Where Tails are Always Waggin’ Waggin TEMECULA PET SALON | HOPE'S CHEST | HIGHER EDUCATION
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departments 5 Publisher's Note
Cover Story 6 Temecula Pet Salon
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Special Features 16 MSJC 17 University of Redlands 18 St. John’s University 22 Public Notice 24 American History
Rising Star 10 Taylor Lawson
Ask the Expert 13 Behavioral Health 25 Law
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Meet Your Neighbor 20 Jan Duran
Blazing Tales 14 Swim
Business Buzz 26 Hope’s Chest
Take Note 29 State of the City
Community Corner 30 Local Happenings
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always seems to pass so quickly. As we bound through toward another school year, be thankful that we have so many opportunities for quality education in our valley. Not only do we have the number one school district in the county, Temecula is within an hour’s drive of 22 public and private colleges and universities. We’ve featured a few of these colleges this month that are helping people reach for the stars! I am very passionate about having the opportunity to attend college. As I was raising 5 young children, returning to school was my biggest dream for years. I was thrilled to go back to school when the youngest started preschool. After obtaining a bachelor’s degree, I literally felt on top of the world! My college experience made me realize that I could really accomplish anything I set my mind to! Sometime I will elaborate a little more about that. Our furriest staff writer, Blaze is very excited about the cover story this month. He gives Temecula Pet Salon two paws up and a hearty wag of his tail. He has some an exciting summer adventure to share with his readers. See his story on page 14 to see what he's so proud of. With all the new drought restrictions we can expect to a lot of brown grass this year. Driving down the street I’m noticing which of my neighbors have read the drought information sent by the water companies and which are going to be shocked when their bill comes in the mail. Some are switching out their landscaping for something more suited for Temecula’s natural climate. My husband and I have just completed the rebate paperwork to remove/replace almost all of our grass. I was surprised to see that drought tolerant isn’t all cactus and rocks. It can still be beautiful. Speaking of heat, this month’s Rising Star is used to it; exploring a career as a fire fighter, Taylor Lawson has the heart of a hero already. Read her story on page 10. The recent “State of the City” address by Mayor Comerchero, highlighted that the city of Temecula, as a whole shows HEART through daily caring and kindness. Read an overview of his speech on page 29. An outpouring of that HEART was demonstrated recently as friends and neighbors lined freeway overpasses and local streets to salute and honor our Murrieta neighbor, Sergeant Eric Seaman. This fallen hero lost his life during a humanitarian mission to Nepal when his helicopter crashed. People came out in abundance to show love, support, and compassion to the family, as the procession passed from San Diego to Murrieta where Sgt. Seaman was laid to rest. What a touching display of red, white and blue.
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Where Tails are Always Waggin’ Waggin Temecula Pet Salon
Story by Tracy Blanscet Photos by Jennifer Demo Photography
hen Temecula Pet Salon owner, Stephanie Wilson, embarked on a journey to bring quality, boutique-style grooming at affordable prices to the
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Temecula Valley, she knew what kind of commitment it required. She had owned a successful grooming salon in Dana Point, which she sold before moving to Temecula. After relocating to Wine Country, Stephanie found herself wishing for a high quality groomer closer to her home. It wasn’t long before she decided she would be the one to
open a pet salon in her part of the city. Temecula Pet Salon is proud to celebrate one year of being in business, as of this June. Stephanie looks back over the last 12 months with a satisfied smile. “I knew how I wanted to operate my business,” she says. “I knew how I wanted the salon to look and feel, what products
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I wanted to carry, and how I wanted to serve the community… but it takes some time to find the right people.” Stephanie is proud of the team of providers she has who are focused on pets and their people. “One of our biggest compliments is when people tell us their pets really love to come in.” Stephanie is determined to help
pets that may have a fear of grooming to feel safe and secure. “This is why it is so important to find bathers and groomers who are truly gentle and loving with animals,” Stephanie explains. Gaining the trust of the pets they serve can make grooming a positive experience for the pets, the owners, and the staff. “Our whole setup is very open so
that an observer can see the animals at all times,” she relates. “I think it’s important that a pet salon is very transparent. There is no ‘back room’ here. A s a pet owner myself, it has always been important to me that I could see how my animals were being treated.” Holistic health is something Stephanie is very passionate about. She uses natural products for herself and has always chosen to use holistic, natural products with her animals as well. She carries the same high quality products at the salon that she has found work best on her own pets. “The ingredients you use on your body should be as safe as the products that you consume,” Stephanie explains. “If you can’t eat it, you shouldn’t be putting it on your body.” Another feature that Stephanie is proud to offer in the salon, are the walk in baths. It is the safest way to bathe an animal and these top-ofthe-line tubs sport a hydro surge bathing system which lifts hair and dander near the follicles to provide a longer lasting clean. Yet, the pricing is better than most chain stores! Stephanie and the rest of the team thrive on the rave reviews they’ve received from their client’s owners. Temecula Pet Salon is thrilled with their five star reviews on Yelp and really aims to set a new standard in the grooming industry. One owner shared that her newly adopted poodle was super skittish, but the staff really helped her puppy relax and stay calm. She loves how compassionate they are with their furry clients. Patience is absolutely essential in running a salon that animals actually enjoy. One pet peeve that Stephanie has, as a pet owner, is when you walk into a groomer and are greeted with a foul odor. “A pet salon doesn’t need to smell like a port-a-potty,” MyTemeculaMag.com |
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//////// Feature she explains. “Pay attention to this because a good salon has clean habits and should not smell bad. Visible cleanliness gives you a lot of insight to how the salon is run.” Walking into the Temecula Pet Salon is definitely a pleasant experience; clean and professional, the scent resembles the soothing smell of a day spa, with lavender, sage, and chamomile in the air. “The essential oils we use provide natural relief for anxiety,” Stephanie shares. In their 12 months of operation, the Temecula Pet Salon has expanded their service offerings to cater to their clients needs. Now open seven days a week, the salon offers pick up and drop off within 5 miles of the store, day boarding, and grooming for more than just dogs. In fact, they can make practically any animal look (and smell) their best including: cats, birds, and rabbits. A born animal lover, Stephanie has always found herself nurturing animals in need. Providing meaningful service to the pets of Temecula Valley residents has given her tremendous satisfaction. “I feel really good about creating an environment where pets can be treated with love and compassion while they are in our care,” Stephanie smiles. “Pets are loved like family, and it means so much to me that people trust us with their family.” Stephanie’s “family” of pets really brings joy to her life. She has five dogs that she has rescued or adopted and frequently fosters others for the Animal Friends of the Valley until a good home is found. She shares her home and 3 acres of adventure with Harley, a Husky mix; Kiki, a German Shepherd mix; Scruffy, a Terrier mix; Cooper, an American Eskimo mix; and her newly adopted Toy Pomeranian, Tuffers. Stephanie is passionate about pet adoption and supports others in
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adopting a furry family member by providing a FREE bath and brush in the first two weeks of adoption! She knows that many of these pets have come through difficult circumstances and is happy to provide their first grooming and make sure it’s a positive experience. Temecula Pet Salon has been a terrific addition to the city’s solid business community. Stephanie invites the residents to stop by with their pets and check out the shop. “Come and see for yourself what has Temecula’s tails wagging!”
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Girl on Fire
By Brittany Rose
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“Sugar and spice and everything nice; that’s what girls are made of.” his old adage certainly describes seventeen year old, Taylor Lawson; however, you’ll have to add a healthy dose of explosive ambition. As a junior at Great Oak High School, she’s taking the world by storm! Recently Taylor completed an all-female fire-fighter camp, called Camp Cinder. She not only graduated from the program, she was the Group Leader. Camp Cinder is a program sponsored by various donors, Cal Fire, City of San Luis Fire Department and Cal Poly to encourage young women to consider a career as a fire fighter. As Group Leader, she helped her teammates navigate a maze through a three-story building and rescue a life-size mannequin. Another simulation had the girls jumping off a moving jet ski to rescue a live person. “It was so cool!” Taylor exclaims. “I felt honored to lead the girls and did my best at every challenge.”
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Doing her best is the only option, as far as Taylor is concerned, an attitude she says her parents have modeled for her. Taylor’s father, Kevin Lawson, is a Chief Officer with Cal Fire. “He has never let me get away with things just because I’m a girl,” Taylor smiles. “But my mom is very soft and very smart and I want to be like both of them.” Her parents have supported her in reaching all of her goals, no matter how unattainable they may have seemed. Taylor displays a confidence that she has earned. She is also a track star and runs on three track teams, which means she runs 15 miles a day, five days a week. She and her Great Oak teammates have earned number one in the nation for cross country running this year! Her track and field team also qualified for state championships and landed number one in the nation. Way to go Great Oak! Although Taylor’s accomplishments are awesome, it is equally impressive that she has a very caring and compassionate nature. “She loves helping others,” says her mother, Leslie Lawson. “She’s very balanced and is always trying to
make those around her better too.” As a commissioner of the student body Taylor is very conscious of the feelings of others. She never wants anyone to feel alone. This mindfulness of others, earned her a trip to Florida for a WSB roundtable where some of the most active student leaders will explore bully-prevention in high schools around the U.S. Despite her current status, Taylor understands how hard making friends can be. When she started running she wasn’t very good. “Some of the older girls made fun of me because I wasn’t very fast and it was hard to stay positive.” Those experiences have helped her to be a voice of encouragement and support to other runners and students. While Taylor may be racing through high school, she’s been collecting many awards along the way. But what truly makes her an All-Star is her ability to lead and uplift those around her. When asked what is in store for her future Taylor gives a sly smile, “I want to be a hero. I want to know what to do when danger strikes.” No doubt we will see this young lady achieve whatever it is she sets out to do!
Osteoporosis – Do you know the facts? By Dr. Derek Albrecht
Osteoporosis is ranked second to cardiovascular disease as a global health problem by the World Health Organization. 50% of all women over 60 will suffer an osteoporotic fracture; 24% will die within 12 months from complications. Facts: 1) Osteoporosis is not strictly a disease affecting elderly! 2) calcium/supplements do not by themselves prevent or reverse osteoporosis 3) Walking, swimming, bicycling or even general “working out” will not prevent or reverse it 4) Most osteoporosis drugs merely decrease bone loss down 5) osteoporosis IS reversible through Osteogenic Loading and appropriate lifestyle changes. Call to schedule your FREE evaluation today MyTemeculaMag.com |
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Accounting for our Valley
Failure to fulfill the reporting requirements can strip an organization of its non-profit status. Smith Marion & Company is proud to have accountants whose sole focus is on nonprofits.
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rom churches to community sports to the local food bank, nonprofit organizations add a lot to our lives and the communities we live in. These organizations exist to provide services that are truly needed in a community and serve us in a variety of ways by providing education, spirituality, health, fitness, arts and culture, commerce, and social services. Not-for-profit entities are structured completely differently than the typical business and rely on contributions, fundraising, grants, and more for support. Since a nonprofit organization does not have owners or shareholders, their goals are different than other businesses. They focus on providing their service to the community. Their accounting is different than a for-profit business.
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Open to the Public. Non-profits accounting records are usually open to the public for inspection. This makes it imperative for the nonprofit to present their accounting records in a professional manner. Specialized Tax Return. A nonprofit organization is required to file a very specialized tax return. This tax return is heavily scrutinized by the Internal Revenue Service, especially since the events of 9/11. (The government wants to be sure nonprofit donations are not funding terrorism.) Applying for Grants. Many non-profits fund their programs through grants. Organizations that provide grant money may ask to see financial information and tax returns to determine if each particular nonprofit will qualify for the grant. The right accountant can help with your grant application by
adding key phrases and hotspots that get grantors excited about giving money to the organization! Auditing. Because of the size of some grants, the grantor may require the non-profit to have their books audited by a Certified Public Accountant. This service can only be provided by an independent CPA. Due to the unique accounting standards for non-profits it is important to get information from CPA’s well versed in the non-profit world. Federal requirements. Nonprofits that expend federal funds have additional reporting and compliance requirements. Failure to fulfill the reporting requirements can strip an organization of its non-profit status. Smith Marion & Company is proud to have accountants whose sole focus is on nonprofits. This is imperative If you know and love a local nonprofit, please feel free to share this article with them.
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istorically, psychology has attempted to help people by focusing on problems and dysfunction. Positive psychology is a relatively new field officially launched in 1998, which examines how the average person can be happier and lead a more tranquil, satisfying life. This shift from mental illness to mental health has demonstrated significant improvement in the lives of many people seeking mental health services. Positive psychology encourages people to identify and develop their own positive emotions, experiences, personal strengths, and traits, and reverse the focus from negative to positive. By shifting attention to the positive aspects of our work or family life, we can bring a better balance to our lives, develop a more optimistic outlook toward the future, and be more effective in our interactions, communications, and relations with others. Positive psychology complements traditional psychology methods by building one’s ability to find happiness while learning to identify and deal with unhealthy thoughts and behaviors. The principles of positive psychology can be useful in replacing negative thought patterns and can have benefits that reach beyond one’s mental state to one’s physical health. Validation of positive psychology through scientific study, eventually led the US Army to conduct it’s own studies. Many favorable out-
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comes were documented in soldiers who underwent a Comprehensive Resilience Program designed to increase social, emotional, spiritual and family strength. Extensive reporting on the program revealed that soldiers who received the training had greater psychological health over time than soldiers who did not receive the training. Also, those who received the training had 60 percent fewer diagnoses of drug & alcohol abuse and 13 percent fewer diagnoses of anxiety, depression, and Posttraumatic stress disorder. As a patient, it may be in one’s best interest to seek a psychologist trained to incorporate positive psychology principles in their practice. Here are some fundamental principles used in Positive Psychology: 1) We choose how we respond: It is not possible to always control the events in our lives, but it is possible to control our reactions. We can choose how to respond to these events, and we know responding in a positive, constructive manner is more valuable than a negative reaction. A simple example is our response when someone cuts us off in traffic – this is a good indicator of how we choose to react. 2) We can reverse the focus from negative to positive: We can redirect our thoughts away from self-limiting, negative self-talk and toward more positive, self-enhancing thoughts that enhance our self-confidence, personal well being, and happiness. 3) We can look for the positive events: Reflecting on the positive experiences of the day is a calming
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activity, especially as we retire for the evening. If we take the time to recall a few positive events in our day that we experienced or caused, we will experience peace, calmness, and confidence as we go off to sleep. 4) Finding the positive in others: Positive psychology also means looking for and complimenting the positive qualities that we observe in others. In this way, we enhance the lives of others, while creating positive feelings in ourselves. 5) We are today the result of our past thinking, and we shall be what we are thinking today: Positive psychology uses the Law of Attraction as a major principle. Law of Attraction brings us what we have created with our own thought processes; like attracts like. In other words, we are consistently creating and re-creating ourselves. Start with these five steps and pay attention to the positive changes that follow! Dr. Joseph M. Casciani is a psychologist with over 30-years of experience in working with older adults. He is President of Concept Healthcare, a multi-state group of mental health practitioners delivering services in outpatient practices in addition to residential, skilled nursing and assisted living facilities. CONCEPT HEALTHCARE 31045 Temecula Parkway, Ste 206 Temecula, CA • 951-225-1350 Questions@cohealth.org
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The Bravest Dog in the World
Hey, it’s me - your favorite dog, Blaze! These summer days are sure hot. But I have some very exciting news… This week, I learned how to swim! Here’s how it happened. The day was over a hundred degrees. All of my people decided to go for a swim. They sure looked like they were having fun. But I wasn’t. I was walking back-and-forth along the edge of the pool and my feet were really hot. I wanted to be part of the fun, but I never learned how to swim. As I was pacing, the little guy said, “Come here, Blaze. Come swimming with us.” He reached for me but I dodged him. I was not going to be tricked into getting a bath. But, as I watched my people laughing and playing with a ball, I really wanted in on that fun. So, I walked right up to the edge of the pool, sticking my paw out when the ball came my way. The kids got excited. “He wants 14
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to play,” they laughed. One of them said, “Here Blaze, just stick your feet in.” I touched the water with one paw. Brrrr! The kids kept clapping their hands until I stuck in another paw. Boy, were they excited! Usually this much clapping and excitement means I’m about to get a treat. So I stepped in with my back paws too. The kids were all around me, telling me what a good boy I was. So I started looking at all of their hands, wondering which one had my treat. I couldn’t find the treat… “Come on, puppy,” they all coaxed... I really wanted to play so I took another step. The crowd went wild. I paused letting them all praise me, pleased that the water only came up to the top of my legs. This is easy I thought walking with my head high and my chest a bit puffed. Splash!! I thought I was all they way in, but it turns out that was only another step. It was strange how my arms and legs started moving on their own. Mom says that was my instinct.
Water was splashing everywhere and my heart was pounding hard. Just as I began to panic, the college kid put his arms beneath me and lifted me up a bit. “Now just settle down, boy. You got this,” he said. Once I felt my brother holding me I did calm down and when I quit kicking so hard the water wasn’t splashing in my eyes anymore. “Blaze is swimming,” someone shouted. Sure enough, when my bro let go I was swimming all by myself! I just might be the bravest dog in the world! Or, at least the bravest dog in town... What’s up, world? I can swim!
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Another service provided is cabinet redooring, which is a great option for painted cabinets. It gives a kitchen or bath a fresh and affordable new look in just a couple of days. With their cabinet refacing option, you can revitalize your kitchen with new doors, drawer fronts and matching veneer, while keeping your existing cabinet boxes. This option offers thousands of door styles and finishes to choose from. Dick says, “If you’d like to change the layout of your kitchen, need special cabinetry or simply want a new and fresh look, we can help. With countless styles to choose from, we make it easy to create the kitchen of your dreams.” They also offer cabinet modifications and can add organization to existing cabinets and drawers.
For more information, or to schedule an in-home consultation and estimate, call Kitchen Tune-Up today at (951) 331-3090. Visit their website at kitchentuneup.com/palm-springs-ca.
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Congratulations to MSJC’s Class of 2015!
ivian Nedeltchev, 17, spent long hours in classrooms on her way to graduation. Frequent 12-hour days and summer school classes paid off when she graduated this year from high school AND Mt. San Jacinto College, where she earned five associate’s degrees! “It was a lot of work,” smiles Vivian, who began at MSJC as a dual enrollment student while in her sophomore year at Beaumont High School. Her associate’s degrees are in Liberal Arts- Social Behavioral Sciences; Social Behavioral Sciences; Liberal Arts- Mathematics & Science; Humanities; and Mathematics. Vivian will enter UC Berkeley to study math and computer science and plans to earn a doctorate degree. She intends to become a high school math teacher. Vivian joined hundreds of other MSJC graduates on Friday, May 29 for the 2015 commencement ceremonies at the Ramona Bowl Amphitheater in Hemet. In total, 1,219 students made up MSJC’s Class of 2015. The college awarded 1,854 associate’s degrees and 150 certificates for an impressive total of 2,004 combined degrees/certificates this year. Many students earn more than one degree or certificate or a combination of both each year. Though Vivian is on the younger side of the student body, MSJC has been a terrific starting point for a wide variety of people pursuing a wide variety of goals. What ever it is you dream of doing with your life, MSJC can be your first step to a new and better future!
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The University of Redlands, Temecula Attend our Open House on WEDNESDAY,
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AT 6PM s professional adults return to college to acquire the knowledge and skills they need to move forward in their career goals, many are finding that the University of Redlands, is just the right fit. This regionally accredited university has been ranked by Forbes as one of America’s Top Colleges. (See www.Forbes.com) Known as a pioneer in academic programs for working adults, the University of Redlands has set itself apart is by keeping classes accessible and flexible for adult students. Courses are held one night a week and are offered at a number of locations, including the local campus in Temecula. Education programs meet two nights a week. Billy and Kara Macrae, siblings from Temecula, are two students who have navigated the path of education in search of brighter futures. After attending Mt. San Jacinto College, both students transferred to University of Redlands School of Business, Temecula campus, in pursuit of their Bachelor of Science degrees. When they learned about the University of Redlands at a college transfer fair, they really liked the format. With eight campuses throughout Southern California, a 2.5-year BS program, and a convenient one-night-aweek schedule, both could continue to work their full-time jobs in management. The siblings have now graduated from the University of Redlands and hold supervisory positions with Inland Empire employers. Graduate & Professional Education at the University of Redlands offers undergraduate degree completion programs, graduate degrees in Business, Management, Education, Teacher credentialing programs and certificate programs through Continuing Studies. Individual courses and Continuing Studies certificates have no admission requirements or application; simply enroll online. These classes offer fully transferable credit toward an undergraduate degree. Applications are now being accepted for each of
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“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind…” Romans 12:2
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ne of the earliest distance learning universities in America, St. John’s University (SJU), is located right here in Temecula. It was founded in 1969 by Methodist Minister and Clinical Psychologist, Rev. E. Arthur Winkler, Ph.D. St. John’s University currently offers a comprehensive certification as well as graduate degree programs in Clinical Hypnotherapy to doctors, nurses, therapists, counselors, social workers, teachers, ministers and others. Hypnosis has been approved by the American Medical Association as a beneficial treatment modality since 1958. With so many studies demonstrating the value of this therapy, the American Psychological Association approved hypnotherapy
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as a treatment for psychological problems in 1960. The amazing power of the subconscious mind can be harnessed to manage or eliminate chronic physical pain, as well as emotional pain. The Mayo Clinic is one of many reputable teaching hospitals that utilize hypnotherapy in many areas of patient care. In addition to its educational programs, St. John’s University Counseling Services works directly with clients, many whom are returning veterans and their families. Many veterans are affected by Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, or PTSD, which can make returning to everyday life a challenge. Hypnotherapy can provide excellent results to those seeking to alleviate stress.
SJU was inducted into the International Hypnosis Hall of Fame in 1992 for their academic contributions. The comprehensive curriculum developed by Dr. Winkler over several decades, helped set the standard in the field of clinical hypnotherapy. Referring to her late husband, Dr. Pam Winkler explains, “A s a Methodist Minister and Clinical Psychologist, A rt devoted most of his life to learning about the principles of spiritual healing. In his pastoral counseling, he sought to apply the scripture found in Romans 12:2 ‘Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.’” Dr. Pamela Winkler has administrated the university since 1987. Arthur Winkler hypnotized over
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35,000 individual clients during his life and as a result was able to gather a large body of research. The educational material gathered and has helped so many people; more than he could’ve ever imagined. Dr. Art’s amazing work with the subconscious mind was well publicized during his life and continues to help others discover healing physically, mentally, and spiritually. He was a guest lecturer at numerous state universities and private colleges and over several decades and authored 28 books about the healing power of the mind. Although the two most frequent uses of hypnotherapy are for smoking cessation and weight management, the inner mind can resolve all sorts of problems. “The power of the subconscious seems to be unlimited,” shares Dr. Pam. She rattles off a list of benefits, which she has personally seen in clients treated with hypnosis. • improve self-confidence, memory, and learning abilities • stop snoring, sleep apnea and insomnia • overcome fear or anxiety, panic attacks, and phobias • overcome addictions such as alcoholism and gambling • habit control for smoking, nail biting, etc. • personal empowerment in many areas including business success • and managing stress Although distance learning is commonplace in our time, when Dr.
Art founded SJU, his comprehensive certification and degree programs for primarily health care professionals and therapists were well ahead of their time. In 1969, SJU was one of the first St. John’s University universities to offer an entire gradu40945 County Center Drive ate degree program through distance Suite H learning. SJU continues to blend the Temecula, CA 92591 high standards of traditional acawww.sjunow.org demic values with the convenience of professionally filmed DVDs and 951-599-7550 state of the art subliminal self-healing materials. ▲▲▲▲▲▲▲▲▲▲▲▲▲▲▲▲▲▲ New students enjoy open enrollment and can begin their first course S.J.U. has been the “Smoke Free at any time during the spring, sumA merica!” This program enables mer or fall semester. Courses are health care agencies, hospitals, small self-paced, enabling students to companies, and even large corporacomplete their programs while taktions to create a smoke free work ing care of work and family responenvironment. Dr. Pam explains confidently, sibilities. Since the start, St. John’s University has enabled students to “Most clients are smoke free after pay for courses as they are completjust one hypnotherapy session. The ed, allowing each student to be total- program utilizes group and individly debt free from upon graduation. ual sessions which are carefully Another popular program offered integrated to enable companies to by SJU is the High School Equivalbecome smoke free in a short ency program. This national testing amount of time.” service, first offered in 1969, is a proctored one-day examination also For more information on the offered at the university’s corporate educational programs offered at office in Temecula. Individuals are St. John’s University in Temecula or eligible for this program if they are to learn more about the counseling a minimum of 18 years of age. The services available, please contact exam meets the requirements for Dr. Pam Winkler today! entry to community colleges, all branches of the U.S. military, and St. John’s University 40945 County Center Drive, Ste H numerous employers. Temecula, CA 92591 One of the most far-reaching www.sjunow.org • 951-599-7550 community programs offered by MyTemeculaMag.com |
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hen Jan Duran married her husband Rich in 1996, she had some known fertility issues, but they were happy with their marriage, careers and two cats. In 1997, Jan and Rich attended a Children’s Fair at Costco and were introduced to California Family Life Center, a private foster care agency. Learning about the need for foster care, opened up their minds to some new possibilities. The two discussed the prospect of providing foster care… after all they lived in a four-bedroom house. They had the space in their home and in their hearts, so they started down a new road together, taking parenting classes and foster care training. Shortly after they were certified in early 1997, they were presented with their first child, Desiree. She was 10 and fit into their family easily. Later that same year came a second daughter, 15-year-old, Erica. Jan and Rich found a lot of joy with their little family. More than two years later, they got a call from the foster agency asking if they would be willing to provide temporary care for three young siblings. So, they welcomed Angelina, 4; Joseph, 7; and Carlos, 9. The two-week “temporary stay” became four and then six weeks. Christmas was getting close, but the couple had avoided much prepara-
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tion, concerned that the younger children would be moved elsewhere before they were able to participate. As Christmas loomed closer and closer, the kids started asking questions. Are we going to get a tree? Do we get to hang up stockings? The question from the youngest, of the children, choked Jan up the most. Worried, 4-year-old Angelina asked, “What if Santa doesn’t know where to find us?” Later that evening, Jan couldn’t help the tears. “No child should have to worry about these things,” Jan remembers thinking. Rich declared, “I think we should keep them.” They called the foster agency the next morning to try to make it happen. Jan and Rich took legal guardianship early on with adoption following a few years later. Now, with all five of their children grown and out on their own, the couple is enjoying the next phase of life as grandparents of four, with another on the way. Of course, Jan’s loving heart is not just shared at home. She serves our community in many capacities. Over the past eight years, Jan has been a very active member of
Professional Women’s Roundtable (PWR), and is a past CEO of the group. “I’ve met some of the most amazing women in PWR and feel privileged to have been mentored by some of them,” Jan shares. She welcomes the opportunity to mentor others, as well, and hopes to emulate the charitable women she has looked up to. Another organization that is close to Jan’s heart is Safe Alternatives for Everyone (SAFE) where she has served on the Executive Board of Directors for the last six years. Their mission is to end family violence by providing services to at risk families. Jan also sits on the Board of Governors for the Southwest Healthcare System. She is excited to contribute to our community’s most innovative healthcare provider for women’s health, neonatal intensivecare unit (NICU), and Riverside County’s only trauma center. In addition to all this service, Jan is the sales executive for Granite Escrow, in Temecula. Jan Duran is not just a servant; she is a leader. We salute this wonderful member of our community and hope that all of Temecula will have the opportunity to meet this inspiring neighbor.
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Mandatory Water Reduction in Effect!
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With the mandatory cuts imposed by Governor Brown, each of the Water Districts that serve the Temecula Valley have issued warnings to local residents about the changes. Just to reiterate, all of the districts are requiring residential customers (that’s you) to cut their outdoor water use by 50%. In addition, your water budget has changed considerably, so be sure to look at your next bill carefully. The Rancho California Water District, which serves most of Temecula has declared a “Stage 4a Extreme Water Supply Warning.”
Just in case you’ve missed the notices, there are some new rules with ALL of the local water districts. Check with your water company to get the specifics, but here are the basics you’ll need to observe to avoid penalties: • Excessive water flow or runoff is not allowed • No washing personal vehicles at your home • No water for decorative fountains may be used (even if recirculating) • Install pool/spa cover to minimize evaporative water loss (some districts are not allowing refilling or adding water to an uncovered pool) Some Water districts also require • No daytime irrigation of landscaping (check with your district for hours allowed) • Use a broom instead of a hose to clean driveways, sidewalks and other hardscape surfaces. (Depends on water district whether voluntary or mandatory.) • Also, be aware that restaurants, hotels, cafes, and other food
and beverage establishments are not allowed to serve or refill drinking water except upon request.
But, it’s not all penalties and fines… Check your water district listed below to see how they are trying to help ease the discomfort of drought… There are several programs to help save you money on reducing your water usage, including rebates for switching to drip irrigation, high efficiency toilets, and replacing your turf with climate appropriate plantings. Be sure to take advantage of the FREE water use evaluation to get more specific recommendations on reducing your water.
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WESTERN MUNICIPAL WATER DISTRICT EASTERN MUNICIPAL WATER DISTRICT
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2270 Trumble Rd. Perris, CA 92570 (951) 928-3777 www.emwd.org
ELSINORE VALLEY MUNICIPAL WATER DISTRICT
31315 Chaney St Lake Elsinore, CA 92531 (951) 674-3146 www.evmwd.com
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Did John Wilkes Booth Escape? With the recent passing of the 150th
anniversary of Lincoln’s death last April, many historians are having another look at the infamous assassination. On April 14, 1865, while attending a play at Ford’s theater in Washington DC, Lincoln was shot by the actor John Wilkes Booth. After the assassination, Booth jumped to the stage declaring justice for the South by shouting “sic semper tyrannis!” Latin for Thus always to Tyrants! During the commotion, Booth stole a horse and escaped the city disappearing across the dark fields of Maryland. Back at the theater, Lincoln was carried across the street to a boarding house where he died the next morning at 7:22am. Nearly 2,000 Union soldiers were dispatched to hunt down the assassin. After two weeks they cornered Booth in a barn 75 miles from the nation’s capital. Booth was shot and killed and his body was brought back to Washington DC. The nation eventually moved on closing this dark chapter in our history. Forty-two years later in 1907, a Texas attorney named Finis Bates published a book called “The Escape and Suicide of John Wilkes Booth.” In it, he claimed that in 1870 one of his clients, John St. Helen, became seriously ill and asked Bates to send a message to his brother, Edwin Booth, if he did not survive his illness. St. Helen then confessed that he was in fact John Wilkes Booth. For next several weeks St. Helen relayed his story to Bates in great detail of how he
escaped Washington DC, evaded authorities and who was really killed in the barn by Union soldiers. This account is corroborated by two Union soldiers who knew Booth personally at the time Booth was allegedly killed and had stated that the body at the barn was not Booth. The doctor, who performed the autopsy on Booth’s body and knew Booth as a former patient, also made statements that he did not recognize the actor. St. Helen survived his illness but later committed suicide in 1903. Bates, convinced that St. Helen’s story was true, took legal custody of St. Helen’s body after his death and had it preserved as evidence that the United States government had allowed an assassin to escape. Nearly 112 years later, St. Helen’s preserved body can be found in a private collection in Virginia. The only remaining evidence that Booth may have escaped authorities.
Historian, Andrew Thompson was born and raised in Las Vegas, NV and eventually moved to Washington DC where he became a professional tour guide and researcher. He currently resides in Murrieta with his wife and two sons. Over the last 20 years Andrew has traveled across the country discovering a hidden treasure of forgotten American history. As the founder of Thompson Tours, a national touring company, his stories educate and entertain the small groups he accompanies on historically significant travels. 24
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Estate Planning:
an Introduction to Wills, Trusts, & Probate By Attorney, Rachel King
What do Jimi Hendrix, Heath Ledger and Sonny Bono have in common? Aside from celebri-
ty status none of these celebs were ready to leave this life so soon: all died without a will. In fact, rock legend Jimi Hendrix’s estate was held up in probate for over 30 years, and 20 of those years the estate was controlled by an attorney! 37 years after his death, Jimi Hendrix’s estate was still held up in court. Why? Because he didn’t have a will and people lined up to get what they felt was their share of his wealth. And yet this is not out of the ordinary. I met with a man who owned two successful businesses, had three adult children, two teenage step children, a home, and a rental property. He had just been diagnosed with cancer when we met and he con-
fessed that he hadn’t really prepared for something like this. He had no will or trust in place. Luckily for his family, it wasn’t too late, but many people do not have this kind of “notice.” Preparation is so important to providing direction and preserving assets for your family. Your estate includes all of your property and possessions, land, money and other things that you have full or part ownership in. If you pass away without a trust or a will, your estate will pass down to your heirs. Heirs are classified by their rank, title, and position in relation to one another. The order by which your heirs will inherit your estate is set by state statues. While heirs are being identified and their classification for inheritance is being determined, your estate remains untouchable in probate. California has “summary probate” for estates with a gross value under $150,000. All other estates must go through full probate. This can get very expensive as the costs and fees are set by state law (a percentage of the gross value of the estate). An estate that gets hung up in probate, like the Hendrix estate, wastes time, is expensive and often results in families fighting over assets. A will can be used to provide instructions for distributing your estate. Having this legal document can shorten the time that your estate
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is held up in probate, save money, and eliminate potential feuds. In California, you can create a handwritten will, use a fill-in-the-blank form, or have one prepared by an attorney. Whichever you choose, it’s a good idea to consult with an attorney to discuss options and get questions answered. Other estate planning tools, such as a trust, can eliminate probate entirely, saving time and money. The most common kind of trust is a revocable living trust. The revocable trust allows for the property to be removed in the future, meaning you can make changes over time. A trust can also be irrevocable where the property is transferred into the trust, and belongs to the trust, not you. An irrevocable living trust has distinct benefits such as keeping your assets away from potential creditors, Medi-Cal planning, and reducing the amount of estate taxes owed. A pour-over will, paired with a living trust, automatically transfers all of your property to your trust when you pass away. Having a plan for your estate does so much more than reducing time and costs of probate, it preserves something far more important… family relationships. Don’t wait until it’s too late! Talk to an attorney to review your specific situation and create a personalized plan for you and your family. MyTemeculaMag.com |
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find just the right product for every client. One recent client remarked, “You have taken all of the work out of bra shopping.” Since their move from Canyon Lake to Murrieta in March, Hope’s Chest has added specialty-clothing, accessories, swim suits that fit by the bra size and more. It’s truly a store worth visiting, and some even consider it a destination in and of itself. Hope loves that the Murrieta location is so centrally located. “We get people that drive from San Diego, other parts of the Inland Empire and even further,” she says. “It is awesome to hear that people are finding us online and making a stop here when travelling to California from other states or other countries.” Hope is really a remarkable woman and has been recognized by local Chambers of Commerce as well as honored as the 2013 Woman Champion of the Year by the Small Business Administration. You will notice that her warm and compassionate nature is a perfect compliment to her strength. Be sure to stop by this month to welcome Hope to the community and check out her fabulous boutique located off of Clinton Keith and the 15 freeway. “Some women say a bra is a bra… NO! If you’ve never been professionally fitted, this could change your life,” Hope summarizes.
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2015
State of the City T
he honorable Mayor Jeff Comerchero appeared before a crowd of over 600 people at the Temecula Valley Chamber of Commerce “State of the City” event last month. The event was held in the beautiful ballroom at Pechanga Resort & Casino and was sold out. This year marks Mayor Comerchero’s 18th year on the council and his fourth round as Temecula’s mayor. He recognized that over Temecula’s 25-year history as a city, one thing has remained constant with residents and leaders… HEART. “Our heart shows up everywhere and in a multitude of ways,” he stated. “In our nonprofit community, in the way we all treat our neighbors, in the good things we do for others, and in the way our business community supports our residents’ worthwhile causes.” The mayor shared that Temecula has over 49,000 jobs, according to California’s Economic Development Department, and accounts for more than half of all the jobs in all of Southwest Riverside County.
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Temecula’s unemployment rate is just 4.5% and is among the lowest in the county. Home values are the highest in SW Riverside County with a median home price of almost $453,000! Temecula’ strong fiscal foundation and balanced budget says a lot about the city. For the 12th consecutive year, Temecula has been awarded the “Distinguished Budget Presentation” award, which is the “highest form of recognition in governmental budgeting,” as well as a “Certificate of A chievement for Excellence in Financial Reporting.” The city continually prepares for economic uncertainty by maintaining reserve funds each year. Several accomplishments to the city’s infrastructure were completed in the last year with still more currently in progress. One highlight is that our charming bridge completed last year in Old Town was featured on the cover and centerfold of the “Roads & Bridges” 2015 calendar. “I bet you’re smirking a bit,” chuckled Mayor Comerchero, “but for engineers and architects, that’s quite an accomplishment.” In the private sector, Temecula is pleased to see businesses expanding, businesses moving in and wine country growing. In the city’s most recent survey of residents, 95% of people acknowledged Temecula’s high quality of life. With a population of nearly 109,000, people love that Temecula still has a small-town feel. The city strives to bring the community together with many familyfriendly events. The morning was highlighted with a presentation in line with the
State of the City’s theme for 2015, “Temecula Has Heart… Because Nice Matters.” The slogan “Because Nice Matters,” originated in one local school with a purpose to inspire kindness, but quickly spread throughout the school district. The movement was taken citywide this year and has even been spreading to other communities. Attendees were touched by a video, which recreated some random acts of kindness that were shared via social media. The drought was discussed briefly along with the Governor’s Executive Order, which requires our region to reduce water usage by 36%. (Read more on the water cuts on page 22.) In summary, the City of Temecula continues to be fiscally sound with a vibrant local economy. We continue to embrace all that the future holds with a lot of HEART!
Local artists were recognized for their entries in depicting the theme, “Temecula Has Heart… Because Nice Matters.” Congratulations to the following winners: STUDENT SECTION: Mayor’s Choice: Nathaniel Kindreich, 3rd grade Grand Prize: Vivianna Gonzalez, 11th grade AREA ARTIST SECTION: Mayor’s Choice: Patti S. Paulsen Grand Prize: Bonnie Martland MyTemeculaMag.com |
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Professional Women’s Roundtable Scholarship Presentations
On Thursday, July 9, 2015, the Professional Women’s Roundtable (PWR) will present four scholarships to women who have persevered through difficult challenges in their pathway to college. This luncheon is one of the most heart-touching meetings of the year. Each year PWR, a nonprofit (501c3), raises funds for scholarships by holding auctions and events and obtaining grants. The recipients are women who have overcome adversity, have exhibited high academic achievement, show a strong commitment to success and are involved in their communities through service and volunteer work. The amazing achievements of these young women are humbling! PWR invites women of the Temecula Valley to attend the luncheon and celebrate these hard-working, genuine, deserving ladies. The event will be held from 11:15 a.m. – 1:00 p.m. at the Grill Room at Temeku Golf Course and is $20.00 for members and $25.00 for guests. RSVP is a must! 41687 Temeku Drive, Temecula, CA 92591. For more information visit our website www.pwronline.org or call Annette LaRocque: 951-300-6676.
Baron’s Backroom Beer Pairings
You asked and Barons delivered: The all-natural grocery market has expanded its “Backroom Beer Pairings” from one market to all five Southern California stores. On Wednesday, July 1, the grocery-store-speakeasy will present coveted microbrews from Garage Brewing Co. paired with untraditional 4th of July appetizers to create flavors that will explode (like fireworks) on your taste buds. Tickets are just $10 with 100% being donated to the foodbank. Four pairings will be presented at all the Baron’s locations on July 1, 2015 from 6-8 pm. Barons will donate 100 percent of the proceeds to the San Diego Food Bank. Space is limited, so purchase your tickets today! Register online at www.baronsmarket.com
The Boys & Girls Clubs “Red, White & Brew”
This year marks the 25th Anniversary of the Boys and Girls Clubs of Southwest County (BGCSWC). With clubhouses in Temecula, Murrieta and Lake Elsinore, the nonprofit serves local youth between the ages of 6-18 years of age. As a nonprofit, the BGCSWC depend heavily on community support to provide a safe, affordable place where kids can stay to do homework and activities before and after school. Membership is just $10.00 per month and doors are open from 6:30am till 6:30 pm Monday through Friday with sports leagues on Saturday. Military children are able to attend any of the clubs free of charge. This month you can help support this terrific program by attending the Red, White and Brew Microbrew Festival. Entertainment includes an equestrian jumping competition and live music. Tickets are $40 for twelve 4 oz. tastings and a souvenir cup. VIP tickets are also available for $60 and include premier parking, access to VIP tent with table and chairs, appetizers and refreshments, and VIP line access to the breweries. Additional cups of beer will be sold for $5.00 with all proceeds going to the Boys & Girls Clubs of Southwest County. Food will be available for purchase. Those buying general admission tickets are encouraged to bring lawn seating and blankets. No coolers allowed Feel free to email beths@bgcswc.org or call Beth Soltysiak with any questions at 951-699-1526 x105.
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Free Summer Concerts
Grab your picnic dinner, blanket, and chairs and bring your family to the Temecula Amphitheater to enjoy free summer concerts every Thursday through July. Gates open at 5 pm with concerts running from 7 to 8:30 pm at the Community Recreation Center (CRC) located at 30875 Rancho Vista Rd. in Temecula. For more information see temeculaevents.org/sunsetconcerts or call 951-694-6480.
Sunset in the Vines, a benefit supporting Hope's Community Closet will be held on 7/11/15 at Oak Mountain Winery, Temecula from 6-10 PM. An evening of dining, dancing, live music and silent auction with proceeds going to Hope's Community Closet, a nonprofit, 501c (3) public charity that provides new and gently used school clothing to families in need in the Temecula Valley.
The nine-week series offers a variety of musical entertainment including: Woodie and the Longboards, the Y3K Band, the Smokin’ Cobras, and the ever-popular “Stone Soul” Band all slated in June. We follow up these concerts with a Tribute Series every Thursday evening in July with Turn the Page, a Tribute to Bob Seger, Escape – the Journey Tribute Band, Mick Adams and the Stones, Heart to Heart, and Bella Donna, a Tribute to Fleetwood Mac.
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