Miami Dade Family Life March 2020

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FRUSTRATION WHY KIDS NEED TO EXPRESS THEIR ANGER

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MARCH 2020

departments 6 EDITOR’S NOTE It’s a girl! Our magazine family welcomes a new member to the team.

8 MIAMI & MORE News about the people, places and events in our community.

14 MOM MATTERS “Do you know how late it is?” and other questions your family could do without.

16 FAMILY MAN Summer camp separation looms large for a dad on the edge.

28 CALENDAR OF EVENTS Entertaining and noteworthy things to see and do in every corner of Miami-Dade County.

30 WORDS OF WISDOM Making a game of the search for clean clothes.

ON THE COVER: Jagger Peters, 10, of Davie A Cover Angels winner Photographer: Portraits by Lisa Ann

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EDITOR’S note

Here we grow, again Raising a child is one of the greatest joys of life. But along with the amazing rewards come exhaustion and sometimes challenging situations.

In an effort to help South Floridians navigate the twists and turns of parenthood, we published the first issue of Broward Family Life more than 13 years ago. Miami-Dade Family Life was born 18 months ago. We pour our hearts and souls into rearing our children, and just as it takes a village to raise a child, the same can be said for the way we nurture the growth of this magazine.

The secret to our success is based on three simple, yet vital, principles: Gather the most talented group of people, deliver stellar quality and always maintain the highest integrity.

Our incredible staff of editors, designers, writers, sales reps and managers work tirelessly to uphold our mission — to enrich family life in Miami-Dade County by offering the highest quality publication and an unparalleled commitment to our readers and our community.

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This month, I am excited to introduce you to the newest member of our family, Jennifer Jhon.

As Managing Editor, Jen will oversee the editorial content of all our products — our magazines, website, e-newsletters and social media pages.

In addition, she will be out and about to connect with you and the community and learn what we can do to better serve families throughout Miami-Dade County.

You won’t have to wait long to meet Jen. Next month, she’ll be taking up residence right here, with her monthly Editor’s Note.

Until then, you can count on our entire team to keep you informed and entertained as we continue together on the extraordinary journey of parenthood.

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MIAMI

Miami’s got talent!

KIDS INVITED TO SHOWCASE THEIR SKILLS ON STAGE

Angelina Green

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or the 10th consecutive year, some of the most talented kids in the county are taking their shot at stardom in Young Talent Big Dreams, Miami-Dade’s largest free youth talent competition.

Kids ages 8 to 17 can showcase their skills in music, dance, voice, spoken word and original composition in preliminary auditions taking place through April 18 at four local theaters.

Contestants who make it through the April 25 semifinals to the finals on April 26, both at Coral Gables’s Miracle Theatre, will compete for such prizes as performing arts scholarships, cash awards and performance opportunities, plus tickets to local cultural attractions and theatres.

Nine winners and one grand-prize winner will be chosen during the finals.

The big winner will receive a free trip — airfare, hotel and passes for two — to the Teen Choice Awards, along with a $500 cash prize.

Modeled after reality-TV talent shows that offer similar opportunities through performances and professional mentoring, the countywide competition features judges who are local celebrities and professionals from Miami’s performing arts community. Past winners include Joana Martinez, who recently made the Top 10 on The Voice; Angelina Green, who earned the coveted golden buzzer on America’s Got

Talent; and Gino Cosculluela, the third-place finisher on So You Think You Can Dance.

Auditions are March 15, 3-6 p.m., at Miracle Theatre, 280 Miracle Mile, Coral Gables; March 29, 1-5 p.m., at South Miami-Dade Cultural Arts Center, 10950 SW 211 St., Cutler Bay; April 4, 2-6 p.m., at Miracle Theatre; April 5, 2-6 p.m., at Miami Arts Studio, 15015 SW 24 St.; and April 18, 2-6 p.m., at Little Haiti Cultural Complex, 212 NE 59 Terrace, Miami.

For more information, competition rules and registration forms, please visit www.actorsplayhouse.org.

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‘Carnaval’ time in Miami More than 40 summers ago, a group of Miami kids got together to make a difference in their community. That was the start of Carnaval Miami, an organization that not only impacts children’s lives throughout the year, but also hosts the largest Hispanic festival in the country.

Little Havana’s Calle Ocho Music Festival on March 15 is the festive climax of this month’s celebration of Miami’s cultural melting pot, which hits high gear with the family-friendly Carnaval on the Mile on March 7-8 in Coral Gables. Both events are free.

Carnaval on the Mile takes over Miami’s Miracle Mile

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with a bustling Artist Village featuring more than 200 artists and craftsmen, two stages for live music and children’s shows, and food vendors offering specialties from Cuban to Caribbean. Little Havana’s Music Festival also takes over a famous Miami street — 20 blocks of Calle Ocho from SW 12th to 27th Avenues — with 10 stages for music and folkloric dances, international food and family fun.

Sponsored by the Kiwanis of Little Havana Foundation, Carnaval Miami has a $40 million annual impact on Miami’s Hispanic community, improving children’s lives through sports leagues, summer camps, school supplies, college scholarships and family assistance.

For more information, visit www.carnavalmiami.com.

EXPERIENCING THE PARALYMPICS From all over South Florida, paralympic athletes of all ages and abilities, including military veterans, will turn out for the Paralympic Experience, a free, multi-adapted sports event at Tropical Park on March 14.

Along with those with physical and visual disabilities, parents, friends and supporters are invited to watch and try out a variety of adapted sports activities, to meet and be inspired by the athletes, and to receive information on local programs. Lunch will be provided.

The day will feature wheelchair basketball, archery, boccia, wheelchair tennis and beep baseball. Miami-Dade Parks’ famed Miami HEAT Wheels wheelchair basketball team will also get in on the exciting paralympic sports action.

The Paralympic Experience, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. at 900 SW 40 St., Miami, is presented by Miami-Dade Parks as a

Paralympic Sport Club in conjunction with local partners. Adapted sports participants must register in advance

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Dino-mite!

There’s a new kind of animal at Zoo Miami — actually a very old one, and one not usually found at a zoo ... with the possible exception of Jurassic World.

However, there’s no cause for alarm about raptor rampages at Zoo Miami’s Dinosaurs LIVE!, where the dinos are life-sized and lifelike, but only animatronic. They await at many turns along zoo walkways, taking zoo guests back to a time when the extinct creatures roamed the earth.

Among the recently opened exhibit’s 20-plus dinosaurs and displays are favorites such as Tyrannosaurus Rex, whose name means “Tyrant Lizard King,” and a baby T-Rex that looks as vicious as the grown one.

The exhibit also features a Triceratops family complete with a nest of hatchlings; Apatosaurus, reminiscent of its close relative, Brontosaurus; a feathered Utahraptor, with its 9-inch curved lethal claw; and a group of Compsognathus, whose bodies are the size of a chicken — plus many more dinosaurs that visitors might not have known about before.

Dinosaurs LIVE! is open daily through June 14 from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. and is included with zoo admission of $22.95 per adult and $18.95 for ages 3-12.

The zoo is free for ages 2 and younger and for members.

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It’s been recognized as the Best Event of the Year by the Greater Miami Festival and Events Association. And on March 29, more than 8,000 people are expected to find out why, as the Deering Seafood Festival turns the Deering Estate into a celebration of nature’s beauty and bounty.

The 16th annual foodie feast features fresh fish and seafood, chef demos and live entertainment, and the family-friendly festival also provides a full menu of activities for children of all ages.

In the Li’l Shrimp Kids Zone, the young ones can enjoy unlimited play on inflatables, creative activities and a kid-friendly menu. Also, Deering Discovery Cove offers fun, interactive event stations highlighting the estate’s hands-on environmental education programs and camps, which serve more than 17,000 children annually.

Other activities include a rock-climbing wall and the Pelican Skipper pontoon boat rides to Chicken Key, as well as Artists Lane, featuring paintings, photography, crafts and jewelry by local artisans. Live bands perform throughout the day, along with the world-renowned Bahamian Junkanoo and Virgin Island stilt walkers among the crowd.

The Deering Seafood Festival is 10 a.m.-6 p.m. at 16701 SW 72 Ave., Palmetto Bay. Tickets are $20 in advance/$25 at the gate for adults; $7/$10 for ages 4-14; and free for members.

Proceeds benefit the Deering Estate Foundation’s efforts to raise awareness and support programming for community, conservation and culture. For more information, visit www.DeeringSeafoodFestival.org or call 305-235-1668, ext. 263.

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CORONAVIRUS CONCERNS As the 2019 Coronavirus spreads in countries around the world, so do concerns here in South Florida. To help parents better understand the virus and how to protect their children, Miami-Dade Public Schools has posted a guide at msdelementary.net/ index.php/a-parent-guide-to-the-novel-coronavirus/ or on Twitter at #SafetyFirstMDCPS. Coronavirus has killed over 2,000 people in China, but there were no confirmed cases in Florida reported by mid-February, according to Florida Surgeon General Scott Rivkees. The U.S. has taken steps to protect the public, such as quarantines and travel bans.

The Miami-Dade Schools guide covers Coronavirus symptoms, for which there are no specific treatments and which mimic the flu with fever, cough and difficulty breathing.

Preventive measures outlined in the guide are similar to those for the flu: Avoid touching eyes, nose and mouth; cover the mouth and nose when sneezing or coughing; and use proper handwashing with soap and hot water for 20 seconds.

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fueledby The importance of letting kids express their anger B Y P A M M O O R E “I hate that vest! I’m not wearing it!”

“I hate going to the grocery store!”

“I hate you!”

My kids, especially my 5-year-old, utter “the H-word” more often than I’d like. When I hear it, my chest tightens, my jaw clenches, and I have to force myself to take deep breaths.

If I know one thing as a parent, it’s that telling kids they aren’t allowed to use a certain word is an excellent way to ensure they use it as much as possible. Research shows kids are 11 million times more likely to do the thing they’ve been expressly told not to do. And by research, I mean my own informal studies performed totally unscientifically, using my own children as subjects.

But the main reason I haven’t banned the H-word is that I want my kids to be free to express themselves, whether it’s about a vest they’d rather not wear or the kind of mother they wish I was.

When they act like little dictators, they’re not trying to drive me crazy. They’re trying to tell me something.

Kate Orson, author of Tears Heal: How to Listen to Our Children, says, “When a child says ‘I hate you!’ it’s like they are waving a red flag saying, ‘Help! I’m not thinking well!

I need connection with you and some help with my feelings.’ ” Why Listen The power of listening as a means of fostering connection is stronger than many of us realize. But listening takes time and patience. And who wants to listen to a kid’s angry outburst?

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Many of us have been told the best way to extinguish our children’s undesirable behavior is to ignore it. But in Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges, authors Patty Wipfler and Tosha Schore, M.A., use neurobiology to flip that notion on its head.

They explain that for kids to engage their prefrontal cortex, which allows them to think well, they need to feel connected to an adult or caregiver.

How does connection influence thinking?

Just below the prefrontal cortex lies the limbic system, the brain’s social-emotional center.

The limbic system is responsible for interpreting body language, tone of voice and all kinds of other cues that determine whether we feel safe and connected with the people around us, anxious and afraid, or anywhere in between.

According to Wipfler and Schore: “When your child feels connected and protected, her limbic system can do an important job: It can coordinate communication between all parts of her brain. It opens access to her prefrontal cortex, so the reasoning center of her brain can hum. Connection ‘turns on the lights upstairs.’…

“Through no fault of your own or anyone else’s, your connection with your child will break often. When she feels threatened, frustrated, or when another feeling floods her system, she loses her sense of connection.

Shazam! Her prefrontal cortex shuts down.

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She literally can’t.”

So when my kid yells “I hate you!” she’s already feeling disconnected from me. In my experience, disciplining, yelling at or ignoring her only escalates her behavior.

This is consistent with Wipfler and Schore’s work, which suggests that my negative reaction causes further disruption of our connection, which results in her impaired ability to engage her prefrontal cortex (i.e., her ability to “behave”).

I’m not saying my daughter’s occasional hateful outbursts don’t hurt my feelings. On good days, they sting.

On bad days, they make me wonder if I’ve ever done anything right as a parent while I hide in the bathroom with the shower turned on to muffle the sound of my sobs.

But understanding the vital role of connection in brain function makes it easier to step back, take a breath and listen to the feelings underneath the ugly words.

Orson permits her daughter to say “I hate you” as much as she wants, but that doesn’t mean she ignores it. On the contrary, she sees the words as a demonstration of her child’s “disconnected state and upset feelings.”

FRUSTRATION She described a recent interaction when her daughter said, “I don’t like you,” after Orson returned from a three-day trip.

“I knew this was because [my daughter] had some feelings about me being away and that I needed to reconnect with her, so I moved in close, gave her a hug, and she started giggling. Laughter is one of the ways children naturally release stress and tension and get better connected with us, so if your child says they hate something, you might want to turn it around playfully.”

An Alternative Response For parents struggling to find an appropriate response to “I hate you,” Orson recommends trying humor. “You could say, playfully, ‘What!? That can’t be right. You must have been eating that word-muddle soup that turns your words around, and you say the opposite. I’m sure you love me really.’ And see if that elicits some laughter.”

Humor is not always the best medicine, however.

Orson cautions it’s important to read your child and the situation.

“Sometimes if children are really angry, then being playful around it can make them feel more angry, in which case you

have to be the best judge of what’s going to work well in the moment.”

Another alternative to the playful approach would be to move physically closer and make eye contact. At that point, they might actually start crying, “as they sense your connection and can let go of the feelings behind the anger.” In this case, not only have you resolved the issue at hand, but according to Orson, this kind of tirade is less likely in the future “because your child has let go of the feelings behind it.”

I’m not saying I encourage my kids to act like brats. I wouldn’t allow them to say they hate the dinner Grandma is serving or to tell a friend they hate her.

In this type of situation, Orson recommends gently setting a limit, which looks very different than whisper-yelling at your child, “We don’t talk like that!” or threatening to take away her favorite toy.

(In my experience, these “strategies” are rarely effective anyway.)

Orson recommends moving in closer to your child, crouching down to their level, making eye contact and kindly – without shame or blame – saying, “I’m sorry, I can’t let you say that,” and explaining that it hurts the other person’s feelings.

Hate is a strong word and an even stronger emotion. I’m not saying I like to hear the word in my house, but I tolerate it, because I want my kids to know their negative emotions are just as valid as their positive emotions. I want them to grow up knowing that whatever they have to say, I am listening.

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Loaded Questions 8 THINGS TO STOP ASKING YOUR KIDS

BY PAM MOORE

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hey say there are no dumb questions. They are wrong.

There are, in fact, many dumb questions. I know because I ask them more often than Kim Kardashian posts a selfie.

In the spirit of conscious parenting and minimizing the urge to stab myself with a Lego, I’ve composed a list of dumb questions to stop asking my kids.

1. ARE YOU READY TO GO? Before asking this question, assess the situation. Are the child’s shoes on? Has the child gone to the bathroom? (Alternatively: Is her diaper smuggling a wrecking ball?)

Is the child already holding whatever toy, doll or tchotchke she needs to bring? If not, save your breath and some aggravation. The child is not ready to go.

2. CAN YOU WAIT A MINUTE? If you say this to someone who has no

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idea how long a minute is, prepare for the aftermath: A small voice will ask “Has it been a minute?” approximately every 15 seconds until you lose your mind.

Multiply the number of uninterrupted minutes required to complete whatever you were doing by 7,832. Plan to finish sometime next year.

Next time, try saying, “Not right now,” and then placing either the child or yourself in a locked, soundproof chamber where you or they will remain until your task is complete.

3. DO YOU HAVE TO GO TO THE BATHROOM? She might be emulating Michael Jackson, the way she’s holding her crotch, but if your child is like mine, unless she’s actually on the toilet, the answer to this question is a big, fat “no.” You might think

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you’re being a responsible parent when you ask this question. In fact, you are wasting your time. Your kid will go when she’s good and ready and not a second before … hopefully.

4. DID YOU POOP? (TODDLER EXCLUSIVE) You saw her disappear into the other room. She smells like a dumpster. And you know that every day of a toddler’s life is sponsored by the word “no.” Asking a 2-year-old whether she pooped is like asking a picky eater to take just one bite of whatever vegetable you’re trying to feed her. Skip your lame attempts to get a confession, grab the child and change the diaper.

5. AREN’T YOU HUNGRY? Never in the history of man has this question inspired a child to eat the meal

his loving caregiver carefully prepared (or frantically threw together). If your child had an attorney, she’d accuse you of leading the witness and request the question be overruled. Kids don’t care how you’ll feel at the crack of ridiculous o’clock tomorrow morning when they’re STARVING. For miniature, enlightened yogis (aka children), the only moment is right now. And right now, they’re not hungry.

6. DO YOU WANT TO GO TO THE STORE? Unless your child dictates your agenda (in which case, we will never be friends), this question is Russian roulette. When you go down this road, you’re being as shortsighted as your children. Save time and just tell your kids where they are going today. If they like the plan, consider it a bonus.

7. WHY DID YOU PUSH YOUR SISTER? All kids do stuff we don’t understand.

They bite siblings, TP the bathroom or wear footy pajamas in July. And we want to know why. Repeat after me: They do not know. (Also, they get this from your partner.) When our kids behave, we credit our stellar parenting. When they don’t, we remember children are just animals, acting on instinct. They probably have no clue why they did what they did.

8. DO YOU KNOW HOW LATE IT IS!?

If, like me, you’re asking this question of someone who uses a Tot Clock to tell time, stop asking this question. If you have the kind of child who, when told she must leave the park in five minutes, counters with “No, three minutes!” stop asking this question. You are talking to an overtired, undersized human whose life goals include becoming a ballerina or maybe an astronaut and staying up all night. Letting them know exactly how long they’ve been winning the war on fatigue will only embolden them to keep pushing through.

Life’s too short for dumb questions, so I pledge to do my best to stop asking them. I don’t know about you, but I would rather spend my precious time asking the important questions, like “How long until bedtime?” and “Will they expect me to pay for therapy?”

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A Dad’s Greatest Fear SUMMER CAMP PLANS STIR HIS INNER ACTION HERO

BY PERRY P. PERKINS

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knew this day would come eventually, and still I was unprepared. So much fear, so much uncertainty.

My daughter stood before me, looking so small but so proud in her uniform, her duffel neatly packed and at her feet.

Where had the years gone?

I tried not to think about the possible dangers that lie ahead, about the long nights of worry, or that I’d be so far, too far away to keep her safe. For the first time in her life, her security would depend on others… on strangers.

I tried to remind myself that this was about HER dreams, not mine. That I had to let go, regardless of the cost, and allow her to be her own person, to do what she believed was right, to (shudder) grow up.

“Have you got your flak jacket?” I asked, trying to keep my inner terror from my face. “And all of your gear? How about your first-aid kit? Are you sure you’re not forgetting something? Are you really sure that you want to do this?”

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My little girl sighed and rolled her eyes.

“Daddy, it’s just summer camp. It’s not like I’m going to war or something, geez!”

“I know, I just… honey… NEVER get off the boat!”

“Mom! He’s doing it again!”

From upstairs, I heard my wife. “Just put her in the car, you big wuss! The bus is going to leave in an hour!”

Summer Camp. My 10-year-old daughter’s FIRST summer camp. Are there any words that strike more fear in a dad’s heart?

Last night I’d lain awake, tormented by the horrors of bears, and lakes, and cliffs, and sunstroke, and (worst of all) boys.

Boys at summer camp! I mean… MY GOD! (Don’t you try to fool me about boys at summer camp, either. I WAS a boy at summer camp. I know what lurks in the hearts of boys.)

My inner Liam Neeson rose up in righteous fury at the mere thought, reminding me that I needed to watch

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Taken again and take some notes.

(For those of you who don’t have children of the female persuasion, Taken is a movie about the lengths to which a father will go to protect his daughter, and in which the aforementioned Liam Neeson takes out approximately 472,000 bad guys in 24 hours to do so. It is, in my humble opinion, the single most important movie on fatherhood in the history of cinema.)

My wife, bless her, had tried to alleviate my fears about summer camp and show me the bright side, feigning unbridled excitement at the thought of two weeks child-free.

“Two WEEKS,” she’d whispered from her pillow. “Two weeks without My Little Pony or wet towels on the bathroom floor. Two weeks of quiet! We could rent a cabin, watch any movies we want, we could have sex… My God, we could SLEEP IN!” I’ll admit she made a compelling argument, but nothing could overcome my evolutionary drive to protect my only

daughter. It is in my dad genes to keep her safe. I’m pretty sure that the Great Wall of China was built by Chinese dads trying desperately to keep little Hun boys from riding past their houses on bikes.

But, alas, no argument of mine would be considered.

We arrived at the school parking lot, where I was disappointed to find the bus was still waiting.

I unloaded my daughter’s duffel bag from the trunk, trying not to remember that somewhere in that bag was an adorable little pink one-piece swim suit. I’d offered to buy her a full-length, child-size wetsuit, citing the dangers of hypothermia, water-born bacteria and giant lake-bound crocodiles.

But as usual, my totally reasonable fatherly concerns for her safety were ignored.

My wife eyed the bag suspiciously.

whom (mostly the boys) had visible, cartoon-esque, stink squiggles rising from their unwashed bodies, and (I’m just guessing here) 13 pairs of pristine, un-touched underwear in their bags.

Giggling girls hugged one another passionately, swearing undying BFF-dom to one another and casting suspiciously covert side glances at the boys, whose mothers hovered around them in horror, spit-washing two weeks’ worth of dirt and s’more residue from their little faces.

Finally, my little angel unglued herself from the knot and ran to us, her hair in a frizzy, uncombed ponytail, bandages on her knees, and her sunburned nose peeling. (Had these people never heard of melanoma?)

One of the camp counselors approached my wife, handing her a prison-style

“You took out the taser, right?”

“Of course, I did!”

“And the brass knuckles?”

“Yes!” “And the pepper spray?”

DAMMIT! After I interviewed the driver and inspected the bus tires, it was time to depart.

The doors of the bus were crowded with little campers and their moms, fussing over them, telling them to be good, to have fun, to change their underwear every day (that was mostly for the boys).

In the background were the other dads, chain-smoking and trying to look brave as they polished their imaginary shotguns.

Finally, the bus was filled with happy children, shouting and squealing at decibels that could be heard from the far side of Jupiter. As they pulled out, my

sharpened spoon and eyeing me distrustfully. “Gracie found this in her bag, and we thought you might want it back.”

My wife shot me a look that communicated clearly that “a talk” was in our immediate future.

Gracie, who had apparently been fed either crystal meth or 700 Snickers bars for breakfast, was jumping up and down (and audibly humming) in excitement, while I inspected her extremities for broken bones, third-degree burns and possible gunshot wounds.

“Weswaminthelakeandroastedhotdogs androdehorsesandtoldghoststoriesand studiedowlpoopandhadacampfire everynight!!!” (pause for air) “And I can’t wait to go again next year!”

Next year?

Oh God ... only 12 months of nightmares to go.

lip trembled, and I looked to my wife for comfort. But there was none to be had.

She was already sprinting for the car.

Two weeks passed in a sleepless, nail-biting blur, and before I knew it, we were back at the parking lot, waiting anxiously for the bus to return.

I could tell the stress of the past weeks had gotten to my wife.

“It’s six o’clock in the morning.”

“I know.”

“The bus doesn’t get here until noon.”

“I know.”

“I hate you.”

“I know.”

Finally, the bus rolled into the parking lot, opened its doors, and emitted a grubby knot of shouting and squealing children, many of

Of course, I exaggerate.

In honesty, she was fine. More than fine, she had made new friends, made some wonderful memories and gained a very important milestone in independence and self-reliance.

I wanted to tell her how much I’d missed her, how glad I was she’d enjoyed herself and how proud I was of her.

Unfortunately, it had to wait. I needed to get home and order Taken 2.

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SUMMERSUCCESS How to choose a camp you and your kids will love

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hether you're looking for enrichment for your child or a way to keep your kids occupied and supervised while you work, or you just need a short reprieve from parenting, summer camp might be the ideal solution for your child and your family.

THE BENEFITS OF SUMMER CAMP

Summer camp offers plenty of perks, and many kids thrill at the idea of going away. Still, for some kids, particularly those who are shy, introverted or homebodies, the thought of going away for a night, let alone a week or more, can cause considerable anxiety. When kids are adamantly opposed, forcing summer camp on them might not be in their best interest.

But for kids who are eager – or at least willing – to give it a shot, summer camp offers opportunities kids may not have elsewhere, such as new friendships, a sense of community, independence and self-esteem, daily exercise and the development of new skills and interests.

GETTING STARTED

Before you begin looking into summer camps, create a list of what you're looking for. Consider the following: • What is your budget for summer camp?

• What is the purpose of sending your child to summer camp?

• Do you want a resident (overnight) or a day camp?

• Are you looking for a short-term (week or two) or summer-long program?

• Do you want a camp that's very structured or one that provides your child with lots of freedom and choices?

• What are your child's passions, such as a particular sport, hobby or other interest?

Once you've listed your criteria, you can begin your search. An excellent place to start is the Summer Camp Guide on page 19. Also visit www.SouthFloridaFamilyLife.com, where you can search by region, camp type or camp activity.

NEXT STEPS

Once you've selected a few summer camps that meet your criteria and fit your child's interests, discuss the choices with your child. Let your child know that you need to investigate the camps before making a final decision. But keep their choices in mind to ensure they get the most out of camp.

Once you and your child have selected top choices, there are several things you'll want to consider.

What are the staff's qualifications?

Many summer camps use teens to staff the camps. Teens make excellent mentors and can bring liveliness to summer

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camp programs. However, the programs themselves should be developed by professionals and have professional oversight at all times.

How does the camp ensure your child's safety? Find out what kind of safety training the camp provides its staffers.

Is there someone on hand at all times who knows CPR? What are the camp's procedures if your child becomes ill or has an accident or other emergency?

What provisions do they make for special needs or allergies?

What is the daily schedule for campers?

Ask for a daily itinerary so you know what your child will be getting from the program.

What are the rules? Each camp has its own set of rules. Find out whether your child is allowed to call you. If it's a summer-long residential camp, can parents visit? Can kids bring a cell phone or electronics? How much money can they bring, and how is it managed?

Keep in mind, although there are many good camps, no camp is likely to offer everything precisely the way you want it. Choose the one that best fits your child and satisfies your most important criteria. Remember, your child will have many more opportunities for exciting camp experiences.

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General Day Camps BELEN JESUIT PREPARATORY SCHOOL 500 SW 127 Ave., Miami 786-621-4610 www.belenjesuit.org Belen Jesuit Preparatory School offers a six-week summer camp program for boys and girls ages 4-14. Activities include sports, swimming, field trips, nature hikes, storytelling, talent shows, guest speakers and more.

BOYS AND GIRLS CLUBS 305-446-9910 www.bgcmia.org • Gwen Cherry, 7090 NW 22 Ave., Miami, 305-694-4889 • Hank Kline, 2805 SW 32 Ave., Miami, 305-446-2654 • Kendall, 9475 N. Kendall Dr., Miami, 305-279-3013 • Northwest, 10915 NW 14 Ave., Miami, 305-758-5753 • South Beach, 1200 Michigan Ave., Miami Beach, 305-535-0070 Children participate in an all-day summer enrichment program that focuses on social and cultural experiences, recreation, team-building and educational activities.

Activities include a computer lab, game room, arts and crafts, literacy classes, a movie room, physical fitness, field trips and more.

CAMP J AT ALPER JCC MIAMI 11155 SW 112 Ave., Miami 305-271-9000 www.alperjcc.org Camp J Miami strives to build confidence, stretch imaginations and teach new skills.

Campers from infants through grade 9 participate in age-appropriate favorites, including sports, art, swim instruction, field trips and more. Camp runs June 15-August 7.

CAMP KLURMAN AT THE MIAMI BEACH JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER 4221 Pine Tree Dr., Miami Beach 305-534-3206 www.mbjcc.org/camp Camp Klurman is about making memories that last a lifetime. Program, for age 3 through 8th grade, includes traditional day-camp activities, field trips, Jewish culture and more. Camp runs June 8-August 14.

CAMP SOL TAPLIN AT THE MICHAEL-ANN RUSSELL JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER 18900 NE 25 Ave., North Miami Beach 305-932-4200 www.marjcc.org/campsoltaplin Camp Sol Taplin features more than 20 camps serving children ages 2-15. Campers are encouraged to take a journey of self-discovery as they develop new skills and confidence.

Activities include aquatics, art, dance, theatre, robotics, cooking, coding, cheerleading, sports and more. Camp runs June 8-July 31.

DEERING ESTATE 16701 SW 72 Ave., Miami 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org Deering’s Spring Camp, March 23-27, encourages children ages 6-14 to splash into the world of marine biology by exploring the coastal and aquatic habitats near the estate.

The locale also offers 10 weeks of summer camp fun with a variety of hands-on activities and discovery.

MIAMI CHILDREN’S MUSEUM 980 MacArthur Causeway, Miami 305-373-5437 www.miamichildrensmuseum.org Children explore art, music, dance, performance, language, literacy and more through age-appropriate, hands-on activities.

MIAMI-DADE COUNTY PARKS & RECREATION 305-755-7800 www.miamidade.gov/parks The third-largest county park system in the United States offers a variety of fun-filled summer camp choices, including nature exploration, sports, aquatic adventures, performing arts and more. Visit website for details.

YMCA OF SOUTH FLORIDA ASSOCIATION OFFICE 305-357-4000 www.ymcasouthflorida.org

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SPECIAL ADVERTISING SECTION Y Membership Family Centers: • Homestead YMCA, 1034 NE Eighth St., Homestead, 305-248-5189 • South Dade YMCA Family Center, 9355 SW 134 St., Miami, 305-254-0310 • Upper Keys YMCA, 500 St. Croix Place, Key Largo, 305-453-3422 • Village of Allapattah YMCA Family Center, 2370 NW 17 Ave., Miami, 305-635-9622 Kids can make new friends and have summertime fun while participating in sports, aquatics, arts, science, cooking, fitness, performances, leadership training and more.

Each week features a new adventure. Call your local Family Center for details.

Specialty Camps INDOOR SOCCER PRO 1128 NW 159 Dr., Miami Gardens 305-454-0900 www.indoorsoccerpro.com Campers ages 5-14 can keep cool playing soccer on indoor, air-conditioned turf fields.

The summer camp program includes indoor soccer training, weekly field trips, arts and crafts, movies, bubble soccer, XBox and more.

MIAMI SEAQUARIUM 4400 Rickenbacker Causeway, Miami 305-361-5705 www.miamiseaquarium.com Kids ages 5-15 can enjoy sun-and-fun-filled days through education and conservation camps at Miami Seaquarium. Weekly

programs vary by age and include animal interactions, animal shows, field & art activities and more. This year’s themes are: Marine Mysteries, Seaside Superheroes, Ocean Olympics, Tide Pooling Travels, Dinosaur Detectives and Counselor in Training.

MODELING CAMP Camp location: Doubletree Ocean Point Resort and Spa, 17375 Collins Ave., North Miami Beach 888-757-5575 www.modelingcamp.com Girls ages 11-17 can learn about modeling through workshops, photo shoots and more.

The program culminates with a graduation fashion show. June 23-26.

PHILLIP AND PATRICIA FROST MUSEUM OF SCIENCE 1101 Biscayne Blvd., Miami 305-615-7990 www.frostscience.org Children can decode the hidden math and science of nature’s beauty during a weeklong Spring Camp March 23-27. The fun continues throughout the summer when campers explore the wonders of science through hands-on activities during weeklong themed camps. Summer Camp themes include chemistry, engineering, marine biology, technology and more.

THE ACADEMY AT DEZERLAND PARK 14401 NE 19 Ave., North Miami 786-590-5006

www.dezerlandpark.com Camps keep kids entertained with active programs that include karate, dance, aerial silk, parkour, ninja training, art, music and more. Activities are designed to encourage motivation, engagement and socialization skills.

TOPGOLF 11850 NW 22 St., Doral 305-424-5110 www.topgolf.com/miami-doral The Topgolf Spring Academy, March 23-25, is three days of non-stop entertainment, and learning designed specifically with kids in mind. Camp teaches a variety of skills, from chipping, putting and full swing to rules and etiquette. A summer program is also available.

ZOO MIAMI 12400 SW 152 St., Miami 305-251-0400 www.zoomiami.org Zoo Miami camps are a stampede of fun, combining education and entertainment, creating an opportunity for kids to learn about wildlife and environmental conservation and to meet new friends.

Performing Arts AREA STAGE COMPANY 5701 Sunset Dr., Miami 305-666-2078 www.areastagecompany.com

DECODING NATURE

SPRING CAMP Beautiful patterns, remarkable symmetry, nature is an amazing inspiration for both art and science. Children will decode the hidden math and science of nature’s beauty by exploring Fibonacci’s number, fractals, and even learning the basics of coding to use math to help unlock nature’s mysteries.

For details and online registration, visit frostscience.org/springcamp.

Call 305-434-9564 or email camp@frostscience.org.

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SPECIAL ADVERTISING SECTION Broadway Bites, a musical theatre summer camp for kids ages 5-18, provides week-long performance intensives where students will hone their singing, dancing and acting skills while working with experienced instructors.

Campers can participate in any or all of the 10 unique, weekly sessions.

CUTLER BAY 305-238-4166 www.cutlerbay-fl.gov

Special Needs Camp

HIALEAH GARDENS 305-558-2331 www.cityofhialeahgardens.com

CAMP ERIN Located at Camp Owaissa Bauer, 17001 SW 264 St., Homestead 305-351-7026 www.camperinsouthflorida.org Created and funded by The Moyer Foundation, Camp Erin is a nationwide network of free bereavement camps for children and teens ages 6-17 who have experienced the death of someone close to them. The weekend-long experience consists of camp activities combined with grief education and emotional support, facilitated by grief professionals and trained volunteers.

Camp takes place March 20-22.

EASTERSEALS SOUTH FLORIDA 305-325-0470 www.easterseals.com/southflorida Offers a variety of free summer camp programs for children and adolescents with autism and other related disabilities.

MIAMI-DADE COUNTY PARKS & RECREATION DISABILITY SERVICES CAMPS 305-755-7848 www.miamidade.gov/parks Sponsored by The Children’s Trust, children and young adults with disabilities are offered enriching camp experiences in sports, swimming and arts and crafts at a variety of Miami-Dade County Parks & Recreation locations.

THE CHILDREN’S TRUST 305-571-5700 www.thechildrenstrust.org The largest funder of after-school, youth enrichment and summer camp programs in Miami-Dade County, this organization offers a wide range of services, programs and camps for children with special needs.

City Camps Many cities offer a range of fun-filled camp programs to keep kids engaged and entertained all summer long. Activities range from sports, dance and science to field trips, art and aquatic adventures. Explore the city of your choice for details.

AVENTURA 305-466-8008 www.cityofaventura.com BAY HARBOR ISLANDS 786-646-9970 www.bayharborislands-fl.gov BISCAYNE PARK 305-893-3711 www.biscayneparkfl.gov CORAL GABLES 305-460-5600 www.coralgables.com

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DORAL 305-593-6600 www.cityofdoral.com HIALEAH 305-687-2650 www.hialeahfl.gov

HOMESTEAD 305-224-4570 www.cityofhomestead.com KEY BISCAYNE 305-365-8900 www.keybiscayne.fl.gov MIAMI 305-416-1300 www.miamigov.com MIAMI BEACH 305-673-7730 www.miamibeachfl.gov MIAMI GARDENS 305-622-8000 www.miamigardens-fl.gov MIAMI LAKES 305-364-6100 www.miamilakes-fl.gov MIAMI SHORES 305-758-8103 www.miamishoresvillage.com MIAMI SPRINGS 305-805-5075 www.miamisprings-fl.gov NORTH MIAMI 305-895-9840 www.northmiamifl.gov NORTH MIAMI BEACH 305-948-2957 www.citynmb.com OPA-LOCKA 305-953-2875 www.opalockafl.gov PALMETTO BAY 305-259-1234 www.palmettobay-fl.gov PINECREST 305-234-2121 www.pinecrest-fl.gov SOUTH MIAMI 305-668-3876 www.southmiamifl.gov SUNNY ISLES BEACH 305-792-1799 www.sibfl.net SURFSIDE 305-866-3635 www.townofsurfsidefl.gov SWEETWATER 305-551-4774 www.cityofsweetwater.fl.gov WEST MIAMI 305-261-5566 www.cityofwestmiamifl.com

Sleep Away Camp VALLEY VIEW RANCH EQUESTRIAN CAMP 606 Valley View Ranch Rd., Cloudland, Georgia 706-862-2231 www.valleyviewranch.com A horse lovers’ paradise since 1954 atop Lookout Mountain, for 50 girls, ages 8-17; 600 acres, English, Western, Barrels, Vaulting, and Trails. Beginner to advanced riders. Spend 4-6 hours daily with your own camp horse or bring your own. Classes and programs are taught using the Certified Horsemanship Association guidelines. Family-operated by three generations of horse lovers, camp administrators and equine educators.

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Children, ages 6-14, will splash into the world of marine biology by exploring the coastal and aquatic habitats of the Deering Estate!

March 23-27, 2020; 7:30 a.m. - 5 p.m.

The cost is $200 for a five-day session. Register online or call 305-235-1668 ext. 233.

Deering Estate 16701 SW 72 Avenue Miami, FL 33157

To request materials in accessible format, sign language interpreters, and/or any accommodation to participate in any Miami-Dade Parks-sponsored program or meeting, contact Mary Palacios, 305-755-7848 or Mary.Palacios@miamidade.gov, at least 7 days in advance to initiate your request. TTY users may also call 711 (Florida Relay Service).

BELEN SUMMER CAMP JUNE 15 - JULY 24, 2020 BOYS & GIRLS, AGES 4-14 $1,120* ( I N C L U D E S L U N C H A N D F I E L D T R I P S ) *$1,200 IF PAID AFTER MAY 3rd.

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MarchEvents HOW TO SUBMIT CALENDAR LISTINGS

Please e-mail listing information to events@miamidadefamilylife.com by the 5th of the month prior to the event date.

Include the name of the event, location, address, date, time, brief description, price and telephone number for the public.

MUSEUMS & EXHIBITS Day Out With Thomas

SATURDAYS-SUNDAYS, FEBRUARY 29-MARCH 1 & MARCH 7-8

Take a ride on a full-size Thomas the Tank Engine in this train celebration that includes play areas, arts and crafts, mini golf and more. Advance purchase is recommended. $20. GOLD COAST RAILROAD MUSEUM, 12450 SW 152 St., Miami, 305-253-0063 www.gcrm.org

Rainbow Weaver SUNDAY, MARCH 1

Discover the story of Ixchel as she learns how to weave using alternative materials, then participate in a sensory experience watching weaving, touching yarn and exploring patterns and colors. Ages 1-5. Free. 11:30am-12:30pm, MUSEUM OF CONTEMPORARY ART NORTH MIAMI, 770 NE 125 St., North Miami,

305-893-6211 www.mocanomi.org

Overnight Adventure

Disney on Ice

FRIDAY, MARCH 6

IT’S SHOWTIME! The Magic of Bill Blagg Live SUNDAY, MARCH 1

Be amazed with this interactive magic and illusion experience.$35-$40. 2pm & 7pm, AVENTURA ARTS & CULTURAL CENTER, 3385 NE 188 St., Aventura, www.aventuracenter.org

The Peking Acrobats SUNDAY, MARCH 1

Pushing the limits of human dexterity, the Peking Acrobats perform astonishing juggling and balancing feats to the sounds of live music played on traditional Chinese instruments. $20-$30. 11am & 1pm, BROWARD CENTER FOR THE ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222, www.browardcenter.org

Sing Miami “Lift Every Voice” SATURDAY, MARCH 7

A fun-filled sing-along paying homage to African-American history featuring spirituals, gospel and jazz selections led by the Miami Children’s Chorus. Noon-1pm, ADRIENNE ARSHT CENTER, 1300 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, www.miamichildrenschorus.org

Dr. Ouch

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, MARCH 7-8

Arts Ballet Theatre of Florida presents a dance performance based on a story about a doctor who cures animals. $35. Saturday 7:30pm, Sunday 3pm, AVENTURA ARTS & CULTURAL CENTER, 3385 NE 188 St., Aventura, www.aventuracenter.org

Willy Wonka Junior

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, MARCH 14-15

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captivating adaptation of Roald Dahl’s tale. $15. 2pm & 7pm, MIAMI THEATER CENTER, 11155 SW 112 Ave., Miami, 305-274-3595 www.miamichildrenstheater.biz

Pete the Cat

SUNDAY, MARCH 15

Join Jimmy and the hilarious blue cat Pete on a new adventure to Paris and back again.

Tickets include pre-show activities and a postshow snack. $16. 11am & 1pm, AVENTURA ARTS & CULTURAL CENTER, 3385 NE 188 St., Aventura, www.aventuracenter.org

Hamilton

THROUGH MARCH 15

This hit musical tells the story of America’s Founding Father, Alexander Hamilton.

Recommended for ages 10 and up due to some strong language. Showtimes vary.

ADRIENNE ARSHT CENTER, 1300 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, www.arshtcenter.org

Disney on Ice: Dream Big THURSDAY-SUNDAY, MARCH 19-22

Fearless and adventurous Disney characters take to the ice in this skating adventure. $15.

AMERICANAIRLINES ARENA, 601 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 786-777-1000 www.aaarena.com

Masterchef Junior Live!

THURSDAY, MARCH 26

The hit culinary television show makes its way to the stage as past contestants go head-to-head with cooking demonstrations and challenges. $35-$65. 7pm, BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222, www.browardcenter.org

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Kids can reveal the hidden patterns found all around us during a Numbers in Nature overnight adventure that includes hands-on science activities, stargazing and an exclusive show in the Frost Planetarium. $80/person. 7pm, PHILLIP AND PATRICIA FROST MUSEUM OF SCIENCE, 1101 Biscayne Blvd., Miami,

www.frostscience.org

Mix and Match Texture Collage FRIDAY, MARCH 6

Little ones ages 2-4, with a caregiver, can explore texture and art while creating a masterpiece using felt, magazines, lace and cardboard. 10:30-11:30am, THE BASS MUSEUM OF ART, 2100 Collins Ave., Miami Beach, 305-673-7530 www.thebass.org

Mighty Women

SATURDAY, MARCH 7

Bring the family to celebrate the extraordinary accomplishments of women at this Free Family Fun Day with crafts, storytelling and more.

10am-5pm, HISTORYMIAMI MUSEUM, 101 W. Flagler St., Miami, 305-375-1492 www.historymiami.org

Free Second Saturday SATURDAY, MARCH 14

Every second Saturday of the month kids can create art and enjoy free admission to the museum. Free. 10am-6pm, PÉREZ ART MUSEUM MIAMI, 1103 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 305-375-3000 www.pamm.org

Family Day

SUNDAY, MARCH 15

Join the Miami Design District and the Institute of Contemporary Art, Miami, for free family activities that celebrate Women in Art. 1-4pm, ICA MIAMI, 61 NE 41 St., Miami, www.miamidesigndistrict.net

FAIRS, FESTIVALS & SPECIAL EVENTS Picnic Celebration SATURDAY, MARCH 7

Annual family fun event includes inflatables, rides, food, music, school performances, kids’ activities, a baseball game and more. 11am-2pm, CORAL REEF PARK, 7895 SW 152 St., Palmetto Bay, 305-2591234 www.palmettobay-fl.gov

Carnaval on the Mile

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, MARCH 7-8

A celebration of all things Miami including art, music, fashion, food and sports. Free. ALONG MIRACLE MILE, Coral Gables, www.carnavalmiami.com

Asian Culture Festival

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, MARCH 7-8

Festival features Asian crafts, cuisine, art and exotic music and dance. $14/adult, $5/child. 10am5pm, FRUIT & SPICE PARK, 24801 SW 187 Ave., Homestead, 305-247-5727 www.redlandfruitandspice.com

Miami-Dade County Fair & Expo

Broward Family Life 7th Annual Camp Connections and Summer Fun Expo

MARCH 12-APRIL 5

Immense fair with nearly 100 rides, carnival food, livestock and agricultural competitions, concerts, shows, student exhibits and more. FAIR EXPO CENTER, 10901 Coral Way, Miami, 305-223-7060 www.fairexpo.com

SUNDAY, MARCH 15

Find the perfect camp by exploring a wide variety of spring and summer camp options during a fun-filled day packed with live performances, games, activities and more. Free tote bags to the first 250 attendees. Expo is free. The park’s admission fee of $1.50/person (ages 6 and up) will be in effect.

11am-3pm, TREE TOPS PARK (PATIO AREA), 3900 SW 100 Ave., Davie, www.browardfamilylife.com

Orchid Garden

FRIDAY-SUNDAY, MARCH 13-15

Take in the beauty of Fairchild where more than 10,000 orchid plants will be on display. $25/adult, $12/child.

9:30am-4:30pm, FAIRCHILD TROPICAL BOTANIC GARDEN, 10901 Old Cutler Rd., Coral Gables, 305-667-1651 www.fairchildgarden.org

Deering Seafood Festival SUNDAY, MARCH 29

A celebration of seafood, chef demonstrations, kids’ games and activities, live entertainment, educational activities and more. $25/adult, $10/child. Food and some activities are an additional fee. 10am-6pm, DEERING ESTATE, 16701 SW 72 Ave., Miami, 305-235-1668 www.deeringseafoodfestival.org

St. Patrick’s Day Festival SATURDAY, MARCH 14

Night Hike and Campfire WEDNESDAY, MARCH 11

Explore the woods and wildlife after dark and then gather around a campfire for s’mores. $15.

7-9:30pm, DEERING ESTATE,16701 SW 72 Ave., Miami, 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org

Dinosaurs Live

In it’s 41st year, this festival features food, Irish dancers, bagpipers, live music, a giant slide, bounce house and more.

Noon-6pm, PONCE CIRCLE PARK, 2800 Ponce de Leon Blvd., Coral Gables, 305-596-9995

THROUGH JUNE 14

It’s a zoo-wide Jurassic adventure with life-sized animatronic dinosaurs on the grounds. Included with Zoo admission. 10am-5pm, ZOO MIAMI, 12400 SW 152 St., Miami, 305-251-0400 www.zoomiami.org

COMMUNITY ACTIVITIES Dr. Seuss Birthday Celebration MONDAY, MARCH 2

Celebrate the birthday of Theodor Seuss Geisel (AKA Dr. Seuss) with an adventure filled with stories, contests and other fun. 3:30-5pm, ARCOLA LAKES BRANCH LIBRARY, 8240 NW Seventh Ave., Miami, 305-694-2707 www.mdpls.org

Light Your Bike Night FRIDAY, MARCH 6

Decorate your bike – and yourself – with lights and glow-in-the-dark accessories for a family bike ride at the park. Free. 7pm, DORAL CENTRAL PARK, 3000 NW 87 Ave., Doral, 305-593-6611

Farmers Market at Merrick Park

SATURDAYS, MARCH 7, 14, 21 & 28

Bring the family for a selection of fresh Florida produce, children’s activities, free Tai Chi classes, gardening workshops, cooking demonstrations and more. 8am-2pm CORNER OF MIRACLE MILE & LEJEUNE RD.,

Coral Gables, www.coralgables.com

Carnival!

SUNDAY, MARCH 8

Learn about different cultures through this concert celebrating the music and dance of Brazil, Trinidad, New Orleans and more. 3pm, PINECREST GARDENS, 11000 Red Rd.,

Pinecrest, 305-669-6990 www.pinecrestgardens.org

Teens Only Silent Glow Disco FRIDAY, MARCH 13

Each teen receives a pair of headphones and music device to use during this silent dance party. For teens only, grades 7-12. Must show valid school ID or driver’s license. 7-10pm, GATEWAY PARK, 151 Sunny Isles Blvd., Sunny Isles Beach, 305-792-1706 www.sibfl.net

Barnacle Under Moonlight Concert SATURDAY, MARCH 14

Kick back and listen to music as the moon rises over Biscayne Bay. $10/adult, $3/child. Gates open at 6pm. 7-9pm, BARNACLE HISTORIC STATE PARK, 3485 Main Hwy., Miami 305-442-6866 www.thebarnacle.org

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Coral Gables, healthy food vendors, music, a scavenger hunt, family activities, fitness classes and more.

Free. 11am-3pm, IN FRONT OF CITY HALL, 405 Biltmore Way, Coral Gables, 305-460-5600 www.coralgables.com

MUVE Volunteer Workday SATURDAY, MARCH 21

Join Frost Science for a restorative community service project and citizen science activities that include invasive plant removal, native species planting and marine debris clean-up. Children must be accompanied by an adult.

9-11am, VIRGINIA KEY NORTH POINT, RESTORATION SITE, Arthur Lamb Jr. Rd., Miami, www.frostscience.org SATURDAY, MARCH 21

Kids can get crafty with paper, duct tape and other supplies. Materials provided. Space limited. Ages 4-12.

4:30-5:30, NORTHEAST DADEAVENTURA BRANCH LIBRARY,

An initiative promoting bicycling as a fun and healthy way to stay fit.

Free. 1-4pm, CITY HALL, 17011 NE 19 Ave., North Miami Beach, www.citynmb.com

2930 Aventura Blvd., Miami, 305-931-5512 www.mdpls.org

SUNDAY, MARCH 15

Bike Day partners with Bike Walk for a day promoting health and physical activity with bike tours throughout

Dino NITE!

SATURDAY, MARCH 21

It’s a prehistoric party with a dinosaur disco, fossil dig, dino trivia, animal encounters and more. $15.95.

7-10pm, ZOO MIAMI, 12400 SW 152 St., Miami, 305-255-5551 www.zoomiami.org

Every effort has been made to provide accurate information. Changes and cancellations do occur. Please double check the details before setting out on your adventure.

FRIDAY, MARCH 27

Bring a blanket or lawn chairs to watch a screening of E.T. the Extra-Terrestrial on a giant inflatable movie screen.

Free. 7pm, DOWNTOWN DORAL PARK, 8395 NW 53 St., Doral, 305-593-6611 www.cityofdoral.com

Inventing for Kids SATURDAY, MARCH 28

Find out how inventors make stuff and then become an inventor yourself. Ages 7-10. 3-5pm, WEST KENDALL REGIONAL LIBRARY,

10201 Hammocks Blvd., Miami, 305-385-7135 www.mdpls.org

Food Truck Tuesdays TUESDAYS

DIY Crafts

SUNDAY, MARCH 15

Coral Gables Bike Day

Movie at the Park

Skip the cooking and choose from an array of food trucks, with selections to please the entire family. The evening also includes bounce houses and children’s activities. Weather permitting. 5-9:30pm, HAULOVER PARK, 10800 Collins Ave., Miami Beach, 786-287-6688 www. miamifoodtrucksevents.com

WANT MORE FUN? For additional local events, check our online calendar at www.miamidadefamilylife.com

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Hide and Seek MAKING A GAME OF THE SEARCH FOR CLEAN CLOTHES

BY CHERYL MAGUIRE

M

y 14-year-old daughter doesn’t put her clean clothes away. But I get it. The task requires a great deal of energy. You need a lot of muscle strength to press that pause button on Netflix. And it is challenging to roll off the couch. It makes total sense.

Plus, if she spends five minutes hanging up a few dresses, how will she have time to binge-watch a thousand TV shows?

The first time I asked her to put away her laundry, I found it piled on a chair. So I let her know, in the style of The Hulk, “Don’t make me angry. You wouldn’t like me when I’m angry.”

When I didn’t find her washed attire on the chair, I patted myself on the back for my incredible parenting abilities. But it didn’t last long. I soon discovered she was merely hiding her stash.

Instead of getting angry about it, I decided to turn it into a game, like a scavenger hunt. The last time I played one was almost 20 years ago, and it’s better than turning into The Hulk. I would love six-pack abs like him, but I’m positive I couldn’t rock that green complexion.

I even developed a scoring system to measure my scavenging success: Under Her Pillow (10 points): Her bright blue shirt was clearly visible under her white pillowcase. I’m guessing it was a rush job because I could see the evidence before I entered the room, so I only awarded myself 10 points.

Under Her Bed (20 points): She upped the ante with this spot. It took me at least three days before I found her clean clothes here.

In Her Sleeping Bag (30 points): I gave her creativity points for this one. This might have been a successful hiding spot if it didn’t look like a dead body was in there. If she had simply flattened out the clothes, it would have worked.

All Stuffed In One Drawer (40 points): This hiding spot might have remained undetected, but her workout shorts were mixed in with mine. When I went to put them away, I couldn’t open the drawer. The reason? Two sweatshirts, three T-shirts, four underwear, three socks and pajamas were stuffed inside.

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In Her Gym Bag (50 points): I never would have searched here because I assumed that she uses her bag, but I guess she found another one. The only reason I noticed was because the stack of clothes fell over onto the floor.

In Her Hamper With Dirty Clothes (1,000 points): This spot was pure genius. Who would think to look in the opposite place for clean clothes? I only figured it out because her load of laundry was double the size of the previous wash.

I’ll admit it. After I discovered her last hiding spot, I turned a bit green, and it wasn’t a great look for me. So I decided to shut the door and stop searching. I might be tempted to look every now and again. But my daughter is a puzzle I’m not going to figure out anytime soon — if ever.

When I’m feeling frustrated, I remind myself that soon my daughter will be off to college, and I’ll miss that pile of laundered clothes. Her new roommate will have to carry on the game without me.

Cheryl Maguire holds a Master of Counseling Psychology degree. She is married and is the mother of twins and a daughter. She is back to her old games, such as Where Are My Keys? and Find the Missing Sock.

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