November 2009
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The Road to Down Home Ranch... Paved with Unimaginable Joy
Elizabeth Toon
Still Making a Difference in the World
TABLE OF CONTENTS Focus Articles: Publisher: Lee Eddins, H.O.T. Publishing, LLC Lee@AustinFaithandFamily.com (512) 689-2717 Editor: Marcy Lytle Marcy@AustinFaithandFamily.com Contributing Writers: Lee Eddins, Marcy Lytle, Lauren Lacey, Joe Elliot, Dr. John Tuggle, Don Spann, Lauren Turner, David Lawrence, Miranda Bradley, Keith Gravesmill, Cierra Anderson, Laurie Loew Cover Photo: Provided by Elizabeth Toon Charities Art Direction/Graphic Design: Beth Rountree Sales: Brenda Smith (512) 966-1874 Lee Eddins (512) 689-2717 Austin Faith and Family is committed to encouraging individuals in their daily lives by presenting the faith stories of others and providing information that will point every person, at every stage of life, to a deeper, authentic, personal and life-changing encounter with Jesus Christ. Views expressed in Austin Faith & Family do not necessarily represent those of the publisher. Every effort has been made by the Austin Faith & Family staff to ensure accuracy of the publication contents. However, we do not guarantee the accuracy of all information, nor the absences of errors and omissions; hence, no responsibility can be, or is assumed. All Rights Reserved. Copyright 2009 by H.O.T. Publishing, LLC. Scripture taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version, copyright 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of International Bible Society. Austin Faith & Family is published monthly and is available at high traffic locations throughout the metropolitan area. Copies are also available by subscription, $25 for one year. Single issues available for $3 an issue.
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Focus Non-Profit: Down Home Ranch......................................15 Focus Kids: Pajama Program.................................................... 22
Feature Story: Elizabeth Toon: Still Making A Difference In The World...........10-11 Special Features: Impacting the City-Christian Brothers Automotive....................7 A Mission Trip “Amazing Grace”...............................................8 Leadership Filter-Making Vision Portable..................................19 CARES........................................................................................20 Kids With a Mission....................................................................20 Club Realm: Much More Than Your Average Nightclub...........21 Red River Rivalry.........................................................................24 In Every Issue: Letters........................................................................................4 City Scene..................................................................................5 Health Matters...........................................................................6 Back Talk....................................................................................6 Travel: Guess What I Did on Vacation?......................................9 Golf Tips From the Tour.............................................................12 Manhood: The Higher Call.......................................................13 Mommy Time With Miranda: Thanks A Lot...............................14 Top 10: Thanks for “Everything”..............................................16 Catching the Light.....................................................................17 The Home Front: Energy Saving Tips.......................................18 Financial Straight Talk with Dave Ramsey..................................19 Dollars and Sense: Money Saving Tips from Moms Who Shop..21 20 Words....................................................................................24 Student of the Month: Bracken Cox......................................... 24 Don’t Miss..................................................................................25 Daniel and Justin Show..............................................................25 A View From the Blue Roof........................................................26 Rave Reviews.............................................................................27 Upcoming Concerts and Events................................................27 Calendar.....................................................................................28-29 The Back Pew.............................................................................30
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Editor’s
EDITOR’S NOTE
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So Much…
ustin is a place of great abundance, a place full of reasons to be thankful this November. Even in hard times, there are stories, events and people that cause us to look up and give thanks. We have been given so much, so many resources, and so many opportunities to bless others in their need; we can’t help but come with grateful hearts to the Thanksgiving table this year. In this issue, a story of a God-orchestrated mission trip will cause us all to realize that all things truly do “work together for good” to those who are out doing His work. Reading about the kids “with a mission” and how they took their childlike faith to the streets of Austin is inspiring and heart-warming. Maybe you will be challenged to help out with the Pajama Program and thank these people for their efforts, by donating or giving to the children in our area a new pair of PJ’s and a good book to read. Our feature story this month showcases The Elizabeth Toon Charities, which benefits organizations that support families of terminally ill children, children with chronic diseases or children who have physical disabilities. As you read the magazine from cover to cover, be sure to highlight or earmark the pages that contain ways or events where you can give back to your community. We who have been given “so much” still have so much yet to give…
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LETTERS Dear AFF, Thank you for showing us a different side of Michelle Valles. (August 2009) I watch her on the news and have followed her since her KXAN days. She has always been informative, pleasant and enjoyable. Thanks again. –––Ashley F. Dear AFF, I am a loyal reader and have since first seeing you at my doctor’s office. It is great to have a magazine in this area that really impacts the community like yours does. I have learned more about what is going on in the non profit world and what God is doing in our city through your magazine than anywhere else. Keep up the good work. –––Tish B. Dear AFF, I have followed Kristin Armstrong (October 2009) since her Lance days and was so happy to see her grace the cover of the Austin Faith & Family. Seeing how God took a bad situation and used it to help her get through it, while providing the inspiration to help countless other women going through the same thing is truly a miracle. She embodies what being a strong woman is all about! –––Alicia O.
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Alex and Nicole Hit the Streets Promoting Frontline
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ocal personalities Alex and Nicole Hutchenson with Collage Ministries stopped around town to promote the Frontline Conference that was held on October 30 and 31. They showed up at Family Christian Stores for the Fireproof Prevention Event. They were joined by the Austin Faith & Family as well as local Austin firemen.
Table for One: Singles Conference
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n October 16 and 17, First Baptist Church of Pflugerville held its first Table For One: Singles Conference. Among the speakers in attendance were Travis Twyman, Senior Pastor of the Inland Vineyard Christian Fellowship in California, as well as Todd Phillips, the teaching pastor of Frontline, a generational church-within-achurch at McLean Bible Church near Washington D.C. There were over three thousand young adults attending at four campuses. Musical guests were Casey Corum, Chrism, Jeremy Riddle and FBC of Pflugerville’s very own praise band, By Design. Lee Eddins
Matt Sullivan with Family Christian Stores, Adela Cochrun, Nicole and Alex and Mike Dear with members of the Austin Fire and Police departments.
Food was provided by Papa Johns and Einstein Bros. Bagels. They also showed up at the Fields of Faith event held at Round Rock High School on the 14th inviting people to attend Frontline.
John Harris FBCP Singles Pastor and Todd Phillips
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Jeremy Riddle
Nicole, Matt Neidig, Ryan Frusha, Kristian Tucker, Griffin Reeder and Nicole
Casey Corum
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The Holidays are Coming!
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an you believe it’s already November? Yes, the holidays are just around the corner. It doesn’t matter if we are ready or not, they will be here soon with lots of food, food, food! There seems to be something nice about sitting around a table with loved ones eating until we are stuffed, not saving room for dessert, but having some anyway. Catching up on what’s going on in our lives, going shopping and seeing a range of colorful, tempting goodies that are wonderfully packaged and calling you to buy them and eat them– what a fun time of year. We know it’s coming, so let’s get ready for it. The average American gains 7-10 pounds between Thanksgiving and New Years. And even worse, most keep that weight on despite any “New Years Resolutions” they may make. So let’s get prepared to not be a part of this statistic. Eating. Maintaining control during this time of year can be a huge challenge. There is nothing wrong with celebrating the holidays with food and festivities. If you know you have a party to go to, don’t starve yourself during the day. This will make you more likely to overindulge. Instead, eat smaller healthy meals throughout the day. Even without parties, there are hidden temptations all around us. Those rich, sugary foods have a nasty habit of making us crave yet more rich and sugary foods. This is why it is so critical to make sure to eat as healthy as possible.
feelings. It’s simple. If you are not hungry, then don’t eat. All you have to do is say “No thank you, I’m not hungry” or if need be, simply say “That looks great, can I take one to eat later?” Then when you see the nearest trash can, throw it away. Another guilt behavior we may have adopted from our parents is to eat everything on our plate. If you find that you are full and you still have food left on your plate, leave it. The starving kids in a third world country won’t get that food if it is in the trash can or in your stomach. And if it does end up in your stomach it will manifest itself permanently on your body. Do you really want that to happen?
Movement Matters: How Exercise can Improve your Mood and Attitude.
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id you know that you can improve your mood and attitude at the same time that you condition your body? Physical exercise is a crucial part of keeping your body working in top condition, but it also elevates mood and helps to keep you positive. Researchers in Vermont recently conducted a survey where they had participants perform moderately intense aerobic exercise, and then surveyed them about their moods at intervals thereafter. They also surveyed a control group who did not exercise. Not only did the exercise group experience a better mood right after Exercise. If exercise is not a part of your the exercise, but the mood boost lasted regular schedule, then the time to start up to 12 hours in many of the is now. The benefits of exercise go way participants! They also found that beyond weight loss and maintenance, people who did moderate aerobic but it will surely help you through exercise were more able to deal with this stressful time of year. If you develop the stresses that occur in everyday life the habit now, you are more likely to without getting as upset as their nonstick with it when things start to get exercising counterparts. hectic and hopefully continue after the Any sort of exercise can be used to New Year starts. boost your mood. Making it something So, are we ready to tackle the holidays? that you enjoy can make it a lot easier Just think of how proud you will be when to get yourself started, though. Do you everyone else complains about the hate going to the gym? Maybe playing weight they put on and you will be basketball would be a better way for bragging that you stayed even, or that you to exercise. Despise jogging? (I you even lost weight. That will be know how you feel!) Maybe riding a bike is more your style. Any way that something to be proud of. you do it, increasing your heart rate for at least 20 minutes per day has vastly Lauren Lacy positive effects on your physical and Fitness Coordinator mental health. CHASCO Family YMCA
So what causes exercise to elevate your mood in such a way? The chemicals
responsible for this are called endorphins. When scientists discovered it, they named it “endogenous (meaning from within) morphine” because of the effects that it has on the brain. They later shortened it to endorphins, because that word is a lot easier to say than “endogenous morphine”. These endorphins work in the brain to block pain pathways and stimulate dopamine release, which also elevates your mood. Unlike exogenous (from outside the body) drugs; however, endorphins carry none of the negative effects of pharmaceuticals. Don’t be surprised if you get addicted to exercise because of how good it makes you feel! Depending on the individual, it takes 36 weeks to form a habit. See if you can make a habit out of exercising. It may well be the best habit you ever develop! Dr. Tuggle (512) 257-2225
Just say no. Many of us feel bad saying no, so we will take whatever is offered to us, making certain not to hurt anyone’s
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SPECIAL FEATURE Impacting the City-Christian Brothers Automotive
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n October 10, 2009 all Christian Brothers Automotive locations joined together to Impact the City with their fourth citywide Single Moms Oil Change. The way it works is that for the months leading up to the event, single moms from all over the city can go online and register for their complimentary oil change. On the day of the event, at all Christian Brothers Automotives, they literally donate the better part of the day to being the literal hands and feet of the body of Christ.
Keith Guyton, Nikki Adams, Chip and Diane Jennings, Mark Crossland, Rich Mannix, Gus Gomez, Jim Shields, Curtis Roberson, Cameron Hobbs with the Round Rock CB
This year they performed over 250 oil changes for single moms. I got the chance to volunteer for the second year in a row. It was such a blessing to be a part of the ministry that Christian Brothers performs in their community and the impact that it makes.
Volunteers washing windows at the Round Rock location
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Watching ladies come in and literally be washed by the water that flows from the lives of the volunteers who give of their time, talent and resources is amazing. In years past, they have even washed the cars, vacuumed them, cleaned them up entirely on the inside and on some occasions, through donations of other local businesses, been able to repair broken windshield wipers or an air filter and minor repairs, if noticed or needed. This year, because of a city ordinance due to the drought, they were unable to wash the cars, but they cleaned the windows, vacuumed and cleaned the inside of the cars as well. Christian Brothers Automotive Group in the Austin, TX market is a true example of the impact that the body of Christ can have upon a city. As a person who knows what it is like growing up with out a father, this ministry hits home with me, especially. I know firsthand what it is like to lose a father to a car accident at a very early age and have a mom turned into a single mom in a second, having her world rocked beyond measure. I personally want to thank Christian Brothers Automotive for Impacting the City. Keep up the good work!
Daniel and Justin with Phil of the Cedar Park CB
Church volunteers at the Cedar Park CB
Volunteers outside of the Cedar Park location
If you know of a business or person who Impacts the City, please let us know! Lee Eddins
Daniel and Justin eating donuts and washing windows
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SPECIAL FEATURE A Mission Trip of “Amazing Grace”
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pproximately 70 people chose to go on a mission trip to Panama this summer. The 70 people were split into three teams. It was obvious that the teams were handpicked by God. My team, Agua Viva (meaning 'Living Water' in Spanish) had 23 people in it, including our Team Leaders. Everyone in my team immediately clicked and throughout the two weeks, we bonded like a family. We met in Garden Valley, Texas but our destination was the San Blas Islands in Panama. A six hour plane ride, three hour bus ride and 2 1/2 hour boat ride later, we arrived at Soledad Miria. Each team had their own island. Our island was only half a mile long but had about 1000 people on it! We arrived at Soledad Miria after a difficult boat ride.
More than half our team got badly seasick. We stumbled onto the dock, just happy to be on land. Almost immediately, the village kids came to check out who had landed on their island. We began to play with them while our Team Leaders, Larry and Meredith, worked out where we were supposed to stay. Turns out, our translators didn't show up and the island natives didn't know we were coming. On top of that, none of our food or water showed up either. The island people, called the Kuna Indians, spoke some Spanish but mostly their native tongue, Tule. With our limited Spanish, we were somehow able to get it across to them that we were supposed to be staying on the island. They brought us to a large hut where we proceeded to try and set up our hammocks and make ourselves as “at home.” Still, we were presented with a problem. We had no food or water. Best case scenario - it would show up sometime tomorrow. Somehow, the Kuna people found out about our plight and cooked us dinner. I was a bit nervous but the food was actually quite delicious! Our supplies showed up the next day, but our translators, Spanish bibles and tracts did not. One of our main ministry tools
on the island was Vacation Bible School, which we did everyday for the kids. Thankfully, most of the kids spoke Spanish, so with the combined knowledge of our team and Josh, a person on the team who was about half way fluent in Spanish, we were able to pull VBS off quite successfully day after day. As we continued our stay on the island, people began to grow frustrated. Without our translators, we were unable to speak with the Kuna people. We were not able to share the Gospel with them or tell them about Jesus Christ. Instead, we spent the time just working for them and building relationships with no communication. The work we did for them included laundry, shaving coconuts, peeling potato-like vegetables, cleaning, cooking and hauling sand from a boat to the island. My team learned how to show the Kuna people Christ's love without words. Half way through our stay on the island, it became apparent that even thought the Kuna people were kind, there was something sinister on the island. The Kuna people were into heavy witchcraft and we could feel the spiritual warfare and evil that had a grip on the island. The hut that we stayed in was actually located in between two witchdoctors’ huts. We often heard chanting and a baby crying and coughing at night. Our island had no church and no Christians on it. We knew that we were planting the seeds for future people to come. We continually prayed for some kind of follow-up, someone to come and tell the Kuna people about Jesus, since we couldn't. On the second to last day, we were invited to speak in front of the Sila (the head chief of the island) and most of the island people the following day. This was a big opportunity. Immediately we began to plan a program that we could present to him. Unfortunately, that same day Josh (our most fluent Spanishspeaker) got a foot infection and was put out of commission. He had to take a boat ride to another island that had a hospital. We managed to pull VBS together quite well, but only with the help of Chris, who somehow remembered the lines to the skit we had planned to do, even though he had learned the skit three years earlier. However, we didn't know what we would do about the program if we didn't have someone to translate for us. That night, Josh came back from the hospital, his foot was treated, and he was well. With him, came our Spanish bibles, tracts and a translator! But Nicole wasn't an official translator, she was just a girl from another island who chose to give up her island and her team to go where God was calling her and come help us for our last day. continued on page 23
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TRAVEL Guess What I Did on Vacation?
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arents, brace yourselves! Teens’ expectations for family vacations just got higher--and a lot more active. When asked what makes a dream vacation for them, teens say they would most like to brag to their friends about a once-in-a-lifetime activity. Here are some interesting results to a poll conducted online within the United States among 1000 youth ages 8-17. Source:
http://www.prnewswire.com/ article from June 2007
• About 4 in 5 Teens desire a unique vacation event or activity that will provide them with bragging rights and about 3 in 4 parents want the same for their children. • More than half of teens say their parents join in on their adventurous activities, while only 14% say their parents want to be left alone. • Teens favor real-life action on vacation, such as participating in adventurous activities (84%) to playing video games at their hotel (16%). • More than half of teens want to tell their friends that they swam with dolphins on their vacation. Other aspects that make up a teen's dream vacation include: exploring a new place (68%), seeing a celebrity (49%), meeting a new friend (42%) and spending time with family (36%). So, where do you go to get both a “Wow Factor” from the kids and from Mom & Dad? How can you find a vacation to please everyone? Here are just a few favorites: Cowhand/Dude Ranches: all you need are some cowboy boots and a wide brimmed hat for this one. Starting right here in Texas and all over the U.S., there are “dude ranches” that pack a lot of firsts for those normally bored teens: hayrides, lasso lessons, and horseback riding. Many will even allow the kids to pick hen eggs, clean out stalls, brush down the
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horses and more. The evenings wind down with S’Mores and music by the bonfire. Snow Resorts: ski, snowmobile, snowboard, snow angels, sledding, dog sledding, etc…Winter playgrounds have quite an appeal for all ages. From the options in the U.S., to Canada and Europe, snow resorts are plentiful. Mornings spent out on a fresh blanket of snow are such a great way to relax and unwind from the stress of work and life. There’s also incredible family bonding time as everyone has something to share over a cup of hot cocoa. Tropical Resorts: some of the top travel destinations in the world are found near beaches. With beaches come water sports, diving adventures, sea life sites and incredible nature scenes. Top picks are: Mexico, Caribbean and Hawaii for families. Hot these days are the all-inclusive resorts where all of your accommodations, food, beverages and activities are included in the price. Most have kids programs for all ages at no additional cost. A trip to the tropics will create memories of ocean waves, stars shining, colorful flowers and family time spent in a very special place. Amusement Parks: for a day, a few days, a week or longer, what kid does not love an amusement park? Close to home we have Sea World, Fiesta Texas and Schlitterbaun. #1 on everyone’s list, both old and young, is Disney World. However, each state has many hidden treasures. Thrill seeking teens will be boasting for years about the roller coaster they rode. Cruise Ships: many would place this as THE VERY BEST family vacation for any age. Not only are there endless activities offered onboard, but there are teen areas and special events. Of course, each stop at a port can bring its own adventures: Bobsled in Jamaica, Parasail on Maui, hiking in the rainforests in South America, and on and on and on.. There are cruise lines that match every style and price range. Teens are sure to love this one.
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FEATURE STORY
Elizabeth Toon
Still Making a Difference in the World
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n Christ, there are no goodbyes, and in Christ, there is no end; so I'll hold onto Jesus with all that I have, to see you again.
This is how Bart Millard, lead singer of quite arguably the greatest Christian band of our time, MercyMe, puts it when he sings the popular song “Homesick”. “Homesick” is a song that describes a person on earth who rejoices for their deceased loved one because they know that their faith in Jesus has transcended them into a better place. Knowing ultimately that all of us have a home far better than any we could ever imagine, “Homesick” beautifully puts into words the emotion that someone on earth can be homesick for what they’ve never seen, what they know awaits them; especially when someone they love is already there. As a father of four, I cannot think of anything worse than outliving one of my kids. This is the nightmare of any parent; the reading of their child’s obituary. That is exactly what Larry and Patti Toon had to do the morning of November 10, 2006 when the Dallas Morning News showed up in their front yard. The name and picture of their beloved daughter Elizabeth, who had colored so many lives with
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joy, laughter and kindness, displayed oddly enough in black and white. Elizabeth grew up in Dallas and attended Highland Park High School. She graduated in May of 2002, soon packed her things, and like many college freshman (at least the ones who wanted to attend the best school in Texas) enrolled in the University of Texas at Austin. Her dad drove Elizabeth and her things down to Hardin House dorm on campus, thus beginning her journey to adulthood. Elizabeth was a big UT fan and had always dreamed about the day she would be a Longhorn. Elizabeth’s passion for UT was so strong she broke the family tradition of being a Red Raider and became only one of the six family members to not attend Texas Tech. Claire Moore, who lived with Elizabeth all four years while attending UT, put it this way when asked about her memories of Elizabeth, “It was like she had so much joy in her, it would not be contained. She just had this spark.” This is one of the many ways she colored her world. “If she was in a room, it was brighter, and talking with her just seemed to automatically put a smile on your face,” Ms. Moore also said. Elizabeth was excited to
break that Red Raider tradition to attend UT, and made the most of her time in Austin. After starting school in the Fall of 2002, she became a Kappa and quickly merged into the UT football season, making friends with every new person she met. She was one of those familiar faces that could brighten up any classroom. Elizabeth also got a rare opportunity to go to Washington D.C. as an intern for First Lady Laura Bush and spent a semester working in Washington on the 2004 Presidential election campaign. After she graduated from UT in 2006 with a Bachelor’s Degree in Communications, Elizabeth set off to Los Angeles, CA to start her career. She ultimately wanted to work behind the scenes as a line producer. Line producers are the ones who manage movie budgets and are usually considered to be the head of production on any film project. She had settled for a humble start to what was supposed to be a long career in film, and had taken a position at International Creative Management (ICM) as Assistant to the Head Legal Counsel. She was continuing on the path she had set out for herself and was beginning to make her dreams a reality.
On November 5, 2006 life as everyone knew it would suddenly change. This day started just like any other, but now lives on as a day that so many people realized how precious life truly is, and how quickly in one moment things can change. As Elizabeth crossed the street in Los Angeles, she was tragically killed in a hit-and-run car accident. In that moment, a life so precious and so full of love was suddenly taken. On November 10th an estimated 3,000 people said goodbye to Elizabeth on her 23rd birthday at her funeral in Dallas. It was a true testament to how many lives Elizabeth had touched in her short 23 years on Earth. Somehow (although it is hard to imagine something good coming from such a tragedy) through this premature loss of Elizabeth Toon, there have been countless lives touched. Upon her death, a small group of her friends gathered in a living room to discuss how Elizabeth would want to make a difference in the world, and there started the Elizabeth Toon Foundation, which has since changed to Elizabeth Toon Charities. Elizabeth was blessed with a heart so full of love that it seemed to spill over in her eyes, her face, and her beautiful smile. Those who knew her
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recognized this to be the love of her Savior, Jesus Christ. Their goal is to love with Elizabeth's kind of love, a love that makes a difference. When others are touched by this kind of love, they know it, remember it, and are forever changed by it. Elizabeth colored her world with the kind of love that, if everyone displayed, would truly change the world. Through her example, the Charity seeks to do just that. Since Elizabeth Toon Charities was founded, they have made a difference in the lives of countless children. The board and committee have chosen charities that are near and dear to the hearts and places they know Elizabeth would be helping, if she were here today. Camp Just Like Me is a one-week camp for Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children (TSRHC) patients who have been diagnosed with arthrogryposis, a muscle disorder that limits the range of motion in the joints. TSRHC founded Camp Just Like Me in 2000 to connect families and provide an opportunity for children who have arthrogryposis to be around others who are “just like them”. The camp is held at Peaceable Kingdom Retreat for Children and offers four different programs, including Baby Day, ages 5-12, Teen Track, and Parent Programming. Camp activities include fishing, swimming, horseback riding, hiking, ropes course, climbing tower, zip line, recreational theater, archery and more.
Out on a Limb is also a week-long camp for Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children (TSRHC) patients who have multiple limb differences. TSRHC offers this camp to allow children with similar conditions the opportunity to bond with one another and create new friendships. Camp activities include horseback riding, a ropes course, fishing, swimming, arts and crafts, miniature golf and more. There is no cost for families of patients to attend this camp, and through generous donations and support of Elizabeth Toon Charities, they will be able to continue to keep it that way. Over the past three years, the Charity has made a huge connection with the children and has enjoyed the special bond they have made with them, especially a specific camper named Blaine Balliett. Elizabeth Toon
Charities first met Blaine at their second annual fundraising event in May of 2008, and Blaine has become a spokesperson and advocate for the organization. “People have a purpose on this earth and maybe it was Elizabeth’s purpose to bring people together to do good for others.” Blaine has said. ETC has also contributed to Camp John Marc and The Rise School of Dallas. It is through support of organizations such as these, ones that directly affect the lives of children in need, that Elizabeth is able to continue her passion for getting involved and making a difference in the world. With the mission of continuing Elizabeth's legacy of love, faith, and caring in the lives of children and their families in need, Elizabeth Toon Charities has made a major impact on children’s charities. In its short three years of existence, the Charity has raised over $1,000,000. When I sat down at Texenza Coffee at Tech Ridge to discuss Elizabeth Toon Charities with Jessica Gates, the Executive Director, and C.L. Baskin, who is on the Board of Trustees for the Charity, he said something to me that really made an impact. He told me that they really watch any expenditure that goes out for anything other than children, because they know that “any money spent (in this way), is money that does not go to help out a child”. This attitude is the reason Elizabeth Toon Charities helps, and will continue to help,
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those organizations that make a difference in children’s lives. In addition to helping children, the charity has given money to help restore something very sacred to them. There is a church that was built over 100 years ago in 1886 that people refer to as The Old Rock Church, and this very special place is where Elizabeth knew she wanted to get married, from the day she first stepped foot in this magical place. Her father was not able to give her away to an earthly companion at that Old Rock Church, but instead it was where he laid her to rest to go be with her Heavenly Father. Elizabeth Toon Charities has set up a fund to restore the church to its 1886 splendor where it will serve as a beautiful site for future weddings and other celebrations. On November 14, 2009, Elizabeth Toon Charities is presenting MercyMe for a benefit concert at the Austin Music Hall. Proceeds from the concert will be used to continue to make a difference in lives of kids in Central Texas, like local programs Wonders and Worries, Any Baby Can and Austin Sunshine Camps. For more information on Elizabeth Toon Charities, please visit their website www.elizabethtoon.org or contact their Executive Director, Jessica Gates, at Jessica@elizabethtoon.org or 214-438-6445.
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Golf Tips From the Tour with J.L. Lewis By: J.L. Lewis
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Emotions on the Golf Course and Kenny Perry. These players are able to stay in the present moment, allowing them to focus their attention on playing the next shot well. The ability to stay in the present is a key to success on and off the course.
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motions have an impact on performance. Focusing on the positive and putting your attention on success will lead to positive results. More times than I can count over the years, good rounds of golf have been altered or ruined by a poor shot or bad hole. When golfers become upset with themselves or others before or during a round of golf, it can affect their game and score adversely. When bad shots happen, the reaction to the shot can determine how the rest of the round will play out. There are great players who rarely become outwardly upset; players like Vijay Singh, Fred Couples, Davis Love, Jeff Ogilvy, Jim Furyk,
The first step in controlling emotions on the golf course is becoming aware of the emotions and how they affect your actions. Decide if the emotions and corresponding actions are beneficial or detrimental to your golf game. The key here is to have conscious awareness of your emotional responses, so that you can make a conscious effort to change the non-optimal behavior. Acknowledging and fully experiencing unwanted emotion will allow it to dissipate so that you can quickly become present for the next shot. Be willing to acknowledge the emotion as it arises. Tiger is a master at this. He does not stuff his emotions, and he easily releases the emotion so that he can masterfully hit the next shot. Another way to let a bad shot go is to immediately replay the shot in your mind’s eye with perfect execution and finishing on
the intended target. The subconscious does not differentiate between the visualized shot and a shot hit physically, so always finish with the perfect shot in mind. This will refocus the attention back to the positive and will anchor the intended outcome. Focusing on the positive is an excellent way to reduce negative emotions on the course and improve scoring. Acknowledge every good shot. If you hit a shot that didn’t hit the chosen target, find something about that shot that was performed well. It may be that you hit your chosen line, or the shot was the right distance. Keep the focus on positive results. Benjamin Disraeli once said, "Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go any higher than you think." A sure way to success is to practice this exercise until it becomes a habit. The golf course is an excellent place to practice handling emotions. Creating positive habits on the golf course will transfer to other areas of life, improving scores and results, on and off the course.
1. Remember in prayer the many who are sick of our church and community. 2. For those of you who have children and don't know it, we have a nursery downstairs. 3. At the evening service tonight, the sermon topic will be "What is Hell?" Come early and listen to our choir practice. 4. Irving Benson and Jessie Carter were married on October 24 in the church. So ends a friendship that began in their school days. 5. The sermon this morning: "Jesus Walks on the Water." The sermon tonight: "Searching for Jesus."
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MANHOOD: The Higher Call
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any men think that being a man is somehow about how cool they are or how tough they are. I sometimes wonder if the reason why our prisons are full and running over is because of the stigma associated with manhood, trying to prove who is the bigger man. How many crimes have been committed simply because two
men could not just walk away or let something go? Recently, I heard a man asked for an explanation of a hurtful action and his response was, “We don’t need to justify ourselves to you.” This attitude is not what manhood is all about. It is not only contrary from true manhood; it is far away from a Christ-like attitude. All over the world right
now, as you are reading this, there are bars, casinos, strip clubs, brothels and porn shops all full of men who have this same attitude and this same thought process. These places are filled with millions of lost children whom God loves, because there have been generations after generations of men who have had the attitude that they don’t have to answer to
anyone, and they don’t have to justify themselves to anyone. We as a society are bombarded with the notion that we don’t have to answer to anyone. This lie has permeated our culture and we have created a generation of men who have this preconceived notion that they should have their “space” and their “me” time. This is great, and there is nothing wrong with getting away from it all briefly, but be careful that your “space” does not put you in a space that will get you in trouble or lead you into situations where you should not be. Remember, the oath you made to your wife and the kids that God has given you is the oath you answer to. There are many wrecked homes full of children who wish that someone had just taught their daddy that they do have to answer to someone, and that they do have a responsibility to guard their eyes and their hearts with the truth. Real manhood is a realization that we always answer to our families and we are to love and protect them with all of our hearts. As Christians, we are in the business of presenting ourselves to a lost and dying world daily, and demonstrating that there is a higher purpose and call on our lives. True Christ-like Christianity, lived out with a fraction of the humility displayed on the cross, means never having the attitude that raises one’s own self above others. It also includes the realization that we do answer to others, even when we don’t want to, and even when we think someone is unjustified in asking us to do so. There is only one who is worthy to be lifted above me and above you, and he is a special kind of man - a God kind of man - Jesus. As we face challenges day in and day out, while here on earth, we are always to react to difficult situations in a manner pleasing to Christ. Next time you are challenged, take a second, think about how a real man of God would react, and then react His way.
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Make a Thankful Tree As a prelude to our forthcoming Tannenbaum, my family has decided to make a thankful tree. I’ve even asked my extended family to take part. Basically, we have taken a naked tall limb and secured it inside a styrofoam circle which is then placed inside a decorative pot. Each day, as we think of something to be thankful for, we write it on a sheet of colorful construction paper and tie it to the bare limbs. I’ve asked my mother to e-mail me hers and my grandmother will be mailing me her thanks, which I will then transcribe onto the paper to be secured to the “tree.” On Thanksgiving, we’ll read each one aloud so we can remember what we truly hold dear in our hearts. It’s a great way to get into the true spirit of the season.
You’ve Got Mail A friend suggested a similar craft with a wreath. Instead of heading to Hobby Lobby, all you have to do is dip into your construction paper stash. Let your children trace their hand prints onto different colored papers. Once they are finished, cut out the “hands” and fashion them into a wreath. You can even add ribbon if you want. Allow your kids to write their thanks on their own hands and then mail the wreath to your next of kin, with instructions to write in their thanks as well. Then it is their duty to mail the wreath to the next person in line until the wreath makes it back to you. Grandparents love this, by the way. When you are done, hang it on your door or display it on the fridge. If you want, you can even make a wreath for each set of grandparents in the family as a keepsake. Pay It Forward You may have heard about the “pay it forward” movement sweeping the nation. If you haven’t, let me clue you in. All around the country, customers at everything from dry cleaners to coffee shops are paying for the unsuspecting customer behind them. This may sound crazy, but if so, then sign me up for the loony bin. I think they have the right idea. What better way for you to demonstrate generosity to your kids than to make a stranger’s day? Sure, it may just be a $5 cup of joe, but to someone down on their luck, it’s a
bright shining ray of hope that humanity is still alive and well. These are not earth-shattering, worldchanging suggestions. However, they just may alter your universe a little, if not uplift it for a moment. And in this dim economy, couldn’t we all use some lift? Trust me. I’m pretty sure when you add some appreciation to your life you’ll not only smile more; you’ll thank me for the suggestion. Add that to your tree.
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hat do you do when you’re in your 40’s, the kids are almost grown, you’re looking forward to the empty nest, and you find out you’re pregnant? First, you panic. Then you see the doctor, who had lots of questions. Did we want the baby? Absolutely! Was I willing to go to bed for three months if ordered to do so? I would. Were we aware that our risk for having a baby with Down syndrome was pretty high? Not so sure about that one… When Miss Kelly Page Horton appeared many months later, and the doctor informed us she did have Down syndrome, my husband Jerry despaired. In the parking lot, leaving the hospital, he begged God to “take away this burden.” He was fearful of what it all meant for us, for our family. God did as he was asked, and took away the burden, and gave our family unimaginable joy in raising the cutest, funniest, most beguiling baby ever bestowed on lucky parents.
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But few aced daunting challenges: As older parents, we had no time to spare in making arrangements for the lifetime care our tiny daughter would need when she left the nest. We knew we could arrange for a roof, food, and clothing when the time came, but we worried. Where would the community to nurture her come from? After careful investigation, we decided that a village community offered our daughter her best chance for a good life. Village communities are fairly self-contained—five or six homes, amenities, a work program. There she would have real friends and caring staff who would keep her engaged and moving forward in life. However, there was nothing similar to what we envisioned in the Austin area. We thought about starting one, and our little church helped us discern whether or not we should. Our pastor said, “Whatever you do, don’t let money make the decision. If it’s to be, the money will come.” In 1991, we cashed in our retirement, sold our house, and with only a dream and a few thousand dollars, moved to the land between Elgin and Taylor that is now Down Home
Ranch. We became fundraisers (“professional beggars” Jerry said) and bit by bit the dream became reality, through the gifts of time and talent from an amazing array of people, churches, service clubs, and businesses. Once we paid the land off, foundations helped us build houses, camp facilities, greenhouses, and other structures—like our swimming pool, barn and gym. Today Down Home Ranch is a thriving community of 21 full-time residents, called “Ranchers,” plus 15 other caring folks (including Jerry and me). Together we care for the Ranch—cleaning the buildings, tending the horses and donkeys, planting our annual crop of poinsettias for the Christmas season, and generally just doing what needs to be done, to keep the Ranch going. Not only that, we also have over 400 campers come for a weekend during fall and winter, or a full week of camp during the summer. All of our campers have intellectual disabilities, and they range in ages from 13 to 65. Our Ranchers have plenty of free time to get together in the evenings and watch a movie or play games. They give back to the community through volunteering at thrift
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shops and food pantries. They participate in Special Olympics and take a cruise every year. It’s a wonderful, abundant life, all because of a gift we never asked for, but were so blessed to receive—our beautiful daughter born 25 years ago. Thanks be to God! Down Home Ranch is a 501 (c) (3) charity, located on 340 acres in southeastern Williamson and northeastern Lee Counties. For more information go to: www.downhomeranch.org.
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Give thanks for your body and the way you are made. Comparing yourself with others may have given you low self esteem. However, you were created beautiful in his sight, so give thanks for every little thing that makes you unique, and stop comparing. It’s exhausting.
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Give thanks for the neighbor who annoys you. We mature and grow in patience and kindness, when someone comes along in our life and pushes our buttons.
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Give thanks for the vacation you haven’t had yet. Maybe you’re strapped for money, or your kids occupy all your time and spend all your money, but try giving thanks anyway. Don’t give up dreaming, but enjoy the moments you have now. Give thanks for the days when you want to pull your hair out. If your house is a mess, the kids are screaming, and you are very tired, sit down in the middle of it all and laugh. Laugh out loud. It will be healing to your bones.
Give thanks for laundry. Piles of laundry means you have lots of clothes to wear, socks to lose, and towels to fold. This is a good thing.
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Give thanks for repairs. It’s a given; the things we have break down. They get old and need replacement parts, and this costs money. Hard earned money. However, be glad you have things to repair – appliances, cars, TV’s and lawn mowers. You are indeed blessed.
Give thanks for rainy, cold days. Build a fire. Drink hot cider. Stay inside and play a game, listen to a new CD, put your pictures in photo albums, take a nap. Rainy, cold days make us appreciate the sunny warm ones.
Give thanks for your job. It may not pay enough, it may be very hard, it may require long hours, and the people there may be extremely hard to work with. Pray for relief, pray for your co-workers and pray for provision. Sit back and see what happens. Give thanks for speed limit signs. They slow us down and remind us that we’re not alone on the road – there are others around us. There are speed limit signs in our lives spiritually as well, reminding us to slow down and enjoy the journey.
Give thanks for our President. Whether you voted for him or not, he deserves honor and at the very least, our prayers. Give thanks that God sees every decision made on the earth, and He is in control.
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Catching the Light...
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amilies that pray together and play together, grow together. Below is a small sample of the type of family devotions you will find in Catching Fireflies, written by Marcy Lytle. Take one evening, gather the family together, and catch the light from God’s word as you have fun doing it! (www.marcylytle.com) A Book of Thanks You will need construction paper for each person, in the colors below (you can cut them in half, for a smaller version), along with markers and any fall stickers, leaves or twigs. As you read along, write the words in bold (below) on the front and back of each sheet, and then illustrate the pages. Share with each other your personal thanks, as you work together as a family. Staple the pages together when completed, for your own “Book of Thanks”.
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a BLOOPER in your life (a disappointment, a failure, etc.) RED–Give thanks for something REAL in your life on the red page (an object – like clothes, a toy, etc.) and on the back of the red page give thanks for something RUINED (like a game that was rained out, or ice cream that dropped on the floor.) BROWN–Give thanks for some kind of BONUS in your life on the brown page (excellent vision, you run fast, etc.), then on the back of the brown page give thanks for BUTTERFLIES (something in your life that was really cool but now it’s gone, like a vacation or a friend who moved, etc.) WHITE–On the white page, give thanks for a WOW (something that wows you, like a sunset or a rainbow), and on the back of the white page give thanks for a WISH that hasn’t come true yet (maybe you wish to grow tall, or you wish for a new puppy…) PINK–Give thanks for a specific PERSON in your life on the pink page. (a teacher, a parent, etc.) On the back of the pink page give thanks for something that is a PAIN in your life (homework, chores, etc.).
GREEN – Write a thanksgiving for something that is GROWING in your heart (for example, faith, trust, obedience, etc.) On the back of the green page, give thanks for something that is GOING out of your heart (for example, bad attitudes, fear, etc.).
ORANGE–On the orange page, give thanks for something about the OCEAN (its bigness, seashells, etc.). On the back of the orange page, give thanks for something OLD (a favorite old blanket, a grandparent, etc.).
BLUE–On the blue page, write a thanksgiving for a BLESSING in your life (a good family, a nice home, etc.) and on back of the blue page, give thanks for
Read I Thessalonians 5:16-18. We can give thanks for the good and the not so good, because God works it all out!
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chargers and other devices that don't need to be plugged in. When you detach your cell phone or similar device from its charger, unplug the charger too. To simplify even further, plug all your chargers into a power strip and shut the entire power strip off. Electronics plugged into an outlet are still using energy, even when not in use. That goes for kitchen appliances too, like toasters and coffee pots!
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Water Heater Insulate Your Existing Water Heater. If your electric water heater was installed before 2004, installing an insulating jacket is one of the most effective do-it-yourself energysaving projects, especially if your water heater is in an unheated space. The insulating jacket will reduce standby heat loss—heat lost through the walls of the tank—by 25–40%, saving 4–9% on your water heating bills. Water heater insulation jackets are widely available for around $10. Always follow directions carefully when installing an insulation jacket.
purchased within the last 5–10 years do a superb job of cleaning even heavily soiled dishes. If you find you must rinse dishes first, get in the habit of using cold water. The rinse feature in a dishwasher typically uses only 1 to 2 gallons of water. Lighting Compact fluorescent lamps (CFLs) are a highly efficient alternative to standard incandescent bulbs. A single 20-watt CFL will provide the same amount of light as a 75-watt incandescent light bulb and last up to seven times longer. Because CFLs use less energy and last longer, you will save up to several times their purchase price each year through reduced electricity bills and fewer replacement bulbs. Worried about the mercury in the bulb? You can recycle the bulbs at the large home improvement stores.
Dishwashing Avoid Hand-Washing. Studies are showing more and more that, when used to maximize energy-saving features, modern dishwashers can outperform all but the most frugal hand washers.
Switch to LED Holiday Lights. Decorative LED (light emitting diode) string lights are now widely available in white and a range of vibrant colors including multi-color sets. These lights provide a more durable and lowenergy alternative to traditional holiday lights. They cost more upfront, but use less than $1.00 to operate over the holiday season, compared to $5.00 for mini incandescent string lights and up to $75 for large string lights!
Scrape, Don’t Rinse. Studies show that most people pre-rinse dishes before loading them into the dishwasher, even though dishwashers
These are just a few of the many things you can do to save money and conserve resources. For more helpful tips and to
learn more, visit the American Council for an Energy-Efficient Economy website at www.aceee.org. Do you have a real estate question? E-mail it to info@giverealtyaustin.com and it may be featured in a future column! Laurie Loew, Realtor®, GRI, ABR, GREEN® Broker and Founder of Give Realty Inc. 3420 Executive Center Drive, Ste 300, Austin 78731 Phone: (512) 338.4483 Email: laurie@giverealtyaustin.com Give Realty is a local Real Estate brokerage that is committed to giving back and investing in our community! When you sell or purchase a home using our brokerage, we donate 25% of our commission to the nonprofit of our client’s choice in our client’s name. We have donated over $27,000 in 2009, averaging more than $2150 per transaction. Go to www.giverealty.com to find out more or call us at (512) 338-4483.
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Dave Says (What’s included?)
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Financial Straight Talk with Dave Ramsey
Dear Anonymous, That figure includes taxes and insurance. Just remember, the whole idea is to make sure your house payment is manageable. You don’t want to have so much money going toward your mortgage every month that you can’t enjoy life or take care of your other financial responsibilities. I figured out a long time ago that I’ve got more money when I don’t have debt. It’s a pretty simple formula, isn’t it? If you want to build wealth, you have to get out of the payment business. I don’t beat people up for getting a 15-year, fixedrate mortgage, but you don’t want all of your income going toward your house payment, either. If half of what you make every month goes straight to the bank, you’ll have less money for other stuff. Plus, after a while that
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When you think of Nike, what is the first thing that comes to your mind? Just Do It. Phil Knight, Founder and CEO of Nike, suffused his company culture along with their advertising campaign with the idea of the intense, inwardly focused competitor. The “Just Do It” campaign captured the Nike’s corporate philosophy of grit, determination and passion. Why? Because it was portable, memorable and motivational. About a year ago, we watched the national election campaigns. What was Barack Obama’s platform and vision for America? Change We Can Believe In. What was John McCain’s? I really can’t remember it, do you? What was Hillary Clinton’s? Don’t remember it either? However, all of us can remember
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Dave Says (Missing out)
Dear Dave, I’ve only got a high school education, and I’m stuck in a dead-end job. I’ve always been a hard worker, so the 70-hour weeks don’t bother me. However, I do miss getting to spend time with my kids. I feel like I’m missing out on their lives. Do you have any advice on how to change my situation? –Scott Dear Scott, I think you’ve already solved a lot of the problem by realizing that you’re like a mouse stuck in a wheel. You know you’re not getting anywhere, and you’re ready for things to change. Identifying the problem is a huge step in solving the problem. Now,
mechanically and logistically, how do you make the change when you’re handcuffed to a job that works you 70 hours a week? You’ve got a family to feed, so you can’t just quit your job. But you can talk to your boss, and see if the company will back down on your hours a little bit. Let them know what’s happening with your family, and that you’d like to take some classes and improve yourself and your value in the workplace. But before you do any of that, you’ve got to have a definite direction in mind. The idea of making more money and working less isn’t the answer. You need an in-depth, detailed game plan for where you want to be in the next three to five years and how to get there. It may involve going back to school for some classes, or even getting a full-blown degree. If you identify your long-term goal in detail, it will lead you to some of the short-term goals that will help you arrive at your final destination. The best book I’ve ever read on this kind of thing is 48 Days to the Work You Love by Dan Miller. He’s my all-time favorite career coach. He’ll lay out the steps to discovering what it is you really love to do and how to get there. God bless you, Scott! –Dave
Leadership Filter-Making Vision Portable
Obama’s vision and campaign platform. Whether you agree or disagree with Obama’s politics is beside the point; because in the end, the Obama campaign made the vision portable, memorable and motivational. How do you make vision portable?
When people say the name of your church or business, what is the first thing they think of? If people are having a hard time explaining the organization’s vision – that vision is not sticking. Andy Stanley, Pastor of North Point Community Church, Atlanta, GA, says, “For vision to stick is must be portable, memorable and motivational.”
great house will stop looking so great. It’ll be a chain around your neck instead of a place you love to call home. Don’t try to figure out how much debt you can get into. Instead, figure out how much debt you can get out of! –Dave
1. Focus the Vision – It’s been said, “If you can’t manage it, you can’t measure it.” Just because you have a nice slogan on your website, business card or banner doesn’t mean your organization has a thriving vision. If you look at what some organizations are doing and measure it against their claims, what you’ll find is often inconsistency. You can manage and measure focused vision, but not unfocused vision. Too many church and business organizations are doing too little by doing way too much. Jim Collins in his book, Good to Great, referenced the ancient Greek parable of “The Fox and the Hedgehog.” Day after day, the cunning fox plans his attack on the unsuspecting hedgehog. No matter how creative the fox is, the hedgehog always wins. Why? The fox knows many things, but the hedgehog only knows one big thing. Each time the fox attacks; the hedgehog simply rolls up into a ball of sharp spikes, creating an impenetrable defense. It’s what he does best. I also ask you, “At what in the world can you be the best?” The only way to create focused vision is by focusing on the few things that you do very well. Identifying what you do well
will help create that focused vision. Always remember, Less is More. 2. Cast the Vision – Casting vision is a neverending responsibility for any leader. Just when you think your vision has been cast enough, cast it one more time! But cast it strategically. Define what your vision is and who and what it is supposed to affect. Just when you think you’ve thoroughly explained the vision, it’s time to start over and communicate it all over again. You can never over-communicate your vision. 3. Celebrate the Vision – Develop a process systemically within your organization to celebrate your vision in its successes. Rejoice with your team when someone makes a homerun for your organization. Reward those who live out the vision. Celebrating vision is simply reminding people where you are going by pointing out real life examples of individuals on your team who are driving your vision forward. At the end of the day, vision doesn’t become portable, memorable and motivational just because of a fancy slogan or a slick advertising campaign. Vision becomes portable by how you focus it, cast it and celebrate it. When vision is portable it becomes contagious! This is my prayer for you and your organization; that you will lead with contagious vision.
David Lawrence is the editor at www.ImpelLIVE.com–Where Church Leadership & Millennials Converge (soon to be relaunched as ImpelMinistry.com). Follow him on Twitter @DavidLawrence2 and friend him on Facebook.com/DavidLawrence2.
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partment Life places CARES Teams (married couple, family or two single adults) into apartment complexes to aid in building community and to serve the residents. (www.caresteam.org/home) Each CARES team fosters cohesion among apartment residents by planning several events each month. These events can be as simple as handing out popsicles at the pool or as complex as a fall festival. The goal of CARES is to “do life” with the people around them, so that when situations arise, the team has earned the right to speak truth into the lives of their neighbors. Michael Lytle heard an ad on The River (radio station) about CARES and listened all night, in order to hear the ad again. Michael & Jennifer Lytle are now the CARES team in their apartment complex. Michael poses this question: “What better opportunity to live the life we were created to live than to reach out to those who live in our own backyard?: Michael & Jennifer see their involvement as a way to establish a unique connection between their church and their neighborhood. CARES allows their teams the creativity and freedom to plan as they wish. An events calendar is made, along with flyers, which are then distributed to the residents of the apartment complex. In addition to planning events, newcomers to the community are visited and given a small gift (the current gift is a pitcher containing KoolAid packets, kitchen spoons and an information packet). “Yappy Hour” was one of the first events the Lytles had as the CARES Team in their community. Dog owners and lovers were
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invited to come out to the clubhouse and enjoy a doggy-devoted day. Williamson County Humane Society came out and offered information and brought dogs for adoption. The local Walgreens came and took pictures of people with their pooches. There was also a “Narnia Movie Marathon”, a “Breakfast Treats and Rent Receipts” event and Karate (Michael is a Karate instructor). Who wouldn’t want to show up for fun events such as these? There are two ways to become involved directly with a CARES team. One is to become a prayer partner, and another is to provide resources. CARES operates on a small monthly budget provided by the apartment, and volunteers and donations are welcome. If you are interested in becoming a CARES team yourself, go to www.caresteam.org and apply, and please mention that Michael and Jennifer sent you!
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WAM (Kids With a Mission) is a group of children from New Hope Community Church who recently served at Church Under the Bridge (CUB), a church for the homeless people in Austin. Lee Montgomery and Michele Greer wanted to be “intentional about engaging our children in acts of service by giving them opportunities to serve the Lord, minister in His power and experience His heart.” As Michele said, “They (the kids) love to serve and it comes natural to them.” They saw this outreach as the Grand Finale to their summer activities this year. Church Under the Bridge (www.mpaustin.org) meets every Sunday under the bridge at I-35 and 7th Street in downtown Austin. Since most homeless people do not feel comfortable attending church in a traditional setting, CUB provides a place where they are welcome, a place to call “home”.
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Approximately 20 children from New Hope Community Church, between the ages of 6 and 11 years old, spent a recent Sunday morning having “church” outside the walls of their own church in Round Rock. The children performed a flag routine and hand motions to two worship songs. Many of the attendees that morning were seen crying, as the children led them in worship. The sweetness, purity and innocence expressed through worship ministered to the hearts of the homeless in an amazing way. In preparation for their service, the children of KWAM filled bags for each homeless person through an organization called Bags of Grace. (www.bagsofgrace.org) In attendance this particular Sunday? Approximately 250 homeless people.
KWAM kids worshipping with the homeless
The kids of KWAM were very comfortable and at ease as they interacted with the homeless. They smiled and looked them in the eyes. One child, Maddie, stated “The people were so NICE to us!” Rita, with Bags of Grace, stated “It was a day I will never forget!” When Lee and Michelle were asked if they would go again, their answer was “Absolutely!”
Marcy Lytle
Marcy Lytle
Kids ministering at Church Under the Bridge
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Club Realm-Much More Than Your Average Nightclub
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t’s a dark room, full of cloth-covered tables, set with candlelight. There are colored lights, smoke and an awesome sound coming from the stage. There’s a pool table at the end of the room, and around the corner is a delightfully inviting coffee shop, including several options for sitting and sipping. It’s the sound of The Sylvester Treadway Band, the performing band for the night. The musicians play flawlessly, they sing songs with great lyrics and the audience claps with enthusiasm after each song has ended. Where is this place? It’s CLUB REALM, Austin’s newest “relevant nightclub for all ages” located at 12636 Research Blvd in the same location that houses Pursuit Church. My husband and I, along with another couple, attended the concert on Friday night and were extremely impressed. CLUB REALM currently opens every Friday evening at 8:00 p.m., hosting three bands that play for the night. The music ranges from Christian Rock to Rap, to
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Jazz, Hip-Hop, etc., offering great songs for every listening ear. We sat and listened to the band sing songs that were uplifting, inspiring and entertaining. We visited the coffee shop and met Kevin and Trisha Flenniken, Associate Pastors of Pursuit Church, who caught the vision and started this alternative nightclub for those who want to have good time, without getting wasted. That’s right, there is no alcohol served here, and the club welcomes ages 16 and up (under 16 must be accompanied by an adult/guardian).
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his is a monthly column full of tips for saving money. This month’s focus is on buying clothes.
Kevin & Trisha Flenniken Kevin Flenniken states, “We want to reach people that a church service isn’t going to reach”. He wants to give the Austin community an alternative place to go on a Friday night where they can hear great music, play games, be fed and connect with others, all in a safe and Christian atmosphere. There’s even live video stream on their website at http://www.theclubrealm.com. Kevin and Trisha opened the club July 31 and have seen many Friday nights packed out. They say that bands constantly contact them to play at CLUB REALM, and their calendar of events is available on their website. They hope to soon be open three nights a week.
Melissa C. (married, four children): • Shop at thrift stores/secondhand stores – word of mouth from others helps in finding out where the best deals are, and the best selections, so time isn’t wasted. • Shop online clearances at stores you and your kids like. Old Navy is one store that offers good deals and sometimes free shipping! • Shop online frequently. As you visit store websites over and over, you will see the trend of when they have good sales on line, and at the actual stores. • Shop at home, handing clothes down from older siblings, cousins and friends. • Shop garage sales! Look in the newspaper and for neighborhood sales, so you can hit several at once.
JoAnn A. (single “mature” mom, living alone): • Shop for only things on sale, using coupons when possible, especially in conjunction with a sale. • Shop for items that can be used for a long time, instead of “trend buying”. • Shop only when an item is needed (most of the time), but once in a while buy something just for fun! Patricia J. (single mom, two children): • Shopping for “name brand” clothing? Find what you like in a store, write down the price, description and tag information, then search the internet at home to see if you can find this same item for less. My daughter saw a North Face jacket in a store for $140 and found it for $111 on the internet with free shipping. • Avoid clothes shopping in large malls, to avoid walking by too many stores and buying thing you don’t really need! • Shop resale or consignment stores regularly as seasons change. I got a favorite pair of shoes from Junior League of Austin for 84 cents because they were 80% off! Also, consign your own clothes for in-store credit or make a little cash towards your next clothing purchase elsewhere. • Shop the internet for coupons, before heading out to do your shopping at specific stores. • Shopping for Homecoming and Proms can get expensive. Don't be afraid to shop at "discount" stores. I found Claiborne pleated, cuffed, black men's dress pants for my teenager's homecoming dance for $20 at Burlington. A similar pair of pants at Dillard's was priced at $60.
Check out CLUB REALM with your family, your friends, your co-workers and your neighbors. It’s easy to spend hours in a place where you feel welcome, entertained and are listening to some of the best bands around, all on a Friday night. CLUB REALM – it’s the newest and the greatest hot spot in Austin! Marcy Lytle
Coffee shop lounge at Club Realm
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ust this year, the Pajama Program has launched in the Austin market. Pajama Program is a National non-profit charity, and their website is www.pajamaprogram.org. Susan Malone, North Austin Coordinator, states “Basically, our motto is to host a party with a purpose!” Different companies, individuals, churches, etc. offer to host a pajama and book drive to collect new PJ’s and books for children in local shelters. They started with five shelters this past January, and are now serving 22 shelters from Buda to Georgetown, averaging 240 pairs of PJ’s a month. When children arrive at these shelters, many come with only the clothes they are wearing. When they are given a warm, comfy pair of pajamas and a new book, this helps create a more nurturing bedtime environment. Local Austin Chapter President, Linda Hunter, found out about the Pajama Program while watching the Oprah show one day. She knew then what her mission would be – to start a chapter in Austin. Linda states that “every child deserves to have the special moment at the end of their day to cuddle up with their own pajamas and curl up with a good book to read”. On the Pajama Program website, there are responses from some of the children who have received
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Pajama Program-Delivering Warm Sleepwear and Nurturing Books to Children in Need
pajamas. One little boy writes, “Thank you for the PJ’s. There (They’re) the first PJ’s I’ve ever owned.” The Austin community has been very generous and supportive when hearing about the Pajama Program. Women’s Bible Studies, MOPS groups, Children’s churches and even Girl Scout Troops have participated in giving. Children enjoy being a part of this outreach, as they can individually pick out the PJ’s for the children in need, making a real difference in the lives of other kids. There is a two-minute video presentation at www.pajamaprogram.org/video/presentatio n.html that’s well worth watching. The Pajama Program needs groups to volunteer and host PJ drives with their churches, companies or any group that is looking for a place to give and bless others. Contact Susan Malone at 512-563-8931 for further information, or lindah@pajamaprogram.org or visit www.pajamaprogram.org.
Marcy Lytle
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Mission continued from page 8 this island. Every year he told them no. But not this time. Because of the love that my team had shown his people, he agreed to have a church built on Soledad Miria.
Cierra Anderson The next day, we managed to hand out every last Spanish bible and held the program for the Sila and the island people. It went very well. The Sila greatly respected and liked us. When he was talking to our Team Leaders, he told them that they should call him when we arrived back in the United States so that he could be sure we arrived safely, and he even began to cry. It was apparent that God was at work. At one point during that last day, we heard singing coming from the congress hut where the Sila meets. Someone was singing Amazing Grace and we didn't know who it could be. We all took off running towards the hut and there we met another group of older missionaries from Texas! They had been coming to this island every year for five years, asking the Sila if they could build a church on
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I believe that God orchestrated this entire trip. I think that if we had shown up with our Spanish bibles and tracts, we would have been too eager and may have come off as “preachy” and “pushy” to these people so heavily bound in witchcraft. But because we had to work side by side with the people and show them love, they were able to see that there's more to Jesus than just words. Not to mention the fact that the missionaries showed up on our last day on the island after we had been praying for some kind of follow-up for the Kuna people! We are now praying that a leader will rise up to lead the church, because if no one does, the church will not be built. So please keep the Kuna people in your prayers. We left the island with hope. We made many friends there, and the kids were very sad to see us go. The next day, we met up with the other teams. I had assumed that the other islands were just like ours, but they weren't! The other two islands actually had churches built on them and already had some Christians. The other two teams were actually able to lead some people to Christ. Our island had been completely unreached, and now there is going to be a church built! Cierra Anderson
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he name of my column is '20 Words' which has a dual meaning. It speaks to the 20 something’s crowd I am writing to, but I highlight 20 words from my article in bold that send a message or summarize what I am writing about. A generation of highly offensive, scaredy-cats is on the rise By Joe Elliott
Texas vs. OU Red River Rivalry know if the words stubborn, uncompromising and relentless describe your prayer life but if not, that is probably the root of the fear issue you may share with me. I want to ask you three questions and I want you to pause and really consider your answer as if Jesus himself were asking you. 1. Do you believe that your life is not your own? (Jeremiah 10:23; Galatians 2:20; 1 Cor. 6:20) 2. Do you really believe that God has placed you in a position right now to change the culture around you and even given you the tools to do so? (Acts 17:26; 2 Timothy 3:16-17) 3. What are you afraid of?
It’s 8:15 in the morning on a cold, wet Tuesday morning and there I am standing outside a gated office complex on Anderson Mill Rd with a sign that reads: “Please pray, this is an abortion clinic”. While listening to Misty Edwards worship her heart out on my iPod, I am attempting to get my mind fixated on anything but the mixed reactions of approving honks and blatant obscenities that keep coming my way. With every moment I stand out there defying my fears of man by representing Christ, I am engaging in a ferocious war to take captive every thought while also praying for more boldness to stand firm. At this moment, I realize I am giving my life for something that is much bigger than me. So in the midst of adversity, I am willing to face whatever persecution comes my way because my very presence on the sidewalk is saving lives, changing hearts and encouraging fellow believers to become actively, visibly pro-life. And yet, there is one sobering truth I cannot run from …… I am a coward. I have a difficult time pinpointing exactly where I lost my courage, but I imagine that it was just after I gave my life to Christ in college and then realized my new job was to tell the rest of the world about Jesus. I want to share with you something that I firmly believe to be the cure for our generation that is so afraid to offend anyone who does not share our same beliefs: A stubborn, uncompromising, relentless pursuit of Jesus. I don’t
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The Gospel, and therefore our very lives as Christ followers, is offensive. Our generation must embrace this truth by learning to walk in it daily no matter how uncomfortable it feels. I came to the realization this year that in my broken, sinful state I will always be a coward. What brings me courage is Christ. The more I have my eyes focused on His power and His courage, the more I am empowered by the Holy Spirit to overcome my fear and represent Jesus in any situation. The key here is the amount of time we set aside on a daily/weekly basis to be alone with Jesus. You cannot sit at the feet of the creator of this universe and not be personally transformed. Being a Christian remains the scariest and most rewarding experience I have ever had. It brings me great comfort to remember how the disciples were cowards too and even Paul spoke with “fear and trembling”, so I know being scared out of our minds is just part of the job description. After all, if courage was easy and evangelism came natural to us then why would we need faith or have to be dependent on Christ? Be encouraged. God had you read this article for a reason and I believe by doing so he is preparing you for some awesome works this month. Embrace your fears and press forward in confidence knowing that if God is for you, then who cares who is against you! Austin LIT invites colleges students to the ACC Northridge campus for Tuesday Night gatherings in Bldg 3000, 8:00 p.m.–9:30 p.m. (www.austinlit.com)
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ith the Texas Tech “Catch Seen Around the World” last year that skewed the BCS rankings enough to knock the Longhorns out of the championship battle, it was OU that got the four quarter battle against the Florida Gators. Although they did not go to the National Championship game last year, Colt McCoy and the Longhorns did go on to win the Fiesta Bowl. This year, the Sooners and the Longhorns met to play in the Cotton Bowl on October 17, 2009. After just eight plays, Bradford reinjured his shoulder and was not able to play the remainder of the game. Sacked on a corner blitz by Texas DB Aaron Williams during their second series in the 1st quarter, Bradford landed hard on his right shoulder, the same shoulder he injured in the first game of the season against BYU that forced him to miss about a month of action. Stoops told ABC at halftime that the injury appeared to be the same as his previous injury. The game was dominated by swarming defense and sloppy offense, as the two teams combined had five turnovers, 13 penalties, numerous fumbles, and special teams errors at halftime.
Texas ended up winning the game 16-13. No doubt the game would have been more exciting and intense had Bradford not been sidelined, due to that injured shoulder. With both Bradford and McCoy being such devout Christians, it is just hard to be against either one of them. McCoy told Bradford after the game that he was praying for him, so we should all pray for him too. As McCoy and Bradford, and of course Tim Tebow, finish up their college careers, and make decisions to possibly go professional, we need to pray for these guys to be protected and always keep Christ as their focus. It is awesome that these guys are all men of God and personify what kids all over our country should aspire to be like, whether involved in sports or not. May God bless all of these guys no matter who ends up with the next championship title. Hook em’ Horns!!
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racken Cox is a senior at Stony Point High School in Round Rock. He plays center for the football team and is heavily involved with the praise band at his church, playing lead guitar. He was asked to help lead the evening church service at First Baptist in Round Rock on October 11, 2009 and I got the opportunity to ask him a few questions about his faith in God and his plans for the future. He is wholly devoted to his school, his church and his God. When asked the role that faith played in his school life, his answer was one that many, both school age and grown adult, could learn from. “My faith in God is what makes me know that it is about more than just trying to fit in”, Cox told me and that “Jesus is always right beside me guiding me, listening to me and answering me when I need Him.” David and Suzanne Cox should be proud of the young man they have raised Bracken to be. I asked Bracken what he wanted to be when he grew up. It may surprise you, knowing his size and stature, that it was not to be a football player for Baylor, his favorite team, and then go pro one day. Bracken wants to be a youth minister or a mechanical engineer. The one thing we do know, is that whatever path Bracken chooses, he’ll be a shining light and an inspiration to those around him. Lee Eddins
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N THE CITY, FOR THE CITY – This event, hosted by ABBA (Austin Bridge Builder’s Alliance), is one you will want to attend. Churches, businesses, ministries, non-profits, students and everyday people will connect and collaborate towards making a huge impact in our community in extraordinary ways. This gathering will take place at the Bob Bullock Texas State History Museum, Sunday, November 15, 4:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. Immediately following In the City, For the City, just across the street from the museum, a city-wide Youth Rally will commence, and everyone is invited to stay and celebrate the Father’s heart for the city of Austin. www.abbaconnect.net. “Slam Dunk on Cancer-Shoot for the Cure" Foundation Dinner – At the age of 13, Sean Mack was diagnosed with Acute Myeloid
Generation Bridge Leukemia, an aggressive form of cancer. Sean's twin brother (Steven), his siblings, his mother and the lives of many loved ones changed dramatically. Sean's retrospect on life was, "If I had to live my life over again, I wouldn't change a thing." For four years, Sean battled this life-threatening disease that took his life on June 12, 2007. Today, his family, his friends and his loved ones celebrate his fight to the finish and honor his courage, his stamina, his hope and faith. Come join SDOC at Hope Lutheran Church, 6414 N. Hampton Drive, Austin, Texas on Saturday, Nov. 14, 2009 from 1:00 – 4:00 p.m. There will be guest speakers, live entertainment and dinner, $20 in advance, $25 at the door. Thank you! (Leslie Brown – Director/Founder/Mother SDOC).
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he Daniel & Justin Show airs on Sunday evenings 8p.m.–10p.m. on The Word (99.3 FM). Daniel & Justin are youth leaders at New Hope Community Church in Round Rock. Each month, they will offer their insight on things they think parents might like to know, in order to “bridge the gap” between generations. We hope our readers find their comments informative and helpful… AFF: What’s the topic for this month? Daniel: What kind of music is okay; influences of music, and that it's okay to listen to loud music. AFF: How do parents help their kids with purchasing music? Daniel: First off, know what your kid likes to listen to! Spend some time in their life and discover what they listen to, and what style of music they like most. Justin: Do some research. www.lyrics.com isn’t bad, but I would suggest subscribing to a good music magazine like HM Magazine. AFF: Are ALL the “Christian” bands good to listen to? Daniel: In general, I say yes. If you listen to the lyrics and they are generally uplifting and have a good message, then they’re okay. Justin: “Good” is a trap word to use, because many people have very strong opinions towards what music “should” sound like. AFF: Which bands are your favorites for the kids? Daniel: Some of my favorites are the David Crowder Band, Chris Tomlin, Need to Breathe, Shane and Shane, Point of Contact, Leeland, Reliant K, Mercy Me, Casting Crowns and Lifehouse. Justin: WOW, so many to choose from: Red, Thrice for starters. There are hard, medium and lighter type Christian music CD’s. Falling UP, Jeremy Camp for “light”; 12 Stones, Pillar for “medium”; Inhale Exhale, Underoath for “hard”, and many more. AFF: If the lyrics can’t be heard, do you recommend still purchasing the music?
will memorize and sing, and get stuck in their heads. It’s very important to know what they’re singing. AFF: How can parents get their kids involved in worship, and not just in listening? Daniel: I would say the first step is to set a good example of how to worship. If they see that you are into worship and it is affecting you, then they are more likely to be open to it. Saturating them with good worship music, when you can, helps to cultivate a passion for worship. Justin: What worked for me was having an understanding of what I was saying and not being forced too much.
AFF: What’s your take on listening to secular music? Justin: I don’t like the term “secular” because it labels way too many bands in a bad light. I think you need to take all “non-Christian” bands on a case by case basis. Daniel: It varies from person to person. There are some bands out there that write great music and sing about love and friendship that are fun and can lift your spirits. You (as parents) need to be watchful of what they (your kids) are singing about. It comes down to personal conviction. AFF: Any closing words? Justin: Just because it’s not your style or you don’t like it, doesn’t mean it’s bad. Loud doesn’t make it bad either. Music is always changing and your kids should be given the chance to like what they like.
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Justin: Lyrics are important. Most kids, however, don’t want a song to preach to them, they just want to jam. Most CD’s have the lyrics in the case. Daniel: Lyrics are the most important. The music itself can change your mood and influence you, but it’s the lyrics your kids
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Our Savior Lutheran-Learning to be Thankful in Thankless Times
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wo men were walking through a field one day when they were charged by an enraged bull. They instantly sprinted for the nearest fence, but as the bull gained on them it became apparent that they weren’t going to make it. Terrified, one of the men shouted to the other, “Say a prayer, John, or we’re in for it!”
facing financial struggles, when suffering from illness, when watching relationships disintegrate under the stress of daily life? How on earth can we be expected to be thankful for that?
“All right,” panted John, “I’ll say the only prayer I know, the one we used to say at dinnertime: O Lord, for what we are about to receive, make us truly thankful!”
But look more closely at Paul’s words. He tells us to be thankful “in” all circumstances, not “for” all circumstances. What we’re giving thanks for is that God does not forget us when life’s road takes an unexpected detour or becomes rougher than we anticipated. He continues to comfort and care for us, even if we can’t always sense his presence. The ultimate proof of his love was to send us a Savior who, being both fully human and fully divine, not only understands our physical and emotional pain, but actually has the power to do something about it.
We can laugh at that story, but it also reminds me of St. Paul’s words: “Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” Is Paul serious? We’re supposed to give thanks in all circumstances? Really? What about when
Even in the midst of hopelessness, our God is the God of hope. “We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him,” Paul wrote to the persecuted Christians in Rome. God certainly doesn’t want—much less cause—bad things to happen to us, but there is nothing so terrible
“I can’t!” John answered. “I’ve never prayed in public in my life!” “But you have to!” implored his friend. “That bull is catching up to us.”
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that he can’t use it to bring us closer to him. Recognizing this fundamental fact is the basis of gratitude.
have a joy-filled Thanksgiving, and a thankful spirit throughout the year.
Being consistently thankful doesn’t happen by accident, though. Like any other skill, we have to practice it to become good at it. Thanksgiving offers a perfect opportunity to look at our lives through this lens of gratitude, and an even better opportunity to talk about and—better still—model that mindset for our children. Ask yourself, “Am I more thankful now than I was at this time last year?” If not, what’s holding you back? We spend so much time consumed by anxiety, anger, remorse, frustration and bitterness. Why not take some time instead to reflect on the gifts that God has given us, gifts designed to endure the storms of life? I promise you that there is no greater resource for living than a thankful heart. It leads to a much greater sense of joy and satisfaction, both personally and professionally. With this in mind, may you
Pastor Keith Our Savior Lutheran Church pastorgravesmill@oslaustin.org
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RAVE REVIEWS
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UPCOMING CONCERTS & EVENTS
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MOVIES “The Invention of Lying” Starring Ricky Gervais and Jennifer Garner, this movie is an offbeat comedy about a world in which people only tell the truth, until one man has the novel idea of telling a lie. He is then able to tell people whatever he wishes them to believe, thus making his life everything he wants it to be…except he’s lonely for the one thing he still longs for. The concept of a world without lying makes for a few laughs, but otherwise the story is silly and senseless. Marcy Lytle
MUSIC Relient K-"Forget and Not Slow Down" Pop-rock quintet Relient K (deemed after a band member's high school car) released their sixth full record called "Forget and Not Slow Down" recently while attempting to do just that. Lead singer Matthew Thiessen explains how difficult circumstances in his life refined him, and the struggle and result is the album, focusing on forward motion and continuing to live, despite past destruction. Musically it stays fairly close to home with pop/rock roots and an occasional oasis of ambient piano and honest vocals. However, a stand-out "Savannah" features buoyant strings and percussion and showcases the band's quirky spirit.
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Tuesday 7 pm November 10
A Million Miles Tour Donald Miller w/ Susan E. Issacs
Thursday 7 pm November 12
A New Hallelujah Summit Christian Center Michael W. Smith w/ Matt Maher San Antonio, TX
Saturday November 14
MercyMe Benefit Concert Elizabeth Toon Charities
Austin Music Hall Austin, TX
Sunday 5:30 pm November 15
It’s Worth the Wait
Hill Country Bible Church Austin, TX
Wednesday 7 pm November 18
The Altered Minds Tour Lecrae w/ After Edmund
Anderson Mill Baptist Austin, TX
Wednesday 8 pm November 18
Switchfoot Switchfoot
The Parish Austin, TX
Friday November 20
Central Texas State Fair/Bell Until the Whole World Hears Casting Crowns w/ Matt Redman County Expo, Belton, TX
Sunday 9:30 am December 6, 13, 20
The Singing Christmas Tree
Tuesday 8 pm December 8
Wednesday 6:30 pm December 9
Glory In The Highest Acoustic Christmas Tour Shane and Shane w/ Bethany Dillon
Glory In The Highest Acoustic Christmas Tour Shane and Shane w/ Phil Wickham
First Baptist Georgetown Georgetown, TX
Bannockburn Baptist Church Austin, TX Concordia University Fieldhouse, Austin, TX
First Baptist Boerne, TX
Friday 7 pm December 11
Family Force 5 Family Force 5
Celebration Church Georgetown, TX
December 19
Drive-Thru Nativity
Concordia Lutheran San Antonio, TX
Friday February 26 & 27, 2010
Natalie Grant Natalie Grant
Shoreline Christian Center Austin, TX
Friday March 5 & 6, 2010
Hot Hearts Conference
Highland Lakes Camp and Conference Center Spicewood, TX
Lauren Turner
BOOKS Donald Miller– A Million Miles in a Thousand Years The author of "Blue Like Jazz", "Through Painted Deserts", and "Searching For God Knows What", Donald Miller, is known for his poignant thought flows, honest and witty tone, and quirky cartoons placed prominently in the midst of deep contemplation. His latest novel "A Million Miles in a Thousand Years" certainly entails all of these trademark roots, yet grows uniquely and flourishes into its own work. Miller explains how a book of his is being developed into a movie, and his journey to "edit" his life for the film, and the impact it had on his faith and his life. Lauren Turner www.AustinFaithandFamily.com
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NOV NOVEMBER CALENDAR November 1
Offering a free monthly weight loss surgery seminar for the public.
St. Dominic Savior Catholic High School Prospective Student Open House. From 1pm–4pm St. Dominic’s welcomes you to tour a co-educational, college preparatory school dedicated to prepare young men and women to be faith-filled, visionary and inspirational leaders.
Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December.
Susan G. Komen Austin Race for the Cure. From 6am–12pm at the Domain. Join breast cancer survivors, families and friends at Race for the Cure.
Revolution Art Tour. Club Realm features GRITS, Jade Harrell, Hearts of Saints and On the Radar. For more information visit www.theclubrealm.com.
Under the Gaslight – Starting at 2 pm at ACC’s Rio Grande Campus. ACC’s drama department presents “Under the Gaslight” written and set in 1867, it is an action/adventure/romance/mystery involving a young woman of society, forced to flee her home by a strange man who pursues her into the lower class neighborhoods of New York City.
Teacher Career Fair – From 9am–11:30am at the Frank Erwin Center. The University of Texas College of Education is hosting a Teacher Career Fair. Interviews will be conducted from 12:30pm–4:30pm with selected applicants.
November 2 Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December. Williamson County Symphony Orchestra www.WilliamsonCountySymphonyOrchestra.org.
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November 5 Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December.
November 6 Christian Women’s Business Retreat. Starting at 4pm at the Hilton Garden Inn. This retreat is sponsored by ASCEND, a local start-up focused on women helping women.
Free Monthly Weight Loss Surgery Seminar in Central Austin. From 6:30pm–8:00pm at St. David’s Medical Center. St. David’s is hosting a series of seminars designed to help potential patients learn more about weight loss surgery procedures.
Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am– 1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December.
Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December.
Mission of Hope Benefit Concert. For more information visit www.theclubrealm.com.
Open House. From 8:30am–10:30am at Brentwood Christian School. BCS will host an Open House in the High School Library located in building C. BCS is a private, Christian institution, offering a Christian preschool, elementary, and secondary education alternative to families in Austin.
November 4 Free Monthly Weight Loss Surgery Seminar. From 6pm–7pm at St. David’s Round Rock Medical Center.
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Under the Gaslight. Starting at 8pm at ACC’s Rio Grande Campus. ACC’s drama department presents “Under the Gaslight” written and set in 1867, it is an action/adventure/romance/mystery involving a young woman of society, forced to flee her home by a strange man who pursues her into the lower class neighborhoods of New York City.
November 7 Christian Women’s Business Retreat. Starting at 4pm at the Hilton Garden Inn. This retreat is sponsored by ASCEND, a local start-up focused on women helping women.
Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December. Kyle Market Days and Farmers Market. From 9am–2pm. Enjoy handmade arts and crafts. Free live local music. Free admission and free parking. Natural Science Saturday. From 10am–5pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Join Students from UT’s College of Natural Science for hands-on activities for the whole family based on natural forces like friction, buoyancy and electricity. Runway to Heaven Charity Event. Starting at 7:30pm at the Austonian. Fun-filled night that will include a fashion forward runway show. A portion of the proceeds will benefit Austin Children’s Shelter and Dell Children’s Medical Center. The Heroes of Texas. From 10am–3pm at the Alamo in San Antonio, TX. Under the Gaslight. Starting at 8pm at ACC’s Rio Grande Campus. ACC’s drama department presents “Under the Gaslight” written and set in 1867, it is an action/adventure/romance/mystery involving a young woman of society, forced to flee her home by a strange man who pursues her into the lower class neighborhoods of New York City. Wimberley Market Days. From 7am–4pm. Sponsored by the Wimberley Lions Club. Live music on 3 stages; 8 concession stands. Free admission, $3 parking.
November 8 Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December. Science Sunday. From 3pm–5pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Join UT Hands-on-Science as they bring big ideas down to a small-sized audience using a variety of hands-on activities. Under the Gaslight. Starting at 2pm at ACC’s Rio Grande Campus. ACC’s drama department presents “Under the Gaslight” written and set in 1867, it is an action/adventure/romance/mystery involving a young woman of society, forced to flee her home by a
strange man who pursues her into the lower class neighborhoods of New York City.
November 9 Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December. Williamson County Symphony Orchestra www.WilliamsonCountySymphonyOrchestra.org.
November 1 0 Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December.
November 1 1 Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December.
November 1 2 Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December. Mistletoe Market Christmas Boutique. From 12pm–9pm at Historic Walker House in Blockhouse Creek. 24th Annual Christmas Boutique will feature handcrafted gifts and holiday decorations from 20 artists. Admission is free and in the spirit of community, canned goods will be collected and donated to Hill Country Community Ministries. Monthly meeting of Williamson County Genealogical Society. From 7:30pm–9:15pm at Round Rock Public Library. The Williamson County Genealogical Society and the Round Rock Library present a program “Digital Photography for Genealogists” by James Hollis.
November 1 3 Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own
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Mistletoe Market Christmas Boutique. From 9am–7pm at Historic Walker House in Blockhouse Creek. 24th Annual Christmas Boutique will feature handcrafted gifts and holiday decorations from 20 artists. Admission is free and in the spirit of community, canned goods will be collected and donated to Hill Country Community Ministries.
Step Out: Walk to Fight Diabetes. From 8am–11am at Fiesta Gardens. This event is designed to raise money to find a cure for diabetes and to increase awareness of the disease.
Wimberley Art League Annual Show and Sale. From 10am–3pm at Wimberley Community Center. Approximately 600 items from more than 80 artists will be on sale.
November 1 4 Engineering Saturday. From 10am–12pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Explore engineering first hand with activities led by students from UT’s Cockrell School of Engineering. Free Interpretive Hike at McKinney Falls. From 10am–11:30am at Smith Visitors Center at McKinney Falls State Park. Free hike along Onion Creek, to the lower falls, and back to the horse trainer’s cabin. Hikes last about 1 ½ hours. Wear comfortable shoes and bring water. Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December. Green City Festival. From 10am–3pm at Austin City Hall. Come to the Green City Festival to learn about environmental programs and resources provided by the City of Austin and local non-profit organizations. Natural Science Saturday. From 10am–5pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Join students from UT’s College of Natural Science for hands-on activities for the whole family based on natural forces like friction, buoyancy and electricity. Mistletoe Market Christmas Boutique. From 9am–5pm at Historic Walker House in Blockhouse Creek. 24th Annual Christmas Boutique will feature handcrafted gifts and holiday decorations from 20 artists. Admission is free and in the spirit of community, canned goods will be collected and donated to Hill Country Community Ministries. Seeing Your Parenting Journey Through the Eyes of God Simulcast. From 8am–4pm at First Baptist Georgetown. With trusted guidance and insights
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The Austin Humane Society’s 4th Annual Rags to Wags Gala. Starting at 6:30pm at Hyatt Regency Austin. Rags to Wags is a pet fashion show with a unique live and silent auction. All to benefit the animals of the Austin Humane Shelter. Violet Crown Fall Festival. From 10am–4pm at Crestview Shopping Center. Celebrate Brentwood and Crestview community, with more than 30 art booths; local music, food and drink, history and community displays, kids activities, and showings of the neighborhood film “ A Community Mosaic”. Wimberley Art Leagues Annual Show and Sale. From 12pm–4:30pm at Wimberley Community Center. Approximately 600 items from more than 80 artists will be on sale. 1st Annual Fable Fest. From 10am–5pm at Heritage Park sponsored by Cedar Park Library. 17th Annual Art From The Streets Show and Sale. From 12pm–5pm at Austin Resource Center for the Homeless. A fundraising art exhibit displaying original works of art creating by Austin’s homeless community.
November 1 5 Cyberchase Sunday. From 3pm–5pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Join students from UT’s Cockrell School of Engineering for some fun, hands-on, and math activities. Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December. In the City, For the City. From 4pm–8:30pm at Bob Bullock Texas State History Museum. For more information visit www.abbaconnect.net. Women’s Basic Skills Self Defense Workshop. From 2:30pm–5:30pm at Sun Dragon Martial Arts. Offering basic skills self defense workshop to teen and adult women.
17th Annual Art from the Streets Show and Sale. From 12pm–5pm at Austin Resource Center for the Homeless. A fundraising art exhibit displaying original works of art creating by Austin’s homeless community. 21st Annual Lone Star Vegetarian Chili Cook-Off. From 11:30am–4pm at Historic Austin Farmers Market. For more information visit www.lsvn.org.
November 1 6 Austin Job Fair. From 11am–2pm at Embassy Suites Austin-North. Meet employers at the Austin Job Fair. Attendance is free for job seekers. Williamson County Symphony Orchestra www.WilliamsonCountySymphonyOrchestra.org. Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December. Youth Scholarship Benefit Golf Tournament. From 10am–6pm at Twin Creeks Country Club. To learn more about playing or sponsoring the golf tournament call 401-5508.
November 1 7 Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December.
November 1 8 Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December. Walking with Dinosaurs. From 7pm–9pm at The Cedar Park Center.
November 1 9 Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December.
Walking with Dinosaurs. Starting at 7pm at The Cedar Park Center.
November 20 Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December. Walking with Dinosaurs. Starting at 7pm at The Cedar Park Center.
November 21 Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–1pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December. GreenGirls.net Monthly Breakfast Meeting. From 10am–12pm. Walking with Dinosaurs. Show times at 11am, 3pm, 7pm at The Cedar Park Center.
November 22 Cyberchase Sunday. From 3pm–5pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Joint students from UT’s Cockrell School of Engineering for some fun, handson, and math activities. Gingerbread Workshop Registration. From 9am–pm at Austin Children’s Museum. Parents and kids can build and decorate their very own gingerbread house with candy and icing. Workshops don’t start until December. Walking with Dinosaurs. Show times at 1pm and 5pm at The Cedar Park Center.
November 23 Williamson County Symphony Orchestra www.WilliamsonCountySymphonyOrchestra.org.
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Church Directory Celebration Church Weekend Sunday Services: 9:30am 11:30am 1:30pm (en español) 6pm (Children's Ministry: Birth-5th grade only) MidWeek Wednesday Night Service: 7 p.m. (English and español) 1202 County Road 116 (Rabbit Hill Road) Georgetown, TX 78626 (512) 763-3000
The only people with whom you should try to get even are those who have helped you. –John E. Southard God gave you a gift of 86,400 seconds today. Have you used one to say"thank you?" –William A. Ward He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has. –Epictetus If you want to turn your life around, try thankfulness. It will change your life mightily. –Gerald Good
Jokes
Do you go to church? A friend was in front of me coming out of church one day, and the preacher was standing at the door as he always is to shake hands. He grabbed my friend by the hand and pulled him aside. The Pastor said to him, "You need to join the Army of the Lord!" My friend replied, "I'm already in the Army of the Lord, Pastor." Pastor questioned, "How come I don't see you except at Christmas and Easter?" He whispered back, "I'm in the secret service.” Q. What excuse did Adam give to his children as to why he no longer lived in Eden? A. Your mother ate us out of house and home.
First Baptist Pflugerville Sunday Bible Fellowship Groups8:00am & 9:30am Worship Services 9:30am Traditional 11:00am Contemporary Pecan St. @ 10th Street Pflugerville, TX (512) 251-3052
Bible Trivia 1) The Sermon on the Mount can be found in which book? a. Matthew 5:1 to 7:29 b. Luke 7:1 to 9:62 c. Mark 2:1 to 4:41 d. John 5:1 to 7:53 2) Blessed are the _____: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. a. meek b. merciful c. poor in spirit d. pure in heart 3) Blessed are the _____: for they shall be called the children of God. a. peacemakers b. merciful c. meek d. pure in heart 4) Blessed are the _____: for they shall obtain mercy. a. meek b. peacemakers c. poor in spirit d. merciful 5) Blessed are the _____: for they shall inherit the earth. a. pure in heart b. meek c. merciful d. peacemakers
6) Blessed are the _____: for they shall see God. a. pure in heart b. poor in spirit c. merciful d. peacemakers 7) Blessed are they _____: for they shall be comforted. a. which do hunger and thirst after righteousness b. which are persecuted for righteousness sake c. that weep d. that mourn 8) Blessed are they _____: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. a. which do hunger and thirst after righteousness b. that mourn c. which are persecuted for righteousness sake d. that weep 9) Blessed are they _____: for they shall be filled. a. that mourn b. which do hunger and thirst after righteousness c. which are persecuted for righteousness sake d. that weep 10) Christ said He came to _____ the law. a. destroy b. fulfill c. add to d. change
1. a Matthew 5:1 to 7:29 2. c poor in spirit Matthew 5:3 3. a peacemakers Matthew 5:9 4. d merciful Matthew 5:7 5. b meek Matthew 5:5 6. a pure in heart Matthew 5:8 7. d that mourn Matthew 5:4 8. c which are persecuted for righteousness sake Matthew 5:10 9. b which do hunger and thirst after righteousness Matthew 5:6 10. b fulfill Matthew 5:17
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