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hat are your holiday traditions? In the Sarver home, we have several. Each year, the girls put up a small tree in their room. They decorate the tree with 24 small bags, each one containing a trinket, piece of candy or some other small item. Beginning Dec. 1, we read a page from the book Advent Storybook, 24 Stories to Share Before Christmas. After reading the night’s story, each girl opens a gift. I have to say, it’s the tradition about which that the girls get most excited. The “Elf on the Shelf” also visits each year, and we watch parts from the movie The Nativity Story on Christmas Eve before going to bed. Traditions play an important role in family life, and Wendy Connelly takes a look at those customs on pg. 38.

In addition to our old traditions, we’re looking forward to starting a few new ones this year. We’re taking the girls to see The Nutcracker and then to dinner on the Plaza. Don’t laugh, but the Sarver girls have never seen the Plaza lights. I know! It’s on my to-do list each and every Christmas season—we have just never made it down there. But this year, with tickets already in hand, we will most definitely see the world famous lights! I always turn to our resident Kansas City expert, KC Parent’s electronic media manager, Kristina Light, when doing something new (like taking our kids to the Plaza lights).

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“People are not all the same, and if we know their personality type, then we can work with that rather than against it and save a lot of frustration.”

–Susan Crook, author and human behavior consultant

Parenting by

Personality What Makes Your Child Tick?

Susan Crook, author and human behavior expert, suggests the D-I-S-C personality profile assessment for D-I-S-Covering your child’s personality type. While everyone embodies all four of the personality styles, people operate naturally in their top one or two, according to Crook.

Understanding, accepting and embracing a person’s personality helps ward off miscommunications and misunderstandings. Here’s the scoop on personalities: D personalities are driven, dominant, determined, decisive, demanding, doers. Try giving them options to help them feel a modicum of control. (task-oriented/outgoing—bosses/ CEOs) I personalities are interactive, involved, inspiring, influential, interesting. Think of ways to make tasks fun to capture their attention and ensure follow through. (people-oriented/ outgoing—salespeople/politicians) S personalities are supportive, sweet, submissive, stable, shy, want status quo. Give them one task at a time and let them work at their own pace as much as possible. (peopleoriented/reserved— teachers/nurses) C personalities are calculating, cautious, conscientious, contemplative, careful. Give clear plans and instructions, and answer all their questions so that they have the opportunity to get it right. (task-oriented/reserved— accountants/librarians) For more information on D-I-S-C, including where to find professional online D-I-S-C assessments, go to SusanCrook.com.

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ou probably know your child’s height and weight. You may even

know his blood type or IQ. But you may not know the one factor that could help you and your child avoid frazzled nerves, hurt feelings and tense

Hi, I’m Leah! I am an “I” personality.

I need you to make fun games out of my daily chores and help me find ways to make homework more enjoyable!

confrontations: his personality style.

A Tough Lesson

Susan Crook wishes she had known that when her son, Scott, was born.

“From the very beginning, he wanted to control everything from his crib,” says Crook, a Kansas City-area mom to one teen and two adult children.

It wasn’t until Scott was in jr. high and Crook was taking graduate classes that she began to study personalities. And that’s when the light came on. Her son wasn’t just strong willed with high energy; he was a high “type-D” personality. That’s according to D-I-S-C, which Crook champions as the best tool for discerning and understanding personality styles.

“So often we want to handle everything the same for every child; we want to be fair,” says Crook, whose two daughters have the more reserved and orderly “C” personalities. “But people are not all the same, and if we know their personality type, then we can work with that rather than against it and save a lot of frustration.”

Crook, now a national speaker and certified human behavior consultant, is author of the award-winning book Personality Insights for Moms!, which teaches parents how to discipline and motivate according to their children’s personality styles. The book also encourages parents to learn their own personality type so they can understand the role it plays in interactions with their children.

D-I-S-Covering the Answer

Juli Bell was at the Kansas City Zoo six years ago when she realized her oldest daughter’s personality style.

When the Olathe mom offered snacks to the group—which included her four children, Crook and Crook’s youngest daughter —Bell’s daughter called for and opened the first package before anyone else could react. It was a like a conquest for her.

Then, when the next box appeared, she wanted to trade.

Bell remembers this: “Susan immediately said, ‘That is such a ‘D.’ They jump right in not knowing what they really want. They don’t always scope out the situation and just want to get it done.’”

Since then, Bell has worked to slow down her 14-year-old daughter and give her options.

“In that same situation, I would now say, ‘I have a couple of snacks and you might want to look before you decide,’” Bell says.

In contrast, Bell’s 9-year-old daughter has an “S” personality and is more concerned that the other children get the snacks they want and are happy, even if she gets the last one and it’s not what she likes.

Although Bell sees a mix of all the personality styles in each child—her 12-year-old son is a correct “C” and her 7-year-old son is a gregarious “I”—she appreciates that they are different and have different needs.

And Bell finds that Crook’s tools not only are useful at home but also in the kindergarten class she teaches.

An Ah-Ha Moment

Darcy Ringgenberg recently heard Crook speak about personality styles at her church. And although Ringgenberg has just started reading about D-I-S-C, Crook’s talk clarified an issue that has weighed heavily on the Overland Park mom.

“My girls have always had difficulty getting along, and when learning about the D-I-S-C styles, it totally makes sense,” says Ringgenberg of her 16- and 22-year-old daughters. “I’ve always struggled with this, and at least now I have a better understanding instead of only beating myself up.”

The Personality Payoff

Besides helping avoid conflicts and promoting communication, knowing your child’s personality type also can help you realize the best way to convey love and support to him.

And speaking of loved and supported children, you may be wondering what happened to Crook’s driven, high-energy, determined son. He grew up to be a savvy and successful businessman, co-owning 21 rental homes by his early 20s. His company was ranked No. 129 on Inc. magazine’s list of the 500 fastest-growing private companies in the United States. And his network of businesses still is booming today. The bonus: He married a sweet, supportive woman with an “S” personality.

So take it from Crook, personalities don’t determine who is a good parent, but knowing how they operate sure can make good parenting easier.

Melinda Ablard Smith is wife to one amazing man, mother to two great kiddos and owner to three Chihuahuas with personality to spare. She lives in Olathe and teaches journalism at MidAmerica Nazarene University. kcparent.com december 2012

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Holiday Favorites

New and Old Tales Alike Bring Magic to the Holidays

By McGeath Freeman

The Greek Who Stole Christmas: A Diamond Brothers Mystery By Anthony Horowitz Best for: Ages 9-12

Drummer Boy By Loren Long Best for: Ages 4-8 You’ve heard the holiday song “The Little Drummer Boy,” so it should come as no surprise that a book titled Drummer Boy is greatly inspired by the familiar tune.

One winter’s day, a snappy little drummer appears on a child’s doorstep. The boy immediately forms a bond with the drummer and loves listening to him play.

But things get a twist when the drummer ends up going on an improbable journey around town, carried around by a variety of animals. He plays for everyone who will listen and brings peace to them all. When the boy finally finds the drummer again, it is in the cemetery next to his grandfather’s grave.

What makes this picture book special are Long’s beautiful acrylic illustrations. They offer grandeur and scale that draws the reader into each and every scene.

It’s Christmas, and Tim and Nick Diamond are broke, as usual. Tim is a hapless London detective whose 14-year-old brother is really the brains of the team. When Minerva, the world-famous Greek pop star, looks for a detective to discover who is sending her death threats, Tim and Nick jump at the opportunity.

This book is a short but exciting novel with a plot that moves at a very fast clip. Horowitz does a great job keeping us entertained with the mystery while mixing in humorous banter between characters. He squeezes in puns that kids will think are hilarious. Adults, however, will roll their eyes so often they’ll hurt.

What’s good: Entertaining characters mixed with humor.

What’s bad: A few minor suggestive references to Minerva’s appearance.

What’s good: Can’t say it enough—the illustrations.

What’s bad: You must accept a lot of coincidences for the story to work.

The Last Holiday Concert

By Andrew Clements Best for: Ages 8-12

The Fourth King: The Story of the Other Wise Man

By Ted Sieger Best for: Ages 4-12 Whatever moniker you know them by—the three kings, the magi or the wise men—you know there were only three.

They carried gold, frankincense and myrrh to give as gifts to the baby Jesus.

The Fourth King, a wonderful fable about a forgotten wise man, reminds us all about the true meaning of Christmas. Based on the short story The Other Wise Man, by Henry Van Dyke, this tale follows King Mazzel, a fourth wise man who is late to Bethlehem.

He intends to meet his friends Melchior, Caspar and Balthazar at the edge of the desert. Unfortunately, a series of crises arise.

What is Mazzel to do?

What’s good: Intriguing and entertaining story with a wonderful message.

What’s bad: A little long to hold the attention of younger readers.

This one isn’t new, but if you haven’t read it yet, it is definitely worth reading now. If you have read it, pick it up again.

What is the most you could ask for in a school holiday concert? Now, what is the most you could expect if the kids were in charge? Clements is a master at telling the school story, flipping everything on its head and teaching everyone involved a lesson they will never forget.

When Mr. Meinert takes Hart Evans to the principal’s office for shooting rubber bands, everything is set in motion. We learn something no one else knows: Mr. Meinert is losing his job due to budget cuts, and he is fed up. He decides a suitable punishment is to place Hart in charge of the holiday concert. That is when things get interesting and Hart, Mr. Meinert and the reader get more than they bargained for.

What’s good: Depth of character and believability mixed with a touch of humor.

What’s bad: A few slow chapters and predictability, but it has a touching ending.

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oes this happen at your house? After the kids rip open their Christmas presents, they announce, “We’ll play with these in a bit, after we work on our thank you cards.”

No? I’m shocked.

Okay, most kids don’t actually like to write thank you notes. They may even seem old-fashioned in today’s world, but penning them is an important habit to teach your children.

Whether it’s your neighbor next door or Cousin Doris in Minneapolis, a giver’s thoughtfulness should be properly thanked with a handwritten note. Here are a few things to keep in mind:

explain the importance.

When our kids grumble about writing thank you cards, we tell them that people took time out of their busy lives to choose gifts especially for them, and spent their hard-earned money to do it.

Therefore, they can certainly take a few moments to tell each person how much they appreciate their thoughtfulness and generosity.

Butler mom Angelia Berry says, “My children know that if they do not thank a person, they are not showing gratitude and appreciation, and if they don’t show that, the person may not bother to send gifts again.”

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start early.

Should thank you notes be written in cursive?

Should cursive still be taught? Read “Is Cursive Coming to a Close?” at KCParent.com.

We asked KCParent.com readers: Do you think it’s important for your kids to send thank you notes for gifts received?

73% Yes, my children always send for birthday and holiday gifts.

27% No, they are young and if they thank the giver in person, that’s good enough.

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A 2-year-old can’t write a thank you note, but he can add stickers or scribble with a crayon on a note a parent writes. A 5-year-old can sign her name and dictate what she likes about the gift. As writing skills progress, kids can copy simple lines like “Dear Grandma” or “Thank you for the gift,” with parents adding in the rest.

By 7 or 8, children should be able to write their own notes.

spread it out.

Writing 20 cards in one day is overwhelming for most kids, but two or three cards a day spread over a week is doable.

make it fun.

Provide a variety of writing instruments–colored pens, crayons, markers, glitter pens–along with stickers or other embellishments, and encourage your child to get creative.

think outside the box.

Belton mom Julie Bresette and Cleveland mom Tracy Goodall both take pictures of their kids with each gift and send that along with the thank you.

short and sweet is fine.

Remind kids they are not penning a novel. Two or three sentences should cover it: “Dear Uncle Matt, Thank you for the book. I love mysteries and can’t wait to read this one. Love, Natalie.” Be sure your children explain WHY they like the gift or mention that they have already worn it/played with it/listened to it. If the gift was money, have them explain what they purchased with it.

be frugal.

Nobody says you have to drop a wad of cash on fancy store-bought thank you cards. Who has money after the holidays anyway? Fold some paper and have younger kids decorate with stamps and stickers or snippets of leftover wrapping paper. Older kids can create and print cards on the computer or simply use pretty paper to pen their thoughts. The point is to thank people for their thoughtfulness, and you don’t have to go broke in doing so. kcpSmartToys.pdf

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This is a hot topic.

Although we live in a techdriven world, most etiquette experts agree that a handwritten thank you note is the way to go. Taking the time to handwrite a card is warmer and more personal than emailing or calling.

what if your child doesn’t like the gift?

It happens–a For a fun approach to thank you note writing with 12-year-old receives a kids, try these mommy & me notecards at game of Candyland, or Etsy.com/shop/raspberryprairie.

Great Aunt Joyce knits a hideous sweater. Explain fill-in-the-blank thank you notes for your that the giver still took time to choose kids. Nothing says “impersonal” and the gift, and the recipient still has a moral “lazy” quite like those. Gift givers will apobligation to thank her. No need to lie. Inpreciate that your children take the time to stead, your child could say something like: write a personal note of gratitude.

“Thank you for the sweater. I appreciate your taking the time to knit it for me.”

Tisha Foley and her husband are proud of their two children who started helping with thank you notes at age 2. That’s Not to sound like uppity Miss Mannot to say they don’t occasionally grumble ners, but please don’t buy those cheesy AM about them, though.

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All I Want for the Holidays Is My Manly Voice

With a little bit of patience and awkward squawking, your boy will have that deep voice he has been wanting.

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lex, I’ll take “Boys, Puberty and Voice Changes for $400.” This might be comical to the general public. But if you are a young man with a growing Adam’s apple, pubertal changes and are frequently living a Brady Bunch episode of Peter squawking “Time to Change,” life’s not so amusing.

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When a boy is young, his vocal cords are thin and short. This is what makes his voice higher than adult males. The bigger and longer the cords, the deeper the voice becomes. During the transition, the mechanism doesn’t know how to deal with

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“Kind of like a virtuoso who is playing a violin and he accidentally lets up on the string. There’s a squeak on the violin, when it’s not being played accurately— same kind of sound production with the male voice,” Dr. Schuman analogizes.

Dealing with vocal cracks

First, suggest your son try clearing his throat/voice and then waiting for a few seconds for the mechanism to calm down. Dehydration makes this condition worse. “Lubricating the vocal cords can lessen the problem,” suggests Dr. Schuman. Increasing the intake of clear fluids, decreasing the amount of caffeine and, if still needed, taking cough drops or hard candies can keep the vocal cords lubricated.

After all…with a little bit of patience and awkward squawking, your boy will have that deep voice he has been waiting for!

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And I let her suck her thumb WAY too long. I know this. She only sucked it when she had her blankie, “Fifi,” and Fifi wasn’t allowed out of her room—so she basically sucked her thumb in her room at night. I had Tori quit when she was 5. But, in my defense, the dentist was on me to get Tori to stop sucking her thumb. With Ally, the dentist couldn’t even tell she sucked her thumb, so I didn’t have that outside pressure. We did see the orthodontist this summer, and he broke the news to Ally that she needed to stop sucking her thumb. We decided to wait until she was back in the school routine and chose last Friday to start the process.

With Tori, we tried painting something on her nails that made her thumb taste “yucky.” Didn’t work. We tried a thumb guard. Didn’t work. We put together a goal chart and worked toward small rewards for each few days she didn’t suck her thumb. Finally, to keep the thumb out of her mouth at night, we covered it

with Band-Aids. Worked. So we’re starting there with Ally.

As I write this, we’re on day 4, and so far, so good! The first night was hard. Really hard. She was a puddle of tears, and it was all I could do to not give in to that sweet little face and let her keep sucking her thumb. But I was strong and stuck with the plan, and we have initial success! If she gets three more nights of no thumb sucking, then she gets a frozen yogurt treat. For her big treat after 30 nights in a row, she is deciding between a new Barbie or a Build-A-Bear.

Another milestone, another year closer to growing up. Maybe that’s why I was so hesitant to start this process. But for better or worse, we’ve started and we’re making our way though it, one night at a time.

Margaret Sarver lives in Lenexa with her family. She and other moms, dads and teens blog daily at KCParent.com. Join the conversation today!

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DIVORCE

HOW TO TELL THE KIDS “CHILDREN GRIEVE VERY MUCH LIKE THEY GRIEVE IF ONE OF THE PARENTS HAD DIED OR IF THEY HAD LOST A SIBLING.” - DR. MARTYE BARNARD, UNIVERSITY OF KANSAS HOSPITAL

Questions to Anticipate: Does this mean that Daddy (or Mommy) isn’t going to live with us?

Does this mean we won’t see him (her) anymore?

Does this mean we won’t do things as a family anymore? *Did I do something wrong? *Your child might not ask this question aloud, but she may wonder if she’s somehow to blame.

Source: Dr. Martye Barnard, University of Kansas Hospital

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our marriage is over and now you have the heart-wrenching task of telling your children. How should you break the news?

Tell them together. Barring a harmful or abusive situation, your children need you to continue parenting together. Even if your children are at different ages of maturity, they need to hear the announcement as a family, says Dr. Martye Barnard, a pediatric psychologist and chief of behavioral pediatrics at the University of Kansas Hospital. After that, you and your spouse should talk to each individual child.

Address guilt. Reassure your children that they did nothing to cause the divorce. Explain to them that even though you are no longer married, you are their parents first and your love for them won’t change.

Preschoolers. “It’s amazing how much (preschoolers) understand,” Barnard says. “They’re pretty insightful, but they don’t understand the time element quite like the grade schooler or high schooler would. When you say this is going to happen this month, it doesn’t make sense to them.”

Adrienne Dreher, counselor for Alive Counseling Services, a private family counseling practice in Kansas City, MO, suggests using a calendar to help your preschooler count the days until when she will see each parent. “Children need to have stability and know what to expect.

The sooner a regular parenting plan that works for everyone can be set up, the better,” she says.

Wondering what your child is feeling? Children often express feelings through play, Dreher says. Also, read age-appropriate books together like The Way I Feel series, to help your child learn to share his feelings, including anger, sadness and loss.

School-age. Define what divorce means by explaining that you and your spouse will no longer be living under the same roof. Again, explain that the divorce is not about them, but avoid blaming the other parent for the divorce. “None of the adult stuff should be shared with the kids,” Barnard says. “Those kids really need to be reassured that they have parents that love them.”

Adolescence. As children enter adolescence, parents may be tempted to explain the divorce. Barnard urges parents to avoid sharing details of why the divorce happened. “I know adults that aren’t old enough to understand it,” she says.

Grief is normal. “Children grieve very much like they grieve if one of the parents had died or if they had lost a sibling,” Barnard says. Grief associated with divorce occurs without closure, because unlike death, there’s no funeral. If your child’s grief doesn’t lessen over time or if she expresses a wish to die (even a preschooler), consult with a counselor or child psychologist. The most common sign of depression among school-aged children is irritability, including acting out, disrespect and misbehavior at home and school.

Manage wishful thinking. Children often fantasize about their parents’ getting back together and may continue to harbor these hopes for years. “It’s very, very difficult for kids to put closure on that and to understand that that’s not going to happen,” Barnard says. Gently remind your children periodically that you and your ex won’t be remarrying.

Help children cope. Whenever possible, continue to partner as parents to your children by attending school activities, parent-teacher conferences and birthdays together. And, don’t turn your child into the go-between messenger. “If you have a message to give your former spouse, that should be done by phone.

If that’s not possible because of anger, then email or text,” Barnard says. And if possible, avoid dating for at least a year to help your children adjust.

Additional resources. Part of the UMKC network, MissouriFamilies.org, provides a list of recommended books about divorce, broken down by age group.

For more information, visit MissouriFamilies.org/Features.

Freelance writer Christa Melnyk Hines, of Olathe, writes frequently about family communication issues.

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I thought back on my childhood. The tree and the decorations were only the beginning of the season, though. Each endless day brought us closer to a wonderful Christmas morning, but the time simply would not fly. Although we had never used Advent calendars, we still ticked off the days, each one increasing the tension until Christmas Eve finally arrived. Then, the clock actually slowed, each minute seeming to take an hour until bedtime arrived at last. Wound up to a feverish pitch we eluded sleep. Finally, worn out by our excitement, we dropped off. Magic always arrived the next morning.

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Many students with IEPs receive one-on-one instruction to work on individual goals with a paraprofessional or special education teacher. During this time, students can also get assistance with general education coursework and assessments. Paraprofessionals work with students during a study time or by pulling them out of the regular classroom to provide specialized academic attention based on students’ individual needs.

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Small group instruction is composed solely of IEP students. For example, all students are required to develop reading skills. Special education offers a basic reading class that follows the same curriculum as the general education class but might use different versions of the text to

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accommodate a student’s reading level or may alter the curriculum in other ways to meet a student’s need.

CO-TAUGHT CLASSES

Many students are served in the general education environment but still receive support through a co-teaching model, the least restrictive placement. In a co-teaching model, a special education teacher is present in the classroom and may participate in instruction, but generally is there to offer support to students such as clarifying directions, reading assignments aloud, re-teaching a particular concept and monitoring behavior.

MODIFICATIONS

According to Jeff Braden, Special Education Department chair at Liberty North High School, students receive accommodations and modifications to the IEP based on identified disabilities. “If a student with a reading disability is taking a science test, he may have the science test read aloud. The rationale behind this is to test the student’s knowledge of science, not his ability to read. Another example might be offering a student with Autism or ADHD extended time to complete tests or assignments due to issues related to her disability.” Through modifications, students are able to show what they know and can do so with less inhibition from a disability.

504 PLANS

Students with special social and emotional needs, disorders such as ADD or physical limitations often find their unique needs met with a 504 Plan.

These students do not require specialized instruction but have other circumstances, identified under law, limiting their performance in a classroom. One student, after a psychiatric diagnosis of ADHD and Anxiety Disorder, received a list of accommodations including preferential seating, ability to take tests in the hallway and extended test time to reduce anxiety. To support his emotional stability, his 504 also includes social-behavioral accommodations such as being provided opportunities to be a helper to teachers and office staff, creating a greater sense of acceptance and self-worth.

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Most do not consider gifted students when discussing special needs, but gifted instruction is under the direction of statemonitored special education programs.

Within the gifted population, there are those who are twice exceptional – intellectually gifted students with learning disabilities. According to Dawn Beckley of the University of Connecticut, “These learning disabled gifted and talented

students … need remediation activities. At the same time, they also require opportunities to promote their own individual strengths and talents in one or more domains in which they have previously displayed their superior abilities.” By hiring certified gifted teachers who have conducted graduate-level work and research in the field of gifted education, districts ensure that the needs of their gifted and twice-exceptional students are met.

often with me as case manager, as well as with their student’s other teachers.”

By attending annual IEP and 504 meetings, sharing insights that only parents have, working with the child at home and supporting the teachers at school, parents can help ensure compensation methods are in place so students can work around their disabilities. Working together, school professionals and parents can ensure children’s personal needs and interests are met, creating quality education for special needs children.

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Parents need to be very active in the IEP or 504 process and play an important role by providing information regarding students’ current needs, as well as future plans. Braden says, “Beyond the annual IEP meeting, I have personally found it very helpful when parents communicate

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The Program for Adult College Education (PACE) enables full-time working adults to earn bachelor’s degrees. Classes meet in flexible weeknight, weekend and independent study formats.

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With 100+ transfer agreements with area colleges and universities, you choose a specific major here and take the courses needed to complete your degree at a four-year school.

JCCC also offers 50+ one-year certificate and two-year associate degree and certificate programs. JCCC students find time for fun! Concerts, plays, comedians, movies, sports, 50+ special interest clubs, student governance, lectures and campus forums are some of the activities students enjoy.

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The Program for Adult College Education (PACE) enables full-time working adults to earn bachelor’s degrees. Classes meet in flexible weeknight, weekend and independent study formats. Prepare for a professional career field or graduate studies in areas such as: Education, Law, Allied Health, Medical Programs, Commercial Economics and business-related areas. Classes begin soon. Ask about financial aid and scholarships opportunities. 816.235.1588 An equal opportunity/affirmative action institution.

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Plan for or avoid overage. Retailers love selling gift cards because they know that when you come to the store to use the card, chances are you will spend more than the gift card amount. A good way to avoid this is to shop online before you go to the store and find a few items that are under your gift card amount that you may be interested in. Or stick to the gift card amount as a firm limit when you are browsing if you don’t want to shell out any extra cash.

Re-gift it. Receive a gift card that you know you will never use? Consider giving it as a gift to someone that you know will enjoy it. Be careful, though…check the balance before you re-gift!

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Tired of kids receiving the same thing from each party they attend? Try some of the ideas below for party favors that are sure to WOW!

Candy Bar Take the wrapper off of a Hershey’s bar and print up a personalized label to place around the candy bar.

Puzzles Buy a boxed puzzle for each guest to match the theme of the party. Puzzles can be found at the dollar store and you can purchase puzzles with 24 to 100 pieces depending on the age of the children.

T-shirts Tie-die shirts with the kids during the party and they’ll leave with a favor that they’ll get plenty of use out of.

Recipes Print out your child’s favorite recipe and send the guests home with a copy of the recipe along with one ingredient and a wooden spoon.

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SANTA SAYS THE PEPPERMINT WREATH CRAFT ON PG. 33 IS HIS FAVORITE! ENJOY!

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Peppermint Ornament Wreaths

Makes 20 wreaths

1 (18-ounce) bag round peppermint hard candies decorating: red hots, gumdrops, M&Mâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s, etc. royal icing or melted white chocolate bark as glue Christmas ribbons and bows for hanging on the tree Line a cookie sheet with parchment paper. Remove the wrappers from the peppermints. Arrange 5 peppermints in a circle on the paper. Cook at 300 degrees F for 6 minutes. These candies melt quickly, so watch carefully not to let them stay too long or they will be a solid round piece of peppermint. Remove candies from oven. Cool and remove from the cookie sheet. Attach a circle of ribbon to peppermint and add a bow, and they are ready to hang on your tree! Be careful because the candy is thin and can break easily.

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IT’S CHRISTMASTIME IN THE CITY Celebrate this year with a holiday staycation, light viewing, dining with Santa and celebrating a Victorian Christmas at a holiday destination near you.

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FAVORITE CHRISTMAS LIGHTS You will find dazzling light displays every night through December with many terrific displays to choose from.

These are our favorites: THE 100-FOOT-TALL MAYOR’S CHRISTMAS TREE (Crown Center Square) is one of the nation’s tallest and it is the only light display in the city surrounded by Toyland, a wooden playground with giant toys, trains, wooden soldiers and animals! Tip: Spend the day enjoying Crown Center and enjoy the lights at night!

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CHRISTMAS IN THE PARK (Longview Lake Park at I-470 &View High Dr., Kansas City, MO, 816.503.4800. Sun.-Thu., 5:30-10:00; Fri. & Sat., 5:30-11:00) is worth the drive even if you live 30-45 minutes away. More than 300,000 lights with 200 animated holiday scenes create one of the best displays in the Metro. Tip: Make an evening of it with dinner at Next Door Pizza (3385 SW Fascination Dr., Lee’s Summit, MO), where kids eat FREE on Monday nights and they make their own pizzas!

KANSAS CITY’S LANDMARK COUNTRY CLUB PLAZA (CountryClubPlaza.com), opened in 1922, is perhaps most famous for its Christmas lights. The tradition began on Christmas Day 1925, when Charles Pitrat, the maintenance supervisor for the Nichols Company, decorated the Mill Creek Building with a single strand of lights and a few small trees. Every year, Pitrat added to the display, and now the Plaza boasts more than 80 miles of lights creating a “nighttime fairyland” to enjoy through mid-January. Tip: The best view is atop the Halls Parking Lot! Enter from the Southeast corner (on Wyandotte) to drive to the top.

THE ULTIMATE TREE (In Overland Park, KS; visit TheUltimateTree.com/Directions.html for map) is a giant flat panel Christmas tree lighting display with thousands of LED bulbs. Watch a 30-minute light show synchronized to music. Enjoy the display 5:30-10:00 (extends to 11:30 on Fri. and Sat.) every night through the first week of January. Tip: This display is more than 30 minutes long if you watch in its entirety.

Bring some cocoa and cookies for the fun!

KANSAS CITY’S DOWNTOWN was famously decked out with lighted 17-foot-wide bejeweled crowns throughout the holidays from the 1960s through the 1980s. Zona Rosa (ZonaRosa.com), one of the Metro’s premier shopping districts that feels like a city within the city, now decorates with replicas of the ornate golden crowns accompanying a 14-foot wreath and 50foot Christmas tree through mid-January.

Tip: The Grove in Zona Rosa offers a great soft play area for children–and it is FREE! LEDENDS OUTLETS (LegendsShopping. com) creates Christmas magic in the courtyard with a 45-foot holiday tree bedazzled with animated lights synchronized to concert-quality music every 15 minutes throughout the season. Tip: Download the Holiday Seasonal Mobile App to redeem coupons, check gift card balances and transactions or access a full center map with the mobile app, and track latest store specials and promotions. And, use your smart phone to snap the holiday QR available on-site for access to daily specials, sales and coupons.

TAKE A SPIN ON THE ICE This winter enjoy one of Kansas City’s beautiful outdoor ice skating rinks!

THE CROWN CENTER ICE TERRACE (CrownCenter.com), KC’s own outdoor rink, is winter enchantment at its best with views of the mayor’s Christmas tree. Tip: Save when you skate on Twofor-One Tuesdays.

PARK PLACE (DestinationParkPlace.com), an urban shopping center in the heart of the suburbs, is known for upscale shops and quality restaurants—and is also home to Johnson County’s only outdoor skating rink. Spend a day at The Ice at Park Place, a picture perfect wintertime destination.

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SENSATIONAL SANTAS The jolly old elf will be visiting local attractions all month long, but these special events are the most magical of all: CROWN CENTER (CrownCenter.com) rolls out the red carpet for Santa and his elves every holiday season! Begin at Santa’s Crayola® Christmas Land (Level 1 near Coterie Theatre), a free attraction featuring super-sized Crayola® products creating a colorful soft play area for kids. After playing, children may visit Santa for photos.

Be sure to explore the shops where you’ll discover Santa’s Gingerbread Village, a North Pole masterpiece that is truly good enough to eat, with three locomotives traveling through fanciful holiday scenes.

On Saturdays, treat the kids to a free Christmas concert at Noon and 2:00 (Dec. 1, the La La’s; Dec. 8, Dino O’Dell & The T-Rex All-Stars; Dec. 15, the Doo-Dads).

What could be more fun than breakfast with Santa? On Dec. 1 & 8, ZONA ROSA (ZonaRosa.com, 816.587.8180) hosts Breakfast with Santa with a kid-friendly breakfast and a gift from Santa for each child.

On Dec. 1, 8 and 15, 9:00-Noon, POWELL GARDENS (PowellGardens.org, 816.697.2600) hosts Holiday Fun with Santa, a Chris Cakes pancake breakfast with Santa, story time with Mrs. Claus, barrel train rides (weather permitting) and a take-home craft. Advance reservations are required for all breakfast with Santa events.

Santa visits his fellow North Pole pal Nikita the polar bear at Holiday Wild Dec. 1 & 8 at the KANSAS CITY ZOO (KansasCityZoo. org, 816.513.5800). Special activities are included in zoo admission; free to FOTZ Members.

AN OLD-FASHIONED CHRISTMAS Kansas City’s historic sites offer wonderful holiday celebrations all month long, and these are just a few of our top picks: INDEPENDENCE, MO (VisitIndependence.com) is a favorite holiday destination if you’re yearning for an old-fashioned Christmas experience. The Spirit of Christmas Past Heritage Homes Tour, offered through Christmas, gives visitors a chance to tour the Vaile Mansion, where they’ll see “A Fashionable Victorian Christmas,” the Bingham-Waggoner Estate and the 1859 Jail & Marshal’s Home Museum, all decorated for the holidays.

Admission is $15/person to see all three (or $6/adult, $3/child for one home). Then, visit the Puppetry Arts Institute (Hazelle.org/) where this holiday season they present The Gingerbread Man’s Christmas on weekends.

THE MAHAFFIE STAGECAOCH STOP AND FARM HISTORIC SITE (OlatheKS.org/Mahaffie/about) in Olathe tells the story of the Santa Fe Trail with

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unique hands-on experiences depicting life in the 1860s. The home is decorated for the holidays, and special events are offered, including horse-drawn sleigh rides on snowy weekends (weather permitting).

CANDELIGHT AT THE WORNALL HOUSE (Dec. 7 & 8, 6:30-8:30, with tours every 15 minutes; WornallHouse.org) invites visitors to celebrate an 1800s Christmas with goodies, dancing, parlour games and Victorian holiday traditions on this hands-on interactive tour. For more details, call 816.444.1858.

Kristina Light cannot imagine Christmas without the Plaza lights and a visit to Crown Center for family photos.

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holiday snacking

Because December is full of candy canes, cookies and fudge, here are some fun-for-the-holidays ideas you can prepare for your kids without all the refined sugar.

just add dried cherries!

wheat bagel wreaths

Multiple versions of these are floating around on different cooking sites. It is easy to dress them up for the holidays, but a favorite in our household is a plain whole wheat bagel, light cream cheese and dried cherries. Dried cherries are full of antioxidants and are sweet like a raisin and tart like a cherry. This easy combo makes a great chewy and healthy snack that kids of school age are able to prepare themselves.

graham crackers This recipe comes from Weelicious.com.

Yes, it is easier to go to the store and buy graham crackers; however, this recipe is so simple and makes delicious graham crackers that will last a few months in your freezer. And the taste far surpasses the store bought versions!

1 cup whole wheat flour 1 1/2 cups all purpose flour 1/2 cup dark brown sugar, packed 1/2 t. salt 1 t. cinnamon 1 t. baking soda 1/2 cup butter, chilled & cubed 1/4 cup honey 1/4 cup water Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

In a food processor or mixer, combine dry ingredients.

Add cubed and chilled butter to the mix and pulse/mix until it resembles coarse meal.

Add honey and water and continue to mix until it all combines.

Remove and shape the dough into a flat disk and place between two pieces of parchment paper.

Roll dough out until 1/4 inch thick. Cut into shapes.

Place cookies on a parchment lined baking sheet and bake for 15 minutes.

Cool and serve.

color

Another easy way to incorporate healthy holiday snacks is to color theme your child’s snacks. Adding red, green, white and holiday patterns are easy ways to liven up snacks and make kids look forward to eating them. Some easy examples of everyday snacks that can be holiday color themed: • Sliced red pepper and pea pods/ edemame with homemade dill dip • Dried cherries with pistachios • Popcorn with dried cranberries and mini green M&Ms Enjoy your holiday season! There is no reason why we all can’t enjoy the season without going into January feeling like our eating habits have to change drastically…again.

Jessica Pflumm is a freelance writer and children’s nutrition advocate. Her blog, HappyTummiesKC.wordpress.com, talks about nutrition and allergy-friendly recipes for kids and families.Jessica enjoys spending the holidays with her husband and 2-year-old daughter.

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Rifle through KC Parent’s calendar section and have each family member choose one can’t-miss activity.

Driving through Christmas in the Park at Longview Lake, the Country Club Plaza lights or the Kansas City Ballet’s performance of The Nutcracker are a few favorites.

Create a Christmas morning signal before children

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Have the kids ring sleigh bells and sing carols on the stairs until parents wake. Or keep them peeking at an empty manger until the Christ child arrives to fill it, then sing him Happy Birthday.

Check out or collect holiday stories and keep them wrapped in a special basket. Each night before bed, unwrap a book and read it by the tree.

Celebrate the darkest night of the year, the winter solstice, with a candlelight dinner on Dec. 21.

Carol at a nursing home.

Watch travel expert Rick Steves’ European Christmas DVD and locate the countries on a world map. Cook up a sampling of multicultural Christmas cuisine.

Recipes from the show are available at RickSteves.com.

he children and their friends, donning pajamas, faces smattered with spaghetti dinner, were giddy. They had discovered them: golden tickets and curious sleigh bells which, to grown-up ears, were distinctly broken.

“Mom? Can’t you hear it ringing?

Listen!” insisted Lorelei as she and little brother Gryffin jangled them, yet again, at my cheek. I shook my head densely and shrugged.

“Just believe, Mom!” The anticipation built as my friends and I herded our three families outside, bells and tickets in hand. The children’s cherubic faces beamed red and jolly in defiance of the frosty blue night.

“May I have your golden tickets?” the fathers asked sternly, bowing in train conductor hats and sporting thick moustaches grown for the occasion. The passengers lined up rapturously for rapidfire ticket punches, then boarded their respective train cars. We three moms in elf hats converged dotingly with candy canes and mugs of steamy hot chocolate.

Then our three minivans, windows frosted

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with snowflakes and the words “Polar Express,” caravanned off to the Overland Park Arboretum’s Luminary Walk—our North Pole.

Consider for a moment what it is about the holidays that make them so brilliantly magical. Perhaps it’s the huddle of loved ones reunited, ancient carols angelically resurrected in children’s voices, the warm glow of a menorah illuminating long-ago miracles. Those things that stir us take as many forms as art, all unique expressions of something reaching beyond the individual and into the tapestry of our interwoven lives. Indeed this magical stuff of holidays is its own genre of art: the rooting practice of tradition.

TRADITIONS REASSURE

In a world where family knots are becoming increasingly tattered, where security (in familial, financial and societal systems) seems an elusive thing to grasp, we pine for a collective anchor.

Enter the tradition, that simple practice that reassures us we are part of something far-reaching and indelibly larger than ourselves.

Traditions repeat. They lend rhythm and predictability to our lives, urging us to slow down and focus on life’s moments.

Children, having so little control in their vast worlds, thrive on routine. Similarly, they discover a perpetuating comfort and security in seasonal rituals, which help them conceptualize the passage of time.

Perhaps Gretchen Rubin, best-selling author and self-proclaimed chaser of happiness, phrased it best: “Family traditions mark time in a happy way and give a sense of both anticipation and continuity.

Research shows that traditions, routines, and rituals boost physical and emotional health. And they’re fun.”

TRADITIONS RECONNECT

Consult Abraham Maslow’s hierarchy of needs and there’s no getting around it: human beings possess a deep

psychological desire for acceptance and belonging. Tradition draws us out of isolation into a social embrace, securing our place among a larger tribe. This tribe can stretch into the breadth of a world religion (consider the enduring practices of sacrament and seder) and yet can be as intimate as a kindred friendship. Whatever its size, we are accepted and known as we together partake. And the spirit of unity opens us to a joy beyond ourselves.

Within families, traditions define a shared identity. We wax fondly over our unique rituals: returning to the same mountain cabin; slumber parties beneath the tinsel-smattered tree; Grand-mère’s bûche de Noël; the berakhot of Hanukkah.

Each tradition weaves its own colorful, thick-spun thread into the inimitable fabric of a family, strengthening it through.

TRADITIONS RENEW

“When parents and children cultivate traditions, every time they go back to that tradition it renews the emotional energy and bonding of the past,” writes motivational author and speaker Stephen Covey. To his point, scientific studies support that the pleasure of anticipating something good trumps the experience of the thing itself.

French novelist Gustave Flaubert would add to this notion that “pleasure is first found in anticipation, later in memory.” And tradition completes this cycle, forcing past and future into a rousing collision that propels us fully into the present, fleeting yet ever lingering.

“All is well again,” tradition whispers and settles the soul. For a moment, we check our ears and—if even but an echo—hear the sleigh bells ringing. A thrill of hope is felt, and things of old carry onward. Something among us resurrects, and the collective whisper repeats, “All, again, is good and well.”

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Holiday parties, Hanukkah and Christmas. What do these celebrations have in common? They all involve gifts! But what do you do when you don’t have any money for gifts? Or what if you do have money to buy presents but don’t know what to give? Can you relate?

Then it’s time to read my article on gifts!

TOPIC 1: What to do when you don’t have any money for presents.

Yep, it’s pretty easy to relate to this topic. Here are some tips on homemade presents to give that you won’t see in your friend’s wastebasket next time you visit:

• Make a duct tape wallet! See this for help: Wikihow.com/Make-a-Duct -Tape-Wallet • Draw up some homemade coupons good for a chore or anything you know your relative loves.

These will be great as long as you don’t follow my example and add alreadyexpired expiration dates….

• Make a little puzzle! Find a picture of you and your relative and glue to cardstock. Then just cut it into a puzzle.

• On a sheet of paper, write an acrostic poem out of your gift-receiver’s name and then frame it. Your friend can hang it in his room.

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• Put a packet of hot cocoa mix, a small bag of marshmallows and a candy cane in a clean mug. Decorate with a pretty bow and a gift tag.

• Fill a mini-stocking or a small gift bag with little candies.

• Make some of their favorite food or treat.

• Make your own radio show! Write a script and come up with a list of funny characters to interview (you can make up voices for the characters). Record it for your friend or relative.

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A book Perhaps one your friend wants to read, or one on a subject he or she loves.

Earrings

Nail polish

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do their nails!

Flavored Chap Stick Lips get cracked a lot easier in winter weather.

A goldfish Really, consider this!

Goldfish are usually under $10!

A $10 gift card to a favorite store

splurge!

If you can’t think of anything your friend would like, let him pick something out himself!

if you have 10-20 bucks:

IF YOU HAVE $30+, get: A sweater or jacket, a cell phone or Ipod case or a beanbag chair!

LED showerhead

These make shower water look likes it’s changing

colors! You also can find single colored shower

heads if your friend has a certain color she loves.

Jigsaw puzzles

A perfect present the whole family can enjoy.

Perfume or cologne

Great, as long as you’re sure your relative won’t

take it the wrong way.

Board games

Everyone loves board games.

A handbag

These are very useful, especially for school.

Hat and gloves

Not a lot of people think to get this, but everyone

needs these items.

I hope by now you are ready to face the gift-giving season with confidence. And remember, as the missionary Amy Carmichael said, “You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving.”

Anny Hiested and other teens (and moms and dads) blog daily at KCParent.com. Join the conversation today!

KC Parent’s Electronic Media Manager, Kristina Light, shares her FAVE apps for the holiday.

1. Google Shopper – find information on millions of products.

Includes prices both in store and online, reviews and specs to help make shopping decisions.

2. Key Ring – Get rid of all of those rewards cards and replace them with the Key Ring app.

It digitizes your cards and creates and electronic database so you no longer have a thick stack to take with you.

3. The Find Browse through top catalogs or scan barcodes to find the best price both online and in nearby stores.

4. Toys R Us Shopping - Search and buy the hottest toys. You’ll also find store hours and directions, and read reviews.

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STOCKING STUFFERS Titanic Branson – Purchase online at TitanicBranson.com Ship in a bottle, stuffed polar bear, Titanic Lego kits

KC Zoo Animal slippers…giraffes, elephants and more ($16/pair), Wild animal t-shirts ($1020), Zoo art kits ($5-10) Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop Red stagecoach ornament: ($8.95) Steak brand: ($7.95) letters available

This year, stuff those stockings with goodies from local retailers. Here are some ideas to get your started.

Belton Railroad Toy trains ($5-10 varies with style and size), Engineer caps, Puzzles Toy & Miniature Museum Baby sock monkey: ($9) For all ages Guitar lapel pin: ($7.50), TMM bag of marbles: ($7.50) Harry S. Truman Library and Museum Future president lunch sack ($4.50) Die cast presidential limo: ($7) Presidential ruler: ($1.25)

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Johnson County Museum Wooden trains and cars (starting at about $4 each), Classic marble game with mat (about $9) Louisburg Cider Mill Honey Sticks: (5 for $1), Old-fashioned candy sticks: (7 for $1); Package of cider spices or cinnamon sticks: ($1.50) US Toy Magic tricks ($3-10), Dress up accessories ($2 and less), Card games ($5-12) Shawnee Books & Toys Jokes on You! ($1.95), Mini Ravensburger puzzles ($2.95), Smencils gourmet scented pencils ($1.50) Nelson-Atkins Museum Gift Shop Artmatters sketchbook ($12.95), World’s Fair bookmark ($3.95), Mini magnet pack ($12.95) Tickets and gift cards to local attractions: The Coterie, Starlight Children’s Series, Paradise Park, Ceramic Cafe, Crown Center, The Legends, Legoland, American Girl, Your Baby Store, Dream Dinners, Tiger Rock and more!

an unforgettable adventure with horses Misty River Equestrian Center Stables offers group as well as private Horsemanship Lessons at four different levels. Lessons are taught from Certified Horsemanship Association (CHA), program. (www.cha-ahse.org) Horse shows are held periodically and are low-stress for the student & present accumulated horsemanship skills.

Lessons for students 8 and up for beginners, Western Pleasure & Halter, Trail Riding, Barrels, English Pleasure, Jumping & Dressage. 1/2 hour Pony Pal lessons for students ages 4 - 7.

Phone: 816-220-2332 E-mail: cindystrahm@hotmail.com Misty River Equestrian Center 21400 Eureka Road Independence, MO 64057

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Breakfast with Santa 8:30, The Grove (Zona Rosa). A treasured family tradition with entertainment, food and Santa. ZonaRosa.com Small Mall for Children Today & tomorrow, 9:00, CW Parker Carousel Museum. Children ages 3-13 can do holiday shopping in a secure environment.

913.683.2434 Pancakes for Penguins 9:00, Kansas City Zoo. Eat yummy pancakes all for a good cause – penguins!

Pre-reg. 816.513.5800 Holiday Fun with Santa 9:00, Powell Gardens.

Breakfast with Santa, story time, train rides and a take-home craft! Pre-reg. 816.697.2600 Santa Train Rides 9:00, Belton, Grandview & KC Railroad. Winter train ride with Santa, hot chocolate and cookies! Departs every two hours.

816.331.0630 Fairy Princess First three weekends in December, 10:00, KC Museum. Fairy Princess-themed arts and crafts, plus a complimentary photo. 816.483.8300 Holiday Kickoff 10:00, National Frontier Trails Museum. Free covered wagon rides, refreshments and great deals in the museum store! 816.325.7575 Coleman House Opening 10:00, Toy & Miniature

Museum. See inside our 9-foot dollhouse and hear stories of the dollhouse’s contents. 816.235.8000 Very Merry Morning 10:00, Westside Family Church. Experience the Nativity story through the eyes of your preschooler. Very interactive.

913.422.8257 The Santa Claus Express 10:00, Midland Railway.

Take an hour-long train ride with Santa while sipping hot cocoa and taking pictures. MidlandRailway.org

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Enjoy some of our best-loved traditions of the year...

Holiday Crafts with the Elves Saturdays in Dec, US Toy. The elves have fun crafts to share with your kids to get in the holiday spirit! 913.642.8247 Christmas Open House 10:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm. Christmas music, ornament making, activities and gingerbread houses.

913.971.5111 Sugar Plum Fairy Luncheon 10:30, The Westin at Crown Center. Take pictures with the Sugar Plum fairy, watch traveling magicians and more! 2:00 performance follows. KCBallet.org Holiday Open House 11:00-1:00, Shawnee Books & Toys. Help ring in the holidays with Santa today.

Crafts and goodies for all! 913.962.1428 Musical Fun for Kids Noon & 2:00, Crown Center.

Enjoy holiday music for kids on Dec 1, 8 and 15.

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• COLEMAN OPEN HOUSE • See inside our 9 foot dollhouse!

Saturday, December 1st

• FATHER CHRISTMAS • Sunday, December 16th

For full program information visit, www.toyandminiaturemuseum.org

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Christmas Around Town 4:30, Shawnee City Hall. Holiday fun awaits with Dickens carolers, hand painting, holiday arts and crafts and Santa Claus!

913.631.2500 Holiday Luminary Walk 5:00, OP Arboretum. Stroll down candlelit trails to see the nighttime woods.

913.685.3604 Candy Cane Hunt & Mayor’s Tree Lighting 5:30, Merriam Marketplace. Search for hidden candy canes and make s’mores. 913.322.5550 A Very Merry Schtickmas Show Thru Jan 1.

Martin City Melodrama. A wacky tribute to Christmas TV specials. 913.642.7576

The Nutcracker | Kansas City Ballet | Dec. 1-23 Christmas on the Farm Noon, Watkins Woolen Mill State Park. Activities include caroling, pudding demonstrations, kid crafts and more. 816.580.3387

The Nutcracker Thru Dec 23, 2:00, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. Purchase tickets to attend one of KC’s finest holiday shows. 816.931.2232

Nutcracker Tea Noon, The Ritz Charles. The Legacy School of the Arts presents a shortened version of The Nutcracker Ballet. ArtsAndRec-OP.org

A Christmas Carol Thru Dec 26, 2:00 & 8:00, Spencer Theatre. Join the KC Repertory Theatre for a family holiday tradition. 816.235.2700

Clara’s Dream Today & tomorrow, 2:00 & 7:00, Blue Valley North High School. Miller Marley Youth Ballet performs. 913.492.0004

The Mystery of Christmas 2:00 & 7:00, YouthFront Theater. See a Nutcracker-inspired ballet that actually tells the story of Christmas. 816.767.9222

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Handel’s Messiah Today (8:00) & tomorrow (2:00), Kauffman Center. This majestic choral masterpiece kicks off the holiday season! KCSymphony.org

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Holly Jolly Holidays Saturdays & Sundays in Dec, Legoland. The Lego halls are decked and full of holiday fun! LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com Nutcracker Tea Noon & 4:00, The Ritz Charles. The Legacy School of the Arts presents a shortened version of The Nutcracker Ballet. ArtsAndRec-OP.org FREE Classic Holiday Movies 1:00, Sundays in Dec, Legends 14 Theater. Get in the holiday

spirit with classic films for the whole family!

913.788.3700 Meet Me at the Museum 2:00, Kemper Museum of Art. Join a Museum docent for a lively discussion and tour current exhibits. 816.753.5784

Store Hours: Mon-Fri: 12-7pm Saturday: 12-4pm

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Letters from Santa Call the office by Dec 17 and arrange for someone special to receive a letter from Santa for just $5! 913.642.6410 Storybook Adventure Thru Dec 31,10:00, Sea Life Aquarium. Trace the telling of a popular holiday story with a special Sea Life twist.

VisitSeaLife.com/kansascity Dear Santa Thru Dec 19, Oak Grove Civic Center.

Put your Christmas wishes in the mail with a selfaddressed stamped envelope to get a letter back from Santa! CityOfOakGrove.com Family and Friends CPR 6:30, Olathe Medical Center. Learn basic CPR skills for the adult, child and infant. All ages welcome. OlatheHealth.org

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Junie B in Jingle Bells Batman Smells Tue-Sat thru Dec 29. Union Station. Theatre for Young America performs this fun holiday show! TYA.org

• Find us on Facebook at YBS • Gift Cards Now Available cribs • swings • • car seats • strollers • floor toys and more!

YOUR BABY STORE 1417 Clay Street, North Kansas City

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Preschool Read and Paint 11:00, Ceramic Café.

Great for groups, parties, field trips, company outings, and youth groups!

A story of adventure, friendship and ogre love that’s bringing ugly back!

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TICKETS: www.coterietheatre.org (816) 474-6552

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Open 7 days a week, including holidays HOURS: Monday - Saturday: 11 a.m. - 10 p.m.

Sunday: Noon-8p.m.

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Preschoolers can enjoy a story, time to paint and a snack afterwards. 913.383.0222 A Very Fifties Christmas Thru Dec 31, 1:00, Johnson County Museum. The 1950â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s All-Electric House is decorated for the holidays! 913.715.2550 Mayorâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Christmas Tree Lighting 5:30, City Hall (Blue Springs). Join the mayor as he flips the switch to kick off the holidays. BlueSpringsGov.com

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Open Play 9:00, Stanley Presbyterian Church. Open play for the kids! Bring toys and your cup of coffee!

913.681.8180 Stone Lion Puppets 10:00, Tomahawk Ridge Community Center. StoneLion puppeteers bring world-class entertainment to you. 816.221.5351 Animal Tales 10:30, Ernie Miller Park and Nature Center. Visit the nature center for stories, songs and surprises geared to preschool children.

913.764.7759 Preschool Science Adventure Club Today & tomorrow, 11:00, KC Zoo. Stimulating age-appropriate activities for kids ages 3-5. Pre-reg. 816.513.5800 Preschool Open Gym Noon-1:00, 360 Gymnastics.

Wednesday open gym is FREE for those 6 and under.

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Tales for Tiny Tykes 9:30 & 10:30, Plaza Library.

Toddlers ages 18-36 months can listen to a 20-minute story time followed with a craft. 816.701.3481 Preschool Bowl 10:00, Mission Bowl (Mission).

Bowling, shoes and small drink for only $5. 5 and under. 913.432.7000 Christmas in the West 2:00 National Frontier Trails Museum. Explore how pioneers celebrated the holidays in the 19th century. 816.325.7575 Coco Salutes Scouts 4:00, CoCo Key Water Resort.

Show your Girl Scout badge and get a $5 day pass today! 816.737.0200 Journey to Judea Thru Sun, 6:00, Countryside Baptist Church. A free, interactive outdoor Christmas experience. JourneyToJudea.com Christmas Tree Lighting 6:45, Grandview City Hall. Be part of our annual tree lighting and enjoy live entertainment including Santa! Grandview.org A Spectacular Christmas Thru Dec 23, 7:00, Off Center Theatre (Crown Center). Holiday show features classic Christmastime songs. 816.842.9999

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Jazz Storytelling 10:00, American Jazz Museum.

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safe environment. 816.474.8463 Romeo and Juliet Auditions The Culture House.

Call to inquire about the auditions and to schedule a time slot for your son or daughter. 913.393.3141 Narnia and Angels Celebrate the season with beautiful portraits of your child at Mady and Me. KiaBondurant.com Preschool Read and Paint 10:30, Ceramic Café.

Preschoolers can enjoy a story, a time to paint and a snack afterwards. 913.383.0222 Winter Fest 5:30, Olathe City Hall. Features the mayor’s Christmas tree lighting, local choirs and Santa. 913.971.8563 Brookside Tree Lighting 6:00, Enjoy entertainment, hot chocolate and cookies. Experience a charming evening in Brookside. BrooksideKC.org Christmas on the River 6:00, Downtown Parkville.

A Parkville tradition featuring live entertainment, Santa and special activities. ParkvilleMO.org

This holiday season, bring your family to Independence, Missouri. With festive family friendly activities, a visit to Independence is fun for all ages. Christmas with the Trumans, pioneer-style holiday celebrations, twilight tours of historically decorated homes, an indoor ice rink and shopping on The Square are sure to put you in the holiday spirit. For a list of activities and to plan your trip, go to www.visitINDEPENDENCE.com.

Open House 6:00-8:00, My Gym. Learn about the Primrose School of Overland Park while the kids play! RSVP 913.400.2435.

Candlelight at the Wornall House Today & tomorrow, 6:30, John Wornall House Museum. See how the Wornalls prepared for an 1800’s Christmas.

816.444.1858 Journey Through Bethlehem 7:00, New Vision Church of the Nazarene. Enjoy this unforgettable live Nativity event. 816.348.0303

8 SATURDAY: FIRST NIGHT OF HANUKKAH Photos with Santa Weekends thru Dec 23, Legends Outlet. Shop, view the Christmas decorations and take a photo with Santa. 913.788.3700 Santa Train Rides 9:00, Belton, Grandview & KC Railroad. Winter train ride with Santa, hot chocolate and cookies! Departs every two hours.

816.331.0630 Christmas Celebration 9:00, Missouri Town 1855, Fleming Park. Customs of our English, German and French settlers are brought to life! 816.503.4860 Holiday Wild 9:30, Kansas City Zoo. Santa visits his North Pole pal Nikita at Holiday Wild. 913.513.5800 Santa & Me Saturdays 10:00, Paradise Park. Take your own picture with Santa and have a “holly-day” of play. 816.246.5224 Holiday Cheer 10:00, National Frontier Trails Museum. Take part in holiday refreshments, music and great deals in the museum store. 816.325.7575 kcparent.com december 2012

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Gardens by Candlelight 5:00, Powell Gardens.

Experience Powell Gardens aglow with the soft light of hundreds of luminaries. 816.697.2600

Christmas at Zona Rosa

YMCA Kids’ Night Out 5:00 (Platte County North & South, Prov/Ball) & 5:30 (Red Bridge). Enjoy a night out while the kids have fun! KansasCityYMCA.org Handel’s Messiah 7:30, Stone Church. Featuring a 100-voice choir, church organ, a 15-piece string and brass orchestra and more! 816.252.3322

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Fairy Princess First three weekends in Dec, Noon, KC Museum. Fairy Princess-themed arts and crafts plus a complimentary photo. 816.483.8300 Holiday Tea 12:30, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm. Enjoy tea, refreshments and make an ornament to take home. $5/person. 913.971.5111 The Emperor Penguin’s New Clothes Puppet Show 11:00, Ward Parkway Mall. StoneLion puts on a free puppet show in the atrium. 816.221.5351

Talkin’ Truman 11:00, Truman Library. A culinarythemed program! Get a taste of Bess Truman’s favorite recipes. 816.268.8200

Polar Express 1:00, Legends 14. Bring the family to enjoy this classic on the big screen. FREE. 913.428.2979

Crafts with Buddy the Elf 11:00, Shawnee Books and Toys. Craft time has never been this much fun!

Several crafts for kids to create. 913.962.1428

Winter Carnival 12:30, Liberty Community Center.

Play reindeer games, meet Santa and hear stories from Mrs Claus. 816.439.4360

Leavenworth Candlelight Vintage Homes Tour 1:00, Leavenworth. Step inside beautiful historic homes. Tickets must be purchased. 913.682.7759

Whoville Holidays 11:00, City Market. Bring your camera and take a picture with the Grinch! Activities and games for the kids. TheCityMarket.org

Santa’s Wonderlands 4:00, Penguin Park. Celebrate the season with hot chocolate, light music, light displays and Santa. 816.513.7500

Story Time for Preschoolers 1:30, Nelson-Atkins Museum. Join us every second Sunday of the month for story time. 816.751.1278

CELEBRATE THE TRUE MEANING OF CHRISTMAS Enjoy these events to help your family remember the reason for the season.

JOURNEY TO JUDEA

Thursday, Dec. 6, 6:00-9:00; Friday, Dec. 7, 6:00-9:00; Saturday, Dec. 8, 5:00-9:00; Sunday, Dec. 9, 5:00-9:00; at Countryside Baptist Church (14150 W. 175th St., Olathe, KS, 913.592.3270). Admission is free, but tickets must be reserved online in advance at JourneyToJudea.com. Journey to Judea is a dramatic outdoor Christmas event for the entire family. A cast of more than 100 costumed actors and live animals brings the presentation to life.

BACK TO BETHLEHEM

Dec. 7 & 8, 6:30-9:00; FREE event each evening at South Kansas City Baptist Church (10200 James A. Reed Rd., Kansas City, MO).

Travel back in time with us to discover the true meaning of Christmas. This is approximately a 20-minute outdoor walking tour and is not conducive to persons with physical limitations. Comfortable walking shoes and weather-appropriate clothing is recommended.

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JOURNEY THROUGH BETHLEHEM

Friday, Dec. 7, 7:00-9:00; Saturday, Dec. 8, 6:00-8:00; Sunday, Dec. 9, 6:00-8:00; FREE event at New Vision Church of the Nazarene (100 S. Sunrise Dr., Raymore, MO). Step back in time as you “Journey Through Bethlehem” and experience for yourself that very first Christmas. Presentations of the Christmas story every 15 minutes; free holiday fun for the whole family! Kids can pet animals, create a holiday craft and visit Santa (free photos!).

Cookies and hot chocolate provided.

LIVE NATIVITY

Dec. 14-16, 6:00-10:00, Donation Admission, The Culture House (14808 W. 117th St., Olathe, KS, 913.393.3141). A new tradition at The Culture House! Come join us as we create a beautifully spiritual drive-through experience with your entire family. Listen to the Biblical retelling of the Christmas story as you pass by live characters and animals illustrating the reason for the season.

THE NATIVITY PUPPET SHOW

Dec. 14-16, Paul Mesner Puppets, PaulMesnerPuppets.org. Come see beautiful 7-foot puppets gracefully move through the aisles of the cathedral, with musical and choral accompaniment as live actors narrate this familiar tale. The larger-than-life characters are brought to life by puppeteers, movement artists and volunteers who perform this eternal story of grace and love.

CHRISTMAS EVE PUPPET NATIVITY

Dec. 24, 4:00; FREE event at St. Peter’s United Church of Christ (110th & Holmes, Kansas City, MO). Come experience the church’s ninth annual Giant Puppet Nativity. The Christmas story performance features largerthan-life wise men, each with three church members inside to move the puppet figure and his arms. A Christmas Eve candlelight service, including communion, will also be held at 11:00.

Dramatic Story Time 2:00, Plaza Library. Children and parents are invited for our monthly interactive story times presented by the Coterie. 816.701.3481

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Trans-Siberian Orchestra 3:00 & 7:30, Sprint Center. For the first time ever, TSO will perform their rock opera The Lost Christmas Eve! SprintCenter.com

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Have a Holly Jolly Christmas! Concert 5:00, Lexington United Methodist Church Sanctuary.

Christmas candies, cookies and hot cocoa will follow the concert. LSBMO.webs.com

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Moms Free Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms receive free admission with the purchase of a full priced child admission. 816.246.5224 Christmas Traditions 10:00, Grinter Place Historic Site. Music ensembles, crafters, kitchen demonstrations and holiday activities. 913.334.2500 Ice Skating 11:00, The Ice at Park Place. Take advantage of the season at Johnson County’s only outdoor ice rink! 913.663.2070 Weekday Holiday Choirs 11:00, Crown Center.

More than 130 area school, church and community choirs perform over lunch and evening hours.

816.274.8444 Foster Parent Info Meeting 6:00, MBCH Children and Family Ministries. Attend our monthly meeting to learn more about the important role of foster parents.

816.795.8878

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913.383.0222

360 Gymnastics is a recreational gymnastics program. We offer many day, evening, and weekend classes for children of all ages.

• Lots of preschool classes • Boys classes • Tumbling • Dance • Beginner gym classes • Open Gyms • FREE OPEN GYM WEDNESDAY 12-1PM Coach Eric has 19 plus years of teaching gymnastics experience in the area. Come in for a free open gym or a free trial class.

431 N. LINDENWOOD DR. OLATHE, KS 913.707.3756 KC360GYM.COM

Santa Paws for NAWS 6:00, The Grove (Zona Rosa). Dress up your furry friend for a photo with Santa! ZonaRosa.com

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Café and Playland 9:00, Kaw Prairie Community Church. Kids can enjoy the playland while parents enjoy conversation and coffee. 913.764.5722 A Very Fifties Christmas Thru Dec 31, 1:00, Johnson County Museum. The 1950’s All-Electric House is decorated for the holidays! 913.715.2550 Dear Santa Thru Dec 19, Oak Grove Civic Center.

Put your Christmas wishes in the mail with a selfaddressed stamped envelope to get a letter back from Santa! CityOfOakGrove.com

Includes FREE Training Jersey for under the Tree!

Two for One Tuesdays 5:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. After 5:00, pay one full admission price and receive a second for free. 816.274.8411 Infant CPR 7:00, Overland Park Ed Center. Learn basic life support skills for your infant with hands-on manikin practice. HealthyArrivals.org

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Preschool Bowl 10:00, Mission Bowl (Mission).

Bowling, shoes and small drink for only $5. 5 and under. 913.432.7000 Baby and My Day Out Noon, Brush Creek Community Center. Bring your child 5 and under to play, make crafts and meet new friends. 816.513.0730 Coco Salutes Scouts 4:00, CoCo Key Water Resort.

Show your Boy Scout badge and get a $5 day pass today! 816.737.0200 Parent Information Meeting 5:30, Holiday Inn Express (OP). Learn about The Primrose School of Overland Park. See what a classroom looks like and meet the owners. RSVP 913.400.2435

Ice Skating | The Ice at Park Place Come to the museum to hear Jo Ho’s creative stories! 913.715.2550 Preschool Science Adventure Club Today & tomorrow, 11:00, KC Zoo. Stimulating, age-appropriate activities for kids ages 3-5. Pre-reg. 816.513.5800 Free School Skills Class 1:00, Gymboree Play & Music (Lee’s Summit). Includes independent and group learning activities. 816.525.7529

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Decorate the Tree with Gingerbread Cookies Class 6:00, A Thyme for Everything. Learn how to make tasty and delicious gingerbread cookies.

816.554.3755 Disney’s Beauty & the Beast 7:30, Lied Center of Kansas. Experience the romance and enchantment of the show at the Lied Center. Lied.KU.edu

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The Nativity Puppet Show Thru Sun, 10:00 & 7:00, Grace & Holy Trinity Cathedral. See 7-ft puppets gracefully move through the aisle.

PaulMesnerPuppets.org YMCA Kids’ Night Out 5:00 (Paul Henson), 5:30 (Miami County) & 6:00 (Atchison, Bonner Springs & Blue Springs). Enjoy a night out while the kids have fun! KansasCityYMCA.org Friday Family Night 6:00, Cool Crest. Special pricing on unlimited soft play, arcade tokens, a large pizza and 4 drinks. 816.358.0088

Enter KCParent.com’s GIVEAWAY to win one of two family 4-packs of tickets PLUS a Meet & Greet to Sesame Street Live at the Sprint Center on Jan. 17-20. (value $125) Live Nativity Thru Dec 16, 6:00, The Culture House. A drive through live nativity that celebrates the reason for the season. Donation admission.

913.393.3141 Christmas in Song Thru Dec 24, Quality Hill Playhouse. Annual cabaret revue of traditional and popular music of the season. 816.421.1700

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Photos with Santa Weekends thru Dec 23, Legends Outlet. Shop, view the Christmas decorations and take a photo with Santa. 913.788.3700 Dazzling Doll ’Dos for Fancy Occasions 9:00, American Girl Store. Doll stylists share tips and tricks for creating the perfect look. 8 and up. Res req’d.

877.247.5223 Milk & Cookies with Santa 10:00, US Toy. Stop by the store to visit with Santa and shop for the holidays. 913.642.8247 Scavenger Saturdays 10:00, Kemper Museum of Art. Follow the clues on this self-guided “art-astic” adventure! 816.753.5784

Historic Holiday & Father Christmas 10:00, Alexander Majors House. Participate in traditional Christmas activities with your child. 816.444.1858 Play in a Day 10:00, Metro North Mall. Kids come in the morning then perform a show in the afternoon.

Theatre of the Imagination hosts. 816.561.2787 The Gingerbread Man’s Christmas 11:00 & 2:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. Parasol Puppets adds a holiday twist to a classic tale. 816.833.9777 The Toy Box Puppet Show 11:00, Ward Parkway Mall. What will come out of StoneLion’s toy box next?

Come to the show and see! 816.221.5351 Devin Henderson’s Comedy Magic Show 1:00, Kansas City Improv. All ages are welcome to attend this entertaining show! 816.759.5233 Open Gym 2:00-4:00, 360 Gymnastics. Run, jump, climb and play in the new facility! $5/person.

913.707.3756 Bowfire 8:00, Johnson County Community College, Yardley Hall. Celebrate the season with some of the greatest fiddlers and violinists. JCCC.edu

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Santa’s Crayola Christmas Land Thru Dec 31, Crown Center. Photos are available for a fee, or visitors can take their own pictures. 816.274.8444 Shrek: The Musical Thru Dec 30, Coterie Theatre.

Theatre for Young Audiences performs this fairy tale of an unlikely hero. 816.474.6785 The Nativity Puppet Show Thru Sun, 10:00 & 7:00, Grace & Holy Trinity Cathedral. See 7-ft puppets gracefully move through the aisle.

PaulMesnerPuppets.org Father Christmas Visits 1:30, Toy & Miniature Museum. Jim “Two Crows” Wallen shares stories of Christmases past. 816.235.8000

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Early Bird Special 9:00, Little Monkey Bizness.

Admission is only $5 before 10:00! 913.631.7000 Moms Free Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms receive free admission with the purchase of a full priced child admission. 816.246.5224

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Preschool Story Time 10:00, Louisburg Library.

Bring your preschooler in for stories, songs and movement every Wednesday. 913.837.2217

Animal Tales 10:30, Ernie Miller Park and Nature Center. Stories, songs and surprises geared to preschool children. 913.764.7759

Shawnee Story Time 10:30, Shawnee Books & Toys. An ideal story time for kids ages 2-6 who love stories and crafts. 913.962.1428

Ice Skating 11:00, The Ice at Park Place. Take advantage of the season at Johnson County’s only outdoor ice rink! 913.663.2070

A Christmas Carol Thru Dec 26, 7:00, Spencer Theatre. Join the KC Repertory Theatre for a family holiday tradition. 816.235.2700

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Weekday Holiday Choirs 11:00, Crown Center.

More than 130 area school, church and community choirs perform over lunch and evening hours.

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Pinocchio Time Thru July 2013, 10:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. A long-running special exhibit in celebration of the 130th anniversary of Pinocchio.

816.833.9777 Baby Care Basics Class 6:00, Liberty Hospital Education Center. Important information to help you survive your first weeks at home with Baby.

816.792.7227 Jazz Poetry Jam 7:00, American Jazz Museum.

Aspiring artists can share their work and find their creative voices. $5. 816.474.2929

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Early Bird Special 9:00, Little Money Bizness Shawnee. Admission is just $5 plus tax before 10:00 Monday and Wedneday. 913.631.7000 Café and Playland 9:00, Kaw Prairie Community Church. Kids can enjoy the playland while parents enjoy conversation and coffee. 913.764.5722

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Santa’s Crayola Christmas Land Thru Dec 31, Crown Center. Photos are available for a fee, or visitors can take their own pictures. 816.274.8444

Christmas at Lanesfield Fri & Sat thru Dec 29, 1:00, Lanesfield Historic Site. See the school decorated for an old-fashioned Christmas! 913.893.6645

Music with Mar. 9:30 & 10:30, Indian Creek Community Church. Sign up for an enriching music experience! Ages 9 mo-kindergarten. 913.397.9132

Englewood Art Walk 5:00, Englewood Station Shopping District. 11 galleries, meet and greet artists on the spot and enjoy refreshments.

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Preschool Story Time 11:00, Reading Reptile.

Come on in every Thursday for story time, crafts and a treat. $3/child. 816.753.0441

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A Christmas Conundrum Thru Jan 5, 6:30, Golden Ox. Hop aboard our interactive murder mystery dinner theatre. 816.813.9654 Infant CPR 7:00, Overland Park Ed Center. Learn basic life support skills for your infant with hands-on manikin practice. HealthyArrivals.org

21 FRIDAY

An Elf’s Day Off 10:00, Roeland Park Aquatic Center. Bring the family to the aquatic center for sweet treats and swim time. 913.826.3160

Music in the Museum 10:00, Toy & Miniature Museum. Simple Strings resumes their annual tradition of playing 19th-century folk music. 816.235.8000 Spirit of Christmas Past Heritage Homes Tour Thru Dec 30, 10:00, Bingham-Waggoner Estate. Tour three landmark historic homes. 816.325.7430 Snow Puppet Show 11:00, Ward Parkway Mall. A free winter-themed puppet show. 816.221.5351 The Gingerbread Man’s Christmas 11:00 & 2:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. Come along for this special

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Vaile Mansion

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h, there’s no place like home for the holidays…unless you live in Kansas City, in which case there are several places you should consider visiting around Christmastime!

One such place is the lavish Vaile Mansion, which dons a resplendent array of festive décor in honor of its Fashionable Victorian Christmas celebration, taking place from late November to the end of December.

The Vaile Mansion 1500 N. Liberty St. Independence, MO 64050 816.325.7430 VaileMansion.org Hours of Operation: Mon.-Sat., 10:004:00; Sun., 1:00-4:00 Admission: $6/Adults, $5/Seniors and Groups, $3/Children and Students Hot Tips: Consider purchasing a Spirit of Christmas Pass through the City of Independence. For $15, you can visit the Vaile Mansion, the 1859 Jail & Marshal’s Home and the Bingham-Waggoner Estate. Tickets can be used on different days throughout the month of December.

Not wheelchair or stroller accessible

Before You Go From A&E to HGTV to National Geographic, the Vaile Mansion has received national attention and press with good reason. For more than 131 years, this Independence 3-story has been turning heads due to its intricate Second Empire Victorian architecture and ostentatious interiors. Built

by Colonel and Mrs. Harvey Vaile, this palatial abode boasts 31 rooms, nine marble fireplaces, five intricately painted watercolor ceiling murals and a 46,000-gallon wine cellar. Prior to visiting, contrast the Vaile home specs with your own. How many rooms does your home include? How many fireplaces?

When was your home built?

After You’ve Gone While you’re in Independence, consider taking some time to enjoy more of the city’s rich history. Independence Square offers a variety of unique shops and restaurants. Take a mule-driven sleigh ride around the square while your wagon master shares holiday stories about the buildings you pass. Sip some hot chocolate and view the mayor’s Christmas tree lighting event or take some time to see other city sites decorated for the Christmas season, including the Chicago-Alton Depot, the National Frontier Trails Museum or the Harry S. Truman National Historic Site.

While You’re There See why USA Today calls Vaile the “Christmas castle.” Gold-gilded ornaments and custom touches fill rooms with a festive flair. Decorations change with each passing Christmas

Lauren Greenlee loves Christmas in Kansas City and is proud to call it home during the holidays (and every other time of the year, for that matter!). She writes from her home in Olathe.

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Early Bird Special 9:00, Little Money Bizness (Shawnee). Admission is just $5 plus tax before 10:00 Monday and Wednesday. 913.631.7000

Shrek: The Musical Thru Dec 30, Coterie Theatre.

Theatre for Young Audiences performs this fairy tale of an unlikely hero. 816.474.6785

Toddler Time 10:00, RFCC in Leavenworth. The gym is available for kids to experience some exercise while making new friends. 913.651.2132

Free Play Cedar Ridge Christian Church. Daily free play for young children while you enjoy a coffee break. 913.393.3000

A Christmas Carol 1:00 & 5:00, Spencer Theatre.

Join the KC Repertory Theatre for a family holiday tradition. 816.235.2700

“Nuncrackers - The Nunsense Christmas Musical” 2:00, Crown Center. A funny spoof on Tchaikovsky’s Nutcracker Ballet. 816.842.9999

Christmas Eve Puppet Nativity 4:00, St Peter’s United Church of Christ. See our giant puppet Nativity story performance. 816.942.1155

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Pop ‘n Play 9:00, Johnson County Museum.

Activities designed especially for your 9-month- to 3-year-olds. $1/child. 913.715.2550 Wagons Ho! 10:00, National Frontier Trails Museum. Explore life on the trails, tour the museum and kcparent.com december 2012

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take a covered wagon ride. 816.325.7575 Youth Arts and Crafts 4:00-6:00, Garrison Community Center. Ages 7-14 can make creative projects. Free. 816.784.1140 Cirque du Soleil: Quidam Thru Sun, various times (7:30 tonight), Sprint Center. Show times vary for this performance you will want to see! 816.949.7000

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Tales for Tiny Tykes 9:30 & 10:30, Plaza Library.

Toddlers ages 18-36 months can listen to a 20-minute story time followed with a craft. 816.701.3481

Family Fun Holiday Movie Thru Mon, 2:00, Screenland Crown Center. $5 admission includes popcorn and drink. See How The Grinch Stole Christmas. 816.545.8034

I’m a Little Bit Country Today & tomorrow, 2:00 & 7:00, Chestnut Fine Arts Center. This performance will put a grin on your face and make you tap your feet! 913.764.2121

Friday Family Night 6:00, Cool Crest. Special pricing on unlimited soft play, arcade tokens, a large pizza and 4 drinks. 816.358.0088

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Friday Night Family Fun 6:30, Plaza Library. Join us every Friday night for fun activities the whole family can enjoy! 816.701.3481

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Thursday Fun Night 4:00, Monkey Bizness (Olathe). Every Thursday night, admission is just $5.

Order pizza and stay for dinner! 913.780.2500

Mother Nature Reads 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Hear a story, learn about the animal of the month and make something to take home.

816.513.8960

Mannheim Steamroller’s Christmas Tour Today (7:30) & tomorrow (8:00), Music Hall. Purchase tickets and attend holiday tour. 816.994.7222

Junie B in Jingle Bells Batman Smells Noon, Union Station. Theatre for Young America performs this happy musical! TYA.org

28 FRIDAY

A Christmas Conundrum Thru Jan 5, 6:30, Golden Ox. Hop aboard our interactive murder mystery dinner theatre. 816.813.9654

Café and Playland 9:00, Kaw Prairie Community Church. Kids can enjoy the playland while parents enjoy conversation and coffee. 913.764.5722 Shawnee Story Time 10:30, Shawnee Books & Toys. An ideal story time for kids ages 2-6 who love stories and crafts. 913.962.1428

30 SUNDAY

Spirit of Christmas Past Heritage Homes Tour 1:00, Bingham-Waggoner Estate. This is the last day to tour three landmark historic homes.

816.325.7430

Dance daddy & daughter

with special guest belle

Friday, February 8, 2012, 6-9 pm and saturday, february 9, 2012, 6-9 pm Providence Community Church 10113 Lenexa Drive 913.307.0710 www.providencecommunitychurch.net

all inclusive:

price includes jack stack dinner for dads and chick-fil-a for the girls, photo with belle and flower. $60 per couple ($10 for each additional child).

no tickets will be sold at the door.

All net proceeds will be donated to Providence Community Church’s partnership with the Forest Avenue Family Shelter in Kansas City.

space is limited. tickets must be purchased in advance.

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Early Bird Special 9:00, Little Money Bizness (Shawnee). Admission is just $5 plus tax before 10:00 Monday and Wednesday. 913.631.7000 Moms Free Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms receive free admission with the purchase of a full priced child admission. 816.246.5224 Ice Skating 10:00-6:00, Ice Terrace. Enjoy time with family and friends on our ice terrace.

816.274.8111 Toddler Time 10:00, RFCC in Leavenworth. The gym is available for kids to experience some exercise while making new friends. 913.651.2132 Santa’s Gingerbread Village Crown Center.

Today’s the last day to see the village. 816.274.8444 New Year’s Eve Bowling Party 9:00-12:30, Mission Bowl (Olathe & Mission). New Year’s Eve fun for the entire family! MissionBowl.com

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