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Get ‘Em Moving! 23 ways to keep kids active, inside and out, in the winter

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Things to Do This Month Ice-Skating Rinks in Staten Island Snow Tubing Near Staten Island Honoring MLK Day

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appy 2022! How weird does that sound? When did we get 22 years into the new century? Can we even still call it the “new” century? I guess it’s true what they say: The days are long, but the years are short. I think they say that specifically about parenting, but if you’re reading this, you’re most likely a parent and can relate. I hope your family enjoyed a beautiful holiday season and rang in the new year surrounded by friends and loved ones. But now that it’s all over, it’s time to face facts. Winter is no longer coming; it’s here. Are you prepared for cold weather and cabin fever? In this issue, we’re helping you stave off the dreaded winter doldrums with endless family activities and fun! There’s no need to sit home all winter long, waiting for the warm weather to return while listening to the kids’ complaints of boredom. Flip to p. 10 for January’s top events in and near Staten Island to start planning out your month. Then check out our roundup of the best ice-skating spots where you can spin, soar, glide—and hopefully not fall too many times—on the ice (p. 14). And if you are a little prone to falling, give snow tubing a try! We’ve listed a bunch of our favorite tubing spots for when the flakes start coming down hard (p. 18). And keep your family moving and grooving with the activities on p. 20. Combat cries of boredom at home with ways to celebrate MLK Day on p. 34, where you’ll find four awesome ideas to honor Martin Luther King, Jr while learning about the importance of the Civil Rights Movement. On p. 32, we’re sharing a bunch of great podcasts that will finally give the kids a reason to shut off YouTube for a while. Did the new year bring you a new job? Start your search for the perfect day care in our 2022 Preschool & Day Care Directory (p. 26) and be sure to check out our top tips for choosing the right one for your child (p. 24). Don’t forget to follow us on Instagram and Facebook @SIParent for family fun ideas all winter long. And be the first to know what’s happening for families on the Island by signing up for our newsletter at siparent.com/signup. Happy January!

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Local news, major events, community updates, and hot topics BY BARBARA RUSSO

NEW CAMPAIGN AIMS TO REDUCE SKIN CANCER, INCREASE HPV VAX AMONG ADOLESCENTS A new awareness program has launched to help reduce skin cancer on Staten Island, where incidences of melanoma are higher compared to the rest of the city, according to the NYS Department of Health. The program is being implemented by the Office of Community Outreach and Engagement at the Columbia University Herbert Irving Comprehensive Cancer Center through a grant from the Cancer Prevention in Action program, part of the state’s Department of Health and Health Research, Inc. Funds from the grant will also support raising awareness about the benefits of the human papillomavirus vaccine for adolescents. The program aims to reduce skin cancer rates in Staten Island by raising awareness about the dangers of indoor tanning and the importance of widespread adoption of sun safety practices like seeking shade and using sunscreen. Led by COE director Mary Beth Terry, Ph.D., the program includes activities centered around community education and paid, earned, and social media outreach to disseminate key messages. “COE is really excited to partner with our community advisors and partners on Staten Island to focus on reducing the burden of cancer through programs that directly address cancer risk factors 8 January 2022 • siparent.com

Team members from Columbia Office of Community Outreach and Engagement and Richmond University Medical Center delivering sunscreen dispensers to a community farm at Snug Harbor Cultural Center and Botanical Garden

in adolescence and young adulthood,” said Dr. Terry, who is also a professor of epidemiology at Columbia’s Mailman School of Public Health and co-leader of the Cancer Population Science research program at the HICCC. Several borough-wide institutions have jumped on board with the program, including Richmond University Medical Center’s school-based health center at Wagner High School and Snug Harbor Cultural Center and Botanical Garden, both of which started displaying sun safety information and giving sun safety training to staff.

The program also addresses the low rates of HPV vaccination in adolescents across Staten Island. HPV can cause six different types of cancers and is responsible for most cases of cervical cancer. Among the boroughs, Staten Island has the lowest rate of HPV vaccination for adolescents, according to the NYC Department of Health and Mental Hygiene. The program works to improve awareness about the protective benefits of the HPV vaccine and increase vaccination rates by providing educational opportunities to community organizations, schools, and health care providers.

SNUG HARBOR ANNOUNCES NEW PRESIDENT AND CEO Snug Harbor Cultural Center and Botanical Garden has selected Jessica Baker Vodoor to be the new president and CEO of the 83-acre site and historic cultural institution on the North Shore. Vodoor will assume the role on Jan. 10. Previously, Vodoor served as the vice president of operations for the New 42nd Street for 8 years in Times Square. While there, she directed the operations of the New 42 Studios and the Duke on 42nd Street. She also led the historic preservation and real estate adaptive re-use efforts for multiple historic Broadway theater sites in the area. “On behalf of the Board of Directors and the search committee, I am excited to welcome Jessica to Snug Harbor,” said Snug Harbor Chairman Mark Lauria. “The search committee interviewed multiple candidates, but Jessica stood out from the very beginning.” Vodoor, who has degrees in public administration and theater, took her talents abroad prior to her time at New 42nd Studios. She spent 2 years in Macau, China, as the general manager of the Franco Dragone Entertainment Group during the construction, pre-operations, and world premiere of The House of Dancing Water, a water-based stage production written and directed by Franco Dragone. She also spent 10 years in progressive roles with the Jessica Baker Vodoor, the new president and CEO of Snug Blue Man Group, overseeing theatrical facilities and operations projects in Harbor Cultural Center and Botanical Garden such cities as New York, Las Vegas, and Chicago.

STATEN ISLAND BREAKS GROUND ON PLAYGROUND RENOVATION Staten Islanders gathered recently at a groundbreaking ceremony for the playground at P.S. 45, West Brighton, that will bear the names of Capt. John R. Fischer and Firefighter Michael C. Fiore, both of whom died in the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks on the World Trade Center. SI Borough President James Oddo, along with school officials, students, and the families of Fischer and Fiore, attended the event. Funds allocated from the borough president’s office will replace and paint the asphalt, buy new play

equipment, and create a basketball court. Fischer and Fiore grew up in the West Brighton neighborhood and played at the P.S. 45 playground when they were kids, eventually raising their own families in the same community. A plaque with their names was replaced in 2019, but the new playground in their honor is expected to be completed in November 2022. “We are thrilled to be able to fund a brand-new playground that is worthy to bear the names of the two heroes: Captain John R. Fischer and Firefighter Michael C. Fiore,” Oddo said. “While it was a long road to get to this point, this is another important day that puts the kids first, providing yet another place of recreation for students and the entire community.”

IMPORTANT PUBLIC SCHOOL DATES

• Jan. 17: Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day – schools are closed

• Jan 25-28: Regents administration

• Jan. 31: Professional development day for 6-12 and 9-12 schools – students in these schools do not attend

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Things to Do in January Wreath Interpretations

Through Jan. 6: Monday-Friday, 9am-5pm

Arsenal Gallery, 64th Street and Fifth Avenue, Central Park, Manhattan Head to Manhattan to see the NYC Parks Department’s annual Wreath Interpretations exhibit, featuring wreaths made by nearly 40 artists, designers, and creative individuals of all ages who have used unconventional materials to reinvent the traditional wreath. Free!

Dinosaur World Live

Saturday, Jan. 8, 1pm

he new year is here, and there are plenty of fun activities planned throughout the borough! Here are some of this month’s most exciting events in Staten Island and nearby. Be sure to call ahead or visit event websites to confirm details and COVID precautions. Go to siparent.com/events for details on the events listed here and even more stuff to do with your family throughout the month!

New Year’s Day Hike

Saturday, Jan. 1, 10-11:30am

Greenbelt Nature Center, 700 Rockland Ave. Join the Urban Park Rangers on this nature hike in the Greenbelt. Free!

Birding: Winter Waterfowl

Sunday, Jan. 2, 9-10am

Wolfe’s Pond Park, 420 Cornelia Ave. Gather the family and flock to Wolfe’s Pond Park to see some of NYC’s winter

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birds. Appropriate for all skill levels, and beginners are welcome. Bring your own binoculars. Free!

Sunrise Card Show

Sunday, Jan. 2, 9am-2pm

Bernikow JCC, 1466 Manor Road The Sunrise Card Show will feature in-person celebrity athlete autograph signings (11am-1pm), and more than 50 tables featuring sports, non-sports, gaming, Pokémon, comics, toys, and more. Table and entry fees benefit the Lucille and Jay Chazanoff Sunrise Day Camp.

State Theatre New Jersey, 15 Livingston Ave., NJ Have a roarsome time at Dinosaur World Live! See life-like dinos including triceratops, segnosaurus, and, of course, the giant and fearsome T. rex.

NYC Winter Lantern Festival

Through Jan. 9: Friday-Sunday, 4:30-9:30pm

Snug Harbor Cultural Center and Botanical Garden, 1000 Richmond Terrace Catch the NYC Winter Lantern Festival before it ends for the season. See an 8-acre light installation with brilliant displays of flowers, an open sky, and deep-sea adventures.

Little Movers Story Time

Teen Movie Mondays

Great Kills Library, 56 Giffords Lane Join the library to hear stories and sing songs as you help your child build important early learning skills. Ages 18 months to 5 years and caregivers. Registration required online.

West New Brighton Library, 976 Castleton Ave. Teens: Head to the library for a movie night! Enjoy a different movie screening each week. Free!

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Things to Do in January Cont’d

Kids Art Lab

Thursday, Jan. 6, 4-5pm

Todt Hill-Westerleigh Library, 2550 Victory Blvd. Kids will create what they want with a variety of art supplies. For ages 5-12 and caregivers. Registration required. 718-494-1642.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day Button Making

Thursday, Jan. 13, 4-5pm

West New Brighton Library, 976 Castleton Ave. Use the library’s button maker to create custom designs in honor of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day. Ages 10-18. Free!

Tavern Concerts

Jan. 15-March 26, Saturdays, 6pm and 8pm

Historic Richmond Town, 441 Clarke Ave. This indoor winter concert series will take place in the newly restored Guyon Tavern. The tavern boasts a wood-burning stove, flickering candles, live music, and the feel of a 19th-century saloon.

Family Painting Party: Snowman at Night Canvas

Sunday, Jan. 16, 11am-1pm

Ocean County Artists Guild, 22 Chestnut Ave., Island Heights, NJ Create an adorable painting on an

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11-by-14-inch canvas. Fun for all ages. Enjoy some refreshments while you paint, too!

Soul of a Hurricane: The Perfect Storm & an Accidental Sailor

Sunday, Jan. 23, 2-4pm

National Lighthouse Museum, 200 The Promenade at Lighthouse Point Enjoy this presentation and book signing event.

Cardboard Race Cars

Thursday, Jan. 27, 4-5pm

Todt Hill-Westerleigh Library, 2550 Victory Blvd. Join staff from the Todt Hill-Westerleigh Library for an exciting, hands-on program dedicated to using upcycled cardboard and a bit of brainpower to make your own race car. Ages 5-12 with a caregiver. Registration required; opens Jan. 20 at 10am: 718-494-1642.

Destination Motown Featuring The Sensational Soul Cruisers

Saturday, Jan. 29, 8pm

St. George Theatre, 35 Hyatt St. The Sensational Soul Cruisers is a show band that performs “Destination Motown,” delivering hits by the Temptations, the Jackson Five, Marvin Gaye, The Four Tops, and others.

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Let’s Go Ice–Skating! These are the top 14 rinks in Staten Island, NYC, and New Jersey that offer public skating sessions. BY BARBARA RUSSO

ooking for a great place to go ice-skating in Staten Island with your kids? We’ve rounded up indoor and outdoor ice-skating rinks in Staten Island, plus a few rinks that are worth the trip to Manhattan, Brooklyn, and nearby New Jersey. Note: Skating dates are projected and may change pending weather conditions. We recommend calling ahead to confirm skating hours and COVID-19 precautions before visiting any of these locations.

STATEN ISLAND Staten Island Skating Pavilion Ice Skating Rink

Indoor rink 3080 Arthur Kill Road thepavilion.org • 718-605-4800 Hours: Fridays, 8:10-10:10pm; Saturdays, 2:30-4:30pm and 8-10pm; Sundays, 2:30-4:30pm. Check the website for a holiday schedule. Price: $14; $12 children. $7 skate rental. Group rates available. Enjoy public skating and take lessons at this indoor rink located on Staten Island’s South Shore. 14 January 2022 • siparent.com

WWll Veterans War Memorial Ice Skating Rink

Outdoor rink Victory Boulevard, west of Clove Road nycgovparks.org 718-720-1010 Hours: Friday, 4-10pm; Saturday, 12-4:30pm and 7-10pm; Sunday, 12-6pm Price: Call for information Enjoy ice-skating at this rink in one of Staten Island’s public parks. Call in advance, as info is subject to change.

MANHATTAN Bank of America Winter Village at Bryant Park

Outdoor rink 40th-42nd streets between Fifth and Sixth avenues, Midtown bryantpark.org 212-768-4242 Hours: Through March 6, 2022: MondayThursday, 8am-10pm. Friday-Sunday and holidays, 8am-11:30pm. Price: Admission to the rink is free, but skate rentals are $15-$45. Skate sizes kids 6-4 and adults 5-14 are available.

This annual ice-skating event at Bryant Park is a holiday must-do in NYC becuase it also features its famous Winter Village Holiday Market. This year, the holiday market is hosting more than 170 merchants and food vendors from New York City and around the world.

The Rink at Brookfield Place

Outdoor rink 230 Vesey St., upper plaza between the Winter Garden and the North Cove Marina, Tribeca therinkatbrookfieldplace.net 212-978-1698 Hours: Monday-Friday, 2-9:15pm; Saturday-Sunday and holidays, 9am-9:15pm; reserve your time online in advance. Price: $17 single session (60 minutes); $5 skate rental. Enjoy ice-skating at this water-side rink in Manhattan’s bustling Downtown area. The rink offers public skating, private lessons, birthday parties, and special events packages. Then do a little shopping and grab a bite to eat at Brookfield Place. continued on p. 16

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The Rink at Rockefeller Center

Outdoor rink Fifth Avenue, between 49th and 50th streets, Rockefeller Center rockefellercenter.com • 212-771-7200 Hours: Through March 6, 2022: daily, 9am-12am Price: $20-54 for anyone ages 6 and older; $8-22 for children ages 5 and younger. $10 skate rental. Set in the world-famous Rockefeller Center, this rink is one of the most popular holiday attractions in NYC. Enjoy skating and take photos with the Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree as your backdrop.

Wollman Rink

Outdoor rink Central Park (enter at 59th Street and Sixth Avenue) wollmanrinknyc.com • 212-439-6900 Hours: Monday-Tuesday, 10am-2:30pm; Wednesday-Thursday, 10am-10pm; Friday-Saturday, 10am-11pm; Sunday, 10am-9pm Price: Monday-Thursday: $14; $6 children ages 11 and younger; $5 seniors. FridaySunday and holidays: $23; $6 children ages 11 and younger; $9 seniors. $11 skate rentals. A mainstay in New York City for more than 70 years, this outdoor rink offers public skating, neighborhood events, and artistic programming.

Sky Rink at Chelsea Piers

Indoor rink 61 Chelsea Piers, Chelsea chelseapiers.com • 212-336-6100 Hours: Check the calendar online. Registration is required. Prices: $20; $10 skate rental A year-round NYC ice-skating destination since 1969, this rink offers public skating, birthday party packages, and programs for youth and adults!

BROOKLYN IC Ice Rink

Outdoor rink Courtyard 5/6, between 34th and 35th streets and 2nd and 3rd avenues, Industry City 16 January 2022 • siparent.com

industrycity.com • 718-619-8664 Hours: Thursday, 4-8pm; Friday, 12-8pm; Saturday, 11am-8pm; Sunday, 11am-6pm Price: $12; $10 skate rentals After you’re done ice-skating at this Brooklyn rink, Industry City offers a lot of additional activities. Visit some of the hundreds of restaurants, shops, and other businesses located in this popular creative hub.

LeFrak Center at Lakeside

Outdoor rink 171 East Drive, Southeastern Prospect Park lakesidebrooklyn.com • 718-462-0010 Hours: Covered Rink: MondayThursday, 9am-4:30pm; Friday, 9am-7pm; Saturday, 1-9pm; Sunday, 1-4:30pm. Open-air Rink: MondayThursday, 9am-7pm; Friday-Saturday, 9am-9pm; Sunday, 9am-7pm Price: $8 Monday-Friday; $12 SaturdaySunday; $8 skate rentals This year-round recreation center offers roller skating in warmer weather, and then ice-skating in the winter.

Abe Stark Skating Rink

Indoor rink 1902 Surf Ave., Coney Island nycgovparks.org • 718-946-3135 Hours: Check the website or call for public skating availability Price: $10; $5 skate rental Quirky Coney Island is home to the beach, an amusement park, and the New York Aquarium, but did you know there’s also an ice rink here?

NEW JERSEY Roosevelt Park Family Ice Skating Rink

Outdoor rink 151 Parsonage Road, Edison middlesexcountynj.gov 732-494-3785 Hours: Through March 27, 2022: Wednesday-Friday, 6:30-8:30pm; Saturday-Sunday, 3-5pm and 6:30-8:30pm Prices: $6; $5 children ages 17 and younger and seniors; $5 skate rental

This scenic ice-skating rink in New Jersey overlooks the lake in Roosevelt Park. Lessons are available.

Pro Skate

Indoor rink 1000 Cornwall Road, Monmouth Junction proskatenj.com • 732-940-6400 Hours: Check website for public skate sessions Prices: $16; includes skate rental Glide on the ice at this central New Jersey ice-skating rink that offers public skating, lessons, hockey programs, and more. After skating, visit Tony Loco’s concession area for a snack.

Warinanco Sports Center

Indoor rink 1 Park Drive, Roselle warinancopark.com • 908-298-7849 Hours: Tuesday and Thursday, 10am-12pm; Friday, 8-10pm; Saturday, 10:15am-12:15pm; 1:45-3:45pm; 8:30-10:30pm; Sunday, 1:30-3:30pm. Tickets must be purchased online. Prices: $6; $5 kids and seniors; $5 skate rentals Public ice-skating is available at this newly renovated sports center. In warmer weather—or if you’re okay with the cold—enjoy scenic trails through the 205 acres of parkland. Other amenities and activities for families and kids include boating, a new café, and more.

Westfield Rink

Indoor rink 650 Fourth Ave., Westfield thewestfieldrink.com • 908-687-8610 Hours: Friday, 7:30-9pm; Saturday, 3-4:30pm and 7:30-9pm; Sunday, 2:30-4pm. Pre-registration online is required. Prices: $11; $6 skate rental New in the community, this Union County ice-skating rink was built in 2018. Families and kids can enjoy public skating, and family and open hockey. Lessons for all skill levels are available on the weekends.

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Downhill Thrills

These snow tubing parks near Staten Island offer thrills that are a little more exciting than the neighborhood sledding spot. BY BARBARA RUSSO

f your kids love sledding on neighborhood hills but want more of a thrill, head to one of these snow tubing parks near Staten Island for some downhill fun! It’s the perfect way to experience the thrills of skiing or snowboarding if your kids haven’t learned how yet. Many of these snow tubing locations are within a 2-hour drive from Staten Island, making them the perfect winter day trip destination. So, grab your snow pants, coats, boots, hats, and mittens, and head to one of these family-friendly snow tubing parks for a day of fun.

SOUTHEAST NEW YORK Mount Peter 51 Old Mt. Peter Road, Warwick mtpeter.com • 845-986-4940

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Hours: Sessions available on Thursday (special groups only), Friday-Sunday Distance from Staten Island: Approximately a 1½-hour car ride This Orange County ski resort features a speedy, multi-lane, 600-foot tubing run that is equipped with a carpet lift to bring riders back to the top of the hill. Riders must be 42 inches or taller to ride single. Tubers who are 36-48 inches tall may ride in tandem with a paying adult. There is a winter wonderland complete with a kid-size tubing hill for children shorter than 42 inches tall. Supervision is required.

Holiday Mountain Ski and Fun Park 99 Holiday Mountain Road, Monticello holidaymtn.com • 845-796-3161

Hours: Friday, Saturday, and Sunday sessions available Distance from Staten Island: Approximately a 2-hour car ride Slide down a mountain at this resort in Sullivan County that has a dedicated tubing facility in addition to ski slopes and trails. Riders must be at least 44 inches tall. Call to check availability and book a time, as snow tubing sessions sell out quickly.

Rocking Horse Ranch 600 Route 44/55, Highland GPS address: 13 Pancake Hollow Road, Highland rockinghorseranch.com 800-647-2624 Hours: Check the website for reservation information

Distance from Staten Island: Approximately a 2-hour car ride Enjoy lanes that are 500 feet long. Single and double tubes are available. Riders must be at least 36 inches. The resort offers tubing all year-round, too. There’s also Cosmic Night Mountain Tubing where riders take the plunge under flashing LED lights; available on select nights.

The resort has a tubing park that spans 5 acres and features a magic carpet lift to bring riders back to the top of the hill after they slide down. All riders must be at least 42 inches tall and 5 years old. One person per tube. Snow tubing tickets are available online and on-site based upon availability.

PENNSYLVANIA Shawnee Mountain Ski Area

NEW JERSEY Campgaw Mountain 200 Campgaw Road, Mahwah skicampgaw.com • 201-327-7800 Hours: Sessions available daily: MondayThursday, 2-8pm; Friday, 1-10pm; Saturday, 8:30am-10pm; Sunday, 8:30am-8pm Distance from Staten Island: Approximately a 1-hour car ride Tubes are provided and a surface lift is available for guests to ride up the hill. Choose between different runs with varied levels of rolls and pitch. No experience or special equipment is needed. All riders must be at least 42 inches tall with a maximum weight of 300 pounds. One person per tube. 2021/2022 season passes are now available.

Mountain Creek Resort 200 Route 94, Vernon mountaincreek.com • 973-827-2000 Hours: Thursday, 4-8pm; Friday-Sunday, 10am-8pm Distance from Staten Island: Approximately a 1-hour, 30-minute car ride

401 Hollow Road, East Stroudsburg shawneemt.com • 570-421-7231 Hours: Season opening to be announced. Distance from Staten Island: Approximately a 1-hour, 30-minute car ride Shawnee Mountain’s snow tubing park features single tubes, as well as adult-and-child tandem tubes (child must be shorter than 46 inches). No special skills or equipment needed. The resort supplies the tube. There are two surface lifts to bring tubers to the top. Tickets must be purchased online.

Camelback Mountain Resort 301 Resort Drive, Tannersville camelbackresort.com • 570-629-1661 Hours: Tentative snow tubing opening date is Dec. 25. Check the website for more information. Distance from Staten Island: Approximately a 1-hour, 45-minute car ride This Pennsylvania ski resort has more than 40 snow tubing lanes to choose from. Enjoy galactic snow tubing at night, when all the lanes are aglow. Snow tubing

sessions are 2 hours and start every hour on the hour. Riders must be 44 inches tall to ride alone. Riders who are 33-43 inches tall are permitted to ride in a double tube or chain with a participating adult.

Blue Mountain Resort 1660 Blue Mountain Drive, Palmerton skibluemt.com • 610-826-7700 Hours: Tentative snow tubing opening date is Dec. 26. Thursday, 5-9pm; FridaySunday, 9am-9pm. Check the website for holiday hours. Distance from Staten Island: Approximately a 1-hour, 45-minute car ride The resort’s snow tubing park has some of the longest and fastest tubing lanes in the state. There are 46 lanes to slide down that are each more than 1,000 feet long. The park has three lifts for tubers to use. Sessions run for 3 hours.

Jack Frost and Big Boulder 434 Jack Frost Mountain Road, White Haven 357 Big Boulder Drive, Lake Harmony jfbb.com • 570-443-8425 Hours: Big Boulder Tubing: Opens Dec. 17. Friday, 4-8pm; Saturday and Sunday, 10am-8pm. Jack Frost Tubing: SaturdaySunday, 10am-4pm Distance from Staten Island: Approximately a 2-hour car ride Jack Frost and Big Boulder are companion ski resorts that offer snow tubing in Pennsylvania. Tubing is available at both locations, but there is more availability at Big Boulder.

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Get ‘Em Moving! Whether your family likes to be outdoors in the cold weather or prefers to stay inside, there are plenty of ways to keep kids active in the winter months. BY JENNIFER WEEDON PALAZZO

uring the short, cold, dreary days of winter, parents and kids alike are tempted to just hunker down for the duration. But winter doesn’t have to mean your kids turn into video-game zombies or couch potatoes—there are plenty of ways to keep kids active in the winter months. Children ages 6-17 should do at least 60 minutes of moderateto-vigorous physical activity each day, according to the 2018 Physical Activity Guidelines for Americans (yes, even in the winter months). But less than one-quarter of American children meet these guidelines, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Even in the frigid temperatures of winter, there are plenty of creative ways to keep kids active, both indoors and outdoors. Parents just need to get a bit creative to find them. Luckily, we’ve done the research for you. 20 January 2022 • siparent.com

GET MOVING OUTDOORS

There’s a saying that there is no inclement weather, only inappropriate clothing. Almost any day can be an outdoor playday with the right winter clothing and gear. So, bundle up and try these activities: Go for a Hike This is an easy family activity that can be done well into the winter. There are some beautiful family-friendly hiking trails in NYC and the surrounding suburbs, like at Greenbelt Nature Center. When there’s been a light snow, your children will feel like they are in a Winter Wonderland. At the very least, you can go for a family walk around the neighborhood. continued on p. 22

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Enjoy Winter Sporting Activities Urban areas aren’t usually thought of as prime places for snow sports, but there are several opportunities to play and exercise in and near Staten Island. » Sledding: Grab your Flexible Flyer and head to a local sledding hill for an afternoon of downhill fun! » Ice-skating: Bust out your skates and head to Staten Island Skating Pavilion or WWII Veterans War Memorial Ice Skating Rink. Or visit siparent.com/ice-skating for more locations in our area. » Skiing and snowboarding: New York area ski resorts have all implemented safety guidelines to make the downhill activity safe and fun for everyone. » Cross-country skiing and snowshoeing: Equipment can be ordered online, for instance from L.L. Bean, or purchased or rented at your local outdoor sporting equipment store. Once you have the necessary gear, check your local park’s website (or even the local golf course) to see if the sports are allowed when there’s snow on the ground. Have Fun in the Backyard After a good snow storm, put on your warm cold-weather gear and get outside for some simple snowy fun! » Build a snowman, snow animal, or other snowy sculpture! » Have a good, old-fashioned snowball fight (just make sure to set some ground rules to avoid injuries)! » Lay back and make snow angels. » Hand your kids a shovel to help clear the driveway. Okay, so this isn’t fun, per se, but you can promise them the fun will happen once the snow is cleared.

GET MOVING INDOORS

If staying inside is more your speed during the winter months, here are some ideas to keep kids active indoors: » Swim in an indoor pool. The South Shore YMCA and the Staten Island JCC both have indoor pools where families can swim. Plus, they both offer swimming lessons for kids. » Host a stair climbing challenge. See how many times your kids can go up and down the stairs in your house (if you have multiple stories) or apartment building. It’s great cardio! » Play balloon volleyball. You’ll be shocked at how delighted children are with a simple balloon to play with indoors. It can serve as a “ball” for all kinds of games, without wrecking your home or bonking anyone. 22 January 2022 • siparent.com

» Work on mastering balance. Children of all ages love perfecting their balance and often incorporate balance boards, balance beams, or steppingstones into their imaginative play. » Bounce around (if you have room). Hopping Balls are excellent indoor toys for encouraging activity. » Spin the afternoon away. You’ll be amazed at how long and how often a kid will spin on a Sit and Spin. » Have a Hula-Hoop competition. Hula Hoops are classic toys for a very good reason. Kids love them and parents may even use one to sneak in a workout. » Jump, jump, jump! Jump ropes can be used solo or with several children for double Dutch. » Walk a tightrope (don’t worry, it’s close to the ground!). An indoor slackline is a perfect physical challenge. » Crawl through tunnels and play in ball pits. Small children love to climb and play in tunnels and ball pits. Most can be easily folded up for storage. » Tire them out with jumping. Some indoor trampolines are foldable and have a weight limit that allows grown-ups to join in on the fun, too! » Flow through some yoga poses. Check out one of our favorite YouTube Channels, Cosmic Kids Yoga, for compelling and fun kids’ stories told through yoga. » Play some video games (really!). If you absolutely can’t steer your kids away from their gaming systems, make sure they’re playing fitness games to keep them active. Common Sense Media recommends Zumba Kids (Wii and Xbox) and Just Dance 2021 (PlayStation, Xbox, and Nintendo Switch) among others for families to use together. » Set up an obstacle course. Using some (or all) of the above suggestions, create an indoor obstacle course so your kids can have a friendly competition. It’ll just keep them active and having fun! Jennifer Weedon Palazzo is a writer, actor, video producer, and the founder of MomCaveTV.com, an online network of award-winning comedy videos for parents. She lives with her husband and two very spirited children.

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HOW TO Research a

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Ask these important questions to ensure you make the right choice. BY JESSICA ALLEN

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t can be hard to find a high-quality child care program that supports your child and your family, and the pandemic has made this even more challenging,” says Lynette M. Fraga, Ph.D., CEO of Child Care Aware of America. “The good news is that there are more than 400 state and local Child Care Resource and Referral agencies across the country, including in the New York metro area, that can provide parents with referrals to local child care providers, information on state licensing requirements, and where to get help paying for child care.” As part of your day care research, you’ll want to check online reviews, ask friends or family for recommendations, and post in Facebook groups. “Choosing child care is a critically important and highly personal decision,” explains Rachel Robertson, vice president of Learning and Development at Bright Horizons. “We recommend visiting centers, either virtually or in-person, and hearing from current parents about their experiences at the program.” Our comprehensive list of questions is designed to help you figure out what feels right to you as you start your own day care research and visit potential child care centers. Along with the

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questions outlined below, you’ll want to ask about cost (typically day care is most expensive for infants, then gets progressively cheaper as the studentto-teacher ratio increases and fewer in-room resources are required). Convenience is another factor: A center near your home or work might be a better option than one across town.

Questions to Ask Day Care Providers About Philosophy of Care

• What is your teacher-to-student ratio? New York State has specific guidelines that must be met in terms of both the ratio and maximum class size. • What is your teaching philosophy? Self-directed or direct instruction? • What are the accreditations of your director? Of the center? Two of the most common, and well-regarded, accreditation associations are the National Association for Family Child Care and National Association for the Education of Young Children. “Ask about additional certifications and accreditations that reflect a center’s commitment to even higher quality standards than those recommended by government agencies and regulations,” Robertson recommends.

• What is the education level of your teachers? The New York City Department of Health has qualification requirements, including required certifications. • What do the rooms look like? “The early childhood years are unique, and the classroom environments should be uniquely designed for this joyful stage,” Robertson notes. “Look for furniture that’s appropriately-sized for the youngest of children, carefully selected elements that consider safety, and materials that make the classroom feel less like a mini elementary school, and more like home. Additionally, there should be soft, clean, cozy places for quiet time, ample space for children to move and explore, and the room to be socially distant when necessary.” • Are there any periods during which kids might be unsupervised, such as during naps? • How are children toileted? At what age do you encourage toilet-training? • How are children grouped? Are there any instances in which children of different ages are grouped together (such as in a playground during drop-off or pickup)? • How do you deal with behavior issues? How are children disciplined? How are disagreements or spats between kids addressed? • Can caregivers be hired to babysit? Some centers have strict rules about parents and teachers interacting offsite.

Questions to Ask Day Care Providers About Health and Safety

• What is the center’s immunization / vaccination policy—for teachers and children? Robertson also advises families to check whether the child care program regularly confers with any medical experts. • How does the center protect against COVID-19? What happens if there is a confirmed case? • Are teachers allowed to administer medicine, including pain relief? If so, in what circumstances? • If a child becomes ill, how long must the child be kept at home before returning to the center? • How often are the toys, art supplies, tables, chairs, and other materials and furniture disinfected? • What is the security set-up? If there are cameras, who is monitoring them? How long does the center keep the footage? How are people allowed into the center? • What is the hiring process for your staff? How are your teachers screened? Is everyone given background checks? • What’s the drop-in or visitation policy? Can you stop by whenever to feed, watch, or interact with your child? • How do the teachers communicate? Do you get daily updates

via email? Texts throughout the day? “The program you select should welcome all families,” Robertson notes. “Beyond just inclusive practices and policies, the center should proactively engage voices via parent partnership groups, and welcome open, ongoing dialogue via live or virtual events and conversation.” • What is the turnover rate among your teachers? What’s the average tenure (amount of time in role)? • How often do children get to go outside? Is there an outdoor play structure? Is it loud? Near the road? Visible from the street? • Are children ever taken offsite, such as to a neighborhood playground or on a field trip? Do they walk, take public transportation, or travel by van / bus? Make sure to ask about the policy and procedures for field trips.

Questions to Ask Day Care Providers About Snacks, Screens, and Schedules

• Is food provided? How often? What kind? Are vegetarian options available? How do you address allergies? How do you address other dietary needs / restrictions? • If you must provide food for your child, how much do you need to provide (entire meals or just snacks)? Where and how is the food stored? • Are children given access to electronic devices? How often? What kinds, and to what end? Some classes might start the day with a movement class on a smartboard, for example, while others might let their kids watch a video in the unstructured time before parent pickup. • What are the center’s hours? What happens if you’re late? A center may be open from 7am-7pm, but there may be extra costs associated with dropping off or picking up your child beyond a certain window of time. • What does the daily schedule look like? Are older children assigned jobs in the classroom? • Is there a weekly learning plan? • What holidays are celebrated, and how? • Does the day care follow the NYC DOE school calendar? What about snow days? • What is the sleep schedule? Are kids allowed to sleep when they’re tired, or is there a specific time for naps?

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2022 Preschool & Day Care Directory Castleton Hill Moravian Church Preschool 1657 Victory Blvd. • 10314 718-442-5350 • Betty Jane Bullen mtobia@castletonhillpreschool.com castletonhillmoravianpreschool.com

Programs: Tot-Time-Together 12-20 months old, 2-year-old toddler classes, 3-year-old half-day classes, 3K For All, Pre-K For All Objective: A creative early childhood program where the developmentally appropriate curriculum encourages children to enjoy being young while they look forward to growing older.

The Children’s Center – College of Staten Island 2800 Victory Blvd. • 10314 Building 2R, Room 104 718-982-3190 • csi.cuny.edu/childcare

Programs: Infant/toddler programs, Preschool program, 3K and Pre-K for All full-day, school-age program (pending enrollment) Objective: Early education and child care. Flexible scheduling. Subsidized fees for children of CSI students. NAEYC accredited.

Children’s Harbor Montessori School Located in Snug Harbor Cultural Center, Building G, 3rd Floor 1000 Richmond Terrace • 10301 718-442-6112 Dina Baio-McLaughlin, Director childharborms@aol.com childrensharbormontessori.com

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programs including Pre-K for All (PKA Full Day) and Kindergarten, full- and half-day options. Objective: Since 1978, our Montessori philosophy, creative curriculum, and loving staff have developed the social, emotional, cognitive, and physical needs of our students. Each student’s unique personality is encouraged and respected as an important member of the Montessori community. Our students can work at their own pace to indulge in the innate willingness to learn.

JCC of Staten Island

1466 Manor Road • 10314 2221 Richmond Ave. • 10314 1297 Arthur Kill Road • 10312 485 Victory Blvd. • 10301 718-475-5230 Jayne Smith • jsmith@sijcc.org • sijcc.org Programs: Day care stars at 3 months, 3-K For All, and Pre-K For All. Extended hours available. Objective: We offer a stimulating, individualized, age-appropriate curriculum. A developmental approach fosters social and emotional growth.

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850 Hylan Blvd. • 10305 718-981-1187 • stjosephhillacademy.com Eileen Gregor • egregor@stjhill.org facebook.com/SJHA1919 instagram.com/sjhaes Programs: Pre-K3 to eighth grade. Pre-K3 and Pre-K4; full or half days. SJHA is a Project Lead The Way School. Objective: SJHA has been providing a premier Catholic education to the Staten Island community for more than 100 years.

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715 Todt Hill Road • 10304 718-303-7803 • statenislandacademy.org ccrane65@statenislandacademy.org Programs: Coed college prep school for Pre-K3 to grade 12. Free extended day 7am-7pm. Full-day 3- or 5-days-a-week program offered for Pre-K3 students. Summer programs. College guidance program. Academic Resource Center staffed with Orton-Gillingham trained specialists. Need-based Financial Aid available beginning in Kindergarten. Objective: Pre-K fosters independence, encourages children to pursue individual interests, and nurtures developing language and social skills.

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Programs: Full-day 2-year-old class. Free full-day 3K and pre-K. Extended hours: 7am-6pm. Objective: Tender Care Preschool is a loving and caring place for children and families. We support children where they need it and challenge them when they are ready for the next step. At Tender Care Preschool, children become lifelong learners with a strong foundation and are well prepared for their educational journey.

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A PANDEMIC PROBLEM?

Experts would say that Lee is likely correct—and unfortunately, not alone. Xiaoying Zhu, O.D., Ph.D., is the lead clinician at SUNY College of Optometry’s Myopia Management Clinic in Manhattan. Almost all of the patients at the clinic are children. Dr. Zhu says the clinic is “seeing a higher number of new patients,” which supports recent clinical studies concluding that “home confinement and prolonged computer work during the pandemic appear to have substantially increased both myopia progression and prevalence,” she says. “More and more kids are developing myopia every day.” Other experts, such as Richard Hom, O.D., who is the optometric director at Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield, see the growing problem a little differently. “The pandemic brought on a rise in the identification of myopia in children and is probably the fastest growing area of study and concern,” he says. “It is not so much an increase in the prevalence, but rather, a greater visibility of the problem.”

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on Kids’ Vision The pandemic has led to a greater focus on the growing problem of nearsightedness among children.

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tephanie Lee* took her kids for their annual school physicals in August. She was surprised to learn that her son James*, 11, could not even make out the second line of the eye exam. “In kindergarten, James had astigmatism, which is very common in Asian cultures [like his father’s] and wore glasses for a little while to correct the problem,” Lee explains. Now years later, Lee’s pediatrician told her that James is myopic, or nearsighted, in one eye. When people are nearsighted, they have difficulty seeing things that are far away. “I’m guessing the myopia has more to do with screen time,” Lee shares.

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STUDYING MYOPIA

Long before the pandemic, many studies showed that myopia was on the rise. The National Eye Institute found that nearsightedness among Americans grew 66 percent from 1971 to 2004. Experts now estimate that half of the people in the world could be nearsighted by 2050. While the cause of myopia is not fully understood, it is considered a combination of genetic factors (family history of myopia) and environmental factors (prolonged near work and lack of outdoor activities and sun exposure). The pandemic may have worsened the problem among kids because of an increase in near work, such as computer and cellphone use, and a decrease in time spent outdoors. “It is currently unclear if myopia is increasing from environmental factors, like close work or looking at a screen all day,” Dr. Hom explains, “however there is research that suggests certain kinds of light emitting from a laptop or computer and genetics will stimulate eye elongation faster than the original curves of the eye, resulting in myopia.” When people have normal vision, their eyes’ physical length match their focal length. Distant light is focused on the retina. (The retina is a layer at the back of the eyeball with cells that convert visual input to electrical signals that travel to the brain, where an image is formed.) When people are nearsighted or myopic, their eyes’ physical length is longer than the focal length. As a result, distant light is focused in front of the retina. The result is that far-away objects look blurry. The increase in the degree of myopia is caused by the elongation of the eye. Excessive elongation of the

eye can lead to myopia complications. While myopia can be corrected with contact lenses or glasses, it is more than an optical problem. “Myopia is associated with certain complications inside the eye and can even cause vision loss later in life, even as early as middle age,” Dr. Zhu warns. “We really want to control myopia progression by slowing eye growth as early as possible. Any degree of myopia can benefit from myopia management.” The four main pillars for myopia management are: low-dose atropine, multifocal soft contact lenses (daytime contact lens wear), orthokeratology (overnight contact lens wear), and multifocal glasses (bifocal glasses and progressive addition lenses).

HOW PARENTS CAN HELP

Taking kids for an annual eye exam is the best way to detect myopia, or any other vision problem. Children can be seen by an eye doctor as young as 6 months old. As in Lee’s case, pediatricians can also identify a vision problem at an annual exam, just as a nurse can at a school vision screening. But once a problem is detected, it is important to follow up with a pediatric optometrist.

Be on the lookout for signs that your child may be nearsighted. Do they get very close to the TV when they are watching a show? Do they complain of having difficulty seeing the letters on the board in their classroom? Do they squint when they try to see objects that are far away? These are all signs of a potential issue. Sunlight has been shown to be a protective factor against myopia onset. Encourage kids to play outside, to ensure that they get enough exposure to sunlight. “Even reading a book in the sun is beneficial,” notes Dr. Zhu, who also suggests following the Triple 20 Rule: “A child should take a 20-second break to look at something at least 20 feet away after 20 minutes of near work (computer and electronics use, reading).” Carrots are rich in vitamin A, which is essential for eye function, but eating all the carrots in the world won’t prevent myopia onset or progression. The best advice that Dr. Zhu can give to parents is to schedule an eye exam and get outside. “Keep myopia away by going outdoors to play!” *Names have been changed to protect privacy.

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Single-Mom Advice Eleven things I learned parenting on my own BY JEANNINE CINTRON

efore I became one, I used to think single moms were superheroes. The truth is, I’m no one’s hero. I’m an overcaffeinated, perpetually guilt-ridden, sometimes depressed, usually anxious adult trying desperately to raise a pair of decent human beings without losing my mind in the process. I’m super sarcastic, super tired, super easily annoyed. But a superhero I am not. My ex and I separated almost 2 years ago—just before COVID, lucky me!—and it’s been quite the journey navigating the choppy waters of single parenthood. From co-parenting with my ex to dating app nightmares and everything in between, it’s been a wild ride. While I still have much to learn, here are some nuggets of wisdom I’ve picked up so far.

Don’t be afraid to do “the guy stuff.” The very

thing that used to scare me the most about being on my own is now my favorite part of it all. Before the divorce, my ex did all the typical “guy stuff” (pardon my lack of feminism) like driving on car rides, assembling furniture, hooking up electrical wires, fixing leaks, absolutely anything that requires a toolbox or a trip to Home Depot…you get the picture. These days, there is no “guy stuff.” Where there used to be a “man to take care of it,” now there’s just me, knowing I’ll feel like a total badass after I casually conquer something pre-divorce me couldn’t fathom.

Accept help when it is offered. Tell your

family or friends when you’re not okay. Ask people to check up on you. While it’s true that no one actually died it may feel like death. You’ve lost a huge part of your life—and your heart—and you are mourning that loss. People who haven’t been there will not understand. So tell them how you’re feeling. Educate them on this kind of grief. Ask for help when you need it.

Don’t rush into a relationship. For some people, just the thought of going on a date can be terrifying. But for others, the idea of meeting someone new might be

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exciting. If you were in a dying, loveless marriage for a long time, it’s only natural to seek romance and affection from someone new. If you think you are ready, it’s okay to start dating. But if you rush into a serious relationship, you’re likely doing yourself a disservice. This is your time to flourish on your own, to focus on YOU and decide what you really want—not just in a partner, but in yourself.

You don’t owe anyone an explanation. You

know those friends who learned you were getting divorced and were all, “OMG! You didn’t even tell me you and so-and-so were having problems! Why didn’t you come talk to me?!” Forget them. A conversation with a “Becky”—about how you went without sex for a year— wouldn’t have saved your doomed marriage. Don’t ever let phony friends make you feel badly about your decisions.

Embrace new friendships and nurture old ones. You

definitely don’t need a “Becky” in your life, but you do need a small circle of trustworthy friends who truly support you and care about your well-being. So reach out to the close friends you haven’t spoken to in a while, or maybe even dare to seek out some new friendships. You will feel alone a lot, but good friends will help remind you that you aren’t as alone as you think.

Sometimes you will be sad, and that is okay. Accept

The clothing conundrum is real. Ugh. The

Don’t obsess over your ex’s new relationship. You’re not being replaced. This is something I continue to struggle

Organize your finances. Along with being the “fix-it one,” my

that feeling depressed is part of the healing process. No one is strong 100 percent of the time. Don’t force yourself to put on a brave face and fool yourself—and everyone else—into thinking you are fine. You are going to have days when you will feel a pain so deep you can’t imagine ever moving on with your life. But you can and you will, so let yourself feel it. Taking medication is perfectly okay, and so is talking to a therapist. In fact, the first thing you should do, if you aren’t already in therapy, is start speaking to a licensed mental health specialist. Don’t underestimate the importance of your mental health.

with. When my kids come home and tell me how much fun they had with Daddy and his girlfriend, I fight the urge to punch a hole in the wall. I’ll never forget the gut-wrenching pain I felt watching my own family drive off on a road trip together without me. It was as though I’d simply been plucked from the passenger seat and replaced. I wouldn’t wish that feeling on my worst enemy. It has taken a lot of self-reflection and maturity, but I’m slowly learning to accept that there is a new adult in my children’s lives and that she could never replace me. I am their mother, and no one else will ever be. That’s all there is to it.

Have “the talk” about when kids can meet your ex’s new significant other ASAP. It might seem like a no-brainer.

Kids should never meet Mom or Dad’s new person until the parents discuss it at length with each other first. Seems like Co-Parenting 101, right? Well, my ex never got that memo. There needs to be boundaries set, agreements made, and understandings met before anyone new becomes a fixture in your children’s lives. Don’t assume your ex will know best. They probably didn’t when you were married. Why would they start now?

clothing. Before divorce I never knew this was a thing. You buy your kids new clothes, they wear them to your ex’s house, they come home in pajamas, and you never see the clothes you shelled out your hard-earned money on again. Repeat this process a few times and you’ll find yourself wondering why your kids only seem to own pajamas. My ex doesn’t do this on purpose—in fact, he’s fairly cooperative when it comes to paying for the kids’ new clothes—but it still happens and it drives me bonkers! We had to come up with a system. Do whatever works for your situation, just come to an agreement before you find yourself in a heated debate over a pair of socks (true story).

ex was also the “money one.” Most of the bills were in his name and I rarely did more than check the balance on our joint account. I think I took an economics class or two back in college, but my knowledge of balancing a budget needed updating. I’m not the most organized person, but I can appreciate a neatly designed, color-coded spreadsheet more than most. Personally, I find my “Monthly Bills” chart to be a work of art. If you’re not an Excel fan, there are lots of apps that can help you keep track of your bills and spending.

No matter how hard you try, you’re never going to feel like you’re doing enough. Guilt is part of being a parent,

but for divorced parents, the guilt can be twice as hard to bear. Your time with your kids is limited, and there’s all the pressure in the world to make the most of every moment. I have my kids all week, and I always feel like I’m the “boring one.” My ex has them on weekends, so they do fun stuff together. I rarely have an ounce of energy to spare after a day of work for fun with the kids during the week. Toss the guilt. Use that energy to be selfish. I know it sounds crazy but take some time for yourself. Get a manicure, go to the gym, order $100 worth of sushi and binge a whole series in one day (my favorite). Treat yourself to life’s pleasures whenever you can. And don’t you dare feel badly about it.

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Podcasts for Kids These audio stories are a great substitute for screens BY MADELEINE BURRY

o you look forward to your commute because you can’t wait to hear the latest episode of a true crime story or get advice on anything from finance to relationships to grammar? Podcasts are entertaining and informative for grownups—and the same holds true for kids. In fact, children of all ages can build important skills by listening to podcasts, says Maggie McGuire, the CEO of Pinna, an audio-streaming service for kids. Take toddlers: Exposing them to language-rich, age-appropriate audio “helps them build their emerging vocabulary and aids in building their background knowledge across a wide variety of topics and themes,” McGuire says. Plus, podcasts encourage imagination and curiosity. Fortunately, there are plenty of options out there for little kids, bigger kids, and teens.

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Podcasts for Preschoolers

Story Time This bi-monthly podcast features simple but engaging 20-minute original stories, read by a rotating cast of narrators (many with British accents). While the easy-to-follow tales are a natural fit for bedtime, there’s no reason not to listen in the morning, after lunch, or during a long car ride (bedtime.fm; ages 2-13). Quentin and Alfie’s ABC Adventures Each of the 26 episodes covers a letter of the alphabet— which is a fun way to introduce kids to letters and sounds. The story follows the adventures of Alfie and his babysitter, Quentin, everywhere from amusement parks to the zoo (pinna.fm; ages 3-5). Story Pirates This podcast is billed as “by kids, for kids.” Here’s how it works: Kids submit stories and the cast (actors, comedians, and musicians) turns them into hilarious sketch comedies and songs. It’s an upbeat, hilarious show—one episode features a song about trash-loving raccoons (gimletmedia.com; ages 3 and older).

Podcasts for Big Kids

Wow in the World This podcast for kids is co-hosted by Guy Raz and Mindy Thomas and aims to leave kids (and parents) saying “wow” at the end of each science-themed episode. Explanations to intriguing questions like “why do zebras have stripes?” and “how do onions make us cry?” are paired with zippy background music (wondery.com; ages 4-10). Grimm, Grimmer, Grimmest Best-selling author Adam Gidwitz uses dramatic twists and flourishes to share fairy tales from the Brothers Grimm with a group of kids (who interject with feedback and opinions). Before each story, Gidwitz provides a content warning (in one episode he warned about name-calling), and assigns a rating of grimm, grimmer, or grimmest to denote just how weird and scary the episode will be (pinna.fm; ages 6-13). Saturday Morning Cereal Box This 2-hour podcast bills itself as “a weekly music show for the whole family,” but (luckily) the songs avoid cheesy lyrics, high-pitched voices, and poor production. Instead, the genre-spanning, genuinely interesting music provides a perfect backdrop for hanging with the kids (saturdaycerealbowl. podbean.com; all ages).

Podcasts for Teens

Stuff You Should Know This show explores topics as diverse as Ironman triathlons, paternity testing, scurvy, and how highways work. While it’s aimed at adults, curious teens will delight in finding out fascinating back stories they might not have thought about before (stuffyoushouldknow.com; ages 13 and older).

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Honoring MLK Day These activities will help your family learn about and honor the impact Martin Luther King, Jr. had on the Civil Rights movement. BY MARIE HOLMES

hen the holiday was first declared in 1983, 15 years after Dr. King’s assassination, his widow, Coretta Scott King, wrote about wanting the day to be meaningful in a way that moves beyond the symbolic. “Let this holiday be a day of reflection, a day of teaching nonviolent philosophy and strategy, a day of getting involved in nonviolent action for social and economic progress.” Eleven years later, Congress officially designated the holiday as a day of service, or, as it is commonly described, “a day on, not a day off.” Here’s what you can do with your kids to give the day meaning. READ A BOOK ABOUT THE CIVIL RIGHTS MOVEMENT To learn about the Civil Rights movement and the practice of non-violence, read one or more of the following books: For younger children, picture books such as Love Will See You Through and My Daddy, Martin Luther King, Jr., present age-appropriate retellings of King’s life and legacy. Books like The Youngest Marcher and Let the Children March highlight the active role that children played in the Civil Rights movement. For slightly older readers, the award-winning We’ve Got A Job tells the story of the 1963 Birmingham Children’s March through text and photographs. The late Congressman John Lewis’ graphic novel, March, details his life and work in the Civil Rights movement, and may be a good pick for teens. There are now three volumes of the series available. For a timely exploration of what it means to serve your community, check out Kamala and Maya’s Big Idea, a story from the early life of our Vice President. WATCH A MOVIE OR DOCUMENTARY If you’re looking for an inspirational documentary to watch together as a family, check out We Are the Dream, a film featuring the young performers in the Oakland Martin Luther King Oratorical Fest. It showcases young people raising their voices about issues they care about. You can also check out our

list of Black History movies to watch with kids (siparent.com/ black-history) for more movies that discuss racism, civil rights, and segregation. When selecting books and film, look for books and other media written, illustrated, or otherwise produced by Black creators to decenter whiteness and amplify Black voices. VOLUNTEER AS A FAMILY You’ve probably seen the famous MLK quote, “Everyone can be great, because everybody can serve.” It’s a good reminder to children that no one is too small to make a difference. There are many places where you can volunteer in the area, but it’s okay to think small and act locally. Check in with your place of worship or other community centers. Is there a homebound person who could use a meal, a care package, or even just a plate of cookies and a handwritten note? Reaching out with a kind gesture is a way to serve the community, too. DONATE WHAT YOU CAN If you have the means, consider making a charitable donation as a family. Kids can research organizations working on the issues that mean most to them, and collectively come to an agreement about where to give your family’s contribution. The holiday provides parents with a good reminder to show our children that every day offers us opportunities to do what is right.

Marie Holmes has written for Good Housekeeping, Cosmopolitan, the Washington Post, and other publications. She lives in Upper Manhattan with her wife and their two children.

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What We’re Reading: Wish You Were Here by Jodi Picoult

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What We’re Listening To: Dress Down Day with Eric D'Alessandro and Leanna Kostalos

Pete Davidson might hold the current title for Most Famous Comedian from Staten Island, but he's certainly not the funniest. Unlike Davidson, Eric D'Alessandro has a knack for mocking his hometown without offending more than half the borough. But you don't have to be from Staten Island to find him hilarious and relatable. Any native New Yorker will appreciate his impressions, parodies, and jokes. And while Davidson has Kim K. (if that relationship makes it to our publication date), D'Alessandro has his funny fiancé, Leanna. She's no Kardashian, but she and D'Alessandro complement each other perfectly in their podcast Dress Down Day, which launched early last year.

What We’re Sleeping On: Bamboo Sheets I know they sound fancy (i.e. expensive) but they’re actually pretty affordable—and worth every penny. The colder it gets outside, the warmer you want to be when you crawl into bed at night. But when the heat is turned up and you’re buried under thick layers of blankets and comforters, you’re bound to wake up in a pool of sweat. Bamboo sheets can help you prevent that by staying cool all night long. How? Don’t ask me. Magic, I think? I just know these

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What We’re Downloading: Lose It

I don't know about you, but I think I ate my weight in rainbow cookies last month. I started a new diet every Monday morning in December and gave up by noon. Unfortunately, I can’t use the holiday season excuse anymore, which means it’s time to get back on track. The Lose It app helps you easily track what you eat based on calorie intake. It’s like the Weight Watchers points system, but it’s free to download and not complicated at all. You can scan barcodes on food for a quicker way to track meals, and the assessment is based on your own eating habits, workouts, and preferences. And if, like me, you’re the type of person to purchase a 2-year gym membership but your foot hasn’t touched a treadmill since before the birth of your first child, you can choose a diet-focused weight loss plan. I know there are other apps and programs that personalize plans for users, but like I said, this one is free. There are in-app purchases, but you really don’t need them to do the whole new-year-new-you thing.

What We’re Streaming: Ali Wong's Hard Knock Wife

This isn't Netflix's newest comedy special but it's one that every mom in need of a good laugh should see. From thinking that stay-at-home-mom meant "chillaxing, watching Wendy Williams, and going out to brunch with your sassy girlfriends" to realizing it's really being "in solitary confinement all day with a human Tamagotchi who has no reset button," a very pregnant Wong walks—actually, waddles— the audience through every shocking moment of new parenthood. You’ll seriously laugh so hard you might split a C-section stitch. Just make sure to watch it long after the kids are in bed, with the volume very low. It's not for the faint of heart. Ken Woroner

I’ve been reading Jodi Picoult for as long as I can remember. The Pact and My Sister’s Keeper were two of my favorite books back when I rode the subway into the city every day and gobbled up fiction like Halloween candy. She’s written more than two dozen novels by now, and while some are better than others, her latest, Wish You Were Here, is surely a standout amongst the past year’s bestsellers. Admittedly, I normally cannot stand coronavirus content of any kind after living the nightmare of the past two years. This book is an exception. The parts about the pandemic are very real and raw and allow readers the unique perspective of those working on the frontlines with no knowledge of what they were taking on at the time. However, COVID merely serves as a catalyst for an intriguing tale involving matters of the heart, a theme Picoult has mastered perfectly.

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