Miami Dade Family Life October 2019

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departments 6 MIAMI & MORE News about the people, places and events in our community.

24 FAMILY MAN Nightmare at the Pumpkin Patch

26 SPECIAL NEEDS The debut of our new column for children with disabilities shines the spotlight on inclusive entertainment.

28 CALENDAR OF EVENTS Entertaining and noteworthy things to see and do in every corner of Miami-Dade County.

30 WORDS OF WISDOM A Halloween haunted by the scary side of “trick or treat.”

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COMBATTING THE CYBERBULLY Strategies to protect your kids from bullying’s technological evil twin.

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HALLOWEEN HANDBOOK From protecting your trick-or-treaters’ teeth, to dealing with nightmares, dig into our goodie bag full of tips and tricks for a Happy Halloween.

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HALLOWEEN HAPPENINGS We’ve scared up a list of spooky and not-so-spooky events for families throughout the county this month.

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What: “A Mirror Maze: Numbers in Nature” Where: Hsiao Family Special Exhibition Gallery at the Phillip and Patricia Frost Museum of Science, 1101 Biscayne Blvd., Miami When: Oct. 12 through April 12, 2020 Cost: Included with museum admission tickets — $29.95/adult, $20.95/ages 3-11, free/ages 2 and under. $2 ticket discount online.

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Who says math isn’t fun?

In the centerpiece of “A Mirror Maze: Numbers in Nature” at Phillip and Patricia Frost Museum of Science, guests lose themselves in a seemingly infinite symmetry of repeated reflections. Dead-ends are scattered throughout the mirror maze, and hidden within it is a small, secret room with bonus puzzles and artifacts.

The maze is a fun, fascinating way to introduce guests to the mathematical patterns that surround us every day. Various interactive elements allow for hands-on learning to appreciate the beauty of our world through numbers, from the nested spirals of a sunflower’s tiny seeds to the layout of the entire universe.

The exhibition also features an immersive theater depicting stunning footage of nature, the human body and art and

architecture, and also features artifacts like honeycombs that demonstrate patterns in the natural world. Activities enable guests to manipulate and create their own mathematical patterns — such as measuring their own wingspan, viewing their own eye’s blood vessels and creating computer-generated landscapes as seen in movies.

Additional interactive highlights include: • Drawing patterns on a digital screen and seeing real-world objects that show that same pattern.

• Observing the symmetry — or lack thereof — in the human face.

• Composing a piece of music by varying a single motif and hearing it played back.

• Comparing similar patterns in architecture from varying parts of the world built millennia apart.

Cycling for safety in Aventura One of the coolest ways to get around South Florida is on a bicycle — not to mention the bonus of beating the traffic. Now the City of Aventura and its police department have come up with an even cooler way to take a bike ride — with a police escort — while promoting safe cycling practices at the same time.

Share the Road, a combination bike-safety and ride event, takes off Oct. 6 at 9am at Founders Park.

There will be bike-safety presentations, and a limited number of helmets, bicycle lights and water bottles will be distributed before the ride starts at 10am, when

members of the police department will be escorts for a safe ride around Aventura.

Participants will have an opportunity to interact with police and ask questions about bike safety, get helmets fitted, learn about basic bike maintenance, join a bike rodeo, enter to win prizes, and speak with representatives of the city’s bike-share program, Aventura B-Cycle. Riders should bring their own bikes for the ride and be able to ride a bike safely on the road.

Founders Park is at 3105 NE 190 St. For more information, visit www.cityofaventura.com or contact the Aventura Community Recreation Center at 305-466-3883.

A CARIBBEAN COSTUME PARTY October may bring the fun and excitement of dressing up for Halloween, but in Miami, there’s another kind of dress-up celebration — Miami Broward One Carnival, where 18,000 masqueraders cavort in radiant Caribbean costumes.

One of South Florida’s premier cultural festivals and the largest Caribbean carnival in North America, Miami Broward One Carnival features two main events on Oct. 13 that make for a non-stop party of island pageantry, culture and art — the parade of bands, noon-11pm, and concert, 3-11pm, both at Miami-Dade County Fair and Expo.

The parade features over 20 bands that

Queen costumes are over 15-feet wide and 20-feet tall.

The pulsating music that accompanies the parade is echoed at the concert, as world-class Hispanic and Haitian artists perform island music. Fun for all ages, the carnival also offers crafts, refreshments and savory specialties from the islands.

All events feature free admission for children under 12.

Leading up to the big day are three festivities in Broward County: Jr. Carnival, Oct. 5, noon-10pm; Panorama, Oct. 11, 4-11pm; and J’ouvert, Oct. 12, 7am-3pm, all

portray different themes displayed in a kaleidoscope of colors, beads and feathers.

This year, it includes the Kings, Queens and Individuals competitions, which showcase the biggest and most elaborate costumes as the masqueraders compete for a trophy, cash prizes — and bragging rights! Some King and

at Central Broward Regional Park, 3700 NW 11 Place, Lauderhill.

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ne of the biggest challenges parents currently face is how to manage our children’s access to technology. When they are young, we worry about them spending too much time staring at screens and not getting outside to play. As they get older, they start asking for their own cell phone, and then the world (the good, the bad and the ugly) is available right in the palm of their hand. Sadly, the rise in popularity of the internet, smartphones and text messaging has led to a major bullying problem online — cyberbullying.

THE SCARY STATISTICS Nearly 43 percent of kids have been bullied online, according to PACER. This is the organization behind National Bullying Prevention Month, which is held every October to unite communities nationwide to inspire, educate and raise awareness about bullying prevention. Cyberbullying is now the most prevalent type of bullying, and 25 percent of kids who have been bullied say they have experienced it more than once.

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Cyberbullying typically involves using technology to spread rumors about or write hurtful comments to another person. Technology has made bullying much easier because it has removed the traditional barriers of time and space between bullies and their victims.

They can interact in real-time at any moment during or after school. The technology to hurt someone is available 24/7. Cyberbullying most commonly occurs via social media (Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and Twitter), text messages, instant messages (Facebook Messenger) and email.

Why are kids being bullied? According to TeenSafe data: • 72 percent of children are cyberbullied because of their looks.

• 26 percent of victims are chosen due to their race or religion.

• 22 percent of harassed children feel that their sexuality was the cause of the bullying. continued on page 10

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Anti-bullying Apps Every Family Should Have

BY TANNI HAAS Bullying happens to kids more often than most parents realize. Here are five anti-bullying apps that help parents and kids deal with this growing problem. They’re some of the best ones available, and they’re all free to download from the Apple App Store and Google Play.

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KnowBullying. The most important first step in any anti-bullying effort is to talk to your kids about what bullying is and how to prevent it. KnowBullying, developed by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, is an award-winning app that explains the warning signs of bullying, offers advice on how to talk to your kids about it, and includes important strategies for preventing bullying for kids in different age groups (3-6, 7-12, and older.)

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ReThink - Stop Cyberbullying. Despite parents’ best efforts, kids often don’t realize when they’re about to bully someone.

This is especially true with online messages.

One way to ensure that potentially hurtful messages aren’t sent is to download Rethink – Stop Cyberbullying, which was developed by a 13-year old girl who wanted to help fight the problem. When it detects hurtful language, this app issues alerts such as: “Would you like to re-word this? Remember, you are what you type!” This approach has been shown to stop kids before they sent hurtful messages.

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Take a Stand Together. When bullying does happen, how should kids respond? Take a Stand Together offers lots of helpful advice for dealing with different types of bullying.

The app has interactive scenarios that make kids think about what they’d do if they were being bullied or witnessed others being bullied.

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Bully Button. Sometimes, it’s not possible for kids to deal with bullying on their own.

They might need to tell their parents about it and ask for help. A great bullying-alert app is Bully Button. This app lets kids surreptitiously record the bullying and quickly and effectively alert their parents. It shows kids’ exact locations and makes it easy for parents to offer advice on what to do in real-time.

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Speak Up! For Someone. An essential lesson you can teach your kids is that bullying can happen to anyone and, if they witness it, they need to speak up rather than stay quiet. Speak Up! For Someone is just the right app for that. It lets kids record bullying that they witness and report it anonymously and securely to school officials.

tricky, but it is now a huge part of parenthood. Just as we teach our children Other reasons include weak athletic how to cross the street and not talk to ability, intelligence level, strong artistic strangers, it is imperative that we help skills, strong morals, refusal to join keep them safe online as well. There are the crowd or having a small build several ways that you can keep tabs on your (i.e., too short or too thin). children’s online activity and help prevent HOW CYBERBULLYING CAUSES or manage cyberbullying.

STRESS AND ANXIETY Use Parental Controls: Digital parental Like any traumatic event, cyberbullying controls are tools and software used can cause immediate and lingering stress to block inappropriate and anxiety for the victims. They websites, impose screen often are left feeling lonely, time limits and prevent isolated, vulnerable, depressed strangers from coming and anxious. The top four Just as we into contact with anxiety disorders that victims your children online. teach our children of bullying can experience Installing the parental how to cross the street include post-traumatic-stress control app on your and not talk to strangers, disorder, generalized-anxiety child’s device will it is imperative that we disorder, panic attacks and allow you to monitor social-anxiety disorder. help keep them safe their activities Recent studies show a clear and control what online as well. link between bullying and they are exposed to. anxiety. In 2013, researchers You will also be able at Duke University found that to view their messages, both bullies and people who are contacts, internet bullied have an increased risk browsing history and emails. of depression; panic disorder; and There are many parental control behavioral, educational and emotional programs available, including free options problems. Next, a 2014 study found that to get started with. Of course, each offers victims of frequent bullying had higher different tools and levels of control to rates of depression, anxiety disorders and consider. For example, restrictions for suicidal feelings nearly four decades after a child in elementary school may not be a bullying incident. appropriate for a high school student.

It is important to keep an eye out for You don’t have to secretly monitor your warning signs that your children are being child’s online behavior. In fact, experts cyberbullied, such as these highlighted believe that you will have more success by stopbullying.gov: if you talk to your children about proper • Noticeable increase or decrease digital etiquette and cyberbullying so that in device use, including texting. they will be comfortable to open up to you • They show strong emotional if they witness or are involved in a bullying responses, like anger, to what is situation. Also, be aware that while parental happening on their device. controls do not necessarily decrease the • They hide their device from you risk of cyberbullying, they can serve as a and won’t tell you what they are helpful data collection tool in case an doing on it. issue does occur.

• Social media accounts are shut Set Limits: We need to work together down or new ones appear. with our kids to figure out how best to • They avoid social situations. manage screen time. Establish boundaries • They become withdrawn or and limitations about appropriate digital depressed, or lose interest in friends, behavior, content and apps. If you see a family and activities. message that looks inappropriate, speak • Difficulty sleeping. to them about it immediately. If you read • Physical complaints like headaches, about a dangerous game, talk to your nervousness and stomach aches. kids about why you do not want them • They no longer want to go to school. playing it. Let them know that you are WAYS TO PROTECT YOUR KIDS not trying to invade their privacy, Maneuvering through the world of but that you love them, are on their ever-changing technology can be quite side and just want to keep them safe. continued from page 8

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Educate Them: Our children need our guidance. According to a recent survey, 24 percent of kids and teens report that they do not know what they would do if they were harassed online and 39 percent do not enable their privacy settings on social media.

Educate your kids about online dangers, including cyberbullying. Explain to them that the “friends” they meet online may not always be who they say they are.

They should be careful about the type of information they share with others. Teach them how to block accounts and set up security features in various programs.

Overall, we need to guide them so they can make responsible decisions about technology on their own, and to speak up when a situation feels uncomfortable.

Encourage Them to Take a Stand Against Bullies: The actions of peers are more likely to stop a bully than anything else. Help your children understand that reporting a cyberbullying incident is not tattling. Most social media platforms and schools have clear policies and reporting procedures. If a classmate is cyberbullying someone, help your child report the situation to the school. If a child has received physical threats, or if a potential crime or illegal behavior is occurring, report it to the police.

Let’s give our children the power to stand up and speak out against bullying.

By raising confident, emotionally intelligent, kind children, we are giving them the tools to recognize when a situation just doesn’t feel right.

And remember to always love and support them through these challenges.

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Halloween Handbook Ask anyone what’s their favorite holiday and

more and more of them — especially kids but parents, too — will say “Halloween!”

That’s because it’s America’s fastest-growing holiday, booming by about 60 percent over the last 10 years. (Christmas only grew about 14 percent.) Last year 175 million Americans celebrated Halloween and spent $9 billion, according to the National Retail Federation. Those who spent on everything from candy to costumes did so at a record-setting average of $86.79 each — pretty good considering Halloween is not even an official U.S. holiday! But don’t be scared by this monster of a celebration. We’ve got you covered with a goodie bag of tips and tricks to make it a real Happy Halloween — including how to protect your trick-or-treaters' teeth, how to help them through their nightmares, and where to find not-so-scary community events.

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t’s no wonder Halloween is among the most eagerly anticipated family holidays. What youngster doesn’t love dressing as a superhero while visiting vibrantly decorated places filled with happy people who are giving

out free candy? Who can resist a parade of adorable trick-or-treaters?

However, even the most fun-loving parent can’t help but cringe when kids dump all of their collected candy onto the living room floor. Although there have been numerous scientific studies that claim that children’s behavior is not affected by excess sugar, anyone who has witnessed a roomful of kids jazzed up on sweets would certainly disagree. No one can argue that candy is nutritionally void and full of sugar that can contribute to obesity and tooth decay. According to the U.S.D.A. Agricultural Research Service, some kids already consume an average of 21 teaspoons of sugar a day.

Fortunately, there are many steps parents can take to keep harmful amounts of sugar from overshadowing the Halloween fun.

FOCUS ON FUN AND HEALTHY ALTERNATIVES: Caregivers should make a conscious and yearly effort to create alternative Halloween traditions that focus on the activity, not on the treats, says Susan Nitzke, PhD, a professor of nutritional sciences.

“Children caught up in the excitement of other Halloween activities are less likely to be focused on the candy,” she says.

Suggestions for fun activities include hosting your own Halloween costume or craft party; coordinating a scavenger hunt (with toys, not • Immediately recycle it. Have kids quickly pick out their favorite few handfuls of candy. candy, for prizes); participating in Send items still tightly packaged and candy-free carnivals offered by many sealed right back out the door to the communities; or spinning spooky next batch of trick-or-treaters. tunes in the front yard to entertain • Package up candy (along with other trick-or-treaters. food items) and create a care package

What to do with Candy castaways

for soldiers that weren’t able to celebrate a traditional Halloween this year.

• Save many varieties of candy for a Thanksgiving day piñata.

• Save hard candy for Christmas gingerbread houses, wreaths and ornaments.

• Save a few handfuls of candy for a scavenger hunt on a school holiday.

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A recent Halloween study found that many children were just as likely to choose toys as candy when given both options, so don’t sweat offering alternatives. Non-food Halloween items like pencils, stickers, and temporary tattoos are great choices. You can also offer healthy

best choice for “oral clearance,” or spending the shortest time on teeth.

If fat and calories are a concern, some popular candies are better choices than others. Licorice only contains 30 calories and Hershey’s Kisses only have 25. Some chocolate candies like

Peppermint Patties, Junior Mints and Three Musketeers are food alternatives like individual packages of graham significantly lower in fat than other choices. Read labels and crackers, mini-boxes of raisins or sugar-free gum. consider snack-sized varieties.

LIMIT THE DAMAGE: No matter how PURGE THE EXCESS: Once you’ve convinced your child to conscious you are about how you spend give up the extra candy, put it out of reach so that it’s no longer Halloween, it’s inevitable that your child will a temptation. Freeze some chocolate bars to melt for s’mores, be exposed to at least some candy. You’ll just brownies or fondue. Consider cutting up the rest to use as need a plan to dispose of any excess. chocolate chips for baked goods intended for military personnel, Some parents have success with teachers or anyone special to your heart. Packaging up homemade allowing a few small pieces per day until goodies for the school crossing guard, for instance, will place the most of the candy (or the interest) is focus on serving others instead of on eating candy. gone. You can also offer to trade most USE HALLOWEEN TO STRESS SMART CHOICES: Halloween of the candy for a bigger, more desirable is a great time to talk to children about the importance of making prize like a coveted game or toy. Even good nutritional choices, but you may not want to portray that offering $5 for all but a few handfuls of message as one of overwhelming sacrifice. Once you’ve come candy is cheaper than filling a cavity and up with a workable game plan that allows everyone a little less painful than a toothache. indulgence, explain the limits — but don’t dwell on them.

Dentists say that letting children eat candy “If you get too restrictive, they tend to hide food or snack after a meal will allow their body to produce more saliva secretly,” reassures dietician Linda Davenport. “Most of the to help neutralize acids that can attach to tiny teeth.

Halloween feeding frenzy is in the first few days and The worst time for candy eating is right before then it will settle down.” bed. Have kids rinse out their mouths “Gathering and eating Halloween and brush thoroughly after a candy can be a lot of fun for kids and candy feast, no matter what caregivers alike,” says dental director time of day.

A. Riley Cutler. “You can’t raise a child What do dentists consider and take away everything that is fun. the worst candies for teeth?

The key is moderation.”

Anything that sticks to the TINY BOTTLES OF BUBBLES. They are teeth and stays there — like sold by the case at the dollar store.

Dots, gummy bears, suckers KID-SIZED WATER BOTTLES. Trick-or-treaters and hard candies. Because it get thirsty and the water will help to keep sugar from sticking to their teeth. melts quickly, chocolate is the

Candy Alternatives for Trick-or-treaters

TAILGATING-TYPE TREATS. My neighbor’s front yard is the most popular trick-or-treating destination in our neighborhood — and she doesn’t serve candy. She grills and hands out bulk hot dogs. All of the neighbors stop by to grab a snack and visit. The children play and we all take a break from trick-or-treating.

GLOW-IN-THE-DARK BRACELETS. These are popular with kids and make them more visible at night.

Bad Dreams are not all bad

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t’s the middle of the night and you’re in a deep that they’re OK. When they’re upset, go to their bedroom and sleep. You hear a cry of “Mommy!” You wake up give them physical contact like a hug or back rub until they and realize your child is frightened and needs you. calm down. Ask them to talk about the nightmare, but don’t You stumble into her room in a daze, faced with the push too hard if they don’t want to discuss it. Console them challenge of comforting your little one after she’s verbally by saying: “I understand your dream must have had a nightmare. been scary, but it was not real. Mommy sometimes has Given this middle-of-the-night drama, it may be bad dreams, too. You’re OK. I am here to comfort you. surprising to learn that nightmares in childhood are I love you and you are fine.” actually normal and play a positive role in kids’ emotional TALKING ABOUT IT HELPS growth and coping skills. About half of all young children If they want to check under the bed or in the closet for experience nightmares, especially 2- to 6-year-olds. Children monsters, go along with this exercise. Once they have calmed are particularly prone at this age because this is when they’re down, tuck them in with their favorite blanket or stuffed developing fears and imagination, and trying animal and reassure them that you will be nearby if to learn the difference between fantasy and they need you again. If they argue with you about “I understand your reality. Nightmares tend to peak by 10 years going back to sleep, explain that they need to dream must have been of age, after which they usually decrease. get their rest so they can enjoy the next day.

WHY NIGHTMARES HAPPEN

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Mommy sometimes has bad dreams, too.”

Children’s nightmares stem from many different types of experiences that cause emotional responses, such as hearing a scary story, watching a frightening movie, worrying about school, struggling socially, or reacting to a family change or crisis like a new sibling or divorce. Facing new milestones — potty training, moving out of a crib, learning to ride a bike — can also cause bad dreams. Eating too close to bedtime, some medications and sleep problems can also lead to nightmares. What is also interesting is that experts have found that fear is not the only emotion that can trigger nightmares; confusion, guilt, disgust and sadness are also culprits.

Nightmares typically happen in the second half of the night during rapid eye movement (REM) sleep. Because of this timing, children usually can remember their dreams when they wake up.

As a reaction to stress, nightmares help our children work through their emotions or traumatic events. They consolidate bad feelings into a concrete memory that can be more easily processed, filed away and forgotten. Michael Nadorff, assistant professor of psychology and sleep behavior medicine specialist, equates nightmares to having our own exposure therapy to review and confront experiences so we can overcome our fears about them.

A PEEK INTO KIDS' DEEPEST CONCERNS In addition, when our children have bad dreams, we can gain insight into their deepest thoughts and concerns.

Rosalind Cartwright, PhD, professor emeritus of psychology, explains that nightmares are like having an internal therapist, helping surface one’s deep-rooted emotions and fears. It’s almost like revealing a secret emotional code that we may not be privy to during the day. By connecting with our children after a nightmare, we can help them work through their issues so that they feel better.

Comforting our children in the moment is important so they can express how nightmares make them feel and realize

Provide an example of something fun for them to look forward to.

You can continue to address the nightmare the next day by encouraging them to express themselves.

Consider getting creative like drawing or painting pictures, journaling, reading stories and discussing them, or acting them out with puppets. Look for patterns in the themes of their nightmares to try to understand what the cause of stress may be. The most important thing is to encourage your children to talk it out so that they address what’s bothering them while they’re awake.

WHEN NIGHTMARES BECOME A PROBLEM There are nightmares, and then there are chronic night terrors and nightmare disorder. Here are some signs to look out for to make sure your kids aren’t experiencing something more serious: •Are the nightmares significantly interfering with sleep?

• Are your kids avoiding bedtime because they are so worried that they will have a nightmare?

• Are the nightmares getting worse and occurring more frequently?

• Are they impacting your child’s school day and interaction with family and friends?

• Are they repeatedly waking up with detailed recollection of long, scary dreams that involve threats to their survival, security and physical well-being?

If you notice these issues persisting, then it’s important to speak to your pediatrician about what is going on. It may be time to explore treatment options like therapy to address stress and anxiety, or a sleep study for a more detailed evaluation.

g n i l w ho HALLOWEEN HAPPENINGS Compiled by Shannon Pease-Severance

Halloween on the Mile

COCONUT GROVE Halloween Lantern Craft Saturday, October 5 Make a spooktacular lantern for the Halloween holiday. Materials provided. Space limited.

Ages 5-12. 11am, Coconut Grove Branch Library, 2875 McFarlane Rd., 305-442-8695 www.mdpls.org

Pumpkin Patch Festival Saturday-Sunday, October 26-27 Bring the family for heaps of fall fun including a pumpkin patch, carnival rides, pumpkin decorating, a scarecrow village, cornstalk maze and more. $20/person, includes unlimited carnival rides. Peacock Park, 2820 McFarlane Rd., www.coconutgrovepumpkinpatch.com

Thursday, October 31 Bring the family for this 22nd annual celebration featuring trick-or-treating at the shops starting at 3:30pm and other fun-filled activities along the way.

Downtown Coral Gables & Miracle Mile, www.shopcoralgables.com

CUTLER BAY Halloween Spooktacular Friday, October 25 Have a goulishly good time at this event featuring a golf cart parade, a haunted house, costume contest, trunk-or-treating through the park and more.

6-10pm, Cutler Ridge Park, 10100 SW 200 St., www.cutlerbay-fl.gov

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Pumpkin Patch at Pittman Park Saturday, October 19 Get the feel of fall with a pumpkin patch, pumpkin decorating, live music, family photo opp areas and more. 2-6pm, Pittman Park, 2200 Galiano St., www.coralgables.com

Library on Lockdown: The Witch’s Curse Friday, October 25 Teens can test their courage participating in this eerie escape room challenge. Ages 12-18. 3pm, Coral Gables Branch Library, 3443 Segovia St., 305-442-8706 www.mdpls.org

Saturday, October 19 Dress up your four-legged friend for a costume contest for pooches, trunk-or-treat competition and more. 5-8pm, Trails and Tails Park, 11645 NW 50 St., 305-593-6725 www.cityofdoral.com

Not So Scary Stories Thursday, October 31 Wear your costume for a night of spooky stories and Halloween fun. All ages. 6:30pm, International Mall Library, 10315 NW 12 St., 305-594-2514 www.mdpls.org

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Thursday, October 31 Make your way through a haunted house while trying to avoid the creepy crawlers that dwell in it. Ages 5 and older. $5. 6:30-10pm, War Memorial Youth Center, 405 University Dr., 305-460-5600 www.playgables.com

Saturdays & Sundays, October 12-27 Activities include pony rides, pumpkin patch and a petting zoo for little ghouls and goblins. Fees vary.

10am-4pm, The Little Farm, 13401 SW 224 St., 305-258-3186 www.thelittlefarm.us

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HOMESTEAD Teentober Halloween Costume Party Thursday, October 31 A celebration for teens with party games, scary stories and more. Costumes encouraged. Ages 12-18. Homestead Branch Library, 700 N. Homestead Blvd., Homestead, 305-246-0168 www.mdpls.org

KENDALL Not So Scary Halloween Bash Thursday, October 31 Wear your costume and bring a treat bag for Halloween fun that includes spooky stories, face painting, dancing and a piñata game. All ages. 3:30pm, Kendall Branch Library, 9101 SW 97 Ave., 305-279-0520 www.mdpls.org

KEY BISCAYNE Haunted HIke Friday-Saturday, October 18-19 Have a terrifically terrifying time participating in family-friendly activities and hiking a haunted trail after dark. 5-10pm, Bill Baggs Cape Florida State Park, 1200 S. Crandon Blvd., www.floridastateparks.org

Monster Splash Halloween Bash Friday-Sunday, October 25-27 Kick-off the harvest season with a host of Halloween activities in addition to the attraction’s regular exhibits and shows.

Included with paid admission. 11am-4pm, Miami Seaquarium, 4400 Rickenbacker Causeway, 305-361-5705 www.miamiseaquarium.com

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OCT 26 & 27 10AM - 3PM

Visit us online at ZooMiami.org

• Trick-or-treat in costumes • Participate in costume contests with prizes and much more!

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MiChiMu’s Halloween Week

Halloween Boo Bash

Saturday, October 12 This event, designed for children with sensory processing disorder and general developmental delays, includes a sensory-friendly stage performance, calming movement groups and more. 9-11am, Miami Children’s Museum, 980 MacArthur Causeway, 305-373-5437 www.miamichildrensmuseum.org

Saturday-Thursday, October 26-31 Stop by to check out the Haunted Exhibit, do some trick-or-treating and at scheduled times during the week, participate in spooky science experiments, create creepy crafts, play ghostly games and more — and come in costume. Miami Children’s Museum, 980 MacArthur Causeway, 305-373-5437 www.miamichildrensmuseum.org

Thursday, October 31 Children ages 10 an under can enjoy trick-or-treating at participating stores and activities and games with friendly Gigi the Witch in the Center Court.

5-7pm, Mall of the Americas, 7795 W. Flagler St., 305-261-8772 www.malloftheamericas.com

Not So Scary Family Halloween Bash

Spooky Science

A Spooky Sensory Friendly Saturday

Sunday, October 20 Trick-or-treat your way around the galleries, paint mini pumpkins, meet characters and more at this fundraising event for MCM’s educational programs. $40-$50.

1-5 pm, Miami Children’s Museum, 980 MacArthur Causeway, 305-373-5437 www.miamichildrensmuseum.org

Halloween Storytime Saturday, October 26 Celebrate Halloween with spooky stories, songs and activities for the whole family. All ages. 11am, Tamiami Branch Library, 13250-52 SW Eighth St., 305-223-4758 www.mdpls.org

Zoo Boo Saturday-Sunday, October 26-27 A wild adventure with trick-or-treating for kids under 12, costume contests, music, games and prizes, special performances and more. See the animals get their own special treats. Free with zoo admission, 10am-3pm, Zoo Miami, 12400 SW 152 St., 305-251-0400 www.zoomiami.org

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Sunday, October 27 Dress in costume and head to Frost Science for bone-chilling science experiments and creepy, cool encounters throughout the day.

Included with paid admission of $29.95/adult, $20.95/child. Miami-Dade residents receive a discount with proof of residency. 11am-4pm, Frost Museum of Science, 1101 Biscayne Blvd., 305-901-0359 www.frostscience.org

Halloween Celebration Tuesday, October 29 Have some fun with a night of spooky stories, crafts and a costume contest. Ages 5-12.

5:45pm, Golden Glades Branch Library, 100 NE 166 St., 305-787-1544 www.mdpls.org

Halloween Draw-Along Wednesday, October 30 Use markers and crayons to follow a spooky path that leads to drawing a big green monster.

Ages 5-12. 3pm, Edison Center Branch Library, 531 NW 62 St., 305-757-0668 www.mdpls.org

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Pumpkin Patch Saturdays & Sundays through November 3 Have some old-fashioned fall fun with activities that include tractor rides, pony rides, a race track, petting zoo and more. Fees vary. 11am-5:30pm, Pinto’s Farm, Redland Citrus Orchards, 14890 SW 216 St., 305-258-6067 www.pintofarm.com

MIAMI BEACH Hocus Pocus Saturday, October 26 Sit a spell for a Halloween movie set in Salem, Massachusetts. 3pm, North Shore Branch Library, 7501 Collins Ave., Miami Beach, 305-864-5392 www.mdpls.org

Hallowave Thursday, October 31 Bring the family beachside this Halloween for superhero appearances, trick-or-treating at local businesses (5:30-9pm) and a dog costume contest (6:30pm).

5-9pm, 1234 Washington Ave., www.washavemb.com

MIAMI GARDENS Fright Night in the Gardens Thursday, October 31 Bring the family for music, rides, bounce houses, a costume contest, haunted horror trail, food trucks and more. 6-9:30pm, Rolling Oaks Park, 18701 NW 17 Ave., 305-622-8080 www.miamigardens-fl.gov

Not So Scary Stories Thursday, October 31 The MDPLS Storytelling Troupe presents a Halloween spooktacular with a spooky story performance. All ages. 4:30pm, North Dade Regional Library, 2455 NW 183 St., 305-625-6424 www.mdpls.org

Halloween Haunted House Thursday, October 31 Wear your favorite costume to an event that is full of thrills and chills. Ages 8 and up.

North Dade Regional Library, 2455 NW 183 St., 305-625-6424 www.mdpls.org

MIAMI LAKES Halloween Nightmare on Montrose Saturday, October 26 Bring the family for a night of fun featuring a costume parade, trick-or-treat around the track, a scare zone, arts and crafts and more. 5-9pm, Picnic Park West, 15151 NW 82 Ave., www.miamilakes-fl.gov

NORTH MIAMI Halloween Haunted Trails and Kids Fun Zone Friday, October 25 Ghoulishly good fun includes scary hayrides, haunted trails, kids activities, a costume contest parade, entertainment and more. $5/cash only at the gate.7-11pm, Enchanted Forest Elaine Gordon Park, 1725 NE 135 St., www.northmiamifl.gov

Historic Ghost Tours October 3, 10 & 24; November 12 & 20 8 pm – 10 pm; $35 per person Tickets can be purchased online or by calling 305-235-1668 ext. 233

www.DeeringEstate.org To request materials in accessible format, sign language interpreters, and/or any accommodation to participate in any Miami-Dade Parks sponsored program or meeting, contact Mary Palacios, 305-755-7848 or Mary.Palacios@miamidade.gov at least 7 days in advance to initiate your request. TTY users may call 711, (Florida Relay Services).

NORTH MIAMI BEACH Monster Mash Bash Thursday, October 31 A safe Halloween event without tricks — just treats. Activities include a haunted house, music, edible arts & crafts, bounce houses, rides, vendors, costume contests, prizes, and candy.

Free; $1/haunted ghost tour. 6-10pm, City Hall, 17011 NE 19th Ave., 305-948-2957 www.citynmb.com

PALMETTO BAY Deering Estate Ghost Tours Thursdays, October 3, 10 & 24 Hear about sightings and experiences from actual paranormal investigations as you explore what is said to be Miami’s most haunted property. Tour may contain mature subject matter. Pre-register online. $35. 8-10pm, Deering Estate, 16701 SW 72 Ave., 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org

PINECREST Halloween Movie Night Friday, October 11 Watch an outdoor screening of The Addams Family and enjoy Halloween-themed activities at this fall celebration. Activities offered from 6:30-7:30pm, followed by the movie. Pinecrest Gardens, 11000 Red Rd., 305-669-6990 www.pinecrestgardens.org

SPLASHTACULAR BIRTHDAY PARTIES! Make new friends when you party with Lolita the Orca, TV superstar Flipper, Salty the Sea Lion and all your marine animal friends. It’s the no-hassle way to give your birthday child the party of a lifetime! For reservations, call 305-365-2507 today.

Party package includes a party area with decorations, kid-friendly lunch, personalized cake, costumed character visit (weather permitting), admission to all shows and exhibits and much more.

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Zombie Run Saturday, October 19 Dodge zombies and aim for the finish line in this 1.3-mile nighttime family fun run.

Costumes encouraged. $25. Check-in starts at 6:15pm. 6:15-9:30pm, Pinecrest Community Center, 5855 Killian Dr., www.pinecrest-fl.gov

Howl-O-Ween Sunday, October 27 People and their pooches can have a fangtastic time as Paws-4-You Rescue celebrates with a costume contest, a doggie agility course, live entertainment, a kids’ zone, pumpkin patch, treats and more. $5/person, Free/under 2.

Noon-5pm, Pinecrest Gardens, 11000 Red Rd., 305-669-6990 www.pinecrestgardens.org

Track or Treat Thursday, October 31 Dress up and go track-or-treating in a safe and friendly atmosphere that includes local vendors handing out candy, bounce houses, games and more.

5-7pm, Evelyn Greer Park, 8200 SW 124 St, 305-234-2110 www.pinecrest-fl.gov

WEST MIAMI Spooktacular Storytime Thursday, October 24 Wear your costume for some Halloween fun including not-so-scary stories and songs. 6pm, West Dade Regional Library, 9445 Coral Way, 305-553-1134, www.mdpls.org

Halloween Movie and Craft Night

NORTH POLE PAJAMA PARTY! WEEKENDS FROM NOV. 30 – DEC. 22

Monday, October 28 Watch Disney’s The Haunted Mansion (PG) and then create your own gingerbread haunted house.

Space limited. Call to pre-register. Ages 5 and up.

6pm, West Dade Regional Library, 9445 Coral Way, 305-553-1134, www.mdpls.org

Family Storytime: Halloween Celebration

• Enjoy a holiday science show, activities stations and a classic holiday film.

Wednesday, October 30 Have some Halloween fun listening to spooky stories and making fall crafts. Ages 5-12. 6pm, Fairlawn Branch Library, 6376 SW Eighth St., 305-261-1571 www.mdpls.org

• Sip hot chocolate and make elf slime!

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The old man and the pumpkin W THE HORROR OF A VOLUNTEER PARENT’S SCHOOL BUS TRIP

BY PERRY PERKINS

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hen had I last slept? Or bathed?

Or eaten? I could not remember.

All was wet and dreary, rain spitting from iron skies, soaking my bones. And everywhere I looked was mud.

The inhumanity and the screaming…

My God, the screaming.

My wife appeared out of the fog, as weary and muddy as I, her face set and grim.

Clearly, she had also seen the horror, but she marched on, resolute.

Resolution or madness, I could not tell which.

“Come,” she said, “it’s time to leave.

We’re going home....”

“Home?” I murmured, finding no meaning for the word in my tortured brain.

“I cannot remember home. Let me die here in peace.”

“Spare me the drama, Hemingway,” she spat, trudging past me. “I need a latte,

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a handful of Advil, and a long, hot bath… so just pick up your #$&^% pumpkin and get on the bus or, I swear to God, I’m leaving you here!”

The bus.

Oh, dear God in heaven, not that yellow torture chamber again. I couldn’t…

I wouldn’t…

“Shake a leg! We ain’t waitin’…”

I got on the bus.

A little backstory may be in order…

It’s late October and, at some ungodly hour of the morning we, along with a dozen other bleary-eyed parents, had been herded onto a school bus with approximately 11,000 first-graders, all of them hopped-up on Fruit Loops and shrieking like Valkyries.

You see, at our daughter’s school, every parent — in addition to an exorbitant tuition and possibly a redundant internal organ — is also required to “volunteer” for a number of

events throughout the school year.

They call it, “Giving back.”

I call it extortion.

We’ve agreed to disagree.

Anyway, the bus…

Having once been a short, vaguely gourd-shaped child with Coke-bottle glasses and Kmart clothes, I did not have fond memories of riding in school buses.

Before climbing aboard, I’d tightened my belt to wedgie-proof myself just in case.

The door slammed closed with the grim finality of a coffin lid, trapping me inside an OshKosh mosh-pit of crazed children.

Now, I am a man of healthy proportions, and no longer designed for school-bus seats. Knees to chest I sat, my nose inches away from the hard, green seat in front of me. The whole vehicle reeked of plastic and cleaning fluid… and evil.

The next hour was a blur, playing out like some bizarre ’70s music video.

All noise, darkness, flashing lights and confusion. To top it off, I’m severely claustrophobic. Yet, here I was… wedged against the window like three pounds of Spam in a one-pound can.

Gritting my teeth, I swore I would survive this… if only to find and kill whoever wrote the song “Let It Go” — which would be screeched by a Mormon Tabernacle Choir of tone-deaf howler-monkeys for the entire ride.

By the time our bus lurched to a stop in a cloud of diesel fumes at the edge of the pumpkin patch, I was fairly certain that I had permanent hearing damage, I couldn’t feel my legs anymore and I suspected that my left eye may have exploded at some point.

Stumbling out into the gray morning light, I fought the urge to drop to my knees and kiss the sweet, sweet ground. But there was no time for that as, without delay, we were rounded up and marched down a path toward the pumpkin patch, the children fanning out in front of us and taking the field like Highland berserkers or a Biblical cloud of locusts… take your pick.

Either way, it was a bloodbath.

And, yes, my own sweet little angel was right there with them, elbow deep in pumpkin guts and fighting tooth and nail for her prize like it was Black Friday at Bloomingdale’s and she was holding the last Gucci handbag.

(I was both horrified and disturbingly proud at the same time. Now I know how my mother felt…)

It was like a vegan slasher movie. I was Googling “childhood traits of serial killers” before we’d been there an hour.

I looked around for the teachers who had accompanied us on this fateful trip, hoping to find them marching our way in full riot-gear, but they were already in the wind. Personally, I suspect that they were hiding en masse behind one of the buildings, chain-smoking and popping Valium like Tic Tacs.

Teachers are smart.

Oh, did I mention the petting zoo?

There was also a petting zoo there.

It was stocked with the most bedraggled and pathetic group of farm animals I’ve ever seen, having spent the last two weeks being man-handled, moo-ed at and generally tortured at the sticky, clutching little hands of an endless parade of less-than-optimally supervised children.

They watched us coming for them like death-row inmates staring hopelessly through razor-wire.

“Mommy! Look what its eyes do when I pull on this…!”

“Look Daddy, I can kiss the pig right on his nose!”

“Look Mommy, the hair comes right out of its tail!”

“Daddy, Daddy! I hugged the chicken SOOO tight, and now she’s taking a nap!”

Standing in a palatable cloud of sadness and resignation, their dull eyes cried out to me, “For the love of God, man… just eat us!”

Anyway… what seemed like months later we arrived home, shambling through the front door like mud-wrestling zombies, leaving a trail of filthy clothes, boots caked in pumpkin viscera, and our @#*%# pumpkins in our wake. My wife made a beeline for the tub.

“Wait,” I groaned, “I have to use the bathroom.”

“Use the yard,” she growled, closing the door without the slightest hesitation, “I’m taking a four-hour bath.”

“Oh,” she called through the door, “that reminds me. I signed us up for the Christmas caroling field trip.”

Kill me. Just kill me now.

I’ll be in the back yard… burying a chicken.

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A Touch Tour before a performance of The Nutcracker.

Accessible Arts SHINING A SPOTLIGHT ON MIAMI-DADE’S INCLUSIVE ENTERTAINMENT

BY JOANNA KENTOLALL

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he arts and entertainment season will soon be in full swing. Children of all ages are excited to see what’s coming to the stage and screen to delight the senses.

But what if your little one’s senses are limited or can be affected by loud noises and bright lights?

Engaging with the arts can be difficult for children and adults with mental or physical challenges. But local organizations are working to help change that by making entertainment more inclusive.

South Florida venues are expanding access to provide people with and without disabilities the same opportunity to attend, participate in and appreciate the arts. For example, assistive-listening devices are available to amplify sound and audio description provides an explanation of the action. Open captioning displays dialogue on a screen and individuals on the autism spectrum can enjoy sensory-friendly options at select live performances, movie screenings and museum exhibits.

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A group helping to facilitate these types of programs locally is The Florida Access Coalition for the Arts, which brings regional players together to help promote and provide equal access for all.

“No one should feel singled out because of a disability,” said board member Lew Balaban. “It’s important to get the word out that these types of performances exist and are out there for everyone.”

Here are examples of what’s available: THEATER: At Adrienne Arsht Center for the Performing Arts, listening devices, audio description, open captioning, sign interpretation and touch tours are available at certain shows.

At Aventura Center for the Performing Arts, select performances create a sensory-friendly setting, including reduced sound levels, no flashing or strobe lights, minimal special effects and a quiet zone adjacent to the theater.

MUSEUM: Miami Children’s Museum offers sensory-friendly experiences on the second Saturday of the month. Limited

admission, along with sound and lighting adjustments, provide a more supportive setting.

DANCE: Miami City Ballet provides Touch Tours for those with visual impairments. Before select shows, patrons can explore elaborate costumes, props and sets by physically feeling items. During the actual performance, a live narration provides context and allows visitors additional input for a richer experience.

OPERA: The Florida Grand Opera coordinates with the Library of Congress in Washington, D.C., to obtain braille and large-print copies of the libretto (translation of the opera), which are made available to audience members during performances. FGO says it is the only opera company in the country that provides this service. For open captioning, performances are translated on a digital screen because each opera is sung in its original language.

CINEMA: Sensory-friendly films are shown with the lights turned up and the volume turned down. These are available at the Museum of Discovery and Science/ AutoNation IMAX Theater in Fort Lauderdale, as well as select AMC and Regal theatres. Audiences who might not feel comfortable in a traditional movie setting are invited to these specially tailored showings.

OUTDOOR ART: A multi-sensory mural specifically designed for the visually impaired is located outside of the Lighthouse for the Blind in Fort Lauderdale. Brought to life by Cadence Landscape Architecture, it features textured shapes that can be felt and an aromatic diffuser for scent, and it also incorporates sound. Visually-impaired individuals helped to create the mural last year.

Lighthouse for the Blind President and CEO Ellyn Drotzer is proud that the artwork remains as a reminder that everyone can succeed in the arts. Another example of that type of success happened on a national stage earlier this year when, for the first time, a wheelchair-user won a Tony Award. Ali Stroker won Best Featured Actress for her role in the musical revival Oklahoma! The win was an inspiration to many who might think theater is out of their reach. But Drotzer says the arts can inspire anyone to take center stage.

“We are constantly finding ways to expose the population to different opportunities,” she says. “That can be in the arts as well. The arts can be a passion and also a profession. Nothing is off limits.”

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Upcoming Inclusive Events Please visit each venue’s website for a complete schedule of events and performances.

Details are subject to change, so please contact the venue before going.

Adrienne Arsht Center for the Performing Arts www.arshtcenter.org Open Captioning, Audio Description Fiddler on the Roof, Nov. 3, 1pm Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Jan. 5, 2020, 1pm Sign-Interpreted Fiddler on the Roof, Nov. 2, 2pm Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Jan. 4, 2020, 2pm Florida Grand Opera www.fgo.org Open captioning with language translations, and braille and large-print versions of the libretto available at all performances.

Don Giovanni, Nov. 16, 7pm; Nov. 19, 8pm; Nov. 21, 8pm; Nov. 24, 2pm Madama Butterfly, Jan. 18, 2020, 6pm; Jan. 21, 8pm; Jan. 23, 8pm; Jan. 26, 2pm

Miami City Ballet www.miamicityballet.org Touch Tour, Audio Description The Nutcracker, Dec. 22, 11:30am tour, ballet 1pm Miami Children’s Museum www.miamichildrensmuseum.org Sensory Saturdays: every second Saturday of the month.

AMC Theatres www.amctheatres.com Sensory-friendly films: the second and fourth Saturday (family-friendly) and Tuesday evenings (mature audiences) of every month. Locations include AMC Aventura 24 and AMC Sunset Place 24 in South Miami.

Regal Cinemas www.regmovies.com Sensory-friendly films: beginning at 10:30am on the second and fourth Saturday of the month, at select theaters.

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OctoberEvents HOW TO SUBMIT CALENDAR LISTINGS

Please e-mail listing information to calendar@miamidadefamilylife.com by the 5th of the month prior to the event date.

Include the name of the event, location, address, date, time, brief description, price and telephone number for the public.

MUSEUMS & EXHIBITS Gold Coast Free First Saturday SATURDAY, OCTOBER 5

Bring the kids for a hands-on history lesson the first Saturday of every month when admission and museum exploration is free.

GOLD COAST RAILROAD MUSEUM,

12450 SW 152 St., Miami, 305-253-0063 www.goldcoastrailroadmuseum.org

Sensory Friendly Saturday SATURDAY, OCTOBER 12

Great sensory experiences await at this special event designed for children with sensory processing disorder and general development delay and their families. Includes sensory-based activities, a sensory-friendly stage performance, calming movement groups, and dimmed lights and sounds. 9-11am, MIAMI CHILDREN’S MUSEUM, 980 MacArthur Causeway, Miami, 305-373-5437 www.miamichildrensmuseum.org Sesame Street Live

IT’S SHOWTIME! Puss in Boots

Hansel & Gretel

This swashbuckling “Feline in Footwear” shines in this retelling of a classic tale. Showtimes vary.

Oct. 5 is a sensory-friendly performance.

Dress in costume for this performance

by Magic City Opera singers.

Trick-or-treating takes place after the show. Free with RSVP. 7-10pm, NORTH BEACH BANDSHELL, 7275 Collins Ave., Miami Beach, 786-453-2897 www.northbeachbandshell.com

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 25

OCTOBER 3-NOVEMBER 1

ACTORS’ PLAYHOUSE AT THE MIRACLE THEATRE,

280 Miracle Mile, Coral Gables, 305-444-9293 www.actorsplayhouse.org

Disney’s Aristocats

FRIDAY-SATURDAY, OCTOBER 4-5

Miami Childrens Theater presents this funloving feline adventure live on stage. Friday 7pm, Saturday 3pm (sensory-friendly) and 7pm.

PINECREST GARDENS, 11000 Red Rd., Pinecrest, 305-669-6990 www.pinecrestgardens.org

Mozart’s Magnificent Voyage SUNDAY, OCTOBER 6

Performers discover the great master’s passion for composing as they journey into the world of the Magic Flute. $18/adult, $12/child. 3pm, PINECREST GARDENS, 11000 Red Rd., Pinecrest, 305-669-6990 www.pinecrestgardens.org

The Little Engine That Could Earns Her Whistle SATURDAY, OCTOBER 19

See a live production of a timeless tale about hard work, determination and loyalty. $16. 11am & 1pm, AVENTURA ARTS & CULTURAL CENTER, 3385 NE 188 St., Aventura, 305-466-8002 www.aventuracenter.org

Sesame Street Live

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, OCTOBER 19-20

Venture to Sesame Street to see a performance by the beloved characters who live there. $15 and up. 10:30am & 2pm, WATSCO CENTER, 1245 Dauer Dr., Miami, 305-284-8686 www.watscocenter.com

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Dino-Light

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 26

A tale about a magical scientist who brings a friendly dinosaur to life is performed by Lightwire Theater by way of electroluminescent wire, cutting edge technology, dance and puppetry.

Admission is free, but a ticket is required.

3pm, MIAMI-DADE COUNTY AUDITORIUM, 2901 W. Flagler St., Miami, 305-547-5414 www.miamidadecountyauditorium.org

HistoryMiami Free Family Fun Day SATURDAY, OCTOBER 12

Explore the museum with the family while learning about the history and culture of Miami through interactive activities. Free. 10am-5pm, HISTORYMIAMI MUSEUM, 101 W. Flagler St., Miami, 305-375-1492 www.historymiami.org

Free Third Friday FRIDAY, OCTOBER 18

Bring the family to explore the museum and exhibits free of charge the third Friday of every month. 4-8pm, MIAMI CHILDREN’S MUSEUM, 980 MacArthur Causeway, Miami, 305-373-5437 www.miamichildrensmuseum.org

Storytime at PAMM SATURDAY, OCTOBER 26

Every fourth Saturday of the month kids ages 3-5 with a caregiver can build on foundations of literacy with a gallery experience, a story reading and related art activity. 11am-noon, PÉREZ ART MUSEUM MIAMI, 1103 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 305-375-3000 www.pamm.org

Kids United

Bass Babies

Be inspired as this group of five children sing songs about peace and hope. $29.50 and up. 4-7:30pm, NORTH BEACH BANDSHELL, 7275 Collins Ave., Miami Beach, 786-453-2897 www.northbeachbandshell.com

An art program especially for little ones designed to foster new discoveries in sensory awareness, creativity, and pre-literacy skills through hands-on activities. $10. Ages 2-4. 10:30-11:30am, THE BASS MUSEUM OF ART, 2100 Collins Ave., Miami Beach, 305-673-7530 www.thebass.org

Spooky Symphony

Free Guided Tour - Wolfsonian

Wear your Halloween costume for this one-hour multi-media concert for young listeners featuring movie and video game themes. Admission is free, but a ticket is required. 4pm,

Take a 45-minute guided tour of the building, collection or exhibits. New guides bring different perspectives each week. Free.

6-6:45pm, THE WOLFSONIAN-FIU, 1001 Washington Ave., Miami Beach, 305-531-1001 www.wolfsonian.org

SUNDAY, OCTOBER 27

SUNDAY, OCTOBER 27

MIAMI-DADE COUNTY AUDITORIUM,

2901 W. Flagler St., Miami, 305-547-5414 www.miamidadecountyauditorium.org

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WEDNESDAYS & FRIDAYS

FRIDAYS

FAIRS, FESTIVALS & SPECIAL EVENTS ZunZún Children’s Fest

Oktoberfest Miami

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 5

A cultural celebration for families featuring an array of bilingual musical and theatrical projects by local and visiting artists.

Admission is free, but a ticket is required.

2pm, MIAMI-DADE COUNTY AUDITORIUM, 2901 W. Flagler St., Miami, 305-547-5414 www.miamidadecountyauditorium.org

Oktoberfest

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 5

Bring the family to this 28th annual event for a taste of German culture, language, food, music and more. $1/ticket for refreshments and rides.

Noon-7pm, GERMAN-AMERICAN SOCIAL CLUB, 11919 SW 56 St., Miami, www.gipa.org

Paws at the Pool SUNDAY, OCTOBER 6

Bring your four-legged friend for a cool dip in the pool. Proof of rabies vaccination required. Two sessions accommodate both small and large dogs.

Participants must be with a dog to enter. $6/dog, $5/human. 10am-1pm (up to 30 pounds) and 1:30-4:30pm (31 pounds and up). VENETIAN POOL, 2701 de Soto Blvd., Coral Gables, 305-460-5306 www.coralgables.com

Kiteober Festival

FRIDAYS-SUNDAYS OCTOBER 11-13 & 18-20

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, OCTOBER 19-20

Celebrate German culture through food, folk dancing and fun activities including bounce houses, magicians and more. Adult day pass/$10, child and young adult day pass/$5, Festival pass/$30. Fridays, 6pm-midnight; Saturdays, 1pm-midnight; and Sundays, noon-10pm. GERMAN AMERICAN SOCIAL CLUB OF GREATER MIAMI, 11919 SW 56 St., Miami, 305-552-5123 www.gascmiami.org

Adventure Day for All SUNDAY, OCTOBER 13

Event embraces people of all abilities featuring a resource fair, challenges, crafts and other activities.

Free. 11am-3pm, CORAL GABLES CITY HALL, 405 Biltmore Way, Coral Gables, 305-460-5600 www.coralgables.com

Go fly a kite along with kite enthusiasts who will release both large and small kites high into the sky.

Admission/free, parking/$7. Noon-5pm, SKYWARD KITES AT HAULOVER PARK, 10800 Collins Ave., Miami Beach, 305-893-0906 www.skywardkites.com

South Beach Seafood Festival SATURDAY, OCTOBER 26

Enjoy surf, sand and seafood with the family at this day-long event that spans four blocks. $49/adult, free/under 10. Noon-7pm, LUMMUS PARK, 14th Street and Ocean Drive, South Beach, www.sobeseafoodfest.com

Pumpkin Patch Festival

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, OCTOBER 26-27

Bring the family for heaps of fall fun. $20/person, includes unlimited carnival rides. PEACOCK PARK, 2820 McFarlane Rd., www.coconutgrovepumpkinpatch.com

Miami Carnival

SUNDAY, OCTOBER 13

Redland Food & Music Festival

An all-day event that celebrates a kaleidoscope of Caribbean cultures through a parade of bands, colorful costumes, flavorful food and more. Tickets available in advance online. 11am-11pm, MIAMIDADE COUNTY FAIRGROUNDS, 10901 SW 24 St., Miami, www.miamibrowardcarnival.com

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, OCTOBER 26-27

Enjoy a day of music, food and fun. $10/adult, free/ages 11 and under. 10am-5pm, FRUIT & SPICE PARK, 24801 SW 187 Ave., Homestead, 305-247-5727 www.redlandfruitandspice.com

COMMUNITY ACTIVITIES World Animal Day THURSDAY, OCTOBER 3

Mommy-and-me program encourages parents and their little ones to explore and learn about unique animals through animal interactions, presentations and arts and crafts.

Ages 2-5. $10/adult, $5/child.

Optional park entrance is offered to participants at a reduced fee.

10am, MIAMI SEAQUARIUM, 4400 Rickenbacker Causeway, Miami, 305-361-5705 www.miamiseaquarium.com

12:30pm, LEMON CITY BRANCH LIBRARY, 430 NE 61 St., Miami, 305-757-0662 www.mdpls.org

Share the Road SUNDAY, OCTOBER 6

Bring your bicycle to this safety and ride event that includes a bike rodeo, presentations, giveaways, helmet fitting and more. The bike ride begins at 10am. 9am, FOUNDERS PARK, 3105 NE 190 St., Aventura, 305-466-3883 www.cityofaventura.com

Furry Tales

Night Hike & Campfire

Kids can gain literacy skills and confidence by reading to a certified therapy dog. Ages 5-12. 10:30am,

Explore the woods and wildlife of Deering after dark. A guided hike is followed by s’mores around a campfire. Ages 4 and up. $15.

7-9:30pm, DEERING ESTATE, 16701 SW 72 Ave., Palmetto Bay, 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 4

PINECREST BRANCH LIBRARY,

5835 SW 111 St., Pinecrest, 305-668-4571 www.mdpls.org

Family Movie Matinee SATURDAY, OCTOBER 5

Bring the family to watch a screening of Where the Wild Things Are. 3pm, NORTH SHORE BRANCH LIBRARY,

7501 Collins Ave., Miami Beach, 305-864-5392 www.mdpls.org

Autumn Tree Q-Tip Painting SATURDAY, OCTOBER 5

Create a colorful fall tree painting using cotton swabs and other materials. Space is limited. Ages 8-12.

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 9

Movie Night

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 11

Bring your family for a twilight, flashlight-led stroll through the winding garden paths followed by a full-length featured flick in the Banyan Bowl. October features: The Addams Family. $5. Gates open at 6:30pm, movie begins at 7:30pm. PINECREST GARDENS, 11000 Red Rd., Pinecrest, 305-669-6990 www.pinecrestgardens.org

Movie Under the Stars

Movies at the Park

Keep cool while watching a movie in the comfort of a swimming pool.

Tonight’s feature: Free Willy. 7:30-10pm, SURFSIDE COMMUNITY CENTER, 9301 Collins Ave., Surfside, 305-866-3635 www.townof surfsidefl.gov

Bring lawn chairs or blankets to watch a family-friendly film on a giant inflatable movie screen.

7:30pm, DOWNTOWN DORAL PARK, 8395 NW 53 St., Doral, www.cityofdoral.com

Family Origami

Friendly Creatures of the Night

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 12

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 12

Learn simple folding techniques to make your own origami creations.

Ages 8 and up. 4:30pm, NORTHEAST DADE-AVENTURA BRANCH LIBRARY,

2930 Aventura Blvd., Aventura, 305931-5512 www.mdpls.org

Hunter’s Moon Star Gazing

MONDAY, OCTOBER 14

Bring a blanket and pack a picnic while watching the October full moon through telescopes provided by the Southern Cross Astronomical Society. $10. 8-10pm, DEERING ESTATE, 16701 SW 72 Ave., Palmetto Bay, 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org

Peruvian Dance Showcase

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 19

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 25

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 25

Bring a flashlight to explore Fairchild after dark in search of spiders, owls and bats. Additional themed activities take place in the Science Village. $25/adult, $12/child. 5pm, FAIRCHILD TROPICAL BOTANIC GARDEN, 10901 Old Cutler Rd.,

Coral Gables, 305-667-1651 www.fairchildgarden.org

WANT MORE FUN? For more local events, see our listing of Halloween activities on page 18, or check our online calendar at miamidadefamilylife.com

Enjoy a performance by Marinera 305, a dance school dedicated to sharing Peruvian culture and heritage. All ages.

3-4pm, CORAL GABLES BRANCH LIBRARY, 3443 Segovia St., Coral Gables, 305-442-8706 www.mdpls.org

Every effort has been made to provide accurate information. Changes and cancellations do occur. Please double check the details before setting out on your adventure.

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Nightmare on my street THE SCARY SIDE OF "TRICK OR TREAT"

BY CHERYL MAGUIRE

L

ights illuminated our house, 10 bags of candy brimmed a colossal bowl and my husband donned a “Doctor Who” costume. We were ready for Halloween night in our new abode.

The doorbell rang. Our first trick-or-treaters had arrived. Cinderella, Buzz Lightyear and Superman stood before me holding pumpkin containers and in unison said, “Trick or Treat.”

Superman pointed at my husband and announced, “Look, he is dressed as Harry Potter.”

The Doctor Who scarf did share a similar gold-and-maroon color scheme to that of the famous wizard. It was an understandable error.

Doctor Who is an obscure sci-fi television show while Harry Potter is a multi-million-dollar franchise with an amusement park. For the next hour, an unremitting stream of eager children appeared at our door and an interminable amount of people identified my husband as Harry Potter.

And then we had a strange encounter. The doorbell rang, and a young couple stood before me. I searched for their child, but I was unable to locate one.

The young man said, “Trick or treat.”

I did a double-take. Neither wore a costume. At first, I believed they were in their 20s but then I reconsidered.

Could they be in high school? The man had a beard, and the woman’s hair was swept up into a ponytail. They held up their pillowcases, waiting for their treats.

After the shock wore off, I felt annoyed. I purchased the candy for adorable kids dressed in costumes — not for teens in jeans and a T-shirt. I considered offering my opinion: “If you are old enough to grow a beard, drive a car and vote, then surely you are old enough to drive yourself to the store and buy your own candy — or at the very least a costume.”

The young man must have sensed my hesitation because a smirk appeared across his face. He was offering a subtle reminder that the first word he uttered was “trick.”

I thought to myself, “He is also old enough to procure a dozen eggs, a roll of toilet paper and a bottle of shaving cream.”

I didn’t want to be “that” house that got egged, TP-ed or decorated with shaving cream, so I begrudgingly dropped three candy bars into their pillowcases.

The young man must have Tweeted or something about our address because after the couple left we received an influx of similar-looking teens.

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Our candy supply was running dangerously low.

We panicked. What if we ran out? Our new house would be marked like Hester Prynne with a scarlet A on her dress.

It was almost 8 p.m. so we boldly decided to turn off all the lights. And we waited. Every sound we heard had us wondering if we were under attack. Finally, the noises died down and we felt somewhat relieved.

“Well that isn’t what I expected,” I said.

“Me neither,” my husband said. “I mean Harry Potter doesn’t look anything like Doctor Who.” Next year I’m going to try to prevent this candy freeloading.

Near the doorbell there will be a sign declaring: “Please ONLY ring the doorbell if...

1. You are dressed in a REAL costume. A sweatshirt, T-shirt, and jeans do NOT count. If you are carrying a pillowcase to hold the candy, you probably shouldn’t bother ringing it either.

2. Due to your age, you are unable to obtain a driver’s license or grow facial hair.”

I know what you are thinking. Don’t worry, my intricate preparations will also include a fully stocked closet of cleaning supplies.

Cheryl Maguire’s writing has been published in The New York Times, among other publications. She is the mother of twins and a daughter (who will always dress up on Halloween).

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