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hat kind of learner are you? I am a visual learner and have known this about myself for quite some time. I need to see something in order to gain an understanding. Back (way back) when I was student teaching, I put up a Christmas tree in the classroom. My lead teacher told me she had some ornaments that the students made each year to decorate the class tree and I could use those. She instructed me to have the children color the different holiday shapes and then use clothespins to attach them to the tree. I did as she explained and when the tree was finished, I thought to myself, “Well, it looks like a tree full of clothespins.” The next day, when she entered the room and saw the tree, she about fell over laughing as she informed me, “The ornaments are to be glued to the clothespins and then hung on the tree!”

Whoops. Since I hadn’t seen what the finished product was to look like, I couldn’t visualize.

Knowing your child’s learning style can be very helpful, not only with school work, but in so many aspects of life. Does your child work better in silence or with the radio on? Can he learn a new concept after reading it? Or does he do better when a project is involved? Karen Johnson takes a look at learning styles and provides steps on how to determine your child’s style on pg. 32.

It’s November, so naturally our thoughts turn to gratitude and giving thanks. Do you sometimes feel that your kids have trouble understanding just how much they have for which to be thankful? Local mom Sara Keenan has some really great ideas for gratitude games to play in order to help reawaken appreciation in your family. Plus, our resident Kansas City expert Kristina Light takes a look at the history of Thanksgiving and its Kansas City beginnings.

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simple tricks to tidy up...

Staying on top of homework and kids is tough enough, but staying on top of messes only adds to the drama.

So how can we make those life-long memories and make messes minor?

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Clean from top to bottom!

If you have a multistory home, starting from the top of the house and working your way down to the bottom is always best. This approach prevents you from retracing your steps and re-cleaning the same room. It also helps you pay close attention to space that is often neglected—usually the one farthest from the front door.

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Never spend more than 15 minutes cleaning one space. Remember, the goal is to tidy up and keep it tidy, not to microscopically clean every dirt speck.

You have more ways to spend your time wisely. When I say wisely, I mean with your children!

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What do you see when you walk into a hotel? Smooth sheets, fluffed pillows, clear table tops. Envision these things when you’re cleaning. Having a goal of what you want your space to look like makes cleaning and tidying up so much easier. If you lack a goal, you’ll find yourself spending more

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than 15 minutes cleaning the space. Just make sure you don’t forget to empty the wastebasket.

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Thinking “hotel” and making the bed run along the same lines. When making a bed, remember to lift the corners of the mattress to settle sheets. It’s faster and less frustrating.

When vacuuming, start from the back of the room and vacuum out the door entry.

If you use long strokes, you can cover a lot of space in very little time.

If it’s out of order, fix it! In living rooms, remotes and magazines tend to be regular clutter creators. Tabletop organizers are a great quick fix to this issue. Out of sight, out of mind and always in order!

If you don’t live in the space alone, don’t clean the space alone. Ask your children or your significant other to chip in. More hands mean more clean. If your

children are younger in age, make it fun.

Kids are always eager to play. If they think tidying up is a game and they have something to look forward to at the end, they will make an effort to overachieve.

Early participation encourages the idea of chores at a young age and the importance of a clean space. Everyone wins!

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Ask for direction.

If you’re dealing with young adults, asking sooner is always better than asking later. Young adults can be a bit testy when things like their journal end up in their closet rather than under their bed where they specifically put it. Avoid a shouting match altogether. Asking simple questions like “Do you want to clean your room or should I?” and “Where do you want me to start?” usually gets the message across. Even adding a timeline helps get things tidy in a timely fashion. Be firm and follow up. This way you get the tidy home you want—quickly.

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Both preschoolers and older kids alike will love finding objects around the house to make patterns on a canvas.

Step One: Have you child go around the home and find objects of different shapes and sizes. Things that have a flat side work best.

found object painting Help your child learn about shapes and textures by making a found object painting. Both preschoolers and older kids alike will love finding objects around the house to make patterns on a canvas. This is a piece of children’s artwork that you will definitely want to put up on the walls in your home!

Materials needed: Acrylic paint | Canvas or heavy paper | Found objects

Step TWO: Begin dipping the objects in paint and stamping them on a canvas or piece of paper.

Step Three: Once the painting is full of shapes, let it dry and hang to enjoy!

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child’s development at an early age sets the stage for future success, and interactive play can have a big impact. Not only does it expand a child’s imagination and social skills, but it also can help develop gross and fine motor skills, hand-eye coordination and hand and finger strength.

With success at play, children build both muscle skills and cognitive skills that lay the foundation for aptitude in science, technology, engineering and mathematics. And the best part?

Parents can easily provide these benefits during daily routines.

mealtime. Allowing your child to be a little helper in the kitchen not only teaches some meal preparation skills, but also helps develop motor skills. Good for hand and arm strengthening, activities like smashing potatoes, kneading dough and stirring food benefit your little chef. playtime. Just as much of a daily activity as bedtime or mealtime, playtime is essential to your child’s growth and development. Look for toys that are fun and also help children develop the skills they need, such as the Step2 WonderBall Fun House, an interactive playhouse that helps toddlers develop handeye coordination with put-and-take play using included colorful balls. Features like tube mazes and an open play concept will enhance your little creative player’s imagination in no time. bath time. If you’ve ever had to wrestle your child into the

bathtub, you know bath time isn’t always enjoyable. All sorts of bath time toys are available, but some of the best ones are items you already have in your home. To work on fine motor skills, introduce household objects into your child’s bath routine: plastic cups for pouring water back and forth, strainers from your kitchen and any toys that promote a squeezing motion. Even the act of wringing out a wet washcloth can help develop a child’s hand muscles.

When incorporated throughout the day, interactive play can benefit both parent and child. Small but meaningful everyday tasks can help your child develop and grow. Continue to have fun and encourage your child along the way as you watch his confidence and skills increase. kcparent.com november 2015

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s the holiday season approaches, I find I sometimes get caught up in the endless flurry of activity and am less focused on being in the moment with my family. I’m so eager to make picture perfect memories that I don’t always stop to appreciate the simpler ones as well. And if I’m being totally honest, it’s difficult to feel completely joyful when I’m simply checking off “to do’s” on my holiday list. Never again, I say! It’s time to get back to basics and focus on being more joyful in the here and now, every day of the year. Here are six great ways to do just that:

Practice gratitude. It’s easy to focus on what’s not working or how the kids may be misbehaving. Instead of narrowing in on the negative, look for the positive. Mom of two Katie Norman says, “We sit down as a family and each of us writes down what we are thankful for on a chain. We begin on Nov. 1 and do this every night until Thanksgiving. By the time Thanksgiving comes, we have a chain that stretches all the way across the living room.

The kids also love to look at previous years’ chains.” This is a great holiday tradition, but could be applicable year round!

It’s all in how you word it.

In the article “A Three-Letter Word for More JOYFUL Parenting,” author Amy McCready writes about a conversation she had that changed her outlook on even the most mundane moments of parenting. Simply change “I HAVE to” to “I GET to.” As McCready points out, “If we get so caught up in feeling the drudgery of another

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task rather than the opportunity it presents, we totally miss out on the gifts that are hidden in each one. For example, instead of I HAVE to volunteer at school, think I GET to be a part of that world.

I GET to be a part of that world, help make a difference and shape the learning environment my kids are part of.”

Take care of yourself.

Kansas City mom of two Ashley Mendoza says, “Whether it is exercising, reading a book or taking a long bath, finding time to make yourself happy is paramount. So often as mothers, our happiness and identity get wrapped up in who we are to others: a mother, a wife, a daughter, a sister and a friend. It is easy to forget who we are as individuals.” A little time away can leave you feeling refreshed and ready to tackle any obstacles thrown your way with a more positive attitude.

Slow down. Sometimes our

schedules are so booked up that I feel like we’re literally dragging the kids from one thing to the next. It takes all of the enjoyment out of our day when we’re constantly saying “hurry up” and “we have to go!” Rather than rushing through each day, I’ve begun to make a concerted effort to leave gaps of time in our schedule.

A lazy Saturday morning might mean a trip to the Big Biscuit for breakfast.

Sunday night after dinner, we can play cards and board games. Slowing down allows us to enjoy each other more.

If we get so caught up in feeling the drudgery of another task rather than the opportunity it presents, we totally miss out on the gifts that are hidden in each one.

Find the humor. One morning around 5:00, we woke to the sound of the doorbell. My husband answered the door and was greeted by a police officer. Our car alarm was going off and he thought someone had tried to break in. My husband went to get his car keys from the kitchen and found our 4-year-old sitting on the counter by the toaster. He had awakened and decided to make himself some toast. While he was at it, he decided to check out what the cool red button on Dad’s keys did. Rather than be angry, we chose to laugh about it. Parenthood is a journey. Sometimes it’s maddening, but mostly it can be funny if you allow it to be.

No more yelling. I’m guilty of

raising my voice occasionally. I’m learning, however, that the tone I adopt toward my kids makes all the difference. Instead of being reactive, try being proactive.

When you’re planning an activity, allow for potential obstacles. If you feel yourself getting worked up, take a time-out before speaking. That small breather is usually enough to save you from a few angry words and a lot of guilt later.

During this season of giving thanks, let us rejoice in this messy, fun, perfectly imperfect journey we call motherhood. It truly is an amazing life.

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Jennifer Bosse lives in Kansas City with her husband and two sons. She gives thanks every day for her beautiful little life.

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Best for: Ages 3-5 How many Thanksgiving dinners can one turkey eat? When Turkey gets invited to each of his barnyard friend’s houses—Pig, Horse, Goat and Sheep, Cow and Mouse—for holiday celebrations, five may just be the magic number. After suitable exercise and stretches, Turkey feels ready for the day ahead and heads out for dinner with Pig’s family. After a game of pumpkin ball and a tasty Thanksgiving stew, Turkey feels like part of the family. From one house to the next Turkey makes his way through one meal after another.

At each stop he’s included in holiday activities and always feels like part of the family. This sense of family and friendship is what cements Thanksgiving as one of America’s most beloved holidays.

This is a fun tale that is good for pre-K through first grade story time as the Thanksgiving holiday approaches.

What would you see if you could fly through the streets of London? This simple tale of the queen, her grandchild and a purple hat introduces young readers around the world to the interesting destinations around London. It all begins when the queen decides to go for a visit. Before she can get far, a gust of wind blows her hat into the sky. Most of the book follows the queen as she and her Scottie try to catch up to her flying hat. Illustrations using minimalistic colors capture the romp through Trafalgar Square, up Big Ben, over the London Eye and all through the streets as more and more Beefeater guards join in the hunt. In the end, the queen’s hat lands at Kensington Palace with her grandchild, descending like Mary Poppins out of the sky. Be sure to read the end notes which offer quick facts about each location featured in the illustrations.

What’s good: Bright, engaging illustrations focus on the warmth of family and friends.

What’s good: Fun romp through London that will bring out giggles in small children.

What’s bad: It glorifies overeating a

bit, but that is softened by the strong message of family.

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What’s bad: Overly simplistic and may

not appeal to children with no interest in London.

By Brian Selznick

Fans of The Invention of Hugo Cabret and Wonderstruck will be happy to see Selznick’s familiar, almost movie-like style of illustration and storytelling put to good use in his new tale, The Marvels. The first half of this story tells the tale of the Marvel family, beginning with the 1776 shipwreck of the Kraken through the family’s storied theatrical careers into the early 1900s. The second half of the book is the narrative of Joseph Jervis as he runs away from boarding school to find his Uncle Albert in London. Although this tale is influenced by the Dennis Severs’ House and the lives of Dennis Severs and David Milne, it is in no way necessary for readers to have preexisting knowledge of any of that. As a matter of fact, it is probably best that readers come into it blank and take in the story as Selznick offers it, page by page. In this way the reader will come to understand the development of each character and see the complexities of family, love and time.

What’s good: Beautifully illustrated and blended with the narrative to offer a seamless tale.

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he best way to learn the value of a dollar is to earn it yourself. Kids needn’t wait until they are 16 to start a job! Here are some practical ways they can begin earning money on their own!

babysitting/parents helper. If

your kids have a way with children, being a babysitter is a natural first choice. Parents want to know that a babysitter is responsible and well-prepared, so encourage your child to take a first aid class or basic babysitting class through an organization such as the Red Cross that offers certification.

If your youngster is not old enough to babysit alone, no worries! He or she can offer services as a parent’s helper and still gain valuable experience caring for young children and helping with household chores, all while building good references for future babysitting jobs.

pet sitting. Many pet owners find

themselves too busy during the workday to give their pets the love and attention they desire. A pet companion can offer to walk neighborhood dogs, feed them, play with them and groom them! This is an especially appealing job for animal loving kids who don’t have pets of their own!

house cleaning. Kids can hum a happy working song while providing a cleaning service. Wash dishes, do windows, sweep, dust and vacuum!

house sitting. Kids can water the garden, take in mail and provide pet care or lawn care while neighbors are away.

lawn care. With the change of seasons come many opportunities to provide lawn services. Kids can rake leaves, mow yards, weed eat or shovel snow off driveways during the winter months. trash day service. Even the youngest

family members can find ways to put their skills to use. Shawnee kids Sophie and Aaron Ewans started their first jobs last summer, taking their next door neighbors’ trash and recycling bins to the curb and back again on trash day. Neighbors paid them 25 cents each week, and by the end of the summer 5-year-old Aaron was close to his end goal of purchasing a Teenage Mutant Ninja figurine.

mail retrieval. There’s nothing like front door service! Kids can bring mail or newspapers to a neighbor’s front door.

lemonade stand/bake sale. Kids can put their culinary skills to the test by making brownies, cookies or cupcakes and offering drinks. (Homemade lemonade is always a nice touch, but a cooler full of soda works, too!) A family card table out on the driveway makes a great concession stand.

Remind kids to make a price list! garage sale/resell. Kids can scour the house for their outgrown clothes and unused toys to sell in a garage sale. Better yet, they can offer to host a family garage sale! By doing all the work for Mom, Dad, Brother and Sister—cleaning and pricing items, and later manning the sale—your little entrepreneur makes a commission, and the house gets a little cleaner! music lessons. If musically inclined, kids can offer to teach music lessons and host recitals.

Lauren Greenlee opened her first lemonade stand at 5 and taught violin lessons in high school. She writes from her Olathe home.

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WOMENSHEALTH

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id you know that more than 24 million Americans have diabetes and at least 6 million aren’t aware they have the disease? Diabetes falls into three types: Type 1, Type 2 and gestational diabetes. The focus of this article is on Type 1 and Type 2. Type 1 diabetes is usually diagnosed in children and young adults.

Type 1 occurs in only about 5 percent of the cases, and when a person is affected by the disease, his body no longer produces insulin, a hormone needed to convert sugar to energy. Type 2 diabetes is the most common. In Type 2 the body does not use insulin properly. At first the pancreas makes extra insulin to compensate but eventually can’t make enough to keep up.

Most of us have heard of diabetes or know of someone living with the disease.

Sometimes diabetes is passed on through our genetics. But did you know there are several ways you can lower your risk of getting diabetes just by changing a few things in your lifestyle?

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• Healthy eating: Plan your weekly

meals. Eat lean meats, lots of fruits and vegetables and include whole grains.

Cut out soda. Decrease the amount of sweets or other snack foods.

• Weight: Being overweight increases

your risk. Losing even 10-15 pounds can make a difference.

• Smoking: Stop smoking!

• Blood pressure: Two out of three people with diabetes have high blood pressure.

Get it treated! When your blood pressure is high, your heart works harder, putting you at risk for heart disease or stroke.

• Exercise: It helps lower your blood

pressure, blood sugar and cholesterol.

Walking 30 minutes a day is a great way to start.

The first step in prevention of diabetes is to understand your risk. For more information, please visit the American

Diabetes Association website, Diabetes.org, or talk with your health care provider.

Melanie Yunger is a local wife, mother and nurse practitioner.

As always, please consult your health care provider with any questions or concerns.

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ithin the first few hours to days of life, infants show they can hear and react. A newborn may startle easily and turn toward the direction a sound is coming from. Over time, this reaction grows more complex, and verbal conversations begin. But what happens when a person loses his hearing, which can occur in infancy, childhood or adulthood? Hearing loss that occurs in infancy and childhood can affect a child’s ability to develop speech, language and social skills. Any kind of hearing loss can be a serious problem, but many problems are not discovered until age 2, when speech and development delays begin to show.

The three most common causes of hearing loss in adults include otitis media, problems from birth and injury or illness. Otitis media is an ear infection where fluid builds up behind the eardrum and becomes infected. If fluid stays in the tube, this temporary hearing loss can become permanent. Many childhood illnesses/injuries also can cause hearing loss, such as meningitis, measles, chickenpox, head injuries and reactions to certain medications (WebMD.com).

All 50 states require that every infant have a hearing screening before being discharged from the hospital. If the child passes, this may be the only hearing screening he has. If you have any concerns later on

about your child’s hearing, follow up with your pediatrician or family doctor. After all, the diagnostic test is pain free and quick.

Many local school districts offer free hearing screening for children 2 and under as part of their parents as teachers program.

Many children will not be able to express verbally that they are suffering hearing loss.

As caregivers, parents are often the first to notice there is a problem. Noticeable signs could be as simple as an infant’s not reacting to loud noises or to the parent’s voice.

Regarding otitis media, a child may pull or rub on her ear, be cranky and have little energy, have a fever, ask for the TV volume to be louder, not understand directions or say “what?” or “huh?” a lot.

The best way to protect your child from hearing loss is to seek treatment for infection and avoid harmful noises—ones that are very loud but short in duration or any noise exposure that lasts an extended period of time. Most importantly, keep an open line of communication with the child’s physician.

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BABY STEPS: easing into the journey of infertility treatments

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nfertility. Just reading the word still gives me the chills, and I know I’m not alone. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, impaired fecundity (the impaired ability to have a child) affects 6.7 million women in the United States alone. With numbers like that, chances are high that you either know a couple experiencing this disease or are dealing with it yourself.

So many couples are considering heading down the fertility treatment road, but the process can be so intimidating that it prevents them from ever getting stated. Here are six pieces of advice from someone who has started it, gone through it and survived it.

leave it to the pros.

In a world of Web MD and medical information at our fingertips, it’s easy to get sucked into self-diagnosis. We read something that sounds familiar and immediately believe it must be true. If you can, hold off on assuming you know best.

Consult with your primary physician first and let her know you’re trying for a baby.

There are a litany of lifestyle choices that could be impacting your fertility. Too much caffeine, being overly stressed, obesity and even lack of exercise can contribute

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to the failure to get pregnant. Wait until you hit the year mark of trying for a baby before meeting with a specialist and let her determine what might be going on.

book early and be prepared.

Once you’ve gone a year of trying without results, it’s time to visit a fertility specialist for a consultation. Because millions of women are experiencing difficulty getting pregnant, you can bet that clinics will be busy. Consider calling the fertility clinic at the nine-month mark to make the initial appointment. Of course, if you end up getting pregnant before the appointment, celebrate by calling to cancel!

In addition, do your research on fertility clinics and physicians. Most clinic websites will share their live birth success rate data. If they don’t, move on. Compare different doctors and ask around for recommendations. You will potentially be spending a lot of time with your doctor and you want to choose the right one.

Ultimately, rely on your gut feelings during the consultation. If you don’t feel you connect with the doctor, don’t feel forced to stick with her. Shop around and find a doctor who feels right to you.

no secrets, please.

Prior to your consultation, you will be required to provide medical history information—lots of it. Be as truthful as possible. If you never take a multivitamin (even though you know you should), don’t lie and say you adore taking your Flintstone gummy every morning. If you drink four glasses of wine a night, don’t edit and say you have only one. With infertility, accurate information is golden.

Your doctor isn’t there to make judgments about you, she’s there to get you pregnant as quickly as possible. If she has the story of your medical life, but vital chapters are missing, you’re only hurting your chances of getting to the bottom of your fertility struggles.

testing, 1,2,3.

After gathering all of your medical information, the real nitty gritty of fertility treatments begins. Expect many tests to be ordered. For starters, both of you will undergo a full physical exam, including blood, urine and STD screenings. For the guys, a semen analysis will likely be on the agenda. He may fight it, but according to the CDC, “In approximately 40 percent of

infertile couples, the male partner is either the sole cause or a contributing cause of infertility.” Therefore, whether he wants to or not, semen must be tested.

Women, plan on a full pelvic exam, including a possible pelvic ultrasound. It varies from doctor to doctor, but you also may undergo a hysterosalpingogram to determine whether there are any blockages in the fallopian tubes. This procedure is simple: A colored dye is sent through a small tube into the uterus. The dye should then flow freely into the fallopian tubes, indicating they are completely clear. If there is any type of obstruction in the tubes, an X-ray will reflect that, and steps will be taken to clear the blockage.

Once all of these basic tests are administered and results are received, your doctor will share her recommendations for how to move forward. That could mean taking an ovulation drug for a few months or it could mean skipping straight to in vitro. Regardless, at the end of your testing, you should fully comprehend and be comfortable with next steps.

another day, another dollar.

Before you jump in head first, it’s important to get on the phone with your insurance provider and have a conversation about what is or is not covered in your policy. For many, insurance covers almost nothing, and fertility treatments can get very expensive very quickly. Have a candid conversation with your partner about how much you are willing to spend to get pregnant.

Remember, there is no way a doctor can accurately predict how much or how little treatment you will need in order to get pregnant—everyone is different. Decide in advance what your income allows for. After all, if you get pregnant but you’ve spent every last dollar you have, pregnancy is going to be that much more stressful.

speaking of stress…

Going through fertility treatments will be one of the most stressful experiences you can go through. Besides the potential financial implications, you are also juggling

emotions that are compounded by fertility medications and the monthly question of “Did I get pregnant?” Consider joining an infertility help group to talk about what you’re experiencing. It’s okay to be upset, angry, confused and even scared as you go through this process. Talking about it early and often can only do you good.

Unfortunately, infertility is still a disease (yes, that’s right, it is a disease) that is kept relatively quiet, so you may assume people won’t understand. As hard as it may be, consider telling those in your life what you are experiencing. Chances are, one of those 6.7 million women struggling with infertility is right in front of you—and ready to help.

Kim Antisdel is a 4-year fighter of infertility, having honed her expertise on the subject in many a doctor’s office, hospital and fertility clinic. She lives in Kansas City with her husband, two stepdaughters and small zoo of rescue animals. She recently gave birth to her first child—through the miracle of in vitro fertilization.

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Fire Up a Reluctant Reader When you switch out a clothing size, remember to take a look at their bookcase and upgrade the skill level of their books as well.

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chool is in full swing, and with school comes reading. For some kids, reading is a fun, new skill that opens up more opportunities.

For others, reading is hard work. If reading doesn’t come easily, it’s hard to be motivated to keep trying.

For beginners, keep up or add some fun story time sessions at home. Reading was a high priority for me when I became a mother, so we have had a set routine since we began our parenting adventure. We read during breakfast, before nap/quiet time in the afternoon and again before bedtime.

Most of the time, I choose books to avoid story time burnout for Mommy. It’s a way to reconnect during the day, and I also think that because this is one of my favorite times of the day with them, it has become one of theirs as well.

For the younger crowd, check out the calendar at KCParent.com for local story times offered at places like local libraries, Barnes and Noble Town Center, Whole Foods, Johnson County Museum (story time with Jo Ho) and Fish Tales at the Olathe Community Center. I also try to choose books that interest my children and switch out seasonal books to add some fresh variety and anticipation for what’s coming next in the year.

Audiobooks also can be a way to incorporate other forms of media to enhance the joy of reading. Kids can read along and not get discouraged about a new word they’re uncertain of. Audiobooks make stories in the car fun, too. If screen time is a big deal to your child, give extra time if she watches on silent with the subtitles on instead. Local libraries offer programs like “read to a dog,” where kids can sit and read to a therapy dog. Or just let them read to your pet at home. Older siblings can bond with younger siblings as they practice their reading skills. This also can build more confidence in struggling readers, giving them a reason to read easier books to baby brother/sister. When reading with your children, Sarah Lyons, Olathe mother of six,

advises, “Take turns reading pages. It’s less overwhelming.”

So head to the library or bookstore together and pick out a book for yourself too. Challenge your child to see who can finish her book first before heading back to get a new title. Make reading available to your children and offer it as a form of entertainment instead of the ever-ready technology. Bring a book for the wait at the doctor’s office or during big sister’s dance class. Demonstrate reading during your down time too, instead of scrolling through your phone. Talk to your kids about the exciting story you are reading or some of your favorite books from your childhood.

If your kid is the creative type, have him create his own books to read to you.

Usborne book parties and the Dr. Seuss Book Club are fun ways to get your children excited about reading by getting a package in the mail just for them! Use a new book as a reward and either make a special trip to the bookstore or order it online to get the same package effect. Recently on an online Usborne book party I came across this helpful tip about kids’ brains growing like their bodies. “When you switch out a clothing size, remember to take a look at their bookcase and upgrade the skill level of their books as well,” says literacy expert Jim Trelease.

If your child is truly struggling, tutors and different programs designed to make reading easier and less of a chore for them can be helpful. Sue Taylor, Olathe mother of two grown children, also says, “Make sure to get their vision tested and check to see that they aren’t dyslexic. My son was and that’s one of the reasons he hated reading. I would suggest asking your child, ‘Why don’t you like to read?’ He may tell you why.”

Stephanie Loux writes from her home in Olathe and enjoys reading on her own and reading to her three munchkins.

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teenagers I KNOW FOR A FACT you are only reading this because you saw the title and thought: She must have gone off her rocker. Singing an ode to teenagers is akin to praising the U.S. Congress for having accomplished something. Or liking the moles tunneling under your lawn. Or being particularly fond of bee stings.

And it’s true. Teenagers are possibly the biggest catastrophe wrought upon us parents by nature. They are disagreeable, have mood swings defying any logic, and their rooms—well, we don’t know for sure, because we’ve stopped entering them for fear that alien life-forms will attack us from within the morass of stuff littering the area.

Not that this is purely a modern problem. Plato—or was it Socrates—bitterly complained about the youth of his day, calling them lazy, disrespectful and reckless.

Even then they almost certainly grew their hair in unconventional ways and tied their togas in a sloppy fashion. I’m sure there was the equivalent of the iPhone back then, diverting a teenager’s attention when she was supposed to answer her mother. And there’s no doubt that many a brand new chariot was wrecked when the son took it out for a spin and did precisely what the father told him not to do.

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Many, many parenting articles have been written about teenagers, listing their countless shortcomings and offering advice to enable both parties to survive the teenage years. But has anyone ever found anything praiseworthy about them? I realize I might be a pioneer in that particular field of study when I say you have to give credit where credit is due. Or perhaps I just like to swim against the tide. But I think an article in praise of teenagers is in order.

In fact, I thought up this article more than a year ago and have made several attempts to publish it. But invariably I was stalled by certain events. Such as Zax’s forgetting to pack his hockey stuff in the morning and then blaming me for not getting it to him at the most convenient time and place. Or Impatience screaming at me that I was the worst parent ever for not getting her a better calculator so that she could enter mixed fractions without having to worry about how to convert them.

Or Jabulani swearing to me all day that there was absolutely nothing more he could possibly do to prepare for his math exam tomorrow and that he was therefore justified in playing xBox all day, and then sending me an urgent text message from school the next morning to please bring his calculator and ruler, which he’d forgotten to pack.

Though on that instance my murderous thoughts all the way to school were instantly mollified when he gave me a big smile and even bigger hug in front of all 300 high school students as a thank you.

So anyway, here are my

top 20 reasons to appreciate teenagers:

• If they have a question, they will

Google it instead of asking tiresome “why” questions.

• They save you money on babysitting.

Even though you might have to have the house steam-cleaned and disinfected upon your return.

• They can show you how the DVR

player works, which you haven’t used in months because you can’t figure out how to fast forward (also because you can no longer decipher the buttons on the remote).

• They refrain from calling “Mommy,

I am finished” when they are, well, finished with their business and expect someone to come wipe.

• You can have a conversation with them (if they are, in fact, talking to you at

you as much as laugh in public and chastise you for being so embarrassing.

the moment) about topics a bit more challenging than Littlest Pet Shop or Thomas the Tank Engine.

• Quiet time in their rooms (with the

• You can tell them jokes without having

curtains drawn) is what they do best.

• You do not have to convince them to

to explain.

• You don’t have to listen to their jokes

take a shower. They may just never come out of the shower.

more than once.

• If you have boys, you generally save a

• You don’t have to let them win when

playing a game of pickup basketball and you know they’re not letting you win either.

• They sleep through the night (and most of the day).

• You actually want them on your

team when playing 30 Seconds or Trivial Pursuit.

• Instead of your having to hide stuff in high places, they can help you reach stuff you’ve put in high places.

• You no longer have to find any Lego

few years’ worth of haircut expenses.

• They won’t cling to your leg while you’re trying to cook. They will just stop by the kitchen to ask you what’s for dinner and then disappear again.

gotten onto Facebook—even though your teens are no longer on Facebook because it is so yesterday.

• You don’t have to attend birthday

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• They don’t usually fling themselves

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parties with them. Actually, they do not want to be seen with you at all. onto the floor of the grocery store and scream at the top of their lungs.

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furniture with little ones around). Although everything may not be at your children’s height for independence purposes, you’ll definitely be making the most of your space! First time mom Cait offers some helpful advice: “We made sure to purchase “on-the-go” gear when we were preparing for Baby’s arrival, so most of my daughter’s gear can be folded up and stashed away (we keep a lot of it behind the couch when it’s not being used). We also bought bed risers so we can keep things like out of season or outgrown clothes underneath the bed.”

by necessity, we’ve had to live more simply

maximizing small spaces

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f you’ve ever lived in an apartment or other small space with children, you know how tricky managing all the “stuff ’ that comes with having kids can be. Life in close quarters has been a challenge for us, but in some ways, living in our apartment has made life so much easier. By necessity, we’ve had to live more simply.

When we moved, we pared everything down to basic necessities. Cindy, a Pleasant Hill mother of two, says, “You have to focus on not collecting a lot of stuff, which is hard with little ones, but you become more aware of needs and wants.” Donate items or, better yet, support one of the local consignment sales by selling your items and making a little cash too! Also consider a toy swap with another mom or group of moms to cut down on toy overload.

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Maximize space by using every nook and cranny possible. Command hooks are my best friend because I use them on the insides of doors and cabinets and on walls.

I use baskets to corral plastic container lids, sippy cups and their pieces, snacks, pastas, baggies, etc. Our closets are full of canvas totes to house anything from children’s clothing to sheets, changing pads, diapers and wipes. I even use laundry baskets, suitcases and old diaper boxes to store things we may not be using at the moment but need to have on hand.

Another often overlooked technique is making the most of vertical and hidden space. We have three-drawer carts in our laundry room where I store kid activities, and they hold so much! Look into tall bookcases or shelving (remember to secure

Consider alternative uses for furniture.

Get creative. Our entertainment center houses four small baskets with toys, while our nightstand holds diapers, wipes, undies and pajamas for our girls. Put a small dresser or chest of drawers in your closet to hold clothing or even toys. I even utilize the 3 inches under our entertainment center to store puzzles and independent activities!

Caroline, an Overland Park mother of three who has spent time apartment living with small children, says, “Consolidate and be organized. Have small activities that can be stored easily, like play dough or mini sandboxes. Also, it was really hard if we were inside day after day, so we looked for ways to get out. I always looked on KCParent.com for free or cheap activities to get us out of the apartment and help keep us active.”

Whatever space you find yourself in, make the most of it. Children are only little and in need of so much “stuff ” once (teenagers and their need for different “stuff ” are another challenge), so try not to be overwhelmed. Find what works for you and your family. Then, in the words of Queen Elsa, “Let it go!”

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efore I became a parent, the idea of disciplining children seemed fairly straightforward.

It follows logic that if you set limits, use consistency and respond firmly but lovingly, children will learn to correct their behavior. As I became a more experienced mother, I quickly learned that traditional methods of discipline, such as time-out, do not work with every child every time. Thinking outside of traditional methods of discipline and trying new and creative consequences may improve behavior. Here are some ideas:

Buy it back: Toys left on the floor after the designated pickup time will be confiscated by a parent. Children will be allowed to buy back each item for $1 (NotConsumed.com). If the children are not earning an allowance, they may do something extra around the house to earn the item back.

Practice makes perfect: When a chore isn’t done to the parent’s standards, have kids “practice” doing it over and over again until they become experts. (iMom.com)

Silly faces: “If siblings were fighting, they had to make five faces at each other. They would end up laughing and forget what they were fighting about to begin with,” says Marianne Lincoln, mother of five.

Team spirit: Siblings who fight also can be assigned projects or chores to work on as a team. By the end of the day, they will have learned to work together.

Open door policy: If your teen slams the bedroom door when angry, take away the privilege of privacy and remove the door for a week.

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Donations: If your kids consistently leave clothing on the floor, collect it for donation to a local charity. If they decide they aren’t ready to donate it yet, have them pay you what it would cost them to buy it from a thrift store (Parenting.com).

Safety first: It is not safe to drive when people are shouting and making a commotion in the car. If the kids are too rowdy, pull the car over and wait silently until they are quiet.

Take time: If your child is dawdling and makes everyone late, have him sit out of the fun when you arrive for the same amount of time he wasted at home.

Early to bed: If the child has a bad attitude and you suspect it’s because she is not getting enough sleep, move up bedtime by 5 minutes each time you need to remind her to improve her behavior.

Kid’s choice: When children misbehave, try allowing them to choose their own consequence. This method gives them control over their fate, teaches them to think about their actions in the future and makes imposing the consequence easier.

Stand alone: If the child will not stop tipping his chair at

With some patience, a sense of humor and some creativity, parents can use the art of creative consequences to teach their children in a fresh and memorable way that will have lasting results.

dinner, simply take the chair away and have him stand while he eats. (NotConsumed.com)

Teach respect: “I have a friend who has her children wash the others’ feet if they are being disrespectful to each other,” Shannon, mom of three, says.

Sarah Lyons lives in Olathe with her family.

creative consequences in a jar

A simple mason jar can be helpful to assign chores, decide consequences or settle disputes. Try these ideas and tailor them to fit your family.

1. Mercy jar: Fill a jar with different consequences, such as time-out, writing sentences, push-ups, etc. Write “mercy” on a few, which means they forgo punishment this time. We can all use a little mercy sometimes. (iMom.com)

2. Marble jar: For good behavior, completed chores and acts of kindness, kids can earn marbles. When the jar is full let them choose a fun reward.

3. Reverse marble jar: Start with a full jar of marbles and take them out when there is negative behavior.

Each marble out of the jar = 5 minutes taken away from a fun activity.

4. Get along jar: Fill the jar with ideas that will help siblings get along: Clean up the other’s toys. Give each other a hug. Jump on the trampoline together for five minutes. (MillionsOfMiles.com)

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Your Child’s Learning Style:

what it is and why it is important o you know your child’s preferred learning style? Does your daughter tend to memorize information after simply reading it? Does your son enjoy building detailed Lego kits?

These behaviors are often indicators of learning preferences. Identifying a child’s learning style is important to ensuring the best chance for academic success.

The seven main learning styles are visual, auditory, tactile, kinesthetic, logical, social and solitary. Visual and auditory learners have an advantage, as traditional classroom instruction is catered more to them. Visual learners do well by reading, viewing lists, charts, images, reading their teachers’ facial expressions, diagrams, etc. Auditory learners benefit from verbal instruction, talking through problems and using rhythm and music as memory aids.

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ago, but fortunately, teachers today are much more willing to allow children to move about the room to engage in the lesson.

Kinesthetic learners need to move their bodies as they learn, and tactile learners like to use their hands to comprehend the material. Both of these preferences are conducive to building 2D or 3D models with clay, play dough or building materials such as Legos.

Kinesthetic learners might like to learn about the human body, for example, by jumping, running, stretching and discussing which parts of the body are allowing them to do such things. Both tactile and kinesthetic learners might enjoy doing their writing assignments on large marker boards or butcher paper, so they are not confined to a desk and can immerse themselves more in the project. Also, a kinesthetic learner is more likely to memorize facts while playing catch, jumping rope or clapping. Children in

both of these categories would learn better through a hands-on science experiment rather than by simply reading about a concept via text.

Another type of learning preference is logical. The logical learner enjoys mathematics, proving equations and using reasoning and systems. This student will do well to write out lists of goals or steps to figure something out. He is likely to use the scientific method approach to solve a problem, and he may become frustrated if he doesn’t know why something is the way it is. Quite often, logical learners excel with technology, providing them an advantage in more modern classrooms.

The last two categories of learning preferences are social and solitary. Social students thrive by working in groups, while those who prefer solitary learning may not.

These students will do better with self-paced learning and individualized study plans. It

is important to find a niche of interest for a solitary learner and base lessons around that. For example, if you have a child obsessed with airplanes, you can use this to teach about gravity, weather, physics and movement. Fortunately for students who prefer to learn independently, there are opportunities for online learning where these solitary learners can feel comfortable and succeed.

So now that you know the basic learning styles, chances are you see your child in one or more category. A good age to begin

identifying your child’s learning style is around 6 or 7, because at this point, his preferences are likely established.

Once you and your child’s teacher know your child’s learning preference(s), you can know better how to approach his education. Experts recommend students be taught using a variety of methods—not just the preferred style. However, using this preference to teach the most difficult lessons can be very effective. It is also necessary to reinforce lessons using multiple styles of instruction. To truly ensure the best

chance of success, teachers need to provide learning tools to enhance and improve abilities in areas where students are weaker.

For example, an auditory learner should be taught using a kinesthetic lesson plan, but the teacher should aid that student in working through this type of lesson that’s not as friendly to his natural abilities.

Olathe mom Karen Johnson has three children, ages 6, 4 and 2. She writes at The21stCenturySAHM.com.

Quiz: what type of learner is your child?

1 Your child was assigned a report on a wild animal.

She asked to visit the zoo to see and touch stingrays in their natural habitat. Your child is most likely: A. A tactile learner B. A social learner C. A kinesthetic learner D. An auditory learner

2 Your daughter was told to create a project showing the water cycle. Which of the following would indicate that she is a logical learner?

A. She immediately jumped on the computer to research water cycles after school.

B. She created a step-by-step detailed diagram of the water cycle, complete with a colorcoded key.

C. She created a rain measurement tool and is leaving cups of water around the house to observe water’s evaporation.

D. All of the above

3 Your son’s foreign language teacher tells you that

4 Which of the following is a helpful lesson for teaching math to a kinesthetic learner?

A. Having him measure how far he kicked

the soccer ball to determine the length of the field.

B. H aving him draw a soccer field and describe its measurements.

C. Watching the teacher draw the measurements on the white board.

D. Working in groups to draw a soccer field to scale on paper.

5 Your child can be identified as a visual, social learner. She was assigned a group project on the Civil War. What might be a good role for her within the group?

A. Creating a 3D battle field.

B. Reenacting a battle scene for the class.

C. Writing out a detailed synopsis of why the war occurred.

D. Researching little-known facts about the

Civil War and reporting her findings back to the group.

he most enjoys listening to translation activities via headphones and computer during class. Your son would be best described as an: A. Social, visual learner B. Tactile, kinesthetic learner C. Auditory, solitary learner D. Logical, social learner

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Make a plan. Do some research before plunging into a new career.

Whether you want to sell hand-crafted scarves on Etsy, become a virtual assistant or start an online travel agency, you’ll probably find a book or website designed to help you reach your goal.

Commit to a business plan in writing and run it by your accountant to make sure you comply with all applicable tax regulations.

For certain types of home businesses (i.e., food-related), you also may need an attorney’s assistance to secure a license or permit.

2 Working and living in the same space offers many advantages, along with a few challenges. Whether you’re a stay-at-home parent considering taking the plunge into working from home or a working parent interested in starting a homebased career, the following tips may help ease your transition.

Find your best time for work and commit to it.

How many hours of work would you like to complete each week?

Are you a morning person or a night owl?

Do your personal circumstances allow for at least an occasional babysitter or must you plan all work around your children’s schedules? If you have a spouse or partner, what does his/her work schedule typically look like?

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The key is finding blocks of time to dedicate to uninterrupted work. If you work best in the morning or have a day job, make plans to rise an hour or two earlier than the rest of the household and head straight to your laptop. Those with children in preschool or grade school may be able to get tons of work done during school hours. If your kids are very small, don’t rule out the possibility of scheduling a bit of childcare via a family member, local daycare center or in-home helper.

Even a few hours of time alone each week can go a long way in helping you launch your new career.

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Multitask while you work. Juggling parenting

and household responsibilities alongside work can be overwhelming at times, even for families with two actively involved grown-ups.

Thanks to modern appliances, though, it’s sometimes possible to do two things at once! I personally find I’m much more relaxed and focused during my writing

time if I run the dishwasher or washing machine while I work. If you want to really go the extra mile, you could even start dinner in the slow-cooker and enjoy the smell of pork roast while you read, write or make phone calls. By the time you finish your work, you will also have made progress on one or more household tasks!

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Set goals and monitor your progress. When you

have only yourself to report to, it can be easy to let distractions supersede your work. While it’s not a big deal to take a “day off ” here and there— after all, that’s one of the benefits of this arrangement—a series of unproductive days may leave you frustrated. Start each week by formulating a “to do” list.

Keep track of your time or output using a website such as MyTomatoes.com or WrittenKitten.net. If you need to bring in a certain amount of income to continue working at home, set financial goals and be sure your weekly “to do’s” are designed to help you reach them.

Change your space. If

your business is computer-based, the world is your office. Pack up your laptop and head to a nearby bookstore, library or fast food restaurant.

On particularly nice days, you can even work outside. The change of scenery may energize you and inspire you to greater output, and if not, the peer pressure of having others watch you work probably will.

While working outside a traditional office setting requires a great deal of focus and prioritization, there’s nothing quite like doing your job from the comfort of your own home—or your favorite coffee shop!

Hopefully these tips will help you take the next step toward reaching your career goals, whatever they may be.

Michelle Shirk is an attorney, freelance writer and proud mother of one. She also serves as assistant director for a literacy non-profit in her community. Michelle writes about family, travel and seasonal events for parenting publications across the United States.

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Make the most of your snacking experience with this advice: Stock the pantry with versatile options that let you prepare a range of snacks, from sweet to savory combinations. Choose options such as Dole Jarred Fruit, which offers delicious, ready-to-eat fruit in five varieties that are fat-free, cholesterol-free and packed in 100 percent juice for maximum healthy snacking versatility.

Look for quick solutions that help trim prep time and skip the cutting, peeling and mess.

Avoid worrying about waste or spoilage with convenient, resealable lids that let you use what you need for a single serving and save the rest for later.

Banana Split on a Stick 1/2 c. pineapple chunks, drained 1 slice pound cake, cut into 6 cubes 1/4 small banana, cut into 4 slices 2 t. bottled chocolate sauce 2 T. light whipped topping 1 maraschino cherry On two wooden skewers, alternate threading four pineapple chunks, three cubes of pound cake and two banana slices.

Drizzle each skewer with one teaspoon chocolate sauce.

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Building Your Children’s Leadership Skills:

Plan an International Family Project

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ant to draw your family together in a team effort?

Want your children to grow in compassion for others? To dream big and set measurable goals? To experience the wonderful feeling of accomplishment after a lot of hard work? You’ll gain all this and more if your family makes the commitment to take on an international family project.

We live in a global society. Daily news enters our homes via television and other media. Our children learn at an early age there is war, violence and strife in many parts of the world. Most children are horrified when they learn that children around the world suffer from lack of housing, nutritious meals and a safe living environment. The reality cuts right to their hearts, and they want to take action.

The good news is there are tangible ways to involve children in making a difference. Can they change the world and fix all its problems? No, but they can learn the important lesson that each person has the power to make a difference, one act of kindness at a time.

Thousands of organizations are doing good work around the world, and many of them focus on the needs and welfare

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of children. The three outlined below are just the tip of the iceberg, but each offers practical ways to aid children in other parts of the world. Go to CharityNavigator.org to find out more about selecting reputable organizations with which to link arms.

If you decide on child sponsorships, be certain the organization you select has procedures in place to assure the child actually gets the benefit of the gift. Choose organizations with a high rating in terms of dollars donated and dollars actually given in aid. It’s fair to expect these organizations to have some overhead costs. Some sponsorship programs allow pictures and letters to go back and forth, enabling your family to get to know your adopted friend.

As you work with your family members to select a project, be sure to allow the children to buy in to the choice. Most organizations have excellent websites where you can research their projects and see photos of their work. In this case, pictures actually are worth a thousand words.

Once you’ve selected a project with a specific goal, you’ll need to find a way to meet that goal. Will you choose to do a crowd funding campaign? Will the entire family pitch in to do extra work of some

kind to earn money? Will you make flyers, have a bake sale, do a garage sale?

It’s not so much the amount of money you send to meet the needs of others, it’s the journey you’ll take together to work hard to help other human beings. That’s a valuable, educational journey to make together.

Be sure your children: n Help select the project and make a

timeline (beginning and endpoint). n Help plan the ways to raise the funds. n Help with advertising and promoting the

project. n Work like crazy on the fundraising days

or at the events. n Help track progress along the way and

readjust plans as necessary. n Help evaluate the success of the project

(graphs, charts or reports). n Share progress reports with those who

have an interest in the project. n Share in the satisfaction of sending the

funds to the specific organization along with any appropriate communication. n You might want to do a family

evaluation of the project. Would you want to make it an annual event?

Kusewera (Kusewera.org) This wonderful organization, founded in 2008 by Karen Osborn, is based in Malawi, Africa. It is dedicated to improving the lives of poor children through active and creative play. Kusewera means “to play” in Malawi. The daily lives of poor children, especially those in orphanages, are often devoid of fun and healthy activity. Kusewera has developed a community center that provides sports clinics and guided activities in dance, music and art. As of 2014, they began branching out into the Philippines.

In the process of teaching healthy play activities, they also teach life skills such as leadership, discipline, goal-setting, perseverance and team participation.

Pearl S. Buck International (PearlSBuck.org) The board of the Pearl S. Buck foundation founded this organization.

Their goal is to foster exploration and appreciation of other cultures around the world and to foster better lives for children.

The center is based at Buck’s original family home in Perkasie, PA. Programs include ways to enrich the education, health and well-being of the children.

This organization works in Korea, China, the Philippines, Taiwan, Vietnam and the United States.

Palestine Relief Fund (PCRF.net) The Palestine Relief Fund (PCRF) is a non-political, non-profit organization dedicated to healing the wounds of war, occupation and poverty. It works with adults and children in the Middle East and treats them regardless of race, nationality, religion or gender. They have both medical and humanitarian aid projects ongoing.

Be assured that when you take on a project such as supporting one of these agencies or another like it, your entire family will be forever changed.

Jan Pierce, M.Ed., is a retired teacher and author of Homegrown Readers: Simple Ways to Help Your Child Learn to Read.

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Operation Christmas Child Kids Helping Kids Throughout the World

National Collection Week is Nov. 16-23 1. Choose a Box Use an empty shoe box (standard size, please) or a small plastic container.

You can wrap the box (lid separately), but wrapping is not required. Most importantly, pray for the child who will receive your gift.

2. Boy or Girl?

Determine whether your gift will be for a boy or a girl, and the child’s age category: 2-4, 5-9 or 10-14. Print out the appropriate boy/girl label by downloading the artwork at www.SamaritansPurse.org. Mark the correct age category on the label and tape the label to the top of your box.

3. Fill with Gifts Fill the box with a variety of gifts that will bring delight to a child. Ideas include small toys, school supplies, hygiene items, hard candy, ball caps, hair clips, etc. You can even include a personal note to the child receiving the box.

4. Include Your Donation Please donate $7 or more for each shoe box you prepare to help cover shipping and other project costs. You can give online by using the “Follow Your Box Donation” option, or you can write a check to Samaritan’s Purse (note “OCC” on memo line) and place it in an envelope on top of the gift items inside your box.

5. Drop Off Place a rubber band around each closed shoe box and drop off at the collection center nearest you during our collection week, Nov. 16-23.

For locations and hours of collection, visit SamaritansPurse.org.

There you can find the nearest place to take your shoe box by entering your ZIP code, or you can call 1.800.353.5949.

Local drop off locations include Lenexa Baptist Church and Colonial Presbyterian Church.

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2015

Holiday Gift Guide

Imagineering by Lionel

My First Weaving Loom

(ages 2 ½+) A brand new collection of train playsets from the classic Lionel brand, these trains are designed just for the little hands of preschoolers. They feature familiar characters, 6 feet of easy-to-connect track, interactive pieces and more! Several options available. $49.99, LionelStore.com or Barnes & Noble

(ages 6-11) Weave your own high-fashion accessories-even if you’ve never sewn a stitch! Heirloom-quality wooden loom has all you need to make 3 step-by-step projects, including tools & soft chenille yard. $29.99, LakeshoreLearning.com

Green Toys Mini Construction Vehicles (ages 3+) There is no such thing as too many truck toys! These chunky vehicles (made in the United States from 100 percent recycled plastic milk jugs) will bring many smiles this holiday season! Options include a front loader, cement mixer and dump truck—all with moving pieces.

The best part? These are dishwasher safe for cleaning after any rambunctious adventures they endure! $16.99 each, GreenToys.com

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Props in a Box (any age) Dress up and dream big with these unique collections of backdrops, costumes and props to create engaging stories with kids of all ages. Use the special movie maker app to film your story and preserve it for your family to enjoy for years to come! The sky is the limit: Come up with new stories using your prop box. Maybe you’ll be the next YouTube sensation! $74.99, PropsInABox.com

Playmobil

Nabi Karaoke Box

(ages 4-10) Endless imaginative play awaits with Playmobil playsets.

Kids can build adventurous castles, exciting theme parks and glamorous mansions—or a world all their own. With many add-ons for each playset theme, this collection is super versatile! Visit U.S. Toy in Leawood for a large selection of Playmobile toys! Prices vary, USToy.com

(ages 10+) A Bluetooth speaker and microphone system designed just for kids, this karaoke box can be personalized with custom bumpers and wraps of kids’ favorite characters.

Features dual-microphone input and echo voiceenhancing effects. Audio can be streamed from up to 30 feet away from any Bluetooth enabled device. Your superstar singer will enjoy this gift during the cold winter months and beyond! $149.99, shop. NabiTablet.com

the heART of childhood Jump Rocket LED Night Shotz Set (ages 3+) Rockets equipped with LED lights shoot up to 100 feet in the air with a quick stomp! It’s entertaining for big kids, but easy enough that even a preschooler can enjoy it!

Set comes with three rockets and a jump launcher. $24.99, GeospacePlay.com

(ages 12+) Designed by a local artist, Phyllis Harris Designs, these coloring books feature sweet and whimsical designs and are reminiscent of days gone by. Perfect stocking stuffer for the artist in your family! $11.99, PhyllisHarrisDesigns.com

Remote Control Machines – Animals

Girls Can! Crate Subscription (ages 4-8) Inspire the girl you’re shopping for this holiday season with the knowledge that she can be or do anything!

From pioneering aviators to world-changing artists, from compassionate physicians to brave civil rights leaders, from groundbreaking scientists to trailblazing athletes, each Girls Can! crate celebrates a fearless woman who helped make the world better. This monthly subscription box gift will keep on giving long after the holidays! $29.95 for one month or less per month for multiple month subscription, CrateJoy.com/girls-can-crate/

(ages 8+) This collection of remote-controlled animals will intrigue creative minds! Each animal moves with different realistic mechanisms. The set includes instructions to create an elephant, a scorpion, a penguin, a crab, a Tyrannosaurus rex and so much more! The pieces can be mixed up to make your own hybrid creations. This set is the perfect gift for a child who loves a building challenge. $49.95, Amazon.com

Julie McKinley is a stay-at-home mom of a 4-year-old son and 3-year-old daughter. Keeping up with her kids is a full-time job, but in the hours between snuggling, book reading marathons and fort building, she teaches children’s drama and blogs at DirectorJewels.com.

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Thanksgiving 2015

43 now what?

44 faith & family 45 word from dad 46 gratitude games 48 kansas city thanksgiving

Let KC Parent’s Thanksgiving Guide help you make the holiday a great one in your home! Read on for great games to play with the family once dinner’s done and learn the history of Thanksgiving in KC. Find tips on how to not only give thanks, but live a life full of thanks.

Happy Thanksgiving, Kansas City!

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Dinner’s Over— now what?

fter prayers are said, thanks are given and bellies are bulging over their belts, you could settle in to a tryptophan-induced Turkey Day stupor. Or, you could indulge guests in some post-dinner festivities.

Here are some fun tricks to pull from your pilgrim’s hat this Thanksgiving.

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landmark. Everyone around the table, in turn, must guess the name of the specific thing the person is thinking (if the category is “Kansas City landmark,” a guess might be “Union Station”). The thimble-bearer dips the thimble in water and douses the person who guesses correctly, and that person becomes the new thimble-bearer.

Here’s a sampling: “How are you?” = “What cheer?” or “How now?”

“Excuse Me” = “Pray pardon me” “Congratulations” = “Huzzah!”

“Goodbye” = “Fare thee well” or “Pray remember me” “Backward” = “Arsy varsy”

stack your blessings jenga

name that tune

survivor: new world edition

Play the game of Jenga with a twist. Each time a block is removed, the player must write upon it something she’s grateful for before replacing it on top. Recycle this game at next year’s party for a tower of evergrowing gratitude.

Before the party, compile a list of each guest’s favorite song from the past year and load it on your iPod. Have everyone try to match each person to his song. Then go ahead—be a turkey and throw a dance party. Burn the songs to CDs for everyone to take home.

table top thanks

pumpkin roll relay

With permanent markers on a plastic tablecloth, have everyone record as many things as they can think of they are grateful for. Re-use this tablecloth every year at Thanksgiving.

Break out your broomsticks. Each team, using a broom, must roll a pumpkin to a line and back in a relay. Look for round pumpkins of equal size, about 8-10” in diameter.

mayflower floats

blind turkeys

Before guests arrive, cut small Tropicana orange juice cartons in half with an exact-o knife, and spray paint them brown. Each guest writes his name on a ship and decorates it with stickers, sequins, raffia ropes and sails.

Walk a trail to a nearby creek and—ready, set, Speedwell—have a boat race.

Each team gets a large sheet of craft paper and, with a marker, must take turns drawing a turkey, blindfolded.

The first player draws the body…

The second draws the head…

The third draws the feathers, and so on.

The most accurate drawing wins.

Before dinner, place a sealed envelope beneath each chair with the name of a pilgrim written on the outside, and the pilgrim’s fate recorded inside. After dinner, open the envelopes in turn to discover who survived the first winter in the New World.

Some historic names (*denotes children): Died aboard the Mayflower: Dorothy Bradford, *William Butten, James Chilton, *Jasper More, *Edward Thompson.

Died the first winter: Sarah Eaton, *John Hooke, Christopher Martin, *Mary More, Degory Priest, *Solomon Prower, Rose Standish, Agnes Tilley, Thomas Tinker.

Survivors present at the first Thanksgiving: Eleanor Billington, Mary Brewster, *Wrestling Brewster, *Mary Chilton, Francis Cooke, Samuel Fuller, *Giles Hopkins, Myles Standish, *Elizabeth Tilley.

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pilgrim talk

For roars of laughter at the tip of your finger, give this wet and raucous game a go-round.

Gather a thimble and small ramekin of water. Sitting around a table, the person with the thimble calls out a category, such as an animal, food or favorite Kansas City

Spend the remainder of the evening attempting to speak like proper pilgrims.

Log on to http://www.Plimoth.org/Learn/ Just-Kids/Talk-Pilgrim for a list of words and sound bytes that translate modern English into 17th century vernacular.

Wendy Connelly and her kids, from Overland Park, are especially grateful for their grandparents of 16 generations: William and Mary Brewster of the Mayflower Voyage.

Elder William Brewster, the pilgrims’ spiritual leader, offered the prayer over the first Thanksgiving feast. kcparent.com november 2015

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FAITH&FAMILY

a life of

T hanks-L iving

Colossians 3:15: “And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts…And always be thankful.”

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hanksgiving is a big holiday in the United States: big meals, big gatherings, big parades and big football games, followed by big retail sales. Instead of just one big day for Thanksgiving, what would happen if our families adopted lifestyles of thankful living all year long? What would it look like to live with proactive gratitude instead of reactive manners?

Scientific research found habitual gratitude is linked to everything from stronger immune systems to better grades. You may have read books like Ann Voskamp’s One-Thousand Gifts that encourage readers to view every detail of life as a gift from God for which we need to give thanks. Whether you’ve read the research and/or the books, the question remains: How do we start living Thanksgiving every day? The answer is simple—literally. You begin practicing thoughts and words of gratitude for the seemingly small and simple

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details of life and snowball from there. Here are a few ideas to get you rolling into a lifestyle of thanks-living:

• Begin your day thanking God for the gift •

of time and presence.

Keep a running list of things you’re thankful for each day (smart phones work well).

• Verbalize sincere gratitude to others often.

• Practice thoughts of gratitude (especially in moments or areas where annoyance tends to settle in).

God doesn’t need to hear our prayers of gratitude to know what He’s done for us, but like a Good Father, He loves to hear from the hearts of His children. He knows a grateful receiver will be a generous giver.

As a mom, I know when I’m making my daughter’s favorite meal. In fact, I know

before I even purchase the ingredients which night I plan on cooking it. I can estimate the time and energy it’ll require of me to prepare it, but there’s something about hearing words of gratitude from her mouth that bring me joy and give her peace.

When God instructs us to be thankful in Colossians 3:15—“And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts…And always be thankful”—it’s because He knows our depth of gratitude is directly related to our understanding of the peace available to us in a relationship with Jesus. They are words from a loving and gracious Father to His forgetful kids….always be thankful.

KC Parent’s Faith & Family columnist Jena Meyerpeter writes from Lenexa. She is sincerely grateful for all of her encouraging and supportive readers. You can follow more of her writings at UnravelGrace.com

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ames, Ian.” They turned their heads and regarded me with mild curiosity.

“First we’ll watch the Thanksgiving cartoons while dinner cooks, then we’ll feast. We’ll have turkey, cranberries, freshbaked rolls and for desert, pumpkin pie with whipped cream.”

They didn’t answer, but I didn’t expect them to. At ages 3 and 4, both were still preverbal. This made a conversation difficult, but we persisted. We’d talk, instruct, read and, when necessary, scold. We did almost everything to get them involved.

Sometimes, we failed and they’d wander away to continue whatever we’d interrupted.

This time, they took part. I sat in the recliner with a boy in each arm and we watched the holiday unfold in lessons of sharing and love, taught by animated films.

After dinner, we started our Christmas season with more holiday videos. Once

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again, they both nestled into my arms and stared at the TV, totally absorbed in the story.

This gave me time to reflect. They still didn’t speak, but I had hope. James had recovered from his two lazy eye surgeries

and wore glasses. His obsession with a favorite stick could be an asset in the bud, and might show a dedication to task that many adults would envy. Ian had long gotten over the stitches on his leg. He showed traces of an indomitable spirit, and his fearlessness grayed my hair, even then.

More importantly, both boys were healthy, with the exception of their yet undiagnosed autism. I gave them a hug. Their position in the recliner with me already showed a capacity for love.

We hadn’t won a lottery and were far from wealthy, but that didn’t mean we hadn’t been blessed. Sandi stood and watched us from the kitchen door. Little blessings can be easily overlooked, but they’re enough.

We’re still grateful.

William R. Bartlett lives in Belton with his family.

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Gratitude Games: make giving thanks fun for the whole family

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By its very name, Thanksgiving lends itself to reawakening gratitude in all of us. It’s a time for everyone to take stock of the many things for which they should be thankful.

But sometimes gratitude and thankfulness can be difficult concepts for children. It’s not that children aren’t appreciative of what they have; it’s just that they sometimes take it all for granted or don’t know how to express their thanks. Here are some ways to instill gratitude and thankfulness in your children not just at Thanksgiving, but year round!

the gratitude scavenger hunt This activity will get your kids up and moving and will help them to really see the world around them. Give your children a

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list of categories and ask them to find things around the house or neighborhood that they are thankful for. You can give them a camera to take a photo of each object or just have them write everything down. For older kids you may want to make it a competition to see how many they can find in a set amount of time. If you have little children who can’t write yet, just walk around with them and each point out things that fit each category.

Use our sample checklist or make up your own categories…choose things that are important to you and your family.

the turkey ticket Most children can list a couple of things they are thankful for, but it’s good to press

them to really think about how many things make them happy and healthy. For this activity, find a long sheet of paper (or use a blank receipt roll) and ask every member of the family to FILL the sheet with things they are grateful for. Make the paper as long as you’d like, but try to push everyone to go beyond the basics and think of things that they take for granted.

(Adapted from Lets-Get-Together.com)

thanksgiving tree, gratitude wreath or thankful turkey These activities not only instill gratitude but they also provide you with Thanksgiving decorations! Cut leaf or feather shapes out of colorful paper and have your children write

It’s not that children aren’t appreciative of what they have; it’s just that they sometimes take it all for granted or don’t know how to express their thanks. something that they are thankful for on each one. Leaves can be tied with ribbon onto a “tree” made of real tree branches or glued into a circle to form a wreath. Feathers can be added to a turkey made of construction paper. Keep these creations and enjoy looking back on how your children’s lists of blessings change throughout the years. Toddlers once thankful for Elmo or Cheerios may grow into teenagers thankful for a car and iPods.

thanksgiving ABCs Print out a sheet with the alphabet down the left side and have kids think of one thing they are thankful for that begins with each letter of the alphabet. Work together with younger kids or make it into a game for older kids by timing them.

thanksgiving placemats Help your children create placemats for your Thanksgiving meal like Kansas mom Carolyn Schneider did. She suggests cutting out leaf or pumpkin shapes from colorful paper and having kids (and adults!) write the things they are thankful for on each shape. Be sure to include the family members who will be joining you on Thanksgiving and other things important

to your family. You can even include real fall leaves if you like! Glue these shapes and leaves onto a larger sheet of paper or cardboard and laminate or cover with contact paper to make them easy to wipe off.

You will be able to use these for years to come!

show thanks Encourage children to express their gratitude by writing thank you notes or drawing pictures for the people in their lives. These can be for the closest people in their lives, like grandparents and teachers, or you can go one step further and ask your kids to think about community helpers who make their lives better or safer. Cards for local firefighters, crossing guards, garbage men or neighbors will be much appreciated.

Better yet, bake cookies to go along with your notes! Your children will see the faces of their community members light up upon receiving thanks for what they do, which will teach your kids how enjoyable it is to express thankfulness.

serve the community To really show children how important it is to be thankful for what they have, take them to Harvesters or another food bank

or pantry in town to help package food or serve a meal. Harvesters often hosts special evenings just for families with activities before the work begins. This can be fun for your family, but even more important, your children will have to imagine what it would be like to be without food or other things they take for granted. They will understand how good it feels to help others and, hopefully, walk away with a new appreciation for the things they enjoy every day. Go to Harvesters.org for more information about their family volunteering opportunities.

Whatever activities you choose, make gratitude a priority this month and throughout the year. Your children will learn empathy and become more selfless as they realize how much they have to be thankful for. And you just might have fun together as a family while you give thanks

Sara Keenan lives in Brookside with her family. They enjoy volunteering at Harvesters together and will have a gratitude wreath on their door this year.

Sample checklist for the Gratitude Scavenger Hunt: We are surrounded by things to be thankful for!

Find something….

• That tastes good • That makes you laugh • That gives you comfort • That used to be hard/scary for you • That you use everyday • You can share with your brother/ • That loves you sister/friends • You couldn’t live without • You enjoy learning about • That is beautiful • Colorful

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On Oct. 3, 1863, President Abraham Lincoln declared Thanksgiving a national holiday, writing, “I do therefore invite my fellow citizens in every part of the United States, and also those who are at sea and those who are sojourning in foreign lands, to set apart and observe the last Thursday of November next, as a day of thanksgiving and praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens.”

the first thanksgiving The Pilgrims arrived at Plymouth in 1620. History tells us that they learned to survive in their new settlement with the aid of Squanto, a member of the Wampanoag tribe, who taught them how to farm the land and live off the soil. In 1621, Chief Massasoit visited the Pilgrim settlement, and they signed a pledge to treat one another peaceably. To celebrate the harvest and their new friendship, they celebrated the first Thanksgiving with a feast of deer, corn,

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shellfish and roasted meat and three days of ballgames, singing and dancing.

sightseeing: Kansas City displays a bronze statue by Cyrus Dallin in memory of Massasoit at 47th & Main. You can visit the statue on Thanksgiving Day when you head to the Plaza for the annual lighting ceremony.

Also, visit the Nelson-Atkins Museum (4525 Oak, Kansas City, MO, nc.NelsonAtkins.org/collections/collection-historyAmericanIndian.cfm), where you can explore a 6,100-square-foot American Indian Art collection.

the first thanksgiving in Kansas City In 1920, The Evening Public Ledger published an article written by Mrs. M.A. Wilson about the food served at the first Thanksgiving in Kansas City in 1856. The holiday was celebrated throughout the

United States from the earliest days, even before President Lincoln made it a national holiday. She wrote, “A recent visit to Kansas City, Mo., while looking for good things for this corner, led me out to the Shawnee missions, in the beautiful misty mission hills of Kansas, which are in a spur of the Ozarks. High upon the summit of the hills stands the council grove, or as it is now called, Shawnee Park.” She then tells of her interview with an early pioneer: “Mrs. Belle Robinson, now about 85 years of age, though she is as straight as a sapling and has a very merry twinkle in her eyes, recalls the early pioneer days about the Shawnee missions. These missions are so called because a group of Indian missions were located close together in these hills, where one may stand today, shading the eyes with the hand, and watch the sun sink amid the

splendor of a riotous color into the west.

The country in those days contained wild game, fish from the nearby waters, moose, buffalo, and, as Mrs. Robinson said, it came back to her, just as if it were yesterday, the most troublesome period, when Governor Geary appointed November 20, 1856, as a day of Thanksgiving for the advent of peace.

She was a young woman of 16 in those days and, as she remembers it, the celebration was done in a right hearty manner. As you will imagine, the greatest attraction of the day was the dinner.” Of the meal, she says, “A combination of French, Spanish and New England cooking prevailed. Here is an old 1856 Kansas City Thanksgiving dinner: onion soup, barbecue of beef, homemade relishes, yams, succotash, homemade relish and pickles, roast duck, pepper cabbage, wapsie pudding, tea and coffee.”

(Source: OCBarbecue.blogspot.com/2012/11/ the-first-thanksgiving-dinner-in-kansas.html)

sightseeing: The Shawnee Indian Mission (3403 W. 53rd St., Fairway, KS) still stands on the site of this meal. The museum is open to the public April through October (KSHS.org/p/shawnee-indian-missionplan-your-visit/15901).

Kansas City’s thanksgiving tradition Kansas City’s Thanksgiving tradition since 1930 is the lighting of the Country Club Plaza Christmas lights. In 1925, Charles Pitrat, head of the Nichols Company maintenance operation, placed a single 6-foot strand of 16 colored lightbulbs across the doorway of the Suydam Building, the Plaza’s first building. Five years later, the first lighting ceremony took place. The only holiday the Plaza lights did not operate was in 1973, when President Nixon called upon all Americans to curtail the use of Christmas lights to reduce dependence on foreign oil imports. Now, the entire Country Club Plaza is decked in holiday splendor every year, maintaining its role as a “nighttime fairyland.” The annual ceremony includes live music, fireworks and the celebrity “switch flipping” that bedazzles

the Country Club Plaza in Christmas style with 80 miles of colorful lights! (Source: CountryClubPlaza.com/event/plazalighting-ceremony/plaza-lights-fun-facts/)

sightseeing: Visit the Country Club Plaza to see the lights Thanksgiving through mid-January (CountryClubPlaza.com). Tip: A lights test occurs Wednesday before Thanksgiving, from 2:00 to 6:00 in the morning. Sneaking a peek at the Plaza Lights has become a popular tradition for families in the metro.

giving thanks and giving back As we reflect on the history of Thanksgiving, we recognize it’s a time both of giving thanks and also reaching out and giving to others. For local families, here are a few ideas to show appreciation to others and help those in need.

• Our service men and women overseas

are often unable to call their own families over the holidays because of the high cost of international phone calls. Cell Phones for Soldiers (CellPhonesForSoldiers.com) is a non-profit organization that provides free calling cards and cell phones to active duty military members and veterans. The organization was founded in 2004 and since that time has provided 213 million minutes of free talk time and an average of 12,000 calling cards each week. Last year, the organization expanded its outreach by launching Helping Heroes Home, to provide emergency funds for returning veterans to alleviate communication

challenges, as well as physical, emotional and assimilation hardships. You can say thanks to our military by giving back in a tangible way, bringing joy to families this holiday season.

• Share with your neighbors. In your own

neighborhood, do you have friends who are unable to visit family over the holidays?

Invite them to join your celebration.

Perhaps you know of a shut-in in your neighborhood without family nearby.

Delivering a hot meal and taking time for a visit can brighten that person’s day.

• Help feed the hungry. An estimated 1

in 6 Americans suffers hunger every day. You can donate or volunteer with organizations to help the cause. Harvesters (Harvesters.org), Kansas City’s local food network, accepts donations and volunteer assistance. Families can work together at local food banks, soup kitchens and mobile pantries (volunteers must be at least 6 years old), or you may donate at a local collection site.

• Brainstorm. Ask your children at your

own dinner table if they can think of someone they would like to help. Do you have a friend or loved one you would like to bless this Thanksgiving? Perhaps you know of someone you can show friendship to this holiday season with a little bit of extra time and love.

Kristina Light looks forward to watching the Plaza lighting ceremony with her family every Thanksgiving. She is thankful to call KC home.

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On Nov. 10, head to your local MCPL branch for a 50th Birthday Celebration. Enjoy fun activities, refreshments, a free book and much more!

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Celebrate the start of the season with Kiss Under the Clock on Nov. 21 at Union Station.

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Have you ever seen Santa swim? Head to the Kansas City Zoo Nov. 27-29 to see Santa Dives with Penguins!

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1 Sunday Farmers Market 7:00, the City Market. The market offers a variety of fresh produce, meat, specialty groceries, flowers and gift items from nearby farms. TheCityMarket.org Special Swim 9:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Meet and join other families and people with different abilities in a special swim time before pools open to public. Free. 913.895.6391 The Great Pumpkin Fest 11:00, Worlds of Fun. Last day of the season at Worlds of Fun. Enjoy scare-free daytime fun and take one final spin on the rides. WorldsOfFun.com Day of the Dead Family Festival Noon, Nelson-Atkins. Celebrate with dancing, artistic demonstrations and art activities. Fun for the entire family! Nelson-Atkins.org

2 Monday Messengers of Goodwill Thru January, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Special exhibit on how dolls were used to mend diplomatic relations. $5. 816.235.8000 Moms FREE Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms are free at the Children’s EduTainment Center with a paid child’s admission. 816.246.5224 Toddler Takeover 10:00, Kansas City North Community Center. Bring your little ones under 4 to run and play in the gym. $1. 816.784.6100 Parent Information Meeting 7:00, Primrose School of Overland Park.

Learn more about the new Primrose School coming to North Olathe.

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3 Tuesday Skippy Jon Jones 10:00, H&R Block City Stage. The KC premiere of a musical based on the book about a Siamese cat with big ears and an even bigger imagination. TYA.org Coffee Playground 10:00, OP First Assembly of God. Free play in the gym for kids 5 and under. Inflatables, scooters, balls and other toys!

OverlandParkMOPS.com Creative Story Time 11:00, Ceramic Café. Read a book and then paint a ceramic item that goes along with the story. Finish with a snack. $9.50.

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4 Wednesday Free Play Cedar Ridge Christian Church. Daily free play for young children while parents enjoy a coffee drink. 913.393.3000 Sing-Along Show 10:00, Paul Mesner Studio. Take a musical road trip with puppeteer Mike Horner and his singing dog, Ringo! $7.50-$13.00.

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Cutting Horse Show Thru Friday, Hale Arena (American Royal). Riders cut each day, and the event culminates with finals and bareback cutting on Friday evening. Ticketmaster.com Children’s Corner 10:00, Matt Ross Community Center. A fun, free morning of entertainment the first Wednesday of the month. Today see Rockin’ Rob! 913.895.6390

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Fly Guy & Other Stories Nov. 13, 10:00 & 11:00, Folly Theater. A new musical revue based on several favorite children’s books including Fly Guy and Lilly’s Big Day. FollyTheater.org

Animal Tales 10:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center.

A 30-minute program that includes stories, songs and a visit from an animal friend. Today’s theme: animal riddles. $2. 913.764.7759

5 Thursday Sensory Time 9:00, Johnson County Museum.

Kidscape can be loud; this special time is for kids with sensory integration and processing needs. 913.715.2575

Ladies Night 5:30, Bank of Blue Valley (Leawood). Start your holiday shopping early with 30 different vendors, plus food and drinks! Ages 18+. Free admission!

913.234.3000 Discover Leonardo da Vinci 6:30, Union Station. Join KCPT at Da Vinci: The Exhibition for exclusive access to the exhibit. KCPT.org/events

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Preschool Bowling 10:00, Mission Bowl (Olathe). Receive one game of bowling, shoes, ball and a soft drink for only $3.

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Opening Day 6:00-9:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. KC’s only public outdoor rink opens for its 43rd season. Enjoy free skating, coffee and hot chocolate. 816.247.8411

Caffeine Crawl Thru Sunday, Various locations.

Explore some new shops you’ve heard about and enjoy a sample at each stop. $25-$35.

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Pay-for-Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Kids explore 17 play sets and munch on snacks at the picnic tables. $2. 913.307.6023

Story Time 10:30 & 11:15, Wonderscope. Join us in our ArtWorks Exhibit for story time. This is free with museum admission. Wonderscope.org

Open Gym Noon, Integrity Gymnastics. A great time to practice, get familiar with the gym and for kids to release energy. $6. IntegrityOP.com

Kid Games: Lego Palooza 4:00, MCPL (Liberty Branch). Connect, cooperate and compete in a variety of games that are fun for your brain.

Game on! Pre-reg at MYMCPL.org.

Mistletoe Madness Today & tomorrow, Gamber Center (Lee’s Summit). Cross a name off of your gift list by shopping lots of retailers in one spot. 816.969.1581

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Galleries and shops remain open the first Friday of each month. KCCrossroads.org

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Holiday Open House Thru Sunday, Downtown Lee’s Summit. Check out wonderful decorating and gift ideas our stores have to offer.

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Great Pumpkin Smash Today & tomorrow, Kansas City Zoo. Watch as the zoo’s animals crush, play, kick and bounce those big orange pumpkins! KansasCityZoo.org

Dance for Kindness 12:30, KC Live! Stage (Power & Light District). A world wide event in celebration of World Kindness Day. To participate, pre-reg at DanceForKindness.com.

Tween Night 6:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire.

Don’t spend Friday at home; spend it with us! $25 for drinks, pizza and pottery.

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British Faire & Tea 10:00, Shawnee Civic Center. Join the Daughters of the British Empire for the British Faire and Tea Fundraiser.

Tea served at 11:00, 12:15, 1:30 and 2:45.

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Looking for American Indians on the Trails 1:00, Nat’l Frontier Trails Museum. Using a special brochure, learn about the Plains Indians and pioneers in the American West.

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Nature Printmaking 10:00, Anita B Gorman Discovery Center. Have fun while creating a beautiful leaf print to take home and frame.

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Illustration Station 1:00, Olathe Downtown Library. Discover picture book art! Drop in and explore the style of five illustrators.

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Veterans Day Parade 10:00, Main Street Belton. Parade honoring the men and women who have served in the armed services.

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Crazy Hair Tour 6:30. Colonial Presbyterian Church. An event for tween girls (8-12) and moms which focuses on relationships and embracing inner beauty. CrazyHair.ColonialKC.org

Stars and Stripes Windsock 11:00, Lakeshore Learning. Celebrate veterans and the United States with this red, white and blue windsock to fly at home. Free. LakeshoreLearning.com

Urban Bush Women 7:00, Yardley Hall (JCCC).

Contemporary dance and music woven with the history, culture and spiritual traditions of African-Americans. JCCC.edu/theseries

Open Gym 12:30, Elite Gymnastics & Aquatics.

Run, jump and play in the foam pit, rope swings and more. EliteGymSwim.com

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Ghosts in the Night 7:00, KCPL (Plaza Branch).

Listen to featured tellers reveal chilling stories of ghosts, ghouls and goblins! 816.604.3007

7 Saturday Build a Veteran’s Day Jet 9:00, Home Depot Stores. Start a conversation about the meaning of Veteran’s Day with this project. Free.

HomeDepot.com Holiday Boutique 9:00, Indian Creek Community Church. Come out for a unique shopping experience with local vendors and consignors. MopsAtTheCreek.blogspot.com Storytelling Celebration 9:30, MCCC-Maple Woods. A full day of storytelling fun featuring River & Weaver storytellers. KCStorytelling.org

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Turkey Bowling on Ice Nov. 14, 2:00, Line Creek Community Center. Win a Thanksgiving turkey by knocking down the most pins with a frozen turkey. 816.505.2423 Hayrides 2:30, Oak Ridge (Shawnee Mission Park). Enjoy the crisp autumn air from a tractordrawn hay wagon. $6.50/person. Pre-reg at 913.831.3355.

Owl Prowl 7:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center.

An informative talk featuring live owls and an evening hike through the park. $8-$9.

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9 Monday Story Time for Toddlers 9:30, MCPL (North Oak). Enjoy a fun and interactive story time just for toddlers and their caregivers. Free.

816.436.4385 All You Can Play Day 10:00, Cool Crest. For only $10, enjoy unlimited mini golf, two go-kart rides and 10 arcade tokens. CoolCrest.com Toddle Time 10:00, Bonner Springs Community Center. Kids 9 months through 5 years will enjoy playing on the large assortment of toys. $2. BonnerSprings.org

Power Hour 1:00, Little Monkey Bizness.

Arrive between 1:00 and 3:00 on Mondays and Wednesdays and admission is just $5 plus tax!

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10 Tuesday Veterans Day Breakfast Celebration 8:30, Matt Ross Community Center. Join the color guard as they carry the flag to honor veterans. Breakfast by Chris Cakes. Pre-reg at 913.642.6410.

Skippy Jon Jones 10:00, H&R Block City Stage. The KC premiere of a musical based on the book about a Siamese cat with big ears and an even bigger imagination. TYA.org UPHA American Royal National Championship Thru Saturday, Kemper Arena.

The best saddlebreds, hackney ponies and road horses compete. AmericanRoyal.com

50th Birthday Celebration MCPL Branches.

Join at your local branch to celebrate 50 years with activities, refreshments, a free book and more! MYMCPL.org/1965 Veterans Day Celebration 5:00, Washington and Olive Streets (Raymore). Celebrate veterans and dedication of new shelter. Raymore.com Belgium’s Passion and Ours, Chocolate!

6:30, Shawnee Town 1929. Learn the art of making chocolate just in time for the holidays and gift giving! $10. ShawneeTown.org

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IT’S TURKEY TIME, KANSAS CITY! GOBBLE UP LOADS OF FUN WITH THESE EVENTS Turkey Watching

Burr Oak Woods Nature Center (1401 NW Park Rd., Blue Springs, MO, 816.228.3766, MDC.mo.gov). Admission: FREE. Burr Oak Woods Nature Center is home to wild turkeys, and the bird watching center is a wonderful observation room where families can watch the birds strut and gobble!

Paint Me a Story – Thanksgiving Turkey Theme

Friday, Nov. 13, 10:30-11:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire Ceramics & Coffee House (12683 Metcalf Ave., Overland Park, PaintGlazeAndFire.net). Paint a special pottery project that goes along with a favorite children’s book. A wonderful time for parents (grandparents or nanny) and children to listen to a story and paint together!

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Saturday, Nov. 14, 2:00-4:00, Line Creek Community Center & Ice Arena (5940 NW Waukomis Dr., KCParks.org). Admission: $6 or free with donation of canned goods.

Bowl on ice using a frozen turkey!

The person who knocks down the most pins with a frozen turkey wins a free turkey.

Animal Tales: Turkey Strut

Wednesday, Nov. 18, 10:30-11:00, Ernie Miller Nature Park (909 N. Hwy. 7, Olathe, KS, ErnieMiller.com).

Admission: $2/person, paid at site.

Visit the nature center for stories, songs and surprises geared to preschool children, who must be accompanied by an adult. Come listen, learn and meet a special animal friend.

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A 5k run on Thanksgiving morning at 9:00, and a 2-mile walk at 9:15, English Landing Park, Parkville, MO (816.213.0243, ParkvilleTurkeyTrot.org).

Enjoy the 27th annual Parkville Turkey Trail Trot!

Love at first bite!

11 Wednesday Veterans Day Thank a veteran for his or her service to our nation!

Pop ‘n Play 9:00, Johnson County Museum.

A drop-in program with age-appropriate activities for children 9 months to 3 years old.

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Baby Bounce Story Time 9:30, Plaza Branch.

A special story time for babies (newborn to 18 months) with parent or caregiver.

816.701.3481 Homeschool Program: For the Birds 1:30, Olathe Downtown Library. Learn about local birds and make simple bird feeders.

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Give Thanks Centerpiece Nov. 21, 11:00, Lakeshore Learning. Create a turkey centerpiece and list on it all the things for which you are thankful! Free. LakeshoreLearning.com

Pay-for-Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Kids explore 17 play sets and munch on snacks at the picnic tables. $2. 913.307.6023 Little Acorns: Treasure Hunt 11:00, Burr Oak Woods. Learn how to read a treasure map then set off on a surprising adventure down the trail.

Ages 3-5. 816.228.3766 Sugarplum Festival Thru Saturday, AlbrechtKemper Museum of Art. Annual kickoff to the holiday season. Upscale gift gallery, holiday lunch café and more. 816.233.7003 Mary Poppins Thru Sunday, the Bell Center (MNU). Come be amazed by a professional, fulllength stage production of this family favorite!

Presented by CYT. CYTKC.org Major League Improv 7:30, ComedyCity. A comedy sporting event where everything is based on suggestions from the audience. $9-$13. 816.842.2744

13 Friday Fly Guy & Other Stories 10:00 & 11:00, Folly Theater. A new musical revue based on several favorite children’s books including Fly Guy and Lilly’s Big Day. FollyTheater.org Paint Me a Story 10:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire.

Paint a pottery piece that goes along with a favorite story. Snack included. $13-$15. Pre-reg.

913.661.2529 Ladies Night 2:00, Family Tree Nursery. Stop by any of our three locations for tasty snacks, drinks, music and 20 percent off your entire purchase! FamilyTreeNursery.com

14 Saturday Buck O’Neil 2.2-Mile Walk & 5K Run 9:00, Negro Leagues Baseball Museum. Race through historic KCMO at this run, presented by the Negro Leagues Baseball Museum. Active.com Gift Gallery 9:00, Curé of Ars. More than 40 artisans and vendors selling unique and upscale items in a festive atmosphere. $5 at the door. GiftGalleryKC.com.

Fun Funky Second Friday 5:00, Downtown Excelsior Springs. Enjoy feature artists, music, dining and shopping. 816.630.6161 Middle School Teen Night 7:00, Paradise Park.

It’s going to get bumpy! For only $15 get a “pick 3” wristband and the chance to be the bumper car champ! Paradise-Park.com

Holiday Gift and Craft Fair 9:00, Episcopal Church of the Resurrection (Blue Springs). Various hand-crafted items, vendors and homemade treats. Episcopal-BlueSprings.org

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WILD KRATTS CREATURE CHRISTMAS Wednesday, November 25 at 7am & 3pm

Nikita’s Birthday Party 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Nikita’s turning 9, and we’re having a polar sized party just for him! KansasCityZoo.org Holly Festival Craft Fair Today & tomorrow, Bernard Campbell Middle School. Crafts for sale along with concessions, face painter, Santa and more! LSCares.org Kids Lab: Science Saturday (Skyscrapers) 10:00, MCPL (Liberty). Have you ever built a skyscraper? Come join us and have a friendly competition. Pre-reg at 816.781.9240.

Kristdindlmarkt 10:00, Turners-GACA. German Christmas craft fair. Dancers, singers, holiday shopping and lunch. GACAOfKC.org Thanksgiving Door Hanger 11:00, Lakeshore Learning. Celebrate fall and the upcoming holiday with a door hanger made with fun fall colors. Free. LakeshoreLearning.com Wonderpalooza 11:00, Wonderscope.

Jump, shake and wiggle to the beat with top kid-friendly musicians! Today, Rockin’ Rob. Wonderscope.org Turkey Bowling on Ice 2:00, Line Creek Community Center. Win a Thanksgiving turkey by knocking down the most pins with a frozen turkey. 816.505.2423

Holiday Open House 5:30, Downtown Weston. Holiday parade with Father Christmas, followed by tree lighting. Shops open late.

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Toddle Time 10:00, Community Center (Bonner Springs). Kids 9 months through 5 years will enjoy playing on the large assortment of toys. $2. BonnerSprings.org

Pink Floyd: Classic Albums Live 8:00, Yardley Hall (JCCC). Note for note, cut for cut, a dozen or more of the world’s greatest musicians will light Dark Side of the Moon. JCCC.edu/theseries

Power Hour 1:00, Little Monkey Bizness.

Arrive between 1:00 and 3:00 on Mondays and Wednesdays and admission is just $5 plus tax! 913.631.7000

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Farmers Market 6:00, the City Market. The market offers a variety of fresh produce, meat, specialty groceries, flowers and gift items from nearby farms. TheCityMarket.org

Holiday Dress Up Event 10:00, Children’s Orchard (Olathe, KCMO & Blue Springs). Get the perfect look for winter at the perfect price.

ChildrensOrchard.com

Football Fundays Noon, Paradise Park. With 15 TVs, Paradise Park is the best place for football fans to watch the big game each week!

816.246.5224

Da Vinci: The Exhibition Thru May 1, Union Station. Explore Leonardo da Vinci’s genius and experience his creations.

UnionStation.org

art + family = FUN 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Join us every Saturday and Sunday for free activities for all ages! 816.751.1278

Creative Story Time 11:00, Ceramic Café.

Read a book and then paint a ceramic item that goes along with the story. Finish with a snack. $9.50. CeramicCafeKC.com

16 Monday Messengers of Goodwill Thru January, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures.

Special exhibit on how dolls were used to mend diplomatic relations. $5. 816.235.8000

Tots on Tuesday 11:00, Kemper Museum.

Bring in your preschooler for a fun and fashionable get-together every third Tuesday.

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Disney’s The Little Mermaid Nov. 19-21, The Culture House. In a magical kingdom beneath the sea lives a beautiful young mermaid, Ariel. See her story come to life! CultureHouse.com

Mayor’s Tree Lighting 6:00, Macken Park (North Kansas City). Pony rides, hot chocolate, listen to The Night Before Christmas and turn on the new holiday lights. 816.300.0545 Conservation Kids Club 6:30, Burr Oak Woods.

Discover the treasure of late fall’s bounty from some native nut bearing trees. Ages 7-13.

Pre-reg at 816.228.3766 Parent Information Meeting 7:00, Primrose School of Overland Park. Learn more about the new Primrose School coming to North Olathe.

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18 Wednesday St Nick Today and Nov. 23, Kia Bondurant.

Expanding this year’s popular photo shoot to two different sets. Book early! KiaBondurant.com Toddle Time 9:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Open playtime with an array of toys, including blocks, balls and puzzles. $1-$2.

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Animal Tales 10:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. A 30-minute program that includes stories, songs and a visit from an animal friend. Today’s theme: Turkey Strut. $2. 913.764.7759 Rockin’ Ramblin’ Readers 10:30, Trails West Library. Bring your little ones for a story time with music and great books, followed by a fun activity for all to enjoy. Free. 816.701.3483 Open Gym Noon, Integrity Gymnastics. A great time to practice, get familiar with the gym and for kids to release energy. $6. IntegrityOP.com The Speakeasy Society: The Jazz Age Exposed 7:00, Shawnee Town 1929. Come for a swanky evening of secrets, spirits and fun. Dress up if you wish. Date night! ShawneeTown.org

A Charlie Brown Christmas 10:00 & Noon, the Coterie Theatre. See this animated classic come alive with a real jazz trio.

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Preschool Bowling 10:00, Mission Bowl (Olathe). Receive one game of bowling, shoes, ball and a soft drink for only $3.

MissionBowl.com

Sensory Time 9:00, Johnson County Museum.

Kidscape can be loud; this special time is for kids with sensory integration and processing needs. 913.715.2575

Pay-for-Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists.

Kids explore 17 play sets and munch on snacks at the picnic tables. $2. 913.307.6023

Holiday Lighting Ceremony 6:00, Martin City Business District. Musical entertainment, decorated storefronts and a surprise guest to flip the switch! MartinCity.org

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Gallery of Trees 6:00, Olde Mill Emporium (Parkville). Date night! The evening features a silent and live auction, dinner, music, awards, holiday spirits and more. ParkvilleMO.org

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Disney’s The Little Mermaid Thru Nov 21, the Culture House. In a magical kingdom beneath the sea lives a beautiful young mermaid, Ariel.

See her story come to life! CultureHouse.com

20 Friday Kevin Locke Native Dance Ensemble 9:45, Yardley Hall (JCCC). Traditional arts forms presented on the flute and drums, in song and through ritual dances. JCCC.edu/theseries Two-Day Baby Buck Sale Today & tomorrow, Children’s Orchard (Olathe, KCMO & Blue Springs). Particular resale items NB to 18 months are now only $1! ChildrensOrchard.com

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Sing-Along Show 10:00, Paul Mesner Studio.

Take a musical road trip with puppeteer Mike Horner and his singing dog, Ringo! $7.50$13.00. PaulMesnerPuppets.org

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Peanut Butter Lovers Month: Indulge in a madefrom-scratch peanut butter cup from Chip’s Chocolate Factory at Crown Center.

Nov. 3, Sandwich Day: Eat a KC original at Browne’s Irish Market (3300 Pennsylvania Ave., Kansas City, MO, 816.561.0030, BrownesMarket.com), where you can enjoy handmade sandwiches, Irish potato soup, Irish stew, Dublin potato salad and more, as well as Irish souvenirs.

Nov. 16, Have a Party with Your Bear Day: Visit the National Museum of Toys & Miniatures (816.235.8000), where exhibits celebrate favorite childhood playthings. You’ll find teddy bears throughout the museum—even in miniature in dollhouses.

Nov. 17, Take a Hike Day: The metro offers many great places to hike! Search “Get Lost in the Woods” on KCParent. com to find a great trail nearby.

National Model Railroad Month: Visit Union Station and take a walk through the KC Model Rail Experience (UnionStation.org), a free model train exhibit in the Grand Hall featuring 8,000 square feet of track to explore.

Nov. 18, Mickey Mouse’s Birthday: Mickey Mouse was inspired by a pet mouse Walt Disney loved at his KC Laugh-O-Gram studio. Watch a Mickey Mouse film in celebration of his official film debut on Nov. 18, 1928, in the film Steamboat Willie.

Nov. 22, Go for a Ride Day: Head to Independence for a horse-drawn wagon ride with Pioneer Trails Adventures (PioneerTrailsAdventures.com) or take a historic trolley tour of Kansas City with KC Fun Trolleys (KCFunTours.com).

Nov. 26, Thanksgiving Day: It’s a day of gratitude and family. Finish it off with a Kansas City tradition as the Country Club Plaza Christmas lights turn on for the season!

Nov. 27, Black Friday: Time to start your holiday shopping! The stores at Legends Outlets open at midnight and will have great deals on all your favorite brands.

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Nov. 6, Saxophone Day: Celebrate Kansas City’s own saxophonist, Charlie Parker, with a visit to his memorial statue and the American Jazz Museum (AmericanJazzMuseum.org).

Nov. 11, Veterans Day: Celebrate at the National World War I Museum and Memorial (100 W. 26th St., Kansas City, MO, 816.888.8100) with a ceremony commemorating America’s veterans.

Best Little Arts and Crafts Show in Independence Today & tomorrow, Roger T Sermon Center. Fine arts, crafts and homegrown products. 816.325.7370 Junior Jaunts 10:15, Nelson-Atkins. An adult-focused, yet infant-friendly, mini tour of the museum. Free. Nelson-Atkins.org Opening Day 11:00, The Ice at Park Place. First day of the season at Johnson County’s only outdoor skating rink. ParkPlaceLeawood.com Holiday Open House Thru Sunday, Family Tree Nursery locations. See the garden center as a magical winter wonderland. Forests of trees, lights and decorations. FamilyTreeNursery.com Third Friday Art Walk 5:30, Englewood Station Arts District. Tour the art galleries. View live performances and artists on the sidewalks in front of shops. EnglewoodStation.com Parkville Winter Wonderland Thru Dec 28, Downtown Parkville. Main Street and English Landing Center are decorated with lights, displays and Santa. ParkvilleMo.org Mayor’s Tree Lighting 6:30, Downtown Lee’s Summit. Get in the holiday spirit with hot cider and cookies, Santa and Christmas lights. Free.

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21 Saturday Kids in the Kitchen 10:00, Jo Co K-State Research and Extension. Join us to learn the basics of fall food. We’ll also cover food safety.

Pre-reg at 913.715.7000.

Story Time in the Barn 10:00, Alexander Majors House. Family-friendly story time in the barn every third Saturday of the month. Ages 3-8. 816.444.1858 Scavenger Saturdays 10:00, Kemper Museum of Art. Follow the clues on this “ART-astic” adventure! 816.753.578 Give Thanks Centerpiece 11:00, Lakeshore Learning. Create a turkey centerpiece and list on it all the things for which you are thankful!

Free. LakeshoreLearning.com

Story Time at the Museum 1:00, National World War l Museum. Listen to a heartwarming tale of wartime kindness. TheWorldWar.org 30th Birthday Celebration 1:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Celebrate the nature center’s 30th birthday! Stories, animal presentations, crafts and more. 913.764.7759 Kris Kringle and K-9’s 1:00, Waggin Trail Park.

A special event for K-9s! Get pictures taken with Santa and a stocking filled with treats.

NKC.org Kids Night Out at the Y 5:00, North Kansas City YMCA. Children ages 2-11 will enjoy a fun night at the Y while parents get a night out. $15-$25. 816.300.0531 Legendary Tree Lighting Ceremony 6:00, Legends Outlets. Enjoy music, prizes, Santa and the tree being lit for the season. A great way to kick off the season! LegendsOutlets.com Northern Lights Ceremony 6:00, Zona Rosa.

Kick off the 2015 holiday season with a special lighting ceremony to spotlight the large crowns. ZonaRosa.com A Christmas Carol Thru Dec 26, Spencer Theatre. The KC Rep’s performance returns for its 35th season. A favorite holiday tradition!

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22 Sunday Farmers Market 7:00, the City Market. The market offers a variety of fresh produce, meat, specialty groceries, flowers and gift items from nearby farms. TheCityMarket.org Messengers of Goodwill Thru January, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures.

Special exhibit on how dolls were used to mend diplomatic relations. $5. 816.235.8000 art + family = FUN 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Join us every Saturday and Sunday for free activities for all ages!

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Kiss Under the Clock Noon, Union Station.

Fifth annual radio remote with 99.7, the Point.

Holiday lighting ceremony at 5:30 plus lots of events throughout the day. UnionStation.org

Story Time for Toddlers 9:30, MCPL (North Oak). Enjoy a fun and interactive story time just for toddlers and their caregivers. Free.

816.436.4385

Open Gym 12:30, Elite Gymnastics & Aquatics.

Run, jump and play in the foam pit, rope swings and more. EliteGymSwim.com

All You Can Play Day 10:00, Cool Crest. For only $10, enjoy unlimited mini golf, two go-kart rides and 10 arcade tokens. CoolCrest.com

Power Hour 1:00, Little Monkey Bizness.

Arrive between 1:00 and 3:00 on Mondays and Wednesdays and admission is just $5 plus tax!

913.631.7000

24 Tuesday Toddle Time 9:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Open playtime with an array of toys, including blocks, balls and puzzles. $1-$2.

913.895.6350 Pay-for-Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Kids explore 17 play sets and munch on snacks at the picnic tables. $2. 913.307.6023 Coffee Playground 10:00, OP First Assembly of God. Free play in the gym for kids 5 and under. Inflatables, scooters, balls and other toys!

OverlandParkMOPS.com Creative Story Time 11:00, Ceramic Café. Read a book and then paint a ceramic item that goes along with the story. Finish with a snack. $9.50.

CeramicCafeKC.com Trip the Light Fantastic! 5:30, Longview Lake Campground. Enjoy a 4-mile magical bike ride through the hundreds of lighted, animated displays. Free to ride. 816.503.4800

25 Wednesday Nature Cat 7:50, KCPT. Premier of series that follows Fred, a house cat who dreams of exploring the great outdoors. KCPT.org Baby Bounce Story Time 9:30, Plaza Branch.

A special story time for babies (newborn to 18 months) with parent or caregiver.

816.701.3481 FreePlay Cedar Ridge Christian Church. Daily free play for young children while parents enjoy a coffee drink. 913.393.3000 Best Christmas Pageant Ever 10:00, H&R Block City Stage. The story of the Herdmans, who help everyone remember the true meaning of Christmas. TYA.org Open Gym Noon, Integrity Gymnastics. A great time to practice, get familiar with the gym and for kids to release energy. $6.

IntegrityOP.com Christmas in the Sky 5:00, Longview Lake Park.

Fireworks set to music kick off the season and are the opening to Christmas in the Park. Free.

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Holiday Luminary Walk Nov. 27 & 28 and Dec. 4 & 5, Overland Park Arboretum. The arboretum transforms into a wonderland of candles and lights, music and holiday fun. $8. OPKansas.org

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Holiday Savings Midnight, The Legends. Save big on all of your favorite brands. Great Black Friday deals!

LegendsShopping.com

Happy Thanksgiving, KC Parent readers! We are thankful for your 30 years of readership and support!

Black Friday Deals 9:00, US Toy. See coupon on pg 4 to receive 25% off your entire purchase.

Today only! USToy.com A Victorian Christmas 10:00, National Museum of Toys and Miniatures. Get into the holiday swing of things with Victorian-themed, family-friendly activities. 816.235.8000

Parkville Turkey Trot 9:00, English Landing Park. Participate in the 27th annual Turkey Trot. No strollers or dogs allowed.

ParkvilleTurkeyTrot.org

Paint Me a Story 10:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire.

Paint a pottery piece that goes along with a favorite story. Snack included. $13-$15. Pre-reg.

913.661.2529

86th Annual Plaza Lighting Ceremony 5:00, Country Club Plaza. Enjoy a holiday tradition like no other. CountryClubPlaza.com

Bright Light Friday 10:30, Kansas City Public Library (Plaza Branch). Sing, dance and celebrate the start of the holiday season with Mr Stinky Feet. KCLibrary.org

Santa Dives with Penguins Thru Sunday, Kansas City Zoo. What’s red and swimming with the penguins? Santa! Get a photo as penguins torpedo around him. KansasCityZoo.org Jack and the Beanstalk Today & tomorrow, Puppetry Arts Institute. A fairy tale classic of humor, suspense and a not-so-bad giant!

Hazelle.org 1860s Living History Noon, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop. Enjoy 1860s living history activities such as stagecoach rides, blacksmith and cookstove demonstrations. Mahaffie.org

A VICTORIAN CHRISTMAS / Friday, November 27 / 10AM - 4PM Deck the halls!

Cure your turkey coma with a day of family fun! Get into the holiday swing of things with a Victorian-themed craft.

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Holiday Luminary Walk Today & tomorrow, Overland Park Arboretum. The arboretum transforms into a wonderland of candles and lights, music and holiday fun. $8. OPKansas.org Mayor’s Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony 5:30, Crown Center. The 100-foot mayor’s Christmas tree is lit up to kick off the holiday season. CrownCenter.com Christmas Candlelight Tour Today & tomorrow, Harris-Kearney House. See festive decorations, enjoy Christmas Eve scenarios and tasty refreshments. $6-$10. 816.561.1821

28 Saturday Breakfast with Santa 8:30, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop. Enjoy the decorations of the Heritage Center, breakfast and a visit with Santa, and make a craft. Mahaffie.org Build a Schoolhouse Bank 9:00, Home Depot Stores. Kids learn the basics of using tools to create a bank. Free. HomeDepot.com Santa Train 9:00, 11:00 & 1:00, Belton, Grandview & KC RR. Get your tickets early for a special train ride and visit from Santa.

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All proceeds will go to Forest Avenue Family Shelter, Bolivia Orphanage

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Whoville Holidays 10:00, the City Market.

Calling Whos of all ages! Celebrate the season with the Grinch and Cindy Lou Who. TheCityMarket.org

A Christmas Carol Thru Dec 26, Spencer Theatre. The KC Rep’s performance returns for its 35th season. A favorite holiday tradition!

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Santa’s Gingerbread Station 10:00, Crown Center. Meet Santa, climb aboard a train engine and visit Gingerbread Village. CrownCenter.com

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Snowland Thru Jan 3, Great Wolf Lodge. The lodge is transformed into a winter wonderland with decorations, life-size gingerbread house, Santa and more! GreatWolf.com Picture Frame 11:00, Lakeshore Learning.

Continue celebrating and being thankful with this handmade picture frame, perfect for a family photo. Free. LakeshoreLearning.com Talking Turkey 1:00, Burr Oak Woods. Gobble up the true story of one of Missouri’s most popular game birds. All ages. 816.228.3766 A Charlie Brown Christmas 2:00 & 4:00, the Coterie Theatre. See this animated classic come alive with a real jazz trio. TheCoterie.org Major League Improv 7:30, ComedyCity. A comedy sporting event where everything is based on suggestions from the audience. $9-$13. 816.842.2744

Santa’s Wonderland Thru Dec 24, Bass Pro Shop. Enjoy an interactive play area, make crafts, write letters to the North Pole and visit Santa. BassPro.com Da Vinci: The Exhibition Thru May 1, Union Station. Explore Leonardo da Vinci’s genius and experience his creations. UnionStation.org

30 Monday Story Time for Toddlers 9:30, MCPL (North Oak).

Enjoy a fun and interactive story time just for toddlers and their caregivers. Free. 816.436.4385 All You Can Play Day 10:00, Cool Crest. For only $10, enjoy unlimited mini golf, two go-kart rides and 10 arcade tokens. CoolCrest.com Toddle Time 10:00, Bonner Springs Community Center. Kids 9 months through 5 years will enjoy playing on the large assortment of toys. $2. BonnerSprings.org

Ice Skating Noon, Park Place. Spend the day skating with the family at Johnson County’s only outdoor rink! ParkPlaceLeawood.com

Power Hour 1:00, Little Monkey Bizness.

Arrive between 1:00 and 3:00 on Mondays and Wednesdays and admission is just $5 plus tax!

913.631.7000

art + family = FUN 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Join us every Saturday and Sunday for free activities for all ages!

816.751.1278

Mayor’s Christmas Tree Lighting 5:30, Memorial Station (Belton). Enjoy entertainment, Santa, prizes, popcorn, hot chocolate and more.

BeltonCommunityProjects.com

1945 Film Series: It’s A Wonderful Life 2:00, Harry S Truman Library and Museum. An angel helps a man by showing what life would have been like if he never existed.

TrumanLibrary.org

For TONS more holiday lighting events, visit the calendar at KCParent.com!

A Country School Christmas Sat., Dec. 5th 1:00-4:00 p.m.

FREE

Join us for a 1904 Christmas celebration!

* Visit with Santa Claus * Christmas Caroling * Christmas Tales

Drop in throughout December to see the school decorated for an old-fashioned Christmas! Write your letter to Santa with a quill pen and ink, and learn how Christmas was celebrated in 1904.

Make an ornament.

Lanesfield School 18745 S. Dillie Road Edgerton, KS 913.893.6645 www.jocomuseum.org

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KEVIN LOCKE NATIVE DANCE ENSEMBLE DRUM IS THE THUNDER, FLUTE IS THE WIND 9:45 a.m. and noon (all ages) Friday, Nov. 20 Take a journey through the colorful Lakota Sioux Indian culture. Traditional arts forms handed down through generations are presented on the flute, on drums, in song and through visually compelling ritual dances.

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Family Science Night – Awesome Astronomy

Nov 7 & 8 Nov 14 Nov 14 Nov 15 Nov 20 Nov 25 Nov 27, 28, 29 Nov 28

Great Pumpkin Smash Nikita’s Birthday Celebration Zootastik Learning Fest – Red Panda Cheetah Run Goodnight Zoo – Feather Frenzy Safari Day Camp – Food Wise Santa Dives Species Spotlight – Tigers

kansascityzoo.org | 816.595.1234 The Kansas City Zoo, a private, non-profit organization is operated in agreement with the Kansas City, MO Board of Parks and Recreation Commissioners, partially funded by the Zoological District in Jackson and Clay Counties in MO, and is accredited by the Association of Zoos and Aquariums.