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SPRING FESTIVALS + OUTDOOR MOVIES
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18 2018 Readers’ Favorites Our annual roundup of family favorite places and services as nominated by our readers
24 Sizing Up Daycare Questions you should ask when choosing daycare for your child
26 Sweet Dreams and Bedtime Routines Six sleep myths debunked and how to put an end to the all-nighters with baby
28 Keeping Kids Safe Online
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IN EVERY ISSUE 7 FYI 14 Growing Up 17 Families Managing Media 30 Excursion 40 Daddy Derek Inside back cover: Faces and Places
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CALENDAR 31 Our Picks 33 Outdoor Movies and Concerts 34 Spring Festivals 37 On Stage
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move to a big bed, which likely means more ups and downs throughout the night and a longer bedtime routine. We also build very imperfect sand castles and laugh when we knock them down. I have the pleasure of getting a “hairstyle” with tools from his toddler toolbox and also have my ears checked for monkeys by the young one pretending to be a doctor. It’s all fun and games, and the challenges are fleeting. Soon he will be strutting into kindergarten, then first, second and third grade and so on. Do toddlers make super messes? Yes they do. Do they give super love? Yes they do. This is our baby and toddler issue. We cover myths and truths of sleep training for a baby and parents on page 26, because sleep is possibly the most needed, but lacking,
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thing for parents of little ones. We asked a multitude of sleep experts their opinions on how to nurture solid sleep patterns that benefit all in the family. If you are a parent who needs child care while you work, be sure to read the feature on page 24 about questions to ask when choosing a child care center. Trusting your gut about a child care center is probably the best advice, but there are many other things to consider. We also present our 2018 Readers’ Favorites. As Charlotte and its surrounding communities grow, so do the places for families to play and explore. More than 450 readers shared their favorite places to get a haircut, go to summer camp, get doughnuts, go on a hike and much more. See all the 2018 Readers’ Favorites on
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Participants in Charlotte Mecklenburg Library’s 2018 Summer Break program can earn prizes, including a ticket to Carowinds, by completing learning activities. Photo by Robert Christopher/Charlotte Mecklenburg Library
Charlotte Mecklenburg Library and Carowinds Partner for 2018 Summer Break Program Charlotte Mecklenburg Library’s perennial Summer Break program returns this year, June 1 through Aug. 12. Thanks to a new partnership between Charlotte Mecklenburg Library and Carowinds, participants enrolled in Summer Break who meet reading requirements and participate in the program for nine out of 10 weeks are eligible to receive one Carowinds ticket for completing the program. Tickets are valid at Carowinds through the end of the 2018 season, and are available while supplies last. The Summer Break program encourages participants to read 20 minutes per day and engage in additional learning activities in the categories of writing, creating, playing, exploring and giving. Keeping a journal, writing a poem, trying a new hobby, swimming and playing a new game with a friend are a few of the activities that count as learning activities in addition to reading. As participants track their activities online, they collect badges and become eligible for weekly random prize drawings. “Completers” are individuals who read and log at least 20 hours of reading, or read for at least 10 hours and complete 10 hours of suggested activities. Preregistration for the 2018 Summer Break with the Charlotte Mecklenburg Library begins May 21. Find more details summerbreak.cmlibrary.org.
Gear Up for BIKE! Charlotte’s Kids Bicycle Rodeo May is National Bike Month. Pump up the bicycle tires and pedal out for one or more of the BIKE! Charlotte events planned throughout the city through May 13. Children and adults can learn to ride a bike using the tried-and-true “balance bike” method and take a spin through the Bike Safety Rodeo course at the Learn to Ride/Kids Bicycle Safety Rodeo happening May 12 at Arbor Glen Outreach Center on Clanton Road. The Kids Bicycle Safety Rodeo teaches the basics of bicycle safety to ages 7-12 with a limited number of free helmets available for participants. A Sunday Slow Riders Mother’s Day Ride is also planned May 13. The Sunday Slow Ride begins at Gumbo in Plaza Midwood at 1:45 p.m. heading out to McGill Rose Garden at 2 p.m. Be sure to bring your helmet. Find more BIKE! Charlotte events at bikecharlotte.org.
Treat Yourself for Mother’s Day Mother’s Day is May 13. Though time with the kids is darling, take some time for you. To celebrate being a mom, we offer up these ideas for a day out. A day away. For $20, you can purchase a Levine Center for the Arts Museum Access Ticket for twoday access to the Mint Museum, Bechtler Museum of Modern Art and Harvey B. Gantt Center for African-American Arts + Culture. Explore the latest exhibits and then walk a couple blocks over to Romare Bearden Park to lounge uninterrupted in the sunshine. levinecenterarts.org. Girls’ night out. Comedians and YouTube sensations Jen Smedley and Kristin Hensley bring their quick wit and hilarious stage show to Ovens Auditorium Sunday, May 6 at 7 p.m. With more than 1.5 million followers on social media and 120 million views of their web series, plus a half-hour, multi-cam comedy in the works with CBS, these two are on a roll for mom-ination and are might just make you laugh til your cry with their honest humor. Tickets start at $37. ovensauditorium.com. charlotteparent.com | MAY 2018
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EOGS Are Coming Children who attend North Carolina public schools and are in grades three through eight take end-of-grade (aka EOGs) tests each May. For some kids, EOGs are no big deal, but for others it can be nerve wracking. Share these test-taking tips with your child to help calm nerves on testing days. 1. Read, read, read. Remind your child to carefully and slowly read the question, and then read it again before answering to be sure he understands what is being asked. 2. Key words. Most EOG tests are multiple choice, so the answer is there. Look for key words in the question to help decide on the best answer. 3. Take your time. There’s no race to finish first. Scan the answers, then go back and review questions and answers before turning in the test. 4. Treat it like a regular day. Don’t make test day such a big deal that it worries your child. Remind him that the questions are about things he’s learned throughout the school year. Make sure he gets a good night’s sleep and eats a healthy breakfast for a smart start to the day.
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Presenting a team entry at the 2017 Charlotte Model Water Tower Competition. Apply for the 2018 competition through May 4. Photo by Leslie Jones
Charlotte Water Take Over Day at Discovery Place Drive a closed-circuit television camera into a simulated sewer, piece together a water meter, and prepare slides for water experiments at Charlotte Water’s take over at Discovery Place Science on Saturday, May 12. The takeover day is part of National Drinking Water Week, May 6-12, and is designed to educate the community of the importance of reliable drinking water. Elementary (fourth- and fifth-grade students) and middle school students will showcase their engineering skills as part of the Charlotte Model Water Tower Competition happening from 9 a.m.-noon at the Discovery Place take over. The competition, sponsored by Charlotte Water and the American Water Works Association North Carolina Section, challenges students to build a structurally efficient model water tower that can quickly be filled and drained, while also being pleasing to the eye. Innovation and ingenuity is rewarded. Individuals or groups of four can enter the competition through May 4. Cash prizes are awarded to the top three finishers. Find more information at charlottenc.gov/water/pages/drinking-water-week.aspx.
CMS Launches Digital Dashboard Charlotte-Mecklenburg Schools recently launched an online tool that provides data on individual school performance, test scores and enrollment. The dashboard is a portal to a wealth of information about enrollment, race and ethnicity, gender and overall school performance. Parents can review graduation rates, test scores, and data on absenteeism and student incidents. “Everyone has access to this dashboard,” says CMS superintendent Dr. Clayton Wilcox. “We want to be transparent and we encourage everyone — families, the public and our employees — to use it to learn about our schools.” The dashboard also offers a range of filters that allow comparisons of individual schools and of performance over time, something helpful for parents unfamiliar with the school choices throughout CMS, or for parents who are new to the system. Access the dashboard from the main page of the CMS website: cms.k12.nc.us.
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Check out CSA’s other programs, like summer camps, private music and art lessons, group classes, and workshops, at www.csarts.org!
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The Parenting Guide to Calmer Potty Train When you are ready to throw away the diapers and take on potty training, pick up Sarah Ockwell-Smith’s book “Ready, Set, Go! A Gentle Parenting Guide to Calmer Quicker Potty Training” (Penguin Randomhouse, June 2018, $16 paperback; $11.99 ebook). The author, a trained prenatal teacher, postnatal doula, pediatric homeopath and cofounder of gentleparenting.com, provides stepby-step advice for a compassionate and emotionally aware pottytraining process. She fuses a mix of physiology, child readiness and positive parent-child connection into her potty-training methods, leaving the gimmicks and pressure behind. With a mindful approach, she guides parents to watch for their child’s cues, ditching quick fixes and competitive impulses to meet or beat another child’s milestones and alleviating anxieties by putting their child’s needs first. With practical preparation tips to get your house ready, and emotional preparation for you and your child, she equips parents for potty training with fewer meltdowns all around.
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Safe Sleep for Babies With Babysitters Babies who died during their sleep while being watched by someone other than parents often had been placed in unsafe sleep positions, such as on their stomachs, or in unsafe locations, such as a couch, according to a new study by the University of Virginia. Researchers reviewed more than 10,000 infant deaths and found that 1,375 deaths occurred when a parent was not present. Among those 1,375 cases, they determined that babies were less likely to be placed on their back, the sleep position recommended by the American Academy of Pediatrics, than when under parental care. Babies also were more likely to be placed in sleep environments with objects that might prove hazardous. The AAP recommends that sleep spaces be free of toys and soft bedding, including blankets and sleep bumpers, and deaths under the supervision of friends and relatives were most likely to occur while the babies were held or placed on an adult bed. Always take a minute to discuss where and how your baby should sleep, and don’t make assumptions that the person your baby is staying with knows what is safest.
Breastfeeding Success Isn’t ‘All or None’ A new mom wants nothing more than to provide the very best for her new bundle of joy. Most moms are aware of the many benefits of breastfeeding, including some protection from infections, diabetes, certain childhood cancers, obesity and allergies. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends exclusive breastfeeding for the first six months of life with continuation throughout the first year, but despite best intentions and efforts, mothers and babies often encounter breastfeeding problems along the way, such as low milk supply, painful latching, engorgement or mastitis. Breastfeeding struggles can lead to feelings of guilt and failure, but breastfeeding does not have to be an “all or none” situation, says Dr. Rhonda Patt, a pediatrician with Charlotte Pediatric Clinic. Babies receive health benefits from any amount breastfeeding. In fact, breastfeeding for two months reduces the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome by nearly half and this is unchanged whether the baby is exclusively breastfed or receiving a combination of breast milk and formula. Mothers who are facing breastfeeding challenges may want to seek assistance from a lactation consultant and should consider any amount of breastfeeding as a success.
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to being a spine surgeon — or any medical provider — can make juggling family and work life hard. Whether the front desk person, the nurses in clinic, the hospitals, radiology technicians, mid-level providers or any other members of the team, there frequently are patient needs that pull us away from our families. For those of us with supportive and understanding families, the juggling can be a little easier as our families understand that we are at work late, or going in early, to take care of the health of our patients. Regardless, it is still hard to juggle the work-family balance. What is your favorite thing about raising a family in Charlotte? Charlotte has been home for me for a long time. One of my favorite things about raising my family here is getting to share some of the things that I grew up doing, such as the Charlotte Nature Museum (now Discovery Place Nature) and Discovery Place and others with my kids and wife.
Get to Know: Matt Chapman BY MICHELE HUGGINS
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r. Matt Chapman is a spine surgeon at OrthoCarolina. He lives in south Charlotte with his wife Jenny Chapman and their two children Trey, 6, and Ellie Rose, 4.
Where in Charlotte do you live? Where did you grow up? We live in Barclay Downs. I grew up in Charlotte, specifically in the Cotswold area. My wife grew up in Raleigh, North Carolina. Tell us about your job. What do you like most about it? What are the challenges? I am a spine surgeon, practicing at the OrthoCarolina Spine Center on Randolph Road. My practice encompasses patients of all ages, including pediatric and adult. The majority of my practice involves treating patients with back, neck, arm or leg pain, predominantly treating them nonoperatively. I specialize in treating patients with scoliosis or other spine conditions. I also take care of patients with fractures or other pain following accidents. I most enjoy the variety of it. Whether
Best advice ever received: Take care of your patients the way you want your wife, your kids, your brothers, your parents or yourself to be treated. Proudest parenting moment: Seeing my kids recognize when one of their friends is feeling left out of an activity and consciously trying to include them in whatever activity they are doing.
an adult with a degenerative spine condition, or a child with scoliosis, spine conditions significantly impact each individual patient in a multitude of ways. Treating each patient with the variety of options that exist to improve their quality of life is very rewarding. Seeing patients improve and regain their life is what I like the most about it. One of the biggest challenges is treating adolescent or younger patients whose conditions respond better to surgery than nonsurgical management. It is a daunting, scary decision to make for patients and their parents. As a father, I know that it would be a very difficult decision to make, but we work to make it less overwhelming and achieve the best outcome.
What is your favorite Instagram account? I’m a little old school and don’t have Instagram.
What’s the hardest part of juggling family life and work life? The hours that go in
Last books read? “Pete the Cat” and “Pinkalicious.”
Lowest parenting moment: When our kids are discussing who they want to put them to bed at the end of the day, and I’m the odd man out. What are three things you can’t live without? 1. My family. 2. Trips to the beach. 3. Coffee.
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GROWING UP up, Giorgi says. Keep practice sessions fun and brief and let your child choose a helmet and bike she loves. Since safety slip-ups can cause major setbacks for hesitant kids, take a few minutes to make sure bike sessions are dramafree. Northwestern Medicine’s ThinkFirst Injury Prevention Program recommends tying shoelaces that could get caught in spokes, insisting on closed-toe shoes (no riding barefoot or in sandals), and teaching kids to ride single file — never side by side. Hesitant children may feel more confident on a bike that fits well, and your child may outgrow his bike sooner than you think. By age 7 or 8, many children are ready to move to a 20-inch bicycle and hand the smaller 16-inch bike to a younger sibling or neighbor. A quick visit to a local bike shop can help match your child to the right size. Teen Years
Let’s Roll Get bike-ready, age by age BY MALIA JACOBSON
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ant to encourage a lifetime of fitness, fun and freedom? Bicycling offers all three and today’s young riders are safer than ever. Child fatalities from bike accidents have dropped 62 percent since 1999 according to U.S. government statistics. That doesn’t mean you should turn your child loose on two wheels without proper preparation. Bike-related accidents still send more than 240,000 kids to the emergency room each year with 26,000 of those having traumatic brain injuries. Here’s how to get tots, teens and in-betweens safely rolling along.
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Balancing Act Training wheels and tricycles aren’t the only options for toddlers who want to ride. These days, more children are hopping on balance bikes — two-wheeled bikes without pedals — to get up to speed before graduating to a pedal bicycle. Balance bikes can help kids as young as 18 months build strength and confidence, and may help them learn to ride a traditional bike sooner. “Balance bikes are really easy to use and there's no learning curve,” says Richard Giorgi, founder of Carrboro-based ReCYCLEry NC, a nonprofit teaching bicycle repair and maintenance, and helping community members earn bicycles. “Balance bikes are stable. The don't rock side to side or
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tip over, and the child always has their feet on the ground.” Pick a balance bike based on your child’s height (visit twowheelingtots.com for sizing guidance). Proper fit allows children to straddle the bike easily and keep both feet solidly on the ground. Giorgi recommends wooden balance bikes with solid wheels. “It’s not about speed, it’s about learning and stability,” he says. “Heavier and more solid is OK. They’re not made to roll fast.” Elementary Years
Ready, Set, Roll While some children are happily riding a twowheeled bike by first grade, others need more practice and support to feel confident on a bike. If your child is a reluctant rider, don’t give
Noggin Nation While children ages 10-14 have more bikerelated emergency room visits than older teens, riders ages 15-19 account for more than half of bike-related deaths. The vast majority (88 percent) of teen bike fatalities are boys. Since teens ride bikes with minimal adult supervision, it’s vital to instill sound helmet habits to keep them safe. Start with fit. Per ThinkFirst National Injury Prevention Foundation’s tips, bike helmets should fit snugly and sit flat on the head (like a baseball cap with the brim pointed straight out), not tilted back. Side straps should form a V-shape, with the bottom point directly beneath the earlobe. You should be able to fit one finger inside a buckled strap, but no more. Riding after dark or on wet streets increases the risk of crash and injury. Ask teens to call for a ride if they’re out after dark or caught in the rain. Teens are old enough to take some responsibility for maintaining their bikes. Make wheel, frame, drivetrain and brake checks part of their regular bike-care routine for years of safe, two-wheeled fun. Malia Jacobson is a nationally published health and parenting journalist.
Summer Camps
Kids Pottery Camps for ages 6–10, students will make fun colorful projects using basic Handbuilding techniques including; coiling, pinching and slab building.
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Clayworks will run 7 week-long sessions from June 18–August 10, 2018, 9 am–12pm Youth Pottery Camp for ages 11-15, students will learn basic wheel-throwing skills and a variety of surface design techniques to truly make their projects one of a kind. June 25–June 29, 2018, 1pm–4pm • July 23–July 27, 2018, 1pm–4pm Tuition is $190 for the week, for more information visit www.learnclay.com
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FAMILIES MANAGING MEDIA Screen time is always sedentary, and a toddler gets screen time simply by secondhand use: family TV, watching their parents’ use the phone, and being in the same room with a sibling on the computer. Hugs and Cuddles One square inch of skin has 1,000 nerve endings. Pleasant, nurturing, physical touch, including sensory experiences, shapes brain development. Replace screens with hugs — as if we needed more reasons to cuddle the little ones.
Swap Toddler Screen Time for Face-to-Face Time BY MELANIE HEMPE
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ave you ever watched a toddler on a smartphone or tablet and been amazed by her ability to swipe, navigate and brilliantly figure out the educational tools? With good
intentions, we place screens in front of toddlers, assuming that they can learn something when in fact, screens do not help young children develop their thinking skills. Without question, toddlers are very bright. At age 3, a child’s brain is twice as active as an adult brain. When he or she is interacting with a screen, however, you are witnessing what brain scientists call an orienting response or reflex, not signs of budding intelligence. A cat that swipes at a fish on his screen (yes, there are such things as cat apps) has the same reflex. A toddler simply responds to the novel or significant stimuli of the bright lights and sounds. The key to stimulating a child’s developing brain is simpler — and cheaper — than an expensive piece of technology. Here is what your child needs more than screens. Spoken Words Dr. Dana Suskind, author of “Thirty Million Words,” identifies parent-talk as the most valuable resource in the world. Language develops the brain’s optimal potential. Talking, singing, reading and speaking words in person in a serve-andreceive manner engage the whole brain. Words are so important that a lack of them during the first three years of life can permanently put your child on a lower trajectory for academic success. Smarter kids have more words spoken to them, not
Build Personal Bonds Strong parental attachment makes for healthy brains. In the absence of a connected parent, children may attach to devices and can develop loneliness. Be mindful to be fully present when you are with your young child. Device Trade-offs • Choose everyday conversations to teach colors and ABC’s. Toddlers learn much more from you then they will from an app. • Plan ahead. Keep small toys, books and laminated photos (of people, family, pets and funny things) in your purse to trump screen time when out and about. • Hire a young neighbor “helper” to play with your toddler when you are home and need to get work done. It is an inexpensive way for them to hear more words and develop social skills. • Choose being outside over screen time any time you can.
more screen time. Talk to your child all the time. Put your phone away when you are at the grocery store and talk face-to-face about everything you are doing. Make eye contact. Even read this article out loud to him. The sound of your words matter more than the content.
Toddlers who find comfort in screens can easily turn into big kids with screen problems. Science and common sense confirms that a toddler is socially, physically and academically ahead if screens are left behind.
Run, Dance, Jump More than genetics, physical movement stimulates neural pathways needed for brain development. Early and abundant movement affects how well a toddler learns in the future.
Melanie Hempe is the founder of Families Managing Media, a nonprofit organization dedicated to helping families reduce childhood screen overuse. For more information visit familiesmanagingmedia.com. charlotteparent.com | MAY 2018
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As Charlotte and its surrounding communities grow, so do the options of places to play, explore and learn as a family. We know every family has their favorites, so each year we ask Charlotte Parent readers to share where they like to eat out with kids, destinations to explore and services that help make life a bit easier. From favorite place to get a sweet treat to summer camps and babysitting services, we hope these readers’ picks help you discover new places, as well as some long-standing landmarks not to be missed.
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ICE CREAM: Ben & Jerry’s. These guys know how to make ice cream, and the clever names for the vast assortment of unique flavor combinations are fun too. Some locations also host kids’ birthday parties. Davidson, Foxcroft, Myers Park and Parktowne Shopping Center. benandjerrys.com.
Amelie’s French Bakery and Cafe serves up sweet and savory pastry creations. Photo courtesy of Amelie’s French Bakery and Cafe
EATS AND TREATS FAMILY-FRIENDLY RESTAURANT: Lupie’s Café. It’s known for its four different kinds of chili, but its menu of sides can easily be turned into a meal. Add in its burgers and daily specials, including spaghetti for the kids, and it’s a hit with families. Look for the stand-alone white brick building with the neon sign on Monroe Road near Plaza Midwood. lupiescafe.net BURGER JOINT: Bad Daddy’s Burger Bar. When you crave a juicy burger with all the toppings and then some, Bad
Daddy’s Burger Bar can satisfy that craving with its menu of burgers, including the Classic Southern, Bacon Cheeseburger on Steroids and Sam I Am (with a fried egg on top). Don’t skip a handspun shake and truffle fries. Dilworth, Ballantyne, Birkdale and Charlotte Douglas International Airport. baddaddysburgerbar.com. PIZZERIA: Hawthorne’s Pizza. Hawthorne’s made headlines for The Inducer, its Buffalo-wing pizza thought to be spicy enough to push moms-to-be into labor. Its
authentic New York-style pizza can be covered with whatever toppings your family likes, with classic pepperoni being a top choice. Eight locations throughout Charlotte. hawthornespizza.com. DOUGHNUTS: Duck Donuts. Featured flavors like Vanilla Icing With Hot Fudge Drizzle and Sprinkles, and Maple Icing With Chopped Bacon are hard to beat, but you can also coat, top and drizzle a doughnut made-to-order your way. Dilworth. duckdonuts.com.
SWEET TREAT: Amelie’s French Bakery and Cafe. The bakery is known for its salted-caramel brownies, but its macrons, sticky buns and croissants are scrumptious too. Each location is loaded with quirky design elements, it a fun place to play I Spy with the kids. Carmel Commons, NoDa, Park Road Shopping Center, Rock Hill and Uptown. ameliesfrenchbakery.com.
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KIDS MENU: Chic-fil-A | chic-fil-a.com
FARMER’S MARKET: Charlotte Regional Farmer’s Market | charlottefarmersmarket.com BREAKFAST SPOT: The Orginal Pancake House | theoriginalpancakehouse.com OUTDOOR BEER GARDEN: Old Mecklenburg Brewery | oldmeckbrew.com
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DESTINATIONS AND OUTINGS PLACE TO PLAY WITH A TODDLER: Discovery Place Kids. Discovery Place Kids is a world of imagination for young visitors. From water tables to a real fire truck and its “I Can” theme rooms, including a doctor’s office and engineering lab, children can play, climb and pretend the day away. Huntersville. kids. discoveryplace.org. DAY TRIP + ANIMAL ATTRACTION: North Carolina Zoo. Just an hour-and-a-half drive from Charlotte to Asheboro, the North Carolina Zoo sits on a 2,200-acre tract of land with 500 acres developed into the largest “natural habitat” zoo in the United States. Animals, including elephants, zebras, giraffes, bison, polar bears, sea lions and cougars, live in areas that mimic natural habitats. There’s also an education center, kidzone and playground. nczoo.org.
Young visitors can have handson fun at Discovery Place Kids in Huntersville. Photo courtesy of discovery place
LIVE THEATER FOR KIDS: Children’s Theatre of Charlotte. Seventy seasons and going strong, the professional production company showcases stage performances with dazzling costumes and stage props. Recent shows include “Mary Poppins” and “Madagascar: A Musical Adventure.” ImaginOn: The Joe and Joan Martin Center, 300 E. Seventh St., Charlotte. ctcharlotte.org.
CHILDREN’S MUSEUM: Discovery Place Science. Think it up in the “thought studio,” take engineering to a new level at Project Build, hold a sea creature, lie on a bed of nails in the Cool Stuff area, and learn about what’s around you in World Alive. It’s also home to Charlotte’s IMAX dome theatre. 301 N. Tryon St. 704-372-6261. science.discoveryplace.org.
KID-FRIENDLY FESTIVAL: Renaissance Festival. An eclectic mix of performance stages, medieval-themed games, jousting tournaments, and costumed characters make Ren Fest a favorite. Kids love the rides, climbing tower, fairies and overall magical atmosphere. Huntersville. carolinarenfestinfo.com
OUTDOORS DESTINATIONS
GREENWAY: Anne Springs Close Greenway ascgreenway.org PLAYGROUND/PARK: Freedom Park and Park Road Park (tie) | parksandrec.com
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PLACE TO GO FISHING WITH KIDS: Lake Norman State Park | ncparks.gov/lakenorman-state-park PLACE TO TAKE OUT-OF-TOWN VISITORS: US National Whitewater Center | usnwc.org
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PUMPKIN PATCH: Hall Family Farm. Just minutes from the urban hustle and bustle of Ballantyne, spend time on a hayride, challenge yourself with the 5-acre corn maze, sample doughnuts, funnel cakes and slushies, and pick out the perfect pumpkin at Hall Family Farm. 10713 Providence Road West. hallfamilyfarm.com.
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PRIVATE SCHOOL: Trinity Episcopal School. The independent school located in uptown Charlotte serves students in grades K-8. The curriculum supports difference and inclusion with a workshop approach to learning. Students participate in community service projects as an extension of classroom learning. 750 E. Ninth St. tescharlotte.org.
HOLIDAY LIGHT DISPLAY: Speedway Christmas. Speedway Christmas features more than 3 million lights synced to music, plus a Christmas Village. Visitors get to drive the race track to see the 3.5 miles of lights. Charlotte Motor Speedway, Concord. charlottemotorspeedway.com. PLACE TO SPLASH IN THE SUMMER: Ray’s Splash Planet. Head to Ray’s Splash Planet for year-round fun with a three-story high waterslide, lazy river, plus annual events like Swim with Santa and the Underwater Easter Egg Hunt. 215 N. Sycamore St., Charlotte. rayssplashplanet.com. FAMILY SPORTING EVENT: Charlotte Knights. Reasonably priced tickets, plus theme nights (think Star Wars and Princesses), a Homer the Dragon inflatable play area, and Friday night fireworks draw families to the BB&T Ballpark to see the Charlotte Knights play baseball. Kids can run the bases after Sunday home games, and the view of uptown Charlotte from the stadium is remarkable. BB&T Ballpark, 324 S. Mint St., charlotteknights.com.
First graders at Trinity Episcopal School plant seedlings in support of a school-wide garden initiative to grow an array of vegetables to later be harvested and served in Friendship Trays. Photo by Jessica Masanotti, Trinity Episcopal School
PRESCHOOL: Ivybrook Academy. The preschool curriculum for tots to transitional kindergarten provides intentional handson stimulation that sparks learning and interests for constructive knowledge. Charlotte, Weddington and Fort Mill. ivybrookacademy.com. TUTORING SERVICE: Kumon and Mathnasium (tie). Whether your child is looking for extra enrichment or help keeping up with important concepts in math or reading, Kumon helps students advance through programs at their own pace with individualized learning
plans. For students who need the extra push in math only, Mathnasium is the favorite choice for elementary, middle or high school math help. kumon.com and mathnasium.com. COLLEGE PLANNING SERVICE: WREN College Planning Resources. Locally owned and operated, WREN College Planning Resources works with families to plan ahead for the cost of college and be smart about savings at all stages of a child’s life. wrencpr.com
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MUSIC LESSONS: Music Together of Charlotte. With classes described as playful, rich and engaging, Music Together brings parents and their little ones together for focused time using rhythm and new beats along with their voices, instruments and movement to boost development. Classes are available for infants to age 8. Various locations. musictogetherofcharlotte.com. ART LESSONS: Noah’s Art. Children as young as 22 months can explore their own creativity through a process-oriented art experience and lots of art supplies. Studios also host birthday parties and summer camps. Blakeney and Southpark. noahs-art.com. DANCE STUDIO: Miller Street Dance Academy. In addition to ballet, tap, jazz, acro and tumbling perfect for tiny dancers just starting out, students learn teamwork, healthy habits and how to think positive. 11532 Providence Road, Charlotte and Baxter Village, Fort Mill. millerstreetdanceacademy.com. SWIM LESSONS: YMCA of Greater Charlotte. Children as young as 6 months can learn the basics of being in water in private or group classes. Swim teams are
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YMCA of Greater Charlotte takes the top spot for summer day camps. Photo courtesy of YMCA of Greater Charlotte also available. Multiple locations in Charlotte. ymcacharlotte.org.
11011 Monroe Road, Matthews. charlotteallstars.net.
DRAMA/THEATER CLASS: Children’s Theatre of Charlotte. With a year-round calendar of drama classes for all ages and summer theater camps that serve as an introduction to stage production, Children’s Theatre of Charlotte is shining a light on performance art for kids. Imaginon: The Joe and Joan Martin Center. 300 E. Seventh St. ctcharlotte.org.
MARTIAL ARTS PROGRAM: Firm Foundation Martial Arts and Urban Revolution Martial Arts (tie). Both of these family friendly dojos teach karate as well as leadership and life skills. Firm Foundation Martial Arts, Mooresville, mooresvillekarate. com. URMA, Arboretum, Charlotte, urbanrevma.com.
GYMNASTICS/CHEER PROGRAM: Charlotte Allstar Gymnastics and Cheerleading. Boasting national, regional and state championships, the gymnastics and cheering facility strives to build individual gymnastic and cheering potential with 90 classes each week. Specialized clinics and camps are also offered.
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STORY TIME: Charlotte Mecklenburg Library. Library branches throughout Mecklenburg County feature story times for all ages — from infants to children with special needs who seek a more subdued setting. Story times may include rhymes, songs, creative movement and the occasional puppet. Multiple locations. cmlibrary.org.
SUMMER CAMPS
SUMMER DAY CAMP: YMCA of Greater Charlotte | ymcacharlotte.org/camps SUMMER DAY CAMP/SPORTS: Queens College Soccer Camp | queensusoccercamps.com SUMMER DAY CAMP/ ARTS: Children’s Theatre of Charlotte and Noah’s Art (tie) | ctcharlotte.org and noahs-art.com SUMMER DAY CAMP/ ACADEMIC: Ivybrook Academy | ivybrookacademy.com SUMMER SLEEPAWAY CAMP: YMCA Camp Harrison | campharrison.org
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FOR THE PETS
PET GROOMER: PetSmart |
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PET BOARDING: Camp Bow Wow and Pet Paradise (tie) | campbowwow.com and petparadise.com
programs, and several toys are available for playing with on site. Cotswold Shopping Center, toysandco.com.; Blakeney, brilliantskytoys.com. PLACE TO BUY SHOES FOR LOCAL TOY STORE: Brilliant
Sky Toys and Books and Toys and Co. (tie). Brilliant Sky Toys and Books, and Toys and Co. are kid-tested and approved. Both stores have a wide selection of unique toys, host special events, offer free gift wrapping and rewards
KIDS: Footlocker. Athletic footwear in name brands and styles kids crave are available at Footlocker. Whether it’s soccer cleats or the hip new high tops, chances are you’ll find them at Footlocker. footlocker.com.
PLACE TO GET A CHILD’S HAIRCUT: Snip-its. Vibrant
colors, a book and toy corner for playing while you wait, movies streaming and the Snip-its Adventure Club card are some of the reasons young clients love getting their hair cut here. Parents can stay close by in the special “parent chair” while their child gets a haircut, and kids get to cash in the Adventure Club card for a prize on their way out. Birkdale Village, Huntersville; and Park Road Shopping Center, Charlotte. snipits.com.
PARTY RESOURCES
NEW PARENT RESOURCES
PLACE TO ORDER A BIRTHDAY
CAKE: Gigi’s Cupcakes and Suarez Bakery | gigiscupcakesusa.com and suarezbakery.com
BEST MOMMY AND BABY CLASS:
Kindermusik. Sensory-enriching Foundations classes enrich neural pathways of babies and toddlers through songs, movement and instruments, and parent-child interactions and socialization. Multiple locations. kindermusik.com. BEST MIDWIFE: Baby+Co. Highly trained and certified nurse-midwives coupled with delivery rooms that include Swedish bars, hydrotherapy birthing tubs, and room to move are drawing more and more moms-to-be to deliver their babies at Baby+Co. The state-of-the-art birthing center also offers preconception and postpartum care, including health and nutritional support, and mommy-and-me yoga. babyandco.com.
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PLACE FOR A TODDLER BIRTHDAY: My Gym |
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PLACE TO HAVE A BIG KID BABYSITTING/NANNY SERVICE:
Charlotte’s Best Nanny Agency. Located in Dilworth, Charlotte’s Best Nanny Agency is dedicated to providing each client with a nanny or sitter that is suited to their needs. All nannies are fully screened in person by a placement specialist, are college educated and CPR certified. charlottesbestnanny.com
BIRTHDAY: Chuck E. Cheese
| chuckecheese.com BIRTHDAY PARTY
ENTERTAINER: Enchanted
Elegance/Heroic Ventures | enchanted-elegance.com
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Sizing Up Day Care 10 questions to ask when choosing a child care facility BY SANDRA GORDON
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f you plan to return to work after your baby is born, you probably know that open day care spots can go faster than ice cream melts on a hot day. But for your child’s well being and your own peace of mind, it pays to be picky about day care. Waitlists are the normal for most child care centers in Charlotte. Many centers allow couples to pay the application fee and be placed on a waitlist before they are expecting to help ensure a spot when the time arrives. If you are interested in full-time day care, start touring centers you are interested in and get on waiting lists as soon as you find out you are pregnant. “Visit three to five day care programs,” says Kris Murray, author of “The Ultimate Childcare Marketing Guide” and a consultant
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to the child care industry. To narrow your selection, here are the top questions Murray suggests asking day care providers that can help you know if you’ve found the right place or if you need to keep looking. What activities will my child do? The code word to listen for is “curriculum.” With emerging research about early brain development, top child care programs aren’t glorified babysitters. They’re fullfeatured learning environments, even at the infant level because learning starts from birth. “There are all sorts of age-appropriate curriculums available now, from baby sign language in an infant room to early reading, nature, science, art, technology and drama programs for toddlers,” Murray says. Each
program is typically organized into themes. If the theme is insects, for example, your toddler might be asked to dress up as his favorite bug for the drama unit, paint a bug for the art unit and learn about insects in the computer lab for the technology unit. It may all just look like fun and games, but that’s the idea. “Children learn best through play,” Murray says. What’s the teacher to child ratio? It’s important for your child to get plenty of attention, especially the younger she is. Babies and toddlers 12 months old and younger need an adult to child ratio of no more than 1:4 (one adult per four infants). For toddlers 12 to 28 months old, the ratio can range from 1:3 to 1:6. Small class sizes of 10 to 12 children or less are
preferred. Even if there are plenty of adults to children, a larger group of toddlers can feel chaotic. What’s your policy about unannounced visits? The best answer is, “No problem. We have an open-door policy.” Impromptu parent visits should always be welcome, Murray says. After signing your child up, you should be able to drop by anytime. How do I know what my child does all day? Some day care centers distribute a daily activity sheet detailing what each child experienced that day, such as what she had for snack and how often her diaper was changed. Even better is paperless communication. Many day care centers offer email or text messages two to four times daily, often with pictures. “Real-time streaming helps you stay connected to your child’s day,” Murray says. When you pick your child up, you can say show them the cute pictures you received via email or text and talk about them together. What are the qualifications of the caregivers? Lead teachers should have five to seven years of experience. With practice comes the competence to handle challenging issues, such as fighting and other behavioral problems or potty training in a toddler program. Teacher bios may be available on the day care website, or “Ask for a list of the teachers, which includes the number of years of experience they’ve had in the field, their degree (in early childhood education for the lead teacher) or the training they’ve had,” Murray says. Are drop-off and pick-up hours flexible? If you work from home sometimes or need half-day help here and there, look for a day care option that can work with your nontraditional schedule. Day care that’s less than full-time is a growing trend. “For a monthly membership fee, many day care centers will allow you to
drop off your child whenever you want,” Murray says. What’s the security situation? Most child care programs are safer than they were five years ago. Some now, for example, have biometrics — requiring approved guests to place a finger on a pad to enter the building — instead of punching in a code at the door. “Stricter regulations on safety and background checks are now required in many states,” Murray says. When touring a day care center, ask whether the children are monitored by a secure webcam. Is the feed distributed to the director’s office so there’s oversight of what’s happening in the classroom? (Good.) Can you have access to the feed as well? (Double good.) Not only does camera surveillance provide peace of mind because you can see what’s going on, it allows you to engage in your child’s day (“I saw you help Sam pick up his crayons. That was so nice of you.”) “You get to spy with a positive purpose,” Murray says. How often do the kids get to go outside? Beyond extremely hot or cold weather, “there’s no excuse for children not to get outside every day,” Murray says. Your child care center should support the full health of the child, which includes spending time in nature and being active. What’s your disaster recovery and emergency policy? If there’s a fire or disaster at the school, you want to know that teachers are properly trained to quickly and effectively respond to get every child out. Every teacher should be trained in CPR too. Ask yourself: Am I comfortable with the environment? After you’ve narrowed it down to your top picks, spend an hour observing a classroom when the kids are awake. What’s the vibe? The day care center should feel open and interactions warm-hearted. Teachers should look like
THE BEGINNING OF THE STARS In 2000, the North Carolina Division of Child Development instituted the starrated licensing program as a way to offer parents more information on the quality of child-care options available. Child care and home-care facilities can earn one to five stars, five being the best. Two components give equal weight to staff education and program standards. For staff education, centers can earn more credit if their employees have gone above and beyond the basic requirements of training. The program standards part of the assessment looks at aspects of the center such as the staff-to-child ratio, the square footage per child, what materials are available for kids to play with, and sanitation issues such as how often kids and teachers wash their hands and if they wash them consistently.
they’re happy to be there and engaged with the children. If you get a good feeling about the place, chances are your child will like it too because he will pick up on your satisfaction. Finally, confirm your selection by finding out what everyone else has to say. Review testimonials from other parents on the day care center’s Facebook page and review sites such as Yelp, or ask neighbors and friends for recommendations. “Sometimes there are disgruntled employees or an occasional unhappy parent,” Murray says. If you see 10 great reviews and one negative one, you’re probably fine. Look for a preponderance of positive.” Sandra Gordon is a freelance writer who specializes in health, health care, parenting nutrition and lifestyle topics.
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Sweet Dreams and Bedtime Routines FROM NEWBORNS TO TODDLERS, THERE ARE THINGS YOU CAN DO TO PROMOTE A BETTER CHANCE OF A GOOD NIGHT’S SLEEP FOR EVERYONE BY COURTNEY MCLAUGHLIN
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s many new parents know, the phrase “sleep like a baby” can be misleading. The National Sleep Foundation recommends between 14 to 17 hours of sleep for newborns and 11 to 14 hours for toddlers, but how and when they get those precious hours of sleep varies from child to child and even between siblings. “My daughter was born almost two weeks after her due date and the first night home she slept six hours,” says Dave Stewart who lives in the Madison Park neighborhood in Charlotte. “Our fortune did not make it to our second child. Our son was three weeks early and he slept a lot during the day but night time was a different story.” After several weeks of pulling all nighters, Stewart and his wife went in search of a solution. They found it in a sleepsuit designed to give baby a secure “swaddled” feel when back sleeping. Stewart says it was a game changer and happily reports his son, who is 4 months old, now sleeps five to six hours at a stretch.
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“We are still a little bleary eyed in the mornings but feel much more rested,” he says. Most parents expect the first few months with baby to be challenging, especially in the sleep department, but there are things you can do to help everyone catch some much needed shut-eye. Preparation and Routine Are Key Even for the newest addition to the family, there are things parents can do to encourage good sleep habits right away. Dr. Rhonda Patt, a pediatrician at Charlotte Pediatric Clinic and Regional Medical Director of Atrium Health, encourages parents to promote daytime wakefulness and keep light and stimulation low at night. “Nothing prepares new parents for the sleep deprivation they will experience when their bundle of joy arrives,” Patt says. “When a baby first comes into the world, her body does not know the difference between daytime and nighttime.” More activity during the day and a calmer night routine can help baby untangle days and nights.
There are hundreds of books, gadgets, websites, gizmos and advice about how to live with a baby and not lose all your beauty sleep or sanity. We asked local doctors, and infant and toddler sleep specialists to weigh in about the myths and truths about sleep in those early days, months and years of a child’s life.
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Meg Hendery, owner of Queen City Newborn Care suggests stocking up on a few keys, including a white noise machine, blackout curtains and a great swaddle blanket at the ready. Parents may also want to consider sleepsuits like Stewart and his family used for their son. “Sleep suits are totally fine until baby starts rolling,” Hendery says. “At that point, baby has to go to a sleep sack that typically has a zipper or Velcro.” Of course, routine is the ultimate weapon in promoting healthy sleep habits, especially as children get older. “It’s important to have a bedtime routine which subconsciously is a ‘yellow brick road’ to sleep,” says Dr. Lili Poon, a pediatric sleep specialist with Novant Health Pediatric Sleep Specialists. “Avoid letting your child spend lots of non-sleep time in bed. Keeping activities separate from the bed allows them to associate the bed with restful sleep.” The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends a bedtime routine of helping children brush their teeth, reading a favorite
MYTH: Adding rice cereal to the bedtime bottle will make a baby sleep longer. TRUTH: “Adding rice cereal to the bedtime bottle does not prolong sleep,” says Rhonda Patt, a pediatrician at Charlotte Pediatric Clinic. “And it may cause stomach aches in a baby who was too young for rice cereal.”
MYTH: Skipping a nap or having baby stay up later means they will sleep longer the next morning. TRUTH: Morgan Griffith, owner of Sleep Pea Consulting, says while you might be lucky and get a few more hours sleep from your child by skipping a nap or going to bed later, ultimately he or she could be at risk for getting overtired and creating a sleep deficit. In general, well-rested babies sleep better at night.
book or two, and getting to bed at a regular time each night. When Sleep Is a Problem Babies and toddlers go through good and more difficult sleep periods just like adults can. Lack of sleep, however, can lead to serious problems. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, adequate sleep on a regular basis leads to improved attention, behavior, learning, memory, emotional regulation, and mental and physical health, while over-tired children are at increased risk for injuries, obesity and depression. Sleep and lack thereof should be part of the conversation at routine checkups with your child’s pediatrician. “Because sleep is developmental, what is normal for a 3-month-old, would be different from that of a 9-month-old. If a toddler is still waking in the night and sleepy during the day these could be signs of a sleep disorder that may warrant further investigation,”
Patt says. “The most common sleep disorders seen in toddlers are night terrors, sleepwalking, nightmares, sleep apnea and restless leg syndrome.” Clues your child may be suffering from a sleeping disorder could include behavioral issues, delays in learning, long breathing pauses, loud snoring and growth issues, Poon says. Some of these disorders could be reversed with more restful sleep. Whether your baby is a champion sleeper or prefers to howl at the moon, Patt says to keep things in perspective. “These long nights may seem endless, but that time in your young baby’s life will pass like a blink of an eye. Try to treasure some of those precious moments.” Courtney McLaughlin is a freelance writer who had her now 12-year-old daughter sleeping through the night at 7 weeks old. Her luck ran out when her daughter turned 3.
HOW MUCH SLEEP IS HEALTHY? The National Sleep Foundation recommends the following for a 24-hour period: • Newborns (0 to 3 months): 14 to 17 hours • Infants (4 to 11 months): 12 to 15 hours • Toddlers (1 to 2 years): 11 to 14 hours • Preschoolers (3 to 5 years): 10 to 13 hours • School-aged children (6 to 13 years): 9 to 11 hours • Teenagers (14 to 17 years): 8 to 10 hours
MYTH: Baby should sleep through the night at 10 pounds. TRUTH: While it is true some babies do start sleeping through the night earlier than others, Patt advises not to depend on the scale. “There is no magical weight that will result in a full night of sleep,” she says. “Every baby is different and overnight sleep consolidation occurs at different ages depending on many factors.”
MYTH: The only way to teach a baby to sleep is by using the “cry-it-out” method. TRUTH: “You train good sleep habits in babies by tending to their needs,” says Meg Hendery, owner of Queen City Newborn Care. “Swaddle them to sleep. Pick them up when they fuss. Feed them when they show hunger cues. By 10 to 12 weeks, most of my clients’ babies are sleeping through the night. All their needs are met and they know they can go to sleep.”
From Crib to Big Bed
How did we get here so fast? One moment you were bringing baby home and now it’s time to think about transitioning to a big-boy or big-girl bed. Morgan Griffith, owner of Sleep Pea Consulting suggests these tips on making the milestone move easier. 1.
Start talking with your child about the transition long before it happens and see how they respond. If they seem resistant or upset about the idea, wait a few more weeks before bringing it up again.
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Scout out the room before the first night. Get on your toddler’s level and see what the room looks like at bedtime. Is the ceiling fan casting scary shadows on the wall? Is too much light coming in from a window or does a dark corner look frightening?
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Reward elements of the bedtime routine, but not sleeping. Give your toddler positive reinforcement for brushing teeth, picking out books, selecting pajamas and other tasks. Sleeping and a good bedtime routine should be expected, not treated as a chore that warrants a reward.
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For the first few weeks, consider an earlier bedtime. Moving to a big bed is exciting but might also include protest about going to sleep or endless requests for water. Getting started earlier hopefully mean more sleep for everyone.
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Use a toddler clock. Tell your child the time he or she can get out of bed and teach them how to read the numbers on the clock. Some clocks come with a nightlight that toddlers may find comforting.
MYTH: Children just don’t sleep through the night until they are 2 or 3 years old. TRUTH: Not so says Dr. Lili Poon, a pediatric sleep specialist with Novant Health Pediatric Sleep Specialists. She says a child between 8 and 12 months old can be expected to sleep through the night, but that doesn’t mean they all naturally do.
MYTH: When my child wakes up during the night, he or she is most likely hungry. TRUTH: This is not always the case says Griffith, especially if the child is 6 months old or older. “It might be more habitual,” she says. “After that age kids have figured out how to get you in the room.”
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Keeping Kids Safe Online
What you need to know to keep predators locked out in a digital world
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t happened in a local afterschool program. A couple of girls found a website where they could build their own fictional world and fuzzy little characters while earning points. It seemed innocent enough, but one of the girls felt uneasy about the game, so she spoke with a teacher. “One of the students came to me and said some girls in the after-school program had been talking to someone online and it wasn’t appropriate,” says Mrs. D. (name withheld for privacy), a technology teacher at the local elementary school. “I checked out the website and while I saw that it wasn’t educational, I didn’t see anything that seemed inappropriate.”
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how they should never have a conversation with someone they don’t know in real life. We talk about the differences between being a friend in person versus the online world. We drill that into their heads,” Mrs. D. says. Yet, even with those efforts and the fact that the school district enforces strict regulations and access on devices, a threat remained. The teacher blocked the site before the conversations could go any further, however, that’s not always the case when it comes to keeping kids safe online. REAL-LIFE THREATS “The threat is very real,” says special agent Karen Walsh who has been with the FBI for
20 years. “Parents should be concerned about anyone who is interacting with their children online, including on social media, video games, text and apps. Parents need only conduct a targeted internet search to find stories of what happened to other children online to realize how serious this issue is.” Through Walsh’s work for the FBI, she leads workshops for parents, offering suggestions on how to protect kids from online threats. She applies her rules to the kids in her life. “Parents may want to consider introducing a phone to their kids as a ‘doorway’ to the outside world,” Walsh says. “We don’t open our front door to strangers; we shouldn’t open
our phones or any device that accesses the internet to them, either. This includes anything the phone can do: text, call, apps, games, etc.” Walsh understands that kids may complain about so many rules and think their parents don’t trust them, but she has a response at the ready. “It’s not that I don’t trust you,” she tells the kids in her life. “If I didn’t trust you, you wouldn’t have a phone. It’s that I don’t trust all the bad guys who are trying to trick you into doing something you will regret.” To help guard families against those bad guys and to protect kids from making poor choices on their digital devices, Walsh encourages families to implement the following rules. MAINTAIN OPEN DIALOGUE. Before handing over a device, talk about rules and consequences, but don’t end the discussion there. Parents should engage their kids in ongoing conversations about screen usage. “Parents must actively participate in their kids’ online presence. Keep communication open about what a healthy relationship is and what it looks like on a phone,” Walsh says. “Give kids permission — and maybe serve as an excuse — to block anyone who is not being nice. Make sure kids understand what ‘sexting’ is and how it can turn dangerous and negatively affect them down the road.” LIMIT FRIENDS. “Contacts, friends and followers are only people we have met in real life. If we haven’t been introduced, they’re out,” Walsh says. “Kids often take interactions at face
value, not realizing that the 14-year-old cheerleader to whom they are about to send a photo is actually an adult with harmful intentions. Predators can be very convincing and demanding.” NO DEVICES IN BEDROOMS AND BATHROOMS. Let’s be honest, naked pictures don’t take place in the kitchen. In other words, keep devices out of private spaces where kids run a higher risk of making poor decisions thanks to a false sense of security. INSPECTIONS HAPPEN. Conduct monthly inspections of all devices and apps, as well as random, on-the spot inspections that don’t allow kids the opportunity to delete or hide content. CHARGE DEVICES OVERNIGHT IN A SHARED SPACE. Designate a charging station in a common space of the house, such as the kitchen. This removes the temptation of late-night social media and gaming when children should be getting rest. It also allows for parents to conduct on-thespot inspections. LIMIT APPS. An endless amount of apps exist and parents can’t be savvy about each one. For the kids in Walsh’s family, each device has only two gaming or social media type apps at a time. If a child wants to download a new one, they must remove one. Only download that new app when you have had the opportunity to review and understand how it works.
TURN OFF GEOTAGGING. Geotagging adds geographical identification to photos, videos, websites and SMS messages, which means with little effort, someone can use social surveillance to pinpoint your location. Protect your child’s whereabouts by turning off this standard feature. COMMUNICATION MUST PASS THE “LIVING-ROOM TEST.” “That means any communication they have through their device should be acceptable to be said out loud in the living room,” Walsh says. If you find something inappropriate, ask your child to review the conversation and ask them if that is something that would pass the living-room test. MONITOR PHONES. Various apps and devices exist, offering parents varying degrees of control and monitoring. Check the sidebar for a sampling of tools that can help you safeguard your child’s device. PUT DEVICES TO BED EARLY. Consider putting devices away at least an hour before bedtime. An article posted in December 2017 by Harvard Health Publishing, states that blue lights, such as those produced by screens, can lead to disruptive sleep and health risks. FRIENDS LEAVE THEIR DEVICES IN A BASKET BY THE FRONT DOOR. “This eliminates that grey area whereby one child’s rules are in conflict with others’,” Walsh says. “Additionally, if you are coming over to play with our kids, then you shouldn’t need a phone once you have arrived safely.”
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As Mrs. D points out, “Kids and technology don’t mix.” She realizes that may sound odd for a technology teacher to say, but as she explains, “What I teach isn’t what’s getting them into trouble. It’s what they are learning on their own through social apps that is the danger.” “Parents need to be more informed,” she says. “Technology develops faster than anyone can keep up with, but if we are going to give our kids access to these devices, we have to stay informed.” Even cute, fuzzy little creatures can have a predator lurking behind them, and we certainly don’t want to leave our front door wide open to that sort of threat. Meagan Church is a writer, children’s book author and the brainpower behind unexpectant. com that explores the story of modern motherhood. She lives in Charlotte, is married to her high school sweetheart, and has three children and a plethora of pets.
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Fort Mountain Fun Adventure abounds in Chattahoochee National Forest BY KIMBERLY BLAKER
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f your family is looking for a relaxing, outdoorsy getaway with plenty of awesome sightseeing, the 750,000acre Chattahoochee National Forest in northern Georgia is the place to go. It spans Georgia’s Blue Ridge Mountains and contains the Cohutta Wilderness area, which offers recreation for the whole family and accommodations for every family’s style.
Accommodations If you like roughing it, reserve a site at Fort Mountain State Park’s campground located at the top of the 2,800-foot high Fort Mountain. Amenities include electricity, water, shower houses with flush toilets and gravel camping sites with scenic views. Nearby Amicalola Falls State Park offers a smaller campground with similar amenities. If camping isn’t your style, Fort Mountain and Amicalola Falls state parks offer spacious one- to threebedroom cottages with bathrooms. Cabins can also be found in nearby private parks. Can’t give up the conveniences of modern living? Book a room with a panoramic view at one of the lodges nestled in the mountains at Amicalola Falls or atop Fort Mountain. Lodges offer casual dining and other hotel services. Wilderness Fun and Adventures Fort Mountain State Park offers several miles of hiking trails — from short halfmile nature trails to an 8-mile trek for
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Tube along the Chattahoochee River in the Chattahoochee National Forest in northern Georgia. Photo by John Bilous more experienced hikers. Wind through the mountainous forest, across streams, along a small waterfall and up to a stone lookout tower. Listen for the commonly heard barred owl, easily distinguished by its “Who cooks for you?” call. The park is named for a mysterious 855-foot-long rock wall that is listed on the National Register of Historic Places. Historians believe Native Americans built the wall as fortification against more hostile Native Americans and for ancient ceremonies. A short hike leads visitors to the wall. Horse rentals also are available at Fort Mountain State Park for one-hour trail rides or longer excursions. Bikes and helmets can be rented for children and adults to enjoy on the park’s 27 miles of mountain biking trails. A clear mountaintop lake at the park offers fishing, boat rentals, swimming and a sandy beach. Fort Mountain State Park is open 7 a.m.-10 p.m. and there is $5 parking fee, plus camping fees if you choose to camp. Amicalola Falls is a scenic one-hour drive from Fort Mountain State Park. Amicalola, a Cherokee Indian word meaning “tumbling waters,” is an apt name for the 729-foot falls — the tallest waterfall east of the Mississippi River —
and the falls can be viewed from above and below. There are 12 miles of hiking trails at Amicalola State Park, including an 8-mile trail that leads to the southern end of the Appalachian Trail. The Cohutta Wilderness is home to an abundance of wildlife, from numerous species of birds to deer and even bears. Don’t forget binoculars. An inexpensive pair for each child will keep them scouting and take their minds off weary legs. Book zip line tours, archery, guided hikes and GPS scavenger hunts at the Amicalola State Park Lodge. Amicalola State Park hosts live exhibits and nature displays, plus educational nature programs during the weekend. Park hours are 7 a.m.-10 p.m. and all cars require a $5 Georgia state park pass. For more information about Fort Mountain and Amicalola Falls state parks, visit gastateparks.org/ fortmountain or amicalolafallslodge.com. Kimberly Blaker is the author of a kid’s STEM book: “Horoscopes: Reality or Trickery?” She also writes a blog titled Modern Family Style at modernfamilystyle.com.
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Take part in the madness at the three-day Mint Hill Madness festival, May 25-27. Photo by Casey Taylor
Star Wars Day | May 4 May the fourth be with you. Ages 6 and older and their parents can feel the force and celebrate Star Wars Day at Latta Plantation Nature Preserve. Hold an entire galaxy in your hand or team up with a Jedi to make a miniature light saber. Build a constellation or map the stars to help the rebellion. Children are encouraged to dress up as their favorite Star Wars’ characters. $5. 10:30 a.m.-noon. Preregistration is required. Latta Plantation Nature Preserve, 6211 Sample Road, Huntersville. parkandrec.com.
Tyrannosaurus: Meet the Family at Northlake Mall | May 19 Get a sneak peek at Discovery Place Science’s upcoming exhibit Tyrannosaurus: Meet the Family. Take pictures with a life-size T-Rex, go on a fossil dig and keep your findings, and join in an interactive story-telling experience. There are also live performances, and free posters and coloring pages to take home. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. FREE. Northlake Mall, 6801 Northlake Mall Drive. shopnorthlake.com.
Mint Hill Madness | May 25-27 Celebrate the founding of the town of Mint Hill at Mint Hill Madness, a three-day festival that buzzes with carnival rides, an arts-and-crafts fair, fair food and live music. Don’t miss the all-American parade Saturday at 9 a.m. and fireworks show at 9 p.m. Admission is free with additional costs for some activities. Friday, 4-11 p.m.; Saturday, 11 a.m.-11 p.m.; and Sunday, noon-6 p.m. Mint Hill Veterans Memorial Park, 8850 Fairview Road, Mint Hill. minthillmadnessfestival.org.
Take time to smell the flowers at Mother’s Day at Daniel Stowe Botanical Gardens, May 12-13.
Mother’s Day at Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden | May 12-13 Celebrate Mother’s Day strolling the gardens at Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden. Bring a blanket to spread out and enjoy live music, lunch and beverages — including mimosas — from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Kids can enjoy crafts and exploring the Lost Hollow Children’s Garden, plus horse-drawn carriage rides throughout the day. The first 250 moms are admitted free and receive a free potted plant. $6.95-$12.95. 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, 6500 S New Hope Road, Belmont. dsbg.org. charlotteparent.com | MAY 2018
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1 TUESDAY American Girl Book Club. Charlotte Mecklenburg Library - Mint Hill, 6840 Matthews-Mint Hill Road, Mint Hill. Ages 5-11. 4-5pm. FREE. 704-416-5200. Explore the lives and times of the American Girl Doll series with crafts and games in this weekly book club. cmlibrary.org. Dakota and Friends. ImaginOn: The Joe and Joan Martin Center, 300 E. 7th St. 11:30am-2:30pm. FREE. 704-416-4630. Interact with a “real” dinosaur, pet a baby T-Rex, see a dinosaur egg hatch and read aloud to dinosaurs. cmlibrary.org. Toddler Time Tuesday. Discovery Place KIDS Huntersville, 105 Gilead Road, Huntersville. Ages 18-36 months. 10am. $10-$12. 704372-6261. Join in a nature-themed, handson workshop titled “Are You My Mother?” Each workshop lasts approximately one hour. kids.discoveryplace.org.
2 WEDNESDAY Child Safety Seat Check. Charlotte Mecklenburg Police Freedom Division, 4150 Wilkinson Blvd. 9-11am. FREE. Learn to correctly install your car seat with the help of a certified technician. Bring your child, seat, and vehicle and plan to spend at least 20 minutes. No appointment required. safekidscharmeck.org. Child Safety Seat Inspection Station. Matthews Police Department, 1201 Crews Road, Matthews. 8-11:30am. FREE. Bring your vehicle, seat and child for guidance on how to safetly install a child’s car seat. safekidscharmeck.org. Cultural Dance Program Presented by Charlotte Ballet. Sugaw Creek Recreation Center, 943 W. Sugar Creek Road. 7-8pm. FREE. 704-336-7655. Join in this drop-in dance class that is to all ages and includes live accompaniment and a “Children’s Corner,” providing supervision and fun hands-on activities for children attending with their parent/guardian. artsandscience.org. Free Wednesday Evenings at the Mint Museum. Mint Museum Randolph, 2730 Randolph Road; Mint Museum Uptown, 500 S. Tryon St. 5-9pm. FREE. 704-337-2000. Explore the Mint Museum’s exhibitions at no cost. mintmuseum.org.
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Homeschool Rally: The Science of Speed Mini-Car Racing Competition. ImaginOn: The Joe and Joan Martin Center, 300 E. 7th St. Ages 5-18. 11am-1pm. FREE. 704-416-4630. Construct your own race cars out of materials such as toilet paper tubes, dowels, spools, and rubber bands, and then test them out to see if you can win the race. cmlibrary.org.
3 THURSDAY Green Jeans Consignment Sale. Lake Norman, 500 S. Main St., Mooresville. 9am-7pm. Free admission. Shop designer clothing, shoes and accessories for teens and women at this spring consignment sale. Happening May 1-6. greenjeanssale.com.
4 FRIDAY Cotswold Trucks Food Truck Rally. Trinity Presbyterian Church, 3115 Providence Road. 5:30-9:30pm. Free admission. Bring the family for 10-15 area food trucks, live music, and a gated kids’ playground. Dogs are welcome. facebook.com. Food Truck Friday South End. Sycamore Brewing, 2161 Hawkins St. 5-10 pm. Free entry. This family-friendly event features craft brews, wine, cider, live music and the best food trucks in Charlotte. ftf-southend.com. Friday Night Live. S. Main St. and Stowe Park, Belmont. 6-10 p.m. Free entry. Enjoy live music, food trucks, a kids’ zone and a beverage garden. facebook.com/ downtownbelmontconcerts. Our Carolina Sky. The Schiele Museum, 1500 E. Garrison Blvd., Gastonia. 7pm. $5 . 704-8666908. Take a live tour of the current month’s constellations. schielemuseum.org. Star Wars Day. Latta Plantation Nature Preserve, 6211 Sample Road, Huntersville. Ages 6+. 10:30am-noon. $5. 980-314-1129. Dress as your favorite Star Wars character and join in activities, including making a mini light saber. Padawans must be accompanied by an adult; registration is required. parkandrec.com. Twilight 5K. Wells Fargo Atrium, 301 S. Tryon St. 7-9pm. $10-$30 registration. 704-3774425. Run the 5K or 1K Kids Fun Run through uptown Charlotte to support Right Moves for Youth that provides dropout prevention and youth development services to middle and high school students in Charlotte. The
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5K begins at 7pm with a 1K Kids Fun at 8pm. rightmovesforyouth.org. On Stage: Madagascar: A Musical Adventure; and The Gospel According to Tennessee. See page 37.
5 SATURDAY ASC Culture Blocks: PSA Collab Mural. West Boulevard Library, 2157 West Blvd. 11am-noon. FREE. 704-416-7400. Discuss problems facing the community and create solutions expressed through mural style artwork. cmlibrary.org. Bank of America’s Museums on Us Day. Locations vary. FREE. Bank of America and Merrill Lynch cardholders can gain free access to participating museums in the Charlotte area, including The Bechtler Museum of Modern Art, Harvey B. Gantt Center for African-American Arts + Culture, Levine Museum of the New South, Mint Museum Randolph, and Mint Museum Uptown. museums.bankofamerica.com. Cinco de Mayo with the Latina Princess. SAS Cupcakes, 9941 Rea Road, Suite C. 10:30am. $9. 704-295-1777. Hear a story, meet the Latina Princess and frost cupcakes. sascupcakes.com. Concerts on the Green. Village Green, corner of Main Street and Concord Road, Davidson. 6-8pm. FREE. Bring comfy chairs, a blanket and picnic to enjoy music outdoors. concertsonthegreen.com. Davidson Town Day. Davidson Town Green, 216 S. Main St., Davidson. 10am-3pm. FREE. A day of fun with music, food, and entertainment for all ages. nc-davidson2. civicplus.com. Festival of Food Trucks. Downtown Mooresville, North Main St. (between Moore and Iredell Ave.), Mooresville. 5-8:30pm. FREE. Sample gourmet fare, stroll the streets, shop, and listen to live music. downtownmooresville.com. Gantt Center’s Family First Program. The Harvey B. Gantt Center, 551 S. Tryon St. 11am-1pm. $7-$9, includes museum admission; free for members. 704-547-3700. Check the website to see this month’s theme for family-friendly programming. Enjoy activities and check out the exhibits. RSVP online. ganttcenter.org. Merit Badge Workshop. Discovery Place Science, 301 N. Tryon St. Ages 10-17. $30, excludes museum admission. 704-372-6261.
Boy Scouts can collaborate with museum naturalists to work towards various badges. Sign up to work for the oceanography, energy or space exploration badge. See website for times and details. Registration required. science.discoveryplace.org. MommyCon. Charlotte Convention Center, 501 S. College St. 9am-4pm. Tickets start at $25. 704-339-6000. A nationwide convention series that celebrates natural parenting, including the emotional and physical benefits of natural birthing, breastfeeding and babywearing. mommycon.com. Paws in the Park. Chestnut Square Park, 320 Chestnut Pkwy., Indian Trail. 10am-3pm. FREE. Bring the family and pups out for this festival with dog demonstrations, contests, performances and giveaways. indiantrail.org. Rock Star Magic. York Public Library; 11-11:45am and Fort Mill Public Library, 3-3:45pm. FREE. Enjoy ultra-fast-paced, spectacular stage magic, audience interaction, and laughter by one of the Carolinas’ most popular magicians. yclibrary.org. Wild Wonder Saturday: Micro-Worlds. Museum of York County, 4621 Mount Gallant Road, Rock Hill. 10am-2pm. $5-$8. 803329-2121. Enjoy a presentation of the tiny animals and plants living around us. Dress for an outside adventure. chmuseums.org. Zucchini 600. Kids’ Zone at Jiggy with the Piggy, 125 N. Research Campus Drive, Kannapolis. 10am-3pm. FREE. With a lot of ingenuity and imagination, youngsters construct workable, rolling vehicles out of zucchini for a matchup of racing talent. Kids’ Zone opens at 10am. Races begin at noon. 600festival.com. On Stage: Charlotte Symphony Lollipops: Disney’s Fantasia; Dancing Through Latin America; Madagascar: A Musical Adventure; and The Gospel According to Tennessee. See page 37.
6 SUNDAY Bank of America’s Museums on Us Day. Locations vary. FREE. Bank of America and Merrill Lynch cardholders can gain free access to participating museums in the Charlotte area, including The Bechtler Museum of Modern Art, Harvey B. Gantt Center for African-American Arts + Culture, Levine Museum of the New South, Mint Museum
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Enjoy activities at the US National Whitewater Center while listening to local and regional bands at River Jam, Thursday through Saturday beginning in May. Photo courtesy of USNWC
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GASTONIA Downtown Gastonia Concert Series. (Begins May 18). Live bands and DJ performances. Rotary Centennial Pavilion, 100 N. South St., Gastonia. FREE. May 18; June 1, 15 and 29; July 13 and 27; and Aug. 10. DJ performances start at 6pm. Bands go from 7-10pm. cityofgastonia.com.
HARRISBURG Rockin’ the Burg Concert Series. (Begins May 12). Each event features food trucks and interactive art and music. Harrisburg Park, 191 Sims Pkwy., Harrisburg. Second Saturday in May, August, September and October; third Saturday in June. 6:30-9pm. FREE. harrisburgnc.org.
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OUTDOOR MOVIES AND CONCERTS CHARLOTTE Movie Night on the Green. (Begins May 18) See “Coco”May 18 and “Ferdinand”June 1. See the full list of summer movies online. The Green at Promenade on Providence, corner of Providence Road and Interstate 485. Select days May through October, 7pm. FREE. promenadeonprovidence.com Blakeney’s Summer Concert Series. (May 25-Sept. 1). Each Friday and Saturday local favorites return to Blakeney Shopping Center and bring fun and music for the entire family.Village Green at Blakeney, Ardrey Kell and Rea roads. Friday and Saturday, 7-10pm. FREE. shopblakeney.com. Movie Night in Midwood Park. (May 26-Oct. 20). Enjoy movies under the stars and on the big screen. Midwood Park Amphitheater, 2100 Wilhelmina Ave. Last Saturday of the month, 8pm. FREE. plazamidwood.org. • May 26: “Raiders of the Lost Ark” • June 30: “Karate Kid” Party in the Park. (May 30-Aug. 4). Bring your lawn chairs, drinks and snacks, and dancing shoes to this weekly event featuring various local bands. Romare Bearden Park, 300 S. Church St. Wednesdays (except July 4), 6-9pm. FREE. uptowncharlotteparks.com. Live on the Green Concert Series. (June 1-Aug. 24). Unwind with Bluegrass and Americana music, food trucks, beverages and room for kids to run. First Ward Park, 301 E. 7th St. Every other Friday. See website for times and performers. Free admission. uptowncharlotteparks.com. Picnic in the Park. (Begins June 3). Bring a picnic and enjoy live music. Fourth Ward Park, 301 N. Poplar St. Sundays, June-August. 4-6pm. FREE. uptowncharlotteparks.com.
Charlotte Symphony Summer Pops. Listen to the sounds of the Charlotte Symphony outdoors. Locations and days vary. $5-$20; packages available for ticket bundles. charlottesymphony.org/ summerpops2018. • June 17: Music of John Williams: Star Wars and More, 8:15pm, Symphony Park at SouthPark Mall • June 24: Best of Broadway, 8:15pm, Symphony Park at SouthPark Mall • July 1: Celebrate America With Fireworks, 8:15pm, Symphony Park at SouthPark Mall
BELMONT Friday Night Live. (Begins May 4). Enjoy live music, food trucks and a kids’zone. South Main Street and Stowe Park, Belmont. May 4 and 18, June 1 an 22, July 4, 6-10pm; music starts at 7pm. Free admission. facebook.com/downtownbelmontconcerts Movies in the Park. (Begins May 5). Stowe Park, 24 S. Main St., Belmont. May 5, June 2, July 7, Aug. 11, Sept. 8, Oct. 6 and 20. 8pm. Free admission. See website for movie titles. cityofbelmont.org.
DAVIDSON Concerts on the Green. (Begins May 6). Bring comfy chairs, a blanket and picnic to enjoy music outdoors. Village Green, corner of Main Street and Concord Road, Davidson. May 6 and 20, June 10 and 17, July 4, and Aug. 12 and 19, 6-8pm. FREE. concertsonthegreen.com.
FORT MILL Summer Concert Series: Anne Springs Close Greenway. (Begins June 7). Bring chairs and blankets to enjoy live music at the greenway. Visit website to see scheduled performers. Anne Springs Close Greenway, 291 Dairy Barn Lane, Fort Mill. Thursdays, 5:30-8:30pm. Music starts at 6pm. $5 per nonmember; $5 per car for parking. 803-547-4575. ascgreenway.org.
4th Friday Movie Night. (Through Sept. 28). Bring your blanket and chairs and enjoy a movie in the park. Food available for purchase. Locations vary. 6-10pm. Movie begins at dusk. FREE. indiantrail.org.
KANNAPOLIS Movies in the Park. (Begins May 25). Bring blankets and chairs and watch a movie outside with the family. Village Park, 700 W. C St., Kannapolis. Select Fridays through August. 8:45pm. FREE. kannapolisnc.gov. • May 25: “Cars 3” • June 8: “Beauty and the Beast”
MATTHEWS Food Truck Fridays and Concert Series. (Begins May 25). Enjoy favorite local food trucks, plus local and regional bands and a kids’ zone. Diners are encouraged to bring chairs. Stumptown Park, 120 S. Trade St., Matthews. Second and fourth Fridays through September (except May 11). 5-9pm. FREE. matthewsnc.gov.
PINEVILLE Rockin’ and Reelin’ Movie and Concert Series. (Begins June 1). Enjoy live music and outdoor movie showings throughout the summer. Pineville Lake Park, 1000 Johnston Drive, Pineville. FREE. Concerts start at 7pm; movies start at dusk. pinevillenc.gov. • June 22: “Wonder”
ROCK HILL Food Truck Friday in Old Town. (Begins May 18). Enjoy food trucks, children’s activities and live music. Third Friday, May through October. 6-10 p.m.Fountain Park, E. Main St., Rock Hill. Free admission. onlyinoldtown.com.
WAXHAW Jammin’ by the Tracks. (Begins June 1). Enjoy outdoor music on the first Friday of June, August and September. Downtown Waxhaw under the water tower, Waxhaw. FREE. See website for schedule. waxhaw.com.
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CALENDAR Paddling to win in the dragon boat races at the Charlotte Asian Festival. This year’s festival happens May 19 at Ramsey Creek Park. Photo by Andy Chen/ Indigo Photography
Meet mascots and see NASCAR stock cars at Haulers on Union, May 17. Photo: 600 festival
SPRING FESTIVALS South Carolina Strawberry Festival. (May 4-5). Celebrate the strawberry at this award-winning festival. Walk through a butterfly exhibit, check out antique cars, sample strawberry pie, attend pig races and let the kids try out the rides. Friday, 4-10pm; Saturday, 10am-10pm. Walter Elisha Park, 345 N. White St., Fort Mill. Free admission; additional cost for activities. scstrawberryfestival.com. Jiggy With the Piggy. (May 4-5). North Carolina Research Campus, 150 N. Research Campus Drive, Kannapolis. FREE admission. A Kansas City Society Barbeque competition, kids’zone and carnival rides, go-cart displays, a 5K walk/run, live music, an outdoor movie, plus arts and crafts vendors. See website for schedule of events. kannapolisnc.gov. Davidson Town Day. (May 5). A day of fun with music, food, and entertainment for all ages. 10am-3pm. Davidson Town Green, 216 S. Main St. FREE. nc-davidson2.civicplus.com. Paws in the Park. (May 5). Bring your four-legged friends for this dog festival with demonstrations, contests, performances and giveaways. Chestnut Square Park, 320 Chestnut Parkway, Indian Trail. 10am-3pm. FREE. indiantrail.org. 2018 Queen City Mother’s Day Festival. (May 5 and 12) The 2018 Queen City Mother’s Day Festival is partnering with the #SingleMomsMatter
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Movement for this years festival theme“Buy from a mom for a mom.”All vendors are mothers. Expect crafts, vendors, art, food and games. The Carole Hoefener Center, 615 E. Sixth St. 1-5pm. Free entry. Kings Drive Art Walk. (May 5-6). Features fine art for sale, including paintings and drawings, sculptures, pottery, metal, stone, wood and glass works from emerging artists. The event also includes live music and family entertainment. Little Sugar Creek Greenway, 600 S. Kings Drive. FREE. Saturday, 11am-6pm; Sunday, 11am-5pm. festivalinthepark. org/kings-drive-art-walk.
Downtown Concord, 65 Union Street S., Concord. 10am-4pm. FREE. cabarrusartscouncil.org. Haulers on Union Parade and Fan Fest. (May 17). More than 30 Monster Energy NASCAR Cup Series car haulers make their way down Union Street en route to Charlotte Motor Speedway. Enjoy live beach music from The Tim Clark Band, activities for children, food, giveaways and race cars on display. Union Street between Cabarrus and Corban Avenues, Concord. 5-8:30pm. FREE. 600festival. com/haulers-on-union-about.
Hello Huntersville. (May 6). Look for special “pop-up” performances throughout the event, plus food trucks live music, and arts and crafts vendors. 2-6pm. Downtown Huntersville, 101 Huntersville-Concord Road, Huntersville. FREE. huntersville.org.
Charlotte Asian Festival. (May 19). Learn about various Asian cultures through food and activities. Plus, see teams race to the finish line in colorfully-decorated dragon boats. Boat races begin at 9 a.m. and the festival runs 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Ramsey Creek Park, 18441 Nantz Road, Cornelius. FREE. charlottedragonboat.com.
BeachFest Matthews. (May 11-12). Put your toes in the sand while enjoying live beach music, shag dancing, carnival rides, a kids’inflatable village and car show. Friday, 6-10pm., Saturday, 10am-10pm. Stumptown Park, S. Trade St. FREE. beachfestmatthews.com.
Music, Dance ‘n Que Fest. (May 19). Enjoy bluegrass and rock music, tours of the historic cabins, shopping, raffles, food and beverages. 11am-3pm. President James K. Polk Historic Site, 12031 Lancaster Hwy., Pineville. Free admission; charge for food and beverage. nchistoricsites.org/polk.
Spring Into Arts Festival. (May 12). This festival promotes the visual and performing arts, and features musical entertainment, food vendors, a juried art show, and a children’s area. Historic
Waxhaw Art Kaleidoscope Festival. (May 19-20). A showcase of local and regional art, featuring a variety of art forms including culinary arts, musical arts, performing arts, murals and public
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art forms. There will be concessions and a kids zone complete with rides, inflatables, clowns, magicians, balloon twisters, face painters and entertainers. Saturday, 10am-6pm; Sunday, noon-6pm. Downtown Historic Waxhaw. FREE. waxhaw.com. Festa Italiana. (May 20). Enjoy all-youcan-eat Italian food, browse items at the silent auction and enjoy live music while children play in the kids zone. Proceeds benefit people and children with special needs. Gateway Village Promenade, 800 W. Trade St. 1-7pm. festaitalianacharlotte.org. Circle K Speed Street Presented by Coca-Cola. (May 24-26). Enjoy vendor displays, kids’activities, racing-related fun and more during the day along Tryon Street before national headliners take the stage in Romare Bearden Park starting at 6:30 pm. Noon-8pm. Uptown Charlotte. Free for festival; tickets to Romare Bearden Park’s concerts vary per performance. 600festival.com. Mint Hill Madness. (May 25-27). Celebrate Memorial Day weekend and the founding of the town of Mint Hill with carnival rides, games, boardwalk-style food, and arts and crafts vendors, as well as live entertainment, a parade and fireworks. Mint Hill Veterans Memorial Park, 8850 Fairview Road, Mint Hill. Friday, 4-11pm; Sat., 11am-11pm; Sunday, noon-6pm. FREE; costs for some activities. minthillmadnessfestival.org.
› Randolph, and Mint Museum Uptown. museums.bankofamerica.com. Hello Huntersville. Downtown Huntersville, 101 Huntersville-Concord Road, Huntersville. 2-6pm. FREE. Expect special “pop-up” performances throughout the event, visit food trucks while listening to live music and shopping the arts and crafts vendor booths. huntersville.org. Meditation for Kids. Kadampa Meditation Center North Carolina, 528 East Blvd. Ages 4-12. 10-11am. $5 per child. 630-202-7757. Children can learn simple meditations and other methods to calm their minds and ways to deal with negative feelings. Classes include a short discussion about everyday experiences relevant to children, guided meditation, and fun activities that foster habits such as kindness cooperation, patience and giving. meditationcharlotte.org. Memories With Mom. American Girl store, 4400 Sharon Road. Ages 8+. 9:30-11am. $28 per person, does not include gratuity. 877-247-5223. Celebrate “Mom-and-me” time with a meal, flowers, a fun dice game, and a make-your-own memory board craft. Registration required. americangirl.com. Merit Badge Workshop. Discovery Place Science, 301 N. Tryon St. Ages 10-17. $30, excludes museum admission. 704-372-6261. Boy Scouts can collaborate with museum staff to work towards their chess badge. See website for times and details. Registration required. science.discoveryplace.org. On Stage: Madagascar: A Musical Adventure; and Mom’s Night Out Round 2. See page 37.
7 MONDAY Pajama Rama on the Plaza. Plaza Midwood Library, 1623 Central Ave. 7-7:30pm. FREE. 704-416-6200. Wear your pajamas for a family storytime that is perfect for bedtime. cmlibrary.org. Small Stalks. Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, 6500 S. New Hope Road, Belmont. Ages 2-5. 10-11am. $10 per parent/child; $6 for each additional participant. 704-829-1252. Children can explore nature with songs, games, crafts and play in Lost Hollow Children’s Garden. dsbg.org. Wee Sprouts. Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, 6500 S. New Hope Road, Belmont. Ages 2 and younger. 11:15am-noon. $10
per parent/child; $6 for each additional participant. 704-829-1252. Explore colors, shapes, movement, texture and a host of other topics in a safe and nurturing environment. dsbg.org.
8 TUESDAY Family Storytime in the Park. First Ward Park, 301 E. 7th St. Ages 18 months-5 years. 11:30am-noon. FREE. 704-416-4600. Join in stories, songs, and movement activities at First Ward Park, across the street from ImaginOn. cmlibrary.org. Free Entry to the Schiele Museum. The Schiele Museum, 1500 E. Garrison Blvd., Gastonia. 4-8pm. FREE. 704-866-6900. Get free entry to the Schiele Museum every second Tuesday of the month and every fourth Friday. schielemuseum.org.
9 WEDNESDAY Child Safety Seat Inspection Station. Child Safety Seat Inspection Station. Matthews Police Department, 1201 Crews Road, Matthews. 8-11:30am. FREE. Bring your vehicle, seat and child for guidance on how to safetly install a child’s car seat. safekidscharmeck.org. Free Wednesday Evenings at the Mint Museum. Mint Museum Randolph, 2730 Randolph Road; Mint Museum Uptown, 500 S. Tryon St. 5-9pm. FREE. 704-337-2000. Explore the Mint Museum’s exhibitions at no cost. mintmuseum.org. Hats off to Mom. Historic Rosedale Plantation, 3427 N. Tryon St. 1:30pm. $8-12. 704-3350325. Learn about hats through history. Feel free to come in your favorite hat; then try on an old fashion bonnet and enjoy light refreshments at the end of the tour. historicrosedale.org. Homeschool Day at Carolinas Aviation Museum. Carolinas Aviation Museum, 4672 1st Flight Drive 10am-2pm. Discounted rates available. 704-997-3770. The day is structured with STEM-related activities that encourages parent participation. carolinasaviation.org.
10 THURSDAY College 101: The Blueprint to Surviving College. Beatties Ford Road Regional Library, 2412 Beatties Ford Road. Ages 12-18 and parents. 6-7:30pm. FREE. 704-416-
3000. Learn from undergraduate, graduate and professional panelists on how to take advantage of resources available to make the most of the college experience and map a personalized success plan. cmlibrary.org. Hats off to Mom. Historic Rosedale Plantation, 3427 N. Tryon St. 1:30 and 3pm. $8-$12. 704-335-0325. Learn about hats through history. Feel free to come in your favorite hat; then try on an old fashion bonnet and enjoy light refreshments at the end of the tour. historicrosedale.org. Homeschool Day at Latta Plantation. Historic Latta Plantation, 5225 Sample Road, Huntersville. Grades K-8. 10am-2pm. $6 per person; children 4 and under admitted free. 704-875-2312. A day for homeschool families to enjoy the plantation learning through hands-on activities catered to children in grades K-8. lattaplantation.org. Mommy and Me: Mother’s Day Storytime. SAS Cupcakes, 9941 Rea Road, Suite C. 10:30am. $6. 704-295-1777. Enjoy a special Mother’s Day storytime and frost cupcakes. sascupcakes.com. Murder on the Orient Express Family Murder Mystery Party. Gaston County Public Library, 1555 E. Garrison Blvd., Gastonia. 6-8pm. FREE. 704-868-2164. Take part in this Murder on the Orient Expressthemed family murder mystery party. Meet the suspects, use clues and help solve the mystery. gastonlibrary.org.
11 FRIDAY Adventure Seekers Kids Night Out: Laser Tag Edition. Anne Springs Close Greenway, 971 Tom Hall St., Fort Mill. Ages 7-14. 5:15-9pm. $35 per child. 803547-4575. Children can enjoy a night of pizza, games, activities, laser tag, a night hike, s’mores and archery. Register online. ascgreenway.org. Food Truck Friday South End. Sycamore Brewing, 2161 Hawkins St. 5-10pm. Free entry. This family-friendly event features craft brews, wine, cider, live music and the best food trucks in Charlotte. ftf-southend.com. Friday Night Fireworks at the Knights Game. BB&T Ballpark, 324 S. Mint St. 7pm. $8-$23. 704-274-8300. Watch the Knights play the Durham Bulls and then enjoy postgame fireworks. bbtballparkcharlotte.com.
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Hats off to Mom. Historic Rosedale Plantation, 3427 N. Tryon St. 1:30 and 3 p.m. $8-$12. 704-335-0325. Learn about hats through history. Feel free to come in your favorite hat; then try on an old fashion bonnet and enjoy light refreshments at the end of the tour. Today’s tours are at historicrosedale.org. On Stage: The Big Sing, Animated; and The Gospel According to Tennessee. See page 37.
12 SATURDAY All Ages at Abari Game Bar. Abari Game Bar, 1721 N. Davidson St. Noon-5pm. 980-4304587. This bar and arcade hybrid has over 20 pinball machines, 30 arcade games and other games rotating monthly. Each Saturday and Sunday from noon-5pm all ages can play with a parent or guardian present. abarigamebar.com. Bilingual Stories and Music. Mint Museum Randolph, 2730 Randolph Road. Ages 6 and younger. 11:15am-noon. FREE. 704337-2000. These fun, interactive bilingual (Spanish/English) mornings incorporate music, plays, and stories. Families interested in raising bilingual and globally-minded children are welcome. mintmuseum.org. Hats off to Mom. Historic Rosedale Plantation, 3427 N. Tryon St. 11am, 1:30 and 3pm. $8-$12. 704-335-0325. Learn about hats through history. Feel free to come in your favorite hat; then try on an old fashion bonnet and enjoy light refreshments at the end of the tour. historicrosedale.org. Learn to Ride. Arbor Glen Rec Center, 1520 Clanton Road. 11am-1pm. FREE. Kids of all ages and grown-ups, too, can learn to ride a bike using the tried-and-true “balance bike” method. learntorideclt.com. Merit Badge Workshop: Mammal Study. Discovery Place Nature, 1658 Sterling Road. Ages 10-17. 9am-4pm. $15. 704-372-6261. Boy Scouts can collaborate with museum naturalists to work towards their Mammal Study Merit Badge. Register online. nature. discoveryplace.org. Mother’s Day at Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden. Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, 6500 S New Hope Road, Belmont. 9am-5pm. Free for moms; $6.95-$12.95 for others. 704829-1294. From 11am-3pm, enjoy family activities, including live music, family crafts, and horse-drawn carriage rides. The first 250
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mothers admitted each day beginning at 9am receive a free potted plant. dsbg.org. Mother’s Day Breakfast and Tour. Billy Graham Library, 4330 Westmont Drive 7:3010am. $20 per person; children age 3 and under admitted free. 704-401-3263. Enjoy a hot buffet breakfast, an uplifting message, and a guided Journey of Faith tour. Each mother in attendance receives a special gift. Buy tickets in advance. billygraham.org. Mother’s Day Storytime. Barnes and Noble, Morrison Place, 4020 Sharon Road. 11am. FREE. 704-364-0626. Join a special Mother’ Day storytime featuring books by bestselling authors Hoda Kotb and Jimmy Fallon. Activities to follow. barnesandnoble.com. My Family Time Capsule. York County Main Library, 138 E. Black St., Rock Hill. Ages 9-11. 2-3pm. FREE. 803-981-5888. Explore your family tree and create a time capsule. Register in advance. yclibrary.org. NASCAR Hall of Fame: 2nd Saturday. NASCAR Hall of Fame, 400 E. Martin Luther King Blvd. 10am-4pm. 12-$25, includes museum admission. 888-902-6463. Explore the exciting elements of racing and pit crew practice with an interactive activity. nascarhall.com. National Train Day. North Carolina Transportation Museum, 1 Samuel Spencer Drive, Spencer. 9am-5pm. $4-$17. This celebration includes special programs, unique photo opportunities, tours and activities for kids. Train rides at 10 and 11am, noon, 1:30 and 2:30pm. nctrans.org. Pink Knights Game. BB&T Ballpark, 324 S. Mint St. 6pm. 704-274-8300. Support the fight against breast cancer. Bid on gameworn, autographed jerseys. The first 2,000 ladies through the gates receive a pink baseball, courtesy of Charlotte Radiology. milb.com. Queen CIty Mother’s Day Festival. Carole Hoefener Center, 615 E. 6th St. 1-5pm. Free entry. 803-370-2634. The 2018 Queen City Mother’s Day Festival is partnering with the #SingleMomsMatter Movement for this year’s festival theme “buy from a mom for a mom.” All vendors are mothers. Guests can expect crafts, vendor shopping, art, food and games. eventbrite.com. Repticon Charlotte Reptile and Exotic Animal Show. Cabarrus Arena and Events Center, 4751 Highway 49 N., Concord. 10am-5pm. $5-$12. 863-268-4273. See live
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reptiles, shop supplies and join in live animal seminars, plus raffles for coveted prizes. repticon.com. Spring Into Arts Festival. Historic Downtown Concord, 65 Union Street S., Concord. 10am-4pm. FREE. This festival promotes the visual and performing arts, and features musical entertainment, food vendors, a juried art show, and a children’s area. cabarrusartscouncil.org. Spring Mandala. Reedy Creek Nature Preserve, 2900 Rocky River Road. Ages 8+. 2-4pm. FREE. 980-314-1119. Create a mandala using items found in nature to celebrate the spring season. Register online. parkandrec.com. Visual Art Workshop Presented by Community School of the Arts. Sugar Creek Library, 4045 N. Tryon St. All ages. 1-3pm. FREE. 704-416-7000. Join in a visual art project together as a family. artsandscience.org. On Stage: The Big Sing, Animated; and The Gospel According to Tennessee. See page 37.
6500 S New Hope Road, Belmont. 9am-5pm. Free for moms; $6.95-$12.95 for others. 704829-1294. From 11am-3pm, enjoy family activities, including live music, family crafts, and horse-drawn carriage rides. The first 250 mothers admitted each day beginning at 9am receive a free potted plant. dsbg.org. Mother’s Day Family Hike. Latta Plantation Nature Preserve, Latta Plantation Nature Preserve 6211 Sample Road, Huntersville. 2-3:30 pm. FREE. 980-314-1129. Celebrate this special day by taking a stroll with the family in the nature preserve. Explore the trails with a naturalist. Register online. parkandrec.com. Repticon Charlotte Reptile and Exotic Animal Show. Cabarrus Arena and Events Center, 4751 Highway 49 N., Concord. 10am-4pm. $5-$12. 863-268-4273. See live reptiles, shop supplies and join in live animal seminars, plus raffles for coveted prizes. repticon.com. On Stage: Charlotte Symphony Youth Orchestra Spring Concert. See page 37.
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MOTHER’S DAY All Ages at Abari Game Bar. Abari Game Bar, 1721 N. Davidson St. Noon-5pm. 980-4304587. This bar and arcade hybrid has over 20 pinball machines, 30 arcade games and other games rotating monthly. Each Saturday and Sunday from noon-5pm all ages can play with a parent or guardian present. abarigamebar.com. Girls in STEM Workshop. Discovery Place Science, 301 N. Tryon St. $17. 704-372-6261. Brownie Girl Scouts can work towards various badges. Register online. See website for times, themes, and ages. science. discoveryplace.org. Meditation for Kids. Kadampa Meditation Center North Carolina, 528 East Blvd. Ages 4-12. 10-11am. $5 per child. 630-202-7757. In this weekly class, children will learn simple meditations and other methods to calm their minds and ways to deal with negative feelings. Classes include a short discussion about everyday experiences relevant to children, guided meditation, and fun activities that foster habits such as kindness cooperation, patience and giving. meditationcharlotte.org. Mother’s Day at Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden. Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden,
Babes in the Woods. McDowell Nature Center, 15222 York Road. Ages 4 and younger. 10-11am. FREE. 704-588-5224. Enjoy an easy walk along the paved, stroller-friendly nature trail. Relax, chat, and experience what nature has to offer this month in a casual, social setting. Registration is required. parkandrec.com Small Stalks. Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, 6500 S. New Hope Road, Belmont. Ages 2-5. 10-11am. $10 per parent/child; $6 for each additional participant. 704-829-1252. Children can explore nature with songs, games, crafts, and play in Lost Hollow Children’s Garden. dsbg.org. Wee Sprouts. Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, 6500 S. New Hope Road, Belmont. Ages 2 and younger. 11:15am-noon. $10 per parent/child; $6 for each additional participant. 704-829-1252. Bring your children to the garden for a morning of sensory exploration, singing and fun. Explore colors, shapes, movement, texture and a host of other topics in a safe and nurturing environment. dsbg.org. World Migratory Bird Day at Carolina Raptor Center. Carolina Raptor Center, 6000 Sample Road, Huntersville. 10am-5pm. $8-$12, includes admission. 704-875-6521.
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Visit the Carolina Raptor Center on World Migratory Bird Day for hands-on activities. carolinaraptorcenter.org.
15 TUESDAY Music is in the Air: Family Storytime York County Main Library, 138 E. Black St., Rock Hill. Ages 11 and under, with adult. 6-7pm FREE. 803-981-5888. Show your musical talent with songs, games and crafts. Register online. yclibrary.org. Storytime and More. Wing Haven Children’s Garden, 260 Ridgewood Ave. Ages 10 and under. 10-11am. $10 per family. 704331-0664. Join Rutherford Rabbit in the Children’s Garden for a seasonally themed story and take-home craft activity. Water the vegetable plants, dig for worms and explore the sensory and butterfly gardens. winghavengardens.org.
16 WEDNESDAY Child Safety Seat Check. Charlotte Mecklenburg Police Freedom Division, 4150 Wilkinson Blvd. 9-11am. FREE. Learn to correctly install your car seat with the help of a certified technician. Bring your child, seat, and vehicle and plan to spend at least 20 minutes. No appointment required. safekidscharmeck.org. Child Safety Seat Inspection Station. Child Safety Seat Inspection Station. Matthews Police Department, 1201 Crews Road, Matthews. 8-11:30am. FREE. Bring your vehicle, seat and child for guidance on how to safetly install a child’s car seat. safekidscharmeck.org. Free Wednesday Evenings at the Mint Museum. Mint Museum Randolph, 2730 Randolph Road; Mint Museum Uptown, 500 S. Tryon St. 5-9pm. FREE. 704-337-2000. Explore the Mint Museum’s exhibitions at no cost. mintmuseum.org. Mini Masters Art Workshop: Pet Paintings. Mint Museum Randolph, 2730 Randolph Road. Ages 3-5. 1:30-2:45pm. $12$16. 704-337-2000. Paint a cute and cuddly canine or feline friend using playful painting tools, and search for pets in the art on view. Registration required. mintmuseum.org. Wee Wednesday. Main Street Children’s Museum, 133 E. Main St., Rock Hill. Ages 3 and younger. 10:30am. FREE. 803-327-6400. Enjoy stories, movement with music, and a seasonal craft. chmuseums.org.
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Family Bike Ride. Spirited Cyclist Bike Shop, 129 N. Main St., Davidson. 6-7:30pm. FREE. Meet at the Spirited Cyclist Bike Shop for guided 5-mile bike tour that includes cycling on the greenway, side streets and in downtown Davidson. Bike and helmet are required. All youth (under 16) must be accompanied by an adult. Registration is encouraged but not necessary. davidsoncommunitycalendar.org. Free College Planning Workshop for Parents. Sugar Creek Library, 4045 N. Tryon St., Suite A. 6-7pm. FREE. 980-474-1281. Learn more about admissions, financial aid and create a year-by-year timeline. Every workshop includes a question-and-answer session. events. cmlibrary.org. The Strange Case of Origami Yoda. Fort Mill Public Library, 1818 2nd Baxter Crossing, Fort Mill. Ages 9-11. 3:30-4:30pm. FREE. 803-547-4114. Enjoy “Star Wars” fun, in folding form. Register online. yclibrary.org.
18 FRIDAY Cotswold Trucks Food Truck Rally. Trinity Presbyterian Church, 3115 Providence Road. 5:30-9:30pm. Free admission. Bring the family for 10-15 area food trucks, live music and a gated kids’ playground. Dogs are welcome. facebook.com. Food Truck Friday in Old Town. Fountain Park, E. Main St., Rock Hill. 6-10pm. Free admission. Enjoy food trucks, Old Town restaurants, local beers, wine, children’s activities and live music. onlyinoldtown.com. Food Truck Friday South End. Sycamore Brewing, 2161 Hawkins St. 5-10 pm. Free entry. This family-friendly event features craft brews, wine, cider, live music and the best food trucks in Charlotte. ftf-southend.com. Friday Night Live. S. Main St. and Stowe Park, Belmont. 6-10 p.m. Free entry. Enjoy live music, food trucks, a kids’ zone and a beverage garden. facebook.com/ downtownbelmontconcerts. Movie Night on the Green. See “Coco” outdoors on the big screen. The Green at Promenade on Providence, corner of Providence Road and Interstate 485. 7pm. FREE. promenadeonprovidence.com Music With Holly. ImaginOn: The Joe and Joan Martin Center, 300 E. 7th St. Ages 18 months-5 years. 11:3am-noon. FREE. 704-416-4630. Join in a fusion of learning and listening to all types of songs and playing various instruments. cmlibrary.org. North Carolina Education Lottery 200. Charlotte Motor Speedway, 5555 Concord Pkwy. S.. 8:30pm. Free for kids 13 and under; $25+ for others. The stars of the NASCAR Camping World Truck Series take on the high banks of America’s home for racing under the lights in 200 miles of action. charlottemotorspeedway.com.
ON STAGE Madagascar: A Musical Adventure. (Through May 6). ImaginOn: The Joe and Joan Martin Center, 300 E. 7th St. Ages 4 and older. Tickets start at $12. 704-416-4600. Based on the Dreamworks movie, Alex the Lion, Marty the Zebra, Melman the Giraffe, Gloria the Hippo and the plotting penguins bound onto the stage in the musical adventure of a lifetime. Performances run Friday through Sunday. See website for showtimes. In addition, there’s an ASL sign-interpreted performance May 5 at 3pm. ctcharlotte.org. The Gospel According to Tennessee. (Through July 28). Narroway Theatre, 3327 SC-51, Fort Mill. $7-$35. 803-802-2300. Set in 1926, this fast-paced musical dinner show takes you to east Tennessee for sing-alongs gospel truths. Performances run select days through July 28. See website for dinner options and showtimes. narroway.net. Disney’s Fantasia Lollipops Concert. (May 5). Belk Theater, 130 N. Tryon St. 11 a.m-noon. Tickets start at $24. 704-972-2000. Experience Disney’s masterpiece in glorious high definition on the big screen with the Charlotte Symphony accompanying scenes from the 1940 and 2000 versions. Come early for activities before the show, including the musical “petting zoo” where children can try playing different instruments. charlottesymphony.org. Dancing Through Latin America. (May 5). McGlohon Theater, 345 N. College St. Ages 5 and older. 7pm. $15. 704-6411346. Support multicultural unity through music and dance at this show that features folkloric dances from 10 countries in Latin America, two from Spain, one from India and one from the U.S. The show is made up of two 45-minute sets with an intermission, and it is presented in English and Spanish. carolinatix.org.
Mom’s Night Out Round 2. (May 6). Ovens Auditorium, 2700 E. Independence Blvd. Adults only. 7pm. Tickets start at $38. 704-372-3600. Moms, best friends and funny ladies Kristin Hensley and Jen Smedley are the creators of the viral web-series #IMOMSOHARD, where they discuss the good, the bad and the funny about motherhood. Laugh until your cry at this honest stand-up show suited for adults. ovensauditorium.com. The Big Sing, Animated. (May 11-12). McGlohon Theater at Spirit Square, 345 N. College St. $10-$25. 704-374-1564. The Carolina Voices MainStage choir performs soundtracks from your favorite animated films and TV shows. Friday, 7:30pm; and Saturday, 3 and 7:30pm. carolinavoices.org. Charlotte Symphony Youth Orchestra Spring Concert. (May 13). Halton Theater, 1206 Elizabeth Ave. 3:30pm. $6-$10. 704-330-6840. Enjoy music by the Youth Orchestra. tix.cpcc.edu. Mystic India. (May 20). Ovens Auditorium, 2700 E. Independence Blvd. 7pm. Tickets start at $32. 705-372-3600. This internationally-acclaimed Bollywood dance spectacular is based on the concept of ancient India’s transition into modern India. ovensauditorium.com. PlayPlay! Theatre Presents: “Pocket.” (May 24-June 2). Children’s Theatre of Charlotte, 300 E. 7th St. Ages 3 and younger. $10. 704-973-2828. Explore the many surprises hidden within our pockets. Enjoy both pre-show and post-show activities. Participation is encouraged. Performances run Thursday-Saturday. See website for times. ctcharlotte.org.
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On Stage: The Gospel According to Tennessee. See page 37.
19 SATURDAY Bug Day. The Schiele Museum, 1500 E. Garrison Blvd., Gastonia. 10am-4pm. $9-$10, includes museum admission. 704-866-6900. Visit with entomologists, enjoy hands-on opportunities with live insects, watch in awe of those brave enough to eat a bug, and have a blast with insect-themed crafts, games and activities. schielemuseum.org. Charlotte Roller Girls All-Stars Roller Derby. Grady Cole Center and American Legion Memorial Stadium, 310 N. Kings Dr. 4:30pm. $7-$12. 980-314-1130. Watch as the Charlotte Roller Girls take on Little Steele Roller Girls. charlotterollergirls.com. Cornelius Jazz Festival. Smithville Park, 19710 S. Ferry St., Cornelius. 5-9pm. FREE. 704.892.603. The Jazz Festival is a multicultural celebration. Bring your family, along with chairs or a blanket, to experience an evening filled with local jazz bands, an array of artisans and vendors, food trucks and children’s activities. cornelius.org. Family Day at the Bechtler Museum of Modern Art. Bechtler Museum of Modern Art, 420 S. Tryon St. Noon-4:30pm. Free for children; $8 for adults. 704-353-9200. Learn about the art and artists of Bechtler Collection and engage young imaginations with hands-on art activities, special museum tours and more. bechtler.org. Girls in STEM Workshop. Discovery Place Science, 301 N. Tryon St. $17. 704-372-6261. Brownie Girl Scouts can work towards various badges during this workshop. Register online. See website for times, themes, and ages. science.discoveryplace.org. Girls With Grit. McDowell Nature Preserve, 15222 S. York Road. Ages 11-14. 8:30am-4pm. $15. 980-314-2267. In this middle school girls-only program, girls can develop new skills, explore the natural world and create lasting friendships while conquering recreational environmental challenges. Registration required. parkandrec.com. Glencairn BloomFest. The Meadow at Glencairn Garden, 825 Edgemont Ave., Rock Hill. 9am-3pm. FREE. 803-329-5620. Enjoy kids’ activities and vendors offering gardenthemed items for sale. Go on a garden
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tour, listen to music and grab some lunch. cityofrockhill.com. Mini Masters Art Workshop: Pet Paintings. Mint Museum Randolph, 2730 Randolph Road. Ages 3-5. 1:30-2:45pm. $16; $12 for members. 704-337-2000. Paint a cute and cuddly canine or feline friend using playful painting tools, and search for pets in the art on view. Registration required. mintmuseum.org. Music, Dance ‘n Que Fest. President James K. Polk State Historic Site, 12031 Lancaster Hwy., Pineville. 11am-3pm. FREE; additional cost for food. 704-889-7145. Enjoy bluegrass and rock music, tours of the historic cabins, shopping, raffles, food and beverages. nchistoricsites.org. Music is in the Air: Family Storytime. York County Main Library, 138 E. Black St., Rock Hill. Ages 11 and under with adult. 11am-noon. FREE. 803-981-5888. Show your musical talent with songs, games and crafts. Register online. yclibrary.org. Saturday Children’s Yoga. Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, 6500 S. New Hope Road, Belmont. Ages 3 and younger. 11-11:30am. $6 per class. 704-829-1294. Geared towards children ages 3 and younger, this class focuses on movement and energy release. Parent participation required. dsbg.org. Stories Under the Stars: Poetry Alive. Kannapolis Library, 850 Mountain St., Kannapolis. 7-8pm. FREE. A literary performing arts event geared toward families with children of all ages. kannapolisnc.gov. Tyrannosaurus: Meet the Family at Northlake Mall. Northlake Mall, 6801 Northlake Mall Dr. 11am-3pm. FREE. Northlake Mall is partnering with Discovery Place to offer educational programming about their new exhibit Tyrannosaurs: Meet the Family. Enjoy an educator-run fossil dig, photos with life-size T-Rex’s, performers, an interactive story-telling experience, and receive free posters and coloring pages. shopnorthlake.com. On Stage: The Gospel According to Tennessee. See page 37.
20 SUNDAY All Ages at Abari Game Bar. Abari Game Bar, 1721 N. Davidson St. Noon- 5pm. 980-4304587. This bar and arcade hybrid has over 20 pinball machines, 30 arcade games and other games rotating monthly. Each Saturday
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and Sunday from noon-5pm all ages can play with a parent or guardian present. abarigamebar.com. Concerts on the Green. Village Green, corner of Main Street and Concord Road, Davidson. 6-8pm. FREE. Bring comfy chairs, a blanket and picnic to enjoy music outdoors. concertsonthegreen.com. Family Spring Scavenger Hunt. McDowell Nature Preserve, 15222 South York Road. 3:30-4:15pm. FREE. 980-314-2267. Work together to find wildflowers, amphibians, birds and other native plants and animals. Bring your smartphone to take pictures of your discoveries. Must arrive no later than 3:30pm to participate for prizes. Registration required. parkandrec.com. Girls in STEM Workshop. Discovery Place Science, 301 N. Tryon St. $17. 704-372-6261. Brownie Girl Scouts can work towards various badges during this workshop. Register online. See website for times, themes, and ages. science.discoveryplace.org. Rock Hill Community Bike Rides. Richmond Drive Elementary, 1162 Richmond Drive, Rock Hill. 2-4pm. FREE. Enjoy this fun and relaxing way to discover neighborhoods, parks, and public facilities within Rock Hill. All riders must wear a properly fitted helmet and be able to ride a bike without training wheels. If you don’t have a bike, you can borrow one of the limited number of loaner bikes and helmets for ages 10 and older. onlyinoldtown.com. On Stage: Mystic India. See page 37.
21 MONDAY Bark in the Ballpark. BB&T Ballpark, 324 S. Mint St. 7pm. $8-$23. 704-274-8300. Bring your dog along to see the Charlotte Knights play the Norfolk Tides. bbtballparkcharlotte. com. Small Stalks. Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, 6500 S. New Hope Road, Belmont. Ages 2-5. 10-11am. $10 per parent/child; $6 for each additional participant. 704-829-1252. Children can explore nature with songs, games, crafts, and play in Lost Hollow Children’s Garden. dsbg.org. Wee Sprouts. Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, 6500 S. New Hope Road, Belmont. Ages 2 and younger. 11:15am-noon. $10 per parent/child; $6 for each additional participant. 704-829-1252. Explore colors, shapes, movement, texture and a host
of other topics in a safe and nurturing environment. dsbg.org.
22 TUESDAY Little 600. GoPro Motorplex, 130 Motorplex Dr., Mooresville. 5-9pm. FREE. Some of NASCAR’s biggest names battle each other for bragging rights in GoPro Motorplex’s rental fleet of go-karts. The action begins at 5pm. 600festival.com. Star Wars Knight at the Knights Game. BB&T Ballpark, 324 S. Mint St. 7pm. $8-$30. 704-274-8300. Fans can meet characters from Star Wars and watch the Knights play the Norfolk Tides. bbtballparkcharlotte.com.
23 WEDNESDAY Child Safety Seat Inspection Station. Matthews Police Department, 1201 Crews Road, Matthews. 8-11:30am. FREE. Bring your vehicle, seat and child for guidance on how to safetly install a child’s car seat. safekidscharmeck.org. Free Wednesday Evenings at the Mint Museum. Mint Museum Randolph, 2730 Randolph Road; Mint Museum Uptown, 500 S. Tryon St. 5-9pm. FREE. 704-337-2000. Explore the Mint Museum’s exhibitions at no cost. mintmuseum.org.
24 THURSDAY Tot Time. Perfect Balance, 8850 Monroe Road. Ages 5 and younger. 11:30am-12:30pm. $5-$6. 980-299-8445. Enjoy an hour of open play in the gym. There is no instructor so parents are in charge of their children. Ongoing Monday-Friday. perfectbalancecharlotte.com. On Stage: PlayPlay! Theatre Presents: “Pocket.” See page 37.
25 FRIDAY Food Truck Friday South End. Sycamore Brewing, 2161 Hawkins St. 5-10 pm. Free entry. This family-friendly event features craft brews, wine, cider, live music and the best food trucks in Charlotte. ftf-southend.com. Food Truck Fridays and Concert Series. Stumptown Park, 120 S. Trade St., Matthews. 5-9pm. FREE. Enjoy favorite local food trucks, plus local and regional bands, bounce houses for kids, and a craft beer pavilion. Diners are encouraged to bring chairs. matthewsnc.gov. Free Entry to the Schiele Museum. The Schiele Museum, 1500 E. Garrison Blvd.,
› Gastonia. 1-5pm. FREE. 704-866-6900. Get free entry to the Schiele Museum every second Tuesday of the month and every fourth Friday. schielemuseum.org. Friday Night Fireworks at the Knights Game. BB&T Ballpark, 324 S. Mint St. 7 pm. $8-$23. 704-274-8300. Watch the Knights play the Indianapolis Indians and then enjoy postgame fireworks. bbtballparkcharlotte.com. On Stage: PlayPlay! Theatre Presents: “Pocket.” See page 37.
26 SATURDAY All Ages at Abari Game Bar. Abari Game Bar, 1721 N. Davidson St. Noon- 5pm. 980-430-4587. This bar and arcade hybrid has over 20 pinball machines, 30 arcade games and other games rotating monthly. Each Saturday and Sunday from noon-5pm all ages can play with a parent or guardian present. abarigamebar.com. Mini Chefs: Springtime Flours. Morrison Family YMCA, 9405 Bryant Farms Road. Ages 3-5. 9:15-10am. $15 for members; $20 for program participants. 704-716-4650. Participants cook one recipe and learn basic kitchen skills such as measuring ingredients. Sign up online or in person. ymcacharlotte.org. Movie Night in Midwood Park. See “Raiders of the Lost Ark” under the stars on the big screen. Midwood Park Amphitheater, 2100 Wilhelmina Ave. 8pm. FREE. plazamidwood.org. Saturday Children’s Yoga. Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, 6500 S. New Hope Road, Belmont. Ages 3 and younger. 11-11:30am. $6 per class. 704-829-1294. Geared towards children ages 3 and younger, this class focuses on movement and energy release. Parent participation required. dsbg.org. Super Hero Storytime. SAS Cupcakes, 9941 Rea Road, Suite C. 10:30am. $9. 704-295-1777. Kids can hear a story, frost cupcakes and meet a super hero. sascupcakes.com. On Stage: PlayPlay! Theatre Presents: “Pocket.” See page 37.
27 SUNDAY All Ages at Abari Game Bar. Abari Game Bar, 1721 N. Davidson St. Noon- 5pm. 980-430-4587. This bar and arcade hybrid has over 20 pinball machines, 30 arcade games and other games rotating monthly. Each Saturday and Sunday from noon-5pm all ages can play with a parent or guardian present. abarigamebar.com.
28 MONDAY MEMORIAL DAY $1 Hotdogs at the Knights Game. BB&T Ballpark, 324 S. Mint St. 2pm. $8-$23. 704-274-8300. Enjoy $1 hotdogs
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29 TUESDAY Moonlight Series: Kayak. Anne Springs Close Greenway, 971 Tom Hall St., Fort Mill. 8:15pm. $5 entry fee; Single kayaks are $15 and tandem kayaks are $20. 803-547-4575. Gaze at constellations, and listen to the night sounds paddling around Lake Haigler. Reservations required. ascgreenway.org. Read With Baron the Dog. Mooresville Public Library, 304 S. Main St., Mooresville. 3:30-4:30pm. FREE. 704-664-2927. Children can practice reading skills by reading a book to Baron, the lovable long haired German Shepherd, a certified therapy dog. mooresvillelibrary.org. Toddler Tuesday at Sea Life Charlotte-Concord Aquarium. Sea Life Charlotte-Concord Aquarium, 8111 Concord Mills Blvd., Concord. $15 for adult. 866-229-1573. Get one free child ticket with the purchase of an adult ticket on Tuesdays. Each additional child (ages 3-12) receives a discount as well, costing only $5 each. visitsealife.com.
30 WEDNESDAY Child Safety Seat Inspection Station. Child Safety Seat Inspection Station. Matthews Police Department, 1201 Crews Road, Matthews. 8-11:30am. FREE. Bring your vehicle, seat and child for guidance on how to safetly install a child’s car seat. safekidscharmeck.org. Free Wednesday Evenings at the Mint Museum. Mint Museum Randolph, 2730 Randolph Road; Mint Museum Uptown, 500 S. Tryon St. 5-9pm. FREE. 704-337-2000. Explore the Mint Museum’s exhibitions at no cost. mintmuseum.org. Homeschool Day at Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden. Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, 6500 S New Hope Road, Belmont. Grades K-5. 9:30am-12:30pm. $8 for first student; $5 for each additional student; $12 per adult. 704-829-1270. Home-school students can participate in a variety of learning stations offering hands-on, guided discovery experiences with instructional staff. Register online. dsbg.org.
31 THURSDAY Puppet Show. ImaginOn: The Joe and Joan Martin Center, 300 E. 7th St. Ages 3-5. 11:30am-noon. FREE. 704-4164630. Explore stories and songs through a puppet show created and presented by the Spangler Library storytellers. cmlibrary.org.
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DADDY DEREK Learning basic code is standard protocol for children and something many consider a mustknow skill for today’s kids. Photo by Derek James
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recently went to my kids’ school to have lunch with each of my boys. When it was time to sit down with my third grader, he introduced me to his “girlfriend.” It was my first time meeting her. One of the first things she asked me was whether or not I was “funny like Tyler?” Tyler is my older son. He jumped in before I could respond, answering, “Oh yeah. He’s funny on TV every day.” His girlfriend excitedly asked, “Oh, you have you own YouTube Channel?” “No. I’m on TV,” I replied. “Channel 18.” Learning I wasn’t on YouTube, this 9-year-old girl gave me one of the most disappointed looks I’ve ever seen. It was the kind of look I imagine she’d give if she were told she had to go to summer school. It was at that moment that I realized that I may need a YouTube Channel, and that today’s kids are growing up with so many more media options (distractions) than I did. I consider myself something of a media junkie. When I was a kid, we had three TV channels to choose from — 25 when we were stealing cable — local radio, magazines and newspapers. My kids have hundreds of TV channels, a DVR, on-demand options, Netflix, satellite radio, the internet and so many other choices. Not to sound like Dana Carvey’s Saturday Night Live “Grumpy Old Man” character, but in my day, we had no ability to ‘surf ’ for content. There wasn’t a place to go for videos of people playing video games or to watch weirdos lay in bathtubs full of spaghetti. I didn’t get really comfortable with computers until I was a teen. My 7- and 9-year-old sons have already done more at
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their school with Google Docs than I have at work. What’s more, they are already learning basic coding with something called Bitsbox. I have no idea if my boys will ever become coders, but there are many who believe that in 20 years, people who can’t code will be considered illiterate. As someone who learned video and audio editing in middle and high school, I can tell you that kids can never start too early if the interest is there. That huge head start I had with technology served me well. To this day, I still edit much of my own video. It’s a skill at which very few colleagues in my position know how to do. We often make the assumption as parents that all time kids spend on a computer is play, but there is an awful lot that can be learned on computers if you help guide your kids along the way. Let’s be real, though — you can’t leave them to their own devices, so to speak. You can’t assume that they’ll always be diligently working on developing those coding skills or doing research for a project. I know, because I may have spent some time I
should’ve been using to edit a video project chatting with girls on AOL instead. Now online chats can lead to A/S/L questions (age/sex/location). That’s why I’m not a fan of having a computer or any devices in a kid’s bedroom until they’re in high school and have earned the privilege. I believe it’s important that we cut our kids some slack when it comes to all this technology. I’ve seen adults more addicted to their devices than their kids. Some high schoolers are ditching social media because they are seeing and experiencing the adverse effects of excessive technology firsthand. There’s no dancing around it. When it comes to technology, we are living in an exciting time. Just as our kids help open new windows (no pun intended) for us, so we can help guide their path forward. In the end, everyone benefits. Now I wonder how many pounds of spaghetti it would take to fill my bathtub? Derek James is a host of WCCB News Rising. He and his wife live in Charlotte with their two sons who are age 9 and 7.
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We were exploring downtown Waxhaw, and Ivan needed to stop to on the bridge to tie his shoes. Before he got up, I made him pause and snapped this picture. The simplicity of a great moment. Photo by Medesia Negron of Lancaster, South Carolina.
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