If you ask Evolution Collective founder Tamika Taylor, she’ll tell you, “The average person doesn’t think about what happiness means to them.”
As I ponder the question myself, I quickly come to the obvious answers of family, health and prosperity. But is this just the default equivalent of the "R-S-T-L-N-E" that Ryan Seacrest gives contestants before they get to make their own letter selections?
Did I just compare the circle of life to “Wheel of Fortune”? Sure did. Clearly, I could also spend a little more time thinking about what truly makes me happy. I bet there are many of you out there who are feeling the same way. If that's the case, I hope you join us for our annual Women's Luncheon. Like in years past, the eighth annual event promises another healthy dose of self-discovery and a little insight into the keys to finding joy. Couple this with an afternoon of sips and shopping from some of the area’s finest boutiques, and the event could very well be your happy place.
Tamika, a Colleyville-based entrepreneur and nationally sought-out speaker, believes happiness is a choice and that we can all consciously make decisions to bring more of it into our lives. For those who believe this is all easier said than done, you may benefit from hearing directly from a woman who’s been through it all and come out the other side smiling. Tamika’s personal story of overcoming life’s obstacles is captivating and her personal brand of inspiration is infectious.
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OCT. 18
It’s that time of year again, ladies! Join Southlake Style for another afternoon of sparkling conversation and deep connection at our eighth annual Women’s Luncheon. Presented by Great Plains Bank, this year attendees will be wowed by motivational speaker and Evolution Collective founder Tamika Taylor. The Colleyville entrepreneur has been captivating audiences across the country with her special brand of joy, authenticity and insight for over a decade. Tickets are $100 each, and a portion of the proceeds will benefit the Me Squared Cancer Foundation.
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THE BEST FESTS Between Oktoberfest and DiwaliFest, Southlake is brewing with events this month.
The city has budgeted $200,000
DOUBLE DRAGON Head football coach Riley Dodge accepted an additional role as Athletic Director.
RAISE THE ROOF
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SATURDAY NIGHT
Lorne Michaels’ iconic sketch comedy series gets the big screen treatment in this behind-the-scenes look at how the show came to be. With “Juno” director Jason Reitman returning to his comedic roots, this new all-star SNL cast features the new “Perry Mason” Matthew Rhys as George Carlin, as well as J.K. Simmons as the iconic Milton Berle.
In Theaters
Jason Segel and Harrison Ford return as a couple of wildly dysfunctional therapists for the second season of this comedic hit series.
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JOKER: FOLIE A DEUX
THREE WOMEN
Based on Lisa Taddeo’s debut novel, this drama series follows a writer covering the lives of three different women. From a mother searching for happiness to a wealthy business owner to a high school student struggling with a complicated relationship, you’ll want to hear all of the stories they have to share.
On Starz
It’s been five years since Joaquin Phoenix won an Oscar for playing the clown prince of crime. Now, Lady Gaga steps into the spotlight to take over for Margot Robbie as Harley Quinn.
WHAT I ATE IN ONE YEAR
Stanley Tucci is no stranger to fine dining. Now, the Emmy Award-winning aficionado documents a year’s worth of culinary exploits in this deliciously delightful memoir.
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Handcrafted with a unique passion for Italian design, comfort is Natuzzi Editions’ obsession, with a wide selection of living, dining and bedroom furniture fit for every household. Customers can see the quality the minute they step into the Southlake showroom, which features exquisite pieces crafted with versatility, functional design and an Italian sensibility that elevates every room. Natuzzi’s team of experienced multilingual design consultants are always available to help customers through complementary design services, expert space planning and personalized furniture recommendations to transform their space and homes.
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RANGER FINDER
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Innovating Ideas
TedXSouthlake Creates Conversations And Connections
Fo r over 40 years, TED talks have been reshaping the way we view the world by spreading ideas about science, culture, technology, economics and so much more. In 2022, those ideas came to Southlake for the inaugural TEDxSouthlake conference, which continues to inspire the community with new ideas and experiences four years later.
Taking place at Main Street Grapevine’s Lancaster Theatre on Sunday, Oct. 27, TEDxSouthlake was created by Uma Devireddy to nurture camaraderie and professional development between both adults and inquisitive young minds. With a dynamic mix of local and national guest speakers, these talks feature everyone from the curious and ambitious student to the high-level executive and even a celebrity or two.
This year’s lineup of speakers includes Lindsay MacMillan, a vice president at Goldman Sachs who completely switched careers by becoming a published author in 2022. The bowtie-wearing comedian Mike Goodwin gives a hilarious and equally insightful look at building resilience through comedy, while “Karate Kid III” actor Sean Kanan, a.k.a. Mike Barnes, dives into the power of storytelling and how it can help create change. Listen to Southlake resident James Durham recount his own experiences surviving a traumatic brain injury, and get inspired by social media influencer Carla Rockmore, who will show you how to grow an audience as strong as her 2.5 million followers.
With all sorts of guest speakers and unexpected topics, TEDxSouthlake brings a wealth of knowledge that anyone can benefit from learning about.
MISS SOUTHLAKE AND MISS SOUTHLAKE’S TEEN 2024 ANNOUNCED
Grace Shop and Savannah Wilson were crowned at the Miss Southlake-Westlake competition on Sept. 8. Winning the title of Miss Southlake, Grace earned the overall interview award and delivered an original performance of her self-written piece, “Live Out LOUD.”
In addition to being named Miss Southlake’s Teen, Savannah also won Overall Talent for her contemporary dance to “Requiem For A Dream,” Overall Evening Wear and Overall Interview. These ladies will compete next for the title of Miss Texas and Miss Texas’ Teen during the upcoming competition in May next year.
ANNE CHOW PUBLISHES NEW BOOK
Recently retired CEO of AT&T Business and Southlake resident Anne Chow has again teamed with Simon & Schuster to publish her follow-up book to 2023’s “The Leader’s Guide To Unconscious Bias.” In “Lead Bigger,” which has already made “USA Today’s” bestseller list, the Northwestern University adjunct professor shares her career experiences leading over 35,000 global employees who served 3 million customers worldwide. Available now through major retailers, “Lead Bigger” shares new approaches to inclusive leadership in a world where DEI has become overly politicized and narrowly defined. She thoughtfully reframes inclusion as the required leadership competency while expanding our perspectives for greater performance in our work, workforce and workplace.
GRAPEFEST ANNOUNCES PEOPLE’S CHOICE WINNERS
The 38th annual GrapeFest saw 13 winners for the People’s Choice Wine Tasting Classic. Messina Hof took home three gold awards for their light red and white blends, while Bull Lion Ranch won two gold awards for their Texianti “Texas Chianti” and Malbec. Silver Dollar Winery also won two gold awards for their Boot Scootin’ Boogie Chocolate and IM’Peached wines.
DRAGONS FLOP FOR A CAUSE
The Southlake nonprofit student group Dragons Give Back continues to make waves in the community with their fun and extreme approach to charity. Originally featured on “Good Morning Texas” back in 2022 after raising more than $5,000 for the organization Wipe Out Kids’ Cancer, Dragons Give Back held a belly flop contest at the school’s Elise Cerami Aquatic Center last month. According to Dragon Media, the hilarious yet charitable contest raised more than $200 in support of Kinetic Kids, whose mission is to enrich the lives of special needs children and their families.
CITY APPROVES 2025 BUDGET
During its regular council meeting last month, the city of Southlake officially adopted a $130.5-million operating budget for the 2025 fiscal year, which is 3% more than in 2024. Offsetting the budget is an expected base of Total Operating Resources of $149.3 million, a 4.7% increase from a year ago. Prepared with an overall property tax rate of $0.3050, the 2025 fiscal year budget includes another tax relief measure, its 14th according to official correspondence from city manager Alison Ortowski. Funding priorities for the year include $30 million for public utilities operations and maintenance, $1.25 million for park safety enhancements and $774,000 for facility maintenance to town hall and DPS headquarters.
Ellum, the 6-foot-tall playful puppy in his hometown of Keller or the 8-ton dragon sculpture in Southlake's Kimball Park. Now, the Keller artist is teaming up with the Texas Rangers to celebrate both of their legacies together. Depicting a bronze baseball with a miniature “Traveling Man” statue hidden inside, the piece titled “Where Champions Live” symbolizes the Lone Star State’s deep love for America’s favorite pastime. All 25 statues are hidden throughout the metroplex, so be on the lookout during your next Rangers outing!
35 DRAGONS NAMED NATIONAL MERIT SEMIFINALISTS
The National Merit Scholarship Corporation recently named 16,000 semifinalists for the 70th National Merit Scholarship program, 35 of which are Southlake Carroll seniors. This year’s 35 finalists include Vivek Athipatla, Ayan Bakshi, Kaylynn Bartlett, Paul Kendrick Bray, Jr., Luke Brown, Matthew Cai, Arya Catna, Jack Couch, Ashley Cusick, Sydney Denk, Ethan Fu, Ishani Gandi, Katah Gunter, Mayli Heistein, Audrey Hendrickson, Riley Higginbotham, Ethan Hince, Owen HindmanAnderson, Aanaputt Patrick Jitrskul, Megha Kadiyala, Pragnya Kaginele, Risha Kanukolanu, Dhruv Kilaru, Ella Le, Sean Le, Shriya Makam, Anson Omar, Sagar
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NTX GIVING DAY SURPASSES FUNDRAISING GOAL
North Texas came together for NTX Giving Day and broke records during its annual philanthropy event. Held on Sept. 19, NTX Giving Day is a community outreach initiative that’s raised over $566 million since 2009. This year marked its biggest yet, raising an astounding $68 million for over 3,000 local nonprofits. “We are incredibly grateful for the outpouring of support from the North Texas community,” says Wayne White, Communities Foundation of Texas president and CEO. “Every donation has a meaningful impact on the nonprofits working to improve lives across our region.”
Over 66,000 people are diagnosed with pancreatic cancer every year, and one Southlake resident is looking to make a difference in their lives. A longtime consultant and philanthropist, Bob Bunnett lost his wife Borbala to cancer last year and is now raising his two young children by himself. As if he weren’t busy enough, he’s also co-chairing the Cancer Support Community North Texas’ Red Tie Gala to spread awareness on the impact that the dreaded disease can have on families. “As I looked for ways to give back, I was looking for something more than just donating money — an organization that was significant and impactful,” Bob says. “After learning more about Cancer Support Community North Texas, I felt supporting this organization could honor Borbala in a meaningful way.” The Red Tie Gala will take place at the Frontiers of Flight Museum on Nov. 2, with tickets costing $225 each.
APEX PRESENTS BARBIE-THEMED MUSICAL
The Apex Arts League is turning pink for its next live performance on Oct. 27. Featuring the multi-faceted talents of the Front Line Cabaret, “I Am Literally Every Woman” is inspired by the moving monologue that earned America Ferrera an Academy Award nomination in last year’s “Barbie.” With songs by Dolly Parton, Georgia Stitt, Sara Bareilles, Peter Allen and James Taylor, this Broadway-caliber show will bring down the house at White’s Chapel Methodist Church.
SAM’S CLUB REOPENS IN GRAPEVINE
After closing its doors two years ago, Sam’s Club has at long last returned to Grapevine. In 2022, the warehouse club experienced significant storm damage from a tornado that blew through the area, ripping off a portion of the roof along its path. Now, the Grapevine staple has reopened after undergoing a massive makeover. According to a media release, the reinvigorated Sam’s Club will showcase cutting-edge technology, improved services and a selection of high-quality goods, all at reasonable prices shoppers have come to expect. Members can shop at Sam’s Club at 1701 W. State Hwy. 114 beginning on Oct. 16.
VARGHESE SUMMERSETT MAKES INC. 5000
One of Southlake’s fastest-growing law firms recently landed on the highly sought-after “Inc. 5000” list. Specializing in personal injury, criminal defense and family law, Varghese Summersett ranked in the top half of the list of the fastest-growing private companies nationwide, ranking 2,126th on the list and 76th in the DFW Metroplex. But the firm ranked even higher in the legal category, finishing 38th out of 84 legal firms. This year marks the second time Varghese Summersett has made the list, with their first being in 2018 when they placed 782nd. “We are honored to have made ‘Inc. Magazine’s list of America’s fastest-growing companies for the second time in our 10-year history,” founder and managing partner Benson Varghese says. “We are proud to be the law firm Texans turn to during their most challenging times.”
MALOUF’S CELEBRATES 75 YEARS
Malouf’s, the well-known luxury fashion boutique, recently marked its 75th anniversary. Founded in Lubbock, Texas in 1949 by John Malouf, the store has built its reputation on personalized service while offering the finest in men’s and women’s clothing from brands like Tory Burch and Peter Millar. Family operated from the beginning, John’s son Michael brought the community-centered shop to Southlake Town Square in 2009.
"Fashion isn’t just about trends or convenience," Michael says. "It's about finding something that resonates personally, and that's what we've done for 75 years — helping people find that perfect piece that makes them feel their best."
J. CREW RETURNS TO SOUTHLAKE
Preppy-casual fashion is making its return to Southlake this fall. In addition to relaunching its iconic print catalog with the help of Demi Moore, the brand is also making a bold retail return with a new shop set to open in Park Village. Formerly located in Southlake Town Square, the new 10,000-square-foot store will be located between REI and West Elm and will feature all of its signature styles and fashion pieces. Shoppers can experience J. Crew in a whole new way at 1011 E. Southlake Blvd., Suite 40 when it opens on Oct. 31.
CENTRAL MARKET CELEBRATES 30 YEARS
Southlake’s food-loving paradise pulled out all of the stops and champagne bottles during its 30th anniversary last month. The high-end sibling in the H-E-B family, Central Market opened its first location in Austin in 1994, with the Southlake store making its debut in 2006. Throughout its two-week celebration, the Southlake Central Market hosted a series of special events such as a Future Foodies Kids’ Stroll, a Caviar & Champagne Tasting Course and a Parmigiano Reggiano Cheese Wheel Cracking, not to mention tasting booths for unique treats throughout the store. Between its chefprepared meals and limited-time goodies, suffice it to say that Southlake is grateful to have Central Market close to home.
the Evolution of Joy
TAMIKA TAYLOR ON WHY LIFE’S
TOO SHORT TO HANG OUT WITH TRAUMA
BY CYNTHIA SKLODOWSKI WITH PHOTOS BY BLUDOOR STUDIOS
Each episode of Colleyville-based Evolution Collective founder Tamika Taylor’s podcast “Say More Words” starts with a song of the day – almost always something uplifting and motivational. On the bright September morning when the mindset and leadership consultant excitedly breezes into the Southlake Style office for her cover shoot, the song she’s vibing is Katy Perry’s “Daisies.”
With Perry’s signature girl-power-centric lyrics like “They said I'm goin' nowhere, tried to count me out; Took those sticks and stones, showed 'em I could build a house,” it’s a highly fitting tune for this powerhouse entrepreneur.
Talk to anyone in town, and the adjectives that you will hear most often to describe Tamika are “energetic,” “passionate,” “inspirational” and “life-changing.” Not to mention “ambitious,” “brave” and “wise beyond her years.” Behind the disarmingly warm and welcoming 1,000-watt grin is a 35-year-old who has turned unimaginable personal challenges into a catalyst for helping women become their best selves. With a thriving personal coaching and leadership business and a calendar packed with speaking engagements, it is her particular brand of exuberant expertise that has clients lining up at the door.
A COLORFUL CHILDHOOD
Despite her current success, the path to get there was anything but a straight shot. Tamika moved around a lot as a child, growing up in a military household to a Marine father and a mother who worked in health care. The parents had a very colorful and increasingly volatile relationship, which at times created a heavy atmosphere.
“I grew up in a home where you were terrified to make mistakes,” she recounts. “That’s why today in our house, we celebrate mistakes, we celebrate failures, and we always ask our kids, ‘What did you learn? What could you do differently next time?’”
In addition, life as a biracial child in the 1980s wasn't nearly as common as it is today. When she was in middle school, the family settled in Wisconsin, where her mother had grown up. "I went from a military environment where everyone looked different to the middle of nowhere Wisconsin, where everyone looked the same, and only I was different," she recalls. "It was an adjustment in the way that people treated me, the way they showed up."
Nonetheless, Tamika worked hard and excelled in school, graduating in 2006 and then attending college at the Uni versity of Wisconsin–Eau Claire. Despite initial plans to be come a doctor, she soon realized her natural extroversion and innate ability to connect with people would be more suited to sociology. After receiving a bachelor’s, she contin ued her studies, later awarded a master’s degree in higher education administration at St. Cloud State.
“I focused primarily on students… how they moved, how they functioned, how they could be better people, how they could find what they wanted to do in life. And I had a huge passion for it — it was my jam,” she recounts.
TRAGEDY STRIKES
It was in the midst of her undergraduate studies that tragedy struck. In March 2010, at just 21 years old, Tamika's father, in a blackout drunken state, attacked her mother and set the house on fire. Tamika and her sister were trapped inside. Luckily, with the help of firefighters, the girls were safely rescued from the house, and the father was taken into police custody. However, the family lost everything that night.
It was an entirely new reality to confront — and on tele vision, no less, given the tabloid-esque nature of the night. It’s an understatement to say that getting through the af termath took many years of hard work, self-reflection and community backing to come out the other side. Yet Tamika persevered.
"I spent 11 years in anger, resentment, blame, shame and guilt. [I was] running from my trauma when it turns out, what I needed to do the most was dive right in. Ask the questions. And come out raw, but stronger on the other side," Tamika writes in a blog post. "Sometimes the work seems like it's going to break you in half. But I promise that surviving the pain and working through [it] leads to un imaginable growth and a much better life. Life is too short to hang out with trauma.”
LIGHT IN THE DARK
Yet even through the most turbulent times, Tamika was able to find bright spots. In May 2010, just two months after the fateful night, she met her now-husband, James, who stuck with her through the tough times and became a rock through her father’s trial. She also found unbending support in members of the local community, giving the family a chance to heal and move on.
“One of the most magical things that happened to me is that I became so very abundantly aware of who my people were and who my people were not,” Tamika recalls on one of her podcasts. “The people who were for me showed up
Going through such darkness helped drive home the point that happiness is a choice, which helped form the basis of Evolution Collective’s trademarked “Personality
“You can be happy while hard things are happening — it’s a matter of choosing how that happiness looks,” Tamika says. “The average person doesn't think about what happiness means to them. I know that there are bad moments in a day and that there are also good moments in the day, so I make an active choice to lean into happiness and joy as a way to pull me out of the negativity that could bring
However, happiness and resilience are not just concepts for the wellness coach. She weaves them into every aspect of life, especially her most fulfilling job — parenting. For 7-year-old daughter Frankie and 6-year-old son Calvin, the proud parents make a point of incorporating play and fun while also making sure the kids understand that they have
At home, the couple makes a concerted effort to instill affirmations like ‘I am kind,’ ‘I am strong,’ ‘I can do hard things,’ ‘I can always figure it out,’ and ‘I am safe.’ Tamika explains that this is because she and James want the kids to always feel empowered to make choices - good and bad - and to be able to learn from them in a loving and support-
Given the importance that parenthood plays in the devoted mother's life, in 2021, Tamika realized her journey needed to include reconnecting with her father, who was still in prison. While the reunion did reopen old wounds, getting to know her father again and having the chance to introduce herself as an adult, a mother and a successful businesswoman also allowed the story to be reframed with unexpectedly positive benefits.
“Sharing my trauma journey, and most importantly healing, has been a journey that has helped not only me heal, but others around me heal as well — which has been a special surprise since I never intended on bringing it up in the first place,” Tamika says.
LESSONS LEARNED
It’s a hard truth that life can't always be sunshine and rainbows. When rough patches inevitably arise, Tamika is now able to call on deeply engrained knowledge and understanding of the healing process to help her face any challenge. It is precisely this know-how that she passes along to her clients.
In 2013, Tamika and her husband relocated to Colleyville when she accepted a new position at UT Arlington. When James decided to open his own chiropractic practice, she threw herself into helping him network. With a side hustle as a professional makeup artist, it was a perfect chance to market her own skills, build a name for herself and meet
A few years later, following the birth of their daughter, Tamika found herself in a rut. In the years following her fa ther's trial, she had become estranged from her mother, who, in dealing with her own issues, decided to embark on a different path. Combining that with postpartum depression and having left higher education for a higher-paying but less fulfilling corporate position, Tamika was left feeling lost and without purpose.
It was then the new mom realized she couldn’t stay in vic tim mode any longer without eventually passing down these issues to her children.
“Generational trauma is a very real thing. When I had my daughter, it hit me that I don't ever want [her] to feel the way that I felt growing up, to think about herself the way that I thought about myself growing up, or to have the mom that I had growing up,” she recalls. “[My mom] lost her identity, and I saw so many similarities. I decided – no, I refuse. This ends now.”
A MOMENT OF ENLIGHTENMENT
This was the proverbial lightbulb moment for Tamika to forge a new path. The multi-hyphenate talent was increas ingly booked as a makeup artist for events. While applying her artistic talents, she would chat up her clients, unofficially coaching them on life and finding joy. These informal con versations hit home with the revelation that adults needed as much guidance as the students she had loved working with so much before.
precisely what the “Personality Recipe” helps to uncover and unblock.
When clients started returning with concrete examples of how much her advice had helped, the concept behind Evolution Collective started to come to life. With a budding hypothesis for how to help people on a larger scale, Tamika enlisted a friend as a test subject, channeling her experience into a new process for coaching adults. By focusing on routines and habits, monitoring feelings and thoughts and giving highly personalized advice, her friend’s business increased fivefold within a month. As soon as word spread, business exploded.
The initial plan was to create a monthly workshop where people could learn about and openly discuss difficult and sensitive topics in a safe, secure and loving environment. The inspiration came from her German grandmother, who instilled the idea that tough conversations are made easier when done around the kitchen table. Thus was born “Wine, Whiskey & Wisdom,” a monthly class on topics ranging from finding your love language to becoming more confident. This soon led to the creation of a new regular conference series aimed at empowering women called the Evolve Women’s Conference.
THE RECIPE FOR GREATNESS
However, it was personal coaching that took business to the next level. One of the cornerstones of Evolution Collective, formally founded in 2019, is the “Personality Recipe” that Tamika developed, which includes self-discovery through a combination of personality assessments like Enneagrams, strength-finders, Myers-Briggs and love languages. It also means answering a lot of hard questions — and homework. By the time new clients seek out Tamika's expertise, they've usually reached their limit, unsure of how to move forward. Tamika believes this is almost always a symptom of a deeper root cause, which usually manifests in many areas of life – personal finances, business, relationships, parenting choices – until addressed directly. This root cause is
Alas, there are no quick fixes for personal growth, and the Evolution Collective founder is quick to point out that true growth only comes from putting in a lot of work. That's why clients have regular assignments, including consistent journaling. Tamika has also developed a twopronged approach to forgiveness, consisting of writing an “F-You” letter to purge grievances on paper that you later burn, followed by a “forgiveness” letter, where you let go of feelings that are holding you back.
“That’s the thing about forgiveness — you can’t just declare forgiveness like Michael Scott declares bankruptcy on ‘The Office,’” she explains.
While Tamika works with a wide variety of clients, the entrepreneur has found a particularly loyal niche with women, who appreciate her youthful energy and wise outlook. However, if Tamika has learned one thing through hardship, it’s how important it is to have someone in your corner who isn’t emotionally or financially attached to the outcome — it’s a role she excels at as a coach.
“People stay with me because they need the belief. That's the best part of the work that I do. And I think I am a person who just breathes belief,” she expresses. “Because I came from an environment in which I did not believe in myself — death would have been better than what I was experiencing at that time. It took believing in myself and that life can actually be good to get me moving forward.
“So when my clients need somebody to believe in them, they call me because I'm gonna believe in them better than they're gonna believe in themselves when they're in a down moment.”
Hear from Tamika herself at our 2024 Women’s Luncheon on Oct. 18, presented by Great Plains Bank. Reserve your tickets today at 817Tix.com.
ROYAL TREATMENT
Your Garments Get The Best At Monarchy Cleaners
dry cleaning business that had been a community staple for nearly 25 years, James gave the cleaners a fresh makeover and transformed it into the highquality establishment it’s recognized as today.
As the owner and operator, James doesn’t just wash and treat your clothes — James takes time to talk to every customer and provide a customized experience tailored to them.
“James remembered my name, asked about my kids, knew how I liked my clothes pressed,” Mike Lantzy says. “It was the personal experience of it all. You don’t get that a lot these days.”
But James doesn’t shirk his responsibilities just because of socializing — he keeps to his schedule and ensures that every customer gets their clothes fresh-pressed and sparkling clean.
“James makes it so easy for me to be able to drop in before 8 a.m. and get my clothes back by 5 p.m. the same day,” Chris Greer says. “Monarchy Cleaners is a game changer for me.”
Whether he’s cleaning shirts, pants, suits or any other kind of fabric, James gives a warm welcome to every customer and treats them like royalty. With his daughter being a future Dragon, James also offers promotions to parents of the Dragon football team to help them continue their winning start to the season! Anyone who stops in will see firsthand that Monarchy Cleaners is exclusively for everyone who likes clean clothes.
“Great service and great quality — all in the perfect location.”
— Kailyn
Owner James Brown with his wife Rachel and daughter Ellie
SKELETON CREW Bone-chilling touches for your Halloween party
SHOP
a spook-tacular SOIREE
ED EMBERLEY BAT TREAT PLATTER
Display your batty treats on this dish designed with the famed children’s author.
West Elm | $49
SPELLBOUND FLOATING CANDLES
Enchant your guests with these flickering, floating candles, complete with a magic wand remote.
Balsam Hill | $89
SKELETON STEMLESS WINE GLASS
Your witches’ brew will be the talk of the town served up in these bare-bones glasses.
Pottery Barn | $25
SOLAR GLOBE STAKE LIGHTS
Set a spine-tingling mood with these smoky globes, perfect for your entryway or tabletop.
Balsam Hill | $99
SKELETON DRINK DISPENSER STAND
A delightfully eerie stand for a perfectly potent potion.
Pottery Barn | $79
More Than Smoke And Mirrors
Pottery Barn’s Lit Mirror Door Brings Home The Magic Of Hogwarts
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Dimensions:
Size: 20" W x 42" H
Material: Polyurethane and glass
Price: $399
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he wise headmaster of Hogwarts, Albus Dumbledore, once sagely remarked that “Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times, when one only remembers to turn on the light.” If your version of happiness includes fantasies of apparating yourself directly into the supernatural world of Hogwarts, Pottery Barn’s sought-after Harry Potter Lit Mirror Door gives that phrase a lot more meaning.
Crafted as if it were taken straight out of the halls of Harry Potter’s magical alma mater, this mirror will enchant your space with its ornate and timeless design. However, the real magic happens once the lights are low. When the mirror is lit, it transforms from a nor-
mal looking glass into the majestic Great Hall entrance, complete with a bewitching night sky full of flickering, floating candles.
The mirror features a backlit hologram that is activated with the flip of a switch, no spells needed — though we certainly wouldn’t blame you for getting out your wand and shouting a convincing “lumos” just in case. You’ll undoubtedly feel like you’ve just stepped off of the Hogwarts Express for your first year at this elusive and exclusive school of witchcraft and wizardry. This is one case where it certainly holds true that it’s better to light a candle — or many — than curse the darkness.
SCIFIT CENTER BRINGS PERSONALIZED WEIGHT LOSS TO SOUTHLAKE
Fort Worth’s most successful weight loss program has officially expanded into Southlake. SciFit Center celebrated their grand opening with great company, delicious bites and cocktails. As part of the SciFit philosophy, the team promotes a sustainable nutrition approach that helps clients find flexibility in their diets to make progress while still indulging in their favorite foods. The fun foodies on the SciFit team are ready to help you meet your health and fitness goals!
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I will always share my passion and knowledge to help our clients succeed at the highest level.
JANICE SPOONER
Every client is unique, and their financial strategies should reflect their individual needs. Janice Spooner, a senior lender and deposit strategist, has been guiding commercial and consumer clients toward their shortterm and long-term goals for 12 years in Southlake and 36 years in North Texas. With a holistic approach to personalized banking, Janice has earned numerous awards for her dedication and service, including the 2023 Bank News’ Outstanding Woman in Banking and the 2022 Keller Chamber Business Woman of the Year. She serves as a trusted advisor for many clients, offering insights on business and personal growth. With extensive knowledge of wealth-building strategies and a passion for sharing them, Janice is committed to helping her clients build a lasting legacy.
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Southlake Market President women
My goal is to give small business owners the support they need to succeed in their industry.
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MEL LATU Founder & CEO
As the founder of B.O.S.S. Back Office Support Services and The Cash Flow B.O.S.S., Mel Latu’s passion lies in empowering small businesses to succeed. Born from her own experiences as an aspiring entrepreneur, Mel saw how many business owners struggled behind the scenes and was determined to make a difference. From cash flow forecasting to payroll and tax prep, Mel’s comprehensive financial and bookkeeping solutions have helped 100 companies grow significantly over the past five years — including the Me Squared Cancer Foundation, where she also serves as a board member. Through B.O.S.S. and The Cash Flow B.O.S.S., Mel continues to inspire entrepreneurs to build thriving businesses, live fulfilling lives and leave a lasting legacy that they can be proud of.
ME SQUARED CANCER FOUNDATION
Me Squared Cancer Foundation believes in the power of community and collaboration to support newly diagnosed adult cancer patients in the DFW area. Assisting patients living at or below 250% of the poverty level, Me Squared serves a diverse range of individuals regardless of whether they are insured or uninsured. Offering up to $3,500 in grant funding, the cancer foundation cover critical expenses like treatment, transportation and lodging — that’s why donations are more important now than ever to support those who need financial help. Since its founding five years ago, Me Squared has distributed over $1.6 million in grants to more than 600 patients battling cancer, easing their financial burdens and making a difference in their lives. Together, Me Squared Cancer Foundation will keep doing great things for those who need them most.
MeSquaredCancerFoundation.org
I can do things you cannot, you do things I cannot. Together, we can do great things.
Front Row: Julie Walter, Mimi Tran, Cristi Duea, Wendy Magusiak Back Row: Kristin Jain, Mel Latu, Kelly Rose, Harriet Brenner, Rebecca Bruning, Janice Smith (Not pictured: Nicole Reilly)
I want to be your realtor for life.
SHARON HODNETT
Luxury Realtor
Sharon Hodnett is a departure from the ordinary. As a Certified Luxury Home Marketing Specialist, Sharon ranks amongst the Top 20 realtors in Tarrant County and has consistently placed in the Top 1% of realtors nationwide. Last year, she was recognized as a Top Residential Real Estate Producer in “D Magazine” and was named a Five Star Legends award winner, a distinction given to less than .05% of real estate agents nationwide. With over 34 years of experience, Sharon has successfully closed over $465 million throughout her career and relentlessly markets her properties across the metroplex. Sharon earned her spot as one of the Real Producers Top 500 agents and placed out of 15,000 in her territory.
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(L-R) Tonia Beard, Wynne Moore and Amy Page
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My clients can count on me for my knowledge, honesty and professionalism.
ELSA KACKLEY Luxury Realtor
To Elsa Kackley, the real estate experience is more than just a transaction between an agent and their client — it’s a personal relationship that lasts well beyond the sale or purchase of a new home. A Southlake resident for 16 years, Elsa has worked as a listing agent for 11 years and considers herself an expert of the area. She studies the region, trends and buyer behaviors to stay ahead of the market and find the home best suited for you and your family. As a member of Keller Williams’ luxury division, she is a Top 10% producer in Southlake and was voted a Readers Choice 2024 winner for residential real estate. From her extensive market knowledge to her top-notch negotiation skills, you can trust Elsa to take care of your real estate needs. ElsaK@KW.com
D-FLAWLESS CONCIERGE JEWELERS
Passionate and dedicated to providing not only the finest pieces of jewelry but also a superb customer experience, Darla Stapleton operates D-Flawless Concierge Jewelers with her entire heart. With 30 years of experience in the jewelry industry, Darla creates a personalized shopping experience with timeless fine jewelry to serve your specific needs. With D-Flawless, you can schedule a one-on-one appointment to go through its extensive showcase of fine jewelry or customize your
own. Due to Darla’s hard work, determination, personal relationships with her clientele and support from her staff members Amy Shipps, Dena Oliver, Diana Visosky and Rachel Smith, D-Flawless continues to thrive and leave its own mark in the community. Darla and her team ensure that anyone who visits her store will leave with a smile and beautiful pieces of jewelry. DFlawlessJewelers.com
(L-R) Amy Shipps, Darla Stapleton, Dena Oliver, Diana Visosky and Rachel Smith (Not Pictured: April Beres)
KAYLEE TIPTON & MIMI TRAN
Texas Regional Bankers
Kaylee Tipton and Mimi Tran understand that community is the key to building relationships — that’s why community is at the heart of everything they do at Texas Regional Bank. Living in the Southlake area for over 20 years, Mimi founded the Me Squared Cancer Foundation and has been involved in several nonprofit organizations, including the Carroll Education Foundation, the Community Enrichment Center and GRACE. Meanwhile, Kaylee hit the ground running during her first month at the bank, becoming a Southlake Chamber of Commerce ambassador and serving as board secretary for Financial Women In Texas. Between navigating the many complexities of private banking and helping families realize their financial dreams, Kaylee and Mimi know that people are the best investment you can make, and their clients feel the same when they invest in Texas Regional Bank.
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” Believe you can, and you're halfway there.
BAYLOR SCOTT & WHITE MEDICAL CENTER –GRAPEVINE
Baylor Scott & White Medical Center — Grapevine has always been here for both women and their families. Their compassionate team provides everything a growing family needs, from prenatal care and IVF to comprehensive postdelivery services. With a Level III maternal care designation and a Level III Neonatal Intensive Care Unit, Baylor Scott & White is well prepared to handle high-risk deliveries and care for newborns delivered as early as 23 weeks. Beyond moms and babies, Baylor Scott & White also provides advanced services for women facing other health challenges, including roboticassisted surgery for abdominal and uterine conditions and a Women’s Imaging Center featuring 3D mammography technology. Whether your needs are routine or complex, the Baylor Scott & White team has women’s well-being covered.
As a woman business leader, I know how important it is to feel confident in myself, and nothing feels better than a healthy body composition. womenʼ s LUNCHEON
ANGELA CALVILLO Nutritionist
As the lead nutritionist and cofounder of SciFit Center, Angela Calvillo understands it’s important to know what you’re putting inside your body. Having formerly struggled with her own body image, Angela believes that in addition to an efficient nutrition plan, you must address the mental and emotional aspects of weight loss. By creating an empathetic environment at SciFit Center, Angela has developed one of the most successful weight loss programs in the industry, being voted the best weight loss center in both “The Fort Worth Star-Telegram” and “Fort Worth Magazine.” Invested in the people who are trying to make a positive change in their lives, Angela is committed to helping others transform into their best selves. SciFitCenter.com
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SUSAN SEMMELMANN
Interior
Designer
Susan Semmelmann believes the spirit of living is in the giving — that’s why she’s committed to designing your home in the way that best speaks to you. Working in the design business for more than 24 years, Susan knows how to make your home pop with its own unique, beautiful and eyecatching appeal. From the flooring and the countertops to the cabinetry and hardware, Susan listens and works with her clients to transform their spaces with a fresh, revitalized aesthetic. With custom-made bedding, drapery and floral options that can be complemented with any of her furnishings, fabrics and accessories, Susan orchestrates every detail of a project she works on. The result is always a home that is as cohesive as it is stunning.
Middle row: Jordan Christian, Stephanie Boone, Molly Harris, Amanda Gomez, and Britany Owens
Top row: Michelle Robinson, Veronica Valdez, Cassandra Renteria, Brittany Black, and Krista Hayes
LOVE TO HEAR AGAIN AUDIOLOGY
For over seven years, Love To Hear Again Audiology has helped patients with hearing needs reconnect with their loved ones. Fellows of the American Academy of Audiology and proud Excellence In Audiology-certified specialists, Dr. Elyssa Washburn and Dr. Holly Conradt provide unique ear-to-brain treatment plans on an individual basis for each patient’s hearing, budget and lifestyle needs. Through GRACE Medical, Love To Hear Again offers locally donated, refurbished hearing treatment equipment and their professional services to those in true need. Plus, as the center’s certified tinnitus and dementia practitioner, Alexa Farrell ensures that patients have a smooth transition through their continuum of care. Love To Hear Again accepts most major health plans and has the most affordable hearing treatment plans and financing options to help patients get back into life again.
We go the extra mile to make sure our patients are hearing to the best of their ability.
L-R) Hearing instrument specialist
Alexa Farrell, Dr. Holly Conradt and Dr. Elyssa Washburn
As a small business owner, wife and Dragon mom with over 20 years of insurance and risk management experience, Jocelyn Hope knows how to help protect what matters to you most. Jocelyn and her team represent the No. 1 insurer for home and autos in the U.S. and take protecting your net worth seriously. Her team of dedicated, licensed professionals help make complex insurance matters simple and easy to understand while ensuring you receive all available discounts. Committed to protecting your most valuable assets, the Hope team takes a personalized approach to insurance and financial service consultations. Whether it’s with life insurance, annuities or disability planning, Jocelyn is here to help the homeowners, business owners and families who need her most.
I have always done things I was a little not ready to do. I think that’s how you grow.
LESLIE CLOIN
Master Esthetician
Leslie Cloin has always had a passion for health and skin care. Throughout her 19-year career as an esthetician, Leslie has worked in some of the finest spas around the country, including for the No. 1 service professionals in the world at The Ritz-Carlton for 12 years. Now she’s taken the next step by running her own med spa at Opal Esthetics right here in Southlake. Offering luxurious spa treatments with aromatherapy, hydrafacials and oxygen facials, Leslie loves educating her clients about their skin health and how to rejuvenate their body to make it feel brand new. From Botox and fillers to waxing and customized IV services, Leslie is all about the results that will make you feel restored inside and out.
(L-R) Danielle Marez, March Baremore and Rebecca Johnson
THE TOX OPENS IN PARK VILLAGE
The Tox Southlake opened its doors in Park Village in late September, hosting a grand opening celebration to introduce its innovative bodywork methods that cleanse the body of toxins, alleviate water retention and provide relief from bloating. Guests were treated to mini sculpting facials, delicious brunch fare and bespoke beverages by Cocktails by Chrissy and clean beauty swag from Hustle Beauty. Wellness enthusiasts and beauty aficionados alike will delight in the Southlake studio’s unique offerings. TheToxTechnique.com
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Cozy Time
Temperatures have scaled back, and in a few short weeks, so will our clocks. Autumn is the perfect time to refresh your home decor, and believe it or not, it officially started weeks ago. So break out a few of these seasonal decorations and enjoy a touch of fall before visions of sugar plums are dancing everywhere.
MAKE SCENTS OF THE SEASON
Everyone has a few unused vases left over from special gifts. Make your way to Trader Joe’s and gather some seasonal blooms like marigolds, dahlias and add some dried grasses for depth. Then place some scented candles like “mulled cider” or “woodlands” throughout high-traffic areas. Tie a ribbon of earthy colored gingham around each to stay on trend and enjoy an extra-sensory sesh.
TOSS IN SOME TEXTURE
Faux fur, corduroy and velvet throw pillows help create a cozy atmosphere by layering plush textures. Toss the snuggie aside and go one better with ample chunky knit throws in burgundy, moss green or burnt orange. On the floor, place some woven baskets to fill with your favorite books and magazines. Blending all of these elements will add depth and warmth to your living space, making it perfect for family gatherings or quiet mornings with a coffee and your latest page turner.
METAL URGES
Shiny chromes are cool for the summer, but introducing copper accents will evoke memories of Grandma’s pies and heartier home fare. Copper appliances and kitchen accents are trending up, but quicker updates can be made by simply adding some copper baubles, candle holders, lanterns and picture frames. These metallic touches can elevate any room, giving it a sophisticated yet homey feel.
MIX UP YOUR MANTLE
Refresh the mantle or gallery wall with autumnthemed art or your favorite family photos from the pumpkin patch. For those of you with young children, this is the perfect time to commission a hand turkey or some pressed leaves that can be cherished now and for many years to come.
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Pattea Lou’s is just our cup of tea
A Big Fat Greek Dinner
Greek Bistro Fuses Family Recipes With Upscale Dining
Nikki Greek Bistro 5757 W. Lovers Lane, Suite 101.
There are two things that define Greek culture — family and festivities. Growing up, Tom Georgalis bonded with his family in the kitchen learning recipes passed down from generation to generation. Today, family time for him and his wife Lisa look different as they soak up the vibrant nightlife at their Dallas restaurant and lounge.
“When we visit our family in Greece, we dine and drink in a more fluid way,” Tom says. “We may go to one spot and head to the patio or lounge
for pre-dinner drinks, then move into the dining room for our meal and then return to the lounge area for drinks while enjoying live music or a DJ late into the night.”
It’s no surprise that his passion for family and the finer things in life are at the center of Tom’s newest culinary endeavor, Nikki Greek Bistro. During his 15 years in the hospitality industry, Tom ran both The Ivy Tavern and Windmill Lounge with his wife, Lisa, in Dallas. But Nikki is much more personal to Tom, with the steaming
aromas of moussaka and avgolemono soup reminding him of home.
“Imagine the energy of an island bistro with a modern interpretation of old Greek cuisine,” Tom says. “We want all of our guests to experience this at
Embracing a Mediterranean villa aesthetic and a rich terracotta-influenced color palette, dining at Nikki feels like a cross between a cozy kitchen and a late-night lounge, with the white tablecloths and ambient lighting to match. Each of the cocktails also impart their own unique influence, whether it’s the Baklava Espresso Martini topped with pistachio nuts and mixed with grappa’s Greek cousin, tsipouro, or the Perfect Freezer Martini made with Kastra Elion
Emphasizing home-grown flavors, high-quality ingredients and made-from-scratch cooking, Nikki’s menu honors every aspect of Greece’s culinary heritage. The Georgalis’ take on meat pie is packed with a hearty helping of prime pasture-raised beef, while the specialty cut of lamb steak comes with a citrus demi-glace and charred fennel whip. The bone-in pork chop is coated in a Greek honey glaze and paired with a crispy thyme and lemon potato pave. But if coastal flavors are what you crave, you’ll find them in Nikki’s seafood selections, which include charred octopus with Greek oregano and a giganti bean puree, and the Saffron Scallops served with charred kale, lemon fondant and a florina and feta streusel.
“Greeks very much embrace the seasons when cooking, so we have a menu wherein cheeses, fish and vegetables rotate based on what is fresh and in season at the time,” Lisa remarks.
No Greek dining experience is complete without dessert, and Nikki carries the bona fide influence over to its sweet offerings as well. You can never go wrong with the classic chocolate lavender mousse, but if you’re looking for a little extra crunch with your cream, try the Trigonas Panoramatos pastries, which are triangular puff pastries stuffed with semolina custard and topped with whipped Greek honey and a frappe dust. Plus the Portokalopita orange custard cake packs a citrusy punch with notes of spearmint and olive oil.
Between the ambiance, atmosphere and authentic cuisine, everything in Nikki is a holistic homage to Tom’s Greek heritage – something he’s proud to share with the Dallas dining community.
“When dining in true Greek fashion, the food is not the only element to the experience,” Tom expresses. “The experience is stimulating all five senses – the nose for the aroma, the eyes for the sights, the tongue for the taste, the hands for the touch and most the most neglected sense, the ears, to enjoy the sounds of glasses cheering, music playing and the wine flowing.”
Special Tea Experiences
Pattea Lou’s Brings Teatime To Keller
From the gentle clink of porcelain cups to the soothing aroma of freshly brewed tea filling the air, teatime is more than just a daily ritual in Eng land — it’s a cherished afternoon custom steeped in tradition. Now, locals can partake in that tra dition much closer to home at Pattea Lou’s Tea Room in Keller.
With a deep love for British culture and spe cially tailored teatime experiences, opening Pat tea Lou’s has been a dream of Patti Gibson’s for well over a decade. After seeing how coffee shops and cafes have slowly taken over the Me troplex, Patti knew that she could achieve the same thing through her own teahouse.
“Most people think of tea rooms around here to be inside antique malls or shared spaces,” Pat ti says. “We have a dedicated room and beautiful decor to surround and take each guest on a whimsical adventure.”
Guests will feel like Alice in Wonderland from their first step into this fanciful and elegant space, especially with its checkered flooring and light pink surfaces. Upon claiming your reservation, be seated at one of the white tablecloths before you’re poured a cup of one of their finest blends. Whether it’s Earl Grey or English Breakfast, Pattea Lou’s has 28 hot and iced varieties to sip on.
But pours from a teapot are to be expected. What elevates this cozy cafe are its multi-leveled tea towers, which bring out a delectable spread of sweet and savory delights that complement your beverage. From bacon rosemary scones to goat cheese and berry crostinis, all of its seasonal offerings can be mixed and matched to guests’ desires. Plus as a Leonidas Chocolate dealer, Pattea Lou’s ensures that everybody can indulge in the silky smooth sensations of authentic cocoa.
“This journey has truly been a blessing,” Patti says. “We welcome all guests who come in, catch up with friends or just slow down and be still in our busy world.”
Pattea Lou’s Tea Room
770 S. Main St., Suite 430
Keller
682.593.0139
PatteaLous.com
How Do You Like Them Apples?
There’s No Better Time To Celebrate This Sublime Fruit
Ah, the humble, yet shockingly versatile apple. If there were a perfect fruit, this would be it. Whether fresh from the tree, baked into a pie, turned into apple butter or roasted with a pork loin, no other fruit is as multifaceted or delicious, whether dressed up or down.
Nonetheless, the start of this school year ushered in a resurgence of memes about the self-effacing apple on its daily trip out of the house and back to the fruit bowl. Now that fall is finally here and grocery store shelves are over flowing, we’re determined to give our apples the respect they deserve and turn those round-trips into one-ways.
We went to Southlake’s own core of apple goodness, Central Market, for a little guidance on the best apples this month to guarantee that you will actually eat your apple a day. With up to 50 varieties in store sourced from the best growers around the country, there’s bound to be the per fect apple for anything. However you choose to enjoy these sweetly tart treats, there couldn’t be a better time to find the apple of your eye. These three new unique varieties will have you wishing the season for freshly picked apples was even longer.
LUDACRISP
Sweet enough to be eaten straight out of your hand (and with an arguably brilliant name), this ludicrously juicy and crispy pomme is also perfect when chopped into a salad, shredded into a slaw or mixed into a grain bowl. Some in terestingly describe the flavor of this scarlet red variety as being almost reminiscent of Juicy Fruit gum.
OPAL GOLD
This golden yellow hybrid of the Golden Delicious and Topaz is known for its sweet and tangy flavor. While it has enough density and acidity to stand out as a baking apple, it’s flavorful enough to hold its own when showcased with prosciutto and asiago and paired with a cool, elegant sau vignon blanc.
SWEETANGO
A Honeycrisp-Zestar cross, this remarkably crunchy ap ple has lively hints of citrus, honey and spice. Because it is semi-sweet, it makes a perfect fresh snack on its own. However, if it does wind up back in your kitchen, its extra crunchy texture lends nicely to being baked into tarts, pies and muffins.
CENTRAL MARKET
1425 E. Southlake Blvd.
817.310.5600
CentralMarket.com
TABITHA KANE AND GRETCHEN MACAULAY JUGGLE PODCASTING AND MOM LIFE
From the newest hit Netflix show to the docuseries that everybody’s talking about, it’s no secret that we are all obsessed with true crime. Long-distance friends and moms Tabitha Kane and Gretchen Macaulay went so far as to start their own podcast, “Housewives Of True Crime.” Since 2019, these two investigative enthusiasts have covered one provocative case after another, even when they're over a thousand miles apart between North Texas and California. Now with more than 450 episodes to date and thousands of listeners tuning in weekly to Spotify, Pandora and Apple Podcasts, it’s safe to say these two are living their motto of “wine, true crime and in bed by 9.”
TABITHA: WE’VE BEEN BEST FRIENDS FOR… pretty much our entire adult lives. We’re both married, we both have kids and we toyed with the idea of podcasting together for a long time. Then in 2014, Sarah Koenig came out with ‘Serial,’ which was sort of the first true crime podcast to take off. We were both pretty obsessed and found ourselves talking about cases in the carpool line on the way to school.
GRETCHEN: OUR EVERYDAY MOM LIFE… wasn’t going to be interesting enough to podcast about on the daily. Then one day, it went off like a light bulb. We always end up talking about true crime, so why don’t we cover true crime?
TABITHA: MY FASCINATION WITH TRUE CRIME STARTED… when I was in high school. A local woman was murdered in my hometown, and the courtroom was right across the street. After school, instead of going to hang out with my girlfriends, I would go and sit in the courtroom and watch this case. I think people are just naturally intrigued by other people’s lives and learning the things to look out for.
GRETCHEN: WE TRY TO DISSECT… as much information as we can. We start with local newspapers, we read a lot of books, watch some documentaries. We get our hands on pretty much anything we can find.
TABITHA: EVERY WEEK, WE TAKE TURNS TELLING… a story. Gretchen doesn’t know what I’m going to share, and I don’t know what she’s going to share. We ask questions, and we respond to each other. That’s the whole point — to get each other’s organic reaction.
GRETCHEN: IT’S IMPORTANT TO BE… accommodating to each other’s lives. Sometimes that means we have to record at midnight. Sometimes it means recording at 5 in the morning. We’re just fortunate enough to have something like this podcast that allows us the flexibility to do everything that is important to us.
TABITHA: WE HAVE NOT MISSED A RECORDING IN… five years. We release new episodes every Monday and keep our schedules flexible when our calendars get crazy.
GRETCHEN: IT'S NOT WORTH DOING WHEN… we’re tired or distracted. We don’t sound like ourselves, we’re not prepared. It just defeats the purpose, because we only share this story with our audience once. We need to be at our best when we do it or just don’t do it at all.
TABITHA: THE BEST CASES TO COVER ARE ALWAYS CRIMES OF… passion. We like focusing on cases that have a good twist and a good takeaway. Most often, that takeaway is ‘Don’t cheat on your spouse.’
GRETCHEN: WE’VE BEEN DIVING INTO MORE… interviews this year, and that’s been really fun for us. We recently talked with former New York City detective Tom Smith, who was also part of the terrorism task force with the FBI. We also have an upcoming interview with a victim whose husband made an attempt on her life. That’s the beauty of podcasting — it can go wherever it takes us.
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Infuse Your Next Ladies’ Trip With New Levels of Fun
While a relaxing spa retreat is exactly what we all need from time to time, there’s nothing that brings back the joie de vivre faster than a week away full of stimulating pur suits for body and mind. That goes double when it also means a perfect opportunity to bond with your besties, ensuring inside joke material to reference for years to come. If your mantra is to work hard and play harder, here are some idyl lic options where you can let loose with your squad.
PURA VIDA Adventure awaits in exotic locales like Costa Rica
lywood. Set in the center of serenity in the Sonoran Desert and surrounded by the Santa Catalina Mountains, you are guaranteed an inspirational, exhilarating and all-around fun experience at this O.G. wellness resort, where you can round out your experience with hiking, biking and pickleball, not to mention a spa that is frequently described as “life-changing.” CanyonRanch.com
Tuscan Culinary School
Toscana Saporita (Massarosa, Italy)
If you and your friends love bringing more to the kitchen table than just juicy gossip, spend a week living out your “Under the Tuscan Sun” fantasies while upping your culi nary skills at this renowned cooking school. No matter your current abilities in the kitchen, you’ll soon be rolling out homemade gnocchi, pasta and pastries like a pro under the masterful guidance of founder and famed Italian chef Sandra Rosy Lotti and her impressive team. It doesn’t hurt that students get to cook and stay in a charming lakeside country house right in the heart of the Tuscan hills that iconic opera composer Giacomo Puccini once called home. Chef Sandra is also well known for spilling tea about how the French ripped off Italian cooking during the Renaissance, which is sure to impress anyone lucky enough to chat with you over a plate of your soon-to-be-famous ravioli. ToscanaSaporita.com
Surf And Spanish
School Of The World (Jaco, Costa Rica)
Embrace the spirit of “Pura Vida” in Costa Rica and channel your inner surfers while also honing your Spanish. The Pacific coast of this Central American paradise is well known for stunning, sandy beaches, superior surf and vast nature. School of the World, located in picturesque Jaco, will give you the kind of immersive vacation you’ve been dreaming of since that junior year study abroad program. While there are lush private lodging accommodations available, those who really want to dive into Tico (aka Costa Rican) culture can choose a homestay with a local family, taking the novelty of this excursion to a new crest. In addition to surfing and Spanish, the school offers package bundles with classes in yoga, photography and videography, so you can all pick different course combos and swap notes when you reconvene at night. SchoolOfTheWorld.org
EmpowHer Pickleball Retreat Club Med (Turks and Caicos)
White sandy beaches, turquoise waters, fruity cocktails, lush, tropical surroundings and a whole lot of pickleball. What could be better? This women-only retreat, held at Turks and Caicos Club Med, features over nine hours of instruction during the week, including workshops, classes with the pros and meetups with players of the same skill level. After a satisfying day of play, relax in the crystalline waters of Turks and Caicos, or take advantage of the exquisite amenities this all-inclusive, adults-only resort has to offer. No matter what, your local pickleball club is in trouble — your squad is about to be a force to be reckoned with. KasandraMariePickleball.com
Tea & Luncheon hats for heart
December 5, 2024 | 10:30 AM | The Bowden Events & Weddings
The Hats for Heart Tea & Luncheon will bring the Northeast Tarrant County community together to learn more about women's cardiovascular health and raise life-saving funds.
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GOAT For The Gold
Simone
Biles Takes All-Star Squad On A Victory Lap
Wi th the smell of victory still fresh from the 2024 Summer Olympics, 11-time Olympic medalist Simone Biles is leading an all-star squad of some of the biggest names in American gymnastics on a high-energy celebration tour around the United States.
Free from the pressure of looming international competition, the Athleta Presents Gold Over America Tour (yes, indeed, GOAT for short) will have fans sitting on the edge of their seats as these elite gymnasts showcase their awe-inspiring athleticism through dazzling displays of twists, flips and gravity-defying stunts.
“It’s really about sharing that love and passion for the sport with the audience,” Biles told NBC News. “As well as doing a celebration tour after the Olympics, because we put so much into what we do and we’ve trained for so many years, it’s time for us to have a little bit of fun.”
When the 30-city “gymnastics-meets-pop-concert” sticks its landing in Ft. Worth, guests can expect lots of high-energy choreography, colorful outfits and dynamic sequences set to the sounds of some of pop’s biggest artists. According to reviews, two standout routines include one set to Beyoncé’s “Texas Hold ‘Em,” with the team decked out in cowboy-style gear. Another features members of the history-making men’s team in a nod to “I’m Just Ken” from last year’s box office hit, “Barbie.”
This GOAT is exactly the kind of uplifting familyfriendly spectacle that your kids will be raving about for years to come.
DETAILS
Oct. 20 Dickies Arena
OKTOBERFEST
OCTOBER 11-13
SOUTHLAKE TOWN SQUARE | A good time awaits all at the Southlake Chamber of Commerce’s annual Oktoberfest! This German-inspired, free festival welcomes 100,000 visitors every year who love browsing hand-crafted arts and crafts booths in town square, cheering on dogs in the wiener dog race, live music and entertainment, a dedicated kids’ area and tons of delicious foods and drinks for sale. Plus, those with a competitive edge can participate in the “Super Smash Bros.” tournament while the over 21 folks enjoy their bier. Lederhosen is not required but definitely recommended.
OCTOBER 18-19
TEXAS TRUST CU THEATRE | From Ben Barber on the “Ride Along” series to the notoriously hard-headed Fridge on “Ju manji: Welcome to the Jungle,” it’s impossible to choose a favorite character played by Kevin Hart. Now, the Emmy-nom inated standup comedian is taking his act on the road for his new tour, “Acting My Age.” Whether he’s starring in the newest hit blockbuster or making crowds explode into laughter on one of his Netflix specials, Kevin Hart never fails to be seriously funny. Photo by Shutterstock | Featureflash
BIG TEXAS RUN
OCTOBER 19
COLLEYVILLE | Jump feet-first into Colleyville’s all-new Harvest Festival! This family-friendly event features all sorts of fun attractions, including inflatable corn mazes, a petting zoo, face painters, food trucks, a pumpkin patch and more! Volunteers will be passing out candy through a special Trunk-or-Treat event behind city hall, plus children and pets alike will have the chance to win fun prizes through their inaugural costume contest. Come welcome the harvest and experience fall the way you were meant to.
BUTTERFLY FLUTTERBY
OCTOBER 19
ARLINGTON | Beers, barbecue and Texas — what could be better? Everything you love about the Lone Star State is at the 4th annual Big Tex Run. Choose the 5K or 10K course, where you will be treated to beautiful views of AT&T Stadium and the new Globe Life Field Ballpark. Afterward, put on your event Tshirt and finisher’s medal and join the after-party at Texas Live!, featuring free beers from Revolver Brewing. If you’re hungry, there’s plenty of delicious barbecue available to purchase at this Texas-sized celebration!
GRAPEVINE | Grab the kids and head to the Botanical Gardens at Heritage Park, because the Monarch butterflies are officially migrating from Canada to Mexico! Not only will this community event feature live butterfly releases, but it will also have a science station, arts and crafts and a costume contest where entrants can dress their best! Plus this special occasion will feature a Butterflies Around The World exhibit showing what migration looks like from other countries — not to mention a stunning 22-foot sculpture whose beauty nearly rivals the Monarch itself. oct 19
FRANKIE VALLI & THE FOUR SEASONS
OCTOBER 25
TEXAS TRUST CU THEATRE | As the original Jersey boys, Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons are true American legends. This fall, the dynamic doo-wop group is stepping onto the stage for one last encore. With over 100 million records sold worldwide, their music has spanned generations, with their hit songs including “Sherry,” “Big Girls Don’t Cry” and “Oh What A Night.” From their golden-age sound to making fans swoon, you can’t take your eyes off Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons.
DIWALIFEST
OCTOBER 26
SOUTHLAKE TOWN SQUARE | Southlake’s most anticipated festival of lights returns for its seventh annual event this fall. Hosted by the Southlake Foundation, Diwalifest is a multicultural festival that celebrates Indian culture and traditions through dance performances, food and live entertainment. With activities including arts and crafts, clothing and jewelry exhibits, photo booths, a fashion show, raffles, prizes and an open dance floor, there are many ways to celebrate Diwali at this family-friendly festival. When the night is over, stick around for a fireworks show that will light up the sky and your hearts.
MONSTER JAM
OCTOBER 26
AT&T STADIUM | The most unexpected, unscripted and unfor gettable motorsports experience in the metroplex returns to Arlington this fall. Featuring the DFW debut of four monster Marvel trucks, this adrenaline-fueled experience features Thor, Iron Man, the Black Panther and the Amazing Spider-Man against longtime favorites like the legendary Grave Digger. From high-flying stunts and meet-and-greets to autograph opportunities and fierce head-to-head collisions, start your engines and witness an epic monster truck battle you will never forget.
OCTOBER 25-27
DENTON | Guests can expect spooky sounds, soulful ghosts, mutant romantics and lots of witches at Cirque du Horror, an original Halloween musical composed by former Carroll High School band teacher and Denton native David J. Anzaldua Pierce. This family-friendly show features musical sketches about ghouls, monsters and mortals as they encounter the magic and mystery of All Hallow’s Eve. Hosted by Grampula, a geriatric emcee vampire who thinks he’s got jokes, the show features killer tunes from the Orchestra of the Undead — not to mention an aerial violin performance by Southlake musician Veronica Gan. Don’t forget to dress up with your best costume!
TRICK ‘R TREAT TRAINS
OCTOBER 27
COTTON BELT RAILROAD | Who says you need to walk door to door to go trick-or-treating? This Halloween, the Grapevine Vintage Railroad is getting a spooky makeover for its Trick ‘R Treat trains! Wear your best costume and hop aboard for this supernatural railroad experience. Not only will every passenger get their own bag of treats, but they’ll also play fun games and hear scary stories that will send shivers down their spines. Whether you’re here for the train ride or the Halloween festivities, the Grapevine Vintage Railroad is all treats, no tricks.
BEETLEJUICE
OCTOBER 29 - NOVEMBER 3
BASS PERFORMANCE HALL | Turn on the juice and see what shakes loose at Performing Arts Fort Worth’s live performance of “Beetlejuice!” Based on Tim Burton’s horror-comedy classic, “Beetlejuice” follows a recently deceased couple looking to scare away the family that’s currently living in their home. Featuring an astonishing set, creepy costumes, tricks and treats and a musical score that’s out of this netherworld, “Beetlejuice” is screamingly good fun that is too good to pass up. Get ready to say his name three times, because it’s showtime for these ghoulish guests.
SPIDER-MAN: ACROSS THE SPIDER-VERSE IN CONCERT
NOVEMBER 2
BASS PERFORMANCE HALL | Tune into your spider senses and get ready for a web-slinging good time, because "Spider-Man: Across The Spider-Verse” Live in Concert is coming to Bass Performance Hall. This concert experience features a live screening of the Academy Award-nominated animated film and a live performance of Daniel Pemberton’s symphonic orchestral and hip-hop score. Immerse yourself in the experience with songs featuring popular artists such as Nas, Metro Boomin’, ASAP Rocky, Future and more!
NIKKI GLASER
NOVEMBER 8
TEXAS TRUST CU THEATRE | From roasting Tom Brady on Netflix to releasing her newest comedy special on Max, Nikki Glaser continues to prove why she’s one of the funniest comedians working in the industry today. Between three podcasts and a hit reality sitcom series, Nikki has been on top of her game with her unfiltered, no-holds-barred style of comedy. Now, the Emmy-nominated performer is coming to North Texas for her “Alive And Unwell” tour, and fans are looking forward to welcoming home Nikki Glaser.
MRS. DOUBTFIRE
NOVEMBER 5-10
BASS PERFORMANCE HALL | Everyone’s favorite Scottish nanny is headed to Fort Worth for her big-stage debut! Based on Anne Fine’s original novel and the 1994 comedy film featuring the late Robin Williams, “Mrs. Doubtfire” tells the story of an out-ofwork actor who will do — and wear — anything for his kids. Directed by four-time Tony Award winner Jerry Zaks of “Hello Dolly!” and with set design by “Hamilton’s” David Korins, this hilarious and heartfelt musical will lift your mood and your spirits thanks to the unlikely nanny that everyone needs right now. nov 5-10
SOUTHLAKE STYLE
READERS’ CHOICE
winner spotlight
HEALTH & BEAUTY
HOME
ACUPUNCTURIST
Winner: Farrah Hamraie, Southlake Natural Family Wellness
231 E. Southlake Blvd., Suite 120 817.410.1919 | AcuFarrah.com
AESTHETICIAN
Winner: Roxanne Drese, SkinRX Clinical Spa
361 W. Southlake Blvd., Suite 120 844.754.6791 | DFWSkinRX.com
BODY SCULPTING
Winner: The Aesthetics Society 261 E. Southlake Blvd., Suite 100 817.500.0557 | TheAestheticsSociety. com
BOTOX/FILLERS
Winner: Erika Goff, Renew MD 231 W. Southlake Blvd., Suite 160 817.678.5388 | RenewMDMedSpa.com
Winner: Amanda Scheidt, The Brow Boutique 106 N. Main St., Grapevine 817.217.6519 | MyBrowBestie.com
CHIROPRACTOR
Winner: Back To Life Chiropractic DFW 6220 Colleyville Blvd., Suite A, Colleyville 817.410.8010 | BackToLifeDFW.com
CONCIERGE MEDICINE
Winner: Mid Cities Direct Primary Care 1501 Hughes Road, Suite 103, Grapevine 817.662.0901 | MidCitiesDirectCare.com
HAIR REMOVAL
Winner: The Aesthetics Society 261 E. Southlake Blvd., Suite 100 817.500.0557 | TheAestheticsSociety.com
HAIR STYLIST
Winner: Alexa Sparger & Lilian Fernandez, Studio 9400 2231 E. Southlake Blvd. 214.929.2387 | Studio9400.GlossGenius. com
MASSAGE
Winner: Corinthian Wellness Spa 1251 E. Southlake Blvd., Suite 345 817.416.9366 | CorinthianSpa.com
MED SPA
Winner: Opal Esthetics 2231 E. Southlake Blvd. 817.992.9233 | OpalEsthetic.com
MICROBLADING
Winner: The Aesthetics Society 261 E. Southlake Blvd., Suite 100 817.500.0557 | TheAestheticsSociety. com
NAIL SALON
Winner: Corinthian Wellness Spa 1251 E. Southlake Blvd., Suite 345 817.416.9366 | CorinthianSpa.com
NUTRITIONIST
Winner: Alex Fioroni 817.527.1410 | TheNutritionChef.com
OBSTETRICS/GYNECOLOGIST
Winner: Grapevine OBGYN 1600 W. College St., Suite 340, Grapevine 817.329.0389 | GrapevineOBGYN.com
PILATES
Winner: Inspire Physical Therapy And Wellness
280 Commerce St., Suite 115, Southlake 817.912.1420 | InspirePTAndWellness.com
PLASTIC SURGERY
Winner: Mark Mason, Southlake Plastic Surgery
900 E. Southlake Blvd., Suite 100 817.442.8900
SouthlakePlasticSurgery.com
SPA
Winner: Opal Esthetics 2231 E. Southlake Blvd. 817.992.9233 | OpalEsthetic.com
TANNING SALON
Winner: Smart Bronze Sunless Tanning 100 W. Southlake Blvd., Suite 142 817.251.1082 | SmartBronze.com
VITAMIN INFUSIONS
Winner: Opal Esthetics 2231 E. Southlake Blvd. 817.992.9233 | OpalEsthetic.com
WEIGHT LOSS SERVICES
Winner: The Aesthetics Society 261 E. Southlake Blvd., Suite 100 817.500.0557 | TheAestheticsSociety. com
YOGA STUDIO
Winner: Sanara Yoga & Wellness 2008 E. State Hwy. 114, Southlake 817.329.9268 | SanaraWellness.com
MOTIVATED MOMS & DADS
NORTH TEXAS PARENTS COME TOGETHER TO EMBRACE AND EMPOWER EACH OTHER
MARCH THROUGH MAIN STREET DRAGONS HOLD HOMECOMING PARADE IN TOWN SQUARE
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PHOTOS
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Dallas sculptor hits home run with Rangers collab
parting SHOT
Nancy Dennis
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Kim Bedwell
817-229-9445
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“Leigh has been both a mentor and friend. By tasking me with challenging projects and trusting me to get the job done right, she inspired me and gave me confidence. She has been such a positive influence and I’m so grateful to have her in my life.”
Southlake’s finest agents, on the women who inspire them most.
Eric Hacker
972-365-1677
“My wife has been my rock and motivator since high school, always supporting me and pushing me forward. Her love and strength have shaped who I am today, and she is an incredible role model for our children. I am forever grateful for her.”
Jessica Smith
214-908-4724
“My former boss, Lisa, embodies the abundance mindset and believes there is room for all to succeed. We launched the Women’s Inspirational Network while working together at Sotheby’s International Realty ®, and we continue to collaborate and exchange industry insights.”
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