recovery. Yoga classes can be found at most gyms and online for those wanting to give it a try.

At any age, move your body for 30 minutes a day five or six times a week to help lead you to a happier, healthier life. Working out can seem intimidating for those who might consider themselves a beginner. Most gyms provide personal trainers that can help you create a routine that works for you, and starting with something simple, such as a walk, can be a great way to form a healthy habit.

Tori Sarver is an intern for KC Parent. She is studying strategic communications and journalism at CU Boulder. She enjoys daily walks and hikes!

As always, please consult your health care provider with any questions or concerns.

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BY PEGGY GISLER AND MARGE EBERTS

SUMMER LEARNING ACTIVITIES

PARENTS: We hope this past school year has gone well for your children. Because children should never stop learning in the summer, once more we are giving you some activities they can do throughout the rest of the break. This summer, we have selected activities in social studies. We realize considerable controversy has erupted about what should be taught in this area, but our hope is that our activities will extend and broaden children’s knowledge of our nation, as well as interject some fun into learning more about it.

Gather the family together and have them look at a detailed map of the United States. Then ask the following questions. Let the younger family members answer the easier questions. If there is no agreement about an answer, look it up. You can make this activity a game by having all family members circle their answers on individual maps, and it can be extended by having family members create new map questions for everyone to answer.

LEARNING MORE ABOUT IMMIGRATION

1. What states form an area known as the Four Corners?

Almost everyone in the United States is an immigrant or a descendant of an immigrant. Today, immigrants need to take and pass the naturalization civics test to become a citizen. Your older children should take the practice 2008 test online. It is a multiple choice test; however, the actual test is not. It is an oral test of 10 of the 100 questions on the 2008 test. Part of becoming a citizen requires an immigrant to answer six of them correctly. Can your children pass the test without doing some studying? Older children and parents should know the answer to most of these questions.

Unfortunately, a survey showed that only one in three citizens could pass this test. There are other requirements besides passing the naturalization civics test to becoming a citizen.

A great topic of conversation this month is to talk with your children about from where their relatives immigrated to the United States. If you know, tell them where the relatives entered the United States, approximately what year it was and also why they came to the United States. If you are short on information about your ancestors, visit one of the genealogy sites for an absolute wealth of information. You might even make a family tree together. This is a good project because, more than likely, younger family members will have this assignment sometime during elementary school or even middle school.

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KNOW THE UNITED STATES

2. What state is the smallest in size?

3. What states were the original 13 colonies?

4. How many states border Canada?

5. How many states border Mexico?

6. How many national parks can you find on the map?

7. Which states border Washington, D.C.?

8. What is the capital of your state?

9. What states border our state?

10. Which states border Lake Michigan?

VISITING SEATS OF GOVERNMENT POWER Expand your children’s knowledge of how government works. You might begin on the local level by visiting your city hall or the county seat. Many are in historical buildings, and some may even offer tours or let you visit different meetings so the children can see government in action. Be sure to call ahead to get information on what you might be able to see and do on a visit. Once your children are acquainted with local government, explore the things they might see and do at the state capitol.

Of course, the best place to see government in action is in Washington, D.C. Your senators and representatives, as well as the Capitol Visitor Center, can arrange for tours of many government buildings. In the summer, it is wise to arrange for reservations to be able to visit many sites. You may be able to see a session of the House of Representatives or Senate, and there are tours of the White House, the U.S. Mint and the Supreme Court.

Have some fun, too, at places like the Spy Museum, the Smithsonian Museum and the National Air and Space Museum. Washington, D.C., is such a great place to visit and means you’re not far from colonial Williamsburg and the homes of Washington and Jefferson. Take advantage of their proximity. Such a visit is really a lesson in history.

VISITING THE PAST Though students at all levels learn about past events in their social studies classes, they may not also have a picture of what life was like in earlier times in the United States.

Summer is a great time to let them experience those days in the past.

There are many great places like Connor Prairie Farm in Indiana and Williamsburg in Virginia that have homes and buildings like schools and blacksmith shops that give a great picture of colonial life and offer reenactments of colonial life. Most communities also have museums and historic homes that let children get a glimpse of what life was once like in the United States.

If you live close to one, try to visit one of the 11 important Native American heritage sites or an American Indian Reservation. Be aware that not all tribes wish to have tourists visit their reservations.

You should call ahead to the tribal government office. Tours of reservations typically will have a fee; however, some offer a great look of the history of the American Indian people.

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Megan Maciel

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816.836.5200, MyMCPL.org

KVC Kansas provides heart-centered services to children and families through in-home family support, foster care, adoption, behavioral health care and children’s psychiatric hospitals.

913.499.8100, Kansas.kvc.org

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I’m interested in tracing my family’s genealogy.

What’s a good way to get started?

What is the main goal of foster care?

The starting point in any family history research project is to first determine what details you know. The Midwest Genealogy Center provides downloadable forms that you can print at home. You can also ask older relatives to help fill in the blanks. Document their stories using a Tell Me a Story oral history kit available for checkout from MGC or reservation online for pickup at any Mid-Continent Public Library branch. The next step is to take a Genealogy 101 class through Universal Class or start using online genealogy resources on the library’s website, like MyHeritage.com and others, to find out more information.

The Midwest Genealogy Center in Independence is open seven days a week to provide advice. Visit MyMCPL.org/FamilyHistory for more information.

Cheryl A. Lang, MLS Midwest Genealogy Center Manager

Foster care is a temporary arrangement for children and teens when their parents or caregivers are going through crisis. When youth cannot remain safely in the home, child welfare agencies work diligently with the family to resolve the conflicts or disruptions that resulted in the child’s entering foster care through intensive family-centered services. The primary goal is to return the child to his or her home with additional supports in place for the family. Foster families come alongside the biological family to provide support while the family is in crisis, provide a stable home environment for the children and teens, and model appropriate parenting.

Megan Maciel Director of Recruitment and Communication, KVC Kansas

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Five Ways to Feel Better After a Bad Day

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veryone has them, those days when our spirits are low. It may be the result of a hard day at work, then having to come home and be “up” for the kids. Or maybe you faced a long day with your baby or toddler at home when you didn’t even have time to shower. Or you just may feel down in the dumps. Here are a variety of different activities to lift your spirit back up and boost your mood to happy.

TIP 1

MAKE A LIST This is a great mind cleanser and soul centering activity. If you think about it, we make lists all the time, either in our head or on a piece of paper, for groceries, medicines, birthdays, holiday gifts … the “list” goes on and on. Try making a personal list. Depending on your situation, you can make two types of lists. In the first, list all the things you need to accomplish starting with the most important or time sensitive. Then, check your tasks off as you complete them. The other type of list is a pros and cons list for your situation. Often, you will find more pros than cons!

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BAKE OR COOK SOMETHING After a hard day, nothing is more honestly cathartic than beating and kneading bread dough or making

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homemade pancakes. This takes your mind off what is going on and will end up being a shared event with your kiddos. Try not to worry about the mess. Laugh, let the kids join in and add ingredients and then, eat!

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INHALE AROMATHERAPY This trend offers so many soothing and refreshing options, and you can find so many that are baby and kid approved.

Simply pick your favorite scents, some faves are sandalwood and lavender, and breathe them in deeply. You can even take a wet washcloth, dab a few drops of aromatherapy oil on it, and either microwave or freeze it until it reaches the desired temperature. Then, put it on your neck and inhale. Make it a spa party with your little ones. They will love the new scents too.

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If your child is the reason you are having a bad day, and won’t respond to play, he may be beyond laughter currently. Take a deep breath and remind yourself this is your perfect baby, looking at you for love and support. Stay compassionate.

Remember, tears aren’t bad, and once he has the chance to cry, he will be in your arms. Step back and re-center with one of the tips listed above and this will come more easily. And, when you are having trouble holding it together until bedtime, bring bedtime on sooner. For example, feed the kids peanut butter sandwiches and carrot sticks and go to bed early. Especially you! Things always look better in the morning.

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DIAL A FRIEND OR VISIT ONE Don’t be afraid to ask for help, either with a phone call, a visit to the park with other kids or a trip to the coffee shop.

Sometimes, simply hearing another adult voice who understands your feelings can change an entire day. That new point of view will make you think, and your kids will enjoy seeing you happy and being with their friends.

An avid outdoors girl, Judy Goppert lives in Lee’s Summit and enjoys all seasons, especially summer. She enjoys drawing on her personal experiences to write about the nuances of everything wonderful about life.

Sources: Bustle.com, PsychologyToday.com

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Bloodsucking Little Varmints “Would you like some nametags?”

We’d just arrived at a summer picnic with Partners in Behavioral Milestones, a group that provided immeasurable help for kids on the autism spectrum, and stopped at the greeting kiosk.

“Sure.” I motioned to the elder boy.

“This is James, he’s Ian, and I’m Bill.”

The young lady wrote our names and peeled the name tags off the smooth backing, and we stuck them on our shirts.

We strolled through the mown grass to the wooded area at the waterline where a path led us toward the lake.

A few yards into the walkway, James spoke. “Dad, get this off my leg.”

I looked down at his calf covered with pollen. “Just brush it off. You’ll be all right.”

“I can’t. It won’t come off.”

A closer look made my blood run cold.

Ticks. Tiny ones by the dozens crawled up his bare leg. Lifting each boy, I retraced our steps to the registration shade as quickly as I could.

“We ran into some ticks. Do you have a first aid kit?”

“Yes, but we don’t have anything for those.”

“How about some stickers? Could we use a few of them?” I peeled off a label, immediately dabbing the sticky side against the tiny bloodsuckers on Ian’s leg while she did the same for James. Within minutes, we had the boys tick free, but it was already too late for me. By the time we got home, my ankles itched so badly, I had to call the doctor.

“Step on this trash bag, and get undressed,” Sandi said. “We’ll stick the clothes in the freezer along with your little visitors for a couple days, then I’ll wash them.”

I complied, but when the temperatures soared into the mid-90s, my frozen clothes were almost irresistible. Almost.

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Cut the YELLING, Start the HEALING

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ong days, short fuses and an endless stream of potential catastrophes that leave our nerves frazzled and frayed fill parenthood. It’s no surprise that occasionally our emotions get the best of us—and we yell.

Besides being completely ineffective, yelling is also counterproductive.

Whether your child is a toddler, teen or young adult, the short- and long-term effects of yelling are simply not worth it. Raising your voice to be the loudest—and let’s be real, the scariest—person in the room breaks down trust with your child. Some studies have shown that yelling can instill fear in a child that would cause him to move away from you, rather than toward a healthy relationship.

Let’s find another way, shall we?

Here are five ways you can curb your tendency to yell and, instead, reap a good harvest: no post-yelling guilt, no apologies later and, most importantly, more respect from your children for now and down the road.

Understand why Yelling is frustration turned audible. Think of it this way: If you whisper and people say they can’t hear you, you increase the volume of your voice. Now imagine you’ve asked your child to perform a task five times, and she isn’t responding. You raise your voice each time you ask. Five volume adjustments later, you’re straight up yelling. Put even more simply, yelling is momentarily losing control of your emotions. That means it can be reversed. You just have to put the work in.

Be ready You’re aware of what sets you off, so plan for it. For example, if you know your child is prone to not putting his shoes on and it makes you angry, prep for that moment. It will take a bit of forethought, but consider removing obstacles ahead of time that keep him from completing the task you give him. Is the TV on and distracting him? Turn it off before you even ask once. Is he still eating? Chances are if he’s performing one task, adding a “next one” won’t fully process. Make sure you have full eye contact and attention, then make your request.

Warn once You hate yelling, and it’s no picnic for your kids either, so let them know what could be coming. It’s healthy to acknowledge your own feelings to serve as a warning to your child.

Look your child eye to eye and say in a calm voice, “I am asking you to put your shoes on so we can leave the house on time. We are in a hurry and I am close to becoming very upset.

Please do as I ask the first time.” The honesty and full forewarning just might do the trick.

Walk away You already know that yelling won’t help, but sometimes emotions bubble forth so quickly that you don’t even see the outburst coming. Practice focusing on what happens right before you explode. Your heart rate will quicken, you’ll start to feel warm, and your body will tense up. The rage is upon you.

Before the lid blows off, simply share with your children that you are feeling extremely angry and frustrated and you’re going to step away.

Head to a closet and scream into a blazer or

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step outside and do 15 jumping jacks. The ability to be distracted—just momentarily— from what is upsetting you will likely give you the window you need to regain control.

Share what happened Your kids will see you’ve left and wonder what happened. Share with them that you took a minute away because you were about to yell—and you don’t want to do that. This gives your mini-me a glimpse of someone he loves handling big feelings. Let your children witness this control of emotions over and over so they can mirror the healthy behavior for themselves.

Monkey see, monkey (eventually) do.

Work it out You’ve heard it a million times, but exercise can help release some of the built up tensions that threaten to unleash themselves upon your family at any moment. Take a boxing class, go for a long walk or take a swim. Encourage your entire family to do this with you, as exercise will make everyone healthier, happier and less irritable. Make your heart work hard, not your voice.

Be prepared for failure No one is perfect, and on occasion you might backslide with a minor (or major) outburst. The aftermath is what matters most here. Once the eruption has passed, take the opportunity to discuss what led to the yelling—and then sincerely apologize.

Kids can be frightened when you lose your cool, and their fears need to be recognized.

Gently explain what made you so angry and talk together about how it can be prevented next time. This is also a perfect time to detail with your child how you should have

reacted in the moment. It can be a teachable moment for both of you.

Yelling, like nagging or whining, is a habit that many parents and children develop, and it can inflict a lot of emotional damage. As a family, work together to nip this early and find healthy ways to share frustrations and anger.

Your entire family dynamic will shift for the better, and you will all reap the rewards.

Kim Antisdel is a freelance writer and interior design sales rep for KC. She lives in Liberty with her husband, stepdaughters and son.

YELL IT OUT! There are instances when yelling is appropriate and even healthy. Make sure your children know and understand the difference.

Encouragement – Did your child score a home run? Stand up and yell your encouragement as loud as you can (using appropriate language).

Danger – If your children feel they are in danger, they can scream as loudly as they want. Additionally, you are allowed to yell if you witness their doing something dangerous that needs to be stopped immediately (like running with scissors).

Controlled yelling – Stepping away to scream into a pillow is healthy, because you are doing it in a controlled manner and not directing it at someone.

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teach your child to play

independently

In a world where our families and children are often overscheduled, carving out time for independent play, without electronics, is critical for the developmental needs and growth of our children.

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arents have so many different jobs to do: establishing consistent routines, teaching our children appropriate manners, offering a variety of foods and providing nutritious meals and modeling playing appropriately with others and showing kindness and respect. We strive to teach our children to be independent as well. We want them to be independent at dressing, brushing teeth, toileting, eating and so much more.

But have you ever stopped to think how we might want our kids to be independent when it comes to play too? Though independent play may not be at the top of your to-do list, it may be more important than you think.

“In a world where our families and children are often overscheduled, carving out time for independent play, without electronics, is critical for the developmental needs and growth of our children,” says Michelle Howard, director of Christ Lutheran Early Education Center in Overland Park. “Early childhood educators are seeing an increase in the number of children that struggle knowing how to play or have the ability to explore materials without being told exactly what to do and how to do it.”

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What is play and why is it important for our children?

How can we foster independent play and what might it look like?

Play has often been referred to as “the work of a child.” The dictionary defines it as an “activity engaged in for enjoyment and recreation, especially by children.”

There is no serious or practical purpose for play, which, in part, is the beauty of it. Play, no matter what form it takes— whether dramatic, sensory, creative or one of many other variations—is an important part of a child’s development.

According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, play is important as it “allows children to use their creativity while developing their imagination, dexterity, and physical, cognitive, and emotional strength. Play is important to healthy brain development. It is through play that children at a very early age engage and interact in the world around them.” Erica Mickelson, PhD, director of elementary education for Auburn-Washburn School District, agrees: “Play is a time when children can act on their interests, create explorations, and discover new ideas.” In short, play matters!

You may wonder exactly what independent play means or even looks like. “Independent play” refers to your child’s playing alone in a safe environment for a period of time, whether that be in another room or even in the same room as you. Your child may play silently, talk to himself or make noises for the toys he is playing with. Though play comes naturally to children, independent play must be taught. Howard shares a few ideas to get you started: n It’s never too early or late to start guiding

your child in what independent play looks like. Begin with just a short time for a little one in her crib with a soft book or baby-safe toy. Or set up your preschooler with toys in her room or a sandbox in the backyard. n Be intentional about providing your

child with open-ended toys that don’t have a specific use (no electronics, buttons, sounds or actions), such as blocks, Tinker Toys, containers or similar ones that your child can explore.

n Provide your child with a safe, child-

friendly environment that will allow for periods of uninterrupted, independent play, both indoors and outdoors.

Once you have these few basics under your belt, you can expand independent play a bit further:

“Children need the freedom and time to play. Play is not a luxury. Play is a necessity.” KAY REDFIELD JAMISON

n Choose times when your child has

Olathe mom of one, says, “We have found ways to allow our son to play independently while we have everyday experiences. For example, we put his play kitchen in our eat-in area right next to where we cook. At dinner, I can cook a meal for our family while he plays in his kitchen. It gives him an opportunity to mimic what he hears and sees, but on his own terms. We also talk through and narrate everything we do. We are vocalizing small tasks, how we complete projects, work through conflicts, etc. Adults model independent play without even realizing it.”

a greater chance of success and is not overtired, hungry or recently returned from being separated from you. n Begin by playing with your child and

slowly pulling away to allow your child time to play independently. Mickelson says, “Many caregivers feel guilty for not playing with their children at all times. I understand this struggle because my oldest daughter did not play independently. She always wanted me right beside her with a toy in my hand. As she was learning how to play alone, I had to sit and play beside her. After a couple of minutes, I told her I needed to take care of something and slowly walked away. As time went on, she could play independently for more extended periods.”

n Gillian Doll, a kindergarten teacher and

n Exercise caution when using screens with

your children. Screens don’t have to be a babysitter or the go-to when your children are bored. “We are seeing an increase in the number of students in our classrooms wanting to try and “turn on” a toy or swipe

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Mr. Rogers said it best when he said, “Play gives children a chance to practice what they are learning.” So have fun watching independent play begin to unfold for your child!

Teaching children to play independently isn’t just a gift for your child, but for you too.

When your children are able to entertain themselves, you are free to do things you need to do as well, so it is a win for all!

Julie Collett can remember playing independently for hours as a child and has since taught her own children the beauty of having time to play alone.

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Busy Parents Guide to Bonding How to enjoy moments with your kids when you’re always on the go

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e get it. You’re working a fulltime job while coordinating school pickup and drop-off with only mere moments to hug your child goodbye before speeding away to the office.

Breakfast was a blur. It took you an extra 10 minutes to find your car keys on the way out the door, and you’re already flustered about that big morning meeting.

In the midst of your crazy lifestyle, try not to let small moments to bond slip away. You’d be surprised how many minutes in a day you can actually bond with your kiddos without even overexerting yourself. We’ve prepared a short guide to get you started. You may even think of several other opportunities in addition to these everyday moments.

Enjoy music Sing along with the radio together in the car. Have Amazon Alexa play a few Disney tunes at bedtime as you’re tucking them in. I promise they’ll soak up and appreciate these positive, mindful moments as much as—if not more than—a well-planned vacation or expensive new toy.

Watch a movie Change up story time and instead watch a quick episode of Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood or a Disney short on the iPad before bed. Even if the two of you don’t chat and just snuggle up with a blanket, you’re still bonding, and your presence makes your child feel safe and secure.

Take a walk or head to the backyard Instead of jumping right into homework after school, take the kids outside and join them in a game of catch or hide-and-seek.

Walk around the block once. Take a few minutes to breathe in the fresh air while asking them about their day.

Read together (even just bedtime stories) Is bedtime the only part of the day this week you can truly settle down with your child and be present? That’s okay! Soak up every single one of those few minutes. Read one or two of her favorite books. Use silly voices. Be animated. Give her an extra hug and say you love getting to read with her. Tell her, “Same time, same place?” for tomorrow.

Cook together If you’ve been working all day, just picked your kids up from school or daycare and don’t necessarily have energy to take them to the park or plan a special activity together, don’t worry. Why not include them in cooking dinner? It doesn’t have to be a complicated, home-cooked meal. Even if you stir up a box of pancake mix or heat up some chicken nuggets, include your children in the process.

Just listen My 5-year-old sure knows when I’m not giving him my absolute, undivided attention. He tells me, “Wisten, wisten (listen)!” until I make eye contact and notice what he is trying to show me on his iPad or a toy he brought me. This may happen while we’re playing with Play-Doh, coloring or building with Legos. Sometimes, the simplest and best way to snatch those bonding moments is to be fully present and engaged in simple activities together.

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Emily Morrison is a freelance writer, former copy editor, full-time mommy and Disney fanatic who lives in Independence with her husband, son, daughter and dog.

Ways to Set a Good Example for Your Kids

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’ve heard it jokingly said there are only two times when people claim to be perfect parents: before they have kids and after the kids fly the nest. In the thick of parenting, however, moms and dads find out very quickly the task is both humbling and overwhelming. We all want what’s best for our children, and if we’re not careful, we can spin our tires relentlessly hoping to do all the right things—read all the parenting books, establish good routines, teach our kids to say please and thank you, all the while downing a few leafy greens. It’s easy to miss the mark by overcomplicating things. One of the simplest ways we can teach our kids to do what is right is leading by example. After all, as the old adage goes, more really is caught than taught! Here are a few ways to set a good example for your kids.

Express Gratitude Taking time to tell the people in your life how much you appreciate them goes a long way in building relationships. But it’s equally important to appreciate the circumstances you find yourself in, too. There’s no need to be a Pollyanna. Genuine gratitude can start with the simple things in life: thankfulness for the sunrise and the sunset, food on the table and a roof over your head. One of the beautiful things about gratitude is it begets more gratitude. The more you articulate what you are thankful for, the easier it is to find more things to appreciate in life.

Extend Hospitality Having people over with regularity is an organic way for your children to see how to build bonds and care for others. It’s also really fun! Host playdates with your mom friends and their children, Sunday dinner with your extended family or a game night with the besties. One of the added benefits

is that kids can learn social skills not only by watching your interactions with others but also by engaging in conversation with people of all ages—children younger than themselves, teenagers and adults.

Apologize and Accept Forgiveness When you’re wrong or you make a mistake, own it and make amends quickly.

Likewise, don’t harbor bitterness, make assumptions or let things escalate over time. The best way kids can learn conflict resolution is by seeing it in action. Your displaying humility and genuine care despite hurt feelings shows kids there is hope on the other side of an argument. Likewise, if you’re living in regret or deep shame, give yourself grace and move on in freedom.

Be Vulnerable If we try to project the image that we have it all together, we’re not preparing our children for the real world. Kids don’t need perfect parents. They need genuine ones. It’s okay to have struggles—everyone has them. Kids can learn that it’s alright to make mistakes and that pushing through obstacles is what ultimately leads to building resiliency and grit.

Put People First We should love people and use things and not the other way around. Make sure your lifestyle puts this on full display.

Relationships are inherently messy, not always convenient and require work. But at the end of the day, they’re what matter most.

Don’t Worry About What Other People Think of You As Ann Landers so aptly penned, “At age 20, we worry about what everyone thinks of us. At age 40, we don’t care what anyone thinks of us. At age 60, we realize that nobody has been thinking of us at all.” Ultimately, in order to be comfortable

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in your own skin, you need to live a life consistent with your own value system, not simply seek to gain the approval of others.

Be a Good Listener Show genuine interest in other people’s lives. Ask their opinions. Listen to their life stories. Don’t be quick to interrupt with your own thoughts. Put your phone down, make eye contact and commit your full attention when you’re in conversation with others. In doing so, you teach your children how to actively be a good listener.

Don’t Make Excuses Watch your self-talk! Your kids are learning how to build self-confidence not only by the way you speak about them and others, but also how you speak about yourself. Tearing yourself down is not modesty or humility. It’s self-degradation. If things are hard, express how you are trying your best and you’re going to keep going when the going gets tough.

Don’t make blanket statements about how you’re not smart enough, capable enough or any other fill-in-the-blank enough.

Continue Personal Development

Take Care of Yourself

One of the beautiful things about life is it’s never too late to learn new things.

You can show your kids the importance of personal development by simultaneously taking up old hobbies and exploring new interests. Learn a second or third language.

Take an art class. Join a swing dance club.

You can’t take care of others if you don’t take care of yourself. Make sure to exercise, get adequate sleep, eat well and employ healthy stress-relieving practices.

Focus on your health more than your image. Your kids don’t care whether or not you fit in your pants from high school.

They will care if you have enough energy to play with them.

Be Generous with Your Resources Time, money and things are always enjoyed the most when they’re used for the benefit of others. Make a difference by doing volunteer work; donating lightly used clothes, baby items or toys; and paying for the person in line behind you at a fast food restaurant.

Be a Good Neighbor Get to know the people who live on your block and seek to do good. Shovel the elderly couple’s driveway when a big snow dumps, bring a meal over when someone has a baby or offer to mow when a neighbor is out of town for a long period of time.

Do What’s Right Character is doing what’s right for the right reasons, even if you no one is looking. Aim to be a person of integrity who is known for being dependable and trustworthy. Drive at or under the speed limit, wear your seatbelt, show up on time and follow through on the things you commit to.

Lauren Greenlee is a boymom of four who strives to lead by example. She writes from her Olathe home.

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HOW TO DEVELOP

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Momfidence

arents begin preparing for a new baby’s arrival from the moment they receive a positive pregnancy test. They research car seats and baby gear, prepare the nursery and read books on baby care. No matter how much you do prior to the birth, nothing can truly prepare you for the exciting and overwhelming moment when you bring your baby home from the hospital for the first time and realize you are responsible for a beautiful, tiny person. Even experienced moms may feel overwhelmed as they add another family member to an already busy household.

Over time, mothers can build their confidence or “momfidence” and feel more comfortable taking care of their children. Here are some tips to help you feel more comfortable and confident as a mom.

Trust your instincts Many new moms feel like they are flooded with unsolicited advice that is sometimes helpful and sometimes not. Learn to trust your instincts when it comes to advice. Well-meaning advice from your great-aunt who raised kids in the 1950s is likely to be outdated.

Only you and your partner can decide what is best for your child’s individual needs. When in doubt, consult your pediatrician, who is happy to answer new parents’ questions.

Practice self care It’s no surprise new moms are often exhausted, forget to eat and drink, put others’ needs before their own and feel they don’t even have time to wash their hair. A nap, shower and a decent meal can do wonders for your attitude and outlook. If needed, ask your significant other, family member or friend to watch the baby for a few minutes while you take care of your own needs. You will be surprised at how relaxed and confident you feel when you return to care for your children.

Don’t compare Comparison is an easy pitfall for most parents. Do your best not to compare your children to others around you or on social media. All children develop at their own pace and have their own strengths and challenges to overcome. Similarly, each mom will parent differently and have individual values, strengths and weaknesses to overcome as well. Olathe mom of three Jessica Kendall says, “Be true to who you are, your time constraints, your interests and your kiddos’ needs.

Forget the rest.” Figure out what is important to your family. No family will have the same dynamic, and that is perfectly okay.

Be kind to yourself I woke up with a start and heard my baby screaming from his room.

Exhausted from a series of sleepless nights, I had fallen asleep on the couch during his nap and forgotten to turn on the baby monitor. I rubbed the fog from my eyes and raced to his bedside. It was clear he had been crying awhile, and I felt like a terrible mom. Even when moms have

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the best intentions, they make mistakes. Be kind to yourself and don’t beat yourself up. Maybe you will forget to buy diapers, skip a bath or have to let the baby cry while you tend to another child—and every child will pick up the normal bumps and bruises. Just because you make mistakes in parenting does not mean you are a bad mom.

Parenting is a job that is always changing. As soon as you develop a routine and things calm down, your child develops a new skill, a new challenge arises or your situation changes. With each developmental milestone, give yourself a pat on the back. You are a wonderful, confident mother and you deserve to celebrate alongside your child. Parenthood is the most overwhelming and rewarding job you will ever have, but over time you will develop “momfidence” in your skills as a mom

Sarah Lyons is a freelance writer who lives in Olathe with her family.

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birthday party life lessons A birthday party may look like just a birthday party to you now, but what I see is a breeding ground for life lessons kids can learn that will carry them through their lives to help make them successful, happy and kind. Read on to check out a few teaching opportunities for your child’s next birthday party!

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Graciousness and Disappointment I’m lumping these two together because they seem to go hand in hand. The birthday child gets disappointed by not getting something she really wanted or sometimes not getting anything she really wanted at all during the entire party. That’s when it’s time to step in and talk about how disappointment is okay, but that we should be gracious about it. It’s kind of like being a sore loser versus being a happy loser. Even though there is disappointment going on, you want your child to learn how to say thank you and show appreciation for the gift giver’s time and money or skills that went into the gift.

Consideration Yes, it’s your child’s party, but consider where everyone would have a good time when planning your party venue. If it’s at your house, think up some fun games everyone might enjoy and build in plenty of time for just playing around. Have a friend with food allergies, such as gluten or dairy? Make sure to pick up something special for that friend--cookies or their own piece of cake--it’s easier than ever these days.

that she is going to be getting some cool new stuff and that she can put some of her favorite things up right away but that she should share some of the things and play with them with her friends and not hide them all away.

Giving Back and Donating This year, consider having your child ask for gifts for someone else. In my town, our local food bank supplies a birthday cake and all the fixings as long as the guests bring canned goods, take the tour and help out for a bit.

Also, if your child has a particular love for, say, animals … how about hosting a birthday party for or at a local animal shelter? Instead of presents ask guests to bring donations like pet food and other supplies.

Instead of lecturing, which we all know gets tuned out anyway, get your party on with some cool hidden lessons that will take your kid beyond their kid years and into a fun and full life!

Sharing Your kid may get some pretty good stash at his birthday party, and other kids are certainly going to want to play with the new goods. Explain to your child before the party

Kerrie McLoughlin lives in Peculiar, MO, and puts on five chaotic birthday parties per year for her kids and lives to tell about it at TheKerrieShow.com.

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table of contents 39 american flag craft 40 product reviews 42 things to do this summer 44 fourth of july in kc 46 make the most of summer 48 midwest reunion 50 july festivals

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CRAFTCORNER

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eed a fun and festive Independence Day craft? Look no further than your kitchen and your craft supply area. With a little thought and patience, this craft will be a winner!

Step one: Flip the egg carton over and paint the (now) tops of the individual cups white, leaving the top left four squares untouched.

Step two: Paint the rows of the egg carton red, leaving the top left four squares untouched.

Step three: Paint the top four squares blue.

Supplies:

Step four: Allow to completely dry.

• 18-count cardboard

Step five: Repaint and touch up any sections. Allow to completely dry.

We needed two layers of paint to get the coverage we wanted.

Step six: Cut a star stamp out of the foam. Dip the foam in white paint and add the stars to the tops of the blue squares.

Step seven: Allow to completely dry and display for the Fourth of July!

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• Foam or sponge to Janelle Cumro-Sultzer lives in Manhattan, KS, with her husband, two children and two dogs. Janelle is a family mediator and loves to focus on learning through play and getting messy with crafts.

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SUMMER FUN PRODUCT REVIEWS

By Elena Epstein, Director of the National Parenting Product Awards

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Made from unbleached compostable bamboo, this eco-friendly and durable set is lightweight and packaged in a natural canvas bag with mesh base and hemp rope handle for easy transport. Free from harmful chemicals.

Recyclable and reusable. $59.95, ages 2+, WillowAndSim.com

4-IN-1 EXPLORER TRIKE Enjoy the outdoors with this versatile trike featuring a modern design that grows to a toddler balance bike. $199, 10 months-5 years, Globber.com

Includes a soft mesh seat with a low center of gravity, an inner spring for stability, adjustable and removeable UPF 50+ canopy for protection, built-in handles and a reusable carry bag. $31.99, ages 1+, SwimWays.com

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PLAYMOBIL WATER PARK WITH SLIDES Cool off with a visit. Thrill seekers will experience exhilarating fun on the steepest water slide. Set includes two figures, water park structure with slide, two eels, two fish, palm tree and other accessories. $59.99, ages 4-10, Playmobil.us

Designed with toddlers in mind and featuring bold colors, easy-to-grab handlebars, a comfy seat and four wheels that roll smoothly. Kids can scoot around the house or take this balance bike outside! The cat’s tail doubles as a handy handle! $29.99, ages 12+ months, MyBToys.com

TWISTER SPLASH GAME It’s family soak time with this spin on the classic game. Connect the game mat to a garden hose, turn on the water, wait one minute and start playing—the soaking begins! $19.99, Amazon.com

IGOR JELLY SANDALS Great for a day at the beach or fun at the park, these adorable sandals are made of high quality PVC, feature a hook and loop closure, come in a variety of colors and are made in Spain. $46, ages birth-25 months, JustShoesForKids.com

SWIMWAYS SWIM HUGGABLE Kids can take their favorite stuffed animal swimming with these cuddly and floating stuffies made with a quick-dry material. $14.99, ages 12 months+, SpinMaster.com

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10 THINGS

EVERY CHILD SHOULD DO THIS SUMMER Summer is in full swing! Kids have the freedom to enjoy warm weather and time with family and friends. Many parents soon discover this sweet freedom sets the field for an epic battle to keep their kids off electronics. Here are some screen-free activities every kid should do this summer.

do. Maybe we will find what interests my daughter with things off the beaten path and hopefully spark a new passion.”

BE A NIGHT OWL No school means no early mornings.

Though staying up late every night may not be the best option for young children, allowing a few late nights on lazy summer evenings can be a great way to make memories. Use a projector to watch a movie outdoors, catch fireflies in the backyard or watch a fireworks show. Introduce your kids to the magic of a staying up late on a balmy summer evening. If you are lucky, they might even sleep in the next day.

TAKE IT OUTSIDE Some kids may enjoy playing outside without having to be pushed out the door, but others may need a little encouragement.

Instead of simply telling your children, “Go play outside,” offer some fun suggestions. Try having them design and build a kite, then go outside to fly it. Another idea is doing a park tour by making a list of great parks in your area (ask friends for recommendations) and visiting a different one each week. Diverting outdoor fun is almost limitless, and families can tailor the fun to children’s interests: Have a picnic, explore the neighborhood, set up an obstacle course, draw with sidewalk chalk, toss a ball, play on the swing set, pick flowers, take a family bike ride or organize neighborhood games. The possibilities are endless and can be catered to your child’s interests.

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COMPLETE A PROJECT

PLANT A SEED

Family projects are a great way to keep kids busy. Decide as a group what projects you would like to focus on this summer. Some ideas could include cleaning and remodeling (or rearranging) their bedrooms, collecting food for a food pantry, planting a garden, scrapbooking, reading an entire book series or running a 5K.

A great way to get kids outdoors is to have them work in the garden. This allows for plenty of time in the fresh air and can even be productive, taking care of daily garden maintenance of watering, weeding and checking on the plants. “Grow something!” says Heather Allen of Olathe.

“Anything, be it a tree, vegetable or flower.

There is something really rewarding about getting your hands in the dirt and growing and taking care of a plant.” If you choose to have a vegetable garden, get the kids involved in cooking with ingredients they have helped to grow.

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JUMP IN A LAKE It wouldn’t be summer without some swimming. Take the kids to the lake, pool or sprayground—or even set up the sprinkler in the backyard. Nothing feels better than cooling off in the water on a hot summer day.

EXPLORE THE CITY Kansas City is a great city to explore, and hometown field trips will get kids out of the house and away from their screens. You can visit some of the popular attractions in the area or discover a hidden gem. “We are going to find a passion project,” says mom Kristal Shanahan. “I”ll start a list of unique places to visit locally to learn more about what they

Camping affords a great opportunity to get families outside together. Some families may venture to a nearby campground with their tent to enjoy a day or two of unplugged peace. Other families may prefer camping in the backyard so they are close to the comforts of home. Either way, put away the electronics for the day, roast marshmallows on a campfire and enjoy the time together in the great outdoors.

LEARN SOMETHING NEW “I tell the kids the school year is for learning what your teacher wants you to learn, and summer is for learning what you want to learn,” says Amy Cameron, mom of three. She suggests making a list of two or three topics of interest and pursuing them by reading

fun guide Will kids stay off their electronics the entire summer? Likely not, but with these tips you can increase their outdoor and exercise time. They may even have so much fun they forget about their tablets. A parent can dream, right?

books, attending camps or doing research.

Moms Erin Lorton and Stephanie Loux both suggest keeping a daily journal. “They write a few sentences about their day,” Lorton says.

“It’s always fun to look back on previous years.”

Loux says, “We keep daily math, reading and summer writing journals.” Whichever approach you take, you can print pictures and create a keepsake for kids to look back on.

Sarah Lyons is an Olathe mom of six, including 7-year-old triplets.

GET MOVING Being outside in the summer is great, but sometimes it’s too hot or rainy, and you need to find an indoor place to burn off energy.

Consider getting the kids moving by visiting an indoor trampoline place, a skating rink, rock climbing facility or indoor aquatic center. If you want to save money and need some indoor ideas, have a dance party in the house, find Go Noodle or Cosmic Kids Yoga on YouTube or have a push-up and sit-up challenge.

COOL OFF WITH A SWEET TREAT Ice cream should be on every kid’s summer bucket list. The metro offers countless ice cream and snow cone shops to visit. Create a list of new shops or old favorites you’d like to visit this summer.

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FIREWORKS & FESTIVITIES TO CELEBRATE THE FOURTH

Plan a fun Fourth with one of these great activities!

Fourth of July Celebration at Worlds of Fun July 4, all day Get ready for the biggest and best Fourth of July celebration in Kansas City!

“Celebrate America!” is back with an amazing lineup packed full of fun, all-American attractions including the iconic Worlds of Fun fireworks celebration.

Flags for Freedom July 2-9 Each year, downtown Merriam and the surrounding area unfurl perfect rows of patriotic pride as Flags 4 Freedom volunteers place more than 1,500 U.S. flags at the Merriam Marketplace.

Frontier Fourth at Fort Osage July 2, 9:00-4:30 Experience Fort Osage as though you were in the young Republic celebrating the nation’s founding. Cannon, musket firing, military drill and stirring, patriotic speeches make for a fun-filled day.

Liberty Fest July 3, 6:00-9:00 Bring your chairs, yard games, snacks, and nonalcoholic drinks to Capitol Federal Sports Complex of Liberty. Water and glow items will be available for purchase at the Liberty Area Chamber of Commerce tent. ​ Lenexa Freedom Run July 4, 7:00-9:00 a.m.

Start your Independence Day early with a 5K or 10K at the Lenexa Freedom Run in Old Town Lenexa. Runners, walkers and strollers are welcome to participate in this family-friendly event.

VillageFest 2022 July 4, 7:30 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

Everyone is invited to VillageFest! Bring your family, friends and neighbors to Prairie Village Shops to enjoy crafts, activities, food vendors and patriotic festivities.

Independence Day 1855 July 4, 9:00-4:30 Celebrate our nation’s independence as our forefathers did at Missouri Town 1855.

Patriotic speeches, children’s games and period cooking are just a few of the many interpretive activities you’ll find as you explore the mid-19th-century village.

Day Out with Frank and Ella—Fun on the Fourth July 6-7, 10:00-4:00 Fun on the Fourth activities at Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm may include singing patriotic songs, signing a copy of the Declaration of Independence, observing blacksmith demonstrations, witnessing cookstove demonstrations and visiting the Mahaffie house.

Community Days Parade July 4, 10:00 Wear your red, white and blue and bring a lawn chair or blanket and join us in Old Town Lenexa for one of the best Fourth of July parades in the Kansas City area.

Celebration in the Park July 4, beginning at noon Celebration in the Park starts at noon at Leawood City Park and features Leawood Aquatic Center, kids activities and entertainment, food vendors, live music and fireworks.

Red, White and Blue Springs July 4, 6:30-9:30 Celebrate the Fourth of July at Red, White and Blue Springs! This free celebration will have live music, fireworks, vendors and more.

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irst of all, I think it’s important to be honest with yourself on whether you actually enjoy summer or not.

For some of us, summer is our jam and we look forward to it all year long. We love the warmth, being outside, the longer days, and being more carefree. Others of us, however, do not look forward to the heat, being outside, or the longer days with less structure. Deciding which summer camp you’re in can help determine how to make the most out of your summer experience. Being a stay-at-home parent vs. a working parent can also determine summer expectations and experiences as well.

If you’re in the Loves Summer Camp, focus on what you love about summer and try to do more of those things each week.

This could mean that you go swimming every afternoon until dinner, visit a new park each week, go out for ice cream every weekend, plan a playdate each week, or embrace baseball season and make tailgating amazing! One of my friends does a fun park/ playground hopping adventure with her boys each summer where they make a bucket list to visit each park in their town over the summer. They invite friends to come too, and it’s an easy playdate idea. Maybe you’d like to plan a weekend trip for each month during summer or you like to plan one epic family vacation to get away and really enjoy time with your family. You may like to take advantage of slower mornings and wear pajamas until lunchtime.

Perhaps you would love some fresh ideas for this particular summer. Some new ideas could be to pretend to be a tourist in your own town. Do the fun things in your town or city that you haven’t made a priority. Ask your friends to help you compile a list of ideas. Amanda Wetterson, mother of two and founder of The One Hundred People Project on Instagram, turned a childhood memory of her own into a summer-long adventure with her boys. She says, “My mom actually used to take my sister and I to every park in our

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small town in a day a few times a summer when I was a kid, and it was so fun. I was telling my kids about it and promised we could do it too. Once I figured out that we had a lot more than five parks, I turned it into a summer-long challenge and they LOVED it. We also still didn’t know very many people in Bloomington yet, so it unexpectedly was an interesting ice-breaker that helped us set up some approachable playdates. Now it’s kind of turned into an activity-hack for me, and I now have over 40 different things to do over the summer months. My kids love being outside, and setting the goal to visit all of the parks pushes us to try playgrounds we otherwise might not. A lot of them we still only visit once a year, but we’ve found some favorites we probably otherwise would have never tried. And it still makes for an easy, approachable playdate to get to know others.”

If that’s not your cup of tea, then maybe you could set a goal of getting a specific home project accomplished or learn something new either individually or as a family. Have your family give gardening a go this year or try art or tennis lessons. Perhaps you try a new water activity like kayaking at Shawnee Mission Park or visiting a new water park like Splash Cove or even Oceans of Fun! My kids and I have been making a list of movies we’d like to get to this summer too.

Cara Johnson, mother of three, says, “Bucket lists are a fun way to get the kids involved in coming up with ideas of things they’d like to do. We also do a vacation with each side of the family, which we look forward to every year. The boys get their week or so stay with grandparents by themselves, which is always fun. We like to take part in library reading programs/ challenges and I usually look for one camp or activity for each boy. We also try to take advantage of the free passes from the library for the zoo and other kid attractions.”

If you are in the Dreads Summer Camp, think about how you can make it a more enjoyable season for you and your family.

WHICH SUMMER CAMP DO YOU BELONG TO? 1) No school schedules makes me feel: a. Relaxed b. Anxious 2) Summer weather is: a. What gets me through winter b. Sticky and gross 3) Extra family time during the summer! a. Yay! b. Nay! 4) My ideal summer day: a. Outside, sunshine, picnic, playing in the water b. AC, inside, DoorDash, movie

under a blanket Mostly As: Loves summer camp Mostly Bs: Dreads summer camp

Perhaps you’re not a fan of less structure than during the school year. Maybe you could plan a variety of camps and summer classes to keep some level of routine in your days.

One year, I registered my daughter for three different vacation Bible schools! She loved going, and I loved the break in the day! If the heat is not your favorite, maybe you could hire a high school student to take your kids to the pool for you during the afternoons to allow you time to catch up on things or have a stretch to get some work done from home.

With the longer daylight hours, try making a house rule that everyone must still be ready for bed by a certain time, and then kids can stay up later doing their summer reading logs from your local public library.

For a stay-at-home parent, sometimes the summer seems overwhelming to have everyone spending so much time together again, and it can seem like an unrelenting job of entertaining your children each day for weeks on end. Perhaps you set a house rule that everyone gets to choose one activity for the summer (like baseball, gymnastics, art camp, etc.) and then stick to a weekly schedule. A variety of weekly schedules

can be found on Pinterest, and an example could be the following: Make It Monday, Take a Trip Tuesday, Water Wednesday, Be Thoughtful Thursday, Fun & Fabulous Friday. Making summer more fun for you as the parent will trickle down and make it a memorable season for your children as well.

So if you dread going to the zoo because you have to remember all the things and deal with tired, whiny children, then skip the zoo!

However, if a day trip to the zoo feels like hitting the easy button on keeping the kids entertained for the day, then by all means, get a family pass and go every week!

I think for the majority of us, we land somewhere in the middle of both camps. We can look forward to a season of warmth, sun, family time, and swimming but also being astonished by the sheer number of hours in a day when you’ve run out of ideas. Plan some time for yourself to regroup or playdates with your own friends to make playdates more enjoyable for yourself too. Jennifer Brooks, mother of three, says, “We do bucket lists and kid’s choice day. We have some scheduled activities but try not to over schedule.”

Personally, I’m hitting that midway mark of summers with my kids as my oldest heads to seventh grade in the fall so I’m hoping to soak up summer memories with my kids. But from my own experience, the rosy sunglasses come off quickly when all three kids are fighting over what we’re doing that day, whose turn it is to have a friend over, or whose turn it is to choose the TV show—on top of the escalated demand of meals and cleaning when everyone is home. But overall, I’m in the Love Summer Camp and like to go on outings most days. Whether it’s to the zoo for the day, going on a hike, heading to a pool, and spending most nights and weekends at a ball field. I personally love primarily being outside so the extra daylight is a perk for me. Unfortunately, that extra daylight can be a struggle for me when I realize I still need to make dinner and get the kids to bed and it’s already 7:00. I plan to utilize my crockpot more this summer to be able to spend more time outside and to set a timer on our Alexa to remind everyone to start getting ready for bed. (I probably need to set another reminder for myself to start making dinner too!)

fun guide As parents, we really do only get a handful of summers with these kiddos of ours, so sometimes it’s helpful to reflect on that truth and embrace the craziness that more together time can bring. On the flip side, don’t dwell too much on making each moment “the best” because oftentimes, the simple memories are the sweetest. There’s something special about the mundane days of parenting in each stage. A little trick I like to use when I feel overwhelmed with my children over the summer is to look at pictures from the summer or two before and remember that they just keep getting older, so this season matters too. Next year I will miss the kids I have at this moment.

Stephanie Loux is the mother to Layla, 12, Mason, 10, and Slade, 7 and tries not to take for granted each summer she gets to spend with her kids.

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Family Reunions in the Midwest:

Making Memories Across Generations

A NEBRASKA REUNION

Morton Family Mansion at Arbor Day Farm

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ust a few hours from Kansas City, treat the family to a weekend trip to Arbor Day Farm (2611 Arbor Ave., Nebraska City, NE, 402.873.8717, ArborDayFarm.org). The beautiful arboretum is a favorite family adventure. With tree houses and tree exhibits throughout, the attraction’s highlight is the tree house 50 feet in the air with a spectacular view of the nature below. The park features hands-on nature exhibits for children, many tree houses to play in and explore and a Discovery Ride with a tour of the park.

On site, stay at Lied Lodge, a beautiful hotel with comfortable guest rooms all decorated with nature-inspired décor, giving guests a cozy feel. The beautiful pool, hot tub and steam room are a great place to relax, and you can enjoy delicious dining at Timbers Restaurant.

Take a tour of the Arbor Lodge State Historical Park, home of the Morton family (famous for Morton salt). Learn the history of Arbor Day and how it began in Nebraska

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in 1872. The beautiful 52-room mansion, arboretum and Italian terraced garden tell the history of the Morton family, their presidential connections and the history of Arbor Day. Less than an hour away, continue making memories at Eugene Mahoney State Park, a beautiful park with numerous cabins ideal for reunions, campgrounds and fun activities, including an outdoor waterpark, hiking trails, bike trails, a small fishing lake and more.

Nearby, drive through Wildlife Safari Park (WildlifeSafariPark.com). Drive and hike through the park where you’ll see wolves, black bears, elk and birds. The nature center offers hands-on activities for children.

The highlight to any Omaha-area visit is the Henry Doorly Zoo (OmahaZoo.com). Zoos are one of our top picks for multigenerational getaways. This summer, the highlight is the elephant exhibit. In January of this year, two elephant calves were born, Eugenia (Jan. 7) and Claire (Jan. 30). They are on exhibit for

visitors to see as they play with their moms and interact with the herd. In addition to the elephants, the aquarium, butterflies, Desert Dome and rainforest were favorites. Enhance your visit with a behind-the-scenes tour (OmahaZoo.com/visitorexperiences) where keepers take you on a tour of the aquarium, sea lion exhibit (feeding sea lions included) or giraffe exhibit! The chance to hear from zookeepers and learn about the animals one on one is an unforgettable experience.

For the adventurous, head to TreeRush Adventures at Fontenelle Forest (TreeRush. com), an incredible outdoor ropes course with obstacles and zip lines. Spectators are allowed to come close to the adventurers and take photos, so grandparents can enjoy watching kids participate. This huge course nestled in the wooded setting of Fontenelle Forest is a hit with kids of all ages!

These are just a few of our tips for a Nebraska getaway. Visit KCParent.com for more details and ideas.

The Crown Center District (CrownCenter. com) is ideal for entertaining a variety of ages. If you’re looking for a beautiful hotel for out-of-town guests right in the heart of the city, both the Westin and the Sheraton at Crown Center (CrownCenter.com/hotels) offer beautiful accommodations. Enjoy Sea Life Aquarium (VisitSeaLife.com) where kids love the touch pool and the underwater tunnel or Legoland Discovery Center (LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com) with handson fun, 4D films and rides. You’ll find free fun at Kaleidoscope, a hands-on art center for children. For lunch, children love Fritz’s where trains deliver food to your table, but grown-ups may be partial to Unforked, with a delicious menu prepared with locally grown ingredients. After lunch, walk the Link to Union Station (UnionStation.org). Catch a film on the Extreme Screen or visit Science City, an interactive museum exploring many areas of science.

This summer, visit Powell Gardens and experience Fortopia, a playful outdoor exhibition comprising awe-inspiring forts, inviting explorers of all ages to discover

Missouri’s botanical garden. The display encourages outdoor discovery and is a great connection point for all generations as they reminisce over memories of childhood fort building. This year’s fort designers include a team of preschool children, artists, landscape designers, architects and more.

In addition to this fun exhibit, you may enjoy the Festival of Butterflies July 21– Aug. 7. The annual event is a celebration of all things butterflies alongside stunning botanic displays.

You may also visit the National World War I Museum and Memorial (TheWorldWar.org) in downtown Kansas City. Tremendous state-of-the-art exhibits tell the story of World War I and, more importantly, the soldiers and civilians of the era—their sacrifices and their journeys. This is one of Kansas City’s most important attractions.

The museum provides a free family gallery guide booklet for children, including a map of the galleries, games, puzzles, question and answer sections for various exhibits and a scavenger hunt to complete throughout the galleries.

fun guide Spend a day exploring the Kansas City Zoo (KansasCityZoo.org). With more than 1,700 animals on 202 acres, it’s the most affordable family fun for kids of all ages. Travel all over the world without ever leaving the Kansas City Zoo. Explore the new Elephant Expedition, where the zoo’s beloved pachyderms play in water and enjoy a state-of-the-art habitat. Take a spin on the Endangered Species Carousel, ride the train, then continue your journey on the tram to the zoo’s award-winning Africa exhibit. Fly overhead to get a bird’s eye view of giraffes, hippos, zebras and more on the Sky Safari, landing at “one of America’s best chimpanzee exhibits,” as proclaimed by renowned primatologist Jane Goodall. Also, visit Polar Bear Passage, Helzberg Penguin Plaza, the Discovery Barn and Stingray Bay. Kristina Light’s family especially loved feeding sea lions at the Henry Doorly Zoo in Omaha.

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ACROSS KANSAS CITY

Cass County Fair July 12-16, Cass County Fairgrounds. A tradition for more than 20 years, the Cass County Fair provides fun for all. From the youth livestock shows to exhibits to the action-packed demolition derby, the fair has it all.

Wyandotte County Fair July 12-16, Wyandotte County Fairgrounds. Live entertainment on two stages, carnival, kids zone, 4-H exhibits, rodeo, fair marketplace and plenty of awesome fair food.

The Great Car Show July 17, National World War I Museum and Memorial. Join the Kansas City Automotive Museum and the National WWI Museum and Memorial for a day of music, educational displays, food trucks, demonstrations, ride-alongs and … cars!

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Platte County Fair July 20-23, Platte County Fairgrounds. OldFashioned county fair with games, rides, carnival, food, music and more! The fair has been an annual event in the community since 1863.

It is recorded as being the oldest continuously operating fair west of the Mississippi River.

Grand Carinvale July 2-Aug. 7, Worlds of Fun. Experience how the world kicks up its heels at our day-to-night, larger-than-life, global celebration. Enjoy amazing high energy live music, delicious international food, lively games and unique crafts!

Butterfly Festival July 21-Aug. 7, Powell Gardens. Spend a day outdoors exploring tropical and native butterflies alongside stunning botanic displays. This festival is a Kansas City family-favorite!

KC Water Lantern Festival July 23, Theis Park. Water Lantern Festival is filled with fun, happiness, hope and great memories that you’ll cherish for a lifetime. This is a family-friendly event that can be shared by everyone.

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Leavenworth County Fair July 26-30, Leavenworth County Fairgrounds. Come and enjoy a classic American experience at the Leavenworth County Fair! You and your family can delight in the fun of games, contests, derbies, food, rides, exhibits and more.

Johnson County Fair July 31-Aug. 6, Johnson County Fairgrounds. Celebrate the best of Johnson County while preserving the agricultural heritage. The Johnson County Fair is a free fair except the carnival and nightly arena events. Don’t miss out on the fun!

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Kick off the holiday with Stars and Stripes Picnic on July 2 at the National World War I Museum and Memorial. Food, live music, vendors and fireworks!

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On Thursdays, Cameron, MO. presents a Summer of Fun. Enjoy free museum tours from 1:00 to 8:00 and a free concert in McCorkle Park at 8:00.

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Weekends in July starting July 9 visit Colonial Gardens for Berry Fest. Fun includes yard games, face painting, jump pillow, livestock tour, u-pick berries and more!

ColonialGardensKC.org

Visit the Kansas City Zoo on June 16 & 17 for Snow Zoo. The polar bears enjoy an icy paradise, and more animals cool off with refreshing icy treats.

KansasCityZoo.org

Head to Thompson Park on July 29 for the End of Summer Reading Celebration with activities, live music and a movie under the stars!

JoCoLibrary.org

1 Friday Story Time in the Park 10:00, Stagecoach Park.

Bring a blanket and enjoy stories, songs and fingerplays. Stories geared to ages 3-5, but all are welcome. OlatheLibrary.org Sounds on the Square 6:00, Linden Square.

Grab your blankets and lawn chairs and join for a night of music under the stars.

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First Fridays 7:00, Crossroads Art District. Art galleries, retailers and other participating art venues of the Crossroads Art District showcase their art. KCCrossroads.org Smithville Fireworks 9:00, Smithville Lake. Join for the annual fireworks show. The fireworks will be set off from Smith’s Fork Park at dusk.

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Food Trucks, Fanfare & Fireworks 6:00, St Paul’s United Methodist Church. Enjoy patriotic songs, food trucks and fireworks show!

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Paw-triotic Pet Parade 9:00, Lenexa Public Market. Festive, pet-friendly celebration features mutts in costume, pop-up vendors and treats! LenexaPublicMarket.com

Legacy Blast 6:00, Legacy Park (Lee’s Summit).

Concessions, food trucks, face painting, balloon artists and inflatables for kids, followed by fireworks! LSParks.net.

Frontier Fourth 9:00, Fort Osage National Historic Landmark. Cannon, musket firing, military drill and stirring patriotic speeches.

MakeYourDayHere.com

Summer Concert Series 7:00, Ward Parkway Center. Join for a free outdoor concert with genres from jazz and classic rock to Irish and indie. WardParkwayCenter.com

Shop Small Saturdays 9:00, Brew Haha Coffeehouse. Shop vendors showcasing local products and sip local coffee. Enter to win giveaways! KCLocalCraftFair.com

Spirit of America Celebration 7:00, Celebration Park (Raymore). Enjoy food trucks, activities, live patriotic music and fireworks at dusk! Raymore.com

Old-Fashioned Independence Day Civil War Encampment 9:00, Lone Jack Battlefield Museum. Games, songs, reenactments, speeches and more. HistoricLoneJack.org

Mother Nature Reads 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Little ones enjoy a nature-themed story time. LakesideNatureCenter.org/events 1860s Independence Day Celebration 10:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm.

Experience Independence Day 1860s style.

Mahaffie.org Saturday Reenactment Event 10:00, Shoal Creek Living History Museum. Enjoy family activities and historical demonstrations.

ShoalCreekLivingHistoryMuseum.com Independence Day Celebration 10:00, historic downtown Weston. Celebrate Independence Day in Weston with an old-fashioned parade!

WestonMO.com Stars and Stripes Picnic 3:00, National World War I Museum and Memorial. Grab a bite to eat, shop local vendors, enjoy live music and fireworks! TheWorldWar.org Movie Night on The Lawn 7:00, Legends Outlets. Enjoy family-friendly movies on the Lawn every Saturday during summer.

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Flags for Freedom Thru July 9, Merriam Marketplace. Stop by to view an astonishing display that honors our nation. Merriam.org

3 Sunday Flags for Freedom Thru July 9, Merriam Marketplace. Stop by to view an astonishing display that honors our nation. Merriam.org Art Garden KC 11:00, Pendleton Heights Neighborhood. Weekly art fair with more than 60 vendors, food trucks, live music, kids activities and more! ArtGardenKC.business.site KC Monarchs Game 3:00, Legends Field.

Sunday Funday at the ballpark! Carnival games, inflatable and more! MonarchsBaseball.com Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slideshow and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org Old-Fashioned Picnic 6:00, Shawnee Indian Mission. Enjoy patriotic music and play games while you wait for the fireworks to begin!

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Liberty Fest 6:00, Capitol Federal Sports Complex of Liberty. Activities, food trucks, live music and fireworks!

TheLibertyFest.com Overland Park Civic Band Concert 7:00, Indian Creek Recreation Center. Bring the family for a free summer band concert.

OPCivicBand.org Kearney Fireworks Celebration 7:30, Kearney Amphitheatre. A free concert from Tate Stevens followed by fireworks. KearneyAmphitheatre.com

4 Monday HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY! Lenexa Freedom Run 7:00, Old Town Lenexa.

Start Independence Day early with a 5K or 10K. Runners, walkers and strollers welcome!

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VillageFest 2022 7:30, Prairie Village Shops.

Pancake breakfast, children’s activities, face painting, carnival rides and more!

PVKansas.com Fourth of July Celebration 9:00, Worlds of Fun. Ride all day and sit back at night as we light up the sky with an amazing Fourth of July fireworks show. WorldsOfFun.com

Independence Day 1855 9:00, Missouri Town 1855. Patriotic speeches, children’s games and period cooking, parade and more!

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Independence Day Festival 4:00, Celebration Park (Gardner). Live music plus various food vendors and activities with a fireworks show!

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Fortopia 9:00, Powell Gardens. Enjoy a playful exhibition composed of awe-inspiring forts that invites explorers of all ages to discover the gardens! PowellGardens.org

Fourth of July Celebration 10:00, Platte City Fairgrounds. Food, music, inflatable obstacle course, balloon art, caricature sketches and more! 816.858.3046

Fourth of July 5:00, Stilwell Community Park.

A salute to freedom, Stilwell style! Parade, kids games, music, concession trailer and fireworks!

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Free Admission Day 9:00, Overland Park Arboretum. Enjoy the day at the arboretum with the family for free today! ArtsAndRec-OP.org

Historic Train Depot Tour and Concert 10:00, Cameron, MO. Salute veterans with the Cameron Municipal Band and tour the train depot. Cameron-MO.com

Star Spangled Spectacular 6:00, Corporate Woods Office Park. Celebrate Independence Day with stage shows, food trucks and fireworks! OPKansas.org

Fourth of July Celebration 10:00, Downtown Parkville. Pancake breakfast, community parade, music, skydiving exhibit and fireworks!

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Red, White & Blue Springs 6:30, Blue Springs High School. This celebration will have live music, fireworks, vendors and more.

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Beach Fest Noon, Lake Olathe Park. Admission includes Aqua Park, boat rentals, open swim and other fun activities for the whole family.

Pre-reg at OlatheKS.org.

Celebration in the Park Noon, Leawood City Park. Kids activities and entertainment, food trucks, live music, inflatables and fireworks!

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July Fourth Fireworks 9:45, College Boulevard Activity Center. Celebrate Independence Day in Olathe with the annual fireworks display.

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5 Tuesday Visit the Museum 9:00, Harry S Truman Library and Museum. After a renovation the museum is open! Bring the family to explore and learn!

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Time Travelers 10:00, Shawnee Town 1929.

Step back in time to the 1920s with family activities in this living history program.

ShawneeTown.org Romeo & Juliet 6:00, Southmoreland Park.

Bring a blanket and enjoy a show in the park!

Pre-show entertainment, food for sale and a performance. KCShakes.org

6 Wednesday Summer $2 Bowling Program Thru Aug 30, Mission Bowl ’N Olathe. Purchase card for $50 and receive 24 games of bowling for you and your family! Shoes not included. MissionBowl.com Alice’s Wonderland 11:00 & 1:00, Coterie Theatre. Adapted from Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland, this musical is fun for all ages!

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THE KANSAS CITY MUSEUM IS NOW OPEN Exhibits, programs, and ExpEriEncEs about Kansas city’s past, prEsEnt, and futurE.

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Visit the Museum Daily, Harry S Truman Library and Museum. After a renovation the museum is open!

Bring the family to explore and learn! TrumanInstitute.org

Ocean Movie Series 2:30, Indian Creek Library.

Bring the whole family for ocean-themed movies. Today’s movie: Muppet Treasure Island.

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Children’s Concert 10:00, Tomahawk Ridge Aquatic Center. Summer fun for children! Performances by local entertainers in area parks. OPKansas.org

Music in the Garden 6:00, Colonial Gardens.

Come and enjoy live music while being surrounded by our beautiful greenhouse plants.

Pre-reg at ColonialGardensKC.com.

Summer of Oceans 3:00, MCPL (Liberty).

Storyteller Joyce Slater takes you across the oceans and around the world through stories.

Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

Summer Concert Series 8:00, South Park (Lawrence). Enjoy a summer concert in the park. Tonight’s theme is American Salute.

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Fireworks: 1860s Style 6:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm. Participate in parade, hear music performance, learn about history and enjoy fireworks! OlatheKS.org

School of Rock 8:30, Shawnee Theatre in the Park. See the show that is a loving testimony to the transforming power of music.

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7 Thursday Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com

8 Friday Summer Movie Madness Thru Aug 11, Union Station. Special promotion on tickets for movies at Regnier Extreme Screen Theatre. Details at ExtremeScreen.UnionStation.org.

Second Friday 5:00, downtown Excelsior Springs. Shops open late, featured artists, live musicians, great eats—there’s something for everyone! VisitExcelsior.com

Rock the Amp 6:00, Legacy Park. Enjoy a concert in the amphitheater! Tonight’s lineup includes Warrant with special guest Firehouse.

Tickets at CityOfLS.net.

WeekEnder 6:00, Crown Center. Cap off Friday with local bands and food trucks followed by a famous flick under the stars. CrownCenter.com Summer Concerts in the Park 6:30, Central Park (Zona Rosa). Bring a chair, blanket and friends and enjoy free concerts on Fridays and Saturdays. ZonaRosa.com

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Olathe LIVE! 7:00, Stagecoach Park. Bring blankets, lawn chairs, food and nonalcoholic beverages to enjoy a night of live music.

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Train Rides 11:00 & 2:00, Belton, Grandview and KC Railroad. Take a 40-minute trip along the tracks of the Frisco Railroad and enjoy a fun afternoon! KCRRM.org

Movies at the Amp 8:00, Grandview Amphitheater. Grab your family and friends and lawn chairs or blankets and head out for a free movie! GrandviewAmp.com

Raytown Live 7:00, Town Center Greenspace.

Bring blankets or lawn chairs and join folks from all over to kick back and enjoy the tunes.

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Legally Blonde: The Musical 8:00, Gladstone Amphitheatre. A fabulously fun awardwinning musical based on the adored movie.

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Junque n’ Donuts 8:00, Louisburg Cider Mill.

Miami County’s best outdoor flea market and craft sale. Grab some lunch and enjoy yard games. LouisburgCiderMill.com

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Antique & Craft Fair 9:00, Bingham-Waggoner Estate. Shop antiques and crafts on the lawn of the Bingham-Waggoner Estate. BWEstate.net Kids Club 10:00, Colonial Gardens. Kids enjoy fun activities while you shop at Colonial Gardens or savor a coffee at the Bean Counter.

Pre-reg at ColonialGardensKC.com.

Little Acorns 10:00, Anita B Gorman Discovery Center. Join volunteer naturalists for a fantastic journey through magical places as they read books. Pre-reg at 816.759.7300.

Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Explore Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org

Music in the Park 6:00, Rotary Park. Enjoy a relaxing evening outdoors with free, live musical entertainment. BlueSpringsGov.com

11 Monday Visit the Museum 9:00, Harry S Truman Library and Museum. After a renovation the museum is open! Bring the family to explore and learn!

TrumanInstitute.org Curious George: Let’s Get Curious! 10:00, Crown Center. Children will have fun as they explore the world of Curious George!

CrownCenter.com Story Time for Families 10:00, various branches (MCPL). Hear stories, sing songs, join in movement activities and create memories together. Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

KC Northern Train Rides Noon, Line Creek Park. Ride restored trains around a half-mile track in the park. $.75/ride. KCNRR.com

Our Culture at Play Exhibit Thru Oct, T/m Museum. Featured exhibit explores how iconic characters both influence and reflect American culture. ToyAndMiniatureMuseum.org

Imagineer Club 1:00, St Joseph Museums.

Explore topics of wonder, nature, architecture, transportation and culture. Pre-reg at StJosephMuseum.org.

Muddy Mondays 10:30, Ceramic Café. Have you always wanted to try throwing clay on a wheel? A clay expert will show you how to get started. Pre-reg at 913.383.0222.

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12 Tuesday Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Irene B French Community Center. Too warm to play in the park? Ride, slide and play inside! Parents supervise children. Merriam.org/park Cass County Fair Thru July 17, Cass County Fairgrounds. From the youth livestock shows to exhibits to the carnival rides, the fair has it all.

CassCountyFairMO.com Wyandotte County Fair Thru July 16, Wyandotte County Fairgrounds. Enjoy carnival rides, food, games, entertainment and activities for all ages! WyCoFair.com Discover Nature 2:00, Anita B Gorman Discovery Center. Go on an adventure to make amazing discoveries as you explore on a trail.

Pre-reg at 816.759.7300.

13 Wednesday Meet Peppa Pig 10:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Meet Peppa, make some amazing animal friends, touch creatures in the rock pools, and have lots of fun! VisitSeaLife.com Retro Story Time 10:00, Johnson County Arts & Heritage Center. Hear a story from long ago read by a guest from the 1950s All-Electric House! Craft included. Pre-reg at 913.831.3359.

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Outdoor Family Story Time 10:00, Blue Valley Library. Grab a blanket and join for a story time with fingerplays and movement activities! Prereg at JoCoLibrary.org.

Movie at the Aztec Shawnee Theater 2:00, Aztec Shawnee Theater. Join us for a kidfriendly matinee of the Adventures of Robin Hood. 913.248.2360 Weekly Life on the Farm Tour 5:30, Colonial Gardens. Activities may include feeding the chickens, hugging an alpaca or holding a baby goat! ColonialGardensKC.com

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Museum Tours – 1-8 pm u Band Concerts in McCorkle Park – 8 pm Several Downtown Merchants will be Open Watch Facebook pages for Cameron Main Street, Cameron Depot Museum and Cameron Municipal Band for details!

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Summer Concert Series 8:00, South Park (Lawrence). Enjoy a summer concert in the park. Tonight’s theme is Grand Finale.

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14 Thursday Children’s Concert 10:00, Roe Park. Free performances of local entertainers in area parks. Bring a blanket to sit on and pack a picnic if you like. OPKansas.org Story Time in the Park 10:00, Indian Creek Park. Bring a blanket and enjoy stories, songs and fingerplays. Stories will be geared to ages 3-5, but all are welcome. OlatheLibrary.org

Herp Days Noon, George Owens Nature Park. Meet one of the fantastic, cold-blooded creatures—snake, salamander or turtle.

GeorgeOwensNaturePark.org Brown Bag Concert Series Noon, US Bank Building (Lawrence). The Brown Bag Concert Series presents a variety of artists each week.

LawrenceKS.org Summer of Fun 1:00, Cameron, MO. Enjoy free museum tours from 1:00 to 8:00 and a free concert in McCorkle Park at 8:00. Family fun on Thursdays! Cameron-MO.com Mr Stinky Feet 3:00, MCPL (Liberty). Join Mr Stinky Feet for a concert of original songs and old favorites, sure to be educational and interactive! Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

The Addams Family Thru July 17, Ironwoods Park. A new musical that’s fun for the entire family and features performers of all ages.

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15 Friday Fridays in the Park 11:30, Macken Park (NKC).

Enjoy a Friday summer afternoon in the park listening to local musicians. NKC.org Local Life Today & tomorrow, downtown Overland Park. Explore locally owned businesses, activities and more. Head to DowntownOP.org for details about this month’s theme.

Third Friday Art Walk 5:00, Downtown KCK. Free, family-friendly events. Art exhibits, performances, food and more. EpicArtsKC.org Kansas City Monarchs Tiger Tailgate 6:00, Legends Field. The night will be filled with your favorite Mizzou traditions. MonarchsBaseball.com Summer Concert Series 6:00, Grandview Amphitheater. Gates open at 6:00 with music from the Recliners at 7:00 and Stolen Winnebagos at 8:00. GrandviewAmp.com

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WeekEnder 6:00, Crown Center. Cap off Friday with local bands and food trucks followed by a famous flick under the stars. CrownCenter.com Sounds on the Square 6:00, Linden Square.

Grab your blankets and lawn chairs and join for a night of music under the stars.

LindenSquare.info Summer Concerts on the Lawn 7:00, Kansas City Museum. Bring a blanket and picnic and enjoy a concert on the lawn! Tickets at KansasCityMuseum.org.

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Visit the Harry S. Truman Presidential Library, recently renovated with fresh exhibits celebrating the 33rd president of the United States.

Guests experience the Truman era through historical exhibits, including the new permanent exhibit, “Harry S. Truman: An Ordinary Man, His Extraordinary Journey.” Also tour the Truman working office and visit gravesites.

Get a glimpse into the remarkably simple lifestyle of the Truman family on a tour of the Truman Home. The home displays how Harry and Bess lived in Independence before and after the presidency, maintaining a simple life in the community.

Truman hoped to be remembered as “the people’s president,” and his home reflects that legacy.

The National Frontier Trails Museum tells the story of the Oregon, California and Santa Fe trails through hands-on exhibits, films and living history programs.

Independence was the jumping off point for westward expansion, and the museum recounts this period of U.S. history with interactive displays making it a great destination for history buffs.

Enjoy a phosphate, ice cream soda, malt or another tasty treat at Clinton’s Soda Fountain on the Independence Square. The restaurant sits on the same location of the pharmacy and soda fountain where Harry S. Truman worked as a young man.

This is a favorite summer stop before catching a film at the Pharaoh.

Take a wagon ride with Pioneer Trails Adventures where three trails began, two Civil War battles were fought and one president began his march to the White House.

See Independence as a pioneer would, by mule-drawn covered wagon.

Learn the history of the trails, President Truman, Jackson County, why Missouri is the Show-MeState and more.

The Courthouse Exchange is an iconic Independence restaurant, serving patrons since 1899.

Located below street level on the square, this restaurant is known for it’s cozy atmosphere with rock walls, the wooden bar and warm features.

Serving standard American fare, including delicious burgers, this eatery is a favorite with locals and visitors alike.

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Olathe LIVE! 7:00, Stagecoach Park. Bring blankets, lawn chairs, food and nonalcoholic beverages to enjoy a night of live music.

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16 Saturday Kid Makers Market 9:00, Lenexa Public Market.

Shop for a variety of goods made by local youth in our community. LenexaPublicMarket.com Berry Fest 9:00, Colonial Gardens. Berry good fun includes yard games, face painting, jump pillow, livestock tour, u-pick berries and more!

ColonialGardensKC.org Lost Trail Days 9:00, 10:00 or 11:00, Louisburg Cider Mill. Tour includes viewing of soda production run, samples and more! Free; prereg at 913.837.5202.

Snow Zoo Today & tomorrow, Kansas City Zoo. The polar bears enjoy an icy paradise, and more animals cool off with refreshing icy treats.

KansasCityZoo.org Kids, Water, Fish and Frogs 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Tree frogs and/or toads animal encounter, mussels presentation and more.

LakesideNatureCenter.org Dragonfly Days 10:00, George Owens Nature Park. Catch and learn about the dragonflies.

These are outdoor activities, so dress for the weather. GeorgeOwensNaturePark.org Movie Night on the Lawn 7:00, Legends Outlets. Enjoy family-friendly moves on the Lawn every Saturday during summer.

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17 Sunday The Great Car Show 10:00, National World War I Museum and Memorial. A day of music, food trucks, demonstrations, ride-alongs and … cars!

TheGreatCarShow.com Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Explore Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org KC Northern Train Rides Noon, Line Creek Park. Ride restored trains around a half-mile track in the park. $.75/ride. KCNRR.com.

Music in the Park 6:00, Rotary Park. Enjoy a relaxing evening outdoors with free, live musical entertainment. BlueSpringsGov.com

18 Monday VBC - Hero University! Thru July 21, Church of the Resurrection. Join at HERO University where kids learn lessons from the greatest HERO of all—Jesus! Pre-reg at COR.org.

Meet Peppa Pig 10:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Meet Peppa, make some amazing animal friends, touch creatures in the rock pools, and have lots of fun! VisitSeaLife.com

19 Tuesday Curious George: Let’s Get Curious! 10:00, Crown Center. Children will have fun as they explore the world of Curious George!

CrownCenter.com Tots on Tuesday 10:30, Kemper Museum of Contemporary Art. Tots on Tuesday is now virtual! Sing songs, read books, explore art and more. Pre-reg at KemperArt.org.

Alice’s Wonderland 11:00 & 1:00, Coterie Theatre. Adapted from Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland, this musical is fun for all ages!

TheCoterie.org Kidchella: Out of this World Thru July 22, 7:00, Nexus Church. Kids learn how to walk by faith and to be filled with the power of the Spirit!

Pre-reg at NexusKC.ChurchCenter.com.

20 Wednesday Days Out with Frank and Ella 10:00, Mahaffie. Enjoy a different history theme each Wednesday and Thursday with plenty of hands-on activities, crafts and a stagecoach ride! Mahaffie.org Time Travelers 10:00, Shawnee Town 1929.

Step back in time to the 1920s with family activities in this living history program.

ShawneeTown.org Music in the Garden 6:00, Colonial Gardens.

Come and enjoy live music while being surrounded by our beautiful greenhouse plants.

Pre-reg at ColonialGardensKC.com.

Platte County Fair Thru July 23, Platte County Fairgrounds. Old-fashioned county fair with games, rides, carnival, food, music and more!

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21 Thursday Toddler Time 10:00, Ceramic Café. On Thursdays from 10:00 to 2:00, toddlers 5 and under can paint one selected item for just $10!

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Dive Into Science 11:00, Central Resource Library. Experience a whale sneeze, the music of the ocean, see a giant jellyfish take flight and more. Pre-reg at JoCoLibrary.org.

Herp Days Noon, George Owens Nature Park. Meet one of the fantastic, cold-blooded creatures—snake, salamander or turtle.

GeorgeOwensNaturePark.org Summer of Fun 1:00, Cameron, MO. Enjoy free museum tours from 1:00 to 8:00 and a free concert in McCorkle Park at 8:00. Family fun on Thursdays! Cameron-MO.com Free Family Fun Nights 5:00, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. Come explore a special place where children can create, discover and learn through play. KansasDiscovery.org Third Thursday Programs 7:00, Clay County Museum. Free program for all ages! This month’s theme is Clay County in the Civil War. ClayCountyMuseum.org

22 Friday Festival of Butterflies 9:00, Powell Gardens.

Spend a day outdoors exploring tropical and native butterflies alongside botanic displays.

PowellGardens.org Summer Chill Expo 10:00, the Pavilion at John Knox Village. Enjoy the creations of Midwestern artists and crafters. IBDPromotions.com Fourth Fridays Art Walk 5:00, Downtown Lee’s Summit. Showcases from local artists, live music, shops, restaurants and more!

DowntownLS.org/fourthfridays Fourth Friday 5:30, Downtown Olathe. Enjoy great kids activities including face painters, balloon artists, glitter tattoos, bubbles and more. FourthFridays.Olathe.org WeekEnder 6:00, Crown Center. Cap off Friday with local bands and food trucks followed by a famous flick under the stars. CrownCenter.com Rock the Amp 6:00, Legacy Park (Lee’s Summit).

Enjoy an outdoor concert along with children’s events and more! Fun for the entire family!

CityOfLS.net Summer Concerts in the Park 6:30, Central Park (Zona Rosa). Bring a chair, blanket and friends and enjoy free concerts on Fridays and Saturdays. ZonaRosa.com Movies in the Park 7:00, Electric Park. Enjoy yard games at 7:00, music at 8:00 and movie at dusk. Tonight’s movie is Free Willy. Lenexa.com

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Grand Carnivale Thru Aug 7, Worlds of Fun. Celebrate the sights, sounds, smells and tastes from cultures around the world. WorldsOfFun.com

Moths in the Moonlight 7:00, Ernie Miller Park. Bring the family to the new outdoor amphitheater for entertainment and education.

Pre-reg at 913.826.2800.

Movies in the Park 8:00, TB Hanna Station. Join for the action-packed classic Jurassic Park. Enjoy complimentary popcorn and drinks. Raymore.com

23 Saturday Artifact ID Day 9:00, Fort Osage National Historic Landmark. Family-friendly event includes a variety of activities and crafts.

MakeYourDayHere.com Grand Carnivale Thru Aug 7, Worlds of Fun. Celebrate the sights, sounds, smells and tastes from cultures around the world.

WorldsOfFun.com Miami County Fair Thru July 31, Miami County Fairgrounds. Youth rodeo, carnival, parade, demolition derby, dog show, concerts and more. MiamiCountyK.ansasFair.com

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Kid’s Ukulele Class 11:00, Shawnee Town 1929. Beginners’ tutorial on tuning and strumming—and even a little history about the ukulele. Pre-reg at ShawneeTown.org.

Train Rides 11:00 & 2:00, Belton, Grandview and KC Railroad. Take a 40-minute trip along the tracks of the Frisco Railroad and enjoy a fun afternoon! KCRRM.org KC Water Lantern Festival 6:00, Theis Park.

Experience the magic of thousands of lanterns as the soft lights reflect upon the water.

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Free Afternoon Program 1:30, Prairie Park Nature Center. Free program for the family may include video, slideshow and going outside to enjoy nature. LawrenceKS.org

Art Garden KC 11:00, Pendleton Heights Neighborhood. Weekly art fair with more than 60 vendors, food trucks, live music, kids activities and more! ArtGardenKC.business.site

Music in the Park 6:00, Rotary Park. Enjoy a relaxing evening outdoors with free, live musical entertainment. BlueSpringsGov.com

25 Monday Story Time for Families 10:00, various branches (MCPL). Hear stories, sing songs, join in movement activities and create memories together. Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

Our Culture at Play Exhibit Thru Oct, T/m Museum. Featured exhibit explores how iconic characters both influence and reflect American culture. ToyAndMiniatureMuseum.org Muddy Mondays 10:30, Ceramic Café. Have you always wanted to try throwing clay on a wheel? A clay expert will show you how to get started. Pre-reg at 913.383.0222.

Vacation Bible School Thru July 29, Wyandotte County Christian Church. Go on a mission to discover how we grow, serve, care and love.

Pre-reg at WyandotteCCC.org.

Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Irene B French Community Center. Too warm to play in the park? Ride, slide and play inside! Parents supervise children. Merriam.org/park

Time Travelers 10:00, Shawnee Town 1929.

Step back in time to the 1920s with family activities in this living history program.

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Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com

KC Monarchs Game 7:00, Legends Field.

Bring the family to the ballpark and watch the Monarchs take on the Sioux Falls Canaries.

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Leavenworth County Fair Thru July 30, Leavenworth County Fairgrounds. Delight in the fun of games, derbies, food, rides, exhibits and more. LeavenworthCountyFair.com AKMA After Hours 5:00, Albrecht-Kemper Museum of Art. After-hours event features kids games and activities, chance to visit exhibitions and more! Albrecht-Kemper.org

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Westbrooke VBS Thru July 29, Westbrooke Church. Discover God’s goodness through demonstrations, crafts, games and God’s Word.

Pre-reg at WestbrookeChurch.org.

Open Gym 9:30, Kaw Prairie Community Church. Grab a coffee from the coffee shop and hang out with friends while your kiddos get their energy out! KawPrairie.org

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Days Out with Frank and Ella 10:00, Mahaffie.

Enjoy a different history theme each Wednesday and Thursday with plenty of hands-on activities, crafts and a stagecoach ride! Mahaffie.org

Visit the Museum 9:00, Harry S Truman Library and Museum. After a renovation the museum is open! Bring the family to explore and learn!

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28 Thursday Curious George: Let’s Get Curious! 10:00, Crown Center. Children will have fun as they explore the world of Curious George!

CrownCenter.com Summer Movie Madness Thru Aug 11, Union Station. Special promotion on tickets for movies at Regnier Extreme Screen Theatre. Details at ExtremeScreen.UnionStation.org.

Children’s Concert 10:00, Tomahawk Ridge Aquatic Center. Free performances of local entertainers in area parks. Bring a blanket to sit on and pack a picnic. OPKansas.org Summer of Fun 1:00, Cameron, MO. Enjoy free museum tours from 1:00 to 8:00 and a free concert in McCorkle Park at 8:00. Family fun on Thursdays! Cameron-MO.com

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29 Friday Fridays in the Park 11:30, Macken Park (NKC).

Enjoy a Friday summer afternoon in the park listening to local musicians. NKC.org Final Fridays 5:00, Downtown Lawrence.

Activities for kids, exhibitions, music, dance, and theater for all ages. UnmistakablyLawrence.com WeekEnder 6:00, Crown Center. Cap off Friday with local bands and food trucks followed by a famous flick under the stars. CrownCenter.com MCC Birthday Party 6:00, Merriam Community Center. Join as we celebrate the center’s second birthday! Party includes a mermaid and pirate show, games and prizes. Merriam.org End of Summer Reading Celebration 7:00, Thompson Park. Celebrate the summer of reading with live music and a movie!

JoCoLibrary.org Kansas Symbols 7:00, Ernie Miller Park. Bring the family to the new outdoor amphitheater for entertainment and education. Pre-reg at 913.826.2800.

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The SpongeBob Musical Thru Aug 6, Shawnee Theatre in the Park. The residents of Bikini Bottom face total annihilation, until a most unexpected hero appears. TheatreInThePark.org

30 Saturday Georgia’s Chicken Run 7:30, Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead. Lace up those shoes, because it’s time for Georgia’s Annual Chicken Fun Run/Walk. OPKansas.org Berry Fest 9:00, Colonial Gardens. Berry good fun includes yard games, face painting, jump pillow, livestock tour, u-pick berries and more!

ColonialGardensKC.org Grand Carnivale Thru Aug 7, Worlds of Fun. Celebrate the sights, sounds, smells and tastes from cultures around the world.

WorldsOfFun.com Alice’s Wonderland 11:00 & 1:00, Coterie Theatre. Adapted from Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland, this musical is fun for all ages!

TheCoterie.org Summer Concert Series 7:00, Ward Parkway Center. Join for a free outdoor concert with genres from jazz and classic rock to Irish and indie. WardParkwayCenter.com

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1200 Kansas City Road Olathe, Kansas • 913.971.5111 Activities vary by season Visit www.mahaffie.org

31 Sunday Festival of Butterflies 9:00, Powell Gardens.

Spend a day outdoors exploring tropical and native butterflies alongside botanic displays.

PowellGardens.org Meet Peppa Pig 9:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Meet Peppa, make some amazing animal friends, touch creatures in the rock pools, and have lots of fun! VisitSeaLife.com Public Tours 11:00, Cedar Cove. Explore Cedar Cove with an experienced guide. See these epic animals and learn about them. Tours start every half-hour. SaveOurSiberians.org KC Northern Train Rides Noon, Line Creek Park. Ride restored trains around a half-mile track in the park. $.75/ride. KCNRR.com.

Johnson County Fair Thru Aug 6, Johnson County Fairgrounds. Celebrate all of the best in Johnson County. Carnival, nightly arena events and more! JoCoKansasFair.com Music in the Park 6:00, Rotary Park. Enjoy a relaxing evening outdoors with free, live musical entertainment. BlueSpringsGov.com

Library

SUMMER READING June 4-July 29 Johnson County Library has Oceans of Possibilities for fun this summer!

Activities include: • Storytimes • Storytellers & Performers • Read to a Dog • Movies & More in the Park Join us for our End-of-Summer Reading Celebration Friday evening, July 29 at Thompson Park in downtown Overland Park!

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