Miami Dade Family Life October 2018

MIAMI-DADE

COMPLIMENTARY

OCTOBER 2018

Outof this

World HALLOWEEN HAPPENINGS

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POLITICS HOW ELECTION SEASON CAN TEACH KIDS VALUABLE LESSONS

PINK Power CELEBRATING BREAST CANCER AWARENESS MONTH

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OCTOBER 2018

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PINK POWER Test your breast health IQ; plus the story behind pink ribbons and a guide to the month’s breast cancer events.

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HALLOWEEN HAPPENINGS From ghost tours to spooky craft creations, there’s a boo-tiful bounty of local fun in store this month for Miami-Dade families.

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THE SERIOUS SIDE OF SPOOKY A sensory-sensitive Halloween; and are scary stories safe for kids?

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PLAYING NICE IN POLITICS How election season can teach kids important life lessons.

ON THE COVER: Connor Rothenberger, 5 A Cover Angels winner Photographer: Lisa Nalven

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News about the people, places and events in our community.

Entertaining and noteworthy things to see and do in every corner of Miami-Dade County.

A mom’s triumphant treetop adventure.

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EXPERT PARENTS CHOOSE US

Parents, did you hear the news? The pediatric services offered by UHealth - University of Miami Health System and Jackson Health System specialists will now be known as UHealth Jackson Children’s Care. When our experts work together, children can receive the best treatment possible, but it all begins with an expert parent choosing UHealth Jackson Children’s Care.

Call 305-585-PEDI or visit ExpertKidsCare.org.

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Party package includes a party area with decorations, kid-friendly lunch, personalized cake, costumed character visit (weather permitting), admission to all shows and exhibits and much more.

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Kendall Regional Medical Center and

Present Our Annual

Party

Same GREAT event...NEW location:

The Palms at Town & Country | 8268 Mills Drive • Miami, FL 33183

Saturday, October 27th | 11 a.m. to 2 p.m.

Register to attend by calling 305-222-2200 OR on

at Facebook.com/KendallRMC

Kids get a free pumpkin.* Teddy bears get free check-ups.

FREE admission Take pictures in our pumpkin patch Food and treats for all children Safety tips for trick-or-treating Wear your Halloween costume Children’s entertainment Clowns & Balloons Face painting Pony rides Games

Teddy Bear Clinic

Bring your teddy bear or stuffed animal for a check-up and have it screened for blood pressure, temperature and weight.

#myteddybearclinic

*FREE pumpkins will be distributed for children to decorate, while supplies last.

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Miami Goes BOGO

H

ow many times have you promised your kids a visit to Miami Children’s Museum or a day trip to Zoo Miami before life got in the way?

Well, this month just may be the time for you and the family to finally get out and see many of the places that make Miami special — and not just because the summer heat has mercifully evaporated. More importantly, it’s Miami Attractions Month, and the price is right to visit about 20 of Miami’s top attractions that offer alluring deals all October long and even extending through Nov. 30.

Presented by the Greater Miami Convention & Visitors Bureau, here’s how the promotion works: Simply visit www.MiamiAttractionsMonth.com. There you’ll find links to the attractions’ web pages and their offers for a buy-one-get-one-free admission or another special deal. And they make it easy for you: No membership or sign-up is required. Just print out the coupon

and take it with you.

For example, Miami Seaquarium offers a distinctly Miami kind of adventure. Its Sea Trek Reef Encounter is an underwater walking journey through a 300,000-gallon tropical reef.

While wearing a state-of-the-art dive helmet that allows you to breathe freely, you can explore the reef and encounter tropical fish, stingrays and a variety of unique sea creatures.

And with a full day of shows and exhibits included in the price, which ranges from $36$99, this BOGO offer can add up to a pretty valuable discount.

Among the other participating attractions are Phillip And Patricia Frost Museum of Science, Pérez Art Museum Miami, Coral Castle Museum, Wings Over Miami Air Museum, Monkey Jungle, Historic Virginia Key Beach Park, Fruit & Spice Park, Ancient Spanish Monastery, HistoryMiami Museum and Deering Estate.

GO FLY A KITE — ­­ NO, REALLY! If you’re in the vicinity of Haulover Beach Park later this month and you just happen to hear the words “go fly a kite,” you shouldn’t take offense. It’s likely just an invitation to Kiteober Fest, the most spectacular kite-flying weekend in South Florida.

During the 26th annual event Oct. 20-21, hundreds of kites will transform the sky over Miami Beach into an eye-popping constellation of shapes and colors — like a 100-foot flying squid, 30-foot Nemo and 300-square-foot parafoils. Past events have also featured the traditional styles of such countries as The Bahamas, China, Colombia, Jamaica,

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Puerto Rico, Venezuela and others.

Hosted by Miami-Dade Parks and Skyward Kites, the free event will also feature paper-kitebuilding classes and demonstrations, kite-flying competitions for kids and adults, food trucks and other treats. People of all ages are invited to bring their own kites or make or purchase one at the festival — or just bring a blanket and take in the spectacular sight from noon-5pm both days.

Haulover Beach Park is at 10800 Collins Ave., Miami Beach. For more information, visit skywardkites.com or call 305-893-0906.

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HOMEGROWN SENSATION The first hint that Ethan Bortnick was a pint-sized prodigy came when he was only 3. The tot sat at the tiny toy keyboard in his Hollywood home and started playing — note for note — songs he’d heard on PBS shows like Sesame Street and Curious George.

Only a couple of years later, he started writing his own songs. And soon a viral video of one of his recitals catapulted him to appearances on national TV shows and concerts from Vegas to Australia, sharing the spotlight with stars like Elton John and Justin Bieber.

Now 17 and still a powerhouse of a performer, Bortnick is on a fall concert tour taking him to 15 cities around the country — including Sunny Isles Beach, where on Oct. 6 he brings his talents back home with a concert at Gateway Park. Bortnick promises surprise guests and the debut of a new song at the 7:30pm show.

Bortnick’s family-friendly performances draw audiences from children to grandparents. He’s also become a public television fundraising phenomenon with a heart for children.

His precocious career has already helped to raise over $50 million for global charities, beginning with Miami Children’s Hospital when he was 8 years old.

Next summer, the Pembroke Pines resident elevates his commitment to kids with the filming of six one-hour episodes of his national TV show, Celebration of Music Talent Search, designed to discover and showcase the musical talents of performers ages 4 to 22 from across the country.

“We’re trying to find young kids, sort of like me,” he says. (Good luck with that, Ethan!)

A CARIBBEAN KALEIDOSCOPE In Miami, Halloween isn’t October’s only dress-up occasion.

The Miami Broward One Carnival, one of the region’s premier cultural festivals, is a Caribbean kaleidoscope of colorful costumes and traditions to which many of the 50,000 revelers come dressed in masquerade.

Costumes are just one expression of the Oct. 7 main event’s non-stop celebration of island culture, art and pageantry. A radiant reflection of South Florida’s cultural diversity, the Carnival, now in its 34th year, captures the spirit, passion and essence of the Caribbean-American community.

From noon-11pm at the Miami-Dade County Fair and Expo, the festivities showcase world-class acts from Hispanic and Haitian communities performing music of the islands and in the tradition of Carnival. Fun for all ages, the Carnival also features crafts, drinks and food, including tropical favorites like jerk, curry and stews from the Bahamas, Jamaica, Haiti, Trinidad and the Dominican Republic.

Leading up to the main event, the Parade of the Bands features over 20 masquerade groups parading on a six-mile route through the city. Dressed in dazzling costumes of feather headdresses, sequins and ruffles, each selects a theme and depicts characters from traditional folklore. Winners are selected based on creativity, authenticity and presentation.

Shuttle buses will provide transportation to the fairgrounds, located at 10901 SW 24th St. For schedules and more info, please visit miamibrowardcarnival.com

Where the Stories are the Stars!

4-SHOW SUBSCRIPTIONS AVAILABLE SAME SEAT—EVERY PERFORMANCE

Presented by

Giggle, Giggle, Quack Saturday, October 20

Your Alien

Sunday, January 27

The Very Hungry Caterpillar & Other Eric Carle Favorites Sunday, February 24

Stuart Little

Sunday, April 14 All performances are at 11am and 1pm Performances underwritten in part by Miami Salon Group, Inc.

Tickets include complimentary pre-show activities and a sweet treat provided by Hoffman’s Chocolates!

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Pink Passion LOCAL EVENTS

PARTY IN PINK ZUMBATHON Tuesday, Oct. 2 This second-annual Zumba event benefits the Susan G. Komen organization. 7-9 pm, Global Church, 17701 NW 57 Ave., Miami Gardens, www.ibbchurch.org COLORS OF CANCER WALK & HEALTH RESOURCE FAIR Saturday, Oct. 6 The kick-off for the City of Miami Gardens’ annual Paint the City Pink Month Breast Cancer Awareness Campaign, this event benefits organizations that provide resources to local cancer patients. 6:30-10am, Rolling Oaks Park, 18701 NW 17 Ave., Miami Gardens, 305-622-8000, www.miamigardens-fl.gov WOMEN RUN WYNWOOD Sunday, October 7 Put on your pink running clothes for this Women Empowerment 5K fundraiser hosted by Triple Threat FIT. 9am, 56 NE 29 St., Miami, www.triplethreatfit.com MORE THAN PINK WALK Saturday, Oct. 13 Now in its 23rd year, this Susan G. Komen event is a tribute to metastatic breast cancer patients and survivors.

Registration 6:30am, Hope Ceremony 8:15am, walk begins at 8:45am. An After Walk Celebration and Kids Zone Dash follows at 10am. Bayfront Park, 301 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 954-909-0454, www.komenmiaftl.org/event/walk SUPPORT OUR GIRLS: HOPE FOR THE HOOTERS 5K AND 10K October 20-31 This fourth-annual virtual race benefits the Breast Cancer Research Foundation, www.virtualrunevents.com MAKING STRIDES OF MIAMI-DADE Saturday, Oct. 27 More than 12,000 are expected to join this walk in downtown Miami. Registration 7am, walk 9am.

Marlins Park, 501 NW 16 Ave., 1-800-227-2345, www.makingstrideswalk.org/miamifl POP OF PINK Saturday, October 27 Annual fundraising fashion exhibition is curated by students of Miami Dade College Fashion Institute. $25/advance, $40/door. 11am, InterContinental at Doral Miami, 2505 NW 87 Ave., Doral, www.ihg.com

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Pink Ribbons Have a Peachy Past D

id you know that the ribbon that pops up on people, places and products every October was not always in the pink?

Not only was the pervasive symbol of breast cancer awareness originally not pink, but for the California grandmother who came up with the concept, it was a grass-roots call to action for cancer prevention and never intended to become a commercial icon.

Charlotte Haley had good reason to enter the battle against breast cancer. Her sister, daughter and granddaughter had the disease.

In 1991, the 68-year-old began hand-making ribbons in her dining room. To each packet of five ribbons she attached a postcard that read: “The National Cancer Institute’s annual budget is $1.8 billion, only 5 percent goes for cancer prevention. Help us wake up legislators and America by wearing this ribbon.”

The color of the ribbons? Peach.

Haley distributed thousands of these packets at her local supermarket, and as her message began to spread by word of mouth, she also wrote former First Ladies, Dear Abby and other prominent women. The following year, the peach-colored ribbon caught the eye of Alexandra Penney, editor-in-chief of Self magazine, who wanted to incorporate a ribbon into the magazine’s National Breast Cancer Awareness Month issue. To help promote the symbol in a marketing campaign, she enlisted Evelyn Lauder of the Estée Lauder Companies, who had guest-edited the previous year’s issue.

After learning of Haley’s efforts, the women offered to work with her, publicizing her campaign and its peach-colored ribbons on a national scale. But Haley refused — the plans were too corporate and commercial for her. Penney and Lauder soon learned Haley’s permission wasn’t legally necessary if the color was changed, and the now-iconic bubble-gum pink ribbon was born. It was soon adopted by the Susan G. Komen Foundation and Lauder’s Breast Cancer Research Foundation and eventually by countless other organizations and companies. Today, in additional to raising funds and awareness, the pink ribbon has become an international symbol of solidarity with breast cancer victims.

As for Haley’s often-overlooked story, it became part of a 2011 documentary, Pink Ribbons, Inc. Haley, who was interviewed in the film, died three years later at the age of 91.

Test Your Breast Health IQ Halloween is no doubt the first occasion that comes to mind when the calendar hits October every year. Second place, however, may belong to Breast Cancer Awareness Month — when the entire country appears to think pink via a variety of pink-ribbon fundraising events, the pink illumination of the Empire State Building and other landmarks, and even the pinking up of NFL team uniforms.

The annual campaign intends to increase awareness of the disease, to raise funds to fight it and to promote early testing with regular mammograms and exams — and for good cause. In women, breast cancer is the most commonly diagnosed cancer and the second-leading cause of cancer deaths, of which there are more than 40,500 each year.

Such staggering statistics underscore the importance of being informed. To that end, here’s a little quiz to help spark a deeper understanding.

1. Which of the below is not a significant risk factor for breast cancer? a) Being 40 or older b) A prior diagnosis of breast cancer or ovarian cancer c) Your grandmother, aunt and/or cousin has had breast cancer d) Your mother, sister and/or daughter has had breast cancer

5. It is recommended that women visit their family physician or gynecologist for a Well-Woman Exam. When should this occur? a) Every other year b) Each year c) Every three years d) Only if there are symptoms

9. Based on how aggressive cancerous cells are, breast cancer tumors are often graded on a scale of: a) 1 to 4 b) 1 to 3 c) 1 to 5 d) none of the above

6. The National Breast Cancer Foundation recommends that women begin getting a yearly mammogram at what age?

10. Malignant tumors are “staged” by the health-care team to help determine how far the disease has progressed and the best treatment options. How many stages of breast cancer are there?

a) 40 b) 45 c) 50 d) 55

a) 3 b) 2 c) 5 d) 4

3. It’s also recommended to limit alcohol intake to how many drinks per day?

7. How many women in the United States will be diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime?

11. The stage of a tumor is based on which of the following factors?

a) no more than 3 b) no more than 2 c) no more than 1 d) none of the above

a) 1 in 4 b) 1 in 3 c) 1 in 8 d) 1 in 10

a) The size of the tumor within the breast b) The number of lymph nodes affected c) Whether or not the breast cancer has invaded other organs d) All of the above

4. If you feel or observe the symptoms below, it is important to discuss which with your health-care provider?

8. Breast cancer in men is:

12. Stage 2 breast cancer indicates:

a) non-existent b) common c) an impending epidemic d) rare

a) The cancer cells are confined to a very limited area. b) There is evidence of the cancer invading surrounding tissues near the breast c) There is evidence that the cancer has begun to grow or spread d) The cancer has spread beyond the breast to other areas of the body

2. To help reduce the risk for certain cancers, it is recommended to eat at least how many servings of fruits and vegetables each day? a) 5 b) 8 c) 3 d) none of the above

a) A lump or thickening in or near the breast or in the underarm area b) A change in the size or shape of the breast c) Dimpling or puckering in the skin of the breast d) All of the above Sources: National Breast Cancer Foundation, American Cancer Society

ANSWERS: 1 = c; 2 = a; 3 = c; 4 = d; 5 = b; 6 = a; 7 = c; 8 = d; 9 = b; 10 = d; 11 = d; 12 = c

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Halloween Happenings Compiled by Shannon Pease-Severance

AVENTURA Halloween Movie Night Saturday, October 27 Calling all ghosts and goblins to a movie night featuring a DJ, interactive games, inflatables, activity stations, arts and crafts, a trick-or-treat trail and a screening of Hotel Transylvania 3. Movie begins at 7pm. 5-9pm, Founders Park, 3105 NE 190 St., www.cityofaventura.com

COCONUT GROVE Pumpkin Patch Festival Saturday-Sunday, October 13-14 Bring the family for heaps of fall fun including a pumpkin patch, carnival rides, pumpkin decorating, a scarecrow village, cornstalk maze and more. $20/person, includes unlimited carnival rides.

Regatta Park, 3400 Pan American Dr., www.coconutgrovepumpkinpatch.com

CORAL GABLES Trunk ‘N Treat Sunday, October 28 Cars, costumes and candy highlight this all-day event that includes trick-or-treating, a car parade, arts and crafts, a scavenger hunt and more. Included with paid admission of $25/adult, $12/child, free/ages 5 and under. 9:30am-4:30pm, Fairchild Garden, 10901 Old Cutler Rd., 305-667-1651 www.fairchildgarden.org

Nightmare at 405 Haunted House Wednesday, October 31 Make your way through a haunted house while trying to avoid the creepy crawlers that dwell in it. Ages 5 and older. $5. 6:30-10pm, War Memorial Youth Center, 405 University Dr., 305-460-5600

Howl-o-Ween at Fairchild Wednesday, October 31 Get dressed up and parade through the lush surroundings with your pooch. Dogs that come in costume can hop on the tram at 1pm for a ride dedicated to them.

Included with paid admission of $25/adult, $12/child, free/ages 5 and under. 9:30am-4:30pm, Fairchild Garden, 10901 Old Cutler Rd., 305-667-1651 www.fairchildgarden.org

Halloween on the Mile Wednesday, October 31 Bring the family for trick-or-treating at the shops starting at 4pm, along with other activities including a Halloween story time at Books & Books at 4pm, a kids costume contest at Actors’ Playhouse at the Miracle Theatre at 5pm, and a dog costume contest at the Coral Gables Museum at 6pm. 4-7pm, Downtown Coral Gables & Miracle Mile, www.shopcoralgables.com

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CUTLER BAY Trunk or Treat and Golf Cart Parade Friday, October 26 Have a goulishly good time trunk or treating through the park. 6-10pm, Cutler Ridge Park, 10100 SW 200 St., www.cutlerbay-fl.gov

Saturday, October 27 Join the crew for a spooktactular pirate party with spooky stories and other activities.

Ages 5-12. 3:30pm, International Mall Library, 10315 NW 12 St., 305-594-2514 www.mdpls.org

DORAL House of Horror Carnival

GOULDS Pumpkin Patch October 7-31 Activities include pony rides, pumpkin patch and a petting zoo for little ghouls and goblins. Fees vary.

Monday-Friday, 3-7pm; Saturday & Sunday, 10am-7pm. The Little Farm, 13401 SW 224 St., 305-258-3186 www.thelittlefarm.us

HOMESTEAD

Through November 3 Prepare to be scared. This intense Halloween Haunt experience includes creepy carnival rides, games, treats and bone-chilling haunted houses.

Children 6 and under are not permitted in the haunted houses. 1455 NW 107 Ave., www.houseofhorrorcarnival.com

Halloween Craft Wednesday, October 31 Celebrate Halloween by making a spooktacular craft. Space is limited.

Ages 3-8. 3pm, Homestead Branch Library, 700 N. Homestead Blvd., 305-246-0168 www.mdpls.org

Howl-O-Ween Spooktacular Saturday, October 20 Dress up your four-legged friend for a costume contest for pooches, trunk-or-treat competition and more.

9:30am-1pm, Trails and Tails Park, 11645 NW 50 St., 305-593-6725 www.cityofdoral.com

& The Shops at Pembroke Gardens SATURDAY, OCTOBER 27 • 12-4 PM

• 12 pm: Kids Craft and Games • 1pm: Broward Family Life’s Pet Costume Contest* • 2-4 pm: Character Selfie Photos, Pumpkin Patch Mallwide Trick or Treating & More!

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*Winner of the Pet Costume Contest will be featured in Broward Family Life magazine. Pre-registration for the pet contest recommended at www.SouthFloridaFamilyLife.com

KENDALL Pumpkin Patch Party & Teddy Bear Clinic Saturday, October 27 Wear your costume for a day of entertainment, face painting, crafts, petting zoo, games, food and treats. Kids can bring a stuffed animal for a free teddy bear check up. The first 1,000 children to arrive receive a free pumpkin to decorate.

11am-2pm, Town & Country Mall, Kendall Drive and 117 Ave., 305-222-2200

KEY BISCAYNE Haunted HIke Friday-Saturday, October 19-20 Have a terrifically terrifying time trick-or-treating, participating in family-friendly activities and hiking a haunted trail. Trail opens at 7pm, after dark.

5-10pm, Bill Baggs Cape Florida State Park, 1200 S. Crandon Blvd., www.floridastateparks.org

Monster Splash Halloween Bash Friday-Sunday, October 26-28 Kick-off the harvest season with a picture-perfect pumpkin patch, scarecrow zone, Flipper’s Dance Party and more. $46.99/adult, $36.99/child. 11am-4pm, Miami Seaquarium, 4400 Rickenbacker Causeway, 305-361-5705 www.miamiseaquarium.com

MIAMI Autumn Fest Saturday, October 6 Fall festivities include hayrides, pony rides, face painting, balloon art, arts and crafts and bubble magic. $10/adult, $5/child. 11am-7pm, Cauley

MiChiMu’s Halloween Week

Square Historic Village, 22400 Old Dixie Highway Miami, 305-258-3543 www.cauleysquare.com

Saturday-Wednesday, October 27-31 Stop by to see the newest Pirate Island exhibit, do some trick-or-treating and at scheduled times during the week, participate in spooky science experiments, create creepy crafts, play ghostly games and more — and come in costume. Miami Children’s Museum, 980 MacArthur Causeway, 305-373-5437 www.miamichildrensmuseum.org

Not So Scary Family Halloween Bash Sunday, October 14 Trick-or-treat your way around the galleries, paint mini pumpkins, meet characters, experience the new Pirate Island exhibit and more at this fundraising event for MCM’s educational programs. $40-$50. 1-5 pm, Miami Children’s Museum, 980 MacArthur Causeway, 305-373-5437 www.miamichildrensmuseum.org

Halloween Family Boo Bash

Spooky Science Monster Mash Saturday, October 27 Dress in costume and head to Frost Science for bone-chilling science experiments and creepy, cool encounters throughout the day. Included with paid admission of $29/adult, $20/child. Miami-Dade residents receive a discount with proof of residency.

11am-4pm, Frost Museum of Science, 1101 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 305-901-0359 www.frostscience.org

Halloween Storytime Saturday, October 27 Wear your costume and enjoy a fun-filled celebration with stories, songs and activities for the whole family. 11am, Tamiami Library, 13250-52 SW Eighth St., 305-223-4758 www.mdpls.org

Zoo Boo Saturday-Sunday, October 27-28 A wild adventure with trick-or-treating for kids under 12, costume contests, music, games and prizes, special performances and more. See the animals get their own special treats. Free with zoo admission, 10am-3pm, Zoo Miami, 12400 SW 152 St., Miami, 305-251-0400 www.zoomiami.org

Sunday, October 28 Have a fun-filled day with Halloween activities, a costume contest, trick-or-treating, magic show, petting zoo, face painting pony rides, music and more. $5/person. 11am-7pm, Cauley Square Historic Village, 22400 Old Dixie Highway, 305-258-2565 www.cauleysquare.com

Pumpkin Patch Saturdays & Sundays through October 28 Have some old-fashioned fall fun with activities that include tractor rides, pony rides, a race track, petting zoo and more. $19/person. 10:30am-5:30pm, Pinto’s Farm, Redland Citrus Orchards, 14890 SW 216 St., 305-258-6067 www.pintofarm.com

NORTH MIAMI BEACH Monster Mash Bash Wednesday, October 31 A safe Halloween event without tricks — just treats.

Activities include haunted ghost tours, music, edible arts & crafts, bounce houses, rides, vendors, costume contests, prizes, and candy. Free; $1/haunted ghost tour. 6-10pm, Patricia A. Mishcon Athletic Field, 16601 NE 15 Ave., 305-948-2957 www.citynmb.com

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PALMETTO BAY Deering Estate Ghost Tours Wednesdays, October 3 & 24 Hear about sightings and experiences from actual paranormal investigations as you explore what is said to be Miami’s most haunted property. Tour may contain mature subject matter. Pre-register online. $30. 8-10pm, Deering Estate, 16701 SW 72 Ave., 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org

Harvester Day Sunday, October 14 Have some old-fashioned fun with autumn-themed arts and crafts and photo opportunities at Deering Estate, decorated for the fall season. Included with paid admission of $15/adult, $7/child. 10am-4pm, Deering Estate, 16701 SW 72 Ave., 305-235-1668 www.deeringestate.org

OCTOBER 31 • 6PM - 10PM FREE PUBLIC EVENT

$1.00* HAUNTED TRAIL (THEME: STRANGER THINGS IN NMB) *EXACT CHANGE PLEASE

PATRICIA A. MISHCON ATHLETIC FIELD 16601 NE 15th AVENUE FOR MORE INFORMATION CALL (305) 948-2957 CITYNMB.COM

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Trunk or Treat October, 27 Family fun featuring trunk-or-treating, a live band, fun zone and a screening of Casper. Dress in costume for a chance to win a raffle prize. Movie begins at 7pm. 6-9:30pm, Coral Reef Park, 7895 SW 152 St., www.palmettobay-fl.gov

PINECREST Spooktacular Movie Day Friday, October 19 Have a dreadfully good time watching a screening of Coco at the library. 4pm, Pinecrest Branch Library, 5835 SW 111 St., 305-668-4571 www.mdpls.org

Halloween Movie Night Friday, October 19 Watch an outdoor movie and enjoy Halloween-themed activities at this Halloween Celebration. Activities offered from 6:30-7:30pm, followed by a movie. Pinecrest Gardens, 11000 Red Rd., 305-669-6990 www.pinecrestgardens.org

Howl-O-Ween Sunday, October 28 People and their pooches can have a fangtastic time as Paws-4-You Rescue celebrates with a costume contest, a doggie agility course, live entertainment, a kids’ zone, pumpkin patch, treats and more. $5/person, Free/under 2. Noon-5pm, Pinecrest Gardens, 11000 Red Rd., 305-669-6990 www.pinecrestgardens.org

Track or Treat Wednesday, October 31 Dress up and go track or treating in a safe and friendly atmosphere that includes local vendors handing out candy, a bounce house, DJ and more.

5-7pm, Evelyn Greer Park, 8200 SW 124 St, 305-234-2110 www.pinecrest-fl.gov

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SOUTH MIAMI Halloween Celebration Saturday, October 27 Have some fun with festive stories and crafts.

All ages. 11am, South Miami Library, 6000 Sunset Dr., 305-667-6121 www.mdpls.org

SURFSIDE Halloween Spooktacular Friday, October 26 Ghoulish guests can enjoy rides, music, games, candy and a haunted maze. Surfside residents only.

Maze opens at 7pm. 6-9pm, 96th Street Park, 9572 Bay Dr., 305-866-3635 www.surfsidefl.gov

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Fall Harvest Festival & Pumpkin Patch

Saturday, October 27 Halloween fun includes games and crafts starting at noon, a Broward Family Life pet costume contest at 1pm, and trick-or-treating, character selfie photos, a pumpkin patch and more from 2-4pm. Winner of the pet costume contest will be featured in Broward Family Life magazine. Pre-registration for the contest recommended at SouthFloridaFamilyLife. com. Noon-4pm, The Shops at Pembroke Gardens, 571 SW 145 Terrace, Pembroke Pines www.theshopsatpembrokegardens.com

Through November 4 Daily activities feature a huge pumpkin patch, children’s craft and activity area, pumpkin painting, harvest market, and more. Hayrides available Friday-Sunday. Flamingo Road Nursery, 1655 Flamingo Rd., Davie, 954-476-7878 www.FlamingoRoadNursery.com

Harvest Festival Saturday-Sunday, October 6-7, 13-14, 20-21, 27-28 Celebrate the season with free hayrides, live entertainment, character meet & greets, scarecrow competition, pumpkin patch, decorating station, and more. Each weekend has a different theme including scarecrows, superheroes and pirates and princesses. Stop by the weekend of October 27-28 for additional trick-or-treating fun. $19.95/person, $12.95/child. 9:30am-4pm, Flamingo Gardens, 3750 S. Flamingo Rd., Davie, 954-473-2955 www.flamingogardens.org

YAAlloween Party Friday, October 26 Put on your favorite costume for a night of artful, frightful fun for the entire family. This museum-wide party features Halloween-themed Art Activities, Monster Mash Music Time, Colorful Costume Parade, Family Costume Contest and more.

Free with admission of $12/Broward resident.

3-8pm, Young At Art Museum, 751 SE 121 Ave., Davie, 954-424-0085 www.youngatartmuseum.org

Hollyweird Halloween Block Party Saturday, October 27 In its fourth year, this downtown event features family friendly entertainment, music, candy, prizes, balloon twisters, face paining, costume contest and more. 6-9pm, along Hollywood Boulevard, west of ArtsPark, Hollywood www.floridashollywood.org/hollyweird

Day of the Dead Celebration Friday, November 2 A Mexican tradition, this celebration includes family activities, workshops, a craft crypt, music, Mexican and Latin American dance performances, food and an outdoor skeleton processional that includes a mariachi band, giant puppets, costumes and miniature floats. 4-10pm, various locations in Downtown Fort Lauderdale; processional begins at 6:30pm at Huizenga Plaza, 32 E. Las Olas Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, www.dayofthedeadflorida.com

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lass slippers, fairy godmothers, magic beans and happily ever after. Evil giants, wicked stepmothers, ugly witches and the big bad wolf.

Yesterday’s fairy tales and today’s scary stories are filled with conflicting, vivid imagery of both good and evil. Many parents are surprised to discover that the nuances, scary visuals and dark symbolism that they missed as a child are now extremely obvious as an adult. It’s no wonder that many parents pause when the wolf is seconds away from making a meal of Little Red Riding Hood or when the witch orders the huntsman to destroy Snow White.

Parents can’t help but wonder if the scary content is harmful or if children are perceptive enough to internalize any dark meanings.

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Many experts believe that children mostly take these stories at face value and nothing more. To them, a story is just a story. Children only relate to what they understand and block out what does not

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make sense, says family therapist Thomas Whiteman, PhD. He believes that most children only get the “broad brush” of the story — the hero wins and the villain is defeated.

Younger children don’t pick up on more ominous nuances, he says, because they usually are only capable of black-and-white thinking.

Childhood specialists say that appropriate stories can help children through developmental stages if presented at the right time, in the right way. A well-chosen tale reassures children that although struggles are part of life, virtuous behavior, perseverance and accepting help can aid them in overcoming obstacles. Many stories allow children to deal with their anxieties by projecting them onto the story’s villain and even reinforce the idea that virtue is rewarded while malice is punished.

These stories explore crucial topics (like empathy, safety, morals and problem-solving) in the way that children learn best — “with non-directive, enjoyable text and characters, which magically make the messages simple and effortless to recall,” says child psychologist Barry Kardos, PhD. continued on page 21

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Making It No Trick And All Treat For Kids With Sensory Disorders

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ostumes, Halloween parties with sugary treats, trick-or-treating and spooky decorations are fun and exciting for most kids, but for a child with Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), Halloween celebrations can be downright overwhelming.

Sensory-sensitive kids have trouble processing input from any of the five senses in a normal way. What is background music to others may be loud and distracting to such kids. Costumes may feel too itchy, makeup may feel sticky and masks may have a strong scent or may be too restricting.

As a mom of a child with SPD, I have learned firsthand how challenging Halloween can be. My daughter struggles daily to find clothes that are comfortable and are not too distracting. Typically, if we find a pair of pants she likes, I buy as many pairs as we can find.

Loud noises or new situations can also be very stressful for her. She has the desire to be part of the fun on Halloween, but as the day approaches the pressure may be too much, the costume may be too uncomfortable and walking around in the dark knocking on strangers’ doors may be too scary. I usually end up frustrated and she ends up disappointed. But this year we are taking a different approach to the holiday by following these tips, which can help other families dealing with SPD enjoy Halloween, too.

PREPARE YOUR CHILD Prior to the big day, talk about how you will celebrate. Discuss what situations may be challenging and what will help your child feel more comfortable. If door-to-door trick-or-treating is scary, try a practice run. Ask neighbors, friends or family if your child can knock on their door before the day of Halloween so he or she will know what to expect. Have your child try on the costume and make any needed adjustments to make it feel as comfortable as possible.

COSTUMES This is usually a huge challenge for a child with SPD but luckily there are a lot of options.

For instance, wearing her favorite clothes and painting her face is what makes my daughter feel comfortable. Other kids may like wearing their favorite pajamas or other soft clothing under a costume so they don’t feel the itchy fabric on their skin. If your child does not want to dress up at all, try letting the little trick-or-treater ride in a decorated wagon to still feel like part of the fun.

Other simple ideas: use a prop, find a silly T-shirt or incorporate tools, such as noise-canceling headphones, into your child’s costume. And never make your child feel that they are odd if they don’t like to dress-up or go trick-or-treating.

PLAN AHEAD Try to be flexible and prepare a backup plan. My daughter was very excited about Halloween and even wore her costume to school, but when the time came to go trick-or-treating with her siblings, she was overwhelmed. It is OK if your child decides to stay home and hand out candy, needs to take a break during trick-or-treating or wants to head home early. Parents may also look for alternative fun activities, such as a nearby church’s fall party that’s not scary, costume-optional and offered during the day.

It’s understandable that Halloween traditions may not always sound appealing or make sense to kids with SPD. Consider coming up with your own traditions, such as painting pumpkins, baking treats or going to dinner or a movie. With a little extra effort, planning, practice and flexibility, Halloween can be a holiday that’s fun for sensory-sensitive kids as well as the rest of your family.

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HALLOWEEN From Trick-or-Treating to Homemade Costumes, Halloween Traditions Still Make for Sweet Connections

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t’s no accident that retailers begin displaying Halloween items as early as August. Halloween generates approximately $9 billion dollars in annual revenue, making it second only to Christmas as the most profitable holiday.

However, the traditions that we associate with Halloween weren’t initially commercial in nature. They were meant to protect and connect families. And despite the current commercialization of the holiday, that spirit is still reflected in the following traditions.

TRICK-OR-TREATING: Many believe trick-or-treating originated with the ancient Gaelic festival of Samhain, which fell on Oct. 31.

Villagers wore animal skins and left out food to ward off evil spirits. Later, Irish and Scottish children would perform a “trick” in exchange for treats. These traditions made their way to the United States via immigration, but the 20th century derailed trickor-treating, since during the Great Depression youths commonly vandalized property and World War II brought sugar rations.

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The tradition re-emerged when suburban baby boomers began to organize neighborhood Halloween parties. Initially more of a diversion than a celebration, the gatherings would be used by adults to bribe kids who might otherwise misbehave on the holiday, says Lisa Morton, author of Trick or Treat: A History of Halloween. Today, over 70 percent of households participate in trick-or-treating, either by visiting homes in search of candy or by handing it out. The tradition is still practical, since a face-to-face connection with our neighbors contributes to a sense of belonging and security.

JACK-O’-LANTERNS: Most historians believe that the carving and lighting of vegetables started in Ireland with a trickster named “Stingy Jack.” After Jack unsuccessfully attempted to deceive the devil, he was forced to walk in darkness for eternity. To light his way, Jack placed coal into the shell of a carved turnip. This story became an Irish legend called “Jack of the Lantern” or “jack- o’-lantern.”

As a result, the Irish began to light and display carved potatoes and turnips to discourage spirits. Irish immigrants brought this tradition to America, which had plenty of pumpkins for carving.

Almost half of current households carve about $618 million worth of jack-o’-lanterns per year, with the added value of helping children display something tangible created with their own two hands.

BOBBING FOR APPLES: Initially thought to be a Roman tradition meant to celebrate the goddess of fruit, bobbing for apples eventually morphed into a courting ritual by the 17th century. If a young girl bit into an apple on the first try, it meant that her romance would succeed.

These rituals were culturally important because they offered a fun way to bring young people together at a time when marriage and large families were necessary. Fun games with friends may not always serve the same purposes today, but they can certainly guard against social isolation and encourage meaningful connections.

COSTUMES: During Samhain, people sometimes dressed in disguise while swiping food meant to discourage spirits. Welsh children often dressed as the opposite gender when they visited homes during All Saint’s Day. However, costumes didn’t become mainstream until the Industrial Revolution, when people began to crave escapism. Today’s most popular costumes are princesses, animals and superheroes.

Consumers spend around $3.4 billion dollars per year on costumes, but many families opt to make their own since this fosters creativity, allows for personalization and saves money. Though pets wear 10% of all costumes, it’s mostly humans who still enjoy pretending to be someone else, if only for a night.

HAYRIDES: This tradition began as a way for farm workers to catch a cushioned ride atop bales of hay on the way to work. By the 19th century, farm life became romanticized by urban families, so local farmers monetized this trend. In addition to hayrides, many also offered corn mazes and pumpkin patches. Haunted hayrides capitalized on the growing popularity of Halloween and are a $300 million industry today.

However, there are over 2,500 hayrides worldwide, so it’s easy to find an inexpensive, family-friendly option.

HAUNTED HOUSES: Haunted houses emerged in 19th-century England when Madame Tussaud began exhibiting French monarchs with unfortunate fates. The haunted house became a cultural icon in 1969 with Disney’s Haunted Mansion. Margee Kerr, author of SCREAM: Chilling Adventures in the Science of Fear, says that because experiencing fear releases “feel good” chemicals like dopamine, scary attractions can actually encourage a sense of well-being in some.

Although most experts agree that children can differentiate between fantasy and reality by age 5, most encourage parents to delay exposure to haunted houses until a child is around 7 or has expressed his own interest. When in doubt, explore the many non-scary alternatives and re-evaluate next year.

Although Halloween has become highly commercialized, the holiday still offers inexpensive opportunities for connection. Children greatly enjoy and benefit from simple, yearly traditions. Therefore, most experts agree that it’s fine to allow kids to moderately enjoy all that Halloween has to offer. Since most kids care more about the experience than about the trappings, parents can emphasize what is truly important.

Health educator David Powell suggests that families focus not on one night of candy, but on the “social relationships and connections to others that make us human.” For many families, Halloween allows personal interaction with our families, neighbors and communities, all things that have been important for centuries but have become increasingly difficult in our technology-centered world.

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BEWARE STEREOTYPES

In contrast, some scholars caution that traditional fairy tales encourage negative stereotypes. Vanita Braver, M.D., a child psychiatrist and children’s author of Party Princess, says many fairy tales that reinforce harmful stereotypes imply that it pays to be physically pretty.

“From early childhood, little girls are read fairy tales about beautiful princesses who achieve vast treasures and riches simply because beauty makes them special,” Braver says. This is unhealthy, she adds, because it contributes to young women feeling they are inferior if they don’t meet unrealistic standards of beauty. She encourages parents to understand what messages are implied in such stories and to initiate a frank discussion about why harmful stereotypes are often both factually inaccurate and morally wrong.

“Parents are the most influential people in a child’s life,” Braver explains. “They can reinforce positive messages and counter the negative ones.”

WHAT’S APPROPRIATE?

With all of these tips in mind, how do parents determine which stories are appropriate for their children? Children should see the main character transcend the events that challenge him and persevere to become a stronger person in the end, says English professor Sylvia Baer, PhD, a professor of English and a specialist in children’s literature. She encourages parents to carefully consider not only the subject matter of a book, but also their child’s social and cognitive development.

Experts caution to never force a book on an apprehensive child and to carefully read an unfamiliar story before sharing it. If there is any doubt the child is ready, wait. For younger children, books can be preferable to movies because a book’s visuals are usually less intense, and they give children a sense of control — they can simply close the book or look away if feeling scared. Remember, too, that there are many different book versions of the same story. Many editors substantially water down or even omit scary parts in collections for younger children.

Parents can also use these books as a starting point to discuss important issues. Teacher and early childhood specialist Amelia McTamaney encourages parents to ask children to make up their own endings or to ask what they would do in the same situation. This process helps your child develop good decision-making skills under your guidance. McTamaney also says parents should not hesitate to point out any parts of a book with which they disagree. It not only defines your beliefs, it also assures kids they don’t have to believe everything they read.

Finally, don‘t worry so much that kids blur the lines between fantasy and reality. “Children know the difference between reality and fantasy and can easily digest the enormity of a character’s problem if it is presented in a fantasy-like fashion,” says award-winning children’s author Karen Rostoker-Gruber.

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Playing Nice in POLITICS How election season can teach kids important life lessons

BY CHRISTA MELNYK HINES

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rom vicious media pundits to vigorous dinner party debates to divisive Facebook exchanges, ’tis the season when there’s virtually no escape from politics — and when your kids may come home with questions about opinions they heard at school or elsewhere.

From a parenting perspective, the democratic process — and political shenanigans — provide plenty of fodder for teaching kids lessons in independent thinking, respectful discourse, values and civics.

NURTURE INDEPENDENT THINKERS Take advantage of the political process to help your children learn to think for themselves. Ask them open-ended questions to get their points of view.

“Find out what they’re thinking,” says Dr. Fran Walfish, a child and family psychotherapist. “What you want to do is stimulate their analytic, natural human curiosity.”

Watch the speeches and debates together. Ask your child who they think is telling the truth based on body language or who seems more respectful during a debate. Whether you agree or not, ask them: “Why do you feel that way? How would you solve the problem?”

Share your opinions with your children by prefacing your comments with “I feel” or “I think” and ask questions like: “I wonder how they’ll make that happen? What do you think?

How would you make it fair if you were in charge?”

AVOID ANGER As hard as it may be, try to refrain from making judgmental comments or calling candidates with whom you disagree colorful names.

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“Shouting at the TV, or at one another, presents a very negative example of responding to conflicting opinions,” says Mary Jane McKittrick, author of Boomer and Halley: Election Day, a Mom’s Choice award-winning book. Through humor and embedded life lessons, her Boomer and Halley children’s series for ages 4 to 8 tells stories of families and communities resolving difficult challenges by working together.

MODEL RESPECTFUL DIALOGUE Not all parents agree on politics, but what matters is how they discuss the issues in front of their children without raising a child’s anxiety.

Make ground rules with your spouse before engaging in the discussion: No interrupting, take turns listening and no put-downs, insults or blaming. And, if you come to an impasse, agree to disagree.

“I would love for parents to respect each other’s point of views,” says Walfish, author of The Self Aware Parent: Resolving Conflict and Building a Better Bond With Your Child. “I would also hope that they will respect their children’s point of view and be able to tolerate differences. ‘We still love each other, and I can tolerate you having powerfully different feelings than mine.’”

If you find yourself getting drawn into a heated argument around the table with loved ones, keep your cool and suggest you pick up the conversation at another time. continued on page 26

Junior Citizens Connecting kids to their community creates happier, healthier lives

BY SANDI SCHWARTZ

Sometimes we need a shake-up to wake up. This interesting time in American history is leading to a big uptick in people getting involved in politics and their local communities.

This new energy is ultimately a big positive for society because research shows that people are happier when they build relationships and open up with others in the community. It also indicates major civic progress, since only a quarter of Americans could name all three branches of government before the 2016 presidential election, according to a University of Pennsylvania survey reported in The Washington Post that September. (In case you were wondering, the branches are executive, legislative and judicial.)

Now that more people are becoming concerned about what is happening in Washington, D.C., and throughout the country, it’s an opportune time for parents to consider helping their children to learn the importance of civic responsibility. continued on page 26

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BENEFITS OF CIVIC ENGAGEMENT FOR KIDS There is a clear sociological link between social connection and happiness. When people interact with neighbors on issues that impact their lives, they can experience a greater sense of connection to those they otherwise would not have met.

That goes for children and teens as well. According to www.youth.gov, kids who volunteer are more likely to feel connected to their communities, do better in school, and are less likely to engage in risky behavior — and they’re more likely to volunteer if their entire family is involved, which has the added benefit of strengthening family bonds. Also, students who perform voluntary community service are 19 percent more likely to graduate from college than those who do not.

Additionally, college students are happier if their daily activities tend to be helpful to and valued by society, says Tufts University professor Peter Levine. In his study of the relationship between civic engagement and psychosocial well-being among college students, he concluded that those who engaged in civic activities that impacted social change had significantly better happiness scores, felt more connected to others, were more motivated to learn, and managed stress more effectively.

MAKING CIVIC ENGAGEMENT FUN FOR KIDS Children spend time in school learning about American history and government, but parents can enhance their experience from a young age by: • Reading books about American politics and government based on their age and interests. A helpful list developed by the U.S. Senate can be found at http://www.senate.gov/reference/bibliography/kids/kids.shtml • Watching movies and documentaries about history and government.

• Volunteering as a family to instill community service values.

• Encouraging their kids to join the student government or a school debate team.

• Bringing them to a political event or rally.

• Checking out kid-friendly resources online, such as www.icivics.org, kids-clerk.house.gov and “A Kids Guide to Running for President,” a virtual document that explains the presidency, voting and the inauguration.

HOW CIVIC ENGAGEMENT BOOSTS HAPPINESS Experts have found that involvement in social action, community service and political groups helps build personal connections beyond those of family, work and leisure activities — and increases personal satisfaction as people engage with others on issues of mutual interest. These activities also involve participating in the decision-making process, which has been found to boost happiness as well. Another happiness connection comes from helping those less fortunate, and the sense of living a meaningful life it provides.

Quality of life and happiness are highest in communities where residents are more socially connected, according to a Harvard Kennedy School of Government survey. The largest on American civic engagement, the survey of 30,000 people revealed that levels of civic engagement — such as how much residents trusted, socialized and joined with others — were better predictors of the quality of community life and residents’ happiness than education or income. The survey also showed that if other individuals in a community had higher civic engagement, the whole community was happier overall.

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PLAY NICE — IN POLITICS?!

Political rhetoric may be difficult for your child to comprehend, but behavior in politics can often parallel real-life situations that your child can relate to about how we should treat each other and who we can trust.

“Two political figures — they’re going to say their beliefs right out front, but wouldn’t it be nice if that was all they were doing,” Walfish says. “Instead what they’re doing is using put-downs, criticisms — willing to go forward at all costs to win.”

Perhaps the vindictive nature of politics will never change, but parents can use examples of how politicians conduct themselves to teach values about what it means to win honorably, treat others with respect and be a trustworthy friend. For example, on the playground, a child might promise your child that he can have the ball next, but then passes the ball to an ally or continues to hog the ball.

Even a young child understands that the other child’s actions are unfair.

“A good friend is someone who treats you right all of the time.

And that’s what we’re looking for in politics,” Walfish says. “And a lot of times people will say anything to get what they want, which is to win. Our job is to try to figure out who’s telling the truth, who’s going to deliver on the goods.”

CIVICS 101 Talk to your kids about the democratic process. Take them to the voting booth and follow the results on election night together to help them see the election process in action and the connection between your vote and why it matters.

Explain that politicians are public servants and they usually enter the political process in an attempt to make a difference in the lives of citizens.

“Parents can offer examples from their lives to illustrate giving to others as a positive way to explain politics,” McKittrick says.

“After all, politics exists in our families, communities, schools and workplaces — not just at the ballot box.”

TOOLS FOR TEACHING KIDS CHILDREN’S BOOKS Duck for President by Doreen Cronin This Little President: A Presidential Primer by Joan Holub That’s Not Fair!: Getting to Know Your Rights and Freedoms (CitizenKid series) by Danielle McLaughlin Doodles U.S. Government Coloring Fun by Setria James One Vote, Two Votes, I Vote, You Vote by Bonnie Worth MOVIES 1776 (ages 8+) Young Mr. Lincoln (ages 10+) Gandhi (ages 12+) Dave (ages 12+) All the President’s Men (ages 13+) Source: CommonSenseMedia.org WEBSITES www.KidPresident.com, featuring 12-year-old Robby Novak, a YouTube sensation, television star and co-author of Kid President’s Guide to Being Awesome Ben’s Guide to the U.S. Government http://bensguide.gpo.gov/CongressforKids.net

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MUSEUMS & EXHIBITS Creatures of Light OPENS OCTOBER 6

Explore nature’s bioluminescence while discovering the thousands of organisms that blink, glow, flash and flicker at this eye-catching exhibit. FROST MUSEUM OF SCIENCE, 1101 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, www.frostscience.org/light

Gold Coast Free First Saturday SATURDAY, OCTOBER 6

Bring the kids for a hands-on history lesson the first Saturday of every month when admission and museum exploration is free.

GOLD COAST RAILROAD MUSEUM,

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Giggle, Giggle, Quack

Fusing mime, ground-breaking visual effects and a techno soundtrack, this captivating group, featured on NBC’s America’s Got Talent, takes to the stage for a live show. 8pm, ADRIENNE

When the farmer’s away the animals will play in this musical about the barnyard antics that ensue when Farmer Brown leaves his city-slicker brother in charge. Come early for pre-show activities and a sweet treat for the kids. $14-$18. 11am & 1pm,

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SATURDAY, OCTOBER 20

ARSHT CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS,

1300 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 786-468-2000 www.arshtcenter.org

Ethan Bortnick

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Enjoy a captivating performance by this local 17-year old piano prodigy. Free with SIB resident ID, $10 without. 7:30-9pm, GATEWAY PARK, 151 Sunny Isles Blvd., Sunny Isles, www.sibfl.net

Guys and Dolls Jr. OCTOBER 12-21

Performers present this story about New York gamblers in the 1930s. Fridays, 7:30pm; Saturdays, 2pm & 7pm; Sundays, 5pm.

All ages. $10-$25. AREA STAGE COMPANY CONSERVATORY, 1560 S. Dixie Highway, Coral Gables, 305-666-2078 www.areastagecompany.com

AVENTURA ARTS & CULTURAL CENTER,

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Make your very own traveling parabolic sculpture, a colorful piece that curves and changes shape as you move it, by using multi-color threads and a frame during this free family day. Noon-3pm, THE WOLFSONIAN - FIU, 1001 Washington Ave., Miami Beach, 305-531-1001 www.wolfsonian.org

Sensory Friendly Saturday SATURDAY, OCTOBER 13

Great sensory experiences await at this special event designed for children with sensory processing disorder and general development delay and their families. Includes sensory-based activities, a sensory-friendly stage performance, calming movement groups, and dimmed lights and sounds. 9-11am, MIAMI CHILDREN’S MUSEUM, 980 MacArthur Causeway, Miami, 305-373-5437 www.miamichildrensmuseum.org

Trusty Sidekicks Shadow Play

HistoryMiami Free Family Fun Day

Follow the playful adventures of Flash as he goes on a journey to reunite with his own shadow during this multimedia performance.

11am, MIAMI THEATER CENTER, 9806 NE Second Ave., Miami Shores, www.mtcmiami.org

Explore the museum with the family while learning about the history and culture of Miami through interactive activities. Free. 10am-5pm, HISTORYMIAMI MUSEUM, 101 W. Flagler St., Miami, 305-375-1492 www.historymiami.org

Sesame Street Live!

Make Your Magic

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Elmo, Abby and other Sesame Street friends fill the stage with lots of magical moments during this fun-filled show. $15-$70. 6pm, WATSCO CENTER, 1245 Dauer Dr., Miami, 305-284-8686 www.watscocenter.com

Every fourth Saturday of the month kids ages 3-5 with a caregiver can build on foundations of literacy with a gallery experience, a story reading and related art activity. 11am-noon, PÉREZ ART MUSEUM MIAMI, 1103 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 305-375-3000 www.pamm.org

KIDZ BOP

Bass Babies

An adaption of the classic love story about a bookish princess and beastly prince is told through live theater. 2pm, ACTORS’

The KIDZ BOP Kids take center stage performing kid-friendly versions of today’s biggest hits. $29.50 and up. 7pm, THE FILLMORE MIAMI

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BEACH AT THE JACKIE GLEASON THEATER,

280 Miracle Mile, Coral Gables, 305-444-9293 www.actorsplayhouse.org

1700 Washington Ave., Miami Beach, 305-673-7300 www.fillmoremb.com

An art program especially for little ones designed to foster new discoveries in sensory awareness, creativity, and pre-literacy skills through hands-on activities. $10. Ages 2-4. 10:30-11:30am, THE BASS MUSEUM OF ART, 2100 Collins Ave., Miami Beach, 305-673-7530 www.thebass.org

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WEDNESDAYS & FRIDAYS

FAIRS, FESTIVALS & SPECIAL EVENTS Oktoberfest

Oktoberfest Miami

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 6

Bring the family to this 27th annual event for a taste of German culture, language, food, music and more. $1/ticket for refreshments and rides.

Noon-7pm, GERMAN-AMERICAN SOCIAL CLUB, 11919 SW 56 St., Miami, www.gipa.org

Miami Carnival SUNDAY, OCTOBER 7

An all day event that celebrates a kaleidoscope of Caribbean cultures through a parade of bands, colorful costumes, flavorful food and more. Tickets available in advance online. 11am-11pm, MIAMI-DADE COUNTY FAIRGROUNDS, 10901 SW 24 St., Miami, www.miamibrowardcarnival.com

Paws in the Pool SUNDAY, OCTOBER 7

Bring your four-legged friend for a cool dip in the pool. Proof of rabies vaccination required. $5.50/dog, $3.50/human (must be at least 3 years old to enter).10am-1pm for small dogs up to 30 pounds; 1:30-4:30pm for large dogs 31 pounds and up. VENETIAN POOL, 2701 De Soto Blvd., Coral Gables, 305-460-5306 www.coralgables.com

Brickell Art Festival

FRIDAYS-SUNDAYS OCTOBER 12-14 & 19-21

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, OCTOBER 20-21

Fifth annual event features more than 100 fine arts and crafts vendors, music, and more. Free.

11am-7pm, SOUTH MIAMI AVENUE FROM CORAL WAY TO SW 14 TERRACE, Miami, 786-558-5234 www.miamieventsandfestivals.com

Celebrate German culture through food, folk dancing and fun activities including bounce houses, rides and games. Adult day pass/$10, child and young adult day pass/$5, VIP pass/$30.

Friday, 6pm-midnight; Saturdays, 1pm-midnight; and Sundays, noon-10pm. GERMAN AMERICAN SOCIAL CLUB OF GREATER MIAMI, 11919 SW 56 St., Miami, 305-552-5123 www.gascmiami.org

Gables Hispanic Festival

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, OCTOBER 20-21

Experience a weekend of art, culture, dance, music and performances. A children’s pavilion includes bounce houses and face painting.

Saturday, noon-9pm; Sunday, noon-8pm.

Adventure Day for All SATURDAY, OCTOBER 13

BILTMORE WAY AND LEJEUNE ROAD,

Event embraces people of all abilities featuring a resource fair, challenges, crafts and other activities. Free. 10am-2pm, CORAL GABLES CITY HALL, 405 Biltmore Way, Coral Gables, www.coralgables.com

Coral Gables, 305-667-0577 www.gableshispanicfestival.com

Kiteober Festival

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, OCTOBER 20-21

Go fly a kite along with kite enthusiasts who will release both large and small kites high into the sky. Additional activities include kite competitions for adults and kids, bounce houses, face painters, music and games. Admission/free, parking/$7.

Noon-5pm, SKYWARD KITES AT HAULOVER PARK, 10800 Collins Ave., Miami Beach, 305-893-0906 www.skywardkites.com

South Beach Seafood Festival SATURDAY, OCTOBER 20

Enjoy surf, sand and seafood with the family at this day-long event that spans four blocks. $45/adult, free/under 10. Noon-7pm, LUMMUS PARK, 14th Street and Ocean Drive, South Beach, www.sobeseafoodfest.com

COMMUNITY ACTIVITIES Skygazing

Movie Night

Peer through a telescope and view the planets, moons and satellites in the nighttime sky. Weather permitting. All ages. 7pm, NORTH

Bring your family for a twilight, flashlight-led stroll through the winding garden paths followed by a full-length featured flick in the Banyan Bowl. October features: LEGO Batman Movie. $5. Gates open at 6:30pm, movie begins at 8pm. PINECREST GARDENS, 11000 Red Rd., Pinecrest, 305-669-6990 www.pinecrestgardens.org

TUESDAYS

DADE REGIONAL LIBRARY,

2455 NW 183 St., Miami Gardens, 305-625-6424 www.mdpls.org

National Night Out TUESDAY, OCTOBER 2

Join your community in a fun-filled night to promote neighborhood safety featuring food, music and kids’ activities.

5-9pm, HOMESTEAD POLICE HEADQUARTERS, 45 NW First Ave., Homestead, 305-224-4448 www.cityofhomestead.com

Family Movie Time THURSDAY, OCTOBER 4

Spend some quality time watching a family-friendly movie before bedtime.

All ages. 6pm, CORAL REEF BRANCH LIBRARY, 9211 SW 152 St., Miami, 305-233-8324 www.mdpls.org

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 12

MUVE Volunteer Workday

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 13

Join Frost Science for a restorative community service project and citizen science activities that include invasive plant removal, native species planting, marine debris clean up and biodiversity monitoring. Children must be accompanied by an adult. 9-11am, VIRGINIA KEY NORTH POINT,

Arthur Lamb Jr. Rd., Miami, www.frostscience.org

VIZCAYA MUSEUM & GARDENS,

3251 S. Miami Ave., Miami, 305-250-9133 www.vizcaya.org

Sea Turtle-topia

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 17

Mommy and me program encourages parents and their little ones to explore and learn about unique animals through animal interactions, presentations and arts and crafts. Ages 2-5. $10/adult, $5/child. Optional park entrance is offered to participants at a reduced fee. 10am & 1pm, MIAMI SEAQUARIUM, 4400 Rickenbacker Causeway, Miami, 305-361-5705 www.miamiseaquarium.com

Mad Scientist Meetup SATURDAY, OCTOBER 20

Kids ages 7-12 can learn about chemical reactions, electricity, circuitry and more through hands-on science experiments. $15. 10am-noon, MOONLIGHTER MAKERSPACE, 2041 NW First Place, Miami, 305-699-2041 www.moonlighter.com

Share the Road

Cooking with Common Threads SUNDAY, OCTOBER 14

Marinera 305

Bring your bicycle to this safety and ride event that includes a bike rodeo, presentations, giveaways, helmet fitting and more. The bike ride begins at 10am. 9am, FOUNDERS PARK, 3105 NE 190 St., Aventura, 305-466-3883 www.cityofaventura.com

Harvest plant edibles from Vizcaya’s kitchen garden and then cook up a delicious dish. Price includes admission to the main house and gardens after the program. $18/adult, $6/child 6-12, free/5 and under. 11am-1pm,

Celebrate Hispanic heritage with an interactive dance performance by dancers dedicated to sharing Peruvian culture and heritage with the community. All ages. 11am,

SUNDAY, OCTOBER 7

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 20

MIAMI LAKES BRANCH LIBRARY,

Every effort has been made to provide accurate information. Changes and cancellations do occur. Please double check the details before setting out on your adventure.

6699 Windmill Gate Rd., Miami Lakes, 305-822-6520 www.mdpls.org

Movies at the Park FRIDAY, OCTOBER 26

Bring lawn chairs or blankets to watch a family-friendly film on a giant inflatable movie screen. 7:30-10pm, DOWNTOWN DORAL PARK, 8395 NW 53 St., Doral, www.cityofdoral.com

Bird & Wildlife Weekend SATURDAY-SUNDAY, OCTOBER 27-28

Explore and learn about the wildlife that calls the garden home and then adventure through the grounds on a nature hunt. $25/adult, $12/child.

9:30am-4:30pm, FAIRCHILD TROPICAL BOTANIC GARDEN, 10901 Old Cutler Rd., Coral Gables, 305-667-1651 www.fairchildgarden.org

Origamination SATURDAYS

Let your creativity unfold as you create a variety of origami designs from simple to complex. Ages 5-12. 3pm, LAKES OF THE MEADOW BRANCH LIBRARY, 4284 SW 152 Ave., Miami, 305-222-2149 www.mdpls.org

WANT MORE FUN?

For more local events, see our listing of Halloween activities on page 12, or check our online calendar at miamidadefamilylife.com

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WORDS of wisdom

A Treetop Triumph MOM FINALLY GETS HER COURAGE UP — WAY UP

BY JENNA GLATZER

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need you to understand that I got so motion sick on the Dumbo ride at Disney World that I had to sit out for several hours, which meant a lot of apologizing to my 4-year-old daughter, Sarina. It’s just the two of us; if I can’t go to the next ride, neither can she. Six years later, it’s still the two of us, and there’s a lot she’s had to skip because I can’t accompany her.

“That’s OK, Mom,” she says, but it gnaws at me. I want to be braver for her.

So I surprised both of us when I signed us up for a Treetop Adventure: an aerial obstacle course and series of zip lines high up in the woods.

(We had watched American Ninja Warrior the night before and I may have gotten swept up in the excitement.)

Rules dictated that she was to be adult-supervised at all times.

“Look at that T-shirt for sale,” she said with a grin as I filled out paperwork. It said, “I SURVIVED the Treetop Adventure.”

“Does anyone not survive?”

We joined about 14 strangers for training. “Who wants to go first?” asked the guide, Doug.

“MEEEEEEEE,” my daughter called.

She fearlessly walked a tightrope, transitioned to moving planks, and screamed “PEANUT BUTTER AND JELLYYYYYYY” as she barreled down the zip line.

Soon it was my turn — and I froze.

“How?!” I called out. “I don’t understand how anyone did this!”

“Just walk with confidence!” Doug responded.

People were waiting behind me and I couldn’t move.

“Go sideways,” Doug suggested. I turned and gripped the cable above until my fingernails dug into my palms, and I shuffled across. What made me think I could handle this?

I looked at Sarina gravely.

“I’m sorry. There’s no way I’ll make it all the way.

But I’ll get as far as I can.”

I stayed focused on only my next step. My heart thundered and my breathing was so loud that the man behind me said, “It’s OK, take your time.” Bless him.

A woman up ahead yelled “Guide!” and Doug gave her a pep talk that must not have taken, because he soon lowered her

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to the ground.

Now I had a goal. I didn’t want to be tied for the first to quit. I had to finish that obstacle… which I did. The third one, too.

Then someone else quit, and I realized in amazement, “I’m not the first OR second to quit.”

By the fifth obstacle, tears stung my eyes and I told Doug that I wasn’t going to finish the course. “But I want my daughter to be proud of me,” I said. “I’m going to keep at it until I can’t.

Just watch out for me, OK?” When we hit the halfway mark an hour later, he told me: “You did good. It’s OK to drop out here if you want.”

He didn’t say Sarina would have to leave. This was my out — and I didn’t take it.

“If you don’t mind that I’m slowing you down, I’ll keep trying,” I said.

I surprised myself... if Sarina could keep going without me, why was I torturing myself? I realized I didn’t just want my daughter to be proud of me. I wanted me to be proud of me, too.

I dug deeper than I ever have, balancing on shaky legs, gripping with numb hands. I can do this and I am doing this.

I finished that course.

After two and a half hours, my feet hit the ground and I screamed out to the world, “I DID IT!” I threw my arms around Sarina and Doug, who agreed that what I had done was very fine indeed.

And I bought the T-shirt.

Jenna Glatzer is the author or ghostwriter of more than 30 books, including Celine Dion’s authorized biography.

These days she is keeping her feet on the ground.

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