The Pacer Remembering
Steve
Merritt
A PROFESSION OF FRIENDSHIP Michael Gaynor, Villanova University
At Villanova, we often talk about Augustine as if he were walking around campus, and his unity of heart and mind — both of which remain very heavy and in a fog since Steve Merritt’s recent and untimely passing. For the past 25 of my 34 years in the Office of University Admission, I have been extremely blessed with the incredible good fortune to work for, and with, Steve. He was the original undercover boss — although my supervisor, I never ever thought of him that way. A friend and mentor who was gentle, kind, possessing the wisdom of Solomon and the patience of Job, one who always listened to the voices that needed to be heard. Steve introduced me to the concept of servant leadership that Augustine actually wrote about in the 4th century: “Your superior, however, should consider himself (I am sure Augustine meant herself too), happy not so much in exercising authority over you as in having the opportunity of serving you with charity.” Steve would talk to me about embracing the abundance mentality, creating community and trust — versus suspicion and turf, not about hierarchy — but consensus, compromise, collaboration and conversation. How we are responsible for the well-being of others, how to be reflective of your own life’s mission. How it is worth risking potential dissidence from
those who report to you by simply being your real self. How you need to be among the people, work hard and engage others. Steve would ask if your leadership style is worth imitating. Of course, his was, and inspiring (but not intimidating) too… Many of us would walk into a meeting with Steve completely and unequivocally opposed to an issue and walk out knowing full well that somehow he had just done it again — mysteriously through some Jedi mind trick, we were suddenly “all in.” As the aforementioned title implies — so many of us owe such a great deal to Steve. Beyond the Villanova community, the floodgates have opened up with an outpouring of professions (declarations) from our profession (secondary school counselors, colleges, universities, community based organizations, former VU staffers) about our dearest friend and boss to bud. As one noted “I had to go somewhere with my grief.” For me and my family, I will be eternally grateful to Steve for showing confidence in me and allowing me to sit in the chair that he once occupied, and for introducing my son, Nick, to Villanova women’s basketball. Just the other day when faced with “a situation” I said to myself, “what would Steve do?” Worth imitating indeed.…
WHAT’S INSIDE Reflections on Steve Merritt 2 President’s Letter 5 2014–2015 Executive Committee 4 The Redesigned SAT – An Overview 7 My PACAC Story 6 Book Review 8 Counselor’s Corner 11 Everyday Professional Excellence 12 Coalition Application Allows Application Customization, Helps Under-Resourced Students 13 R.each Y.our F.ull P.otential 14 PACAC Postings 15 Calendar 2015 15