14.Give space to learn and think- We learn a whole lot more by making our own mistakes, and thinking things through for ourselves, than we do from being told what to do by someone else. Teenagers are exactly the same. We need to have the confidence in the teen that they can find their own solutions to their problems. Appreciate that the teenager has a different view of the world and respect their opinions. Our role has to gradually move to helping them to think things through it. It is important that we give them the space to do so, and make clear that we are available for discussion if necessary.
“I see that you are thinking and doing things differently”
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“But this is a good thing….you are learning to be your own person”
