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Clash of Traditions How to negotiate and blend family traditions

73 Ways to Find Holiday Fun in the Triangle Santa sightings, tree lightings parades and more

Must-See Holiday Light Shows Across NC How to deal with them and prevent becoming one

Connecting With Grandparents Going the digital distance to keep in touch

NOT Ringing in the Holidays Six ways to keep digital device use under wraps

IN EVERY ISSUE 5 November Online 6 Editor's Note FYI 8 Community 10 Education 12 Health 13 Family CO LU M N S 29 Growing Up 31 Tech Talk 32 Understanding Kids 33 Hammers, Nails and Diaper Pails 34 College Transitions 36 Excursion 48 Faces and Places CALENDAR 37 Our Picks 38 Holiday Craft Fairs 39 Daily 46 Performances

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Holiday Lights, Tips and Traditions

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Katie Reeves · katie.reeves@morris.com

ovember brings holiday merriment to the Triangle, and we’ve rounded

up 120 ways to celebrate the season on pages 16, 22 and 38 (plus more online).

Take the family to parades, tree lightings, performances, craft fairs and other seasonal events throughout the region to kick off some holiday fun. Hop in the family vehicle and turn on your holiday playlist, then head out to view some of North Carolina’s best holiday light shows, featured on pages 22-23. There’s nothing quite like a sparkling extravaganza of twinkling lights to create a festive mood. When families gather to celebrate the holidays, traditions often compete. As Thanksgiving approaches, we provide tips on pages 14-15 for how to maintain —

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and establish — holiday traditions that reflect both sides of the family’s cherished

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customs. Speaking of Thanksgiving, our stay-at-home dad, Patrick Hempfing,

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shares a sweet story of gratitude expressed by his daughter, Jessie, on page 33.

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According to the American Grandparents Association, more than 40 percent of grandparents don’t live near their grandkids. Even if your children don’t get to

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visit with their grandparents during the holidays, there are plenty of ways they can connect digitally. From smartphones to apps, to old-fashioned pen and paper, we offer tips on pages 24-25 for how grandchildren and grandparents can keep in touch. If your holiday wish is to go vintage and minimize the use of digital devices,

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however, we offer tips for how to plan device-free get-togethers on pages 26-27.

Our calendar section, which starts on page 37, is packed with holiday craft fairs, performances and other ways to find family fun. ’Tis also the season for college application deadlines. If you're parenting a home-schooled student, we provide tips on page 34 for helping your child get into the college or university of his or her choice. Don’t forget to look for this month’s featured contest somewhere in this issue.

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Connor Shugg is a two-time National STEM Video Game Challenge winner. Photo courtesy of the Shugg family

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Students decorate notes for families in Durham. Photo courtesy of Rainbow Child Care Center

Apex Teen Wins National STEM Video Game Challenge 2 Years in a Row Connor Shugg, a 2017 graduate of Apex High School, has won the National STEM Video Game Challenge for the second year in a row. This past year he entered his game, “The Calculus Test,” into the competition’s

Rainbow Child Care Center Packages Diapers for Families in Need Eight representatives from Rainbow Child Care Center packaged approximately 200 diapers on Sept. 19 at the Diaper Bank of North Carolina in Durham for distribution to families struggling to afford diapers. Preschool students and families from Rainbow Child Care Center locations across North Carolina collected diapers for a month prior to the event. Students and staff also decorated supportive notes with colorful designs to put inside the diaper packs. “It was an amazing experience watching other volunteers gift their time towards such an unselfish cause,” says Neeti Sobti, Rainbow Child Care Center's regional manager of North Carolina. “We are thankful for the opportunity to gain a meaningful experience of helping others and giving back to our community.”

High School GameMaker category. In 2016, he entered and won the National STEM Video Game Challenge’s High School Open Platform Category with his music-themed game “Allegria.” “The Calculus Test” features word problems as themes for each level, with test-taking stress manifesting

Money Magazine Honors Two Triangle Towns Knightdale and Morrisville were recent winners in Money magazine’s annual “Best Places to Live in America” list. Money magazine, which ranks 100 American towns from coast to coast, named Knightdale 76th and Morrisville 90th in the list. The magazine ranks towns and cities by different types of data, including economy, cost of living, housing, education, crime, amenities and ease of living. This year’s winners were announced in Money’s October 2017 issue.

as enemy sprites and weapons representing various mathematical operations. Connor, a former member of Apex High School’s Academy of Information Technology, currently attends Virginia Tech and is majoring in engineering with a concentration in computer science.

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Durham Public Schools Experience Widespread, Steady Academic Progress in 2016-17 Eighteen of 20 Durham Public Schools' middle and high schools — including every traditional high school — either met or exceeded state expectations of academic growth during the 2016-17 school year, according to data released in August by the North Carolina Department Magnet Schools of America Standards of Excellence has certified nine Wake County magnet schools. Photos courtesy of Paul Cory of WCPSS

of Public Instruction. Among the highlights: • DPS student performance increased in 2016-17 in reading and math in grades four through eight, and almost across the board in middle and high school courses. • Three schools — Mangum Elementary, City of Medicine Academy and J.D. Clement Early College High School at North Carolina Central University — earned “A+” school performance grades. • Every DPS traditional high school met or exceeded expected academic growth. • Every DPS traditional high school graduated 80 percent or more of its students, including City of Medicine Academy and J.D. Clement Early College High School at 100 percent and four other

Wake County Magnet Schools Receive National Certification Nine Wake County magnet schools have been nationally certified by the Magnet Schools of America Standards of Excellence Certification Program. They are among 55 schools in 12 states to be so named in the first cohort of this new program. The following WCPSS schools received this prestigious certification: Brentwood Magnet Elementary School • Engineering A.B. Combs Magnet Elementary School • Leadership Conn Elementary Magnet School • Entrepreneurial Design

Douglas Magnet Elementary School • Creative Arts and Science Farmington Woods Magnet Elementary School • International Baccalaureate Hunter Magnet Elementary School • Gifted and Talented/AIG

Wendell Magnet Elementary School • Creative Arts and Science Wiley Magnet Elementary School • International Studies Millbrook Magnet High School • International Baccalaureate World School

high schools at 95 percent or greater. • Eight of DPS’s 13 high schools exceeded state academic growth expectations: City of Medicine Academy, J.D. Clement Early College High School, Durham School of the Arts, Hillside High School, New Tech High School at Hillside, Middle College High School at Durham Tech, Riverside and The School for Creative Studies.

The national certification process is based on the Magnet School Standards of Excellence and the five pillars of magnet schools — diversity; innovative curriculum and professional development; academic excellence; high-quality instructional systems; and family and community partnerships. Magnet schools must apply to receive this designation. They receive a rigorous evaluation based on evidence that they have met multiple indicators included in the Magnet School Standards of Excellence. This includes providing specific examples of promoting school diversity, closing the achievement gap, integrating a theme-based curriculum throughout the school, and encouraging parent and community involvement. WCPSS schools consistently receive MSA recognition — 27 schools were recognized as Schools of Distinction or Excellence earlier this year.

Overall academic performance has increased from 2013 to 2017. Schools that consistently exceeded expectations for academic growth in those four years included Burton Elementary, Holt Elementary, City of Medicine Academy, J.D. Clement Early College High School, Durham School of the Arts, Hillside High School and Middle College High School.

Some NC Colleges Waive Application Fees During College Application Week The College Foundation of North Carolina has declared November College Application Month, during which some state schools will waive their application fees for North Carolina graduating seniors who apply the week of Nov. 13-17. Since many college application fees hover around $35-$40, applying during this week can help families save money. Visit cfnc.org to see the list of participating schools and to find out more about activities during College Application Month.

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Over 121,000 Investigated Cases of Child Abuse and Neglect in NC

Infants and Awareness of Internal Signals Researchers from the University of Royal Holloway, London, published findings in August on eLife (elifesciences.org) from an experiment that tested how aware babies are of their bodies’ internal signals. The ability to consciously sense signals from one’s body, such as feeling “butterflies” before giving a speech, is called interoception. Some people are more aware of these signals than others, which can influence mental health and a wide range of psychological processes, including decision-making and how strongly one feels emotions. By creating a new test called iBEATS, the researchers could measure this ability for the first time and found that babies as young as 5 months old are able to sense their own heartbeats. The researchers measured whether infants can discriminate between an animated character moving in synchrony or out of synchrony with their own heartbeats. Infants preferred to watch the character that was moving out of synchrony, suggesting that even at this early age, they are sensitive to their own interoceptive signals. By using this test and following babies as they get older, researchers are able to track how awareness to internal bodily signals changes as people age to support self-awareness, emotional and cognitive development — and how these processes impact their mental health as they grow older.

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According to the Children’s Home Society of North Carolina and data provided by the UNC-Chapel Hill School of Social Work’s Jordan Institute for Families, there were 121,000 investigated cases of child abuse and neglect in North Carolina July 2016 through June 2017. Almost 70 percent were referred by educational personnel, medical personnel, the courts and human services. About 30 percent were referred by relatives, nonrelatives, parents or child care providers. Child victims reported less than 1 percent of all cases. Demographically, the malefemale ratio of investigated cases was virtually even at 51 to 49 percent. Almost 40 percent of the cases involved infants through age 5, with 39 percent ages 6-12. Roughly 20 percent of the children were ages 13-17. Katherine Kopp is a freelance writer in Chapel Hill.

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Tips for Taking Great Family Photos BY CHRISTA HOGAN

Melissa Hayes is a professional photographer in Raleigh. Here are her tips for taking better family photos. 1. Capture the best light. You’ll get the best light (and cooler temperatures) an hour after sunrise and an hour-and-a-half before sunset. 2. Be informed. Visit the facility’s website or call ahead for information on upcoming events, and ask about their slower times. You may also need a permit to take portrait photos at more popular spots, although personal photography is usually allowed. Check each location’s

10 Ideal Places to Take a Fall Family Photo in the Triangle

posted rules to be safe. 3. Keep ’em happy. Young kids do best during morning sessions and respond well to puppets and

Fall colors are peaking in the Triangle, so why not take the family out to one of these scenic spots for a fall family portrait.

bubbles. Older kids are OK for evening sessions, and teens may

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Clash of Traditions How to negotiate and blend family customs BY VANESSA INFANZON

Every Christmas Eve, my husband and I discuss whether the presents from Santa should be wrapped. We’ve been together for so long, we’re not sure whose family tradition we followed the previous year in that regard. We’ve decided that if we can’t remember, neither will the kids, so everything has gone smoothly so far. When a couple starts their own family, each person brings in childhood traditions. Merging these to create family traditions requires negotiation and planning. Here are a few ways to help your family navigate this blending process during holiday celebrations.

MAKE A PLAN WITH YOUR SPOUSE Charlotte residents Paula and Marcel Elsener celebrate cultural backgrounds and traditions from Sweden, Switzerland and America. One tradition important to the Elsener family is to stay at home on Christmas Day. “We’ve always said from day one that we are not traveling on Christmas,” Paula Elsener

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says. “It’s about the kids; we want them to build Legos for hours if that’s what they want to do.” They do, however, extend an open invitation to the grandparents letting them know they are welcome to join the festivities. “Communication and talking becomes key,” says Michelle Deering, a licensed psychologist at Apex-based Curative Connections. “For the family unit, they are individually bringing their respective histories, and so the talking they need to do has to pertain to what traditions they liked and disliked, and then what desires do they have for the types of memories and messages they want their kids to have.” Deering recommends that couples take inventory of their childhood experiences. “It doesn’t have to be done all at one time, but dribs and drabs of having that conversation will actually help them know what page they’re on,” she says. This helps a couple think intentionally about how they want their holidays to unfold.

INCLUDE YOUR CHILDREN Children develop confidence and a sense of self through family traditions. It helps them know they are an important part of a unique family unit. Parents can include kids as young as age 2 in these traditions by making decorations, reading holiday books, teaching traditional songs and asking them about what they enjoy doing during the holidays. “If you can start young, then you can make it age-appropriate,” Deering says. “If you’re talking with a 3-year-old or 4-year-old, ask if they like A or B?” Take it a step further by asking the child to help choose holiday meal items at the grocery store or decorative items at a department store, then involve them in the cooking or in decorating the home. The Elsener children — Tristan,15, Bjorn, 12, and Sawyer, 11 — decorate the tree and the house during the holiday season. They look forward to the Swiss tradition of Samichlaus,

aka Santa Claus. He visits on Dec. 6 and fills their boots with oranges and nuts. Paula Elsener wasn’t enthusiastic about upholding a tradition involving Schmutzli, “the dirty one,” who comes with Samichlaus. As the legend goes, Schmutzli takes children away if they misbehaved throughout the year. Paula and Marcel chose not to emphasize this tradition for fear of scaring their children. Now that they are almost all teenagers, they have fun with the idea.

BE CLEAR Some families look forward to traditions they have followed for one, two or more generations. Grandparents and extended family often want to continue these traditions, but when spouses come together, there may be a need to evaluate what works best for their immediate family. Ditte Ranum and her husband, Hernando Gordils, live in Huntersville with their 5-yearold daughter, Victoria. They celebrate Danish and Venezuelan traditions during the holidays. Before their daughter was born, Ranum enjoyed her husband’s Venezuelan traditions, but when Victoria was born, she wanted to make sure the family honored her Danish heritage also. “I want to get my traditions in the picture,” Ranum says.

Gordils’ family was happy to accommodate Ranum’s request because she was clear about her needs. Deering says listening to the needs of grandparents and extended family during the holidays can reduce hurt feelings and stressful situations. If you get requests for a special visit or an unusual change in the schedule, Deering recommends asking questions that may get to the heart of the issue: “What is it about this year that makes it important?” “How can we look at creative alternative options?” “Everyone comes at this from different cultural perspectives and family dynamic perspectives,” she says. “What I’ve found is that the real core root of the tension is that family members do not respect the new boundaries that each person has to develop on their own.” Deering tells her clients to use active problem-solving, and that if a wish can be accommodated, attempt it. Ranum agrees, and enjoys the cultural variety her family celebrates. “It’s important to embrace all the differences,” she says. “Let’s make this our holiday, instead of ‘this is what we’ve been doing for years.’ Let’s make it unique for our family.” Vanessa Infanzon is a Charlotte mom to three boys. Follow her @morethanVMI on Instagram and Twitter.

4 Quick Lessons in Holiday Etiquette Aimee Symington, an etiquette expert in Charlotte and founder of Finesse Worldwide, suggests four ways to make celebrating holiday traditions fun and special for everyone.

HOSTING GUESTS. Share your traditions with your guests beforehand and ask if they have something special they’d like to do.

PRAYERS. If you pray before a meal and you’re hosting guests in your home, ask your guests to join in the prayer. If you are in someone else’s home, however, and they don’t follow that same practice, simply do it silently on your own.

HOLIDAY FOOD. Ask guests to bring a dish that is traditional for their family. It’s fun to share culinary dishes from different family customs and cultures.

GIFT-GIVING. Get your

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Be dazzled by the Moscow Ballet’s “Great Russian Nutcracker” Dec. 13-14 at Carolina Theatre in Durham. Photo courtesy of ©Moscow Ballet

73 Ways to Find Holiday Fun in the Triangle APEX Christmas on Salem Street in downtown Apex Dec. 1, 5-9 p.m., features sleigh rides, caroling and a tree-lighting ceremony. The following day, families can enjoy a pancake breakfast at the Salem Street firehouse and take pictures with Santa at the Halle Cultural Arts Center in the afternoon before the town’s Christmas parade, which begins at 5 p.m. apexdowntown.com/downtownapex-events. The Halle Cultural Arts Center presents two holiday productions in December. See Infinity Ballet perform “Nutcracker Dances” Dec. 1-3, and two musicals in one with “A Fairy Tale Christmas Carol” and “The Great Big Holiday Bake Off: A Confectionary Christmas Musical” Dec. 8-10. Visit etix. com for show times and to

purchase tickets.

CARY See 20 light displays illuminated by thousands of LED lights at the Chinese Lantern Festival at Booth Amphitheatre in Cary Nov. 24-Jan. 14. The hours are 6-10 p.m. Tuesday-Sunday. The festival also features cultural performances and artisans. Purchase tickets, $15 for adults and $10 for ages 3-17, online at boothamphitheatre.com/ncchinese-lantern-festival-cary. Cary Players present “A Christmas Story” Dec. 1-4 at the Cary Arts Center. See the website for show times and to purchase tickets, $20 for adults and $18 for kids. etix.com/ ticket/v/8087/cary-arts-center. Cary’s annual Heart of the Holidays festivities take place Dec. 2. Learn about Victorian holiday traditions and enjoy horse-drawn carriage

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rides at the Page-Walker Arts and History Center, a historic 1868 hotel, 4-6 p.m. The town’s tree-lighting ceremony takes place at 6 p.m. at the Town Hall Campus and features live performances and the unveiling of a community tree decorated with handcrafted ornaments. See featured entries in the town’s 7th Annual Gingerbread House Competition in downtown Cary and also at the Cary Arts Center through December. townofcary.org. The 2017 Cary Christmas Parade, sponsored by the Cary Jaycees, is Dec. 9 at 1 p.m. See the website for the parade route. caryjaycees.org/cary-jayceeschristmas-parade. Cary Ballet Company presents “The Nutcracker Suite” Dec. 15-17 at the Cary Arts Center. Purchase tickets, $21-$25, at etix.com/ ticket/v/8087/cary-arts-center.

Cary’s Menorah Lighting is Dec. 19 at 5:30 p.m. at the Cary Arts Center. The town’s Kwanzaa Celebration is Dec. 29, 11 a.m.-5 p.m.

CHAPEL HILL Holiday carolers highlight Chapel Hill’s Downtown Tree Lighting Ceremony Nov. 26, 6-7 p.m., at Memorial Garden of University Baptist Church on Columbia Street. Children can have their pictures taken with Santa and Mrs. Claus. downtownchapelhill.com/ celebrations. Opportunities to dine with Santa on select days, gingerbread house-making, a gingerbread house display, horse-drawn carriage rides and more highlight the annual Twelve Days of Christmas event series at the Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill Dec. 1-Jan. 2. 12daysevents.com.

Carolina Ballet presents “The Nutcracker” Dec. 2-3 at Memorial Hall in Chapel Hill. See website for show times and to purchase tickets at carolinaperformingarts.org/ ros_perf_series/carolina-ballet. Themed floats, marching bands and Santa welcome families to the Chapel HillCarrboro Holiday Parade Dec. 9, which begins at 10 a.m. at Morehead Planetarium on E. Franklin Street in downtown Chapel Hill and ends at noon on Main Street in Carrboro. townofchapelhill.org/town-hall/ departments-services/parksrecreation/festivals-events. Symphonic arrangements and beloved holiday melodies highlight North Carolina Symphony’s Classic Holiday Pops concert Dec. 12 at 7:30 p.m. at Memorial Hall in Chapel Hill. Purchase tickets, $43-$73, at ncsymphony.org. PlayMakers Repertory Company presents “A Christmas Carol” at Kenan Theatre on the University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill campus Dec. 13-17. See the website for show times and to purchase tickets, which start at $15. playmakersrep.org. Enjoy family-friendly activities, performances and a kids’ countdown under the stars to ring in the new year at Morehead Planetarium’s Night Lights: A Family New Year’s Eve Celebration Dec. 31, 4-6 p.m. Purchase tickets online at moreheadplanetarium.org.

DURHAM The Durham Performing Arts Center presents two holiday shows in November. “Hip Hop Nutcracker,” Nov. 24 at 2

and 7 p.m., is a contemporary re-imagination of Tchaikovsky’s timeless music. The Brian Setzer Orchestra performs rockabilly song arrangements in its 14th Annual “Christmas Rocks! Tour” Nov. 26 at 7:30 p.m. Purchase tickets online. dpacnc. com. p.m. Duke Chorale’s Christmas Concert, which features traditional carols for the entire audience to sing and stories and special treats for children, is Nov. 28 at 7 p.m. at Duke Chapel. Admission is one nonperishable food item for needy families in Durham. music.duke.edu/events/dukechorale-christmas-concert-1. Celebrate an 1870s Christmas as Duke Homestead in Durham hosts its annual Christmas by Candlelight event Dec. 1 and 8, 6:45-9:15 p.m., featuring costumed interpreters leading visitors on candlelit tours of the decorated homestead. Tickets are $5 per person and free for ages 1 and younger. Purchase tickets online. dukehomestead. org/special-events.php. Enjoy Christmas at Historic Stagville in Durham Dec. 2, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Admission is free. Learn about the Christmas traditions of enslaved and free people in North Carolina. After dark, see some of the slaves’ quarters and sharecroppers’ homes lit by lanterns as guides share stories of the holidays during these times. Lantern tours, begin at 5 p.m., and are $5 per person and free for ages 1 and younger. Advance ticket purchase is recommended by calling 919-620-0120. stagville.org. The City of Durham hosts its annual holiday parade with

all the trimmings Dec. 2 at 11 a.m. in downtown Durham. A Holiday Fun Fest takes place later that afternoon, 1-4 p.m., at the American Tobacco Campus featuring live entertainment, bounce houses, snow sledding, train rides and a visit with Santa. The city’s Kwanzaa Celebration is Dec. 30, 3-5 p.m., at the Holton Career and Resource Center. durhamnc.gov. Singer and songwriter Robert Earl Keen presents “Merry Christmas from the Fam-O-Lee” show at Carolina Theatre Dec. 3 at 8 p.m. Purchase tickets, $34-$39, at carolinatheatre.org. The vocal quartet 98° performs songs from its new Christmas album, “Let It Snow,” Dec. 5 at 7:30 p.m. at the Durham Performing Arts Center. The following evening, Dec. 6, Grammy-award winner Fantasia delivers a soulful holiday show titled, “Christmas After Midnight” in the same venue at 7:30 p.m. Purchase tickets at ticketmaster.com. Carolina Ballet presents “The Nutcracker” Dec. 9-10 at the Durham Performing Arts Center. See the website for show times and to purchase tickets at carolinaballet.com. Moscow Ballet’s “Great Russian Nutcracker” takes place Dec. 13-14 at 7 p.m. and features world-class Russian dancers, nesting dolls and giant puppets at Carolina Theatre in Durham. Purchase tickets online at ticketmaster.com. Christmas in the Piedmont During the Civil War at Bennett Place State Historic Site in Durham celebrates the season Dec. 16, 10 a.m.-4 p.m., with living

historians who demonstrate cooking and gift-wrapping in the 19th century. Santa visits with families during the event. Candlelit tours of the site take place from 6-9 p.m. Tickets are required for the tours and are $3 for adults and $2 for ages 5-16. 919-383-4345. bennettplacehistoricsite.com/ special-events.

RALEIGH Classic cars, holiday-themed floats, marching bands and large helium balloons highlight the WRAL Raleigh Christmas Parade Nov. 18, 9:30 a.m., in downtown Raleigh. The parade begins at the corner of Hillsborough and St. Mary’s streets. grma.org/christmas-parade. Lafayette Village in Raleigh ushers in the holiday season with its Lighting of the Tree, Nov. 18, 3-6 p.m., 8450 Honeycutt Rd., Raleigh. lafayettevillageraleigh.com. North Hills in Raleigh welcomes families to its Tree-Lighting Celebration Nov. 18, 3:30-7:30 pm., featuring visits with Santa, snow sledding, trackless train rides, kids' crafts and activities, a bounce house and a vendor village. visitnorthhills.com/ event/annual-tree-lighting. North Carolina Symphony Presents “The Polar Express” Nov. 22, 3 p.m., in Meymandi Concert Hall. Listen for the sounds of silver bells and climb aboard in your pajamas for a first-class journey on “The Polar Express.” Come early to meet Santa, and enjoy kid-friendly activities and a traditional singalong. Purchase tickets for $14-$29 at ticketmaster.com.

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North Carolina Symphony presents “Home Alone” Nov. 24, 7:30 p.m.; and Nov. 25, 3 p.m. in Meymandi Concert Hall. See the comedy classic on a big screen as the symphony plays the delightful score by John Williams live. Purchase tickets for $14-$29. at ticketmaster.com. “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer: The Musical” lands at Fletcher Theater for performances Nov. 24-Dec. 24. Purchase tickets, $15 and up, at ticketmaster.com. Theatre in the Park presents “A Charlie Brown Christmas” Dec. 1-10. See the website for show times and to purchase tickets. Theatre in the Park’s production of “A Christmas Carol” is Dec. 6-10 at Raleigh Memorial Auditorium and Dec. 14-17 at the Durham Performing Arts Center. See the website for show times and purchase tickets at ticketmaster.com. Raleigh Little Theatre presents its holiday sugarplum, “Cinderella,” Dec. 1-17. See the website for show times and to purchase tickets. raleighlittletheatre.org/shows/ cinderella. Make holiday memories by riding NC By Train’s Santa Train round trip from Raleigh to Charlotte Dec. 2. The train ride features a visit from Santa and Mrs. Claus, carolers and refreshments. Call 800-298-7246 or see the website for departure times and fares. ncdot.gov. The Sleigh Rides and Cider event at Historic Oak View County Park is Dec. 2, 5-7:30 p.m., and offers families horse-drawn carriage rides, hot apple cider, live music, holiday activities and more. Santa also makes an appearance. wakegov.com/parks/oakview. Mordecai Historic Park’s

Don't miss the 20th annual Twelve Days of Christmas event series at the Carolina Inn. Photo courtesy of Emily Kristine Photography Holiday Open House in Raleigh welcomes families Dec. 9, 10 a.m.4 p.m., and Dec. 10, 1-4 p.m. Tour the home as it would have been decorated for Christmas during colonial days through the World War II era. Admission is free. Take one of the lantern tours, which run 5-8:30 p.m. on Dec. 9, through the house and grounds to watch vignettes of the Mordecai family, soldiers and enslaved people during the Civil War. Purchase tickets, $5 per person, at reclink.raleighnc.gov/activities/ activitiesadvsearch.asp#top (click on “advanced search” and search for “Mordecai”). Raleigh Ringers’ Holiday Concerts Dec. 9-10 at Meymandi Concert Hall showcase unique interpretations of sacred, secular and popular music arranged just for handbells. See the website for show times and to purchase tickets. ticketmaster.org. The Trans-Siberian Orchestra’s holiday spectacle,

“Ghosts of Christmas Eve,” is Dec. 13 at 7:30 p.m. at PNC Arena. ticketmaster.com. Carolina Ballet presents “The Nutcracker” Dec. 15-24 at Raleigh Memorial auditorium. See the website for show times and purchase tickets at carolinaballet.com. The renowned Raleigh Boychoir presents “Carols of Christmas” Dec. 22 at 7 p.m. at Edenton Street United Methodist Church. Purchase tickets, $8-$18, at raleighboychoir.org. First Night Raleigh takes place Dec. 31, 2 p.m.-midnight, in downtown Raleigh. Enjoy a variety of family-friendly activities prior to the Acorn Drop at midnight. A First Night button, $10, is required for entry. firstnightraleigh.com.

OTHER TRIANGLE TOWNS Benson’s Christmas on Main event is Dec. 1, 6-9 p.m., and showcases live entertainment, a tree-lighting ceremony at 6:45

p.m. and a visit with Santa after the parade, which begins at 7 p.m. benson-chamber.com/christmas_ on_main.php. Visit Lights on the Neuse in Clayton, a 1-mile, tractorpulled Christmas hayride through a magical extravaganza of holiday lights on select nights in November and December. The event also offers a sweet shop and visit with Santa. See the website for hours and to purchase tickets. lightsontheneuse.com. Hubb's Farm in Clinton presents “The Hubb’s Express and Santa Too!” Dec. 1-2, 5-10 p.m., featuring a ride on the Hubb’s Express Train, time with Santa, a showing of “The Polar Express” and more. Purchase tickets online for $20 (free for ages 1 and younger), or call 910-5646709. Tickets will not be sold at the gate. hubbsfarmnc.com. Main Street in Clayton is transformed into a Christmas Village Nov. 30, 5:30-8 p.m., with

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live music, a visit with Santa, train rides and a live Nativity. The town’s tree-lighting ceremony begins at 7:45 p.m. at Town Square. Enjoy a holiday parade on Main Street Dec. 9 at 3 p.m. downtownclayton.org. Families in Fuquay-Varina can enjoy choir performances and holiday activities downtown with a tree-lighting ceremony on Nov. 30, 6-8 p.m. The annual Fuquay-Varina Christmas Parade is Dec. 9 at 3 p.m. on Main Street. fuquay-varinadowntown.com. Garner’s Light Up Main event, Dec. 1, 6-8 p.m., showcases a tree-lighting ceremony and a visit by Santa and Mrs. Claus. Face painting, a local talent showcase and kids’ crafts round out the fun. The Garner Christmas Parade on Main Street is Dec. 2 at 2 p.m. and features dance troupes, marching bands, Santa and decorated floats. garnernc.gov/ departments/parks-recreationand-cultural-resources/specialevents.

Hillsborough’s Light Up the Night Holiday Parade is Dec. 2, 4:45-6:30 p.m., and features a parade that begins on Corbin Street and ends at E. Margaret Lane. A tree lighting will take place at the old courthouse lawn at 6:30 p.m. hillsboroughchamber.com. Main Street Christmas in Holly Springs is Dec. 8, 6-8 p.m. The annual event includes hayrides, crafts and live entertainment. Mrs. Claus reads stories at the Cultural Center and Santa visits with children at town hall until 7:15 p.m. The night concludes with the town’s tree-lighting ceremony at 8 p.m. at the Cultural Center. The Happy Holly Days Parade on Main Street in Holly Springs takes place Dec. 9 at 11 a.m. hollyspringsnc. us/359/Main-Street-Christmas, hollyspringsnc.us/270/HappyHolly-Days-Christmas-Parade. During Christmas on First Avenue in Knightdale, kids can visit with Mrs. Claus and Santa’s elves at Knightdale Station

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Park Amphitheater Dec. 1, 6-8 p.m. The event also features a tree-lighting ceremony and fun activities. Santa visits at the end of the evening. Knightdale’s Christmas parade takes place Dec. 2 at 2 p.m. knightdalenc.gov/ index.aspx?page=319. Four Oaks’ Christmas Festival on Main Street Dec. 2, 10 a.m.-3 p.m., includes a visit from Santa, children’s activities, vendors and the town’s annual Christmas Parade at 11 a.m. fouroakschamber.com. St. Nicholas visits with kids at Mebane’s Hometown Holiday Celebration Nov. 18, 10 a.m.8 p.m. The event also features carolers, a tree-lighting ceremony, marshmallow roasts, a snow slide and crafts. The Mebane Christmas Parade takes place Dec. 1 at 7 p.m. visitalamance. com. Morrisville’s Christmas Tree Lighting ceremony, featuring musical entertainment, cookies, crafts and a visit from Santa, is Dec. 1, 7-9 p.m. at Indian Creek Trailhead. townofmorrisville.org. Ride in a holiday-themed open train car when New Hope Valley Railway in New Hill hosts its annual Holiday Santa Trains. Trains run Dec. 2, 3, 9 and 10.

Visit the website for ride times and prices. Advance ticket purchase is recommended. triangletrain.com. The Pittsboro Christmas Parade is Dec. 10 at 3 p.m. and features seasonal floats, tractors, vintage vehicles, Santa and more. pittsboronc.gov. The Selma Christmas Parade is Dec. 5 at 7 p.m. and features Santa under the stars. selma-nc.com/selma-christmasparade. Smithfield's annual Christmas Tree Lighting is Dec. 7 at 7 p.m. at the corner of Third and Market streets. Enjoy hot chocolate, live entertainment and an appearance from Santa. The annual Smithfield Christmas Parade is Dec. 14 at 7 p.m. on Market Street. smithfield-nc.com/page/parks_ holiday_events. The Lighting of Wake Forest on Dec. 1, 6-8:30 p.m., includes performances by local groups, complimentary hot chocolate and cookies, a visit from Santa and the lighting of the town’s 30-foot Christmas tree at Town Hall on South Brooks Street. The Downtown Merchants Association hosts a Holiday Open House Dec. 2, 10 a.m.-3 p.m., when kids can enjoy free pictures with Santa and face painting at The Cotton Company Event Gallery on South White Street. The town’s holiday parade takes place Dec. 9 at 1 p.m. in downtown Wake Forest. wakeforestnc.gov/christmas-inwake-forest.aspx. Take a covered wagon hayride through the holiday lights, and enjoy bonfires, a jumping pillow, train rides and music at Hill Ridge Farms’ Festival of Lights in Youngsville Nov. 23-Dec. 31, 5-9 p.m. SundayThursday, and 5-10 p.m. FridaySaturday. Admission is $10 for

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Must-See Holiday Light Shows Across North Carolina BY MYRA WRIGHT

’Tis the season for dazzling light displays. These annual sparkling and twinkling displays are a great way to celebrate festive fun with the family. Here are our top picks of holiday light shows across the state to help bring out your family’s holiday spirit.

Biltmore Candlelight Christmas Evenings biltmore.com One Lodge St., Asheville Admission: $85 for adults; $42.50 for ages 10-16; free for ages 9 and younger. Purchase tickets online. Dates: Nov. 3-Jan. 6 See the Biltmore Estate adorned in its holiday splendor. The 2017 theme is “A Vanderbilt Christmas,” with a strong gilded age and grand look. A lit 55-foot-tall Norway spruce encircled by 20 other illuminated evergreens decorates the front lawn for candlelight evenings. Enjoy 55 decorated Christmas trees inside Biltmore House, as well as 30,000 lights and 150 candles.

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In addition, there are 135,000 LED and mini lights sparkling around the estate. New this year, Antler Hill Village features a constellation of lights as dusk descends. This must-see experience features “waterfall” lights cascading from treetops; stars and orbs draping tree branches; miniature lights outlining archways and buildings; and glowing ornaments in the Village Green illuminating holiday evenings.

Chinese Lantern Festival boothamphitheatre.com/ nc-chinese-lantern-festival-cary Booth Amphitheatre, 8003 Regency Pkwy., Cary Admission: $15 for ages 18 and older; $10 for ages 3-17; free for ages 2 and younger

Country Christmas Train at Denton Farm Park dentonfarmpark.com/ country-christmas-train 4259 Handy Road, Denton Admission: $5-$15 ages 5 and older; free for ages 4 and younger. Additional fees for photos with Santa, wagon and pony rides. Dates: Nov. 24-26, Dec. 7-10, Dec. 14-17, Dec. 20-23, Dec. 26-27. Friday-Saturday 4:30-11 p.m.; other nights 4:30-10 p.m. Enjoy a lighted walking tour of the park. Stop at the church to hear a Christmas story and then take a ride on the Handy Dandy Railroad. Enjoy a nativity movie, Christmas carols, a petting zoo, Santa’s cabin, arts and crafts exhibits, and more. New for 2017, enjoy online ticket sales, additional light displays and an expanded, walkthrough gingerbread house to accommodate a cookie-decorating area for kids.

Enchanted Airlie airliegardens.org/events-news/ enchanted-airlie 300 Airlie Rd., Wilmington Admission: $27 per car; $55 for vans

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Dates: Nov. 24-25, Dec. 1-2, Dec. 8-10 and Dec. 13-22. There are two runtimes each evening, 5-7 p.m. and 7-9 p.m. Take a festive self-guided walking tour through Airlie Gardens to view a spectacular display of lights and holiday displays. Visit with Santa and enjoy coffee, hot chocolate, popcorn, cookies, beer, wine and more.

Hill Ridge Farms' Festival of Lights hillridgefarms.com/festival.php 703 Tarboro Rd., Youngsville Admission: $8-$12 (rate depends on age, night of the week and senior or military status) Dates: Nov. 23-Dec. 31. Friday-Saturday 5-10 p.m.; other nights 5-9 p.m. Enjoy a covered-wagon hayride through a beautiful display of lights, bonfires, s’mores, hot chocolate, apple cider, heated indoor dining, an old-fashioned toy and candy store, giant slide, jumping pillow and slide house.

Lights on the Neuse lightsontheneuse.com Boyette Family Farms, 1620 Loop Rd., Clayton Admission: $9 for ages 3 and older; free for ages 2 and younger Dates: 6-9 p.m. See the website for dates and hours. Take a 1-mile, 30-minute tractor-pulled hayride through a beautiful lights extravaganza. You'll see more than 1 million lights line the way to the banks of the Neuse River. Enjoy

concessions, a visit with Santa, cookie decorating, Santa’s Sweet Shoppe and more holiday fun.

Meadow Lights meadowlights.com 4546 Godwin Lake Road, Benson Admission: Free, but train/carousel tickets are $2. Dates: Nov. 17-Dec. 31; Sunday-Thursday 5-10 p.m.; Friday-Saturday 5-11 p.m. Meadow Lights is the largest and oldest Christmas light show in eastern North Carolina with lights covering more than 30 acres. Visit the Old Country Store for old-fashioned candy and ride a train or carousel. There's also an opportunity to visit with Santa.

North Carolina Holiday Flotilla ncholidayflotilla.org Wrightsville Beach Admission: Free Dates: Nov. 24-25 Enjoy Thanksgiving weekend at the beach during this two-day celebration that kicks off Friday night with a tree lighting and visit with Santa at 5:45 p.m. at Wrightsville Beach Town Hall. On Saturday, take the kids to Festival in the Park, 10 a.m.-4 p.m., to enjoy inflatable slides, bounce houses, a coloring contest, a train ride, festival food, an antique car show and more. The lighted boat parade begins at 6 p.m. and is followed by a fireworks show. The best viewing is along Banks Channel.

Speedway Christmas charlottemotorspeedway.com/tickets/ speedway-christmas 5555 Concord Pkwy. S., Concord Admission: $20-$30 for cars; $40-$50 for vans Dates: Nov. 19-Dec. 31, 6-10 p.m. Closed Dec. 25. Speedway Christmas features more than 3 million lights, a Christmas Village, and the unique opportunity to drive the track in a lights-to-music show along the 3.5-mile course. The village is open Thursday-Sunday and includes a petting zoo, Bethlehem village and photos with Santa. You can also enjoy movie nights when the village is open. See Christmas classics on a giant 16,000-square-foot Speedway TV.

Tanglewood Festival of Lights forsyth.cc/parks/tanglewood/fol 4061 Clemmons Rd., Clemmons Admission: $15 for cars; $35 for vans; $100 for buses and motorcoaches Dates: Nov. 17-Jan. 1, 2018, 6-11 p.m.; Dec. 31, 6-10 p.m. Tanglewood’s Festival of Lights is one of the largest and most spectacular light shows in the Southeast. Drive through Tanglewood’s rolling countryside, which is transformed into a winter wonderland. Be sure to stop at the Gift Village to roast marshmallows. See the website for information about horse-drawn carriage rides and visits with Santa and Mrs. Claus. Myra Wright is the digital editor of Carolina Parent and Charlotte Parent. carolinaparent.com | NOVEMBER 2017

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Going the digital distance to keep in touch BY SUZY FIELDERS

randparents play a key role in setting examples for and shaping their grandchildren. From sharing family stories and valuable wisdom to teaching grandchildren how to make a family recipe, these important relatives have the potential to enhance your child’s life in a way no other individual can. According to the American Grandparents Association, more than 40 percent of grandparents do not live near their grandkids. Fortunately, today’s technologically-driven world offers plenty of options for grandparents and grandchildren to stay in touch. Here are some of the ways North Carolina kids are staying in touch with their grandparents.

SOCIAL SAVVY Facebook Messenger is a popular tool among today’s grandparents. Younger kids can communicate with them via a parent’s account if they aren’t old enough to have their own. This app offers the capability to send video and voice clips, too. Plus, kids can have fun choosing one of many digital “stickers” to add on to a message. “My daughter, Ava, and my mama video chat on Facebook Messenger,” says Jayme Chapman of Winston-Salem. “It’s very easy to figure out for those who aren’t electronically savvy, and can also be done from a computer for those kids who don’t have their own phones.” Instagram is another way kids can share photos with grandparents. Even if the grandparents aren’t using their accounts to post pictures, it’s easy for them to follow their grandchildren’s Instagram feed.

VIRTUALLY CONNECTED In addition to Apple’s FaceTime app, there are a number of other platforms grandparents can use to stay virtually connected with grandkids. Skype, Google Hangouts and the Marco Polo app are all free to use on either a computer or smartphone. Winston-Salem native Amanda Uhl, whose husband serves in the U.S. Air Force, has plenty of experience with long-distance communication between her kids and their grandparents.

“Google Hangouts is a lifesaver,” Uhl says. “We’ve gone through a lot of different video chat programs over time, but this one has probably stuck with us the longest. … We have Androids and both sets of grandparents have iPhones. It’s really nice now that (both kinds of ) phones have the app so they can talk wherever and whenever.” Jon Hicks of Concord, who swears by FaceTime for connecting with grandparents, embraces the importance of sharing videos. “We also use a Plex server to share home videos we take, and you can talk live with video,” he says. “To be able to share fun things live with the grandparents — like a giant water balloon fight — is awesome!” Charlene Passot of New Bern says Marco Polo, available via the App Store or Google Play, is her family’s grandparent communication app of choice. “My son, Kale, loves the Marco Polo app and its fun features,” she says. Marco Polo allows face-to-face messaging for either one-on-one or group conversations, accommodates video sharing, and incorporates camera filters and fun doodles.

TALK AND TEXT Using the phone seems like an obvious way to stay in touch, but it’s often overlooked in today’s digital world. Whether phones are used for calling or texting, they still

make for a great way to communicate with loved ones who live far away. “The more you make phone or video calls routine, the more it just becomes a part of what you do instead of trying to fit it into some sort of schedule,” Uhl says.

PEN PALS Encouraging your kids to write letters to their grandparents may be “old school,” but it’s also a fun way for them to hone their writing skills, and allows for sending drawings and photos, which grandparents love to proudly display. Ameia Caudle, originally from Winston-Salem, makes sure her son regularly writes his “Nana.” “He writes her letters and draws pictures for her and mails them, which promotes writing skills, as well as responsibility, because I take him to the post office and he does the rest. He gets the stamps, stamps it and mails it himself.” Suzy Fielders is a single, working mom of a spirited 11-year-old daughter. Learn more about her at suzyfielders.wordpress.com.

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SIX WAYS TO KEEP DIGITAL DEVICE USE UNDER WRAPS BY CHRISTA C. HOGAN

emember the Norman Rockwell masterpiece featuring an idealized family gathered around a holiday table? The painting depicts Grandma and Grandpa presenting a plump turkey to their amazed progeny. Their faces glow with the joy of sharing a holiday meal. Today, the faces around your dinner table are more likely to glow from digital tablet and smartphone use. What would Normal Rockwell think? How can modern families set healthy boundaries around digital devices during the holidays? Here are a few tips to consider.

Set Limits A 2010 study by the Kaiser Family Foundation suggests that kids spend an average of 7.5 hours a day viewing media. This includes video games, television and activities like texting. Only 30 percent of kids reported that their parents set limits on device use. However, “those with any media rules consume nearly three hours less media per day than those with no rules,” the study states. That’s enough time to eat, clear the table and take a nature walk afterwards. You may even have time to squeeze in a board game before the kids return to the world of Minecraft. So pick a limit — any limit — and stick with it.

Host a Device-Free Dinner If you’re hosting the holidays for extended family, it’s OK to expect a device-free dinner. The key is to communicate your expectations ahead of time. Evite and Common Sense Media have collaborated to

offer a series of digital invitations for device-free dinners at evite.com/c/commonsensemedia. Include a request in your invitation for guests to leave their devices behind. Then, place an optional “Device Drop” basket at the door. Celebrating the holidays at someone else’s house? Lead by example, and leave your own devices at home.

Offer Fun Alternatives Bill Ratner is an actor and author of “Parenting for the Digital Age: The Truth Behind Media’s Effect on Children and What to Do About It.” In his book, Ratner suggests that it isn’t enough to take away device time. Parents need to replace it with something more worthwhile — and fun. “Confronting the obstacles for families in our digital age can either be a battle or a creative challenge,” Ratner says. “I find that with a little improvisation, creativity and the desire to try new things … we can lighten our load and inject fun into our lives in simple ways.” Keeping this positive pointof-view in mind, find alternatives that appeal to your family. Better yet, ask for their input. They may surprise you. Play a game of flag football or take in a play at the theater. Tell stories. Craft. Make music together. You’ll know you have a winner when your family asks to do it again next year.

Make Conversation Central Come up with fun conversation starters at family gatherings. Anne K. Fishel, author of “Home for Dinner: Mixing Food, Fun and Conversation for Happier Families

and Healthier Kids,” plays the Hat Game with her holiday guests. She asks them to write down an answer to questions such as, “What animal would you most like to be?” Guests then put their answers into a hat. Fishel reads the answers aloud and everyone takes turns guessing which answer belongs to which family member.

Get Your Game On If there are gamers in your family, tap into their competitive sides. Host an epic “Minute to Win It” holiday party. Form teams and have them compete for a family trophy (or the privilege of not having to clean up after dinner). Teams win points for completing zany tasks in under one minute. Challenges can include: • Moving a cookie from your face to your mouth without using your hands. • Sliding sheets of paper from between stacked plastic cups without knocking them down. • Spearing grapes with a skewer clenched between your teeth. • Bouncing pingpong balls into a plastic cup. • Moving pieces of candy from one bowl into another using only a straw. • Stacking 10 blocks on your forehead without letting them fall over. Search the internet for more “Minute to Win It” game ideas, then get busy collecting pinpong balls, candies and straws for your event.

Go Remote Have you ever arrived at a remote vacation home only to discover there was no cable TV, Wi-Fi or mobile phone service? Talk about digital detox! If taking away everyone’s devices is a battle you don’t have the energy to fight, why not change your environment? Remote vacation homes are usually situated in beautiful natural surroundings. Instead of browsing Instagram and Twitter feeds, your family could be hiking, swimming or kayaking — and reaping the creative benefits. A 2012 study conducted by the University of Kansas and University of Utah found that hikers who stayed in a remote location without access to digital devices showed a 50 percent increase in their ability to creatively problem-solve. Researchers believe the results are due to the combination of a decrease in attention-demanding devices and the increase in exposure to a natural environment. When you get outside with your family this holiday, you'll also experience the added bonus of togetherness. Don’t have the extra cash for a remote vacation? Tuck away your devices and take a walk together at your local park. Whether your family goes cold turkey on technology this holiday season or commits to a tech-free meal, find a balance that works for your crew. Then, get busy making holiday memories that would make Norman Rockwell jealous. Christa C. Hogan is a freelance writer and an at-home-mom to three busy boys.

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ngelic images of smiling siblings make crowd-pleasing holiday cards, but the reality of life with two or more children is decidedly less pictureperfect. According to research from the University of Toronto, toddler-age siblings clash more than six times per hour and siblings under age 7 fight, on average, every 20 minutes. Fights that get physical can leave lasting physical and emotional scars. If sibling fighting is stealing the peace in your household, read on for relief.

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Family Court Research shows that conflict between young siblings is statistically normal, but regular bouts of biting, hitting and kicking aren’t. Parents should intervene when clashes between toddler-age siblings become violent, advises professionals at C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital in Ann Arbor, Michigan. Though kids as young as age 3 may be able to talk through minor disagreements that crop up during playtimes, they nearly always require guidance from a caregiver to navigate more heated exchanges and physical fights. Start by separating the scuffling sibs with a statement like “We never hit.” Once the children involved have calmed down, ask

them to explain what happened, assuring each child that they will get a turn to speak. Statements that bridge conflicts can diffuse fights and guide kids toward resolution: “Jackson, I know Olivia is a good listener, so you can tell her why you didn’t like it when she pushed you.” Encouraging tots to use words to self-advocate (“I didn’t like it when you took all the blue Legos!”) can help prevent future fights from spiraling out of control. Elementary Years

Fisticuffs A study led by David Finkelhor of the University of New Hampshire shows that “sibling attacks” like shoving and punching, peak between ages 6 and 12. Over one-third

Property Brothers and Sisters What’s mine is yours? Not so fast. According to Catherine Salmon of the University of Redlands, up to 95 percent of siblings say that personal property — a highly important part of children’s budding sense of identity — is a point of conflict between siblings. Though teens may be able to work through some property-related conflicts on their own, parents may not know if and when to intervene. “It can actually be a natural and healthy developmental process for siblings to work out conflicts on their own,” says licensed psychologist Vanessa Roddenberry, founder of Praxis Psychological Services in Raleigh. Parents who constantly step in risk invalidating teens’ emotions and communicating that fighting is an effective way to get caregivers’ attention and focus, Roddenberry says. But when sibling fighting escalates to yelling or physical fighting, parents can help by separating siblings, putting the disagreement on pause while each party takes time to cool off and separately process emotions. Once feelings have calmed, a kitchen-table meeting moderated by parents can help get teen siblings on the same page — and up the chances that next time, you won’t need to play referee. Malia Jacobson is an award-winning health and parenting journalist and mom of three. Her latest book is “Sleep Tight, Every Night: Helping Toddlers and Preschoolers Sleep Well Without Tears, Tricks, or Tirades.”

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example is an app called Sarahah, a word that translates as "honesty" in Arabic. Originally intended as a way for employees to provide constructive anonymous feedback to employees, the app has degenerated into a place where people feel free to say all the horrible things they would never say face-to-face.

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What to Do About Cyberbullies BY CAROLYN JABS

n the past year, many communities and schools have reported an increase in the number of incidents in which children are harassed because of gender, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation or political point of view. According to stopbullying.gov, 49 percent of children in grades 4-12 have experienced bullying, and 30 percent admitted to bullying others. Parents are also worried. In C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital’s National Poll on Children’s Health, 61 percent named bullying and cyberbullying as a “big problem” for children and teens. A second survey conducted by Reportlinker found that among young people ages 13-24, 71 percent were concerned about cyberbullying. Like old-fashioned bullying, cyberbullying involves a willful, repeated effort to humiliate, harass or threaten another person. Unlike traditional bullying, cyber attacks use text messages, social media, apps or even chat options on video games. Cyberbullying is different from traditional bullying because there’s no escape. Technology follows kids everywhere, and as everyone now knows, nothing disappears online. Taunts that would have been forgotten at the end of the day can resurface and go viral at any time. Now more than ever, parents need to stand firmly on the side of decency and kindness. By setting clear rules you can help your child develop the self-control that keeps him or her from making someone’s life miserable. Here are are other ways to combat cyberbullying. Delay. Middle school students are especially vulnerable to bullying because they’re trying to figure out where they fit socially. They often form very strong ties to a particular peer group and can be insensitive, intolerant or even cruel to people outside that group. Keeping kids away from social media until they have better social skills makes sense, though it isn’t easy

if “everyone” has a smartphone. “Wait Until 8th” (waituntil8th.org) is an effort started by a Texas mom to create support for parents who don’t think smartphones are necessary in middle school. Avoid anonymous apps. Being anonymous can encourage cruelty. The most recent

Enlist artificial intelligence. The Reportlinker survey found cyberbullying was most likely to occur in text messages and social media. Supervising these environments isn’t easy, unless parents turn to software that uses artificial intelligence to scan communications for slang and other clues associated with bullying, grooming or harassment. A list of similar software is available at bewebsmart.com. No roasting. Are insults funny or, well, insulting? That’s the question you have to ask about a new fad called roasting. Kids voluntarily post a photo or video with the hashtag #roastme. Sometimes they get good-natured joshing. Other times they get ripped to shreds. A child who asks to be roasted is hungry for attention. Kids who participate in roasting need to know the difference between constructive criticism and gratuitous cruelty. Discuss real world consequences. Sometimes people use the concept of free speech to justify messages that denigrate others. A person can’t change his or her ethnic origin, skin color, family history, disability and other characteristics, so it's simply wrong to mock him or her for those things. Because of hateful posts, young people have lost jobs, scholarships, college acceptances, athletic opportunities and friendships with people who find such views offensive. Perhaps the most important thing parents can do to counter bullying is to raise children strong enough to be compassionate, curious, constructive and courageous instead of critical, condescending, cowardly and cruel. To do that, all of us have to aspire to be models of what we hope our children will become. Carolyn Jabs is the author of “Cooperative Wisdom: Bringing People Together When Things Fall Apart,” available at Amazon and cooperativewisdom.org. carolinaparent.com | NOVEMBER 2017

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UNDERSTANDING KIDS their behavior depending on the setting they are in. Running and throwing balls are acceptable activities in the backyard or at the park, but not in the living room or kitchen. When children begin school, they learn that expectations at school are different from those at home. Children rarely have to be told, for example, that they don’t have to raise their hand to talk at the dinner table. Considering the development of adaptability as an important task of childhood, setting different expectations at a grandparent’s house provides yet another opportunity for children to adapt to various environments. Photo courtesy of Shutterstock

When Parents and Grandparents Disagree

Differences in Understanding a Child’s Needs There are times when a parents need to advocate for children who are having difficulty in adapting to different settings. For example, a child may have emotional or biological sensitivities to specific foods or

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hile some family ways and traditions are passed down over many generations, there are often differences in parenting styles, expectations and techniques from one generation to the next. There are multiple — and sometimes complex — issues at play in the dynamics between grandparents, parents and children, including the grandparents’ shift in role from parent to grandparent, and the parents’ shift in role from son or daughter to parent advocating for his or her own child. How important is it that there is consistency across multiple settings? Do parents and grandparents need to have the same rules and expectations?

Different People, Different Settings, Different Rules It is not uncommon for parents and grandparents to disagree on disciplinary topics such as setting limits and expectations of manners. Some parents say grandparents are too lenient and let too much slide, while others feel they are too strict, unforgiving and demanding of conformity. Does this matter? A Sense of Safety As a general rule, children in any setting, whether they are at home, at a relative’s house or at school, need to have a feeling of safety — not only in the sense of physical safety, but also that those who are caring for them have their best interests at heart. Does

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the child feel safe when she is in Grandma’s care, even though Grandma makes her say “please” and “thank you”? Can a child comfortably adapt to Grandpa raising his voice when play becomes too rambunctious, even though yelling is something the child’s parents wish to avoid? If the relationships your child has with relatives are ones in which he or she feels safe and cared for, differences in how behaviors are handled will likely not hinder your child’s development. In fact, the differences will enrich your child’s development as he or she learns how to engage in all of these various types of relationships. Adaptability to Various Settings As children mature, they adapt and modify

tactics used by grandparents may not be helpful in working through the emotional interferences. Tactics such as shaming or coercing may cause so much distress for the child, he or she could feel unsafe. When a Child Has Difficulty Adapting Some parents may find that their child is having trouble with adaptability, and instead of the child adapting to the setting, environmental modifications and adjustments are needed in order to ensure the child’s sense of safety and ability to be successful. When parents feel that they are micromanaging the school and care environments in order to maintain stability for their child, a higher level of support and intervention may be needed. The guidance of a mental health professional may be helpful in determining the underlying causes of the difficulties. The Lucy Daniels Center is a nonprofit agency in Cary that promotes the emotional health and well-being of children and families. Visit lucydanielscenter.org to learn more.

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The Gift of Gratitude BY PATRICK HEMPFING

few days before the start of school this past August, I purchased a book bag for my 12-year-old daughter, Jessie. As I checked out, I told the cashier, “Well, I’m done with last year’s Christmas shopping.” He gave me a funny look and agreed I was a bit behind. I neglected to tell the cashier that life was hectic prior to December with the family’s move to a different state and my wife working long hours at her new job. Then a lump appeared near my wife’s left ear that required a biopsy and surgery. We never bought Jessie a new book bag, which she had requested for Christmas. She managed fine for the rest of the school year using her tattered old one. As another holiday season approaches, one thing my family doesn’t need to stress about during Black Friday or the days leading up to Christmas, is my gift. Jessie, unknowingly, gave me the best present this summer. In July, Jessie and I took a 12-day trip, with stops in the two cities where we previously lived. Jessie had a blast attending her former dance school’s camp during the first week. We also had visits with friends and former neighbors in both cities. On the business side, we had two author events at libraries and a four-hour book signing at the mall. Did we set attendance records at the libraries? No. Did we sell out of books? Plenty left. Did we cherish the moments? Most definitely, even when Jessie accidentally kicked the power cord to the projector out of the electrical socket during the second library talk, causing a brief delay. Since Jessie wrote the book’s foreword, we do the book signings together and she autographs the books, too. Prior to publication, I wanted to find a “heavy hitter,” someone with a big following, to write the foreword. However, Jessie really wanted the job. One day I came home and my persistent girl had written the prettiest 150 words for the

Photo courtesy of Shutterstock foreword. I looked no further. Book signings with my daughter are special, no matter how many books we sell. We spend time talking with each other. Jessie enjoys collecting the money and giving change. But though we enjoyed the daddy-daughter book tour, that wasn’t the gift. On the way home, we stopped at my “writer’s paradise” on St. Simons Island. Since 2011, I’ve attended the Southeastern Writers Association’s annual workshop each June. We had to drive out of the way to get there, but I wanted to show Jessie my favorite place. Her excitement showed through all the photos she took and the enthusiasm in her voice as she video-called her mom to share the picturesque sights. Jessie commented, “I can see why you like this place so much.” However, her enthusiasm for my favorite writing spot wasn’t the gift I cherished most. A few days after we arrived home, I sat at my computer and Jessie plopped in the nearby La-Z-Boy with a pen and her journal. She had fallen behind with her daily entries, in which she captures the highlights of each day.

Without a prompt, Jessie looked at me and said, “Thank you.” “For what?” I asked. “For everything!” I smiled and told her to thank her momma, too. “I will.” You’ve had a pretty good summer, haven’t you?” I asked with a smile. “I’ve had a pretty good life,” she responded. Those six words were the gift I cherished. She had recognized her blessings — many more than a book bag could ever hold. Her grateful heart made the best gift not only for me, but for her as well. Another holiday season is near. Will it be easy to find gifts for loved ones? Probably not. But I’m going to remember that gratitude is a wonderful gift to give ourselves and others And it’s a gift we can share daily. Patrick Hempfing had a 20-year professional career in banking, accounting and auditing before he became a father at age 44. He is now a full-time husband, stay-at-home dad and writer. Follow him at patrickhempfing.com. carolinaparent.com | NOVEMBER 2017

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COLLEGE TRANSITIONS testing policies that apply to home-schooled students. For example, even test-optional schools usually require home-school students to submit test scores, and which test scores schools require can vary. For example, at Sewanee: The University of the South, in Sewanee, Tennessee, home-schooled students must submit either SAT or ACT scores. At Wesleyan University in Middletown, Connecticut, home-schoolers can choose between submitting the ACT or the SAT, plus two additional SAT subject tests.

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Helping Home-Schooled Students Get Into College BY DAVE BERGMAN, ED.D.

ccording to 2016 information published by the National Home Education Research Institute, there are 2.3 million children presently being home-schooled in the U.S. If your son or daughter is among them, they already enjoy a statistical advantage in many important facets of life. Surveys commissioned in 2003 by the Home School Legal Defense Association have linked home schooling to greater community involvement in adulthood and above-average scores on measures of psychological and emotional development. On the more apropos subject of higher education, the college graduation rate for homeschooled students is 67 percent — nine points higher than the 58 percent clip for traditionally schooled teens, according to a 2009 study conducted by the University of St. Thomas in St. Paul, Minnesota, that explored the academic outcomes of homeschooled students. Your child may be likely to succeed in college but, of course, there is still that small matter of getting into the college of his or her choice. In working with many home-schooled families and students over the years, College Transitions has identified the factors that appear to matter most to admissions office professionals, and are pleased to pass our advice along to your family. Test Scores, Test Scores, Test Scores There’s no way around it — standardized test scores are more important for home-schoolers than for traditional high school students. Thus, it is imperative that home-schooled students commit significant time to standardized testing. Excellent SAT, ACT, subject test and AP exam results can go a long way toward compensating for a lack of formalized grades. Fortunately, test-prep resources abound, including spectacular options that are

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completely free. We recommend fully utilizing the Khan Academy’s cost-free SAT prep courses. Practice may not make a perfect 1600, but it is likely to have a positive impact on your child’s performance. In fact, a study released this year by the College Board found that just 20 hours of targeted practice through Khan Academy resulted in an average score gain of 115 points. Different Testing Policies It's essential for your child to learn the individual

Take a College Course or Two If willing, students should seek opportunities to take a few courses at a local college. A strong performance — even at a two-year college — will go a long way toward alleviating concerns about the student’s ability to transition into a traditional college setting. We advise students to start with a course in their wheelhouse. If your child is a science superstar, go that route. If he or she is a film buff, find an elective in that realm. Extracurricular Activities As with any applicant, we encourage homeschoolers to “focus on depth, not breath” when it comes to extracurricular involvement. If you’re open to allowing your child to participate in activities, clubs or athletics at your local public high school (and the school allows it), explore those options. If you prefer that your child look outside of public school for activities, encourage him or her to get a job, participate in community service or enter academic competitions. Seek Out Unique Opportunities The flexibility afforded by home-schooling could place your child in a prime position to pursue opportunities working in a research laboratory or assisting a professor at a nearby college. Likewise, this same adaptable schedule could very well open the door to a charitable venture or unique paid employment opportunity that simply isn’t an option for a traditional high school student. Dave Bergman, Ed.D., is a co-founder of College Transitions and co-author of “The Enlightened College Applicant: A New Approach to the Search and Admissions Process.” Learn more at collegetransitions.com.

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Wintergreen Resort BY ADRIAN H. WOOD

intergreen Resort, located on the eastern slopes of the Blue Ridge Mountains in Nellysford, Virginia, spans 11,000 acres of loveliness. A central lodge is located at the top of the ski resort, and a variety of condominiums and vacation homes are scattered among winding trails past waterfalls and thick forests. Here in these rolling lands, your family — particularly your children — will experience a little piece of heaven. The Treehouse The Treehouse is located right on the slopes. It’s a spot where kids ages 3 and older can play. Kids who have special needs, like Down syndrome or autism, are also welcome and thrive in this environment. Children can complete an hour of skiing, play in the snow or be pulled in a sled if they like. Half- and full-day sessions are available. Lunch is offered to the full-day crowd and hot cocoa is available to everyone. Parents can drop their kids off and ski kid-free if they’d like. Ridgely's Fun Park In the summer, Wintergreen Resort uses its Ridgely's Fun Park area to show movies and set up outdoor games. Our family went when there was lots of snow, and my four children, ages 3-11, had a ball. The hill was perfect for sledding with toddlers and little kids and could catch a ride up the hill on the “walkavator.” Our children climbed in and out of the igloo and did some easy tubing. There was also a tubing course for adults and older children.

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Amos Wood enjoys his first skiing experience at Wintergreen Resort. Photo courtesy Adrian H. Wood Kids' Night Out Kids' Night Out is available to children ages 4 and older on Fridays, Saturdays and holidays. Kids can watch movies or play games like pingpong and air hockey, hang out with new friends and have dinner at the club. Reservations are recommended for this popular event. Swimming The Wintergreen Aquatics & Fitness Center offers an indoor pool year-round and an outdoor pool Memorial Day through Labor Day. Children younger than age 13 must be accompanied by an adult. Enjoy indoor and outdoor hot tubs, as well as fully equipped changing and shower rooms with plenty of towels. Free shuttles are also available to guests. We went to the pool after an early dinner, took showers there and put the kids in pajamas before heading back to our condo. Wintergreen Adaptive Sports Wintergreen Adaptive Sports is a program that provides outdoor sports and recreational opportunities for kids

and adults who have disabilities. It encompasses a cabin right by the slope where families can park. The professionals there helped our son, Amos, go skiiing, but they also help guests with a variety of other activities — like snowboarding, kayaking, golfing and canoeing. Amos was hesitant to ski, so we chose the bi-ski option for him. This involves an adaptive sled on two skis, which is one of the reasons Wintergreen Adaptive Sports is a well-known paralympic sports program. Amos had his own instructor who steered him down the slopes as the rest of our family followed behind. We were taken to the front of the line, which was great for a little person who's not so good at waiting, and then we skied all afternoon. Learn more about Wintergreen Resort at wintergreenresort.com. Adrian H. Wood, Ph.D., is a North Carolina writer who lives in Edenton with her husband and four children, the youngest of whom has extra-special needs. Read more of her writing at talesofaneducateddebutante.com.

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North Carolina Whirligig Festival Nov. 4-5 Celebrate the whimsical whirligigs designed by folk artist Vollis Simpson at the North Carolina Whirligig Festival in downtown Wilson. The arts and crafts festival coincides with the opening of the downtown Vollis Simpson Whirligig Park, a one-of-akind art park that displays his many creations. Enjoy 100-plus vendors, live music, a Whirlikidz Zone, TouchA-Truck event and more. Festival hours are 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday and noon-5 p.m. Sunday. Admission is free. whirligigfestivalnc.org. Decorate a walking stick at Triangle Volksmarch Nov. 18. Photo courtesy of North Carolina State Parks

Celebrate the works of artist Vollis Simpson. Photo courtesy of Tom Spencer

Triangle Volksmarch | Nov. 18 Take part in a self-paced walking challenge for all ages on the Capital Area Greenway in Raleigh. Pick up a passport and free map between 9:30 a.m.-5 p.m. at any of the event sites along the 6.2-mile trail to enjoy various activities throughout the day. Decorate a walking stick, 10 a.m.-noon, at the North Carolina Museum of Art’s amphitheater; help biologists conduct science experiments, 10 a.m.-1 p.m., at Prairie Ridge EcoStation; try the low ropes challenge course and meet Smokey

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Bear, 11 a.m.-2 p.m., at Schenck Forest; and enjoy nature’s holiday traditions and s’mores, 1-4 p.m., at Umstead State Park. An after-party takes place, 4-7 p.m., at Great Outdoor Provision Company in Cameron Village. Admission is free. ncparks.gov/triangle-volksmarch.

Crafts for a Cause | Nov. 18 Join Activate Good for its “Craft for a Cause” service event, 1-3 p.m., at the Pullen Park Community Center in Raleigh. Held annually on Family Volunteer Day, “Crafts for a Cause” benefits local nonprofits and community members in need. Visit crafting stations to make superhero capes for children in hospitals, thankyou kits for local first responders, tree seed balls for spring planting and much more. Register online at activategood.org/FVD2017. carolinaparent.com | NOVEMBER 2017

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The Triangle offers more than 30 holiday craft fairs this year. Photo courtesy of Shutterstock

HOLIDAY CRAFT FAIRS Start your holiday shopping early by visiting these Triangle-area craft fairs. Search our daily calendar at carolinaparent.com for “holiday fairs” to find more crafting events in the Triangle. Craft fairs are free unless otherwise noted.

UAA SHOPPING SPREE! Nov. 3-4, 9 a.m.-7 p.m.; Nov. 5, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Tickets are $10. Presented by the Junior League of Raleigh. Raleigh Convention Center, 500 S. Salisbury St., Raleigh. jlraleigh.org/fundraising/ a-shopping-spree.

ARTS AND CRAFTS FESTIVAL Nov. 4, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. St. Paul’s Episcopal Church, 221 Union St., Cary. stpaulscary.org/ festival.

$10 at the door. Free for ages 14 and younger. Raleigh Convention Center, 500 S. Salisbury St., Raleigh. carolinadesignercraftsmen.com/ the-market.

STATE FARMERS MARKET FALL CRAFT FAIR Nov. 10-12, 9 a.m.-5 p.m. State Farmers Market, 1201 Agriculture St., Raleigh. statefarmersmarket.org.

MISTLETOE MARKET HOLIDAY FAIR Nov. 11, 9 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Admission is $5. Receive $1 off admission with canned food donation. Free for ages 11 and younger. Wakefield High School, 2200 Wakefield Pines Dr., Raleigh. wakefieldhsptsa.org/mistletoemarket.html.

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GENESIS CHRISTMAS SHOPPING SPREE

Nov. 12, see the website for hours. Adventist Christian Academy, 4805 Dillard Dr., Raleigh. acaraleigh.com.

Nov. 4, 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Admission is $2. Rolesville High School, 1099 E. Young St., Rolesville. rolesvillehsptsa.com/reindeerday.html.

Nov. 11, 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Genesis United Methodist Church, 850 High House Rd., Cary. genesis-umc.org.

CEDAR CREEK GALLERY HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE

ST. ANDREW THE APOSTLE HOLIDAY CRAFT FAIR

THE HANDMAIDENS’ HANDMADE MARKET

Nov. 17-18, see the website for hours. Cedar Creek Gallery, 1150 Fleming Rd., Creedmoor. cedarcreekgallery.com.

Nov. 4, 9 a.m.-3 p.m. St. Andrew’s Catholic Church, 3008 Old Raleigh Rd., Apex. saintandrew.org.

Nov. 11, 10 a.m.-noon ($7 cash entry); noon-6 p.m. (free admission). Marbles Kids Museum, 201 E. Hargett St., Raleigh. thehandmademarket.com/site/about/eventdetails.

VISIONS OF SUGARPLUMS HOLIDAY ART AND GIFT SHOW Nov. 9, 9 a.m.-8 p.m.; Nov. 10, 9 a.m.-8 p.m.; Nov. 11, 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Quail Hollow Swim Club, 800 Orleans Place, Raleigh. visionsofsugarplumsraleigh.com.

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HOLIDAY MARKET AT SOUTHERN STAR BALLROOM Nov. 11, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Southern Star Ballroom Center, 6625 Falls of Neuse Rd., Raleigh. southernstarballroom.com/index.php/holidaymarketplace.

Nov. 10, 5-9 p.m.; Nov. 11, 10 a.m.-6 p.m.; Nov. 12, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. $7 advance tickets,

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DURHAM ART WALK HOLIDAY MARKET Nov. 18, 10 a.m.-5 p.m.; Nov. 19, 1-5 p.m. Start the tour at the Durham Arts Council, 120 Morris St., Durham. durhamartwalk.com.

CHILDREN’S FAIRE AND ARTISAN MARKETPLACE Nov. 18, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. 6211 New Jericho Rd., Chapel Hill. emersonwaldorf.org.

HOLIDAY CRAFTS FAIR AT NORTH CAROLINA STATE UNIVERSITY Nov. 18, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Admission is $2/ person, $5/family. Thompson Hall, 210 Jensen Dr., Raleigh. crafts.arts.ncsu.edu/events-andexhibitions/crafts-fair.

MISTLETOE MADNESS Nov. 18, 1-7 p.m. The Corner Biergarten, 1625 N. Main St., Fuquay-Varina. mistletoemadness.wordpress.com.

MULTIPLE CHOICES HOLIDAY MARKET Nov. 18, 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Presented by Nina’s School of Dance. Umstead Pines Golf and Swim Club, 253 Country Club Dr., Durham. 919-530-0652.

SANTA’S WORKSHOP Nov. 18, see the website for hours and fees. Holiday Inn Crabtree, 4100 Glenwood Ave., Raleigh. islandgirlcraftandvendorevent.com.

TOWN OF CARY ANNUAL CRAFT SHOW Nov. 18, 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Cary Senior Center, 120 Maury O’Dell Place, Cary. townofcary.org/ recreation-enjoyment/events/holiday-events/ annual-holiday-arts-crafts-fair.

› WINTER WONDERLAND CRAFT SHOW Nov. 18, 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Mebane Arts Center, 633 Corregidor St., Mebane. cityofmebane.com.

CHRISTMAS CAROUSEL HOLIDAY GIFT MARKET Nov. 24-25, 9 a.m.-6 p.m.; Nov. 26, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Admission is $8/adult, $4 ages 6-12. Free for ages 5 and younger. Jim Graham Building, North Carolina State Fairgrounds, 1025 Blue Ridge Rd., Raleigh. christmascarousel.com.

CARY ACADEMY HOLIDAY SHOPPE Nov. 30, 9:30 a.m.-5 p.m.; Dec. 1, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. and 6:30-9 p.m.; Dec. 2, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Cary Academy, 1500 N. Harrison Ave., Cary. caholidayshoppe.com.

CAROLINA INN HOLIDAY MARKET Dec. 2, 9 and 16. See the website for hours. 211 Pittsboro St., Chapel Hill. 12daysevents.com.

CHRISTMAS HOLIDAY SHOPPE CRAFT SHOW Dec. 2, 9 a.m.-4 p.m. St. Thomas More Catholic Church, 940 Carmichael St., Chapel Hill. stmsnc.org.

ELF MARKET Dec. 2, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. The ArtsCenter, 300-G E. Main St., Carrboro. artscenterlive.org/elfmarket-2017.

HOLIDAY BAZAAR Dec. 2, 9:30 a.m.-3 p.m. Cleveland High School, 1892 Polenta Rd., Clayton. clevelandhigh.band.

HOLLY DAYS EXTRAVAGANZA Dec. 2, 9 a.m.-5 p.m.; Dec. 3, 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Admission is $2/person. Sanderson High School, 5500 Dixon Dr., Raleigh. sites.google.com/view/ sandersonhollydays.

SCANDINAVIAN CHRISTMAS FAIR Dec. 2, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Admission is $7. Free for ages 12 and younger. Holshouser Building, North Carolina State Fairgrounds, 1025 Blue Ridge Rd., Raleigh. scanfair.org.

ST. NICHOLAS EUROPEAN MARKETPLACE Dec. 8, 5-9 p.m.; Dec. 9, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. North Carolina State Fairgrounds, Holshauser Building,

1025 Blue Ridge Rd., Raleigh. facebook.com/ saintnicholasmarket.

DURHAM CRAFT MARKET HOLIDAY SHOW Dec. 10, 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Durham Convention Center, 301 W. Morgan St., Durham. durhamcraftmarket.com.

HOLIDAY MARKET Dec. 16, 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Free. The Halle Cultural Center, 237 N. Salem St., Apex. facebook.com/ holiday-market-apex-312071872554086.

CRAFT FESTIVALS FARTHER AFIELD HOLLY DAY FAIR Nov. 2, noon-8 p.m.; Nov. 3-4, 9 a.m.-8 p.m.; Nov. 5, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Admission is $10. The Crown Expo Center, 131 E. Mountain Dr., Fayetteville. hollydayfair.com.

HOLIDAY MARKET BY GILMORE SHOWS Nov. 3, 10 a.m.-9 p.m.; Nov. 4, 9 a.m.-7 p.m.; Nov. 5, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Admission is $8 adults, $1 ages 6-12. Free for ages 5 and younger. Greensboro Coliseum Complex, 1921 W. Gate City Blvd., Greensboro. gilmoreshows.com/holiday_market. shtml.

SOUTHERN CHRISTMAS SHOW Nov. 9-19; Wednesday-Saturday. 10 a.m.-9 p.m.; Sun.-Tue. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Tickets are $3-$10 in advance, $3-$12 at the door. Free for ages 5 and younger. The Park Expo and Conference Center, 800 Briar Creek Rd., Charlotte. southernshows.com/scs.

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Yates by Night: Creatures of the Night Historic Yates Mill County Park, 4620 Lake Wheeler Rd., Raleigh. 5-6 p.m. $1/ person. Spy on creatures of the night and learn how nocturnal animals get ready for winter. Ages 6 and older with adult. Advance registration required online. wakegov.com/parks/ yatesmill.

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Nature Fun-Days: Fox Facts. Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs, 2616 Kildaire Farm Rd., Cary. 1-3 p.m. $9/resident, $12/ nonresident. Kids hike, make projects and engage in nature activities. Ages 5-8. Register online. classweb.townofcary. org. Wee Walkers. Durant Nature Preserve, 8305 Camp Durant Rd, Raleigh. 10-11 a.m. Free. Join others on an easy-paced hike around the park to explore what’s happening in nature. Register online. Choose course #210341. reclink.raleighnc.gov.

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Nov. 17, 10 a.m.-6 p.m.; Nov. 18, 10 a.m.-6 p.m.; Nov. 19, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Admission is $4. Free for ages 11 and younger. WNC Ag Center, 1301 Fanning Bridge Rd., Fletcher. wncholidayfair.net.

Crowder By Night: Survivor Skills. Crowder District Park, 4709 Ten Ten Rd., Apex. 5-6 p.m. $1/person. Learn how to survive in the woods. Build a temporary shelter and learn which plants are safe to eat. Play an orienteering game. All ages with adult. Register online. wakegov.com/parks/crowder.

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Dec. 9, 10 a.m.-5 p.m.; Dec. 10, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Admission is $5. Free for ages 12 and younger. Poplar Grove Plantation, 10200 U.S. Hwy. 17 N., Wilmington. poplargrove.org/ festivals/amerrylittlechristmas/gift-show.

Campfire Story and Marshmallow Roast. Durant Nature Preserve, 8305 Camp Durant Rd, Raleigh. 6:15-7:15 pm. $2/person. Share some quality time with your family and the good company of others while roasting marshmallows.

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Register online. Choose course #210484. reclink.raleighnc.gov. Deer Tracking. Wilkerson Nature Preserve, 5229 Awls Haven Dr., Raleigh. 3-5 p.m. $3/ person. Look for deer tracks and discover their hiding places. Dress for the weather and outdoor adventure. Ages 6-10. Register online. Choose course #211976. reclink.raleighnc.gov. Dia de los Muertos Celebration. Artspace, 201 E. Davie St., Raleigh. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Free. Join artists Peter Marin, Cornelio Campos and Pepe Caudillo as Artspace celebrates the rich cultural traditions of Dia de los Muertos with a day of collaborative community art-making for all ages. artspacenc.org. Great Pumpkin Smash. Three Bears Acres, 711 Beaver Dam Rd., Creedmoor. 11 a.m.-2 p.m. $8/ adult, $15/child. Say farewell to old pumpkins and jack-o’lanterns from Halloween with carnival pumpkin games, a tractor pumpkin smash, pumpkin sling shots, pumpkin catapults and a pumpkin zip line. Purchase tickets online. threebearsacres.com/farm. Full Moon Hike at Harris Lake. Harris Lake County Park, 2112 County Park Dr., New Hill. 5:307 p.m. $1/person. Enjoy a hike under the full moon to observe the natural world at night. Dress for the weather and take a flashlight. All ages. Meet at the Loblolly Shelter. Advance registration required online. wakegov.com/parks/harrislake. Gourd Arts and Crafts Festival. North Carolina State Fairgrounds, Holshouser Bldg., 1025 Blue Ridge Rd., Raleigh. 9 a.m.-5 p.m. $2 ages 16 and older. Gourds take center stage at this festival that features crafting workshops, vendors, workshops and more. Kids can

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enjoy a free gourd crafting table. ncgourdsociety.org/festival. Natural Explorations: Fall Foliage Hike. Historic Yates Mill County Park, 4620 Lake Wheeler Rd., Raleigh. 11 a.m.-noon. Free. Take a guided hike to learn about the colors of fall. All ages with adult. Register online. wakegov.com/parks/yatesmill. Neuse River Valley Model Railroad Club Annual Model Train Show. North Carolina State Fairgrounds, Graham Building, 1025 Blue Ridge Rd., Raleigh. 9 a.m.-5 p.m. $8 ages 12 and older. Free for ages 11 and younger. See operating train layouts on display and enjoy vendors selling train-related merchandise. nrvclub.net. Saturdays at the Old Mill Tour. Historic Yates Mill County Park, 4620 Lake Wheeler Rd., Raleigh. 1-3 p.m. $5/adult, $3 ages 7-16. Free for ages 6 and younger. Take a 30-minute tour to view the main power drive and milling machinery. Tickets available inside the park’ visitor center. Online registration encouraged. wakegov.com/parks/ yatesmill. Teen Workshop: AfroFusion Dance. Durham Arts Council, 120 Morris St., Durham. 1-2 p.m. $10. Explore a mixture of contemporary and traditional styles as the instructor guides students through the fusion of hip-hop and African dance. Register online. durhamarts.org. Triangle Truck Day. Bright Horizons, 800 Weston Pkwy., Cary. 10:30 a.m.12:30 p.m. Suggested entrance fee is a donation of $5/child. Free for adults. Kids explore vehicles and trucks. Games, activities, prizes, food trucks and live music round out the fun. Proceeds benefit the Bright Horizons Foundation for Children. brighthorizons.com/ triangletruckday. Wake County Magnet and Early College Fair. Southeast Raleigh Magnet High School, 2600 Rock Quarry Rd., Raleigh. 9 a.m.-noon. Free. Families are invited to explore educational opportunities offered

by Wake County Schools for students rising in grades K-12. wcpss.net/ magnet.

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Family Programs: Fall Nature Stroll. Stevens Nature Center/ Hemlock Bluffs, 2616 Kildaire Farm Rd., Cary. 2-3:30 p.m. $12/ resident, $16/nonresident. Go nutty for nature as children satisfy some of their curiosity about the world around them and parents share in the joy of discovery. Ages 3-5 with parent. Register online. classweb. townofcary.org. Gourd Arts and Crafts Festival. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. See Nov. 4. Neuse River Valley Model Railroad Club Annual Model Train Show. See Nov. 4. 9 a.m.-5 p.m.

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Tiny Tots: Leaves in Nature. Crowder District Park, 4709 Ten Ten Rd., Apex. 10:30 a.m. $2/child. Explore leaves through centers, songs and stories. Ages 18 months-3 years with an adult. Registration required. wakegov.com/parks/crowder.

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ADHD and School Behavior and Academic Performance. Duke Child & Family Study Center, 2608 Erwin Rd., Pavilion East, Ste. 300, Durham. 6:30-8 p.m. Free. Learn about the impact of ADHD at school and ways that families can promote positive school functioning. dukehealth.org/events. Museum of Life and Science Santa Train Tickets on Sale. See website for fees and to purchase tickets. The museum’s popular Santa Train takes families on a magical journey as it celebrates its 40th anniversary this holiday season. lifeandscience.org. Nature Families: Compost Creatures. Crowder District Park, 4709 Ten Ten Rd., Apex. 11 a.m.noon. $1/person. Learn about animal decomposers. Enjoy a hands-on activity and snack. All ages with

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adult. Register online. wakegov.com/ parks/crowder. Terrific Turkeys. Horseshoe Farm Nature Preserve, 2900 Horse Shoe Farm Rd., Wake Forest. 10-11 a.m. $3/child. Read a turkey story and make a turkey craft Age 3-5 with adult. Register online. Choose course #210416. reclink.raleighnc.gov. Wee Wetland Walkers. Walnut Creek Wetland Park, 950 Peterson St., Raleigh. 11 a.m. Free. Join others for an easy-paced hike around the greenway accompanied by a naturalist. Register online. Choose course #209282. reclink.raleighnc. gov.

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Nature Watchers: Wiggly Worms. Crowder District Park, 4709 Ten Ten Rd., Apex. 11 a.m.-noon. $4/child. Learn about earthworms through a story, hands-on activity and craft. Ages 3-5 with adult. Register online. wakegov.com/parks/crowder. Wee Walkers: Big or Small. Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs, 2616 Kildaire Farm Rd., Cary. 10-11 a.m. $8/resident, $10/ nonresident. Children delight in discoveries of shapes, colors and textures in nature. Ages 1 and older with parent. Registration required. classweb.townofcary.org.

9 THURSDAY

Failure: Friend or Foe? Camelot Academy, 809 Proctor St., Durham. 7-8 p.m. Free. Parents of children in grades K-12 through college learn how to usher their kids through failure so they emerge stronger. Register online. camelotacademyparenteducation. weebly.com/monthly-talks.html. Family Art Workshop: “Garden Lights.” JC Raulston Arboretum at the YURT, 4415 Beryl Rd., Raleigh. 10 a.m.-noon. $5/member, $10/ nonmember. Create garden lights to add to your home and garden. All ages. Register online. jcra.ncsu.edu/ events/details.php?ID=1571.

Moonlight in the Garden. JC Raulston Arboretum, 4415 Beryl Rd., Raleigh. 6-9 p.m. $10/ member, $20/nonmember, $5 ages 11 and younger. Experience the arboretum aglow in light and enjoy children’s crafts, live music, food trucks and marshmallow roasting at the fire pits. Purchase tickets online. jcra.ncsu.edu/events/details. php?ID=1498. Wee Walkers: Big or Small. See Nov. 8.

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Family Art Workshop: “Garden Lights.” See Nov. 9. Moonlight in the Garden. See Nov. 9. NC Comicon. Durham Convention Center, 301 W. Morgan St., Durham. Noon-11 p.m. $20 and up. Free for ages 9 and younger. Comic books are celebrated in this Durham festival for all ages featuring vendors, workshops, panel discussions, local talent and more. Purchase tickets online. nccomicon.com.

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Curiosity Club: Fabulous Fall. Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs, 2616 Kildaire Farm Rd., Cary. 10 a.m.noon. $8/resident, $10/nonresident. Ages 5-8 embrace science and nature while developing skills and knowledge about the natural world. Register online. classweb.townofcary.org. Fall Foliage Hike. Wilkerson Nature Preserve, 5229 Awls Haven Dr., Raleigh. 2:30-4 p.m. $2. Join a naturalist for a hike focused on deciduous trees. Ages 5 and older with adult. Register online. Chooose course #211970. reclink.raleighnc.gov. A Kid’s Life: World War I Peg Dolls. Leigh Farm Park, 370 Leigh Farm Rd., Durham. 10 a.m.-noon. Free; small donation suggested. Learn about the role Durham residents played in World War I. Make a peg doll to take home. Drop-in program. Ages 5-12. dprplaymore.org.

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› Moonlight in the Garden. See Nov. 9. NC Comicon. See Nov. 10. 10 a.m.midnight. Pawsfest. Southern Village, 620 Market St., Chapel Hill. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. $15-$25 online; $20-$35 at the door. Take part in a fundraiser featuring games, vendors, snacks, dog agility demos, a raffle and more. Proceeds from this event benefit Paws4ever to save cats and dogs in need. tiny.cc/pawsfest2017. Saturdays at the Old Mill Tour. See Nov. 4. Swamp Romp: Mammals. Walnut Creek Wetland Park, 950 Peterson St., Raleigh. 11 a.m.-noon. $3. Enjoy crafts, engaging activities and a guided walk through the park. Register online. Choose course #209274. reclink.raleighnc.gov.

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Eco-Explorers: Raptors. Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs, 2616 Kildaire Farm Rd., Cary. 2-4 p.m. $8/resident, $10/nonresident. Children make treasured memories while increasing their knowledge of plants and animals. Ages 7-10. Register online. classweb. townofcary.org. Fall Foray. Durant Nature Preserve, 8305 Camp Durant Rd, Raleigh. 2-3 p.m. $1/ person. Take a guided nature hike and make a fall-inspired craft to take home. All ages. Register online. Choose course #210499. reclink.raleighnc.gov. Kidney Walk. Durham Bulls Athletic Park, 409 Blackwell St., Durham. 2:15 p.m. See website for fees. Take part in a walk to end kidney disease. All ages. Register online. kidneywalk.org. Mill Heritage and Local History Tour. Historic Yates Mill County Park, 4620 Lake Wheeler Rd., Raleigh. Tours are at 2-3 p.m. and 3-4 p.m. $5/adult, $3 ages 7-16. Free for ages 6 and younger. Watch a brief slideshow and explore the inner workings of the mill. Witness the power of water as it turns the

milling machinery. Registration encouraged. Tickets available inside the visitor center. wakegov.com/ parks/yatesmill. NC Comicon. See Nov. 10. 11 a.m.- 6 p.m.

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Kids Discover Nature: The Fallen Log. Harris Lake County Park, 2112 County Park Dr., New Hill. 11 a.m.-noon. $4/child. Enjoy a story, log exploration and a craft. Ages 3-7 with adult. Meet at the Cypress Shelter. Advance registration required online. wakegov.com/ parks/harrislake. Nature Tots: Seasonal Discoveries. Harris Lake County Park, 2112 County Park Dr., New Hill. 10 a.m. $2/child. Discover nature through stories, hands-on nature activities, games and more. Ages 1-3 with adult. Meet at the Cypress Shelter. Advance registration required online. wakegov.com/ parks/harrislake.

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“Inspiring Beauty: 50 Years of Ebony Fashion Fair.” North Carolina Museum of Art, 2110 Blue Ridge Rd., Raleigh. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Free. See the exhibit that explores the charity fashion show that redefined the concepts of beauty, fashion and empowerment for African-Americans. ncartmuseum.org.

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Bird Buddies. Wilkerson Nature Preserve, 5229 Awls Haven Dr., Raleigh. 12:45-2:15 p.m. $3. Meet funny-talking birds and make papertube binoculars to spy on flying friends in the forest and field. Ages 3-5 with adult. Register online. Choose course #210660. reclink. raleighnc.gov. Stone Soup Supper. McKimmon Center, 1101 Gorman St., Raleigh. 5:30-8:30 p.m. $5-$30. Purchase tickets online. Enjoy soups prepared by top Triangle chefs. Funds raised from the event help feed,

shelter and provide healthcare to low-income individuals at Urban Ministries of Wake County. urbanmin.org/stone-soup-supper.

16 THURSDAY

Moonlight in the Garden. See Nov. 9.

17 FRIDAY

Astronomy Night. Wilkerson Nature Preserve, 5229 Awls Haven Dr., Raleigh. 5-7 p.m. $2. View the moon, stars and more with the preserve’s telescope. All ages with adult. Register online. Choose course #211959. reclink.raleighnc.gov. Moonlight in the Garden. See Nov. 9. Nature Nuts: Gray Squirrels. Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs, 2616 Kildaire Farm Rd., Cary. 10-11 a.m. $10/resident, $13/nonresident. Go nutty for nature as children satisfy some of their curiosity about the world around them and parents share in the joy of discovery. Ages 3-5 with parent. Register online. classweb. townofcary.org. Night Out in Nature. Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs, 2616 Kildaire Farm Rd., Raleigh. 6-9 p.m. $17/resident, $22/nonresident. Kids spend a night out in nature making memories and new friends in an old-fashioned, camp-style program. Ages 8-12. Registration required. classweb.townofcary.org. TinkerTech Family Workshops: Construct and Create with Light. Museum of Life and Science, 433 W. Murray Ave., Durham. 1-3 p.m. $25/person. Explore the latest technologies such as 3D printing pens and wearable electronics, while developing skills that create real-world connections to science, technology and engineering. Register online. lifeandscience.org.

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American Indian Heritage Celebration. North Carolina Museum of History, 5 E. Edenton St.,

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Raleigh. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Free. Learn about the state’s American Indian culture from musicians, dancers, craftspeople and storytellers from eight state-recognized tribes. ncmuseumofhistory.org/AIHC-2017. Bird Buddies. See Nov. 15. 10:30 a.m.-noon. Corn Grinding Demonstrations and Costumed Tours. Historic Yates Mill County Park, 4620 Lake Wheeler Rd., Raleigh. Sessions are at 10 a.m.-noon and 1-4 p.m. $5/ adult, $3 ages 7-16. Free for ages 6 and younger. Step back in time with a 19th-century costumed interpreter and watch the millstones at work grinding corn into meal. Registration encouraged online. Tickets available at the mill. wakegov.com/parks/yatesmill. Country Dancing in the Mill Yard. Historic Yates Mill County Park, 4620 Lake Wheeler Rd., Raleigh. Sessions are at noon-12:45 p.m. and 4-4:45 p.m. Free. Join an interpreter to learn 19th-century country dances. Registration not required. wakegov. com/parks/yatesmill. Discover the Park: Walk in the Woods. Crowder District Park, 4709 Ten Ten Rd., Apex. 11 a.m.noon. Free. Take a walk in the woods and discover the animals and plants that call the park home. Help collect data for the Natural Resource Inventory Database and other citizen science projects. Ages 14 and older. Registration not required. wakegov.com/parks/crowder. Hasentree Color Run. 7014 Hasentree Club Dr., Wake Forest. 8 a.m.-noon. $30/person for the 5K; $15/child for the fun run. Wear white clothing and get doused in multiple colors at checkpoints throughout a 5K and one-mile fun run. Proceeds benefit nonprofit organizations. hasentreecolorrun. itsyourrace.com/register. Historic Trades: The Cooper. Historic Yates Mill County Park, 4620 Lake Wheeler Rd., Raleigh. 1-4 p.m. Free. Learn about the wooden containers that coopers

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› made long ago. All ages. Registration not required. wakegov. com/parks/yatesmill. Moonlight in the Garden. See Nov. 9. Nature Nuts: Gray Squirrels. See Nov. 17. Repticon. North Carolina State Fairgrounds, Kerr Scott Building, 1025 Blue Ridge Rd., Raleigh. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. $12 ages 13 and older, $5 ages 5-12. Celebrate the world of exotic animals and reptiles. Enjoy live specimens, presentations, raffles, vendors and more. Purchase tickets online. repticon.com/northcarolina/raleigh. Tales and Trails: Stories Around the Campfire. Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs, 2616 Kildaire Farm Rd., Cary. 4:30-6 p.m. $18/resident, $24/nonresident. Discover what’s happening in the forest as the sun sets. Listen to stories and enjoy s’mores around a campfire. All ages with adult. Register online. classweb. townofcary.org. TinkerTech Family Workshops: Construct and Create with Light. See Nov. 17. Turkey Time and Campfire at the American Tobacco Trail. American Tobacco Trail, 1309 New Hill-Olive Chapel Rd., Apex. 4-6:30 p.m. $2/person. Enjoy fun games and interactive learning about turkeys. Enjoy a night hike along the trail and marshmallow roasting over a campfire. All ages. Meet at the New Hill Parking Area. Advance registration required online. wakegov.com/parks/att.

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Corn Grinding Demonstrations and Costumed Tours. See Nov. 18. 1-4 p.m. Family Feature: Giving Thanks. Crowder District Park, 4709 Ten Ten Rd., Apex. 2-3 p.m. $1/person. Learn where favorite Thanksgiving foods come from. Make a craft. All ages with adult. Register online. wakegov.com/parks/crowder.

Junior Naturalist: Silly Squirrels. Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs, 2616 Kildaire Farm Rd., Cary. 2-3 p.m. $8/resident, $10/nonresident. Participants develop their naturalist skills and understanding of local nature. Ages 5-8 with parent. Register online. classweb.townofcary.org. Repticon. See Nov. 18. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Thanksgiving Turkey Scavenger Hunt. Horseshoe Farm Nature Preserve, 2900 Horse Shoe Farm Rd., Wake Forest. 2-3 p.m. $1/ person. Search the preserve for holiday-themed clues and learn about native wild turkeys. Make a turkey decoration. Ages 5 and older with parent. Register online. Choose course code #210498. reclink. raleighnc.gov. Young Ecologists: Summer Animal Survey. Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs, 2616 Kildaire Farm Rd., Raleigh. 4-6 p.m. $12/resident, $16/nonresident. Search for salamanders, owls and more. Ages 10-13. Register online. classweb.townofcary.org.

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Kids Get Crafty: Turkey Time. Crowder District Park, 4709 Ten Ten Rd., Apex. 11 a.m.-noon. Free. Make crafts celebrating turkeys. All ages with adult. Meet at the Cardinal Shelter. Registration not required. wakegov.com/parks/crowder.

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Field School: Pilgrims at Play. Historic Yates Mill County Park, 4620 Lake Wheeler Rd., Raleigh. Sessions are at 10:30 a.m.-noon and 2-3:30 p.m. $6/child. Discover what it was like to be a kid at the first Thanksgiving. Play games and make a food collage. Ages 7 and older. Register online. wakegov.com/ parks/yatesmill.

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Nature Lab: Fall Discoveries. Harris Lake County Park, 2112 County Park Dr., New Hill. 10 a.m.-2

p.m. $16/child. Explore the woods and shoreline for signs of nature and collect treasures to make a craft. Take a full water bottle, snack and a bag lunch. Ages 6-11. Meet at the Cypress Shelter. Advance registration required online. wakegov.com/parks/harrislake.

23 THURSDAY HAPPY THANKSGIVING! Gobbler’s Run. Downtown Wake Forest. 8 a.m. $20-$30/ages 6 and older. Free for ages 5 and younger. Take part in a 5K on Thanksgiving Day to raise money for the Wake County Boys & Girls Club. Register online. gobblersrun.com.

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Art in the Park: Thankfulness Project. Historic Yates Mill County Park, 4620 Lake Wheeler Rd., Raleigh. 8:30 a.m.-5 p.m. Free. Celebrate thankfulness. Play a game and make a pinecone turkey craft. All ages with adult. Drop-in program. Registration not required. wakegov.com/parks/yatesmill. Park Tales: “Bear Says Thanks”. Historic Yates Mill County Park, 4620 Lake Wheeler Rd., Raleigh. 11 a.m.noon. Free. Read the story by Karma Wilson and make a Thanksgivingthemed craft. All ages. Registration not required. wakegov.com/parks/ yatesmill.

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Art in the Park: Thankfulness Project. See Nov. 24. Turkey Chase. Umstead Park, 8801 Glenwood Ave., Raleigh. 7 a.m.-2:45 p.m. $25-$45. Take part in a 5K, 10K or 20K race. Presented by Fit & Able Productions. Register online. runsignup.com. Saturdays at the Old Mill Tour. See Nov. 4.

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Art in the Park: Thankfulness Project. See Nov. 24. Mill Heritage and Local History Tour. See Nov. 12.

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Open Bounce. BounceU Apex, 3419 Apex Peakway, Apex. Noon-2 p.m., 2-4 p.m. and 4-6 p.m. $10/child. Enjoy music, games and inflatables. Take socks. Register online. bounceu.com/apex.

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Nature Fun-Days: Predators and Prey. Stevens Nature Center/ Hemlock Bluffs, 2616 Kildaire Farm Rd., Cary. 10 a.m.-noon. $9/ resident, $12/nonresident. Kids hike, make projects and engage in nature activities. Ages 5-8. Register online. classweb.townofcary.org.

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A Side of History: The Spirit of Giving. Historic Yates Mill County Park, 4620 Lake Wheeler Rd., Raleigh. 10 a.m.-noon. Free. Explore the history of giving and assemble warm fleece blankets for children in need through the Project Linus fund. Ages 6 and older. Registration required. wakegov.com/parks/ yatesmill. Eco-Express: Wetland Explorers. Stevens Nature Center/Hemlock Bluffs, 2616 Kildaire Farm Rd., Cary. 10 a.m.-noon. $9/resident, $12/ nonresident. Take the fast track to nature in this hands-on study of ecology. Ages 8-12. Register online. classweb.townofcary.org. Mill Heritage and Local History Tour. See Nov. 12. 2-3 p.m.

30 THURSDAY

Project Enlightenment Workshop: Parenting Ones and Twos. Project Enlightenment, 501 S. Boylan Ave., Raleigh. 6:30-8:30 p.m. $22/person, $33/ couple. Learn ways to communicate with a toddler that will increase cooperation and reduce power struggles. For families with children ages 1-3. Register online. projectenlightenment.wcpss.net.

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9 a.m., craft a dinosaur puppet for $2 per child with a caregiver. etix.com.

latest dance moves. Purchase tickets online. carolinadancefoundation.org/events.

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Nov. 4-5 – Fletcher Theater, Duke Energy Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. South St., Raleigh. 3 p.m. $15 advance tickets, $18 at the door. Talented ballet students perform “Alice in Wonderland,”“Fancy Nancy and the Mermaid Ballet” and “Swan Lake Pas de Trois.” raleighdance.org.

Nov. 11 – Broughton High School, 723 Saint Mary’s St., Raleigh. 7-9 p.m. $10/adult, $5/ student. Free for kids 12 and younger. Enjoy the band’s formal fall concert featuring ethereal and energetic selections. theraleighconcertband.org.

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Nov. 12 – Cary Arts Center, 101 Dry Ave., Cary. 4 p.m. $5/adult, $2/child. The Triangle Youth String Orchestra plays new and old favorites in the first half, and the Triangle Youth String Sinfonia presents a multimedia program after intermission. All ages. Purchase tickets online. etix.com.

Nov. 5 – Cary Arts Center, 101 Dry Ave., Cary. 4 p.m. $10/adult, $5/child. See the Triangle Youth Jazz Ensemble, the Philharmonic Association’s most advanced group, perform big band jazz music. Purchase tickets online. etix.com.

WORLD OF DANCE PERFORMS Nov. 5 – Century Center, 100 N. Greensboro St., Carrboro. 2:30 p.m. $3/person. See the team perform dances from the Caribbean, South Pacific Islands, North Africa and more. All ages. carrbororec.org.

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PERFORMANCES DURHAM SCHOOL OF THE ARTS THEATRE PRESENTS “THE 25TH ANNUAL PUTNAM COUNTY SPELLING BEE” Nov. 1-4 – Durham School of the Arts, Black Box Theater, 400 N. Duke St., Durham. 7:30 p.m., Nov. 1-3; 3 and 7:30 p.m., Nov. 4. $12 advance tickets online, $15 at the door. Enjoy the heartwarming tale of six rambunctious teenagers as they journey to a spelling championship. This show contains mature themes and language. Purchase tickets online. seatyourself.biz/dsa.

“LOVE NEVER DIES: THE PHANTOM RETURNS” Nov. 1-5 – Durham Performing Arts Center, 123 Vivian St., Durham. See the website for show times and to purchase tickets. $25 and

up. Andrew Lloyd Webber’s spellbinding sequel to “The Phantom of the Opera” continues in a dazzling new production, which takes audiences on a thrilling rollercoaster ride of intrigue, obsession and romance. Purchase tickets online. Ages 5 and younger not admitted. ticketmaster.com.

MARVELOUS MUSIC FAMILY SERIES: “DIGGERY DIGGERS’ DINO SHOW” Nov. 4 – Cary Arts Center, 101 Dry Ave., Cary. 10 a.m. $8. While paleontologist Diggery Diggers is sharing his dinosaur fossils, he discovers a “top secret” box the museum accidentally packed. Diggery opens the box and unleashes the DinoSauroScope 3000, taking the audience back in time. Prior to the show at

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Nov. 8-19 – Gov. James B. Hunt Horse Complex, 4601 Trinity Rd., Raleigh. See the website for hours and fees. See ponies, hunters and jumpers compete in an event that benefits Duke Children’s Hospital. jumpforthechildren.org.

NORTH CAROLINA SYMPHONY PRESENTS “THE MUSIC OF STAR WARS” Nov. 10-11 – Meymandi Concert Hall, 2 E. South St., Raleigh. 8 p.m. $18-$71. Celebrate the 40th anniversary of “Star Wars” as the symphony dedicates a night of music to its composer John Williams. ncsymphony.org.

“THE NIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS” Nov. 11-12 – Fletcher Theater, Duke Energy Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. South St., Raleigh. 7 p.m., Nov. 11; 3 p.m., Nov. 12. $15-$30. Enjoy a whimsical presentation of ballet, jazz and tap dances, complete with visions of sugarplums, tapping reindeer and a variety of life-size dancing toys. Santa will delight the audience with his

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BIRDMAN DAVE PERFORMS Nov. 15 – Century Center, 100 N. Greensboro St., Carrboro. 10:30 a.m. $3/person. See Birdman Dave and his feathered friend Belle perform. All ages. carrbororec.org.

CAROLINA YOUTH BALLET PRESENTS “THE NUTCRACKER” Nov. 18 – Fletcher Theater, Duke Energy Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. South St., Raleigh. 1 and 5 p.m. $12-$27. Talented dance students perform the classic holiday ballet with guest stars from Carolina Ballet. Purchase tickets online. carolinayouthballet.tix.com.

NORTH CAROLINA SYMPHONY PRESENTS “THE POLAR EXPRESS” Nov. 22 – Meymandi Concert Hall, 2 E. South St., Raleigh. 3 p.m. $14-$29. Listen for the sounds of silver bells and climb aboard in your pajamas for a first-class journey on “The Polar Express.” Come early to meet Santa, and enjoy kid-friendly activities and a traditional singalong. Purchase tickets online. ncsymphony.org.

“RUDOLPH THE RED-NOSED REINDEER: THE MUSICAL” Nov. 24-Dec 24 – Fletcher Theater, Duke Energy Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. South St., Raleigh. 11 a.m. $15 and up. See the classic story brought to life onstage featuring favorite characters Santa and Mrs. Claus, Hermey the Elf, Bumble the Abominable Snow Monster,

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Clarice, Yukon Cornelius and Rudolph. Purchase tickets online. ticketmaster.com.

“HIP HOP NUTCRACKER” Nov. 24 – Durham Performing Arts Center, 123 Vivian St., Durham. 2 and 7 p.m. $35-$55. See a contemporary re-imagination of Tchaikovsky’s timeless music. Purchase tickets online. ticketmaster.com.

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NORTH CAROLINA SYMPHONY PRESENTS “HOME ALONE” Nov. 24 – Meymandi Concert Hall, 2 E. South St., Raleigh. 7:30 p.m. Nov. 24; 3 p.m. Nov. 25. $14-$29. See the comedy classic on a big screen as the symphony plays the delightful score by John Williams live. Purchase tickets online. ticketmaster.com.

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Nov. 26 – Durham Performing Arts Center, 123 Vivian St., Durham. 7:30 p.m. $45 and up. The Brian Setzer Orchestra performs rockabilly song arrangements in its 14th annual holiday tour. ticketmaster.com.

DUKE CHORALE’S CHRISTMAS CONCERT Nov. 28 – Duke Chapel, 401 Chapel Dr., Durham. 7 p.m. Admission is one nonperishable food item for needy families in Durham. Duke Chorale’s annual holiday concert features traditional carols for the entire audience to sing, and stories and special treats for children. music.duke.edu/events/dukechorale-christmas-concert-1.

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