2. Positive beginnings. A conversation will break down if it starts by confronting with demands, assumptions and complaints. Coming from a place of inquisitiveness will be better received and responded to. Ask open questions instead of questions that can be answered in „Yes or No‟.
“I’m worried that you haven’t been your usual self. Is everything OK?”
At the same time, avoid asking too many questions as being too inquisitive can make them feel pried upon. Rather, a spontaneous conversation during an activity such as, a chat while waiting for a meal etc. can make for some meaningful communication. 3. Listen deeply- Listen deeply and genuinely to what teens say, give them full attention and look at their body language
too.
Even
a
spontaneous
comment about something that happened during the day is her way of reaching out. Communication and cooperation can be easier when they feel that we are listening to their
20
point
of
view.
