Thoughts from the Editor
Last month, I went to a birthday party that was anything but your run-of-the-mill teen celebration. Imagine this: the room is stirring with about 30 adults, when all eyes turn to a 14-year-old young man as he steps up, not to blow out candles, but to share his journey of initiation into manhood. Yes, you read that right. This birthday party was a little different.
In an era where the teenage stereotype often includes laziness and addiction to a phone or video games, he was breaking the mold in the best possible way. As the night progressed, we heard about the previous year undertaken by this remarkable young man. We learned about how he worked while others played, studied when others were still asleep, embraced difficult life changes, earned his own money, saved some, gave generously, learned to build, and so much more. Yet the night was not focused on his outcomes, but on his willingness to embrace the process. To say yes, over and over, even when it was uncomfortable.
It's no secret that navigating adolescence today is like trying to find your way out of the Amazon rainforest blindfolded. There’s no well-worn path and very few guides around. Yet, what I experienced that night filled me with fresh vision, hope, and excitement for my own children and those close to me.
Across time and around the world, cultures have celebrated the transition from child to adult with ceremonies rich in meaning and responsibility—call it an initiation process or rites of passage. These time-honored traditions have, for centuries, worked to help young men and women become mature adults who contribute to the well being of their communities.
You see, I'm a dad to two lovely daughters and a wonderful son who are as smart and capable as they come. My wife and I are stumbling through our best attempts to raise them into people of character, calling, and capability. People of substance. Yet, witnessing this young man's journey reminds me that this doesn’t just happen.
This birthday party wasn't just a celebration of another year ticked off the calendar; it was a vivid reminder of the growth that happens when parents with intention lead their kids well. When young men say yes to the process of moving from ease toward a strenuous life. The power of a supportive community. Every adult in that room had sprinkled a bit of wisdom, challenge, or encouragement on this young man's path and throughout his life.
This celebration wasn't just a beacon of hope for one bright young man, but a torchlight for the future of parenting in our day. It showed that with a bit of planning and a lot of heart, boys can grow into men who embody purposeful strength, outward care, and steady commitment to what's right over what's easy. My heart swells not just for that teenager but for all our children. Sure, the world's got its fair share of problems, but there is hope for a generation that follows a path of wisdom, endurance, and discipline. May we become the kind of community where meaningful transformations happen, where growth is nurtured, and where rites of passage are still lived out today. A better future is something we can all get behind, one birthday celebration at a time.
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A LEGACY OF STRENGTH
EXPLORING THE ENDURING INFLUENCE OF WOMEN THROUGH THE AGES
In the archives of history, the impactful narratives of women have often been overlooked or marginalized. Yet, within these stories, the tapestry of human experience finds true depth and richness. From the steadfast courage of suffragettes, to the groundbreaking achievements of scientists, activists, artists, and leaders, women have helped shape the world we inhabit today. As we celebrate Women's History Month and reflect on the indelible contributions of women throughout time, we must amplify their voices, honor their legacies, and recognize their resilience in the face of adversity.
Women's History Month originated in the United States, with its roots tracing back to International Women's Day, first
celebrated in 1911. In 1978, the school district of Sonoma, California initiated a week-long observance of women's contributions to culture, history, and society. In 1980, President Jimmy Carter issued the first presidential proclamation declaring the week of March 8 as “National Women's History Week.” Finally, in 1987, Congress expanded the observance to the entire month. Women's History Month is a time to honor and recognize the contributions and achievements of women throughout history and in modern society. This month truly provides an opportunity to highlight the accomplishments of ALL women.
These facts illustrate a small percentage of the far-reaching progress and impact women have made on the U.S.—making it clearer the importance of celebrating and amplifying women's voices and achievements.
EMPOWERING ENTREPRENEURSHIP
Now more than ever, women are making leaps and bounds as entrepreneurs. According to research, 42% of all U.S. businesses are owned by women.
BREAKING RECORDS, INSPIRING GENERATIONS
As of 2024, women-owned businesses have grown 114% in the last two decades.
WOMEN REDEFINING ATHLETICISM
Women athletes have achieved remarkable feats in sports. From Billie Jean King's advocacy for gender equality in tennis to Simone Biles' record-breaking gymnastics performances, women continue to redefine athleticism and inspire future generations.
PRICELESS CONTRIBUTIONS
Research suggests that the estimated annual salary for a stay-at-home mom, when taking into account all of the jobs they complete in a day, including house cleaner, chef, chauffeur—and more—is $184,820.
PAVING THE POLITICAL PATH
Women have shattered glass ceilings in politics around the world. Today, women make up 27% of the United States Congress.
WOMEN'S INTEGRAL ROLE IN THE MILITARY
Women make up 14% of active duty military members. It wasn’t until 2013 that the U.S. government lifted its ban on women serving in combat positions.
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1820–1906
WOMEN OF IMPACT
SACAGAWEA
Sacagawea, a Shoshone woman, guided Lewis and Clark’s expedition, showcasing women's strength in exploration. She overcame hardships, including being kidnapped at a young age and enduring a perilous journey through the Rocky Mountains while pregnant.
SUSAN B. ANTHONY
Susan B. Anthony, an American activist, campaigned against slavery and fought for women's and workers' rights. Through countless speeches and tireless efforts, she inspired generations to advocate for gender equality.
1830–1886
EMILY DICKINSON
Emily Dickinson, a pioneering poet, defied norms, empowering women through introspective verses. Her brilliance resonated across generations, inspiring female writers to assert their voices in literature.
1897–1937
AMELIA EARHART
Amelia Earhart, pioneering aviator, shattered gender barriers in the early 20th century, becoming the first woman to fly solo across the Atlantic. Her fearless spirit and achievements continue to inspire women's aspirations worldwide.
1943–Present
BILLIE JEAN KING
Billie Jean King is an American tennis icon who won 67 professional titles, including 20 titles at Wimbledon. She challenged gender norms by advocating for equal pay and opportunities for women.
1944–Present
ANGELA DAVIS
Angela Davis, an iconic figure in women's history, advocated for racial and gender equality, challenging systemic injustices through activism and scholarship, inspiring generations with her courage and intellect.
1930–2023
SANDRA DAY O'CONNOR
Sandra Day O'Connor was the first female Supreme Court Justice who shattered barriers, advancing women's rights in law. Her landmark decisions paved the way for gender equality. She retired in 2006, after serving 24 years.
The San Joaquin Flower Collective is a collaboration among 9 growers to bring the highest quality wholesale & retail flowers to the Central Valley.
Delivery now available from Fresno to Visalia, beginning in March. Scan the QR code to shop our blooms!
FARMS:
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Bloemen Flower Farm
Foliage Flower Farm
Freckled Flower Farm
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January & June
Sweet Acres Flower Farm
Wynnie's Flower Farm
Yosemite Flower Farm
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the growth of local flower farming
Words by Natalie Geehr | Photos by TopographDriving through the Central Valley, you’re probably familiar with the miles of vineyards and acres of orchards providing much of our beautiful region’s agricultural output. Fruit and nut crops may be the Valley’s top products, but if you know where to look, a smaller industry is taking root in the nooks and crannies of our booming ag land. Small scale flower farming has been gaining popularity nationwide thanks to generous farmer teachers like Erin Benzakein and Lisa Mason Zeigler providing accessible education via online courses. Even the number of small-scale flower farms in the Central Valley has increased exponentially since 2020. Generally defined as a flower farm on a quarter-acre or less, these tiny but mighty operations can produce hundreds of bunches of blooms over a growing season. From the narcissus, tulips, and early spring bulbs in February to the late chrysanthemums and dahlias that stretch into December, flower farmers in the Valley can produce nearly year-round (even without a greenhouse).
Though small scale flower farms are highly productive on a square-foot basis in comparison to fruit or nut crops, these farmers are competing for market share against the larger scale operations of imported flowers. According to American Grown Flowers, only about 22% of the flowers sold in the United States are grown here, and an even smaller percentage are sourced within a 200-mile radius of the end consumer.
Columbia alone accounts for nearly 70% of imported flowers in the U.S. each day, which are typically the ones you’ll see in grocery stores at rock-bottom prices. South American growing operations are not under the same restrictions as U.S. grown, meaning that many of these operations do not pay workers fair wages, drain their water sources at an unsustainable rate, and douse their flowers in insecticides proven to cause health problems for both the workers and florists who work with them day after day.
Luckily with local flower farms making a comeback, consumers and florists alike have more options to source healthier flowers that support the local economy (and are jaw droppingly gorgeous, of course!). Whether you find a weekend warrior turning their yard into a blooming paradise like Golden Season Flower Co. in Visalia, or a Clovis classic like Wynnie’s Flower Farm slinging bouquets at a Friday night farmer’s market, there are wonderful local growers to visit or buy flowers from this season. Florists are welcome to shop wholesale from a joint effort between local growers via the San Joaquin Flower Collective, which offers wholesale flowers from nine local growers for pickup or delivery, anywhere from Fresno down to Visalia.
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Growing cut flowers requires months of planning ahead—starting the seeds, preparing the soil, planting the small plants out, and then…a lot of waiting for them to grow and bloom! I love the whole process, and I’ve learned a lot of patience along the way.
-Kasey Stott | Bloemen Flower Farm
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FLOWER FARMS NEAR US:
• Bloemen Flower Farm (Visalia)
• Blooms on Lincoln Ave (Fresno)
• Colline Flower Farm (San Luis Obispo)
• Foliage Flower Farm (Fresno)
• Freckled Flower Farm (Fresno)
• Golden Season Flower Farm (Visalia)
• January and June Blooms (Clovis)
• Solace Lavender Farm (Fresno)
• Sweet Girl Farms (Reedley)
• Sweet Thistle Flower Farm (Clovis)
• Sweet Acres Flower Farm (Fresno)
• Wynnie’s Flower Farm (Clovis)
• Yosemite Flower Farm (Yosemite)
We're excited to announce our 2024 Reader's Choice Awards recognizing the Best of the South Valley. It’s our way of celebrating the things that make the South Valley great. Know someone that has an exceptional business, service or, experience? Start nominating today!
Rules of Engagement
1. How do I get my business on the ballot?
Best of the South Valley opens with a write-in nomination round. You, your friends, customers, and supporters go to the online ballot and enter a name for the appropriate categories—Best Sweet Treat or Best Florist or Best Brunch Spot. We make it easy to share a direct link to the appropriate category via email, text, or social media. After nominations close, we count the number of nominations for each entrant. Top nominations advance to the final round.
2. How do the winners get selected?
Readers vote between finalists in each category. You may vote up to one time per day in each category. When the finals close on April 28th, we start counting the winners, which are announced in May.
3. How can I win?
The best way to win is to campaign. Most nominees will need to muster their loyal customers, friends, family (and maybe even their kooky aunts) to support them. Basically, this is a great platform to get the word out and garner some grassroots support for your business.
We have Best of the South Valley campaign assets ready for you to drop in your own images and use on social media, flyers, posters, and more. That's all the help we can give you. Good luck out there.
4. When does this all happen?
Nomination round: Nominations are now open through Thursday, March 28.
Finals: Voting for finalists in each category opens Monday, April 1 and closes Sunday, April 28.
Winners: Winners will be announced in May and will be published in our June issue. Follow us on social media to stay tuned in!
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Celebrate St. Paddy’s Day with these festive businesses in Downtown Visalia!
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707 W Murray Ave
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Celebrate St. Paddy's day at 1852 on March 16th after Irish fest! An event wristband gets you $5 pints. Also, wear green and enjoy happy hour from 12pm-4pm on March 17.
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Irish Fest
March 16, 1-5pm
Rec Park | 345 N Jacob St visaliabreakfastlions.org
Irish Fest continues to feature a sampling of over 50 flavors of local craft breweries with 100 different brews to taste along with Craft Spirits. Guests will receive a free craft beer glass! Live music with Bigfoot And The Moon. Must be 21+. Tickets are $50 in advance and $60 at the door – there are a limited number of tickets. Non-drinker/ Designated Driver $20.
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ImagineU Museum
210 N Tipton St
Mon & Fri 9am-1pm • Sat & Sun 9am-5pm (559) 733-5975 imagineumuseum.org
ImagineU Children's Museum is an interactive hands-on play environment for kids and families to imagine, explore and learn.
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How We Roll Ice Cream
104 S Church St
Mon-Thu 12pm-9pm • Fri 12pm-10pm Sat 11am-10pm • Sun 11am-10pm (559) 802-3277 hwric.com
St. Patrick's Day desserts are better than a pot of gold! Enjoy fresh, handmade ice cream rolls. Order "Sir Charms" on St. Patrick's Day!
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Q&A with owners
Josh & Kelsey Ormonde Words by Lifestyle Staff | Photos by TopographLifestyle: Tell us a little about yourselves, and how you work together as a team.
Kelsey: I’m the lead designer of Sanctuaire Interiors. I started this journey on a path for a creative outlet, and it quickly grew into what it is today. I am so thankful to have a supportive and helpful husband by my side. I quickly needed help early on for furniture installs and Josh took the lead on that. As my plate has filled up, he’s been right there to offer to take over feasible tasks to keep our life and business running smoothly. I am still the client contact and creative, and he helps manage everything else behind the scenes.
Josh: Kelsey is really the creative and artistic mind behind all of the beauty and uniqueness that comes out of Sanctuaire. I come in with more of a business and leadership background, which is really where my own creative juices flow. I’ve always had an entrepreneurial perspective and attitude, and a desire to build and create new things. So the business side is really where I get fired up and focus a lot of my attention. Kelsey’s talent for design is very clear when you watch and listen to her work; it makes me very confident in supporting her and pursuing these goals with her. I have a habit of diving headfirst into things, so when she wanted to build a real design firm from this side hustle, I was in. It hasn’t come without its challenges, but it has been exciting nonetheless.
“It’s hard work. You have to be okay with being uncomfortable and working constantly to be better than the day before.”
-Kelsey Ormonde
INTERIORS
Lifestyle: When and how did your dream of opening an interior design shop begin?
Kelsey: In 2020, when my part-time hobby and side hustle of designing spaces for friends and family really started to take off, I was able to accomplish so much work from the comfort of my home and client’s homes. I definitely took up my fair share of coffee shop real estate and lugging samples around. When we decided it was time to seek an office space for us and our growing team, it seemed fitting to have a place to welcome not only existing clients, but also potential new and returning clients! Through social media, we had so many requests for small styling or sourcing requests outside of a full-scale design project, so a shop was absolutely fitting for our business model.
Lifestyle: What inspired you to plant roots for Sanctuaire in Exeter, CA?
Kelsey & Josh: Ever since we began looking for a studio and shop space, it was without a doubt that Josh and I knew it had to be in Exeter. I grew up in Exeter, and we love this town so much. It has a different vibe and personality that we feel is a great fit for us. We love the safe, family-friendly walkability of the town, the familiar camaraderie of locals, and the beautiful blend of old and new. Exeter is booming with so many young entrepreneurs, and we couldn’t feel more grateful to be a part of this beautiful transition.
Lifestyle: Do you offer any design services or consultations to help guide customers?
Kelsey: Yes! We offer in-person one-hour consultations, typically done on-site. During that time, we offer design insights, ideas and see what areas of your home or work you are struggling with. The consultation can also be done in our design studio or via video call if the home is a new construction or out-of-state. We are also excited to announce mini-styling consultations available in-shop to help you find the right items and how to style them in your space. For more information, or to book, we encourage clients to head to our website and fill out our design inquiry form.
Lifestyle: How do you stay on top of emerging trends in home decor, and where do you find your inspiration?
Kelsey: I like to think our team is stacked with design enthusiasts—we live and breathe design! We are constantly seeking new inspiration via social media, YouTube channels, and training courses in addition to looking back at world history and architecture books. We attend the Las Vegas Design Market to stay on top of new items and products available, keep an eye out for emerging trends, and pay attention to the details that separate ordinary from extraordinary.
“Exeter is booming with so many young entrepreneurs, and we couldn’t feel more grateful to be a part of this beautiful transition.”
Lifestyle: How do you curate your collection of products?
Kelsey: I seek items that are unique yet versatile; I want customers and clients to find items they love and will cherish for years to come. Some of it is trial and error, but at the end of the day, if I don’t love something, I can’t expect someone else to. I love to mix vintage and new and find items that tell a story or are handmade by artisans. When possible, I try to use local vendors to help create our rotating seasonal collections. I never want customers to feel like the shop is the same as their last visit—it helps to stretch my creativity as well!
Lifestyle: What advice would you give to someone looking to start their own home interior shop, or just someone wanting to become an interior designer?
Kelsey: It’s hard work. You have to be okay with being uncomfortable and working constantly to be better than the day before. You will fail at something, and it’s a miserable feeling. Be okay with that feeling; lean into it and never make the same mistake twice. Learn how to communicate with your clients and contractors and how to navigate decisions on the fly. Interior design can be very emotional for the client, but guiding them to the final product is so rewarding when they see everything come together.
Lifestyle: Looking forward to the next decade, what are your goals for Sanctuaire?
Kelsey: Josh and I are perpetual dreamers. We love to dream big and then dream bigger! Some of our best conversations are about setting a goal together and figuring out how to navigate and lay down the stepping stones to reach that goal. We would love to share some of the things we have brewing, but you will just have to follow along to find out!
Interior Design Studio & Shoppe 139 N. E St. Exeter, CA Wed-Fri 10am-4pm | Sat 9am-2pm @shoppesanctuaire shoppesanctuaire.com
DESIGN
How To Add Character To Your Home On A Budget
Words by Sanctuaire InteriorsLayer, Layer, and Then Layer Some More
The easiest way to add character to your home and make it feel luxe is to add layers, and then add more layers. By adding a few intentional elements to a room, it can feel polished and collected without being cluttered or messy. Your home should be a reflection of you and make you feel happy when you are there. Keep personalized items like framed photos, travel mementos, or heirloom pieces (either from Grandma or an antique shop) to set your home apart, but don’t overdo it. You can add dimension and interest to your home decor by layering a modern mirror over a console table with a large piece of art, incorporating a few patterns on your throw pillows, or placing a woven tray under your centerpiece.
Dress Your Walls
Trends right now are rich in color and texture, which is a cost-effective way to elevate your space on a budget. You can add decorative trim molding, tongue and groove, wallpaper, or paint color or texture like limewash or Roman clay to your walls. None of these trends are new, but they have gained a lot of popularity in recent years. By adding something interesting to your walls, you can easily elevate the space to set a tone for the room. One of the easiest ways to incorporate this trend is to fully saturate a room in color: walls, ceiling, baseboards, and even the interior of the door.
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Mix Your Metals
This idea is not new, but it’s here to stay. Having everything match is fine, but it can feel boring and cookie-cutter. Mixing metals within your space is all about balance. The key to mixing metals, whether in your bathroom or kitchen, is to keep it intentional and cohesive. A good rule of thumb is to pick a polished metal and pair it with a matte or brushed metal. Think brushed brass with polished nickel. In most cases, keep it to only two metals in a single space. If the thought of mixing metals still isn’t for you, try doing a mix of hardware styles: pulls, knobs, latches all add unexpected character when used together.
Mood Lighting
Play with Rugs
One of the simplest ways to dress up or change the vibe of a room is to change out your area rug or add one. At Shoppe Sanctuaire, we offer a wide variety of rugs at different price points and are happy to help you choose the right one for your space. Size and placement are key to the foundation your rug creates in the room. A rug that's too small feels visually incomplete and doesn’t offer the grounding room definition that it should. Most living rooms can support a 9’x12’ rug or larger, and the goal is to get all of the front legs or all the legs of your furniture on the rug. If the rug you love is too small, then we suggest layering a larger simple rug underneath for dimension.
One of our favorite ways to change the look of a room is to swap out the overhead light fixture with a new one. There are endless options out there at so many price points, and with the simple help of a licensed electrician, your home can have a whole new feel. Even a new ceiling fan can make a simple room interesting with so many stylish options. If an electrician isn’t in your budget, ambient lighting will help a room feel intentional. Even a cute mini lamp on a vanity or kitchen counter can add character in an unexpected location.
OUR BEAUTIFUL CROATIA
WordsIcan’t tell you everything about Croatia, but I can tell you at least this: You should go.
I toured six towns in 10 days, just enough to get the flavor of each, while capturing the movable feast the country offers. As with most of Europe, Croatia's history is filled with fighting for its individual identity. Its medieval walled cities, once built to protect it, now offer up a fun travel destination along the Adriatic coastline. The country is similar in size to West Virginia and houses around 4 million people.
One of Europe’s most popular destinations, the landlocked capital city of Zagreb, is an area rich with history and culture. Nearly one-quarter of the country’s total population is found in Zagreb and the surrounding area, home to several ancient cathedrals, mosques, and royal dwellings in areas the Romans once marched through. Summer evenings are pleasant, and when the daytime bustle of the area turns to nightlife, clubs, live music, and open-air markets spark to life, offering visitors lively European nights. Tourists may choose to fly into the international airport in Zagreb, then rent a car to tour the rest of Croatia.
Romance and adventure abound in typical Mediterranean Riviera spots, with a steep price tag to match. While the Croatian coastline isn’t cheap, it’s certainly more affordable than most of Western Europe. Plan in advance, and you could stay in a place overlooking the water for under $200 a night. In Europe, the secret is out: Croatia has a lot to offer, especially in summer. Americans are starting to get word on the destination too.
"AS WITH MOST OF EUROPE, CROATIA'S HISTORY IS FILLED WITH FIGHTING FOR ITS INDIVIDUAL IDENTITY."
"WALKING ALONG THE SEA WALL, OR SWIMMING IN ITS SAPPHIRE WATERS, IS REMINISCENT OF A LIVING FAIRYTALE."
Set your sights on the coastal town of Split, along the Dalmatia coast (where the Dalmatian dog breed originated). It’s the second largest city in the country, after Zagreb. Split was the retirement palace town of the Roman Emperor Diocletian, and is a treasure trove of Roman ruins. In the old ship-building town, you will find arts, culture, history, and great food. Walking through the Old Town during the bright hours of the day, or during the cool, salty, evening air, you’ll feel history underfoot while walking its winding, narrow, cobblestone roads and walkways. Stop and have an espresso or a bite to eat in Narodni Trg, “The People's Square,” while you relax and people watch. Be certain to visit the impressive Riva Promenade, too. This palm treelined walk stretches along the harbor with views of the Adriatic Sea and the incredible vessels that sail it—paired with amazing food and wine at its open-air harborside restaurants, and you'll have an unforgettable meal.
Only an hour out of Split is Krka National Park. The big draw in these lush, green hills is the Skradinski Buk, or the Krka Waterfalls. These falls, considered to be some of the world’s most beautiful, can be accessed via a lake ferry ride to the trailhead for a short walk to the vista. Near the waters, seating areas allow you to take it all in, or you can hike trails to capture an image that's certain to make your friends and family jealous.
With over a thousand islands in all of Croatia, it might be difficult to pinpoint the most beautiful destination. But with limited space here, we’ll say Korcula. Korcula sits just off the mainland, the fabled birthplace of legendary explorer Marco Polo. Several other spots just like it sit along the coastline, each with their own charms. The coastal medieval towns, once designed to wall enemies out, now serve to welcome visitors warmly inside. Korcula’s old town center is only a few football fields long, yet every few doorways lead to something splendid: Art galleries, wine tasting, small pubs, or a Michelin Star restaurant (Korcula has four). The town’s cobblestone streets are walkable at any hour, making it a pleasure to wander among the Venetian-inspired architecture. Walking along the sea wall, or swimming in its sapphire waters, is reminiscent of a living fairytale. This is also Croatia’s wine region, so a winery tour is a must for any who favor the drink. The small bit of effort to take a ferry is well worth it once you experience the locals' warm welcome.
"CROATIA IS A COUNTRY THAT MAKES YOU WANT TO RETURN, EVEN AS YOU'RE HEADED HOME."
Croatia is safe, often landing in the top 10 or 20 of online tourist travel safety lists. Of course, always keep your guard up, but don’t worry about groups of pickpockets that may occur in many other tourist hotspots. We even left our belongings on the beach with our towels as we went in for a dip. The people are friendly, and most speak English. Croatia is a country that makes you want to return, even as you’re headed home. The region's tenacious history and present flourishing will continue to beckon to me—and I hope to return someday.
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Captivating, curated goods fill each of these Central Valley antique and vintage shops.
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Brooke, Holly & Kate are a group of sisters who love finding old treasures a new home! No matter where they are, they love setting aside time to explore estate sales and antique shops to discover vintage goods for family and friends.
HOMEMADE PESTO
RICH, & SAVORY
HERBY, Recipe by Krystal Lara, Watson’s Organic Market & CafeMakes 12 ounces
INGREDIENTS
3/4 cup walnuts
1 cup spinach
1 cup basil
3 cloves garlic
1/2 lemon, juiced
4 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
1 teaspoon sea salt
1/4 cup nutritional yeast
2 tablespoons water
DIRECTIONS
1. Add all ingredients to a food processor.
2. Blend until combined and reaches desired consistency.
3. Store in an airtight container for up to 7 days.
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Dyed Easter Eggs naturally
INGREDIENTS
2 dozen white eggs
3-4 cups of water for each dye bath (enough to cover the eggs)
2 tablespoons of white vinegar for each dye bath
STEPS
DYE ELEMENTS
3-4 yellow onions (skins only)
3-4 red onions (skins only)
3-4 avocados (washed pits and skins only)
1-2 medium to large beets (chopped)
1-2 cups of used coffee grounds
5-6 tablespoons ground turmeric
Tops and greens of one bunch of carrots (chopped)
1. Prep your dye baths: Get out your ingredients and pots, and prepare your dye elements.
2. In individual pots, place each dye element (e.g. beets have their own pot) with 3-4 cups of water.
3. Bring each pot to a boil, then lower heat to simmer for ~1 hour to extract the color from the dye elements.
4. While dye elements and water simmer, boil your eggs for 8-10 minutes in a large pot with enough water to fully cover the eggs. Remove from heat.
5. After dye elements and water have simmered for ~1 hour, completely strain out and discard/compost plant matter from each of your dye baths, reserving the liquid. (Be careful, it will be HOT!)
MATERIALS
Multiple pots
Spoons
Measuring cup
Measuring spoons
Knife
Cutting board
6. To each pot of dye bath, add 2 tablespoons of white vinegar.
7. Place previously boiled eggs in each hot dye bath.
8. Let your eggs sit in the dye bath. The longer they sit, the darker the color will become. Start with 20 minutes and then check eggs for desired color. The eggs can sit in the dye bath for up to 24 hours if the darkest color is desired.
9. Remove eggs from each dye bath and let dry on a paper towel or in the egg carton.
10. After drying, to achieve a sleeker presentation, rub coconut or olive oil on the eggs.
11. You are now a natural dyer! Place your eggs in a location to admire your creation.
“Pisanica”
THIS TERM, DERIVED FROM THE CROATIAN, WORD MEANING "WRITING", IS THE OLD SLAVIC METHOD OF THE CAREFUL, NATURAL DYEING OF EGGS.
Searching for a more advanced method? Here are two alternatives in creating your naturally dyed Easter eggs!
Easter Eggs plant printed
SUPPLIES
Assortment of small, flat flowers, leaves, and plant clippings from your yard
Knee-high pantyhose, cut in half across (about 4”)
Scissors
STEPS
1. Collect an assortment of small, flat flowers, leaves, and plant clippings from your yard.
2. Before placing eggs into dye baths, separate out a chosen amount of undyed eggs.
3. Wet your eggs with water and flatten your plants, flowers, or leaves on one side of an egg.
4. Take the 4” piece(s) of cut pantyhose, and place the egg with the plant, flower, or leaves carefully inside the pantyhose.
5. Pull tight and tie each end to secure the egg inside the pantyhose—the plant matter should be visible through the pantyhose. Reposition the plant matter to the preferred location on the egg.
6. Place the wrapped egg into the chosen dye bath.
7. Follow remaining steps 8-11 from the original recipe.
Color Options alternative
Use brown or blue eggs to play with different colors and color combinations!
notes:
Creating dyes with natural materials (plants, vegetables, or flowers) can sometimes be unpredictable. Natural dyes are living dyes and sometimes results will vary.
COLORS:
Yellow onions – peach to rusty orange
Red onions – golden yellow to rusty orange
Avocados – pink to red
Beets – pink to burgundy
Coffee grounds – tan to brown
Turmeric – yellow
Tops of carrots – green
The Visalia Belle that Became a Princess
Words and Photos Provided by Terry OmmenTulare County has been home to many women of great fame and accomplishments. From being the first woman to reach the top of Mt. Whitney, to surviving the ill-fated Donner Party tragedy, to winning public office, women of the county have often risen to great heights. But there is one who soared even higher—she was an internationally recognized stage actor who later became a princess. Eleanor Hulda Calhoun’s meteoric rise from a toddler playing on Visalia streets to an actress who became royalty is a story worth telling.
Eleanor, or Nellie as she was nicknamed, was born into a family with an impressive pedigree. Her father, Ezekiel Ewing Calhoun, was the second cousin of John C. Calhoun, the famous American statesman who served as a U.S. Senator, Secretary of War, and Vice President of the United States in America’s early years. Her father had come to Visalia from Kentucky in 1855 as a young lawyer. Well-educated, Calhoun quickly became an influential man in Tulare County politics and had much to do with shaping events in the town. He served as County Clerk and for three years held the office of County Judge. In 1858, Calhoun created the first official map of Visalia. Eleanor’s mother, Laura, was the daughter of Poker Davis of Farmersville and was a recognized biologist who would go on to write short stories about life in California. Ezekiel and Laura married in 1861, and the following year, Eleanor was born.
Nellie was a bright girl, and much of her early education came from her parents while the family lived in their Court Street home in Visalia. For fun, the toddler would run barefoot in her neighborhood and cool off in Mill Creek on hot summer days.
When Kern County was formed in 1866, Eleanor’s father was chosen to be the new Kern County district attorney. So when Nellie was about four years old, her family moved from Visalia to Havilah, the county seat of the newly formed Kern County. The family also lived in various other places including Bakersfield, Caliente, and Calhoun’s Valley near Tehachapi.
This photo of Eleanor Calhoun Lazarovich-Hrebelianovich appeared in the frontispiece of her book “Pleasures and Palaces”. Circa 1915.When Eleanor reached college age, she attended San Jose Normal School with plans of becoming a teacher, even though her first love was performing on stage. She had enjoyed her rural upbringing, but as a young girl, she “longed and thirsted too for the great life that lay somewhere beyond the great ranges…I was hungry for human beings and knowledge of their thoughts and their ways…,” she wrote. She yearned for travel and the sophisticated life of a stage actor—the exact opposite of the harsh and crude life offered by the American West.
During summer vacation from Normal School in 1879, Nellie and her talented pianist friend, Lola Lawrey, traveled throughout California visiting friends and performing along the way. The duo stopped in Visalia and gave several performances at Centennial Hall, located on Court Street between Main and Center—the building still stands today. Both young ladies were well-received, but 17-year-old Nellie was clearly the hometown favorite. The audience cheered with pride after each act. Her dramatic readings were outstanding, and the local reviews were very complimentary. “She is an exceptionally good elocutionist, her manner of delivery being perfectly natural and not artificial like that of most schoolgirls. She possesses an excellent voice…and makes a prepossessing appearance on the stage, her figure being shapely, her features pleasing, and eyes bright and impressive,” reported the Visalia Weekly Delta newspaper. They added, “If she follows the stage as a profession, as she contemplates doing after completing her education, we bespeak for her a bright future.”
While in school at San Jose, Eleanor caught the attention of Phoebe Hearst, who financed a trip for her to France to pursue her acting career. Some said that Hearst paid for her trip so she would not marry her son William Randolph Hearst. It was said that the Hearsts felt that Eleanor was not good enough for their son.
The expense-paid trip to France was perfect for her. She was clearly on a path to a bright stage career. Although trained as a teacher, she instead went on to become a famous international actor performing throughout the United States and Europe. She was especially popular in England and France.
Visalians followed her career closely, and in 1899, the Tulare County Times newspaper reported, “From England comes glowing reports of the success on the stage achieved by Eleanor Calhoun.” She had become world-famous. Her career was given a big boost when she served as an understudy for Lily Langtry, and in doing so, caught the eye of the well-known playwright George Bernard Shaw, who praised her performance.
While playing Juliet in the "Romeo and Juliet" stage play in London in 1903, she was introduced to Prince Lazarovich-Hrebelianovich, heir to the throne of Serbia. They fell in love and were married. Nellie became Princess Eleanor Lazarovich-Hrebelianovich of Serbia. She gave up acting, and her new obsession became supporting her exiled husband in his attempt to return to his native land as head of state. After her husband died, Eleanor continued the fight to free Serbia. She authored three books: “The Serbian People” in 1910, “Pleasures & Palaces” in 1915, and “The Play” in 1926.
Her remarkable life had taken her from the small town of Visalia to the most opulent theaters of Europe and then on to the life of royalty. The Calhoun family had once again produced greatness. Later in her life, Eleanor made several trips back to Visalia. In January 1957, she died at her home in New York City at the age of 95.
Eleanor wrote her memoirs in a book she called "Pleasures and Palaces." The book was published in 1915 by the Century Co.March Agenda
Spring beckons, and events around town are calling your name!
MAR 3
Spring Makers Market
When: 10:00am-4:00pm
Where: Exeter Veterans Memorial Building
Hosted by: Brianna Carbrera @crafty_move
MAR 9-10
Rusty Roots Show
When: 9:00am-3:00pm
Where: Tulare County Fairgrounds
Hosted by: Rusty Roots Show rustyrootsshow.com
TULARE
MAR 16
Spring Fling & Ford Family Farms Petting Zoo
When: 9:00am-2:00pm
Where: Heiskell's Feed Depot
Hosted by: Heiskell's Feed Depot heiskellsfeeddepot.com
MAR 9
Banned & Boycotted presented by Sequoia Symphony Orchestra
When: Doors open at 6:30pm, Showtime 7:00pm
Where: Visalia Fox Theatre
Hosted by: Visalia Fox Theatre foxvisalia.org
MAR 16
Rocky Hill Motorfest
When: 12:00pm-4:00pm
Where: Exeter Gunslingers
Hosted by: Exeter Chamber of Commerce and Exeter Coffee Co. eventbrite.com | (559) 799-9790
TULARE EXETER
MAR 23-24
South Valley Art Tour
When: 10:00am-5:00pm
Where: Artist Studios, North and South of Hwy 198
Hosted by: Arts Consortium artsconsortium.org
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