May 2020 253 Lifestyle

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A Time of Renewal It’s May, and this is usually the time when everything is starting to come back to life, especially in our local communities. But this May we are all faced with something much different; a reality that is riddled with uncertainty. Most of us either own or work for a small business, and we have all witnessed firsthand how challenging things have become. We are only as good as our community and the support we receive from each other. It is the fabric of the community that binds us together and keeps us all living in harmony with one another. There are no substitutes. It is “us” that makes the 253 such an amazing place to live. Which leads me to the multi-billion-dollar corporations that have flooded our airwaves and social media channels with their mantra of “We are all in this together,” which makes me think, “Are we?” Are we really “in this together”?

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Q&A WITH BERNIE GARCIA, PRESIDENT OF MOCTEZUMA’S

Let us not be fooled and remember the people who live, breathe and work here are the ones who are “in this together.” We are the ones who have each other’s backs, and we are the ones who will figure out how we create our new normal. And one thing I am certain of is that we will figure it out and make it happen! And while we are all waiting for the “go” from our leaders, embrace the time we get to have with loved ones. These are precious moments, and we should all make the most of them!

May will be a time of renewal once again, and this year the renewal will be one of the best.

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HOME About The Cover THE MAY COVER OF 253 LIFESTYLE MAGAZINE features Bernie Garcia, president of Moctezuma’s Mexican Restaurant and Tequila Bar. Read more about what great things have been happening at the restaurant, as well as how the Garcia family has been showing their support to the community, in this month’s Q&A on page 30.

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A Reflection of Self: Creating your home sanctuary

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f these last few weeks have taught us anything, it is that our home truly is our sanctuary from the outside world. As I write this, I am cozied up on the couch with my 9-year-old, who is adjusting to her new version of “normal,” the center of which is our home. So, what can we do to make our home more inviting, comfortable and reflective of who we are?

Whenever I feel my home is in need of a bit of sprucing up, I try to look at it with clear eyes. What would a stranger feel when they walk into our space? Would they see clutter, old magazines, newspapers or schoolwork? Would they smell the salmon that we cooked for dinner last night? Would our home be welcoming or off-putting? Think of the sense of calm you experience when you walk into a spa or luxurious hotel. At this time in the world, we could all use a little more ‘calm’ in our lives and our environments.

One of the first things I do when I walk into a new space is to assess the clutter. Clearing clutter is essential for having a welcoming, inviting home. Now, this does not mean that you need to have to subscribe to spare minimalism; it just means that everyday detritus is not on view for all to see. As William Morris said, “Have nothing in your home that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.” So, if you believe your china bunny collection to be beautiful, then by all means, keep it! Stylists display collections all together so that it reads as a whole and not as a lot of competing items.

Another key element is our sense of smell. I love walking into a spa and breathing in that healing scent of essential oils and expensive candles. Diffusers, candles, incense, all of these have the potential to help create a lovely environment, but they can also overwhelm. I love pairing fragrances together, but I always try to use good-quality candles and stick with natural-smelling options like lemon, mint, grapefruit or evergreen. Overly perfumed scents can be difficult as they do

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not necessarily read as relaxing. When choosing scented products for your home, ask yourself if it’s something you might experience in a high-end spa. If not, put it back!

In creating our home as a sanctuary, one of the most important elements is self-expression; having art on the wall that you love, colors that speak to you, and furnishings that are specific to your needs and wants. All of these are important, but we can take it one step further. If you love to cook, make sure that your kitchen is stocked with beautiful dishes, good-quality pots and pans, and most of all, is clear from clutter! If you love to read, make sure you have adequate shelves and storage space for your collection of books. If you love to paint, set up a space in your home that allows you to indulge in your passion. If you meditate regularly, set up a space of calm specifically for this practice.

The most important thing to remember in creating our own sanctuary is that our home is our own. Arrange things how you like them. Don’t model your home after the latest Better Homes and Gardens issue. Also, bear in mind that sprucing up can be done on any budget. It might take some persistence, but wonderful quality things can be found at thrift stores, garage sales and even church rummage sales. Build your home slowly; it does not have to be done overnight.

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pring is here, the stars are out, and we’re all ready for some outdoor adventure. The Northwest boasts some of the country’s most beautiful spots to camp—from craggy oceanside haunts to peaceful lakefront retreats, there are great adventures to be had within an easy day’s drive. Here are some of the best the PNW has to offer.

Paradise Creek Campground Situated where Paradise Creek and Wind River come together near Carson, Washington, Paradise Creek sits in the Gifford Pinchot National Forest. The old growth trees create a peaceful environment, and the campground is fairly remote. The Falls Creek Falls trailhead is only 5 miles away, and the campground serves as a prime base for exploring trails and viewpoints around Mount Saint Helens and Mt. Adams. FS.USDA. gov/recarea/giffordpinchot recarea/?recid=31870 Priest Lake State Park A 19-mile-long pristine lake 30 miles from the Canadian border, Priest Lake boasts pristine crystal waters and various campgrounds situated on various parts of the lakeshore. Priest Lake is considered one of North Idaho’s most beautiful lakes, nestled in the Selkirk Mountains. With boating, fishing and hiking right at hand, there is plenty to do. Natural rock slides are a drive and short hike north of the lake, and there are plentiful trails and day trips around the area to choose from. Keep in mind camp spots often sell out months in advance, so plan ahead.

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The Northwest boasts some of the country’s most beautiful spots to camp— from craggy oceanside haunts to peaceful lakefront retreats.

Moran State Park Situated on Orcas Island in the San Juan Islands off the coast of Washington, this state park is a favorite of many. Miles of woodland, lakeside hiking trails and several campgrounds on the shores of Cascade Lake make this a camper’s dream. Mount Constitution rises above nearly half a mile, with views of Mount Baker, the North Cascades and the islands of the San Juan Archipelago easily visible from the 1930’s watchtower that sits on top. MoranStatePark.com White River Falls A remote forest service campground along the White River, this spot is worth the drive. Situated about 11 miles north of Lake Wenatchee in the Okanogan-Wenatchee National Forest, the campground is fairly small—only five spots. It doesn’t have RV hookups or potable water and only boasts two vault toilets, but the setting right near the falls is beautiful. Two more campgrounds back down the road a few miles offer alternative stays if the campground is full.

FS.USDA.gov/recarea/okawen/recarea/?recid=59065 Heyburn State Park Three lakes and acres of meadows and Ponderosa Pines mark the oldest state park in the Pacific Northwest. There are three campgrounds in

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the park, located just over 30 miles south of Coeur d’Alene, Idaho.

Hawleys Landing Campground and Chatcolet Campground are available for reservations, and Benewah Campground is first come, first served. Many hiking and biking trails are easily accessible from the park, including the “Trail of the Coeur d’Alenes,” which runs directly through the park. ParksAndRecreation.idaho.gov/parks/heyburn Lake Chelan State Park A family favorite destination in Central Washington, this 139-acre campground offers lots of lake access, sandy shoreline and activity.

Amenities like showers, restrooms and picnic areas make this an easy summer camping spot for the whole family. Paddleboard and kayak rentals are available if you don’t have your own—or want to haul it. Set out to explore the North Cascades or relax by the lakeshore and enjoy some fun in the sun. Parks.State.wa.us/531/lake-chelan Farragut State Park This 4,000-acre park was once a naval training station during WWII. Situated on the southern tip of Lake Pend Oreille in the Coeur d’Alene Mountains, it is a breathtaking location with ample opportunities for camping, fishing, swimming and boating.

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A hike up Bernard Peak offers a spectacular view of the park and lake.

ParksAndRecreation.idaho.gov/parks/farragut Cape Disappointment State Park A 2,023-acre camping park on the Long Beach Peninsula, Cape Disappointment State Park sits on the Pacific Ocean near the mouth of the Columbia River. This place is steeping in history, like Captain John Meares’ first thwarted voyage to find the Columbia River, Lewis and Clark’s explorations, and crumbling WWII defenses. You can explore the Lewis & Clark Interpretive Center with its interactive exhibit, gaze at old lighthouses or hike the many trails in the area. The coastline presents its own attractions, including clam digging and salmon and crab fishing.

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Deception Pass State Park Three freshwater lakes and 77,000 feet of saltwater shoreline make this a water lover’s paradise. Deception Pass is Washington’s most popular state park, and for good reason. Situated along two islands—Fidalgo and Whidbey—it is a breathtakingly beautiful location, boasting incredible sunsets, fresh and sea water activities, jagged cliffs and peaceful coves.

Note: A two-year project to restore and repair the Deception Pass Bridge and Canoe Pass Bridge is still underway, so expect increased traffic and construction noise. Parks.State.WA.us/497/deception-pass * Due to the COVID-19 virus, as of press time, many campgrounds are temporarily closed. Make sure to verify the park is open before planning your trip.

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he best way that we feel that we can honor Claire is to give every child the best chance they have at life,” says Shayna Raphael, mother of Claire.

Shayna and her husband Justin are the founders of a foundation called the Claire Bear Foundation; a foundation that provides resources and information to promote safe sleep and prevent sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS). As founders, they are responsible for a lot of activities, funding and promotion. More recently the foundation is in the process of rolling out a mobile safe sleep training unit, bringing resources and education to a greater and harder-to-reach audience. Shayna and Justin are also working as advocates to bring about much-needed legislation and state funding for preschoolers across the state.

There’s a lot of work to be done. There’s a lot of conversation, activities, information, fundraisers and outreach. The Claire Bear Foundation has its origin in grief, which makes every interaction heavy with purpose. Every activity carries the weight of a greater responsibility; a responsibility that so many can relate to at a basic level: the responsibility of family. The loyalty and immeasurable depth of love and vulnerability that we feel for our children, the joyful and heavy task of loving like a parent, is something that none of us takes lightly. The Raphael family is tasked by what that means when being the parents of Claire.

Claire was just 10 months old when she died in the care of her daycare facility. She was put down to sleep in the bedroom of the in-home care worker, instead of in her crib. She rolled on her side, creating a pocket of air that she continually recycled in and out, slowly putting her into a deeper and deeper sleep. She did not recover.

The specific details of Claire’s death were not immediately apparent to Shayna and Justin. All they knew was that Claire

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had died en route to the hospital. There was no immediate investigation or questioning of the childcare worker. Business went along as usual for the daycare, while the family was left reeling with emotions and feelings that they weren’t sure how to process. Through the efforts of friends and hospital staff, Claire’s family did eventually receive closure through the details of her death; details which made them wonder why the daycare facility was allowed to continue to function several weeks after Claire’s death.

It would be understandable if after the loss of Claire that the Raphael family might feel immobilized. Stuck. Unable to move forward. It would also be understandable if the family felt angry. I think all of us can relate to a feeling of wanting justice. This is not, however, how the Raphael family responded. Their response was one of love. After losing Claire, every action came from a desire to preserve something beautiful. Every step an effort to shield other families from having to lose what was most precious to them.

They were interested in honoring their daughter’s memory, not tarnishing it.

It is this personal love, grounded in experience, that has made Shayna such a perfect advocate. Safe sleep can be a tough subject. It can be difficult to admit that there are some practices that we grew up thinking were good that might be, or were, dangerous for our children. Shayna approaches parents from a place of trust and a desire to share, expanding resources and information available to parents to prevent infant death. In other words, she’s relatable.

Through the advocacy TWO YEARS AGO, SOME OF and partnership of the Raphael family, more THOSE FUNDS WERE USED families have access to resources for child safety.

TO CREATE AN INFANT AND In that spirit of advocacy, CHILD TRAUMA TRAINING Shayna and Justin Raphael have used settlement CENTER IN MARY BRIDGE FOR funds from Claire’s death to honor her life DOCTORS AND NURSES. IT through the work of the Claire Bear Foundation.

IS ONE OF TWO THAT EXIST Two years ago, some of those funds were used to IN COMMUNITY HOSPITALS create an infant and child trauma training center in ACROSS THE NATION. Mary Bridge for doctors and nurses. It is one of two that exist in community hospitals across the nation. The training room is equipped with up-to-date CPR technology so that staff can practice life-saving scenarios on childsized mannequins. The hospital was recently remodeled, and the training room was relocated. It reopened in April in commemoration of Claire’s death of the same month.

Along with the more practical resources such as education and health-care advantages, the Raphael family is working with legislators through Child Care Aware of America as parent advocates. Through their advocacy work they hope to put in place Claire’s Law, which would increase non-punitive punishment for daycare facilities where a child dies under care. They are also on a mission to see the state contribute more of the annual budget toward quality preschool care. Currently it is a low 1 percent. One of the greater accomplishments thus far toward that goal has been getting law enforcement, legislators and prosecutors in one room to discuss all the different angles of what Claire’s Law will do.

This year will see a lot of success for the Claire Bear Foundation as they continue in that same vein. Next spring, the Raphael family will hold a gala

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fundraiser on April 24, which will be the sixth anniversary of Claire’s death. Funds will go toward the mobile unit and other partnerships fostered through Mary Bridge. The gala will be held at the Clover Park Technical College Sharon McGavick room.

Until then donations can be made through their website at ClaireBearFoundation.org. Connections can be made through their online resources such as Facebook and the Safe Infant Sleep Evidence Based Group. All donations and resources go toward creating a stronger foundation of support; an essential factor in creating resolution for the bereaved and preventative care for the thriving.

As the training room in Mary Bridge reopens this spring, the Raphael family is reminded of their mission: to support, educate and advocate.

To see every family receive the same level of care that they did, and more. Care and support that comes from the highest levels of the nation. Support from state law through funding and legislation. Support through hospitals that have the newest research at their fingertips. And through us, the community that engages without shame for a greater level of awareness.

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ernie Garcia grew up in the restaurant business starting out at his parents’ restaurant, the first Moctezuma’s on South Tacoma Way, as a dishwasher because his dad wanted him to learn the value of hard work.

He was so young he needed a stool to reach the sink. He worked his way up through every position in the business and realized he was a natural entrepreneur. Bernie loves the challenge of adding innovations that set Moctezuma’s apart from their competitors. Moctezuma’s has always been a family affair, and his parents are still essential to the brand and have plenty of input on the creative and culinary side of things.

Q. The restaurant has been open for over 40 years, and you have received numerous “Best Of ” awards. What does it mean to you to have the local community embrace your business?

A. The only reason that we exist is because of our loyal customers. After serving our amazing guests for over 42 years, we don’t take that for granted. Every single day our goal is to ensure that each of our guests has the best Mexican restaurant and hospitality experience. To maintain exceptional service, food and drink consistently, we employ and retain the best teams by providing them with an ideal work environment to be able to execute to our high standards.

To quote my dad, “It’s not difficult to get to the top, but staying there is the real challenge.”

My teams and I do not rest on our laurels. We are humbled and proud of what we have been able to accomplish in this industry, but we are constantly on our toes, working to sustain our success and maintain a quality presence in a competitive market.

Q. How did you come up with the in-house branded liquor “Grandeza”?

A. After the launch and success of our Coronarita (the margarita with the inverted Corona beer in it), we introduced an innovation in which we used a mini bottle of orange liqueur

to create an elevated Cadillac margarita. Its popularity was impressive. However, one issue that we had was not being able to maintain a consistent supply of clips, and secondly, with the high cost of the minis, it was a challenge to make a decent profit.

After much brainstorming, a bottle design with an integrated clip came to mind. A year later we were granted the utility patent for our innovative clip bottle. We tested our first prototype in our restaurants and were amazed at the popularity.

That was when we realized that we were on to something.

Then we set out to create the ultimate orange liqueur for margaritas, one that would complement tequila and not overpower it the way cognac or brandy-based orange liqueurs do.

After months of testing and sampling, we arrived at our final Grandeza recipe, which included organic Mexican agave nectar, orange peels and a hint of vanilla for balance. It’s 40 percent alcohol and neutral grain spirit based. It beautifully complements the tequila, instead of masking its flavor.

It has been two years, and now Grandeza is distributed by the largest distributor of spirits in the country, Southern Glazer’s Wine & Spirits.

Grandeza was recently honored with a double gold medal at the SIP awards, which was the highest medaled orange liqueur. We couldn’t be prouder!

Q. What is your inspiration for your recipes?

A. My mother inspires our recipes immensely and is essential to our culinary process. She blesses every new addition to our menu and has influenced many of the dishes that we have created. With the culinary experiences and skills

of our talented executive chef, my mother, and myself, we make a great team in creating the new items for the restaurants.

Since I have a passion for traveling, I appreciate how my world explorations and sampling of some of the finest dishes and drinks have inspired me and been infused into some of our new menu items and innovations at Moctezuma’s.

Q. How do you contribute to the local community?

A. Our parents instilled volunteering into my siblings and me at a very young age. Every year, during the holidays, my dad would take our family to serve homemade meals at homeless shelters. Serving those in need was ingrained in us, and so I feel a deep sense of responsibility within me to give back to my community.

We currently have a fundraising program where we invite groups to host events at our restaurants, and they receive a portion of the sales they bring in.

During this COVID-19 pandemic, we have been offering free children’s meals (with the purchase of a lunch or dinner entrée) to ease the burden of parents. We’re also providing heavy discounts and, in some cases, complimentary meals to health-care workers and hospitality industry workers during the shutdown. Our team even donated and delivered hot meals to our frontline workers at St. Joseph Hospital, and other local hospitals as well.

We are honored and proud of our charitable efforts and will continue to make a difference wherever we can. When our community needs us, we will always be there.

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rends are always changing, gaining popularity and even going out of style. That is the beauty of the fashion world—it is always moving forward (sometimes at lightning speed). You’ve seen bell bottoms and flare jeans return from the ‘60s and crop tops paired with hair scrunchies return from the ‘90s. While some of you may not be so fond of these recycled fashion trends, here is a new one you should know about—and how to style it.

Monochromatic (adj.) containing or using only one color.

Contrary to popular belief, monochromatic does not mean black and white. Monochromatic outfits are styled wearing one specific color, or even different shades of the same color. So yes, the monochromatic trend can be black or white, but not black and white. A good rule of thumb for a monochromatic outfit is to have three-plus pieces of the same color. I’m talking about a top, bottoms and shoes.

Black is an easy place to start on putting one together. You likely have multiple black pieces in your wardrobe already.

Look for a top and a pair of bottoms that are both black. As I mentioned before, they can be different shades of black, so do not think because they aren’t perfectly matching that it will not work. The third piece could be a jacket/blazer, cardigan or sweater. You could also make the third piece an accessory like a scarf, belt, hat or headband. Black shoes are required to complete this outfit. Put them all on together, and you now have yourself a monochromatic outfit. Also,

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Other trending colors this spring and summer include pistachio green, scarlet red, orange peel and faded blue.

do not get the idea that a monochromatic outfit has to be bottoms and a top. It could very well be a dress paired with accessories or layering pieces of the same color.

White is another easy place to start on putting together a monochromatic outfit. If you feel confident enough, try out a bold color. Personally, I organize my closet by color. Organizing in this way makes it easy for me to see what color I have most of. I have a lot of pink in my wardrobe since it is my favorite color. I was easily able to put together a pink monochromatic look that is fun and bright for summer. Other trending colors this spring and summer include pistachio green, scarlet red, orange peel and faded blue.

If you are wanting to go shopping for the monochromatic trend, many stores sell pieces that were made to go together. Two-piece sets make easy monochromatic outfits, since you already have two of the three items you’ll need.

Keep in mind that your shoes are important too in this monochromatic trend. If you have a specific pair of shoes you want to color coordinate with, then bring them along shopping.

Need help putting together your monochromatic outfit? Pinterest and Like to Know It are two good sites to look at for inspiration! You can also find me on Instagram @oliviamichelle.h, and I’d be happy to help.

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Health AC I D S I N S K I N C A R E S O U N D S C A R Y ? T H E T R U T H A B O U T A C I D S A N D T H E H E A LT H BENEFITS TO YOUR SKIN

BY KRISTIN CARLSON, MEDICAL ESTHETICIAN

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any people wrinkle their nose or cringe when I mention acid treatments for treating certain skin conditions. They imagine skin melting or psychedelic narcotics. The acids I’m recommending are medical-grade products containing acid solutions used in aesthetic treatments for various benefits. I am a big fan of chemical peels and at-home skin-care regimens containing acids. They keep my acne-prone skin clear and (now at the age of 40) keep those pesky wrinkles to a minimum.

Let’s discuss a few, what they are used for and, if used properly, what the benefits are to your skin.

Hyaluronic Acid: Also called hyaluronan or HA, hyaluronic acid is a water-binding carbohydrate cell found in the body. It attracts and retains water, keeping your skin moist and supple. Sun exposure is the main culprit for the reduction of the body’s natural production of HA, leaving the skin to appear wrinkled and dehydrated. You can increase the HA in your skin by ingesting it in supplement form, applying topically to the face, neck and decollete, or via injection by

your aesthetic provider. The results are hydrated, plump, firm and glowing skin!

Alpha Hydroxy Acids: AHAs are water-soluble acids, derived from fruits, which dissolve or peel away the outermost layers of the epidermis, which is mostly composed of dead skin cells. This process allows the skin to breath and generate new, healthy skin cells. Skin conditions treated with alpha hydroxy acids include age spots, melasma, texture, fine lines and enlarged pore size. Examples of AHAs include glycolic acid, lactic acid and malic acid. The result: smoother, brighter and more even skin tone.

Beta Hydroxy Acids: BHAs are oil-soluble acids, which penetrate deeper into the skin, dissolving dead skin cells and excess sebum buildup. Because of the composition of BHAs and their ability to penetrate deeper into the skin, they are good options for oily or acne-prone skin. The most common BHA is salicylic acid, a great ingredient for combating acne. The result: a clearer, brighter and smoother complexion.

Quite often, acids are used in combined treatments to remedy multiple skin concerns.

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Quite often, acids are used in combined treatments to remedy multiple skin concerns. For instance, maybe you have combination skin and are experiencing hormonal breakouts along the jawline, but the skin on your cheeks and under-eye area are dry and sun damaged. A combination of AHAs and BHAs could be used during a chemical peel treatment with a post treatment and at-home regimen containing hyaluronic acid for moisture retention.

There are many options for the use of acids in your skin-care routine. Talk to your skin-care provider about which combination or treatment is right for you. Keep in mind, many acid treatments make you sensitive to sun exposure, so additional SPF and protection is a must. Peels are not recommended while pregnant, nursing or when using any oral or topical acne medications. Talk to your health-care provider or dermatologist if you have questions.

Don’t be afraid to try new products, even if they sound scary. The results can lead to a healthier complexion and a happier you.

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Health YOUR MEDICAL INSURANCE QUESTIONS ANSWERED What you need to know when it comes to your coverage ARTICLE COURTESY OF SOUNDBRIDGE DENTAL ARTS AND SLEEP THERAPY

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t is important that patients are keenly aware of their insurance benefits. Insurance is an important factor in our patients’ care. In our practice, we utilize dental insurance if you are having any type of dental treatment completed by Dr. Bloomquist and medical insurance if you are seeing Dr. Iregui for an oral sleep apnea appliance.

In the second part of this two-part series, we address some of the most common medical insurance-related questions we are asked.

Is oral appliance therapy for obstructive sleep apnea covered under my medical or dental insurance?

Oral appliance therapy is covered under your medical plan only.

Obstructive sleep apnea is a medical condition and therefore it is your medical insurance company that will provide benefits for this treatment. Your insurance coverage is a contract between you and the company supplying your coverage, and to receive the benefit you are entitled to, you should know the specifics about your plan.

Are all medical insurance companies the same when it comes to coverage?

No, all insurance companies are not the same. There are even numerous plans within the same insurance company. The company that holds your insurance plan and the plan within that company that covers your medical treatment is either chosen by you or your employer. It is your specific plan that dictates your coverage and out-of-pocket expense for any medical procedure.

Are in-network benefits the same as out-of-network benefits?

An in-network provider is a provider who has signed a contract with your insurance company that they will provide treatment/services at a reduced cost. This means that the insurance company dictates what services are covered and at what reimbursement. An out-of-network

provider, however, is still able to treat patients but, because they are out of network, the fee schedule and treatment provided is set by the provider.

Each insurance has different policies regarding in- and-out-of-network benefits. Some plans do not even have out-of-network benefits.

However, it is important to know that in some circumstances you can request a waiver, called a PPO waiver, in order to be seen by an outof-network provider but receive in-network benefits. The PPO waiver must be approved by your insurance company prior to you moving forward with treatment. This waiver does require some leg work on the part of the insured, but most patients find that it is worth it.

What is secondary insurance?

Secondary insurance is the insurance plan that will possibly cover a medical visit or service after your primary insurance has been billed for your medical service and submitted their payment amount. Some secondary medical insurance plans do have deductibles that need to be met prior to them reimbursing your provider. There are also some plans that carry co-insurance as well. Patients need to check with their plans in order to get this information.

What is the difference between deductibles, co-insurance and copays?

A deductible is how much the insured person must pay out of pocket before insurance will start to pay for medical treatment. Co-insurance is a percentage of a medical charge that you pay with the remaining amount being paid by your insurance company. Co-insurance does not go into effect until your deductible is met. Copays are a fixed amount for a covered service. This is paid by the patient to the provider prior to or immediately after receiving a service. The amount of an insured person’s copay is defined by their policy.

It is important that patients are keenly aware of their insurance benefits.

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‘Home Away from Home’

Fisher House

SOCIAL DISTANCING DID NOT REDUCE THE OBLIGATION TO THOSE WHO SACRIFICED

BY DAN AZNOFF PHOTOS COURTESY OF FISHER HOUSE JBLM

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ike every element of normal life, the shelter-in-place order for residents of Washington state to prevent the spread of COVID-19 impacted the mission of a local nonprofit group that was organized to provide a safe haven for veterans and their families to stay while the soldier receives treatment at the medical facility at Joint Base Lewis-McChord.

In compliance with guidance and restrictions ordered by the Department of Defense, the national offices of Fisher House in Rockville, Maryland, closed during the second week of April. That left the task of helping the families of injured and disabled veterans of the military up to the staff, which currently rotates and is in the home once a week to restock the home and check on the families at each location.

The Fisher House that serves military families stationed at JBLM established strict guidelines for accepting donations that included holding all items in quarantine for a minimum of 48 hours to prevent the spread of the potentially deadly virus. The guidelines are part of the national program to contain the virus through the federal government.

“We are not in a position to turn away donations, and we certainly do not want to give the impression that we are not grateful, but the health of the soldiers, their families and members of our staff have to take precedence,” said one volunteer.

Families who inquired about what assistance was available during one of the most challenging times in our nation’s history were directed to The Friends of Fisher House Puget Sound (FisherHouseVAPS.org), where volunteers responded to an unusually high number of emails and phone calls.

“We continue to keep our nation’s promise and obligation to those who have sacrificed for our nation’s freedom,” another volunteer added. “With a little help we will continue to raise funds and increase awareness of the quiet trauma that wounded veterans face every day.”

The Friends of Fisher House Puget Sound was established in 2006 “to ease the burden of past and present military and veteran families during difficult times.”

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Good Medicine The VA Puget Sound Fisher House in Seattle, which opened its doors in 2008, is managed by Carrie Booker. She oversees the operation of the temporary home for veterans while they receive treatment in a quiet home-like setting adjacent to the medical center.

In Booker’s words, love is good medicine. Fisher House receives only a small percentage of its operating budget from the federal government, the majority of its funding comes from individual donations and organizations like the Friends of Fisher House Puget Sound.

Volunteers who work throughout the year to reduce the anxiety that comes with having a loved one in the hospital have continued to provide love and support for the families at Fisher House. Veterans like Andy Fairchok have answered the call in the best way he knows.

Fairchok was in the military for 27 years and now operates the Old Soldier Distillery. He donates all of the tips he collects from the tasting room on Puyallup Avenue in Tacoma to the JBLM Fisher House and adds them to donations from patrons and business owners in Tacoma.

“There is so much more we can do to help such a great cause. It’s just a matter of getting the word out, and people are eager to help,” said Fairchok.

The distillery proprietor used by-products from his operation to make hand sanitizer that was distributed throughout the community early in the month. Later in April, Fairchok and his staff delivered $1,500 worth of diapers and baby formula to families at Fisher House.

For Fairchok, reaching out to help veterans has been a family affair. His wife, Mary, served 14 years as a doctor at the Madigan Army Medical Center, located on Joint Base Lewis-McChord. Other members of his family were employed to frame the newest addition to the Fisher House.

He was reluctant to reflect how much Fisher House has impacted any individual soldier over the years he has been associated with the facility, but noted one veteran of the war in Afghanistan was so inspired by the kindness she received that she returned to the facility on Gardner Loop to volunteer hours of her own time to help others.

“WE CONTINUE TO KEEP OUR NATION’S PROMISE AND OBLIGATION TO THOSE WHO HAVE SACRIFICED FOR OUR NATION’S FREEDOM.”

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“There is so much more we can do to help such a great cause. It’s just a matter of getting the word out, and people are eager to help.”

The local Fisher House in Tacoma has served almost 21,000 families. Staff at the facility have served 168 coalition families from 27 countries for an average stay of five days. More than 2,800 of the individuals who have received care at the local facility have been veterans of the fighting in either Iraq or Afghanistan.

The Tacoma complex typically provides home to seven families at Fisher House I and 10 families at Fisher House II. They average 10 families a month, and occupancy is around 70 percent.

The task of remaining open and available to serve active duty, reserve/guard and veterans and their families requires dedication from a small army of volunteers. Since it opened, the Fisher House that serves JBLM has remained open with help from almost 30,000 volunteers who have donated almost 92,000 hours of time, according to the Friend’s website.

The Joint Base Lewis McChord Fisher House opened in 1992 in order to provide a space for military families receiving treatment at Madigan Army Medical Center, with a second Fisher House on JBLM opening its doors in 2015.

“We use the one we have now just about every day to capacity,” said commander of the Madigan Army Medical Center Col. Michael Place at the dedication ceremonies for the second residential structure.

The second Fisher House at JBLM was dedicated to the memory of Gen. John Shalikashvili, the former chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff who retired to nearby Steilacoom and served on the Fisher House Board of Trustees.

Generous Roots The Fisher House program was established in 1990 by Zachary Fisher, a New York real estate investor and major philanthropic benefactor for the men and women in the United States Armed Forces, as well as numerous other not-for-profit organizations, and his wife, Elizabeth. There are currently 86 Fisher Houses located on 25 military installations and 37 VA medical centers, with many more houses under construction or in design.

Their stated goal was to provide “a loving safe place for families to call home while their loved ones received care in the hospital.”

Zachary Fisher was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 1998. One year later President Bill Clinton signed Public Law 106161 that honored the philanthropist status as an honorary veteran in the U.S. Armed Forces.

“Zachary Fisher was a kind man,” recalled Vivian Wilson, who managed the first Fisher House near the Navy base in Bethesda Naval Hospital in Maryland. “When we first opened, he called weekly to find out if there was anything that was needed and wanted to know what the families thought about the house.”

Wilson said Fisher always asked what else could be done to make the veterans more comfortable.

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“People brought him joy,” said Wilson. “And he especially loved to help those who protected his freedom.”

Each Fisher House has between seven and 21 suites that can accommodate 16 to 42 family members. Every location features a common kitchen, laundry facilities, spacious dining rooms and a living room with library and toys for children. The newest houses are handicap accessible that include elevators.

Since first being established nearly 30 years ago, Fisher houses across the country have gained a reputation for developing a sense of community among families during dark times. The bonds are enhanced with common areas that provide space for families to care for each other while they share common experiences.

According to the organization’s website, Fisher houses across the country have saved military families an estimated $282 million in out-of-pocket lodging and transportation expenses. When they are at capacity, new applicants are given vouchers to local hotels to save their money for other expenses that can occur during an emergency situation.

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Fisher House, referrals with more than four guests cannot be accommodated. A separate program titled “Hotel for Heroes” places eligible patients and their families in local hotels and is available when the number of patients and their families exceeds the capacity of the Fisher House.

The residences have been designed to provide temporary housing and are not a treatment center. The residential units are available to active and retired military personnel, active duty reservists and members of the National Guard as well as anybody receiving inpatient treatment at the VA hospital.

Exemptions can be made for soldiers and their families who live more than 40 miles from a medical treatment facility. House managers at each site have the authority to allow families of patients in Intensive Care or the Palliative Care units of the hospital on a case-by-case basis.

A Wishlist of Needs The JBLM Fisher House posts a Wishlist of items most needed by families in the facility. The current list includes an extensive catalog of food items that ranges from basics like personal hygiene items, flour, cereal and bread to single-sized snacks and coffee. It also includes items that cannot be accepted during this time, such as used toys and

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The full Wishlist is available at FisherHouse-JBLM.org.

Despite assurances from Fairchok that their identity would be protected, no current residents would agree to be interviewed for this article. However, Staff Sgt. Ken Lambes did agree to be quoted in a military publication about the four times he and his family utilized the Fisher House.

Lambes is a member of the JBLM ‘s 42nd Military Police Brigade who took his teenage son to the military hospital.

“The Fisher House really makes the nightmare of special treatment easier for families,” he said. Lambes was apparently so overwhelmed by the treatment he and his family received at Fisher House that he returned during the same year to invite many of the families at Fisher House to his own home for Thanksgiving dinner.

The family of an Oregon National Guard soldier wounded in Iraq more than a dozen years ago described Fisher House as “a beautiful bridge that makes bringing together a family so much easier even in heavy hearted moments of life.”

The obligation to care for service members and their families who have sacrificed to defend the freedom that Americans enjoy remains the top priority for the caregivers at Fisher House and the scores of volunteers committed to making veterans and their families’ stay as pleasant as possible. As a precaution, mail addressed to patients currently receiving treatment is not being delivered. “Mail will be processed once restrictions are lifted and staff members can safely report to work,” said a statement released by the Fisher House.“Thank you for your support as we navigate this challenge.”

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Life continues on here in Washington state as we learn ways to manage our new “normal.” Many of us find ourselves trying to work from home while also realizing our new roles as teacher, tackling the challenges of remote learning head on. We’re adjusting to living somewhat in isolation, surrounding ourselves with only those whom we live with, in order to do our part to keep ourselves, families, friends and members of our community safe.

And as busy as we all are during this challenging time, or for those looking to fill their unexpected “free” time, there are many in our community who are dedicated to do what they can to help keep the South Sound strong—and healthy.

From stores adjusting their hours to make it safer for the older folks in our community to shop for their essential needs, sack lunches being made and delivered, free of charge, to children and families in need, to everyday people contributing their

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time and talents to make masks for our health-care workers and those most vulnerable in the community, it’s a beautiful thing to witness. Even though the community is encouraged to stay apart, men and women, teenagers and children alike, continue to come together and unite, though not in a way any of us would have ever expected.

This soon will pass, and before we know it, our lives will carry on as they once did. We will be back to our daily routines and out enjoying the community, its businesses and people. I am sure we can all agree that we will all have a newfound appreciation for the wonderful lives we’ve created and know, if we didn’t already, and how blessed we all are.

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SPRING COBB SALAD WITH C R E A MY AV O C A D O D R E S S I N G Recipe and Photo Courtesy of Tina VanDenHeuvel, NTP Yields: 4 servings

SALAD INGREDIENTS: 4 hard-boiled eggs 4 slices cooked bacon 8 asparagus spears, blanched 8 cups butter lettuce 1 cup canned in water artichoke hearts 8 sugar snap peas 1 small carrot, sliced 2 medium red radishes, sliced ½ cup cucumber, sliced ½ cup crumbled blue cheese

METHOD:

• Place the eggs in a small saucepan and cover them with cool water by 1 inch.

Bring water to a boil over high heat. Once the water has reached a rumbling boil, remove from heat and cover pot with a fitted lid. Set timer for 10 minutes.

Using a slotted spoon, transfer eggs to a large bowl with cold ice water immediately and let them cool down for a couple of minutes before peeling.

Slice whole eggs in half and set aside.

• Heat a medium skillet over medium heat and add bacon. Cook until crispy, about 3 to 4 minutes on each side. Place bacon on a plate with a paper towel to soak up the rendered grease. Set aside.

• Fill a medium saucepan with water and set over high heat. Bring to a boil. Add asparagus spears (woody stems removed). Let cook (blanch) for 15 seconds.

Remove from heat and submerge asparagus in ice water to stop the cooking process. Immediately transfer to a paper towel. Set aside.

• Time to assemble the salad! Lay the pieces of butter lettuce over a large platter.

Season the lettuce with salt and pepper. Have fun adding each ingredient to the lettuce. I like to make little individual spreads so that it’s displayed beautifully over the lettuce.

• You may drizzle dressing over the entire lettuce and serve immediately or keep on the side for individuals to serve themselves.

AV O C A D O D R E S S I N G I N G R E D I E N T S : 1 large avocado 1 small clove garlic 1 tbsp. lemon juice, freshly squeezed ½ tsp. Himalayan salt Dash of fresh cracked pepper 4 tbsp. olive oil, extra virgin 2 tsp. white wine vinegar 1 tsp. brown mustard

METHOD:

• Cut the avocado in half and remove the pit. Scoop the flesh out into a food processor or blender.

• Add garlic, lemon juice, salt and pepper, and pulse for 30 seconds.

• Add olive oil, vinegar and mustard and blend until smooth. (You may add more lemon juice if the dressing is too thick.)

• Store in a glass jar with a fitted lid in the refrigerator for up to one week.

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ROAD TRIP

BRITISH COLUMBIA’S OKANAGAN AND THE INTERNATIONAL SELKIRK LOOP

PART I

BY MARGUERITE CLEVELAND

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here is nothing like a good road trip during the summer, especially when the scenery is so lovely. This trip begins at the Oroville-Osoyoos Border Crossing into British Columbia’s Okanagan for part one of this two-part series. The second part of the trip continues onto the International Selkirk Loop through the Kootenay Rockies before crossing the border at the Porthill-Rykerts Border Crossing into Idaho and visiting the towns of Sandpoint and Bonners Ferry.

When planning a road trip, make a detailed itinerary mapping out how far you want to drive each day and make reservations for where you are going to stay each night. Use online resources (see some suggestions in The Specifics at the end of the article) and determine any places or activities for the day. Have a plan but be open to spontaneous stops. Often a local may recommend a hidden gem that is not well known, so you want to take advantage of those opportunities. The nice thing about a road trip is you can pack extra comfort items. Throw in a few portable chairs for stargazing, a blanket or two for chilly evenings, some beach towels for the many lakes on this trip, and be sure to pack a cooler and picnic basket.

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Have a plan but be open to spontaneous stops. Often a local may recommend a hidden gem that is not well known, so you want to take advantage of those opportunities.

Day 1: Osoyoos

Day 2: Olivier

Once across the border, continue to the town of Osoyoos—your destination for the night. The Nk’Mip Resort, set in the heart of Canada’s only desert, has a variety of interesting activities. Start at the Nk’Mip Desert Cultural Centre, a natural history museum from the perspective of the indigenous peoples. The Osoyoos Indian Band are members of the Okanagan Nation, and more than 400 members live and work on the Osoyoos Indian Reserve. Plan to spend a few hours here exploring both the indoor and outdoor exhibits. The centre is housed in an eco-friendly building using native and modern techniques. Allow time to take the loop trail outside the museum to explore the desert while viewing an Osoyoos village.

Start your day with a visit to Covert Farms Family Estate. This unique farm tour takes place in a vintage 1952 Mercury truck, which will traverse the vineyards and farm stopping for plenty of photo opportunities on this scenic property.

Stops also include the chance to try farm fresh produce from the fields. Children and adults enjoy feeding the llamas and other livestock. The tour ends with a wine tasting on the patio overlooking a lawn with plenty of games and activities for children.

For lunch visit Nk’Mip Cellars for an alfresco lunch overlooking Osoyoos Lake.

The cellars are the first winery in North America owned and operated by an indigenous band. Enjoy tasting some award-winning wines. Make sure to try Mer’R’iym, the Nk’Mip word for marriage. This red blend is a perfect meld of merlot, cabernet sauvignon, cabernet franc and malbec.

The Nk’Mip Resort has a lovely beach at the campground. Check out Wakepilot Wakeboarding for a 90-minute Sea-Doo experience or rent a stand-up paddleboard to enjoy some time on the lake.

The Safari Beach Resort is a lakefront retreat, the type families return to year after year. This is an older resort, but it is spotlessly clean and comfortably furnished. Amenities include a sandy beach and gorgeous lake views. After a long day of travel and activities, consider picking up takeout for dinner or check out one of the restaurants within walking distance of the resort. The front desk can give you recommendations.

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Olivier is in the midst of the Okanagan wine region with so many great wineries it is hard to choose. Hester Creek Estate Vineyards is a must see with some of the oldest vines in the area. The on-site restaurant Terrafina is a culinary delight, with locally sourced ingredients a highlight of the Mediterranean-style menu.

After lunch, drive to Peachland to try out ziplining at the ZipZone Adventure Park. It is a scenic drive up to the top of the canyon. The lines zigzag back and forth across a canyon for some particularly exhilarating rides. There is a trail for those who prefer to observe with views of the landing platforms. The staff is fun and energetic and works well with children.

Drive back down into Kelowna for the night. The historic Hotel Eldorado and Resort is located on the banks of Okanagan Lake and provides exceptional sunset views. The hotel is filled with vintage features from the antique cars greeting you at the entrance to the ambiance of the rooms with luxurious bedding and upscale features while maintaining an old-fashioned feel. Enjoy an afternoon swim at one of the pools or use the waterslide. The on-site marina has a variety of watercraft available for rent.

THERE IS NOTHING LIKE A GOOD ROAD TRIP DURING THE SUMMER.

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PHOTO BY MARGUERITE CLEVELAND

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PHOTO BY MARGUERITE CLEVELAND

Dining at the Eldorado is a delight. Start off by enjoying a pre-dinner drink at the Eldorado Lounge or the Whiskey Room for one of their famed martinis or a barrel-aged whiskey cocktail. Lakeside Dining is the hotel’s award-winning restaurant with sunset views over the lake. The menu is sourced with organic local ingredients as well as AAA Angus beef. A truly memorable meal.

Day 3: Kelowna After breakfast at the hotel drive to Myra Canyon for an incredible outdoor experience exploring the Myra Canyon Trestles by bicycle. Make a reservation with Myra Canyon Bicycle Rental & Tour Inc., which rents bikes at the start of the Historical Kettle Valley Railway Trail. If you haven’t been on a bike in a while, this is the perfect trail with just a slight elevation change. There are 18 trestle bridges and two tunnels to traverse while exploring Myra Canyon.

Although the trail is narrow at some points there are plenty of spots to pull over for photos.

After you have worked up an appetite, the Home Block at the Cedar Creek

Estate Winery is the perfect stop for lunch. During the warmer months, the restaurant is open air on one side with views of the vineyard and Okanagan Lake in the distance. Liberal use of local fare and a wood-fired grill which uses fruit wood and wine barrel staves helps create a memorable meal.

It is a three-hour drive to your final stop in the Okanagan, the Christina Lake Community. The Sunflower Inn B&B is just lovely. Owner Kathleen Smythe welcomes you into her home on the banks of Christina Lake. She is friendly but allows privacy as well. Enjoy the kayaks and other lake toys. This is the place to get your Zen on. The small, sleepy town has a few local places to eat. Take some time to just enjoy the atmosphere of this cute bed and breakfast. Smythe also runs Alpine’s Holistic Healing, located at the Sunflower, and she is a certified healing touch practitioner in both traditional and holistic forms of patient care.

She gives a great hot stone massage.

Stay tuned for next month’s travel article to join us on our tour of the Kootenay Rockies and portions of the International Selkirk Loop.

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