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hen it comes to pets, people typically fall into one of two camps: pet people or no pet people. I stand firmly in the latter. My girls, however, would like it better if I were a pet person. They desperately want a dog. And I have promised them a dog (when they are older and move out of the house, then I will get them that dog). Luckily, we have many friends and family members who are pet people, so the girls can still get their dog fill. I know that pets are important members in many families and that they provide many benefits to their people. Wendy Connelly takes a look at several developmental benefits that pets can offer kids. While a pet does not make my list of things I’m thankful for at Thanksgiving, I have so many other things that do make that list. The big things always come to mind: health, a home, a family and so much more. But sometimes it’s nice to appreciate the little things, as well. Louisburg mom Kate Meadows reflects on how we can better appreciate the little things in life on pg. 26. So, in the spirit of Thanksgiving and the little things, here’s my list on no particular day: I am thankful for my computer’s starting up without a glitch, my car full of gas, the dishwasher emptied (and not by me!), my favorite pencil having a sharp tip and hearing a beloved song on the radio. Just for today, take time to be thankful for all those little things we so often take for granted.

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QUICK QUIZ: True or False: Do Your Kids Know How to Be Cyber Safe? 1. Sharing photos on social media is totally safe because they’re on my “friends” list. False: Friends may not have their privacy settings set securely, and you can be “tagged” in their unsecure photos. 2. Giving personal information to a trusted website is always safe. False: Websites and apps have ever changing policies and may be selling your information. Read the privacy policy carefully and make wise decisions about what information you are willing to share. 3. Free games are harmless. False: Oftentimes, “free” gaming web sites and downloads have built-in malware that uses your personal information and user history for unknown purposes.

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and-Aids, spinach, shin guards, car seats, sunscreen and hand sanitizer…they’re all measures parents take to keep kids as safe as possible, but what are you doing to ensure your child is safe online? Children at younger and younger ages are accessing gaming websites, smartphone apps and social media outlets. The Web is full of opportunities for our kids to experience and see more of the world, but are we doing all we can to keep our kids as safe as possible in cyberspace? When it comes to safety online, “knowledge is power” reigns true. If you have children coming into the tween and teen years and you aren’t familiar with words like Pheed, Snapchat, Chirp or Thumb, then it may be time to update your social media vocabulary. When the Minecraft craze hit in 2012, children as young as 5 and 6 years old were creating accounts and mining away. Thankfully, legislation like COPPA (Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act) helps parents regulate personal information shared over the Internet for children in the 13 years and under crowd. COPPA requires websites and services to notify parents directly (usually through email) and gain their approval before they collect, use or disclose a child’s personal information. Larry Goodman of Computer Solutions in Mission, KS, reminds us that laws like COPPA add a layer of protection for kids online, but parental or adult regula-

tion is best. “Young children should always be supervised online,” he says. “One of the things many parents don’t realize is that Internet Explorer has built-in controls to restrict access. Simply go into the Control Panel and click on Parental Controls. Here you can restrict access to the Internet, set time schedules and restrict game usage based on content ratings.” Another piece of knowledge parents don’t often consider is protecting children from online identity theft. If a child has a social security number, then he or she can be a victim of identity theft, and that can originate from the sharing of personal information online. The Federal Trade Commission recommends being aware of warning signs like bills, collections or credit card applications in your child’s name. If you think your child’s identity is at risk, you can get a report from the three major credit bureau agencies and follow their recommendations. Equipping our children with the knowledge of how to protect themselves online is vital. As children grow, these conversations evolve because their interaction and accessibility online changes, so be sure to keep lines of communication open about online safety. The tween age can be an especially vulnerable group due to their smartphone use and high-tech capabilities. Local mom Allison Williams knows firsthand how raising a tween requires constant communication. “We talk about how once information is out in cyberspace anyone can see it, and you don’t know where it ends up. We also discuss not being able to trust what other people say and who they claim to be,” she says. “I have given examples of how people get your personal information without your even knowing it.” If your child is ready for a cell or smartphone, contact your service provider to find out what parental controls they may offer. Many parents aren’t aware of the comprehensive controls offered for phone packages like content filters, usage controls and location monitoring systems. Mom to two up-and-coming cyber-smarties, Amy Wastler is staying up-to-date with online safety options. Wastler explains, “Service-provided parental controls are an added benefit, because it is an account level change, therefore a child cannot access it.” Above all, building a trustworthy and communicative relationship with your child may be the best (and most rewarding) line of defense, so start talking today and keep cyber safety an ongoing topic in your family. Jena Meyerpeter writes from Lenexa and is mom to three cyber-smarties.

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Directions: Place the floral foam inside a clean tin can. If you are using a large piece of foam, you may need to cut it to size with a serrated knife. Insert a small branch in the foam so that it is secure. Fill the space around the foam and the top with either dried beans or lentils. You can decorate the tin can with washi tape, a piece of burlap or just a simple ribbon. Cut some leaves out of construction paper and punch a hole in each one. Every day, your children can write something they are thankful for on a leaf and hang it on the tree with a piece of yarn or string. Megan Kapple is a blogger from Kansas City, MO, where she lives with her husband and three young daughters. She loves anything DIY and crafty and blogs about her adventures at HomemadeGinger.com. kcparent.com november 2013

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family, friendship and apple pie New Books Highlight Things to Be Thankful For By McGeath Freeman

Sarah Gives Thanks

By Mike Allegra Illustrated by David Gardner Best for: Ages 4-8

This quick biography of Sarah Josepha Hale is a perfect read for the long Thanksgiving weekend. Why? Well, Hale was known for more than writing “Mary Had a Little Lamb.” She also was the driving force behind making Thanksgiving a national holiday. Sarah Gives Thanks is a fascinating look at women and families in pre-Civil War America. Sarah was a feminist before the term was coined. She had no formal education but was a voracious reader and taught herself everything she needed to know to succeed. When her husband died, she had to work to make ends meet for her household of

five children. She wrote and published a book of poems and eventually became the editor of a new publication, Ladies’ Magazine. Her publishing career gave her influence in households and businesses, and she decided to use that influence with presidents, as well. Over the years, she wrote and petitioned four different presidents in the hopes of making Thanksgiving a national holiday. Finally, Abraham Lincoln took notice, and in 1863 Hale’s dream became a reality. So those of us who love Thanksgiving need to say a big thank you to Sarah Josepha Hale this year.

What’s good: Great message about hard work and perseverance. What’s bad: More of a biography than a holiday book.

The Year Comes Round: Haiku Through the Seasons By Sid Farrar Illustrated by Ilse Plume Best for: Ages 5-7

Haiku and children are not usually two words that belong in the same sentence. Why is that? Most young children only like poetry if it has red fish and blue fish or dogs constantly on the go. In this case, your children will be as enthralled by Plume’s gentle seasonal snapshots as by the nature-inspired prose. In all, there are 13 haiku across 12 illustrated spreads. Each one represents

a month of the year. Plus, there is a bonus haiku in the back of the book. From fireflies and thunderstorms to jack-o’-lanterns and brown bears, the poems take the reader on a journey, which covers the cycle of life on planet Earth. The poems are not titled, nor are they labeled for a specific month. This makes for a fun game and discussion to see whether you can match each month with a haiku.

What’s good: Great book for a bedtime story. What’s bad: It’s difficult for adults to understand haiku, let alone children.

Dogs of War

By Sheila Keenan Illustrated by Nathan Fox Best for: Boys, ages 9-14

This graphic novel tells the story of three dogs in three major wars: World War I, World War II and Vietnam. Each tale highlights the bond between a soldier and man’s best friend. The art draws you in and conveys the emotion with strength and compassion. From the Christmas truce in trenches at Ypres in 1914 to a southern trailer park after Vietnam, these tales help new generaWhat’s good: High suspense and fantastic illustrations. What’s bad: Shallow character and plot development.

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tions understand the toll of war and the sacrifices that were made by both man and dog. The back of the graphic novel holds a very in-depth author’s note, as well as a couple pages of books, DVDs and websites that offer further information about both dogs in war and other events of wars past.

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or Natalie Burger of Platte City, adoption wasn’t as much to fulfill a desire to be a mother, but more to help out a child in need. “We had two empty bedrooms in our house, and we heard of a situation in which a child needed a home. For us, it was more that we felt compelled to give a child a home rather than to find a child for our home,” Burger says. Both of Burger’s children were adopted at what is considered an older age—one was 4 and one was 9, breaking the stereotype that most domestic adoptions happen at birth. “One of my children needed adoption because the mother was too young to raise a child, and the other because the provider of the family passed away and the family had to make some changes in order to survive,” Burger says. Burger also doesn’t believe the stereotype that most adoptions are because of a poor situation at home. “There is a sense of shame that is tied to adoption. Everyone assumes the child came from an unsafe home and was the product of an unfit parent. However, there is no greater love for a mother than to give her only child to another woman

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to raise because she realizes that she can’t do the job well—even in the shortterm,” Burger says. When thinking about adoption, Burger offers advice about how to choose. “One unique thing about adoption is you get to pick your child. However difficult it would be, you always can say ‘no.’ So before you adopt, you consider what situations you could handle in your home,” Burger says. “Agencies and facilitators have such lists, and they can screen out situations that would not fit in your family,” she says. Georgia Harris, Liberty, struggled with infertility for five years, so adoption became the only option for her and her husband to have a family. “The heartbreak of doing fertility treatments looked promising, but always wound up failing. The fertility meds were hard on my body and emotions,” Harris says. “Hubby was willing to adopt first, but I was not ready to give up my dream of being a biological mom.” Harris and her husband decided to go the international route, choosing to adopt a boy from Guatemala. “International seemed more of a sure thing. We were fearful of having a birth-mom in the U.S. change her mind. We didn’t think we could handle going through that trauma,” Harris says. “We decided on a Guatemala adoption due to the short travel distance and some familiarity with Spanish, plus the children potentially came home younger than a year old, unlike China or Russia.” Despite the years of infertility, treat-

ments and the uncertainty of an international adoption, Harris is pleased with the end result. “The best thing about adoption is that John’s mom chose to give him life and do the most unselfish thing in giving him to us since she couldn’t properly care for him,” she says. “The best thing is that we were barren and now have a son to love, raise and enjoy. We have someone to carry my husband’s family name into the future.” Ronna Sparks-Woodward knew early in her marriage that she wouldn’t be able to conceive, so adoption was always in her mind. Sparks-Woodward, who

lives in Kansas City, has adopted two boys, ages 3 ½ and 7 months old. Ironically, her two boys are also biological cousins. “We have open adoptions, which we never thought in a million years that we would be okay with,” Sparks-Woodward says. “But I wouldn’t change it for anything now, because it’s like we get to share the excitement of every little thing twice as much.” Even though both boys have open adoptions, the mothers have different expectations. “While our birth mothers are sisters, they both have different wants from us. Isaiah’s birth mother just wants a brief update and a picture or two every six months or so. Jonah’s birth mother wants us to share more,” Sparks-Woodward says. “And while I was worried at first, it’s actually brought me a lot of joy sharing his development with her.” Adoptions can come with many insecurities and worries about the future. “There’s always the fear that something will happen before the court officially makes you a family. In Missouri, the child has to be in your custody for at least six months before the court will make you a forever family, and even in the most secure situations, there’s still fear that something will happen,” SparksWoodward shares. As they considered adoption, the

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Woodwards didn’t encounter a momentous event that convinced them the time was right. “We did put it off, thinking that I might get pregnant or that we didn’t have the money or that it wasn’t the right time, and like with everything else, we just knew it was the right time and option for us,” Sparks-Woodward says. “We’d always talked about it, and we just sort of looked at each other and said that it was time, and it was.” While there are many worries about adoption, there are many positives as well. “There’s just such a sense of awe waking up every day to this life with these boys, knowing that we were given the most amazing gift, not only from God, but from two women who thought enough of us to trust us with these amazing boys,” Sparks-Woodward says. Jennifer Higgins is a freelance writer, mother and teacher from Kearney. If your child is facing challenges in school, “excelling” may seem out of reach. We specialize in working with students who don’t always “fit into the box.” For more than 30 years, concerned parents have turned to the Accelerated Schools for individualized learning programs that help students of all academic levels with unique educational needs overcome challenges and excel academically. • Full Day School - Grades 4 - 12 • After School Tutoring - Grades 1-12 • Accredited • Low Student-Teacher ratio • Daily Report Cards • Transportation Available • Effective Reward System • Free Academic Testing

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DIFFICULT TALKS

“Mommy? What happens when you die?”

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h, the questions that pop out of the mouths of babes. And as a parent, you must be prepared with the correct response, because changing the subject just won’t cut it these days.

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early and answer their questions, they will get their facts from somewhere else. Your children are already picking things up from TV, school friends and movies. As a parent, it’s up to you to offer your children accurate information that’s in sync with your own personal values and morals. When and where do you begin such important talks? As soon as a sensitive subject comes up—and it doesn’t always have to be brought up by your child. It’s okay, as a parent, to start the discussion. Television is a great conversation starter. If you’re watching a show with your child and racism is a part of the story line, be sure to ask your child what they thought of the show when it’s over. It just takes a couple of questions to start a valuable discussion on a topic that is a part of real life. Teaching tolerance from the time your child is young can help him learn to not judge others by skin color. Talk to your young child about why people have different skin colors and also point out

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all of the things people do have in common. As your child gets older, your conversation will turn to other types of intolerance in the world. “What happens when you die?” What a great question! But how to answer it might have you scratching your head, wondering what to say. This particular question depends on your own beliefs on death and the afterlife. Begin talking with your child about your thoughts on heaven when they’re young. Have an open dialogue and listen to your child’s thoughts, too. But be sure to consider the age and developmental level of your child when beginning such a discussion. According to the National Institutes of Health, research has shown that two main factors influence a child’s understanding of death: their developmental level and their experiences. Don’t forget “stranger danger.” It’s important to teach your small children about the dangers of people they do not know, but it’s also a good idea to inform them about “tricky people.” A tricky person is an adult who tries to get them to break a family safety rule, such as asking them to keep a big secret or telling them it’s okay to go with them without asking a parent first. As your child gets older, talk to her about “tricky friends.” These are the friends who say mean things about others, lie or try to manipulate your child into doing things she doesn’t want to. As your child enters puberty, the topic of sexuality will most likely become a part of conversation. Don’t shy away from such discussions, and know that talking about sexuality is much more than just talking to your teen about sex. The more comfortable you make such conversations with your child, the better the chance he or she will want to come to you for information about body changes and sexual feelings instead of getting misinformation from friends. Believe it or not, your children want you to discuss difficult subjects with them, but only if they feel that you will be open to their questions. It’s up to you to create the kind of atmosphere in which your children can ask any questions, on any subject, freely and without consequence. To create such an atmosphere, be encouraging, supportive and positive … and listen.

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Resist the urge to text your friends, call your parents or update your Facebook status while you’re waiting.

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Cooperate. Dan Friesen, master police officer and public information officer for the Lenexa police department, says, “The most important thing to remember is to follow the directions of the officer in order to insure your own safety and that of the officer. There are reasons we make certain requests/ demands of stopped motorists, and all involve potential threats (real or perceived) to our safety.” Save the drama for your mama. Forget what you’ve heard—sobbing uncontrollably, using your dramatic acting skills and complimenting the officer on his fine uniform will not get you out of a ticket. Confession: I was pulled over for speeding on the day I turned 24. When I told the officer it was my birthday, he replied dryly, “The law still applies on your birthday,” and wrote me a ticket. Chill out. After the officer has your I.D., he will go back to the police car to run the information through the computer. It’s important for drivers to stay in their vehicles during this time. Waiting seems like an eternity, but it’s usually only a few minutes. Resist the urge to text your friends, call your parents or update your Facebook status while you’re waiting. Take the ticket and be on your way. Whatever the ticket is for, take it and move on. Oh, and ‘fess up to your parents when you get home. Tisha Foley’s two children drive bikes, bumper cars and backyard Jeeps. They will practice on those a few more years before they are “licensed to drive.”

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when is it okay to yell? Yelling can be necessary in dangerous situations to prevent harm to your child. As always, use best judgment. Examples: “Stop! Watch out for that car!” and “Don’t touch, it’s very hot!”

love my toddler. He is smart, handsome and sweet. Most days, he shares with his baby brother. (Even if it means giving up his prized race car for a bit). He is generally well mannered, making sure to say “please” and “thank you.” He greets everyone he meets with a friendly tone and a wave. He even helps out around the house. There are some days, however, when he can be challenging, stubborn and downright frustrating. My typical go-to is simply to talk to him. Acknowledging how he feels and seeking to find the motivation behind the resistant behavior helps give me perspective on the best way to proceed. That usually de-escalates the situation. Although it’s my standard method for getting better behavior, it doesn’t always work. Sometimes I feel as if nothing I am saying or doing makes a difference. That’s when I start to raise my voice, if only to be heard. While it doesn’t happen a lot, it has happened—and it always makes me feel guilty. Raising my voice can certainly stop him in his tracks from time to time, but I know it’s not the best route to reinforcing positive behavior. The question is: What other ways can I get my son to listen and behave? If you’re feeling guilty about your own recent outburst with your child, take heart. According to a 2003 study by Straus, published in the Journal of Marriage and Family, 74 percent of parents surveyed reported yelling or screaming at their kids. Here are the top three reasons you might be yelling: 1. The Power Struggle: You enter into a disagreement with your child. The argument escalates. Feeling as if you are losing control of the situation, you decide to assert your authority by yelling.

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2. The Bad Day Transferral: You’ve had a challenging day. You’re frustrated and cranky. Something small gets blown out of proportion, and you find yourself yelling, more because of your bad day than the actual transgression itself.

3. Out of Time: You’re trying to get the kids dressed and out of the house, but no one is listening. Perhaps they are downright refusing. You watch the clock as you continue to try to persuade them to no avail. Feeling hurried and helpless, you yell to reinforce the importance of the situation. Whatever the reason might be for yelling, there are effective alternatives to it. Lenexa mom Danielle Knolls says, “I believe in getting respect by giving respect, and I have applied that to raising children, as well. I practice consistency and clear expectations. If we were shopping, before we went into a store I would say, ‘I’m here to buy (x, y, z). I know you don’t want to be here because you’d rather be doing (x, y, z). The more you misbehave and the more you take my attention, the less I can focus on shopping and the longer we are going to be in the store. And that’s just miserable for everyone.’” Jacquie Fisher suggests using humor. “We try to interject humor or weird words when possible, especially if we are looking to change behaviors that we can’t see. For example, we ask my daughter to brush her ‘pearly purples’ for teeth, and I will randomly insert crazy words or examples when talking to my teenager about keeping up with his planner at school.” Another option that many parents have found useful is a reward-based system. As a mom of three, Tracie Richmond Fobes highly recommends it. “We use a ticket reward system that works very well for us. Positive behavior earns tickets, and negative behavior takes them away. It teaches them cause and effect for their actions. They cash in the tickets for money to buy books at school book fairs, donations at church, etc.” Remember, there are many ways to encourage positive behavior without yelling. It’s simply about finding what works best for you and your family. As Knolls says, “Not all children are alike, nor do they respond to the same tactics. It’s a delicate balance, allowing a young child a forum in which to express his feelings without compromising parental authority. That’s where consistency helps.” Jennifer Bosse is a freelance writer and photographer. She lives in Kansas City, KS, with her husband and two sons.

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slammed the door behind me, but nobody noticed. Even though it was Thanksgiving morning, I was fed up. More than the dreary TV programming, I fled the bickering of my brothers and sisters. On a holiday, you’d think it would be easier to get along and, even at age 11, I was sick of snide comments, petty temper outbursts and meanness for its own sake. While my lungs inhaled the cold air, my spirit absorbed the quiet. Although I hadn’t made any plans, the small creek that ran through some undeveloped neighborhood land beckoned with an irresistible siren song, and its journey became mine. I knew every square inch of this waterway, our playground where we got muddy while engineering dams or looking for and finding small fossils. Neither dog bark nor birdcall broke the stillness, and the quiet overwhelmed me as I stood on the bank. Water burbled under the ice, bare tree limbs rubbed against one another and each puff of breeze seemed like a gentle sigh. Even my tread was audible as I followed the watercourse. After about a hundred yards, I reached the boundary and turned for home. I stepped into the same house I left, but it was different and I was astounded. My grandparents had arrived, and preparations reached a fevered pitch, but that wasn’t it. I was in the heart of my family and I belonged. They were mine and I was theirs. I was bound with love, both parental and sibling. Now, after my journey into solitude, I had the inner peace to recognize it. Mom turned from a task in the kitchen and caught my eye. “Hi, Bill. Where’ve you been?” I basked in the love that we all had for one another, a spiritual feast before dinner. “Nowhere.” William R. Bartlett lives in Belton with his family.

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very once in a while (okay, a lot), I breathe a simple prayer of thanks. Thanks for keeping my children safe today. Thanks for instilling such a sense of wonder in my 3-year-old. Thanks for that quiet morning moment when I held my 1-year-old close and breathed in his warm, babysweet scent.

Even in the hurricane of an enormous mess, I can find a silver lining, if I look. But the key is just that: I have to look. I have to be intentional about seeing the good. “It’s easy to get caught up in the busyness of parenting,” say self-described “seasoned moms” Nina Lesowitz and Mary Beth Sammons, authors of the PBS article Serving up Spoonfuls of Gratitude. “But looking at raising chil-

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2) RELISH THE QUIET TIME.

I know, I know. Quiet time can be so hard to come by when you have little ones. But enforcing an afternoon nap or simple hour of down time (if your child is past the nap stage) is good for everyone involved. Quiet time allows kids to recharge and allows parents the golden opportunity for reflection and rejuvenation.

3) DO SOMETHING YOU ENJOY.

Who says every hour of the day has to be all about what your kids want? Tapping into a personal interest—photography, fantasy football, scrapbooking—can give you a concrete sense of accomplishment and identity, not as a parent but simply as a person. Be thankful for the myriad ways you can express yourself.

dren through the lens of gratitude can unlock a fullness to parenting that might otherwise get lost in the chaos of school, after-school, doctor’s appointments and other activities that can turn each day into a frenzied blur.” It’s true that the busyness and the mundane can overtake us as parents if we’re not careful. But tuning in to what’s around you—your toddler’s hunger to read, pajamas that keep your child warm, your spouse’s sense of humor—can make all the difference in the flurry of chaotic and sometimes messy hours of parenting. “When you express a feeling, you amplify it,” say Lesowitz and Sammons. “When you express irritation, you get more irritated. When you express appreciation, you become more grateful.” As a mom, I have been in countless situations where I realized I could either laugh or cry. Take, for instance, the afternoon my 3-year-old came in from playing outside after having “painted” both his legs with mud. Believe me, I thought about crying over the mess there was to clean up. But in all that dirt I saw a bigger blessing: my child’s sense of wonder at the outdoors and the necessary rain that had made the mud in the first place. It’s not just the tangible things or isolated instances we have to be thankful for. Jenn Foy, a Louisburg mother of four, has found the power of love to be one of the simplest yet most profound blessings of being a parent. “I realize now [as a parent] how much my mom loves me,” says Foy. “I am so thankful for her love.” So much of parenting is learning to live in and be thankful for the small moments. “Learn to be grateful for the simple pleasures,” say Lesowitz and Sammons, “and parenting can be a much richer and fulfilling experience.”

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Technology makes the crush experience very different….our kids never have to make a phone call. Not only do they “date” by texting, but they also break up this way. – Madeline Gerris, @ TweenParent.com Dating and “being in a relationship” can be virtually invisible to today’s parents. Romantic feelings can even emerge before the physical changes of puberty surface. Some signs that your tween(s) may be having romantic relationships include: • Asking “what if” and “when did you …” questions (about curfews, dating, etc.). • Secretive behavior about texting, talking or reading online. • Increased talking with their friends. • Increased mood swings. Expect emotional roller coasters as relationship statuses change quickly and often. • More primping. This is a natural part of being a tween-ager, but realize that competition among their allimportant peers is escalating. Beginning and Ending: Tween romance typically begins with impulsive physical attraction while kids figure out who they find attractive. The second phase is friendship. Regardless of how long the relationship lasts and how it ends, encourage and model kindness. Don’t criticize your child’s romantic interest yourself—these classmates will be with your child for a long time, and you want them to remain friends.

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ave you heard your kids talking about the latest couple? Or maybe they’re “in a relationship” or “seeing someone.” While the language and use of digital communication have certainly changed how tween crushes occur, preteens’ feelings have not. The tween-age years generally extend from 8 to 13 and are a time of widespread change—physically and emotionally. While it’s important to help tweens adjust to their physical changes, parents must also stay alert to their sometimes drastic emotional changes. Moodiness is par for the course, but as much as we may think they need to go to their rooms and shut the door (and would probably prefer this), parents should try to remember how we felt at this age and be aware that tweens still need (and really want) our help navigating this landmine of new feelings.

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Open and regular communication is vital. “Don’t wait until the teenage years to share [your] values with [your] kids. Have many conversations over time about relationships, creating intimacy, family values, religion and sexual health and protection,” advises family therapist Sari Cooper at TweenParent.com. Parents can get “battle ready” early—even before cell phones, iPods and tablets are charged and your tweens are marching across the pages of Facebook and through the Twitter universe. One caveat, however: Don’t overdo it—the “sex talk” part anyway. Most tweens don’t need or want a lengthy sex ed talk; what they need instead is to know that they can come to you with their questions about the new feelings they may be experiencing. So breathe deeply, listen to their questions and answer them. (Most child experts agree that several ongoing talks about sex are better than a lengthy lecture.) A couple in Parkville recalls their tween daughter’s 11-month crush: “We made it a bigger deal than it was.” Notably, this relationship played out at church and school, without cell phones or email. Both sets of parents had similar dating restrictions and their interaction was adult supervised and always located in group settings. Mom regularly checked in with their daughter about the relationship, to which the young lady replied, “Why are you so interested? You don’t think we’re going to get married, do you?” If your child seems more anxious or isn’t talking at all, don’t worry, says Dr. Rochelle Harris, clinical psychologist at Children’s Mercy Hospital. Reassure anxious or confused tweens that it’s natural to become interested in the opposite sex.

Help them find ways to talk with someone they think they like. The main thing to remember is to not trivialize their crushes. “They often don’t know the person, so a lot of daydreaming and fantasizing goes on,” Harris says. “Also, realize your child’s feelings may not be reciprocated.” She suggests asking questions such as “What do you imagine they are like?” or “What do you want to know about them?”

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Open lines of communication make it easier to set and enforce your family’s “rules of engagement.” Monitoring electronic communication will be much easier if you establish guidelines from the time your children begin using digital devices. Let your children know that you will be watching their digital behavior, collect their passwords and have the experts—your children—show you how to access their whereabouts. If you wait to monitor until risky or unwanted behavior occurs, your snooping will be loudly and strongly challenged. Notice the quantity and quality of messages, too. Quantity may be a clue as to who is important in your tween’s life, while the quality of the messages suggests the nature of the relationship and reveals inappropriate language or behaviors. SUGGESTION: Dr. Harris recommends making the parents’ bedroom the charging home for electronics, which should have a bedtime just like your kids. Of course, there are still some stealthy, albeit non-digital ways to learn about your child’s social status. Eavesdropping from the driver’s seat is a great one. Harris and others encourage parents to organize and drive young teens to group outings (which should still be adult supervised, but from afar). Turn the music on low and listen to their chatter. Not only will you learn their lingo, but you’ll have a lead-in to talk to your child. Ask questions or make casual comments, such as “I heard your friends talking about who they ‘like.’ Is there anyone you are interested in?” The key is to talk conversationally, not accusatorily—a tall order indeed. Surviving the tween years is, in some ways, a parental proving ground. Crossing over into the teenage world is inevitable, but if we lay a firm foundation for our tweens, they will arrive more prepared for the freedoms and privileges that come with that age. The question remains whether we parents will be prepared for perhaps the mightiest tug-ofwar of all: visible dating, driving and the final release into adulthood. Kathy Stump lives in Parkville with two teenage children who regularly protest all forms of monitoring, virtual and real-life. kcparent.com november 2013

t all began with Dumbledore, the spotted kindergarten classroom rabbit that needed a home away from Hogwarts School. “Only on weekends,” said Dad sternly, extending an extra heap of Christmas charity to host said bunny for the two-week Blue Valley holiday break. To Dad’s dismay, however, Dumbledore cast a spell on our kids. Soon enough, our family had fallen— down a rabbit hole—for this darling ball of fluff.

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Realizing we were now rabbit-folk, we adopted a bunny of our very own and named this beloved panda-like creature Mr. Tubbins. After two years (when we discovered from the vet, after all that time, that “he” was actually a “she”), our Mrs. Tubbins departed to her heavenly home. Straight away, Mr. Nibbles and Mr. Tibbles came bouncing into our family to fill the hole in our hearts. To our kids, our pets fill a plethora of roles: snuggly infant siblings in need of responsible care, dress-up dolls, drop-everything-and-read companions and mischief Ewoks on mission to defeat the Galactic Empire. Despite Dad’s occasional threats to boil up some rabbit stew—generally upon seeing nibbled electronics cables—the pets are bunnyfide members of the family. We (yes, even Dad!) dearly love them. Pet adoption is no small consideration, but for many, it’s a rite of childhood. Whether it is a hermit crab or goldfish, a dog, cat or horse, children enjoy the love and companionship offered by animals. Pets can offer several developmental benefits to children. A child’s emotional, physical, social and cognitive development can all be encouraged by interaction with the family pet.

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Pets are natural antidepressants. They help to lower cortisol, a hormone associated with stress and anxiety, while increasing the body’s production of serotonin, the happy hormone. Another feel-good hormone, oxytocin, rises in both the child and animal as they interact, strengthening their bond. In the presence of beloved pets, therefore, kids are often more relaxed and exhibit greater joy. Animals help kids focus. Living in the present moment, pets encourage their “giants” to be more fully engaged in the here-and-now, instead of overthinking the squabble at recess or tomorrow’s highstakes math exam. Best of all, the loyal

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Given a pet’s ability to affect cortisol and decrease stress, it makes sense that petting a dog actually lowers blood pressure levels in children with hypertension. Dogs are very active, keeping their Frisbee-flinging, squeak toy-fetching, canine-walking giants in top shape. With all that exercise, your child might also be sleeping like a dog—the only one crawling covertly into Mom and Dad’s bed now is Rex! Beyond the cardiovascular boosts, pet owners enjoy numerous other health benefits. Children who grow up with dogs, cats or large farm animals are less likely to develop allergies. Pets also help people build stronger immune systems, staving off illness, and speed recovery time after a bout of feeling under the weather.

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Whether it is a hermit crab or goldfish, a dog, cat or horse, children enjoy the love and companionship offered by animals. dence may be less intimidated interacting with animals than with peers, because animals accept them unconditionally. Animals don’t talk back or betray secrets, so confiding in animals is a safe way for kids to practice and strengthen communication skills. Pets are among kids’ favorite topics of conversation, and walking a pet also provides a natural opportunity to greet the neighbors.

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Need help finding a creative gift for this holiday season? Read on for a few of our faves this year.

great gifts By Margaret Sarver

crayola marker maker We own the Crayola Crayon Maker. To this day, my 9- and 12-year-olds continue to pull it out and make crayons. They can spend an afternoon creating all sorts of new colors. The Craoyla Marker Maker is just as cool and the perfect gift for any craft lover in your home. It offers hours of creative fun! A couple of things to note: To make the markers, ink needs to be poured. I would suggest a parent’s helping with this step. Also, once the markers that come with the set are made, a refill kit will need to be purchased to make more. Crayola.com

personalized puzzles Kids love puzzles. Kids love seeing their names on items. Combine those two and you have the perfect present! The “I See Me” puzzles are a terrific gift for the child who has mastered wooden puzzles and is ready for a challenge. I was impressed with how durable the pieces are—they can stand up to lots of use and abuse. The illustrations are so cute you’ll want to glue and hang them on your child’s wall, while your child will want to put it together again and again. In addition to puzzles, I See Me has personalized books, placemats, coloring books and even an iPad app. ISeeMe.com

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construction site with remote control crane This construction site open and ready for constructive imaginative play! Get ready for hours and hours of fun. Boys and girls alike enjoy playing with this set and love the dump truck and cement truck accessories that are included with the crane. Plus, anything with a remote control is super cool! Although it looks top heavy it doesn’t easily tip over. Available at US Toy in Leawood and online at CPToy.com

discovery builders I like toys that teach kids. High quality, well made toys that encourage learning can be hard to find, though. The Discovery Builders from Lakeshore Learning have everything I love in a toy. They are well made, super fun and sneak in some creative learning. The sets allow for endless building and creating, as well as just plain old fun. Available at LakeshoreLearning.com, or visit the new Lakeshore store at 5670 Antioch Rd., in the Merriam Town Center.

rainbow loom I have two girls. We do a lot of crafts, and we do lots of crafts that involve jewelry making. After a recent sleepover, the girls came home with bracelets made on the Rainbow Loom. We went out the next day and purchased our own. With cute designs that are easy to make, the Rainbow Loom is hours and hours of fun for everyone (Mom included!). Available at local retailers.

for older kids & parents: keurig brewer Don’t drink coffee? Don’t worry! You’ll want to have a Keurig Brewer in your home regardless of whether you are a coffee drinker or not. It makes the perfect morning cup of Joe, but also makes a great afternoon glass of lemonade, energy drink, hot tea, apple cider and so much more! The possibilities are just about endless! From a space saving Mini Plus to the ultimate Platinum Brewer, there’s a Keruig Brewer that’s a perfect fit for your home. Keurig.com

polar bear pj collection & booties Keep girls and dolls cozy from their heads to their toes with this PJ set, featuring matching girl and doll pajamas. Each outfit features a tunic top with lace trim, and leggings with wintry polar bear graphics. My younger loves both her American Girl Doll and lounging in her jammies, so this makes a perfect gift! Store.AmericanGirl.com

Coming in December: KC Parent’s stocking stuffing guide with TONS of great ideas on local gifts to stuff those stockings! kcparent.com november 2013

your daily allotment of sodium with just one serving. Lunch meats to avoid are bacon, salami, pepperoni and bologna. Better choices include turkey (390mg), chicken breast (500mg), ham (480mg) and roast beef (407mg).

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Cheese

It’s probably no surprise that processed cheeses are high in sodium. One ounce of cheddar cheese has 368mg, while one ounce of mozzarella has 178mg, and Swiss cheese has 54mg. For a complete list of sodium contents of different cheeses, visit FatSecret.com.

Canned veggies

Getting children to eat fruits and vegetables can be difficult at times. One cheap, easy way is canned vegetables, but one can of vegetables can contain approximately 25 percent of your child’s daily allotment of sodium. Draining and rinsing these vegetables before consumption can decrease this by 40 percent. An even better choice is buying the low sodium or no-salt-added canned veggies.

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igh blood pressure is a major risk factor for cardiovascular disease, the leading cause of death worldwide (American Heart Association). The main contributor to high blood pressure is a diet high in sodium. This is not an adults-only problem; 97 percent of children and adolescents eat too much salt, putting them at greater risk for cardiovascular disease as they get older (AHA). Sodium is an acquired taste and, therefore, the more sodium a child consumes, the more he desires the foods that contain it. According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), the recommended sodium intake is 2,300mg/day. The CDC says that most children ages 2-5 are close to that limit, but children ages 8-12 average 3,260mg/day. And older teens ingest even higher levels. Childhood is a time when good and bad behaviors are shaped that will potentially last a lifetime. As parents, we can take steps to help set our children up for a lifetime of success. Here are five everyday kid foods that are surprisingly high in sodium and some suggested alternatives that can serve as tasty healthier options.

Lunch meat

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Condiments

My kids love any food that they can dip. Sometimes it’s a great thing (broccoli, carrots), but those dips all add excess sodium. Ketchup contains 167mg per tablespoon, ranch has 164mg and barbecue sauce has 265mg per one ounce. Like many other items, there are brands out there that offer reduced-sodium products. Reduced-sodium ketchup contains 3mg sodium per tablespoon, and barbecue sauce only 47mg (HealthyEating.SFGate.com).

Snacks

Kids love snacks. It would be easy to say that we should only have fresh fruits and veggies, but for many of us that is unrealistic. Sodium can come in surprising packages. For instance, many people think popcorn is high in sodium. However, one cup of air-popped popcorn has no sodium. Alternatively, 10 salted pretzels have 1,029mg of sodium. Other foods you might find surprisingly low on the sodium chart include 1 ounce of nachoflavored tortilla chips (201mg), 1 ounce dry roasted nuts (190mg) and 4 saltines (156mg). For those who crave sweeter snacks: one toaster pastry has 218mg, but one chocolate cookie has only 32mg sodium (UMaine.edu). Jessica Heine lives in Olathe with her husband and two little children. She is a labor and delivery nurse. As always, please consult your health provider with any questions.

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rom popping popcorn to making bulletin boards, from shelving books to making photocopies, there are many ways to volunteer in and out of the classroom. Volunteering has many faces and benefits the student, the teacher and the parent. Many volunteer to help the teacher free up some extra time. “Mostly I volunteer because I know that the teachers have so much work that needs to be done and they have such little time to do it in,” Jennifer Duncan, Kearney mother of three, says. “Knowing that making some copies or shelving books gives that teacher some extra time to spend doing something else makes it worthwhile to me.” Others volunteer to be around the students and be in the building where their child spends so much time. “I volunteer in my kids’ school because I enjoy getting to know the atmosphere of the building where my children are for most of the day. I love getting to know the teachers. I also get to see the other children in my child’s grade and see how they interact with each other,” Amanda Jensen, Kearney mother of three, says. “I get a small glimpse into whom my child is choosing as friends and how they act around each other at school.” Spending time at school can help both the student and the parent at the same time. “Working with small groups on reading or math skills helps build the confidence of the kids, and as a bonus, it helps the parent(s) understand/feel more comfortable to try study skills with their

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kids at home if they are struggling on reading, math, etc.,” Heather Renzelman, Hawthorne Elementary teacher, says. Even if you cannot come to school to volunteer during the school day, there are ways you can help at home and still feel connected. “Over the years I’ve had parents offer to cut out laminated things or work on bulletin board sets or file folders from home, if they can’t get in and still want to help,” Renzelman says. PTO organizations are also a great way to get plugged in and find ways to volunteer. “Being involved in PTO brings volunteer opportunity in all sorts of areas,” Duncan says. “Working at book fairs, helping with class parties, going on

field trips and helping during the yearly field day are all things PTO sponsors that need volunteers.” Volunteering in the classroom is not about thinking less of the teacher, but more about trying to help. “I know these teachers are fully capable of doing it without me. My hope is that I might be able to help make life a little easier—even if I just help make copies or make up a bulletin board,” Jensen says. “I hope that I’ve just saved her 10 minutes, and that she might get to go home 10 minutes earlier.” Jennifer Higgins lives in Kearny where she has seen the benefits of volunteering, both as a parent and a teacher.

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We asked 50% KCParent.com readers, why do you volunteer in your child’s classroom?

To get to know the school better.

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To check up on my kids.

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Energy Boosters

e all are too familiar with the experience of an all-out energy drain. You know the feeling—when you just can’t seem to make it another minute without falling straight into bed. A more insidious feeling, a low-grade energy drain, is sometimes more difficult to recognize. You might feel a lack of interest in an activity you normally love, or your attention span seems shorter or frustration arises with the simplest of tasks. You may also recognize a lack of motivation or an overall tired feeling. The good news is that there are things we can do to boost our energy. Here are four of my favorite energy boosters. Move your body. Take a walk around the block, cubicle, office or home. Get your juices flowing! Movement increases blood flow to your brain to wake it up. Moving gives you more energy. Some experts say that the positive effects of a 10-minute walk can last for up to two hours. Don’t skip meals. Studies show that breakfast and lunch are the most commonly skipped meals. By eating breakfast, you are breaking the fast from the night and giving your body the fuel it needs to get started. Include snacks during the day, such as peanut butter and whole wheat crackers or yogurt and nuts. Cut back on simple sugar. Sugar is addictive. When you eat a sweet food, your blood sugar spikes and you feel a burst of energy. Once this wears off, you will experience a rapid drop in blood sugar, leaving you feeling wiped out. Try a healthy protein snack instead. Drink more water. You probably already know that sometimes when you are hungry, your body is actually just thirsty. However, another sign of thirst can simply be fatigue. Make sure you are getting in an average of 64 ounces of water each day. If you continue to feel tired or feel as though there might be something more to the fatigue, visit with your doctor. Melanie Yunger is a local wife, mom and nurse practitioner. As always, please consult your physician with any questions or concerns.

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THANKSGIVING MONTH: GIVE THANKS BY GIVING BACK

Thanksgiving is a time of giving thanks. It is also a time to reach out and give to others. For local families, here are a few ideas to show appreciation to others and help those in need. Our service men and women overseas are often unable to call their own families over the holidays due to the high cost of international phone calls. Cell Phones for Soldiers (CellPhonesForSoldiers.com) is a non-profit organization that provides free calling cards and cell phones to active duty military members and veterans. The organization was founded in 2004, and since that time has provided 181 million minutes of free talk time and an average of 12,000 calling cards each week. Last year, the organization expanded its outreach by launching Helping Heroes Home, to provide emergency funds for returning veterans to alleviate communication challenges, as well as physical, emotional and assimilation hardships. You can say thanks to our military by giving back in a tangible way, bringing joy to families this holiday season. Share with your neighbors. In your own neighborhood, do you have friends who are unable to visit family over the holidays? Invite them to join your celebration. Perhaps you know of a shut-in in your neighborhood without family nearby. Delivering a hot meal and visiting with them can brighten their day.

BEYOND THE TURKEY YOUR THANKSGIVING WEEKEND PLANNER A SEASON OF GRATITUDE, FAMILY, MEMORY-MAKING AND GIVING BACK. HERE ARE SOME IDEAS FOR CELEBRATING BEYOND THE DINNER

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Help feed the hungry. It is estimated that 1 in 6 Americans is suffering hunger every day. You can donate or volunteer with organizations to help the cause. Harvesters (Harvesters.org), Kansas City’s local food network, accepts donations and volunteer assistance. Families can work together at local food banks, soup kitchens and mobile pantries (volunteers must be 6 years old or older), or you may donate at a local collection site. Sponsor a child through World Vision (WorldVision.org), helping meet basic needs, including clean water, nutritious food, health care, education and more. The organization pools resources to reach out to impoverished communities around the world and make a difference. Our family sponsors children through World Vision, and our girls look forward to receiving letters from the children in the mail and learning more about them and their culture. We send birthday cards and holiday cards to the children and keep their photographs on our family bulletin board. Brainstorm. Ask your children at your own dinner table if they can think of someone they would like to help. Do you have a friend or loved one you would like to bless this Thanksgiving season? This year, one of our girls’ friends needed a service dog to help with her special needs. The only dog that would meet our friends’ needs required significant fund-raising. Our girls brainstormed as a family and organized a program selling lunches at Daddy’s office. All of the funds we raised went to Paws for Alexis (Facebook.com/PawsForAlexis), helping our friend Lexi welcome Boss, a brand new service dog and helper into her home. Boss is able to alert Lexi’s mommy if she is experiencing seizures or if her medical equipment is not functioning properly and serves as a companion and assistant to her caregivers. Perhaps you know of someone you can show friendship to this holiday season with a little bit of extra time and love.

THE NIGHT BEFORE THANKSGIVING: CELEBRATE WITH CHRISTMAS IN THE SKY

It’s a Light family tradition to kick off Thanksgiving weekend on Wednesday night with Christmas in the Sky at Longview Lake (JacksonGov.org). Our family invites friends over for a preThanksgiving pizza party, then we all pile into our minivans for a trek out to see the fireworks! Bring glow sticks for the kiddos, hot cocoa in travel mugs, and play some holiday tunes. If you’d rather dine near the show, one favorite neighborhood restaurant, Next Door Pizza (3385 SW Fascination Dr., Lee’s Summit, MO, 816.763.1200) is known for the Chicago-style deep dish pizzas and kids-make-their-own pizza kits. This year’s Christmas in the Sky festivities will feature local celebrities, holiday stage productions and an amazing fireworks display, synchronized to your favorite holiday music.

THANKSGIVING NIGHT KANSAS CITY STYLE: THE PLAZA LIGHTING CEREMONY

Kansas City’s Thanksgiving tradition since 1925 includes live music, fireworks and the celebrity “switch flipping,” as the Country Club Plaza (CountryClubPlaza.com) is decked out in Christmas style with 80 miles of colorful lights! If you’re nervous to bring kids to the ceremony with potentially cold weather and big crowds, you’ll be surprised at how quickly the crowd clears out. Within an hour of the ceremony, you can take your family on a drive through the Plaza to enjoy the lights on the first official night of the Kansas City holiday season. Tip: The best view is atop the Halls parking lot! Enter from the southeast corner (on Wyandotte) to drive to the top.

FOR EVEN MORE THANKSGIVING EVENTS, VISIT THE KCPARENT.COM CALENDAR!

THANKSGIVING WEEKEND: LIGHT TOUR

Load the kids, grab your favorite thermos of warm cider or cocoa and some cookies and take a tour of Kansas City’s best lights. You’ll find a complete guide on KCParent.com by searching “Best Christmas Lights in Kansas City,” but our favorite lesser-known light display is the Ultimate Tree (TheUltimateTree.com). The Ultimate Tree is a giant flat panel Christmas tree lighting display with thousands of LED bulbs. Enjoy a light show synchronized to music with animation, lighting effects, patterns and messages. This must-see display was featured on HGTV’s All Out American Christmas show. The Ultimate Tree turns on Thanksgiving night around 8:00. After that, it will turn on at 5:30 every night and stay on until 10:00—except on Fridays and Saturdays, when the hours are extended to 11:30. It runs through the first week of January.

DAY AFTER THANKSGIVING: BLACK FRIDAY ALTERNATIVE

Bring the family to the Toy & Miniature Museum (activities included with the cost of admission, Friday, Nov. 29, 10:00-4:00, ToyAndMiniatureMuseum.org) to explore the magical world of Victorian optical illusion toys. Optical illusion toys will be hidden throughout the museum, educating visitors on the original technology that inspired modern-day animation and film. Guests will be given the opportunity to create their own spinning optical illusion toy and participate in the earliest form of cinema: a grand magic lantern show. Tip: The Toy & Miniature Museum will be undergoing renovations in 2014, so take advantage of this opportunity to enjoy one of Kansas City’s most whimsical attractions before construction begins!

THE BEST VIEW (OF THE PLAZA LIGHTING) IS THE HALLS PARKING LOT! ENTER FROM THE SOUTHEAST CORNER (ON WYANDOTTE) TO DRIVE TO THE TOP.

Kansas City mom Kristina Light has so much to be thankful for at Thanksgiving and throughout the year. kcparent.com november 2013

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Can you believe it? Nikita is turning 7! Head to the zoo on Nov. 16 for a Birthday Celebration at 10:00. Make a birthday card to celebrate the big day. Plus, visit the NEW penguin exhibit! 816.513.5800

A Christmas Carol returns for the 33rd year! Make it a family tradition to see the KC Repertoryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s performance of this holiday classic. Show runs Nov. 22 thru Dec. 26. KCRep.org

Get in the Christmas spirit with the annual Northern Lights lighting ceremony at Zona Rosa on Nov. 23 at 6:00. Welcome Santa, Mrs. Claus and the Fairy Princess. ZonaRosa.com

Enjoy a Thanksgiving weekend stroll through the NelsonAtkins Luminary Walk on Nov. 29 and 30. After, sip on a cup of hot chocolate and spend some time at the museum. Nelson-Atkins.org

Escape the crowds and spend Black Friday at the Toy & Miniature Museum at 10:00 for Optical Illusions. Explore Victorian optical illusion toys, create your own illusions and more. 816.235.8000

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Holiday Open House Thru Sun, 10:00, Downtown Lee’s Summit. Shops will be decked out in their holiday best. DowntownLS.org

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Pint-Size Playtime 10:00, Harris Park Community Center. Bring your preschoolers to the gym. Pre-reg. 816.969.1540 How I Became a Pirate Thru Nov 9, 10:00 & Noon, Theatre for Young America. See how a young boy is recruited by a band of pirates. 816.460.2083 First Fridays 7:00, Crossroads Art District. Galleries and shops remain open late on the first Friday of each month. KCCrossroads.org The Foreigner Thru Sun, 8:00, Spencer Theatre. This comedy with a funny climax will delight young children ages 6+. KCRep.org Xtreme Glow Bowl 9:30, Summit Lanes. The lanes are lit up for an added dose of neon fun and challenge! 816.524.3322

2 saturday Overland Park Farmers’ Market 6:30, Downtown OP. Purchase locally grown produce. OPKansas.org 5K Family Fun Run 8:00, Downtown Blue Springs. Start off the morning with a family run or walk! Pre-reg. 816.228.0137 Wilderness Run 9:00, Shoal Creek Living History Museum. Run around fields, up and down hills, over logs and through the woods. KCMO.org Holiday Dress Up Event Children’s Orchard locations. Get the perfect look for winter at the perfect price for your budget. ChildOrch.com Great Pumpkin Smash 9:30, Kansas City Zoo. Watch as the zoo’s animals crush, play, kick and bounce those big orange pumpkins! 816.513.5800 Crank It Up for Kids Cleaver Family YMCA. This is a one-of-a-kind stationary bike race you’ll want to make sure you’re signed up for! 816.285.9622

The lights and historical crowns blaze to life at 6 p.m. and the fun continues with the first Salvation Army Kettle Run/Walk for Hope immediately following the ceremony. For more information, visit zonarosa.com

Children’s Corner 10:00, Tomahawk Ridge Community Center. Enjoy juggling, miming, magic and other antics. 913.344.8656 Nature Nuts Story Time 10:00 or 1:00, Anita B Gorman Conservation Discovery Center. Hear nature stories and participate in hands-on activities. 816.759.7300 Northland Junktique 10:00, Lakeview Middle School. Come shop our crafts, antiques and community yard sale. Free. 816.810.0727

HOLIDAY ORNAMENT Zona Rosa’s Fourth-In-A-Series Holiday Ornament goes on sale November 23rd, all proceeds benefit the Zona Rosa Community Foundation.

Mother Nature Reads 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Hear a story, learn cool facts about animals and make a craft. 816.513.8960 Scarecrow Wind Sock 11:00-3:00, Lakeshore Learning. Let the autumn breezes blow...through a handmade scarecrow wind sock! Free. 913.432.3998 Heartland Open Adventures Noon, Heartland Center. Try your hand on the rock wall, zip line, vertical playground and more. Ages 10+. 816.891.1078 Kids Team Up for Art 1:30, Irene H Ruiz Public Library. Children in K-8th grade are invited to create art masterpieces. 855.201.9922 Let’s Move! 4:30, Watson Rolladium. A family-friendly event that everyone can enjoy together. 816.229.7793 Chili Supper 5:00, Grinter Place. Join us for a tasty chili supper and tour of the house. Tickets are $8; 5 and under are free. 913.299.0373

KANSAS CITY’S FAVORITE DESTINATION FOR SHOPPING, DINING AND ENTERTAINMENT

Zona Rosa Hours: Monday–Saturday 10 AM – 9 PM, Sunday Noon – 6 PM 8640 N. Dixson Avenue | (816) 587-8180 | www.zonarosa.com

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Wild Kingdom with Peter Gros

Nov. 10, 7:00, Yardley Hall (JCCC). Hear stories from a wildlife expert and meet a few live exotic animals. 913.469.4445

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Orphan Sunday Visit DCF.KS.gov for information on helping Kansas kids find forever homes. First Sunday Family Fun Day Noon, Kansas City Museum. Create arts and crafts and listen to fabulous music inspired by our newest exhibit. 816.483.8300 Dia de los Muertos Family Festival 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Celebrate with dancing, artist demonstrations and art activities. 816.751.1278 Saige’s Hot Air Balloon Craft 2:00-4:00, American Girl Store. Create a hot air balloon inspired by Saige. AmericanGirl.com Owl Prowl 7:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Enjoy a talk featuring two live owls and an evening hike through the park. 913.831.3359

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Early Bird Special 9:00, Little Monkey Bizness. Arrive before 10:00 on Monday and Wednesday and admission is just $5 plus tax! 913.631.7000

Family Holiday Photos Kia Bondurant. It’s not too early to take family holiday photos! KiaBondurant.com

5 tuesday

Indoor Playground 9:30-11:30, Sylvester Powell Comm Ctr. Children 6 and under can play on developmentally appropriate toys for just $2. 913.722.8200 Creative Story Time 11:00, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. 913.383.0222 Old MacDonald’s Rhyming Ranch Thru Nov 16, Paul Mesner Puppet Studio. Sing along with the farmer at his rhyming ranch! 816.235.6222

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Open Play 9:00, Stanley Presbyterian Church. On the first Wednesday of each month, bring the kids, toys and your to-go cup of coffee! 913.681.8180

Real Pirates Union Station. See artifacts recovered from the first authenticated pirate ship found in US waters! UnionStation.org

Dino O’Dell Concert 10:00, Johnson County Museum. Dino’s interactive songs and tall tales will stir the imagination and inspire creativity. $2-3/ child. 913.715.2575

Cutting Horse Show 8:00, Hale Arena (American Royal). Tremendous excitement and drama for rider, horse and spectators alike! 816.221.9800

Open Gym Noon, 360 Gymnastics. Bring your kids for an hour to our recreational gymnastics facility for fun play! 913.707.3756

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creative events for all ages! birthday parties, story time, kids & clay, CPR for the soul, pottery painting & glass fusing classes!

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Youth Arts and Crafts 4:00-6:00, Garrison Community Center. Ages 7-14 can make creative projects. Free. 816.784.1140

7 thursday Preschool Playtime 9:30, Beautiful Savior Lutheran Church. Join us for an open gym with various toys and equipment. Snack and drink provided. 913.579.6867 14th Annual Storytelling Event 10:00 & 11:00, George Owens Nature Park. Families are invited to this free event to come and listen to a regional storyteller. 816.325.7115 Highlights Tour 2:00, Nat’l Frontier Trails Museum. See aspects of Western settlement through a 30-minute guided tour. 816.325.7575

Gamber Center. Stop by and beat the holiday rush! 816.969.1580 Oz Goes West 10:00, Folly Theater. See our original play with an unusual spin on what happens next for Dot (Dorothy). 816.474.4444 How I Became a Pirate Thru Nov 9, 10:00 & Noon, Theatre for Young America. See how a young boy is recruited by a band of pirates. 816.460.2083 Story Time 10:30 & 11:30, Shawnee Books & Toys. Bring in the kids to participate in our weekly story time, craft and a snack. 913.962.1428 After School Academic Assistance 3:00, Marlborough Community Center. Students 6-17 receive help with homework. 816.784.3100

Shanghai Ballet 7:30, Yardley Hall (JCCC). See The Butterfly Lovers, a classic Chinese folk tale that echoes the themes of Romeo and Juliet. JCCC.edu

Second Friday Art Crawl 5:00, Downtown Excelsior Springs. Enjoy feature artists, music, dining and shopping. 816.630.6161

Tarzan Thru Sun, 7:00, Bell Cultural Events Center (MidAmerica Nazarene). Christian Youth Theater presents the Disney smash hit. 913.681.3318

Friday Family Night 6:00, Cool Crest. Every Friday for only $21.99, enjoy unlimited soft play (4 guests), 100 arcade tokens, large pizza and 4 drinks. 816.358.0088

Bach’s Own Choir 8:00, Folly Theater. The famed St Thomas Boys Choir will be joined by the Leipzig Baroque Orchestra. 816.474.4444

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Mistletoe Madness Today & tomorrow, 9:00,

Tweens Night Out 6:00, Paint Glaze & Fire. Make plans with your friends for a night of creative fun, pizza and more. 913.661.2529 Friday Night Family Fun 6:30, Plaza Library. Join us every Friday night for fun activities the whole

family can enjoy! 816.701.3481 KC Youth Ballet Fall Concert Thru Sun, 7:30, KC Ballet. Purchase tickets to attend one of our three performances this weekend. KCBallet.org

9 saturday Overland Park Farmers’ Market 6:30, Downtown OP. Purchase locally grown produce. OPKansas.org We Can Hear You Now 8:00, KU Edwards Campus. Run or walk 5K or 10K for children’s hearing, and kids can participate in a fun run. HearYouNow.com 2nd Saturdays 8:00, Downtown Leavenworth. Fun and exciting activities each month. LeavenworthMainStreet.com Home Depot Kids Workshop 9:00, Home Depot stores. Bring in the kids for a free hands-on workshop and build something together. HomeDepot.com The First Thanksgiving 9:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Hands-on fun with reenactors to talk about the first Thanksgiving. 913.764.7759 Veterans Day Parade 10:00, Main Street Belton. Listen to patriotic music and see our parade honoring our veterans. Belton.org Mother Nature Reads 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Hear a story, learn cool facts about ani-

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Operation Christmas Child

Plan ahead! Collection week for OCC is Nov. 18-25. Start preparing your shoe boxes today. SamaritansPurse.org mals and make a craft. 816.513.8960 Red Panda Day 10:00, KC Zoo. Learn all about red pandas at our Zootastik Learning Fest. 816.513.5800

Second Saturdays 11:00, Grinter Place State Historic Site. Learn about KC-area history and stay for lunch prepared on the wood stove. 913.299.0373

Liberty Pet Adoption Event 10:00, PetsMart. PetsMart partners with Liberty Animal Shelter to help dogs and cats find their forever homes today! 816.407.9195

Health Fair 11:00, Westport-Roanoke Community Center. Today we’re partnering with area businesses to offer a free holistic health fair with demos. 816.784.5200

Family Trees & Roots 10:00, Shawnee Town 1929. Discover all sorts of interesting tidbits about your family tree with a genealogist. 913.248.2360

BRICKS 4 KIDZ Building Class Noon, Powell Gardens. Come build machines, animals and other structures out of Lego bricks. 816.697.2600

Fall Group Hayrides Thru November, Heritage Park. Heritage and Shawnee Mission parks offer hour-long hayrides. Pre-reg! 913.831.3359

Kids Team Up for Art 1:30, Plaza Library. Children in K-8th grade are invited to create art masterpieces. 855.201.9922

The Attempted Assassination of President Truman 11:00, Truman Library and Museum. Archivist Randy Sowell discusses this historical event. 816.268.8200

Second Saturdays 4:00, Historic Downtown Weston. Stroll into unique shops & galleries for late night shopping and in-store specials. WestonMO.com

Pilgrim Hat Pencil Holder 11:00-3:00, Lakeshore Learning. Kids turn a cup into a cool pilgrim hat pencil holder! Free. 913.432.3998

Holiday Open House 5:30, Historic DowntownWeston. Father Christmas arrives at 5:30 to officially begin the holiday season! WestonMo.com

10 sunday art + family = FUN 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Join us every Saturday and Sunday for free activities for all ages! 816.751.1278 Hot Cocoa Cozy Craft 2:00-4:00, American Girl Store. Create your own hot cocoa cozy out of felt and decorate it! AmericanGirl.com Wildlife Kingdom with Peter Gros 7:00, Yardley Hall (JCCC). Hear stories from a wildlife expert and meet a few live exotic animals. 913.469.4445

KC’S HOLIDAY LIGHTING CEREMONIES We make every effort to ensure the accuracy of this information. However, you should always call ahead to confirm dates, times, location and other information, especially with the possibility of weather impacts. Northern Lights Holiday Lighting Ceremony Nov. 23, 6:00, at Zona Rosa Town Square, I-29 & Barry Rd., Kansas City, MO. Zona Rosa will once again kick off the holiday season with a special lighting ceremony to spotlight the large crowns hung above the streets, as well as the featured 50-foot Christmas tree in Town Square. The community is invited to the FREE program, including the official arrival of the holiday Fairy Princess, Santa Claus & Mrs. Claus! Holiday Lighting Ceremony: Union Station Nov. 23, 6:00 at Union Station Bring the whole family for a night of fun! Come early to enjoy music and entertainment and stay after lighting ceremony for FREE rides on the Mini Holiday Express Train.

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Christmas in the Sky Nov. 27, 5:00-9:00, at Longview Lake Beach, Kansas City , MO. 99.7, The Point, and Jackson County Parks + Rec kick off your holiday season with Christmas in the Sky. Enjoy this evening filled with local celebrities, holiday stage productions and an amazing fireworks display synchronized to your favorite holiday music. KCP&L Plaza Lights Nov. 28, 6:00-11:00, at Country Club Plaza, 47th & Wyandotte, Kansas City, MO. This will be the 84th annual KCP&L Plaza lighting ceremony. The KCP&L Plaza Lights shine daily from 5:00 to 3:00, Thanksgiving through Jan. 12, 2014. Christmas in the Park: Gardner Dec. 2, 7:00- 9:00, at Cornerstone Park in Gardner, KS. The 23rd annual Christmas in the Park holiday event kicks off with the mayor’s Christmas tree lighting ceremony, Monday, Dec., 2, 2013. Seasonal music will be performed by area school children. The event will include a Christmastime message from Mayor Chris Morrow and the arrival of Santa.

Sar-Ko Aglow Dec. 6, 5:00-9:00, at Sar-Ko-Par Trails Park, Lenexa.com/Parks/Festivals_Oldtown.html. Kick off your holiday festivities this year by meeting up with friends and neighbors for a community celebration. Festival of Lights Parade Dec. 6, 7:00-8:00, at Historic Downtown Lexington, MO. Enjoy a lighted Christmas parade and live performances of festive holiday music. Have your picture taken with Father Christmas. Candy Cane Hunt & Mayor’s Tree Lighting: Merriam Dec. 7, 5:30-6:30, at Merriam Marketplace, 5740 Merriam Dr., Merriam, KS. It’s that magical time of year where treetops glisten and children listen for Santa to arrive via the Merriam fire truck. Visit KCParent.com for a comprehensive list with even more lighting ceremonies, including the lighting of the Mayor’s Christmas Tree at Crown Center.

Optical Illusions Family Day • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •

November 29, 2013 | 10am - 4pm

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Don’t Miss the Black Friday Fun! • Try Victorian optical toys. • Create your own optical illusion. • Participate in a magic lantern show. • Explore toys and miniatures.

r last u o y s t mis , 2014. ’ n o D 014. anuary 6 2 5235 Oak Street, Kansas City, MO 64112 n i tion before J a v toyandminiaturemuseum.org o it en ing r ce to vis o 816-235-8000 g r chan Unde • And much more!

Wild Kingdom with Peter Gros 7 p.m, Sunday, November 10

Like a zoo on stage! Wildlife expert and co-host of Mutual of Omaha’s Wild Kingdom appears with friendly, live exotic animals. jccc.edu/TheSeries | 913-469-4445 Performing Arts Series Johnson County Community College NO ONLINE FEES | FREE PARKING BEER AND WINE AVAILABLE

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11 monday Veterans Day Thank some veterans today for their service to our country! Community Centers, Libraries and the KC Zoo are closed in honor of Veterans Day. Make sure to check other venues before going. Early Bird Special 9:00, Little Monkey Bizness. Arrive before 10:00 on Monday and Wednesday and admission is just $5 plus tax! 913.631.7000 Moms of Grace 9:15, Grace Church. This ministry group seeks to support, equip and encourage moms in the journey of motherhood each week. 913.814.7223 Moms FREE Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms are free at the Children’s EduTainment Center with a paid child’s admission. 816.246.5224 Veterans Day Parade 10:30, Downtown Leavenworth. Attend the largest and oldest Veterans’ Day Parade west of the Mississippi! 913.682.4113 Veterans Celebration 11:15, Vesper Hall. Salute our veterans, hear guest speakers and enjoy entertainment. 816.228.0181

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Fall Leaves Kia Bondurant. Have family photos taken in fall leaves throughout November. KiaBondurant.com

Festival of Trees Thru Nov 23, Weston, MO. View trees, wreaths or florals in participating downtown stores and the chamber office. WestonMO.com UPHA National Championship Saddlebred Horse Show Kemper Arena. The very best saddlebreds, hackney ponies and road horses compete! 816.221. 9800 Creative Story Time 11:00, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. 913.383.0222 Family Night 4:00, Little Monkey Bizness. Let your little ones monkey around in our indoor play area at a discount. 913.631.7000

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animal and yoga moves! Fun and coordination come together! 913.764.7759 Open House 5:00-7:00, Primrose School of OP. Meet the teachers and learn more about the program, including new kindergarten in 2014. Raffle for free registration! 913.400.2435 A Christmas Carol with Gerald Dickens 7:00, Woodneath Library Center. The great grandson of Charles Dickens performs a dramatic retelling of the classic tale. Pre-reg 816.883.4900

14 thursday Tales for Tiny Tykes 9:30 & 10:30, Plaza Library. Toddlers ages 18-36 months can listen to a 20-minute story time followed with a craft. 816.701.3481

Pop ‘n Play 9:00, Johnson County Museum. A drop-in program with age-appropriate activities for children 9 months to 3 years old. 913.715.2550

Holiday Boutique Thru Sun, 10:00, OP Convention Center. More than 225 unique exhibitors return for a holiday shopping event! 816.931.4686

Toddler Takeover 10:00, Kansas City North Community Center. Bring your little ones under 4 to run and play in the gym. $1. 816.784.

Highlights Tour 2:00, Nat’l Frontier Trails Museum. See aspects of Western settlement through a 30-minute guided tour. 816.325.7575

Santa’s Wonderland Thru Dec 24, Bass Pro Shop. Enjoy an interactive play area, make crafts, write letters to the North Pole and visit Santa. 816.795.4300

Tarzan Thru Sun, 7:00, Bell Cultural Events Center (MidAmerica Nazarene). Christian Youth Theater presents the Disney smash hit. 913.681.3318

Nature Time Yoga 10:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Get creative by acting out stories with

Ararat Shrine Circus Thru Sun, 7:30, Municipal Auditorium. Four days to experience the fun and

Special Beginnings EARLY LEARNING CENTER Quality Christian early care and education for over 20 years!

The Wiz Book by William F. Brown Music by Charlie Smalls Directed by Jeff Church Music Direction by Anthony Edwards Choreography by Vanessa Severo

NOV 12 to JAN 05

This Tony™ award-winning, timeless classic is a multicultural view of Oz with a soulful twist. Based on The Coterie’s 2011 acclaimed staging, described as “an event so unique and imaginative it’s in a class by itself” (Kansas City Star), Dorothy and three friends ease on down a fabulous yellow brick road.

• PT or FT schedule • M-F, 6 am to 6 pm • NAC Accredited • Infants to 12 years • Developmental Curriculum starting at Infants

NEW! SCHOOL AGE SPACE OPENING IN LENEXA IN NOVEMBER!

Lenexa Infants-School Age 10216 Pflumm Rd. 913.894.0131 Olathe Infants-Pre-K 14169 Murlen Rd 913.393.2223

70 Minutes - approximate length THE COTERIE SHINES Elementary and Family Series

Tickets only $12 - $17

$6-$7 for groups of 20 or more

Overland Park Infants-Pre-K 8205 W 108th Terr 913.378.1075

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thrills of this exciting show! KCShrineCircus.com A Christmas Carol with Gerald Dickens 7:00, Lee’s Summit Branch MCPL. The great grandson of Charles Dickens performs a dramatic retelling of the classic tale. Pre-reg 816.524.0567

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Peter Pan Today & tomorrow, Indian Creek Community Church. Trilogy Cultural Arts performs the beloved story about a boy who never grows up. 913.254.4444 Pint-Size Playtime 10:00, Harris Park Community Center. Bring your preschoolers to the gym and run some of their energy out each month! Prereg. 816.969.1540 Story Time 10:30 & 11:30, Shawnee Books & Toys. Bring in the kids to participate in our weekly story time, craft and a snack. 913.962.1428 The Wiz 10:00, Noon & 7:00, the Coterie Theatre. Based on a timeless classic. See Dorothy and three friends ease on down a fabulous yellow brick road. TheCoterie.org 3rd Friday Art Walk 5:30, Englewood Station. The galleries open their doors to art lovers every third Friday of the month. EnglewoodStation.com Friday Family Night 6:00, Cool Crest. Every Friday for only $21.99, enjoy unlimited soft play (4 guests), 100 arcade tokens, large pizza and 4 drinks. 816.358.0088

KC PARENT HAS TONS OF TICKET GIVEAWAYS! Each week in November win a family 4-pack of tickets to A Christmas Carol ($180 value). Win 2 tickets (1 adult & 1 child) to KC Ballet’s Nutracker Sugar Plum Fairy Luncheon & Performance on Saturday, Dec. 7, 2013. PLUS each child receives a complimentary photo with the Sugar Plum Fairy. Event ALWAYS sells out ($235 value). HURRY! Both ticket giveaways end Nov. 29! Visit KCParent.com to enter! No purchase necessary. See rules on entry form for eligibility and terms.

All Aboard the Midland Railway!

Santa Claus Express

Dec 7-8, 14-15, 2013 Departures: 9 am, 11 am, 2 pm, 4 pm

Santa Fe Depot, 1515 High St., Baldwin City Fares: $16 for adults 12+ $10 for children 1 to 11 years old.

Professional photographer on train to take photo with Santa. Or, you can bring your own camera. (additional cost for photographs)

Gift shop open for all R/R gift ideas! Hot cocoa & cookies served to each passenger!

913.721.1211

Tickets now available online! Singing, Christmas Storytelling and much more! Follow us on Facebook @ midlandrailway

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Gymboree Play & Music 7:00, Downtown Lee’s Summit Farmers’ Market. We will have a fun kids craft along with bubbles and other kid fun all morning! 816.525.7529 Two-Day Baby Buck Sale Today & tomorrow, Children’s Orchard locations. Particular resale items NB to 18 months are now $1.00. ChildOrch.com Fancy Doll Hairstyles 9:00, American Girl Store. Get hands-on tips for creating great styles for your doll. $28. Pre-reg 877.247.5223 Babysitter Boot Camp 9:00, Harris Park Community Center. Ages 10+ will learn strategies for child safety, games and crafts, first aid and CPR. 816.969.1540 Kids-a-Cookin’: Entertaining Kid-Style 9:30, Johnson County K-State Research and Extension. Kids learn food prep, sanitation, kitchen safety and more! 913.715.7000 Scavenger Saturdays 10:00, Kemper Museum of Art. Follow the clues on this “ART-astic” adventure! 816.753.5784 Nature Nuts Story Time 10:00 & 1:00, Anita B Gorman Conservation Discovery Center. Hear nature stories and participate in hands-on activities. 816.759.7300 kcparent.com november 2013

Beauty and the Beast

Nov. 21-23, 7:00, Indian Creek Community Church. The Culture House presents this Disney favorite of Belle and the Beast! CultureHouse.com Family Fun Day 10:00, Johnson County Museum. Make a craft together with your family and tour KidScape. 913.715.2550

and games that are sure to make you smile! 913.962.1428

Kristkindlmarkt 10:00, Turners-GACA Hall. Singers, dancers, holiday shopping and lunch will be available. 816.331.3184

Kids Team Up for Art 1:30, Bluford Library. Children in K-8th grade are invited to tap their creative energies and create art masterpieces. 855.201.9922

Bird Banding 10:00, Burroughs Audubon Nature Center and Bird Sanctuary. See our resident winter songbirds up close and personal. 816.795.8177

All Things Kansas City Comedy Show 8:00, Folly Theater. See the most uniquely diverse comedy show, featuring six talented nationally-known comedians. 816.474.4444

17 sunday

Nikita’s Birthday Celebration 10:00, Kansas City Zoo. Can you believe it? Nikita is turning 7! Make a birthday card and help us celebrate! 816.513.5800

Real Pirates Union Station. See artifacts recovered from the first authenticated pirate ship found in US waters! UnionStation.org

Thanksgiving Tea Party 10:30, Anna Marie’s Teas. Gather together with your loved ones and enjoy a Blessings Tea Party. $20.50/ea. 816.792.8777

art + family = FUN 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Join us every Saturday and Sunday for free activities for all ages! 816.751.1278

Heartland Open Adventures Noon, Heartland Center. Try your hand on the rock wall, zip line, vertical playground and more. Ages 10+. 816.891.1078

Selena Gomez 7:00, Sprint Center. Worldwide multi-platinum singer Selena Gomez will make a stop on her world tour in Kansas City! SprintCenter.com

Junie B Jones Talks Turkey Noon, Shawnee Books & Toys. We will have Junie B Jones crafts

18 monday

Festival of Trees Thru Nov 23, Weston, MO. View

Dentistry That Will Make Kids

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Smile • Prompt, friendly care • Professional dental cleanings • Fun, interactive environment • Specialized dentistry just for kids!

trees, wreaths or florals in participating downtown stores and the chamber office. WestonMO.com

free play for young children while you enjoy a coffee break. 913.393.3000

Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Community Center. Children ages 5 and under are invited to run, ride and play while making new friends! 913.541.0209

Toddle Time Tue & Wed, 9:00-11:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Fun and enriching open playtime for ages 5 and under. $1-$2/child. 913.895.6390

Mommy and Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. Bumper bowling for moms & tots! $3/ea includes game, shoe rental and drink. 816.524.3322

Indoor Playground 9:30-11:30, Sylvester Powell Comm Ctr. Children 6 and under can play on developmentally appropriate toys for just $2. 913.722.8200

Toddler Time 10:00, Bonner Springs Community Center. Bring your toddler in to jump and have some fun! 913.422.7010

Tots on Tuesday 11:00, Kemper Museum. Bring in your preschooler for a fun and fashionable gettogether every third Tuesday. 816.753.5784

Mt Gilead Monday 10:00, Historic Mt Gilead School (Jesse James Farm). This program for homeschoolers will have its own history-related themes, crafts and games. 816.736.8500 Santa’s Wonderland Thru Dec 24, Bass Pro Shop. Enjoy an interactive play area, make crafts, write letters to the North Pole and visit Santa. 816.795.4300 Open Play 11:00, Emerald City. One hour of gym time on slides, rock wall, zip line, trampoline, rope swing, foam pits and more is only $5. 913.438.4444

19 tuesday Free Play Cedar Ridge Christian Church. Daily

20 wednesday Santa Photos Kia Bondurant. Take photo with vintage and traditional Santa in new Shawnee studio. KiaBondurant.com Pop ‘n Play 9:00, Johnson County Museum. A drop-in program with age-appropriate activities for children 9 months to 3 years old. 913.715.2550 Mommy and Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. Bumper bowling for moms & tots! $3/ea includes game, shoe rental and drink. 816.524.3322 Let’s Go Science Show 9:45 & Noon, Yardley Hall (JCCC). Take a fun look at scientific principles in action with two funny “scientists!” 913.469.8500 x4221

The Wiz 10:00 & Noon, the Coterie Theatre. Based on a timeless classic. See Dorothy and three friends ease on down a fabulous yellow brick road. TheCoterie.org Gym Tyme 10:00, Shawnee Civic Centre. Every Wednesday, toddlers and preschoolers can play in our gym for just $2. 913.631.5200 Jo Ho Storyteller: Thanksgiving Stories 10:00, Johnson County Museum. Hear stories that remind us that the little things matter. 913.715.2552 Youth Arts and Crafts 4:00-6:00, Garrison Community Center. Ages 7-14 can make creative projects and bring them home to show Mom or Dad. Free. 816.784.1140

21 thursday

Tales for Tiny Tykes 9:30 & 10:30, Plaza Library. Toddlers ages 18-36 months can listen to a 20-minute story time followed with a craft. 816.701.3481 Preschool Playtime 9:30, Beautiful Savior Lutheran Church. Join us for an open gym with various toys and equipment. Snack and drink provided. 913.579.6867 Holiday Open House Downtown Excelsior Springs. Kick off the holiday season with super sales and great customer service. 816.637.2811 Little Cedar Theater 5:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Learn about nature and how to perform

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Northern Lights at Zona Rosa

Nov. 23, 4:00, Zona Rosa Town Square. Come for the local tradition of a 6:00 lighting ceremony. ZonaRosa.com imaginative storytelling. Ages 6-12. 913.764.7759 3rd Thursdays 5:00, Martin City Business District. 10 percent of tonight’s revenue will benefit the Don Harman Memorial Tournament. MartinCity.WordPress.com Atchison Christmas Tree Lighting 5:15, Commercial Street Mall (Atchison). Get into the holiday spirit with carolers, hot drinks and Christmas cheer. 913.367.2427 Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony 6:30, Historic Liberty. Ring in the holiday season with the lighting of Liberty’s historic downtown square. CI.Liberty.Mo.Us Beauty and the Beast Thru Nov. 23, 7:00, Indian Creek Community Church. The Culture House presents this Disney favorite of Belle and the Beast! CultureHouse.com Charles Dickens Event 7:00, North Independence Branch MCPL. Explore how Christmas traditions have roots in the writings of Dickens. Pre-reg 816.252.0950

22 friday

Pint-Size Turkey Bash 10:00, Harris Park Com-

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munity Center. Participate in Thanksgiving-themed crafts and games. Snack provided. 816.969.1500 Best Little Arts & Crafts Show Today & tomorrow, 10:00, Sermon Center. Local and regional vendors offer holiday gifts for sale. 816.325.7370 Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Café. Hear a story, create a pottery piece and enjoy a simple snack. 913.383.0222 The Ice Opens for the Season 11:00, Park Place. The only outdoor ice rink in Johnson County is ready for another season of skating! 913.381.2229 Lake Quivira Holiday Bazaar Today & tomorrow, 1:00, Lake Quivira Clubhouse. The unique boutique features holiday items. 913.579.6766 Kids Night Out 6:00, Paint Glaze & Fire. Hang out with us for the evening, eat pizza and paint pottery. 913.661.2529 Good-Night Zoo 6:00, Kansas City Zoo. Enjoy a night of exploration, stories and songs about

turkeys with your kids ages 3-5. 816.513.5800 Mayor’s Tree Lighting 6:30, Howard Station Park. Enjoy free hot chocolate and cookies, music and a visit from Santa and Mrs. Claus. 816.246.6598 Friday Night Family Fun 6:30, Plaza Library. Join us every Friday night for fun activities the whole family can enjoy! 816.701.3481 A Christmas Carol Thru Dec 26, Spencer Theatre. KC Rep returns with Kansas City’s favorite holiday tradition! 816.235.2700

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St Jude Give Thanks Walk 8:00, CommunityAmerica Ballpark. Register for this walk to raise money for St Jude Children’s Research Hospital. FundRaising.StJude.org

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Holiday Open House 9:00, Paint Glaze & Fire. This is the perfect time to make holiday gifts for everyone on your list! Free studio fees today. 913.661.2529 Silly Turkey Hat 11:00-3:00, Lakeshore Learning. Drop in to create a turkey hat. Free. 913.432.3998 Overland Park Farmers’ Market Concert 10:30, Downtown OP. Enjoy fresh produce, music and a visit from Santa! OPKansas.org Christmas Exhibit Thru Jan 31, Strawberry Hill Museum. See the uniquely decorated room of the main museum house this holiday season. 913.371.3264 The Great Gobbler Coloring Contest 1:00, Garrison Community Center. Color the great gobbler and win a prize. 816.784.1140 Kids Team Up for Art 1:30, North-East Library. Children in K-8th grade are invited to tap their creative energies and create art masterpieces. 855.201.9922 Beauty and the Beast 2:00 & 7:00, Indian Creek Community Church. The Culture House presents

Santa Train Departures are 9 am, 11 am, and 1 pm Sat., Nov. 30 and Sat., Dec. 7 2013.

Kids under three FREE (on a parent’s lap)

$14 for anyone 3 and older. Reservations begin Nov. 1

Prepaid, nonrefundable reservations are required. Online reservations only. Check website for last minute seats available.

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Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art Luminary Walk

Nov. 29, Luminary Walk 5:00, the Nelson-Atkins Museum. Stroll through the scenic south lawn. After, purchase a s’mores kit to enjoy! Nelson-Atkins.org this Disney favorite of Belle and the Beast! CultureHouse.com

reserve your spot today! ArtsAndRec-op.org

Turkey Bowling on Ice 2:00, Line Creek Community Center. Win your Thanksgiving turkey by knocking down the most pins with a frozen turkey. 816.505.2423

A Christmas Carol 7:00, Spencer Theatre. Join the KC Repertory Theatre for a family holiday tradition! KCRep.org

Festival of Hope 5:00, Main Street Weston. Join us for drinks and chili, a silent auction and the Festival of Trees finale viewing. 816.640.2909 Northern Lights at Zona Rosa 6:00, Zona Rosa Town Square. Come for the local tradition of a 6:00 lighting ceremony. ZonaRosa.com Christmas in Excelsior Springs Excelsior Springs. Lane of Lights opens at East Valley Park, Hall of Trees opens in the Hall of Waters. Christmas parade and mayor’s tree lighting. ESChristmas.com

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Christmas at Lanesfield Saturdays thru Dec 29, 1:00, Lanesfield Historic Site. See the school decorated for an old-fashioned Christmas! 913.893.6645 Purchase Tickets The Nutcracker Tea Party is Dec 7 & 8 at the Ritz Charles. Purchase tickets and

Fall Group Hayrides Thru November. Heritage and Shawnee Mission parks offer hour-long hayrides this fall. Reserve a date and time! 913.831.3359

25 monday

Moms FREE Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms are free at the Children’s EduTainment Center with a paid child’s admission. 816.246.5224 The Wiz 10:00 & Noon, the Coterie Theatre. Based on a timeless classic. See Dorothy and three friends ease on down a fabulous yellow brick road. TheCoterie.org Toddler Time 10:00, Bonner Springs Community Center. Bring your toddler in to jump and have some fun! 913.422.7010 Kidscape 10:00, Johnson County Museum. A hands-on exhibit for kids designed to look like a suburban streetscape! 913.715.2550

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Open Gym Noon, 360 Gymnastics. Bring your kids for an hour to our recreational gymnastics facility for fun play! 913.707.3756

26 tuesday

Student ID Night The Ice at Park Place. Students receive half price admission Tuesday evenings with valid student ID. 913.451.4600 \ Indoor Playground 9:30-11:30, Sylvester Powell Comm Ctr. Children 6 and under can play on

A Country School Christmas

developmentally appropriate toys for just $2. 913.722.8200 Real Pirates Union Station. See artifacts recovered from the first authenticated pirate ship found in US waters! UnionStation.org

Sat., Dec. 7th 1:00-4:00 p.m.

Coffee Playground 10:00, OP First Assembly of God. Free play in the gym for kids 5 and under. Inflatables, scooters, balls and other toys! OverlandParkMops.blogspot.com

FREE

Join us for a 1904 Christmas celebration!

Family Night 4:00, Little Monkey Bizness. Let your little ones monkey around in our indoor play area at a discount. 913.631.7000 ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas Thru Dec 28, Theatre for Young America. See the adventure of a mouse, an elf and a spunky girl. TYA.org.

27 wednesday

* Visit with Santa Claus * Christmas Caroling * Christmas Tales with JoHo the Storyteller

Stories for Ones 9:30, Waldo Library. Bring your 1-year-old to a story time geared toward this age group. 816.701.3486

Drop in throughout December to see the school decorated for an old-fashioned Christmas! Write your letter to Santa with a quill pen and ink, and learn how Christmas was celebrated in 1904. Make an ornament.

Christmas in the Sky 5:30, Longview Lake Park. Fireworks and music to kick off the season! JacksonGov.org The Cat in the Hat Knows A Lot About Christmas 7:30, KCPT. A cat-tastic holiday event to watch with the family! KCPTKids.org

The Fairy Princess

Saturdays, December 7, 14, 21 10 a.m.-4 p.m. | $10 Sundays, December 8, 15, 22 noon-4 p.m. | $10 Kansas City Museum’s historic Fairy Princess once again spreads holiday cheer at the Kansas City Museum. A complimentary photo and Fairy Princess gift is included with your visit.

816-483-8300 AT CORINTHIAN HALL

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Lanesfield School 18745 S. Dillie Road • Edgerton, KS 913.893.6645 • www.jocomuseum.org

Presents… The Nutcracker Ballet that tells the true story of Christmas.

December 6 & 8

Liberty Performing Arts Theatre 1600 S. Withers Road, Liberty, MO

Friday Friday Sunday Sunday

9:30am 6:30pm 2:00pm 7:00pm

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Join the KC Repertory Theatre for a family holiday tradition! KCRep.org

28 thursday: thanksgiving day

Thanksgiving Weekend Today & tomorrow, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Celebrate the holidays with dinner, live music, luminary walk and more. 816.751.1278

Turkey Trot 9:00, English Landing Park. Participate in the 25th annual Parkville Turkey Trail Trot! No dogs or strollers allowed. ParkvilleTurkeyTrot.org

Mayor’s Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony 5:30, Crown Center. The 100-foot-tall mayor’s Christmas tree is lit up to kick off the holiday season. 816.274.8444

84th Annual Plaza Lighting Ceremony 5:00, Country Club Plaza. Enjoy a holiday tradition like no other. CountryClubPlaza.com

29 friday Optical Illusions 10:00, KC Toy & Miniature Museum. Explore the museum and the magical world of Victorian optical illusion toys. 816.235.8000 Holiday Sing Along 10:00, Union Station. Join KFKF and local holiday choirs to sing along to holiday favorites! UnionStation.org Silly Stuff Puppet Show! Today & tomorrow, 11:00 & 2:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. This program is not for the serious-minded! 833.9777 A Christmas Carol 2:00 & 8:00, Spencer Theatre.

Holiday Breakfast 8:30, Union Station. Enjoy pancakes with Real Pirates as well as holiday crafts. UnionStation.org Santa Train 9:00, 11:00, 1:00, Belton, Grandview and KC Railroad Co. Get your tickets early for a special train ride and visit from Santa! 816.331.0630 Falling Leaves Mobile 11:00-3:00, Lakeshore Learning. Children create colorful falling leaves for a fall mobile! Free. 913.432.3998

Memory Lane Lighting Display 5:30, Ottawa, KS. Enjoy this mile-long road with more than 30 holiday light displays. 785.878.3375

Twas the Night Before Christmas 2:00, Theater for Young America. A joyful story of a mouse, an elf and a spunky little girl. TYA.org

Spirit of Christmas Past Tour Thru Dec 30, Vaile Mansion. See the three historic homes decorated for the holidays. 816.325.7430

Hershel and the Hanukkah Goblins 6:00, White Theatre. Paul Mesner puppets teams with the JCC to present this puppet show about the trickster, Hershel. 913.927.8054

30 saturday Santa Breakfast at Mahaffie 8:30, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop. Enjoy breakfast with Santa, make a craft, hear Christmas carols and get your photo taken. 913.971.5111 Breakfast with the Fairy Princess 8:30, the Grove at Zona Rosa. Have an enchanted breakfast with the Fairy Princess. ZonaRosa.com

Art Workshop, National Frontier Trails Museum. Make Christmas presents based on the art of pioneers. 816.325.7575 Holiday Candlelight Tour 5:00, Harris-Kearney House. Celebrate a 19th-century Christmas with this historic tour. WestportHistorical.com

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Burr Oak Woods Turkey Watching Burr Oak Woods Nature Center, 1401 NW Park Rd., Blue Springs, MO, 816.228.3766, MDC.mo.gov. Admission: FREE. Burr Oak Woods Nature Center is home to wild turkeys, and the Bird Watching Center is a wonderful observation room where families can watch the birds strut and gobble! Junie B. Jones Talks Turkey Nov. 16, Noon-1:00, at Shawnee Books & Toys, 7311 Quivira Rd., Shawnee, KS, 913.962.1428. Celebrate Thanksgiving Junie B. Jones style! Enjoy Junie B. crafts and games that are sure to be fun and festive. Ages 6 & up. Pint-Size Turkey Day Nov. 22, 10:00-Noon, Harris Park Community Center, Lee’s Summit, MO, 816.969.1500. Must register. Come gobble up all of the fun that Lee’s Summit Parks and Recreation has to offer at the Pint-Size Turkey Bash! Craft time will include making Pilgrim and Indian headdresses. There will also be an exciting Indian/Pilgrim bingo game and snacks. The fee is $6/ person (including guardians); pre-registration is required. Register online at LSParks.net. Turkey Bowling Nov. 23, 2:00-3:00, Line Creek Community Center & Ice Arena, 5940 NW Waukomis Dr., Kansas City, MO. $6 includes skate rental. The Pilgrims would have wanted you to skate, bowl on ice and throw snowballs, just for the fun of it. Come one, come all—and maybe win your Thanksgiving turkey by knocking down the most pins with a frozen turkey. Turkey Trot Thanksgiving morning, 9:00, English Landing Park, Parkville, MO, 816.213.0243, ParkvilleTurkeyTrot.org. Participate in the 25th annual Parkville Turkey Trail Trot! The 5k run is at 9:00, the 2-mile walk at 9:15. Note: No dogs or strollers allowed in either event. kansas city’s #1 attraction

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McLain’s Buttery, flaky pie crust and delicious filling—a perennial holiday favorite is the classic American pie! Be they pumpkin, pecan, apple or something a little more exotic, delicious pies fit for your holiday table, just like Mom used to make (or maybe even better!), are served up by masterful local bakeries. The Upper Crust Pie Bakery (7943 Santa Fe, Overland Park, KS, 913.642.2999 and lower level of Pryde’s Old Westport, 115 Westport Rd., Kansas City, MO) is owned and operated by sisters who know the art of a delicious made-from-scratch pie. Their shop specializes in buttery, flaky crusts and delicious flavors. Try Grandma’s apple pie with a hint of nutmeg, blackberry apple, pumpkin pie or French apple with a streusel crumb topping. Tippin’s (TippinsPies.com), a Kansas City tradition for more than 30 years, originally opened as Pippin’s restaurants in 1980. The name changed to Tippin’s in 1985 and won the hearts of pie lovers across the Metro. The restaurant chain closed in 2004, but the company was purchased by Balls Foods, which sells pies using the original recipes at grocery stores across the Metro. Kansas Citians can still enjoy their favorite Tippin’s pies by ordering online at TippinsPies.com or at neighborhood grocers. Traditional holiday flavors, including pumpkin and pecan, are always popular, but we are partial to the French silk and key lime pies. One of Kansas City’s most beloved bakeries for more than 60 years, McLain’s (201 E. Gregory Blvd., Kansas City, MO, 816.523.9911, McLainsBakeryInWaldo.com) is famous for its chocolate cup cookies, but they also make delicious personal pies. Selling classic flavors, including apple, pumpkin and cherry, they offer 4-inch pies perfect for each guest at a party.

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