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re you too busy? Did you just laugh out loud when you read that? Because really, aren’t we all too busy these days? Each month I think to myself, “Once we get through x, life will really slow down.” Well guess what? I say that to myself month after month, and life is not listening to me and not slowing down. When did it happen? Was it when the girls started school? Is it as they get older and want more of a social life? I understand that a lot of my busyness is my own doing. I am a planner by nature, as well as very social. Those two traits alone make for a pretty full calendar. Add in school activities, art class, gymnastics, Girl Scouts, Bible study…well, you get the picture. Maybe it’s just time I face the fact that life isn’t going to slow down in the near future, and the best I can do is to accept that and work with what I’ve got. To that end, we’ve put together a “Busy Mom’s Guide” for you this month to help you (and me!) make the most of the free time you have (however little it may be!). Got 5 minutes? Rebecca Ishum has an idea on how you can connect with your spouse in just 5 minutes (and talk about busy, she’s the mom of quads, so she knows what she’s talking about!). Got 10 minutes? Jane Martin shares ideas on ways to bond with your child in just 10 short minutes, and Amanda Doll shares terrific tips on how to make mealtime less busy in your home. I hope you can find some useful tidbits in these articles. And, if you have a great way to make the most of your time, I’d love to hear it! February brings hearts and valentines, but also preschool registration! Wendy Connelly has put together a terrific article on choosing the best preschool for your child on pg. 36. You’ll want to take a copy of it with you to every preschool you visit.

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Truffle for your thoughts? Bon-bon for…being you! Because February is National Children’s Dental Health Month, KC Parent wants to

share some truths about fluoride to protect and strengthen your children’s enamel during this sticky, gooey season.

what is it?

Plaque, a bacterium that breaks down sugars in food, erodes the enamel on the surface of the teeth when not brushed away. It causes tooth decay and, in time, cavities. Fluoride can prevent plaque from deteriorating tooth enamel. The American Dental Association (ADA) says, “Research has shown that fluoride not only reduces but also helps repair the early stages of tooth decay even before the decay is visible.”

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Just like with vitamins or medications, there is a toxic level of fluoride. This does not occur from brushing your teeth too much or excessive drinking of fluoridated tap water, but keep in mind that more isn’t always better. “Too much fluoride before 8 years of age, a time when teeth are developing,” reports KidsHealth.org, “can cause enamel fluorosis, a discoloration or mottling of the permanent teeth.” This is why parents should supervise their children’s brushing habits to ensure toothpaste and fluoride mouth rinses aren’t being ingested.

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If you have a family that drinks only bottled water (which contains no fluoride), you might consider additional fluoride supplementation. This is something a parent should discuss with the family dentist or medical provider before you make any changes. Stacey Hatton is a pediatric RN and humorist. Her published works can be found at NurseMommyLaughs.com.

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The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention has proclaimed community water fluoridation (along with vaccinations and infectious disease control) as one of 10 great public health achievements of the 20th century.

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Kids should use only a pea-sized amount of toothpaste.

Studies prove water fluoridation continues to be effective in reducing dental decay by 20 to 40 percent, even in an era with widespread availability of fluoride from other sources, such as fluoride toothpaste. (Source: ADA, 2005)

Symptoms of fluoride toxicity may include nausea, diarrhea, vomiting, abdominal pain, increased salivation or thirst. If you suspect your child may have eaten a substantial amount of a fluoridated product, call the poison control center or 911 (Nemours Foundation).

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have to admit, I am not much of a winter person. The cold weather and short days can get quite old by the time February rolls around. But, I sure do like the way Valentine’s Day always seems to brighten up even the darkest winter days. I love all of the pink hearts and bright decorations and always enjoy coming up with new and creative ways to send valentines. This year I’ve put together three new ways to say “Happy Valentine’s Day!” Music lover’s pick: I know I am showing my age, but I still think back fondly on the days of the mix tape. And since making CDs is so much easier, who could resist a fun mix of love songs for Valentine’s Day? The CDs and sleeves are even afforable enough that your kids could make a mix of cute songs that include the word “love” or “heart” for their friends or classmates. Visit KCParent.com to print one of these jewel case covers, and you’ll be ready to go! Busy mom’s pick: Kids seem to love

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these fortune tellers, so I couldn’t resist putting together a Valentine’s version! This is a best bet for moms because it is as simple as printing the these fortune teller printable at KCParent.com! They can be used as Valentine’s cards by folding in half and then folding again, and addressing on the back. Or, they make a fun game at a school party, or just decorations on the table – open and filled with red hots! Kid’s pick: My girls are really into stickers these days. They decided sheets of stickers would be a fun gift for their classmates. They really wanted to handmake heart-shaped cards with the sticker sheets inside. We came up with an “I’m stuck on you” greeting to go along with the sticker theme. Happy cutting and gluing — and happy Valentine’s Day, everyone! Lauren Goldman lives in Overland Park with her family. She and other moms (and dads) blog daily at KCParent.com. Join the conversation today!

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FIGHT FAIR WITH YOUR TEEN

A TIPS FOR DEALING WITH A TEENAGER Be involved, but don’t smother. Staying involved and connected is important to knowing what is going on with your teen. Knowing when he has a test in biology and who he is hanging out with Friday night is good, but not drilling him every second about every detail. Listen, really listen, to what he/she is saying. No lip service or nodding “hmm” when she is talking. Listen always and offer comments when necessary. Apologize when necessary. This can go a long way to helping the teen feel more like an adult than a child and can help with respect. Lighten up. Joke around with your teenager, laugh, have fun. Don’t get wrapped up in constant fights. Choose your battles. With your spouse, decide early what is important and what isn’t. Don’t fight about the little things that aren’t important in the long run.

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sk just about any parent: talking to their preteen or teenager is a dangerous minefield. One wrong word can set off an explosion. Learning to talk to your teenager is important to keeping peace at home and staying connected in your child’s life. We have all experienced how Ann Bertoldie, Liberty mother of two teenagers, feels when she describes how she thought she was going to be different than her mother: “When I was growing up and going through the normal ‘arguments’ that teens go through with their parents, I would think to myself, ‘I will never do this with my child’ or ‘I will never say that to my child’. . . Now, I find myself in situations where I think to myself, ‘Oh, no—I’m sounding just like my mom!’” Many parents find themselves in similar situations and cannot understand why they are having trouble communicating with their teenager. Doug Davis, a father of two teenagers and a psychology teacher at Liberty North High School, explains why it is difficult for parents and adolescents to agree. “Teenagers have different thought processes as their brains are still developing and will be developing until ages 2125,” he says. “Teenagers bring much more emotional response into the thinking process, while parents are able to use rational thinking, planning, problem solving.” These obstacles may seem insurmountable, but with some effort and work, communicating with your teen can become easier. Showing love and acceptance is key to this communication, even when it might be a struggle. “Studies have increasingly shown that conflict in the home decreases when

children/teenagers feel completely loved and accepted. Parents must lay a solid foundation of complete love and acceptance with their children from day one. If this foundation is solid and children feel completely loved, valued and accepted unconditionally from their parents, this increases positive, more efficient communication,” Davis says. This foundation of love needs to be established early, as it can be difficult to show this love and acceptance when a teenager is testing the boundaries. “When my 18-year-old daughter went to college and a month later pierced her eyebrow, did I freak out? On the inside, well. . . maybe a little. On the outside, and more importantly to her, no,” Bertoldie says. “I let her know it was not my favorite thing, but it certainly was not going to make me love her any less. I knew that she was testing her wings and would eventually grow tired of it.” Choosing your battles is also important when you’re the parent of a teenager. If you argue and fuss with teens over the little things, then they are less likely to listen to you on the big things, the times you want them to listen to you the most. “I’ve learned that constant nagging does more harm than good. Nagging my children only pushes them in the opposite direction. I’ve found that if I can talk in normal tones, use calm body language, be rational in my thinking and use solid reasoning, the outcome is usually positive,” Bertoldie says. Diana Nolan, Liberty mother of three teenagers, agrees with Bertoldie about staying calm when dealing with a teenager. “The one thing to avoid is stooping to your teenager’s level—easier said than done. Your teen will throw attitude at you and the most important thing is to remain calm and remember you are the parent,” she says. When the argument does become heated, do not continue to engage the teenager, because the result might be undesirable. “When I feel that I might say or do something that I will later regret, I remove myself from the situation,” Nolan says. “I go out for a walk to let myself calm down. I don’t lose my cool very often, so when I do walk away, the kids know they’ve gone too far.” Bertoldie offers advice for any parent: “Life is just too short to get all wrapped up and bent out of shape over the little things. The older I get, the more often I’m reminded of this. More often than not, I just want to hug my kids and tell them how proud I am of them.” Jennifer Higgins is a freelance writer, mother and teacher from Liberty who tries to use these same strategies on her daughters.

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BUST TOY BOREDOM If there’s one universal sentence children speak that can tweak our parental nerves it’s “I’m bored” (insert eye roll, heavy sigh and whiney voice). Our children are inundated with an abundance of toys and electronics, which can all add up to too much of a good thing and leave them in a perpetual cycle of boredom. If you’ve noticed the quality of your kids’ playtime being hindered by their quantity of toys, it may be time to simplify and organize your way to a more engaging play environment. Follow these five easy steps to bust out of toy boredom.

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TAKE INVENTORY

Set aside a few kid-free hours at home and grab a trash bag, donation box and a great deal of courage and determination, because step one is all about focus. Anything that is broken, missing pieces, unused or not age-appropriate goes into the trash or donation box. Overland Park mom and home organizer Natalie Bohn suggests, “After Christmas and birthdays is the perfect time to organize; kids are excited about their new toys and more willing to donate their old ones.”

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DITCH THE TOY BOX

Toy baskets or boxes can make clean up easier, but they also encourage dumping and dabbling. Kiddos dump out toys and dabble in play without becoming involved in the activity long enough to get real creativity flowing. Separate out toys and store them in small, clear containers for easy viewing. Bohn recommends, “Think vertically. There are a lot of organization products out there, but you can’t beat shelves and clear bins.”

TOY ROTATION

Try keeping no more than three interactive toys available at one time and storing the rest out of sight. Place seasonal or age specific toys in specified bins for easy future access. Then, designate a weekly or monthly date to rotate toys in and out of the play area. Clutter and chaos love to creep into our lives, stealing our peace of mind. So while rotating toys, be intentional about asking yourself whether this toy serves a purpose for your child. If not, it may need to be stored away for a short time or removed from your home altogether. Fresh toys and engaged children make rotation day something the whole family can celebrate!

HOST A TOY SWAP

Toy swaps provide budget and environmentally friendly opportunities for trading used toys out for fresh ones. Depending on the group size and manner of trade, they can be as simple or complex as you choose. Establishing simple ground rules beforehand, like location of displayed toys and order of trade, helps to ensure a smooth event. Finally, decide beforehand if unclaimed toys will be returned to owners or donated to local charities like the Salvation Army, located at 14211 Metcalf Ave. in Overland Park, or City Union Mission (CityUnionMission.org).

HAVE FUN

Change is difficult, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be fun. As the parent, you set the tone for change with a positive outlook and encourage your children to do the same. Keep your end goal in mind and enjoy the journey toward ending toy boredom. Jena Meyerpeter is mom to three daughters who often suffer from acute toy boredom in Lenexa.

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The winter blahs have set in. You’re ready for a night on the town (with the kids, without the kids, with your friends or a significant other), but you don’t want to spend a lot of time going from place to place in the cold and in a hurry. These venues dish up delicious dinners and fabulous fun for the perfect winter (or any time of year) night out!

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Rozzelle Court at the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art 4525 Oak, Kansas City, MO, 816.751.1ART, Nelson-Atkins.org Hours: Wed.-Sat. lunch, 11:00-2:00 and beverages & desserts, 2:00-4:00; Fri. dinner, 5:00-10:30 (last seating at 9:15); Sun. brunch, Noon-3:00 and beverages & desserts, 3:00-4:00; Wed.-Sun. beverages & desserts, 2:00-4:00. All ages. The Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art is free to visitors year-round and offers one of the finest collections of art in the world. Visiting the galleries is a feast for the eyes and soul. Complete your visit with a meal at the Rozzelle Court, one of the loveliest settings in Kansas City. The restaurant, at the center of the Nelson-Atkins, offers the ambience of a

15th-century Italian courtyard. With live music and a decadent menu, including selections just for children, this is a great choice for special occasions or a nice evening out. Enjoy the art gallery before or after your meal and visit KCParent.com to search for “NelsonAtkins Scavenger Hunt” for a custom treasure hunt to add to your fun!

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a slice of magic! Minsky’s Pizza Prairie Village on Fri., 6:00-8:00: 6921 Tomahawk Rd., 913.262.6226, live magic at your table. Leawood on Sat., 6:00-8:00: 12920 State Line Rd., 913.317.9965, live magician and balloon artist. Minskys.com All ages. Minsky’s has been serving gourmet pizza in Kansas City since 1976. Their fresh pizzas are made from scratch on handrolled dough with generous portions of fresh ingredients. They also make some of the best Buffalo wings in town and offer a gluten-free menu option as well. Live magicians perform on weekends (see schedule above), dazzling kids with

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two picks for dinner & a flick AMC Studio 30 12075 S. Strang Line Rd., Olathe, KS, 888-AMC-4Fun, DineIn.AMCTheatres.com All ages, but those under 18 must be accompanied by an adult. AMC offers a one-of-a-kind movie experience for all ages. Fork & Screen® is a casual restaurant in the movie theatre where patrons enjoy upgraded seats, ordering from a full dinner menu

and service with the push of a button. A wide selection of appetizers, sandwiches, entrees, desserts and drinks is available.

The Alamo Drafthouse Mainstreet 1400 Main St., Kansas City, MO, 816.474.4545, Drafthouse.com All ages, but those under 18 must be accompanied by an adult. Located in the KC Power & Light District, Alamo Drafthouse Cinema offers dine-in theatre events showing new release films and classic flicks. They also offer sing-along events, live events and special events throughout the year, creating the perfect girls’ night, date night or kids’ night out. Known for a oneof-a-kind preshow, the venue won’t

bore you with movie trailers, but rather entertains with its own custom selection of fun film clips, bloopers and comedy shorts. Visit the website and check the calendar, where you’ll find specific details and guidelines for each upcoming event. Tip: Park in the Cosentino’s garage, where your first three hours of parking are validated for free! kcparent.com february 2013

kid-cool rock ‘n roll! The Doo Dads at the Record Bar 1020 Westport Rd., Kansas City, MO, 816.753.5207, TheRecordBar.com All ages welcome, enjoyed best by elementary age and younger. Seven nights a week, the Record Bar hosts live music groups ranging from favorite local artists to national groups. And once a month, the Westport landmark clears the dance floor for Kansas City kids The Doo Dads, one of our favorite local kids’ rock ‘n roll groups. Parents love The Doo Dads’ signature throwback sound. The music is not cheesy and campy, but is high-energy rock ‘n roll. In 2013, you can dance to

the fresh beat of The Doo Dads on Feb. 8, March 8, April 26, May 10 and June 7. At the Record Bar, the music is cranked and the kids are invited to dance and sing to their favorite group’s sounds (super moms bring ear plugs to protect young ears from the volume) while enjoying the Record Bar’s much-loved pizza, burgers, fries, drinks, appetizers and fresh popcorn!

laugh out loud Comedy City at Westport Flea Market 817 Westport Rd., Kansas City, MO, 816.842.2744, ComedyCity.cc All ages welcome, enjoyed best by ages 10 and up. The family that laughs together stays together…or so we like to think! On weekends at the Westport Flea Market, you’ll find Kansas City’s own improv comedy troupe, Comedy City. At these live all-ages-welcome improv shows, two teams compete for your laughs, matching wits in a fun-filled contest as they think on their feet to create hysterical skits using inspiration and ideas directly from the audience —

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making each and every show original! The humor is clean and foul language is against the rules during their all-ages shows. The audience is seated at tables where they may order from the Westport Flea Market menu. Westport Flea Market, famous for delicious burgers (as replicated on their driving burgermobile), serves classic American fare for all ages, making this a fun-filled night out for the entire family!

super sleuthing The Mystery Train of Kansas City Various Local Restaurants KCMysteryTrain.com Recommended for teens and adults. If you love to play the game Clue with your family, you’ll love the Mystery Train! The Mystery Train of Kansas City performs interactive mysteries at Kansas City’s finest restaurants. The mysteries are full of humor and clues, each story written as a piece of historical fiction with Kansas City as the backdrop. The fun begins as you arrive and are greeted by the conductor who explains the evening’s schedule... it is this character’s job to ensure “the train is on time.” Each guest is provided with “bribe bucks” to be used at your leisure throughout the show in an attempt to extract information from the suspects. The meal is served between each of the four acts of the live interactive mystery, with appetizers, salad, a main dish and dessert. If you’re looking for a novel idea for your next night out... the Mystery Train may be just the ticket. Kristina Light loves to beat the winter blahs with a night of laughs at Comedy City! Need more inspiration? Follow KC Parent on Facebook, subscribe to our FREE weekly eNewsletter and check the KCParent.com calendar for frequent updates for the BEST in local outings.

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6 “A child who is particularly anxious or worried or cares a lot about what other people think may be one who is much more careful about making decisions.” -- Dr. Jane Sosland.

If indecision causes severe distress, meltdowns and disruption to your child’s life, consult with your pediatrician or pediatric mental health provider. Additional resources include: ADAA.org and Freeing Your Child from Anxiety: Powerful, Practical Solutions to Overcome Your Child’s Fears, Worries and Phobias by Tamar E. Chansky.

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tips to nurture a confident decision maker

s a parent, you’ve probably heard the mantra: To help your child feel a sense of control and better manage meltdowns, offer two choices you can both live with. But what do you do if just those two choices create an agonizing struggle for your child as he painstakingly worries over seemingly simple decisions? Kristen de la Durantaye, Olathe, says her son Taven, 7, finds decision making extremely difficult, from choosing what to eat for breakfast in the morning to which toy car to pick out at the store. Why? Taven says, “I don’t want to make the wrong choice.” “This is painful because it takes so long to decide. I don’t make the first thing he wants for breakfast because I know he will change his mind at least twice before landing on his final decision,” de la Durantaye says. Dr. Jane Sosland, a clinical psychologist in behavioral pediatrics at the University of Kansas Hospital, says decision-making occurs in the area of the brain that handles problem-solving. While we’re all born with the ability to make decisions, our environment and personality can influence our confidence when weighing options. “A child who is particularly anxious or worried or cares a lot about what other people think may be one who is much more careful about making decisions,” Sosland says. Weigh the importance. Help your child learn to differentiate between minor decisions and more important decisions in which the pros and cons should be considered. Kelly Hill, Shawnee, models decision-making to her indecisive daughter Jolie, 4. “If I have a choice to make, talking about it out loud with her and explaining the different options of each may help her make her choices, too.” Targeted praise. When your child makes a decision, reaffirm her choice and reinforce desired behavior with specific praise. For example, “I like that red shirt you chose to wear” or “Good call on the restaurant you chose for your birthday dinner. It will be fun to try something new!” Practice builds confidence. Making decisions is essentially taking risks,

especially if you’re unsure about the choices. A child who harbors strong selfdoubt may begin to avoid making any significant decisions for fear of making the wrong choice. But, the last thing you want is for your child to start giving away his decision-making power to others. Begin with small, easier decisions to help your child feel the sweetness of success. “It’s important for kids to feel successful when going out of their comfort zone,” Sosland says. Avoid criticism. Naturally, decisions don’t always work out in our favor. “Empathize with (your child), but don’t criticize,” Sosland says. “The key is to keep encouraging him to learn new skills and try new things.” If your child decides to play a sport, but then says he doesn’t like it, explain that he has to finish out the season since he made the commitment, but that you’re proud of him for taking the risk and trying something new. Set limits. Too expansive an array of options can fuel anxiety and indecision. Guidelines can help your child further simplify the decision. For example, before taking your child to the toy aisle to spend her birthday money, discuss what type of toy she would like to purchase. Tell her she’ll have 15 minutes to decide and then you’ll be moving on to finish your other shopping. Point out items on the aisle she can afford to further narrow down choices. If she doesn’t decide within the designated time limit, tell her you’ll have to come back later. External motivation. To motivate your child, offer simple incentives to achieve desired goals. Sosland suggests turning privileges that your child may already receive for “free” into incentives. For example, if your child sticks to his initial decision about what to eat for breakfast without argument, helping to keep the family on schedule, he can listen to the music of his choice or play his Nintendo DS on the way to school. Not only will he enjoy the external reward, he’ll feel an internal boost of self-confidence as well. Freelance writer Christa Melnyk Hines resides in Olathe with her family. Connect with her at ChristaMelnykHines.com.

word from dad

date night “Did you want a cup of coffee?” “Thanks,” Sandi said. I brought her coffee to her in the living room. “Are the boys asleep?” I asked. “I think they’ve drifted off. Date night?” “You bet.” “What do you want to watch?” “You.” I turned the chair to face her instead of the TV and sat down, looking at Sandi’s smile. “Is there anything you want to talk about?” I sipped my coffee. “Nothing in particular. Did I tell you what Tracy said about James during trash pickup? He raced ahead of her to pick up pieces of trash.” “Our James? I almost have to threaten him.” “He’s growing up. Maybe he’s trying to impress females, no matter what the age,” I said, making Sandi laugh. “Maybe I should tell him I’m a female, too.” “You’re just Mom. That makes you special, so he can ignore you.” “That isn’t much comfort,” she said, taking a sip. “Kaylee dog bolted and got out today.You should have seen Ian. I was still putting on my shoes when he went out with a leash to get her.” “Did he?” “You should have seen how he did it! He sat down in the front of the neighbor’s yard and snagged her when she ran back to him” She laughed again. “He took her to the backyard to play. When they finally came back in, she just collapsed in the middle of the floor and fell asleep.” We talked about little things, mostly the boys, for an entire pot of coffee while the time flew. We discovered years ago that when we do that, we maintain the weave of the tapestry that is our lives. It’s not hard, but it is special. We simply talk and enjoy the company of the one we love. William R. Bartlett lives in Belton with his family. kcparent.com february 2013

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Pinterest has taken the world by storm, making home cooks and wanna-be crafters into gourmet chefs and talented artists virtually overnight. Thanks to its super user-friendly format, a novice can set up an account, navigate the site and easily get a handle on how to visually bookmark her favorite websites, tutorials, DIY projects and more in no time flat. This time saver is a huge convenience in a day when busy parents run at break-neck speed, but fair warning: Pinterest is also addicting and its members can find themselves wasting away the hours swimming in an endless sea of creativity (don’t say I didn’t warn you!). While Pinterest has a handle on many things, perhaps its niche market is party planning. Whether you’re creatively inclined or sorely lacking, Pinterest provides the inspiration that can make your party come to life. That’s right! For moms and dads looking to add personal touches and homemade embellishments to their child’s special day, Pinterest is where it’s at. You can pin (bookmark) virtually anything across the World Wide Web, however, the beauty of Pinterest is that you can view other users’ boards (meaning, in short, you can let someone else do

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the work of hunting down great ideas and simply copy these ideas onto your own boards). This is especially helpful and time-saving when researching themed parties. Simply use Pinterest’s search engine and type in the themed party of your choice and voila! Beautiful images instantly fill your screen; simply scan through and pin the ones that are most relevant to your search. In its short four-year existence, Pinterest has become such a vital source of inspiration that it already has many wondering, “How did we do it before Pinterest?” Pinterest’s versatility lends itself to making any parent the party planning pro, but one of its biggest assets is helping the planner do things on the cheap. Hunt down free printable invitations, banners, labels and wall art on its website. Hosting a surprise party? You’re in luck — Pinterest now provides three secret boards (no one but you can see), meaning mums the word! Lauren Greenlee has prepared for numerous parties using Pinterest and currently finds herself knee-deep in plans for her soon-to-be 3-year-old’s camping-themed party. She writes from her home in Olathe.

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3 Super Bowl Sunday! Have the kids decorate the house with construction paper helmets, jerseys and footballs, then break out the snacks at kickoff.

Volunteer as a family: Pick up trash, help at a soup kitchen, organize a food drive, walk dogs at an animal shelter… whatever fits your family’s desires and abilities.

Pretend it’s summertime! Have a picnic on the living room floor.

Celebrate Presidents Day by “visiting” the White House. Go to WhiteHouse.gov for presidential biographies, facts and a virtual tour of 1600 Pennsylvania Ave.

Soup, anyone? Gather the kids to help prepare a meal. Even the youngest can help gather ingredients, stir and clean up.

Get those family pics off the camera or hard drive and into a scrapbook! Let each family member create a page or two.

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Today is Random Acts of Kindness Day. Bake cookies for a neighbor and leave them at the front door.

Kiddos will have fun making indoor “snowmen” using marshmallows and toothpicks. The best part? They can eat their creations!

February is Black History Month. Visit your local library and check out children’s books on African-Americans who have helped shape America, then read them with your kids.

Put on a kid-friendly Mardi Gras parade! Buy cheap beaded necklaces and have the kids make brightlycolored masks or costumes.

Create edible snowmen: Dip Nutter Butters in melted white chocolate, then use chocolate chips and other candies for eyes, nose and buttons.

Stay warm at a local museum, such as the NelsonAtkins, Johnson County Museum, Steamboat Arabia or the Negro Leagues Baseball Museum.

fun Make paper snowflakes with the kiddos and hang them around the house.

Have some family fun researching cold weather facts: find out the coldest temperature ever recorded, the location of the largest snowfall, etc.

How’s this for irony? February is Chocolate Lovers Month & Heart Health Month. Crank up the tunes and work up a sweat having a dance party with the kids, then top it off with a little chocolate.

Too cold to play at the park? Head to an indoor playground such as Monkey Bizness or Cool Crest.

Happy Valentine’s Day! Celebrate by making valentines and delivering them to a local nursing home.

Have a scavenger hunt inside the house, in the backyard or at a mall. Kids love the thrill of searching for items.

Only 20 days until spring! Make a list of activities your family would like to do when the weather warms up.

Get moving! Create fitness stations in your home using stairs, balls, canned food “weights”, etc.

15 Feeling lazy? Bundle up the kids and take a brisk walk around the neighborhood or on a local trail to get energized.

Time to clean out those closets! Have everyone gather some items—outgrown clothes, unused toys— to donate to a charity.

Declare a tech-free night at your house. Bust out the board games and snacks for a family game night.

Movie night at home! Let the kids make their own tickets, choose snacks and open a concession stand. Afterward, everyone can write their own review.

Will Punxsutawney Phil see his shadow? If he does, we’re in for six more weeks of winter, and hot cocoa is in order. If he doesn’t see his shadow, celebrate with ice cream; spring is on the way!

Relive your childhood with your kids at an arcade! The whole family will find fun at Paradise Park, Power Play, Cool Crest or Zonkers.

Lace up those skates! Grab the family and spend the day ice skating. Afterward, enjoy a tasty cup of hot cocoa.

Beat the winter doldrums with a visit to CoCo Key. The tropical-themed indoor water park will perk up the whole family!

Tisha Foley counts the days until spring from her home in Belton. kcparent.com february 2013

bonding the busy mom’s guide to

“You can always cuddle on the couch and read a book if you have 5 extra minutes,” says Benson. “But don’t forget how important talking to your child is, so if you just have time to share a cookie and talk about your day, that’s a bonding moment, too.”

Go back in time

“Reminiscing is a special way to bond with your children. Pull out a photo album or watch a video of them when they were younger. It’s fun for you and your kids, and it gets you talking about the ‘old days.’” says Wendy Petricoff, an Overland Park native who is now a Love & Logic Parenting expert in Charlotte, NC.

Let the kids take over...

Giving your kids the chance to direct playtime—even if for just a little while— and giving them your full attention is a sure way to get the conversation rolling, according to Petricoff. (Plus, it’s fun to give yourself permission to act like a kid sometimes!)

...and break the rules

“When you give your kids the chance to be in charge, it’s okay to break the rules (within reason),” says Petricoff. “Let them change the rules of a game, mix up the Play-doh colors, run around the house yelling in their outside voices. As long as everyone is safe, just have fun and let them enjoy their freedom.”

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ouldn’t it be nice to have an entire day dedicated to those idyllic parent-child bonding experiences we see in movies? A day spent at Paradise Park, teaching your children as you happily play together, or an entire afternoon dedicated to the art projects/sports/ games your child so adores. As parents in today’s busy world, those perfect hours spent bonding with our kids may not happen as often as we’d like. The solution: Whether you find yourself with 5 extra minutes before leaving for school or 30 minutes in the car together, you can take advantage of these quick and easy ways to bond with your children—straight from the experts:

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“The important thing to do is focus on the quality of the time you spend with your child, not the quantity of your time,” says Maxine Benson, program director at the Jewish Community Center’s Child Development Center in Overland Park.

We all know the importance of physical fitness for our bodies, but the emotional well-being is an added benefit. Let your kids teach you their moves in an impromptu dance party, go on an exploratory winter walk or have a “get ready for school” mini-Olympics, complete with jumping jacks, tooth brushing and toe touches (or whatever you and your kids enjoy). All of these give you and your kids time to talk, laugh and have fun together.

Above all, talk

Benson, who has played an integral part in raising thousands of preschoolers throughout her career, as well as her own close-knit family that includes three grandchildren, says, “Talking with your kids is a lost art, and it’s the foundation to a good relationship. Take the opportunity to talk to your child, whether you are in the car, eating dinner or sorting laundry. Every moment counts.” Jane Blumenthal Martin lives in Overland Park with her husband and two children. Read Jane’s blog for working parents at ArtOfEqualParenting.com.

staying connected

with your spouse

e, as a married couple, have the odds stacked against us when it comes to getting time together. On top of the usual issues that our fast-paced society throws in our path, we personally are a one income family with toddler quadruplets. Disposable income and disposable time are non-existent. As a pregnant quad mom, one of my biggest fears was losing “us” when our kids arrived. I was afraid that the craziness of life would cause us to lose touch and eventually forget why we married each other. In hindsight, I think that was a useful fear to have. It has caused us to be very intentional about making sure that the “us” is the highest priority in our family. Our methods for staying close are simple, inexpensive and quick. They don’t involve expensive evenings out, staring into each other’s eyes for hours on end or hiring babysitters. Instead, we’ve learned to function within the new framework that has become our lives. Each of our times together takes 15 minutes or less, but they mean the difference between drifting away from each other and staying connected.

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late afternoon couch dates

Technology makes it easy to stay in touch in real time! Sean and I take advantage of it by connecting throughout the day by text, email or an occasional phone call. If he has special meetings or projects, he lets me know what he’s up to. If I have a child climbing the bookshelf, fighting a fever or doing particularly well in therapy, I let him know. We obviously can’t be with each other all of the time, but becaucse we are partners in life, we want each other to know the ins and outs of our day. Time: 1 minute or less

daily debriefing

On occasion, Sean will get off of work a few minutes early and make it home before our kids get up from their afternoon nap. On those days, I get a text message letting me know that he is swinging by Dairy Queen for Blizzards and to expect a quick couch date when he gets home. It’s only a few minutes long, but it’s enough to count as a date in our book! Time: 10-15 minutes

post-dinner cleanup

We work very hard to keep each other in the loop about our daily lives. Sean works in payroll, and I’m a stay-at-home mom. There isn’t a lot of similarity between our days, and honestly, not much of our routine changes at home. It doesn’t matter though. I always ask how Sean’s day went, and he always asks how my day was— even if he knows it was probably the same as yesterday. It not only reaffirms that we are partners, but it also validates the role that each of us plays in our partnership. Usually, we manage our daily debriefing while I’m cooking dinner and he is greeting the kids. Time: 5-10 minutes

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Every evening, Sean and I clean up dinner together. He clears the table, wipes off highchair trays and sweeps the floor while I put away leftovers and do the dishes. Working together, we get everything done quickly and head to the living room together for family time. We take advantage of our cleanup duties to just enjoy being together and talking about whatever comes to mind. Dinner chores are a lot more fun when done with a friend! Time: 15 minutes Rebecca Ishum lives in south Kansas City with her husband, Sean, and their 2-year-old quadruplets. Next month, they are celebrating their fifth wedding anniversary and looking forward to many more years together…hopefully with more sleep! kcparent.com february 2013

MEAL PLANNING FOR THE BUSY MOM ng: for Successful Meal Planni

Combine all ingredients together for a happy family, stress-free Mom and enjoyable family dinners.

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MEAL SWAPPING MUSTS

Recipes should yield 6 servings. The recipes you choose should be able to be cooked or reheated by one of these methods – grilled, broiled, stove top, crock pot, microwave or conventional oven. Package food in freezable containers. Label all packages with the month/ year, ingredients included and instructions for heating. Meals should take no more than 2-3 hours to prepare. The goal is to be as stress-free as possible. Bonus: Make an extra meal to have on hand for giving (new baby, death, new house, etc.).

A DAY FOR A MONTH

asier said than done, right? If meal planning has proven to be a pesky chore in your household, start fresh with a new approach. Put in some time and organization to take control of your family’s meals. Eliminating the stress around mealtime will allow you to connect with your loved ones after a busy day.

THE CROCKPOT IS YOUR FRIEND

5 Reasons for Family Dinners 1. Families who eat together develop strong parent-child bonds. Children are likely to talk and share things with their parents during dinner. 2. Teens that regularly eat dinner as a family are less likely to take drugs, drink alcohol or smoke tobacco. 3. Children with families that eat together do better academically. 4. Families that eat together generally eat more nutritiously, and children are less likely to be overweight. 5. Having family meals together can save money. (Source: SuperHealthyKids.com)

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It’s tried and true and has stood the test of time. Deana Curtin, a local working mother, says, “I want to hug my new best friend (Crockpot) when I walk in the door to the aroma of a ready-to-serve warm meal for my family.” Check out these websites for quick and easy Crockpot recipes: • Crockpot365.com • CrockpotMamas.com • Crock-Pot.com/Recipes.aspx Bonus: Invest in some Crockpot liners and save yourself the scrubbing and scouring of your Crockpot post-meal.

MEAL SWAP

Start simple when venturing into meal swapping. Step 1: Get together two or three friends who are interested. Step 2: Have a pre-meal making meeting. Each person should bring two or three potential recipes and share the food needs of their families (allergies, preferences, etc.). Decide on the recipes you’ll be making and the completion date for exchange. Step 3: Prepare duplicates of your chosen recipe based on the size of your group. Label with cooking instructions and package/freeze. Step 4: Meet up again to distribute and collect meals.

The leg work for this strategy includes picking out the meals, creating a detailed grocery list, cross-checking your fridge and pantry before shopping and, finally, making the trip to the store for the big haul. Complete these steps on a different day than you actually assemble the meals. Once you have everything you need at home, send the kids to Grandma’s house, crank up the I-Pod and start assembling. When meals are assembled and frozen, you’re off the hook at dinnertime for a month! Bonus: Add a dessert to the menu to look forward to!

DREAM DINNERS

Owner of Dream Dinners in Overland Park, Jana Day says the goal of her company is to “help moms get kids around the dinner table.” Whether the challenge is time, desire or ideas, Dream Dinners wants to provide a solution to dinnertime. With the cost per serving ranging from $4.75 to $5.50, plus the time saved in shopping and prep-work, Dream Dinners is, well, a dream! Start by checking out their website (DreamDinners.com). It lists their monthly delicious and nutritious entrée choices. You will be asked to select a session time/ date, entrée choices and payment. Then it’s simply a matter of showing up, rotating around to your entrée choice stations and preparing them. They have all the ingredients chopped, cubed, sliced and diced for you, as well as storage bags and heating instructions for you to take home. Bonus: For an extra cost, they will prepare your selected meals for you!! Amanda Doll treasures her Crockpot and freezer more than diamonds and pearls at this stage in her life. She has risen to the challenge of meal planning for her 6’5’’ husband and two boys in Lenexa.

women’s health

winter skin woes Oh, the weather outside is frightful, and you hope your skin stays delightful. Unfortunately, for many people, the cold weather causes some to sing a different song. Cold weather can bring on a plethora of winter skin woes that can truly drive us crazy. Issues like dry, itchy skin or scalp, chapped lips or dry hair can bring out the suffering diva in all of us! Generally speaking, if you suffer from any of the above issues, getting advice from your local department store or drug store isn’t the best choice. Seek help from a medical professional such as a dermatologist, especially if the problem seems to be more complex. Nevertheless, here is a list of recommendations for dry skin, scalp, hair and chapped lips from the American Academy of Dermatology.

dry skin: • Moisturizer: Apply frequently every day. Look for products containing petrolatum or lanolin, which help seal moisture in. Dermatologists may prescribe something stronger containing medications to help with severe dry skin like eczema. • Make sure all soap is rinsed from hands after washing. • Wear dish gloves to keep water away from hands. • Moisturize right after shower and limit time in shower. • Use a humidifier.

chapped lips: • Apply lip balm at bedtime that contains the ingredients petrolatum or lanolin. • Use a humidifier.

itchy scalp/dry hair: • If you have dandruff and itchy scalp, use a shampoo designed specifically to treat these conditions. • Rinse shampoo thoroughly from hair. • If you have dry hair, you may not need to wash your hair every day. • Always condition your hair, but apply only to the ends. • Apply conditioner to the ends of your hair, before washing hair and after washing hair. • Use a shampoo and conditioner based on meeting your hair needs, not necessarily the most expensive brand. • Use a humidifier in the winter. If you try any of the above methods for relieving your winter skin woes without success, please visit with your doctor for further questions. Wrap yourself up this winter and stay warm! Melanie Yunger is a local nurse practitioner and mother who works daily on preventing her children’s hands and lips from getting chapped. kcparent.com february 2013

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From Outdoor Discovery to Just for Fun, we offer over 50 professionally programmed and supervised camps conveniently located throughout Johnson County. Specializing in healthy and active options for kids of all ages, our summer fun choices include preschool enrichment, arts and crafts, sports training, computers, nature and science, leadership development, and music, theatre and dance. The choices include indoor and outdoor programs, and full and partial day schedules. For details call 913.831.3359 or visit www.JCPRD.com/activities/camps.cfm. See display ad on pg. 33.

Kansas City Ballet School

Kansas City Ballet School Summer Programs in-

PLan aheaD wITh our Summer ProgramS for ageS 3 - 13! Classes are designed to provide your child with excellent ballet training and superior attention from our top teachers, all while having fun. Classes begin June 3. Programs Include: Creative Movement ages 3-5 Fairy Tale Dance and Story Book Ballet Workshops ages 3-8 2-4 Week Ballet Camps ages 7-13

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“Skills such as character building are inherent in the camp environment. More importantly, research tells us that this growth lasts well beyond the camp experience and becomes a lifelong attribute.” — Peg Smith, chief executive officer, American Camp Association

camp defines & develops character

“I learned how to be honest about stuff.” - Abigail, age 9

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erriam-Webster’s online dictionary defines character as one of the attributes or features that make up and distinguish an individual. Character development is tricky. It isn’t something that can be learned from a textbook or in a lecture — it is learned through teachable moments and experiences. So where can families turn to help provide the right environment for character development? Families can go to camp. For over a century, millions of families have been benefiting from the positive, supportive environment provided by the camp experience. Camp develops character when: • Children and youth feel safe and nurtured, allowing them to take healthy risks and develop character organically; • Supporting mentors model positive character traits and lead by example; and • Camp provides teachable moments — for example, a disagreement about the rules of a field game becomes a lesson on integrity, honesty and fair play.

In a study of youth development outcomes conducted by Philliber Research Associates and ACA, campers said the following: • Abigail, age 9, said, “I learned how to be honest about stuff.” • “I learned a lot about respect and my real values in life, what they really should be,” said Louise, 14. • Sam, age 12, said, “At camp I learned how to be part of a team... sometimes you have to rely on someone to do a task or goal. You have to trust each other.” About ACA The American Camp Association® (ACA) works to preserve, promote and enhance the camp experience for children and adults. ACA-Accredited® camp programs ensure that children are provided with a diversity of educational and developmentally challenging learning opportunities. There are over 2,400 ACA-accredited camps that meet up to 300 health and safety standards. For more information, visit ACAcamps.org.

camp guide clude once-a-week Creative Movement classes (ages 3-5) to special four-day Fairy Tale (ages 3-5) and Story Book Ballet Workshops (ages 6-8) to 2- to 4-week Ballet classes (ages 7-13). Your child will enjoy excellent training and superior attention while having fun. Classes begin June 3rd. Enroll today to guarantee your child’s spot. Two convenient locations: Downtown and Johnson County 816.931.2299. See display ad on pg. 31. www.KCBallet.org

OP, KS. Open Pre-K -9th grades. Half-day or full, (7:30am-6 p.m.). Shows spoof Clones, Divas, Vampires, Princesses, VideoGames and more. No auditions and no experience required. Free costumes, shows & snacks. Multiple child discount 10%. Make your own schedule, we take partials & we pro-rate. Specials: $54 half day, $99 full. $89.10/week for multiple kids. 816.561.2787 or tiarts@hotmail.com. See KC Parent ad on pg. 30 for $30 coupon. www.dramakc.com

Paint, Glaze & Fire Ceramics & Coffee House

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Camp ARTRAGEOUS! Paint Glaze & Fire Ceramics & Coffee House is offering summer camp for its 15th season! Your child will learn new techniques and have fun creating art in our multi-medium camps (ceramics, clay, canvas & glass fusion). Class size is limited - sign up early! Check it out online and find more information as well as a registration form at www.PaintGlazeAndFire.net. For more information on these and many other fun and creative programs, visit the website. See display ad on pg. 30. 913.661.CLAY (2529).

The KCYA Community School of the Arts

The KCYA Community School of the Arts (CSA) offers children performing and visual arts classes, camps and private instruction on the campus of St. Teresa’s Academy. Spring classes now forming. Our fabulous performance based Spring Break Camps will be held March 18-22. Summer Camps begin in June. Scholarships are available. 816.531.4022. See display ad on pg. 30.www.KCYA.org.

Theatre of the Imagination

Performing arts. One and two week camps run Mon-Fri, May 28-Aug. 9 at 6100 W. 127th,

Trilogy Performing Arts Camps Learn to Sing, Dance, Act, Stage Fight and Stunt Work! Be part of great performances! New 4 week program featuring Disney’s Tarzan! Week camps with showcases include, Mary Poppins-Step in Time, Red Hot Vocal Camp, Lone Ranger, Jedi Stunts, Never Never Land, Princesses! Experience a state of the art GREAT LOCATION!; Day Camps at 12480 S Black Bob, Olathe KS. Half Day ages (3-5)$115, Full Day ages (6-18)$160. NEW! Imaginative overnight camps with Narnia inspired facility (ages 8-18)$350. 913.254.4444 See display ad on pg. 31. www.TrilogyCulturalArts.org

YMCA Summer Program

The Y’s summer day camps offer fun and adventure for kids. Camps are Monday-Friday, and hours accommodate working parents. Camps for ages 5-12 are offered in Olathe, Shawnee Mission, Blue Valley, Bonner Springs, Raymore- Peculiar and Center school districts, and in Parkville. Choose traditional camps with different themes weekly or specialty camps including sports, outdoor and fine arts. In addition, Summer of Service is for ages 1215, and Junior Summer of Service is for ages 9-12. Visit www.KansasCityYMCA.org or call 913.345.9622. See display ad on pg. 5.

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media mix

Ready for adventure? 3 Below: A Floors Novel

By Patrick Carman Best for: Ages 8-12

The second book in the “Floors” series takes us back to the eccentric and unpredictable world of the Whippet Hotel in New York City. This time around, 11-year-old Leo Fillmore finds that owning the Whippet Hotel still has its ups and downs. Merganzer D. Whippet is absent—sort of. The strange cast of hotel guests is back, including Ms. Sparks, who returns with a vengeance and a plan to

New YA Books Bring Adventure to Life By McGeath Freeman

collect $7 million in back taxes and take over the hotel. Will Leo and Remi save the day? I guess you’ll just have to read the book to find out. It’s worth it. My kids and I are already talking about what could be in book three. Until it comes out, we’ll just have to read 3 Below again.

What’s good: Imaginative adventures, eccentric characters and enough whimsy to write a third book. What’s bad: Set aside reality for this story since much of the set-up is ridiculous.

Infinity Ring, Book Two: Divide and Conquer

By Carrie Ryan Best for: Ages 8-12

The evil SQ are still trying to take over the world while Riq, Sera and Dak continue to bounce through time trying to fix the breaks in time and stop the SQ. In this, the second book in the “Infinity Ring” series, our three young heroes join the Viking war without knowing whether they are on the right side.

It may be difficult to keep up if you haven’t read the first book in the series, but it won’t be impossible. Divide and Conquer is entertaining, but it won’t win literary awards—the characters could stand better development to add layers to the tale. Who knows, maybe one of the next authors will add depth.

What’s good: A grand adventure that sucks you in and keeps you reading. What’s bad: Lack of character development and light peril.

Geeks, Girls, and Secret Identities

By Mike Jung Best for: Ages 8-12

Comic book and superhero fans may think they’ve seen it all, and for much of this high-flying adventure they may be right. But the cliché lines and cliché battles and cliché villains are all a part of what makes Geeks, Girls, and Secret Identities so much fun. Captain Stupendous is the hero of Copperplate City, and every teen wants to see his next battle. That’s why they all

have an app that sends Stupendous Alerts. It’s not until Stupendous begins acting a little strange and the Captain Stupendous Fan Club gets involved that the story really gets interesting. This fun romp through secret identities is held together with easy-to-relate-to characters and believable relationships, which makes it well worth a cliché-filled read.

What’s good: A twist that makes it different from any other hero story. What’s bad: May be too many clichés for some superhero fans.

Abe Lincoln’s Dream

By Lane Smith Best for: Ages 5-8

And one for Lincoln’s birthday… Inspired by a recurring dream that Lincoln shared with his cabinet shortly before his untimely death, this book takes that nightmare and turns it on its head. When a young girl on a school tour of the White House discovers Lincoln’s

ghost, she decides to take him on a tour of the land he helped shape. Abe’s nightmare of unfinished business and a land at war is turned into a dream of unity, freedom and prosperity.

What’s good: An entertaining look at history and an uplifting look at America. What’s bad: The introduction with the presidential dogs is a little disjointed.

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I administered a survey to three local high school classes. The question: What is the most common thing teenagers are getting peer pressure to do? Here are the results. h drugs & alcohol skipping class/work lying to parents on whereabouts cheating having the “it” material item 0%

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hen it comes to peer pressure, we adults should be able to relate. After all, “Keeping up with the Joneses” is not a phrase intended for kids. Peer pressure is a natural part of socialization when growing up and can come in both positive and negative forms. Research shows that, in general, the levels of peer pressure increase as kids grow older. And, the resistance to peer pressure decreases as children gain independence away from their families. We see peer pressure in preschool in the form of children’s wanting others to play in a certain way. In the school age years, peers begin to significantly influence choices regarding music, clothing and the activities they take part in—this can range from joining an organized sport to drinking alcohol I asked Shawnee Mission South sophomore Nicole Thimmesch to shed some light on what teenagers are facing today in regards to peer pressure. What are some common types of peer pressure that teens experience today? Are there different types for girls vs. boys? Nicole: Using drugs and alcohol and making bad decisions in general are common types. For girls, the pressure is about who your friends are and how you look. You’re judged by how you dress and feel pressure to have trendy and pricey clothes, wear the right make-up, etc. For boys, I think it’s about the sports/activities they’re in and trying to get a girlfriend. Have the types of peer pressure changed as you’ve grown up? Nicole: Yes, drugs and alcohol come into play in high school.When you’re younger, it’s more about who you hang out

with and having the latest material thing. I also see it when you start using social media. It’s all about what you are doing; who you are with, etc… Do you experience any positive/ competitive forms of peer pressure? Nicole: The positive peer pressure is when you have a good group of friends that help you do the right thing. I feel positive pressure on my gymnastics team to improve my routines. I think this pressure happens in extracurricular activities and hanging with good people making the right decisions. Does pressure come from likeminded peers or peers that are different from you? Nicole: People try to be in groups they want to be in, so they will conform to get in the group. People will do what the group is doing for acceptance. What can parents do to help you with peer pressure? Nicole: Parents can try to guide you to make right decision and share with you what they think the right decision is. Parents should listen and understand without harping on you. They should let the kid come to them with the conversation. What are some ways to overcome peer pressure? Nicole: By not surrounding yourself with people making bad decisions. Remember there are consequences for every decision and remind yourself to think about the big picture and what is important. With that insight from a teenager’s perspective, it is clear that kids have some tough decisions to make. How can we as parents help guide them to the right decision without impeding their progression in independence? Here are some tips from the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry and School Family that can help generate confidence in your child. It is proven that kids (especially teens) with low confidence are more prone to give in to peer pressure. 1. Listen without lecturing. 2. Encourage involvement in interests and extracurricular activities 3. Get to know your child’s friends. 4. Talk and compare notes with other parents. 5. Develop backup plans to help kids get out of a situation they can’t handle. 6. Teach them how to be assertive and get out of “sticky” situations. Kids will rely on the guidance from their parents, so the hard work that goes into parenting will pay off as they navigate through the challenges of peer pressure. Amanda Doll has been navigating through the new world of “mom pressure” since she’s had her two children. kcparent.com february 2013

PICKING THE BEST PRESCHOOL

t’s the question that causes as many sleepless nights as a newborn’s feeding schedule: When is the right time to send our “baby” off to preschool? Our oldest was 2 years old when talk of Parents’ Day Out and preschool inched its way into the vernacular of mom-and-tot social circles. A few moms were quick to sign up (some, I’m convinced, had placed their children on lists when they were popping prenatal vitamins). For the rest of us, the decision between keeping kids home and sending them off into the Great Unknown, if even for small portions of time, was overwhelming.

Enter the Parents as Teachers “Preschool, Parents’ Day Out and Community Fair.” Mommy friends banded together on this pivotal night to systematically peruse displays of virtually every preschool in the area. Beaming preschool directors and teachers patiently answered a litany of questions on their respective schools and distributed pamphlets picturing joyful parading children linking hands and frolicking through playgrounds. I could tell immediately that these experts in child development genuinely adored young kids. That night, the Great Unknown became, well, just great. I was confident my 2-year-old was ready for Parents’ Day Out. After visiting our top five preschools and making two more visits each to the top three (I kid not!), we settled on just the one—a parochial early education center in Overland Park. It was, for our daughter, a perfect fit. It was also because of this wonderful preschool, many years later, that we discovered her younger brother needed help with his fine motor development.

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Both his preschool teacher and Blue Valley Special Education Services set us up with resources to advance him, including a free pilot program for vision therapy and an inclass visit from an occupational therapist. Knowing he needed extra intervention ultimately led us to our next preschool experience: the Peer-Model Program. Through the Peer-Model Program, our son attends a Blue Valley public school with a mixture of normally developing and developmentally delayed peers. A teacher and two assistant teachers, plus a speech and occupational therapist, are in the classroom working directly with his developmental needs, making the student-to-teacher ratio about two-to-one. Our son is thriving, making huge strides with drawing and handwriting and could not be more thrilled to go to school each day. Though each child’s path led in a unique direction, our sleepless nights over prospective preschools have now, from the other side, turned into dreamscome-true for our two kids.

We asked KCParent.com readers, when’s the best time to start your child in preschool?

9% When they are 1, attending a Mother’s Day Out program

36% The year before kindergarten

55% When they are 3

PICKING A PRESCHOOL is she ready? Wondering whether your child is ready for a

Does your child obey simple instructions and behave for other adults?

Can your child engage independently in basic skills such as hand washing, eating and sleeping in her own bed?

Can your child sustain focus and work on a task or project independently?

Does your child handle separation and transitions well? Does your child play well with peers?

Is she toilet-trained? (Check with each preschool for its specific policy.)

Does your child need more social interaction than you can offer at home?

schedule a visit.

Visiting numerous preschools allows me the opportunity to experience the environment of each school. I want to know that my child is not only safe and secure, but that my child is able to trust the adults with whom he spends his day. Kim Binder, parent of Brookridge Day School student

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parent participation:

In what ways can parents participate in the classroom? Does the school host parent nights? Do parents plan and attend class parties?

communication:

How do teachers communicate with parents? Are daily reports given? Does the preschool have an up-to-date website? Can I expect parent-teacher conferences?

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PICKING A PRESCHOOL enrollment:

What is the enrollment date and process? Is there a lottery or wait list? Can I be guaranteed placement for future siblings?

staff:

Do staff members appear happy and engaged? How long do staff members tend to stay at the school? May I meet/observe the teachers?

logistics:

What are the day and time options for preschool, Parents’ Day Out and prekindergarten programs? Is an extended day option available? What is the cost of each program and is there a deposit? What is the drop-off and pick-up procedure? Is there a drive-through option? Do you have a sign-in/sign-out system? Are the doors locked during school hours? What security is in place to keep children safe?

8 questions to ask every preschool: With so many options available, screening preschools can be an intimidating task. After you’ve determined how far you’re willing to drive, whittle down your list of prospective preschools with these basic questions: 1. What is your education philosophy and what specific skills are taught at each age level? 2. What are the staff’s required education and emergency training credentials? Do they undergo thorough background checks? 3. Are Parents’ Day Out and pre-kindergarten programs offered? 4. What is the maximum capacity and student-teacher ratio for each age group? 5. What is the preschool’s policy on toilet training? 6. How are children disciplined and comforted? 7. What does a typical day look like? 8. May I walk in or schedule a visit?

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PICKING A PRESCHOOL environment:

What is your policy on snacks, lunch and birthday treats?

May I tour classrooms and observe one in progress? Is there a posted classroom schedule?

Is there a naptime during the day? Is it required?

Are there food restrictions?

Are there centers for children to explore? How well do students transition between activities? Does the environment appear safe, engaging and clean?

eating & naps

Is there a fenced-in playground? Is there a television within the classroom and if so, how often is it used? Are there restrooms designed for young children within the classrooms?

specials, field trips, holidays:

How are art, music and physical education incorporated into the classroom? Does the preschool take field trips? Are there any recitals or holiday pageants? How are holidays celebrated? Does your preschool offer summer camps? Wendy Connelly is a mother of a 4- and 6-year-old from Overland Park.

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The KCParent.com calendar now has 10x MORE EVENTS!

CALENDAR

Shrek: The Musical

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dance

The Coterie Theatre presents Number the Stars through Feb. 21. Based on Lois Lowry’s book, it tells the tale of the rescue of Danish Jews during WW ll.

On Feb. 2 at 1:00, head to Lanesfield Historic Site to see the school decorated for an old-fashioned Valentine’s Day. Try your hand at fun activities. 913.893.6645

Celebrate Laura Ingalls Wilder on Feb. 9 at 10:00 at Ernie Miller Nature Center with a craft, lessons and music from the time period. Pre-reg. 913.831.3359

Take the family to see Shrek: The Musical on Feb. 16 at 2:00 & 7:30 at Yardley Hall at JCCC. Ogre-sized family fun for the whole family. JCCC.edu

Join the gang from Yo Gabba Gabba Live on Feb. 23 at 2:00 & 5:00 at the Midland. They’ll get you up and dancing! MidlandKC.com

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The Hound of the Baskervilles Thru Feb 24, 8:00, American Heartland Theatre. A funny adaptation of the classic story of mystery & suspense. AHTKC.com Death of a Salesman Thru Feb 10, 8:00, KC Rep Theatre. See the profound drama of a down-on-hisluck salesman searching for his American dream. KCRep.org

2 SATURDAY

Home Depot Kids’ Workshop 9:00, Home Depot stores. Bring in the kids for a free workshop and build something together. HomeDepot.com Teen Service Day 9:00, West Wyandotte Library. If you need service hours for NHS or any other reason, come to the library and serve! 913.596.5800

UNDERGROUND by Storling Dance Theater | Feb. 2

1 FRIDAY

100th Day of School Celebration 10:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Chris Cakes helps us explore 100 with a free pancake breakfast. Pre-reg. 913.438.7343 Jazz Storytelling 10:00, American Jazz Museum. Children are introduced to new music and cultures at our storytelling time. 816.474.8463 Martha Speaks Puppet Show Thru Feb 10, Paul

Mesner Puppet Studio. Appropriate for the entire family! 816.756.3500

First Fridays 7:00, Crossroads Art District. Galleries and shops remain open late on the first Friday of each month. KCCrossroads.org

Dance

with special guest belle

Friday, February 8, 2013, 6-9 pm and saturday, february 9, 2013, 6-9 pm Providence Community Church 10113 Lenexa Drive 913.307.0710 www.sovgracekc.org/dance

all inclusive:

price includes jack stack dinner for dads and chick-fil-a for the girls, photo with belle and flower. $60 per couple ($10 for each additional child).

Bird Banding 10:00, Burroughs Audubon Nature Center. See our resident songbirds up close and personal. 816.795.8177 Make It Take It 10:00, US Toy. Every Saturday enjoy

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360 Coach Eric has 19 plus years of teaching gymnastics experience in the area. Come in for a free open gym or a free trial class.

Activities for kids, open gyms, raffles and refreshments

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360 Gymnastics is a recreational gymnastics program. We offer many day, evening, and weekend classes for children of all ages. • Lots of preschool classes • Boys classes • Tumbling • Beginner gym classes • Open Gyms • FREE OPEN GYM WEDNESDAY 12-1PM

360 Gymnastics is a recreational gymnastics program. We offer many day,| evening, and weekend 431 N. LINDENWOOD DR. OLATHE, KS | 913.707.3756 KC360GYM.COM classes for children of all ages. • Lots of preschool classes • Boys classes • Tumbling • Dance • Beginner gym classes • Open Gyms • FREE OPEN GYM WEDNESDAY 12-1PM

no tickets will be sold at the door.

All net proceeds will be donated to Providence Community Church’s partnership with the Forest Avenue Family Shelter in Kansas City.

space is limited. tickets must be purchased in advance. kcparent.com february 2013

Cupid’s Gems 10:00, Lenexa Conference Center. Grab your girlfriends, your mom and your sisters and head to our annual jewelry show. 913.477.7100

Friday Night Fun: Naturally Curious 6:30, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Create your own dimensional box sculpture and visit the exhibits. 816.751.1278

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Wake Up for Groundhog Day 10:00, Anita B Gorman Conservation Discovery Center. Learn unique facts about groundhogs with hands-on learning. 816.759.7300

Coach Eric has 19 plus years of teaching gymnastics experience in the area. Come in for a free open gym or a free trial class.

431 N. LINDENWOOD DR. OLATHE, KS 913.707.3756 KC360GYM.COM

this event. Give a gift from the heart! 913.642.8247 Chocolate Crawl 10:00, Downtown Lee’s Summit. Enjoy free chocolate treats while shopping in Downtown Lee’s Summit. DowntownLS.org Missouri’s Most Endangered 1:00, Burr Oak Woods. Explore some of Missouri’s threatened and endangered species. 816.228.3766 Valentine’s Day Event 1:00, Lanesfield Historic Site. See the school decorated for an old-fashioned Valentine’s Day. Try your hand at fun activities. 913.893.6645 Open Gym 2:00-4:00, 360 Gymnastics. Beat those winter blues by having fun in the gym! Run, jump, climb and play. $5/person. 913.707.3756

Storling Dance Theater’s UNDERGROUND 7:30, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. Tells the captivating story of the Underground Railroad. 816.994.7200

3 SUNDAY

First Sunday Family Fun Day Noon, KC Museum. Share a great family moment and have a little fun, too! 816.483.8300 Ice Skating Noon, Park Place. Bring the family out for a great day of ice skating on our terrace! 913.381.2229 art + family = FUN 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Every Saturday and Sunday enjoy free activities for all ages! 816.751.1278

Chili Dog Dinner and Auction 5:00, Vesper Hall. Food, music, raffle prizes and more for this fundraiser for the Blue Springs Dog Park. 816.228.0137

Number the Stars 2:00, Coterie Theatre. See Lois Lowry’s Newbery award-winning story of the rescue of Danish Jews during WW II. $10-$15. CoterieTheatre.org

Yo Gabba Gabba Feb 23, The Midland. Purchase your tickets for the upcoming show and get ready to get the sillies out! Two shows, 2:00 and 5:00. MidlandKC.com

Navigating Finances God’s Way 3:30, the Presbyterian Church of Stanley. Set financial goals, pay down debt, save for college and more. 913.681.8180 x13

An Evening with Suzanne Vega and Daughter Ruby Froom 7:30, Lied Center of Kansas. See “the quintessential female singer songwriter of the modern era.” Lied.KU.edu

4 MONDAY

Classes now enrolling in four metro locations!

A Conservatory Exhibit Thru March 10, 9:00, Powell Gardens. See vibrant cool-season blooms

that create a beautiful conservatory exhibit. 816.697.2600 Moms FREE Monday 9:30, Paradise Park. Moms are free at the Children’s EduTainment Center with a paid child’s admission. 816.246.5224 Funville Thru May 5, Crown Center. Visit the newest exhibit where kids can forecast the weather, do magic tricks, ride a bull and more! Open during store hours. FREE. 816.274.8444 Kidscape 10:00, Johnson County Museum. A hands-on exhibit for kids designed to look like a suburban streetscape! 913.715.2550 Heartsaver CPR 7:00, Harris Park Community Center. CPR for adult, child and infant will be covered in this class. Pre-reg. 816.969.1500

5 TUESDAY

Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Irene B French Comm Ctr. Children 5 and under can play for just $2. 913.322.5550 Preschool Read and Paint 11:00, Ceramic Cafe. Preschoolers can enjoy a story, time to paint and a snack. $9. 913.383.0222 2-for-1 Tuesday 5:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. After 5:00, pay one full-price admission and receive a second for free. 816.274.8444

Crown Center Lee’s Summit Parkville Overland Park

A variety of classes offered for grades K-12 Registration and complete class information at www.coterietheatre.org. Call 816-474-4241 to register now! kcparent.com february 2013

Keith Leff Magic Show 10:00, Johnson County Museum. See Keith’s award-winning magic show! $2-3/child; space is limited. 913.715.2575 Animal Tales 10:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Visit the nature center for stories, songs and surprises geared to preschool children. 913.764.7759 Preschool Open Gym Noon-1:00, 360 Gymnastics. A special open gym time for those 6 and under. FREE every Wednesday! 913.707.3756 Fine Arts Challenge Thru Feb 23, Noon, MCCLongview Cultural Arts Center. See works of students from Lee’s Summit high schools. 816.604.2090 Teen Valentine’s Day Craft 2:30, South Library (KCK). Make a unique gift to give to someone special this Valentine’s Day. 913.722.7400

Martha Speaks l Paul Mesner Puppets l Thru Feb. 10 Nighttime Stories 6:30, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Kids ages 7-13 can hear stories about creatures that only come out at night. Pre-reg. 816.228.3766 Grade School Scholarly Scoop 7:00, Brookridge Day School. See all we have to offer! 913. 649.2228

6 WEDNESDAY

Kids-a-Cookin’ 3:00, KCK Main Library. Learn about nutrition, prepare a healthy snack and sample it at the end. 913.551.3280

7 THURSDAY

The True Story of the 3 Little Pigs 9:45, Yardley Hall (JCCC). A school show for grades 2-5 that your students are sure to enjoy. 913.469.4445

Frontier Fables and Teepee Tales 10:00, Shawnee Indian Mission. Each Thursday, hear a story and do an activity relevant to the history of the mission. 913.262.0350

Priscilla Howe 10:00, Tomahawk Ridge Community Center. Free, fun entertainment for children of all ages. 913.327.6644

Preschool Bowl 10:00, Mission Bowl (Mission & Olathe). Bowling, shoes and small drink for only $3! 5 and under. 913.432.7000

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10 am to 1 pm children 5 and under $3 for 1 game, shoes and small drink $3 for 1 game & shoes for parents, too! (drink not included)

Olathe Mission 1020 S. Weaver 5399 Martway 913-782-0279 913-432-7000 www.missionbowl.com

Martha Speaks Puppet Show Thru Feb 10, Paul Mesner Puppet Studio. Appropriate for the entire family! 816.756.3500

Paint Me a Story 10:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire. Listen to a story and paint a pottery piece. $15. Space limited, call to pre-reg. 913.661.2529

African Americans in the West 2:00, National Frontier Trails Museum. Every Thursday in February, explore the African American experience in the West. 816.325.7575

Chinese New Year Celebration 5:00, NelsonAtkins Museum of Art. Ongoing activities and demonstrations in the galleries and Bloch Building. 816.751.1278

CoCo Salutes Scouts 4:00, CoCo Key Water Resort. Show your Girl Scout badge and get a $5 day pass today! 816.737.0200

Daddy Daughter Dance Today & tomorrow, Providence Community Church. Grab your special daughter(s) for a night out of dining and dancing! SovGraceKC.org

Heartsaver CPR 6:00, Lee’s Summit Medical Center. This 2-hour course covers skills needed for the adult, child or infant victim. $25. 816.282.5060 Death of a Salesman Thru Feb 10, 7:00, KC Rep Theatre. See the profound drama of a down-on-hisluck salesman searching for his American dream. KCRep.org

8 FRIDAY

Pint Size Valentine Party 10:00, Harris Park Community Center. Dress in red and enjoy Valentine’s Day games, crafts and snacks. $5, pre-reg. 816.969.1540 Story Time 10:30, Shawnee Books & Toys. Bring in the kids to participate in our weekly story time. 913.962.1428

The Doo Dads at the Record Bar 6:00, the Record Bar. Celebrate the end of a great year with food, fun and rock & roll! Kids free. TheDooDads.com Mother Son Dance Today & tomorrow, 6:30, Vesper Hall (Blue Springs). Mothers and sons will spend the evening dancing and dining together! 816.228.0137 BBC Concert Orchestra 8:00, Yardley Hall (JCCC). Enjoy hearing different genres of music played by the talented BBC Orchestra. JCCC.edu

9 SATURDAY

Outdoor Flea Market 8:00, Haymarket Square (Leavenworth). Find an antique, art or other treasure to take home. 913.682.4113

Children’s Valentine Tea 9:30, Mt. Gilead Church (Kearny). Fun crafts, dancing and refreshments to celebrate Valentine’s Day. $10. Pre-reg 816.736.8500 Kick-Off to Spring Savings Children’s Orchard Locations. Get 50 percent off your purchase of $30 or more back in a store credit for your next visit. ChildrensOrchard.com Breakfast with the Beasts 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Learn what the animals eat for breakfast and share their food. Pre-reg. 816.513.8960 Lowe’s Build ‘n Grow: Wheel of Love 10:00, Lowe’s stores across the Metro. Bring your children in today to build their own Wheel of Love! LowesBuildAndGrow.com Second Saturdays by the Grinter Stove 10:00, Grinter Place. Explore traditional recipes through cooking demonstrations. 913.299.0373 Laura’s Legacy 10:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Celebrate Laura Ingalls Wilder with a craft, lessons and music from the time period. Pre-reg. 913.831.3359 Valentine’s Day Party 11:00-Noon, Shawnee Books & Toys. Create Valentine crafts and enjoy sweet treats! Free. 913.962.1428

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Horse shows are held periodically and are low-stress for the student & present accumulated horsemanship skills. Lessons for students 8 and up for beginners, Western Pleasure & Halter, Trail Riding, Barrels, English Pleasure, Jumping & Dressage. 1/2 hour Pony Pal lessons for students ages 4 - 7.

Phone: 816-220-2332 E-mail: cindystrahm@hotmail.com Misty River Equestrian Center 21400 Eureka Road Independence, MO 64057

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Laura Ingalls Wilder | the Folly Theater Feb. 20

Chinese New Year Party 2:00, West Wyandotte Library. Our Chinese New Year celebration features traditional stories, music and customs. 913.596.5800 Second Saturdays 4:00, Historic Downtown Weston. Stroll into unique shops & galleries for late night shopping. In-store specials. WestonMO.com YMCA Kids’ Night Out 5:00 (Platte County North & South) & 5:30 (Red Bridge). Enjoy a night out while the kids have fun! KansasCityYMCA.org Daddy Daughter Dance 6:00, Providence Community Church. Grab your special daughter(s) for a night out of dining and dancing! SovGraceKC.org Mother Son Dance Today & tomorrow, 6:30, Vesper Hall (Blue Springs). Mothers and sons will spend the evening dancing and dining together! 816.228.0137

10 SUNDAY

World of Wheels 11:00, Bartle Hall. America’s premier custom show car series is here! Autorama.com Talkin’ Truman: Young Bess in Hats 11:00, Truman Library. See how Mrs. Truman’s personality shone through her fashions and accessories. 816.268.8200 Naturally from the Heart 1:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Make your very own Valentine’s card from natural materials! Pre-reg. 816.228.3766

Family Comedy Magic Show for All Ages 1:00, Kansas City Improv. Devin Henderson will entertain and amaze you in this show! 816.759.5233 Westport Historical Society’s Speaker Series 2:00, Westport Library. Hear an insightful presentation on the 1855 Lexington Pro-Slavery Convention. 816.561.1821

Teddy Bear Tea Noon, Mahaffie Stagecoach. Bring your favorite stuffed doll or animal to enjoy tea, refreshments and a craft. Pre-reg. 913.971.5111 Story Time for Preschoolers 1:30, Nelson-Atkins Museum (Noguchi Court). Drop in with your family for a story time. 816.561.4000

VALENTINE’S DAY IN KC We asked our Facebook fans: My favorite place to take my valentine in KC is ________. These are their answers: COUNTRY CLUB PLAZA

Grand Street Café, 4740 Grand St., Kansas City, MO, 816.561.8000. Grand Street Cafe has several menus that include freshly prepared American dishes using the freshest ingredients. Carriage ride with Surreys on the Plaza (816.531.2673) or Kansas City Carriages (816.531.1999). McCormick and Schmick’s, 448 W. 47th St., Kansas City, MO, 816.531.6800. Enjoy the finest seafood, steaks and romantic desserts, including their signature chocolate bag. Catch a film at the VIP Room at the Cinemark, 526 Nichols Rd., Kansas City, MO, 800.326.3264. The VIP Room features 38 leather reclining seats. A server attends to your needs throughout the show as you may order food in the theatre, and all shows are for guests 21 and over.

DOWNTOWN/MIDTOWN

Crown Center Ice Terrace, 2450 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO, 816.274.8411.

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Lidia’s Kansas City, 101 W. 22nd St., Kansas City, MO, 816.221.3722. Located in the Crossroads District and voted Kansas City’s most popular Italian restaurant by Zagat Guide 2005. Bristol Seafood Grill, 51 E. 14th St., Kansas City, MO, 816.448.6007. One of the best seafood restaurants in Kansas City, located in the heart of the Power and Light District.

JOHNSON COUNTY

Laura Little’s Candies, 2100 W. 75th St., Prairie Village, KS, 913.722.2226. Cupcake a la Mode, 11529 Ash St., Leawood, KS, 913.338.1911. Carlo’s Copa Room, 14944 W. 87th St. Pkwy., Lenexa, KS, 913.825.5200. Live music and delicious Italian food.

EAST & SOUTH

Fiorella’s Jack Stack Barbecue, 13441 Holmes Rd., Kansas City, MO, 816.942.9141. Voted “Most Popular Restaurant in Kansas City” by the 2011

prestigious Zagat’s Survey of America’s Best Restaurants, is consistently voted the “Highest Rated BBQ” in the country. Kobe Japanese Steakhouse, 19800 E. Valley View Pkwy., Independence, MO, 816.795.6808. Quality Japanese steakhouse near Independence Center. Garozzo’s Ristorante, multiple locations, Garozzos.com. Famous for their chicken spiedini and top-notch Italian dishes.

NORTHLAND

Piropos, 4141 N. Mulberry Dr., Kansas City, MO, 816.741.3600. Inspired by the international city of Buenos Ares, Piropos artistically fuses Argentinean and European cuisines. Em Chamas, 6101 NW 63rd Ter., Kansas City, MO, 816.505.7100. Brazilian grill brings you the most delectable meats in Missouri. Trezo Mare, 4105 N. Mulberry Dr., Kansas City, MO, 816.505.3200. Wine and dine with a fresh Italian menu featuring seafood delivered daily from both coasts.

Overland Park Orchestra 2:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Enjoy this free afternoon concert of music. 913.895.6390 Monster Quest 2:00, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Discover the history behind some monster-sized folk tales. 913.764.7759

Lee’s Summit Feb. 16-19

Harlem Quartet 7:00, Yardley Hall (JCCC). A multicultural quartet that brings a fresh, upbeat attitude to classical music. JCCC.edu

The Pavilion at John Knox Village

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Café and Playland 9:00, Kaw Prairie Community Church. Kids can enjoy the playland while parents enjoy conversation and coffee. 913.764.5722

Overland Park Feb. 28-Mar. 3

Overland Park International Trade Center

Funville Thru May 5, Crown Center. Visit the newest exhibit where kids can forecast the weather, do magic tricks, ride a bull and more! Open during store hours. FREE. 816.274.8444