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Pizzadili Vineyard and Winery can make your event a dream come true. We are the ideal location for your event needs and we will cater to both large and small groups. If you are interested in a private dinner party or even a large festival on the grounds, Pizzadili Vineyard & Winery is the place for your event. Pizzadili’s Catering has had an outstanding reputation for over 50 years. The Pizzadili Family operates their catering business with the same passion today as they did in the beginning. We truly view each customer as a part of our extended family of friends and are committed to providing them with the event of their dreams.
ALL OCCASIONS Family Operated Since 2007 Conveniently located on Peach Basket Rd., Felton, Del. – just off Route 13
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Wedding contents
planner & keepsake
The perfect venue for your special day is as close as the CHEER Center
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Tips for wedding catering from Abbott’s Grill
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Seating Chart Nightmares
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Understanding the roles of the leader and follower
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Dressing the bride and groom
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Be smart about wedding beauty preparation
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Heritage Shores Club offers award winning event venue
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Hot trends in wedding cuisine
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Cake-cutting etiquette and guidelines
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Creative ways to make a memorable wedding entrance
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Dressing for wedding day comfort
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The guide to choosing groomsmen
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Tips for your honeymoon
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TIPS OF THE TRADE
Order all of your bridesmaids dresses at the same time because color dye lots vary.
Julia Cornell-Ferris, Candlelight Bridal Formal and Tailoring
Heather & Justin were married at Gethsemane United Methodist Church in Seaford on June 21. Photo by Ginger Springer Photography
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Jana & Mike were married at Green Hill Country Club just outside of Salisbury, on October 11, 2014. Photo by Ginger Springer Photography
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The perfect venue for your special day is as close as the CHEER Center The Warren L. & Charles C. Allen, Jr. CHEER Community Center was built with the community in mind. Conveniently located on the corner of Sand Hill and Route 9 east of Georgetown, the center offers a serene atmosphere that will capture your magical moment. CHEER offers a turnkey venue to host your wedding ceremony in one beautiful, convenient location. Complete with a stage and dance floor, the 6,000-squarefoot reception venue can be divided into a smaller venue to accommodate a more intimate setting. Outside in our gardens you will find a gazebo and seating area for outdoor ceremonies. Our experienced, professional staff will work hard to provide the atmosphere of your dreams on your special day. Catered by Chef Paul Buchness, Lighthouse Catering provides a wonderful selection of menu options that will have your guests complimenting you, the entire day. Our testimonials show how much we care!
“The employees of the CHEER Community Center are very helpful and flexible. The staff will bend over backwards to make sure you have everything you want. The cost for what you get is unbeatable. I was pleased with the Lighthouse Catering. CHEER is a blank canvas that you can paint, to build a perfect day!” “We cannot express how amazing the CHEER Center is. Looking back onhow great the people were, choosing to have our wedding and reception there, was one of the best decisions we made! We had the whole place available to set up the entire day before no extra charge which was awesome! It was a gorgeous room and so much great space! The event coordinator, Judy, was such a sweet, caring and helpful person. I am thankful she was there for us on our special day! I would highly recommend the Cheer Center as a great ceremony and/or reception venue!” Amber & Mathew, May 2014
“The CHEER Community provided a wonderful experience for a wedding that I coordinated. The staff was friendly and personable and above all very accommodating. I would highly recommend this facility to anyone looking for an affordable venue to hold a wedding reception.”
Every event is special and we take pride in our ability to ensure every bride and her guests are satisfied. Before you book your ceremony, you owe it to yourself to consider the reception venue at the CHEER Community Center to make your wedding dreams a reality.
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Tips for wedding catering from Abbott’s Grill Delaware’s Abbott’s Grill offers brides & grooms exceptional and experienced catering for their special day. Both of their Milford & Laurel locations offer a spacious and elegant private banquet room that can seat up to 100 guests. Both locations offer outdoor space to hold ceremonies, making it a convenient choice for one-stop weddings. Off-site catering is available statewide for couples that have a pre-selected venue. Abbott’s also boasts an in-house pastry chef who can create the reception focal point of a stunning (and delicious) wedding cake. The catering coordinators at Abbott’s Grill are happy to offer some bits of advice for the future bride and groom. Whether it’s a backyard barbeque wedding or a white glove reception, the staff at Abbott’s Grill will be happy to customize catering choices to each and every couple they serve. When planning the catering aspect of a wedding, couples should have a budget in mind as to how much they’re able to allocate towards the meal. This should include any type of items that may need to be rented in order to execute the food, particularly if it's at an off-site venue. These may include china, utensils, glassware and linens just to
name a few. Couples should also know what type of food and feel they want their guests to experience at their reception. Part of this includes deciding between a plated meal or buffet, heavy hors d’oeuvres or a full meal, offering adult beverages or not, etc. The ceremony and reception time will help dictate what guests may expect in terms of food. However, couples should keep in mind that it’s their special day and they ultimately should decide on what they would like to be served. When planning the reception meal with a catering director, couples should try to keep in mind any guests that may have special dietary needs. Couples may want to ask on their response cards when sending out invitations for guests to write down any allergy or food concerns. This way the caterer can prepare ahead of time for these special needs to make sure every wedding guest gets a proper meal. Couples should also decide whether they will offer their vendors, such as their photographer and videographer, a meal at the reception. Most caterers, including Abbott’s Grill, will offer meals to the vendors at a discounted rate. Abbott’s Grill would like to extend a sincere congratulations to all currently engaged couples as they embark on this exciting new chapter of their life. Couples who may be interested in speaking with an event coordinator can call 302-491-6736 for Milford or 302-280-6172 for Laurel, or visit www.abbottsgrill. com for more information.
TIPS OF THE TRADE Schedule a "practice do" a month prior to the wedding date. This is the time for color and cut and take your veil too! This will save precious time on the wedding day. Rose Fluharty Styles by Us
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Seating Chart Nightmares By Laura Rogers, The UPS Store, Seaford Del. Once upon a time, I read a blog posted by a bride who was the victim of a seating chart debacle. The bride left the seating at her informal wedding reception to chance. Chance was not kind to her. The events that unfolded were reminiscent of a 90’s romantic comedy. Groom’s drunken uncle deeply offends bride’s tea totaling aunt and so on. There was fighting, there were tears, and the bride wished she’d had the foresight to avoid what seemed like an obvious conflict. Back in the day, place cards ruled the seating chart universe. But, no one wants to write out 100 plus name cards in their very best handwriting, or pay a printer to print that many custom pieces. My favorite wedding piece to print is a seating chart. Typically, they are really large and get framed or placed on an easel near the entrance to the reception. The best part is, seating charts are easy to design and they are a lot of fun, especially if the wedding is themed. I’ve printed charts as basic as a floral design and as complex as a Periodic Table of Elements theme. The possibilities are limitless. It’s fun. It’s easy. It’s beautiful. And above all… it’s safe.
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University of Delaware Conference Services has the perfect backdrop for your wedding day. The Virden Center in Lewes is a hidden treasure – off the beaten path yet close to everything this historic shore town has to offer. Virden’s layout is easy and open – including expansive grounds surrounded by coastal wetlands which naturally enhance outdoor celebrations. Exceptional event planners are at your service – coordinating every detail from start to finish. We invite you to arrange a tour and let us help you make this special moment in your history unforgettable.
No event is more important than your wedding.
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Understanding the roles of the leader and follower By Yvonne Cimo Dance Moves and Manners
Love is a Lot Like Dancing... You Just Surrender to the Music The Role of The Leader The Role of Follower Each Serving a Common Purpose... To Move Beautifully Together as One Whether I am teaching a couple to dance for their first dance or teaching those who are interested in learning social dancing for pleasure, the premise of lead and follow must be addressed. So many people are afraid of dancing, and it’s not surprising. Dancing together in closed hold and moving as one is a lost art. We all dance alone, stand alone, shake our bodies alone. But when a couple in love plans their wedding and they feel they must follow tradition, together they must face: THE FIRST DANCE! Without some instruction and understanding each person's roles, a couple's first dance can turn into a wedding wrestling match. Why they are wrestling: He’s worried that he will look foolish. She is worried that he will make her look foolish. She tries to "help" him
make it work and subtly steals the lead (hijacking). His concentration goes out the window. Result: Frustration and anxiety. The fear of "partner dancing" fades when they each understand their own unique and important role! How does lead and follow work? Does the leader dictate and is the follower passive? In his book, The Courageous Follower: Standing Up to and for Our Leaders, Ira Chaleff speaks mainly to the corporate world, but his findings work well with any situation, including dancing together. He says, “Following is not a passive act. It’s a partnership that recognizes different responsibilities while working toward a common goal.” When a leader learns how to lead in dance – they are surprised that these are easy, learnable skills. They assume the role more willingly, because they have more awareness and confidence. When the follower understands just how important their support is – they relax, stop wrestling for control, and enjoy the dance! Their supportive role enhances the beauty of the dance. Two people move as one. It really can work! It’s a fabulous feeling! Try one of our FREE Wedding Dance Workshops (anyone can attend) held March 28 and 30, and April 12. Email, Yvonne@DanceMovesandManners.com or call 302222-3755.
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Engagement Stories Justin & Taylor
By Taylor Forse
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My fiancé's name is Justin Tapia and we got engaged August 10, 2013 at the Belvedere Castle in Central Park in New York City. We go to NYC every year to visit his aunt, and it has become one of our favorite places to visit. We climbed to the top of the castle to see the view. It was absolutely beautiful! I turned around to show Justin my picture, and he was down on his knee and asked me to marry him! He told me he proposed at the top of a castle because I was his queen. We are getting married this year on May 23rd in Snow Hill.
Jana & Mike were married at Green Hill Country Club just outside of Salisbury on October 11, 2014. The bride and the maids arrived to the ceremony via boat. Photo by Ginger Springer Photography
TIPS OF THE TRADE If you have bridal party attendants who live out of the area, get their measurements so that all dresses can be ordered at the same time. Your wedding dress consultant can then advise you about alternations. Terry Barnes, owner AmorĂŠ Bridal
MILLSBORO TOWN CENTER Weddings ~ Wedding Receptions ~ Special Events ~ Meetings Newly renovated interior and exterior. Kitchen available Use your favorite caterer. Spacious Lobby parking easy access.
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Dressing the Bride and Groom Brides 2 Be by Hope Mitchell
Grooms Attire
Ali & Mike were married on the beach in Rehoboth, DE on June 29. Photo by Ginger Springer Photography
Today's stylish grooms want a well fitting tuxedo or suit. Don't limit yourself to pop-pop's boxy txedo because one or two of your men may be a little heavy. With the proper measurements, everyone can look wonderful in slim cut suits and tuxedos. We suggest you check out the newest line from Michael Kors. Our family boutique is connected to thousands of boutiques as well as the largesy formalwear network in the country, Jim's Formalwear. Your men can be professionally measured within 30 minutes from their homes nationwide. Your party members can call in their measurements and deposits and we will have their rental ready for them when they arrive in town for a final fitting. Family-owned bridal shops have bigger selections, are more experienced in measuring and fitting and are invested in seeing all of your men arrive in today's fresh styles. A perk to renting or purchasing with Brides 2 Be by Hope Mitchell - with a total of six men in your party
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you may be able to choose: • A free suit to keep (valued at $249) • Have the brides gown and veil cleaned and preserved (valued at $249) • Receive one tuxedo rental at no charge (valued at $249) • A $40 discount coupon for each rental
The Bridal Appointment
With the popular reality shows featuring brides bringing six, seven, eight, or even 10 guests to their appointments, many brides feel pressured into asking their entire bridal party to help them find their perfect dress. Although this can be exciting and fun, it also may be exhausting and confusing for many brides. Most brides shop on Saturdays. That being said, most bridal shops are not equipped to handle six to seven guests accompanying three to five brides shopping at the same time. Most brides make out best with mom, grandmom, and sister. Here are some pros and cons of bringing a large group to your bridal fitting.
Cons • The pressure to find the gown while everyone is with you • The pressure to please the entire group • Having most of your group picking gowns for you to try that really don't interest you • If you love a gown in the dressing room but are met with dissapointment by your guests when you emerge Some brides just feel more comfortable with a large group. If you wish to have more than four guests attend your bridal fitting, we at Brides 2 Be by Hope Mitchell can accommodate you more comfortably by booking an appointment at the end of the day on Saturday or scheduling a private, after-hours appointment during the week.
A beautiful shopping experience...
Pros • No one is left out of the experience • The brides are surrounded by love and support • It's magical having your loved ones with you, when you realize "This is The One"
TIPS OF THE TRADE When you select your engagement ring, make sure there is a matching band. Shop in advance allowing two months for availability and sizing. Donna Koskey Chardon Jewelers
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Be smart about wedding beauty preparation
All eyes are on the bride and groom on their wedding day. Feeling beautiful and dapper can boost a couple’s confidence and ensure they look back on their wedding photographs and videos with pride. Certain beauty basics and makeup and hair strategies can help any bride look spectacular on her wedding day. The following are some dos and don’ts of wedding day beauty preparations. DO employ the services of a professional hairstylist and makeup artist. Professionals have the experience and tools of the trade to help you to look your best. From contouring to make your face seem slimmer to enlarging the appearance of small eyes, some tricks of the trade are best left to the pros. DON’T forget to schedule a trial run. Make this appointment several months before the wedding day so you have ample time to work with your stylists and experiment with colors and hair arrangements to fit your personality and the style of your gown. Take plenty of pictures and notes so you will remember what needs to be on hand for the wedding day.
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DO allot enough time for the wedding day beauty appointment. If you will be going to a salon, block out two or more slots instead of one. This way the stylist does not overbook and will not feel rushed. Many brides opt to have stylists come to their homes. There may be an extra charge for this service, but it may be well worth the cost. DO bring a veil, headpiece, hair extensions, and any other accessories to your hair consult. This enables the stylist to practice working with these items. DON’T tweeze or wax brows too close to the start of the ceremony. Redness and swelling are common side effects of tweezing and waxing, and they can be difficult to mask with makeup. Instead, take care of hair removal a day or two prior to the wedding. DON’T wash or condition hair the day of the wedding. Intricate styles tend to stay better when hair has a little grip. “Dirty” hair is easier to work with than shiny, freshly washed locks. If you must wash, remember to thoroughly dry your hair before going to your appointment.
Say at the Beach The Rehoboth Beach and Dewey Beach Resort Area offers venue space, cozy accommodations, caterers, florists and more to make your day special! Contact the Rehoboth Beach-Dewey Beach Chamber of Commerce for information! 302-227-6446 · www.SayIDoInRehoboth.com
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Engagement Stories Graham & Kaity
By Kaity Mulford Graham West and I have been dating for almost five years and in September we started the process of building our first home together. In November, for Graham's birthday, I planned a whole weekend with some close friends to go to Pittsburgh to see a Pittsburgh Steelers game and also just to enjoy the city. We had been to Pittsburgh several times before and we just love it. I would say it's "our city." So we get to Pittsburgh, the girls get ready, and then we head out to a nice dinner and drinks for Grahams birthday. On our walk I saw a huge Christmas tree across the way that was all lit up for Christmas. It just happened to be in Point State Park. I had always wanted to go to PSP but we just never had the time in any of our other trips. We get there and of course I am begging for pictures on top of the stair case in front of the tree. I turn around and Graham is down on one knee with a ring. Everyone around starts cheering and clapping and next thing I know we're engaged! It was such a wonderful night. The wedding date is Oct. 20. 2015.
After your special day, let me make the American dream of home ownership a reality for you!
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Heritage Shores Club offers award winning event venue Located in Southern Delaware and just a short drive to the nearby beach cities, the Heritage Shores Club offers an award-winning wedding and event venue set amid the backdrop of the 18-hole championship golf course. For the third consecutive year, the Heritage Shores Club is proud to have been awarded the Couple’s Choice Award from leading wedding resource, WeddingWire. In addition to being a Couple’s Choice Winner, the Heritage Shores Club consistently receives five star reviews from real brides and couples that have selected Heritage Shores as their wedding venue. The ultimate wedding reception facility, our impressive 28,000 square foot Nantucket inspired Clubhouse provides an elegant and serene setting for hosting any type of special event from weddings and receptions to corporate meetings and banquets. The soft palate of warm hues of the main ballroom creates an inviting venue for our brides and grooms to host up to 400 guests for your wedding reception or 300 for a formal dinner.
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Our vast lawn overlooking the beautiful Arthur Hills designed golf course is available for outdoor weddings and can host up to 250 guests. Enjoy one of the four additional meeting room spaces for more intimate receptions for up to 50 people or reserve the Passwater’s Restaurant for parties of up to 80 guests. Our team of experienced Coordinating Specialists is available to plan every detail from menu customization to theme and dÊcor conception so that your special wedding reception or event will reflect all the care and attention it deserves. Our culinary team has developed a variety of specialized menus for our event guests to use to build and develop their ideal menu. We will work directly with our guests to ensure the menu selection is perfectly tailored to suit your event. We pride ourselves on partnering with the best in the industry and have developed relationships with these vendors to provide you with every resource necessary to create the day of your dreams. We invite you to schedule a tour today with our Director of Sales, Stefanie Barfield, to see why the Heritage Shores Club will be the ideal fit for your big day. Visit us online at heritageshoresgolf.com or call 302.337.9910 x316. 18
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Lighthouse Catering Experienced, Unique, Affordable What makes us unique? We customize our menus for each event to make you comfortable not just with the food choices, but pricing as well. Our goal is quite simple, to make you Paul happy!
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Hot trends in wedding cuisine Once a couple has officially tied the knot, the newly recognized man and wife and all of their guests will retire to a party room where they can mingle, dance and enjoy a good meal. In the past, standard fare like prime rib and roasted chicken dominated wedding menus. But today's weddings cater to people of various culinary tastes, and couples and their guests can expect more upscale and creative cuisine to be rolled out for wedding receptions. The following are a handful of the more popular trends with regard to wedding cuisine.
Miniature bites
Many people say good things come in small packages, and when it comes to miniature versions of favorite foods, they may be right. Instead of large meals that fill guests up fast, they can munch on smaller bites of their favorite dishes. How about a piece of meatloaf topped with whipped mashed potatoes? A cherry tomato with a small piece of mozzarella cheese makes a mini caprese salad. Turning favorite foods into bite-sized adventures can add a touch of whimsy to the reception.
Gourmet comfort food
People love familiar comfort foods, but now gourmet
comfort foods are shaking up wedding receptions. Macand-cheese with gouda and brie or chicken pot pie with a puff-pastry crust are a few offerings that can add glamour to down-home cooking.
Family style
Rustic and informal weddings have grown in popularity. Rather than food being brought to the guests or participants lining up in buffet lines, family-style dining allows guests to share conversation and pass the peas at the same time. Larger, rectangular tables allow more guests to sit with one another and serve themselves food from community plates located in the center of the tables.
Vegan and gluten-free options
Chances are one or more people attending the reception will be on a restricted diet. Rather than relegate these guests to dining on side dishes and patchwork meals, certain couples are building entire offerings around vegan and gluten-free foods. Couples are getting creative with their food and beverage offerings at their weddings. Guests never know which culinary wonders they will encounter as they gather to wish the newlyweds well.
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By Jason Cameron Evelin Gonzalez, her sons and I went to Washington, DC, to see the cherry blossoms. The trip had a lot of meaning to us because Washington D.C. was the site of our first real date and Ev loves cherry blossoms and had never been to D.C. to see them in full bloom. We drove to New Carrolton and took the train into DC. We walked to the basin and walked all the way around the Potomac River stopping at the Jefferson Memorial. As we completed the walk we stopped by a tree in full bloom. With the ring in my pocket I hugged her and kissed her under the tree and told her how much I loved her and we talked about how special D.C. was to us. I then told her how much I loved her and how I couldn't live without her and I took the ring out of my pocket got down on one knee and asked her to marry me. She said yes while JJ and Evan smiled as some tourists around us clapped as I put her engagement ring on her finger and we kissed under the cherry blossom tree. The wedding will take place June 20, 2015, at the Pizzadili Vineyard.
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By Ally Mohun
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In 2011, Nate and I heard about a competition for DE’s Most Creative Couple, put on by the University of Delaware Football Team and Orly Diamonds. The winning couple would get a $10,000 diamond ring! On a whim we entered and after 7 weeks of challenges we found ourselves in the semi-finals. On November 10th the finalists were announced and we were one of them! Orly Diamonds then gave us our final challenge - to create something out of a cardboard box following specific rules which had to be turned in at UD’s stadium prior to the start of the Homecoming football game just 2 days later. The final four couples were brought out on to the field with our boxes. On the count of three, the guys opened the boxes and Nate looked on the bottom of the lid where a piece of paper taped to it said “WIN”! He held it up to the crowd like a trophy and the stadium erupted in cheers! From that point on everything was a blur. The cameras came in close, Nate was given a microphone then right before my eyes he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him!
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Cake-cutting etiquette and guidelines The presentation of the wedding cake marks the culmination of the day's festivities and a final symbol of a happy couple's new partnership. Many people eagerly await the cake as much as they may anticipate catching a glimpse of the bride in her beautiful gown. While the cake in all its finery can be a beautiful sight to behold, a cake can only last so long before its fate as a delicious dessert is sealed. As is the case with many wedding traditions, there is some established etiquette with regard to cutting and serving wedding cake. If you plan on putting your cake on display, be sure it is made with a frosting and filling that can endure room temperature. Certain creams may sour if not refrigerated, and you do not want anyone becoming ill. If you have your heart set on perishable fillings, keep the cake refrigerated and then have the big reveal right before it is cut. The cake cutting usually comes near the end of the wedding reception. Schedule the cutting so that older guests or young children can leave without feeling as if they would be offending anyone. The emcee of the evening typically announces the cake cutting, and the band may play a quirky tune or revisit the wedding song while the first slice is being cut. A bride should hold the cake knife with her right hand, while the groom places his right hand over hers before they proceed to slice down together. If the cake has a foam or cardboard support, be careful not to cut through it. Use a cake server to grab the first piece. Traditionally the newly betrothed will feed each other a bite of the cake to symbolize their first meal
as a couple. Couples can feed each other a small amount, taking care not to spill any. Many couples no longer embrace the once-popular tradition of smashing cake in each other's faces, but whether or not couples follow this tradition is up to them. Some couples like to serve their parents a piece of cake. Traditionally the bride should serve the groom's parents and the groom the bride's parents.
Recognize that not all guests like cake, but it's better to err on the side of caution and have a cake that will feed all of the guests. You also may want to offer a dessert bar for guests who prefer another type of sweet treat. However, this is a luxury, not a necessity. The cake-cutting ritual at weddings has withstood the test of time, and many couples still prefer to present the cake with fanfare and excitement.
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Creative ways to make a memorable wedding entrance Once wedding vows and rings have been exchanged, many couples join their friends and family to celebrate with a wedding reception. Many brides and grooms eagerly await the moment when they can make their grand entrance to the reception, and over the years it has become customary for couples to make a bit of a splash when making their first appearance as husband and wife. Some enter with a special song. Others prefer something a bit more theatrical. Explore these ideas for memorable wedding reception entrances. Catch guests by surprise. Wedding guests will probably expect the wedding party to enter through a certain door and the bride and groom to follow afterward. An element of surprise, such as the couple rising from the floor or appearing from a different area in the reception hall, may not require a lot of planning but can have a dramatic effect. Stick to one or two songs. Some couples think it might be fun to have each member of the wedding party enter with a different song. Not only will this take a lot of coordination on the part of the deejay, but it can make the entrance choppy as well. Introductions may
go more smoothly if couples have the entire wedding party enter to a particular song that revs up the crowd and gets them excited for the grand entrance. At the height of the song, the bride and groom will enter. Go with people's strengths. A couple may want to showcase special skills as they enter the reception hall. There's no limit to what couples can do, from acrobatic techniques to tap dancing to juggling. If it's entertaining, it very well may prove memorable.
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Make sure everyone is on board. Couples should recognize that some members of the wedding party may be uncomfortable acting like clowns in front of a crowd. Do not force anyone to participate in crazy antics if they do not want to. Find things each member of a wedding party feels comfortable doing. Couples may want their bridal party members to enter in a more traditional way before the newlyweds do something more dramatic and humorous. Include the entrance in your planning. If you want to follow a certain theme, such as "Star Wars" or "Mission Impossible," coordinate in advance with a deejay or band members. Talk about what, if any, props you plan to use and the type of music that will be playing. If entrances involve choreography, be certain to practice in advance of the wedding so everything will work out well and look professional. However, even stunts that go awry can be entertaining and funny for guests.
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Dressing for wedding day comfort Wedding attire is known more for style than comfort. Formal wear, high heels and the various trappings of wedding day wardrobes do not always equate to a day of comfort. While dressing up will never be the same as slipping into a well-worn pair of jeans, there are ways for brides, grooms and guests to be comfortable on the big day. • Dress for the weather. It's tempting to put appearances before comfort. However, wearing clothing without regard for the weather is a surefire way to be uncomfortable all day long. Choose lightweight fabrics for warm weather occasions, and heavier fabrics when attending a winter wedding. Wraps, short jackets, muffs, and decorative scarves allow women to cover up if there's a chill from the weather or if air conditioning is set too cold. • Invest in alterations. Few people can wear clothing, especially formal attire, right off the rack. The services of a good tailor can prove invaluable. Shortened hemlines or tightened sleeves can make dresses fit better. Shapewear or support components may be added to the wedding gown so that extra undergarment layers can be
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avoided. The less you have to fuss with clothing, the more comfortable you will be. Try on your outfit without alterations and point out the areas that are bothersome. Is a bodice slipping down? Is the tuxedo jacket a little too snug? Speak with the tailor about what can be done to remedy the situation. • Choose the right size. Formal wear is frequently governed by a different set of sizes from everyday attire. Formal items are cut smaller and more in line with high fashion couture sizing. Expect to have to go up in size with regard to formal gowns. Instead of concerning yourself with the size on the tag, focus on the fit. Squeezing into something that is too small can make you uncomfortable all evening long and inhibit your ability to enjoy yourself on the dance floor. Avoid discomfort (and split seams) by leaving some wiggle room in wedding day ensembles. • Focus on footwear. Guests' eyes likely won't be on your feet. Still, many people subject themselves to uncomfortable shoes all in the name of fashion. The fastest way to an unenjoyable time is having to sit out a wedding because your shoes are causing excruciating
pain. New shoes sometimes need a period of breaking in, so wear them around the house to determine if they're comfortable enough to wear for several hours at a time. Women should opt for the lowest heel possible to avoid pressure on the balls and arches of their feet. Floorlength wedding gowns usually cover a bride's feet, so she has more leeway with finding an attractive, yet comfortable shoe. Outdoor weddings tend to be more casual than indoor affairs, and guests may be perfectly comfortable wearing sandals. • Brides can go minimalist. Wedding dresses range from ethereal sheaths to layered princess gowns. The more fabric, tulle, boning and crinoline in the gown, the heavier it will be. Heavy gowns can make it difficult to move around, particularly when dancing or visiting the restroom. Unless you have your heart set on a full Cinderella look, scale back on your gown. • Eat and choose healthy foods. Don't skip meals the day of the wedding. Choose low-sodium, low-sugar foods that provide sustained energy without sitting heavily in your stomach or causing fluid retention. In addition, be sure to drink plenty of water. Dehydration and hunger pangs can ruin a wedding by causing fatigue, headaches and even fainting. Comfort may not be a top priority when planning a wedding. But wedding guests and participants alike should dress with some manner of comfort in mind in order to make the day more enjoyable.
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The guide to choosing groomsmen Grooms-to-be face many decisions regarding their pending nuptials, but few may prove as delicate as choosing the groomsmen for the big day. Friends who expect to be groomsmen may be disappointed if they are not ultimately chosen, while brothers may feel left out if they are not asked to walk a bridesmaid up the aisle. Choosing groomsmen should not be taken lightly. Grooms-to-be who are facing some difficult choices with regard to that decision can follow a few pointers to ensure they make the right call. • Pick a number. Before you even consider who you want your groomsmen to be, speak to your fiancée about how many bridesmaids she hopes to have. The number of groomsmen and bridesmaids typically matches, so your fiancée's intentions may make your decision a lot easier. For example, if you have two brothers and several friends you're considering, but your fiancée only intends to have a maid of honor and one bridesmaid, then you can just ask both of your brothers to serve as groomsmen. Friends are unlikely be offended if family members
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Tips for a great honeymoon • Start saving early. Honeymoons are expensive, so to afford the vacation of your dreams it's wise to begin saving for the honeymoon as early as possible. It may be well worth it to compromise and make sacrifices in other areas to ensure you have enough funds for your dream honeymoon getaway. Do not expect cash gifts at your wedding to pay for your trip. If you do, you may be sorely disappointed when the time comes to take off. • Read online reviews. Online reviews can paint an accurate picture of a potential honeymoon destination. Look at vacationer-supplied photographs to see how the accommodations match up to the resort's own marketing materials. You don't want any surprises to ruin your trip. • Plan at least one exciting outing. While on your honeymoon, be sure to go on at least one adventure. Try an activity you have never done before, such as snorkeling, traveling a zip line or swimming with stingrays. • Pack early. After a long wedding day and reception spent dancing into the wee hours of the morning, you probably do not want to spend time packing. Pack your suitcases and travel essentials in advance of your wedding day so you have more time to sleep in before you depart for the airport. • Enjoy your surroundings. A honeymoon is an opportunity to relax, and that may not be possible if you're tied to your devices. Friends at home can wait for your status updates and wedding pictures.
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