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Faith, Healing & Wholeness RICHIES DINER | SENIOR SECTION | LETTER WRITING

2014

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Contents

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departments 5 Publisher's Note

Cover Story 6 Loma Linda Medical Center Murrieta

Rising Star 10 Badge of Friendship

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Ask the Expert 13 15 24 29

Realty Health Seniors Law

16 Blazing Tales 14 Grrrr Attitude

Restaurant Buzz 16 Richies Diner

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18 Meet Your Neighbor 18 David Buck

Business Buzz 19 Valerie Scola, DDS

features 12 21 26 28

Village Walk Senior Section Letter Writing Rams Daily News

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Creative Director

Fara Asay

Content Development

Heather Rawlings Contributors

Brittany Rose

Catherine Shepard

Samuel Lockhart, Esq.

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ome days I just wish there was more time so I could stop by your house and have a glass of lemonade on the patio with you! My family has come to realize that I cannot resist an opportunity to turn a stranger into a friend. In other words, I get stuck talking in the grocery store or the library longer than I intended (sometimes while they are waiting in the car or expecting me at home.) Not stuck in a bad way, because I thrive on these interactions. While I was a university student, I had a particular class that resonated deeply with me. I was in school to become a dental hygienist and we were learning about caring for the “whole” person. In other words, our patients are more than just a set of teeth. Even though my task would be to clean their pearly whites, true care comes from being in tune to all of the other needs as well. Is this person grieving or going through a difficult event? Do they need to talk? Are they happy and healthy? Is there something else I can help with? This was how I had already lived, without really being aware of it. But it touched my heart that “wholeness” was taught in every discipline on this campus. Learning to help patients find wholeness was actually the best part of my school experience. Taking time to care for one another is so important and I feel like my school went over and above teaching the skills of dental hygiene. My alma mater just happens to be a part of the local business on our cover this month! It’s an honor to feature Loma Linda University Medical Center – Murrieta! My education is something I will always be grateful for. Speaking of gratitude, our furriest writer, Blaze, is happy to share a dog’s perspective on page 14! As we approach the holidays and consumerism reaches it’s peak, I hope you’ll remember our advertisers! Besides being business owners, they are your neighbors and they’ve made the choice to support this publication in its goal to focus on all the positive things about our community! I hope you’ll go out of your way to shop local during the holidays and support our local small businesses. They’re such an important asset to Murrieta! This month’s featured neighbor is a pretty extraordinary guy! He’s an adventurous, adrenaline-seeker, who plays tennis professionally… From a wheelchair! Read David Buck’s story on page 18. What a great example of positive attitude! As always, we appreciate your feedback and look forward to hearing from you. Your Neighbor,

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Faith, Healing

hen 47-year old firefighter,

Bruce Moore suffered a massive heart attack in 2013, he was rushed to Loma Linda University Medical Center-Murrieta (LLUMC), where he received a cardiac intervention that gave him back his life as a husband, father and public servant. 6

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& Wholeness

“To Continue the Teaching and Healing Ministry of Jesus Christ.” Though active and healthy, Bruce was born with the “widow maker” artery shape that can contribute to sudden heart attacks and is often deadly. Bruce was fortunate that, for the first time, a hospital closer to home was ready to provide the life-saving heart care he needed. When a person is having this type of cardiac event, time is important because the more time that goes by, the more heart muscle is lost. From the early development of the hospital, it was clear that bringing advanced cardiac care to the Murrieta-Temecula area was essential for the community. As the first STEMI (heart attack) receiving center in the valley, LLUMC-Murrieta has saved hundreds of lives, per-

formed approximately 300 open heart surgeries and has treated thousands of patients with interventional heart care. Bruce Moore is one of several hundred patients that had a good outcome due to getting treatment quickly. “Our heart care program is one of our highest priorities and we will continue to invest in it and look for more ways that we can help address the many issues around heart health in our community,” says Rick Rawson, CEO of the hospital. Owned and operated by Loma Linda University Health, LLUMCMurrieta is continuing in its commitment to provide high quality care in bringing more services and outreach to the region. When you walk into the lobby of the hospital, you will

see the motto, “To Make Man W hole”. This theme of “wholeness” has been part of Loma Linda University Health’s heritage since its founding nearly 110 years ago! LLUMC-Murrieta was built to bring healing and wholeness to Murrieta and surrounding communities. Though LLUMC-Murrieta provides a variety of health care services, such as oncology, orthopedic, robotic surgery, maternity care and more; the hospital’s staff and physicians put their focus on the way these services are delivered. “Every hospital is expected to provide healthcare services,” says Rick Rawson, “but we have a mission statement that raises the bar for us substantially.” The mission stateMyMurrietaMag.com |

//////// Feature ment for all LLUH entities is a simple one: “To Continue the Teaching and Healing Ministry of Jesus Christ.” Wholeness is more than curing a physical illness: It involves healing the body, mind and spirit. For instance, a woman with breast cancer who has the growth physically removed may be left feeling confused, alone, or afraid. Until she has peace of mind and spirit as well, she has not become whole again. Besides offering the best scientifically proven treatments to patients, the hospital’s very structure was designed to foster healing. There have been over 600 articles showing the connection between environment and the healing process. Creating the right environment to promote healing of mind, body and spirit, was a primary goal in designing LLUMC-Murrieta. Patients and visitors often remark on how peaceful the hospital is. The building was designed provide natural light while the inner décor includes elements of nature to decrease stress and provide a calming effect. Additionally, by reducing noise and activity a patient can relax, allowing the healing process to occur more quickly. Peaceful waiting areas offer loved ones the same mental and

emotional soothing. LLUMC-Murrieta is a visitorfriendly hospital, allowing family members and designated friends to be with the patient any time of day or night. Research shows patients have better recoveries when they have their loved ones close by when they need them. Each room is private and spacious with a private restroom and offers comfortable furnishings for both the patient and their visitors. A sleeper couch makes it convenient for a designated loved one to stay the night if desired. Patient-centered care is a primary driver of all decisions for the hospital. The organizational chart is a circle with the patient in the center and front-line staff next to the patient, which provides clarity when decisions have to be made. “W hat is best for the patient?” and “W hat is best for our employees?” are the two questions through which decisions are filtered. Rick Rawson explains, “I have always wanted an organizational chart to reflect our true priorities and with our circular leadership chart, we are visually emphasizing who we think about in every decision and then we design our actions around the answer.” Bringing world-class health care

services to the region is another way the hospital is helping to fulfill its mission. Currently, teams at the hospital are working on cancer center accreditation, a stroke center, a spine center, a chest pain center along with other initiatives. An ER expansion is being planned along with added beds to accommodate patient needs. LLUMC-Murrieta, in collaboration with LLUMC and a team of community-based physicians, strives to bring the best of academic faithbased medicine into a community hospital. “We are developing long-term relationships with our community through the services we bring, but also in the way we bring them,” said Rick. “Compassion, kindness, empathy and a positive outlook along with clinical excellence, help us to build trust and bring a sense of healing to our community. We look forward to many years of growth, new services and creating relationships that last a lifetime.”

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Garrett and Kyle

By Brittany Rose yle LeBaron and Garret Smedley met when both were just one year old. Their families had a lot in common and became friends quickly. Both boys are the youngest of five children and the only child left at home, but their bond goes beyond family. Over the years, the boys attended the same church, preschool, and Boy Scout troops. They played on some of the same sports teams and even started a band together. Eventually the LeBaron’s moved just eight houses away from the Smedleys. Now, fifteen years old, the boys are inseparable. Though the boys are similar in many ways, they have different interests as well. Kyle sings in the Advanced Men’s Choir at Murrieta Valley High School, while Garrett was selected for Advanced Drama. Both boys enjoy adventure. One of Garrett’s favorite experiences was 10

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“Their friendship with each other makes them better people.” climbing Mount Whitney. Kyle really enjoys adrenaline sports like snowboarding. “Garrett helps me push my limits and encourages me to do my best at whatever I’m doing,” says Kyle. One aspect of their lives that has helped solidify their friendship is their activity in the Boy Scouts of America. Both Garrett and Kyle have completed all 21 badges to attain their Eagle Scout awards. Kyle recently completed his Eagle Scout project with Garrett’s help. His family is proud of him for finishing his project at 15 years old, since the average Scout that completes the program will earn the

award closer to the age of 18. “Both boys are extremely well rounded,” says Garrett’s dad, Craig Smedley. “Their friendship with each other makes them better people.” The Scouting program helped Kyle and Garrett to develop life skills with each merit badge activity they completed during activities such as campouts, charity projects, and career exploration. The abilities they have learned will, no doubt, prepare them for their college life, which they hope will be another shared experience. With fifteen years of uplifting one another and supporting each other through thick and thin, it’s pretty clear that Kyle and Garrett have earned the most important badge of all, that of friendship.

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MORE THAN AN ART... A Way of Life

aving been bullied at school for much of his childhood, Jared Giordano, began studying martial arts at age 11. It changed his life. His developing skills helped him to become more confident and present himself a little differently. Because of the positive impact martial arts had on his life, he dreamt of some-

day teaching others these skills. A short decade later, Jared opened Giordano's ATA Martial Arts studio in Village Walk shopping center in Murrieta. He finds it very rewarding to work with kids that have experienced bullying and give them tools to build their confidence. Martial arts is more than combat, it’s a mentality and a way of living to a higher standard... this is the Martial Spirit. Besides the physical training, students learn life skills such as respect, self-control, courtesy, perseverance, discipline and more. Jared knows about perseverance. He is now a fourth degree black belt and the 2014 ATA World Champion! He has been the California State Champion for the past five years.

Jared is committed to creating stronger youth from the inside out! He explains, "The school itself is an academic school, teaching the fundamentals of martial arts." The black belt challenge allows kids, teens, and adults to set goals that are measurable, recognizing their achievements along the way. Life is made up of experiences, both positive and negative. It's what we do with these experiences that matters. For Jared, watching his students combat bullying, reach their goals, and become productive members of society has made his experiences worthwhile. 24550 Village Walk, Suite E Murrieta, CA 951-600-7114

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Ask the Expert / Real Estate /////////

‘Renter’s Trap’

n a recent press release, Zillow stated that the affordability of the nation’s rental inventory is currently much worse than affordability of the country’s home sale inventory. The release revealed two things: 1. Nationally, renters signing a lease during the period of time reviewed paid 29.5% of their income to rent 2. During the same period, US home buyers could expect to pay 15.3% of their incomes to a mortgage on the typical home Before the bubble, renters paid an average of 24.9% of their incomes to rent, while buyers paid 22.1% of their income to their mortgages in.

DON’T BECOME TRAPPED

If you are currently renting you could get caught up in a cycle where increasing rents continue to make it impossible for you to save for a necessary down payment. Zillow Chief Economist, Dr. Stan Humphries explains: “The affordability of for-sale homes remains strong, which is encouraging for those buyers that can save for a down payment and capitalize on low mortgage interest rates… As rents keep rising, along with interest rates and home values,

“A person can get a conforming, conventional mortgage with a down payment of as little as 5 percent (sometimes with as little as 3 percent)” saving for a down payment and attaining homeownership becomes that much more difficult for millions of current renters.”

KNOW YOUR OPTIONS

Perhaps you have already saved enough to buy your first home. HousingWire recently reported that analysts at Nomura believe: “It’s not that Millennials and other potential homebuyers aren’t qualified in terms of their credit scores or in how much they have saved for their down payment. It’s that they think they’re not qualified or they think that they don’t have a big enough down payment.”

under 10 percent more than quadrupled between 2009 and 2013. 3. More than one in five borrowers who took out conforming, conventional mortgages in 2014 put down 10 percent or less

BOTTOM LINE

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Grrrr attitude! Hey guys! It’s me your favorite Vizsla, Blaze. Today I stopped by the dog park to ask

ANGEL

my fellow canines about this interesting thing called Grrrr Attitude. Mom always says we should have a positive attitude, so when I heard her say this month was a great time to express our Grrr Attitude, I knew that it must be a positive thing. Mom says Grrr Attitude is being thankful. I am thankful every day! I asked my four-legged friends what they are thankful for, and here’s what they said:

PHILLIP, MARGO, SUZANNE Taking time each day to reflect on the things we are thankful PETEY

KC & AMELIA

PETEY – I’m thankful to go on walks. ANGEL – I’m thankful to be alive! I almost died a few years ago and my owner took me to get good medical care and helps keep me healthy. PHILLIP, MARGO, & SUZANNE – We’re thankful for the dog park where we can run & play! AMELIA – I’m thankful for KC. She’s my best friend!

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for is good for your soul. I’m thankful for a family who loves me and feeds me yummy food every day. I’m thankful that the kids in my family take time to give me hugs and let me sneak up on the couch to snuggle when mom and dad aren’t home. These things make me feel happy. So what are you thankful for? Grrr Attitude rocks!

Ask the Expert / Health ///////// preted as yeast by the immune system. This inflammatory reaction is referred to as yeast syndrome. Yeast syndrome is characterized by: abdominal bloatBy Laurie Blanscet, D.O. ing, headaches, mood disorders, fatigue, skin complaints, poor memory, poor concentration, and often a craving for Tina*, 41, came to An Optimal You sweets. You may have a few or all of the symptoms. It can seeking treatment for peri-menopausal be difficult to diagnose and since these symptoms can be symptoms, but she also complained caused by more something more serious, it’s important to about abdominal bloating and pain get an adequate work up. she’d been having for many years. Her When I suspect yeast syndrome, I have the patient get previous physician told her that she a food allergy test along with a colonic to see if there is in probably had irritable bowel syndrome fact a yeast overgrowth. This helps to determine the best (IBS) and nothing could be done. course of therapy. Patients with Chronic Fatigue When we discussed her medical history and symptoms, Syndrome, fibromyalgia, rheumatoid arthritis, sinusitis, I learned that she also suffered from body aches, spastic colon and other autoimmune diseases have been headaches, occasional skin rashes, depression, and fatigue shown to have abnormally high levels of yeast. for many years. Some of these A “yeast cleanse” helps to restore symptoms had worsened recently the balance of the healthy bacteria 10 common symptoms of candida overgrowth due to peri-menopause (the changin the gut and should be monitored ing of hormones around the time of feeling tired and worn down or suffering from by a practitioner who understands menopause). These symptoms were chronic fatigue or fibromyalgia. yeast syndrome. As the yeast dies, not a figment of her imagination and off most people experience flu-like digestive issues such as bloating, she just wanted to feel good again. symptoms (until the body elimiconstipation, or diarrhea. Tina’s previous doctor had done nates the dead yeast cells) before skin issues such as rashes, eczema, a complete work up including labs, feeling better. psoriasis, and/or hives. ultrasound, CT scan, and upper and Treating candida effectively lower endoscopy, which appeared poor memory, difficulty concentrating, add/adhd, requires following a diet with low normal. Typically when testing or brain fog. sugar intake, taking potent probiappears normal, traditional medicine otics (the good bacteria), and takmood swings, irritability, anxiety, or depression. will stop there and assign a label ing natural or prescription strong cravings for sugar or refined carbohydrates. such as IBS, chronic fatigue, etc. anti-fungal medication: typically a Integrative medicine looks one to two month process. After skin/nail fungal infections deeper. When testing looks normal (including athlete’s foot or toenail fungus) two months of following her cusbut symptoms persist, we look for tomized anti-yeast protocol and autoimmune disease such as Lupus, scleroderma, additional clues in diet and lifestyle. bio-identical hormone optimization multiple sclerosis, psoriasis, rheumatoid arthritis, With Tina’s symptoms, I suspected regimen, Tina’s symptoms are now there might be a problem with food ulcerative colitis, psoriasis, or hashimoto’s thyroiditis. a thing of the past! Tina was willsensitivities or candida overgrowth Urinary tract infections, vaginal or rectal itching. ing to commit to her health and she (which have similar symptoms). now feels better than she has in itchy ears or severe seasonal allergies. Yeast, or candida, is a normal years! inhabitant of the intestines, but an overgrowth can cause problems in both men and women. *Name has been changed to protect privacy. When a person takes oral contraceptives, antibiotics, Dr. Laurie Blanscet owns and operates a concierge medical antacids, or steroids, it kills off healthy bacteria in the gut practice specializing in anti-aging, bioidentical hormones & allowing candida to grow unchecked. People who have integrative health. diabetes, food sensitivities and allergies, as well as those who smoke may also have an imbalance in their gut bacteria. Since yeast feeds on sugar, those who consume a high sugar diet (including natural sugars from fruit) are also at greater risk of yeast overgrowth. The overgrowth of yeast causes inflammation in the lining of the intestines. The body becomes hypersensitive Laurie Blanscet, D.O. – An Optimal You to the candida and pumps out antibodies to fight off the 29995 Technology Dr, Ste 201 | Murrieta, CA 92563 yeast. It is believed that antibodies intended to fight the candida attack the tissues in the body, which are misinteranoptimalyou.com | 951-541-3577

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a Taste of the

American Spirit I

By Brittany Rose

f you’ve heard it once you’ve heard it a thousand times, “Temecula is growing, yet still has a small town feel.” Why is that? One reason is because of the type of businesses it attracts; businesses like Richie’s Real American Diner, owned by patriotic couple, Linda and Jack Williams. Linda is a southern girl from Alabama and Jack grew up in Texas. Both grew up in cultures where good, old-fashioned manners were not just important, they were essential. After Jack completed his service in the Marine Corps. the couple decided California was where they

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wanted to raise their family. Married 60 years, this sweet duo has spent 57 years of that time in the food service industry. The Williams’ made food service a family affair. At one point they owned 35 Sizzler restaurants! Their four children each put in time to understand the business, working there during high school and college. Today, Two of their four children are in the restaurant business. Jack and Linda’s expertise comes from working side-by-side with some of the greats. Richie’s Diner was named after their dear Christian friend Rich Snyder, who

was the owner and CEO of In-NOut before he passed away. They also rubbed elbows and became friends with Colonel Sanders of KFC and Carl Karcher of Carl’s Jr. Most notably they joined Jim Collins and helped develop the Sizzler concept. This experience gave the Williams’ the know-how to start something unique to Temecula: a restaurant featuring country cooking and small town values. Like the aforementioned restaurants, Richie’s is a Sliver Plate recipient. This prestigious award is equivalent to an Academy Award for restaurants! The Silver Plate award

validates their decision 23 years ago to offer the Temecula community a seat at their table. ‘Pleasin’ People,’ may be the shortest mission statement ever, but it has helped the staff to remember their focus. “We realized early on that we don’t serve food, we serve people. And we do it with all our hearts,” Jack and Linda agree. Their mission extends to everyone that walks through their doors including customers, team members and vendors; all are greeted with a smile and welcomed with love. Richie’s is not a themed diner; rather it’s an ode to the USA. “We love America, and we love to provide a place that celebrates it.” Although red, white and blue are ever present, Linda changes the décor with each season like a host preparing for a dinner party. Her favorite wall is dedicated to those that serve in the United States military. Good ol’ fashion values is what being part of the Richie’s family is all about. “We teach our staff to show respect and dignity to each person, and it comes back ten-fold.” Jack and Linda lead by example, filling coffee cups and opening the door for each friend that enters.

The team members seem to love Richie’s Diner too. Many of their team members used to be young customers that came in with parents or grandparents. Many of the wait staff and kitchen staff have been with the diner for over a decade and general manager, Jorge Chavez, has been working alongside the Williams’ for over 30 years! “Many of our team members have come to the United States for the ‘American Dream’. They are all citizens and support their children through college. We’re proud to be a part of that.” Although Linda uses the same recipes she grew up with, she appreciates the input of others. “I love desserts, especially my German Chocolate Cake,” says Linda, “some of our recipes have come from our staff and customers. Everyone has influence in our kitchen,” Richie’s is a busy diner and it’s no wonder why. Their customers come from all over the US for their Linda’s fried chicken, pancake breakfasts, and of course, good oldfashioned malts. From groups of high school students that come in after a sports event to retired veterans who come to flirt with the wait-

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resses, Richie’s customers prove that a good meal is appreciated in every generation. Jack attributes their success to their loyal vendors and high quality ingredients. “We have found (in 57 years of business) when we are loyal to our vendors and we are willing to pay for the best ingredients like Omaha premium steaks, Heinz and Best Foods, our customers are happier and our vendors are loyal to us,” Jack explains. “It’s not about the cheapest ingredients, it’s about the best… and we serve the best.” From their table to yours, when you eat at Richie’s you never dine alone. A recipe of well-cared-for staff, southern hospitality and love are whisked into every meal. It’s why members of the community come to the diner for more than a bite to eat. The Williams’ have decided to trade a retirement full of golf courses and traveling to spend their time taking care of their guests at Richie’s Diner. “This is where we want to be every day. We love all of our friends that eat here and want them to feel celebrated as part of our lives.”

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The Buck Doesn’t Stop… Ever!

By Brittany Rose

ome people seem to be born with extreme adrenaline, pushing through life with fortitude that many cannot imagine. Meet David Buck, a husband, father, businessman, entrepreneur, coach, volunteer, and professional tennis player… and by the way, he happens to be paralyzed. This man makes Chuck Norris look like a couch potato! At 33 years old David Buck delighted in the extreme. He practiced martial arts with a master, played semi-pro hockey and was a skillful skier on both snow and water. He loves reminiscing about the 30-foot cliffs he soared over during his extreme skiing days. An avalanche changed his life forever; when he awoke in a hospital paralyzed from the waist down.

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“I was upset at first, but then I just wanted to have the best life possible.” “The low point,” he recalls, “was when the doctors would point to me, look at their students and say, ‘This is an example of a man who will never walk again.’” As if that weren’t enough, five years ago David Buck fell two stories in an elevator accident making him a quadriplegic. He still has use of his hands but nerve damage and pain are considerable. So what does a man do after two near-fatal accidents that render him paralyzed? David Buck decided to become a pro tennis player. “I was upset at first, but then I just wanted to have the best life possible. The fact is I play better tennis now then when I wasn’t paralyzed.” In the men’s quadriplegic division he’s ranked 9th in the world, and 3rd among men, for the national USA

team in the International Tennis Federation (ITF) League. He beams as he talks about his love for the game and his worldwide travels with his loving wife, Roma Ann Buck. David Buck doesn’t stop no matter what gets in his way. Every challenge he meets he conquers. Through his business, coaching, and volunteer service he helps others with paralysis do the same. “Today, I have a great life. I still ski, cycle, and play tennis.” Although David qualifies for the Olympics, it’s been tough to find sponsorship. “It’s difficult for some to understand that even from a wheelchair I play professional tennis.” Game on Chuck Norris, our own David Buck can do it all from a wheelchair!

Giving Murrieta Something to Smile About

Business Buzz / Valerie Scola /////////

By Valerie Scola, DDS

s a little girl, Valerie Scola spent a lot of time in her father’s dental office in Indiana, where she grew up. Her mom was the also office manager, so dentistry runs in the family. However, Valerie got a B.S. in Marketing and B.A. in Spanish and moved to the Bay Area to work for Sunset Magazine, before realizing dentistry was what she wanted to do to make a difference in the world. So she headed back to school and graduated (again) as a Doctor in Dental Surgery from Indiana University School of Dentistry! After working with her dad for a while, the warm California weather brought Dr. Scola and her family to Murrieta where she purchased her practice. The office was everything she was looking for and was known for being one of the gentlest places in town, as well as giving high quality service for over 20 years. Dr. Scola is pleased to continue offering the same high quality professional care, treating patients with the

newest and best technology to keep appointments as short as possible while keeping her guests comfortable and relaxed during their treatment. Dr. Scola has always been sensitive to patients who need extra TLC and a gentle touch. Many people who have had a bad past experience have a fear of the dentist. Rather than downplaying their feelings, she truly listens to them and addresses their concerns at a pace in which they feel comfortable. Her goal with a fearful patient is to get them coming in regularly so they can build a relationship of trust and confidence. Keeping up on regular maintenance is important to reduce the risk of painful problems in the future. She takes her time to meet each patient’s specific needs, while making sure they are at ease and comfortable. This has led patients to trust her to handle their dental work with tender and compassionate care. Dr. Scola also has an amazing staff that has been helping her patients for years.

Her patients rave about how great they are! Besides the gentleness Dr. Scola is known for, patients who need to see a gum specialist love the fact that they can do so right in her office where they are comfortable. Valerie regularly has one of Southern California’s leading periodontists in her office so patients don’t have to drive an hour to go to an office they may not be as familiar with. Another thing Dr. Scola loves about her work is educating patients. She believes that a patient and a dentist must work together for the best oral health. Setting goals to improve habits has many of her patients smiling more than ever as they see the results of good oral hygiene. “Everyone is unique and has different interests and needs,” says Dr. Scola. “It’s fun to help people achieve their goals, no matter how big or small.” Dr. Scola is not only a capable dentist, but a wife and a mother of four, successfully juggling her career and family. She and her husband are very involved in the community and schools. She is grateful for the example of patient-centered care that her parents modeled for her and is delighted to provide the same classic care to the community of Murrieta.

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house is more than walls and a roof, sheltering individuals from harsh weather conditions. A house is a refuge; a place to commune with loved ones and plan lives. Temecula is like a garden, with homes sprouting up throughout the valley. In 2012 a very special house popped up and opened its doors to residents and visitors to the community. Jacob’s House is a non-profit hospitality house that takes in families during difficult medical circumstances, while a loved one is in the hospital. Founders, Shawn and Stephanie Nelson modeled the house after the Ronald McDonald house, where they stayed in 1996 after their daughter was in a near fatal car accident. Ten years later they tragically lost their son, Jacob, in a car accident at the age of 24. As the Nelson family connected with others who were grieving the loss of a loved one, they realized there was no safe haven in the in Temecula Valley where family members could stay near the hospital and their loved one. They made it a goal to create Jacob’s House to serve their hometown. Community support abounded and many volunteers worked to make that dream a reality. Located near Temecula Valley 20

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“A comfortable place to stay can help make the journey of a family’s crisis more bearable.” Parkway, Jacob’s House partners with all the local hospitals to provide all of the amenities of home for families undergoing medical emergencies. “We know that the journey of a crisis is difficult and emotionally exhausting. A warm shower, a warm meal, and a comfortable place to stay can help make the journey of a family’s crisis more bearable.” said Linda Mejia, Executive Director. Linda had also experienced the loss of her son, and was a key part of making the dream of a hospitality house a reality. Built on a foundation of “hope, comfort, peace and inspiration,” the four-bedroom, single family home comfortably accommodates multiple families. Under one roof, families can address their immediate financial, spiritual, and logistical needs. Each guest has a private room key, access to well-tended gardens and spacious communal living areas to help provide peace amongst the chaos. When the Bunsen family of Chicago was notified that their daughter was admitted to a local Hospital with stage-four cancer, they hurried to their daughter’s side. Their stay at Jacob’s House allowed them to be close by while relieving the financial burden of hotel. It was

a gift to spend their daughters last days together as a family, without the added stress of living out of a hotel room. This wonderful beacon of hope is supported through community partners, corporate sponsors and the philanthropic support of generous individual donors. Many of their supporters have experienced the loss or near loss of a family member, and have determined to help relieve the burdens of those who will walk that same path. Jacob’s House has been built in Temecula to serve the valley and it’s four local hospitals. This “home” took six years to become a reality. Through trials, pain and loss, has come a place of warmth, peace, and love. Jacob’s House stands ready to provide shelter to all who have need of its sanctuary.

Temecula, CA 92592 www.jacobshousetemecula.org (951) 4-JACOBS (951) 452-2627 Call for information on volunteering or for a tour.

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Country Doc LARRY BOGGELN, MD

By Tracy Blanscet

hen Dr. Larry Boggeln came to Temecula in 1987, it was still a small town with only one stoplight. After serving in the Navy, he welcomed the slow pace and looked forward to serving his new community with personal care, delivered the old fashioned way: through house calls. A man of service, imbued with a hefty dose of compassion, his practice reached its capacity in only six months, as the city’s population boomed. Always a man with a heart to serve, Dr. Boggeln, chose a career in medicine because he felt he could help the most people as a doctor. “I think that God put me on Earth for a reason. My drive is to seek His wisdom in all that I do,” Dr. Boggeln explains. Besides his private practice, Larry serves as the Medical Director of the Visiting Nurse Association (VNA) and for Hill Recovery, an outpatient substance

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abuse program. He also serves as the Chairman of the Board for Temecula Valley Hospital and on the Board of Directors for Jacob’s House, a local nonprofit similar to a Ronald McDonald House. In his spare time he volunteers with the Boy Scouts of America, coaches Little League, and teaches religious education at St. Martha’s. Having a busy family practice with a specialty in palliative care, Dr. Boggeln feels grateful to practice medicine the way he envisioned: bringing comprehensive, continuing care to the families of the Temecula Valley. Although he no longer includes obstetrics in his practice, he delivered over 750 babies while in the Navy! These days most of his patients see him in one of the four local hospitals or when he makes house calls to the homebound, but he still sees patients in his Temecula office several times a month. For more than 25 years, Larry Boggeln has been serving the needs of our valley. He is cherished by patients, respected by professionals in his field, and adored by his community. His outstanding reputation is well deserved!

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Last month more than 40 volunteers participated in Habitat for Humanity Inland Valley’s neighborhood revitalization project in Sun City. “A Brush With Kindness” is an exterior home preservation program that provides painting, landscaping and minor repair for low-income homeowners impacted by age, disability and family circumstances, Habitat for Humanity Inland Valley’s Mary Stein said. “Applicants struggle to maintain the exterior of their homes, and many receive code citations, or association fines. We have seen the demand for this program increase dramatically over the past 18 months, and we are hoping to be able to continue to expand our work in this area.” Along with Habitat for Humanity Inland Valley volunteers, groups from Mountain View Community Church, the Vista Murrieta High School Habitat for Humanity Club and United States Marine Corps volunteers from 29 Palms participated in the event that spruced up five homes in the community, performing everything from weed removal to whole house painting. The impact of the good deeds provided by the program were felt by homeowner Denise Barnes, who had broken her wrist recently attempting to remove weeds and cut back shrubs from her front yard. “I am overwhelmed,” Barnes said as she watched Vista Murrieta students remove those weeds and paint her house. “These are good girls, good boys, I mean they’re really working. They are doing me the biggest favor that I could ask for.”

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Holiday Family Gatherings

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A Great Time for Eldercare Discussions

By Catharine Shepard

Co-Founder of Senior Care Referral Specialists, Inc.

olidays are a natural time for families to gather together, presenting an opportunity to jointly address the needs of aging parents or relatives. But what are the best guidelines to promote conversation in a positive, cohesive, and productive manner? With many variables including potentially differing thoughts on care options, it is important to create a plan of action. This is a process, and typically, everything cannot be addressed in one meeting. It’s generally best to start with an initial discussion to lay the groundwork. Include key members involved in the lives of those needing care – whether it be children, siblings, close relatives, trusted friends or religious advisors. Set a meeting time and place that is clear for all involved, and keep it free from distractions. This first meeting should address evidence of care need, types of care options, the pros and cons of such a transition, finances if known, and each person’s potential role in the process. These roles could include coordinating efforts, overseeing research, and gaining an understanding of the available finances. If left to one person, it is a recipe for misinterpretation, miscommunication, and stress. Having everyone on the same page, with a willingness to compromise, will help reduce potential confusion in future discussions with the elderly family members in need.

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Everyone should be heard, and the focus kept on the best solutions for your loved ones. If family dynamics make this type of discussion difficult, it may be advisable to have a neutral third party involved – such as a social worker or other eldercare professional. Next, set a time for a few of the key group to meet with the elderly family members in need. This can happen soon after the initial meeting or within a reasonable period of time. This meeting is simply to express concern and explore options that can help them handle changes as they are aging. Putting yourself in their shoes will help you be sensitive in your approach. Sharing the family’s concerns and asking for their input and ideas will help them feel empowered rather than victimized. Discuss the pros and cons of various care options with them directly. Be prepared to offer ideas and gain an understanding of their perspective. Resistance is common, so focusing on “planting ideas” rather than making final plans is paramount at

this stage. Respecting the dignity of their right to their own choices about their life is critical to reaching a successful solution. Finally, keep an eye on your loved ones. Be sure someone continues to monitor the situation for further decline, whether it’s a family member, a neighbor, or a home care provider. Commit to regular discussions (perhaps quarterly) among the key people involved in your first meeting to stay current with your loved ones’ needs, and keep the process moving forward. Engage your elderly loved ones in the process by implementing short term solutions and long term planning. For guidance on how to accomplish this, reach out to professionals in the eldercare industry. Do you have a question or concern about a senior in your life? SENIOR CARE REFERRAL SPECIALISTS, Inc. Phone: 951-824-8299 Email: help@SRcareinfo.com website: www.SRcareinfo.com

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few years ago while visiting my mom I found several shoe boxes filled with letters. The correspondence between my maternal grandmother and her mother was methodically organized by date, with each letter carefully placed back in the envelope it had come in. The letters were from the 40’s when my grandmother had left home for the first time around the age of twenty. Their handwriting and wording were similar, but each had a distinctive style. The postage was just three cents and each envelope was stamped just one week apart from the last, give or take a day. They never missed a week during the six-month period. They chatted about what they were going to have for dinner and asked questions about cooking times or the cost of certain items. They talked about relatives, friends, and work. It was a glimpse into the lives of these two women. I had never met my great-grandmother and my grandmother passed when I was very young; yet I felt like I got to know them through the letters they left behind. Both were ambitious, beautiful women with a tendency to be feisty at times. In today’s world of electronic everything, we don’t often save our letters to read over again. In fact, many of us probably don’t even know the cost stamp today! As our emails, texts, and instant messages disappear into cyberspace, we don’t pause to consider the future generations that may never know us! In this disposable time, our words may just be tossed out with the trash, when

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the computer crashes; destined to sit in some landfill. Many years ago, I was a missionary. Though I was not so far from here, it was far enough that I felt incredibly isolated from my loved ones at home. I wrote letters to my friends daily, detailing my adventures and prayed every day that I would get one or two in return. When I did, I would carefully tuck it under my pillow and read it over and over again, clinging to the words of encouragement. Later while I was away at college, my roomies and I would get together often to write letters to family members, friends that had moved away, or even to each other. We knew that even a short note of encouragement or gratitude would bring a smile to the recipient’s face. Letter writing is an art. It is thoughtful and takes time to craft, but what a kind way to show someone that they are worth your time! In this fast-paced age, why not take an afternoon to sit down with your family or friends and write a letter or two expressing appreciation, encouragement, or compassion?? Let someone know you are thinking of them! Or better yet, make it a habit!

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very morning students in the Advanced TV/Digital Class film the Rams Daily News under teacher, Timeree Kristell’s guidance. The newsroom at Mesa is impressive! Each student has a role, whether as a reporter, cameraman, writer, or film editor. Positions rotate so that students can gain experience in all aspects of news production. This teen-aged crew is learning to work in a professional environment with daily deadlines to meet. There are many moving parts to a news crew. In the “studio,” anchors sit in front of a green screen, reading from a teleprompter. The green screen allows editors to create a virtual set, (placing any background behind the anchors after the recording). The outside crews cover school events; do Public Service Announcements; and even a daily weather report. Deadlines can be tough, since the show is produced in under two hours and played for the entire school during the next class period. But amidst the work and the hustle, there are moments of light-hearted banter as bloopers occur or a seemingly “regular” guy becomes a comedian on camera. In 10 years of teaching, Mrs.

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Kristell, has taught grades ranging from kindergarten to high school, all in the Murrieta Unified School District (MVUSD). Her positive outlook and passion for motivating students has not gone unnoticed. She was chosen as one of MVUSD’s Teacher of the Year 2013-14. Recently the Rotary Club awarded her a Vocational Service Award for highest integrity in a profession. Her own high school experience was rough. After being diagnosed with Hodgkin's Disease on the first day of her sophomore year, she spent a lot of time in hospitals and eventually triumphed over her cancer. That experience has made her a valuable resource as the advisor for the Relay for Life Club, which supports the American Cancer Society. Mrs. Kristell recalls, “My best

subject was Computer Concepts, which was brand new for schools in the mid-80's.” Always a fan of technology, she is grateful to work in a Mac computer lab inspiring students to tap into their creativity. The class teaches 21st Century skills that are applicable to a work environment. Besides developing their writing and public speaking skills students learn to work as a team and are held accountable through time and work logs. Mrs. Kristell is a self-taught “techie,” evidence of her drive to learn. Her example has student’s imagining the possibilities and finding ways to achieve their goals rather than being held up by each new complication. Thank you to all of our educators, who share their experience and inspire a love of learning in Murrieta’s youth!

A Shield of Protection for the Small Business Owner

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By Samuel G. Lockhart, Esq

am frequently asked whether it’s better to form a Corporation or a Limited Liability Company. When posed with this question I typically respond in true lawyerly fashion with, “It depends.” When you are operating a business without a legal entity, you are referred to as a “sole proprietorship.” A sole proprietorship is less complicated: tax returns are easier to prepare, there are no corporate formalities to follow, and there’s no annual franchise tax. However, as a sole proprietorship you are also personally liable for your business’s debts and liabilities. In other words, if you lose a lawsuit filed against your business, the resulting judgment will be collected from you as an individual. There is no legal separation between you and your business.

[Forming a Business Entity] Some owners are motivated to form a corporation or limited liability company (LLC) based on the belief that an “Inc” or “LLC” following the business name legitimizes their business. While this is not the case, becoming incorporated or an LLC can be a “liability shield,” offering protection to the business owner personally. The liability shield is the same whether you form a corporation or an LLC. In these two cases if a company was sued and lost, the judgment would generally be collectible only against the business and not the individual. A company’s liability shield is commonly referred to as its “corporate veil.” In short, a corporate veil separates you, the individual, from the business in terms of liabilities. As a corporation or LLC you need to ensure that you follow certain rules to ensure your corporate veil remains intact in the event of a lawsuit. If these rules aren’t followed, your companies debts could become your own! The Court looks at a number of factors when determining if a corporate veil should be disregarded. Some of the more common factors include: • Mixing company money with your own (commingling funds)

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• The use of funds for something other than corporate uses (i.e. groceries on a company credit card) • Failing to file your Statements of Information • Failure to adequately capitalize a corporation (i.e. having $40,000 in liabilities but keeping $500 in the company bank account) • The use of a corporation as a mere shell • The failure to maintain arm’s length relationships among related entities (i.e. Company A needs money so you take from Company B and pay Company A’s debts) You may be operating your business through a legal entity already, but neglecting certain rules and weakening the corporate veil. A few minutes with a good business attorney will help you understand what changes need to made, if any, to keep a business’s liabilities separate from individual assets. Consulting with both an experienced business attorney and a Certified Public Account prior to forming a legal entity is crucial to ensure you form the type of legal entity that is best suited for your business. These two professionals will also be an invaluable resource for questions and help preserve a company’s corporate veil. PH: (951)461-8878 FAX: (951)823-5715 41856 IVY STREET, STE 207 MURRIETA, CA 92562 MyMurrietaMag.com |

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Citizens Police Academy

Have you ever wanted to know what it’s like out there for our Murrieta Police Department? You have the opportunity to find out, first hand, at Murrieta’s own, Citizens Police Academy. The ten-week workshop includes a bit of everything: SWAT operations, patrol tactics, criminal investigations, and even ride-alongs. The Citizens’ Academy is open to Murrieta residents who pass a background check and a basic interview. For more information please call Corporal Matt Mozingo at 951.304.2677 ext. 6856.

Changing Lives

The Salvation Army Adult Rehabilitation Center (ARC) is a free program where men can gain tools to overcome addiction and change their lives. One of the things the ARC is in need of for the men is flip-flops that can be worn in the shower. They can be found for under $5/pair at many stores and would be a huge blessing to the men. They are in need of about 200 pairs. Any size will do, but the most needed are size 9 13 (or L-XL). If you can donate one pair or 50. Please drop off your donation at the Murrieta Chamber of Commerce located next to Ashley Furniture at 25125 Madison Avenue, Suite 108, Murrieta, CA 92562.

Virtual Enterprise Golf Tournament

Murrieta Valley High School’s Virtual Enterprise (VE) is an exceptional program in which students create a simulated business from the ground up. Led by a consultant (teacher) and advised by various real business partners around the community, students engage in all aspects of a business venture, from the creation of a business plan, marketing plan, and financial statements, to the daily operations of a business from their respective departments. Last year, their Business Plan Team advanced to and placed fourth at the nationals in New York City. VE’s ambitious students have gained not only confidence, but valuable real-world skills through the program. An exciting opportunity to support these future leaders of our community presents itself on Monday, November 24th. On that day, the MVHS Virtual Enterprise will be hosting its Inaugural Golf Tournament at Temecula Creek Inn. Your support as a player/sponsor/prize donor makes a difference in our community and nation, by encouraging hands-on leadership for our youth and future business leaders. Donations directly benefit the MVHS Virtual Enterprise business venture. For event information and announcements, please visit mvhsvirtualenterprise.wordpress.com or email jlevin@murrieta.k12.ca.us

Ms. Veteran America Contest

Congratulations to MSJC nursing student, Stephanie Vasquez, who made it to the finals in the Ms. Veteran America: The Woman Beyond the Uniform competition. The event, held Oct. 12 in Virginia, is organized by Final Salute Inc. to raise money for homeless female veterans and raise awareness of the issue. Stephanie served in the U.S. Army for nine years before being honorably discharged. Way to go Ms. V!

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