My Wedding Magazine Issue #4

Makeup Hair-Styling Nails

Preparing for Your Wedding

Makeup Skincare&Guide

With over 13 years of experience in the makeup industry, I’ve honed insights to help brides-tobe navigate wedding preparation, particularly focusing on makeup and skincare.

Skincare Routine:

Prioritise skincare months ahead to ensure a radiant complexion on your big day. Consistency is key; consult a specialist if needed. Avoid waxing too close to the wedding to prevent irritation.

Choosing a Makeup Artist:

Select an artist whose style aligns with your vision. Schedule a trial to ensure compatibility and longevity of the makeup.

The Trial:

Prepare for the trial by scheduling spray tans or lash extensions, and wear white to visualise the final look. Provide feedback to ensure satisfaction.

Lash Lifts:

Avoid lash lifts close to the wedding to prevent compatibility issues with false lashes.

Night Before the Wedding:

Steam your dress to ensure humidity doesn’t interfere with the hair and Makeup.

Morning of the Wedding:

Create a calm environment for your makeup artist and ensure clean, moisturiser-free faces. Minimise distractions.

Tear Prevention and Eating:

Address emotional moments before makeup application and eat beforehand to sustain energy. Use straws to preserve lipstick.

Touch-Up Kits:

Inquire about touch-up kits from your makeup artist for a flawless look all day.

Meticulous preparation ensures you’ll look and feel your best on your special day.

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We pride ourselves on providing quality care to ensure that the attire for your whole wedding party is thoroughly looked after, receiving the attention it deserves.

Complimentary packaging of your wedding dress is included with every clean to allow you and future generations to enjoy for years to come.

Capture the essence of your special day with Darren Blomfield, a skilled cartoonist who turns moments into art.

Darren’s drawings go beyond images, they create a connection and tell a story. Each commissioned piece is a testament to the magic of his art, evoking laughter, smiles, and sometimes tears.

A true storyteller, Darren transforms personalities into caricatures, engaging guests in conversation to capture their interests and quirks. Imagine the joy on your guests’ faces as they witness their caricatures come to life – a unique and cherished memento.

Based in the scenic Waitakere Ranges, Darren is prepared to travel throughout Australasia to bring his talents to your wedding, whether it’s a grand hall or an intimate backyard ceremony. Let Darren’s studio be wherever your love story unfolds.

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WE WELCOME ANOTHER SEASON OF LOVE AND UNION,

WE ARE THRILLED

TO BRING YOU AN ISSUE BRIMMING WITH INSPIRATION AND GUIDANCE FOR YOUR SPECIAL DAY.

Our focus this month turns to the breathtaking Auckland region, a city with an array of picturesque backdrops from lush vineyards to serene beaches, making it the perfect setting for any couple’s dream wedding.

In this edition, we spotlight the exceptional talent of Trish Peng, a revered dress designer based in Auckland. Trish is renowned for her exquisite custom creations that blend timeless elegance with contemporary flair. Each gown is a masterpiece, tailored to enhance the beauty of the bride who wears it.

This issue includes a special feature on how to write heartfelt vows that truly reflect your feelings and promises to each other. Whether you’re looking for guidance on structure or seeking the right words to express your deepest commitments, our tips will help you craft vows that are both personal and memorable.

We hope the love and inspiration between these pages encourage you to create a day that reflects the depths of your love and commitment. May your journey to the altar be as joyful and loving as the future you’re about to build together.

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14. FROM URBAN CHIC TO NATURAL ELEGANCE YOUR WEDDING IN AUCKLAND

31. DREAMY DESTINATIONS FIND PARADISE IN THE PACIFIC

56. WHEN THE WEDDING HIGH FADES TAKING CARE OF YOUR MENTAL HEALTH AFTER ‘I DO’

62. STATEMENT OF LOVE OUR TIPS FOR WRITING YOUR VOWS

70. BEYOND THE SUIT THE DO’S AND DON’TS EVERY GROOM SHOULD KNOW

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Designer spotlight

TRISH PENG

ZARA

Zara’s bodice is embellished with 3D floral and beaded lace, forming a captivating texture. Flowing into a full A-line skirt, it infuses timeless sophistication.

The gown’s intricate interplay of 3D florals and beadwork brings depth and femininity, and the carefully pleated A-line offers a flattering silhouette for various body types.

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CLEO

This gown showcases a plunging sweetheart neckline with TP’s iconic bust draping, while the wrap skirt is elegantly draped in 3D floral lace adorned with sequins and pearl beading.

For added drama, Cleo includes a matching overskirt with a cascade of lace to enhance the flair on your special day.

ELLE

The Elle gown has a timeless silhouette with refined ruching in Mikado satin.

Elle lets you personalise your bridal style with options like strapless, off the shoulder, or one shoulder. Enhance the look by adding an overskirt to make Elle uniquely yours.

MONIQUE

Enhanced with romantic draping, cascading layers of tulle, and 3D florals, the gown offers versatile styling. Wear it strapless, off the shoulder, or with long sleeves for a customisable look. The Monique gown also pairs beautifully with the Monique veil.

PORTIA

A stunning A-line gown blends timeless glamour with modern flair.

Crafted from floral lace with sequins, Portia features pleats accentuating an alluring split. The sheer strapless bodice and layers with pleated tulle create flattering lines, complemented by integrated boning and a satin belt for a defined waistline.

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From urban chic to natural elegance

BY PAIGE O’BRIEN

Auckland, the City of Sails, unfolds a captivating tapestry for couples seeking a wedding that differs from the ordinary.

Nestled between dramatic coastlines, forests, and rolling vineyards, Auckland offers a wide range of landscapes to choose from for your dream day. But the magic goes beyond the scenery of the region, it is the city’s vibrant spirit and diverse offerings that truly set it apart.

Imagine exchanging vows on a beach in the golden sunlight or perhaps a ceremony amidst the ferns and towering trees of a native forest. Craving a touch of rustic charm? Waiheke Island’s vineyards provide a picturesque backdrop with the promise of exquisite wines to toast your union, while the Waitakere Ranges offer a dramatic mountain setting for a truly awe-inspiring affair.

Auckland’s heart beats with urban energy, offering unparalleled venues for couples seeking a more sophisticated setting. The iconic Woodhouse Mountian Lodge in Warkworth seamlessly blends rustic coziness with the stunning views of the surrounding landscapes, while the Delamore Lodge in Owhanake Bay boasts panoramic views over the Hauraki Gulf, perfect for capturing those unforgettable photos of your special day.

Auckland isn’t just about the ceremony; it is about crafting an unforgettable experience for you and your guests. Indulge your inner foodie with world-class restaurants offering fresh, local cuisine. Adventure awaits with a scenic cruise of the Hauraki Gulf, exploring hidden coves and, if you’re lucky enough, encountering dolphins. Wine connoisseurs can embark on a vineyard hopping tour on Waiheke Island, while art enthusiasts can lose themselves in the city’s vibrant galleries.

From the sun-drenched days of summer to the crisp air of winter, Auckland offers a perfect season for every wedding vision.

The Markovina Vineyard Estate is an ideal wedding venue, offering a magical setting that beautifully accommodates ceremonies for all different types of couples. Its differing landscapes throughout the Estate ensuring that you are able to have the best of both worlds, no matter the season. The number of available areas throughout the estate, from sunlit open lawns to sheltered pavilions, means that weather is never a barrier.

Auckland is a multicultural hub that celebrates love in all its beautiful forms. Many venues offer inclusive wedding packages, and local vendors cater to varied needs. Whether you’re planning a traditional ceremony coated in your cultural heritage or a contemporary celebration that blends elements from different traditions, Auckland embraces you with open arms, ensuring your wedding reflects the one-of-a-kind love story you share.

Extend your wedding festivities and turn it into a memorable adventure for you and your loved ones. Explore Auckland’s dynamic neighbourhoods, like Parnell, with its historic charm and delectable cafes, or Ponsonby, with its trendy boutiques and lively bars. Take a day trip to Waiheke Island for a luxurious spa treatment overlooking the glistening water, or embark on a wine-tasting tour, savouring the island’s renowned vintages. Auckland offers endless opportunities to create lasting memories with your loved ones, transforming your wedding into the beginning of a lifetime of shared adventures.

So, set sail on your love story in Auckland City and all it has to offer. This place promises a wedding as unique and unforgettable as your love itself. With its breathtaking landscapes, diverse offerings, and welcoming embrace, Auckland weaves the magic for a truly extraordinary beginning to your happily ever after.

Photographer:

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Couple: Arianna and Jordan

Bracu Estate

A VENUE LIKE NO OTHER

Just 40 minutes from the bustling life of Auckland Central lies a wedding destination that promises to transform your special day into an unforgettable celebration of love. Bracu Estate, a hidden gem nestled among romantic olive groves and idyllic rolling hills, offers a serene escape into a world where your love story takes centre stage.

Bracu is a dream come true for couples seeking a blend of elegance, nature, and intimate sophistication. It’s more than just a venue; it’s a promise of a wedding celebration like no other.

At Bracu, they understand that your wedding day is a reflection of your journey together, filled with unique moments and personal touches. Whether you dream of an outdoor ceremony surrounded by the lush greenery of olive trees or an intimate gathering in the wine library, Bracu offers a range of options to bring your vision to life.

49 MAIN ROAD, BOMBAY, AUCKLAND 2675

BRACU WAS THE PERFECT LOCATION FOR US. THE FINE DINING OPTION WAS AMAZING, THE OLIVE TREES AS A NATURAL BACKDROP AND NOTHING BEATS THE SUNSET PHOTOS.

- Jill & Daryl

Bracu’s dedication to making each event as perfect as envisioned by their guests is evident in their offering of versatile, all-weather ceremony options. The team firmly believes that the weather should never diminish the spirit of any celebration. Thus, their facilities are meticulously designed to ensure style and elegance remain paramount, no matter what the forecast holds.

The Marquee, a purpose-built covered indoor and outdoor venue offers a beautiful and versatile space that blends seamlessly with the natural surroundings. Enclosed by the olive grove and the gentle flow of a freshwater stream, The Marquee serves as a stunning all-weather ceremony option or an impressive location for predrinks before the main event unfolds.

For those who envision declaring their vows among nature, Bracu

presents a range of breathtaking outdoor ceremony locations. Choose between the serene olive grove, garden gazebo or the tranquil fountain pond, each offering a picturesque view of the surrounding Bombay hills. These settings provide a beautiful backdrop that enhances the romantic ambience of an outdoor ceremony.

The Pavilion, nestled amidst the olive grove and situated next to the peaceful fountain pond, is a purposebuilt facility that offers a secluded and stunning location for your big day. This remarkable indoor reception option features a flexible set-up, ensuring your celebration is as unique as your love story.

At Bracu, they pride themselves on their ability to create a wedding celebration that mirrors what matters most to you.

The team of dedicated professionals are passionate about helping you craft a day that not only commemorates your love but also embodies your individuality. From the moment you choose Bracu as your wedding venue, the team works tirelessly to ensure that every aspect of your celebration is infused with personal touches and meaningful details.

Bracu is more than just a venue; it’s a journey to the beginning of your forever, set against the backdrop of a Mediterranean oasis that promises beauty, elegance, and an unforgettable start to your life together.

Bracu Estate

09 236 1033 sayido@bracu.co.nz www.bracu.co.nz/weddings

Dellrian Gardens

GARDEN OASIS

61 BUTCHERS BRIDGE ROAD, WAIUKU 2683

Imagine a day as magical as your love story, a day where every moment is a memory in the making. Dellrian Gardens offers more than just a venue; it offers an experience that begins the moment you step onto the floral wonderland.

Nestled in the lush countryside of Waiuku, near the serene Kariotahi beach, this 17-acre paradise offers a picturesque setting for your special day, just 40 minutes away from Auckland and its airport. If you envision an intimate gathering or a grand soiree, the venue’s versatile gardens and expert wedding services can transform your vision into a reality.

As you meander down pathways, you’ll be captivated by the serene beauty of the gardens. Year-round, the gardens are a riot of colours and scents, making them the perfect setting for your wedding photos. Whether you’re saying ‘I do’ amidst the blooming flowers or posing for pictures with your loved ones, you’ll be surrounded by nature’s beauty.

The team at Dellrian Gardens take the stress out of wedding planning by offering a complete package. You’ll have your ceremony amidst the captivating gardens, followed by a reception in the charming, fairy-light-strung barn that seats 120 guests comfortably. The barn showcases a magical mural of elven ruins, setting the scene for a truly unforgettable celebration.

The rustic barn features bar leaners along the perimeter, creating a seamless flow between the indoor and outdoor spaces. Side screens are available to keep the weather at bay, ensuring your comfort.

To complete your dream wedding, the team recommend a network of talented local caterers. They offer a variety of options to suit your style, from grazing tables and spit roasts to delectable buffets.

At Dellrian Gardens, they understand that your wedding is more than just a ceremony; it’s a symphony of experiences designed to create lasting memories for you and your guests. The venue prides itself on its unique blend of natural beauty and bespoke floral designs. As a boutique florist and flower farm, the team specialise in creating stunning wedding florals using fresh, seasonal blooms grown right on the property. This ensures the freshest flowers possible, minimises their carbon footprint and keeps the designs eco-friendly.

They collaborate closely with you to understand your vision and translate it into stunning floral arrangements that elevate your wedding’s ambience. From cascading centrepieces brimming with seasonal blooms to exquisite bouquets that adorn your wedding arch, every detail will be meticulously crafted to reflect your unique style and personality.

Choosing Dellrian Gardens as your wedding venue means choosing a venue that values your love story as much as you do. Discover the charm, the elegance, and the wonder of Dellrian Gardens, where every wedding is not just an event but a cherished memory in the making.

Dellrian Gardens

027 322 0463 www.dellriangardens.co.nz

AS A BOUTIQUE FLORIST AND FLOWER FARM, THE TEAM SPECIALISE IN CREATING STUNNING WEDDING FLORALS USING FRESH, SEASONAL BLOOMS GROWN RIGHT ON THE PROPERTY.

Auckland Art Gallery Toi o Tāmaki

YOUR WEDDING, YOUR MASTERPIECE

CORNER KITCHENER AND WELLESLEY STREETS, TĀMAKI MAKAURAU AUCKLAND

Transform your special day into a masterpiece at Auckland Art Gallery, one of the city’s most awe-inspiring settings. Situated on the edge of Albert Park, this award-winning heritage building seamlessly merges historical features with vibrant contemporary spaces, creating a unique and enchanting atmosphere for your wedding ceremony or reception.

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Auckland Art Gallery is not just a place to admire art; it’s a venue that encapsulates the essence of creativity, elegance, and sophistication.

The Gallery’s main building, a Category 1 Historic Place, first opened its doors in 1888. With a permanent collection of 18,000 artworks, including some of Aotearoa New Zealand’s most cherished pieces, the Gallery provides a rich and diverse backdrop for your celebration.

As you step into the majestic kauri columns of Te Ātea | North Atrium, you’re welcomed into a light-filled space perfect for a cocktail reception or a seated dinner. Grey Gallery, with its delicate surrounds, provides an intimate setting for a wedding ceremony or a seated reception. Mackelvie Gallery, with its luxuriant tones, is an ideal spot for a seated reception dinner. East Terrace, offering a distinctive setting that connects inside and out, provides a unique rooftop view for your special day.

Nestled beside Albert Park, filled with pōhutukawa trees, Auckland Art Gallery presents an idyllic setting for capturing timeless wedding photographs without the hassle of having to travel too far. Multiple accommodation options and parking facilities are located nearby, ensuring convenience for both you and your guests.

Auckland Art Gallery is not just a place to admire art; it’s a venue that encapsulates the essence of creativity, elegance, and sophistication.

For a venue that’s modern and contemporary and still maintains its historical charm, the Gallery is the perfect blend of elegance and sophistication for your dream wedding day. It will be an experience that you and your guests will remember for years to come.

Weddings and business events at Auckland Art Gallery are managed by a dedicated team at Auckland Conventions, Venues & Events. An event planner will guide you every step of the way. From the initial planning stages to the final farewell, the team is committed to realising and executing your vision. Their accredited caterers are on hand to customise a menu that not only delights your palate, but also accommodates any cultural, religious, or dietary requirements.

To learn more about the spaces and to view the venue in person, contact the team today.

Auckland Art Gallery Toi o Tāmaki 09 309 2677 events@aucklandconventions.co.nz www.aucklandconventions.co.nz

Photography by David St George. Courtesy of Auckland Art Gallery Toi o Tāmaki

Grey Gallery

East Terrace

Mackelvie Gallery

Your Auckland wedding

BY JAMIE QUINN

Auckland is a melting pot of vibrant cultures and diversity. It’s also an ideal destination for your dream wedding.

Couples from all around the country flock here for its stunning landscapes, lively atmosphere and wealth of talented wedding vendors ready to bring their vision to life. From intimate elopements to grand celebrations, Auckland’s wedding industry is brimming with creativity and expertise to cater to every couple’s unique needs.

The choice of venue sets the tone for the entire wedding, and Auckland is home to an eclectic mix of venues that cater to every imaginable style. For those who fancy a modern, sophisticated environment, the Auckland Art Gallery offers contemporary spaces right in the heart of the city. On the other hand, couples looking for a more intimate and natural setting might find bliss in the charming Bracu Estate or the beachfront serenity at Otehei Bay.

Auckland’s culinary scene is as diverse as its population, and this diversity is reflected in its wedding catering options. From gourmet sit-down dinners featuring international cuisines to casual and fun street food-style receptions with food trucks, Auckland caters to every palate. Caterers like Valley D’Vine create customisable menus that incorporate local, seasonal ingredients to provide a fresh and memorable dining experience.

Floral and decor choices can significantly define a wedding’s aesthetic, and Auckland’s florists and decorators are masters of transformation. From classic roses and lilies to exotic blooms and native flora, they create stunning centrepieces, bouquets, and floral installations. Whereas, wedding stylists can provide everything from table settings to marquee hire, ensuring that your venue is nothing short of spectacular.

Finding the perfect dress is a pivotal moment for any bride. Auckland’s bridal boutiques cater to diverse styles, from the whimsical and romantic gowns at Alter Me to the sophisticated elegance of Trish Peng. Whether you crave a classic silhouette or a contemporary statement piece, your dream dress is waiting to be discovered.

Preserving memories of your wedding is arguably the most important of the day, and Auckland’s photographers and videographers are artists in their own right. With styles ranging from the raw, spontaneous feel of photojournalism to the strikingly creative flair of avant-garde, these professionals ensure that your wedding memories are preserved in a manner that truly reflects your personal story. Artists like Love Wild specialise in seizing those fleeting, genuine emotions that are the heart of your celebration.

Planning a wedding can feel overwhelming, but Auckland’s vendors are your allies. With Auckland’s diverse and talented vendors by your side, your wedding will be a truly unforgettable occasion.

Photographer: Kasia Kolmas Photography @kasiakolmas - Insta www.kasiakolmas.com

Couple: Eloah and Kane

fantastic venues

Serenity and splendour

Nestled in the sun-kissed hills, Bracu Olive Estate is a haven of elegance and serenity. Ideal for weddings from intimate to grand, its stunning views and luxurious amenities promise an unforgettable experience hidden on the outskirts of the Auckland-Waikato boarder.

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Bracu Estate

49 Main Road, Bombay, Auckland 2675 09 236 1033

www.bracu.co.nz

Discreet luxury on Waiheke Island

Whether you choose to have a romantic elopement or an intimate ceremony for close family and friends in a truly magnificent location; Delamore Lodge is the perfect choice and the ideal wedding and reception venue for those looking for a unique, discreet, and elegant experience.

Delamore Lodge

83 Delamore Drive, Oneroa, Waiheke Island, Auckland 1081 09 372 7372

www.www.delamorelodge.com

A historic, romantic venue

Fable Dunedin

A beautiful boutique property with a rich history, Fable Dunedin features stunning chandeliers and breathtaking stained-glass windows. Our elegant venue, wedding menus, and decorations are tailored to your requirements and budget. We cater to any gathering style, from intimate affairs to grand events, with four main event spaces.

310 Princes Street, Central Dunedin, Dunedin 9016 03 477 1145

www.fablehotelsandresorts.com/hotels/fable-dunedin

A stunning alpine wedding venue

Fable Terrace Downs Resort offers a picturesque spot to say “I do” with high country alpine views. Rugged mountains tower over a stunning landscape, from the azure Rakaia River to colourful plains. This breathtaking location combines a friendly Kiwi atmosphere with the South Island’s natural brilliance.

Fable Terrace Downs Resort 623 Coleridge Road, Canterbury 7572 03 318 6943

www.fablehotelsandresorts.com/hotels/fable-terrace-downs-resort

Your ultimate island destination wedding

In the heart of the Bay of Islands, Otehei Bay is a unique island destination with a backdrop of sandy beaches, native bush, and dramatic cliff top views. With unique ceremony locations, reception venue, and pre and post events, we can bring your vision to life for your special day!

Otehei Bay

Otehei Bay, Urupukapuka Island, Bay of Islands events@exploregroup.co.nz

www.exploregroup.co.nz/otehei-bay/otehei-bay-events

An award-winning wedding venue

Hosting remarkable weddings and events for over 55 years, this family owned and operated venue has invaluable experience and commitment to excellence. The cornerstone is our outstanding venue, amazing staff and superb cuisine. Also recognised as national winner of the ‘Outstanding Wedding Ceremony Venue’ in the latest wedding industry awards.

Fine wines and scenic dining

Markovina Estate

84 Old Railway Road, Kumeū, Auckland 0892 09 412 8608

www.markovina.co.nz

Valley D’Vine

Linden Estate Winery is home to Valley D’Vine. Enjoy award-winning wines paired with fresh, vibrant food using the finest local produce while overlooking the beautiful Esk Valley. Our modern dining area and newly landscaped grounds provide the perfect setting for a memorable experience on your special day.

347 State Highway 5, Esk Valley, Napier 4182 06 650 3463

www.valleydvine.co.nz

Your idyllic venue for intimate celebrations

Woodhouse Mountain Lodge is set on over 100 acres of private grounds and specialises in catering for intimate gatherings, elopements and small weddings. Imagine you and your loved ones sharing this special moment with a wonderful ceremony on a Kourawhero mountain overlooking the Hauraki Gulf, followed by a stunning wedding reception in our stylish restaurant in the main lodge.

Woodhouse Mountain Lodge

471 Wyllie Road, Warkworth, Auckland 0981

09 425 9336

www.woodhouselodge.nz

Find paradise in the Pacific

BY JAMIE QUINN

Imagine waking to turquoise waters lapping at your private overwater bungalow.

The Pacific Islands beckon with endless romance, where pristine beaches and lush rainforests create a getaway unlike any other.

Say “I do” with the turquoise ocean as your backdrop. The Pacific Islands offer stunning locations for your wedding ceremony, from barefoot elegance on the beach to lush rainforest settings. Incorporate local traditions like flower crowns and ukulele serenades to make your special day truly unforgettable.

Dip your toes in sugar-soft sand on secluded beaches. Explore vibrant coral reefs teeming with life, hand-in-hand with your love. Indulge in luxurious spas offering traditional treatments, or kayak through hidden lagoons, the gentle rhythm of the waves your only soundtrack.

Savour candlelit dinners on the beach, serenaded by gentle waves. Learn to weave flower crowns together, a symbol of your blossoming love. Hike to breathtaking viewpoints and gaze at starlit skies, feeling truly alone together in paradise.

The Pacific Islands offer a honeymoon as diverse as its cultures. From the volcanic peaks of Fiji to the laid-back charm of the Cook Islands, choose your perfect island escape. Experience the warmth of local hospitality and let the carefree island spirit embrace your love story.

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Anita specialises in wedding travel and is an expert in making recommendations for hidden gems and experiences that may be unusual and not widely marketed making for a truly unique trip.

Wedding Travel offers a onestop service and can assist with flights, accommodation, cruises, tours, passport & visa information, rental cars and insurance for the entire wedding group.

Anita is a qualified and registered Travel Broker from the Travel Managers Group Ltd (owned by Flight Centre) and is IATA & NZITT accredited. Wedding Travel is a proud member of the Destination Wedding Specialist Honeymoon Association and is currently the only New Zealand member of this North American association.

With options for every taste, budget and destination Wedding Travel is excited to be a part of making your dream trip a reality.

Wedding Travel 021 212 9513

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MUSKET COVE ISLAND RESORT & MARINA

On the pristine sands of Malolo Lailai Island in the Mamanuca’s sits the iconic Musket Cove Island Resort & Marina. Nestled on acres of rolling hills, tropical gardens, and palm-fringed beaches make, it the perfect wedding location. Choose from beachfront, coral cay or our beautiful chapel, and together with the island’s barefoot nature and warm hospitality, you and your guests will create a lifetime of wonderful memories. The team is committed to designing a celebration that is as unique as you are, and every wedding we host is a fully bespoke affair.

www.musketcovefiji.com

OUTRIGGER FIJI BEACH RESORT

At OUTRIGGER Fiji Beach Resort, our vuvale (family) can’t wait to make your wedding day an unforgettable celebration of love. Our popular beach, garden and chapel locations provide the perfect setting for your special day. Whether you dream of an intimate exchange on the pristine beach, heartfelt vows in the lush gardens, or a grand celebration in our beautiful chapel, we have your dream setting. Our experienced team of wedding coordinators weaves their magic to create the happiest day of your life. Let us help make your dream wedding a reality with our authentic Fijian hospitality and spirit.

www.outrigger.com

PLANTATION ISLAND RESORT

Fiji’s dream wedding awaits at Plantation Island Resort! Say “I do” on perfect white sand beaches with turquoise water and fiery sunsets. We offer exceptional value, with wedding and accommodation packages for any budget and guest list. Our on-site team can handle everything, from celebrants and stylists to cakes and catering. Family and friends will enjoy a holiday, too! We have activities for all ages, from free Kids’ Club to affordable babysitting. Focus on your love story – Plantation Island Resort makes it easy and affordable. Imagine a perfect wedding and a dream holiday, all for less than a wedding at home.

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SHANGRI-LA YANUCA ISLAND, FIJI

Shangri-La Yanuca Island, Fiji, sits on pristine beaches and lush tropical gardens, providing an idyllic setting for your dream wedding. Choose from a variety of stunning wedding locations across the island. Exchange vows in our picturesque wedding chapel, with views of the Pacific Ocean as your backdrop, or opt for the secluded romance of Takali Beach, where the pristine shores offer breathtaking vistas of the ocean and surrounding landscape. Our dedicated team of wedding specialists will collaborate with you to tailor every detail of your special day, ensuring it perfectly reflects your unique style. Explore our curated selection of venues, wedding offers, and elegant inspirations crafted to bring your wedding dreams to life.

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Your romantic escape awaits

Tucked away on the serene sunset coast of Rarotonga lies five acres of meticulously groomed botanical gardens, an unending stretch of powder-white sandy beach and a glistening turquoise lagoon.

Crown Beach Resort & Spa is only ten minutes from Rarotonga International Airport and a further fifteen minutes from downtown Avarua.

Indulge in a variety of romantic dining settings, such as intimate candlelit dinners on the beach underneath the twinkling stars, secluded gazebo on the beach offering panoramic sunset views, or join in on the nightly activities at Oceans Restaurant with a skilled team ready to serve.

Suprise your beloved with a private ‘Dinner on the Beach’ experience situated in the beachfront gazebo. This package includes flowers, flickering candles, an exquisite three-course meal, a chilled bottle of sparkling wine, and a personal waiter tending to you while the waves lap the shore.

If you are looking to immerse yourself in the culture, join the festivities at Crown Beach’s Island Night, where the captivating Polynesian culture takes centre stage. Enjoy a delicious culinary journey with a Polynesian buffet, a symphony of flavours and delectable desserts. After dinner, the stage transforms for a dynamic cultural performance brought to life by the incredible Maungaroa Academy Dance Troupe.

For the adventurous couple, a lagoon cruise in Muri awaits. Embark on a day spent on the sparkling waters of Rarotonga. Marvel at the underwater creatures through the glass-bottom boat, while a beachside BBQ waits for you on a secluded ‘motu’ (island in the lagoon). This snorkeler’s paradise stretches wide and far, with a crystal-clear lagoon full of reef fish and vibrant corals.

INDULGE IN A VARIETY OF ROMANTIC DINING SETTINGS, SUCH AS INTIMATE CANDLELIT DINNERS ON THE BEACH UNDERNEATH THE TWINKLING STARS

After a long day in the sun, head to the sanctuary of Spa Ariki, Crown Beach’s onsite day spa. Here you can indulge in moments of pure relaxation. Spa Ariki’s personal care treatments are crafted to promote health, wellness, and relaxation.

As you ready yourself for a blissful sleep, witness a fantastic fiery sunset that leaves you lying under a blanket of the spectacular southern skies.

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Your dream vacation awaits

Experience the allure of Samoa, the perfect Pacific Island destination for your next holiday or quick escape. A stone’s throw from New Zealand, Samoa is just a short flight away from your dream vacation.

Immerse yourself in the warmth of the friendly culture, where the spirit of Fa’a Samoa - The Samoan Way - welcomes you with open arms. The Samoan people are known for their genuine hospitality, always ready to share the richness of their traditions, making you feel at home on this island paradise.

Marvel at Samoa’s breathtaking scenery, where the blue sea meets the lush tropical landscapes. Every corner of the islands is a feast for the senses, from the palm groves to the vibrant

coral reefs filled with marine life. The natural beauty of Samoa is untouched, offering a tranquil retreat from the busy world.

Adventure awaits in Samoa with stunning explorations for every kind of traveller. Hike through rainforests, snorkel in crystal-clear waters, or relax on white sandy beaches. Every day in Samoa is a journey of discovery that leaves you with special memories to last a lifetime.

Plan your next trip to Samoa and indulge in a unique blend of natural beauty, adventure, and authentic cultural experiences. Whether you’re seeking a family vacation, a romantic getaway, or an adventure trip, Samoa offers an unforgettable journey. Come, discover Samoa - your island paradise awaits.

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No kids allowed

BY JAMIE QUINN

Putting together your guest list is quite possibly the most difficult part of wedding planning.

It’s an emotionally charged task with the potential to create tension between you and your loved ones for several reasons. One of those reasons is the challenging decision to exclude children from your celebration.

Many factors can influence the decision to have an adults-only wedding, such as budget restraints, venue restrictions, or simply the personal preference to have a child-free celebration. Children can be unpredictable and create distractions during important moments; it’s then up to the parent to take control.

As the bride and groom, you have every right to create your guest list however you see fit. However, once you’ve made your decision, it’s important to communicate carefully with your friends and family. This can be done on your wedding invitations, in a separate email, or in person.

Keep your communication clear and polite, and if questioned, explain the reasoning behind your decision. Some guests will graciously take advantage of the opportunity to have a relaxed, child-free party but expect pushback from others.

If you’ve explained your reasoning and offered alternatives, and they are still pushing you to make an exception, it might be time to accept that they won’t be attending.

It’s normal to receive a bit of pushback, but if you begin experiencing bad behaviour from your friends or family, then your approach will need to change. Set firm boundaries and make sure they know disrespect will not be tolerated.

Be ready to have difficult conversations, but ultimately, if someone insists they won’t be attending without their children, you will need to respect their decision.

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Trends

BY JAMIE QUINN

Gone are the days of cookie-cutter weddings.

Wedding trends are moving away from tradition and towards self-expression. Today’s couples are infusing their unique personalities into every detail, from a food truck reception to wedding illustrators who provide personalised favours for guests.

Couples are beginning to stray from the monochrome trend and leaning into bold and playful tones with vibrant pinks, oranges, and even fuchsia making a statement. Even traditional monochrome weddings can be elevated with the addition of a bold and bright accent colour. With the rise of colourful weddings, couples are no longer feeling confined to traditional neutral or pastel colour schemes.

One of the biggest wedding trends of the year is a focus on sustainability. Couples are becoming more environmentally conscious and are looking for ways to reduce their wedding’s carbon footprint. This includes choosing venues that are easy for guests to get to, reducing food waste, and opting for decorations that can be reused or recycled.

Remember, the wedding industry moves quickly. The trends you see today may not be the hot thing in six months. That’s why it’s more important to stay true to yourself and what represents you as a couple.

Trends come and go, but your love is forever.

Photos by Sarah Clements Photography

Cat & Dave

REAL WEDDING

Cat and Dave’s love story started like the beginning of a rom-com.

“Dave and I met at a party and I thought I made a terrible first impression! I woke up the next morning and thought to myself, “Why was I such a dick to that guy?!”

But apparently, he wasn’t put off, and on his way home from the party (which was due to be one of the last he attended before moving to Auckland), he said to his friend, “Don’t let me talk to that girl again or I’ll never move away.

“A few months later, I ended up getting a job at his work, and my first day was his last before his move to the Auckland office. They took the whole team out to lunch to celebrate, and we ended up wedged next to each other; he was so cute and funny, and I remember thinking, “Damn, I’m gutted this guy’s leaving.” After he left, we started messaging at work, which turned into texting on the weekends and eventually culminated in the world’s greatest first date weekend on Waiheke Island.”…

THE COUPLE’S FULL STORY, HEAD TO OUR WEBSITE. MEANWHILE ENJOY A SELECTION OF IMAGES FROM THEIR SPECIAL DAY.

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When the wedding high fades

BY JAMIE QUINN

Taking

care of your mental health after ‘I do’

The wedding day is a whirlwind of emotions – joy, excitement, nervous anticipation. You’ve meticulously planned, celebrated with loved ones, and finally tied the knot. However, contrary to what fairytales tell us, happily ever after doesn’t begin with the recessional.

Feeling a dip in mood after the wedding’s high is completely normal. Post-wedding blues manifest as feelings of sadness, loss, or emptiness after the wedding festivities have ended. This emotional rollercoaster can surprise couples, leaving them feeling confused and questioning their decision.

The roots of the post-wedding blues are multifaceted. For months, the wedding has likely been a focal point, consuming your energy and attention. The intense focus on the event can leave couples feeling directionless once it’s over, particularly when they have spent months or even years anticipating this single day. The abrupt end to this high level of excitement and attention can result in an emotional letdown.

Several factors contribute to these feelings. For starters, the physical and emotional exhaustion from the wedding, combined with the return to normal life, can be unsettling.

Social media also plays a role. The carefully curated feeds overflowing with picture-perfect wedding moments can create an unrealistic portrayal of wedded bliss. Comparing your reality to this idealised version can fuel feelings of inadequacy and disappointment.

One key way to combat post-wedding blues is to plan for the post-wedding phase during the wedding planning process itself. Setting long-term goals that extend beyond the wedding can help couples maintain a sense of purpose. These goals don’t have to be huge; they can be as simple as planning a trip, taking up a new hobby together, or focusing on your career.

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With the wedding whirlwind behind you, prioritise quality time with your new spouse. Plan date nights that remind you why you fell in love. These moments of connection can reaffirm your commitment to each other and bring back a sense of normalcy.

Self-care might have taken a backseat during wedding planning. Now is the time to reclaim it. Prioritise activities that bring you joy and relaxation, whether that’s reading a book, going for a walk in nature, practising yoga, or indulging in a favourite hobby.

Often, the focus on the couple during the wedding phase can lead to neglect of other relationships. Reconnecting with loved ones can provide emotional support and help ease feelings of loneliness or isolation.

If your feelings of sadness or anxiety are overwhelming and interfering with your daily life, don’t hesitate to seek help from a mental health professional. Counselling can provide a space to explore these feelings safely and develop strategies to cope with the transition more effectively.

While post-wedding blues are a common experience, they are manageable with the right strategies and mindset. By acknowledging your emotions and prioritising your connection as a couple, you can navigate this phase and emerge stronger together.

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Couple: Abby and Aka

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GIN SLING

This vibrant, refreshing drink is like a sweet and tart lemonade spiked with gin for a delightful punch!

The gin sling is perfect for a warm day or whenever you need a pick-me-up.

INGREDIENTS

• 50ml Dry gin

• 20ml Lemon juice

• 15ml Sugar syrup

• 2 dashes of bitters

METHOD

• Soda water

• Tonic water

• Ice

• Add all ingredients except soda water into a shaker

• Shake to combine

• Strain into a tall glass filled with ice

• Top with equal parts soda water and tonic water

• Garnish with a rosemary sprig and lemon wedge

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There’ll always be a place for overpriced wine.

However, with our curated wine packages, you can treat the entire wedding party to one of North Canterbury’s rising stars - our Georgie Rosé, evoking all the elegance of the Riviera, without the sassy French price tag.

We’ll even help you pair your food menu, so you can focus on your special day, without worring about the wine.

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Statement of love

BY JAMIE QUINN

How to transform your love, stories and memories into beautiful vows

Writing your wedding vows is a tremendously overwhelming task. How could you possibly put all your love and admiration into a few short minutes? Wedding vows are an incredibly intimate part of your ceremony; it’s a chance to revisit some of your special memories, share your favourite things about your partner, and look to the future.

If you’ve chosen to write your own vows, it can be difficult to get started. Traditional vows are very structured and formal. However, there are no hard and fast rules when you’re writing personalised vows. Whether you want to bare your heart at the altar or have your loved one cry laughing, here are some great tips to help you get started.

START EARLY

The easiest mistake you can make is thinking you have all the time in the world to start your vows. You don’t have to write the whole thing in one go but start the process early to give yourself plenty of time to write them and practice.

TAKE NOTES

In your notes app on your phone, start jotting down all the things you love about your partner as they happen. It can be hard to stay present during moments during the day, and this helps us to recognise all the little things we find endearing that we might otherwise overlook. This is also a great way to reconnect with each other, giving you an opportunity to acknowledge all they do for you.

GET INSPIRED

Take inspiration from your favourite movies, songs, and books. If you’re struggling to put your feelings into words, chances are someone else already has. There are no rules that say you can’t use poetry, song lyrics, or quotes to express how you feel.

FORMAT

Break your vows down into sections and focus on one at a time. A simple format to follow looks like this:

Open: This is how you start your vows and can be a sweet anecdote or simply how excited you are to be standing there with your loved one.

You’re the best: Is all about why your partner is the best. You can talk about the qualities you love about them or the things that make them a great person.

We’re the best: This is all about you and your partner and what makes your relationship so strong. You can talk about why you’re choosing this life with them and brag about your relationship!

Vows: This is where you will make your actual vows or promises to your partner, e.g. “I promise to love you in good times and in bad.”

Close: To finish, you’ll put a nice bow on top of everything you’ve said. This could be a simple “I love you”, revisit the story you opened with, or look to your future plans together.

EMBRACE SENTIMENTALITY

If there is any a time for you to be cheesy, it’s in your wedding vows. This is your chance to absolutely gush about your partner and your relationship. This doesn’t mean you have to share your deepest secrets at the altar but aim for heartfelt.

SAY “I LOVE YOU”

This seems like a no-brainer, but you’d be surprised by how many people forget to mention these four little words.

DON’T WORRY TOO MUCH ABOUT GRAMMAR

Yes, you need to have complete sentences that flow well, but remember that you are the only one who will be reading your vows out loud. If you need to add extra full stops and commas to help you slow down and take a breath, then absolutely do. Your vows should sound like you; you’re not being graded!

PRACTICE READING OUT LOUD

Now that you’ve got it in writing, it’s time to read it out loud. You might feel silly practising in the mirror, but it’s important to hear how they flow and get an idea of timing. Ideally, you want your vows to be under five minutes long when read aloud. I don’t know about you, but I talk incredibly fast when I get nervous, so take this into account.

WRITE THEM ON PAPER

Physically write or type your vows on paper. Standing at the altar reading off your phone is not a good look. Consider reading from vow books your celebrant can hold onto until it’s your turn to speak. Vow books also make great keepsakes you can cherish together for a lifetime.

Photographer: Life Like Film

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Couple: Yulin and Steven

Host with the most

BY BEN O’CONNELL

Should you ask a friend to emcee your wedding?

Funny, extroverted, charming, humble – these are some of the first qualities that come to mind when you characterise a master of ceremonies. But an emcee must also manage time, deal with hiccups, and put the audience at ease, among other challenges. Emceeing a friend’s big day is an incredible privilege, but one that shouldn’t be taken lightly.

You can imagine how excited I was when no other than My Wedding Mag editorial manager Jamie asked me to emcee her wedding. And as a former quiz and karaoke night host, I was still excited once the offer’s realities set in. But no matter your experience level, it’s a big ask. Emceeing takes preparation, a strong voice, and a professional outlook still true to you. And things rarely go exactly to plan. Ahh!

Your most sociable friend mightn’t be the right fit. Boris might be fun at work drinks, but consider how his borderline jokes and tangents might go down with an audience. Maybe ask him to give a short speech instead. The same goes for enquiring friends who you don’t think are a good fit. At the end of the day, it’s your special one. You can always say no.

Professional emcees can be quite expensive and lack that personal touch. Hiring friends also means they’re forever a part of your memories, adding another intimate layer of shared experience. One potential downside is that the emcee is half-guest, half-staff. Have fun! and Relax! the guests would say.

Of course, I had a blast at Jamie’s wedding, but I was equally in work mode. Boris-ing out on cocktails would’ve been fun, but ensuring the evening ran smoothly was far more rewarding. Consider you let Boris host, and he sucks. What’s the consequence? A professional would at least reimburse you.

Not everyone enjoys public speaking. You may think I’m a masochist, but I love talking in front of crowds. Your friend might be quick-witted, reliable and adaptable even, but hate the idea. My advice is to prioritise this confidence above all else.

Beyond public speaking comfort, if your friend is organised and responsible, actually knows you, your partner, and your interests, and can think on their feet for when things go haywire, why not ask them to emcee? Trust me when I say it’s an incredible honour to be trusted with the role, one that will long be cherished.

Nikita & Reid

REAL WEDDING

Nikita was Reid’s gym crush for a while before he worked up the courage to make a move.

“Reid was too shy to come over and say hello, so he found me on social media and noticed I was single, so he sent me a few messages then asked me out to dinner, and it just took off from there.

“For the proposal, we went away for Reid’s birthday/our anniversary to Pouto up North, where there was a beautiful Air BnB that came with a 4WD to take to the lighthouse. We planned a late picnic & some drinks to celebrate, but I didn’t realise how hard the hike up the sand dunes was to get to the lighthouse (where Reid planned to propose). So, I had had enough, made it halfway, and just said it doesn’t matter; we’ll just sit here. Little did I know that I was ruining my own proposal, and I’m quite stubborn, so plan B was just there and then! Makes for a laugh now.”…

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Beyond the suit

BY JAMIE QUINN

THE DO’S AND DON’TS EVERY GROOM SHOULD KNOW

So you’ve popped the question, and you’re ready to tie the knot! Congratulations! But between the excitement and the celebratory high-fives, there’s also the not-so-small task of planning a wedding.

While the bride often takes centre stage, grooms play a crucial role in making this day unforgettable.

DO

BE AN ACTIVE PARTICIPANT: This is your wedding too! Voice your opinions on everything from the venue to the menu. Remember, a happy groom makes a happy bride (and vice versa).

SUPPORT YOUR BRIDE: The final stretch of wedding planning can be extra stressful for your partner. Simply lending a listening ear or offering a helping hand with last-minute details can make a world of difference. Help shoulder the stress and be ready to tackle tasks together.

DELEGATE: Lean on your groomsmen or family. Don’t be afraid to ask your support system for help with errands, planning tasks, or even just moral support.

FUEL YOUR BODY AND MIND: Wedding planning is a marathon, not a sprint. Take care of yourself! Eat healthy meals to keep your energy levels up, and prioritise a good night’s sleep to manage stress.

GET GROOMED: You might not need a full spa day, but invest in some self-care. Schedule a haircut, a shave, and maybe even a facial to ensure you look your sharpest on the big day.

EMBRACE THE MOMENT: The wedding day will likely be a whirlwind of emotions and activities. Take a few quiet moments throughout the day to soak it all in. Breathe, savour the special moments with your future spouse, and truly appreciate the significance of the occasion.

DON’T

BE A YES-MAN: While compromise is key, don’t be afraid to express your preferences. Speak up if something doesn’t feel quite right.

SAY YOU DON’T CARE: This phrase might seem harmless, but trust us, it’s a wedding planning downer. Even if a specific detail feels unimportant to you, make an effort to engage in the discussion. Look at different options, offer suggestions, or simply ask clarifying questions. Your partner will appreciate your involvement!

GO ROGUE: A bachelor party is a tradition, but plan it strategically. Avoid scheduling it right before the wedding – a sleep-deprived and possibly hungover groom isn’t the best look for your big day. Give yourself enough time to recover and arrive at the wedding feeling refreshed and ready to celebrate.

WING YOUR VOWS: Writing your vows beforehand ensures you express your love with genuine sincerity. Take some quiet time a few weeks before the day to craft vows that are personal, meaningful, and uniquely yours.

FORGET THE RING: This one seems obvious, but delegate this task to your best man just in case (and for some peace of mind).

OVERINDULGE: It’s okay to have a drink or two to celebrate, but remember, you want to be present for your wedding. Keep it classy!

Photographer: Life Like Film @lifelikefilmweddings - Insta www.lifelikefilm.com

Groom pictured: David Patu

Small but spectacular

BY JAMIE QUINN

Embracing the simplicity of the micro-wedding

The micro-wedding trend has been seeing a significant rise, with couples choosing to have smaller, more intimate celebrations that focus on the quality of experience rather than the number of guests. This shift towards minimalism doesn’t just highlight a change in wedding sizes but also a deeper, more personal approach to celebrating love.

Defined by a small guest list, micro-weddings offer couples an opportunity to prioritise what truly matters: celebrating their love story with those closest to them. They generally have a head count of less than 30 guests, focusing on quality over quantity. But what goes into planning such an intimate celebration?

The guest list is the foundation of any wedding. A micro-wedding means you’re only inviting those who hold a special place in your lives. Prioritise immediate family, close friends, and those who have significantly supported your relationship.

For most couples, a micro-wedding means more control over the budget and less financial burden. By scaling back on guest numbers, you’re able to free up the budget for elements that matter most to you, like live music or booking your dream photographer.

Micro-weddings typically require fewer vendors than larger weddings, resulting in lower overall vendor expenses. Couples can prioritise hiring top-tier vendors for key services, knowing that their budget will stretch further with fewer vendors to accommodate.

Planning a large wedding can be overwhelming and time-consuming, with endless details to coordinate and logistics to manage. The beauty of a micro-wedding is its potential for personalisation and flexibility. The condensed guest list allows freedom to explore unconventional venues, such as the café where you first met, the art gallery where you catch each new exhibition or the beach where you said yes.

An intimate celebration means couples have the luxury of savouring every moment of their special day without feeling rushed or overwhelmed. From getting ready together in the morning to stealing quiet moments alone during the reception, embracing the simplicity of a micro-wedding allows couples to slow down and fully immerse themselves in the joy and beauty of the moment. This mindful approach to wedding planning ensures that every aspect of the day is savoured and appreciated, creating memories that will be cherished for a lifetime.

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Couple pictured: May-Lee and Mitch

Pro tips 5

BY JAMIE QUINN

MEET VENDORS IN PERSON

A vendor might have a fantastic online portfolio, but that doesn’t guarantee they’ll be the right fit for you. Meeting your vendors in person is the best way to get a real feel of their working style and how their flow may impact your day.

HAVE A DESIGNATED EMERGENCY CONTACT PERSON

Whether it’s your maid of honour or your cousin, choose someone you trust and let them be the go-to person for any disasters on the day. The last thing you need is to deal with late guests or vendors on the morning of your big day.

HAVE A MAKEUP AND HAIR TRIAL BEFORE BOOKING YOUR STYLIST

Any reputable beauty stylist will advise you to have at least one trial session before booking to make sure you are happy not only with the style of glam you have chosen but also with the products being used and the service being received.

FILTER OUT THE NOISE AND DECIDE WHOSE OPINIONS ACTUALLY MATTER

Some people can’t help themselves when it comes to voicing opinions that nobody asked for. As difficult as it may be, the best thing to do is just ignore the noise. Stay true to yourself and your partner’s values. Yes, you may disappoint some people, but if they genuinely care about you, they will get over it and still enjoy your celebration.

PRIORITISE PHOTOGRAPHY

Your photographer is the one who captures your big day! All the details that you painstakingly laboured over and all the joy and love that is exchanged on the day will be represented through your photos. Make sure you choose a photographer whose style you love and who you get along with. These are your forever photos, so invest in them!

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