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THE ARTS

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DEPARTMENTS 10

Word from Dad

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Media Mix

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Healthy Kids

SPECIAL SECTIONS

FEATURES

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Grandparents Celebrate grandparents through the magic of childhood

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Fall Favorites Enjoy delicious pumpkin treats all over KC

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Party Guide

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Calendar of Events

26 Our KC cover family is Marc, Madeline & Elisabeth from Overland Park. Cover and select interior photos by KiaBondurant.com

Reluctant Readers Encourage a love of reading in your child

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ON THE COVER Sibling Rivalry

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Pumpkin Treats in KC

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Celebrating the Arts Is a Family Affair

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Double Up on Birthday Fun

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Museum Outings

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celebrating

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THE ARTS

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editor’s letter SEPTEMBER 2012

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t’s not fair! Do you hear that often around your home? I think it’s heard on a daily basis in the Sarver household.

And after those three words are uttered, you will hear my stock reply of “You are right, it’s not fair. Life is not fair and the sooner you get used to it, the better.”

I have to admit that my girls come by this behavior honestly. I know that I said those same words to my mom and dad on a regular basis. As the oldest of six children, I encountered many injustices that I deemed unfair—and I made sure to bring them to my parents’ attention.

I fully expected “sibling rivalry” to rear its ugly head in our home as we raised our girls. What I didn’t expect was the frequency with which I find myself having to settle a squabble. I’m also often surprised by the issues the girls bicker over—important to them but, in my book, rather small. Who gets to sit next to me at the restaurant? Who chooses the movie for the family to watch? Who pushes the button on the elevator? Whose folder should I look at first after school? Frankly, it’s enough to make my head spin and, on certain days, it really tries my patience.

To help combat the issue of “it’s not fair” and “she always gets to go first,” I’ve instituted a daily rotation schedule. Simply put, I place the girls’ names on a calendar for every weekday. If it is Ally’s day, then Ally chooses the movie, sits in the prized spot at dinner, gets to be the first person in through the door and so on.

Then, the next day is Tori’s. While it hasn’t solved every problem, it has helped. For even more great tips on how to deal with sibling rivalry, check out Hallie Sawyer’s article on pg. 16.

One of my favorite things about fall is the return of pumpkin flavored treats. My most anticipated is the Pumpkin Spice Latte from Starbucks, but after reading about all of the other terrific pumpkin treats available in Kansas City on pg. 23, I’m going to branch out and find a new favorite spot and a new favorite fall treat. Let me know what pumpkin treats are must-haves on your list.

Enjoy the month with your family!

Margaret Sarver, Editor

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WIND CHIMES

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she called me. Her mother had passed hat are those?” James asked away peacefully in her recliner, and now Grandma after she stepped I had to explain to two special boys about down from the stool. Grandma looked where Grandma went. fondly at her work hanging from the soffit Ian took it matter-of-factly, but James of our home. was full of questions.

“Those are wind chimes,” she “Where is Grandma?” he asked. explained.“Every breeze has a song in “Why can’t I talk to her?” it, but it can’t sing it by “Grandma will itself. These will move HER MOTHER HAD PASSED always be with us,” I anin the breeze and let the swered,“and we can talk AWAY PEACEFULLY IN HER to her.We just can’t hear song be heard.” A puff of a breeze fluttered the RECLINER, AND NOW I what she has to say.” chimes, filling the air “Will I forget her?” with their gentle tinkling. HAD TO EXPLAIN TO TWO he asked.

James listened to the “Not a chance,” I asBOYS ABOUT sured him,“but every time sound still as the breeze SPECIAL died, then ran back into WHERE GRANDMA WENT. you want to think about the house to play. her, just go to the deck and Newly retired, listen to her wind chimes.

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ate night or girls’ night out: every mom needs time out of the house to recharge those batteries. But leaving children with a babysitter can be nerve-wracking.You can put several strategies into place to make things easier for your babysitter, even if she doesn’t ask for help or even realize you are doing these things to make her job a little easier.

Having a place with important information can be helpful for babysitters in case they forget or were distracted when you were going over information.

“I have a small whiteboard on my refrigerator, and I write all the pertinent information on it. I include a schedule for what should happen in the time the sitter will be there since my son likes routine.

My son has medicine he takes, so I have the dosage all ready to go and included on the schedule,” Ronna Sparks Woodward of Kansas City, mother of one, says.

Including phone numbers in the important information is helpful also.

“I have a list of neighbors, too. In case of emergency, it is nice to have somewhere to go or someone to talk to,” Sally Beran of Liberty, mother of three, says.

Actually leaving the house can be difficult as you try to slip out unnoticed by your children. Leaving the babysitter with a child having a meltdown is not a good way to start the evening. Having a new toy or something different can be a good distraction and start the night out right for the babysitter.

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Jennifer Richey: “I generally go for about $8 an hour for my 2 boys, and the girls have earned their money.

We have also occasionally brought them back ice cream. You want them to come back when you find a sitter that you are happy with.”

Sally Beran: “I usually just ask around to my friends about the going rate, which seems to be $3 a kid/ hour now, and then round it up to a convenient bill. If they order pizza or something, I would reimburse that, too, if I knew ahead of time.”

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“We have some toys or activities that we use,” Woodward says.“We have a dry-erase crayon set and moon dough, and I save the toys from kids’ meals in a bucket, and he’s usually so excited about playing with them that he just says,“Bye, Momma!

Bye, Daddy!”

Once you’ve left the house, checking in from time to time is important. Make sure the babysitter has a number to reach you as well.

“I make sure that both Jon and I have the sitter’s cell phone numbers and we generally check in with them during the night,” Jennifer Richey of Kansas City, mother of two, says.

There are also some definite things a babysitter should not do while on the clock.

“A deal breaker for me would be if the kids said they didn’t like her/him, if the house was a mess after, if I walked in and they were on the phone while kids were playing by themselves,” Beran says.

The babysitter should also not be afraid to tell what he/she charges.

“As far as paying them, I get frustrated when they say, ‘Just pay me whatever,’” Richey says. “I don’t want to not pay them enough or too much.”

Ronna Sparks Woodward: “As for pay, I have one child and pay $7 an hour.

I usually figure it out and then round up to the next $5 increment.”

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Dinosaurs and Dragons By McGeath Freeman

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By Claire Freedman Illustrated by Ben Cort Best For: Ages 4 - 8 What happened to the Dinosaurs?

It wasn’t a meteor impact. It wasn’t global climate change. Believe it or not, underpants were the downfall of dinosaurs. When cavemen decided they no longer wanted to be naked, one of them created underpants. The cavemen were happy, but the dinosaurs wanted all the underpants for themselves. Before long the dinosaurs stole, bit, ripped and tore until it was an all out underwear war. Young readers, especially young boys, will have giggle fits as they read this humorous take on dinosaur extinction.

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The boy builds the perfect sandcastle and a fiery red dragon moves in right away.

Together they romp through the day, flying kites, digging moats and roasting marshmallows. When the dragon eats all the sandwiches and puts fingerprints on the brownies his bad manners take a toll on the day’s events and the little boy’s fun.

Once he gets into trouble the little boy vows to never build the perfect sandcastle again. Do you think that promise will last? I don’t either. Be sure to check out the end pages.

What’s good: Wonderful look at childhood imagination.

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Zog wants a gold star more than anything.

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10 STEPS TO SQUASH SIBLING RIVALRY

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hen the phrase “sibling rivalry” comes up in conversations among parents, chances are it is closely followed by “bane of my existence.” Even though it has been going on since the beginning of time, it still grates on our nerves. Road trips, picking out a family movie, who gets to sit by Dad at the dinner table--rarely do these things happen without some major sibling squawkery. While it’s not likely we’ll ever squash it completely, there are some steps you can take to make life at home more harmonious.

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Model healthy behavior.

If you and your spouse handle conflicts by yelling and screaming, then your kids will, too. Speak with respect to one another and let your children hear you apologize when you are remorseful. Behave like you want your children to behave.

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Here are 10 steps to help: Set the expectations on acceptable behaviors.

For example, no yelling, no lying, no slamming doors, no shoving, no sitting on heads, etc. Discuss the consequences if kids choose to disobey these rules and then follow through on those consequences. Key words here are follow through.

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Unless there is physical harm, don’t get involved.

If you do, they will start expecting your help and wait for you to rescue them rather than learn to work it out themselves.

Celebrate the differences in your children.

Spend one-onone time with your children.

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Spending alone time with each child will make each feel appreciated and special while giving you the opportunity to strengthen your relationship.

We asked KCParent.com readers, what do your kids fight about the most?

One child might be a star athlete while another may excel in music and dance. Create opportunities for them to succeed at what they are good at and the need to compete with each other will lessen.

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Teach them conflict resolution.

A great time to do this is when your family is together (meals, a long car trip, etc.) so everyone can learn how to handle certain situations.

This will give them a boost of confidence, as well as provide them with a life-long skill.

Stop comparing.

Each child has his or her own redeeming qualities and personality. Celebrate individuality rather than adding fuel to the fire by telling a child, “If you only could be more like your sister/brother!” Instead of its being a motivation tool (like you intend), doing this actually builds resentment.

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Empower them.

Rather than let a child flaunt strengths to his or her siblings, encourage your child to teach it to siblings instead. Maybe you have one that is excellent at jumping rope. He could show the other sibling who is feeling discouraged how he learned to master this skill. At the end, both should feel rewarded.

9 Praise the positive.

In other words, catch them when they are being good. If they are sharing nicely, make sure to compliment them and reward that good behavior. Kids seek attention from their parents and many times they misbehave if they know that is how they are going to “get to you.” By giving them the attention they crave when they are behaving well, you hopefully set in motion their desire to keep receiving your positive praise.

10 Spend time together as a family.

The more time you spend as a family unit, the less the chances are of a sibling fight.

Playing board games, watching a movie or taking the dog for a walk are great distractions, as well as opportunities for each child to learn to take turns.

One thing to keep in mind, however, is that a recent study of children between the ages of 2 and 6 by academics at the University of Cambridge concluded that mild forms of rivalry can have a “beneficial impact on development in childhood.”

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When they’re finished, I climb out.”

Freelance writer Hallie Sawyer is a mom of three based in Overland Park. She isn’t afraid to wield the family’s enthusiastic Wheaten terrier nor a great set of headphones as “weapons” in her parenting arsenal. kcparent.com september 2012

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Contacting your child’s medical provider or a nurse advice line for direction on what’s best for your child’s condition is beneficial. They can triage your child’s condition over the phone and decide where and when you need to be seen by asking several questions.

URGENT CARE VISITS

“If the injury or illness is not severe, a pediatric urgent care center provides care and/or treatment for your child,” offers Dr. Alfred.“Urgent care centers are equipped and staffed to see non-life threatening minor illnesses or injuries.”

• Minor cuts, sprains or strains • Ear pain • Sore throat

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WHO YOU GONNA CALL? • Mild allergic reactions • Suspected simple broken bone • Minor animal bites, insect bites or stings • Mild asthma or wheezing • Croup (barky cough) • Eye infections (pink eye) • Fever (except infants less than 8 weeks of age) • Skin rashes • Urinary tract (bladder) infections Discuss with your child’s doctor before emergent situations arise which urgent care center she recommends and is accepted by your insurance.

HEAD STRAIGHT TO EMERGENCY ROOM

There are situations when your child requires a higher medical level of care, which only an ER can provide. Dr. Alfred lists these common emergencies as requiring immediate attention: • Large, gaping or bleeding cuts • Head injury, multiple injuries, obvious broken bones • Vomiting after head injury • Sick newborn (fever, not feeding well, not acting right) • Lethargy • Severe pain

• Seizure • Can’t walk • Tender abdomen • Severe asthma, wheezing or difficulty breathing • Drooling or trouble swallowing • Dehydration • Stiff or injured neck • Fever over 105°F (40.6°C) • Poisoning or ingestion of medication or household product.

(First call Poison Control Center to determine if ER treatment is necessary.)

WHEN TO CALL FOR AN AMBULANCE

You’ve heard this message a dozen of times. “If this is a medical emergency, hang up and call 9-1-1.” But what defines a medical emergency, and furthermore, what warrants a 9-1-1 call? Frequently parents believe they might be able to drive their child to the ER faster in their vehicle, but in most cases it’s best to let the professionals take over.

“The 911 operator can advise and assist you until the ambulance arrives,” Dr. Alfred says. “The EMT or paramedic team can stabilize an injury, administer oxygen, start IV medications or perform life saving efforts if needed. They also can provide the safest and fastest transit to the nearest emergency facility, calling ahead to alert the emergency room doctors about the status of the child. Don’t hesitate to call 9-1-1 if your child is in need of immediate help.”

Call 9-1-1 if your child has: • Severe difficulty breathing or turning blue.

• Loss of consciousness or unresponsive.

• Trauma or fall with loss of consciousness, or concern of head or neck injury.

• Broken bones with such severe pain or deformity that you could not safely restrain the child in the car, or with bones sticking out of the skin.

• Seizures lasting more than 3 minutes, or if the child has labored breathing or is turning blue.

• Severe cuts or uncontrolled bleeding that does not stop by applying pressure.

• Possible poisoning where Poison Control directs you to call 9-1-1, or your child is not responsive after ingesting a medication or household product.

Stacey Hatton is a writer, mom of two and a pediatric nurse who has personally called Poison Control and ventured to the ER.

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THROUGH THE MAGIC OF CHILDHOOD

Are grandparents far away?

Go to KCParent.com for ideas on staying close when miles separate.

INTERVIEW GRANDPARENTS & CHILDREN

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how your grandparents just how much you love them with a day of family fun creating great memories together. Grandparents Day, the second Sunday in September, is a great reminder to celebrate grandparents and the special role they fill in your family.

CELEBRATE THEIR CHILDHOOD

Toys. There is just something special about our childhood memories playing with beloved toys, whether it’s that favorite electric train set, a special dollhouse, a keepsake tea set or the greatest pinball game ever. Toys connect generations.

There is no place better to reminisce and create family connections over fond childhood memories than Kansas City’s very own Toy and Miniature Museum. The museum is one of our favorite “guaranteed to make great memories” places in Kansas City. Four generations of our family recently spent an afternoon at the Toy & Miniature Museum, exploring the 38-room house with the largest collection of nostalgic toys, fine-scale miniatures and marbles

in the Midwest. As we culled through room upon room, grandparents, great-grandparents, aunts, uncles, parents and children shared their favorite memories playing with marbles, a favorite Barbie doll or Raggedy Ann, ride-on pedal toys, paper dolls, Teddy Bears and dollhouses. The children loved discovering surprises in every dollhouse and each room of the museum, and the adults loved watching their reactions and remembering their own childhoods.

One of the favorites for the entire family was the wonderful marble exhibit with an electric marble track that fascinated the kids with its tunnels and paths. The family had so much fun that after our visit to the museum, we ended the day with an old-fashioned lunch of burgers and shakes followed by play with jacks, checkers and marbles.

BE A KID AGAIN ITINERARY

Visit the Toy & Miniature Museum at 5235 Oak St., KCMO, 816.333.9328. Visit ToyAndMiniatureMuseum.org for hours and admission.

Interview Grandparents: When you were my age, what did you enjoy? Did you watch TV? Favorite shows? What did you enjoy in school? What did your bedroom look like? Did you have a favorite pet? What did you want to be when you grew up and did you do it? Tell about the first time you met Grandma/Grandpa. What was my parent like as a child? What did you think when you first met me? Interview Children: What do you enjoy most about your grandparents? What is your first memory of your grandparents?

What do you look forward to doing together? What would you like to know about them? What do you share in common?

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ENJOYING A SKYSCRAPER AT WINSTEAD’S

Enjoy lunch at Winstead’s on the Plaza (101 Brush Creek Blvd., KCMO, 816.753.2244). Be sure to share a Skyscraper for dessert (a giant shake or ice cream soda meant for sharing and delivered with a jingle!).

Play at home! Pull out the old set of checkers. Play a round of jacks. Draw a hopscotch board on the driveway or play marbles. Make memories together enjoying the beloved classics together.

Give the gift of toys! Visit a classic toy store and buy a set of jacks, paper dolls or marbles to enjoy together. Three of our favorites are US Toy (2008 W. 103rd Ter., Leawood, KS, 913.642.8247), Brookside Toy & Science (330 W. 63rd St., KCMO, 816.523.4501) and The Doll Cradle (10910 Johnson Dr., Shawnee, KS, 913.631.1900).

Or, help the kids make a checkerboard for their grandparents with instructions from http://bit.ly/NvnSoQ.

CELEBRATE YOUR CHILDHOOD

There is something special about the handprints of a child, and the best place to make a handprint, footprint or thumbprint keepsake is Ceramics Coffeehouse at Paint, Glaze and Fire (12683 Metcalf Ave., Overland Park, KS, 913.661.2529). The paint-your-own pottery shop offers a wide selection of projects from plates and mugs to frames and holiday pieces. The staff will happily help with project ideas and inspiration as your children paint ceramic masterpieces.You can invite grandparents to paint with you or make gifts in advance for the holiday (make a week or more in advance for gifts). In honor of Grandparents Day, they are also hosting special events. On Sept. 9, enjoy story time at 2:00 & 4:00. Any time during the day (Hours:

Noon to 5:00), kids and family can paint a basic mug, cereal bowl or dinner plate for $15/item for the first painter in the family, and others in the same family may choose to paint pieces for $12/item—all-inclusive (ceramic piece plus the paint, glaze and firing).

YOUR CHILDHOOD ITINERARY

Spend a morning or afternoon painting at Ceramics Coffeehouse at Paint, Glaze & Fire in the Metcalf 127 Shopping Center. Visit PaintGlazeAndFire.net for hours and prices.

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kc’s favorite Kansas City’s restaurants know the way to our hearts is through the sweet flavor of pumpkin and a sprinkle of cinnamon and nutmeg! Our fall favorites grace their menus once again!

fall treats Pumpkin Breakfast Items

Sweet Pumpkin Desserts

Pumpkin Praline Pancakes at IHOP This seasonal favorite is made with real pumpkin and topped with sweet caramel sauce, praline pecans and creamy whipped topping.

Pumpkin Butter at Louisburg Cider Mill (Louisburg Cider Mill). Enjoy a made-from-scratch jar of pumpkin butter.

Pumpkin Donuts at Lamar’s Kansas City’s favorite donut shop, Lamar’s offers delicious fresh pumpkin donuts every autumn.

Pumpkin Spice Cake Donuts at Krispy Kreme Get ‘em while they’re “Hot Now” ... you can’t beat pumpkin spice cake donuts!

Pumpkin Spice Donuts at Donut King (2320 Armour Rd., Kansas City, MO, 816.472.1412) A delicious pumpkin spice donut from Donut King is sure to brighten your day!

Pumpkin Pancakes at Mimi’s Café Enjoy hot pumpkin pancakes fresh off the griddle!

Bagels and Pumpkin Cream Cheese at Einstein Bros. Everything tastes better with a shmear of pumpkin cream cheese!

Pumpkin Pie Fudge at Chip’s Chocolate Factory (2nd Floor, Crown Center, 2450 Grand Ave., Suite 239, Kansas City, MO, 816.421.0012) Savor the sweet stuff with a slice of pumpkin pie fudge!

Pumpkin Cheesecake Cupcake at Cupcake a la Mode (1209 W. 47th St., Kansas City, MO, 816.960.1900 OR in Park Place at 11529 Ash St., Leawood, KS, 913.338.1911) For a hint of pumpkin, try this vanilla cupcake topped with a pumpkin cream cheese frosting.

Pumpkin Supreme Pie at Bob Evan’s Bob Evan’s fall favorite is back! Top off your day with a slice of Pumpkin Supreme Pie. Pumpkin Cheesecake or Pumpkin Pecan Cheesecake at the Cheesecake Factory (On the Plaza at 4701 Wyandotte St., Kansas City, MO, 816.960.1919 OR 6675 W. 119th St., Overland Park, KS, 913.451.6272) From October through the holidays enjoy pumpkin cheesecake.

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fall treats, cont.

Pumpkin Cookies at Panera Panera’s traditional shortbread cookie in the shape of a pumpkin, topped with orange icing, is back for the season!

Pumpkin Cupcakes at Sugar Mamma’s (In Briarcliff Village at 4173 Mulberry Dr., Kansas City, MO, 816.437.8044) In the fall indulge in a sweet pumpkin cupcake with cream cheese frosting.

Pumpkin Whoopie Pie at Hy-Vee The addictive pumpkin whoopie pie is two round slices of pumpkin cake filled with cream cheese/vanilla frosting.

Pumpkin Cheesecake at Olive Garden After dinner, enjoy a slice of creamy cheesecake at Olive Garden.en .

Frozen Pumpkin Treats

Pumpkin Pie Concrete at Sheridan’s Leave it to Sheridan’s to take a slice of pumpkin pie, blend it into their yummy custard and serve up a holiday treat that’s hard to resist!

Pumpkin Pie Ice Cream at Murray’s Homemade Ice Cream (4120 Pennsylvania Ave., Kansas City, MO, 816.931.5646) Stop by Murray’s when you’re in the mood for homemade pumpkin pie ice cream and top it off with a fresh-baked cookie!

Hot Pumpkin Drinks

Pumpkin Pie Homemade Ice Cream at Sylas and Maddy’s (11925 S. Strang Line Rd., Olathe, KS, 913.393.3500 OR 1014 Massachusetts, Lawrence, KS, 785.832.8323) This fall, enjoy the decadent pumpkin pie ice cream.

Pumpkin Spice Latte at Starbuck’s Warm up on a cool autumn day with a piping hot pumpkin spice latte at Starbuck’s.

3 Frozen Pumpkin Drinks at Culver’s Try the Pumpkin Spice Shake, Pumpkin Pecan Concrete Mixer or Pumpkin Cheesecake Concrete Mixer!

Pumpkin Pie Blizzard at Dairy Queen Dairy Queen’s world famous Blizzard meets pumpkin pie this fall.

Pumpkin Latte at Ceramics & Coffeehouse @ Paint, Glaze and Fire (12683 Metcalf Ave., Overland Park, KS, 913.661.CLAY) Paint your own pottery while sipping on a warm pumpkin latte.

Pumpkin Cappuccino at QuikTrip Sip on something sweet on your morning commute with one of Quik Trip’s hot pumpkin cappuccinos.

Pumpkin Spice Coffee at Dunkin’ Donuts Savor some hot pumpkin spice coffee and enjoy a warm donut on a crisp autumn day.

Pumpkin Latte at Scooter’s Scooter’s Coffeehouse offers many locations around the Metro for delicious hot drinks... the pumpkin latte is a holiday classic!

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KC’s TOP COFFEE SPOTS Visiting Broadway is a multi-faceted experience: You are entering a tradition in Kansas City, a café with a following so strong that it once put a nearby Starbucks out of business and filled with some of the city’s most eccentric and interesting individuals.

Local art lines the walls and delicious food offerings complement the coffee. Not that it needs any help. Try a shot of espresso and savor the rich flavor, the silky feel and the tiger-striped brick color. Or, order a traditional cappuccino and explore the classic union of coffee and half-and-half.

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elebrate National Coffee Month by expanding your family’s understanding of the drink that brings a unique sense of community to those who enjoy it. Whether you are habitual drinkers or not, there will always be more to learn about the history, culture and preparation of coffee. Kansas City has one of the most vibrant coffee cultures going—why not check out the scene?

Deep in the gritty heart of Westport, under its iconic black-and-white striped awning is Broadway Café, home of outstanding coffee artisanship since 1993 and current winner of the prestigious National Good Foods award.

Benetti’s Coffee Experience in Raytown is the quintessential coffeehouse—a warm, comfortable space with knowledgeable baristas, nearly any kind of drink you could desire and baked goods prepared inhouse. A second drive-through/walk-up location in Independence recently opened and is also wildly popular.

The folks at Benetti’s are deeply passionate about creating an incredible coffee experience. From sourcing the perfect green beans to roasting and brewing, they treat coffee with respect and appreciation. A shot here will be served in a unique cup and will be a revelation in sweet, caramelized molasses and fruit cobbler.

Benetti’s shines at customer education, offering many resources for home roasters, hosting coffee events and even scheduling in-home classes in brewing techniques for the perfect home cup. Don’t hesitate to engage your barista with questions and offer your own unique take on your beverage.

If you’re looking to learn about coffee, take your family to visit About the Coffee, in partnership with LAB 5702. Expect to spend at least an hour chatting with Marty, Jason or any of the incredible staff, possibly pulling a shot on a shining espresso machine and tasting coffees from around the nation to compare and discuss. It’s a friendly space and a great place to explore various preparations.

Other cafés worthy of your attention include Oddly Correct (OddlyCorrect.com), a small pour over-only bar, The Friendly Bean (FriendlyBeanCoffee.com) and The Filling Station (FillingStationCoffee.com).

Emily McIntyre is a Kansas City-based freelance writer, barista, and harpist who has placed work in a wide variety of publications. She and her husband have a coffee catering company; visit her website at EmilyMcintyre.com for more information.

Get creative at the

Nerman Museum!

Contemporary Creations classes (ages 8-11) and NEW Early Explorations classes (ages 5-7) combine engaging, interactive tours with hands-on studio projects, and students explore different topics each week.

Pre-registration is required.

Saturdays, October 6-December 8 10 a.m. – noon or 2 p.m.-4 p.m. $15 / $10 for Museum Members Register through JCCC Continuing Education.

913-469-2323 • www.jccc.edu/youth

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FIRE UPA RELUCTANT READER I

t may come as no surprise that by age 8, many children, especially boys, are less likely to read for pleasure as their interests turn to friends, video games and other activities. Nevertheless, the case for nurturing a love of

reading is strong. Children who read for pleasure acquire stronger vocabulary and writing skills and a better understanding of human nature and different cultures. Motivate your child to read by appealing to his personality and interests.

Consider non-fiction. Explore

different genres with your child. “Children often say they don’t like to read because they’ve only read things chosen for them by others,” says Helma Hawkins, director of Children’s Services at the Kansas City Public Library. “Find a subject your child is interested in and then find a selection of books or magazines on that subject and let her choose.”

A case of the funnies. You may

Little Ways to Sneak in Reading Going on a car trip? Have your child research the location, cost, hours, etc., of amusement parks or other sites she wants to visit.

When cooking together, ask your child to read the recipe and assemble the ingredients.

Dictate your grocery list to your child.

Have him read it to you as you shop.

Next time your child asks to go to a movie, have him look up the times, locations and reviews.

Ask your child to read the directions to a new board game and explain to the family how it works.

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Read aloud. Continue reading

together even after your child can read independently. Model fluency, a critical reading skill, which enables us to read quickly and accurately with proper expression. Lack of fluency often fuels reading frustrations, which can affect learning as children advance to the upper grades where reading demands increase.

Discuss. Together, explore a story’s

themes and difficult situations. Invite your child to critique and discuss how the story applies to the world as he knows it.

Tell a story. Recall a favorite tale or

share a personal experience. Storytelling nurtures early literacy, helps with comprehension and reflects your values.

Plus, research finds storytelling increases the overall well-being and happiness of families.

not care for Captain Underpants’ humor or Junie B. Jones’ grammar, but these books often leave kids roaring for more.

“We read Junie B. Jones in the classroom and use the inappropriate things she says as teaching moments: ‘What could she have said?’” says Jill Conard, a first grade teacher at Holy Trinity Catholic School, Lenexa. “We talk about bullying behavior and ways to create peace-building.”

If you’re unsure if your child is ready for a particular book, read it first to decide whether it’s developmentally appropriate.

Positive peer pressure. Start

a kids’ book club or see if your library hosts one. “Peers are instrumental in getting kids to read. If their friends are talking about books they like to read, that will motivate kids to read, too,” says Pam Rousselo, a fourth grade teacher at Holy Trinity. (The Kansas City Public Library hosts a popular weekly book club for boys ages 8 to 12, “Bobby’s Books for Boys,” at their Plaza branch.)

Fan the flame. Hook your child

onto a series or a specific author. Legions of young fans rally around series like The Magic Tree House, Harry Potter and Little House on the Prairie. Comic books count, too!

CHILDREN OFTEN SAY THEY DON’T LIKE TO READ BECAUSE THEY’VE ONLY READ THINGS CHOSEN FOR THEM BY OTHERS. Subscribe to magazines. Kids love to get mail! Kids’ magazines cover topics ranging from current events, wildlife and science to sports and fashion.

Motivate through incentives.

Set goals and reward your child’s reading efforts with a book of choice or a special outing or treat.

Tap the web. School and library

websites frequently offer interactive reading programs. Visit author websites and search for online companions to traditionally published books like the Magic Tree House series, which feature interactive, educational games to supplement the stories. Another online resource, GuysRead.com, offers ideas to inspire boys to read. Knowonder.com includes free, original fiction stories written by professional children’s authors, as well as non-fiction articles and opportunities for children to submit their own writing and artwork.

Mobile options. Download audio

books to your child’s MP3 player, and he can listen while he shoots hoops.

Receive daily stories on your phone or iPad through a free app on a site called Knowonder.com. “In your hand, you have (access to) a huge wealth of stories for when you’re sitting in a waiting room or on car rides on a device that (kids) want to interact with to begin with,” says Kevin Doyle, a staff writer for Knowonder.com.

Doyle’s story, CHOMP! CHOMP! CHOMP!, will be released as a mobile app and hardback book this month.

Share your e-reader. According to a 2012 study in the International Journal of Applied Science and Technology, upper elementary and middle school children, especially boys, read more books when provided with an e-reader. The e-readers provide privacy (no one needs to know your child’s reading level), they’re lightweight and the book is readily accessible at all times.

Get creative. Carie Beth Russell,

an educator and mom of two in Olathe, has her daughters rewrite dialogue, plots

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and settings by covering picture book text with sticky notes. “Ask (your kids) to draw while you read aloud. Visualizing the story is a skill that must be acquired,” Russell says.

Role model. Set aside daily quiet time for family reading. Create a peaceful and cozy reading nook in your home with a comfy chair and blanket.

“Laugh out loud at literature. Cry. Let your kids see you be moved and transported by text,” Russell says. “Join a book club and let them see that you value books by the way you spend your time. Buy lots and lots of books at locallyowned shops and visit the library each week.”

Dads should make it a point to read in front of their children, too. Boys look to male role models when deciding if reading is a masculine activity.

Freelance writer and avid reader Christa Melnyk Hines, of Olathe, is doing everything in her power to turn her sons onto reading.

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“We feel like the Partridge Family, the Jacksons or the Von Trapps!”

– Marc Wayne

Arts in the

MADELINE ELISABETH MARC EMMA ANNE CALEB ZION MIKAYLA NOAH

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arc and Anne Wayne of Overland Park are professional performing artists raising seven talented children: they all sing, five are in theater, four dance, one makes films and two play piano. Ranging in age from 17 to 2 years, Caleb, Mikayla, Noah, Madeline, Zion, Elisabeth and Emma have all experienced the ups and downs that accompany the performing arts. Thankfully, their parents bring more than 30 years of stage experience to the family table.

Marc is a widely respected dancer, choreographer, actor, singer, director, educator and speaker whose experience includes music videos, video series, movies, musicals and five U.S. tours. Titles include Carman’s Raising the Standard, Aida (choreographer), Fiddler on the Roof (director, choreographer) and Kansas City’s Störling Dance Theater’s Prodigal Daughter, Ungerground and many others.

Carman, Willie Aames, Amy Grant and Ben Vereen are among the many artists with whom he has worked and shared the stage.

Anne Wayne also trained in Chicago dance studios, including Hubbard Street. She was a member of the national touring company Chi-Town Jazz Dance and performed with the Chicago Orchestra in Sondheim’s Into the Woods. Her performance in Störling Dance Theater’s Butterfly elicited rave reviews, including this from the Kansas City Star, “Wayne’s characterization, all elbows and angles, is perfect.”

Working all over the Metro with different organizations including The Culture House, Christian Youth Theatre, Coterie Theatre and Leawood Stage Company, Marc particularly enjoys working with youth of all ages to “affirm their purpose and transform that confidence into their performance of art and life.” Since 2005, The Culture House in Olathe, where Marc and Anne teach ballet, jazz and tap, has served as the Waynes’ second home.

Although Anne really enjoys teaching, she considers raising their children the most rewarding role she has played.

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affair: The Waynes recently performed together at Pawnee Elementary School in Overland Park. The dance-based assembly incorporated dialogue, a variety of dance forms and audience participation.

An encore performance is planned that will include song, character development, academics and health. They are also working together to develop their own production company, Marc Wayne Productions.

servant artists

Juggling the talents and interests of seven children is truly a production in and of itself. Communication and their faith are the keys to keeping it all together and trying to meet everyone’s needs, says Marc.Yet, he admits, sometimes they just have to say “No.” Anne and Marc talk with each child about the disappointments and accomplishments that come with the arts.

“We’ve had to work through the issue of the boys getting more opportunities than the girls because there are simply more girls in the performing arts,” recalls Marc.

The benefits outweigh these challenges, however. Marc and Anne relish watching their children grow in confidence, responsibility, productive thinking and creativity. They are also developing a strong work ethic, learning commitment, follow-through and respect for others.

“It is thrilling to watch them on stage, in their element, and being amazing at it,” boasts Marc. The strong friendships among their fellow students are “a foundation of ‘life’ support … around them.” The children are not the only ones to benefit from this family endeavor—Marc and Anne have both experienced growth as artists and educators.

Service to the audience is another component Anne and Marc emphasize with their children. They encourage performers to focus on the human connection between the performer and the audience—what they can give to the audience, rather than their own desires and ambitions. Marc explains: “Remembering the serving artist model helps keep our disappointments and accomplishments in proper perspective. It keeps us humble and thankful.”

Faith is a part of this, too. “God is the center of our family and lives. Without His guidance, direction and provision, we would definitely not be where we are today.”

Kathy Stump writes about raising a small family in Parkville that enjoys watching performing artists.

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“God is at

the center of our lives.”

are the arts for you?

The benefits of arts education throughout the lifespan are well documented. Performing arts specifically improve memory and language skills, are physically engaging and develop self-confidence and discipline.

How can parents determine which art form best suits their child? Marc and Anne Wayne shared their recommendations with KC Parent.

KCP: How can parents evaluate an arts program for their children?

Marc & Anne: First, see what it is that your child leans to. What is his or her “bent”?

Begin slowly, then add on as their interest grows rather than load up their schedule. Once enrolled, have them complete a full season (once they start something, finish it). Then, you will surely know if they are in it or not.

KCP: What should parents look for in an arts program?

Marc & Anne: Parents should research the school, meet with the director, visit the facility, making sure that the mission and vision of the school lines up with their family values and morals.

Consider: • Does the school’s faculty comprise mostly of younger teachers or graduates of the school or does it offer an experienced, professional teaching staff?

• Is the facility a safe environment for young people?

• Is it clean?

• Are administrative staff pleasant and knowledgeable?

KCP: What are some challenges with having your children in the arts?

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blast without worrying about the clean-up. Cool Crest offers a number of affordable and flexible packages available for parties of just eight or more. Conveniently book online at www.CoolCrest.com. Create a memorable birthday experience that will last a lifetime! See display ad on pg. 42.

Exotic Animals R Us

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Ceramics & Coffee House @ Paint, Glaze & Fire

Ceramics & Coffee House @ Paint Glaze & Fire is KC’s only paint-your-own pottery studio with a full service coffee bar. Creating beautiful ceramics is fun & easy for everyone from young children to experienced adults. Visit us for birthday parties, Scout/Brownie outings, corporate team building,

girls’ night out or “just because.” 127th & Metcalf, 913.661.CLAY (2529). See display ad on pg. 35 for a coupon. www.PaintGlazeandFire.net

Cool Crest

Celebrate an exciting birthday party at Cool Crest! We offer food and fun for guests of all ages.

We take care of all the details - so you can have a

We can bring a little bit of the wild to you! Our animals have been featured on such television shows as Rachel Ray, David Letterman, The Early Show, Martha Stewart and more! Call us to talk about the exotic animals your child would like to see at their birthday party! 816.985.2901. See display ad on pg. 35 for a $10 coupon. www.ExoticAnimalsRUs.com

A Fairytale Ballet

Your little ballerina can choose her favorite fairytale and we’ll bring it to life! The magic starts with bubbles, ribbons and dances in tutus. Each child is dressed in a matching costume and with a ballerina hostess, the story comes to life with props, dances, and music! Parties available at our Prairie Village studio or in your home. Ages 2-8.

913.671.7944. See display ad on pg. 19. www.AFairytaleBallet.com

Faulkner’s Ranch

Faulkner’s Ranch Pony Parties are easy to plan and fun to enjoy! Indoor pony parties take place year round in our climate controlled adorably decorated pony party facility. 90 minute parties include a professional cowpoke hostess to facilitate the 1st hour of activities.Your little buckaroos will enjoy rocking ropers, cow milking contest, pin the tail on the donkey, a miniature petting farm and of course, PONY RIDES! Reserve today at http://www.faulknersranch.com/birthdays.html or call 816.761.1234. See display ad on pg. 35.

FastKick Martial Arts

Martial Arts FUN with an awesome marital arts class, fun games, pizza and drinks. Our experienced instructors take care of everything from setup to clean up. Learn to break a board and cut the cake with a real sword!!! Dates fill up fast so call Today! Mention KC Parent to receive an Official FastKick uniform as a gift. 816.781.3800. www.FastKickTKD.com See display ad on pg. 39.

Fun Run 9-30-12

For tons of fun, have your next birthday party at Fun Run! Parties include time in party room to enjoy cake and presents, unlimited play time and 8 game tokens. Food available for purchase at a discounted rate and the birthday child receives a FREE stuffable pet experience in the Fun Run Stuff a Pet store. See display ad on pg. 36 for money saving coupons. Call 816.741.0386 or visit www.FunRunKansasCity.com.

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ce creams that won’t melt at your party—this is another fun way to serve cupcakes. You could tint the buttercream pink for strawberry ice cream and then scatter it with fresh strawberries or flavor it with chocolate. You will need to find flatbottomed cones so that they stand upright for baking. These cakes are best made on the day of the party.

You will need: 10 ice cream cones (with flat bottoms) 1 package vanilla cupcake mix 2 containers buttercream frosting 10 chocolate flakes sprinkles (optional) 12-hole muffin pan piping bag, fitted with a star tip (makes 10) 1. Instead of lining the muffin pan with paper cases, stand the ice cream cones in it.

2. Ask an adult to help you make the cupcakes. Divide the mixture between the ice cream cones and bake on the middle shelf of the preheated oven for 20-25 minutes until they are golden and a skewer pushed into the middle of the cupcakes comes out clean.

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3. Let the cones cool in the muffin pan for 10 minutes before putting them onto a wire cooling rack to cool completely.

4. Spoon the buttercream icing into the piping bag. Holding it over the bowl, squeeze the frosting down the bag until it reaches the tip.

5. Now hold the piping bag over the first cone and, gently squeezing the bag, pipe big swirls of frosting onto the cake. Try to keep the frosting coming out without breaking off. This is tricky and needs practice, but don’t worry—if it’s not perfect, it will still look and taste good.

6. Finish by gently pushing a chocolate flake into the frosting and cake. Some colored sprinkles would look good, too.

In My First Cupcake Decorating Book, you’ll find basic recipes for making cupcakes in any flavor you want, along with techniques that will teach you all need to know to decorate the perfect cupcake! Ice Cream Cupcakes, excerpted from the book, are perfect for your next birthday party.

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DOUBLE UP ON

BIRTHDAY FUN

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et’s face it: birthday parties are fun, but the stress and cost of planning and throwing them can be overwhelming for parents.

One solution is to have a joint birthday party for siblings, cousins or friends who have close birthdays.

Joint parties are great for kids who have many of the same friends and can reduce the workload for parents.

Here are some things to consider in planning a joint party:

CAKE

Most parents who have planned double birthday celebrations recommend separate smaller cakes. That way, each child can have a hand in choosing the design and flavor and can have his or her own candles to blow out.

Singing Happy Birthday to each birthday kid will also make everyone feel special.

BUDGET

If you are collaborating with another parent, make sure you have a similar budget in mind.

Planning a simple party with a couple of games and cake, while the other parent wants to bring in ponies and clowns, will invite trouble.

Make a budget and stick with it, regardless of whether you are the sole party planner for your own kids or teaming up with another family.

AGES

Kids who are several years apart might not fare well with a combined party; separate interests and friends might hinder planning a party that pleases everyone.

Keep in mind that the older the children, the more guests they can handle.Young kids tend to get overwhelmed easily, so having a joint party for 4-year-olds and inviting 30 guests will probably result in overstimulation for the kids (and parents, too!)

LOCATION

A neutral location, such as a bowling alley, petting zoo or park will ensure that one family is not doing all the prep work and cleanup.

KCParent.com has a “party guide” section if you need ideas on local party venues. Throwing a bash somewhere besides your own home also eliminates the stress of feeling that everything must be spotless before guests arrive.

Of course, if the birthday kids are siblings and you have the space and patience to host a party in your home, go for it!

KC MOM TIP Seven years ago, my close friend and I had our babies on the same day, in the same hospital and in the same room, only a few hours apart. With most of their friends being the same, we’ve enjoyed having double birthday parties for them the last six years. We just make sure that

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THEME

One theme or separate themes?

Theresa, a Belton mom, has one party for her twin 8-year-old sons and 5-year-old son so her outof-town family has to travel only once. “I create separate themed invitations with the same date/time and I customize the treat bags for each theme. I do this so the boys feel less cheated.” Shanna, another Belton mom, says, “The key to a successful combined party is finding a common thread and intertwining it... I have heard of friends doing a theme of fairies and pirates, for example.”

GIFTS

Some parents are hesitant to throw joint birthday parties because they don’t want guests to feel obligated to buy gifts for both kids, particularly if the kids have separate friends who may know only the child who invited them. However, parents who have experience with double parties tend to agree that giving a gift only to the child who invited you is appropriate.

Tisha Foley and her husband have separate birthday parties for their kids, but often have one big cookout to celebrate all the adults in their family who have summer birthdays!

They live in Belton.

we select a venue and/or theme that is gender neutral. The past two years we’ve had parties at Monkey Bizness and Faulkner’s Ranch. It’s worked great while the kids are young!

Carla Luffman, Eudora, KS

party guide Games2U

The Hottest Party on Wheels!

Forget about another arcade or bowling party.

Games2U creates an exciting experience for players of any age! Our Mobile Video Game Theater, Laser Tag, Booger Wars, U:Launchers, Giant Human Hamster Ball (and more!) bring the excitement right to you and create the most unique and memorable parties anywhere. We can even bring the party INDOORS at your business, school, church, community center or YMCA. Book your party today online at www.G2U.com or call 913.461.4036. See display ad on pg. 32 for 10% off any party coupon.

Gymboree

Choose your child’s favorite theme and we’ll create a private, personalized party experience filled

with kid friendly activities guaranteed to be 100% fun with zero clean up! We specialize in 1st birthday parties all the way through to 5th birthday parties. Gymboree Play & Music Parties are available to members and non-members. Call to find out more details. 913.393.0203 (Prairie Village), 913.393.0203 (Olathe), 816.505.3344 (Parkville) or 816.525.7529 (Lee’s Summit). See display ad on pg. 14 for a coupon. www.GymboreeClasses.com

Jaegerz Laser Tag and Jaegers Paintball

Take a step into a real life video game on Jaegerz 6000 sq foot laser tag arena where birthday parties start at just $99 for 9 players. Looking for something more extreme? Try your game in the world’s first underground paintball arena, parties start at just $140 for 6 players. See display ad on pg. 33 for valuable coupons. Laser tag: www.Jaegerz.com or 816.452.5151. Paintball: www.Jaegers.com or 816.452.6600

LEGOLAND Discovery Center

Celebrate your next birthday at LEGOLAND® Discovery Center Kansas City and make it an unforgettable experience for you and your friends.

Enjoy exclusive themed party rooms suitable for up to 36 people, and with “build your own party” options, you can make your party as big as you like! See display ad on pg. 4 for valuable coupons.

Visit www.LEGOLANDDiscoveryCenter.com or call 816.471.4FUN (4386).

The MagiComedy of Reggie Gray

Reggie Gray has been entertaining children and families since he was 12 years old throughout the east coast. Gray is a professional magician, juggler, balloon artist, emcee and motivational speaker NOW serving MO & KS.Your child will be the star of the show, making Furball the live bunny appear. Prepare to be amazed! 816.606.6815. See display ad on pg. 35. www.DiscoverTheMagicInYou.com

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party guide Monkey Bizness & Little Monkey Bizness

Monkey Bizness & Little Monkey Bizness takes the hassle out of party planning for parents. We provide personalized invitations, balloons, party favors plates, cups, forks, napkins and an optional pizza and soda package. Private play and party rooms. We do all the cleaning! All that’s left to do is show up and have fun! Little Monkey Bizness has full gourmet coffee bar and free Wi-Fi. See display ad on pg. 35 for money saving coupons. www.MonkeyBizness.com

Paradise Park

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Savanahland is the place to call if you’re looking to have the wildest time of your life! We can bring animals to birthday parties, schools, churchs, parks, community centers, scout meetings, family reunions, nursing homes, daycares, and any other location that you can think of!

Kansas City’s premier party destination offers an incredible experience for the birthday child and easy, hassle-free party for Mom and Dad. We take care of it all! Choose from 5 different awesome party packages, starting at $189. Visit www.Paradise-Park.com for online booking.

816.246.5224. See display ad on pg. 44.

Princess at My Party

Have your child’s favorite princess come to her birthday party! Choose from Ariel, Belle, Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty and Snow White. Then watch the magic unfold as the birthday girl and guests go on an adventure that includes a story, games, music, a makeover or face-painting and a treasure hunt. 913.558.3110. www.PrincessAtMyParty.com.

See display ad on pg. 36.

Savanahland

Savanahland is the place to call if you’re looking to have the wildest time of your life! We’ll bring the animals to you for the best birthday yet!

With the only chimpanzee in the area that makes visits, we’ll set your party apart from the rest. See display ad on pg. 36. For info call 816.540.6050 or visit www.Savanahland.com.

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and presents, but learn all about life under the sea! Your ocean-lover will be able to share this special experience with friends and family, with lots of great photo opportunities, and plenty of space in a private party room for gathering. Make a wish and a splash this year at SEA LIFE! www.sealifeus.com. See ad on pg. 4 for money saving coupons.

Theatre of the Imagination

Be a Diva, Clone, Werewolf, Chipmunk, Wimpy Kid, Zombie. Be what you want with a two-hour Movie Star Acting Party. Ages 4+. We bring costumes and your child and guests star in their own movie. Free invites & free DVD! Also great for Weddings, Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, Scouts & more.

816.561.2787. See display ad on pg. 33 for a $25 coupon. www.DramaKC.com

Tiger Rock Tae Kwon Do

Tired of the same old birthday parties? Kick, jump, tumble at a Super Fantastic Tae Kwon Do Birthday Party at Tiger Rock. Our hassle-free parties include a mini Tae Kwon Do lesson by a Black Belt Instructor, fun games and more. No fuss or mess for you to deal with...the kids will have a ball!

913.829.8818 See display ad on pg. 31. www.KCTigerRock.com

US Toy Company

Our unique store offers a variety of items: teaching aides, games, books, party goods, decorative and holiday items, craft materials, carnival & magic items, infant and educational toys. U.S. Toy Company is your one stop toy, learning and party shop! 913.642.8247. See display ad on pg. 17 for a coupon. www.USToy.com

YMCA

Your local YMCA is the perfect place for your child’s next birthday party! Choose from one of three packages for every interest and budget: Birthday Party, Splash Birthday Party or The Blow-Out Party. Celebrate birthdays with us while making memories that will last a lifetime. www.KansasCityYMCA.org. See display ad on pg. 11.

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DROP OFF TOYS ON OCTOBER 4, 5 & 6 NOON - 3 PM

The Forest Avenue Family Shelter plans a toy drive every Christmas to benefit the community. In their time of need, it is the greatest wish of the women at the shelter to collect 3,000 gifts for children in Kansas City. The toys are for children ages 0-15 years old.

Do not gift wrap the toys.

DROP OFF GIFTS: PROVIDENCE COMMUNITY CHURCH 10113 LENEXA DRIVE LENEXA, KS 66215 913.307.0710

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Some great museums to check out in Kansas City!

Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art: 4525 Oak St., Kansas City, MO 64111 Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts: 1601 Broadway, Kansas City, MO 64108 The Steamboat Arabia Museum: 400 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO 64106 Missouri Town 1855: 8010 E. Park Rd., Lee’s Summit, MO 64064 Kemper Museum of Contemporary Art: 4420 Warwick Blvd., Kansas City, MO 64111 Kaleidoscope: 2501 McGee, Kansas City, MO 64108 Science City at Union Station: 30 W. Pershing Rd., Kansas City, MO 64108 Johnson County Museum: 6305 Lackman Rd., Shawnee, KS 66217 Toy & Miniature Museum: 5235 Oak St., Kansas City, MO 64112 Puppetry Arts Institute – Hazelle Rollins Puppet Museum: 11025 E. Winner Rd., Independence, MO 64052 For a full list of fun museums to visit: KCGoingPlaces.com

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MEMORABLE

MUSEUM OUTINGS tips to make the most on a day at the museum

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ooking for something different–yet fun–to do with your children?

How about taking them to an art museum? While it may seem crazy and a tad scary to imagine your small child in a museum, if you do your research and offer your little ones some encouragement, you may be surprised at how much fun it can be for your entire family! Here are some tips to help get you out the door and on your way to an enjoyable day at the museum.

Do your research. Find out what museums are in your area, and check out their websites. Find one that interests you and your children. Ask friends who have been there. If you have a toddler, try to find a place for children with dedicated toddler/ preschool play spaces catering exclusively to them. Children’s museums offer many hands-on exhibits that will keep them entertained and educated.

Map it out. Museums may have a ton of things to see and do, but if you have a toddler, remember that your toddler can only handle a fraction of what the older children can before tiring out. So, do your homework. Study the websites and figure out which exhibits you and your family would most like to see.You might even let your older toddler help choose one!

Check the schedule. Most museums have special events each day. If it’s a children’s museum, you’re likely to find activities such as story time, sing-alongs, arts and crafts projects and short movies. Art museums also offer family-friendly tours with tour guides who help teach children about the art. Check the museum calendar so you make time for the programs your little one(s) will especially enjoy.

Ask questions. Once there, ask your little ones questions about the art pieces they see. Talk about what is familiar in the art you are exploring. Are there children in the paintings? How is the clothing different or the same? What do they like best about the painting?

Talk about colors, shapes and textures. Ask your children to choose their favorite colors or shapes in a painting and ask why they like it. Why do they think the artist used those colors or textures? Questions like these get them to really think and focus on the art piece in front of them.

Play “I Spy.” Younger children love to find hidden treasures! Ask them to find something in a painting that you’re viewing.

A lot of museums today even offer printed scavenger hunts for younger visitors.

What’s outside? Many art museums have outdoor sculptures. Take your chil-

dren outdoors to view the art and get their wiggles out.

If you opt for a children’s museum instead of the art museum, no problem! A lot of the tips above apply for toddlers as well as older children, but here are some helpful hints for keeping your youngest museum visitors on their best behavior.

Help out. Most exhibits at kids’ museums are laid out so that children can jump right in with little direction. But your toddler may need help figuring out how to do certain things, such as turning the giant kaleidoscope. Let her try it out on her own at first, but then jump in to help out before frustration sets in.

Don’t get discouraged. If your little one sticks to only one or two activities during your visit, remember that toddlers learn most by staying engaged in what they’re doing.You really are getting your money’s worth!

Bring snacks. Are your children getting a little tired and on edge? Time for a snack! Be sure to bring along healthy snacks to keep their energy up and moods in check. Most museums also have cafeterias or little restaurants; and if they need a place to run off some energy, take them outside for a bit.

Find the books! Almost all children’s museums have a little library or corner for books. Even art museums will have books in their gift shops.When your little ones get overstimulated, take a five-minute break to look through some books together.

Know when to head home. If your museum experience just isn’t going well and no one is in the mood, it’s okay to leave.

Whether you spent 30 minutes or the entire day at the museum, there is always great value in looking at art with your children.

You’ll be amazed at how much your little ones notice and how their ways of seeing things are different than your own.

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Kansas City mom Gina Klein is an author/photographer who loves taking family trips to the art museums! kcparent.com september 2012

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Family Fun Day Noon, KC Museum. Families can have fun together while enjoying an educational experience. 816.483.8300 Train Ride 2:00, Belton, Grandview and KC RR. Enjoy a ride on the train for only $9. Check out our upcoming pumpkin express trains! 816.331.0630 Meet Me at the Museum 2:00, Kemper Museum of Art. Tour the Museum’s current exhibitions with a Kemper docent. 816.753.5784 Music in the Park 6:30, Rotary Park at Railroad Lake. Bring chairs or blankets and enjoy music outdoors. BlueSprings.gov Saturday Night Feeder 4:00, Cedar Cove Feline Sanctuary. Every Saturday through October we host the public feeding of cats. 913.837.5515

3 MONDAY: LABOR DAY

Labor Day 5K Run/Walk 7:30, Leawood City Park. Following the race there will be a pancake breakfast, $5/person. SportKC.org Dinosaurs: Land of Fire and Ice Thru Sept 9, 10:00, Crown Center. An interactive exhibit created by the Minnesota Children’s Museum. 816.274.8444 Moms FREE Monday 10:00, Paradise Park. Moms are free at the Children’s EduTainment Center with a paid child’s admission. 816.246.5224 Pops in the Park 7:00, Theatre in the Park. The KC Symphony will help celebrate the holiday with patriotic and familiar classics. 913.831.3355

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Funky Mama Concert 10:00, Johnson County Museum. Plan your day out to see an energetic performance from Funky Mama! 913.715.2575 Priscilla Howe 10:00, Tomahawk Ridge Community Center. Enjoy fun storytelling for free with Priscilla Howe! 913.327.6645 Kids-a-Cookin’ 3:00, KCK Main Library. Get healthy tips for meals and let your child have a hand in preparing a simple, healthy snack. 913.551.3280

6 THURSDAY

Coco Salutes Scouts 10:00, CoCo Key Water Resort. Show your Girl Scout badge and get a $5 day pass today! 816.737.0200 FITMom and Baby 10:30, Summit Fair (clock tower). Bring your baby and stroller for a free workout class every Thursday! 816.607.5420

4 TUESDAY

Pinocchio Time Thru July 2013, 10:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. A special exhibit celebrating the 130th anniversary of Pinocchio. 816.833.9777 Baby and Me Day Out Noon, Brush Creek Community Center. Bring your child 5 and under to play, make crafts and meet new friends. 816.513.0730 Pooch Paddle 5:45, Merriam Aquatic Center. Two

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sessions offered for your pooch to take a dip in our pool! 913.322.5518

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Open Play 9:00, Stanley Presbyterian Church. Bring the kids, toys and your to-go cup of coffee!

913.681.8180 Stories for Ones 9:30, Waldo Library. Bring your 1-year-old to a story time geared toward this age group. 816.701.3486

Dippin’ Dogs 4:00, the Bay Water Park. Join us for another great year benefitting local rescue organizations. 816.965.9218 Old Settlers Days Thru Sat, 5:00, Downtown Olathe.

Events include carnival, arts and crafts show, car show and parade! JohnsonCountyOldSettlers.com Fashion’s Night Out 5:00, Country Club Plaza.

Participating Plaza stores will host trunk shows, giveaways, modeling, promotions and more.

816.753.0100

Fashion’s Night Out 5:00, Zona Rosa. Activities include store promotions, live music, fashion shows and much more. ZonaRosa.com

Chilifest Today & tomorrow, Lee’s Summit City Hall. Proceeds go to the End Polio Now campaign.

816.550.0847

Apple Festival 9:00, First Baptist Church of Raytown. Crafts, quilts, children’s area and apple-related foods of all kinds. 816.763.6186

Little Women Thru Sun, 8:00, Roger T Sermon Center. The City Theatre of Independence performs this classic tale. CityTheatreOfIndependence.org

Greek Food Festival Thru Sun, 6:00, Greek Orthodox Church of the Annunciation. Traditional Greek food, music, dancing and more! GreekFoodFest.org

Bark in the Park Dog Walk 9:00, C Lee Kenagy Park. Enjoy a walk with your pooch while browsing vendor booths and more. 816.268.1508

7 FRIDAY

Free First Friday 6:00, Kauffman Center for Performing Arts. See a free sampler of Fringe Fest dance performances, including KC Ballet. 816.931.2232

Halloween Thriller Children’s Orchard. Our low prices for Halloween costumes will thrill you!

913.780.6600 or 816.373.4585

First Fridays in the Crossroads 7:00, Crossroads Art District. Enjoy art from 7:00-9:00 in the Crossroads! KCCrossroads.org

Geocaching Tour 10:00, Overland Park Arboretum.

Learn about this high-tech treasure hunting game!

913.685.3604

100th Kansas State Fair Thru Sept 16, Hutchinson, KS. A wide array of events that attracts nearly 350,000 people each year! KansasStateFair.com Jesse James Festival Thru Sept 16, Kearney Fair Grounds. Carnival, crafts, demolition derby, concerts, rodeo, parade and much more!

JesseJamesFestival.com Antique Engine and Tractor Show Thru Sun, 9:00, Forest Park in Ottawa, KS. A great learning experience for all ages. 785.242.2686 Buffalo Bill Days Festival Today & tomorrow, 3:00, Downtown Leavenworth. Live music, performers, period re-enactors, games and more! LvKs.org Art Westport Thru Sun, 5:00, Westport. Local artists showcase original art, unique jewelry, fine crafts and much more. ArtWestport.net Blue Springs BBQ Blazeoff Today & tomorrow, 6:00, Hidden Valley Sports Complex. More than 60 teams compete for cash awards! 816.228.0137

8 SATURDAY

Olathe Medical Center Women’s Triathlon Kill Creek Park. Participate in or support women as they swim, bike and run! SportKC.org Second Saturdays 8:00, Downtown Leavenworth.

Fun and exciting activities around a theme each month! LeavenworthMainStreet.com Spinach Festival 9:00, Sar-Ko-Par Trails Park. A festive day of music, entertainment, arts and antique vendors, food and much more. 913.477.7100 Thunder on the Border 9:00, Missouri Town 1855.

Re-enactors bring back the drama and tensions of pre-Civil War Missouri. 816.503.4860

Lowe’s Build ‘n Grow 10:00, Lowe’s Stores. A free workshop for kids to build a wooden project.

LowesBuildAndGrow.com Kids Fun Fest 10:00, KC Zoo. Learn surprising facts about orangutans through activities, crafts and more!

816.513.5800 KC Chiefs Face Painting Paradise 10:00, Riverside Library. Face Painting Paradise joins the library for painting memories and fun! 816.741.6288 Chalk and Walk Festival Today & tomorrow, 11:00, Crown Center Square. Artists create chalk artwork out of blank squares of asphalt. 816.274.8444 Take Flight with an Eagle Owl 11:00, Red Bridge

EVERY day is a SPECIAL day at CAROLYN’S Country Cousins!

Just 15 minutes from downtown Kansas City!

SE of Hwy 210 & Hwy 291 • 17607 NE 52nd St. Liberty, MO 64068 • www.CarolynsCountryCousins.com

60 Acres of U-pick Pumpkins and FUN! Open Sept. 15th to Oct. 31st

Bring in this ad & receive $2 off Single admission. *Cannot be combined with other offers. kcparent.com september 2012

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Music on Main 3:30, Downtown Grandview. Fun for the whole family, including live music, concessions and a kids’ zone. Grandview.org Second Saturdays 4:00, Downtown Weston. Shops open late with in-store specials, food samples and entertainment. WestonMO.com YMCA Kids’ Night Out 5:00 (Platte County North & South, Prov/Ball, Richard C Green, Sr) & 6:00 (Red Bridge). Enjoy a night out while the kids have fun!

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Run Together 5K 8:00, Zona Rosa Town Square.

This family event promotes a healthy lifestyle.

Proceeds benefit the Y. 816.505.2622

JoHo | Johnson County Museum | Sept. 19 Library. Meet Swoop, one of the largest owls in the world! 816.942.1780 Legendary Lexington Homes Tour Today (10:00) & tomorrow (Noon), Historic Homes of Lexington. Tour homes from the 1830s to the 1880s.

660.259.4711 Dippin’ Dogs Noon, the Springs Aquatic Center. Join us for another great year benefitting local rescue organizations. 816.880.0279

Comedy Magic Show 1:00, KC Improv. The funniest magicians are here to entertain the whole family at the Improv! ImprovKC.com Second Saturdays in the Crossroads 1:15, Crossroads Art District. Join our monthly education and enrichment program in the Crossroads!

KCCrossroads.org Back-to-School Magic 2:00, Lee’s Summit Library. Learn some new tricks just in time for a new school year! 816.524.0567

Grandparents Day Noon, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop. Grandparents admitted free today! Bring your grandkids out for a memorable day. 913.971.5111 Ice Cream Social 1:00, Carroll Mansion. Enjoy free museum tours, children’s activities, antique cars, reenactors and ice cream! LeavenworthHistory.org Grandparents Ride Free 2:00, Belton, Grandview & KC RR. One grandparent rides free with a paid child’s admission. $9. 816.331.0630.

Jazz in the Garden 4:30, Loose Park. Free concert among the roses of Loose Park. KCMO.org

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Family Friendly during the day.

After the sun goes down the Zombies come out! Beware!

September 14 - October 27 Every Friday and Saturday Night 6-10 p.m.

October 1-31

Two young girls on the original road trip encounter joy and tragedy down the Oregon Trail!

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TRAIN RIDES

Purchase Tickets Tickets are on sale now for the ‘Tour of Gymnastics Champions 2012’ at the Sprint Center on October 18. SprintCenter.com Early Bird Special 9:00, Little Monkey Bizness.

Admission is only $5 plus tax before 10:00 Monday thru Thursday! 913.631.7000 Fairy Houses & Forts Thru Oct 7, 9:00, Powell Gardens. Visit a magical world of childhood fantasies come true with this exhibit. 816.697.2600 Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Community Center. Children ages 5 and under are invited to run, ride and play while making new friends! 913.541.0209 Ball Time 3:00, Harris Park Community Center. At least one half court is always reserved for free play and shooting. 816.969.1540

Kids under three FREE

Regular trains run Sat./Sun. at 2 P.M. all of Sept. and first weekend of Oct.

Grandparent’s Day Sept. 9, one grandparent rides FREE with a paid child’s admission.

Prices of Regular and Pumpkin Express are $9 for anyone 3 and older.

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Patriot Day Proudly display the American flag in your own creative way today!

Pumpkin Express Train

Rides in October weekends of the 13th, 20th & 27th.

Trains depart at 12:30, 2:00 and 3:30.

Santa Train

Toddle Time 9:00-11:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Fun and enriching open playtime for ages 5 and under. $1-$2/child. 913.895.6390

Departures are 9 am, 11 am, and 1 pm., Sat., Dec. 1 and Sat. Dec. 8, 2012.

Bark George Thru Sept 15, 10:00, Paul Mesner Puppet Studio. Performance is appropriate for even the youngest audience members. 816.235.6222

Check website for price.

Reservation required for this event.

Charters • Field Trips or Birthday Parties, plan by appointment.

Belton, Grandview & Kansas City Railroad Co. 502 Walnut •Belton, Missouri 816-331-0630 • www.beltonrailroad.org Tickets go on sale one hour before train departure time.

Infant CPR 7:00, OP Ed Center. Learn basic lifesupport skills for your infant with hands-on manikin practice. HealthyArrivals.org Rumpelstiltskin Recycled? 7:00, Antioch Library.

Join us for this new musically fractured fairy tale.

816.454.1306

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Dear America: Across the Wide and Lonesome Prairie 10:00, Coterie Theatre. Follow two friends as they travel across the Oregon Trail. 816.474.6552 Pop N Play 9:00, Johnson County Museum. Join us for activities designed especially for your 9-monthto 3-year-old child. 913.715.2550 Tiny Tot Skate 9:30, Skate City. Bring your little ones out to skate for just $5. Price includes skates, snack and drink. 913.888.6668 Stories for Ones 9:30, Waldo Library. Bring your 1-year-old to a story time geared toward this age group. 816.701.3486

13 THURSDAY

JBF Sale Thru Sun, 9:00, OP Int’l Trade Center.

Experience the nation’s leading children’s and maternity consignment sales event! See KC Parent ad for coupon. JBFSale.com Coco Salutes Scouts 10:00, CoCo Key Water kcparent.com september 2012

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Resort. Show your Boy Scout badge and get a $5 day pass today! 816.737.0200 Tour the Museum 10:00, Legler Barn Museum. Take a guided tour and learn about the history of Lenexa from earlier times to the present. 913.492.0038 US Constitution and the Bill of Rights 1:30, Smithville Library. Homeschoolers ages 6+ can learn all about the Constitution. 816.532.0116 Jesse James Festival Thru Sun, 6:00, Kearney Fair Grounds. Carnival, crafts, concerts, rodeo, parade and much more! JesseJamesFestival.com Be Aware of the Dog 7:00, North Independence Library. Children ages 4+ will learn how to be safe around dogs and read body language. 816.252.0950

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Buffalo Bill Century Ride Thru Sun, Parker Carousel Museum. Bicycle ride, century race 5K run. Call for more details. 913.682.4113 Opening Day 10:00, Louisburg Cider Mill. Our pumpkin patch and witch corn maze open for the season! 1.913.837.5202 Paint Me a Story 10:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire. Listen to a story while painting a piece of pottery. Snack included. 913.661.2529 Story Time Tumble 10:30, Turner Library. Little ones have fun listening to songs and finger plays followed by tumbling activities. 913.596.1404 Mission Arts and Eats Festival Today & tomorrow, Sylvester Powell Comm Ctr. Family entertainment, activities, delicious food and more! 913.722.8206 Second Friday Art Crawl 5:00, Downtown Excelsior Springs. Enjoy feature artists, music, dining and shopping. 816.630.5500 Fall Fun 6:00, Paradise Park. First night for Friday night hayrides, hot cocoa and s’mores! 816.942.3301 Fall Movie Night in the Park 7:00, Memorial Park. Popcorn provided and refreshments available for a fall movie at dusk. Raymore.com

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Babysitter Boot Camp 9:00, Harris Park Community Center. Ages 10-17 can learn helpful tips to be a safe and successful babysitter. 816.969.1540 Arts & Crafts Fair 9:00, Shawnee Town 1929. Browse through nearly 100 craft booths at the 37th annual Arts and Crafts Fair. 913.248.2360 Paws in the Park 9:00, English Landing Park. Participate in a 1-mile dog walk, contests, drawings, parade and more. PawsInPark.com Old Summit Country Antique Show 9:00, Pavilion at John Knox Village. Early country and vintage wares presented from more than 60 dealers. OldSummitAntiqueShow.com Opening Day 10:00, Carolyn’s Country Cousins. Bring the family out for opening day at the pumpkin patch! 816.781.9196 Scavenger Saturdays 10:00, Kemper Museum of Art. Pick up a self-guided activity and follow the clues on an art adventure. 816.753.5784 Family Fun Day 10:00, Johnson County Museum. Make a craft and tour Kidscape for free! 913.715.2550 Pig Pickin’ Chicken Lickin’ Feast 10:00, Bingham-Waggoner Estate. Reserve your tickets for one of our major fundraisers! 816.461.3491

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Howl-O-Fest 11:00, Worlds of Fun. Weekends through Oct 27 join us for not-so-scary family fun during the day. 816.454.4545 Carnival for CASA 11:00, Paradise Park. Admission into the benefit includes face painting, bumper cars, go-karts and more. 816.785.4097

FALL DAY TRIPS

Harvest Day 11:00, Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead. Enjoy old-fashioned fun with crafts, games and more. $2/ea; free/2 and under. 913.897.2360

WESTON, MO Antebellum homes can still be found in this hillside community.

Lewis and Clark’s expedition camped at what is now the base of Main Street. Wonderful antique stores await your arrival, as do unique galleries and cafes.

Sprint Family Fun Days 11:00, Power & Light District. Enjoy a free day of fun with your family at Power and Light. PowerAndLightDistrict.com YMCA Kids’ Night Out 5:00 (Cleaver, Vivion Road & Independence). Enjoy a night out while the kids have fun! KansasCityYMCA.org

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Healthy Kids Day at the K 11:30, Royals Stadium.

Join the YMCA for activities that will get you moving before and during the game! KansasCityYMCA.org Making God Laugh Thru Oct 21, 2:00, American Heartland Theatre. A PG-13 comedy about home and family. Tickets: 816.842.9999.

JBF Sale Overland Park Int’l Trade Center. Last day to shop the Overland Park sale! JBFSale.com

LOUISBURG, KS Louisburg, about 20 minutes south With the season changing and the weather getting cooler, weekends are perfect for day trips! Below are several locations that make for a perfect fall getaway. Visit KCParent.com for specific restaurants and places to visit in each town.

of Kansas City, features several unique offerings for fall family fun. From apple cider to star gazing and big cat feedings, there’s plenty for a full day of family fun!

JAMESPORT, MO Learn a little bit more about the Amish and enjoy a day of shopping at more than a dozen Amishowned furniture, craft, antique and bake shops. Plan this trip for a Saturday, because the Amish-owned businesses are not open on Sundays.

ATCHISON, KS

The shopping for home decor items just can’t be beat! While the kids are enjoying a trolley tour of the city or the Amelia Earhart Museum, you can hit Mary Carol Garrity’s famous trio of stores and more on Commercial Street.

Plan for lunch at the Marigold Café! Older kids might enjoy the narrated trolley tour through “the most haunted town in Kansas,” offered most weekends in the fall. Advance reservations required.

family fun

festival benefitting American Cancer Society

Sunday, Oct. 7, festivities from 10 - 5 pm

17701 Holmes Road, Belton MO Mon.-Fri. 12 to 6 PM • Sat-Sun 9am to 9pm www.johnsonfarms.net • 816.331.1067 Daily Piglet Race & Pumpkin Popper Launching KC’S REAL PUMPKIN FARM!

Wagon Rides FARM ANIMALS

Painting Pumpkins Pink, raffle with prizes, magician, clowns, face painting, festive music!

We do Birthday Parties!

$1 OFF

U-Pick Fall Vegetables

Giant Tunnel Crawl Giant Jumping Pillow

included with KIDS $12 ADMISSION

ONE ADMISSION

No photocopies accepted. One coupon per customer per day. No other discounts may be applied. Exp. 10/31/12

Admission: FREE for 2 and under; $12 for kids 3-12 years; $10 for teens and adults 13-59; $8 for seniors 60+

Opening Day

Sat., Sept 22

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NEW Interactive ONLINE PUMPKING PATCH GUIDE featuring maps, photos and videos available at KCParent.com

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ment the whole family will love. 816.781.9196

Early Bird Special 9:00, Little Monkey Bizness.

Admission is only $5 plus tax before 10:00 Monday thru Thursday! 913.631.7000 Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Community Center. Children ages 5 and under are invited to run, ride and play while making new friends! 913.541.0209 Healthy Grocery Shopping 6:30, Shawnee Civic Centre. Learn how to make healthy choices in the aisles from a Hy-Vee dietician. 913.631.5200

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Fairy Houses & Forts Thru Oct 7, 9:00, Powell Gardens. Visit a magical world of childhood fantasies come true with this exhibit. 816.697.2600 Story Time for Twos 9:30, Westport Library.

Seasonal stories, songs, videos and other learning activities for children 2 and younger. 816.701.3488 Bark George Thru Sept 22, 10:00, Paul Mesner Puppet Studio. Performance is appropriate for even the youngest audience members. 816.235.6222 Family Freedom Hours 4:00, Carolyn’s Country Cousins Pumpkin Patch. Free access to entertain-

Family Night 4:00, Little Money Bizness. $6 + tax includes pizza and play every Tuesday and Friday!

Socks must be worn. 913.631.7000

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Toddle Time 9:00-11:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Fun and enriching open playtime for ages 5 and under. $1-$2/child. 913.895.6390 Jo Ho Storyteller 10:00, Johnson County Museum.

School’s back in session with “ABC, 123!” Free event to the public. 913.715.2552 Visit Vaile Mansion 10:00, Vaile Mansion. Come see one of our nation’s premiere examples of Second Empire Victorian architecture. 816.325.7430

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Toddling Troops 9:00, KC Zoo. Every Thursday, parents and pre-K aged children can walk the animal trails. 816.513.5700 Pinocchio Time 10:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. A special exhibit celebrating the 130th anniversary of Pinocchio. $3. 816.833.9777

Infant CPR 7:00, OP Ed Center. Learn basic lifesupport skills for your infant with hands-on manikin practice. HealthyArrivals.org

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Wellsville Days Thru Sun, 7:00, Downtown Wellsville. Celebrate a great little downtown in the heart of the nation. WellsvilleDays.com Blues and Barbeque Today & tomorrow, Shawnee Town. Don’t miss some great BBQ and activities for the whole family. ShawneeGreatGrillers.com Parachute & Bubbles in the Park! 9:30, Lowenstein Park. Join Gymboree Play & Music of Lee’s Summit for big parachute fun & bubbles!

816.525.7529 Pint Size Playtime 10:00, Harris Park Community Center. Bring your preschoolers to the gym to meet new friends and run off some energy! 816.969.1540 Gladstone Farmers’ Market 2:00, 525 NE 70th (Gladstone). Purchase vegetables, locally-grown produce, fresh fruit, plants and herbs. 816.423.4100 Plaza Art Fair Thru Sun, 5:00, Country Club Plaza.

Come to the Plaza for fabulous artwork, music and a kid’s art workshop. CountryClubPlaza.com Stuffed Animal Sleepover 5:00, Olathe Library.

Your stuffed animal will have lots of fun sleeping at the library! Pick it up the next day! 913.971.6850

45th & Oak, Kansas City, Missouri nelson-atkins.org 816.751.1ART

Styles of Yesterday & Today

The American Girl Fashion Show is a fun-filled event for girls and their families, friends, and favorite dolls. Celebrate the experience of being a girl, whether yesterday or today, through a colorful presentation of historical and contemporary fashions.

Hosted by

The Junior League of Wyandotte and Johnson Counties To benefit Local Children Served by Catholic Charities of NE Kansas Emergency Assistance Centers

Saturday, October 13th, 3:00 p.m., 7:00 p.m.

Sunday, October 14th, 1:00 p.m., 4:00 p.m.

Johnson County Community College Polsky Theatre 12345 College Blvd., Overland Park

American Indian Cultural

Celebration Presented in partnership with the Kansas City Indian Center.

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Sunday, Sept. 30 | 1–4 p.m.

FREE 8/13/12 5:09 PM

Tickets: $35 ($20 is tax-deductible) For more information, visit www.jlwjc.org Recommended for children 6 and up American Girl Fashion Show is licensed from American Girl Programs. All American Girl trademarks, names, and characters are trademarks of American Girl, used under license.

All rights reserved.

YMCA Kids’ Night Out 5:00 (Paul Henson), 5:30 (Olathe), 6:00 (Bonner Springs). Enjoy a night out while the kids have fun! KansasCityYMCA.org

10-ACRE

Pumpkin Patch

Englewood Art Walk 5:30, Englewood Shopping District. See artists in action, demonstrations and live music every 3rd Friday. 816.252.3372 Kids’ Night Out 5:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire. Price for the night includes pizza, beverage, pottery piece and fun! 913.661.2529 Parents’ Night Out 6:30, McCracken’s Gymnastics.

Kids participate in group games and fitness activities in the gym. Pizza and drink included. 913.782.8555 Autumn Mooncake Festival Tea Today & tomorrow, 6:30, Anna Marie’s Teas. Sip tea outside, enjoy harvest foods and fellowship! 816.792.8777

14730 K68 Highway, Louisburg, KS 66053

Ciderfest Weekends Sept. 29-30 & Oct. 6-7 8:00am to 6:00pm

CIDER MILL

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SINCE 1977

& Country Store

OPEN 7-DAYS-A-WEEK: Visit our web site for store hours, to shop, or more information.

100% Pure Apple Cider • Craft Booths Moonwalk • Face Painting • Giant Slide Live Entertainment • Pancake Breakfast Wagon Ride • Fresh Cider Donuts

www.louisburgcidermill.com • 913-837-5202 AMAZING 10-ACRE

Witch Corn Maze

September 14 Thru October 31

Stargazing 7:30, KC Sculpture Park, NelsonAtkins. Explore the night sky through telescopes.

816.751.1278

• Puzzling Clues • Play Area • Hay Bale Maze • Wagon Ride • Teepees • Live Music • Farm Animals & Bonfire on • Straw Fort Selected Evenings

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Strutt with Your Mutt 7:00, Brookside. KC’s largest organized dog walk benefits Wayside Waifs.

816.986.4417 Winter Coat, Jacket, Boot Event Children’s Orchard (Olathe, KCMO, Independence). Best selections for fall & winter at Children’s Orchard prices.

ChildOrch.com

Great Food & Plenty Of Old Fashioned Fun!

Friday & Saturday: 10am to 10pm Sunday: 10am to 6pm Weekdays: Groups by Appointment Aerial view from 500 feet.

Friday & Saturday: 7pm to 10pm: Bring a flashlight & go through the maze IN THE DARK!

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A TS for Kids In the Children’s Discovery Garden

For Kids 2–12 Sat. & Sun. Sept. 29-30 11am to 4pm

$6 per person 2 and up

Music Animals Hayrides Nature Crafts Face Painting

Games Prizes Puppetry Treasure Hunt Concessions

Featuring the Overland Park Orchestra on Saturday, the Heartland Ringers on Sunday, Native American Flute both days, and a special craft on Sunday by the Nelson-Atkins Museum

Overland Park Arboretum & Botanical Gardens 1/2 mile west of US 69 Highway at 179th and Antioch • www.opabg.org 2012 Arts for Kids Ad / KC Parent — 5” wide x 5” deep = 1/3 page

Opening Day 9:00, Johnson Farms. Today is the first day of pumpkin season! 816.331.1067 Hopkins Skip and Run 5K 10:00, Rockhurst University. Sign up for this 5K run/walk in honor of Nelson E Hopkins, Jr. Hopkins5K.org Wild West Show Today & tomorrow, 10:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach. Experience live performances and hands-on activities. 913.971.5111 Lowe’s Build ‘n Grow 10:00, Lowe’s Stores. A free workshop for kids to build a wooden project.

LowesBuildAndGrow.com Mother Nature Reads 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Hear a story and learn facts about the animal of the month. 816.513.8960 Photography for Kids 10:00, Overland Park Arboretum. This 2-hour workshop will teach children 9-14 how to take interesting pictures. 913.685.3604 Butterfly Bonanza 10:00, KC Zoo. Celebrate monarch butterflies with games, crafts and hands-on activities. 816.513.5800 Story Time 11:00, Blue Springs Park. Bring a blanket and meet us at Shelter 1 for stories and movement. 816.229.3571 Brer Rabbit 11:00 & 2:00, Puppetry Arts Institute.

Woodland Puppets performs tales from the adventures of Brer Rabbit! 816.833.9777 Music Fest & Back Porch Jam Noon, Watkins Woolen Mill State Park. Bring your musical instruments and join the fun! 816.580.3387

Otherwise Known as Sheila the Great October 30 – 10am & 11:30am Musical suggested for Grades 2-6

Charlotte's Web

Arabian Horse Show Extravaganza 6:00, American Royal. This free event features many classes of horses. 816.221.9800

January 29 – 10am & 11:30am Suggested for Grades K-5

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Laura Ingalls Wilder February 20 – 10am & 11:30am Musical suggested for grades 2-6

Skippyjon Jones March 5 – 10am & 11:30am Suggested for Grades K-3

Music Explorations: A Jazz Journey April 4 - 10:00am & 11:30 am

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Comedy Magic Show 1:00, KC Improv. The funniest magicians are here to entertain the whole family at the Improv! ImprovKC.com

Whisper Walk 7:00, Zona Rosa. Walk in memory of loved ones who have been touched by ovarian cancer. ZonaRosa.com Edible Forts Discovery Station 11:00, Powell Gardens. Join us as we build forts out of edible materials. 816.697.2600 Dear America: Across the Wide and Lonesome Prairie 2:00, The Coterie Theatre. Join two girls on their travels across the Oregon Trail. $10-$15.

816.474.6552 Fall Public Hayrides 2:30, Oak Ridge & SM parks.

Ride a tractor-drawn hay wagon, sit around a campfire and drink apple cider. 913.831.3355

out & about

Shoal Creek Living History Farm 7000 NE Barry Rd., Kansas City, MO 64156 816.792.2655 ShoalCreekLivingHistoryMuseum.com Admission is free. Open daily from dawn until dusk. Some special events require a small fee.

Hot Tips: Dogs are allowed if leashed. Dress casually and wear comfortable shoes (dusty roads pave the way).

Shoal Creek Living History Farm Before You Go The dog days of summer are over, and milder weather is upon us, providing the perfect opportunity to comfortably explore the great outdoors.

When seeking fall fun, look no further than the Shoal Creek Living History Farm, located inside Hodge Park. This picturesque 19th century village is actually a museum that provides a great opportunity for hands-on learning. The farm is open daily, but special events, such as reenactments, school demonstrations and stagecoach rides, are held throughout the year, bringing history to life. Be sure to check out the farm’s event page on the web for more details.

While You’re There Grab a walking tour guide, available at the museum’s entrance and at the information kiosk; it provides a trail map, facts regarding each building and an updated calendar of events.

Bring along a notebook to track how many different local trees you can spot (most of them are marked) and hunt for the window in each building that posts a full detail about its

history. Enjoy a picnic at one of the many tables scattered throughout the grounds, take a stroll down the Wilderness Run Trail and visit with chickens and a duck at the Stollings House chicken coop.

After Your Visit Many exciting activities are scheduled throughout the year, including school programs, a harvest festival and, during the first week of December, a visit from jolly old Saint Nick! The farm provides a fantastic setting for family reunions and special gatherings. If you plan on visiting with a large group, consider making a reservation for a special event like the Victorian Tea. The Shoal Creek Living History Museum has dedicated itself to preserving Missouri’s rich history and architecture. Consider joining in their mission as a volunteer. Interested in visiting other area farms and museums? View a full listing of both at KCParent.com.

Lauren Greenlee enjoys experiencing the sights and sounds of rural farm life, but is thankful for modern technology and life in the suburbs.

She writes from her home in Olathe. spring/summer 2012

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Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Community Center. Children ages 5 and under are invited to run, ride and play while making new friends! 913.541.0209 Rhyme Time 10:15 & 11:00, Indian Creek Library.

Children 12-24 months are invited to a special interactive language enrichment program. 913.971.5235 Beginning Readers 6:30, Antioch Library. Literacyrich books and stories are shared for children 3-5 years. 816.454.1306

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Free Play Cedar Ridge Christian Church. Daily free play for young children while you enjoy a coffee break. 913.393.3000 Toddle Time 9:00-11:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Fun and enriching open playtime for ages 5 and under. $1-$2/child. 913.895.6390 Story Time for Twos 9:30, Westport Library.

Seasonal stories, songs, videos and other learning activities for children 2 and younger. 816.701.3488

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Family Night 4:00, Little Money Bizness. $6 + tax includes pizza and play every Tuesday and Friday!

Socks must be worn. 913.631.7000 After School Canvas Art 4:00, Paint, Glaze & Fire. Explore styles of famous artists on canvas.

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Overland Park Farmers’ Market 7:30, Downtown Overland Park. Bring the kids out for the last Wednesday farmers’ market. OPKansas.org Pop N Play 9:00, Johnson County Museum. Join us for activities designed especially for your 9-monthto 3-year-old child. 913.715.2550 Pinocchio Time Thru July 2013, 10:00, Puppetry Arts Institute. A special exhibit celebrating the 130th anniversary of Pinocchio. 816.833.9777 Breastfeeding Support Group 1:00, Liberty Hospital Education Center. Hosted by a lactation consultant who can support and guide you. 816.781.7200

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Preschool Story Time 1:30, Lee’s Summit Library.

Preschoolers aged 3-5 will enjoy stories, finger plays, music and movement. 816.524.0567

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Purchase Tickets Tickets are on sale now for the ‘Tour of Gymnastics Champions 2012’ at the Sprint Center on October 18. SprintCenter.com Dear America: Across the Wide and Lonesome Prairie 10:00 & 12:00, The Coterie Theatre. Join two girls on their travels across the Oregon Trail. $10$15. 816.474.6552 Evening Wagon Ride and Swales Walk 6:00, National Frontier Trails Museum. An hour-long program you’re sure to enjoy. 816.325.7575 Family Movie Night 6:30, Antioch Library. Every 4th Thursday, join us for a family-friendly movie.

816.454.1306 Becoming Young Women 6:30, Olathe Medical Center. Mother and daughter ages 12-15 attend this class together. Call for details. 913.791.4312 kcparent.com september 2012

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Saint George and the Dragon 7:00, Ward Pkwy Presbyterian Church. Paul Mesner Puppets performs tonight! 816.235.6222

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Applefest Today & tomorrow, Grinter Place. This annual event celebrates harvest with entertainment, food, crafts and more. 913.299.0373 Paint Me a Story 10:30, Paint, Glaze & Fire. Listen to a story while painting a piece of pottery. Snack included. 913.661.2529 Oktoberfest Today (5:00) & tomorrow (9:00), Downtown Lee’s Summit. Enjoy music, carnival, booths, Kids Street and more. Free! 816.524.2424 Fall Fun 6:00, Paradise Park. Fridays thru Oct 27, enjoy a hayride, hot cocoa and s’mores 816.246.5224 American Royal Pro Rodeo Thru Sun, 7:30, Hale Arena. Join us for the 63rd annual American Royal Pro Rodeo! 816.942.3301

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Ciderfest Weekends thru Oct 7, 8:00, Louisburg Cider Mill. Kids’ area, cider donuts, hayrides, vendors, pumpkin rides and more!

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Kids ‘a Cookin’ Jo Co K-State Research & Extension. An enjoyable hands-on cooking lesson for kids ages 7-12. 913.715.7000

Double Ogg Dare Festival 9:00, Shawnee Mission Park. Join us outdoors for our second annual adventure and challenge event. 913.831.3355

Mother Nature Reads 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Hear a story and learn facts about the animal of the month. 816.513.8960

The Overland Park Fall Festival 9:00, Downtown Overland Park. Farmers’ market, parade, arts and crafts, music and more. Free. 913.344.8656

Park University Family Day 11:00, Park University. Visit the Parkville campus for the Park Pirate Family Fun Day. 816.584.6377

CPR 4 Kids 9:00, Olathe Medical Center. This noncertified first aid class is intended for children ages 9-12. 913.791.4312

Comedy Magic Show 1:00, KC Improv. The funniest magicians are here to entertain the whole family at the Improv! ImprovKC.com

Free Zoo Day 9:30, KC Zoo. Jackson and Clay County, MO, residents get in free to the zoo today!

Plan your visit. 816.513.5800

Train Ride 2:00, Belton, Grandview and KC RR. Enjoy a ride on a train similar to a train your grandparents may have ridden. $9. 816.331.0630

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Fall Festival and Parade 10:00, Downtown Overland Park. See our annual parade followed with jazz music and a festival. DowntownOP.org American Royal Parade 10:00, Downtown Kansas City. Join us for a tradition that has been around since 1926. AmericanRoyal.com Tour the Museum 10:00, Legler Barn Museum. Take a guided tour and learn about the history of Lenexa from earlier times to the present.

913.492.0038

Arts for Kids Today & tomorrow, 11:00, OP Arboretum. Hedge apple games, face painting, story tellers, puppets and more! 913.685.3604

Fairy Houses and Forts Storytelling 11:00-2:00, Powell Gardens. Enjoy tales of fairy lore and more!

816.697.2600 American Indian Cultural Celebration 1:00-4:00, Nelson-Atkins. Enjoy an afternoon of dance, art and song. FREE. 816.751.1ART American Royal Pro Rodeo 2:00, Hale Arena at Kemper. See competition in barrel racing, steer wrestling, team roping and bull riding. 816.942.3301

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The National Circus of the People’s Republic of China Fri., Oct. 12 • Thrilling acrobatics • Mind-blowing feats of endurance

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