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ack in high school, we students had a teacher we were sure never really read our essays. To test our theory, I turned in a paper in which midway through I wrote, “Are you really reading this, [teacher’s name]?”

When the paper was returned to me, next to my grade was a note assuring me that the paper had been read.

When I write about my job, I typically write about what I love about working with the magazines. But this month as I began to write, “One thing I love about my job…,” I was reminded of that incident in high school.

I smiled as I recognized I’m not just writing good things because I think my boss is reading them. So…one thing I really do love about my job is the people I’ve met and get to work with on a daily basis. A special group I enjoy is our local freelance writers. We have such strong people from all walks of life and all over the metro who work hard to bring you exciting and relevant info each month. This month, I’m thrilled to introduce a few new columns. Amy Hundley has been writing the past few months on healthy eats for kids, and this month you’ll find a new date night column, tips on taking Insta-worthy photos and a MoJo (more joy) for Moms column. I think you’ll love them all as much as I do!

Fall is in full swing, and that means there is so much to do! Here’s hoping the weather cooperates…I have memories of visiting a pumpkin patch in the snow, and of course KC has had years when it’s over 90 in the fall. No matter what the weather, our Pumpkin Patch Guide, both here and online at KCParent.com, will help you plan the perfect fall outing for your family.

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MOJOFORMOMS mōjō: 1. influence, especially magic power 2. mom joy

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We all have warts. Ugly parenting moments when we stir the pot reminding our kids of their past mistakes, or turn green in the face over some minor annoyance, or flip a lid and shriek at the littles like a witch.

Looking back at our behavior, we easily can brew up a frothy cauldron of guilt and trick ourselves into believing we’re the mother of all that’s wicked. But that sort of thinking is just like picking at warts: It only amplifies the ugly and causes our guilt fungus to fester. Here’s what to try instead.

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Examine your warts

Conjure new habits

Parenting warts don’t make you a witch. They make you 100 percent human. Your guilt is only a signal you want to do better. The problem with guilt is that it doesn’t feel good, and we tend to resist uncomfortable feelings.

But emotions we resist persist.

What if you could just sit with guilt and welcome it? Notice where and how you feel it in your body as you breathe, without judgment or resistance.

Think of guilt as a professor and ask what lessons she has come to teach.

Uncomfortable emotions are surprisingly insightful under examination. Guilt holds up a magnifying glass, helping you see your parenting warts with clarity so you can excise them with precision.

Thank your teacher, Professor Guilt, and assure her you’ll do your homework so that she can depart. Start with a small assignment and focus on one parenting wart at a time. What’s one new habit you can embrace to replace a warty behavior?

Professor Guilt, what are you trying to point out and magnify? Are there patterns of behavior or thoughts I need to examine and change? Are there triggers I can plan for or situations I need to address? Teach me; I’m your willing student.

Assignment: I’m going to work on not yelling at my kids. Because my triggers usually show up in the morning when we’re trying to get out the door, my plan is to wake everyone up 15 minutes early and practice deep breathing when I feel frustrated.

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What is guilt teaching you about situations, behaviors, thoughts and emotional triggers?

What parenting wart are you ready to remove? What is your plan for change?

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Hello, Guilt. You feel like a molten stomach and a heaviness upon my head and shoulders.

Where and how does guilt present in your body?

Wendy Connelly, M.Div., is a podcaster (MoJo For Moms podcast), Christian life coach and mother of two.

She’s the admin for the MoJo For Moms Facebook group and posts her latest podcasts and content at MoJoForMoms.com.

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for eating at a restaurant with kids (and enjoying it!)

ho doesn’t enjoy a night of eating out at a restaurant and off from cooking? But with kids, dining out can be more stressful than preparing an entire meal at home. Here are some tips and tricks to make your trip more enjoyable for the entire family!

Choose a Kid-Friendly-ish Restaurant Don’t be tied down to fast food, but try to pick a restaurant you’ve been to before and has an atmosphere your child will blend into.

I’ve noticed louder restaurants keep me from worrying about how noisy my daughter is and cover up the sound of any unwanted tantrums she has when she’s “hangry” and our food hasn’t arrived yet. Also, try to dine somewhere with shorter wait times if possible.

Arrive Early Try to get to the restaurant before the dinner rush. Not only will you avoid a long wait time to be seated, but your food might arrive more quickly. You also will dodge the chance of your children’s interrupting other tables during a busy time, and you’ll make it home in time to get the kids to bed at their normal bedtime.

Lay the Ground Rules On your way to the restaurant, let your children know eating out is a special treat and they must behave well. Tell them the main

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rules you want them to abide by: quiet voices, staying seated, table manners, etc. If they succeed, you can splurge and order them a special dessert for being on their best behavior.

Check the Menu Online Make sure the restaurant offers at least a few kid favorites like macaroni and cheese or pizza. Nothing is worse than getting to a restaurant and realizing your picky kids won’t try a thing on the menu.

Pick Seats Strategically Be strategic when seating your family.

My favorite trick is to request a booth and have my daughter sit away from the aisle.

This keeps her somewhat trapped in, and she stays seated for the entire meal without the constant struggle to get up and play. Also, seat siblings apart if at all possible to avert any possible arguments.

Bring a Bag of Tricks Most restaurants offer crayons and coloring sheets for children, but I’ve noticed my daughter gets bored with them after a few minutes. Bring a bag full of toys and activity books you use only at restaurants. These special toys will keep the kiddos entertained longer than the typical crayons at the table.

But leave the iPad at home. Dining out should be a way for the family to interact together, not just the adults while the kids are distracted by electronics.

Bring In Reinforcements Have you ever noticed kids tend to behave so much better for their grandparents than Mom and Dad? Invite your parents to dinner with your family. They will help keep your children occupied, and your kids will be less likely to act out. Your parents also will love having that extra time with their grandkids!

Tip Well More than likely, your waiter will have to deal with at least one spill, food all over the floor and an extremely messy table when you leave. Tip him well to let him know you appreciate his patience, and he will be happy to serve you next time your family comes in.

Carry Out If all else fails, order your favorite meal for carryout. You get a break from cooking and a stress-free dining experience in the comfort of your own home! Kortney Ptomey, a mother of two from St. Joseph, says, “Usually once a week we get a pizza and a movie and have a picnic in our living room.”

Regan Lyons is a freelance writer who lives in St. Joseph, MO, with her husband and 4-yearold daughter.

For a list of places where kids eat free (or almost free), head to KCParent.com!

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Looking for some unique date ideas this month?

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ne of my favorite dates is a progressive dinner. And I’m not talking about the kind where you go from house to house! Instead, this activity involves getting out of the house, which is often just what the two of

you need most. My husband and I have done this date in three different ways.

Fast Food Progressive Dinner If you’re short on time, money or both, this is the perfect option.

We pick three or four places and get something small at each.

On one of our outings, we stopped for predinner “cocktails” from QuikTrip, then headed to Sonic for mini tots and popcorn chicken. Next up was the main course at Taco Bell, followed by sundaes at McDonald’s. To make this even more fun (and challenging!), we each took an envelope with $10 in it that we had to make last for all stops.

Around-the-World Progressive Dinner This one I really enjoy; it moves at a more leisurely pace and requires a little bit more spending and planning. We made three stops on our tour, with the first being La Bodega on Southwest Boulevard. They have a good selection of tapas at happy hour, as well as half-price sangria! Our second stop was Lidia’s, where we shared the pasta trio. It’s delicious! The selections change daily, and it’s always unlimited. If you share with someone, you do not get refills, but because this a progressive dinner, you definitely don’t need seconds! The third stop we made on this dinner was at Grunaeur, where we enjoyed coffee and apple strudel to share.

Streetcar Route Progressive Dinner We have enjoyed this date a couple of times now, with great success! For one of them, we started at Opera House in the River Market for drinks. They have a wide selection of alcoholic and nonalcoholic choices. Our second stop was at Milwaukee Deli in the Library District. We each treated ourselves to a slice of the delicious pizza, which, I will warn you, is bigger than the plate and more than enough for one person. Our last stop was for dessert at Yard House in the Power & Light District. They have a good selection, including mini-sized sweets. We highly recommend the peach apple cobbler!

The great thing about each of these dates is that it can be tailored to your own tastes and budget, and the options are almost endless! Plus, they make for great double dates as well.

Hannah Berry is a freelance writer who lives with her husband in Kansas City. They enjoy regular date nights and love trying new restaurants and activities.

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abies are born with the beginnings of listening skills, and some people even believe playing music during pregnancy can increase the baby’s intelligence and foster a love of all types of music. Children who receive instruction on how to listen actively do better overall in school, sports and relationships with each other and adults.

Active listening basically means giving full attention to the speaker and trying to comprehend the entire message being sent.

Active listeners show verbal and nonverbal signs of engagement while listening, which include smiles, head nods, attentive posture and no distractions.

Benefits for active listeners are many, such as fewer misunderstandings, faster work rate and improved productivity.

These are some ways to cultivate active listeners:

4 This gives a child the chance to correct Repeat back what your child says.

you if you don’t perceive the intended message.

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the content of the message and the feeling expressed along with it.

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them to predict what will happen next, which helps them listen to details to make a logical guess.

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Talk, talk, talk. Find a topic your child

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Don’t interrupt. Let your child complete his thought before responding, and don’t rush kids. Also, avoid trying to guess what kids are about to say, as this can have a negative outcome. When kids are finished talking, follow up with specific questions about what they have said so they will know you listened intently.

3 example, “What games did you play at Ask open-ended questions. For

recess today?” prompts her to think and tell you a story.

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Play telephone. Remember that old

each in the circle must whisper the exact message. When the last person says the message, it’s fun to see if he gets it right!

10 child a story, then read it again, Read a short story. Read your

changing some things. Every time your child hears a change, have her clap or raise a hand to signal she heard the change.

Rebecca Harper, a first-grade teacher, believes the key to developing active listeners is in creating a collaborative and cooperative learning environment.

“You need to implement structures that boost engagement! Students need to practice social skills and help to create a classroom environment in which they are equal participants and have individual accountability,” she says. “As a teacher, I am learning right along with my students. I encourage parents and teachers to be openminded, be risk takers and never be afraid to make mistakes. The best mistakes have made me who I am.”

Begin speaking to your child as soon as she sees your face, and as she ages, your youngster will learn to emulate your actions.

Relax and realize that many leaders struggle with listening skills, as is evident every day.

Eye contact is a major factor.

Another great way to foster active listening is to help your child build his vocabulary. If he gets hung up on a certain word he doesn’t understand, he will miss the rest of what you are saying. Flash cards, charts and online programs help with this.

Be patient. Becoming an active listener is a lifelong process, and something as simple as sitting around the table at dinner and talking can be one of the most lasting impressions you make on your child.

An avid outdoors girl, Judy Goppert lives in Lee’s Summit and enjoys all seasons. She enjoys drawing on her personal experiences to write about the nuances of everything wonderful about life.

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FLY HIGH WITH FAMILY FUN

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am not an adventurous person by nature. I don’t enjoy roller coasters, thrill rides or haunted houses. In fact, my husband and I recently went to Worlds of Fun and were watching people do the Ripcord. I commented that I wouldn’t get on it even if someone offered me a million dollars—to which my husband replied that he would carry me onto the ride to win a prize like that!

I also used to have a real fear of flying.

It took a year of fear-of-flying classes to get me on a commercial airline. I could go on and on, but you get the picture.

When I found out I’d be visiting iFLY to check it out, I told the family and all were very excited to try it out. All except for me. But I kept an open mind and said I wouldn’t rule out giving it a go.

I don’t know what got into me, but when we arrived, I said I’d give it a try (the staff reassured me that I wouldn’t get the sinking-stomach feeling). And guess what? It is FUN! Like, lots and lots of fun! Even better was that our teenagers (ages 17 and 13), who usually are not excited to go out with their parents, had a blast with us. To watch them laugh and genuinely have a great time was priceless.

So what can you expect? Upon arriving, you are asked to fill out waivers. After that’s complete, the staff fits you with your jumpsuit, helmet and goggles. One thing to note: Wear tennistype shoes. I had on sandals (thankfully, I had the foresight to bring socks) and was given a pair of shoes to wear, which worked out fine, but wearing my own shoes would have been a bit more comfortable. After you’re geared up,

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“WE HAD A GREAT NIGHT OF FAMILY FUN AT IFLY. A WIN-WIN IN MY BOOK.”

you head to the training room where your instructor shows you a short video that focuses on how to position your body while you’re in the wind tunnel.

Here’s the best part: To enter the tunnel, you simply do a trust fall into your instructor’s waiting arms. I envisioned having to jump off a step ledge into the tunnel. I was glad I was wrong. After everyone practices the position, you are off to the wind tunnel.

We each had two turns at flying, with a few in our group taking an additional flight with VR goggles that allow you to imagine you are skydiving in an exotic locale. The first flight was basically trying to keep the position and stay up. The instructor stays with you the entire time and gives you signals to help you stay on track and keeps you level (and from crashing). Our instructor said we all did well; she was able to let go of each of us on our first try. On the second try, once you get set, the instructor grabs on to you and takes you up—way up! And you spin around! And it’s fun!

Afterwards, you have the opportunity to purchase a video and photo of your adventure, which make for fun memories.

We had a great night of family fun at iFLY. Yes, it is a bit pricier than other options for a night out with teens, but it was something different and active and got us all laughing together. A win-win in my book.

Margaret Sarver lives in Lenexa with her family. She may have been a tad sore the day after iFLY, but it was all worth it!

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ames snatched a pumpkin treat, barely cool enough to touch. “Father, what did you do on Halloween when you were little?”

Ian looked me in the eye as he brazenly took one off the rack. “Yeah, Dad. Did you do anything that got you in trouble?”

“Trouble? Me?” I tried to maintain an air of dignity. Of course, tricks are as important as treats on All Hallows’ Eve, but that night was actually pretty quiet in the neighborhoods of my childhood. “Do you mean like soaping windows? Or things like smashing jack-o’-lanterns? No, I never did anything like that.”

I cleared my throat. “But, my stepfather, your Grandpa T, knew how to celebrate.

He lived in the country, and one of the things they’d do is tip over outhouses.”

The boys gave me a blank look.

“Before there was plumbing, the bathrooms were in a separate, small building, away from the house, and they were pretty yucky. Anyway, Dad and his friends would push them over. All the owner had to do was to push them back up, but it was still a pain.”

“Is that all?” I blocked Ian’s sneaky hand as he reached for another pumpkin treat.

“No. The worst thing Dad and his friends did was to take apart an old car and, since vehicles were simpler and lighter then, they put it back together on the roof of the owner’s building. It stayed up there for a month because they couldn’t figure out a way to get it down.”

“I didn’t do anything like that when I was a kid. I just wanted the candy.” My face took on a pious look. “I was a model child.”

The mask of piety slipped as my grade cards flashed through my mind. “Maybe, not always a working model.”

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A pet’s welcoming affection can be a powerful mood booster for children and adults alike.

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“Pets are good protectors. We always know when someone comes near the house, and I like when my dogs are in the backyard with my girls when I’m not out there,” Heather Weber, Olathe mother of three and dog owner of two, says. “They also bring joy!

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aving pets seems like every child’s dream—even a rite of passage. I remember how fervently I tried to convince my own parents of the reasons why we needed to get a puppy or a kitten (or a baby sister). So this one is for all those readers—or their kids—trying to convince someone to let you get a pet.

Bringing a pet home and taking care of it does offer many benefits.

Companionship/Protector A pet can be a great companion and friend to a child, especially a child on the shy side or one who has experienced a move or other life change. Because a pet can’t talk, it cannot judge, laugh at or make fun

Depending on the type of animal you choose for a family pet, it can provide a great reason to step outside and get some exercise.

Movement and sunlight improve your mood, and stepping away from a screen, whatever your age, can be a good thing. Personally, I sought out a dog that would need daily exercise to make sure I didn’t skip out on my own walk or run. Exercising a pet can be a family activity or, as kids get older, an independent activity and responsibility.

Encourage your kids and pets to wear each other out—a big win for you!

Pet exercise doesn’t have to be limited to dogs—use some creativity. I had rabbits as a child and would take them out in the yard on harnesses with leashes!

Teaching Opportunities Pets are also an effective way to learn values like responsibility, ownership, time and money management, as well as selflessness and empathy. “My first thought on pets is the responsibility Dolly is teaching our kids,” says Sara Clark, Olathe mother of two and dog owner. “It’s their job to feed her and give her water. I also encourage them to let her outside when she needs it. Most of the time I have to remind them, but they are getting better about doing it on their own.”

Sarah Taylor, Baldwin City mother of three and owner of two outdoor dogs, two outdoor cats and 12 chickens, says her

family’s menagerie has been very educational.

“Our kids, ages 11, 10 and 8, have learned over the last few years all the tasks needed to care for our animals—so it’s lots of responsibility training. Also, because we have chickens, they’ve learned an entrepreneurial mindset, budgeting income and expenses and researching breeds with desired traits.”

Everyone needs to understand that even the best animals can react when poked, prodded or jumped on, and parents need to monitor kids and pets when they’re together.

Sadly, pets also sometimes provide lessons in loss and grief. “We’ve lost animals, so we’ve had to navigate that journey together too and learned healthy strategies to handle the loss,” Taylor says.

Health Benefits Having a family pet also has been shown to decrease stress simply by providing someone to talk to and pet. Many schools and libraries have therapy dogs to help kids with their social and reading skills. My daughter had a rough transition to her new school after our most recent move, but the school office had a therapy dog she was able

to visit and pet during the day to calm and comfort herself.

“In addition to giving students a fun, positive association with reading and writing, dogs also provide numerous physical and mental health benefits.

Studies have shown that interacting with a dog helps to lower blood pressure and cortisol levels. This helps students feel more comfortable, less stressed and better able to focus on their work,” says SitStayRead.org.

LibraryDogs.com says more than young readers get a boost from gentle therapy dogs: “Many college campuses welcome therapy dogs to help students ‘shed the stress’ of final exams. Indiana University students can book time in ‘Rent-a-Puppy’ day with puppies from a local animal shelter.” Personally, I remember the animal shelter’s bringing dogs onto our campus during finals week, and it was definitely a highlight for me.

Commitment Many couples start life together with a pet as their first “baby,” thinking they will ease into the chaos of raising children.

Others add the responsibility after children arrive. Either way, understanding the realities of pet ownership, besides the basics of feeding, clean water and exercise, is important. Consider there will be vet bills and boarding fees when you travel.

Our family has a separate budget allocated just for our dog for these very reasons. My Golden Retriever is prone to ear infections and has developed one when all three of my kids had them too. Pet health is definitely one more thing to worry about on top of mothering small humans. But when my dog is out of the house, I miss him and it doesn’t feel like home.

If you’re not ready to commit to a pet yet, seek out a reading-to-dogs program or visit or volunteer at your local animal shelter to reap the rewards of being around animals.

Or you can always get a fish.

Stephanie Loux is the mother of Layla, 8, Mason, 6, and Slade, 3, as well as dog mom of her Golden Retriever, Thor. She has had four rabbits, an aqua-baby frog and many fish as well.

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When purchasing items for the special day, you may find it wise to spend a little extra money on birthday items you know can be used many times over several years. Purchase games that can be used every year, like bingo, bean bag toss or yard games such as badminton. These games are fun for any party, and you’ll see a return on your investment quickly. Chalkboards for birthday signs, cake stands and punch bowls also can be purchased once and used for many parties.

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Kids of any age will have a great time posing in different costumes. Many of these items can be purchased at a dollar store, garage sales or may be lying around your house. Choose a basic birthday backdrop for your photo booth or use a plain sheet or tablecloth to keep things simple and affordable for your photo backdrop.

A number of fun apps allow you to put in different backdrops if you use a green background. Photos taken in the photo booth can double as thank you cards for your guests.

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Choose from the health and beauty supply area. Most kids love band-aids adorned with their favorite characters.

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Kids who are several years apart might not fare well with a combined party; separate interests and friends might hinder planning a party that pleases everyone. Keep in mind that the older the children, the more guests they can handle. Young kids tend to get overwhelmed easily, so having a joint party for 4-year-olds and inviting 30 guests will probably result in overstimulation for the kids (and parents, too!)

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If you are collaborating with another parent, make sure you have a similar budget in mind. Planning a simple party with a couple of games and cake, while the other parent wants to bring in ponies and clowns, will invite trouble. Make a budget and stick with it, regardless of whether you are the sole party planner for your own kids or teaming up with another family.

Location

A neutral location, such as a bowling alley, petting zoo or park will ensure that one family is not doing all the prep work and cleanup. Throwing a bash somewhere besides your own home also eliminates the stress of feeling that everything must be spotless before guests arrive. Of course, if the birthday kids are siblings and you have

the space and patience to host a party in your home, go for it!

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Most parents who have planned double birthday celebrations recommend separate smaller cakes. That way, each child can have a hand in choosing the design and flavor and can have his or her own candles to blow out. Singing “Happy Birthday” to each birthday kid will also make everyone feel special.

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Some parents are hesitant to throw joint birthday parties because they don’t want guests to feel obligated to buy gifts for both kids, particularly if the kids have separate friends who may know only the child who invited them. Giving a gift only to the child who invited you is appropriate.

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Jelyn (short for Evangeline) grew up near Cebu in the Philippines. The neighborhood where she lived was attractive at first, but began to deteriorate quickly after a dump site opened nearby. Her family faced challenges as well. Her father lost his job, and her mother went to the dump site to find things she could sell for money. Jelyn frequently skipped school to help take care of her younger siblings, and they lived in a home made of cardboard that didn’t hold up well during the rainy season.

Finding food and the basics was often a struggle. Faced with this reality, Jelyn’s younger sister began going to a feeding program at a local church; Jelyn soon followed. One day, the church put on a program in the neighborhood in conjunction with Operation Christmas Child, a project of Samaritan’s Purse.

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the gifts to younger children. Yet deep inside, she really wanted to receive her own box because she had never before received a gift. Much to her amazement, after the other boxes were distributed, she also was given her very own.

It was as if that specific box were intended just for her. The school supplies and hygiene items inside were invaluable to her and just what she wanted. Jelyn loves writing, and having her own notebook provided an outlet for her creativity.

Jelyn believes the gift was a reminder of God’s love. After receiving that treasured box and getting plugged in with the local church, Jelyn began to understand how God loves and cares for her and has a plan for her life.

“It really solidified how God cared for me and my family,” Jelyn says. “It was God saying, ‘I am your Heavenly Father.’”

Jelyn now makes the Kansas City area home with her husband and two young daughters. She enjoys packing shoeboxes with her family, sharing her story and encouraging others to get involved.

She loves that she can serve with her family to make a difference together and teach her daughters the value of giving back.

This year marks the project’s 25th anniversary, and getting involved is easy. Simply find any empty shoebox and decide whether you would like your gift to go to a boy or a girl. Choose an age range (2-4, 5-9 or 10-14) and fill the box with various toys, hygiene items and school supplies. You even can personalize the boxes by including a drawing from your child or a portrait of your family.

A $9 donation is requested to cover the cost of shipping, and if you pay on the Operation Christmas Child website, you can print out a label and track where in the world the box goes.

Finally, during national collection week, Nov. 12-19, enter your zip code into the zip code locator on the website to display drop-off locations near you. Many local churches, like Lenexa Baptist Church, are centrally located drop off locations. You’ll find dozens of spots all over the Kansas City area.

Allison Gibeson is a Lee’s Summit mom and year-round volunteer with Operation Christmas Child.

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our child wakes up with a sore throat and you begin an internal debate of whether to keep her home or send her to school. On one hand, you do not want your child to struggle through the school day feeling ill.

On the other hand, having your child catch up on schoolwork and taking a day off of work yourself can be difficult—especially if your child feels fine after getting the day started. How is a parent to know when it’s best to keep kids home to rest and reduce the risk of spreading illness to others? Let’s look at some common symptoms kids have and when it’s okay to go to school and when it’s best to stay home and recuperate.

SYMPTOM – Fever

sore throat is severe, your child could be dealing with strep throat, which requires a visit to the doctor to be tested. If your child tests positive for strep throat, she should be on antibiotics for 24 hours before returning to school to avoid spreading the illness.

SYMPTOM – Pink eye Also known as conjuntivitis, pink eye is extremely contagious. If your child has yellow/green discharge coming out of his eye or the white of the eye is a pink color, then keep him home until he’s seen a doctor. Most schools will require a physician’s note saying the child is well enough to return to school, or that the child take antibiotic eye drops for 24 hours before coming back to class.

If your child wakes up with a fever over 101 degrees, he should stay home from school. Giving ibuprofen or acetaminophen will help bring your child’s fever down, but take the temperature before giving any medicine to determine whether your child should go to school that day or not. A child with a fever is most likely contagious, so keep him home.

If your child wakes with a headache but does not have a fever, you are likely safe to send her to school. However, if your child is excessively tired or has other symptoms besides just a mild headache, she may be coming down with something. Staying home to rest might be best.

SYMPTOM – Sore throat

SYMPTOM – Rash

If your child has a mild sore throat due to allergies or cold symptoms, she is most likely well enough to attend school. If the

If your child has a rash from an unknown source, keep him home until you are able to see a doctor to determine the

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SYMPTOM – Headache

cause. Rashes can be caused by many things and some of them are contagious. If you know the cause of your child’s rash—such as ringworm or impetigo—use the appropriate measures to ensure it doesn’t spread.

SYMPTOM – Earache If your child has ear pain and no other symptoms, she is not contagious and technically can go to school. If the ear pain is causing discomfort, loss of sleep or a fever, staying home to recuperate may be the best choice.

SYMPTOM – Tummy troubles If your child is having diarrhea or is vomiting, he will need to take the day off from school. Not only is he contagious, but he probably isn’t up for his usual routine anyway.

SYMPTOM – Cold symptoms Children suffering mild cold symptoms, such as clear runny nose, mild sore throat and mild fatigue, are allowed to attend school. Keep in mind that even though cold symptoms don’t affect anyone’s ability to participate in normal activities, they may render your child contagious. Take care to practice frequent hand washing, cover that cough and get dirty tissues into the trash can.

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SYMPTOM – Cough You cannot keep your kids home from school and activities every time they cough, but kids with a severe cough should stay home from school. Likewise, children who are experiencing shortness of breath or wheezing should stay home and see the family doctor.

When it comes to the decision of whether to keep your children home or send them to school, use common sense. If you saw another child with the same symptoms at school, would you want her to be around your healthy child? If your child has extreme fatigue or generally feels unwell, it might be the sign of something to come, and resting at home may be best. Usually, when it comes to stopping the spread of illness, it’s better to be safe than sorry. When in doubt, keep your children home until they are back to their normal, active selves.

Sarah Lyons is a mom of six who resides in Olathe.

As always, please consult your health care provider with any questions or concerns.

Source: CDC.gov/flu/school/guidance.htm

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It’s fine for parents to each have their own way of interacting with their children.

As a matter of fact, it’s healthy.

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e all come to parenthood with a certain set of expectations and assumptions about raising kids.

Naturally, we assume our partner will share our healthy outlook. That is, until we find ourselves butting heads in the midst of a heated child-rearing dilemma.

How do we navigate a parenting style conflict without confusing our kids and harming our relationship with our partner?

Discuss your upbringing with your partner. “In a perfect world, we would have

these conversations when we are dating,” says

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adolescent and family therapist Melissa Perry, LPC, Research Psychiatric, Kansas City, MO. How we raise our kids is often dictated by how our parents raised us—or how we wish we’d been raised. As a couple, discuss each other’s childhoods. For example, what was your parents’ disciplinary style? How did they interact with you?

Listen to understand and empathize with each other’s experiences.

“Most people know that it doesn’t feel good to scream at their kids. Most people know it doesn’t feel good to hit them, but they do it

because they say, ‘I turned out okay,’” says Cati Winkel, an Overland Park wellness coach who works with individuals and families.

“Once we start figuring out what that’s created in their lives, how they interact and how they have relationships with people, they start to recognize, ‘Oh, maybe things could have been a little bit different,’” Winkel says.

Parent as a team. Even if you are divorced or separated, focus on presenting a united front when it comes to parenting.

“It’s fine for parents to each have their own way of interacting with their children. As a matter of fact, it’s healthy because it teaches children to be more flexible and to adapt better in different environments,” says Colleen Huff, director of operations, Family Transformations, Kansas City, MO. Discuss the ideal home environment you want to create, the types of family rules that are important to each of you, and zero in on common goals.

Come up with a plan. Agree on age-

appropriate rules and consequences in your home. For a toddler or preschooler, you might have two or three rules like no hitting or no throwing toys, while a 5-year-old might have up to five rules.

“If kids know the expected behavior, then they’re free to do something else, which is going to be exploring and learning, playing and engaging and feeling self-confident versus feeling timid, inward and insecure,” Huff says.

Establish reasonable consequences for unacceptable behavior, but be flexible. For example, you might use the corner for a timeout for your child, while your partner may prefer your child sit in a time-out chair.

By agreeing on a plan of action for common scenarios and remaining consistent with consequences, you can avoid reactive parenting.

Manage conflict. Vastly different

approaches to parenting can send mixed messages to your child.

“Your child might start to identify one parent as the parent to avoid and the other parent as the parent to get what they want to out of them—or use parents against each other,” Perry says. “If your goal is to both love your child and both parent them, then you can probably come to some sort of compromise.”

Suppose you want your child to do homework right away after school to free up the evening for other interests. Then, your partner comes home, dismisses this rule and lets your child play before homework.

A good way to address the situation might be for you to say, “I’ve noticed that Johnny struggles to complete his homework if he puts it off until later in the day. This structure in our afternoons seems to help. I could really use your support on this.”

Then, give your partner an opportunity to respond without your interrupting.

“Focus on the problem, not the person, and focus on the actual issue at hand in the moment, not what the parent or child did or didn’t do in the last week or week before, ” Perry advises.

Also, use reflective listening to validate what your partner says, which shows you care about your partner’s perception or opinion.

In reflective listening, you restate in a noncondescending way what you think you heard: “I think I’m hearing you say______. Is this what you mean?”

“Oftentimes we misunderstand, and we base our next answer on an assumption of understanding,” Perry says.

Types of Parenting Styles

Is it okay to fight in front of your child? If you can remain calm. Seeing their

One of the most harmful parenting styles. Kids have trouble forming relationships with others.

parents work out a conflict and come to a resolution is healthy for kids.

“If we teach children from a young age how to properly deal with conflict, that’s only going to set them up for success,” Winkel says.

But if you are too angry to discuss the situation immediately, give yourselves permission to cool off before working through the issue.

“Agree to walk away, but have a set, specific time that you are going to come back and talk about it again,” Perry says. “A lot of times people fight, then they cool down, but they don’t ever come back and resolve what was said in the heat of the moment.”

Without coming to resolutions for problems that come up in our relationships, resentment and disengagement from each other can set in, potentially harming the partnership.

Need help strengthening your communication skills with your partner or ex to resolve parenting differences? Consult with a licensed family therapist for helpful support and strategies.

Christa Melnyk Hines is a nationally published freelance writer. She resides in Olathe with her family. Her latest book is Happy, Healthy & Hyperconnected: Raise a Thoughtful Communicator in a Digital World.

Authoritative • Provides structure to a child’s daily routine, including regular bedtime.

• Establishes clear household rules and reasonable consequences.

• Healthy, open line of communication between parent and child.

Considered most effective and beneficial parenting style for the average child.

Neglectful • Doesn’t support child’s emotional and/or physical needs.

• Unaware of what is happening in child’s life.

• Leaves child alone for long periods of time.

• Uninvolved with child’s life outside of home.

Permissive • Loving and nurturing, but not demanding.

• Lenient to avoid confrontation with child.

• Lack structure, unclear rules, consequences.

• May bribe kids to do things with large rewards.

Kids more likely to exhibit insecurity, poor social skills, self-centeredness, lack of motivation and disregard for authority.

Authoritarian • Demanding, strict and inflexible.

• Lack of healthy dialogue between parent and child.

• Limits child’s ability to make decisions or choices.

• Uses punishment instead of positive reinforcement.

Kids may exhibit low self-esteem, associate obedience with love, struggle in social situations and may rebel when outside of parental control.

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APPLYING FOR COLLEGE 101 A Guide for High School Students and Their Parents

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e parents all know how fast time flies. In the blink of an eye our child has grown from a toddler to a teenager! Time seems to go faster and faster as kids approach the college years and begin navigating their college search. Helping your child prepare for college and keeping

track of the admissions process can be confusing and overwhelming. When to apply?

When to visit? How many schools to explore? Deadlines!! Here is a guide to highlight some of the major things you and your high school student should be doing each year to prepare for college and nail the admissions process.

Freshman Year Admissions representatives agree that freshmen students should focus primarily on high school. Most importantly, students should work hard to get good grades. Susan Lutz, assistant director of admission for Rockhurst University, suggests students focus on academics and says, “The transcript that colleges review for admission has the freshman, sophomore and junior year. In addition to the GPA, colleges are paying attention to the courses students chose to take...Keep those grades up!� Freshmen should meet with their high school guidance counselors to make sure they have a plan to take the right mix of courses in order to get into and succeed in college.

In addition to grades, students should begin building a resume of extracurricular activities like volunteering, clubs,

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sports and other activities they enjoy. Also, make summers count in high school! Whether your teen saves money by working, dives into extracurriculars or volunteers, a high schooler should make some time for personal development during the summer months.

Sophomore Year While continuing to study and stay involved, high school sophomores can begin to make a list of potential colleges by doing research online, attending college fairs and requesting information from schools. Courtney Hallenbeck, assistant director for recruitment programs of New Student Services at Kansas State University, suggests students begin with prioritizing schools based on the criteria that are important

to them. “Students should think through what factors are Senior Year important to them and begin to match up with institutions By the beginning of their senior year, students already that fit their needs,” she says. “These factors could include, should have completed their campus visits and narrowed down for example, academic programs, size, location, campus their list of schools. Now it’s time to begin the application atmosphere, cost and available support resources, just to name process! a few!” Once your teen has a strong idea of what he is looking During the summer before school starts, parents and teens for in a potential school, you can start visiting campuses, should make a spreadsheet that includes all of the schools even during the sophomore year. Some colleges offer specific they plan on applying to, what paperwork is required and, programs for high school sophomores, or you can schedule most importantly, deadlines! Deadlines are myriad, and you personalized visits. By starting early, your child can start should note all of them on the spreadsheet: main application, narrowing down what types of schools he likes or doesn’t like secondary applications for specific programs (if applicable), and get a feel for different options. scholarships (both from the school and local organizations), Students also should begin to plan for the ACT or SAT by federal financial aid, housing, enrollment and deposit developing a study plan for the summer deadlines. Each college is different and will between 10th and 11th grade or enrolling have slightly different deadlines—which is in a prep course. Study guides, practice why a spreadsheet or calendar is extremely exams and a variety of prep courses are My best piece of advice for high helpful for keeping track of when available to help high schoolers, but even school students and their parents everything needs to be completed. just targeted solo studying can help a is to cast your college search net Lutz suggests a helpful rule of thumb student be ready. wide, and then begin to narrow to seniors: Have all applications turned in

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by Halloween in order to meet the early application deadlines for schools, which are The junior year is typically when a typically around Nov. 1. student should begin her formal college Although your student should be able search in earnest. Juniors should attend to take the lead on the application process, college fairs, contact admissions offices parent involvement is important. Help and schedule campus visits for any your student get organized, attend campus schools they haven’t already checked out. visits together (many schools have a Schedule campus visits during the school program specifically for parents) and help year so you and your student can get a with applications when it’s appropriate. feel for what the college looks and feels Some forms, such as the FAFSA (Free — Courtney Hallenbeck, assistant like when students are on campus. A magic Application for Federal Student Aid), director for recruitment programs, number of colleges to visit doesn’t exist; require financial information from parents, New Student Services, Kansas State some students will find “the one” after only so be sure to keep an eye on your own a few visits, while other students will travel deadlines! all over the nation to find the right fit. But it IS important to Your student will appreciate having someone to help and make those campus visits. guide him through the process and to bounce thoughts and “A college visit is one of the most impactful experiences ideas off of. However, Lutz shares some advice: “Don’t make a student can have throughout their college search process,” this a dinner conversation every night—the process can be Hallenbeck says. “Through a visit, you can truly get a feel for overwhelming for the students, and continuing to discuss it what life could be like as a student walking the halls at each over and over could cause more stress and frustration for the institution.” student. They will get enough questions about college from Another important task for high school juniors is to take people outside their house.” either the ACT or SAT or both. Experts recommend students So make sure your student knows you are there to help, but take their tests for the first time in the fall of their junior year, don’t pressure her to come to a decision. Most students will just which gives them a couple of opportunities to retake the test if “know” what the right school is once the admissions process is they want to improve their scores. over, especially if they’ve gone into it prepared and organized!

Juniors also should begin asking their teachers, coaches and Sara Keenan has worked in college admissions and advising, and supervisors for recommendation letters. Never wait until the last currently works at Rockhurst University in the Aylward-Dunn minute! And, of course, they should be keeping an eye on their Learning Center. grades and continuing to stay involved in activities they enjoy.

Junior Year

the pool as you discover priorities and participate in college search activities like events, campus visits and conversations with campus representatives. Step outside of what is familiar or already known and do the research across a wide breadth of institutions—you may find a perfect match that was not on your original radar!

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kids need more than anything

s a stay-at-home mom, I spend a lot of time with my kids. My days revolve around meal planning, mediating sibling disputes, shuttling kids to basketball practice and trying to tame the never-ending laundry pile.

(Notice I said tame and not conquer, because we all know it’s really just a losing battle.) So, I was shocked when I realized early in my parenting career that being physically present with my kids didn’t equate to the prized individual attention my boys craved.

This isn’t to discredit my intentions: We read together daily, have designated family movie nights, and I oftentimes take a child out alone to run errands so we can have time to talk in the car. But at the end of almost every night, I’m still sure to hear the same refrain: “Mom, would you cuddle with me for just a little bit longer?” This often leaves me equal parts smitten and confused. I mean, yes, of course I’d love to spend a few more minutes with my kids. But the reality is, I’ve spent all day with each child. Wasn’t that enough?

Both stay-at-home moms and working moms often wrestle with wondering whether the time they spend with their children is quality time. One of the greatest challenges I struggle with as a stay-at-home mom is the tension between being productive and still being fully engaged with my kids. Working moms have a unique challenge all their own, with time limitations being thrown into the mix. Regardless the number of hours we have with our kids, I deeply believe every good parent wants to make sure those hours are well spent. And that is good—because more than anything else we can give our kids, our attention is what they really need.

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One-on-one, individual attention is critical not only to a child’s self-esteem but also to the formation of his character.

Children need parents. But parents don’t need children. So, children are always on the lookout to deduce whether or not their parents really want to be with them. Deep within the heart of a child is a need to know that Mom and Dad think the world of him.

“A child’s identity is shaped by spending face-to-face time with Mom or Dad and scouring our faces for clues about what we think about them and what we believe about them,” renowned pediatrician Dr. Meg Meeker said in a recent podcast titled “What Kids Really Want and Need.” “When a child’s in a room with a mom or a dad, they’re

listening very carefully for what Mom thinks about them at that moment. Is Mom happy about them? Is she angry at them? Is she irritated at them? Is she happy that they’re in the same room? And the same is true with Dad. If kids collect these clues from Mom or Dad, positive or negative, and internalize them, that’s who they become.”

The Secret Recipe for Happy Kids Want happy kids? Then be a happy parent.

Of course, you’ll have days when life throws lemons (and let’s be honest, not all make great lemonade). Everyone has them. But how we view life with our kids in general speaks as much to our kids as what comes out our mouths. Self-care is a huge component to that. By living a contented life, we shape our kids’ view of the world for the better. And confident parents raise confident kids.

Praise Character over Performance One of the best parts of the parenting job is that we get to play head cheerleader in our children’s lives. But living in such a highly performance-driven culture, we may have a natural tendency to praise our kids far more for what they can do than for who they simply are. Naturally, if a child gets

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great grades, makes the varsity team or wins a music competition, we feel as though we’ve done something right as parents. So what do we do? We typically lay on the praise. The problem is this: If we solely praise our kids’ accomplishments, they will soon realize the attention they get from Mom and Dad is purely performance based. And that’s not the type of attention kids want. Children don’t want to feel like marionettes.

Meeker offers an alternative. “Find a character quality in your child that is innate or that you want to develop,” she says. “Is your child tenacious? Is your child stubborn? Is your child patient? Is your child kind? Is your child a giving person?

Find times when your child exercises that.

And that helps you not focus on your child’s performance but focus on their character, because no matter what your child’s skill level, intelligence or abilities, every child has some character quality you can praise.”

Practically Speaking Parents can’t spend every waking second of the day focused solely on a child. And that’s not the goal. Small windows of time daily quickly can add up to make a big

difference in your relationship. So play a board game, build Lego structures or don a cape and join in on some imaginative play. With older children, consider going on a walk or getting drinks together at a coffee shop. When possible, let your child choose the activity.

Don’t feel the need to provide commentary or ask contrived conversation starters throughout your time. Let conversation take place organically. Avoid using electronics as the sole way to connect, because the goal is to have a conversation. Turn your phone to silent and, if possible, keep it out of sight.

Above all, gently pursue your child and love him unconditionally. Don’t demand he talk with you or respond in a certain way. View quality time as an investment because it is— an investment in your relationship with your child and an investment in the formation of who he will one day become.

Lauren Greenlee is a boy mom of three hailing from Olathe. She currently can be found bonding with her firstborn over Beverly Cleary books, her second born over ice cream and her youngest through endless rounds of Candyland.

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fall fun guide table of contents 41 craft corner 42 sweet treats 43 fall photos 44 october festivals 46 fall favorites 48 pumpkin patch guide 50 fun with pumpkins

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CRAFTCORNER All you need are some strips of paper and pipe cleaners to make threedimensional pumpkins.

Materials Needed:

• Orange card stock • Green card stock • Hole punch • Green pipe cleaners • Scissors

paper strip pumpkins

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ll you need are some strips of paper and pipe cleaners to make three-dimensional pumpkins. These pumpkins can be made in all different sizes and are a great way to decorate for fall. Next time you are stuck indoors on a chilly fall day, try making this fun paper craft!

Step One: Cut the orange card stock into strips that are about 1 inch wide and 4 inches long.

Step Two: Punch a hole in each end of the strips.

Step Three: Stack six strips and thread two pipe cleaners through the bottom holes of each strip. Twist the pipe cleaners together to secure.

Step Four: Thread the pipe cleaners through the top holes and bend the paper to create a “C” shape.

Step Five: Twist the pipe cleaners together and thread a green leaf onto the pipe cleaners.

Step Six: Separate the strips apart to create a pumpkin shape. Wrap the pipe cleaner stem around a pen or pencil to create a coil shape.

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TASTYTREATS

SWEET T REAT S

“Trick or treat, smell my feet, give me something sweet to eat!” This chant likely will ring in the ears of health-conscious KC parents all month long. But after allowing your kiddos a brief indulgence in this month’s delicious spread of candies, steer them back to healthier pleasures, like the scary sweet duo of pumpkin and chocolate. Read on to discover the payoffs of this pair, along with an irresistible, satisfying sweet treat.

Pump the Chocolate Bars INGREDIENTS

Pumpkin Health Benefits IMMUNITY. Pumpkin is loaded with the antioxidant beta-carotene, which gets converted to vitamin A. This nutrient is helpful for fighting off infections, ultimately fostering a strong immune system—something your child needs for the impending flu season.

SKIN. Chock full of 19 percent of the Reference Daily Intake (RDI) for vitamin C and 10 percent of the RDI for vitamin E, pumpkin provides your kiddo with healthy-looking skin. These vitamins work together by improving overall skin texture and appearance.

DIRECTIONS

artery function, facilitating more blood flow to the brain. A 2016 study in the journal Appetite found a link between frequent chocolate consumption and improved brain function, including memory. Now you have a health excuse to provide your kiddos with a post-dinner chocolate treat to help them ace those tests!

Preheat the oven to 350°F. Lightly oil or coat a 15 x 10 x 1-inch rimmed baking or jelly roll pan with nonstick cooking spray and set aside.

Whisk together the all-purpose flour, whole wheat flour, pecans, sugar, baking powder, cinnamon, baking soda and salt in a large bowl until combined.

In a separate bowl, whisk the eggs, pumpkin, oil and milk until blended. Pour the liquid ingredients over the dry ingredients and stir until just combined.

Stir in the chocolate chips.

Spread the batter evenly in the prepared pan and bake for 25 minutes or until a wooden toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean. Transfer the pan to a wire rack and cool for 10 minutes before slicing into 30, 2 x 2 1/2-inch bars. *For maximum freshness, store leftovers in a plastic container or zip-top bag in the refrigerator.

MIND AND SPIRIT. “Migraine headaches are

Sources: EatRight.org, Academy of Nutrition & Dietetics

EYES. Want your child to see better in the dark Halloween night? Plant the potential with pumpkin; it provides a hefty dose of vitamin A, which is useful for nighttime vision because it helps the retina absorb light.

Chocolate Health Benefits BRAIN. Chocolate intake appears to help improve

painful, debilitating, and are no fun for both my child and me as a parent,” says Dan, Lenexa resident and father of 8-year-old Dillion who has been suffering with migraines for two years. Fortunately, just one ounce of chocolate provides 16 percent of the RDI for the mineral magnesium, which helps ward off migraines.

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Amy Hundley is a registered dietitian nutritionist, licensed in both Kansas and Missouri, and a published freelance nutrition writer. She is currently practicing as a clinical RD and has been a resident of Olathe since early childhood.

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ummer has ended, but the outdoor fun certainly doesn’t have to stop just yet! One of the entertaining standards for summer fun that can involve the whole family is making a lemonade stand. Putting a fall twist to your lemonade stand definitely will get the kids out of the house and feeling excited for fall activities.

A simple DIY stand that includes a pallet and some fall décor is a sure way to entertain little ones, and it’s fun for them to set up! Our family created a cider stand with pumpkins and apples to get everyone in that autumn mood. It helps distract the kids from the fact that summer is over, school has started and the temperature is slowly dropping!

Putting a cider stand together is a very simple process. Kids always enjoy helping to gather all the fall décor to help decorate—almost like the feeling they get when pulling out ornaments to adorn the Christmas tree. If you want it to look less makeshift and spend a little more time on the design, you always can stain the pallet and actually paint a sign on the pallet itself.

Also, here’s a bonus for older kids joining in on this fun: They begin to understand the concept of money. Introduce the idea of donating profits to a charity and it’s a win-win all around. Kids can be creative and charitable while having fun.

For younger ones, the business venture is just a simple way to keep them entertained while enjoying some outdoor time with the family.

This autumn look can last you from September to November. Switch it to a Halloween mood by changing over to selling “spider cider.” You could even add some little fake black spiders to the apple cider and hang a web on the pallet with a plastic spider attached.

This little cider stand will be perfect for snapping some cute Instagram pictures, or even a Thanksgiving card. Pumpkin mini-sessions have been trending for a couple years now.

Adding the cider stand twist makes this a fun spin on a fall mini session.

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creative stand This little cider stand will be perfect for snapping some cute Instagram pictures, or even a Thanksgiving card.

Alexandra Hombs is a freelance writer and designer, that lives in Riverside, MO, with her husband and two children. kcparent.com october 2018

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The Great Pumpkin Fest Weekends Sept. 15-Oct. 28, Worlds of Fun. Enjoy Halloween-themed activities plus Peanuts-themed rides and attractions in Planet Snoopy!

WorldsOfFun.com Pumpkin Express Train Rides Weekends in October, Belton, Grandview & Kansas City Railroad. Ride the rails to the patch where you select your own pumpkin. 816.331.0630.

Hoots and Howls at the Zoo First three weekends of October, Kansas City Zoo. Enjoy some spooky, not scary, activities and entertainment. Animals join in the fun by smashing pumpkins. KansasCityZoo.org

Ciderfest Oct. 6-7, Louisburg Cider Mill. Enjoy activities Lenexa Chili Challenge

such as pony rides, inflatable slide, cider- and donutmaking and craft booths. LouisburgCiderMill.com/ciderfest

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Find a complete Fall Festival Guide on KCParent.com.

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KC Games for Good Oct. 6, National WWI Museum and Memorial. Event includes competitive games for all, a scavenger hunt, food and entertainment.

KCGamesForGood.org.

Glow: A Jack-O’-Lantern Festival Oct. 19-20, Powell

Waterfire Kansas City Oct. 6, Country Club Plaza. Bring a picnic, dine with some of your favorite restaurants, enjoy the fire performers and musical accompaniment.

WaterfireKC.com

Lenexa Chili Challenge Oct. 19-20, Old Town Lenexa, Santa Fe Trail Drive & Pflumm Road. Activities include musical entertainment both days, fireworks on Friday night and the Kids Kornbread Contest on Saturday. Lenexa.com

Gardens. This festival features a 1-mile path of 750 expertly carved jack-o’-lanterns, fall hayrides, hands-on activities and food vendors. PowellGardens.org

Weston Applefest Oct. 6-7, Weston, MO. Craft booths, children’s activities, mini hay-baler, apple dumplings, pies and treats. Kids will love to work the apple press to see how apple cider is made. WestonMo.com

Fall Festival Oct. 12-14, Shawnee Indian Mission.

The grounds come alive with music, local vendors, living history, crafts, children’s games, food trucks and performances. KSHS.org/shawnee_indian Summit Art Fest Oct.12-14, Downtown Lee’s Summit.

Explore the Lee’s Summit arts community and enjoy food, live music and activities for the entire family.

SummitArtFest.org

KC Games for Good

Join us for Halloween Hoopla, Tricks and Treats with Magician Eric Vaughn, and other free family-friendly programs at a Mid-Continent Public Library branch near you!

Visit mymcpl.org/BOO for a complete list of programs and to register today! kcparent.com october 2018

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Parkville Nature Sanctuary

a flavorful, fun-filled celebration of autumn Fall is a season of beautiful traditions, family memories and delicious flavors.

Celebrate five fall classics with these flavorful, fun-filled ideas.

Pumpkins Pumpkins are a truly North American food. The oldest seeds were found in Mexico, dating back to between 7000 and 5500 B.C. According to WhatsCookingAmerica.net, the name pumpkin originated from the Greek word for “large melon,” which is pepon. The French changed pepon into pompon, the English morphed pompon to pumpion and American colonists worked pumpion into pumpkin.

Fall Flavor: From the first day of school through Christmas, every restaurant in town seems to find inspiration in the autumn classic, offering everything from a pumpkin spice latte to pumpkin pancakes. As much as we enjoy the variety of delightful fall treats, a classic pumpkin pie will always be our favorite. Our favorite local pie shop is Upper Crust Bakery in historic Overland Park. Known for made-from-scratch pies, Upper Crust serves a fabulous rendition of the seasonal favorite.

Virtual Pumpkin

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Fall Fun: Kansas City is home to several amazing pumpkin patches, each with its own variety of attractions. Jumping pillows, corn mazes, pony rides, petting zoos, photo ops, train rides, character meet-and-greets, live entertainment and other fall fun await at our local patches. You’ll find the best patches in the metro on KCParent.com in our Pumpkin Patch Guide.

Frankenstein This year marks the 200th anniversary of the first publication of Mary Shelley’s Frankenstein. The story of a young scientist who creates a monster as part of a science experiment has captured imaginations for centuries. The monster in the book is often referred to as a creature, while it is the scientist who is known as Frankenstein. However, in modern culture, the term Frankenstein is often used to refer to the monster himself.

Fall Flavor: At Westport Ice Cream Bakery (4120 Pennsylvania Ave., Suite 14, Kansas City, MO, IceCreamKC.com), get a taste of old-fashioned handmade ice cream. In addition to classic flavors, the shop serves a variety of one-of-a-kind concoctions, including Frankenstein, a green-colored, mint flavored ice cream with cookies and candies giving it a crunchy texture.

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Fall Fun: Audiences will cackle at Mel Brooks’ new musical comedy production of Young Frankenstein, showing at White Theatre at the J, Nov. 4-19 (TheJKC.org). Grandson of the infamous Victor Frankenstein, Frederick Frankenstein inherits his family’s estate in Transylvania. With the help of a hunchbacked sidekick and a leggy lab assistant, Frederick finds himself in the mad scientist shoes of his ancestors.

Jack-o’-Lanterns Did you know that the original jack-o’-lanterns were carved out of turnips and potatoes?

When the Irish brought the tradition to America, the vegetables were replaced with the pumpkin, and jack-o’-lanterns as we now know them came to be.

Fall Flavor: Beginning in mid-October, Papa Murphy’s sells jack-o’-lantern shaped pizzas.

The take-and-bake pizzas are a hit with kids and perfect for a family movie night enjoying classics like It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown, The Wizard of Oz and E.T. Fall Fun: Every October, Powell Gardens hosts Glow: A Jack-O’-Lantern Festival. This year, the festival takes place Oct. 19-20 and boasts a mile-long pathway of carved pumpkins. Enjoy hayrides, a firepit, refreshments and pumpkin carving demonstrations at this fall festival.

Powell Gardens

S’mores For nearly a century, campers have been enjoying the traditional campfire dessert, the s’more.

The word is a contraction of the words “some more”—what every child utters after finishing his first graham cracker, chocolate and marshmallow sandwich.

Fall Flavor: Hurts Donuts at Ward Parkway Center came to Kansas City with a loyal following. The chain is known for unique flavors and combinations, from the unicorn donut to the Cookie Monster. However, the s’mores donut is one of our favorites, as it combines the campfire classic marshmallows, chocolate and graham crackers with delicious fresh donuts.

Fall Fun: On weekends, enjoy a tractor-pulled hayride at Paradise Park (Paradise-Park.

Hurts Donuts

com), where you’ll hear spooky stories, play fall games and make s’mores around the campfire.

In addition to offering seasonal hayrides, Paradise Park houses a family fun center featuring bumper cars, go-karts, laser tag, rock walls, escape rooms and arcades.

Maple Leaves Watching the leaves change is a highlight of a Midwestern autumn. You can track the best time to enjoy fall foliage with this resource from the Missouri Department of Conservation: Nature.mdc.mo.gov/discover-nature/fall-colors.

Fall Flavor: Trader Joe’s offers a variety of delicious fall treats throughout October, but the maple leaf cookies are one of our favorites for a quick dessert to enjoy on a fall picnic.

The sandwich cookies are maple leaf-shaped with maple filling.

Fall Fun: Pack a picnic, take a hike and enjoy the fall foliage. Our family’s favorite local trails include:

Burr Oak Woods Conservation Center: In addition to a beautiful nature center with hands-on exhibits, the area is home to miles of beautiful trails for walking or bicycling.

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Cave Springs Nature Center: This is a small nature center with historic exhibits and beautiful scenic walking trails.

Ernie Miller Nature Center: This center offers children’s activities and programs, as well as live animal displays and the chance to participate in hands-on activities and explore nature trails.

F.L. Schlagle Nature Library: This year-round interactive library, nature center and nature trail offer scientific, educational, cultural, informational and recreational opportunities.

George Owens Nature Park: Enjoy a small nature center, programs for children, fishing dock and trails.

John Barkley Visitor Center: Local and national parks exhibits, fishing dock and trails are found here.

Lakeside Nature Center: See falcons, owls, eagles, toads and exhibits. The nature center also features a gravel trail for walking and exploring.

Parkville Nature Sanctuary: Wildlife preserve and education site featuring hiking trails.

Kristina Light loves fall most of all. Visit KCParent.com where she blogs about fall fun in Kansas City all season long. kcparent.com october 2018

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4 Weston Orchard & Vineyard 18545 Co. Rd. H Weston, MO 402.209.4117 WestonOrchardAndVineyard.com 5 Pumpkin Hollow 13800 Switzer Rd. Overland Park, KS 913.897.2360 DRFarmstead.com

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funwith It’s fall again! Now we all know the weather’s changing, we’re a little older and keeping it fresh—especially with pumpkins—can be challenging. So how can we do it? The theme is the same year after year. The colors don’t change much, and family, well…they’re family. So what’s the trick? Well, we have a few! Not only can you look forward to the holidays soon to come but, after reading this article, you can look forward to decorating for those holidays too!

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a pumpkin to paint on round objects like pumpkins.

The characters not only add color to a not-so-popular porch, but they’ll also add conversation to family gatherings. If you’re really clever, you can get the most out of one pumpkin by putting a new face on each side. Don’t quite know where to start?

Searching pumpkin ideas on Pinterest is an awesome way to begin.

Smells like heaven

If you’re not really into the look of making pumpkins pop, you always can try your luck with aroma. Every local store you can think of is sure to sell a seasonal pumpkin spiced pleasure. If you can’t narrow it down to one favorite, try this in your wax burner: 3 T. coconut oil 3 T. pumpkin pie spice 1/2 t. cinnamon

The recipe is simple, quick and beyond inexpensive, so everyone can enjoy it—and you don’t have to feel bad for taking credit for it!

The way to his heart

Is through his stomach! We’ve all heard that the way to make any man happy is to feed him. But let’s face it, the way to make whole families happy is to make sure their tummies are happy. When it comes to cooking and keeping your sanity, remember to keep it simple. Good food doesn’t necessarily mean hours of slaving in the kitchen with one pot and two wooden spoons. It also doesn’t mean you’ll have high blood pressure and have to resort to an extreme diet after the holidays.

There are thousands of quick-fix delicious meals that curb and cut even the largest appetites, are budget friendly and, most

importantly, are healthy! If you’re still not sure, LaurensLatest.com has a pumpkin pecan cobbler that will knock your socks off.

Have fun, pumpkin!

With all the hype of the holidays, it’s easy to forget the focus: FAMILY! Making sure everyone is happy is a difficult job, but one made just for you. With that in mind, just remember to keep smiling and have fun yourself! You’re the life of the party, pumpkin, and don’t let anyone forget it! So with that great responsibility, just make sure you take it one day at a time or one season, whichever helps you sleep better at night—and always, always, always have a pumpkin handy!

Jessica Samuel is a native of St. Louis and a current Kansas City resident. She is a grad student, photographer and journalist.

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Visit The Pigeon Comes to Topeka exhibit at the Kansas Discovery Center, inspired by the art and characters of Mo Willems.

KansasDiscovery.org

Oct. 7 catch iLuminate at the Kauffman Center.

The show fuses technology and dance to create a one-of-a-kind visual experience.

KauffmanCenter.org

School’s out!

Head to Day Camp Oct. 12, 25 & 26 at Code Ninjas. Spend the day working with Roblox, Minecraft and drones and more!

Pre-reg at CodeNinjas.com.

See the best in racing compete at the Monster Energy NASCAR Cup Series Hollywood Casino 400 Oct. 21 at Kansas Speedway.

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Watch the bilingual musical Tomás and the Library Lady Oct. 30 at Johnson County Community College at Carlsen Center.

JCCC.edu/theseries

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Moms Free Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms are free at the Children’s EduTainment Center with a paid child’s admission. 816.246.5224

Toddle Time 9:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Open playtime with an array of toys, including blocks, balls and puzzles. $1-$2.

913.895.6350

Monday Night Madness 4:00, Main Event.

Choose from three super specials, each just $10.95. Available Mondays 4:00-close.

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2 Tuesday Dinosaurs Revealed 10:00, Union Station. Take a hands-on trek that brings you face to face with 26 life-size dinosaurs. UnionStation.org Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Rec Center. Kids ages 5 and under play with push toys, riding toys, balls, inflatables and more. $2. Lenexa.com Becoming Martin 9:45 & 11:00, the Coterie. Play shows the mentorship Martin Luther King, Jr, receives when he enters Morehouse College at age 15. Ages 11+. TheCoterie.org Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. $12. CeramicCafe.com

Women in YA: Kansas Voices 6:30, Central Resource Library. Celebrate Kansas writers who are women with a panel of authors. Pre-reg at JoCoLibrary.org.

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Retro Story Time 10:00, Johnson County Museum. Enjoy The Pokey Little Puppy and an art activity for little hands. JCPRD.com/museum Toddler Time 10:00, Sky Zone. A time for little ones to bounce under the supervision of their parents and without interference from the big kids. SkyZone.com

4 Thursday Big Backyard Thru Oct 21, Powell Gardens. A larger-than-life exhibition featuring backyard items. PowellGardens.org Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists.

Kids will enjoy our outdoor playsets that are available for open play. $2 (cash). 913.307.6023 Open Gym 3:00, Gymboree Play & Music (Leawood). Come by for open play for kids up to age 5. Free for members, $10/child nonmembers. 913.262.3339

Fall Festival Book Sale 10:00, Teen Commons (Olathe). It’s fall—time to curl up with a good book or watch a movie! All sales final.

OlatheLibrary.org Paint Me a Story 10:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire.

Paint a pottery piece that goes along with a favorite story. Snack included. $13-$15. Pre-reg at 913.661.2529.

KC Oktoberfest Today & tomorrow, Crown Center Square. Features music and entertainment, delicious food, and familyfriendly games and activities. CrownCenter.com Gladfest Thru Sunday, Gladstone. Carnival, parade, marketplace tents, arts and crafts booths, food, beverages and more!

GladstoneChamber.com Independence Fire & Ice Today & tomorrow, Silverstein Eye Centers Arena. Premier barbecue competition in the Midwest .

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kc pumpkin patches Carolyn’s Country Cousins Bring the entire family to our 50-acre u-pick pumpkin patch and farm. Open every day 10:00-7:00 Sept. 15 through Oct. 31. Families love taking an old-fashioned hayride to the field to pick their own pumpkins and riding our new Country Carousel!

Weekends feature Uncle Lester’s pig races, live entertainment and great food. For more information visit us at www.CarolynsCountryCousins.com and follow us on Facebook.

Johnson Farms At Johnson Farms, you’ll be in the country, but close to your home. Take a wagon ride out to the pumpkin, sunflower or vegetable patch and pick your own right off the plant. Experience our giant jumping pillow, tunnel maze or NEW corn pit, all INCLUDED in your admission.

Delicious food and friendly animals each time you visit! Plenty of parking and outdoor fun for all ages. www.JohnsonFarms.net, 816.331.1067, @johnsonfarmsMO

Louisburg Cider Mill and Country Store Store hours: 8:00-6:00 (Mon.-Sat.), 9:00-6:00 (Sun.). Ciderfest: Oct. 6-7; live music, food and craft booths. Watch as fresh cider is pressed and enjoy the delicious cider donuts! Fall family fun will

be happening until Oct. 31. Enjoy the 10-acre Corn Maze, huge Pumpkin Patch, farm animals, children’s play area, jump pillow and more! 913.837.5202. www.LouisburgCiderMill.com

Weston Orchard and Vineyard Enjoy a u-pick pumpkin patch, u-pick apple orchard, hayrack rides, apple cannons, rat racers, bouncing pillow, low ropes course with zip line, kids corn maze and more! If you play hard enough to work up an appetite, enjoy kettle corn and caramel apples to keep your energy up. Open seven days a week, 9:00-5:00. Apple cannons available on weekends only. www.WestonOrchardAndVineyard.com

Pumpkin Hollow Fall is in the air at Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead! Gather your family and friends and join us for our 20th annual Pumpkin Hollow. Ticket includes a horse-drawn hayride, pumpkin-themed games, ole-fashioned activities, barrel train rides, a giant hay pyramid slide and, of course, a pumpkin to take home! Come make family memories while supporting our nonprofit. Tickets must be purchased at the Farmstead on the day you are attending. www.DRFarmstead.org

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Old West OctoberFest Today & tomorrow, historic Lexington. Crafts, antiques, food vendors and lots of fun! HistoricLexington.com First Friday Movie Series 7:30, Summit Fair.

Enjoy activities and a movie under the stars.

Tonight’s movie: Nightmare Before Christmas.

Free. SummitFairShopping.com

6 Saturday Harvest Fest 7:00, Lee’s Summit Farmers Market. Enjoy live music while shopping for fresh produce. First 100 children receive free pumpkin decorating. DowntownLS.org Scarecrow Festival 9:00, Shawnee City Hall.

Downtown merchants create and display scarecrows for viewing. Children’s activities and more. 913.742.6226 Fireboat Workshop 9:00, Home Depot. Build a model fireboat and decorate it with paint and stickers. HomeDepot.com/workshops

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Hoots and Howls Today & tomorrow, Kansas City Zoo. Head out to the zoo for some spooky, not scary, activities and entertainment. KansasCityZoo.org KC Japan Festival 10:00, Johnson County Community College. Traditional music performances, food, candy artist, martial arts and more! $5-$15. JCCC.edu/theseries The Great Pumpkin Fest Thru Oct 28, Worlds of Fun. Halloween-themed activities plus Peanuts-themed rides and attractions in Planet Snoopy! WorldsOfFun.com Apple Fest 10:00, Old Prairie Town (Topeka).

Pioneer living demonstrations, arts and crafts, heritage foods, railroad handcar rides and more. $5-$7. VisitTopeka.com GeoKids 10:00, Overland Park Arboretum. Brief classroom presentation on maps and using a compass. Afterward, head out for a treasure hunt. Pre-reg at 913-685-3604.

Ciderfest Today & tomorrow, Louisburg Cider Mill. Enjoy good old-fashioned apple cider fun. Free admission; cost for some activities.

LouisburgCiderMill.com Merriam Drive Live 10:00, Downtown Merriam.

Street and lawn party full of music, food trucks, beverages, select crafters and more. Merriam.org Meyer Fest 10:00, St Peter’s Church.

Community event with a carnival, inflatables, entertainment, food trucks and more.

MeyerFestKC.com

Festival of Arts, Crafts and Music Today & tomorrow, Missouri Town 1855. Enjoy music, horse-drawn buggy rides, games, crafts and more. 816.503.4800

Into the Land of Oz 3:30 Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Meet Dorothy and other friends to learn what a niche is through crafts and activities. Pre-reg at 816.228.3766.

iLuminate 7:00, Kauffman Center. iLuminate fuses technology and dance to create a visual experience unlike anything else.

KauffmanCenter.org

Weston Applefest Today & tomorrow, Downtown Weston. Demonstrations, pony rides, carnival games, cider making and more.

WestonMo.com

Waterfire 7:00, Country Club Plaza. A unique, multisensory experience of music, fire and water. Pop-up food and drink stands.

WaterFireKC.com

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Fall Craft Fair 10:00, TB Hanna Station Park (Raymore). Come to the annual craft fair with a large variety of craft vendors. 816.322.2791

7 Sunday

Boneyard Jamboree 10:30, MCPL (Riverside).

Non-scary Halloween spooktacular featuring Pumpkin Man, spooky skeletons and more.

Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

KC Games for Good 1:00, National WWI Museum and Liberty Memorial. Competitive games, kids scavenger hunt and more.

KCGamesForGood.org Whimsical Woods 1:00, Ernie Miller Nature Park. Costumed storybook characters will delight and entertain along the trail. $5-$8.

Pre-reg at 913.764.7759.

Fall Festival 3:00, Downtown Louisburg.

Downtown streets filled with vendors, food trucks, music, entertainment and more! 913.837.2826

Open Play 10:00, Jump City. Bring the kids to Jump City—where excitement and laughs are found daily! $8/child; parents are free.

JumpCityKC.com

Scarecrow Run 5K 7:30, Linden Square (Gladstone). Run to benefit Northland Christmas Store. All participants receive a shirt.

Gladstone.mo.us

Homeschool Meetup 1:00, Cedar Roe Library.

Educational session that features a different theme each month. Register at JoCoLibrary.org or 913.826.4600.

Family Timber Challenge 9:00, Zip KC. Two miles packed with fun and challenging obstacles for the whole family.

KCTimberChallenge.com

Monday Night Madness 4:00, Main Event.

Choose from three super specials, each just $10.95. Available Mondays 4:00-close.

MainEvent.com

art + family = FUN 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Join us every Saturday and Sunday for free activities for all ages!

816.751.127

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Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air. A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl!

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Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Irene B French Community Center. Inflatable bouncers, Little Tikes riding toys and more. $2.

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The Pigeon Comes to Topeka Thru Jan 4, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. Exhibition inspired by the art and characters of Mo Willems. KansasDiscovery.org Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. $12. CeramicCafe.com

10 Wednesday Playgroup at FBC 9:00, First Baptist Church of Shawnee. A safe place for kids to run and play and for parents to enjoy coffee and conversation. Free. 913.226.9438 Toddler Time 10:00, Sky Zone. A time for little ones to bounce under the supervision of their parents and without interference from the big kids. SkyZone.com Whirlwind: Art in Motion Overland Park Arboretum. Throughout the gardens see sculptures that change in the light and wind.

OPKansas.org Open Gym Noon, Integrity Gymnastics. A great time to practice, get familiar with the gym and for kids to release energy. $6. IntegrityOP.com

11 Thursday Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists.

Kids will enjoy our outdoor playsets that are available for open play. $2 (cash). 913.307.6023 The Pigeon Comes to Topeka Thru Jan 4, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. Exhibition inspired by the art and characters of Mo Willems. KansasDiscovery.org

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Open Gym 3:00, Gymboree Play & Music (Leawood). Come by for open play for kids up to age 5. Free for members, $10/child nonmembers. 913.262.3339 Feast of the Fountains 5:00, the Great Lawn (18th & Vine). Feast on delicious food offerings from KC’s favorite food trucks and enjoy live music. KCParks.org

12 Friday Day Camp 8:30, Code Ninjas. Spend the day working with Roblox, Minecraft and drones, and have intro to 3D printing and more! Pre-reg at CodeNinjas.com.

Halloween Mask Making 1:00, Oak Park Library. Kids each create their own unique masks using papier-mache and paints.

JoCoLibrary.org Family Overnight Camping 101 3:00, TimberRidge Adventure Center. Learn about camping, tent setup, boating, fishing and more.

Pre-reg at 913.826.2800.

Summit Art Festival Thru Sunday, Downtown Lee’s Summit. A festival of fine arts that features more than 90 local, regional and national artists. SummitArtFest.org Fall Festival Thru Sunday, Shawnee Indian Mission. Fall festival featuring familyfriendly fun, crafts, entertainment and food.

913.262.0867

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Halloween Happy Hour 5:30, Kansas City Community Gardens. Features a pumpkin carving contest and a spooky movie.

KCCG.org/happy-hour-2018

Tuesday, January 29

Weston Irish Fest Thru Sunday, Downtown Weston. Three-day festival that showcases great acts in Irish music. $5-$10. WestonIrish.com Middle School Teen Night 7:00, Paradise Park. For $20 get unlimited play on a variety of adventure attractions, a $5 fun card and a personal pizza. Paradise-Park.com

All tickets are $6! follytheater.org 816.474.4444

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Family Night Hike 7:00, Ernie Miller Park. Brave the park after dark with your family. Participants should bring a flashlight. $7-$8. Pre-reg at 913.831.3359.

13 Saturday Superhero Weekend Today & tomorrow, Kansas City Zoo. Meet your favorite superhero!

Snap a photo with Ant Man and Black Panther.

KansasCityZoo.org Be My Neighbor Day 10:00, Toyota Plaza at Children’s Mercy Park. Meet Daniel Tiger, enjoy entertainment and hands-on activities.

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OK Go: The Live Video Tour Oct. 20, Johnson County Community College at Carlsen Center. The band performs songs live and in sync with their iconic videos. JCCC.edu/theseries

Lansing Fall Festival 10:00, St Francis de Sales Church. Event features musical acts, craft vendors, pumpkin decorating and food.

Lansing.ks.us Old-Fashioned Street Faire 10:00, Downtown Smithville. A fun-filled autumn day for the entire family! Art, crafts, entertainment, food and more! 816.215.8264 Heritage Craft Festival Today & tomorrow, historic Arrow Rock. Festival features lost-art crafts by costumed artisans, live music and more. ArrowRock.org Sugar Mound Arts & Crafts Festival Today & tomorrow, Linn County Fairgrounds. More than 400 booths of arts and crafts handmade by the exhibitors. 913.795.3003 Mother Earth News Fair Today & tomorrow, Kansas Expocentre. Demonstrations and lectures to educate and entertain.

MotherEarthNewsFair.com/Kansas

Halloween in Boo Town 11:00 & 2:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. Meet the residents of Boo Town for the annual show spook-tacular. $6. Pre-reg at 816.833.9777.

Howl-O-Ween 1:00, Waggin’ Trail Dog Park.

Vendors, treats, door prizes and a costume contest. $5/pooch. 816.513.7500 Saturday Night Feeder Saturdays thru October, 4:00, Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary.

Watch the cats being fed. $5. 816.739.0363 Magic Woods 4:00, Lakeside Nature Center.

Watch skits, munch on popcorn and hot chocolate, make crafts, enjoy face painting and more $5. 816.513.8960 Car Cruise 5:00, Blue Springs. Head to downtown Blue Springs to view the latest innovations in car restoration from more than 100 exhibitors. BlueSpringsGov.com

Wagon Train Roundup 6:00, National Frontier Trails Museum. One-of-a-kind interactive event for all ages. $8-$15. Pre-reg at 816.325.7575.

Our West Side Story 7:00, the Pavilion at John Knox Village. Lee’s Summit Symphony’s fall performance. LSSymphony.org/season-events Emmylou Harris 8:00, Johnson County Community College at Carlsen Center.

Performance by one of the most admired and influential women in music. JCCC.edu/theseries

five favorite candy shops in kansas city Treat your sweet tooth to something special at one of these local shops.

The Candy Wizard This shop sells a wide variety of retro, hard-to-find candies, including saltwater taffy, Bavarian fruit, Necco wafers, caramels, Jelly Bellies, lollipops and more. This is every candy lover’s dream come true. Tip: It’s in the same building as the Arabia Steamboat Museum—a perfect family outing.

TheCandyWizard.com Chip’s Chocolate Factory and Chip’s Candy Factory

Chip’s is a local landmark selling a variety of novelty treats and chocolates. Kids love watching the fudgemaking demonstrations at the chocolate factory (second level). At the candy factory (first level), you can choose from more than 450 classic and unique candies.

Tip: The shops in Crown Center are a perfect treat after a show at the Coterie or a visit to Legoland or Sea Life.

ChipsCandyFactory.com.

Christopher Elbow This gourmet chocolate shop has become a Kansas City landmark. The artisan chocolates are true works of art—both beautiful and delicious.

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Tip: The shop is in the Crossroads Arts District, and on First Fridays it sells chocolates for $1 each.

ElbowChocolates.com

It’Sugar This penultimate candy store on the Country

Club Plaza is ready to satisfy all your sugar cravings!

In addition to all the classics, It’Sugar is known for a giant selection of giant-sized candy, including the world’s largest solid Chupa Chups lollipop, a 1.75-pound solid strawberry sucker. Tip: Enjoy a visit to the Plaza after exploring the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art or the National Museum of Toys and Miniatures.

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Laura Little’s This sweet shop is famous for delicious candy made from scratch in copper kettles with wooden paddles. For holidays and special occasions, they even sell personalized chocolate treats with your child’s name. Tip: This shop isn’t far from the Shawnee Indian Mission, which has a fall festival that is a family favorite annual tradition. LauraLittleCandy.com

14 Sunday Day in the Life 10:00, National World War I Museum and Memorial. Interactive presentation that gives observers a sense of stepping back in time. TheWorldWar.org Meet the Experts 2:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Join Thomas J Lynch of Boys Town for a talk about their rich history of play. 816.235.8000 Becoming Martin 2:00, the Coterie. Play shows the mentorship Martin Luther King, Jr, receives when he enters Morehouse College at age 15.

Ages 11+. TheCoterie.org

15 Monday Dinosaurs Revealed 10:00, Union Station. Take a hands-on trek that brings you face to face with 26 life-size dinosaurs. UnionStation.org Splash with Me 10:00, Lenexa Rec Center.

Kids can swim, play and become more confident in the water at the kiddie pool. $2.

913.477.7100 Big Backyard Thru Oct 21, Powell Gardens. A larger-than-life exhibition featuring backyard items. PowellGardens.org

Parent’s Guide to Internet Safety 6:30, Lee’s Summit Police Department. Learn effective ways to keep your family safe online. LSCares.org

16 Tuesday Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Irene B French Community Center. Inflatable bouncers, Little Tikes riding toys and more. $2.

913.322.5550 Mother Goose Rhyme Time 10:00, Antioch Library. Songs, rhymes and finger plays for the very young. Ages 12-24 months with a caregiver. Free. JoCoLibrary.org

Open Play 10:00, Jump City. Bring the kids to Jump City—where excitement and laughs are found daily! $8/child; parents are free.

JumpCityKC.com Animal Amigos! 10:00, Mesner Studio. Gather round the Tree of Life for retellings of delightful Mexican folktales. MesnerPuppets.org

18 Thursday Bon Bon Shoots Bondurant Studios. Monthly photos shoots! This month’s theme is Halloween. Schedule at BondurantStudios.com.

Tots on Tuesday 10:30, Kemper Museum. Sing songs, read books, explore art and make your own art with a Kemper Museum educator.

KemperArt.org

Playdate Thursdays 11:00, Children’s Play Area (Independence Center). Fun, free monthly events for kids! Move, learn, create and connect. 816.795.8602

The Wit and Wisdom of Mark Twain 6:30, MCPL (North Oak). Enjoy the wry wisdom of Mark Twain in this one-man show. Pre-reg at 816.436.4385.

Star Wars Evening 6:00, Olathe Downtown Library. Enjoy Star Wars-themed crafts, activities and displays. OlatheLibrary.org

17 Wednesday Whirlwind: Art in Motion Overland Park Arboretum. Throughout the gardens see sculptures that change in the light and wind.

OPKansas.org

Tuesdays and Thursdays, 9–11 a.m.

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Soups and Stews 6:00, Jo Co K-State Extension.

Learn how to create tasty, healthy stock to make soups and stews that rise above the rest.

Pre-reg at 913.715.7000.

Monday–Friday, 10–11:30 a.m.

Lenexa Rec Center Kiddie Pool

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Sheiks, Neckers & Jellybeans Thru Sunday, Culture House Stage and Studio (Oak Park Mall).

A vaudeville fantasy presented by Tapdolls Dance & Music Company. CultureHouse.com

Help Children in Need 9:00, Kansas Speedway.

A partnered event with the NASCAR Foundation to raise funds to help Kansas children and families. 913.444.2093

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Meet Elephant & Piggie Today & tomorrow, Kansas City Zoo. Come out to the zoo to meet Elephant and Piggie, the stars of children’s books. KansasCityZoo.org

Junior Jaunts 10:15, Nelson-Atkins. Bring your baby in a stroller or carrier for an adult-focused yet infant-friendly tour. Nelson-Atkins.org Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. $12. CeramicCafe.com

Cars in the Park 10:00, Theatre in the Park.

Come see cars, trucks, motorcycles and specialty vehicles. Food concessions available.

JCPRD.com

Across the Muddy Missouri 2:00, Midwest Genealogy Center. Oral historian Jim Wallen leads you through artifacts, stories and more.

Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

The Great Pumpkin Fest Thru Oct 28, Worlds of Fun. Halloween-themed activities plus Peanuts-themed rides and attractions in Planet Snoopy! WorldsOfFun.com

Trick or Cache 4:30, Antioch Park. GPS units will be provided for this modern-day scavenger hunt for Halloween treats. $13-$14/person. Prereg at 913.831.3359.

Howl-O-Ween 10:00, Tails & Trails Dog Park (Grandview). A costume contest and best trick contest for a chance to win PAWSOME prizes!

816.316.4888

Third Friday Art Walk 5:30, Englewood Station Arts District. Tour the art galleries, view live performances and meet artists in front of shops.

EnglewoodStation.com

Music at the Fort 10:00, Fort Osage. Listen as historic Fort Osage comes alive with the sounds of music from the past. FortOsageNHS.com

HOWLoween Special Event 6:00, Anita B Gorman Conservation Center. Kids will have a howling good time exploring nature stations.

816.759.7300 Boo at the View 6:00, the View. Round up your family and friends and enjoy a big night full of spooky fun, games and candy! 816.316.4888 Lenexa Chili Challenge Today & tomorrow, Old Town Lenexa. A two-day event filled with food, fireworks and fun for the whole family.

Lenexa.com GLOW: Jack-O’-Lantern Festival Today & tomorrow, Powell Gardens. More than 750 hand-carved jack-o’-lanterns will light a path through the gardens. PowellGardens.org Enchanted Forest 7:00, George Owens Nature Park. A non-scary, family-oriented event.

Storybook, fairy tale and popular characters come to life. $3. 816.325.7115 Fairy Tale Forest Thru Sunday, Martha Lafite Thompson Nature Sanctuary. Walk through a trail lit by more than 100 jack-o’-lanterns.

Pre-reg at NatureSanctuary.com.

20 Saturday Pancakes with Peds 9:00, Olathe Medical Center. Enjoy pancake bar, meet and visit with pediatricians, story times, crafts and more!

913.791.4311

Halloween in Boo Town 11:00 & 2:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. Meet the residents of Boo Town for the annual show spook-tacular. $6. Pre-reg at 816.833.9777.

Fall Festival Noon, Broadway Street (Excelsior Springs). Crafters, vendors, artists, live music, children’s activities and more. VisitExcelsior.com

KC Northern Train Rides Noon, Line Creek Park. Ride restored trains around a half-mile track in the park. $.75/ride. KCNRR.com Monster Energy NASCAR Cup Series Hollywood Casino 400 1:00, Kansas Speedway.

See the best in racing compete to keep championship hopes alive. KansasSpeedway.com

22 Monday Moms Free Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms are free at the Children’s EduTainment Center with a paid child’s admission. 816.246.5224 Monday Night Madness 4:00, Main Event.

Choose from three super specials, each just $10.95. Available Mondays 4:00-close.

MainEvent.com Zax Kidz Night 5:00, Zaxby’s (Olathe & Overland Park). Zax Kidz meal only 99 cents with purchase of adult meal. Zaxbys.com

23 Tuesday The Pigeon Comes to Topeka Thru Jan 4, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. Exhibition inspired by the art and characters of Mo Willems. KansasDiscovery.org Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air. A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl!

UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com

Train Rides 2:00, Belton, Grandview & KC Railroad. Enjoy an old-fashioned train ride on Saturday and Sunday afternoons. 816.331.0630

Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Rec Center. Kids ages 5 and under play with push toys, riding toys, balls, inflatables and more. $2.

Lenexa.com

Halloween Campout 5:00, Watkins Woolen Mill State Park. Activities include the spookiest campsite contest, trick-or-treating and more.

Pre-reg at 877.422.6766.

Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists.

Kids will enjoy our outdoor playsets that are available for open play. $2 (cash). 913.307.6023

Haunted Kansas 6:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Walk through the trails of Ernie Miller.

Characters share legends around a campfire. $6-$8/person. 913.764.7759 OK Go: The Live Video Tour 8:00, Johnson County Community College at Carlsen Center.

The band performs songs live and in sync with their iconic videos. JCCC.edu/theseries

21 Sunday Dogtober Fest 10:00, Kemper Outdoor Education Center. This is the perfect afternoon for dog lovers and their humans. 816.229.8980

24 Wednesday Playgroup at FBC 9:00, First Baptist Church of Shawnee. A safe place for kids to run and play and for parents to enjoy coffee and conversation. Free. 913.226.9438 Open Gym Noon, Integrity Gymnastics. A great time to practice, get familiar with the gym and for kids to release energy. $6. IntegrityOP.com Fall Trout Program 2:30 (Kill Creek Park), 3:45 (Shawnee Mission Park). Thousands of pounds of trout stocked in the lakes. JCPRD.com

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Spookfest Oct. 27, Science City. Celebrate Halloween with Science City at this fun, kid-friendly, evening event. ScienceCity.com

25 Thursday Boo-tifully Sculpted Scene 4:30, MCPL (Parkville). Work with tissue paper and Model Magic to create a fall scene. Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

Carved Festival 5:00, Crestwood Shops.

Celebrate fall with pumpkin-themed food, live music and artful pumpkins. 913.634.0268 Enchanted Forest 5:30, Sar-Ko-Par Trails Park (Lenexa). For one night the park is transformed into the Enchanted Forest. Free admission.

Lenexa.com

Mercy Me’s Imagine Nation Tour Today & tomorrow, Silverstein Eye Centers Arena. The award-winning group plays a bevy of fan-favorite songs. 816.442.6100 Tarzan: The Stage Musical Thru Oct 28, Bell Cultural Events Center. CYT presents show based on Disney’s epic animated musical adventure. CYTKC.org/shows

26 Friday Day Camp 8:30, Code Ninjas. Spend the day working with Roblox, Minecraft and drones, and have intro to3D printing and more! Pre-reg at CodeNinjas.com.

Haunted History Hayride 6:00, Shawnee Mission Park. Hear spirited tales of long ago.

Enjoy the fire with cider and marshmallows. $9$10. Pre-reg at JCPRD.com.

Fish Tales 9:30, Olathe Community Center.

Water-themed stories and songs, stay for special mini me swim time. 913.971.8676

Halloween Boo Bash 6:00, Celebration Park.

An evening of ghastly games, spooktacular activities, lots of candy, prizes, a hayrack ride and more! GardnerBooBash.com

Kids Night Out 6:00, Paint, Glaze and Fire.

Leave the kids and they’ll have a great time with pizza, painting and a movie. Pre-reg at PaintGlazeAndFire.net.

Spooky Swim 6:00, Sylvester Powell Community Center. The pool is transformed into a haunted house with blood red water, tunnel of doom and more. 913.722.8200

27 Saturday Boos, Barks & Badges Halloween Parade 9:00, City Hall Plaza (Lee’s Summit). Pet parade followed by trick-or-treating at downtown businesses. 816.246.6598

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Holiday Treasures Craft Festival 9:00, Shawnee Civic Centre. Beat the crowds and pick up some unique, hand-crafted holiday gifts.

CityOfShawnee.org

Interactive 1850s Kansas Town Hall Meeting 11:00, Johnson County Museum. Join with reenactors at an 1850s town hall meeting.

JCPRD.com/museum

Trail of Treats 4:00, Woods Chapel United Methodist Church. Evening of food, face painting, pumpkin decorating, carnival games, candy and more. 816.795.8848

Healthy Halloween Spooktacular! 9:00, Roeland Park Community Center. Visit the freaky photo booth, make creepy crafts and more. 913.826.3160

Boo-Tastic Fun Noon, Crown Center Shops.

Get your picture taken with the Wicked Queen and enjoy puppet shows. Free admission.

CrownCenter.com

Spookfest 5:00, Science City. Celebrate Halloween with Science City at this fun, kidfriendly, evening event. ScienceCity.com

Mildale Farm Fest 9:00, Mildale Farm. Explore the farm property and enjoy a number of fall activities. 913.826.2957

Kid Safe Halloween 11:00, Shoal Creek Living History Museum. Trick-or-treat door to door throughout the village.

ShoalCreekLivingHistoryMuseum.com

Boo at the Zoo Today & tomorrow, Kansas City Zoo. Kids trick-or-treat the zoo, enjoy Halloween activities and entertainment.

KansasCityZoo.org

Halloween Trick-or-Treating 2:00, Downtown Overland Park. Enjoy games and live music on the clock tower patio then hit the trail to collect candy. 913.642.2222

Annual Fall Muster Today & tomorrow, Fort Osage. Annual event is recognized as one of the most authentic interpretations of the period.

FortOsageNHS.com

Ponies and Pumpkins 2:00, Little Blue Valley Park. Pony rides, wagon hayride, petting zoo, fall themed activities, food and more. KCParks.org

Fall Fest 10:00, Lawson City Park. Bounce houses, live music, shopping, games, food, pumpkin painting, trunk or treat, costume contest and more! 816.580.3217

Prowl at the Park 5:00, Weston Bend State Park. Sit around a campfire and listen to staff tell not-so-scary stories. Then enjoy a hike.

MoStateParks.com

Trick-or-Treat off the Street 3:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop. Dress in costume and enjoy 1860s fall living history experiences. Mahaffie.org

Spooky Springs Halloween Bash 5:00, Adams Pointe Golf Club. A night of family fun including a hayride, bonfire and more. BlueSpringsGov.com Family Fun Night 5:00, CW Parker Carousel Museum. Get a hot dog combo meal and unlimited rides on the carousel. $6.

CWParkerCarouselMuseum.org Day of the Dead 5:00, Guadalupe Center.

Enjoy food and drinks, ceremonial and folkloric dancers and more. 816.421,1015 Historical Hauntings 6:00, Shawnee Town 1929. Tractor-drawn hayrides, trick-or-treating, costume contest, snacks at the Ghoul Café and more! $1. 913.248.2360

Trunk or Treat 3:00, Liberty Hospital. See fire truck, ambulance, construction equipment and much more and enjoy a trunk or treat!

LibertyHospital.org

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Haunted Swamp 6:30, Olathe Community Center. Pumpkin decorating, lifeguard trick-ortreating and open swim in the swamp. $10-$15.

Pre-reg at OlatheKS.org.

28 Sunday The Great Pumpkin Fest 11:00, Worlds of Fun. Halloween-themed activities plus Peanutsthemed rides and attractions in Planet Snoopy!

WorldsOfFun.com Halloween Trick or Treat 1:00, Prairie Park Nature Center. Trick-or-treat your way around Mary’s Lake and then enjoy cookies and cider. $3. 785.832.7980

Splash with Me 10:00, Lenexa Rec Center. Kids can swim, play and become more confident in the water at the kiddie pool. $2. 913.477.7100

Tricks and Treats 6:30, MCPL (Lee’s Summit).

See creepy tricks and brain-teasing treats from magician Eric Vaughn. Pre-reg at MyMCPL.org.

Monday Night Madness 4:00, Main Event.

Choose from three super specials, each just $10.95. Available Mondays 4:00-close.

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Toddle Time 9:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Open playtime with an array of toys, including blocks, balls and puzzles. $1-$2.

913.895.6350

Jumperoo 9:00, Urban Air. A special time when entire park is open for children 5 and under with a parent. Jump, bounce and crawl!

UrbanAirTrampolinePark.com

Trunk or Treat 4:00, St John’s UMC. Trickor-treating for the kids, costume contest, games, crafts, door prizes, snacks and more!

StJohnsUMC.org

Indoor Playground 9:30, Sylvester Powell Community Center. A safe, clean indoor play area for kids 6 years and under. $2/child.

913.722.8200

Trunk or Treat 4:30, Central United Methodist Church. Enjoy boo-tifully decorated trunks, frightfully fun games and otherworldly snacks.

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Tomás and the Library Lady 10:00 & 1:00, Johnson County Community College at Carlsen Center. A bilingual musical based on the beloved book. JCCC.edu/theseries

29 Monday

Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. $12. CeramicCafe.com

Dinosaurs Revealed 10:00, Union Station. Take a hands-on trek that brings you face to face with 26 life-size dinosaurs. UnionStation.org

HALLOWEEN

Toddler Time 10:00, Sky Zone. A time for little ones to bounce under the supervision of their parents and without interference from the big kids. SkyZone.com Trail of Treats Animal Tales Event 10:30, Ernie Miller Park. Visit stations to hear stories, meet an animal friend and get a treat! $4-$5. Pre-reg at 913.831.3359.

Homework Help 4:00, Johnson County Library (Central Resource). Homework coaches help students work on a specific project or use library resources. JoCoLibrary.org Trick or Treat 5:00, Summit Fair. A center-wide trick or treat event. Fun activities, candy and more! SummitFairShopping.com

Mark your calendars for a center-wide Trick or Treat event at Summit Fair!

Wednesday, October 31st 5:00PM-7:00PM Visit www.summitfairshopping.com or follow the event on Facebook for a full list of activities and participating stores/restaurants!

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