Mendo Lake Family Life March 2024

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Features

10 Happy Campers

Ways to make kids’ first camp experience a positive one.

12 Prepare Your Teen for College

Doing these things help in the move away from home.

16 Pre-K and Shy Children

Supporting little ones in social situations.

20 Shamrock Central Fun ideas for going green this St. Patty’s Day.

March 2024

Every Issue

6 Dear Reader

7 Cooking with Kids

Shake & Bake

8 Bits and Pieces

Spread a Little Green

Catch the Big One

Whale of a good time

Eyes on the Future

Strength in Female Friendships

Hop aboard the Easter Express!

22 Calendar of Events

30 Humor Break

Affordable Easter

Egg Alternatives

Dear Reader

Sharon Gowan Publisher/Editor Sharon@family-life.us

“Going green” takes on new meaning

in this month’s magazine when we share eight ways to celebrate the food, culture, art and traditions of Ireland for St. Patrick’s Day March 17 (page 20). We’ve also got an idea to involve the kids in the kitchen over spring break, with a Crispy Cornflake Chicken recipe that will have the whole family shakin’ and bakin’ (page 7)! And as everyone knows, all thoughts turn toward summer as soon as students get back to class after the break … so, parents will appreciate tips for preparing first-time summer campers in this issue (page 10).

There’s something for those who will be first-time students this fall

(page 16), in Family Life’s feature on building social self confidence and preparing shy children for the classroom. And we haven’t forgotten older students (page 12), who parents can help prepare for college with these 10 tips to practice now. As always, you can check out Bits & Pieces (page 8) for family fun or our calendar (page 22) offering something to do just about every day of the month. Last but not least, have a laugh over the price of Easter eggs (page 34), before March is through!

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Shake & Bake

Get the Kids in the Kitchen

By Momma Chef

This is “Shake and Bake” à la Momma Chef. Kids love to help with the shaking step of this recipe, but be sure to keep hands extra clean around raw chicken. Our family prefers chicken breasts, but boneless, skinless chicken thighs, are another option.

My kids go for the classic dipping sauce: Ketchup! I mix it up by adding a second dipping sauce for variety. A current favorite is 1⁄2 cup mayonnaise, 1⁄4 cup ketchup and a shake each of Worcestershire sauce, garlic powder and black pepper— YUM. Make the sauce ahead of time and chill it for several hours (or overnight!) in the refrigerator to maximize the flavor. Make this once, and it will become a favorite in your weekly menu rotation.

Karen Nochimowski is the author of the cookbook 6-Minute Dinners (& More!), featuring more than 100 simple recipes. Karen started and runs Momma Chef’s Soup Kitchen and Momma Chef’s Little Free Pantries. Part of her cookbook proceeds go toward feeding those facing food insecurity.

Crispy Cornflake Chicken

Prep Time: 5 minutes

Cook Time: 35 minutes

Serves 6

1⁄2 cup zesty Italian salad dressing

4 cups cornflakes, crushed

1 teaspoon kosher salt

6 boneless, skinless chicken breasts

Preheat oven to 375°F. Grease baking sheet with nonstick spray. Pour dressing into large bowl.

In gallon-sized zip-top bag, add cornflakes and salt. Dip chicken in dressing, then put in zip-top bag. Shake to coat all sides with cornflakes.

Arrange chicken in single layer on baking sheet. Bake uncovered 35 minutes or until the internal temperature reads 165°F.

TIPS: Dressing may be replaced by 2 eggs mixed with 1 tablespoon water. To add sweetness, drizzle a bit of honey on chicken before baking.

Spread a Little Green

What a great opportunity to “spread a little green” for three deserving organizations through one delicious event at the St. Patrick’s Day Pancake Breakfast Fundraiser. As luck would have it, the Redwood Valley Grange, Calpella Fire Dept. Volunteers, and Humane Society for Inland Mendocino County will all benefit from your support, generosity, and participation. Bring your family and friends on Sunday, March 17, 9 a.m.–Noon. Tickets sold at the door. $6–$12. Redwood Valley Grange 8650 East Rd. Redwood Valley Tickets: mendohumanesociety.com/events

Whale of a good time

Enjoy beautifully delicious wines and delectable hors d’oeuvres from over a dozen wineries from Mendocino County, while visiting local shops and listening to live music in the quaint downtown area of Fort Bragg. Whale watch as you stroll along the miles of beaches, including along the coastal trail. The local merchants offer this unique experience again for your personal pleasure at the Fort Bragg Whale Festival Downtown Wine Walk. Brought to you by The Mendocino Coast Chamber of Commerce and Visit Fort Bragg. Must be 21 years of age; ID required March 16, Noon–4 p.m. $50 prior to the event and $60 at the door. Gymnasium at City Hall, 213 E. Laurel St., Fort Bragg, Tickets: tinyurl.com/2k6dsuwp. visitfortbraggca.com

Catch the Big One

I magine springtime on Clear Lake. The sun is barely up and you’ve already thrown your line into the water hoping to reel in a beautiful largemouth bass. The perfect place to catch that big one. Sign up for this year’s 36th Annual Clear Lake Team Bass Tournament. Entry fee includes the full 2–day event. Last year’s prizes totaled over $22,000 with the biggest prize at over $4,000. $1,000 Biggest Fish each day! $1,000 Heaviest Bag of the tournament. The more teams who enter, the bigger the prizes. March 16 & 17, 6 a.m.–3 p.m. $250/team; $5 credit card fee. Library Park Launch ramp. 3rd St., Lakeport. Online registration is not available. Contact: georgett@lakecochamber. com or Lake County Chamber of Commerce for more information. 707-263-5092 Entry form: tinyurl.com/2b33tt6h

Clear Lake Team Bass Tournament

Fort Bragg Whale Festival

St. Patrick’s Day Breakfast

Eyes on the Future

With all eyes on the future it’s important to encourage our youth in science literacy. Expose them to new and innovative ideas explored and created by students grades 3–12. Explore the STEAM Expo with this year’s timely theme of Sustainable Mendocino! Enjoy the family-friendly hands-on activities for kids of all ages. All this and more, at the Mendocino County Science and Engineering Fair. The fair and expo are free and will be held on Saturday, March 16, 10 a.m.–5 p.m., at Mendocino College Gym. 1000 Hensley Creek Rd., Ukiah. Volunteers and judges are needed. For general information, go to bit.ly/mendosci

Hop aboard the Easter Express!

What child isn’t mesmerized by trains? Imagine the fun of sharing a ride on the fabulous Skunk train and then be surprised by the Easter Bunny! That’s what’s in-store on the Easter Express! The exciting 2-hour excursion departs from Willits and travels through Tunnel #2. And there’s more! A special Easter treat with pink lemonade will be served along with Easter egg surprises. What a unique and memorable experience to enjoy, on your own, with friends, with a child, or your whole family! All of this is happening on March 29, 30, and 31. Times:10:30 a.m.,1:30 p.m., 4:30 p.m., depending on the day. Seat: $64.95, Infant on Lap: Free, Dogs: $10.95, VIP Ticket: $99.95, Cab Ride: $295. Details: tinyurl. com/3mevv3nr. Tickets: tinyurl.com/278fdb25

Strength in Female Friendships

The Lake County Theatre production of Steel Magnolias is set in the small town of Chinquapin, Louisiana. Experiencing the heartfelt, hilarious, and sometimes tragic circumstances six strong-willed southern women find themselves in, is sure to entertain. The poignant story of female friendships and the strength of community is emphasized in the joys and challenges they face. Gathered together at Truvy’s beauty salon, the women share everything that life brings their way, with laughter, tears, courage, and grace. Steel Magnolias is a must-see play that will leave audiences deeply touched by the cast’s strong performances. March 15–16, 22–23: 7 p.m. March 17 & 24: 4 p.m. $30–$300 Boatique Winery. 8255 Red Hills Rd.. Kelseyville. lctc.us .

Steel Magnolias

Easter Express Train Excursion

Mendocino County Science and Engineering Fair

Happy Campers

Helping with First Camp Experiences

By Cherie Gough

As you begin to consider the perfect day camp for your little artist, swimmer or scientist, you may worry because camp is unfamiliar territory. Help prepare your child for what’s ahead with these tips to make his or her first camp experience a positive one.

One, Two Buckle My Shoe:

The Basics Children should memorize full name, address and a parent’s cell phone number before camp begins.

Many day camps require closed-toe shoes and many activities need kids to get shoes on and off quickly. Practice tying shoelaces or consider Velcro shoes. Even then, do trial runs toward getting shoes on and off in a timely manner.

Children should be able to zip jackets and pants (or wear ones that pull on). Teach them to tie a jacket around their waist, if necessary.

For half-day camp, apply sunscreen before leaving; children who attend full-day camp should know how and when to reapply.

C is for Cookie: Stress-free Lunches Packaging often poses a problem for little fingers. Practice

opening wrappers and containers at home. Don’t assume camp staff will have time to assist everyone.

One in 13 children has a food allergy; it’s likely that someone at camp will, too. Swapping snacks sounds like fun, but it’s not safe for many kids. Cross-contamination can pose a big problem for kids

For many first-time campers, enrolling with a buddy helps ease jitters.

allergic to nuts or gluten. Teach children not to share food and to respect other people’s space by not touching their lunchbox and food.

Stop yourself the next time you start to clean up after your kids. Teach children how to sort trash from recyclables, throw items in proper bins, and most importantly, not to expect adults to clean up after them.

You’ve Got a Friend in Me: Social Skills For many first-time campers, enrolling with a buddy helps ease jitters. But it’s important to gain the confidence to make new friends.

Review and role-play skills that show openness to making friends:

Practice how to greet someone new. Make eye contact and smile.

When someone says, “Hi!” teach your child to reply, even if she feels shy. Not responding may be misconstrued as her not wanting to be friends.

Remind children to take turns.

Discuss the idea that not everyone has to be friends—especially if your child is a people pleaser.

Almost There: Assertiveness

Children should know how (and

be willing) to ask for help when needed. Let camp know of any special needs ahead of time. Kids and staff can agree on a signal to get a staff member’s attention.

Camp is for trying new things. Let your child know he or she’s expected to participate in all activities …

Have kids practice asking for what they want (politely). Be sure he says “please” and “thank you” without your cue.

Practice simple, direct responses to communicate dissatisfaction when

necessary, such as, “I don’t like that. Don’t do it again.” If an annoying behavior continues from another child, ask a camp counselor for help.

Camp is for trying new things. Let your child know he or she’s expected to participate in all activities, and that it’s OK if they don’t do everything just right. A child who pouts or is unwilling to try new things may not be ready for camp. Kids who follow directions and are willing to venture into new territory have an opportunity to learn many skills that build confidence and independence. ❖

Cherie Gough is a writer and mom of two who enjoys the enrichment camp brings to her kids’ summer. Find her on IG @cgoughwrites.

Prepare Your Teen for College

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Things to Do Now So They Are Ready

By Rebecca Hastings

My son looked at me with dread in his eyes. He needed to find out about driver’s education classes, and there was minimal information on the website. I smiled and told him he needed to call them. He wasn’t sure what to do, what to say, or what to ask. He didn’t want to make the call, but he needed to.

As kids approach adulthood, there are things you can do to help them feel confident. From simple things like phone calls to more complex skills like financial planning, you can help your child prepare for college and more.

Life Skills

Cook simple meals: Yes, they will probably have a meal plan if they go away to college. But knowing

how to make a few meals will help them far beyond their college years. Include them in food preparation: Following recipes, measuring, and prepping ingredients.

Transfer healthcare: While you have been responsible for every aspect of their healthcare, they need to learn how to navigate their health: Making appointments, checking in, and

sharing insurance information. Give them a chance to answer questions at doctor’s appointments and give them one-on-one time with the doctor. Letting go of the control in this area can feel hard, but the more you equip them to handle these things the easier it will be when they get sick and are away from home.

Run errands: Things that seem simple to us can be challenging for teens because they haven’t done them before. Give them a chance to run errands like grocery shopping or pumping gas. Even having them take the car in for an oil change or bring the dog to the groomer so they learn how to interact with service providers independently is helpful toward college and adulthood.

Self-care: This isn’t about relaxing or taking time for yourself, although that is a helpful thing to model and teach. This is about teaching your child things like hygiene, laundry, making a bed, wiping down counters, cleaning out the fridge, getting rest and exercise, and even managing time. While it is nice to

do these things for them sometimes, make that the exception. In life, it is not typical for someone else to handle these things. Teach them how to do it now and they will be much better off down the road.

Financial Skills

Open a bank account: If children are under 18, you will need to be on the account with them but many banks offer student accounts that can be opened as young as 15 and used until their early to mid-20s. Get an account with a debit card and teach them how it works as well as how to monitor spending.

Pay bills: Kids need to learn how to pay bills on time. Even if they don’t have any official bills, teach them to contribute to their expenses such as

cell phone or car insurance bills on a certain day each month.

Plan spending and saving: Have regular conversations about spending plans. Budgeting can sound intense for many teens, so

As kids approach adulthood, there are things you can do to help them feel confident.

instead ask questions to get them thinking about upcoming expenses or savings. For example: “I saw that the fair is coming. How much do you plan on spending when you go with your friends?” or “I know you’re hoping to get a computer

before college starts. How much do you need to save each month to make that happen?” This will help your child think ahead about how to best use their money.

Learning & Professional Skills

Talk about plans: Have regular conversations about what options are available to your child. If they are going to college, make them part of the process and help them understand the financing. Whether you are paying for school, they are paying for school, or they are utilizing aid, clear communication is essential so they know what they are responsible for now and in the future.

Prepare documents: College requires paperwork. From resumes to

applications, essays to scheduling, there are a lot of things to fill out. Let your child fill them out. Yes, you can answer questions. But help them take responsibility for their learning by handling this process. Consider setting aside a weekly time to answer any questions they may have so you both have the time and attention you need for the tasks to be done.

Things that seem simple to us can be challenging for teens because they haven’t done them before.

Pay attention to deadlines: The college application process is full of deadlines. Taking tests, sending transcripts, completing admissions and financial applications, and sending deposits all have very specific deadlines. Discuss these with your child and expect them to meet these deadlines. It is helpful to talk about upcoming deadlines together and even ask them to plan time to complete the tasks. Visual and digital reminders will help them stay on track so they meet any upcoming deadlines.

If you give them the opportunity to do these things now when you are available to help if needed, they will feel ready and better equipped to do these things on their own. ❖

Rebecca Hastings is a published author and former teacher passionate about authenticity, faith, and family. In real life, she can often be found typing words, driving her kids places, or wherever there is chocolate. Connect with her at rebeccahastings.net and on Instagram.

Pre-K and Shy Children

Building Social Self Confidence

By Sarah Lyons

It’s normal for kids to feel shy around new people or situations but parents may worry their child is missing out on friendships because they aren’t engaging with others. Most reserved children maintain healthy relationships and enjoy social situations once they get over the hurdle of unfamiliarity. How can you support your shy child while encouraging them to enjoy participating in social situations?

One of the best ways to support a shy child is to put them in social situations they feel most comfortable in. If your child loves art but dislikes sports, they will be much more likely to engage with others in an artistic environment than on a sports team. When enrolling your child in preschool, camps, or attending play dates, keep in mind that they are much

more likely to open up and build relationships with other kids when they are doing something they love along with kids who have common interests.

Young kids may feel shy because they are unsure of how to act in social situations. Teach them social skills through role play, acting out scenarios they may come across or

using dolls or toys. Practice saying “Hi, my name is Avery. Do you want to play?” Go through the possible scenarios and how to respond. What would happen if the child said “No. You can’t play.” or what would happen next if they say you can play. Going through possible scenarios will help your child feel more confident in real life situations. “I encourage my kids to speak for themselves whenever possible,” said Amy Cameron, Olathe, Kansas mom of three. “They order their

Kids who are shy often feel more comfortable in small groups or one-on-one.

own food in restaurants and tell the doctor what their symptoms are. It’s so easy to speak for them, but I actively try not to.”

Kids who are shy often feel more comfortable in small groups or one-on-one. Help your child build friendships by hosting playdates. You know your child best and can invite other kids who are a good match, with common interests, and choose a location where your child feels confident.

Have a few planned activities to do together during the playdate and prompt your child. “Do you want to show your friend your toys?” or “Would you like to choose a board game?” or “Do you want to go outside and play on the swingset?”

Chances are, the kids will begin to talk, play, and find common ground they can build a friendship on.

Positive Characteristics of Introverts

Being an introvert is often seen as a negative characteristic in our society. The truth is, introverts have many positive characteristics which deserve to be appreciated.

• When an introvert reaches out to a friend offering help, it means they truly care about that person.

• They are good listeners and have great observation skills.

• They take time to think of what they want to say before speaking.

• Introverts often develop close friendships and are trustworthy.

• They have the ability to focus on tasks and think deeply about concepts.

• They are comfortable with silence and usually very independent.

• Introverts often practice good self reflection and feel comfortable with who they are.

Children

disabilities welcome.

Kids who are shy may hold back at first but that doesn’t mean they don’t desire and enjoy friendships. By helping them develop friendships, you will help them overcome their shyness in a natural way.

Help your child build friendships by hosting playdates.

If your child is feeling shy at school, reach out to teachers for help. Teachers, coaches, and other adult role models in their lives can prompt them to speak up for themselves, participate in social situations, encourage friendships, and help them feel safe as they

step out of their comfort zone. This can be especially helpful for preschoolers who are just starting their school career, helping make it a positive experience.

As your child matures, they may outgrow their shyness, but it’s important to remember that some kids are introverted. Not every introvert is shy and not every shy child is introverted, but they do often go together.

There is nothing wrong with being quiet and parents should be careful not to label or criticize their child for feeling shy or if they are naturally an introvert. Be patient and encouraging with your child. When they do step out of their comfort zone, praise them for the effort.

“As a mom of an introvert who is herself an extrovert, I constantly remind myself that we don’t need the same kind of experiences to feel fulfilled,” said Shawnee, Kansas mom, Kara Thomas. “It’s hard to resist the urge to push him into

Shyness is often a child’s response to new or scary situations ...

things that I would enjoy. I just always check in to make sure he’s enjoying life and when he needs some help, we brainstorm ways that meet what he needs.”

Shyness is often a child’s response to new or scary situations and is

common in preschool and early elementary children. It can be the result of emotions such as fear, anxiety, and nervousness which are often valid feelings in a new situation.

Try not to force your child to be outgoing but instead, gently encourage them. If you feel your child is dealing with extreme shyness where they are unable to speak or freeze in social situations longer than age appropriate, speak to your pediatrician for tips on how to best support them. ❖

Sarah Lyons is a mom of six children, including 9-year-old triplets. While she is an extrovert, she is a wife and mother to several introverts. She strives to encourage her kids to step out of their comfort zones while also celebrating their unique personalities.

Shamrock Central

8 St. Patrick’s Day Activities

By Janeen Lewis

Going green has never been so much fun! St. Patrick’s Day is an excuse to celebrate food, culture, art, and tradition. Here are some ways to make it a blast for the entire family.

Share the Significance People across the globe celebrate the Feast of St. Patrick, the Patron Saint of Ireland, on March 17, the date of St. Patrick’s death. St. Patrick was believed to be born in the late 4th Century in Britain. When he was 16, he was captured by Irish raiders and taken to Ireland as a slave. Six years later he escaped, and reunited with his family in Britain. When he became a cleric, St. Patrick returned to Ireland. He is credited with successfully spreading Christianity in Ireland, where he started monasteries, churches, and schools.

Go Green St. Patrick’s Day revelers usually participate in the “wearing of the green,” dressing in

shirts, dresses, and plaid kilts in shades of green. And you don’t have to limit green to clothing. For fun, dye all liquids green—think milk and the toilet bowl water. Make your kids lime Kool-Aid or gelatin. Use face paint to decorate faces with shamrocks. Wear green beads and emerald costume jewelry from the dollar store.

Create Clever Crafts For younger children, shamrock hats and headbands are easy to make, as well as rainbow-colored jewelry made with pipe cleaners and cereal or beads. For older children, mosaic shamrocks or tissue paper shamrock sun catchers are creative. Follow a “How to Draw” tutorial on YouTube

and learn to sketch a rainbow shamrock, leprechaun or Celtic cross. Paint Mason jars green and decorate with an Irish theme. Light them up by putting battery-operated fairy lights or tea lights in the jars. Make a clover crown with tissue paper or felt shamrocks.

Another easy idea is to supply kids with materials and see what they create! Material ideas: Green paper, pipe cleaners, beads, gold and green glitter, glue, green and white foam cutouts, markers and paint, paper plates, felt squares of all the colors of the rainbow, and marshmallows.

St. Patrick’s Day wouldn’t be complete without trying traditional Irish cuisine.

Compose Lucky Limericks

A limerick is a funny, five-line, one stanza poem. This nonsense form was made popular by English poet Edward Lear in the mid-1800s, but limericks were probably named for the city and county of Limerick in Ireland. Let your kids try their hand at writing limericks.

Visit poetry4kids.com to learn more about this poetry form. The website includes a free printable worksheet with the limerick rules and an example at the top, and lines for kids to write their own limericks at the bottom.

Find the Pot of Gold Plan a scavenger hunt with clues written on construction paper shamrocks. If someone in the family is talented at writing limericks, let them make up

the clues. Scatter the clues around the house on a trail that leads to a black pot filled with gold candy coins. Split the candy among all the kids in the family so everyone gets a share of the loot.

Visit Virtually Even if you can’t go to a St. Patrick’s Day parade or celebration, there are still ways to soak up Irish culture remotely. Visit IB4UD at Irelandbeforeyoudie. com and view “10 Virtual Tours of Ireland’s Most Famous Landmarks.” See 360-degree views of cliffs, castles, St. Patrick’s Cathedral in Dublin, and emerald gardens and forests.

Check Out Lit-up Landmarks

Since 2010, landmarks around the world light up on March 17

for a “Global Greening” initiative. Famous monuments and buildings light up green on St. Patrick’s Day, including Sydney’s Opera House in Australia, Sleeping Beauty’s Castle at Disneyland Paris, the Las Vegas

Let your kids try their hand at writing limericks.

Welcome Sign, the Great Wall of China, the Empire State Building in New York City, the Coliseum in Rome, Italy and hundreds more.

Cook Up Irish Eats St. Patrick’s Day wouldn’t be complete without trying traditional Irish cuisine. Allrecipes.com has several Irish

recipes. Whip up some corned beef and cabbage, bake a shepherd’s pie, try your hand at soda bread or slow cook Irish stew made with lamb chops or beef. If you can’t make a feast, why not delight the family with a dessert like white iced shamrock cookies? Or go decadent with Dublin Drop Cake, Irish tea cake or Irish cream ice cream. Parents can top it all off with some Irish coffee.

Make St. Patrick’s Day fun and festive, and start a new green tradition with your family this year. ❖

Janeen Lewis has degrees in journalism and elementary education from Eastern Kentucky University and a Master’s Degree in Education from the University of Kentucky.

March Calendar of Events

Friday 1

Just Between Friends Kids’ & Maternity Consignment Sales Event. The largest of its kind in Northern California Mar. 1: 8 a.m.–8 p.m. Mar. 2: 8–9 a.m. (Sensory), 9 a.m.–3 p.m. (4:30–8 p.m.: half-price presale). Mar. 3. 8 a.m.–1 p.m. (half-price sale). Admission: $4–$15. Platinum passes $75–$125. Sonoma County Fairgrounds. 1350 Bennett Valley Rd., Santa Rosa. Tickets: tinyurl. com/55k4b3bd.

The Greatest Show! Musical Revue. A musical revue made up of memorable musical numbers from On & Off Broadway & film. Mar. 1–2: 7 p.m. Mar. 3: 2 p.m. $20 in advance; $25 at door. Ages 7–17, $10. Gualala Arts Center Coleman Hall. 46501 Old State Hwy., Gualala. tinyurl. com/3paev4xy

MacKerricher State Park Guided Whale Walks. Binoculars provided. All ages welcome (strollers not recommended). Donations accepted. Fridays & Saturdays: Two Whale walks: 11 a.m. & 1 p.m. (Last weekend: Mar. 23) MacKerricher State Park. 24100 MacKerricher Park Rd., Fort Bragg. (Whale Walks meet at Ward Ave. Haul Rd. Trail access point.) More walks listed on website. mendocinocoast.com/whale-home.

FREE Dr. Seuss Rhyme Time Story Time. Come celebrate Dr. Seuss’ birthday. Mar. 1 & 2: 10:30–11 a.m. Fort Bragg Library. 499 E. Laurel St., Fort Bragg. tinyurl.com/yaf9cm5x

Friday Family Skate Night. Parent or guardian must sign for kids younger than 18. Fridays. 5–7 p.m. $5. Old Recreation Center. 213 E Laurel St., Fort Bragg. tinyurl.com/397zahms.

Saturday 2

Boys & Girls Club of Ukiah Crab Feed. Silent & live auctions. 6–9 p.m. $85–$600. Carl Purdy Hall at Ukiah Fairgrounds. Redwood Empire Fairgrounds. 1055 N. State St., Ukiah. Tickets: tinyurl.com/5yrrbwdm

Mountain Lions Club Crab Feed. Full bar. Raffles. Proceeds benefit Cobb Community Center. Advance tickets only. 5:30–7 p.m. $75. Cobb Mt. Lions Club & Community. 15780 Bottle Rock Rd., Cobb. tinyurl. com/2vhz6awt.

Mendocino Village Whale Festival and Wine Walk. Enjoy chowder, wine, & craft beer tastings while exploring Mendocino & watching whales from Headlands State Park. A trolley will be available. Noon–4 p.m $50–$60. Hill House Hotel, Rotary Park. 10701 Palette Dr., corner of Main & Lansing Sts., Mendocino. Tickets: tinyurl. com/3psakbpe

FREE Kelley House Museum Whale Fest. Cookies & cider. 1–3 p.m. Kelley House Museum. 45007 Albion St., Mendocino. mendocinocoast.com/ whale-home.

FREE Mendocino Headlands

Guided Whale Walk. Binoculars provided. All ages welcome (strollers not recommended). Donations accepted. Mar. 2: 1 p.m. Mar. 3, 10, 17: Two Whale walks: 11 a.m. & 1 p.m. Meet-Up at Ford House Visitor Center. 45035 Main St., Mendocino. mendocinocoast.com/whale-home

Whale Festival Lens Tour. Tours are first-come, first-serve, no reservations. Children 42” & taller only. No babies or dogs. Tours last 15–30 minutes. Held first full weekend of each month. Mar. 2–3: 11 a.m.–2 p.m. $5–$10. Point Cabrillo Lighthouse. 45300 Lighthouse Rd., Mendocino. tinyurl. com/srjhux36.

FREE Dungeons & Dragons Club. Ages 13 & up. Registration required: 707-994-5115. Saturdays. 10 a.m.–1:30 p.m. Redbud Library. 14785 Burns Valley Rd., Clearlake. Other libraries will host this event: tinyurl.com/ nhcxmw88.

FREE Story time. Ages 2–7. Story time, simple crafts, game, or activity. Saturdays. 11–11:30 a.m. Round Valley Library. 23925 Howard St., Round Valley. tinyurl.com/dekz3fdh

FREE Pasted Paper. All artists of all ages welcome. Construct artwork with found objects, cut-out images, and/or weekly collage challenges. Saturdays. 2–3:30 p.m. Coast Community Library. 255 Main St., Pt. Arena. tinyurl. com/26ven8df.

Sunday 3

FREE First Fiddlers’ Jam. Listen to fiddle tunes played by members of the Northern California Old Time Fiddlers Group. Noon–2 p.m. Ely Barn. 9921 Soda Bay Rd., (Hwy128) Kelseyville. elystagestop.com

Eleventh Pianists Benefit Concert. Local pianists come together to play & trade tall tales. Benefits the Soper Reese Theatre & Lake County Friends of Mendocino College. Reception: 2 p.m. Concert: 3 p.m. $25–$30. Youth 18 & under: Free. Soper Reese Theatre. 275 S. Main St., Lakeport. tinyurl. com/5c8bdwcr.

FREE Gray Whale Exhibit. Learn what makes gray whales worth celebrating. Binoculars provided. Donations accepted. 10 a.m.–1 p.m. Ford House Visitor Center & Museum. 45035 Main St., Mendocino. mendoparks.org/whale-festival.

Tuesday 5

FREE The Blue Zone Project Walking Moai in Hopland. A moai is a group of 5–8 people who walk together for an hour once a week. Sponsored by Blue Zones of Mendocino. Tuesdays. 4–5 p.m. Please note: Must arrive at 3:45 p.m. for check-in. Runs thru Apr. 9 Hopland Research Center. 4070 University Rd., Hopland. tinyurl.com/bdf9p5yj

Circle time at Mendo LEAP. Weekly theme dances, songs & stories

designed for 0–5 years. Included in 2-hour general play admission. Tuesdays & Wednesdays. 10–11 a.m. $15/child. Membership options available. 2 free adult admissions per child. Mendo Leap. 203 S. State St., Ukiah. mendoleap.com/Calendar.

FREE Family Game Time. All ages. Play boardgames, card games, & chess. Feel free to bring games from home. Tuesdays. 2–4 p.m. Lakeport Library. 1425 N High St., Lakeport. Other libraries will host this event: tinyurl. com/nhcxmw88

Wednesday 6

FREE Queer & Trans Parent

On-line Support Group. Open to queer/transpeople who are expecting, adopting &/or parenting babies up to 2 years of age. Wednesdays. 2:30

p.m. Register: postpartum.net/get-help/ queer-parents

FREE Whale Watching at Navarro

Point Preserve. Guided whale watch, 1-mile slow-paced walk. Parking is limited. 10:30 a.m.–Noon. Navarro

Point Preserve. 401 Shoreline Hwy., Albion. Preregistration required: tinyurl.com/bde89v3t.

FREE Shade Canyon Playgroup. Open to all families; ages 5 & younger. Waldorf-style story, crafts, or nature walk. Held the first & third Wednesdays of the month. Mar. 6 & 20: 10–11:30 a.m. Meeting at Peace & Plenty Farm. 4550 Soda Bay Rd., Kelseyville. shadecanyon.org/calendar.

FREE Kids’ Zone. Story time & crafts. Supplies provided. Wednesdays. Noon–1:30 p.m. Laytonville Branch

Library. 200 Branscomb Rd., Laytonville. tinyurl.com/28vce6yd

FREE Grandparents Raising Grandchildren Group. Facilitated-led support group for talking & sharing ideas & experiences. Hosted by MCCF Family Resource Center. Wednesdays. 11 a.m.–1 p.m. MCCF Family Resource Center. 244 N. Franklin St. (corner of Redwood St.), Fort Bragg.

FREE The CanTeen. An all inclusive teen group, hosted by MCCF Family Resource Center. Wednesdays. 2–4 p.m. MCCF Family Resource Center. 244 N Franklin St. (corner of Redwood St.), Fort Bragg.

Thursday 7

FREE Purpose Moai Muévete Por Tu Salud (Move for Health). Sponsored by Blue Zones of Mendocino. Thursdays. 6–7 p.m. Runs thru March 21. Meet-up: Adventist Health Outpatient Pavilion Lab. 206 Mason St., Ukiah. tinyurl. com/2p8h8x2x

FREE Story Time at the Farmers Market. Miss Tobin, library assistant, will be reading picture book selections. All welcome. Thursdays. 3:30–4 p.m. Willits Farmers Market 291 School St., Willits. tinyurl.com/y4t683x9.

Friday 8

FREE 2024 Pride Prom Planning Committee. All welcome, ages 14–25. LGBTQ+ Youth Voices is planning Lake County’s second Annual Pride Prom. Looking for assistance. In-person & via Zoom. Meetings held the second & fourth Fridays of the month. Mar. 8 & 22: 4–5 p.m. 150 S. Main St., Lakeport. Register for Zoom link: tinyurl.com/5n9yr74k

FREE 101s Songwriting & Ukulele Music Program Series. For all ages. Basic songwriting & ukulele chords. Led by Steve Hahm & Rosie Wetzel. The Ukiah Branch Library has ukuleles you can check out with a Mendocino County Library card. 4:30–5:30 p.m. Ukiah Library. 105 M. Main St., Ukiah. tinyurl.com/ y954m84p

Saturday 9

FREE Play in Practice. Conference for early learning & care providers who serve children 0–5 years. Lunch provided. 9 a.m.–3:30 p.m. Ukiah Valley Conference Center. 200 School Rd., Ukiah. tinyurl.com/2d3j5x89.

FREE Spring Ranch Guided Whale Walk. Led by California State Park interpreter. Binoculars

provided. All ages welcome (strollers not recommended). 11 a.m. Whale walk meet at Hwy. 1 parking area across from Gordon Ln. Van Damme State Park. 8001 Hwy. 1, Little River. mendocinocoast.com/whale-home

Wednesday 13

FREE Walk Through the Grades Tour. Take a peek into Waldorf classrooms. Check out the campus & working biodynamic farm. Adults only. 9 a.m–11 a.m. Summerfield Waldorf School & Farm. 655 Willowside Rd., Santa Rosa. Register: summerfieldwaldorf.org.

Thursday 14

The Children. Based on play written by Lucy Kirkwood, which premiered in London and then on Broadway in

2017. The Children explores themes of sacrifice, truth, & the environment.

Mar. 14–16, 21–23, 28–30: 7:30 p.m.

Mar. 17, 24 & 31: 2 p.m. $40–$120. Mendocino Theatre Company. 45200 Little Lake St., Mendocino. tinyurl. com/467vyr4f.

Friday 15

Steel Magnolias. Performance by the Lake County Theatre Company. $30–$300. Mar. 15–16, 22–23: 7 p.m. Mar. 17 & 24: 4 p.m. Boatique Winery. 8255 Red Hills Rd., Kelseyville. lctc.us.

Saturday 16

First Aid & CPR Training in Spanish. Capacitación en primeros auxilios y RCP en Español. 9 a.m.–4:30 p.m. $95–$125. Alex Rorabaugh

Recreation Center. 1640 S. State St., Ukiah. ukiah.recdesk.com

Whale Run & Walk. 0.5 mile Kiddie Race 8:30 a.m. $10. 5K & 10K Run 9

a.m. $45/$20 ages 2-15. 5K Fun Walk: 9:15 a.m. $35/$20 ages 2-15. T-Shirt guaranteed until Mar. 9. Registration: 7:30–9 a.m. Main Tent. W. Cypress St., Fort Bragg. Fort Bragg Coast Trail. South Entrance. Noyo Headlands Park. Main & Cypress Streets., Fort Bragg. Register: tinyurl.com/4epfkzd6

Fort Bragg Whale Festival

Downtown Wine Walk. Anderson Valley wines paired with local appetizers at more than a dozen venues in downtown Fort Bragg. Noon–4 p.m $50–$60.146 N. Franklin St. Fort Bragg. Tickets: tinyurl. com/2k6dsuwp

FREE Whale Festival Craft Fair. Variety of handcrafted items for purchase from local vendors. Held the third weekend of March. Mar.16:. 10 a.m.–6 p.m. Mar 17: 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Town Hall. Laurel & Main Streets., Fort Bragg. tinyurl.com/bdfvj4r9.

FREE Mendocino County Sciences & Engineering Fair. Students in grades 3-12 compete. 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Mendocino College Gym. 1000 Hensley Creek Rd.,Ukiah. bit.ly/ mendosci.

Annual Team Bass Tournament. Mar. 16–17. 6 a.m.–3 p.m. The fee for teams of two anglers: $250. Entry fee includes the full 2-day event. Library Park. Launch ramp. 3rd St., Lakeport. tinyurl.com/w68j6c8p.

Sunday 17

St. Patrick’s Day Pancake Breakfast Fundraiser. Supports Redwood Valley Grange, Calpella Fire Dept. Volunteers, & Humane Society for Inland Mendocino County. 9 a.m.–Noon. Tickets sold at the door. $6–$12. Redwood Valley Grange. 8650 East Rd., Redwood Valley. Tickets: mendohumanesociety.com/events.

Concerts with Conversation:

Patrick Ball. Irish storytelling & playing an ancient, brass-strung traditional Irish harp. 3–4:30 p.m. $30. Blue Wing Restaurant. 9520 Main St., Upper Lake. tinyurl.com/2d97cad4.

Wednesday 20

FREE Blooming Kindness: Living in Harmony. Hour of storytellings

& arts. Hosted by Ukiah Library & Instilling Goodness Developing Virtue School. 10:30 a.m. Point Arena Lighthouse. 45500 Lighthouse Rd., Point Arena. Call first (temporarily closed due to recent storms): 877-725-4448. pointarenalighthouse.com

Friday 22

Photos with The Easter Bunny. Come and have your picture taken. No appointment needed. Packages start at $7. 3–6 p.m. Triple S Camera. 260 S. School St., Ukiah. tinyurl.com/ y2bb8uwk.

Saturday 23

(Almost) Full Worm Moon Night Tour. Beverages & snacks. Reservations must be made by phone

no later than 3:30 p.m., three days before event. Gates: 6 p.m. Tour: 6:30 p.m. $50. Point Arena Lighthouse. 45500 Lighthouse Rd., Point Arena. Call first (temporarily closed due to recent storms): 877-725-4448. pointarenalighthouse.com.

FREE Historic Planes Display. Stroll amongst the display of historic airplanes. Held the 4th Saturday every month. 10 a.m.–2 p.m. Lampson Field Airport. Highland Springs Rd., Kelseyville. tinyurl.com/5n8cjkky.

BINGO Fun for Literacy. Wine, beer & food available for purchase. Must be 18+ to play. All proceeds benefit the Adult & Family Literacy in Lake County. 5–8 p.m. $20/person (9-game pack). $12 per additional packs. Lakeport Senior Center. 527

Konocti Ave., Lakeport. lclcoalition. wixsite.com/lclc

Sunday 24

Opus Chamber Music Vipisa Trio. Symphony of the Redwoods violinist Cindy Moyer is bringing her friends from Humboldt. Vipisa Trio to perform a concert of light classical music. 3–5 p.m. $25. Preston Hall. 44867 Main St., Mendocino. Tickets: symphonyoftheredwoods.org

Friday 29

Skunk Train Easter Express. Departing from Willits for a 2-hour excursion through Tunnel #2. Featuring Easter Egg surprises, a special Easter treat with pink lemonade, and a visit from the

Easter Bunny. March 29, 30, and 31. Times: 10:30 a.m., 1:30 p.m., 4:30 p.m., depending on the day. Seat: $64.95, Infant on Lap: Free, Dogs: $10.95, VIP Ticket: $99.95, Cab Ride: $295. Details: tinyurl. com/3mevv3nr. Tickets: tinyurl. com/278fdb25

Saturday 30

FREE Fort Bragg Lions & Leos Easter Egg Hunt. Four age groups: 0–4, 5–7, & 8–10 yrs. Many prizes in the special eggs. Bring baskets. Easter events are subject to change at discretion of event planners. Please confirm before going.

10–10:30 a.m. Harold O. Bainbridge Park. E. Laurel St., Fort Bragg. tinyurl.com/43rpades.

Bunny Brunch & Egg Hunt. Breakfast with the Easter Bunny. Supports Clearlake Youth programs. 9–10:15 a.m.: Breakfast/photos.

10:15–11 a.m.: Egg hunt. New location: Clearlake Youth Center. 4750 Golf Ave., Clearlake. thebloom.news/ big-calendar

Sunday 31

FREE 98th Annual Lakeport Rotary Egg Hunt. Four age groups: 0–3, 4–8 & 8–12 yrs. Bring baskets & arrive early. 2,800 eggs, with 300 “Special Pay.” The Easter bunny will be there for photos. Gates: 1:15 p.m. Hunt: 1:30 p.m. New Location: That Ranch. 4405 Thomas Dr., Lakeport.

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Affordable Alternatives for a Colorful Easter

By Shannon Carpenter

Fellow inflation-starved parents, we all know that grocery prices have increased to the point that stores offer complementary counseling before check-out. Meditation rooms have been added near the meat. Anger management courses are offered by dieticians. And with Easter, that means it’s time to drop a fortune on eggs so that our children can laugh away their college savings plan. When did eggs get so expensive? Are scrambled eggs now the equivalent of lobster covered by caviar?

But we can adjust, because we are parents. We are the people who can make a last-minute Halloween costume out of a garbage sack, a hair tie, and a permanent marker. We do science projects at midnight

like it’s our job. And we can stretch a grocery budget like it’s the ropes of the boxing ring we never seem to be able to leave.

So, what things can we decorate that are more economical than a dozen eggs?

Rocks from abandoned kids’ aquariums – It’s ok to admit that at one point in time, your kid asked for a fish. And that meant a fish tank. After the fifth fish that didn’t make it, the project was abandoned and you moved on to hamsters, guinea pigs, or some sort of other rodent. But that aquarium is still in the garage, and in it, there are probably some rocks. A plus if they are still covered in moss and mold. Green is a great color for Easter! Just dig them out, give your kids a shot of penicillin, and get

decorating! Even if they get sick, the cost of a hospital bill is still lower than a carton of eggs.

Styrofoam peanuts from your last Amazon delivery – Never again feel guilty about ordering everything right to your door. Those packing peanuts now have a better use other than stuffing them into threadbare blankets to keep you warm and lowering your energy bills. Now they are Easter Packing Peanuts and that makes them special. Note: They might dissolve when dunked in coloring and vinegar; use crayons instead!

Turtle eggs – Illegal? Absolutely. But you can do a nickel in the pen where someone else cooks for you, beds are always made, and solitary sounds like nice alone time.

1995 Ford Focus – Used car prices are insane, but not as crazy as egg prices. Better yet, find yourself a …

DeLorean – Grab whatever old plutonium you can find, place it in Doc Brown’s amazing time traveling car, and go back to when eggs weren’t so expensive.

Gold bullion – You see gold advertised on all the late-night channels as you are up once again trying to calm the little ones. They will probably give you a discount when you buy in bulk.

Happy Easter and happy decorating (anything but eggs)!

Shannon Carpenter is a professional humorist and the author of The Ultimate Stay-at-Home Dad: Your Essential Manual for Being an Awesome Full-Time Father